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PURIM SERVICES WEDNESDAY, MARCH 4 4:30 pm to Kasakove Play Date & PJ 6:00 pm Library Purim Experience 6:45 pm Maariv Service; Reading of the Megillah by our teens; and Purimspiel THURSDAY, MARCH 5 6:30 am Shacharit service for Purim, including reading the Megillah
Our ANNUAL PURIM CAMPAIGN sends beautiful Purim cards, while fulfilling the mitzvah of Matanot L’Evyonim, helping those whose needs are greater than our own. Questions? Call 914-235-2700, ext. 221. Order deadline: Friday, February 13.
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ONE SYNAGOGUE - MANY SERVICES Beth El Synagogue Center 1324 North Avenue New Rochelle, NY 10804-2190 (914) 235-2700 www.bethelnr.org
A Conservative synagogue affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism Rabbi Melvin N. Sirner Hazzan Jamie Gloth Associate Cantor Uri Aqua Assistant Rabbi Joshua Dorsch Cantor Emeritus Lawrence Avery Hazzan Emeritus Farid Dardashti Executive Director Erica Leventhal Controller Olivier Vogel Day Camp Director Julie Rockowitz Maintenance Director Milton Sinclair Nursery School Director Ronnie Becher Religious School & Youth Activities Dir. Jen Vegh Special Projects Director Linda Newman
OFFICERS President Executive Vice President Vice President Vice President Vice President Treasurer Financial Secretary Recording Secretary
Samuel E. Berger Geralynn C. Reifer Daniel Burton Mark Seidenfeld Mark Silver Joseph Wygoda Debbie Young Sandy Gruenberg
AFFILIATE OFFICERS Sisterhood President Barbara Horowitz Men’s Club Co-Presidents Robert Levine Steven L. Young Parent Organization Ellen Barlis, Rachel Casanova, Marci Marcus
BULLETIN COMMITTEE Editor & Production Assistant Editors
February 7, 10:45 am 10:15 am Pre-Service Oneg 10:45 am Torah for Tots Family Kehillah Service; clergy visitor: Rabbi Melvin N. Sirner February 14, 10:45 am Birthday Shabbat 10:15 am Pre-Service Oneg 10:45 am Torah for Tots Family Kehillah Service; clergy visitor: Hazzan Jamie Gloth February 21, 10:45 am 10:15 am Pre-Service Oneg 10:45 am Torah for Tots Family Kehillah Service clergy visitor: Rabbi Josh Dorsch February 28, 10:45 am 10:15 am Pre-Service Oneg 10:45 am Torah for Tots Family Kehillah Service; clergy visitor: Cantor Uri Aqua • Torah for Tots: Birth - Kindergarten in the Wiener Lounge • Family Kehillah Service in the Levenson Chapel
Linda Newman Michelle Levy Blaustein Jack Gruenberg Steven L. Young
EDITORIAL BOARD Rabbi Melvin N. Sirner Samuel E. Berger Hazzan Jamie Gloth Erica Leventhal Steven L. Young
The Bulletin Vol. 97, No. 6
Shabbat Youth Services
February 2015 Shevat ~ Adar 5775
Please visit the Beth El Synagogue Center website, www.bethelnr.org for the most current information on meetings and events. To send us a message, e-mail info@bethelnr.org.
Daily Minyan Beth El maintains morning and evening services every day of the year. Contact Associate Cantor Uri Aqua, 914-235-2700, ext. 222.
Shabbat Discussion Group Services take place in the Bess and Nathan P. Jacobs Library from 10:30 am to 12:00 noon. Participants gain a better understanding of the Shabbat morning service through study and discussion of individual prayers and the weekly Torah portion. Other relevant topics are also discussed. Contact: Jack Gruenberg jackgruenberg@gmail.com FEBRUARY 14, 21 I n S h a b b a t S . P. A . C . E . (Synagogue Play Activities Children’s Environment), offered weekly on Shabbat, children are supervised by child-care providers in a safe and fun environment, be with their friends, and play with Shabbatfriendly games and toys. No food is allowed in Shabbat S.P.A.C.E., allergy-aware snacks and water are available. If your child has any allergies, please alert the supervisor in the Kasakove. An American Sign Language interpreter will be provided upon request.
Visit us on facebook at www.facebook.com/ BethElSynagogueCenter On Shabbat and Yom Tov, the telephone in the main office is available only for physicians answering electronic pagers, and not for other purposes.
Shacharit
Saturdays – 9:00 am Sundays – 8:00 am Mondays and Thursdays – 6:55 am Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Fridays – 7:00 am
Evening Minyan Times Mincha and Maariv February 1 – 13 5:00 pm 14 – 20 5:15 pm 21 – 28 5:30 pm 2
Cemetery Grave & Plot Availability Beth El Synagogue Center has sections at Mt. Eden and Sharon Gardens Cemeteries (both in Valhalla), in which graves and plots are available for members and their families. (A plot is made up of four graves.) For information, call the office, 914-235-2700, ext. 223/226.
Men’s Club World-Wide Wrap Sunday, February 1 8:00 am
Learn how to put on t’fillin, or practice with us. Extra sets of t’fillin are available for those who need it. Afterwards, join Men’s Club for some breakfast!
Limmud Presents Dorothy and Hyman Shanok Scholar-in-Residence Weekend FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 6 & SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 7
with Rabbi Ethan Tucker Friday evening, February 6 • 5:00
Open to men and women!
SAVE THESE DATES . . .
Friday, June 12, to Sunday, June 14 BETH EL KALLAH This multi-generational Shabbaton is an opportunity to come together and celebrate Shabbat in a camp setting with ruach, learning, and fun! Visit www.bethelnr.org/kallah for more information.
Rabbi Ethan Tucker
Carlebach-Style Kabbalat Shabbat Service, at which Rabbi Tucker will deliver a short D’var Torah. • 6:00 pm O n e g S h a b b a t , w i t h w i n e a n d h o t hors d’oeuvres. This is an opportunity to informally schmooze with Rabbi Tucker. • 6:30 pm Dinner (Reservations required by Feb. 2). • 7:30 pm Presentation (no reservations needed) on “Where Love Meets Condescension: Understanding the Actions of Others.” pm
Saturday, February 7
• D’var Torah for Parashat Yitro at morning service • 12:45 pm We will have a one hour study session following Kiddush lunch. • 5:00 pm Mincha/Maariv Service • 5:45 pm Rabbi Tucker will teach during Seudah Shlisheit.
For additional details about this weekend and to register for the dinner, please visit bethelnr.org/scholar, or call the office at 914-235-2700, ext. 223.
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RABBI’S MESSAGE Regardless of the season of the year, Israel is always in the heart and on the mind of the Jew. Rabbi I have been thinking Melvin N. Sirner of Israel and travel to there as I prepare to depart later this month with some twenty-four fellow travelers from Beth El. We have been planning and looking forward to this trip for some time, and with the month of February here, our travel date is rapidly approaching. We are a wonderful mix of those who are visiting Israel for the first time; some of us have been to Israel many years ago; and others who have traveled
to Israel many times and look forward to being back and enjoying new and special experiences. Just a week or two ago, we at Beth El also had the opportunity to offer good wishes to a large contingent of Solomon Schechter students travelling to Israel. For some time it has been Schechter practice that the eighth grade travel for two weeks as sort of a bar/bat mitzvah gift given to each other. The twelfth grade at Schechter High School has departed for a two-month study/travel program and we publicly recognized these young people on the eve of their departure. There is one other series of Israel experiences that I wish to call to your attention. Early February opens enrollment
for the many Birthright trips that are available to college and post-colleges students. Many young people from our community have had wonderful experiences on these trips and I urge others to consider these remarkable opportunities. Registration for Summer 2015 opens on Tuesday, February 3rd. Registration is 100% riskfree. Visit israeloutdoors.com, e-mail info@ israeloutdoors.com, or call 202-537-0006. A trip to Israel is always meaningful, and I urge all who have not gone, or not for a long time, to consider such an opportunity. You will be enriched and inspired! Best wishes, Melvin N. Sirner, Rabbi
NOTES FROM THE HAZZAN The flexibility of Judaism is often absolutely amazing to me. Despite what one may think, even the strictest of observances may be modified or even discarded in certain circumstances. Sometimes, we are even commanded to break a normally unbreakable rule. In an emergency involving human life, one is exempted from observing the Shabbat. When no wine is available, one may still recite Kiddush over bread or, in some cases, even beer. On Yom Kippur, someone who is ill is commanded to eat, as
Join Hazzan Gloth on SHABBAT, FEBRUARY 7 th , at 12:45 pm , for an informal get together. We will sing old Shabbat morning favorites as well as some new tunes. No registration or sign up. You do not need to have a good voice or be fluent in Hebrew. Anyone can come! You just have to love to sing.
