Hazzan Roger Weisberg Thank you for your 30 years of service to CBJ 5304 RFD, Hilltop Rd. & Route 83, Long Grove, IL 60047 Phone: 847-634-0777 www.bethjudea.org
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Rabbi’s Reflections DEDICATION AND REDEDICATION During the time the Jerusalem Temple stood, its activities were accompanied by music and singing. Psalms and other Hebrew readings were sung by the Levites to heighten the drama of the priestly service to God and beautify it. This month, we have multiple connections to those ancient services.
of young people as b’nei mitzvah. They will read Torah and recite blessings at the very place where our ancestors called out to God two and three thousand years ago.
That service will occur during Hanukkah, the celebration of the Rabbi Jeff Pivo rededication of the Temple in the 2nd century B.C.E. by the Hasmoneans. In the centuries since the fall of the Jews around the world will be marking Temple, music remained a central feature of Jewish prayer and culture. Many of our that festival by lighting the hanukkiah, eating foods melodies can be traced back hundreds of years, cooked in oil, and commemorating the feats of the and some of our liturgy goes back to the Temple few who defeated the many. Hanukkah is a period. For the last 30 years, our connection to wonderful celebration of Jewish survival and those melodies and liturgy has been through rededication to the values and rituals that have Hazzan Roger Weisberg. On December 3rd, we made us who we are. We continue to enjoy Jewish will honor Hazzan for his years of service to Beth music, just as those who rededicated the Temple Judea. Over 250 of us will have dinner together did, and we continue to make pilgrimages to the and then join many more friends for a benefit Holy Land, just as Jews have done for millennia. concert featuring Hazzan Alberto Mizrahi and Just as the Hasmoneans rededicated the Temple several other musical guests. This is sure to be for service, and themselves to serve in it, we can the social highlight of the year, as well as a fitting also see Hanukkah as an opportunity to rededicate tribute to our Hazzan, who has given so much to ourselves to the survival of the Jewish people in so many of us. Israel and here at home. Whether by celebrating Hazzan Weisberg, lighting the hanukkiah at home, In addition, I will be accompanying close to 50 or travelling to Israel, our intentional and congregants and friends to Israel for a tour from purposeful connection to our history and rituals will December 19th-30th. Among many other help us to maintain connections to our past and to wonderful experiences, we will visit the old city of establish a firm foundation for our future. Jerusalem, site of the Temple where the Levites sang. There we will raise our own voices in song during a Friday night service and on the following Monday morning, when we will honor a number
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To Our Congregants, We extend to you our deepest gratitude For being part of the Beth Judea Family. As we celebrate this season of miracles We wish you joy, blessings and peace during Hanukkah and throughout the year. May you always be blessed with the rich and Bountiful gifts of life!
Happy Hanukkah, From the entire staff and leadership of Congregation Beth Judea:
In This Issue Rabbi’s Reflections Calendar Happenings With Hazzan CBJ Mission Statement President’s Message Special Shabbat Services Chanukah Events Blessings & Candle Lighting Chanukah Bazaar B’Nai Mitzvah Bios Welcome New Members Beth Judea Community News Alternative Shabbat Service New Membership Programs The Goodman’s Blog
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Religious Education BJE Early Childhood Adult Education Youth Sisterhood Sisterhood Book Club Men’s Club Gift Cards SHALVA Planned Giving The Helping Hand Plan Hesed Birthdays & Anniversaries Yahrzeits Tributes
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CALENDAR Special Events Hazzan 30th Celebration “7+1” Gifts Due Israel Trip Attendee Send-Off Shabbat Youth Led Shabbat FOF Shabbat & Chanukah Carnival Hanukkah Sing-a-long & Dinner Shirat Shabbat
Dec. 3 Dec. 5 Dec. 9 Dec. 10 Dec. 10 Dec. 16 Dec. 23
Holiday Events Dec. 5 Dec. 10 Dec. 11 Dec. 11 Dec. 14 Dec. 16
“7+1” Gifts Due FOF Shabbat & Hanukkah Carnival Sisterhood Hanukkah Bazaar Hanukkah Happenings at Hawthorne Mall HUGS Hanukkah Program at Beth El Hanukkah Sing-a-long & Dinner Hanukkah Guide
Religious School Focus on Families Dec. 10
Young Families 2nd Annual Shabbat & Hanukkah Carnival
Sisterhood Dec. 11 Dec. 13 Dec. 15 Dec. 18 Dec. 28 Jan. 7
Hanukkah Bazaar Sisterhood Board Meeting Sisterhood Book Club Judaic Arts Program Sisterhood Hanukkah Party Sisterhood Shabbat
Men’s Club Dec. 1 Dec. 17 Jan. 21-22
Men’s Club Meeting Lieberman Center Men’s Club Retreat
Dec. 9 Dec. 11 Dec. 13 Dec. 17-Jan 1 Dec 19,26 Jan 2
Aleph-Dalet Family Shabbat Dinner Hanukkah Bazaar Gimel Field Trip Religious School Winter Break No Beyahad Classes
Youth IMPORTANT UPCOMING DATES FOR YOUTH View our calendar online at http://tinyurl.com/BJUSYCalendar
Meetings Please check website
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Adult Ed December December
Melton Lunch & Learn at Sunset
Hebrew Classes in Progress
Ulpan 1 Ulpan 2 Torah Reading Hebrew Literacy I
BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES Shabbat Prayers December 2, 2016– 7:30 pm Those who celebrate birthdays and anniversaries during the month of December will be recognized at our service on December 2nd. Our worship will begin at 7:30 pm. Children of every age are welcome!
Weekly & Shabbat Classes Visit Our Adult Education Page
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HAPPENINGS WITH HAZZAN HAPPY HANUKKAH from the HAZZAN “A Great Miracle Happened Here” Every year at this time, we look forward be visiting Israel this month will bring back to celebrating our happy Festival of some of these Israeli dreidels. Lights, Hanukkah. We enjoy some For the Jewish people, our surviving so latkes, light the candles on the many challenges and crises, from Egyptian menorah, praising the Holy One with bondage to the Holocaust, are indeed the words “she-asah nissim miracles that we will continue to remember l’avoteinu…” – who performed miracles year after year, passing along these for our ancestors. The Hanukkah story Hazzan important lessons and stories to future is indeed a miraculous one. Greek Roger Weisberg generations. culture, the Greek way of life – in language, in dress, even in worship – had But the miracles don’t just stop there. How many become widespread during those days in which Chicagoans thought we would live to see the the Second Temple stood in Jerusalem. But Cubs win a World Series?? Maybe not when the regional king, Antiochus, would no something to celebrate if you lived in Cleveland longer tolerate Jewish practice, installing Greek or prefer the White Sox, but for fans who gods in the Temple and more, some Jews chose suffered decades of disappointment, this felt like to resist. In one of the nearby towns, called a miracle! Some of us may have witnessed the Modi’in, an aged kohen (Jewish member of the recent Supermoon, the brightest since January, priesthood), together with his five sons known as 1948, as the moon was the closer to Earth that it the Maccabees, led the revolt against the has been for many of us in our lifetimes! I am enormous Greek army. Perhaps Antiochus had sure you can think of other instances which may other matters distracting him…what matters to apply to you, your family, or others whom you us is that somehow the Maccabees prevailed know. In my case, I consider it a personal and Judaism survived. G-d gets the credit! We miracle to be able to celebrate, in good health, can celebrate! my 30th year as Hazzan of Congregation Beth Judea – what a wonderful blessing it has been Our dreidel has the four Hebrew letters which for me, as well as for my family. Praised be the stand for the expression “A Great Miracle One who brings miracles into our lives – may we Happened There,” - there referring to the Holy never take them for granted! Have a very happy Land, of course. In Israel, as some of you know, Hanukkah - may your days be filled with the dreidels have one letter different, because blessings and with welcome miracles. they proclaim, “A Great Miracle Happened Here!” Perhaps those from Beth Judea who will Hazzan Roger Weisberg
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President’s Message I cannot believe it is already December 1st. Two thousand sixteen has gone by so quickly. We had a euphoric high, followed by a surprise ending to a very long Presidential election and a general concern for the divisiveness that may follow with the new administration. For those who lost loved ones during the past year, I express my condolences again. I realize how difficult it can be to be without someone you love at this time of the year. I hope everyone enjoyed their Thanksgiving holiday with family and friends. We all have much to be thankful for- not only on the fourth Thursday in November of the year, but on every day of the year.
