GREAT SOLUTIONS FOR BROKEN HEARTS
PROBLEMS AND ADVICE BY 8C
November 2024
Lately, I’ve been feeling really stressed about school. My grades are slipping, and I can’t seem to keep up with the homework and projects. On top of that, I’m juggling sports practice and trying to maintain my social life. It feels like there’s never enough time in the day, and I worry that I’m letting everyone down, my teachers, my teammates, and even my friends. I’m scared that if I don’t turnthings around soon. I’ll disappoint my parents too. What do i do please help
Oops im sorry to hear that. My advice to you is do your homework in school at skolans val in that way your homework is gone and you have more time with other things. Every thing you gotta du is sleep much so you can focuse in school and keep up your grades and everyting you have to do just do it direcly so if you do that your gonna be fine. I hope you succed have a good time.
Hi i am a boy who is 14 years old and i have a huge problem and i need your help. Or at least i need some advice. my huge problem is that i bought to much v-bucks so now my mom cant pay the rent. I have spent 2000 dollars on vbucks. So my mom dosen’t have any money left so if i don’t pay her back we are gonna sleep on the streets. My mom is so angry at me she almost hits me every day because she’s so angry. I never going to forgive myself for this. So please help me give mi some advice
Hi I’m very sorry to hear about your problem. My advice is that you play a lot Fortnite so you can become a pro player so you can pay her back when you make millions then you can buy more V-bucks and pay her back or you can go and find a real job. Good luck and i hope my advice helps you.
Hey, I’ve got a problem.
I was getting my stuff from my locker when I saw something strange laying there. It was a note. I hoped it was from this cute girl in the other class, but it was not. It stood:
Meet me in my classroom, Rita.
Rita is my math teacher!! My jaw dropped, does my math teacher crush on me?! This can’t be true, but maybe she just wanted to know if I needed some extra help? But at the same time I don’t struggle at all in math.. This was weird. I walked to the classroom nervously and every thought ran thru my head, what is she going to do? When I opened the door she sat there and waited quietly for me to go closer. When I asked her “have I done something?” she didn’t answer. Instead, she took a hard grip on my arm and pulled me closer and tried to kiss me!!!! I pushed her away and then I ran away. I was in a real chock, this was uncomfortable. And ever since that moment she has treated me different and laid a lot of notes in my locker. I don’t know what to do, any advice? Please help me, confused and uncomfortable student.
Dear confused and uncomfortable student.
I’m so sorry about your problem, it must be really hard. It is really weird for her to have a crush on a student. I think you should definitely tell your parents and together tell your principal about the problem. It can be traumatic to have that kind of problem with a teacher. But if you want to you can wait until you leave your school and maybe be together with her. That isn’t illegal especially if she is hot. Whatever you do I think the first and best thing to do is tell a trusted adult. I hope everything turns out great for you and remember, always follow your heart.
Hello, I’m a girl that’s 14 years old and I’ve got a problem every time I get home from school I fall asleep. I really don’t want to fall asleep, but I just can’t help it. Always when I get home I make something to eat and sit down on the couch it always ends up with me laying down and falling asleep. My mother wakes me up right in time for dinner, when she wakes me up I feel like an eighty year old lady. My legs feel like spaghetti and I can’t open my eyes. During dinner all I can think of is sleeping. After dinner I end up sleeping until nine o’clock, then I can’t sleep anymore and just scroll on my phone until the morning. Because I sleep I don’t get my homework done and always at school I can’t focus and I feel tired all day. My friends have stopped asking me if I want to hang out, they know I just go home and sleep all day. I’m losing my friends and my grades are dropping, please help me I don’t know what to do. // unicorn girl
Dear unicorn girl, I feel bad for you, it is hard to not fall asleep. If it’s hard to fall asleep at night you maybe should try some sleeping pills if you have sleeping problems. If you don’t want to fall asleep after school, you should try to find a hobby. It helps to get some energy and it’s harder for you to fall asleep. You can start a sport, you can paint, you name it. I feel bad for you about your friend and grades. You should start asking your friends if they want to hangout and not just wait for them to ask you. Try to focus on class even if it’s hard, if you stop sleeping when you get home maybe you can focus better. Start to leave your phone in another room or not where you can reach it. I hope this goes well for you and that you start to get some energy!
My friends leave me out.
Hello. Im a 14 year old girl and I`ve been friends with some girls for many years but now they have a new friend and they are starting to leave me out more and more. They always hang out and never invites me and then talks about it at school the day after about how fun they had. It really hurts my feelings and they dont even think about it. I feel like I dont know them anymore. I dont know what to do cause Im scared to talk to them about it cause they will just be mad and say that its my fault. I dont know why girls is so complicated. Please help me out.