are pregnant women. While worship in the company of a minyan is desirable, one may still pray at home alone. The Baal Shem Tov once ordered his congregation to eat on Yom Kippur because a plague was raging in his country. Another great Hasidic master, in the late nineteenth century, ordered his congregation to bring money to the synagogue on Yom Kippur to pay a ransom for the lives of two Jews of that community being held captive by the Czar. And we will never forget how Israel defended herself from attacks from Egypt and Syria on the holiest of all days during the Yom Kippur War in 1973. But music is an important part of Jewish life that cannot be discarded. It is often the framework within which Jewish ritual exists. In most cases, it cannot be omitted, even if we decide it should be. It is forbidden merely to read the words of the Torah during the service. They must be chanted. Talmudic study is impossible without the singsong intonations which mark question, conjecture, and answer. What would be left of “Kol Nidrei” without its powerful and moving melody? How could we usher in the Sabbath Bride by just reciting the refrain “L’cha Dodi”? Can you imagine merely reading the words of the Shabbat Kiddush? What would a Jewish wedding be without festive music? 4
And how could we recite the memorial prayer, “El Maleh Rahamim,” without its haunting and Hazzan Jamie Gloth mournful chant? Music plays a unique and important role in the life of the Jew. It enhances our lives in everything we do. We study, pray, mourn, and celebrate in the language of music. It has no boundaries and it speaks to us all. Tunes may vary or change, but they are always present. Music is a part of everything that is Jewish in our lives. What amazes me most about Judaism is the power of its music. It continually moves me to reach out towards God, and it has moved me to become a hazzan. And so I ask for two things from you. First: Join with me in singing during the service. I am not a cantorial soloist, but rather a hazzan. I am merely leading the service, but we are all praying together as active participants. And second: Give me feedback and suggestions. If you like a specific melody, please let me know. If you want to try something new, let me know that as well. I need your input. May music continue to be the framework of all our Jewish lives, and the power that allows us to move us closer to God. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Hazzan Jamie Gloth
PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE LET’S CELEBRATE WITH THE SIRNERS IN MAY 2015!!! Dear Friends, I think everyone would agree that the hottest topics at Beth El these days revolve around rabbis. As I write this article in mid-January, our Rabbi Search Committee continues to diligently pursue the awesome task of finding a new rabbi for Beth El. While at the same time, we are working on various ways to celebrate the tremendous impact Rabbi Sirner has had on our community over the last four decades. During the last month, our congregation has had multiple wonderful opportunities to get to know two rabbinical candidates— Rabbi Ron Fish and Rabbi David Schuck. While each of these weekends appeared to run easily, it was only because of the tremendous continued efforts of our Rabbi Search Committee. Simultaneously while searching for a successor, big plans are being made to recognize Rabbi Sirner. I am sure that Rabbi Sirner would prefer to ride quietly into the sunset, hand in hand with Lenore, with no fanfare whatsoever, because he would say that he was only doing his job for over the past four decades. That said, we would be remiss if we didn’t give them the send off they so richly deserve. To that end, we have been hard at work creating a variety of events through which people can come and participate, and express their gratitude for his years of devotion. On behalf of the three committee co-chairs—Aaron Fleishaker, Ellen Arad, and Jack Gruenberg—I would like to explain what is being planned.
Sirner’s heart. To complete the event, our very own Jack Wertheimer, the Joseph and Martha Mendelson Professor of American Jewish History at the Jewish Theological Seminary, will serve as moderator for this Samuel E. Berger very distinguished panel. The discussion will begin at 7:30 pm, followed by a light dessert reception. FRIDAY EVENING MAY 29: KABBALAT SHABBAT, MAARIV, AND COMMUNITY-WIDE DINNER Come join us for a spirited Kabbalat Shabbat and Ma’ariv, service, followed by a very special community-wide dinner. Let us sit together, as family, around the Shabbat table, and joyously celebrate our rabbi, and take pride in the community we have built together. SATURDAY MORNING MAY 30: SPECIAL SHABBAT SERVICES AND KIDDUSH LUNCHEON Has Rabbi Sirner officiated at a lifecycle event for you? Did he officiate at your bris? Simchat Bat? Bar or Bat Mitzvah? Wedding? Yes?? Well, if so, we want to know about it, and give you an aliyah on Shabbat morning May 30th. Don’t worry about how we’re going to fit hundreds of people on the bimah at once. You just show up. We’ll do the rest. And, after a meaningful and moving Shabbat service, we’ll have a Kiddush like nobody’s business, complete with dancing in the aisles. This is a once in a lifetime event, not to be missed for sure.
WEDNESDAY EVENING MAY 6: PANEL DISCUSSION IN HONOR OF RABBI MELVIN SIRNER TOPIC: THE CONDITION OF AMERICAN JEW— CURRENT PATTERNS AND FUTURE PROSPECTS Come, listen, and have a chance to ask questions, as three of America’s leading scholars weigh in on this thought provoking topic.
SUNDAY EVENING MAY 31: OUR GALA, HONORING RABBI MELVIN AND LENORE SIRNER Our celebration will culminate with an incredible evening of paying tribute to the Sirners. This will not be like our traditional Dinner Dances. This year, there will be no other honorees and our focus will be on the impact the Sirners have had on Beth El for over fortythree years. Please mark your calendars for an incredible evening.
STEVEN BAYME, Director of the Contemporary Jewish Life department of the American Jewish Committee; STEVEN COHEN, Research Professor of Jewish Social Policy at HUC-JIR; and a leading sociologist whose research focuses on the American Jewish community; and, ALISA KURSHAN, Executive Vice President for Community Planning and Agency Resources for UJA Federation of New York.
So there you have it. Of course, many more details will be forthcoming. We hope that you will join us at all of these events to celebrate the life and work of our wonderful Rabbi Sirner. While some planning is already under way, we could use some help! If you want to get involved, please let us know. We would love to have you. See you in shul, Sam
These experts will each bring their unique perspective as they invite us to explore this topic that is so near and dear to Rabbi
Chesed Community News Community: “A group of people who share a common interest or philosophy.” Our Chesed Community is here for you when you need the support of your fellow congregants. For shiva meals, rides to the doctor, sukkah building, a seder invitation, and much, much more, your Beth El community opens its heart to be there when you need us. We love to say, “Yes, we would be happy to provide what you need.” To be able to do this, we must periodically replenish our volunteer corps. Can you make a meal once or twice a year? Can you provide a ride when a frail person needs it? Join us in our rewarding endeavors. E-mail either Sandy Gruenberg, gamson36@gmail.com, or Ellen Gelboim, esgelboim@gmail.com, and tell us that you or your teen-aged children would volunteer so that we can all receive the benefits of a Chesed community. We look forward to hearing from you! Thanks! 5
Limmud Programs for February Sunday, February 1 Tuesday, February 3 Tuesday, February 3
5:00 pm 7:40 am 10:00 am
Thursday, February 5
10:00 am
Thursday, February 5 10:00 am Thursday, February 5 6:30 pm Thursday, February 5 7:00 pm Thursday, February 5 7:30 pm Thursday, February 5 8:30 pm Thursday, February 5 8:00 pm Friday, February 6 6:00 pm Friday, February 6 7:30 pm Saturday, February 7 12:45 pm Saturday, February 7 12:45 pm Saturday, February 7 1:00 pm Saturday, February 7 5:00 pm Sunday, February 8 5:00 pm Tuesday, February 10 8:00 pm Thursday, February 12 10:00 am Thursday, February 5 Thursday, February 12 Thursday, February 12 Thursday, February 12 Thursday, February 12 Saturday, February 14 Saturday, February 14 Sunday, February 15 Thursday, February 19
10:00 am 6:30 pm 7:30 pm 8:00 pm 8:30 pm 10:30 am 1:00 pm 5:00 pm 10:00 am
Thursday, February 19 Thursday, February 19 Thursday, February 19 Thursday, February 19 Saturday, February 21 Saturday, February 21 Sunday, February 22 Thursday, February 26
6:30 pm 7:30 pm 8:00 pm 8:30 pm 10:30 am 1:00 pm 5:00 pm 10:00 am
Thursday, February 5 Thursday, February 26 Thursday, February 26 Thursday, February 26 Thursday, February 26 Thursday, February 26 Saturday, February 28
10:00 am 7:00 pm 6:30 pm 7:30 pm 8:00 pm 8:30 pm 8:30 am
Saturday, February 28
1:00 pm
Israeli Dancing, with Cantor Uri Aqua Torah Tuesdays WAJE: Jews for Exegesis: Interpreting the Biblical Text, with Rabbi Molly Karp WAJE: The Prophets: Second Isaiah and Ezekiel, with Rabbi Molly Karp WAJE: Talmud Class Ulpan Beginners, with Miri Ben Avi Talmud Class, with Rabbi Josh Dorsch Ulpan Intermediate, with Miri Ben Avi Ulpan Advanced, with Miri Ben Avi Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad Oneg, followed by dinner (R.S.V.P.),6:30 pm Talk by Scholar Rabbi Ethan Tucker Study Session, with Rabbi Ethan Tucker ShabbaTunes, with Hazzan Jamie Gloth Daf Shevui Discussion, with Rabbi Ethan Tucker Israeli Dancing, with Cantor Uri Aqua Torah on Tap (at Rockwells, in Pelham), with Rabbi Josh Dorsch WAJE: The Prophets: Second Isaiah and Ezekiel, Rabbi Molly Karp WAJE: Talmud Class Ulpan Beginners, with Miri Ben Avi Ulpan Intermediate, with Miri Ben Avi Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad Ulpan Advanced, with Miri Ben Avi Shabbat Discussion, with Jack Gruenberg Daf Shevui Israeli Dancing, with Cantor Uri Aqua WAJE: The Prophets: Second Isaiah and Ezekial, Rabbi Molly Karp Ulpan Beginners, with Miri Ben Avi Ulpan Intermediate, with Miri Ben Avi Choir Rehearsal with Hazzan Ellen Arad Ulpan Advanced, with Miri Ben Avi Shabbat Discussion with Jack Gruenberg Daf Shevui Israeli Dancing, with Cantor Uri Aqua WAJE: The Prophets: Second Isaiah and Ezekiel, Rabbi Molly Karp WAJE: Talmud Class Talmud Class, with Rabbi Josh Dorsch Ulpan Beginners, with Miri Ben Avi Ulpan Intermediate, with Miri Ben Avi Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad Ulpan Advanced, with Miri Ben Avi A Modern Understanding of the Bible, with Rabbi David Blumenfeld, Ph.D. Daf Shevui
Questions? Contact Rabbi Dorsch, 914-235-2700, ext. 260, or jdorsch@bethelnr.org. 6
TORAH ON TAP Tuesday, February 10 8:00 pm at Rockwells, in Pelham
Torah means different things to different people in different places. Why not seek its meaning in a bar? Come join us, off-site, for an opportunity to discuss whatever it is that Torah means to you. There will be an opportunity to ask Rabbi Dorsch, in a very informal setting, any questions that you may have about Judaism, God, Torah, or Israel. Participate in a guided conversation on these topics while socializing with a drink or two. Age 21+. R.S.V.P. to jdorsch@bethelnr.org..
