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EDITOR'S NOTE Happy Beaver Fullmoon in Taurus my Loves! I hope you Lionesses have been enjoying the planetary shifts lately. I can feel the ROAR rising with the #Metoo movement and a global rise of enough is enough. It's really time we stand up collectively and stop behavior that is so detrimental to our society and each other. It makes my heart happy and sad to also see men sharing and opening up about it. I think it's important we come together as a team to heal and bring out the claws of compassion. XO
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FIERCE FEMININE GODDESS Open for submissions
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WE ARE MADE OF STARS Solar forecast & Astrology by Maria Jones
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SELF-LOVE GODDESS By Melissa Kelly
Have you been taking time to nourish yourself Dear One? Are you allowing time to self-care, replenish and love yourself up?! This time of year always makes me go into hibernation mode. It's the time of year to rest and receive. From yourself and others. Do you feel you are creating sacred space in your day to take time out for yourself?
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Do you feel comfortable letting yourself be a priority to YOU? As the leaves fall away from the tree, so do you release all things that no longer serve you. As they change color, so have you through all the growth you have experienced this year. Sometimes we need the down time to catch up with ourselves, ya know?
Allow yourself time to feel the natural rythms of your body and to connect with your heart and what you need. Give yourself permission to say NO to whatever doesn't make your heart sing. Much Love & Aloha
"I AM WORTH CREATING TIME FOR." "IÂ CREATE SACRED SPACE FOR MYSELF EVERYDAY.." "IT IS SAFE TO BE ME.."
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Beth Taylor noise noise noise chaos i become still listening the sound of Earth the animals the spirits the lyre bird mimicking back to me the lies that i tell myself it's time! she demands unlike sister snake you've been shedding layers for a while it needs to happen all at once now! i feel her gentle nudge but hear me goanna girl you've got some thick skin so rise! claw the trees! be free!
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November Astrology This is a month of spiritual awakening and
Just 24 hours later on November 7th, Venus
acceleration with many cosmic cycles coming to a
descends into the underworld as she joins the
close and some very powerful shifts occurring.
Solstar and Jupiter in sultry Scorpio. For the next 3
We begin this Lunar Month with a Full Moon in
weeks, our desires become more intense as we
Taurus on the 4th of November. This Earthy Full
start to crave more meaningful connections and
Moon provides an island of grounding and stability
seek a new level of soul-bearing intimacy within
amidst the sea of Emotion we find ourselves
our partnerships. With Venus donning the cloak of
swimming through with the Sun and Jupiter
the Dark Goddess we become acutely aware of
travelling through the Scorpionic underworld.
what needs to be transformed in our relationship
Lady Luna is exalted in the sign of the Bull, blessing
with others and the self. On the 13th of November,
us with a deeply nourishing and nurturing Full
Venus will conjunct Jupiter creating an
Moon.
atmosphere of love, intimacy, soul healing and
Taurean energy encourages us to take good care of
abundance. This will truly be one of the most
ourselves and to indulge in the physical pleasures
sensual and magical days of the year!
of life. Taurus reminds us of what a gift and honour it is to be here in a body on Earth at this time.
On the 10th of November we have the Last
Seeds and intentions planted at the fertile Taurus
Quarter Moon in Leo. This is the phase of the
New Moon on the 26th of April can now be
Lunar cycle when our energy begins to wane and
harvested.
we naturally feel drawn to turn within and shed the energetic debris of the previous lunar cycle
On the 6th of November, after 3 weeks of
which began with the New Moon in Libra on the
encouraging us to plunge into our psychological
19th of October. This is a good time to reflect upon
depths in the sign of Scorpio, Mercury, the
what you have manifested over the past 4 weeks
messenger, blazes into Sagittarius. This
and what needs to be released as we head towards
encourages us to expand our thinking and opens us
the Dark Moon phase on the 15th of November.
up to receive new insights and wisdom.
What are you ready to let go of?
