Patrick Henry Orator Fall 2016

THE MAGAZINE OF PATRICK HENRY FAMILY SERVICES

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Safe Families for Children

Remembering Robert McCullough

Our 46th Annual Awards Ceremony

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Letter from the Editor:

Doing it Right!

One of the highlights for us at Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes is our annual Awards Ceremony. Held just before summer break, Board of Trustee members, all youth, staff, many friends, and most families gather to celebrate the accomplishments and successes of the youth within our care.

We often beam with pride seeing the young lives that have been enriched and rewarded through our characterbased program and by a youth’s own commitment and determination for better outcomes.

This year a very special young man graduated not only from high school while with us, but after three years left reunified with his family headed back north. When he came to us his temper was strong, his attitude overly confident, and his mouth sharp. There was no trace of the negative behavior that once ruled his decisions when he was recognized at this year’s ceremony. In fact, we were all very happy, yet a tinge sad to say goodbye to this amazing and often very funny young man.

Not long after his return home, we received the following message from his mother: "I love the pictures, thank you so very much for everything. It was great meeting you and our son’s family for the past three years there. I really

appreciate everything that Patrick Henry did for our son … the time, the important values, and for being in his life to help him mature and grow to become the young man that he has become. When I first visited PHBGH and left my baby (then a young boy), I was afraid and didn’t know what to expect. All types of questions ran through my mind, was your school a good fit, will he be OK there, I mean all kinds of questions. Now to see his growth overall, is AMAZING. He has learned how to communicate with others, his mannerisms and behavior have excelled past my belief, and to see the loving, caring, and spiritual man my son has become, I can say I am very glad I was able to share my son with PHBGH. I cannot express how blessed and thankful I am, that you were/are in our lives. So from our son and our family to the Patrick Henry family, THANK YOU so very much.”

When you receive a communication such as this, there is only one acceptable response: we hit our knees and thanked our Heavenly Father for using us as instruments of His love and peace to change a life!

Questions or comments about The Orator?

Contact Jennifer Wall at 434-376-2006, ext. 213 or at jwall@patrickhenry.org

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The generous support of donors allows Patrick Henry to mail The Orator to suppor ters as well as to others who may be unaware of Patrick Henr y Family Services.

Chief Executive Officer Robert J. Day, M.S.W., M. DIV Board of Trustees, Executive Committee Mr. Steve Bowery, Salem Ms. Bonnie B. Crews, Rustburg Mrs. Beverley E. Dalton, Altavista Mr. Michael F. Daly, Lynchburg Mr. J. Michael Davidson, Brookneal Mr. David J. Marshall, Forest Mr. Aubrey L. Mason, Lynchburg Mr. Winfred D. Nash, Appomattox Mr. Brandon S. Osterbind, Esq., Rustburg Mrs. Teresa L. Sanderson, Lynchburg Mr. J. Blair Smith, Appomattox Mr. Hunter R. Watson, Farmville A financial statement is available with the State Division of Consumer Affairs.

Contributions to Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes are tax deductible as allowed by law. Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes is a tax-exempt corporation under Internal Revenue Code 501(c)(3).

Administration - 434-376-2006 Admissions - 434-376-6917 Fax - 434-376-3003 Web - www.patrickhenry.org

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In This Issue Our Mission........................................................3 63 Years of Giving..............................................4 In Loving Memory..............................................5 46th Annual Awards Ceremony.......................6 New PHBGH Director.........................................9 Hope for Tomorrow............................................10 The Color Run...................................................11 Safe Families for Children............................. 12 Homes of Hope................................................14 SFFC and DSS..................................................15 A Camping Season of Many Firsts.................16 Robert J. Day's Gripping Story in Print......... 18

The Orator is written by the staff and children at Patrick Henry and original artwork by the children is featured from time to time. The Orator is edited and proofed entirely in-house by Patrick Henry staff. The only aspects of production done outside of Patrick Henry are the design, printing and mailing.

Junior Park Rangers....................................... 20 Outer Banks 2016...........................................21 Healing through Horsemanship.................... 22 Patrick Henry Stars......................................... 23 With a Little Help from Our Friends...............24 Heroes of Hope............................................... 25 An Extraordinary Weekend............................ 26 The Honor and Memorial Register................27 Youth Philanthropy Committee..................... 36 Straight Talk with Robert Day.........................37 Friends of PHFS Receive Chairs................... 38 Ending the Year Well...................................... 39

Nick and Bambi Durham Kathy Guthrie Claudia Fletcher, Chief Program Officer

Contributions: Donate online at www.patrickhenry.org, or mail to: Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes 264 Red Hill Road P.O. Box 1398 Brookneal, VA 24528-1398

OUR MISSION: To meet the needs of every child before us, resulting in the maximum impact for that Child, in the shortest time possible, in the most efficient way possible, always in a loving and professional manner.

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he vision of Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) is the backbone of our organization. In order to fulfill that vision and to help children and families contend with the overwhelming challenges posed by today’s turbulent cultural trends, we have built upon the original 1961 residential care concept with a series of interconnecting ministries. Each ministry complements the other and together they work to make a difference in the lives hurting children.

Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes (PHBGH) was founded as a living memorial to one of America’s most passionate patriots and Orator. PHBGH is our cornerstone site operation which has served vulnerable youth for 55 years. Our five homes minister to children ages six through eighteen and are able to handle up to 40 youth at a time. Each home is under the care of Christian houseparents, who model a loving family environment and encourage youth through all challenges.

Hope for Tomorrow Counseling (HFT) one of PHFS ever expanding ministries, currently operates Christian counseling centers in Lynchburg, South Boston, Farmville, Bedford, and Danville. Founded to serve the counseling needs of our own youth, due to its success has grown to serve the needs of over 900 hurting children and adults across Virginia. Over the years, we realized that many of the situations that led children to our care might have been avoided through counseling.

Hat Creek Camps invites children of all ages to explore and enjoy 345 acres of picturesque rolling hills and adventure packed challenges during summer camp no matter their economic circumstances. At camp children experience the excitement and achievement associated with outdoor activities, while benefitting from the example of Christian mentors. The Retreat Center at Hat Creek offers year round serene conference services to churches, businesses, clubs and civic groups.

Safe Familes for Children helps parents who are struggling to provide a safe home due to varying circumstances, temporarily place their children in the safe and loving homes of volunteers.

While their children are being cared for, parents are given the breathing room they need to restore stability in their lives. They are supported in a myriad of ways through Safe Families volunteers, in help reunited their family as soon as possible.

Straight Talk Radio is an inspirational radio program offering motivating, uplifting and encouraging messages on many of the most challenging issues facing youth, families and leaders today. Robert Day pulls from scripture and employs his own moving personal story and dynamic testimony to touch hearts and inspire lives. His unique insights challenge listeners to live more Christ-centered lives.

860 Red Hill Road | Brookneal, VA 24528 | 434.376.2006 | www.patrickhenry.org

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63YEARS OF GIVING with No End in Sight

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hile Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) has benefited over the years from the enormous generosity of many families and patrons, only one family has consistently given financially as well as personally for over 63 years, the English family of Altavista, Virginia.

Beginning in 1953, Mr. Edward R. “Red” English joined what was then known as Patrick Henry Boys Plantation as a Trustee. In 1959, his company, the English Construction Company, built the first building on the property, the Alice Kyle/Max Kuniansky Cottage. As an added benefit, it donated the construction of a fishing pond for future enjoyment.

On June 13, 1961, Mr. E.R. English and his brother Mr. W. Curtis English made a challenge offer to build and donate another building like the Alice Kyle/Max Kuniansky building if the citizens of Campbell County would match their gift with a third building of the same size. In 1963 eleven excited boys moved into the English Cottage!

As noted in Robert W. McCullough’s book, A History of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Plantation, Inc.: Mr. E.R. “Red” English along with his brother, Mr. W. Curtis English, provided financial support and encouragement at a crucial time that provided encouragement for others to support this young, struggling program. … The English family participation in the Plantation ministry has never ceased and they continue to make it possible for many children to have that important second chance in life.

Though both English gentlemen are now deceased, the English torch of support continues today through their foundations and, most importantly, through the hands-on involvement of Beverley English Dalton, daughter of Mr. W. Curtis English and niece of Mr. E.R. English. Beverley Dalton joined the Dr. O.E. Howe Board in 1993, which not only built the girls home in Rustburg, but aids in funding the operating budget of the home known as the Dr. O.E. Howe Cottage. In addition to serving on the Howe Board,

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Beverley Dalton has served on the Board of Directors for PHFS since 1999. In 2006, she was elected to serve on the PHFS Executive Committee.

Before passing away in May, 2016, Dr. Robert McCullough telephoned the Orator editor Jennifer Wall to discuss the involvement and generosity of the English family over many years. He went through details of their generosity and closed by saying, “Hallmark in the character of the English family is their unselfish commitment to giving.”

“Our family considers the opportunity to support PHFS a living testament to our appreciation for all that has been given to us,” said Beverley Dalton. “Not only did my father and uncle truly enjoy their involvement and support of Patrick Henry, but so did my mother. As a child, before there was a girls’ home, I can remember her bringing into our home other young girls in need! I am fortunate to have married a man, Doug Dalton, who also supports the collective generosity of those that came before us.”

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hen the telephone call came on May 11 saying that Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Plantation's beloved former Executive Director of 32 years, and Board member for an additional 20 years, had gone home to be with his Heavenly Father, there were few dry eyes. While many of today’s Patrick Henry Family Services employees may not have known him, and many had not even met him, still everyone knew of Robert W. McCullough and his tremendous contributions to our ministry.

“Though we no longer have Bob McCullough’s counsel, we inherited a great and honorable legacy from him.”

-Robert Day Shirley Moorman, Patrick Henry Trustee Emeritus, shared the following eulogy at his funeral. We believe it to be a memorable testament to a man well loved by the Patrick Henry family: Never did I leave Bob McCullough’s company without having learned something new and without feeling uplifted.

Bob had a particularly endearing way of making one feel extra special. His strong leadership skills were unequaled as apparent in his vision for Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Plantation, which he so strongly and tirelessly led for 30 years. His love for and sincere interest in the children in his care did not go unnoticed.