“A Modern Understanding of the Bible” Rabbi David L. Blumenfeld, Ph.D. (Near Eastern Literature and Languages)
“The Esther Scroll” February 28 8:30 am - 9:30 am in the Board Room
Questions abound about this biblical book. The text omits any mention of God. Esther’s name is a derivative of the fertility goddess Ishtar. Mordecai’s name is a Hebrew derivative of the Babylonian god Marduk. There is a surprising absence of Jewish religious practice and none of the Persian annals confirm the historicity of the book. Yet, an entire Talmudic tractate called “Megillah” and the festival of Purim attribute major significance to the ever popular narrative of Queen Esther. Discover why. All are welcome. Future class dates: March 28 Song of Songs April 25 Dead Sea Scrolls May 16 Ruth
BETH EL SHABBAT TABLES Back by popular demand!
Join us on Friday night, March 13, for the BEST Shabbat Dinner ever!! We searched everywhere for a table that was long enough and big enough to fit us all. Since we could not find one, we have come up with a wonderful way for our entire community to connect and spend time together at the Beth El Shabbat Tables (BEST). How does it work? Participating families can choose to be a guest or to host. Every host family will be serving the same dinner and everything will be provided by the synagogue. How much preparation will I have to do? NONE!! The synagogue will provide everything needed for an enjoyable evening: delicious catered Kosher dinner, including dishes and utensils, materials for Shabbat rituals and hosting ideas to create a meaningful, relaxing, and social Shabbat experience. How about our children? Families will be matched according to family ages and interests. How about empty nesters? Families will be matched according to interests. Sounds wonderful, but how much will it cost? $10 per person; children five & under free. Questions? E-mail Jayne Peister at peisterjs@gmail.com, Trisanne Berger at tberger@jmi-inc.com, or call the office at 914-235-2700, ext. 223. To sign up, visit www.bethelnr.org/BEST.
Yiddish Vinkl Fridays, at 1:00 pm All are welcome!
SHABBAT WITH SHIRAT EL Music can reach those parts of the human soul that words alone cannot. An infectious rhythm can make you tap your toes or move your body; a beautiful melody can bring an inexplicable tear to your eye or a lump to your throat. Jewish music, in particular, dates back thousands of years, and is inextricably woven into the fabric of Jewish ritual, culture, and tradition. The first evidence of sacred choral singing in ancient Israel may be inferred from the Torah. After successfully fleeing Egypt through the Sea of Reeds, Moses and Miriam, both Levites, led the men and women of Israel in communal song, as in, “Az Yashir Moshe u’v’nei Yisrael.” This was a spontaneous reaction to Israel’s deliverance from Egypt. King David is credited with the organization of more deliberate groupings of liturgical singers and musicians, and this can be dated back to the time of the Second Temple. The Mishnah (Ar. 2:6) tells us that the Levitical choirs were to be comprised of no fewer than twelve adult male singers, all from the tribe of Levi, and there was no limit to the maximum number of singers. Both the choir and the orchestra (see Psalm 150), were instituted to enhance the sacred service of the Temple. Following the destruction of the Second Temple in 70 C.E., the rabbis abolished the sacrificial rite and its accompanying instrumental and vocal music. And even as most other elements central to the Jewish tradition survived the destruction, the Levites refused to divulge their “trade secrets,” and their musical culture was lost. Still, Jews in the Diaspora longed for the elevating sounds of the choir. During the Middle Ages it was the practice among some Ashkenazi synagogues to allow two singers, known as meshorerim, to provide musical support to the cantor. They would provide pedal tones, and hum harmonic chords to support the cantor’s davening. As early as the sixteenth century, professional synagogue choirs were cropping up all over Europe, singing choral renditions of
Aleinu, Ein Keloheinu, Adon Olam, and more. With emancipation of European Jewry in the ninetenth century, choral music became a staple of the synagogue service and also gave rise to the creation of male a cappella singers in Orthodox synagogues in Germany, following the example of the modern German Orthodox leader, Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch (1808-1888), who introduced a professional choir in Frankfurt. In America, the first synagogue choir was formed in 1818, at New York’s Congregation Shearith Israel. And by the mid 20th century we had reached the high point of liturgical choral music, with compositions incorporated into the service, by such luminaries as A.W. Binder, Max Janowski, Ernest Bloch, and our own Cantor Lawrence Avery, to name just a few. To date, there is a kind of renaissance of Jewish choral music, with new compositions for a variety of venues beyond the synagogue service. On college campuses across America Jewish a cappella groups are burgeoning; Jewish choral groups, such as Zamir and Ha-Zamir, not only perform nationally and internationally, but sponsor festivals and multi-day workshops for amateur and professional choristers alike. Closer to home, Shirat El, Beth El’s volunteer choir, encompasses most, if not all, of the above. Rooted always in authentic Jewish music, our repertoire spans the traditional to the innovative. From concert pieces to congregational singing, we accompany the hazzan with pedal tones and beautiful harmonies. On February 28th, Shirat El will once again provide choral accompaniment to our Shabbat morning service. Come join us as we celebrate Shabbat with joyous song! Better yet, think about becoming a member of our choir! All are welcome; no experience necessary. Just bring your love of Jewish music and a sense of humor. B’shira, Hazzan Ellen Arad
Would you like to have an Aliyah?
We all enjoy speaking mamalochen! Join us every Friday! Speak Yiddish, shmooze, and have fun!
Let our Beth El community share in your joys and your remembrances! Celebrate a special birthday, anniversary, or yahrzeit of a loved one with an aliyah to the Torah.
For further information, contact Bea Freedman, 914-337-8645.
Call Rosalie Cristofalo in the clergy office to set up your honor, 914-235-2700, ext. 228. 7
KERUV KORNER WHEELCHAIRS WELCOMED IN THE MAIN SANCTUARY! Beth El has removed four of the permanent seats in the sanctuary to create two dedicated aisle spots of ample size to accommodate wheelchairs in the last row of permanent seating. (The locations were chosen with safety in mind to assure ease of egress in the event of an emergency.) These spots are currently available to anyone in need and will be reserved for wheelchairs throughout the year, except during the Ten Days of Awe (the “High Holidays”) when the reconfiguring of the sanctuary and safety concerns necessitate a different area be reserved for those in wheelchairs. The Keruv Committee
Report from the Keruv Committee . . . The Keruv Committee has given a lot of thought to the issue of what, if any, barriers exist to participation in Beth El Synagogue Center’s services and programs. We have considered the people who feel they are “outsiders” to synagogue life. One of the best ways to become an “insider” is to volunteer at the synagogue in some capacity. Ask what committees exist and consider where you might be of help. If you don’t know whom to ask, ask me. My e-mail address is below. We have considered the problems of people who might think of themselves as marginal to the Jewish community, such as the physically disabled or the developmentally disabled. We have tried to make the synagogue more accessible for them. We have considered the problems that intermarried couples may experience, and how we could put them more at ease. We have considered the issues confronting gay people in the community and how they feel about synagogue life. We are trying to make all feel comfortable here. Have we done a reasonably good
job? Some of our programs have been well attended and the response has been enthusiastic. Sometimes people have said to me that they appreciate what we do. But we on the committee need to hear more about the problems that people have in coming closer to participating in synagogue activities so that we may work to resolve those issues. I think this may be especially so for the Jews in the community who are minimally active at Beth El. Though they are members of Beth El, they have not found anything that is of interest or has engaged them. And last, there are unaffiliated Jews in the community who don’t see the value of belonging to a synagogue. They may be non-practicing Jews, agnostic in their belief, or unwilling to commit to organized Jewish life. Yet, they consider themselves to be Jewish. How do we reach them? You’ll read more about this subject in future articles. If you would like to have your say on any of these issues, please let me hear from you. Bob Sussman, RBSuss@optonline.net
Did you know . . .Keruv curhe means to bring close, to draw near.
Not hearing as well as you used to? Don’t miss a beat in the sanctuary! Small cell phone-sized amplifiers are now available and integrated with our sound system. They use radio waves to transmit every syllable directly to your ears via earbuds. Use our earbuds or bring your own! The amplifiers are located in the wooden cabinet across from the entrance to the sanctuary. Please speak to an usher for assistance.
Interested in furthering the work of KERUV? JOIN US! E-mail Bob Sussman, rbsuss@optonline.net, or leave a note in the office.
Take advantage of the chair lift in the Main Sanctuary If you (or your guest) receive an honor on the bimah (front stage) and could benefit from a little assistance ascending the steps, please alert Rabbi Sirner’s office, 914-2352700, ext. 228, a day or two in advance. The ushers will be informed so that a member of our maintenance staff can discreetly assist you in using the chair lift as needed. The chair lift is located on the steps, on the right of the sanctuary. It has been used with increased frequency by members of our congregation. Let us give you a lift!
Note to Beth El Members from Keruv about Keruv (“Keruv” = Inclusion) Many of us find warmth, friendship, and community here at Beth El Synagogue Center. For some our synagogue is a second home. But not everyone feels this way. That new face in the back of the sanctuary; the “I think they belong to Beth El, but am not sure” couple at the end of the row; the elderly gentleman tentatively entering Kiddush lunch—some of these folks may not be feeling the warmth. This makes it unlikely that they will return. Among the world’s problems, solving this one is an easy call. YOU are the solution. There is no one else to greet that newcomer. Do it! You’ll make Beth El a warmer place. You’ll feel good about it. And if you are mistaken, if the stranger is, indeed, a Beth El member, utter a “whoops,” introduce yourself, and, voila, make a new synagogue acquaintance. 8
Retirees/Seniors Club On Tuesday, February, 10th, at 9:30 am, after coffee and a nosh, Dr. Peter Feinman, president of the Westchester Society of the American Institute of Archaeology will speak about our rich Israeli Archaeology: The Present is Connected to Our History of the Past. Author of Albright and the Origins of Biblical Archaeology, Dr. Feinman will speak on Biblical and archaeological research in its larger social and intellectual context. Later in the month, join us at on Tuesday, February 24th, at 10:30 am for a morning of opera. Kelli Butler, Coloratura soprano with the Westchester Opera Society, graduate of Purchase College Opera Conservatory, will sing and speak. Mozart, Carmen, Puccini, and La Traviata—What are musical influences? Our morning will end with Nabucco, the chorus of the Hebrew Slaves, followed by a “Questions and Answers” session. R.S.V.P. is a must. Stay for an Italian lunch; $8 per person before February 20th, $10 at the door. Questions? Call, Julie Rockowitz, 914.235.2700, ext.256.