On 11/11 each year, humanity undergoes a huge
On the 18th of November, we have a bewitching
energy upgrade as new light frequencies pour to
New Moon in Scorpio. With Jupiter and Venus also
earth bringing us the blessing of celestial new
still submerged in the depths of the sign of the
beginnings. It is significant that this year on the
Scorpion and the New Moon making a fluid trine to
11th of November cosmic giants, Saturn and
Chiron the Cosmic Shaman, this is set to be a
Uranus, complete their final trine of a 12-month
Lunation of deep soul healing and profound
cycle which began back on the 26th of December
alchemy. This the perfect day for releasing rituals
2016. This is a pretty much once in a lifetime
and cleansing ceremonies as the Scorpio Moon
transit that has been supporting us in harmonizing
reveals to us what needs to be transformed in our
the old ways of being with our visions for the
minds and hearts before we can birth the new into
future, calling us to restructure our belief systems
our lives.
and habitual ways of being to align the new reality that is being birthed. Lilith, the astrological
The Sun exits the underworld and explodes into
embodiment of the wild, untameable Feminine,
the blinding light of Sagittarius on the 21st of
leaves truth-seeking Sagittarius and heads into
November. The intense emotional energy that has
steady Capricorn on the 18th of November. Lilith
permeated the cosmos for the past month begins
has been transiting Sagittarius since February the
to lighten and faith, hope and optimism begin to
14th 2017, unveiling the truth about how the
return as the Sagittarian vibration encourages us
patriarchy has shamed and stifled the Lilith within
to look at our issues from a higher perspective.
all us of us for thousands of years. As she now shifts into the sign of the cosmic architect, we can
On the 22nd of November, Neptune the Sea God
begin to collectively build a new way of relating to
stations direct after a 5-month retrograde journey.
Lilith and all she represents. Lilith in Capricorn asks us, 'now we have been shown the truth what are we going to do about fixing things?'
Neptune stations often create paradoxical energies of clarity
This is tending to the seeds and intentions we
and delusion, revealing to us where we have been operating
planted at the Scorpio New Moon on the 18th.
under a veil of illusion in our lives, spiritually bypassing, or
How are you actively working to manifest your
denying the truth to ourselves whilst simultaneously creating
desires?
an atmosphere of fog and confusion. This is a day for resting, dreaming and visioning.
On the 1st of December Venus joins the Sun, Mercury and Saturn in the sign of Sagittarius. The
On the 25th of November, Saturn, our Lord of time and
Love Goddess now begins to seek fun and freedom,
Karma makes his final pass of the Galactic Centre. He won’t
instead of commitment and emotional intensity in
return here for another 28 years. Saturn first crossed the
her personal relationships, and the cosmic mood
Galactic Centre between the 16th of March and the 7th of
lightens a little bit more. Just in time for the
May 2017, initiating a profound awakening for many souls.
festive season!
Many of us have felt like we have been resting in the cosmic womb for the past 7 months, as we all spiritually upgraded
The culmination of our Lunar cycle comes on the
and integrated the frequency of the new Earth into our
3rd of December with a chaotic Full Moon In
energy fields. As Saturn Crosses the Galactic Centre once
Gemini. The emotional nature of the Moon
more, we are collectively rebirthed into a higher level of
Goddess and the airy, mental energies of Gemini
awareness. Huge shifts can now take place!
are a celestial mismatch, often creating overstimulation of the mind and nervous system.
The First Quarter Waxing Moon rises in the sky on
When we take into consideration that Mercury,
November 26th. We are now halfway between the New
the ruler of this lunation will also be stationing
Moon and the Full Moon.
retrograde whilst in conjunction with Saturn in Sagittarius today, we can be sure that this Full Moon will call us to activate our deepest soul truths and learn how to communicate them.