Adjectives that immediately come to mind at the mere mention of his name are honesty, integrity, sincerity, Christian, determination, humility, and a well-founded love for and devotion to his family and friends. Bob enjoyed a good sense of humor but more than that he had massive common sense and his wise counsel proved invaluable.

Some men, when they die after having lived busy, successful lives, leave a great stock of securities or acres of land or lots of money. Bob banked his treasures in the hearts of his friends, and we will cherish his memory until our time comes.

Here’s to the memory of a dear, beloved friend whose like we shall never see again. We will miss you, Bob McCullough.

We already do.

“Though we no longer have Bob McCullough’s counsel, we inherited a great and honorable legacy from him,” said PHFS CEO Robert Day. “In keeping with that legacy, this year at our Annual Awards program we inaugurated the Robert and Lois McCullough Character Award to be presented to the youth who represents the strongest character and integrity. The award is sponsored by PHFS in tribute to the strong character legacy exemplified by Robert and Lois McCullough.”

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hrough our Annual Awards Ceremony, PHFS celebrates the ways in which youth overcome challenges, and recognizes students who have excelled academically in their schools and workplaces. As the PHBGH youth are recognized for their accomplishments, Trustees, staff, supporters, family, and friends are themselves inspired by these amazing individuals.

who are judged to be the most outstanding athletes in the various organized athletic events in which the residents have the opportunity to participate. This year’s recipients were Elijah and Katlynn.

This year’s ceremony in June was the 46th annual event, and included the following awards:

The Shaffer and Overbey Outstanding Citizenship Awards are competitive achievement recognition awards. Each boy and girl is evaluated annually and given points in 12 categories; those receiving the highest number of points, as judged by a staff committee, were awarded the Outstanding Citizenship Awards.

This year’s recipients were Chris and Katlyn.

The Christie Fariss Hite Memorial Ambassador Award recognizes the contribution of the female resident who best represents PHBGH at churches, civic clubs, and special occasions by their testimony or talent. Beanna was this year’s recipient.

The Kenneth L., Sr. and Lucy Woodall Harris Ambassador Award recognizes the contribution of the male resident who best represents PHBGH at churches, civic clubs, and special occasions by their testimony or talent. Chase was this year’s recipient.

The Philippians 4:13 Outstanding Athlete Award and the Lt. Col. and Mrs. Eldon Cox Outstanding Athlete awards are given to encourage each child in the program to put forth his or her maximum effort and develop his or her skills to the fullest in competitive sports. The awards were presented to the residents

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The Shaffer Academic Leadership Award was established to encourage excellence in academic performance. The recipient must be an individual who has maintained the highest grade point average for the first five of the six grading periods. This year’s recipient is Alex.

Other youth were honored for excelling academically and for being recognized by their schools. PHBGH youth receiving all As for the academic school year were Michael and Chase.

Residents receiving A/B Honor Roll for the academic school year were Kisean, Malcom, Tori, and Alex. Youth receiving advanced SOL scores (500 and above) were Chris, Chase, and Joel. Two

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Photo Key: 1. Chase and CEO Robert Day. 2. Katlyn receives the Overbey Outstanding Citizenship Award from PHFS Trustee Winfred Nash. 3. PHBGH young adults Josh, Erica, Lynn, Tori, and Ryan receive PH scholarships, given by Lucy Woodall Harris. 4. Kisean receives the Dr. Culver Miller Great Effort Award from Trustee David Marshall. 5. Chase receives the Kenneth L., Sr. and Lucy Woodall Harris Ambassador Award from Trustee Lucy Woodall Harris. 6. Beanna receives the Christie Fariss Hite Memorial Ambassador Award given from Brenda Fariss. 7. Caleb receives the Archer Carr Satterfield Work Ethic Award given by Trustee Hunter Watson. 8. Mikey receives the inaugural Robert & Lois McCullough Character Award from Trustee Aubrey Mason. 9. Chris receives the Shaffer Outstanding Citizenship Award from Trustee Ken Arthur. 10. Malcolm receives the Diamond Hill Presbyterian Church Godly Man Award given by Faye Mathews. 11. Katlynn receives the Lt. Col. and Mrs. Eldon Cox Outstanding Athlete Award from Ken Arthur. 12. Mikey stands alongside his award sponsor Lois McCullough. 13. Alex receives the Shaffer Academic Leadership Award from Trustee Brandon Osterbind. 14. Janae receives the Dr. O.E. Howe Board Virtuous Woman Award from PHFS Case Worker Crystal Morton. 15. Matthew receives the Sgt. Jason C. Carr Memorial Academic Award Improvement Award from Mrs. James Carr (mother of Sgt. Jason C. Carr). 16. Yasemeen receives the Mr. and Mrs. Lewis C. Moorman Most Improved Award from David Marshall.

PHBGH youth received PERFECT SOL scores, Chase and Alex.

and Yasemeen were the award recipients.

PHFS Trustee and Chair of the PHBGH Scholarship committee Lucy Woodall Harris presented Lynn, Tori, Erica, Josh, Ryan, and Taylor with scholarships to aid in their college education.

