Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Kings Lynn

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Memories are the loveliest thing, They last from day to day, They can’t get lost, They don’t wear out, and can’t be given away.

A message from our Chaplains supporting people in life and in loss

Bereavement can turn our lives upside down and inside out.

Sometimes it can help to talk to someone else about it. Chaplains offer a skilled listening ear to encourage and support you through your bereavement. If you would like to speak to a Chaplain, please call the telephone number below. Or you may wish to join our Bereavement Support Group. Or, with your consent, we could refer you to a local organisation or faith community for ongoing support

The Queen Elizabeth Hospital King’s Lynn NHS Foundation Trust

Direct Tel: 01553 613441

The Trust staff wish to express their sincere sympathy to you and your family at this sad time.

This booklet aims to provide some useful help and advice during the early days of your bereavement.

Inevitably there are certain practical issues that need to be organised when someone dies and this booklet advises you on what needs to be done.

Parking Permit

An appointment for the owner of this vehicle has been made with the Bereaved Relatives Support Office to attend the hospital at the above date and time.

Any enquiries regarding this permit please contact:

The Bereaved Relatives Support Office: 01553 613878

Important

This permit is only valid on the day of the appointment for a one-hour period to coincide with the appointment time.

If altered in anyway it will become void.

For use in the main car park (see map on page 5).

Your appointment is: Day:_ Date: / / Time: Car Reg: Please tear off permit and display in your vehicle.

Parking permit

Please park in the main car park and follow the signs to the main entrance. Please display the parking permit found on page 3, clearly in your car.

SECTION 1

Essential information

What to do first

1. Contact a Funeral Director of your choice as soon as you wish. You do not have to wait until the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death has been issued, however, you may like to take time with this decision and compare costs and ser vices provided. Details of local Funeral Directors can be found at the end of this booklet Alternatively the internet is a good source of information and you may wish to look at this website: ww w.yourfuneralchoice.com

2. Telephone the hospital’s Bereaved Relatives Support Office after your bereavement, between 9am - 4pm Monday to Friday, on 01553 613878.

The Bereaved Relatives Support Officer will take your contact details and explain the next steps. May we advise you in your own interest not to attend the hospital without first telephoning, other wise the necessar y paper work may not be ready for when you arrive, which may involve you in an unnecessar y journey

By law a medical Doctor, who has treated the deceased in life, is required to provide a Medical Certificate when a person has died, to confirm the death and state the cause of death. The Doctor, in partnership with the Medical Examiner Office, will complete this as soon as possible This will usually be completed over the next two working days. However, this timescale cannot be guaranteed and, due to unforeseen circumstances, may take longer to provide particularly if the appropriate Doctors are not on duty, the death occurred over a weekend or bank holiday and if the Coroner’s Office is involved

In some cases, if the Doctor is uncertain as to the reason, or about the circumstances of death, it may not be possible for them to issue the Medical Certificate. In these cases, and if the death was sudden or unexpected, the Doctor is legally obliged to inform the Coroner.

The Bereaved Relatives Support Officer will also: Explain the procedure for registering the death. Please do not book an appointment to register the death without first knowing the Medical Certificate is complete.

Return any remaining belongings to you.

Medical Examiners

Medical Examiners are independent senior Doctors whose role is to ensure that death certificates accurately record an individual’s cause of death. Also when required they are able to refer appropriate cases to the Coroner. Most importantly, they are able to make sure that all family members understand what is written on the Medical Certificates before registration of death. They will also offer family members the chance to ask questions and raise any concerns about the care provided to their loved one.

The Medical Examiner or the Medical Examiners’ Officer will normally attempt to make contact with the family as soon as possible after speaking to the Doctor issuing the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (MCCD).

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Registering the death

Introduction

All deaths must be registered by law and this is normally done by the next of kin

Exactly when you can register the death depends on when the Medical Certificate is ready and whether the Coroner has been involved. You may have been told at the time of death if the Coroner is to be involved, if not, the Medical Examiner’s Office(r) will let you know

The death should be registered within 5 working days, although this is not always possible.

If the Coroner is involved there may be a delay in registering If a Medical Certificate cannot be issued by the doctors the Coroner’s Office will explain the procedure to register with you.

Visiting the Registrar

You may be able to register the death at this hospital. When the Bereaved Relatives Support Officer telephones to let you know the Medical Certificate is complete, the Officer will discuss this with you and make an appointment for you to see the Registrar, if this is appropriate and an appointment is available.

If you are unable to register at the hospital, you will need to register at one of the local registration offices You must telephone their Customer Service Centre below to make an appointment. If you are not the next of kin, it is worth checking when you ring that it is in order for you to register the death.

If you need to make an appointment at any Norfolk Registration Office please contact the Customer Service Centre on 0344 800 8020.