ARNIE GOLDBERG CBJ PRESIDENT
On December 3rd, we will honor Hazzan Weisberg for his thirty years of tenure at CBJ. I remember the first services that Cantor lead, thirty years ago. He did a great job then and continues to perform at the same high standard. Thank you again, Hazzan, for thirty wonderful years. To the dinner and concert committee, thank you for all your hard work and extra effort. There was never a doubt that the committee would make this a huge success. I would like to offer my congratulation to Brad Finkel, a friend and fellow CBJ Board member. Brad has been appointed to replace Ron Levin as director of Camp Chi. Best wishes on your promotion Brad, we know you will do a great job. Lastly, 47 of our congregants and family will be traveling to Israel in the middle of December on the generational congregational trip. Four family members will become b’nai mitzvot during the trip. I wish everyone safe travels. I hope this congregational trip is as successful as the last one. I know everyone will find spirituality in Eretz Yisrael and will form friendships with their fellow travelers which will last forever. A healthy and happy holiday season to everyone, and for those who are traveling, travel safe and enjoy. Arnie Goldberg President Congregation Beth Judea
Congregation Beth Judea Mission Statement Congregation Beth Judea is a welcoming egalitarian synagogue whose mission is to create a warm and inviting home that serves the lifelong spiritual, educational and fellowship needs of our members. Consistent with the principals of the Conservative movement, we embrace Torah and our responsibility to serve and support the greater Jewish community, the community at large, the United States of American and the State of Israel.
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SPECIAL SHABBAT SERVICES & EVENTS Israel Trip Attendee Send-Off during Erev Shabbat Services on
Youth Led Shabbat Services
Friday, December 9, 2016
Saturday, December 10th
in the main sanctuary
Join us in wishing our members and their families who will be attending the Beth Judea multi-generational trip to Israel in December: NESIAH TOVA (safe travels) to Israel To Our Beth Judea Trip Attendees May God watch over you and protect you as you embark on this journey home to Israel. May you be protected from all dangers and have a safe, peaceful and rewarding experience.
נ ְִסיעָ ה טֹו ָבה
Come join together with the rest of the CBJ Youth community as we join with the congregation and lead every bit of the Shabbat morning service. Whether you want to just join and show your support or you would like to help lead, this event is open to all. If you are interested in leading any part of the service please contact Marc Sender at YouthDirector@bethjudea.org or Meira Groth at BJUSYRelEdVP@gmail.com. Stay with us after the service for a delicious lunch. Anybody interested in sponsoring the kiddush lunch please contact Marc Sender as well!
Have a safe trip. Join us each month for a Friday night
SHIRAT SHABBAT Beth Judea’s very own Musical ShaBBaT Celebration!!! Help Rabbi Pivo & Hazzan Weisberg & the Beth Judea Shirat Shabbat Music Ensemble bring the Shabbat prayers to life with the melodies of Shlomo Carlebach, Debbie Friedman, Danny Maseng, Craig Taubman, among other contemporary settings. Welcome Shabbat with your Beth Judea family – you will love it!! Singers & musicians age 12 & up, contact Hazzan Weisberg hazzanweisberg@bethjudea.org
Upcoming Service: December 23
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SPECIAL CHANUKAH SHABBATS & EVENTS
Friday, December 16, 2016 Chanukah Sing-a-long for all ages with Hazzan Weisberg– 5:45 pm Chanukah Shabbat Dinner - 6:15pm Shabbat Services - 7:30 pm The menu includes: Deli trays, latkes, vegetables & salad The cost is: $36.00 per Family or $12.00/Adult, $10.00 for children (6-12) and $5.00 for children 5 and under ___________________________________________________________ December 16th Chanukah Shabbat Dinner RSVP’S due by Friday, December 9, 2016 Name:_______________________________ Phone:____________________ _____ Family
Rate $36.00 (Please indicate how many people will be attending) _____ # Adults (12 & over) $12.00 _____ # Children (6-12) $10.00 _____ #Children (5 & under) $5.00 _____ # of Vegetarian Meals We would like to sit with: ________________________________________
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HANUKKAH xHanukkah Blessings for 5777 Each winter we light the Hanukkiah for eight nights, remembering the miracle of the oil in the ancient Temple and the miracle of the Maccabees’ victories. Hanukkah begins on the 25th of Kislev (the night of Dec. 24 this year); we light the shamash first, recite the three blessings below, then use the shamash to light one candle on the far right of the Hanukkiah. Each night we add one additional candle, corresponding to the day of Hanukkah. While candles are placed on the right side, they are customarily lit left to right, giving that day’s candle the honor of being lit first. After the first night we recite only the first two blessings. Blessings:
HANUKKAH 5777 CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES
1st Night
2nd Night
Dec. 24
Dec. 25
After Havdalah at 5:15 pm, when Shabbat has concluded. After Sundown
3rd Night
Dec. 26
After Sundown
4th Night
Dec. 27
After Sundown
5th Night
Dec. 28
After Sundown
6th Night
Dec. 29
After Sundown
Dec. 30
Shabbat Candles are lit after the Hanukkiah, both before 4:011 pm
, אֲ ֶשׁר ִק ְדּ ָֽ ָשׁנוּ בְּ ִמ ְצוֹתָ יו,בָּ רוְּך אַ ָתּה יְ ָי אֱ ֹלהֵ ינוּ מֶ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם .וְ ִצ ָֽ ָוּנוּ לְ הַ ְדלִ יק נֵר ֶשׁל חֲ נֻכָּה
7th
Blessed are You, Lord our God, Ruler of the universe, who has sanctified us with His commands and commanded us to kindle the Hanukkah light.
8th
Night
Night
Dec. 31
After Havdalah at 5:20 pm, when Shabbat has concluded
ֶשׁעָ ָשׂה נ ִִסּים לַאֲ בוֹתֵ ינוּ,בָּ רוְּך אַ ָתּה יְ ָי אֱ ֹלהֵ ינוּ מֶ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם ..בַּ יּ ִָמים הָ הֵ ם בַּ זְּ מַ ן הַ זֶּ ה Blessed are You, Lord our God, Ruler of the universe, who performed miracles for our ancestors in those days at this time. First night only: יענוּ ָ ָֽ ִ ֶשׁהֶ חֱ ָֽ ָינוּ וְ ִקיְּ ָֽ ָמנוּ וְ ִהגּ,בָּ רוְּך אַ ָתּה יְ ָי אֱ ֹלהֵ ינוּ מֶ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם .לַזְּ מַ ן הַ זֶּ ה
Hanukkah Guide 5777
Blessed are You, Lord our God, Ruler of the universe, who has kept us alive, sustained us and allowed us to reach this time.
Click Here To Link To The Guide
GIFT SHOP HANUKKAH BAZAAR Gift Shop Hanukkah Bazaar Expect great things at our annual Hanukkah Bazaar on Sunday, December 11th from 9:00 AM to 3:00 PM. We have searched hard and long to find attractive quality merchandise to fit everyone’s budget this year. There are sterling silver jewelry (much from Israel), a gift boutique, toys for all ages, Judaica of all kinds including a large selection of dreidels and menorot, and some clearance merchandise. Many of our items are not religious so you can make this a complete shopping trip.
Just to get you started, we have a 20% off coupon on one single item of $25 or more. Some exclusions apply. (See coupon in enclosed flyer). Coupons will be available at the Hanukkah Bazaar! Hope you see you there!!!
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B’nei Mitzvah Bios Brooke Sari Robbins will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, December 3, 2016. Brooke is a seventh grader at Woodlawn Middle School in Long Grove, Illinois. When Brooke is not at school or Hebrew school, studying for her Bat Mitzvah, or attending a friend’s mitzvah, she enjoys playing field hockey for Windy City Field Hockey. She has also spent the past 5 years attending Camp Chi in Lake Delton, Wisconsin. If Camp Chi offered a year-round option, Brooke would be first in line to sign up. She is counting down the days until she goes again in Summer, 2017. For her mitzvah project, Brooke is collecting crayons, markers, colored pencils, coloring books, and Play-Doh to be donated to Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago. She is excited to help bring a smile to children who are spending time in the hospital. On December 26, as a part of the Congregation’s multi-generational Israel trip, Brooke will again be reading from the Torah in Jerusalem.
Arley and Jenna Landau will be called to the Torah as a B’not Mitzvah on December 26, 2016 at the oldest Temple in the western hemisphere: Mikve Israel-Emanuel Synagogue (built in 1732) in Willemstad,Curasao. Currently an 8th grader at Daniel Wright Junior High, Arley is very busy with cheerleading and as a member of the Adversity Volleyball team in Libertyville. Jenna is a 6th grader at Daniel Wright Junior High and enjoys hanging with her friends, painting, and participating in show choir. Arley and Jenna are extremely grateful for the patience and guidance that Hazzan Weisberg has brought to them while preparing them for this amazing milestone!
A Hearty Mazel Tov to all our December B’nei Mitzvah
from the Beth Judea Family.
Brooke is looking forward to sharing this special day with her parents, Heidi and Joel, her brother Ari, her sister Allison and her grandparents, Pam & Dan Davis, Bruce & Sandy Robbins and Barbara Maller. She is also excited that her cousin, aunts, uncles and friends are able to join her from near and far including California, New York and Massachusetts. Brooke and her parents would like to thank Rabbi Pivo, Hazzan Weisberg, her CBJ Hebrew and Judaica teachers, and her fantastic tutor, Andrea Dickson for all their support and instruction in helping her reach this exciting milestone.