Dr. Culver Miller Great Effort Award is presented to the resident who has consistently demonstrated his or her best effort in all that they do. A positive attitude and determined effort are the marks of residents receiving these awards. This year’s recipient was Kisean.

Support Services Manager Brian Dempsey recognized those PHBGH youth who have “not only successfully navigated the transition to Patrick Henry and cottage life, but have gone above and beyond and successfully held employment outside of Patrick Henry. It is important to remember that it is difficult for anyone to balance a job and full-time school, but Lynn, Caleb, Elijah, and Tori have accomplished just that.”

Archer Carr Satterfield Work Ethic Awards are presented to a boy and a girl in the program who exhibit the best all-around work ethic in all endeavors, including, but not limited to: cottage responsibilities, yard work, academic work, extracurricular and athletic participation, and community service. Paid employment is also considered, when applicable. This year’s recipients were Caleb and Tori.

The Sgt. Jason C. Carr Memorial Academic Improvement Award and the Mr. and Mrs. Lewis C. Moorman Most Improved Award are competitive progress awards for a boy and girl who show the most improvement during the academic school year. Matthew

The Charlean Light Carson Memorial Music Award is given in recognition of the boy or the girl who uses his or her talent to the best purposes. The criteria for judging the recipients of this award are based on overall performance, use of abilities, development of talent, and participation in areas where the music is demonstrated. Tori was the recipient of this year’s award, and blessed the audience with a solo performance of “Jesus Take the Wheel.”

PHFS Chief Program Officer Claudia F. Fletcher delivered the moving keynote address titled How Much Is One Child Worth.

In doing so she said, “Worth can be defined by how much someone is willing to pay for something. Often my children will ask me, ‘How can this thing cost so much?’ and I always respond, ‘Because people are willing to pay that price for it.’"

“So if the worth of a child—or the worth of anything—is defined by how much someone is willing to pay, then we know for sure

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Photo Key: 17. The Zimmerman Family attended the Awards Ceremony in support of the accomplishments of the PHBGH youth. 18. Following the Awards Ceremony Chris was reunited with his family. 19. Dante and his mother Deborah Chambers smile big, happy that their family was reunited again. 20. Yasemeen with her great Aunt Joyce Webb. 21.You know you are appreciated when your seniors have a little fun at your expense. Erica, Lynn, Dante and Tori surround Robert Day. 22. The Plymale boys having a little of brotherly fun before the Awards Ceremony, Joel, Kisean, Matthew, Dante, Chris, and Timothy.

that every child—and, in fact, every adult—is priceless. Because God gave the most important thing He had—his only Son—to die for us. Jesus paid the ultimate price, because we were worth it.”

Robert and Lois McCullough Character Award is presented to the youth who represents the strongest character and integrity.

The award is sponsored by PHFS in tribute to the strong character legacy exemplified by Robert and Lois McCullough.

This year’s recipient is Michael.

The Diamond Hill Presbyterian Church Godly Man Award is given to encourage growth and Christian maturity in our male youth. It is presented to the one boy in the program who best exemplifies the biblical description of a godly man and who seeks to be an example to others through his words and deeds.

Malcom was this year’s recipient.

The Dr. O. E. Howe Board Most Virtuous Woman is given to encourage growth and Christian maturity in the residents of the girls’ homes. It is presented to the one girl in the program who best exemplifies the biblical description of a virtuous woman and who seeks to be an example to others through her words and deeds. Janae was this year’s recipient.

Chief Advancement Officer Jeffrey R. Fulgham, CFRE presented three special scholarships to those Seniors in the PHBGH program who have demonstrated character-strength and need. The recipients were Dante, Tori, Lynn, and Erica.

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The Carl Mylius Awards are sponsored by Mr. and Mrs. Ray Turner, Jr. in memory of Mr. Carl Mylius and are given to the residents graduating from high school and entering college in the fall of the same year who have the best academic average for the past two years of high school and have a financial need for help. This year’s awards went to Lynn and Erica.

The Donald C. Seagroves Memorial Scholarship Award was established by Mrs. Wanda Seagroves in memory of her late husband. It is presented to a high school senior who is awarded a scholarship by the Scholarship Committee and who demonstrates the most initiative and financial need. Tori was the 2016 recipient of this award.

The Norman B. Dennis Jr. Memorial Scholarship Award was established by Mrs. Patricia L. Dennis in memory of her late husband. It is presented to a worthy recipient in the Step Forward program who needs additional assistance. This year’s recipient is Lynn.

Following recognition of the PHFS Residential Care and Supporting Staff by CEO Robert Day, President of the Board of Trustees Michael Davidson closed the evening with a standing ovation in recognition of Lois McCullough and the late Robert McCullough. “We stand on solid ground today because

of the foundation they laid 50 years ago.”

“God Thing”

Another Comes the PHFS Way!

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hen “God Things” come your way you just know it.

At Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) we rejoice in the many “God Things” that come our way. Recently, we were in need of a new Director of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes (PHBGH) and Mary Beth Burgess was in need of a new job. As she and her husband, Scott, were finishing their morning devotions, having prayed for God to open a door of opportunity to serve children, she picked up her cell phone. On the phone was a Facebook message from Chief Program Officer Claudia Fletcher curious to know if she was looking for a job!