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Aries ~ Aries Rising
~ARIES & ARIES RISING~ This month’s energies place the spotlight on your relationships and resources. Jupiter and Venus coming together in your 8th house of transformation asks you to look at how you are utilising your time, energy and talents to create abundance in your life. Are you using your gifts in the most resourceful ways? Or are there responsibilities and projects you are undertaking that are no longer serving or providing growth and sustenance that need to be let go of to allow room for the new to emerge? This is also a month where you may receive financial blessings from unexpected sources or uncover hidden gifts that support long term prosperity. With your ruler, Mars, transiting your 7th house at this time, there is potential for confrontations. You are reminded that learning how to collaborate with others in harmonious ways can also bring great rewards. This is the month to reach out, accept and ask for support from others Aries. Remember, your soul lesson this year as Jupiter transits Scorpio is to learn how to open up to receive new levels of intimacy in all of your relationships. Deep and profound psychological, spiritual and emotional healing is possible for you this month if you allow yourself to receive it. Saturn in your 9th house makes his final trine alignment with Uranus in your 1st house, bringing completion and rewards for all the hard work you have put into expanding your mind, spiritual studies and re-invention of the self over the last 12 months. “As I heal my heart and soul, I discover talents I never knew I possessed. My willingness to trust others brings financial and emotional rewards.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Rainbow Obsidian, Labradorite, Tigerseye
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Taurus & Taurus Rising
~TAURUS & TAURUS RISING~ This month’s auspicious Jupiter/Venus alignment falls in your 7th house of relationship. This is a time of profound healing for your heart. You are asked to look deeply at your partnerships and be willing to work through any blockages or psychological barriers to intimacy and love. Relationships that are unequal or imbalanced will be particularly highlighted at this time. Are your relationships filling your life with joy and sustenance or are they draining your energy and self-esteem? If so, now is the time to make changes. The Full Moon illuminates your sign on the 4th of November, bringing your attention to what truly fulfils and nourishes your soul. The Saturn/Uranus trine reaches culmination in your 8th and 12th houses, brings rewards for all the deep psychological healing you have been doing to understand your shadows and fears, and clears your psychic baggage over the past 12 months. Mars, the warrior god, transits your 6th house asking you to become extra aware of your body’s needs. If you have been feeling stressed, ill or burnt out, this month’s astrology calls you to action to purify and heal your physical vessel. Mars’ presence here also encourages you to become more structured in your approach to work and daily routines. He reminds you the more organised and focussed you are, the greater the results of your endeavours will be. “As my heart heals, I surrender to new depths of intimacy. I nurture the growth of what nourishes my mind, body and soul.” Crystal Prescriptions ~ Moonstone, Bloodstone, Thulite
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Gemini & Gemini Rising
~GEMINI S & GEMINI RISING~ This month’s focus for you is work Gemini, as Jupiter and Venus meet in your 6th house of sacred service and you begin to receive the rewards for all of the effort you have been putting into creating daily routines and practices that truly align with your heart. This is the time of tending to the details and practicalities of your life with love and gratitude. And remembering what a gift it is to be able to work at what you truly enjoy. Those Geminis who have been called to begin physical, mental, emotional or spiritual detoxes since Jupiter moved into Scorpio will now find that their health begins to improve on all levels this month. With Saturn in your 7th house aligning with Uranus in your 11th, some long term goals connected to partnerships, life purpose and future dreams you have been working on since December 2016 could also be realised. Mars transits your 5th house this month, energising your need for creative selfexpression and romance. When channelled constructively this energy can support you in birthing your gifts into the world in a confident and self-assertive way, if left to run wild it can create disharmony in romantic relationships. Be sure to use this transit in the most constructive ways possible! “When I tend to the small details of my life with great love, my pathway of service unfolds. I channel my energy and passion into creating beauty in my world.” Crystal prescriptions ~ Carnelian, Fluorite, Hiddenite
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Cancer & Cancer Rising
~CANCER & CANCER RISING~ Jupiter and Venus merge their beneficent energies in your house of creativity and romance. Whether you are in a relationship or seeking your soulmate, this is energy supports you in drawing more love into your life. It is a wonderful time for dates and doing fun, joyful activities with partners. Jupiter and Venus invite you to open yourself up into ever deeper levels of self-expression. The more open and authentic you are, the more your intimate life will flourish! This energy also has a positive effect on your sense of self-esteem and self-worth, making you a magnet for all good things. Many Cancers will also experience the culmination of long-term goals in their work and career sector as the final Saturn/Uranus trine takes place in their 6th and 10th houses. Mars, the warrior, blazes through your 4th house of home and family this month creating opportunities for healing ancestral karma and genetic lineage. This alignment can cause inflammation or conflict with family members that leads to the healing of long-standing emotional issues or resentments. When Mars transits here it is extremely beneficial to dig deep into the psychological roots of any misunderstandings. “As I heal the wounds of the past at their roots, I create space for deeper intimacy in my relationships with others and the self.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Red Jasper, Rhodochrosite, Chrysophrase