Join Beth El at
WESTCHESTER BROADWAY THEATRE Wednesday, May 6th for West Side Story R.S.V.P. (with a check to Beth El Synagogue Center) to Cheryl Millman at seniors@bethelnr.org, or Julie Rockowitz at 914-2352700, ext. 256, or jrockowitz@ bethelnr.org. Deadline: Tuesday, March 10th.
BETH EL SYNAGOGUE NORTH END SENIOR PROGRAM Wednesday, February 4
Tai Chi with Norma, 10:30 am
Friday, February 6
Zumba with Julie, 10:30 am
Wednesday, February 11
Exercise with Cheryl, 10:30 am Brain Games, 11:15 am
Friday, February 13 Exercise with Cheryl, 10:30 am Keeping Healthy after the Holidays, 11:15 am. Guest speaker Greta Brteska Wednesday, February 18
Exercise with Cheryl, 10:30 am Current Events with Shari, 11:00 am
Friday, February 20
Exercise with Cheryl, 10:30 am Guest speaker David Osborn 11:15 am “The Life of Alfred Dumcombe”
Wednesday, February 25 Exercise with Cheryl, 10:30 am Dental Health as We Age, 11:15 am Guest speaker Dr. Glen Applebaum
Friday, February 27
Zumba with Julie, 10:30 am Guest Speaker Judy Schmeidler My Life’s Story, 11:30 am
All seniors are welcome to attend any of these programs. Programs subject to change. In case of inclement weather, please call 914-235-2700, ext. 223, to make sure the Senior Program is being held.
Nursery School children of Anaf Aleph doing Zumba with our seniors
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Scenes from our Seniors’ Holiday Party
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MEMORIES TO GO: OUR STORIES ABOUT THE TWENTIETH CENTURY This is the fifth in a series of reflective essays written by members of the writing group Memories to Go.
A Catholic Neighbor’s View of Shabbat
by Sheila Mignone
There definitely is a time for everything and to everything there is season under heaven. As fall approaches, I walk the Minuteman Trail through Lexington, Massachusetts, passing by Lincoln, and on to Concord. The fields have been harvested and the brown earth bakes in furrows under the late Indian summer sunshine. An occasional cowbird lands on the fallow land and picks a forgotten husk from the soil, while a large hawk circles overhead searching, searching for a small, furry mouse that can no longer hide under the yellow squash flowers. The air is tranquil and the fields seem to whisper, “we need a rest. We have given you all you need and more, and now we slumber in the warm sunshine.” I walk on through the forest, a new growth, where colonial farms once stood and farmers tilled the soil and ate the fruits of their labors. I think back to spring 2013, and my first trip to Israel, what my people call the Holy Land. We pass through fields of bananas, palm trees, and vegetables and I marvel at the desert, laid low by hard work and determination. I have left the present day pilgrims on the Sea of Galilee. I have eaten the musht, Saint Peter’s fish, at the Kibbutz. I have photographed the large orange and white carp as they swim in the stone pool at the entrance to the church of the loaves and fishes and have wondered if just maybe Jesus and his apostles ate gefilte fish. Now I go forward and complete my trip with an indescribable week with dear friends in Jerusalem. It’s Friday night. We all prepare for Shabbat. Having exited the philharmonic hall in Jerusalem, I find the streets a gay
array of flowers—lilies, roses, carnations. Everyone seems to be carrying flowers. It is Friday, Shabbat, and everyone is rushing home. This is Jerusalem and the Sabbath is about to begin. Ruth and I cut the melon, the apples, the bananas, and the oranges in a glorious fruit salad. The family is coming. Droory, who is Kurdish, will bring a wonderful Kurdish dish, Kubeh Bamya, the recipe of oriental beef filled with semolina, has been handed down through the women of his family. The young children arrive, the teenagers enter in a dramatic fashion, all are beautifully dressed. We will wash our hands in an exquisite double-handled copper pitcher and we will all pray silently. Hummus and baba ghanoush, warm chicken soup, chicken, tabouli salad and a glorious array of vegetables red, green, and orange wait. Sweets overflow the kitchen area—honey, nuts, pastries, and even an apple strudel. The children are blessed; the Kiddush is recited; and the challah is uncovered, broken, and distributed. Each child, blessed and important, will carry on the tradition, will light the candles, will say the prayers, and will, in the future, realize how essential he or she is. It is Shabbat, a time to rest, a time to pray, a time to give thanks. It is a time for family to come together, to cease the daily toils, to realize that, like the fields we tend, we need to rest. As the meal evolves I am overwhelmed with the thought that these beliefs, traditions, and rituals have been passed from parents to children, from place to place, as the Jewish people have wandered for centuries. Each house, in every country, repeats the same thoughts, the same traditions, in the same language. Traditions that give man a reason
for existence; traditions that have passed down through centuries; and have traveled to every part of the world. Traditions and beliefs that Sarah gave to her child, and now Jac and Dianne will give to theirs. We will eat, we will join together in our myriad of heritages, and we will give thanks for all that has been bestowed upon us. Certainly there is a time to plant and a time to uproot. There is a time to work, but there is a time to rest, for we are all the creations of God. As the challah is broken and the prayer recited I realize that even God rested on the seventh day. Jerusalem is quiet. No one is driving around aimlessly, no one is carousing. Stores are closed and in each house on every street the candles are lit, the two challah breads are on the table, the prayers are recited in an ancient language that not everyone understands, but everyone knows. We shall go to sleep with beautiful dreams of friendship and tradition, of love and peace, of religion and conviction, and we shall rest because even God rested on the seventh day. • • • •
And on the seventh day God completed his work that He had done And He rested on the seventh day from all the work He had done And God blessed the seventh day, and he sanctified it Because in it He had rested from all his work that God had created to do.
Shalom.
2014 KOL NIDRE APPEAL ADDENDUM
Beth El Synagogue would like to extend a sincere thank you to all those who contributed to our 2014 Kol Nidre Appeal. Your support of the Beth El community is greatly appreciated and it allows us to continue to provide excellent programs for all. % Ten Percenter: Those who increased their pledge by * Shomrim Society: Those who made a contribution of $1,800 or more. Membership in this society demonstrates a deep commitment to the continuity of services and programs provided by Beth El.
SHOMRIM SOCIETY Mr. Graham Arad and Hazzan Ellen Miller Arad*
a minimum of 10% above their contribution last year.
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THOR WICKSTROM IN THE KANNER-KURZON MUSEUM Saturday, February 21st – Sunday, March 29th Thor Wickstrom, brother-in-law of Beth El member Caroline Shechter Fox, is a full-time artist. He paints landscapes and also works from his imagination. The exhibit at Beth El will highlight his landscapes and cityscapes in oil, based on “plein air” observations from the Berkshires and New York City, and painted entirely on-site. Wickstrom is dedicated to the craft of working from life, responding directly to the world around him, rarely from photographs. He also values working from imagination, and has maintained a separate body of work consisting largely of fanciful cityscapes and subway scenes that capture the emotional ups and downs of city living; the crowd at turns humming with vibrant activity, while sometimes leaving the individual feeling strikingly Big Sky Inwood
Geometry 215th Street Station alone. Over the past several years, Wickstrom has maintained a sprawling studio in a historic mill factory in North Adams, Massachusetts, where there is room for working, teaching, and exhibiting. In 2014, he and his family returned to New York City, where he is enjoying new inspiration for his cityscapes. In the early 1980s he studied painting at the Art Students League, in New York City, with Robert Philipp,
Julian Levy, and Joseph Hirsch. He then went to Paris to study at the Ecole des Beaux Arts. To better understand his craft, he undertook his personal graduate program by copying old masters such as Rembrandt, Rubens, and Titian at the Louvre and Metropolitan museums over a two-year period. He has taught art, including at the Clark Art Institute, in Williamstown, Massachusetts. Wickstrom is also a successful illustrator of children’s books and magazines, however, the exhibition at Beth El will focus solely on his oil paintings. He has exhibited in many places, including the Grand Palais, Salon D’Automne, and Galerie Bruno Martin
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Caille in Paris, The Hudson Mohawk Regional Exhibition, The Society of Illustrators, The National Arts Club, and The Art Students League in New York City. He maintains a website and also sells online. He had no great expectations when he started exhibiting on the Internet, but he has had over 100,000 views in a year and has sold many works through that venue. He recognizes that just as he must paint from a scene in front of him, looking at a reproduction or image is no substitute for experiencing art in person; only in real life can art be truly “seen.” For that, he is grateful for the opportunity to show at Beth El Synagogue Center. The museum is open every weekend. At other times, if the room is locked, please get the key from the Beth El office or from the greeter at the front door. Everyone is invited to the artist’s reception on Sunday afternoon, February 22nd, 2:00 pm - 4:30 pm. The artist will be present to discuss his work.
“Regular and Irregular Art” Exhibit in Musuem until Sunday, February 15th This exhibit has been put together by William (“bil”) Scher, M.D., who did basic biomedical research (for many years, at Mount Sinai School of Medicine) after graduating from medical school and until his retirement. He and his family have been interested in various arts, some of which will be included in this exhibit. Bil did not have formal training, but he was always interested in the visual and other arts and was willing to ask experts for advice whenever he felt the need in order to help carry out any of his ideas. He first made a construction with found objects (shells and ice cream sticks) with his then five-year-old daughter. Since 2009, he has used other found objects that he arranges in various patterns and then photographs. The titles for these constructions may be puns, explanations, or descriptions. This exhibit will also include works by other family members. If you would like to visit please get the key from the Beth El office or from the greeter at the front door.