“It was definitely a God Thing,” exclaimed Fletcher. “I am thrilled to have someone as experienced and competent as Mary Beth coming to PHFS to lead PHBGH. Her wealth of knowledge about child welfare, her gracious spirit, and her love for the Lord and His work will allow her to lead well.”

“In just the first two weeks of being in her new position, she is making positive connections and building a great sense of camaraderie and community in her staff. I look forward to many years of working with her as she takes our programs to the next level.”

Burgess has worked with children and families in nonprofit Christian ministry since 1986, fifteen of those years as Director of Catholic Charities and another eight years as Executive Director and then Regional Director for Bethany Christian Services. Her commitment to children and families is clearly deep-seated.

“I am passionate about safe environments for children and strengthening families,” said Burgess. “When I learned of the job opening, I went to the web site and immediately fell in love with both the Vision and Mission statements:” Our Vision is to meet the needs of every child before us, resulting in the maximum impact for that child, in the shortest time possible, in the most efficient way possible, always in a loving and professional manner.

Our Mission is to provide a continuum of services to distressed children and families that will keep children safe and families together and successful when possible.

“My immediate goal is to see more children served and

Mary Beth Burgess to develop a system to measure the success of our programs. We simply want kids to live better and to grow up with opportunities to succeed.”

“As the Director of PHBGH, I want to provide ongoing training, education, and support for our houseparents who are working very hard day in and day out serving our children. They need to know they have the support of the whole team from the education coordinator to the caseworkers, intake workers, and senior leadership.”

“As we serve more children, I am committed to seeking new opportunities to serve those children in the best environments, whether that be cottage care, therapeutic cottage care, or through our own foster-parent care.

Together we can build an incredibly strong team of passionate and committed individuals to serve children and families.”

Mary Beth and Scott have four children and three grandchildren. They now live on the main Brookneal campus.

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Counseling Jim Herron and Susan Chandler

HOPE FOR TOMORROW Counseling Centers

Gains a New Director of Business Development and Opens Office in Danville.

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n order to grow you must have vision,” PHFS Chief Program A MINISTRY OF Officer Claudia Fletcher often says.

PatrickonHenry “We are focused growing our Family(HFT) Services Hope for Tomorrow counseling centers. In order to accomplish that goal, we wanted to bring a visionary on staff, one grounded in successful professional counseling, committed to helping those struggling with various issues, and focused on ways of reaching many more individuals and families in need of our Christian based counseling. We believe we have found just the man for the job: Jim Herron.”

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Jim Herron is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. He has a Master’s Degree in Practical Theology from Cincinnati Christian Seminary and a Master’s Degree in Child and Family Development from Virginia Tech. He has been in private practice in Virginia since 1996. As an ordained minister, he has 25 years of experience in ministry.

His clinical experience includes the treatment of a wide variety of problems and issues. He has focused his practice on the treatment of anxiety disorders, stress management, adults with ADHD, adoption issues, spiritual issues, faith development, men’s problems, and coaching for fathers.

“It is rewarding to be at a place in your life where you are able to take another step in the direction of

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helping others,” said HFT Director Jim Herron. “I see so many hurting AA M MIINNIISSTTRRYY OOFF people and I know that in order to Patrick Patrick Henry bring about healing andHenry hope they Family Services Services need positiveFamily professional Christian Counseling. I have watched HFT for a number of years and admired their ability to make a difference not only in the lives of children, but also parents and adults. I am looking forward to the growth we will see in the upcoming months!

“Speaking of growth, on September 1 we opened our Danville office,” Herron said. “HFT is excited to expand our services into Danville. We have wanted to open a counseling center there for quite a while, it just has taken time to find the right location.

We are looking forward to serving individuals of all ages, couples, and families. We want to work especially with the church community as we offer faith-based counseling.

“We have two excellent licensed therapists, Jonci Berneche and Susan Chandler, who will be working in the Danville counseling center.

Both are trained and experienced to help people dealing with a wide range of emotional, mental, and relational issues.

“The vision of HFT is to provide quality professional counseling throughout central and Southside Virginia,” continued Herron. “Danville is a key community to Southside Virginia, therefore we are pleased to join the other mental health

service providers in meeting the needs of the people in the Danville AA MMI INNI ISSTTRRYY OOFF area, and especially in offering Patrick Patrick Henry Henry Christian counseling.”

Family Family Services Services

Within its professional Christianbased counseling services, the mission of HFT is to help individuals walk from brokenness to healing... to serve people who have found themselves at a place where their life no longer works. Founded initially to offer counseling for the youth of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes, HFT rapidly became an outreach due to its successful reputation with youth and focus on restorative services for families.

To accomplish its mission, HFT has licensed clinicians dedicated to counseling children, adolescents and adults in order to resolve conflict, mend relationships and, whenever possible, restore families. Through counseling and connections with resources and tools, clients begin the task of working through the challenging situations they face.

