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contents A publication of magic city magazine
22 Honeymoon Trousseau
By Brenda Maas
All the outfits you’ll need for your special getaway
26 Advice from the Newlyweds
By Rob Rogers
3 Montana couples share their insight
30 Special Helpers
By Karen Kinser
Engaging kids in your big day
32 Decorative Direction
By Brittany Cremer
Infusing your wedding day with DIY flair
35 The Album
By Brittany Cremer
7 unique Montana weddings
BIG SKY BRIDE SUMMER / FALL 2015
On the Cover: Billings bride Abigail Gallagher
REAL MONTANA WEDDINGS
and her bridesmaids. Photo by Daniel Sullivan Photography.
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HONEYMOON TROUSSEAU • ADVICE FROM NEWLYWEDS • KIDS AT YOUR WEDDING
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Rachel and Weston Kimm were married near Highwood, MT. Rachel’s parents were married there 27 years prior. Photo by Megan Lane Photography.
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Your unforgettable Beartooth wedding
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ALL THE DETAILS YOU NEED FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY
11 The Flowers 12 The Ring 14 The Dress 17 The Photos 18 The Hair 20 The Cake In Every Issue 6 From the Editor
Endless Love
8 Unveiled 50 I Thee Wed
Inventive accents and elements for your big day Bob and Agnes Cremer celebrate 74 years of marriage
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From the Editor
Endless Love
My palms were sweating. But then again, they always sweat. Hiding—007-style—behind a giant cement pillar at Lake Hills Golf Course in Billings, I waited for the text. “We’re headed to the 9th hole now,” it read. I gently placed the camcorder down, reached in my pocket and pulled out the ring that would make my sister cry.
Pre-proposal plan
The day before, my sister’s fiancé, Chris, arrived at our house and asked if I’d assist in proposing to my sister. Overjoyed, I accepted the task, which included guarding the two-carat sparkler with my life before strategically placing it in the 9th hole cup just as the couple finished a round of golf. A thoughtful and organized fellow, Chris also contacted immediate family and asked them to witness the momentous occasion. He’d even reached out to close friends and organized and impromptu engagement party afterward. So organized. So perfect. My sister will love it. I hugged Chris, shed a few tears, and charged up the video-cam.
Fore-ever and ever
“The ring is in, and it’s a tight fit,” I texted Chris. Barely containing my excitement, I shot a stealth thumbs-up to my parents who were hiding in the Pro Shop and smiled at Chris’ sister who was camouflaged taking photos. With more eyes on them than Jordan Speith at the Masters, the couple worked their way down the fairway. Finally, the big moment. Zooming in so closely I could see her freckles, I recorded my sister pull the pin, quizzically look at Chris, and say “I don’t think we’re supposed to take this out, there’s something stuck in there.” Something, indeed. On bended knee, Chris proposed, the two embraced and a thundering herd of relatives made their presence known.
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The beginning and beyond
Proposals are the appetizer to wedding lore. Carefully planned and personalized, each bride bubbles at the chance to retell her story. Fortunately for my sister, there’s photographic AND video evidence—complete with witty commentary… “What’s in the hole,” Jimmy?” (The next time you see my sister, I dare you to ask why I call her “Jimmy.”) The proposal, even the wedding, are advertised for all to see—but what happens when the glitter fades and the crowds go home?
A lifetime of love
What people won’t see in a marriage are the tough times— the moments that don’t make the pages of Instagram and Facebook. Real life. Words like “growth,” “support” and “compromise” are used to define these slices in time—not “tiered,” “registry,” or “honeymoon.” That’s not to say that marriage isn’t beautiful or scintillating—quite the opposite. Giving your whole heart to someone knowing they will protect it as their own is magic. Do this for a decade, and you’re cosmically connected. Do this for a lifetime, and you’re two souls living as one. My husband’s grandparents, Bob and Agnes Cremer, epitomize this type of love. This June marks the couple’s 74th wedding anniversary—the oldest married couple in Montana (see page 50). So brides (Jimmy, this means you, too), as you’re saying your “I do’s,” just remember that the ceremony is simply a launchpad for a lifetime of love between you and your beloved. Be kind. Be patient. Be forgiving. It’s OK to take a mulligan or two along the way.
Brittany Cremer Managing Editor Big Sky Bride Magazine
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Allyn Hulteng Editor-in-chief 657-1434 Brittany Cremer managing editor 657-1390 Brenda Maas Assistant Editor 657-1490 Evelyn Noennig assistant Editor 657-1226 Bob Tamb0 art Director 657-1474 pho togr a phy
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Unveiled
Inventive accents and elements for your big day.
Caught a whopper
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Signed, sealed, delivered
Personalize every detail of your big day, right down to the postage. Choose a cheerful template or upload your own photo for added “I do!”
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ALL THE DETAILS YOU NEED FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY
the flowers Whether it’s a dainty nosegay or a cascade of brilliant blooms, your wedding bouquet should complement your personality and style. Here is a sampling of delightful ideas to create a signature look that is all yours.