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BETH JUDEA COMMUNITY NEWS
Welcome New Members The Horowitz Family: Todd, Nicole, Jacob and Becca Todd, Nicole, Jacob, and Becca moved from Los Angeles to Buffalo Grove in the summer of 2015. Todd grew up in suburban Detroit, and Nicole grew up in nearby Grayslake. “We are both veterinarians, and we share our home with a dog, three cats and two fish. Jacob loves to build with Legos, and Becca loves to take care of her many stuffed animals while pretending to be Doc McStuffins. We look forward to becoming a part of the congregation.”
Congratulations Brad Finkel Brad recently was promoted to the position of director of Camp Chi. He has served for a number of years as the Associate Director of Camp Chi, helping to improve the lives of a number of our youngest members at CBJ.
Debbi Green Former Sisterhood president, Debbi Green, recently finished training to become a consultant and has been named a Vice President of Women’s League for Conservative Judaism, the international umbrella organization that supports Conservative Judaism, rabbinic and cantorial students, and the development of leadership skills, education and opportunities for all sisterhood members. She will be serving a three-year term.
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New Membership Programs Beth Judea Announces Exciting New Membership Programs:
Alternative Shabbat Service Alternative Shabbat Service Service Leader: Norm Kurtz
1. Referral Program Gift of Membership 3. STEPS to Membership
Every Shabbat Morning 10:30 am until 11:45 am.
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We're very excited to announce new membership programs for our community! We're making it easy and rewarding for you to help spread the word about our synagogue community to your family, friends and Jewish families that might have moved into the neighborhood! Click Here for Full Details
Planned Giving Is Beth Judea a Part of Your Estate? Help ensure the future of Congregation Beth Judea. From Generation to Generation “Making a Difference in the Lives that Follow”
You are invited to join the Alternative Shabbat Service which meets every Shabbat morning. Our growing interpretive minyan (prayer group) is focused on building community by enjoying a passionate, meaningful, and dynamic Shabbat morning experience. We are innovative, creative and different from the traditional service. We are friendly and welcoming to all. Being nonjudgmental and accessible, we are interested in creating a meaningful spiritual community where joyful prayer and spirited Torah discussion is experienced, accompanied by camaraderie and friendship. Join us for prayer/discussion/ learning and stay after services for Kiddush/lunch with the entire Congregation. We meet in the former youth lounge on the lower level of the Synagogue (which is accessible to the physically challenged) from 10:30 am until 11:45 am. Bring a friend with you. We look forward to welcoming you to our community. Shabbat Shalom,
LIFE IN ISRAEL THE GOODMAN’S BLOG Howie and Suzanne Goodman were valued members at Beth Judea until they decided to make aliyah in 2009. The Goodmans have agreed to provide us with a blog on their experiences as new olim in Israel. Though we continue to miss the Goodmans, we can all look forward to reading about their adventures in Israel through the blog. To learn more about the Goodman’s life in Israel click here to share their experience.
Norm Kurtz Service Leader
For further information: cbjoffice@bethjudea.org
EVERY SHABBAT MORNING Upon three things the world is based: Upon Torah, Upon Divine Service and Upon the Practice of Charity
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Religious Education Eight Day of Hanukkah…Ways to Make Your Hanukkah Brighter Day 1: Jewish Identity What if you had to hide your Jewishness? In Jerusalem under Greek rule, King Antiochus outlawed Judaism. Today, show your Jewish pride! Wear an Israelthemed T shirt, a Jewish star or h˙amsa necklace, a kippah, or a hat/button/sticker with Hebrew writing. Anna Besser Education Director
Day 2: Family The Maccabees worked together to fight for the rights of Jews, with Judah leading them all to an amazing victory. Show your family’s strengths with pictures. Find a frame and glue photographs of your family members all over the frame. Attach a ribbon to the back and display it with pride. Day 3: Dedication The Maccabees had to make the Holy Temple into a Jewish space again. You can show that your home or bedroom is a Jewish space. Hang a special handmade mezuzah on your doorpost. Day 4: Oil Today, candles – and electricity – provide a glowing light, but in Temple days, only pure oil was used to light the 7-branched menorah. If the light went out, there would be no Temple celebrations. Listen to “Light One Candle” and think about what the chorus “Don’t Let the Light Go Out” means. Write that line on a piece of paper and draw a picture of what that line means to you. Day 5: It’s a Miracle What is the miracle of Hanukkah? Is it that the oil lasted 8 days? Is it that the Maccabees were victorious over King Antiochus’s army? Is it both? Either way, the dreidel reminds us of a miracle. Its letters stand for Nes Gadol Haya Sham (A Great Miracle Happened There). Play a game or two of dreidel. All you need is a driedel, some candy or pennies, and the instructions.
Day 6: Jerusalem Can you tell the difference between scenes in Jerusalem, Israel and the United States? Test your instincts online with the game, Poh (Here) or Sham (There). Day 7: Festival of Lights Keep the glow of Hanukkah shining even in the dark. Using glow-in-the dark markers or paints on dark paper, draw pictures that will make you smile when you see them at night with the lights off. Day 8: Eight Each player gets 8 cards. The other cards go in a pile face down. Turn the top card over and put it next to the pile. The first player has to cover that card with one of the same suit or same number. If not, he/she has to take one from the pile. Take turns. Eights are wild, so the player decides the suit. To win, get rid of all your cards! -
Babaganewz.com
Hag Hanukkah Same’ach - Happy Hanukkah to you and to your whole family!
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Religious Education CBJ SCHOOL DATES TO REMEMBER
BJE Early Childhood Centers Registration for 2017-2018
December 2016 Event
Time
Aleph-Dalet Family 6:15 pm Shabbat Dinner Sisterhood Hanukkah Students will be able to 11 attend AFTER classes Bazaar 9
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Gimel Field Trip
4:15 – 6:15 pm
No Gimel Shabbat / No Religious School
Saturday. Dec. 17 – Sunday, Jan. 1
(Winter Break)
No Beyahad Classes (Winter Break)
Mondays, Dec. 19, 26 & Monday, Jan. 2
January 3
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Registration for our 2017-2018 school year began in November. Schedule a visit to one of our classes: New Steps (parent/caregiver and toddler), More Steps (2 year olds), Kadima (3 year olds) and Pre-K, and learn about our amazing curriculum. Call us at 847-634-0363 to begin your child’s preschool journey. Come and see what we’re all about!
Event
Religious School Classes Resume
Registration at the Board of Jewish Education Early Childhood Center at Beth Judea is well under way.
Time 4:15 – 6:15 pm (Aleph – Dalet) 6:15 – 8:00pm (Heh)
__________________________ SAVE THE DATE ESCAPE TO SUMMER PARTY
Gimel Shabbat Resumes 9:00 am – 12:00 pm Sunday School Classes Resume
Sunday, February 26, 2017 9:00 am – 12:00 pm
3:00 pm – 5:30 pm
6:30 – 8:30pm
Board of Jewish Education Early Childhood Centers Event
Kindergarten – Second Grade 9
Beyahad Classes Resume (Temple Chai location)
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Gimel Shabbat & Luncheon
Luncheon from 12:00 – 1:00 pm
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Bet Family Program
Parents join in at 10:30 am
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Dalet Shabbat
9:30 am
Dalet leading Sanctuary service
K-1st Grade Family Program
Parents join in at 10:30 am
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ADULT EDUCATION Welcome to our Adult Education Series. To register for classes or to find out more information, please contact Anna Besser at abesser@bethjudea.org.
Adult Education Series December 2016
Melton: Core Year 1 (there are still a few more spots available) Taught by Rabbi Pivo & Rabbi Gordon CORE YEAR 1: Rythms of Jewish Living & Purposes of Jewish Living Wednesday Evenings, 7:00 pm Dates: Now through May 10 (Winter Break – No Class: December 21 & 28) LOCATION: CONGREGATION BETH JUDEA
Lunch & Learn: Jewish Food Ethics Taught by Rabbi Pivo Bring lunch and an appetite for discussion as we examine what it means to create a Jewish food ethic. Together we will learn about modern eco-kashrut, mindful eating, and how Kashrut can fit into our lifestyles. Monday, 12:00 pm – 1:15 pm Dates: Nov. 7 – Dec. 12, 2016 LOCATION: Sunset Foods 2nd Floor Conference Room (corner of Rt. 83 & Aptakisic) COST: Members – FREE; Non-Members - $18 for series OR $5 per session Bring Your Own Lunch
Hebrew Classes in progress - Schedule for December Ulpan 1
Ulpan 2
Taught by Lee Goldberg Thursday evenings; 8:00 pm – 9:00 pm Now through May 18, 20177 December Schedule: Dec. 15 only
Taught by Lee Goldberg Thursday evenings; 6:30 – 7:30 pm Now through May 18, 20177 December Schedule: Dec. 15 only
Torah Reading
Hebrew Literacy 1
Taught by Hazzan Weisberg Now through May 18, 20177 December Schedule: Dec. 6, 13, 20, 27
Sponsored by Men’s Club Taught by Jerry Sakol & Eric Yegelwel Tuesday evenings; 8:00 – 9:00 pm Now through Jan 24, 2017 December Schedule: Dec. 6. 13. 20 & 27 Graduation – Friday Night Kabbalat Shabbat (January 27, 2017)
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ADULT EDUCATION WEEKLY CLASSES: These classes are ongoing. Please join at any time. Hebrew is not required for any of these classes, unless specifically noted.