In addition to the newly opened Danville office located at 753 Main Street, HFT has counseling offices in Lynchburg, South Boston, Farmville, and Bedford. To learn more about HFT or to schedule an appointment, please call 434-239-4949 or visit HopeForTomorrowCounseling.org.

Color Run

What A Difference A Bit Of COLOR Can Make!

“As a counselor with Hope for Tomorrow (HFT), I am always trying to find ways to positively connect with those we serve in order to bring about better tomorrows,” said Jane Snider, HFT Clinical Supervisor for Programming. “Last year I brought in a medal that I had received from my participation in the Color Run in Roanoke. Not only was I proud of it, but I often share such things in order to let others know that it is never too late to have a happy and successful life, especially when someone is willing to try out new things. I was beyond thrilled when one of the teens I was counseling not only asked me about the medal, but asked if he could run it with me in 2016.”

The challenge was set. Thankfully, Patrick Henry Family Services stepped up to the plate and paid for the teen to participate.

What is the Color Run? Known as the Happiest 5k on the Planet, it is a five-kilometer, un-timed race

held in more than 50 countries where participants are covered in different colors from head to toe at each kilometer (see www.thecolorrun.com).

Founded in 2011, the event promotes healthiness and happiness across the globe and raises funds for various charities.

“When Mrs. Snider promised that we would both participate in April, I was ecstatic,” said Matthew.

“While I had never done anything like that, I knew the experience would be rewarding. Not only was it rewarding, it was amazing, color and all!”

“We finished the Tropicolor Color Run, ate at Chickfil-A (a first for me), and were blessed by a day of laughter and fun. I am so proud to work for an organization that will make things happen for just ONE child! Now I have two medals hanging in my office and some cherished memories. Something tells me I will have a car full of Patrick Henry participants for the Color Run next year!!!” concluded Jane Snider.

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Gains Success in the Virginia Legislature

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atrick Henry Family Services could not have asked for a more successful media launch of their Safe Families for Children ministry than was held on August 3, 2016. It was a gorgeous day at the Bella Rose Plantation, but more to the point the media coverage was exceptional. Speakers included Delegate Kathy J. Byron, Thomas Road Baptist Church Senior Pastor Jonathan P. Falwell, SFFC Director Patrick S. Neff, Bedford County Social Services Director Andrew L. Crawford, and PHFS CEO Robert J. Day.

Director of SFFC Patrick Neff launched the media event saying, “For the past 55 years Patrick Henry has been committed to providing quality care for children and support for families. In recent years our passion and commitment to keep kids safe and families strong has only grown. We have searched and sought out the best practices and programs that are available which benefit the wellbeing and preservation of the family. Over three years ago a national program, SFFC, came to our attention which was having amazing success in the area of prevention and family stabilization. It was at this time that we also discovered that leadership at the state level was also looking at this program to enhance their current diversion program.”

SFFC has been instrumental all across the country in transforming how agencies and communities harness the power of the volunteer faith-based community to provide real solutions for families that are in crisis.

The goal of SFFC is three fold: 1. Child protection, keeping kids safe by placing them in a safe, temporary home while parents are helped.

2. Deflection from foster care; as prevention we can intervene before a family would fall apart or need foster care.

3. Stabilizing the family; the best way to protect children is by strengthening the family and keeping families together.

“I specifically thank Delegate Kathy Byron and Senator Steve Newman to whom we reached out for support in the Virginia Legislature at the onset of developing favorable legislation,” continued Neff. “With their support and the recommendation of the Virginia Commission on Youth, the 2016 Virginia Legislature authorized the SFFC pilot program for Planning District 11 to be included in the 2016-17 Budget amendment.”

“It is always great to be with PHFS,” said Delegate Kathy Byron.

“They have been working for generations to ensure the wellbeing of children and families throughout our region. Their commitment to service – and their values founded in faith – have made a real difference in lives that might otherwise have gone in very different directions. They embody and exemplify what should come to mind when we use the word ‘community.’

It is an example of what is possible when people of faith give of themselves to improve the lives of those closest to them in need.”

“That is what SFFC is all about – putting children first by understanding that persevering through crisis is a lot easier when it requires the least disruption. When the care of a child

Pictured at top, left to right: Henry Carter, Ruby Caskey, Patrick Neff, Sheree Bryant, and Debbie Musselman

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is temporarily entrusted to those committed to restoring stability and maintaining the love that best comes through family, it benefits that child and strengthens community.”

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“I was honored to promote the mission of SFFC in the General Assembly,” continued Delegate Byron. “While I know that we are only at the earliest stages of implementing this program in Virginia, I believe it will: • Serve more children and families in crisis.

• Save taxpayers more dollars.

• Reduce the burden on DSS and the court system.”

“In addition to all the attributes I respect about SFFC,” said Jonathan Falwell, “I also respect that this program will further benefit families in-need through mentorship. Seeing is so important to believing. As Christian host families mentor the reflection of who God is, the love of Jesus, and genuine goodness they will bring hope, life and joy into the lives of both the children and parents that they will be serving.

While Thomas Roads Baptist church is honored to be a SFFC church, it will take many more churches to accomplish ultimate success. I am praying that Virginia church families will maximize the SFFC program.”