Glitz and glam
A globe of petite white roses encircled with a band of bling makes an exquisite bouquet that has a vintage Hollywood feel.
Always elegant
Roses, carnations and ranunculus in soft shades of vanilla, dusty rose and plum evoke a sense of timeless romance.
Colorful carnival
Brilliant hues of lime, violet, fuchsia and yellow mixed with smattering of pale pink blooms combine for a flirty, festive bouquet.
Stunningly simple
This hand-tied nosegay with pale peach carnations, light pink roses and muted green leaves is a classy expression that doesn’t overwhelm the bride.
Chic cascade (Bride’s bouquet)
This lush mix of peachcolored roses, ranunculus and flowing greens reflects a springtime vibe, perfect for early summer celebrations.
Bold and brilliant
For brides who adore color, these brilliant orange roses embedded with a pearl in the center gives an art nouveau approach to the classic bridal bouquet.
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the rings
the flowers
the dress
the photos
the hair
the cake
the ring Long after the wedding celebration, rings exchanged by the bride and groom serve as a lasting symbol of love and commitment. While sparkling white diamonds remain the most popular choice for the ladies, some opt for an infusion of color. Sapphires, rubies 18K yellow gold Tacori engagement ring from the Petite Crescent Collection, features beautiful milgrain detail and cushion halo. Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers.
and birthstones with diamond accents or standing solo can create an heirloom piece that’s as unique as you are. Not sure which style you prefer? Here’s a sampling of rings to jumpstart your imagination.
14K white and rose gold engagement ring with channel-set side diamonds. From the Clark Avenue Collection Available at Clark Avenue Jewelers.
White gold channel set ladies band featuring four fine rubies encircled by 89 full-cut diamonds. Available at Greenleaf’s Jewelry.
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18k white gold princess cut engagement ring with pave diamond split shank, from the amore collection, Michael M design. Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers.
Gents 18K white gold Tacori wedding band with channel set diamonds. Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers.
Large, 4 carat round brilliant diamond set in 18K rose gold with a traditional pave set band and diamond halo, Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers design. Available at Goldsmith Gallery Jewelers.
Men’s 8mm tungsten wedding band with black carbon fiber inlay. From the Clark Avenue Collection. Available at Clark Avenue Jewelers.
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the flowers
the rings
the dress
the photos
the hair
the dress This is it—the crème de la crème, the star of the day, the topper on the cake—The Dress. One garment has so many complex layers—often literally and figuratively—that set the tone for the entire day, the entire event. Some bridesto-be carry the perfect image in their head and recognize “love at first sight.” Others take a more circuitous route, enjoying the pleasure of exploring trends, styles and how a dress “speaks” to her. Either way, the bride’s gown is THE focal point. Here are few options—many traditional with a twist, others a bit more outside the lines. Try a few of these on for size.
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Forever flattering
This drop-yoke waist with flared skirt is the ideal combo for full-figures—accentuating the waist with plenty of full cover for those “pears” among us. The strapless version works for women of all “endowments” with jewelry setting the stunning tone.
A-line
Aptly named, this style is the most versatile, enhancing most figures because the simple lines draw the eye vertically. Strapless or with more shoulder dressing, this gown is always a hit.
Mermaids unite
As the name implies this style is sleek with a flare skirt—and those with figurative flair really pull it off. The hourglass bride brings this dress to life.
Dare to be different
Barely there
This demi-dress functions on illusion. A short dress with lace overlay, it is chic yet sensual with a side of romance twisted in. More of a column, it favors a slender or petite frame, yet is flexible enough for many.
Not a white dress gal? No problem, from candlelight to ecru to vintage white, brides bring their own light to the dress. Add even more color with seasonal accessories.
The back is back
Brides’ dresses are a 360-degree piece of art, so don’t forget what your guests will see during the ceremony. Sensual and elegant options abound.
Shortie
A gown need not be long. This dress is short, sweet and flirty—perfect for a destination wedding or a small, informal event—think Breakfast at Tiffany’s type of classic.
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the photos Tips from Behind the Lens Jana Graham, veteran professional photographer and repeated winner of The Billings Gazette Readers’ Choice Awards, knows that selecting a wedding photographer is not an easy task. To smooth the pebbles from the road to the chapel, she offers a few tips.
Select someone that you mesh with—someone who understands your style and that you trust. Appoint a “wrangler” to work with the photographer—your sister, bestie or godmother—someone who knows all the players, who can quickly and discretely extract Uncle George from the spiked-punch bowl when it’s his time to smile for the camera.
Consider, strongly, taking engagement photos—not only is this session a fun one-on-one with your Main Man—sans stress—but it functions as a dress rehearsal with your photographer. Inquire about the photographer’s technical skills—especially various lighting scenarios. Chances are you will have filtered natural light, low light and even “backstage” neon lights at the dance, along with everything in-between. Review his or her work prior to your interview. Relax and have fun! “That really is the most important part,” said Graham. “It’s all about you
and your groom on that day—just focus on each other—your love with shine through no matter what happens.”