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~ LEO & LEO RISING~ Jupiter and Venus conjoin in your 4th house of home and family this month, Leo. This soothing energy supports you in healing any old psychological wounds, especially those connected with familiar relationships/karma and childhood pain. Old traumas can now gently be brought to light and transmuted clearing the path for new levels of love to manifest. This would also be a wonderful time to move or redesign your living space to reflect your idea of what is beautiful and comfortable. Mars transits your 3rd house of communication cautioning you to be wise with your words. This is a month of choosing diplomacy over confrontation, particularly with friends, acquaintances and social networking. Some Leos may find themselves feeling particularly wired or overstimulated by this transit so it's good idea to ensure that you remain grounded and give yourself as much time as possible to rest and recuperate! Saturn and Uranus connect your 5th and 9th houses, rewarding for the work you have put into opening your heart and expanding beyond previously limiting concepts about yourself and creative capabilities. Romance and adventure is possible this month, Leo! “As I heal my inner child, I open myself up to receive more love and security in my life. I recognise the power of my words and I use them to consciously create the life I desire.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Dioptase, Smokey Quartz, Amazonite
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Virgo & Virgo Rising
~ VIRGO & VIRGO RISING~ Jupiter and Venus in your 3rd house of communication opens you up to express your deepest feelings and heart's desires and receive with empathy and understanding. You may find yourself speaking, writing or channelling wise words of healing and love to others! New connections are blessed at this time, as are social events and anything connected with social media or advertising. Mars ignites your house of wealth and resources filling you with the desire to utilise your gifts and talents to create more abundance. Conflict may arise if you don’t feel your hard work and dedication is truly appreciated by others this month. It’s important to take into consideration other people’s points of view and be self-aware enough not to take everything so personally! The Saturn/Uranus trine reaches completion in your 4th and 8th houses bringing psychological breakthroughs. It also rewards the effort and courage you have shown healing your emotional wounds, taking down your barriers and facing your fears. “As I speak my heart's wisdom new and exciting pathways open up for me. I honour my gifts and talents, and I deeply respect my own time and energy.” Crystal Prescriptions ~ Turquoise, Blue Lace Agate, Rose Quartz
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Libra & Libra Rising
~ LIBRA & LIBRA RISING~ Venus and Jupiter in your 2nd house of abundance brings you financial blessings this month! As you work on increasing your self-worth and realising how valuable you are, you become a magnet for prosperity and opportunity. Be sure to take these cosmic gifts as they are offered. This aspect also brings a sense of harmony and desire for deeper intimacy in your relationships and partnerships, as Mars in your sign simultaneously makes you more self-assertive and self-focused than usual. Your tendency to 'people please' and keep the peace may be replaced by a desire to be true to your own needs and desires, creating conflict with those souls who are more accustomed to your self-sacrificing nature. Uranus in your 7th house trine Uranus in your 3rd brings rewards for all of the work you have put into learning new ways to authentically express yourself in your relationships. Breakthroughs in communication are now possible. “As I learn to value my talents, time and energy I become a magnet for all good things. I am honoured and respected as I assert my own needs and desires.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Tigerseye, Amazonite, Citrine
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Scorpio & Scorpio Rising
~ SCORPIO & SCORPIO RISING~ Happy Birthday Scorpio! This could easily be the most positive and healing month of the year for you as Jupiter, Venus and the Sun transit your sign. New love and abundance are drawn to you. As the ruler of your 7th house, Venus moving through your sign activates your sense of self-love, making you more magnetic than ever. The New Moon in your sign on November the 18th is your time to set intentions for the next 12 months. It is also an opportune time to receive messages and guidance that will support you in manifesting your hearts's desires over the coming year. As your ruling planet, Mars, transits your 12th house, your inner world and dream life may become especially active. You may be torn between a desire to rest and isolate and a need to act on your intuitive nudges. Saturn in your 3nd house trine Uranus in your 6th brings flashes of insight and inspiration that can stabilise your resources and work life. Projects you have been working on for the past 12 months can now begin to bring rewards. “I open my heart to receive the beneficence of the cosmos. My intuition guides me as I embrace the beauty of this celestial rebirthing process.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Black Moonstone, Labradorite, Rose quartz
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 Sagittarius & Sagittarius Rising