Brandon Osterbind, Brenda Davidson, Michael Davidson, Stephen Edwards, Wynde Edwards,

and Henry Carter.

Director of Bedford Social Services Andrew Crawford also spoke of his support of the SFFC program. He later remarked, “SFFC caught my attention several years ago while attending a conference in Chicago with the Virginia Department of Social Services. One of the speakers at the conference was Dr. David Anderson, founder of SFFC. Dr. Anderson shared how our current child welfare system of government protecting children from their parents is basically one generation old.

Pryor to government’s involvement, the church or other faith based organizations cared for vulnerable children.”

“While we were interested in incorporating the SFFC concept into Virginia child care, we came to the conclusion that due to Virginia’s code that did not allow unlicensed care of youth in any sort of foster care we were forced to abandon the idea. When Patrick Neff telephoned, however, two years later saying that PHFS was working to bring the SFFC program to Virginia, but needed my help in order to do so, I immediately jumped on board.”

Originally founded in Chicago, Illinois, in 2002, Safe Families for Children has successfully helped tens of thousands of families remain intact when faced with temporary crisis situations. The Safe Families pilot program will create a safe haven for children in need, providing a stable environment that shields them from neglect while their families resolve issues ranging from unemployment, homelessness, hospitalization, or even brief incarceration.

While foster care is a vital tool in protecting Virginia’s children, many social workers are burdened with huge and unmanageable caseloads, leaving children exposed. This bill will allow families in need to connect with trained and vetted host families to resolve their own problems, which will lighten the load for state social workers who can now focus on more serious cases involving abusive neglect and physical or sexual abuse.

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“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world” (James 1:27).

For additional information regarding the SFFC pilot program or for assistance in child placement, please contact: Ruby Caskey at (434) 239-6829, extension 605.

Debby Ruffin, Lisa Linthicum, and Kittye Gibson

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o permanent home, no job, pregnant with a 10-monthold baby girl on her hip, and an unresponsive father who had moved on to the next trusting soul. The only hope was the grandparents, who offered what little support they could. Then there was the emergency birth … no hospital, no midwife, no plan … only a fast food bathroom.

“Grandpa, thank you for lunch, but I need to go to the bathroom.

My stomach hurts,” Kayla remembered saying. “After that I only remember being in an ambulance and being told that my son was strong and okay. Thank you, Heavenly Father, I thoughtI honestly had not known how he would come into the world.

Though unpleasant, he was delivered safely.”

Similar to Robert Day, Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) CEO, who was also born to an unwed mother under duress, Kayla’s daughter and newborn son had come into a world of uncertainty and insecurity. While Kayla’s intentions were good, there were no tools to make those intentions a reality. No money, no home, no job, little moral reinforcement, and limited positive encouragement. Because of her situation, soon after the birth of her son, Social Services removed both children from her care and placed them in foster care. Though heart breaking, it is the plight of many impoverished American young unwed mothers.

Fortunately, Kayla found hope through Homes of Hope, part of the Safe Families for Children ministry of Patrick Henry Family Services. This program was developed to provide secure transitional living for young unwed mothers or for those pregnant and in crisis. Each mother in the program receives her own clean and furnished bedroom in a safe neighborhood home. In addition, young mothers and children receive: ✓ Life-skills training, such as good medical care, financial

planning, positive action plans, etc.

through PHFS’s Hope for Tomorrow

searches and referrals

✓ Case management services such as crisis counseling ✓ Peer and family coaching ✓ Support Services such as assistance with job ✓ On-site daycare, meals, and transportation.

“We are thankful that Homes of Hope has provided Kayla with a stable, safe, living environment while she works diligently to get her children returned from foster care,” said Family Coach

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Supervisor Ruby Caskey. “Without the support of Homes of Hope, her story might look much different. We are so proud of Kayla and the effort she has shown and progress she has made.”

Homelessness is debilitating, especially when trying to be a responsible parent. Mercifully, Kayla now has the opportunity through Homes of Hope to rise out of the hopeless abyss of what was a roller- coaster life of emotional uncertainty and traumatic events. She and her children have a safe place for developing the skills to achieve success.

“My passion in life is to help hurting young women. Some may be in crisis, unwed and pregnant, others may have small children that they are not able to provide for adequately, while others may have had to surrender their children to the Department of Social Services while they stabilize their living conditions,” said Homes of Hope Supervisor Debbie Musselman. “Of utmost importance is to share Jesus with them so they can experience the love, hope, and trust they so desperately need. Kayla came to us hurting and scared. Today, I see a much more confident Kayla who is developing a fun and loving relationship with her two children. I watch in amazement as she walks into job interviews with a renewed confidence. Her goal is to become self-sufficient so she can provide adequately for her children.”

“I am thankful beyond words for Homes of Hope,” said Kayla.

“Not only am I thankful to have the opportunity for my children to be raised by me, not foster care, but I am thankful to have the chance at a worthwhile life, something that not so long ago seemed like a hopeless dream.”

Homes of Hope opened its first home for homeless mothers on May 27, 2016. Its mission is to provide a continuum of services and support for single, homeless moms and their children, which will keep children safe and families strong. Please contact Debbie Musselman at (434) 444-4600 for more information.

