MALTESE WEDDING GUEST ETIQUETTE

WEDDINGS AROUND THE WORLD VARY AND SO DOES THE EXPECTED BEHAVIOUR OF GUESTS. WE SHARE A FEW TIPS ON NAVIGATING A MALTESE WEDDING AND HOW TO BE PART OF THE CELEBRATIONS.

On the big day, it's important to let the bride shine and stand out. Avoid wearing white or ivory-colored outfits, and be mindful of following the specified dress code, depending on the type of wedding. For example, stilettos may not be practical for a beach or garden wedding, as they'll limit your movement on solid ground throughout the reception.

If you're attending the ceremony, make sure to arrive before the bride. If you happen to be late, wait until she walks down the aisle and then find a seat towards the back. After the ceremony, the celebration continues at the reception. However, remember that it's not a time to indulge excessively in food. While the couple will be mingling with guests, be prepared. Time your bites carefully to avoid awkwardly greeting them with a mouthful of food. Also, hold your glass in your left hand, leaving your right hand free for handshakes.

For Maltese weddings, if there's a gift list, try to adhere to it. If you choose a cash gift, hand it to the maid of honour or best man at the reception, who will pass it on to the couple. They often come around with a ‘collection’ basket and give favours out to guests in return. Most Maltese weddings are a stand up affair – though on the sister island of Gozo, you are more likely to have a seated reception. There may be themed tables featuring different cuisines such as Chinese food, cheese, or pasta. If you decide to partake, remember that it's not a race. Give enough space to the person in front of you to avoid poking them with your plate. Moreover, resist the temptation to overload your plate with food.

When it comes to beverages, exercise caution. If you're driving, know your limits and avoid becoming rowdy or drawing excessive attention to yourself. The first dance is reserved for the bride and groom, so refrain from showing off your dance moves right away. Soon enough, the dance floor will open up, and guests c an join in th e fun.

While you may be tempted to share photos of the newlyweds, you really should refrain from posting any photos on any socials or chats before the couple does. They should have the privilege of deciding when and how their photos are shared.

If you find yourself feeling tired and ready to leave, hang on until the cake cutting ceremony.

Lastly, take a few minutes after the wedding to send a thank you note to the couple. Expressing your gratitude and well wishes is a courteous gesture that will be appreciated!