~ SAGITTARIUS & SAGITTARIUS RISING ~ Venus and Jupiter meet in your 12th house of intuition and compassion, focussing your energies on self-healing. The harmonious energy generated by this combination awakens your intuition and empathy, allowing you to dissolve what is no longer serving you with love and ease. You may feel drawn to turn within, reflect on the past and work to clear your subconscious beliefs that are holding you back before your solar return in December. This could be a month of endings and culmination Sagittarius, as Saturn finishes up his two and half year journey through your sign and prepares to move into Capricorn on the 21st of December. What have you learnt about hard work, dedication and responsibility over the past few years? How has your life changed? Are you ready to move forward and build the new with your hard won lessons? Mars in Libra in your 11th house may attempt to draw you out of your cocoon of healing and call you to into the social sphere. This is a month of working with groups, friends and helpful people that support your big dreams and individual purpose as you prepare to begin a whole new cycle free of the restrictive energy of Saturn! “As I turn within to clear the psychic debris of the past 2 years, I recognise I am paving the way for a new cycle to begin. My dreams, visions and intuition guide me as I graciously surrender the old.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Sugilite, Charoite, Black Tourmaline
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Capricorn & Capricorn Rising
~ CAPRICORN & CAPRICORN RISING ~ As your ruling planet Saturn, who is currently in your 12th house, makes his 3rd and final trine to Uranus in your 4th house of home and family you begin to reap the rewards of the work you have been putting into grounding the new vision of your life since December 2016. New insights and inspirations abound as you break out of your comfort zones and familiar structures and open up to new ways of being! Your 11th house is lit up by Jupiter, Venus and the Sun this month giving you the gift of being able to create heart-opening bonds with groups of like-minded souls during November. Co-creating with others helps you manifest your dreams and brings financial blessings. With Mars in your 10th house of career you may also feel more energised and enthusiastic about your work life. This is a good time for ‘putting yourself out there’ meeting new people and celebrating how far you have come! “As I move out of my comfort zone to connect with others, I feel deeply emotionally fulfilled. My work fills me with passion and excitement.” Crystal Prescriptions ~ Moss Agate, Iolite, Sunstone
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~ Aquarius & Aquarius Rising ~
~ AQUARIUS & AQUARIUS RISING ~ November could be one of the busiest and most beneficial months of the year for Aquarius as your ancient ruler, Saturn, aligns with your modern day ruling planet, Uranus. This aspect signifies the completion of a long-term goal that can lead to an increase in gainfulness and prosperity. The Sun and Venus join Jupiter in your house of career amplifying your ability to get your work out there into the world and attracting extra support and gifts from those in positions of authority. Put your heart and soul into your endeavours in the outer world and the cosmos will support you. Mars transits your 9th house of the higher mind, encouraging you to expand your horizons and learn something new. You may find that you are called to explore other cultures and beliefs during this period. You may also experience the need to assert your own opinions and ideas more forcefully at this time, Aquarius. Diplomacy and tact is encouraged if you wish to capitalise on the golden graces beginning bestowed upon you this month. “I utilise the cosmic blessings bestowed on me this month to create lasting change in my career. I expand my mind and open my heart to adventure.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Garnet, Kyanite, Sunstone
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~ PISCES AND PISCES RISING ~ Your ancient ruler, Jupiter, merges with Venus the Love Goddess in your 9th house of spirituality blessing you with the ability to connect with the divine and receive higher guidance. This is a month for truly listening to your intuition and trusting the signs and omens that the universe bestows upon you. You may feel more connected than ever to your pathway and purpose as new ideas and insights pour in. Some of you may feel drawn to begin a new course of study or seek out a teacher who can support you on your pathway. This will also be a month of shadow work as Mars transits your 8th house of alchemy and transformation. Some Pisces may find they are called into the depths to retrieve lost fragments of themselves and reclaim their passion and power during November. Relationships, intimacy and sexuality are also highlighted at this time. The final Saturn/Uranus trine brings rewards for all the work you have been doing to align your career with your heart's integrity. Unexpected financial blessings can possibly come your way this month! “I open my mind and heart to receive the guidance I need to move forward. I courageously face my shadows and reclaim my power.� Crystal Prescriptions ~ Moldavite, Obsidian, Rhodonite
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WHOLEHEARTED CHANGEMAKER by Asha V Croggon
In Uganda, 16 women die every day from preventable causes due to pregnancy & birth. Â
NATALIE ANGELL-BESSELING Natalie Angell-Besseling launched The Shanti Uganda Society in 2008, a Ugandan NGO, as a call to follow her heart & take a stand for maternal rights that put women first. Shanti Uganda works within a collaborative model that respects both traditional birthing practices and modern best practices to provide maternal and infant health supports where women and children are safe, respected, and empowered.