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the flowers
the rings
the dress
the photos
hair with flair options abound for every bride
While your dress may be the main course, your hair is more like the scrumptious dessert. Whether you have long locks or a short crop, your wedding day ‘do can easily reflect your personality and style.
the hair
Elegant embellishments Add some ornamentation to your refined hairdo— a bit of color, shimmer or spark—for a bit of surprise and subtle tie-in to the rest of your Big Day ensemble.
Suit the style
This vintage ‘do fits the dress and veil to a “T.” With a 20s flair, the set ringlets are the perfect complement to the entire heirloom ensemble.
Short & sweet
You don’t have to have long locks to be a beautiful bride. Add an embellishment, like a high crown. Notice how the bangs accentuate her eyes?
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Cascade
If you have it, flaunt it. Horizontal French braids woven with flowers and finished with a cascade are over the top, yet stunningly simple.
Simply stunning
This side swoop gives the teardrop earring a perfect landing spot and ends with casual elegance—almost an after-thought. Not even close to pretentious, this updo is defiantly dainty.
Simple is best
With a simple strand of pearls, this classic “down” style get the tone for an evening of elegance.
Grace & class
This French braid with a twist is elegant yet playful. The loose, casual subtly echoes the swirls in the gown’s lace. Now that’s sophistication with a kick!
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the flowers
the rings
the dress
the photos
the hair
the cake
Creative confections are the perfect topper for your “Big Day” Antonia Craighill, owner of Velvet Cravings, works closely with engaged couples to envision a scrumptious dessert that is both eye-candy and palate-pleasing. She offers this insight for the bride and groom who are selecting their own unique sweet treat.
How to work with your dessert designer: Start with your “don’ts” list. This list cuts to the core of what the couple likes, efficiently moving toward the goal.
Bring ideas or pictures “Cake designers are artists at heart,” said Craighill, “and we can blend two or three ideas together into a cohesive cake.”
Think about small details – the pearls in your earrings, the fringe of a purse, the flower in the groom’s boutonniere, the color of the bridesmaids’ dresses—and incorporate those little pieces into the dessert.
Have an open mind This is where the firm ideas expand to be truly personalized, merging your tastes as a couple.
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Bon voyage!
In Victorian times, a young woman and her mother collected items for her trousseau over many years, preparing to launch into a newly-married life and home. On these pages we’ve gathered a honeymoon trousseau from local merchants. Whether you are shipping out, flying south, fancying an urban tour or hitting the wilderness, we have the perfect ensemble for your journey. So, grab your suitcase and get packing!
By brenda maas
Photos by james woodcock & Casey page
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Show some leg
And travel in style with these lined, crocheted shorts, soft cami and versatile, demin shirt. Few things are more “in” than crochet this season.
Available at Banyan Tree
Soak up the sun Hit the trails
Layers are the way to go and this “caz” combo has you covered once, then twice. It goes without saying these clothes pack well.
Available at Base Camp
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Mix-and-match two-piece suits are all the rage. The halter-style top gives the right combo of support and sexiness to make it perfect for the pool or the beach. Topped with a lacy cover-up, your groom will be sure to stay nearby.
Available at TLC
Land-ho!
Whether you are strolling starboard, or lunching in port, this flirty ensemble will make waves with the ultra-cute sheath dress and punches of orange.
Available at neecee’s
El artiste!
When it’s time to gallery hop in Greenwich Village, you can easily look the part in this fringed combo—comfort and casual, maximized.
Available at Banyan Tree
Urban chic
Transition from an afternoon touring New York’s Museum of Modern Art to evening cocktails in this sassy, fuschia swing dress and complementary shirt-coat. No need for Superman’s phone booth.
Available at Bottega
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Night out
No vacation is complete without at least one “fancy” dinner out. You will be the star of the table with this classic black, flounced sheath and animal-print clutch. Meow!
Available at neecee’s
Shop ‘til you drop Who wants to shop in duds? The pencil shirt and flowing blouse offer the right blend of comfort and class. Add the mesh, fringed handbag, and you are ready to hit the boutiques!
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Advice from the Newlyweds
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veryone’s got advice for the recently engaged. And you don’t want to be dismissive. Your Aunt Mabel’s counsel to never let your beau see you without makeup might be well-intentioned and heart-felt, but it’s terrible advice. Not only has Aunt Mabel never been married, but her notions of healthy domesticity haven’t changed since the Eisenhower administration. There’s better help out there. Couples who have recently planned and pulled off a wedding and who have finished walking the obstacle course that is the first year of marriage oftentimes have the most applicable advice for those just getting ready to take the Great Leap. Their experience with the whole process is fresh in the mind. Their insight on what works and what to avoid can help you avoid silly mistakes and painful pitfalls. And when Aunt Mabel shows up at the reception offering the world’s worst marriage advice, you can smile and nod knowingly while hurrying her down the reception line.
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Erica & Paul Visser The Vissers were married in December after a threeyear courtship. Overall it was a wonderful experience, and they have great memories from the ceremony and reception.