MEN’S CLUB A Note from Your Men’s Club . . . We are again sponsoring the Purim Cocktails and Karaoke Party on Saturday night, February 28th, from 8:00 pm to 11:00 pm (see cover for details). We will have great food, great booze, and great music! This event is open to all members and guests (21 and older only, of course). This event was a huge success last year and promises to reach the same heights this year. Look for the flyer and e-mail reminders for cost and sign up information. Our Bagel and Shmear monthly meeting is scheduled for Sunday, February 8th, at 9:00 am. Help us plan our upcoming events. Rob Levine and Steven Young, Co-Presidents
We hope you will join us on Sunday, February 1st, for the Men’s Club’s annual World-Wide Wrap, at 8:00 am, as we join thousands of Jews around the world. After the “Wrap,” please stay for a bagel, followed by a teaching about t’fillin by Sofer Adam Gindea. We will partner with the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute, but assist ALL members who want the experience of wearing t’fillin. Whether you put t’fillin on every day and want to help teach others, or you have not done it since your bar or bat mitzvah, please consider joining us. We will have pairs of t’fillin to share and people willing to teach or provide a refresher.
HADASSAH PRESENTS
Men’s Club Meeting
Chase away the winter blues at our gourmet, chef-inspired luncheon
Sunday, February 8th 9:00 am Join us for a bagel and shmear, and help us plan our upcoming events. We need your ideas and your time!
featuring
“A CONVERSATION WITH BERNICE WARD” Monday afternoon, February 16th 12:00 noon You’ll be captivated by Bernice’s passion as she discusses her creative sewing of quilts and tallitot. You’ll find inspiration in the beauty and perfection of her works of art. Join us for a remarkable conversation as you savor a delicious, chef-inspired, buffet luncheon. Support Hadassah and enjoy a special day at the home of Carole Curtis 60 Somerset Road, New Rochelle, N.Y. $25 minimum luncheon donation will benefit Hadassah Hospital Tower campaign Please R.S.V.P. to 914-235-9747. In the event of inclement weather, we will call you to reschedule.
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SISTERHOOD Sisterhood Scene Beth El is fortunate to have an active group of women who work tirelessly to raise funds and plan a variety of programs that enrich synagogue life for all our members, both here at Beth El and in the community. While it may not be considered polite to toot one’s own horn, I think an occasional reminder of some of the contributions that Sisterhood makes on a regular basis is appropriate.
• Torah Fund donations to benefit the Jewish Theological Seminary • Day of Service visits to the United Hebrew Home • Donations to several worthy organizations
For Beth El, we support the following: • Annual Sukkah Kiddush luncheons • Bar/Bat Mitzvah gifts • Library automation • Sisterhood Shabbat • Gift Shop • Special programs for all ages • Major synagogue projects, e.g., computer system and sound system upgrades
Ongoing and special programs to enrich member social life include: • Walking Club • Mah Jongg • Canasta • Book Clubs—morning Bagels & Books and evening Wine & Cheese • Author/Library special programs • Cinema Brunch • Game Night • Mitzvah Knitting • Paid Up Membership Dinner • Trips • Spring Gala
Our Tzedakah projects include: • Financial support and cooking for H.O.P.E. Community Services monthly • Shiva dinners
We are a group of welcoming, warm, wonderful women and we would love to have you join us! Barbara Horowitz, Sisterhood President
New 2015 Sisterhood Mah Jongg Cards available for purchase! Regular size, $8 • Large cards, $9 For every Mah Jongg card Sisterhood sells, we will receive a donation from the National Mah Jongg League. Support your Sisterhood! Contact Arlene Salman at aesalman@aol.com, or 914-235-2485.
Ongoing Programs C A R D R O O M, 12:45 pm: Canasta (Mondays) and Mah Jongg (Tuesdays) meet weekly! WALKING CLUB meets every Monday at 9:30 am for a nice easy walk—not a jog. Everyone is welcome! B AG E L S & B O O K S B O O K C L U B usually meets on the last Monday of the month, at 9:30 am. Join us on February 23rd for All the Light We Cannot See, by.Anthony Doerr. MITZVAH KNITTING meets once a month on Wednesdays. Lessons and supplies are available. Watch for our next date to knit! QUESTIONS? Contact Arlene Salman, aesalman@aol.com, or 914-235-2485.
Tag Sale Sunday, May 3rd 10:00 am – 4:00 pm Goods may be brought to the synagogue office and we will store the items safely until the sale.
Tuesday, February 24th at 7:30 pm Please join us for fun and games! Scrabble, Cards, Mah Jongg, Rummi Kub, Board Games—whatever appeals to you! Bring your own game, or join a group. Light refreshments will be served. No charge! Questions? Contact Carole Graham at carolegraham@optonline.net. R.S.V.P. to bethelnr.org/gamenight. 13
Please join the College-Age Committee Thursday, February 26th 7:30 pm - 9:30 pm at
Beth El
help pack our Purim “care packages” Thank you to everyone who helped us pack for the High Holidays and Hanukkah.
L’Dor VaDor From Generation to Generation A PROGRAM FROM WESTCHESTER JEWISH COMMUNITY SERVICES
An inter-generational literacy program, lead by Jo Kellman, From Generation to Generation has been happening in our award-winning Nursery School since the fall. Members of Beth El have had much pleasure reading to children on a weekly, (or alternate week) basis. If you are interested in connecting with our youngest, please contact Julie Rockowitz at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 256.
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(please mark your calendars for our passover packing on
Thursday March 26th.)
We look forward to seeing you! Debra Ackerman and Lori Schwartz
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NURSERY SCHOOL NEWS Tu BiShvat literally means the fifteenth day of the month of Shevat and it usually falls in January or February. It may be winter for us, but it is the end of the rainy season in Israel and the time when sap has started rising in the trees. In the Nursery School, we celebrate Tu BiShvat as the “birthday of the trees.” Our classrooms resounded with joyous songs about planting and trees. Tu BiShvat gave us an opportunity to read a wide variety of appropriate children’s literature dealing with trees and nature. We recorded the many functions of trees for both humankind and animals. We discussed the parts of the tree. This was especially exciting for the children when we spoke of the Hebrew names for the parts of a tree, since these words correspond to the names of our classes: Roots – Shoresh – 2s classes Trunk – Gezah – 3s classes Branches – Anaf – 4s classes
Children created their own classroom trees and forests using burlap, papier mâché, and assorted recyclables. The variety of materials and finished products were amazing. Many classes conducted their own Tu BiShvat Seder, which gave the children an opportunity to eat fifteen different types of fruits and nuts—those with hard outsides and soft insides (nuts, pineapple, coconuts), those with soft outsides and hard insides (avocado, cherry, peach), those which are totally edible (berries, figs, grapes). Growth and planting gave the Nursery School an early look at what’s to come in the spring. Some children went outside and sketched the trees in our neighborhood, did bark rubbings, and measured the circumference of the tree trunks. The children planted seeds, beans and grass, and graphed and compared their speed of growth. In fact, many of our classes planted parsley which can hopefully be used at our s’darim this
Passover! This “wood related” holiday gave the children a chance to experience our Woodworking Studio. Using real tools (hammers, nails, screw drivers, saws, and drills) the children experimented with their different functions and created unique wood sculptures. Some pictures appear below. Many varieties of bird feeders were made in recognition of Shabbat Shira. In doing this activity, the children made a conscious effort to feed the birds, teaching them both a human value and the Jewish value of kindness to animals. Children are never too young to learn the importance of caring for others. Tu BiShvat is an important holiday for today’s children. As our awareness of the environment becomes more essential to the future of the human race, Tu BiShvat takes on a more global importance. It is not just about spring, trees, and rebirth in Israel; it is about respecting, appreciating, and taking care of nature. Any activities we can do to foster these values transmit the true meaning of Tu BiShvat to our children. Ronnie Becher, Director
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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL NEWS Religious School News We were excited to reunite in January. Our learners are using art, music, movement, games, writing, reading, and a variety of other methods to explore Jewish life and practice their Hebrew reading and comprehension. Our teens spent the end of January learning with Anna Richlin, from the Jewish National Fund, and had an awesome trivia competition about nature and Israel. Our educators participated in professional development, which helps them to rethink communication between themselves, their learners, and the parents. We are looking forward to Tu BiShvat in February—tasting fruits and connecting with the environment. Alef, Bet, and Gimel classes look forward to the Dorothy Fleishaker Dancing Letters program in February, and Gesher will also get the chance to learn from the Jewish National Fund about how the Negev went from a desert to a thriving agricultural community. It’s sure to be a great month!
RELIGIOUS SCHOOL HIGHLIGHTS Sunday, February 1
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute, 8:30 am
Sunday, February 8
Art for Gimel-Vav
Thursday, February 12 Dorothy Fleishaker Dancing Letters Program Sunday, February 15, through Sunday, February 22 Closed for February Break Monday, February 23
Religious School Board Meeting, 8:00 pm
Thursday, February 26 Art for Alef and Bet
Follow the Religious School on Twitter! @bethelrelschool
PHOTOGRAPHS ARE NOT AVAILABLE FOR WEB VIEWING. Jen Vegh visits the Day Schools periodically throughout the year. In January she loved surprising the Carmel Academy students with a visit.
Hebrew through Cooking chug members have made everything from rugelach and tzimmes to hot chocolate and calzones.
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YOUTH NEWS Youth Community Update In January, we held our famous Annual Youth Shabbat. Children and teens from kindergarten through twelfth grade took over the Main Sanctuary service, spreading their energy and enthusiasm through the room. Thank you to the clergy for helping our children and teens to prepare. Special thanks to our youth advisors for helping our Youth Community members to prepare their Parasha Play and commercial. As we enter the month of February, we want to remind you about the Annual Purim Campaign. Each year, Beth El helps our members to fulfill an important mitzvah of Purim—Matanot L’Evyonim, helping those whose needs are greater than our own by contributing to Masorti (the Conservative Movement in Israel, www.masorti.org) and MAZON: A Jewish Response to Hunger (www.mazon.org), and building our Youth Community. You will soon receive a letter with your username and password. Simply log on to purimproject.com to participate. If you have any questions, feel free to contact Jen at jvegh@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext.221. All orders must be placed by Friday, February 13th. Also, the Purim Carnival is BACK and better than ever because we’re going Wild Wild West! Get y’all’s costumes ready because y’all won’t want to miss this year’s Purim Carnival on Sunday, March 1st. To volunteer to help revamp a booth or work on the day of the carnival, please contact the Youth Office. We look forward to seeing you!