Alternatively, you can go online to make an appointment, www.norfolk.gov.uk/births-ceremonies-and-deaths/deaths/registera-death

King’s Lynn Register Office

The Town Hall

Saturday Market Place,

King’s Lynn

PE30 5DQ

Strictly by appointment for Coroner’s referrals

Telephone: 0344 800 8020

The office is open: Monday to Saturday 9am to 4:30pm

Alternative local Registrars

For opening hours please see visit ww w.norfolk.gov.uk or call the Customer Service Centre on 034 4 800 8020.

Downham Market

78 Priory Road

Downham Market

PE38 9JS

Diss Council Offices

Market Hill

Diss

IP22 4JZ

North Walsham

18 Kings Arms Street

North Walsham

NR28 9JX

Norwich

The Archive Centre

County Hall

Martineau Lane

Norwich

NR1 2DQ

Strictly by appointment for Coroner’s referrals

Fakenham

Fakenham Connect

Oak Street

Fakenham

NR21 9SR

Dereham

59 High Street

Dereham

NR19 1DZ

Thetford

Thetford Library

Raymond Street

Thetford

IP24 2EA

Great Yarmouth

The Library

Tollhouse Street

Great Yarmouth

NR30 2SH

Strictly by appointment for Coroner’s referrals

What the Registrar will need from you

The Bereaved Relatives Support Officer will send the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death to the registrars ahead of your appointment. It would be useful to have with you the Birth Certificate, Marriage Certificate and NHS Medical Card of the person who died if you have them. Whoever registers the death will also need to sh ow a form of identification to th e Registrar (i e. driving licence or passport).

The Registrar will need the following information:

• date and place of death

• name and surname of the deceased

• maiden surname if the deceased was a woman who had married

• date and place of birth

• occupation

• name, date of birth and occupation of a surviving spouse or civil partner

• name and occupation of spouse if the deceased was widowed

• usual address

• whether the deceased received a pension or allowance from public funds

What the Registrar will give you

The Registrar will email a certificate for burial or cremation (green form) to your Funeral Director.

A certificate of registration of death - Form BD8 (white form). You should read the information on the back, fill it in, and send it to your local Pensions or JobCentre Plus office.

The Registrar will ask how many death certificates you would like printed There is a charge for certificates; the Registrar accepts all types of payment.

The Coroner

Under certain circumstances it is a legal requirement for the Coroner to be informed of a death. For example:

• if the death was due to a fall or accident (whenever it occurred)

• if death was due to self-neglect or neglect by others

• if death was due to an industrial disease or related to the deceased’s employment

• if the death was due to an abortion

• if the death was sudden and unexpected

• if the patient had a recent operation

• if the death was violent or unnatural, or there are suspicious circumstances

Having been informed of the death, the Coroner will decide whether the hospital Doctor can issue the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death or whether a post-mortem is needed.

If a post-mortem is required, the Bereaved Relatives Support Officer at the hospital will not give you a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death for the Registrar. Once the cause of death has been established and enquiries are complete, the Coroner will issue the required notification to the Registrar and will let you know that you can proceed with registering the death.

The Coroner’s Officer will keep you informed throughout as to what will happen and when.

SECTION 3

Other information

Hospital post-mortems

Sometimes a request is made to the relatives to allow a post-mortem examination to be held, to increase medical knowledge in the hope of improving treatments for the future. In such cases the written permission of the next of kin is required.

N.B. The permission of relatives is not required if a post-mortem is ordered by the Coroner.

Viewing

We normally recommend that if you wish to go to see the deceased, the best place to do this is the Funeral Director’s Chapel of Rest However, it may also be possible to do so in the Viewing Suite at the hospital. This can only be done by appointment.

Please contact the Bereaved Relatives Support Officer on 01553 613878 between 9am and 4pm Monday to Friday. Outside these hours, please ring the hospital switchboard on 01553 613613 and s taff will try to accommodate relatives’ wishes However, it is not always possible to provide this service at weekends or bank holidays.

Tissue donation

Ever y year hundreds of lives are saved with the help of donated organs, such as hearts and kidneys. If your loved one has joined the Organ Donation Register, their medical team may have already spoken to you about this

However, you may not realise that eyes and other tissues, such as skin, bone and heart valves, can also be donated and can dramatically improve the quality of life for recipients, and can even save lives

If your loved one has opted into the Organ Donation Register, they have given their consent to donate their tissues to another person after they die. In that case, you don’t have the legal right to change that decision, but it may still be deemed inappropriate to donate if the circumstances of your loved one’s death means that it would be too distressing for you.

If your loved one opted out of the Organ Donor Register, we will respect this wish and no tissues will be donated.

