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PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Alok k. Dubey B.com, MBA (CM) Mail to : alok_dubey21@hotmail.com
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 1 -
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Personality is depends on:1. Mental 2. Physical 3. Intellectual
Factor influence Personality:A. Heredity: we cannot help it. B. General Appearances: we can do a little only. C. Culture: We can change our society & atmosphere to change culture. D. Experience: It counts valuable point to enhance personality. E. Education & Training: Education & Training can help one to enhance his personality.
Personality Traits (Characteristics):-
1) Appearance: Outer looking for example clothing, expressions and hairstyles etc. 2) Speech Mannerism: It containsa) Clarity of voice b) Tone c) Speed
3) Gesticulation 4) Mental Alertness
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 2 -
5) Consistency of thoughts i.e. stability of thoughts 6) Types of approach: a) Positive approach b) Negative approach
7) Leadership Qualities 8) Self-confidence in a positive approach
ABCRL Formula:A. Accuracy B. Brevity C. Clarity D. Relevance E. Logic
Self-Confidence Existed ina) Self –respect b) Self- esteem c) Self –belief
Step for self-confidence:Step 1: Take off fear from mind Step 2: Will (determination) Step 3: +ve approach toward the life Step 4: Know your shortcomings Step 5: Inferiority complex
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 3 -
Formula for every step of life:
+ve Approach
No Inferior Complex
Self-Confidence
Right work at right time
Success
Appreciation
Motivation
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 4 -
Outer Personality: a) Neatness, cleanliness and well mannered b) Active, Enthusiastic and practical c) Well informed and quick to act d) Disciplined and amiable e) Dynamic, flexible and reasonable
Professional Quality: a) Clear in mind and systematic b) Industrious and hard working c) Responsibility d) Clear vision and strong will power e) Concentration of mind
Inner Quality: a) Sympathetic, sweet, loving & caring b) Not vindictive, impulsive, touchy & non-fluctuating c) Calm & composed d) Balance of extrovert ness & introvert ness e) Balance of humour and sobriety f) Balance of love & law g) Confidence in self h) Fearless & self controlled
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 5 -
HOW CAN YOU CHANGE YOURSELF
Change by: I. Action level II. Thought level
Thought Level: 1. Waste thought
:-
2. Negative thought :-
impractical idea practical idea but harmful to self and others
3. Ordinary thoughts 4. Positive thoughts
Brain Left Hem isphere
Right Hem isphere
1
Rational
C
2
Verbal
R
O
1
Emotion
2
Love
3
Patience
4
Tolerance
5
Caring
6
Picture,color,Paninting
7
Music
8
Inspiring etc.
P
3
Logical
4
Scientific
5
Creative
A
6
Analytical
L
O S C
L
O
7
Data Interpretation
S U
8
Etc.
M
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 6 -
WAVES OF MIND
1. Beta
: - 13-25 Hz.
2. Alfa
: - 8-12 Hz.
3. Theta
: - 4-8 Hz.
4. Delta
: - 0.5-4 Hz.
Thoughts are like floods if it is controlled then it should have more benefit.
Self-realisation: - Who am I? I am a soul.
SOUL “I”
Mind
Intellect
Resolves
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 7 -
Thoughts (Good/Bad)
Sanskar (Good/Bad)
Action (Good/Bad) Conscious mind Thoughts, Emotions, Desires
Subconscious mind, memories imprint, impression, instinct, habits
Intellect Judgement, Decision Discrimination
“I” PERSONALITY CONCIOUS LIKE FORCE SOUL
Observation is imprinted in subconscious memory bank
Expression of Emotion, Desire, Decision through the body
My body sensory organs, motor organs
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 8 -
Original Quality of Mind
1. Peace 2. Purity
To activate sub consciousness (feed good information to memory bank) 1. Hypnotism 2. Sudden depression 3. Meditation
Consumptionof O2
Consumption of O2 in meditatin vis-a-vis Frequency of mind 5 4
4
3
3
2
2
1
1
0 5
10
15
20
Taking O2 at various level
Beta = 4, Alfa = 3, Theta = 2, Delta = 1
0.5 25
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT-- 9 -
Requirement of Meditation:Iron
1. Confidence
Golden
2. Patience 3. Right Knowledge Copper
4. Courage
Silver
5. Responsibilities “Change is the law of Nature”
Courage: - to fight –ve & waste thoughts Confidence: - in self Knowledge
Self
World external cycle
Supreme
Universal Father-hood
Universal Brother-hood
Responsibility: “to change self”
What does “I” refer? Worker
Husband/Wife
“I”
Friend
Son /Daughter
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