Israel Matters Taught by Hazzan Weisberg Join Hazzan Weisberg in gaining a better understanding of the newest challenges and opportunities arising for Israel as well as its neighbors. What Jewish values and religious principles can be seen when Israel’s leaders are dealing with the Palestinians, with the growing number of Islamic extremist groups, with the Arab world, with the greater international community? Tuesday mornings after minyan (8:30 –9:15 am)
Diving Into Talmud: Grappling with Life, Law and Innovation Taught by Orin Rotman
The Talmud is a profoundly rich compilation of wisdom that has continued relevance to our contemporary search for meaning. It addresses eternal questions of ethics, human nature and our relationship to the Divine. Participate in a lively discussion of the Talmud and its relevance for us today. No prior knowledge required and texts will be provided. (Artscroll Schottenstein edition is used for the class) Sunday mornings at 8 am
Sweet Taste of Torah: Psalms Taught by Orin Rotman For thousands of years Judaism has been interpreting and applying the Torah to everyday life. This class follows the Tanach cycle. Each week we will read through several chapters a week of the Nevim (Prophets) texts, then on to Ketuvim (Writings), then back to Torah again.
Wednesday evenings at 8 pm
SHABBAT CLASSES: These Saturday morning classes are ongoing. Please join at any time. Hebrew is not required for any of these classes, unless specifically noted.
Weekly Parsha Study
Alternative Shabbat Service
Facilitated by Orin Rotman
Facilitated by Norm Kurtz
Weekly study to discuss the parsha of the week. We will discuss questions raised by the participants.
Norm Kurtz facilitates this Shabbat morning service that focuses on building community by enjoying a passionate, meaningful and dynamic Shabbat morning experience. Join this innovative creative and different minyan each Shabbat morning at 10:30 am in Room 1.
Shabbat morning at 9:00 am every Shabbat morning
Shabbat morning at 10:30 am every Shabbat morning
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Youth
WHAT’S UP IN THE WORLD OF OUR YOUTH??? Is this really our country??? When first reading the opening to this article many would believe that it would be about the most recent, incredibly divisive, election we just had. We all know that this election has brought about some incredibly harsh rhetoric on both sides of the aisle and awakened fear in many people. Additionally, there is real concern from our teens about what this election will mean for their futures. All that being said, I would like to focus on the reverse side of what this election has done. Recently on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and a number of other places, impromptu #bekind or #kindessmatters campaigns have been popping up. So much of the election season was filled with hate, bickering, anger, name calling, and vitriol. After such a bitter campaign season, it is difficult to sometimes detach from all the divisiveness and come back together as a country. I am by no means trying to explain that we should simply forget about everything that has happened, quite the contrary. I think that we need to battle the overt hate and bitterness with kindness. I recently faced a situation at the public school where I work. I was approached by an 8th grader who came in the day after the election upset, and he approached me very matter of factly to let me know that there was a good chance I may not see him anymore. When I asked him why he explained to me that he was Mexican, and that he is probably getting deported (he shared that his parents were not here legally even though he was born here). I found myself in a horrible situation of not necessarily being able to tell him that everything would be ok and that he would be just fine. I simply did not have that answer to give him. I found myself explaining to him how great of a young man he was and no matter what the situation, I was sure he would handle it in the best possible way and approach it with a positive attitude. My point by this story is not to try to take a stand when it comes to politics or even judge either side. I am also not trying to normalize a situation that is different than one faced in our country in my lifetime. Instead, I realized that we need to do more on the micro level within our own communities to spread kindness in the face of hatred and divisiveness. In the days since the election I have seen such an outpouring of positive messages and support for various groups and people by complete strangers. I have seen public schools welcome students in the doors with positive messages and words of encouragement. I have seen our own teens come together and discuss a very difficult time for them in a mature way and make promises to support each other no matter what. I have seen our teens transform a weekend shortly after the election into a place where everybody felt included and everybody felt welcomed. There is much more kindness in the world than hate. Our world is by no means as dark as what the last 18 months may have shown, and now, more than ever, is the time to show that to everybody.
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Youth Is this really our country??? (continued) In the days since the election I have seen such an outpouring of positive messages and support for various groups and people by complete strangers. I have seen public schools welcome students in the doors with positive messages and words of encouragement. I have seen our own teens come together and discuss a very difficult time for them in a mature way and make promises to support each other no matter what. I have seen our teens transform a weekend shortly after the election into a place where everybody felt included and everybody felt welcomed. There is much more kindness in the world than hate. Our world is by no means as dark as what the last 18 months may have shown, and now, more than ever, is the time to show that to everybody. I urge each and every one of you to go forward and #bekind to all those around you and show everybody in your life, from your closest friends and families to the complete strangers that #kindness matters. Remember, you can always stay up to date with all things BJUSY throughout the entire year by visiting our new and improved website www.bethjudeausy.weebly.com as well as our calendar http://tinyurl.com/BJUSYcalendar. You can sign up for membership by going to http://tinyurl.com/bethjudeayouth. B’Shalom,
UPCOMING PROGRAMS
Marc Sender Youth Director Dec. 10 - Youth Led Shabbat Office: (847)-634-0777 ext. 114 Cell: (847)-334-8639 Email: YouthDirector@bethjudea.org www.bethjudeausy.weebly.com Sign up for membership at http://tinyurl.com/bethjudeayouth Check us out on Facebook and Twitter! Please consider making a donation to the Youth Fund or Rachel Hirshman Fund to help USYers go to regional programs and Israel
Ongoing House Wish List: Below is a list of top need items that we would still love for the Youth House. There is also a link to a live document that can give an ongoing list of needs. Feel free to continue to shop our registries at Target and Bed Bath and Beyond for specific needs. As always, gift cards to places like Target purchased from the synagogue are a great way to help us out twice!!! Youth House Wish List Items needed for the youth house: Microwave (received – thank you) 6. 2nd Knife Block set Vacuum Cleaner (received – thank you) 7. Glass Bowls (received-thank you) Dustbuster® (received – thank you) 8. Silverware Drawer Organizers (received–thank you) Purple Bathroom Set 9. Area Rugs Kitchen Towels (received thank you) 10. Ping Pong Table (received – delivered in August) 11. First Aid Kit Thank You. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
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Youth Special D’var Torah given by CHUSY President Liat Wasserman at the recent CHUSYfest convention: When I sat down to write this a week ago, I couldn’t help but wonder if I would be talking to constituents of a nation that had elected Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton. I like to write my dvars [sic] about the present, about things that will be applicable to everyone right now, and this time is no exception. Yet, I realized that my instinct to talk about elections was very telling. This instinct is telling of the fact that I have really not focused on any other domestic issues lately other than elections, let alone focused on any foreign policy issues. And I am guilty, because any time I was asked about why I was supporting one candidate over the other I jumped to reasoning based for the most part upon heavily circulated quotes, scandals, and news headliners. I think it’s safe to say that I forgot to delegate some focus to the specific issues that matter, and act upon it. I think that many of us just wanted to do something this week. We wanted to yell at the TV screen. We wanted to protest. We wanted to call out any person on the side that wasn’t our own. However, it is my belief that at some point you have to stop shouting into the void that is Facebook and start evaluating your own biases. You have to use ethical reasoning to determine the next steps, to come to a realization about how YOU will actually change something beyond typing a rant or fuming any time you see an election map. This distinction, in essence, is what makes someone an activist as opposed to someone who demands change but won’t pursue it. In this week’s haftorah, it is said, “Now youths shall become tired and weary, and young men shall stumble. But those who put their hope in the Lord shall renew [their] vigor, they shall raise wings as eagles; they shall run and not weary, they shall walk and not tire.” Those who invest in the future are those who are ultimately successful, regardless of current circumstances.
To reflect on our convention theme, the late ‘60s was a time of great political division in the US, and overseas we were involved in a very complicated war. US citizens began to rise up when they didn’t support this war and had school walkouts, they started peace movements, they protested at the DNC. Concrete action was taken by those who were unhappy with the outcomes they had received, and those years ended up going down in history as one of the most influential time periods ever. 2016 will undoubtedly will go down the same way, too, and hopefully for the right reasons. Because beyond the elections, the world is a crazy place that needs crazy people like us to defend it. Only a few weeks ago, the president of the Philippines called for the execution of drug abusers in his country, saying that “If Germany had Hitler, the Philippines will have me.” If this should concern anyone, it should most definitely concern Jews who every year say never again. Ultimately, just like the people of the ‘60s, we should open our eyes to what is happening beyond what media popularizes as being important and beyond just presidential campaigns. We should work to change the bad not because of the party we are part of, or the red or blue we bleed, but because of our place as Jews and as people. Not everyone needs to take action in the same way or for the same reason, but I hope that everyone at least considers their place in a world where nothing is certain. I know that I have a long way to go, don’t worry. And if you’re afraid to be who you are right now, take a look around and realize that you have a room full of people who would love to give you a hug. Your feelings are valid, and I hope to see a world full of caring people like you one day. Shabbat Shalom.