On planning
WEDDING PHOTOS COURTESY of NAOMI HULTENG
While working out the early details, Erica said she quickly learned a couple key lessons. “Make it what you want,” she said. And to do that, she added, “You have to say ‘no’ to people.” She also discovered that a lot of the pressure was selfimposed. But once she figured out she could tell people no, it freed her up to do what she wanted with the wedding. “You have more time than you think,” she said. Paul steered clear through much of planning process and had no real strong opinions about how the wedding or the reception was executed. And that’s what he tells soon-to-be grooms. “Just sit back and relax,” he said. Paul and Erica had a good talk before they started planning where Paul was able to offer up the two opinions he had. After that, Erica took control. That helped them avoid butting heads through the process, she said. The two had help from their parents paying for their wedding, but Paul and Erica financed the majority of it. Both felt like that gave them the freedom to make the wedding what they wanted it to be, insulating them from family pressure.
HIM: “Just sit back and relax.”
HER: “Don’t argue over little things.”
On finances and communication
Erica and Paul lived together for almost two years before they were married. Both of them said it helped them troubleshoot a number of issues, including communication. “Be open,” Paul said. It’s that principle that helps them navigate money issues, one of the biggest sources of marital stress. Right after they moved in together, they had frank discussions about their finances. “I’ve always been pretty open about my financial status,” he said. “And that’s helped me be open with you,” Erica responded. The two make it a point to be respectful of each other’s perspectives and actively work to compromise when an issue arises. “Don’t argue over little things,” Erica said.
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Rachel & Todd Hull The Hulls spent the entire first year of their marriage apart. Todd serves in an aviation battalion based in Helena for the Army National Guard and was deployed to Kuwait just three months after he and Rachel were married in December of 2012. Todd returned safely home in early 2014, and he and Rachel have now spent their first full year together under the same roof. “I didn’t realize what a toll it would take,” Rachel said. The tricky part to being a military wife during active duty is dealing with constant change. “With every change there was a time of transition that was extremely stressful,” she said. “It was figuring out what the new normal was.” WEDDING PHOTOS COURTESY OF SCOTT DUPUIS
On communicating
Being apart for that first year forced Todd and Rachel to communicate in a very specific, very efficient way. They only had a couple times a day when they could talk and that time was always limited. “While he was gone our time (talking together) was so precious,” Rachel said. “We really figured out how to communicate effectively with each other,” Todd said. It helped them once he got home to make sure important, even obvious, things were talked about and that needs were openly discussed. “It was easy to get lazy in our communication once he was home,” Rachel said. So they worked to keep in place that priority to make their interactions and their discussions “precious,” just like when Todd was deployed. That way, they don’t take each other or their feelings and issues for granted.
HIM: “...find out what speaks love to that person.”
HER: “... always look for those opportunities.” Finances and love language
Rachel and Todd are both established in their careers – in fact that’s how they met. They’re both in the medical field and worked together for eight years before they got married. With their careers set, they approached their finances with eyes open. “We give each other our own spending money,” she said. “We give each other some independence within that budget.” They’ve both seen how nit-picking over small purchases can quickly wreck a relationship. Giving themselves freedom and space within their family budget to make their own purchases has helped them avoid that trap. Along those same lines, they’ve learned from each other how gifts and other displays of affection can show love in the relationship. “You’ve got to find out what speaks love to that person,” Todd said. If both partners can openly talk about expectations and what communicates love and affection, then the relationship will stay strong, they said. “We always look for those opportunities,” Rachel said.
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Missy & Spencer Jones The Joneses were married a year ago, eloping and getting hitched in the Little White Wedding Chapel in downtown Las Vegas. “It was so clichéd and so awesome,” Missy said, laughing. It was the second marriage for both of them, which radically changed how they courted and decided to marry.
Picking the right person
PHOTO COURTESY OF MISSY & SPENCER JONES
Everything was different the second time around, Spencer said. “You learn what you don’t want and what you need” in a partner and in a relationship, he said. “You cannot expect or anticipate that anyone will change.” So if the person you’re dating does not have that vital attribute that you need in a relationship, it won’t magically appear on the wedding day. Find someone else, he said.
Planning the wedding
Missy and Spencer quickly discovered as they sat down to plan their wedding and reception that they had no desire to do something big or elaborate. “I had no desire to put on a wedding dress,” Missy said. Spencer realized that all the activity that surrounds a wedding has more to do with friends and family than with the couple getting married. That was a big epiphany for him. “If you’re not doing it for yourselves, you’re not doing it for the right reasons,” he said. And that’s what led them to the Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas. Eloping allowed just the two of them to be spontaneous. “It was more enjoyable to do it just for us,” Missy said.
HER: “During that first year focus your time on family activities.”
Blending families
Both Missy and Spencer had children from their previous marriages, so finding a way to help the kids get to know each other and build healthy relationships was important. “During that first year focus your time on family activities,” Missy said. Much of the couple’s free time is devoted to doing things everyone can participate in, and that bring everyone together – from yard work on the weekends to outings in the mountains. Make sure it’s quality time and that it’s meaningful, Spencer added. “We really scored with our kids coming together,” Missy said.