YOUTH CAMPING Now you can save! Is your child missing out on Jewish camp for financial reasons? Make 2015 the summer of a lifetime with BunkConnect™. BunkConnect™ offers families the opportunity to access a 40-60% discount at more than seventy-five of the top Jewish overnight camps this summer! Jewish camp makes stronger Jewish communities and develops a deeper engagement for each child—it is a win-win! Bunkconnect.org is a program that the Foundation of Jewish Camps launched last year as a way to make Jewish camp more affordable for families who have not been able to send their kids. Visit www.jewishcamp.org/jointhecampaign for additional information.
Jen’s Corner This month holds one of the four special Shabbatot that are not on a holiday or Rosh Hodesh, but in which Maftir comes from a different parasha. The Shabbat, called Shabbat Shekalim, holds the story of the census of the Israelites. As a way of counting the people, each person brought a contribution of half a shekel (form of currency) which was used to upkeep the Mishkan (the portable temple). This emphasizes the idea of communal responsibility and the importance of tzedakah. Fun fact: When I was in High School, I was Social Action Tikkun Olam (SATO) Vice President in my region of USY and served on the International General Board for SATO. Because of my leadership position, I was part of a meeting of about 30 USYers who met each spring to allocate the Tikkun Olam money that had been raised by USYers all over the United States and Canada. We were each given a huge binder of requests from well over 100 organizations representing incredibly worthy causes. We
were asked to help fund a sensory room for children with special needs and buy chickens for Shabbat for a needy community. We were asked to help in the United States, Israel, South America, and beyond. At 16 years of age, we were empowered to make decisions about how tens of thousands of dollars would be allocated to make a difference in the world. We weren’t just giving, we were in a culture of meaningful giving—we had to align our values with communal needs. Now, think about your family. Do you have a tzedakah box? How often do you add to it? What happens to the money you have in the box? This month, in celebration of Shabbat Shekalim, I encourage you all to take a page out of the USY playbook. Spend some time as a family thinking about what you value and how you can help others based on those values. Then do a little Internet searching and find organizations that match up with your interests. Make this the month when meaningful giving becomes a part of your family culture! Jen Vegh
YOUTH COMMUNITY HIGHLIGHTS Sunday, February 1
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute, 8:30 am
Thursday, February 5
Rosh Hodesh Girls, 6:00 pm-8:00 pm
Saturday, February 7
Ruach & Chaverim Parent Night Out, 8:30 pm-10:30 pm
Sunday, Febrary 8 Ruach, 11:00 am-12:15 pm Friday, February 13
Deadline for Purim Cards
Saturday, February 28
Purim Carnival Set Up, 7:30 pm - 9:30 pm
Watch your e-mail for information about other upcoming Youth Events!
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Our Youth Community “Parent Night Out” dates are approaching. Join us at a local bar for a drink and schmoozing! RUACH & CHAVERIM PARENTS (Kindergarten - 5th grades) Saturday Evening, February 7th 8:30 pm-10:30 pm KADIMA & USY PARENTS (6th-12th grades) Saturday Evening, March 28th 8:30 pm-10:30 pm
REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN FOR SUMMER 2015 Early Bird Deadline: Tuesday, February 10th MONDAY, JUNE 29 - FRIDAY, AUGUST 15 Open Friday, July 3, and Monday, July 6!
To register, visit bethelnr.org/daycamp To arrange a tour, call Julie at 914-235-2700, ext. 256. Questions? E-mail jrockowitz@bethelnr.org.
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Beth El Celebrates February Birthdays Beth El Synagogue Center would like to extend a “Happy Birthday!” to its members with a birthday in the month of February. Please join us for a birthday celebration at Barbara Saunders Adams Rhonda Afran Aaron Afran Salo Aizenberg Graham Arad Gladys Barish Donna Bartell Kenny Berger Jacqueline Bierman Lorraine Branson Robert Brown Jody Burton Isaac Claar Michelle Cohen Isabele Cohen Raymond Coll Janney Collens
Carol Diament Rebecca Dubin Barbara Engelson Paul Freedman Elaine Friedman Cookie Fuchs Cynthia Glickman Joseph Goldberg Shayna Goldfarb Jared Goldfarb Steven Goldman Jennifer Goldman Malcolm Graff Leon Greenspan Sophie Gross Steven Gruenstein Barbara Haber Jonathan Hecht
our Kiddush luncheon on February 14th. If you have a February birthday, but your name does not appear on the list, we are sorry for the omission and we ask that you contact the synagogue at info@bethelnr.org so that we
can update our records. Please also contact us if you do not wish to have your name appear on our birthday list. (The list reflects our adult members and post-bar/bat mitzvah children up to the age of 21.)
Sara Herlands Michael Herman Stephen Herzberg Ronald Herzog Elliot Hollander Gwendolyn Horn Dov Hyman Sam Jablansky Arthur Jakoby Eilene Kahn Deborah Kaplan Jack Katz Bernard Katz Rosalind Kaufman Lynn Buckvar Keltz Ruth Kon Michael Kremins Alexander LaTorraca
Samuel Platek Eva Platzner Jordan Reid Brad Roth George Rozansky David Schustack Judy Schwartz David Schwartz Michael Seidenfeld Talia Seidenfeld David Shechter Barbara Siegel Beth Siegel Emily Silverman Danielle Silverman Ruth Sininsky Charlie Solomon Howard Steinman
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Alan Legatt Shireen Lewis Laura Lewis Howard Loewentheil Lawrence Mandelker Chaya Manning Marci Marcus Linda Mazursky Lois Morgenstern George Morris Debra Morris Steven Newman Julius Oestreicher Henry Olstein Stephen O’Malley Barbara Orans Mindell Patchen Herbert Pearlman
Hilde Stern Alan Stern Rena Strauch Grace Turkewitz Marley Vogel Lori Weber Jeff Weckstein Ronnie Weinberger Ion Weiss Ruth Weiss Jake Wenig Marc Zoldessy Happy Birthday!
FEBRUARY YAHRZEIT DATES
MAZAL TOV
The yahrzeit of the following deceased persons permanently inscribed on our Memorial Walls are observed on these dates:
Newsmakers . . . Mazal tov to:
Abraham Botwinick Dr. David L. Jasper Joseph G. Kalish William Schepp Henry Bernstein Ida B. Desnick Becky Glatman Michael Mayorowitz Benjamin Seidenstein Dr. Judah Somerstein Louis M. Braunstein Ettie Epstein Edythe Fayer Jay Robinson Anna Frankel Murray Glago Harold Morganstern Sarah Honey Galler Irving Levy Josie Schaffer Lewis Arkin Myra Karson Abraham Rosenberg Miriam Werbelosky Grace Wile Sigmund Gruberger Joseph Magenheim Ruth Faye Markel Jack Schiff Harold Tarloff Charles Thier Betty Werblow Joseph Hirsch Chana Kaplan Harry Gingold Nathan Dreizen Al Fried Lillian May Goldstein Walter Werbelosky Marvin Frankel Bernard Striar Joan Wexler Sam Bernstein Joseph Gross Bertrand Lesser
Dr. Perry and Lorraine Branson upon the marriage of their daughter Dr. Brittany Branson to Dr. Michael Kelleher; Steven and Michele Brick upon the birth of granddaughter Eden, and to parents Todd and Danielle Brick and grandparents Corinne and Joel Seltzer; Dov and Linda Hyman upon the marriage of their daughter Rebecca to Bradley Leader, son of Stanley Leader and Stella Preston; David and Harriet Rudnick upon the birth of granddaughter Leia Adele, and to parents Shoshana and Ari Jaffess and grandparents John and Gloria Jaffess; Shireen and Matthew Lewis upon the birth of daughter Isabelle Talia; Sandy and Jack Gruenberg on the birth of grandson Asher Saul, and to parents Yehuda Gruenberg and Orlee Tatarka.
A Warm Beth El Mazal Tov to One and All!!!
Share your milestone events with us! We would like to hear about your engagements, births, graduations, losses, and other events. If you experience a milestone or a loss in your family, please call Rosalie in the clergy office, 914-235-2700, ext. 228, with your news.
Kiddush The Kiddush of January 24th was sponsored by Eunice and Sol Kaplan in honor of their sixty-fifth wedding anniversary. The Kiddush of February 7th will be sponsored by Lynn and Jeffery Lowin and Roberta and David Frank in honor of the aufruf and upcoming marriage of their children Joanna Lowin and Mark Frank.
Do you have a food allergy? If so, please bring it to the attention of our executive director, Erica Leventhal. Please e-mail ELeventhal@bethelnr.org describing your allergy, or call 914-235-2700, ext. 225.