Congratulations: BJUSY would like to extend a special congratulations to our very own youth committee member, Brad Finkel. Brad recently was promoted to the position of director of Camp Chi. He has served for a number of years as the Associate Director of Camp Chi, helping to improve the lives of a number of our youngest members at CBJ. Everyone in the BJUSY family would 20 like to extend a hearty mazel tov to Brad on a well-deserved promotion, and we look forward to many more years of the amazing impact he will make on our children and teens.
Sisterhood Heidi and I hope that all our Beth Judea sisters enjoyed some special family time and shared your gratitude for good health and friendship on Thanksgiving. We both appreciate your support and are grateful to serve this wonderful community! We want to take this opportunity to congratulate former Sisterhood president, Debbi Green, who recently finished the training to become a consultant and has been named a Vice President of Women’s League for Conservative Judaism, the international umbrella organization that supports Conservative Judaism, rabbinic and cantorial students, and the development of leadership skills, education and opportunities for all sisterhood members. She will be serving a three-year term. In November book club members who read Women Hold Up Half the Sky, visited the Illinois Holocaust Museum to view the current exhibit that highlights the plight of women around the world and the struggle for appropriate health care and equal education as well as the work being done to end all types of slavery. Joining the group was Karen Stramich, RN from Condell Hospital who is specially trained to help sexual assault victims. Karen spoke briefly at our November meeting. We learned that sex trafficking, slavery and abuse happens right in our own back yard. That is why services like SHALVA and WINGS are so important and need our support. Please remember to consider donating when making your yearend contributions! Looking forward to seeing you soon, Kitty and Heidi, your Sisterhood Copresidents Contact Kitty Hoffman mskitty.hoffman@gmail.com, or Heidi Sakol heidis121@yahoo.com for more nformation or to get involved.
UPCOMING PROGRAMS: October 2016 – May 2017 PADS – become December is filled with many Sisterhood activities we hope you be a part of. a volunteer October – May December 10 & 11, 2016 Volunteer for the Hanukkah Bazaar December 11, 2016 (Sunday) Hanukkah Bazaar The Hanukkah Bazaar is Sunday, Dec 11 – be sure to come out and shop! But the Gift Shop ladies could use your help with the set-up, sale and clean up too. That way you get to make your selections early. Please contact Ann Lerman to help. December 13, 2016 (Tuesday) Sisterhood Board Meeting (2nd Tuesday of the month) Please join us for our regular sisterhood meeting. Andrea Heiger, our Education VP, will be sharing pictures and her thoughts on her recent visit to Women’s League offices and Jewish Theological Seminary in New York. We look forward to Andrea’s insights on all the wonderful opportunities offered to sisterhood members, and the support that Women’s League provides the Conservative movement, JTS and its students. December 15, 2016 (Thursday) Sisterhood Book Club Shelter Us – an inspirational novel about Jewish values and what it means to live with meaning, purpose and compassion. December 18, 2016 (Sunday) Judaic Arts Program Bring your design ideas to create a beautiful fused glass mezuzah. Details and registration is available through the flier in the WORD. December 28, 2016 (Wednesday) Sisterhood Hanukkah Party You should have already received your e-vite. We look forward to sharing family recipes and stories and a good laugh with the While Elephant gift exchange. Please join us. January 7, 2017 Sisterhood Shabbat Phyllis Udany is leading the team for Sisterhood Shabbat, January 7th. Please contact her with your desire to participate. There are many opportunities to share your English and Hebrew skills. It’s a wonderful way to feel part of Sisterhood, CBJ 21 and something bigger.
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SISTERHOOD BOOK CLUB Thursday, December 15, 2016 – 7:30 pm
Come Join Us As We Discuss SHELTER US by Laura Nicole Diam
An inspirational novel about Jewish values and what it means to live with meaning, purpose, and compassion. Sarah Shaw is a lawyer-turned-stayhome-mom struggling to raise two Shelter Us young sons while grieving the death suggests that of an infant daughter. Judaism’s power is not in providing firm answers but rather in guiding us how to act while we are alive. Inspired by the Torah, one of the thirty-six parashiyot that include the directive “to take care of the stranger” & the strong connection with her late mother, who had modeled this value, Laura’s mother’s legacy spured her on helping develop the fabric of this novel.
While driving in Los Angeles one day, Sarah sees a homeless mother and child and makes it her mission to save them.
The daughter of a secular father and converted-Jewish mother, Sarah turns toward Judaism for guidance, much as she relied on Jewish rituals upon the sudden death of her mother years before. Recalling her mother's emphasis on "welcoming the stranger," Sarah is emboldened to approach the young homeless woman, despite her husband's admonition not to get involved.
Beth Judea Sisterhood Judaic Arts Program Design and craft a fused glass mezuzah Sunday, December 18, 2016 1:00-3:00pm Gallery's Choice Studio 926 Warren Ave. - Downers Grove, IL We will meet at Beth Judea at noon and car pool to the studio or you are welcome to meet us there. Cost per project: $20 (You can make more than one) Klaf (Kosher scroll to place inside the mezuzah) available for purchase from the Sisterhood Gift Shop. Online registration and prepay via a credit card by using the link below: Go to www.GallerysChoice.com Select MEETUPS AND GROUPS (top left) Select SISTERHOOD MEZUZAHS class Add the Mezuzah class to your "bag" Add the coupon code: MEZUZAH18 Then select shipping method: ONLINE/NO SHIPPING (price reduces to $20) Pay for the class. DONE! For questions, please email Hannah Whitney: Hannahswhitney@gmail.com
All the while, Sarah's son's questions about the death of his baby sister force Sarah to confront what she believes about God, death, and afterlife. In Sarah's lack of certainty, Shelter Us suggests that Judaism's power is not in providing firm answers but rather in guiding us how to act while we are alive. Shelter Us—its title taken from the Hashkiveinu prayer— expresses a mother's fervent longing that her children will be safe, despite the painful knowledge that there are no guarantees.
Book Discussion will be at Brenda Levin’s Home Please RSVP to brendaclevin@yahoo.com This event is open to Sisterhood and CBJ Members
CBJ SISTERHOOD CHANUKAH PARTY Wednesday, December 28, 2016 7:45 pm Join us for a CBJ Sisterhood Chanukah party with stories, recipes, laughs, nosh, and white elephant game. Please RSVP by December 22nd. There is no cost for the event. To RSVP please email Sarah Goldenberg at sarahbgoldenberg@gmail.com Click here for details
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Men’s Club Ladies and Gentlemen of Beth Judea, I would like to take this opportunity to thank all our congregants who helped with the candle packing on Sun. November 13th. We had a great crew of men and women all working together to make short work of a somewhat mundane task. Our crew included:
Barry Bikshorn Robert Fisher Ron Friedman Norm Kurtz Rob Lipka Louis Rabin
Sandy Ramras Jennifer Rosen Orin Rotman Evan Rumack Albert Stark Sandy Victor
I would also like to tip my hat to the staff who took the time to get everything ready. A great amount of work was done by staff ahead of time allowing me to just show up and get things rolling. Thanks to our wonderful staff.
We have some important dates to remember this month:: 12-1-2016:
Men’s Club meeting @ 8:00.
12-3-2016:
Cantor’s Concert
12-17-2016: Lieberman Nursing Home Shabbat Service. Every fourth Saturday, we are blessed with the opportunity to do a beautiful mitzvah. Some of our Men’s Club members go to the Lieberman center and help the residents celebrate Shabbat in their
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synagogue. This is actually one of my favorite activities connected to Men’s Club. If you you are interested, call me or Sandy Ramras for details. 12-24-2016
Hanukkah begins at sundown.
I am especially excited to attend the Cantor’s Concert this month. We will be able to honor a man who has brought great honor to our synagogue. For 30 years, he has been a shining light to all the people he has been in contact with. To me, he has been a great teacher of Hebrew chanting and meaningful prayers for over 20 years. It’s very likely that 90% of what I know and can do are because of him. He has elevated me musically, vocally, and spiritually to a level I could never have achieved without him. The only way I can ever repay all he has done for me is to fan that spark of humanity and ruach and hopefully inspire others to love Hashem. Thank you, Hazzan Weisberg for being my mentor.
I would like to close by wishing everyone a safe and happy celebration of “The Festival of Lights.” Happy Hanukkah everybody. May Hashem’s blessings touch you all. Jerry Sakol
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Men’s Club Tzedakah Fund The Men's Club has made donations from the minyan tzedakah box to: Friends of the IDF (Israel Defense Forces) American Friends of Magen David Adom Jewish National Fund Keshet
We thank all those who have contributed to the tzedakah fund administered by Men's Club.
Men’s Club strives to offer something for everyone. As such, we’re always open to new and creative programming ideas that help Jewish men lead rich and filling Jewish Lives. HELP THE ELDERLY ATTEND SERVICES Once a month, the Beth Judea Men’s Club volunteers at the Lieberman Geriatric Center and helps the elderly get to and from services.