HIM: “You cannot expect or anticipate that anyone will change.”
Him
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Special Helpers: By Karen Kinser When you envision your wedding day, you probably see yourself in that perfect dress, floating down the aisle and upheld by the beautiful bubble of love from your fiancé, friends and family. Ultimately, weddings are all about families. And families include kids – nieces, nephews, siblings, friends’ kids, and children from previous relationships. You recognize their importance in your lives and want to honor these vital family members with a role in your big day. Here are a few ways to include the little ones – from family’s kids to your guests’ children – and to make sure your wedding day is as smooth as … well, buttercream.
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Roles for kids
Wedding roles for kids can run the gamut from the traditional flower girl (or girls – several could share this honor) and ring bearer to ushers, greeters, program distributors, candle lighters and gift collectors. Decide on what roles you’d like the youngsters to play and then ask them (and their parents) early. If you’re blending families, include the children from the start. Ask their help with choosing invitations, colors, flowers and food. A daughter or future step-daughter could also be given a meaningful role in the wedding shower as your special assistant.
Consider the age
In general, children ages 3-6 serve as flower girls, train holders and ring bearers. Older kids (7-10) enjoy being ushers, greeters, candle bearers and guestbook attendants. Pre-teens and adolescents may love being junior bridesmaids or groomsmen. For a group of younger kids, assign several to carry a “Here Comes the Bride” sign. Or, have them stand along the aisle holding a flower and handing it to you as you make your way – and an on-thego bouquet – to the altar. Pat Clark of Patricia Clark Weddings, a local wedding planner, coordinator and officiant, recalls a wedding where the family had many foster children, and all the girls led the bride in by ringing bells in front of her.
Properly attired
Kids can grow like weeds, so consider these growth spurts when ordering clothing. Many brides are simply asking their young helpers to wear a frilly dress or, for the boys, a blazer and slacks they already own. If, however, you want your little ones in matching outfits, purchase clothing a size or so larger. Other options include renting, consignment shops and online purchases. And if the kids are wearing new shoes, be sure they break them in early.
Practice, practice, practice
Sure, you’ll be having a rehearsal, but ask the parents of your young attendants to work with the kids prior. Have them watch videos and practice their roles to help ease jittery nerves and lessen stage fright. If your ring bearer
Including Fifi or Fido
is young, consider having the best man hold the real rings and the ring bearer carry symbolic rings.
Guest kids
You want to be sure that kids not in the ceremony also feel welcome, and many brides are including kids’ tables at the reception. Pat Clark cautions not to have the kids’ tables in a separate room – the kids should be included in the whole event, and parents want to be able to keep a watchful eye on them, too. Cover kids’ tables in paper and supply boxes of crayons. Activity bags also keep kids entertained and can contain coloring books, ribbon wands, crafts, stickers, bubbles and games. Kids love scavenger hunts, and you can keep them busy with disposable cameras (yep, you can still buy these) and a list of items to photograph for the hunt. And if it’s in your budget, look into hiring a magician, clown, balloon artist or face painter. Providing kid-friendly food at the children’s table is a popular trend now – and it’s less expensive, too. Consider asking your caterer to serve items such as chicken fingers, fruit and macaroni and cheese for the younger set. Or choose to have a separate children’s buffet, complete with mini cupcakes instead of wedding cake.
Special tips for blended families
When blending families, be sure that the kids are comfortable in their roles, and realize that despite your love for each other, they may have mixed emotions. Are they feeling disloyal, perhaps, to the other parent if they participate in this wedding? Just be open to listening – and responding to – their concerns. Many blended families are incorporating vows that promise to honor, love, respect and support the children. Sometimes these vows are sealed with a special ring, bracelet, charm or other significant piece of jewelry for the kids. Clark also suggests gently asking the children of blended families what they love about their mom or dad and including their answers in the ceremony. She also loves the idea of a sand ceremony. Here, the kids write things on small stones that are placed in a jar, and then each family member pours a vial of sand into this jar as they symbolically blend their new lives together.
As any animal lover knows, pets are a loving part of a family, and many couples are enlisting their well-mannered dogs to be part of the wedding. First, make sure that your venue is open to having a pet in the ceremony. Once that hurdle is cleared, here are suggestions on ways to include them in your memorable day:
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Consider what role would best suit your
pet’s personality. If he’s a lovable dog who just can’t resist greeting everyone, it might be too distracting to have a role that takes him down the aisle, past large numbers of people.
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Dress your pet up with flowers, a
bowtie, tulle collars or even simple clothing, if your pup is amenable to that. You can find doggie tuxedos, dresses, fancy collars and neck wreaths online.
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Use them as a ring bearer (put the
rings on a collar or in a neck bag – but you may still want your best man to have the actual rings) or flower girl escort.
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Have them precede and “announce”
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Consider hiring a pet-sitter or willing
the bride with a sign around the neck.
the wedding are non-toxic.
teenager to be available to take your pet away if it becomes all too much for her. And make sure your pet doesn’t find the buffet – or wedding cake – before you do.