Welcome to the Beth El Community The Levites Family of New Rochelle Daniel and Patricia Stephanie, 18 The Porcelli Family of Yonkers William and Angela Amelia, 6; Victoria, 4 ½
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Sadie Lowenkopf Rose Lesser Nathan Schulman Beatrice Snyder Anna Cohen Philip Newman Rosalind Wechsler Yona Aqua Miriam Belsky Sylvia Ptak Louis M. Shimm Erwin Newman Alice Schwartz Wolf Lebenberg Abraham Streger Samuel Sussman William Wygoda Isidor Cohen John Joseph Garfein David Levine Esther Bub Strum Harry Gorlon Jacob Holman Riva Jaffe Annie Golub Bess Jacobs Betty M. Press Libbie Tecklin Bessie Dreizen Estelle F. Harrison Solomon Kolins Benjamin Morris Faye Koslow Lola Resnick Rabbi Isaac Shanok Herbert Taub Selma Berry Benjamin Fishman Max Fried Mitchell David Katz Dorothy Messite Annette Chabrow Frieda Haimoff Edgar Moses
CONDOLENCES
The Feldman/Morse Family of Eastchester Marc Morse and Karolina Feldman Henriette, 10
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We record with sorrow the losses suffered by our members and friends and extend to them our deepest sympathies. Condolences to: The family of Dr. Norman Posner upon his passing; Jay Goldstein upon the loss of his father, Jerry Goldstein; Karen Herzog upon the loss of her brother Mitchell Schneider; Sandy Stolzberg upon the loss of her brother Marc Hirsch; Jeremy Platek upon the loss of his father, Rabbi Stanley Platek. 19
CONTRIBUTIONS CAPITAL IMPROVEMENT FUND
GENERAL FUND
IN MEMORY OF:
IN HONOR OF:
IN MEMORY OF:
Sylvia Klee, beloved mother of Marc Klee and Richard Klee, from Ella and Russell Fayer.
A generous donation was received from Diane and Eugene Linett.
My beloved mother, Evelyn Silver, on her yahrzeit, from Mark Silver.
SYLVIA AND ROBERT SCHER CHESED COMMUNITY FUND
Amy and the entire Brown family on the birth of Annabelle, from Eric Goldberg.
All our departed loved ones, from Candace and Mark Silver.
Nora Klion-Wolloch and Richard Wolloch on the engagement of their daughter Deena Wolloch, from the Schepp family, and Shari and Marvin Chinitz.
Aziza Mowlem, beloved mother, from Hilary Grad-Goldberg, Mary Salpeter, and Allyn Salpeter.
IN HONOR OF: Sandy Gruenberg and Judy Aqua for their bikur cholim, from Debra Seltzer, Charles Altman, and Jonathan Altman. IN MEMORY OF: Sylvia Aig, beloved mother of Dorothy Fox, from Dr. and Mrs. Gerald Erenberg. Shirley Salzman, beloved mother of Judy Schustack, from Fran and Larry Rubenstein. Jack Radin, beloved father of Ellie Walfish, from Fran and Larry Rubenstein. Norman Posner, beloved father and grandfather, from Marjorie and Mark Seidenfeld. Herbert Legatt, beloved father of Alan Legatt, from Margo Lampert.
THE ANDREW SHAPIRO MEMORIAL FUND IN MEMORY OF: My beloved husband, Ed Shapiro, from Judy Shapiro. Ed Shapiro, beloved husband of Judy Shapiro and father of Larry Shapiro and Douglas Shapiro, from Sylvia and Fred Cohen; Bettina Graf; Ellin and Noel Greenstein; the Singer family; Cathy and Jon Levison; Linda and Harvey Schilowitz; Andrew, Sarah, Layla, and Dylan Grabel; and Jane and Jeff Moross. Alex Hoffer, beloved husband of Edna Hoffer, from Judy Shapiro. Aziza Mowlem, beloved mother Kate Mowlem, from Judy Shapiro. Philip Weintraub, beloved father of Helene Katz, on his first yahrzeit, from Sylvia and Fred Cohen.
Robin and Mitch Kaphan on the engagement of their daughter Ali Kaphan, from the Schepp family. Stanley Batkin on his 100th birthday, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Marty Levitin on his eighty-fifth birthday, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Vicki and Nate Fisher on their fiftieth wedding anniversary, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Nina and Rabbi Eugene Katz on their fiftieth wedding anniversary, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Marjorie and Mark Seidenfeld on their twentyfifth wedding anniversary, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Laurie and Robert Levine on the b’nai mitzvah of their children Sarah and Michael Levine, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Faye and Jack Gingold on the marriage of their daughter Lisa, from Mila and Michael Greenberg. Our nephew Alexander Gruenstein, son of Lynn and Steven Gruenstein, on entering the Israeli army, from Shari and Marvin Chinitz.
YOUTH ACTIVITIES FUND IN HONOR OF: Lisa and Rob Patchen on the bat mitzvah of their daughter Emily, from Tamar and Joe Tait.
THE DOROTHY FLEISHAKER RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND IN HONOR OF: Mrs. Alice Kulak and our continued friendship, from Donald Fleishaker.
PTA LIBRARY FUND IN HONOR OF:
IN MEMORY OF: Sylvia Aig, beloved mother of Dorothy Fox, from Donald Fleishaker.
Sylvia Aig, beloved mother of Dorothy Fox, from Shari and Marvin Chinitz, Susan and Michael Meisler, Barbara and Bob Cohen, and Joyce and Fred Claar. Norman Posner, beloved father and grandfather, from Larry and Robin Osman, the Schepp family, Karen Pottah and Charlotte Goldsmith, and Shari and Marvin Chinitz. Our beloved parents, Jeanette and Jerry Cohen, from Barbara and Bob Cohen. Jerry Goldstein, beloved father and grandfather of the Goldstein family, from Lynne Gearty and Josh Plavner. Irving Luban, beloved father of Nina Luban, from the Schepp family, Debbie and Steven Young, Lois Kohn-Claar and Gary Claar, Shari and Marvin Chinitz, and Barbara and Marc Klee. Herbert Legatt, beloved father of Alan Legatt, from Mitchell Lampert, and Shari and Marvin Chinitz. Joel Selber, beloved father of Blair Selber, from Shari and Marvin Chinitz. Alex Hoffer, beloved husband of Edna Hoffer, from Shari and Marvin Chinitz. Bertha Mandel on her yahrzeit, from Dalia Fenster.
YAHRZEIT/YIZKOR DONATION Sheldon Haber; Beth and Sheldon Weinberg; Susan Gelb; Pearl Sullivan; Esther Zarembski; Susan Goldstein and family; Goldie Newman; Susan and Michael Lurie; George Rozansky; Gladys Barish; Bea Freedman; Marjorie Schlosberg; Bilha and Jerry Gottlieb; Michelle and Howard Cohen; and Karen and Larry Getzler.
THE JEREMY SCHEINFELD MEMORIAL FUND IN MEMORY OF:
The beloved wife of Steve Mandel, from Donald Fleishaker.
Sylvia Aig, beloved mother of Dorothy Fox, from Geralynn and David Reifer.
Herbert Legatt, beloved father of Alan Legatt, from Marjorie and Mark Seidenfeld.
Jerry Goldstein, beloved father of Jay Goldstein, from Joy and Steve Rotker.
IN MEMORY OF:
Joel Selber, beloved father of Blair Selber, from Lois Kahn-Claar and Gary Claar.
Irving Luban, beloved father of Nina Luban, from Sharon and Ira Weiner, and the Jablansky family.
Alex Hoffer, beloved husband of Edna Hoffer, from Elaine and Jack Katz.
Jerry Goldstein, beloved father of Jay Goldstein, from Allison and Jerod Dinkin.
Aziza Mowlem, beloved mother and grandmother, from the Jablansky family.
Proud grandparents Lenore and Rabbi Mevin Sirner on the birth of their grandson Lev Benjamin, from Elaine and Jack Katz. Herman Gordon on his ninety-ninth birthday, from Elaine and Jack Katz.
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CONTRIBUTIONS RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Sheila Tanenbaum in memory of Sylva Aig and Alex Hoffer; Sol and Linda Haber in memory of Sylvia Aig; Tony and Mary Ilardi in memory of Alex Hoffer; Miriam Rabin in memory of Alex Hoffer; Joyce and Mel Meyerson in memory of Max Pohl; Karen and Ronald Herzog in honor of the birth of grandson Lev Benjamin to Rabbi Melvin and Lenore Sirner; Janet and Isaiah Seligman in honor of the birth of grandson Lev Benjamin to Rabbi Melvin and Lenore Sirner; Hilary Grad-Goldberg in memory of father, Harold Grad, upon his yahrzeit; Rita and David Kaufman in memory of their mothers Etta Rosenfeld and Pearl Kaufman upon their yahrzeits; Caryl Fuchs in memory of Sadie Fuchs and Jerry Goldstein; Barbara Saunders-Adams and Samuel Adams in memory of Charles and Selma Saunders; Jacqueline and Avi Einzig; Susan and Jeffrey Mittleman in memory of Beverly Eichen; Vona Herz; Beth Siegel in memory of Dr. Norman Posner and Sylvia Klee; Av Rivel in memory of Herbert Legatt, his parents, and his sister upon their yahrzeits, in memory of Sylvia Aig, in honor of Nate and Vicki Fisher on their fiftieth anniversary, and in honor of Rabbi Eugene and Nina Katz’s fiftieth anniversary; Leora Tanenbaum in honor of her mother Sheila Tanenbaum; Howard Steinman and Barbara Birshtein in memory of Alex Hoffer; Margo Lampert in honor of the birth of grandson Lev Benjamin to Rabbi Melvin and Lenore Sirner; Barry Marcus in memory of George N. Marcus; Murray and Elizabeth Zung in memory of Alan Kent Morse; Emily Marx in memory of her husband, Bernard, upon his yahrzeit; Sheila Mignone; Linda and Martin Silver in memory of their father Raymond Maxim; Faith Liberman; Noah and Julie Rockowitz in memory of Joel Selber and Sylvia Aig; Lynda and Herbert Posner in memory of Jerry Goldstein and Marc Hirsch; Bettina Graf in memory of her niece Susan Glasgall; Esther Zarembski in memory of Susan Glasgall.
HAZZAN DISCRETIONARY FUND In honor of Steven Young and the Beth El clergy for our family’s special honor on the anniversary of our son Benjamin’s bar mitzvah, from Ruth and Amnon Gotian. Shery and Howard Rosenstein on daughter Shayna becoming a Bat Mitzvah. Beth Siegel in memory of Herbert Legatt. In memory of Jerry Goldstein, father of Jay Goldstein.