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for a living and live to care, she responded honestly.
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running a yoga studio. She made the decision to
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greatness. And now she chooses to teach other "It was about supporting an amazing community women the same.
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who had extraordinary ideas."
YES to our sacred purpose, we receive powerful echoes of our YES back to us.
"I've learned the importance in finding your voice and your own way as a leader." In the living experiment of giving her YES to her
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purpose for a solid six months, Shanti Uganda
and it would still be never-ending. It's important for
secured funding, established clear values that
us to have sacred family time, time away from social
continue to lead them and a one-off project became
media, time to reflect and take a step back." In this
a life's calling.
way, Natalie follows the WholeHearted FLOW model of filling up before flowing out.
Shanti Uganda has continued to grow along with Natalie's own family. She is married and the mother
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of two amazing daughters are big supporters Alicia’s desire and passion who to impact millions of of
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her to expend the outward energy needed and to be
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able to look at problems differently.
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leaders in the field. Sharing laughter, tears, the
her time. relationships that didn’t serve her, she worked jobs
complexity of leading teams and projects.
that didn’t light her up, she dimmed her own light, experienced anxiety, and chose to shut out the parts of her that she didn’t quite understand. However, one of the things that kept her going in life was her desire to learn. Immersing herself in self-development courses, public speaking courses, mindset work, life coaching, network marketing, reading,Shanti event management and public Uganda has provided
speaking, Alicia began to tap into her own sense of 10,941 Pre & Postnatal Visits
self worth. She began to step into her own
1,138 births with a skilled midwife
greatness. And now she chooses to teach other 3,682 Pregnant mothers & partners
women the same.
tested for HIV 15 Ugandan staff employed Plus launched programs for teen girls & community sustainability
"Surrender is a very important part of diving into our heart and to really allow ourselves to fall & make mistakes & pick up & start again."
I asked Natalie how the Fierce Feminine plays a role
The Fierce Feminine is rising in Uganda through the
in her life and her work and she shared that she's
work of Shanti Uganda - standing for the rights of
learned the importance of finding her own voice and
women and children to safe birthing conditions that
her own way as a leader. Not simply following
honour the divine knowing of each woman, the
what's been done before, but having the courage to
sacred traditions of the community and the best
listen to her heart and follow her inner authority.
practices of modern medicine.
The Fierce Feminine also shows up in Shanti
For those teetering between "should I follow my
Uganda's series of values. "They guide everything.
heart and make a difference or shouldn't I?",
How we interact in our communities. How we
Natalie's advice was clear.
interact internally." "Surrender is a very important part of diving into our The guiding values include Integrity. Championing
heart and to really allow ourselves to fall and make
Holistic Care. Sustainability. And a commitment to
mistakes and pick up and start again. To align
Unity, to taking inspired actions that are based on
ourselves with our values. Cry when we need to. Be
selflessness, empathy and being of service.
angry when we need to be. Just make it count."
Another core element is to learn from mistakes.
Inspired by Natalie Angell-Besseling? Learn how you
"We all make mistakes. It's part of our organizational
can add your voice and support Shanti Uganda.
commitment to own up to them, learn from them, grow and not make the same mistake again." A powerful inspiration as the procrastination tool of choice is often perfectionism. I am reminded of the Fierce Feminine's wisdom of Kali who chews up ego and false images of ourselves so we can be free to learn, express, grow. The Phoenix from the ashes isn't about ignoring where we've fallen, but in surrendering what no longer works and weaving new feathers from our learnings.
Website Facebook If you feel to the call to give your WholeHearted YES to purpose and be on fire, not burnt out, reach out. Until then, remember. Following your heart isn't just a 'bumper sticker', it's a soul directive. It's time to make the difference, you came here to make. Give your WholeHearted YES to it and begin! Asha V Croggon inspires WholeHearted Changemakers globally to work within their heart's own model to keep up with the bigness of their vision.
SACRED SISTERHOOD
WHY IS SELFLOVE SO HARD?
WHY DIDN'T IÂ THINK OF THIS BEFORE?