A girl without friends.
Hey, I am so sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s though when friendships change, especially if you’ve been friends for a long time. I understand and have been through the same thing as well. I know it might sound crazy, but you should talk to them. A real conversation could help and try to be serious about it and not joke around. If that doesn't help and they get upset and say it’s your fault (which it’s absolutely not) you should try reaching out to others. Expanding your circle and start hanging with new people could help and be a new step. And sometimes you could just give it time. Friendships go through phases. You could maybe make some plans, invite them all to do something! Remind them how good your friendship is and what a great friend you are. If they do have a new friend, try to stay open-minded and try to get to know her, you might just love her and become great friends
Spends too much money
I am a 14-year-old lad, and I got a big problem as a teenager is that my money just goes away, I buy too much. I get some money and then after like two days it is gone. What am I supposed to do. Do you have any advice what to do in this situation. I want to spare for my football stuff so I can buy some nice cleats and some football jerseys. So please help me.
Hi I am very sorry to hear about your problem. My advice to you is to just try and save money and maybe store your money with your parents. You could also say to yourself that you are only allowed to spend money one time each week. I hope my advice helped and good luck.
Hello I have a problem, I am a 14year old boy who has no friends. Sometimes when I try to make friends people laugh at me and call me stupid things. I dont really know what I am supposed do. I had a friend about 2 years ago but then he started hanging with the cool kids. What should I do please help me Anonymus sweden
Im sorry to hear that and that you are lonely. It's just so sad that you don't have any friends. But have you any friends or is it just 0. My solution is that you start to talk to more people and maybe just be loud so people can see you. You could maybe get a nice haircut but I don't know who you are so I cannot tell if you seem so lonely or if you just got no friends. You could always talk to a bigger person so that they can help you to make some friends. Then you can start to make more friends and later you will make friends.
I hope that everything fixes, and you don't get sad.
Hi! I have some gambling addiction and and I have no money left and i don't know what to do i always spend my money on black and i always lose and i can't afford to pay my rent and I'm also thinking about robbing a shop to get some money so i can survive
Dear gambling boy.
I´m sorry to hear your problem i suggested you get better at gambling or you need to quit you can´t lose your money but you can putt on red you can win then, or you can quit and take all your savings on red or black I should take black because I'm black and I win on black.
When my boyfriend dumped me last year, i turned to my best male friend for support he was great he came round every nigth and let me cry on his shoulders.we started hanging out all the time, going to partys together and even went to holiday together.but a few weeks ago,we were watching a a vid when he tried to kiss me. I was shocked that i screamed and pushed him off me. He looked hurt and accused me of leding him him on. I havent seen him since and he wont answer any of my calls. I feel confused because i think i do have strong feelings for him. But now i dont know what do. alice 15 sten
Dear Alice, 15 rock.
I´m sorry you got dumped last year. I'm so glad your friend helped you when it was a hard time, I think you should let it go. He thinks your gay and you're not gay so he that he can kiss you because he that you were gay, so he kissed you. When you screamed, he got scared and that's why he don't answer because he is embarrassed you will think bad of, I'm. take care and hope he answers your calls.
Hello, I need some advice. My teenage problem is that I eat too much cheese. Everyday I eat cheese for breakfast, lunch and dinner. To breakfast I usually eat a sandwich with only cheese and to lunch I eat cheese doodles or cheese pasta, to dinner I eat noodles with soft cheese. This has become a real problem because I have diabetes and if I eat too much cheese I could die. Thats not my only problem, in school i get bullied because i eat only cheese. What should I do?
I'm sorry to hear that but your problem i just have one piece of advice for you; don't eat any more cheese you'll die and you'll be bullied by your class mates. I hope you don't eat more cheese and you don't get bullied.
I Am very worried about my brother he is selling drugs and he is a road man. My parents are dead and its me and my 2 brothers and my oldest is 20 and he is providing money and food and it was very hard when our parents died so he is a dad to us more than a brother. But i dont know why he does the road man shit i think he should get an education. What shoud i do?
Im sorry to hear about what your brother doing. I think you need to talk to your brother and say you know what he doing on the days and say he need to stop. If he don’t stop can you threat him and say you gonna go to the police. Ask him to get a real job and do better things. Have good luck with your brother.
Is something wrong with me?
Hi, I have a problem that affects my teenage life a lot. Everyone around my age has gotten someone they're dating or fancies. All my friends got a partner. They all seem so happy and all they talk about their relationship and how great it is. This is really stressful, and I feel pressured to find a partner as well. But as soon as I start talking to a someone I like and I find out they like me back, I feel sick to my stomach and immediately ruin things with them. How am I ever going to find someone if this happens every time? I think about this regularly and it stresses me a lot. What should I do? I don’t want to feel this way.
