Personality development

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-0

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Alok k. Dubey B.com, MBA (CM) Mail to : alok_dubey21@hotmail.com

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 1 -

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Personality is depends on:1. Mental 2. Physical 3. Intellectual

Factor influence Personality:A. Heredity: we cannot help it.

B. General Appearances: we can do a little only.

C. Culture: We can change our society & atmosphere to change culture.

D. Experience: It counts valuable point to enhance personality.

E. Education & Training: Education & Training can help one to enhance his personality.

Personality Traits (Characteristics):-

1) Appearance: Outer looking for example clothing, expressions and hairstyles etc.

2) Speech Mannerism: It containsa) Clarity of voice b) Tone c) Speed

3) Gesticulation 4) Mental Alertness

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 2 -

5) Consistency of thoughts i.e. stability of thoughts 6) Types of approach: a) Positive approach b) Negative approach

7) Leadership Qualities 8) Self-confidence in a positive approach

ABCRL Formula:A. Accuracy B. Brevity C. Clarity D. Relevance E. Logic

Self-Confidence Existed ina) Self –respect b) Self- esteem c) Self –belief

Step for self-confidence:Step 1: Take off fear from mind Step 2: Will (determination) Step 3: +ve approach toward the life Step 4: Know your shortcomings Step 5: Inferiority complex

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 3 -

Formula for every step of life:

+ve Approach

No Inferior Complex

Self-Confidence

Right work at right time

Success

Appreciation

Motivation

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 4 -

Outer Personality: a) Neatness, cleanliness and well mannered b) Active, Enthusiastic and practical c) Well informed and quick to act d) Disciplined and amiable e) Dynamic, flexible and reasonable

Professional Quality: a) Clear in mind and systematic b) Industrious and hard working c) Responsibility d) Clear vision and strong will power e) Concentration of mind

Inner Quality: a) Sympathetic, sweet, loving & caring b) Not vindictive, impulsive, touchy & non-fluctuating c) Calm & composed d) Balance of extrovert ness & introvert ness e) Balance of humour and sobriety f) Balance of love & law g) Confidence in self h) Fearless & self controlled

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 5 -

HOW CAN YOU CHANGE YOURSELF

Change by: I. Action level II. Thought level

Thought Level: 1. Waste thought

:-

2. Negative thought :-

impractical idea practical idea but harmful to self and others

3. Ordinary thoughts 4. Positive thoughts

Brain Left Hem isphere

Right Hem isphere

1

Rational

C

2

Verbal

R

O

1

Emotion

2

Love

3

Patience

4

Tolerance

5

Caring

6

Picture,color,Paninting

7

Music

8

Inspiring etc.

P

3

Logical

4

Scientific

5

Creative

A

6

Analytical

L

O S C

L

O

7

Data Interpretation

S U

8

Etc.

M

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 6 -

WAVES OF MIND

1. Beta

: - 13-25 Hz.

2. Alfa

: - 8-12 Hz.

3. Theta

: - 4-8 Hz.

4. Delta

: - 0.5-4 Hz.

Thoughts are like floods if it is controlled then it should have more benefit.

Self-realisation: - Who am I? I am a soul.

SOUL “I”

Mind

Intellect

Resolves

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 7 -

Thoughts (Good/Bad)

Sanskar (Good/Bad)

Action (Good/Bad) Conscious mind Thoughts, Emotions, Desires

Subconscious mind, memories imprint, impression, instinct, habits

Intellect Judgement, Decision Discrimination

“I” PERSONALITY CONCIOUS LIKE FORCE SOUL

Observation is imprinted in subconscious memory bank

Expression of Emotion, Desire, Decision through the body

My body sensory organs, motor organs

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 8 -

Original Quality of Mind

1. Peace 2. Purity

To activate sub consciousness (feed good information to memory bank) 1. Hypnotism 2. Sudden depression 3. Meditation

Consumptionof O2

Consumption of O2 in meditatin vis-a-vis Frequency of mind 5 4

4

3

3

2

2

1

1

0 5

10

15

20

Taking O2 at various level

Beta = 4, Alfa = 3, Theta = 2, Delta = 1

0.5 25

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 9 -

Requirement of Meditation:Iron

1. Confidence

Golden

2. Patience 3. Right Knowledge Copper

4. Courage

Silver

5. Responsibilities “Change is the law of Nature”

Courage: - to fight –ve & waste thoughts Confidence: - in self Knowledge

Self

World external cycle

Supreme

Universal Father-hood

Universal Brother-hood

Responsibility: “to change self”

What does “I” refer?

Worker

Husband/Wife

“I”

Friend

Son /Daughter

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