Gift Cards SUPPORT BETH JUDEA BY PURCHASING GIFT CARDS Purchasing gift cards is one of the easiest ways to support Beth Judea. The Congregation earns a rebate from the vendors when you utilize the gift cards, so there is no cost to you. Gift cards can be utilized the same as cash, there are no restrictions. If you are shopping for groceries or clothes, going to a movie or traveling, you can help support our Congregation. Order forms for Gift Cards are available in the office or in the Lobby on Sunday morning. They can be purchased with cash, check, or credit cards (a 2.5% convience fee will be added when paying with a credit card) Click Here to Download Form
MEN’S CLUB MEMBERSHIP APPLICATION
JANUARY 21 – 22, 2017
Cell Phone Drop-Off Box In Synagogue Office! Help domestic abuse victims by donating your old cell phones. Each phone raises money for domestic abuse crisiscounseling services in the Jewish community! SHALVA offers free counseling to Jewish women who are or were in an intimate partner relationship. If you or someone you know needs our help, call 773-583-4673.
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Planned Giving TAX TIME IS ALMOST HERE MAKING A GIFT OF YOUR STOCK IS AN EFFECTIVE WAY TO HELP BETH JUDEA AND AVOID OWING CAPITAL GAINS TAX The end of the year is almost here, with tax time right around the corner. If you own appreciated stock you no longer need and are looking for a way to avoid owing capital gains tax, consider making a gift of your stock as an easy and tax-effective way to help Congregation Beth Judea towards our goal of securing a prosperous future for our upcoming generations. Benefits to you by gifting your appreciated stock to Beth Judea include: Avoid capital gains taxes of 20% or more Receive an income tax deduction for the full amount of your gift Make a meaningful gift with no cash out-of-pocket Capture the value of your stock and end the worrying about market ups and downs Put your gift to work right away for Congregation Beth Judea Please contact Arnie Bender, VP Planned Giving at 847-571-1146 if you need assistance with making a stock transfer. We can provide you with transfer instructions to make your gift easy and effective. Sincerely,
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Arnie Bender Beth Judea VP of Planned Giving
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Donate your appreciated stocks to Beth Judea
You avoid owing capital gains taxes and
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The Helping Hand Plan
The Helping Hand Plan A Project of Congregation Beth Judea Hesed Committee
Do you need some help? Do you need a ride to a doctor’s appointment? Do you need a ride to services at Beth Judea?
WHAT IS THE HELPING HAND PLAN? Beth Judea has a group of volunteers who are ready, willing, and able to lend a hand. Just call or e-mail if you need some assistance. WHO DO I CONTACT TO REQUEST SOME HELP? Please call Larry Wollheim at 847-6349399 or e-mail Larry at lwollheim45@gmail.com or call Rabbi Pivo at 847-634-0777 or e-mail Rabbi Pivo at rabbipivo@bethjudea.org to request help. It’s a Mitzvah to help someone. Please allow us to help you.
You Make A Difference We firmly believe that reaching out to others benefits not only the recipient, but the person providing help as well. This is, without a doubt, a win-win situation for all involved. If you are interested in making a difference, please contact one of the Hesed (Caring) committee members below: Rabbi Pivo Ellene Lammers Wendy Wunsch Evan Rumack
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An Important Announcement CONGREGATION BETH JUDEA HESED (CARING) COMMITTEE The Hesed committee would like to know if you have any difficulties/problems that you would like to discuss with a knowledgeable individual. We have a group of congregants who have been trained or are professionals who would be able to provide a brief consultation with you in order to refer you on for more in-depth assistance. We are also thinking about starting some support groups. We would like to know what you feel your needs are. Please email Ellene Lammers at elammers@comcast.net or call Rabbi Pivo. FOR A LIST OF EMERGENCY HOTLINE NUMBERS, AGENCIES AND RESOURCES click here
We Would Like To Know WE WOULD LIKE TO KNOW . . . . If you are celebrating a life cycle event such as a birth, engagement, or wedding, we would like to know about it so that this milestone can be included in The Word. If you are ill or know someone who is sick, we would like to know about it so that a prayer for recovery can be said, so that the clergy can call or visit, and so that the Hesed (Caring) committee can be notified and be of assistance. If there is a death in your family, we would like to know about it so that we can offer our support, can share this information with our congregation, and so that we can add your loved one to our Yahrzeit records. Please call the synagogue office with this information. Do not assume that someone else will have notified the synagogue staff.
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DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS We wish a very Happy Birthday to the following members of our Beth Judea Family: December 1
Heidi Sakol
December 2
Kim Bauman Leonard Manewith
December 3
Laura Barshefsky Mindy Gold Jerome Gothelf Andrea Hockfield
December 17
James Hyman Jerry Levy Boris Lyubomirsky Robert Muise
December 18
Gary Cortes Johanna Hyman
December 19
Kurt Fliegel Ruby Korn Allyson Marcus Heidi Schrage Robert Schwartz Daniel Silberman
December 4
Renee Malter Natalie Pesin
December 5
Leah Chiprin Harold Rosen
December 20
Rebecca Andreoli Arnold Bender Steven Golberg
December 6
Julie Cohen Carl Weiss
December 21
December 7
Marah Altenberg Kenneth Stolman
Kristie Fingerhut Michael Golde Sheila Koek Neil Margolis
December 22 December 8
Daniel Hyman Ann Lesley Rosen
Harriette Elisco Barbara Pressburger
December 23
December 9
Sharon Harris Eric Marder Randee Weiss
Philip Andreoli Neil Jordan Ronald Kovich Alfred Levinson Neal Resnik
December 10
Jamie Breslaw Jeffrey Brown Mark Sheft David Waitz
December 24
Laurie Ford Rachel Gottfried
December 25
Jeanne Krulewich
Andrew Bauman Beth Silver
December 26
Howard Ganden
December 27
Bruce Darin Arthur Freedman Rita Mathias Maureen Stolman Suzanne Waitz Andrew Zarchy
December 28
Edward Grossman Gary Malkin Jill Marks Tim Scheibe
December 30
Noah Ban Arthur Greenberg Faith Schwartz
December 31
Bonnie Spangler
December 11 December 12
Harvey Brickman Benjamin Dubin Casey Spitz
December 13
Steven Kwasman
December 14
Jeffrey Julis Harold Rothschild Sharon Weil Corey Zussman
December 15
Rebecca Schlichting
December 16
Mitchell Hecht Sharon Shapiro
We encourage you to also contact one another to share in their celebration
NOTE: If your name is missing from the list please contact the synagogue so we can update your information in our files.
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DECEMBER ANNIVERSARIES We wish a very Happy Anniversary to the following members of our Beth Judea Family: December 1
Pamela & Dennis Sender Stacy & Arlen Shub
December 2
Carrie & Michael Shultz
December 3
Myra & Neil Borkan Diane & Howard Gordon Staci & Michael Levy
December 4
Marcie & Alan Marcus Deborah & Howard Tolsky
December 17
Debra & Benjamin Dubin Cheryl & Leonard Levine Margaret & Todd Lichtenstein Arlene & Sanford Moses Sally & David Sherman
December 18
Sandra & Paul Drizner Lynn & Arthur Freedman Erica & Gary Krugel
December 19
Jori & Jay Greenhill Susan & Aaron Hershinow Lois & Stewart Margolis
December 21
Kathryn & Gary Harris Gayle & Richard Pervos
December 22
Carol & Harold Rosen
December 23
Trudy & Robert Balogh Rachel & Marc Gottfried
December 6
Janice & Michael Schrimmer
December 7
Sharon & John Hoy
December 10
Carol & Sheldon Rubin
December 11
Lisa & Jason Neiman
December 12
Susan & Norman Kronowitz
December 13
Rebecca & Philip Andreoli
December 26
Tammy & Tim Scheibe
December 16
Amy & Ian Goldberg Pamela & Joel Polakow Marny & Brian Schwartz
December 27
Sue-Ellen & Fred Duboe Marla & Bruce Horwitz Joy & Neil Margolis Laura & Stanford Zoller
We encourage you to also contact one another to share in their celebration.
NOTE: If your name is missing from the list please contact the synagogue so we can update your information in our files.