/Rat shitter
Hello dear rat shitter. I`m so sorry to hear about your problems it really makes me feel bad. My advice to you is that you stop feel pressured cause thats not good for you and that you just wait for the right person to come. Thats what I did. I know it maybe feels like its never going to happen but i promise you someday it will. Just stay faithful and do not give up your hopes I wish you all luck in life and that you find a good partner who deserves you.
Hello! I am a boy with a problem and I need help. My problem is my bus I take to school every morning and every morning before I go to the bus I will check the time the bus go from the bus stop, and there it can stand the bus go 07:42 but when I come to the bus stop the bus has already drive away before the time it stand in the app. What can I do?
I am so sorry for your problem! i think you need to go 07:35 instead of 42! So you can be at school a bit before. Thats my advice.
I caught my best friend kissing my boyfriend
I was going to my next class on the other side of the school when I saw my boyfriend kissing my best friend 10 years in the hallway. I stopped and stood there in total shock. I starred at them both and they tried to explain but I just ran away to the classroom. I can`t stop think about what my boyfriend and best friend did to me. They have tried to call and text me but I have just ignored them. I haven`t been at school since what happened so my teacher has been coming to my house and got me homework so I don`t have so much to do when I come back. What should I do?
The pumpkin head
Hello, im so sorry to hear that, i guess you have been hanging on to snakes for a while, believe me I have been there.
This sounds super rough, and I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It must feel like a total betrayal to see your boyfriend and best friend like that. It’s totally normal to feel shocked and hurt right now. Taking time off from school is ok. you need to process everything. Maybe talk to someone you trust, like a family member or a counselor? They can help you work through your feling.
Hope you feel okay soon.
/big bombaclot
My friend keeps breaking my things
I’m a 13-year-old girl who has a problem with my friend breaking my stuff. My friend has been breaking my stuff for years now, and I’m too scared to confront her. When we were at my house, she “accidentally” broke my stuff and said that she dropped it, or just said it was there when she got here. But I know for a fact that she breaks my stuff, my dad has security cameras in my room, and he has been seeing her sneaking around in my room. We have been friends for 5 years now, and this has been going on for 3 years now. My parents think I should confront her, but I don’t know, I kind of feel bad for her. Do I just stop being friends with her? What should I do?
A girl who needs help
That’s a really tough dilemma. You should not feel bad at all, you have done nothing wrong, but I still understand that you might not want to confront her if your friendship becomes different. But for you both I think you should confront her. It's the best for both. Ask her why she destroys them, she can’t keep destroying your stuff. Just tell her that your dad has security cameras and that you see what she does. It's really not nice of her at all. It’s your stuff, she can’t destroy them. Three years is a really long time, it can’t keep happening. She might just be jealous of you, she might just feel anger and feel the urge to break something. But it’s going to be alright.
I hope you talk to her for your own best, I also hope that your friendship doesn’t change to something negative. Good luck. //unicorn girl
Hey. I am a boy that´s 15 years old. I have a problem with my parents. They are super great but they are so strict. Like when me and my friends are out I always need to come home first. And they are out and have more fun when I go. I know it´s not a big deal but I I also want to be a little bit longer out. I don´t know what to do please help me. And can you give me some advice?
Indianscamer.com.15.sweden
Hi, I'm so sorry for you that you can't be out with your friends because your parents are so strict, and I understand that it must be hard not to be out that extra 30 or more minutes. But you're not alone with this problem and I'm sure that your parents just want to protect you, and that they want the best for you. My advice for you would be to try talking to them and really telling them how you feel about it. If that doesn't work, you could always try to say to your friends if they could go out earlier instead. I hope my advice helps you and it all works out, and that your parents stop being so strict with you.
HI I'm a boy from Sweden and I have a problem. My problem is that I bought videogame currency in sekret from my parents. And soon they are going to get a Gmail with the bill. I bought currency for over 1000 dollars and I don't know what to do. My parents dont have a lot of money and it's a tuff time for them right now. So, they are going to kill me if they find out.
Boy from Sweden
Hi, i am very sorry to hear about your problem. I've got a lot of people with this kind of problem. I would not really consider it a problem if you were not addicted in some kind of way. If you feel bad after you have done this, why would you do that. Try to ask yourself this question. Maybe you will learn something after this. One thing to do can be something in reverse. Like for example doing the dishes or making some money and giving it back. So, my advice to you is to talk with them through this. Tell them the whole story and feel sad and really make them feel that you feel sorry for this. I hope this helped a little bit. I really think that you can solve this. I really think and hope that they will understand. As I said before, try to do something in reverse.