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decorative direction Infusing your big day with DIY-inspired flair
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It’s a Midsummer Night’s nightmare. The centerpieces look nothing like they did on Pinterest. Visible droplets of hot glue are stuck to the burlap, the ribbon is haphazardly tied around the mason jars and a thin layer of mold seems to be growing on the wood slabs slated for the centerpieces. No, this version doesn’t come close to the whimsical “Midsummer Night’s ride magazineDream” I Summer/fall 2015 theme that you hoped to achieve.
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Wedding design and décor play a huge role in your big day, setting the tone for the ceremony and reception. And we all want that sparkling, polished look—but without the designer price tag. While this might be the era of the DIY-bride, not everyone can mirror the effortless craft of artisans on Pinterest and YouTube. But with these tips from area design experts, your décor will be Pin-worthy faster than you can say “I do.”
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Boldly go As owners of Bold Magnolia, a comprehensive wedding design and consultation service in Billings, Lauren Compton and Lisa Bofto specialize in bringing the abstract to life. With more than 20 years of décor and design experience, the pair creates unique, customized tablescapes, isle decorations and centerpieces. “As designers, we service all aspects of our décor ideas,” Bofto said. “We work one-on-one with our couples to develop a vision that will make their wedding décor stand out from others.” Sometimes, Bofto said, the only thing DIY brides need is a minor decorative adjustment on some of their already-crafted pieces or a dose of encouragement. Other times, though, a full-fledged decorative intervention is required (see centerpiece nightmare on previous page.)
Vision to reality
Starting a wedding board on Pinterest or simply pulling ideas from magazines is a viable first step to get your creative juices flowing. (Special tip: if you don’t want anyone to see what you’re up to, remember that you can keep your Pinterest board top-secret.) The key is to collect and save textures, colors and combinations that catch your eye and worry about how you will incorporate them later. For the DIY bride on a budget, dollar stores offer a variety of decorative items for your arsenal—glass vases, greenery, wickless candles and ribbon. When crafting centerpieces, try to steer clear of uber-fragrant flowers and candles that might be off-putting to guests with allergies. And remember that guests want to comfortably chat across the table, so keep centerpiece height in mind. Your bridesmaids’ bouquets can double as a simple, cheerful centerpiece—just add water.
White Christmas lights are transformed into twinkling stars when wrapped in a loose layer of organza—these look great on the head table or dangling from the ceiling. The guestbook table has also become a point of creative reference— some brides still opt for the traditional route of signing a satin book. Creative brides might ask guests to sign a favorite portrait or say “cheese” in a photo booth. However you decide to capture the memory of your guest list, remember to make it simple and speedy. You don’t want to hold everyone up from seeing the most important guests of all—you and your groom.
On trend
“Throughout years of decorating, we have seen many trends come and go, some great and some, well, let’s just say we’re glad they’re gone,” Bofto said. Some of Bofto’s favorite design elements include chandeliers, antique clocks and family heirlooms. She recently styled a wedding and designed 30 handmade hydrangea lamps, each crafted with more than 200 individual hydrangea flowers and pearl pins in the middle of each flower. “They rested upon tall, clear vases with hanging crystals,” Bofto said. “In the daylight, they were beautiful, but as night got darker, the lamps lit up and filled the room with a warm glow.” With regard to current local trends, Bofto expects to see more burlap-infused creations. For brides who prefer a contemporary vibe, Bofto suggests using industrialized elements like copper, glass vases and repurposed hardware. “I call it romance with an industrial twist,” Bofto said. For couples searching for a classic look with broad appeal, Bofto says that designs in silver and gold never go out of style.
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Big Sky Bride Magazine asked seven couples to share special moments from their big day in an album “photo story.” The traditional, the whimsical, the outdoor and the opulent are all here—each one as distinctly Montana as the next. Individual, personalized touches made them all unique— sweet, enduring love made each one special. Enjoy!
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AMY & JARED George • October 11, 2014
Lak e Lodge Lov e
Wedding and Reception: The Lodge at Whitefish Lake, Whitefish Photography By: Carrie-Ann Doyle
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Sometimes couples choose the wedding venue, and sometimes the venue chooses them. Such is the case with Amy and Jared George from Calgary, AB. The Lodge at Whitefish Lake in Whitefish, Mont. was like a “home away from home” for the couple, who fell in love with the venue’s rustic décor, helpful staff and breathtaking views. “We made it our little weekend getaway place, and now it is even more special to us,” Amy said. Jared even used the Lodge as the backdrop to pop the big question. “Jared said he wanted to watch the sunset so we brought a bottle of champagne down to the dock,” Amy said. “Just as the sun was melting over the lake, he got down on one knee and proposed.” The rustic charm and personal attachment made the lodge an obvious choice for the couple’s wedding venue. And on October 11, 2014 (during Canadian Thanksgiving weekend), the couple tied the knot in front of an intimate crowd of 60 guests. To personalize their big day, Amy and Jared opted for pies from Loula’s Café instead of traditional wedding cake and offered mini jars of Montana huckleberry jam as party favors. Pumpkins, fall fanfare and hand-crafted wooden accessories added to the autumn mystique. “And one of my favorites, rather than a guest book, we asked our guests to sign a globe over their favorite vacation spot, as Jared and I love to travel.”