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December Yahrzeits YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AND ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS December 2
Shari Alarcon* Isadore Bikshorn Melvin Bransky Maynard Duboe Alvin H. Friedman* Hyman Holman Davida Mayeroff Murray Pollack* Edythe Rosen* Sara Sherman* Suzanne Stark
Sam Belsky* Philip Bordy Benjamin Carpet* Morrie Finkle Doris Harris Joel LeVine Dorothy Moss* Walter Rice Ruth Sabol Arnost Siegellak Shirley Stern
Dorothy Bikshorn Bernice Boten Fannie Cole* Mildred Freid Stella Hiller* Sally Mangurten Fred Platchek Sam Rizman* Hyman Schechter Sylvia Solomon* Judy Walcer*
December 9
Norman Abrams* Lionel Brazen Melvin Dolgin Sol Feinberg Rhonda Gerchikov Judith Hafley Anita Kreisman Muriel Landy Enid Levsky Enrique Ribot Anna Schechter Bette Segal
Jeanne Babbitt* Jean Brenghause* Bernard Ellis* Fredrick Fleiss Danielle Goldberg* Sophie Harvis* Joseph Kronowitz Rose Lettvin Samuel Jay Mandel* Herbert Rosenblatt Sam Schneider Irving Tolsky
Sylvia Bordy Sylvia Dammers* Blanche Elvove* H.R. Ford Robert Grossman Ethel Kaplan Lena Kronowitz Walter Levi* Scot Patner* Sol Rubin Harold Schwartz* Larry Weinberger*
December 16
Florence Balfour* Bernard Epton Lynn Clifford Golberg Jack Hoffman Rae Kaufman Ellyn Lockwood Donald Maslov Rivka Polakow Marvin Rosenberg Silvie Serbin* David Skerker* Louis Stein*
Hyman Drory Don Fischoff Samuel Gold* Harry Isenberg Bertha Kravitz* Irwin Mandelblatt Pearl Palmer Sylvia Rabin Louis Schnabel Phyllis Shatz* Frieda Skerker* Sydney Witlin*
Martin Dubin Anna Fuhrman* Martin Heller* Florence Kanter* Ida Levin Morrie Mangurten Khaim Pesin Marvin Rose* Sidney Schwartz* Sarah Singer* Elsa Spitz Jack Zussman*
December 23
Rochelle Adelman Ann Bernstein* Celia Burg* Moshe Elbaum* Nathan Gladstein* Clara Kersky* Harold Mayeroff Dorothy Patt Pearl Rizman* Ben Shugan Sidney Stark Rose Toch* Robert Weiss Helene Yassinger
Nathan Ander Frieda Borenstein Bruce Clorfene Michael Feldman* Charlotte Guttenberg* Herman Leavitt* Gail Moffett Benjamin Levi Plaut Florence Robinson* Jack Singer* Rose Steiner Florence Wasserman Gilbert Wernick
Esther Bergman* Pearl Brickman* Lawrence Elauser Nathan Finn Lee (Lena) Meyer Katz* Fern LeVine Esther Morgenstein* Sidney Prosansky* Sam Rubenstein* Dr. Maurice Slivnick Sofia Sznaper* Bessie Weiner* Charles Wolf*
December 30
Bernice Altman Louis Elisco Sandra Fox Louis Goldberg Arline Holman Elynor Klein* Mae Mandel Jacqueline Pollard Maurice Settler Peter Stark Newton Truger* Max Zakaman*
Carly Berns* Ruth Fagan* Jack Frost Beverly Guttenberg Bella Jacobs Helen Lindenbaum* Emanuel Pearl Joseph Pressburger Yisrael Shalem Janet Thomas Edward Warman
Lillian Elgenson Asna Fagin* Abraham Fuhrman* Max Halperin* Doris Kalina Hyman Loeb* Sylvia Polakow* Frances Schwartz Lisa Shiffers William Toch* Harry Weinstein*
* Denotes the deceased has a yahrzeit plaque. If you are interested in purchasing a plaque please contact the synagogue office.
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January Yahrzeits YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AND ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS January 6
Margaret Atlas Mildred Berngard Samuel Chiet* Martin Garson* Joseph Green Joe Koek Irwin Lipka Bruce Minnick Lewis Pervosky Sylvia Rubin* Gertrude Salzenstein Faye Singer* Louis Vicker* Leona Wolf* Samuel Zablen*
Fannie Barasch Robert Allan Brown Maxwell Clamage Harvey Gold Sol Kaufman* Israel Levine* Stephanie Lustig* Sophie Momet Diana Ratskoff Muriel Sachsel Mabelle Schero Harriet Sumner* Bernard Weisel* Abe Wolinsky*
Violet Barrier* Elizabeth Buff Ruth Duboe Jeri Ann Goldman Audrey Kirst Marilyn Levit Barry Mark Gertrude Trudy Paley Philip Rockwell Theodore Sakol* Rose Schwartz* Toby Charlene Swichkow* Mildred Wittlin* Tillie Yublosky*
January 13
Erwin Berenson Sam Chibnik Carol Feldman* Lillian Goroff* Mollie Kleinman Fannie Orloff Jane Reisberg Ruth Rotman Bessie Shavitz* Samuel Silver Rickey Turovitz
Richard Brown Samuel Cooper* Jane Friedland* Sandee Grossman Marvin Miller Maury Platt* Dr. Jack Rizman* Michael Schwartz Harvey Shiffman* Celia Spivak* Joyce Zolt
Robert Buhai Samuel Dicker Ida Glickman* Samuel Kanter* Betsy Mosak Michelle Rappaport Sherwin Rosenfeld* Ilse Sender* Larry Silver* Sylvia Travis*
January 20
Harriet Ament Merle Bauer Alfred Feiger Lorin Greenberg Linda Katz Shirley Kriegler* Michael Linderman* Lorraine Margolis Fred Moskowitz Ida Polansky Irene Sandler* Robert Silverstone Evelyn Weisel*
Dorothy Aronoff Daniel Brown Andrea Gordon Bernice Gross* Joseph Kolner* Ruth Kurtz* Arlen Litwin Harry Minnick Seymour Nagel David Resnick * Morris Sherman* June Walcer* Shirley Wolf*
Irving Babbitt Irving Coady* Marilyn Gould Hannah Hockfield* Sol Kravitz* Ann Linderman* Mina Magarici Herman Morgenstein* Louis Newman* Berel Sales* Tillie Shore Morris Weiner*
January 27
Ralph Barnett Alexander Davis* Harry Fleiss James Glickman Irving Levy* Philip Meltzer* Irene Ramras Harvey Schmall
Lauri Bauer Herman Feldman* William Frankel* Herbert Kahn Louis Lifshitz* Janice Pivo Joseph Rosenfeld* Milton Silverstein*
Walter Berkley* Mark Fine Janette Friedman Seymour Klein* Louis Margolis Darrell Pollack* Bernice Rothenberg* Hilda Tominberg*
* Denotes the deceased has a yahrzeit plaque. If you are interested in purchasing a plaque please contact the synagogue office.
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TRIBUTES FOR AN EXPLANATION OF THESE FUNDS, PLEASE SEE OUR WEBSITE PRAYERS HAVE BEEN SAID FOR THE RECOVERY OF: Robert Abrams Barbara Cohen Michael Emanuel Mario Jedwabnik Cyndi Levin Mike Malter Renee Malter Peter Pick Max Randell Claire Rothnagel Linda Stark CONDOLENCES UPON THE DEATH OF: Marilyn Balan Our Congregant Harvey Bregman Father of Michael Bregman Debby Cortes Wife of Gary Cortes Mother of Natalie Gurin Ruth Shirley Weiner Jacobs Grandmother of Kenneth Redfern Susan Rosenbloom Sister-in-law of Lee Brown Aunt of Lisa Neiman Merle Shuman Mother of Marah Altenberg Marjorie Zarchy Mother of Andrew Zarchy
RABBI LIFSHITZ DISCRETIONARY FUND UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Gerald Hauser Ilene Hauser
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CONGRATULATIONS TO: Birth: Rebecca & Phil Andreoli upon the birth of their son and Lauri & Stan Rosenbloom and Cindy Andreoli upon the birth of their grandson, Jake Sullivan Andreoli Rhonda & Bob Schwartz upon the birth of their grandson and Jessica & Todd Block upon the birth of their nephew, Matthew Miyagi Schwartz Karri & Howard Spiegel upon the birth of their grandson, Caleb James Elkins
RABBI PIVO DISCRETIONARY FUND IN APPRECIATION OF: Congregation Beth Judea Staff for being there for us during the shiva of my mother, Arlene Ganden and for their support during this difficult time. Howard Ganden & Family Rabbi Pivo for the beautiful baby naming. Bonnie & Myron Glickman Rabbi Pivo for all of your support. Marlene & Jerome Gothelf
RABBI LIFSHITZ LEGACY FUND
IN HONOR OF: Rebecca & Phil Andreoli upon the birth of their son, Jake Sullivan Andreoli. Jeanie & Michael Rosenfeld
UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Nathan Ander, our beloved father & papa. Carol & Craig Levin
Lauri & Stan Rosenbloom upon the birth of their grandson, Jake Sullivan Andreoli. Susan & Marvin Adleman
Muriel Landy, beloved mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Barbara & Jeffrey Julis
SPEEDY RECOVERY WISHES TO: Esther Mosak Susan Adleman
UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Judith Hafley Roberta & Edward Ginsberg CHESED FUND IN APPRECIATION OF: The Chesed Committee for everything they did during the Ganden Shiva. You were exceptional and were a great comfort in so many ways. Jay Waitzman & Family
Beverly Goldstein Eva Rosenberg Gene Garlin Sophie Sherman In memory of our beloved family. Judy & Glenn Goldstein
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TRIBUTES CANTOR WEISBERG DISCRETIONARY FUND IN APPRECIATION OF: Cantor Weisberg for all of your support. Marlene & Jerome Gothelf Congregation Beth Judea Staff for being there for us during the shiva of my mother, Arlene Ganden and for their support during this difficult time. Howard Ganden & Family IN HONOR OF: Hazzan Roger Weisberg upon his 30th anniversary with Beth Judea. Congratulations. Kim & Joel Abern Suzanne & Howie Goodman Lori, Gary, Danny, Jason & Hannah Thalheimer IN MEMORY OF: Arlene Ganden, beloved mother of Howard & Diane Ganden and Family. Joan & Lew Smith UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Beverly Goldstein Eva Rosenberg Gene Garlin Sophie Sherman In memory of our beloved family. Judy & Glenn Goldstein Stella Hiller, beloved mother. Ellene Lammers Sol Rubin Roberta & Andrew Zarchy