Self-Love can be challenging sometimes or even all the time in the start of our journey. We don't always know where to start. We were never taught what self-love looked like and we are in a society that teaches us to want to be like other people. So of course it's hard but it's worth it.
Because oh what a powerful force you are when you don't need anyone but yourself.
Learning self-compassion takes time. Learning how to take time out to give yourself what you need, even if you feel guilty about it will feel foreign at first.
We are taught that self-love is selfish and women are meant to take care of everyone else around them.
A lot of time we also carry old beliefs from past generations that can effect our self-esteem and self-worth. Self-Love is the journey, there is no destination. Everyday is a choice to choose yourself and when you do so, your connection and self-trust grows. I promise it does get easier. .
Society is geared to make us believe love comes from outside of us and we have to find it in another person, place or things. It always keeps us actively seeking.
Well I am here to tell you it's all a load of crap. Taking care of yourself first is essential for your health and well-being and happiness. When you take care of you first, you rise up into your own love and than can share from a place of overflow.
HOW DO YOU FIND THE BALANCE? Learning to balance self-love in your life is much like creating any new habit and routine into your daily life. It takes time, commitment, patience and choosing yourself everyday. It does take time and you likely will slip up here and their and that is okay. Practice selfcompassion and start again. When I teach the 30 Day SelfLove Challenge to women, I let them decide how much time they want to start off with. It could be 5 minutes a day to learn to take time to yourself. Until it becomes a habit and than you can grow from there. Learn the times of the day you usually need some downtime and create space for yourself. I use to think I had no time but in reality I was not making myself a priority and the busy "ness" was in my mind. Once I learned how to create space in my mind, my life magically also had space in it.
HOW DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF YET REMAIN HONEST? IF YOU BECOME SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE, HOW DO YOU CONTINUE TO LOVE THAT PERSON? I would give yourself a big hug! Hug that little girl inside of you that wanted to be loved so much, you changed for the people around you and decide that you are going to give yourself the love you seek from this day forward. Which will create a safe space for you to fully be your authentic-self. Being honest with ourselves can be scary stuff but in diving into the dark, we can shine the light on what needs to heal. You are already enough just by being who you are at the core.
GODDESS RISING
SELENE LEE A Goddess photo session and an inside look into Self-Love.
Goddess Rising What is self-love to you? Accepting and celebrating who I am.
What is one thing you love about yourself? Â The fact that i'm a weirdo! :)
How do you embody your inner Goddess? When I manage to stand up after every epic fall. Also in those times when I feel a very unique, almost magical connection to nature.
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A Self-Love Ritual
THE 30 DAY SELF-LOVE CHALLENGE "Her connection to the divine was also her connection to herself. The union she was seeking was actually between her and her."
Welcome to a sacred ritual of learning to love yourself up consistently, within a group of soul sisters all on the same journey. When I learned how to consistently show up for myself on a daily basis and give myself what I needed, my life changed.
~ You love the energy of a collective group of women empowering each. other and sharing their journey. ~ You are ready to say YES! to give yourself what you need. ~ You desire to have support along your journey.
So I am sharing this with you.
~You are willing and ready to do the work.
This program is for you if:
I will be present supporting you on your journey within the group. With a weekly check-in to see if you desire any support.
~ You desire to fully show up for yourself. ~ You want to learn how to give to yourself and build your self-love.
Much Love, Melissa XO
~ You want to develop a consistent ritual of giving to yourself.
WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER
If you have the opportunity to take Melissa's 30 Day Self Love Challenge, I highly recommend it. There is something about creating a daily ritual, putting yourself first, that makes a noticeable difference in your day. Melissa is right there with you, offering encouragement and support. So, if your life is not where you wish it to be, most likely it's time to put yourself first... and watch things change. ~ Barbara Patterson
I was walking down the path of self-love, self-awareness and self-discovery; Melissa just provided the roller skates and the knee pads! I've taken Melissa's 30 day self-love challenge on and off throughout the year and it helps get me centred, grounded, feeling supported and gently pushed to the next level of my self-love journey. If you've been curious about where to start with self-love, or you're finding your way again, this is the perfect place to begin! Melissa allows you to be exactly where you are, without judgment or feeling like you should be somewhere else. And then that's when stuff starts to move. ~ Marie-Claire
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