If eye or tissue donation is something you would like to consider, please inform the Bereaved Relatives Support Officer, who will contact a Donation Coordinator for you.

The funeral

Making funeral arrangements is outside the scope of this booklet. A number of Funeral Directors advertise within this booklet, but you are under no obligation to choose one of these The hospital is not able to recommend a particular Funeral Director

Your Funeral Director will explain to you the various possibilities for the funeral and will make all the arrangements.

Other support from within the hospital

The Chaplains at the hospital would be pleased to see you, talk to you on the phone, or put you in touch with your local faith leader if you wish. The Chaplains can be contacted by calling 01553 6134 41, or by going through the hospital switchboard on 01553 613613

The hospital’s Sacred Space is open day and night and is there for you if you need a quiet place to sit. It is on the ground floor, opposite the X-ray department. It is a beautiful and peaceful place for anyone - of any faith or none - to be quiet, to pray, to weep; perhaps to light a candle or write a prayer You may wish to join one of our Bereavement Support Groups. Please contact the Chaplains for more information, including the dates of our next group, if that is the case.

If you have questions about your loved one’s death, the Bereaved Relatives Support Officer can arrange for you to speak to one of the hospital Doctors who treated the patient. The hospital switchboard will connect you with the Doctor’s secretar y to arrange an appointment, between 9am and 5pm, Monday to Friday.

Appendix

Arranging a funeral and choosing a Funeral Director

• Your rights and options

• The Funeral Director’s role

• What a simple funeral might include

• Funeral costs and sources of help

• How to complain if you are not satisfied with the ser vices provided

Rights and options

The main requirements in England and Wales are that the death is certified by a Doctor or Coroner, registered with a Registrar of Births, Marriages and Deaths, and the body is either buried or cremated

• You do not have to have a funeral ser vice

• You do not have to use a religious minister

• You do not have to use a Funeral Director

• A funeral ser vice may be held in places other than a crematorium or place of worship

There are more options concerning the arrangements for a funeral ser vice than many people realise. Woodland burial may also be used.

Most people choose to make their arrangements through a Funeral Director. Some people prefer to organise funerals themselves, they are more personal and less expensive. If this approach appeals, make enquiries at the cemeteries and crematorium department of your local authority. You could also get help from the Natural Death Centre. Some Funeral Directors are willing to help in such cases

Choosing a Funeral Director

Funeral Directors will manage all arrangements and give advice and support. Check that the one you choose belongs to a Trade A ssociation They are required to give full information about their ser vices and prices.

Factors which may influence your choices are:

• Location of the firm’s premises

• Range of ser vices provided

• The way you are treated by the staff

• Cost

• Recommendation of those who have used the ser vice

• Ownership (small family business or large firms)

A simple funeral

Most people would expect the Funeral Director to provide the following ser vices as a minimum:

• Make all arrangements

• Provide appropriate staff

• Provide a suitable coffin

• Transfer the deceased from the place of death to the Funeral Director’s premises

• Care for the deceased prior to the funeral

• Provide a hearse to the nearest cemeter y or crematorium

• Arrange for a burial or cremation

Embalming, viewing of the deceased, or providing a limousine for mourners may also be requested.

Funeral costs

Costs may var y from one Funeral Director to another. You may wish to get more than one quote

A sk the Funeral Director for a written quotation itemising the fees paid to others, including cremation, the minister, Doctors certificates, newspaper announcements, flowers etc

• Funeral payments are normally recoverable from the deceased’s estate

Financial help

If you arrange a funeral you are responsible for paying the bill. If you find this difficult, you may be able to get a Social Fund Funeral Payment if you or your partner receive one of the following:

•Income Support

•Income-based Jobseeker’s Allowance

•Income-based Employment and Support Allowance

•Pension Credit

•Housing Bene fit

• The disability or severe disability element of Working Tax Credit

•Child Tax Credit

•Universal Credit

Complaints

Most funerals are conducted well, but if you have a complaint, you should contact your Funeral Director. If you are not satisfied with the reply, you can complain to the Trade Association listed below which your Funeral Director belongs to:

•The National Assocation of Funeral Directors (NAFD)

•The National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (SAIF)

Advice may also be obtained from your local Trading Standards department.

Who else should you contact?

The Tell Us Once service allows you to inform all the relevant government departments when someone dies. Tell Us Once will notify:

• HM Revenue and Customs (HMRC) - to deal with personal tax (you need to contact HMRC separately for business taxes, like VAT)

• Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) - to cancel benefits and entitlements, for example Universal Credit or State Pension

• Passport Office - to cancel a British passport

• Driver and Vehicle Licensing Agency (DVLA) - to cancel a licence and remove the person as the keeper of up to five vehicles (contact DVLA separately if you keep or sell a vehicle)

• The local council - to cancel Housing Benefit, Council Tax Reduction (sometimes called Council Tax Support), a Blue Badge, inform council housing services and remove the person from the electoral register

• Veterans UK - to cancel Armed Forces Compensation Scheme payments

HMRC and DWP will contact you about the tax, benefits and entitlements of the person who died.