GENERAL FUND IN APPRECIATION OF: Congregation Beth Judea for allowing me to worship with my family during the High Holidays. Elliott Landau IN MEMORY OF: Debby Cortes, beloved mother of Natalie & Brian Gurin and Family. With our deepest condolences. Rita & Sid Mathias Arlene Ganden, beloved mother of Howard & Diane Ganden and Family. With our deepest condolences. Rita & Sid Mathias Nadine & Mark Needel David Rebnord & Marilyn Green Rebnord Arlene Ganden, our beloved sister and aunt. Rita Waitzman Jay, Karen & Steven Waitzman Susan Rosenbloom, beloved aunt of Lisa & Jason Neiman and Family. Ellen & Jeffrey Gluskin Karen & Philip Nagel Karri & Howard Spiegel UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Sally Mangurten, beloved mother & grandmother. Michael, Susan, Lauren & Steven Mangurten
CAMP RAMAH FUND IN MEMORY OF: Debby Cortes, beloved mother of Natalie & Brian Gurin and Family. May her memory be for a blessing. Susan & Marvin Adleman Jean, Larry, Molly, Lauren & Charlie Appel Bobbie & Floyd Babbitt Jean & Ron Friedman Dana & Ken Goldstein and Family Debbie & Ron Kovich Debbie, David & Hayley Posner Heidi & Jerry Sakol Joan & Lew Smith Chuck Walcer Ruth Weiner Jacobs, beloved grandmother of Beth & Ken Redfern and Family. Jean, Larry, Molly, Lauren & Charlie Appel Merle Shuman, beloved mother of Marah & Jon Altenberg and Family. Jean, Larry, Molly, Lauren & Charlie Appel Susan Rosenbloom, beloved aunt of Lisa & Jason Neiman and Family. Jean, Larry, Molly, Lauren & Charlie Appel UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Benjamin L. Plaut, in loving memory. Susan & Marvin Adleman
Sally Tepper, beloved mother. Renee Brown George Uhler Roberta & Bill Uhler
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TRIBUTES PRAYER BOOK FUND
EDUCATION FUND
SOCIAL ACTION FUND
IN MEMORY OF: Debby Cortes, beloved mother of Natalie & Brian Gurin and Family. Sherry & Marty Krawitz
SPEEDY RECOVERY WISHES TO: Esther Mosak Balogh Family
UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Lee Meyer Katz, remembered with love, appreciation and respect. Missed so much! Family of Stephen Katz & Barbara Buhai
UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Bernard Epton Teri & Owen Pulver and Family Leonard Heller, in loving memory. Fran Heller, Jodi Schechter & Family Irving Tolsky Deborah & Howard Tolsky and Family KIDDUSH FUND IN HONOR OF: Lauri & Stan Rosenbloom upon the birth of their grandson, Jake Sullivan Andreoli. Janet & Myron Reicher FAMILIES WITH YOUNG CHILDREN FUND IN APPRECIATION OF: Bruce Darin for his leadership with the Gan program. Bonnie & Ira Sender IN MEMORY OF: Arlene Ganden, beloved mother of Howard & Diane Ganden and Family. Lee & Arnie Goldberg UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Kathryn Ferrari Joel & Pam Polakow and Family Charlotte Goldberg Lee & Arnie Goldberg
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IN MEMORY OF: Marilyn Balan, with our deepest condolences. Balogh Family Debby Cortes, beloved mother of Natalie & Brian Gurin and Family. Balogh Family Renee & Wes Brown Alyssa, Jim, Zach, Ariella & Talia Duvel Marlene & Stacy Sachs Bonnie & Ira Sender Gail Gerber & Eric Yegelwel Robert Elster, with our deepest condolences. Marlene & Stacy Sachs Arlene Ganden, beloved mother of Howard & Diane Ganden and Family. Balogh Family Jayme & Gary Ernsteen Dana & Ken Goldstein Evy & Irv Gurin Karri & Howard Spiegel Gail Gerber & Eric Yegelwel Larry Mandel, with our deepest condolences. Balogh Family
LINDA & ALBERT STARK FUND IN MEMORY OF: Debby Cortes, beloved mother of Natalie & Brian Gurin and Family. Linda & Albert Stark
USY/KADIMA SCHOLARSHIP FUND IN HONOR OF: Sheryl & Michael Bauer upon the birth of their granddaughter, Ella Madelyn Goldstein. Mitch & Ann Lerman and Family Barb & Jim Hyman upon the birth of their grandson, Isaac Brody Hyman. Mitch & Ann Lerman and Family IN MEMORY OF: Arlene Ganden, beloved mother of Howard & Diane Ganden and Family. Mitch & Ann Lerman and Family Heidi & Jerry Sakol
UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Brenda Chait, beloved sister and aunt. Marlene & Stacy Sachs
Merle Shuman, beloved mother of Marah & Jon Altenberg and Family. Dana & Ken Goldstein and Family
Esther Halperin, beloved mother & grandmother. Meyer Halperin Family
UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Michael Hoffman Kitty & Bruce Hoffman
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TRIBUTES JERRY BERENSON MEMORIAL FUND UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Jerry Berenson, in loving memory of a wonderful father. Mitch Berenson & Family Sarah Singer, in loving memory of a wonderful grandmother. Mitch Berenson & Family
JACK RIZMAN MEMORIAL FUND UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Sam Rizman, in loving memory of our wonderful father-in-law, grandfather and great grandfather. Susie Rizman & Family
JUDY WALCER MEMORIAL FUND MICHAEL PEARL MEMORIAL FUND UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Morrie Mangurten, in loving memory of our beloved father and grandfather. Thalheimer Family Sally Mangurten, in loving memory of our beloved mother and grandmother. Thalheimer Family
IN MEMORY OF: Merle Shuman, beloved mother of Marah & Jon Altenberg and Family. Chuck Walcer UPON THE YAHRZEIT OF: Jean Davis Chuck Walcer Judy Walcer, beloved friend. Louise & Lou Barnett Judy Walcer Chuck Walcer
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CONGREGATION BETH JUDEA 5304 RFD Long Grove, IL 60047 (847) 634-0777 E-Mail: info@bethjudea.org Website: http://www.BethJudea.org Rabbi Jeff Pivo Rabbi Emeritus Howard Lifshitz Cantor Roger J. Weisberg President Arnie Goldberg Executive Director Lisa Neiman Educational Director Anna Besser Youth Director Marc Sender Editor Evan Rumack
From The Editors In order for your article to be published in the next issue, we must have it at the synagogue by the 10th of the month! There will be no exceptions. This includes information on disk as well. We need your article as it is important to let the congregation know what your group is doing. Announcements should take the form of articles in The Word rather than separate flyers. The opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the Rabbi, Board of Directors or the editors.
Worship Schedule Conducted by Rabbi Jeff Pivo and Cantor Roger J. Weisberg Shabbat Evening Services ........................................ 7:30 p.m. Shabbat Morning Services ....................................... 9:30 a.m. Gan Shabbat – Shabbat Mornings ............................ 10:30 a.m. Alternative Shabbat Service (Interpretive Minyan).. 10:30 a.m.
Candle Lighting Times Candle Lighting time is calculated for 18 minutes before sunset and is adjusted for Daylight Savings Time. December 2 ............................................................ 4:02 pm December 9 ........................................................... 4:02 pm December 16 ........................................................... 4:03 pm
Weekday Morning Minyan: Sunday .................................................................. . 9:00 a.m. Monday ................................................................ 6:15 a.m. Tuesday through Friday ........................................ 7:30 a.m.
December 23 ........................................................... 4:06 pm
Weekday Evening Minyan: Monday through Thursday .................................... 7:30 p.m.
See Inside For Hanukkah Candle Lighting Times
December 30 ........................................................... 4:11 pm
The Blessing For Lighting The Candles On Shabbat is Bo-ruch A-tah Ado-nai E-lo-hei-nu Melech Ha-olam A-sher Ki-de-sha-nu Be-mitz-vo-tav Vi-tzi-va-nu Le-had-lik Ner Shel Shabbat.
Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the universe, who has hallowed us through His Commandments, and has commanded us to kindle the lights of the holy Sabbath.