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Abigail & Thomas Gallagher • July 26, 2014
nOW, “Then” & For ev er Wedding: St. Thomas the Apostle Church, Billings Reception: Billings Hotel and Convention Center Photography By: Daniel Sullivan
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Abbey and Thomas had spotted one another at church, but both were too shy to introduce themselves. Mutual friends—and a birthday just days apart—acted as the catalyst to bring them together. During their courtship, engagement and wedding, St. Thomas Church in Billings acted as the cornerstone to the couple’s relationship. Thomas proposed to Abbey by telling her they needed to go to the church to take parish pictures. Instead of photos, when they walked in, Abbey was greeted with an ornate, elaborate proposal complete with candles, music and a heartfelt speech. “He told me there was no better place to start the rest of our lives together than the first place we saw each other—a place we both loved,” Abbey said. For their wedding, the couple selected hues of ivory, grey, plum and praline to color their day. A momentous occasion for the couple, Abbey describes it as “…the day my daughter, husband and I all became a family, which truly cannot be put into words.” For their reception, Abbey, a facial plastic and cosmetic surgery consultant and Thomas, a plastic and reconstructive resident, chose the Billings Hotel and Convention Center. “The owners, who are dear family friends, made sure everything was perfect for our big day,” Abbey said. Inspiration from Pinterest drove Abbey’s DIY creativity in crafting centerpieces, isle decorations and other finishing touches. Another heartfelt element to their big day—the couple selected Brad Paisley’s “Then” as their wedding song, the melody Thomas was playing in the background during his proposal.
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Kelsey & Travis Grice • September 20, 2013
A Fairytale Ending
Wedding and Reception: Rock Creek Resort, Red Lodge Photography By: Miranda Murdock
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“Some people spend a lifetime searching for their soul mate, but we were fortunate to have met in high school,” said Kelsey Grice of her sweetheart, Travis. Kelsey, a radiation therapist at Billings Clinic Cancer Center and Travis, a miner at Stillwater Mining Company, had a storybook romance. Travis had initially planned to propose during a sunset balloon ride in Scottsdale, Ariz. (despite the fact that he is deathly afraid of heights). But inclement weather literally rained on his parade. He hatched a backup plan quickly, and instead opted for a beautiful drive to Sedona and hike along the breathtaking Red Rock Canyon. Under a soft canopy of sunlight with his soulmate by his side, Travis popped the question. “It was heart-warming knowing that Travis was willing to overcome his fear of heights to give me the perfect proposal,” Kelsey said. “And even though it didn’t go as he had planned, it was perfect.” The couple knew early-on they wanted a destination wedding, but didn’t want their family and friends to travel long distances. “Rock Creek Resort in Red Lodge would be our perfect Montana Destination Wedding,” Kelsey said. It was important to the couple that their attendants be comfortable, yet stylish during their big day. The bridesmaids donned dresses from Billings’ Bottega boutique and the gents wore Cinch jeans and matching shirts. “It was important to me to find a dress that all of my girls loved and could wear again,” Kelsey said. “And the guys were thrilled to be in something so comfortable.” sUMMER/fall magazine I 41 2015 I big sky
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Molly & Brett Solberg • October 11, 2014
Autum n Splendor Wedding: First Congregational Church, Billings Reception: Big Horn Resort Photography By: Jana Graham Photography
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Mutual friends doubled as matchmakers to introduce Molly, a structural engineer and Brett, an electronic banking specialist. The attraction was instant, but timing wasn’t quite right. The couple kept in touch, but pushed the pause button on dating until they both moved back to Billings after college graduation. One sun-shiny day—with the city of Billings as his backdrop—Brett took Molly for a walk on top of the Rims and began reminiscing about their relationship. “Much to my surprise, he pulled out a ring!” Molly said. Molly said “yes,” and the wedding planning began. The First Congregational Church in Billings served as their wedding venue because of its beauty, nostalgia and family history. A color scheme of rich eggplant and grey painted their big day, one that Molly says was absolutely perfect. “Brett and I could have been married in a shed, and it would have been the best day of my life,” Molly said, “but the company of our friends and family and the amazing setting put our wedding day over the top.” The couple chose to have their reception at Big Horn Resort because it afforded them so much freedom in customizing the space. One special touch Molly and her creative team included were sophisticated, yet simple, chandeliers fashioned from hula hoops and twinkling Christmas lights. But her favorite touch was something far more personal than that. “Brett, his dad and brothers wore silver lockets on their boutonnieres to remember his mom,” Molly said. “It was so special to look at them and know she was there.”
