7 Proofs That You Have Grown From a Boy to a Man

7 Proofs that you have grown from a boy to a man

Just because you are in your late 20s or in mid-thirties, doesn’t mean that you have become a man. “Being a man and not just a boy”, comes with a lot of responsibility. To be a man, you have got to be a mature version of yourself.

The article talks about the various changes in your lifestyle and personality that are a prove that you have grown from being a boy to a man. Read the points and see if you are mature enough to be a man.

1. Accepting your responsibility is very first characteristic of a real man.

Whether it’s on a personal front or in your relationship, being committed to your duties is not an easy task. The moment you stop running away from your obligation, you will qualify to be a mature man.

2. The way you treat the people around you is another way of determining your personality and the kind of a person you are. A man treats every woman with respect. If you still take the woman of your life for granted, then, you are still not mature enough. The person who treasures his family along with his peer group is the man that every woman wants to have in her life.

3. "A man is fearless", is probably the biggest misconception. In fact, it would be better to say that a boy who is young and careless will have no fear in life. At this phase of life, you don't have the courage of accepting your fears. As you grow up, there are a lot of vulnerability and most importantly, you get the courage to admit those fears. A real man accepts his fear and fights to get over it.

4. You can depend on a man, but not on a boy. When you gain maturity, people around starts trusting you. Moreover, at this stage you are efficient enough to take the burden of all the trust entrusted upon your shoulders.

In short, when a boy becomes dependable, he said to be called a man.

5. Anger comes naturally to male. However, a man knows how to channel his temper. Unlike boys, a man is not a slave of his anger. This is, in fact, the basic principle of growing up. Learn to control your rage and direct it towards positivity. You actually grow up, the moment you are successful in doing this.

6. Having compassion and forgiveness for others is another trait of a gentleman. When you are calm and peaceful, instead of irrational, then, you can be sure of gaining maturity. Encourage and support the people

around you, especially, the women in your life. Be flexible enough to accept the decision of others.

7. Coming to the basic, this change is accompanied by a major change in your style and dressing. This is the time when the funky t-shirts and laid-back looks won't intrigue you anymore. You will upgrade your wardrobe from the colorful designer tees to formal shirts. Even your choice of cologne and underwear style is evident of this major change in your life. Research has proved that wearing a strong fragrance is a symbol of immaturity. Moreover, switching from your tighty-whitey to a boxer brief is another proof of gaining maturity.

There is a difference between being masculine and being ‘The Man’.

Aging is not the only way to gain maturity. You have to be an adult and you will have to learn with your mistakes and life experience. So, look

out for these signs in your personality and figure out whether you are ‘The Man’, she wants to be with or not.