Hello, I’m a boy that just turned 14. Well, I have a problem, not like a big one but it’s quite hard to live with it. My dad is always working, he has a lot of work to do so he never really has time to spend with us. We always eat dinner together but after dinner he always goes outside to do some work. Of course, I understand that he would rather spend time with us, but he still doesn’t which is a bit sad. When he gets back inside late at night, he’s always grumpy and stressed up. How do I tell him without him getting mad? I would really like to have some free time with him when I don’t have soccer practice.
/a boy who sits on sand
Hello A boy who sits on sand! I’m sorry to hear about your problem and I think this is a pretty common problem in families. Anyways, I understand this can be hard and I will give you some advice. Well, first of all you should try to talk with your dad about how you feel. This can be a hard thing to do especially if he’s grumpy and stressed up all the time. If you don’t want to straight up tell him how you feel, you can maybe ask your dad if he would like to spend some time together, maybe at the weekend. If he tells you no, you could ask him to put work aside for a while because you miss spending time with him. Another option can be that you text your dad about how you feel. I hope this problem can be solved, good luck!
So, I walked into class the other day, just like any normal day. As I entered, I noticed something that completely caught me off guard my two head teachers were standing close together by the window, and to my shock, they were kissing! I froze for a moment, not believing what I was seeing. It felt like I had walked into a scen from a movie. They looked happy and completely unaware of anyone else being around. After a few seconds, I quickly backed out of the room, my heart´s racing. Now I’m wondering what this means for our school. Should I tell someone, or just keep it to myself? It’s such a strange situation. What do i do?
Hello dear, I understand that this is a big shock for you. This acually happend me when i was in school. I think you should tell anyone that you feel safe with talking to. Maybe your parents or maybe an teacher in school. Just kidding Its not any of your fucking business so leave them tf alone take care love
I have a problem I can´t get a new mopeds part I what to do my moped faster but my dad doesn't let me to buy new parts. With my money, he says it not good to have a fast moped, but I think it's bullshit. I like it when it goes fast. I that were sad for me but in the winter, I'm building a 70cc moped that's very fast they can come up to a speed of 120kmh and that's were fast and I can´t wait to get it and put it on the moped it´s going to be and I'm going to paint my moped white and red it´s going to be very beautiful that's my problem it´s very sad but i be happy if i can get it in the winter
Im sorry that you cant buy a 70 cc right now but i hope that you buy your 70cc sometimes in the winter.
My best friend is the worst girlfriend
My best friend has a boyfriend that she’s been dating for almost a year now. She always seemed to be so happy with him and she always talks about how much she loves him. But now here is my problem. I know my best friend is cheating on her boyfriend.
About 3 weeks ago she started to text a guy on snapchat and she started to talk about him a lot instead of her boyfriend. When she talked with him for about a week, she told me she was going to meet him. I asked her if her boyfriend knew about this, but she just told me not to worry about it and that he obviously will let her hang out with a friend. But I always knew this guy wasn’t just a friend to her. Four days ago, my best friend went to the movies with this guy. Later she went to his house and texted me about how they kissed. And what makes this situation worse is that she dragged me into this by telling her boyfriend that she spent the night at my place when she was actually hanging out with some other guy! Of course, he knows nothing about this, and I feel bad for him because I know he’s such a wholesome guy. I want to tell her boyfriend about what my best friend is doing to him, but I don’t want to ruin our 3 years long friendship. I told her to tell him, but she said he just doesn’t have to know about all her little secrets. I need help now, what should I do? Should I tell him or just leave this behind?
Worried 14 years old girl.
Hello worried 14-year-old girl. I see your problem, I understand why you’re worried, especially if he’s a nice one. It’s not nice of her to do that to her boyfriend, and if she really loved him, she wouldn’t do that. I think that you should try to talk to your friend about this again and show her that you don’t think this is okey. If she drags you into this problem by telling her boyfriend that she is with you, I really think that you should tell her that you want nothing to do with this situation, and that she has started this herself. And if she isn't listening, I think you should talk to her boyfriend, I guess you don’t want her boyfriend to think that you don’t care, right? Hope this was some help and that your friend understands how you feel. Love!
Lacking confidence
So, the last couple of weeks I `ve been lacking confidence. I got a new coach and it's a real pressure and I am really nervous when I go out and play games. It's a different feeling on the training. It's only in the games that I feel real pressure. I cannot do the same things. I drop the ball many more times in the games. So, lately I've been on the bench. I feel like this isn't me. I really love football, and I want to be at the highest level. And I know that I'm good. So, what do I do?
Oh no. Iam so sorry to hear. I think you need to go and talk with your coach and ask him what to do. If you need to train to be faster, stronger or something, I don´t know. And you just need believe in yourself.