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Nicole & Andrew Ekberg • October 1, 2014Â
Destination Ev er After
Wedding and Reception: Marco Island Marriott Beach Resort, Marco Island, Fla. Photography By: Cabel Noteboom
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A penchant for travel and mutual attraction to the outdoors bonded Billings’ couple Nicole and Andrew Ekberg. Set up by a mutual friend, the pair first met at Tongue River Reservoir for a weekend of fun in the sun. The connection was instantaneous. After a lengthy courtship, Andrew decided to pop the question during a cruise with the same couple who introduced them. While at dinner, Andrew had the waiter bring Nicole an extra sweet piece of dessert—a slice of chocolate cake with an engagement ring inside. “When I realized what was happening, he took the ring, got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife.” Because most of Nicole’s family is from Billings and Andrew’s family is in Illinois, the couple knew that at least half of their family would have to travel to attend the ceremony. “So we decided to make a vacation out of it,” Nicole said. After extensive online research, Nicole decided on the Marco Island Marriott Beach Resort in Marco Island, Fla. A Technicolor sunset and crystalline beach surf would be the backdrop for the couple’s big day. Even though she was wed thousands of miles from Billings, Nicole took time and effort to integrate the ceremony with personalized touches. A heartfelt poem titled “These Hands” was read at the ceremony, and the officiant said a prayer for the couple and their 2-year-old daughter Mallory, who sUMMER/fall 2015 I big sky magazine I 45 delighted the crowd as flower girl.
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Rachel& Weston Kimm • July 5, 2014
In Lov e a nd Bask etball Wedding: Swan Ranch near Highwood Reception: Agriculture Museum in Fort Benton Photography By: Megan Lane Photography
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Sneakers, hardwood and a mutual affection for basketball bonded Rachel and Weston Kimm. Rachel was a basketball player in Bozeman for the Bobcats and Weston was a fan who played on the scout team. The coaches had two rules for scout team members: don’t injure or date the players. “Weston followed the rules for the most part, finally asking me out the middle of my senior season,” Rachel said. The rest, as they say, is history. The couple dated then got engaged in December of 2013. They chose Swan Ranch (Rachel’s aunt and uncle’s ranch) in the foothills of the Highwood Mountains as their wedding venue. Nostalgia reigned supreme during their nuptials—Rachel’s parents were married in the same locale 27 earlier. A spritely color palette of coral, navy and tan painted the day, one that Rachel and Weston held in sacred regard. “Our goal for the day was that God would be glorified and honored with how we committed our lives to one another,” Rachel said. The couple’s spirituality was reflected in hand-crafted signs, one made out of barn wood which read “Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good.” Other personalized touches included riding in Rachel’s grandfather’s 1967 Pontiac Catalina convertible and dancing to a tune titled “Pride and Joy of John and Lisa,” by James Intveld (Rachel’s parents’ names happen to be John and Lisa, a song Rachel’s uncle found for the couple and thought would fit perfectly for their sUMMER/fall 2015 Ifirst big skydance). magazine I 47
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Kristin & David McComb 窶｢ July 27, 2013
Par kside Promenade Wedding: Giant Springs State Park, Great Falls Reception: Hilton Garden Inn Photography By: Amber Fern窶認ern Photography
Sometimes loving someone means letting them go. David McComb, SSgt in USAF, didn’t want his girlfriend to miss out on the opportunity to attend college while he volunteered for a tour in Iraq, so the young couple amicably split up. Two years later, a phone call rekindled their love. “Out of the blue I received a call—it was David,” Kristin said. “I knew that it had to be fate that we were reunited.” Great Falls was home base for the couple, who dated for a year then got engaged. The two planned a summer wedding for July, 2013. The venue, Giant Springs State Park, was not the couple’s initial choice—but the rustic charm, proximity to friends and family and soft flowing breeze served as the perfect backdrop. “Standing at the altar, staring in each other’s eyes, the world seemed to just stop,” Kristin said. “I don’t remember anything around us, it was still and quiet. All that mattered was us, joining together as husband and wife.” Because Kristin has a flair for the creative as a graphic designer, she hand-crafted the stationery, centerpieces and wedding altar (made from aspen trees from Lincoln, Mont.) Kristin’s mom crafted the ring pillow and burned the couple’s initials into wooden hearts attached to the mason jars at the reception. All of the intimate, personalized details perfectly complemented the couple’s timeless palette of purple and slate grey.
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A lifetime of love By Brittany Cremer
It is with personal affection and esteem that we introduce Robert “Bob” and Agnes Cremer of Miles City, the oldest* married couple in Montana—also, my grandparents. June 21, 2015 will earmark an incredible 74 years of marriage for the Cremers, who have received letters of distinction from high-level clergy, state officials and the governor for their life-long commitment to each other. So what’s the secret to their enduring love? “The most important thing is to be forgiving,” Agnes said. “There will be hurts along the way, but don’t hold grudges.” The couple, who married at Sacred Heart Church in Miles City in 1941, was blessed with five children, 14 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren. “We get so busy in life, but should never be too busy to stop and tell each other ‘I love you,’” Agnes said. “Take the time to be kind and loving with each other.”
Top right: Bob and Agnes Cremer, circa 1941. Right: Bob and Agnes today, photo by Whitney Bird. *Awarded in February 2015 by the Worldwide Marriage Encounter, a faith-based marriage enrichment program in the U.S .
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