KENNY KUPID

Letter to my angels, just for giggles

Hello angels,

It’s been a while since I’ve been out in the halls of BK striking young love birds with my arrow. Don’t worry; I’m back again to help solve all your love problems.

While I was in Kupid Quarantine, new relationships, questions and dating obstacles arose.

The pandemic made cities lockdown and couples learned to strengthen their relationships via internet communication. Dates were set up through FaceTime or Zoom instead of in person. Social distancing doesn’t allow for cuddling and watching a movie together, but groupvideo streaming became available on many platforms like Disney+ to allow couples to enjoy time together while apart.

Needless to say, love during the pandemic has forever changed the way we communicate and the interactions couples can have. This new way of dating can be difficult, so here are some tips for a thriving relationship during the pandemic.

Maintain daily communication.

One of the key parts of a relationship is being there for one another. Discussing the inner workings of your day via FaceTime, text, Snapchat or any platform allows the other person to be involved in your life. It’s a simple yet pivotal way to still connect your love bug.

Be creative.

In the last year, normal date ideas were no longer useful and pandemic-style dating can be drab. Consider taking walks and hikes, picnics, painting, cooking or baking, riding bikes, making Tik Tok videos, photo shoots of each other, board and card games, drive-in movies and tanning are some fresh ideas.

Have patience and empathy.

Understand and accept that people feel uncertain and anxious during this unprecedented time, and allow patience when a person does not have the time or energy that day. It does not mean they don’t appreciate you; they may just need a break.

Keep it small.

If all the pandemic dating and Zoom calls start taking a toll on you and you miss physical connection, k e e p your friend group small and create a personal bubble. Keep track of who you hang out with and who you come in contact with. Personal contact tracing can allow you to see friends and family safely. Make sure to take precautions to ensure everyone stays safe from COVID-19 by wearing a mask, using hand sanitizer and washing your hands frequently. Try to hold events outside when possible or spread out. When available, protect yourself by receiving the COVID-19 vaccine at local pharmacies and vaccination sites. 5. Remember that love is kind. Be gentle to those you love and cherish them. If you truly value someone, then treat them as you wish to be treated.

For inquiries, questions and advice, fill out the Google form each month on Schoology to receive Kenny Kupid advice.

Stay safe, my angels.

“Love during the pandemic has forever changed the way we communicate and the interactions couples can have”

KENNY KUPID