TEEN EDUCATIONAL EXPERIENCE SCHOLARSHIP FUND
SISTERHOOD MITZVAH FUND
SPECIAL NEEDS FUND
IN HONOR OF:
IN HONOR OF:
Vicki and Nate Fisher on their fiftieth wedding anniversary, from Eunice and Sol Kaplan, Clara Ingwer, and Miriam Rabin.
The engagement of Dr. Alison Kaphan, daughter of Robin and Dr. Mitch Kaphan, to Timothy Coyle, son of Teresa and Timothy Coyle, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.
Lenore and Rabbi Melvin Sirner on the birth of their grandson Lev, from Carole and Jeff Graham, and Clara Ingwer. Lauren Berger and Jay Rehr on the marriage of their son Josh to Elana Jacob, from Joyce and Michael Wechsler, Sandy and Jack Gruenberg, and Miriam Rabin. Edith Geisinger on her ninetieth birthday, from Blanche Fried. Ruth Kon on the birth of her great-granddaughter, from Blanche Fried. Mindy and Stanley Patchen on the bat mitzvah of their granddaughter, from Naomi Raber. Dr. Marjorie and Mark Seidenfeld on their twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, from Sandy and Jack Gruenberg. Richard Wolloch and Nora Klion-Wolloch on the engagement of their daughter Deena to Eliran Mesika, from Blanche Fried. Dr. Jay and Barbara Lerman, on the birth of grandson Jacob, from Carole and Jeff Graham, and Sandy Jack Gruenberg. Linda and Joe Resnick on the birth of their grandson Jacob, from Carol and Paul Freedman. IN MEMORY OF: Alex Hoffer, beloved husband of Edna, from Eunice and Sol Kaplan, Clara Ingwer, Harriet and David Rudnick, Naomi Raber, Erica and Larry Epstein, Blanche Fried, and Joyce and Michael Wechsler. Sylvia Aig, beloved mother of Dorothy Fox, from Blanche Fried, Joyce and Michael Wechsler, and Laura Penn. Irving Luban, beloved father of Nina Luban, from Harriet and David Rudnick. Adele Spenser, beloved mother and mother in-law of Sharon and Dr. Peter Spenser, from Carole and Jeff Graham. Herbert Legatt, beloved father of Dr. Alan Legatt, from Rita and David Kaufman, Joyce and Michael Wechsler, Sandy and Jack Gruenberg, Blanche Fried, Drs. Sharon Schoenholtz and Laurence Hanau, and Carole and Jeff Graham. Dr. Norman Posner, beloved father, from Joyce and Michael Wechsler. Sylvia and Walter Klee, beloved parents of Marc Klee and Richard Klee, from Sandy and Jack Gruenberg, and Drs. Sharon Schoenholtz and Lawrence Hanau.
The engagement of Deena Wolloch, daughter of Nora Klion-Wolloch and Richard Wolloch, to Eliran Mesika, son of Rina and Shlomo Mesika, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. The marriage of Josh Rehr, son of Lauren Berger and Jay Rehr, and Elana Jacob, daughter of Helene and Howard Jacob, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. The thirty-fifth wedding anniversary of Dr. Elise and Barry Richman, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. The bat mitzvah of Emily Patchen, daughter of Dr. Lisa and Robert Patchen, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. The engagement of our daughter Rachel Legatt to Will Merchan, son of Estela and Edssel Merchan, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. IN MEMORY OF: Herbert Haber, dear brother of Dr. Shelley Haber, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Alex Hoffer, dear husband of Edna Hoffer, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Sylvia Aig, dear mother of Dorothy Fox, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Joel Selber, dear father of Blair Selber, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Alan’s dear father, Herbert Legatt, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Dr. Norman Posner, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt, Judy and Hy Harary, and Lynn and Jeffrey Lowin. Irving Luban, dear father of Nina Luban, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Aziza Mowlem, from Lynn and Jeffrey Lowin, Betty Grad-Gross, Louise and Jay Silverman, and Judy and Hy Harary. Herbert Legatt, beloved father of Alan Legatt, from Julie and Noah Rockowitz, Phyllis and Harvey Jay, and Barbara Birshtein and Howard Steinman. The beloved mother of Jeanette Levine, from Bettina Graf.
ZARO SENIOR PROGRAMMING FUND
IN MEMORY OF:
IN MEMORY OF:
Irving Luban, beloved father of Nina Luban, from Susan and George Morris.
Irving Luban, beloved father of Nina Luban, from Lisa and David Iskowitz. 21
CONTRIBUTIONS PTA ISRAEL TRAVEL STUDY FUND
TO MAKE A DONATION
IN HONOR OF: Nora Klion-Wolloch and Richard Wolloch on the engagement of their daughter Deena Wolloch to Eliran Mesika, from Margo Lampert.
Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund and Hazzan’s Discretionary Fund: Make check payable to fund and mail to Rosalie in the clergy’s study.
IN MEMORY OF: Irving Luban, beloved father of Nina Luban, from Erica and Larry Epstein.
PTA Library and PTA Israel Travel Study Funds: Make check payable to individual fund and bring/ send it to Beth El’s office.
MARC FRIED SPECIAL NEEDS RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND IN MEMORY OF:
Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund: Call Miriam Rabin, 632-0917, or mail to 124 Surrey Drive, New Rochelle, N.Y. 10804. Make check payable to Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund.
Mildred Ende, beloved mother of Lois Robertson, from Alan and Wendy Rosenberg. Our beloved grandfather William Nierenberg, from Alan and Wendy Rosenberg. Frances Cutler, our beloved mother, from Alan and Wendy Rosenberg.
All other funds: Make check payable to Beth El Synagogue Center, indicate the fund in the lower left-hand corner, bring your check to the office.
ELEANOR G. BAUMWALD PRAYERBOOK FUND
Minimum contribution, $5 per Bulletin listing for all funds except the Prayerbook Fund. To have a donation card mailed to the recipient, the minimum contribution is $18. Questions? Call Alise Liquorie, ext. 223.
IN MEMORY OF: Norman Posner, a good friend, from Naomi Raber.
BERNICE FELDMAN NURSERY SCHOOL FUND IN MEMORY OF: Our Haldey and Bailey grandparents, from Sabrina and Emil Haldey.
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FEBRUARY 2015 1a SUNDAY
MONDAY
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Men’s Club World-Wide Wrap 8:00 am Bar/Bat Mitzvah Inst. 9:00 am Zumba 9:30 am Sis Executive Board Meeting 10:30 am Israeli Dance 5:00 pm
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Walking Club 9:30 am Canasta 12:45 pm Executive Council 7:00 pm Board of Trustees 8:00 pm
TUESDAY
WEDNESDAY THURSDAY
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Torah Tuesdays, after minyan, 7:30 am (off-site) WAJE:Jews for Exegesis: Interpreting the Biblical Text 10:00 am
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Baby U 10:00 am Seniors 10:30 am Nurs. Sch. Kasakove Playdate 11:45 am
Mahjong 12:45 pm TU BI SHVAT
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Men’s Club Meeting 9:00 am Zumba 9:30 am Ruach 11:00 am
Israeli Dance 5:00 pm
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Walking Club 9:30 am Canasta 12:45 pm Kasakove Play Date 4:30 pm E.L.I. Meeting 5:45 pm
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Religious School Closed Zumba 9:30 am Israeli Dance 5:00 pm
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Mahjong 12:45 pm Sisterh. General Board Meeting 7:30 pm Nursery School Board Meeting 7:30 pm Torah on Tap 8:00 pm (off-site)
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Zumba 9:30 am Chaverim Ice Skating 11:00 am (off-site) Artist’s Reception 2:00 pm Israeli Dance 5:00 pm
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USY 6:00 pm Hebrew Ulpan 6:30 pm Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm
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ROSH HODESH
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Sisterhood Bagels and Books 9:30 am Walking Club 11:30 am Canasta 12:45 pm E.L.I. Meeting 5:45 pm Religious School Board Mtg. 8:00 pm
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Mahjong 12:45 pm
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Baby U 10:00 am Seniors 10:30 am
Sisterhood Game Night 7:30 pm
SHABBAT
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YITRO
Shabbat ends 6:02pm
Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Serv. Oneg 10:15 am Youth Services 10:45 am ShabbaTunes 12:45 pm Study Session 12:45 pm Daf Shevui 1:00 pm RS Night Out 8:00 pm
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Welcoming Chai House Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Serv. Oneg 10:15 am Shab Disc. Grp 10:30 am Youth Services 10:45 am Birthday Shab. 12:00 pm Daf Shevui 1:00 pm SHABBAT SHEKALIM BIRKAT HACHODESH
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Nursery School Closed Nursery and Religious Nursery School Closed Nursery and Religious Nursery School Closed Schools Closed Synagogue Offices Schools Closed Seniors 10:30 am Closed 5:17 pm WAJE: The Prophtets Seniors 10:00 am 10:30 am Walking Club 9:30 am Mahjong 12:45 pm Nurs. Sch. Kasakove Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 pm Hadassah 12:00 pm Play Date 10:30 am (off-site) Hebrew Ulpan 6:30 pm Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm
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Religious School Closed
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Nursery School Photo Seniors 10:30 am Day 9:00 am Yiddish Vinkl WAJE: The Prophtets 5:09 pm 1:00 pm 10:00 am WAJE: Talmud 10:00 am
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FRIDAY
WAJE: The Prophtets Seniors 10:30 am 10:00 am Yiddish Vinkl WAJE: Talmud 10:00 am 1:00 pm 5:00 pm Rosh Hodesh Girls Scholar-in-Residence 6:00 pm Weekend with Rabbi Hebrew Ulpan 6:30 pm Ethan Tucker— Talmud Class 7:30 pm Oneg 6:00 pm Sisterhood Evening Dinner 6:30 pm Wine & Cheese Book Discussion 7:30 pm Club 7:30 pm Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm
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Connect to Care 10:00 am Seniors 10:30 am
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2 ADAR
Shabbat TERUMAH ends 6:18pm
Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 am Shab. Disc. Grp 10:30 am Youth Services 10:45 am Daf Shevui 1:00 pm
ROSH HODESH
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