Tell Us Once will also contact some public sector pension schemes so tha t they cancel future pension payments. They’ll notify:

• My Civil Service Pension

• NHS Pension Scheme

• Armed Forces Pension Scheme

• Pension schemes for NHS staff, teachers, police and firefighters in Scotland

• Local authority pension schemes that participate in Tell Us Once

You must let the relevant organisations know about the death yourself if you choose not to use the Tell Us Once service or the person died abroad and the death has not been registered with the UK authorities. You should also contact the deceased’s bank or mortgage, pension or insurance providers to close or change the details of their accounts.

A checklist on the next page can be used as a reference for who you may need to contact.

Who else should you contact? - Checklist

accountant

bank / building society

benefits agency

car registration documents

Child Benefit Office (within eight weeks)

church or other place of worship

clubs and social groups

Council Tax Office

dentist

driving licence

Doctors

DVL A (to cancel car tax)

employers

hire purchase/loan companies

home help agency

hospital clinics

household insurance

Income Tax Office

insurance providers

internet provider

landlord

librar y

local authority (re rental /parking permit)

life assurance

local Co-operative Share Dividend Office

mail for redirection

mortgage provider

motoring breakdown policy

motoring insurance

national insurance contributions office (self-employed)

passport

pension plans

Premium Bond Office

National Savings and Investments

Probate Office

professional bodies

private healthcare provider

relatives and friends

solicitor

T V licence

telephone provider - landline and mobile

utilities (gas, electricity, water, telephone)

vehicle registration

Further information

National Association of Funeral Directors

618 War wick Road

Solihull

B91 1A A

Telephone: 0121 711 1343

ww w.nafd.org.uk

The National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors

3 Bullfields

Sawbridgeworth CM21 9DB

Telephone: 0345 230 6777

ww w saif org uk

Natural Death Centre

In The Hill House

Watley Lane

Tw y ford

Winchester SO21 1QX

Telephone: 01962 712690

ww w.naturaldeath.org.uk

Lily

Lily provides a comprehensive range of support in West Norfolk to combat loneliness and social isolation in adults of all ages. To contact Lily for support please call 01553 616200 (option 6), visit ww w asklily org uk or email asklily@west-norfolk gov uk

The Lily online director y (ww w.asklily.org.uk) lists organisations, ser vices and activities that help people to live healthy, active and independent lives.

Online resource for funerals

w w w.gov.uk/after-a-death/arrange-the-funeral

List of organisations and advice services who may be able to help you

Department for Work and Pensions

Telephone: 0800 731 0469

Citizen’s Advice

Hanse House

South Quay

King’s Lynn

PE30 5GN

Telephone: 03444 111 444

Samaritans

26 Queen Street

King’s Lynn

PE30 1HT

Telephone: 116 123 (24-hour service)

CRUSE Bereavement Care Helpline

Telephone: 0808 808 1677

Stopping junk mail to the recently deceased

If someone you know has died, the amount of unwanted marketing post being sent to them can be greatly reduced which helps to stop painful daily reminders.

By registering with the free service ww w.stopmail.co.uk the names and addresses of the deceased are removed from mailing lists, stopping most advertising mail within as little as six weeks. If you cannot access the internet you can call 0808 168 9607, where you will be asked for very simple information that will take only a few minutes to complete. Alternatively, ask the Bereavement Team for a leaflet that can be returned in the post.

This free of charge service provided by the Bereavement Support Network will actively reduce the unwanted marketing mail but also can help reduce the likelihood of identity theft following the death of someone close. The information is not used for any other purpose and you only have to complete this once. Additionally to Stop Mail, a comparable service can also be accessed from the Bereavement Register or Deceased Preference Service if you would prefer to use them.

Reference: Queen Elizabeth Hospital King’s Lynn NHS Foundation Trust Bereavement Book

Review Date: August 2026

Publication Date: August 2024

The Hospital would like to thank RNS Publications for publishing this information and the following pages contain some features from services o ering their help at this time.

Whilst the Hospital is grateful of their support it does not endorse or recommend any of the services that they provide.

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stopping mail

STOPPING JUNK MAIL

It is distressing to deal with a bereavement and unsolicited mail can be insensitive and destructive during a grieving process.

By scanning the below QR code on your phone or visiting www.stopmail.co.uk, we are able to securely share this information with mailing organisations and under the Data Protection Act the information will not be used for any other purpose.

Other benefits reduce the possibility of identity fraud, such as assumed identity and you will only have to supply the information once.

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