“Similar to Robert Day, Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) CEO, who was also born to an unwed mother under duress, Kayla’s daughter and newborn son had come into a world of uncertainty and insecurity.”

Collaboration between SFFC and DSS: S

a Positive Step

eeing the large conference room full of employees from the Virginia Department of Social Services (DSS), alongside Safe Families for Children (SFFC) and Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) staff for a training session was exciting. The powerful event was focused on building a partnership between the two organizations with a new and innovative approach to childhood neglect and abuse prevention. The SFFC pilot program, which is professionally supported by PHFS and volunteer-driven through churches, is the first of its kind in Virginia.

Dr. David Anderson, founder of SFFC, shared how the program began. “I am the son of a bricklayer whose father asked that I not become a bricklayer so I became a psychologist. While I was a good therapist, no matter how good I was, I could not help nor heal the pain caused to children before the age of five.”

“One day a mother asked that I take her children as she was about to lose them to the state. I explained that if she abused her children, then I could take them because that was the way the system was set up. She refused to give up, saying that I did not understand, she just needed a bit of help until she could get back on her feet.”

“That was a defining moment for me. It was the moment that drove the movement to find families to take in children that were going through a rough patch. No money and no coercion, only volunteer help vetted and working through a church structure.

SFFC volunteers come alongside a parent in need - helping to relieve their childcare struggles, giving the parent time to work out issues before they spiral into abuse and neglect.”

“Children are voluntarily placed for up to 90 days. If Foster Care becomes necessary then DSS is notified. The goal is that through early intervention there will be a reduction in the number of children going into Foster Care.”

Attending the training event was Craig Patterson, Prevention

“While there are many steps to take... we are off the ground and running.”

-Patrick Neff

Program Consultant with Virginia Department of Social Services, tasked by the General Assembly to evaluate the SFFC pilot program. He commented, “SFFC clearly offers an innovative approach to providing preventative services. The program also allows for family autonomy, which is often a critical step in maintaining a positive outcome.”

“While there are many steps to take in order for SFFC to become a successful model for positive childhood intervention, we are off the ground and running,” exclaimed SFFC Director Patrick Neff.

“I will long remember what Dr. Anderson said the next morning at a PHFS staff meeting: ‘Your heritage, your very namesake, Patrick Henry, known as the son of thunder, was driven by his passion and commitment. So I charge the staff of PHFS to have white-hot passion and commitment to do their part to eradicate child abuse through SFFC!’”

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ow in its fourth year, Hat Creek Camps (HCC) 2016 season will go down in the books as the year of many firsts.

• First time Day Camps ran for four weeks • First Adventure Camp • First waiting list • First overnight Horse Camp

A Camping

Season

of Many

Firsts and

Countless

SMILES!

• First Closing Ceremonies held with parents “We served 312 campers from four states,” said HCC Director Jon Isaman.

“I also am pleased that this was the first year without any real hiccups. The campers were amazing, the staffers were extraordinary, and our theme, Tribal Island Adventure, provided multiple opportunities for involvement.

“HCC provides not only opportunities for incredible adventures, laughter, new friends, and endless activities, it provides an enriching platform where God’s renewing words are shared daily, especially in each evening’s service.

Forgiveness, Appreciation, Integrity, Tolerance, and Honesty were our focus points this summer. As the Director of HCC, I truly am rewarded at the end of each camping session when I see happy campers leave more prepared to face life’s challenges trusting in the empowering faith of God’s love.

“As each camping session ended, campers were left with the following message from the book of James,” concluded Isaman. “A message that I trust will resonate continuously throughout their upcoming school year.”

James 1: 22-25 – “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves.

Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it-he will be blessed in what he does.”

No Better Way to Describe a We ek at Hat Creek Camps

than Through the Campers Themselves!

p is the hardest part of “Though leaving Hat Creek Cam p s is you take a part of cam being at camp, the good new e,” said Parker. “During with you when you go back hom t gets tough, I go back to Ha the school year if the going ut those late night cabin Creek in my mind and think abo ny friends, uplifting spiritual talks, ridiculous laughter, ma t, swimming, canoeing, and lessons, endless encouragemen rs e been a camper for two yea the list goes on and on. I hav k as a counselor once and I am hoping to come bac I go to college.”

friends,” said of HCC is making new rt pa st be e th me “For om other states. like meeting people fr Kaylee. “I especially eady looking at camp and I am alr ar ye ird th my is is Th , especially tubing.” forward to next year

“I am actually not a fan of out doors,” said Mark, “so when I came to HCC I was not loo king forward to it. Well, tha t quickly changed. I never exp ected to like HCC nearly as much as I did. It was cool! Ma king new friends and having awesome counselors was my favorite part of the week.”

“Hands down this is an excellent ca mp to come to if want to have fun you and meet new pe op le,” said Tobi. “It was my first year at camp and I love d it. The outdoor activities are ne at, drama was co ol , an d hanging out with new friends made the week go by wa y too fast.”

imonies is top of “Hearing other people's stories and test at HCC and my list,” said Tianna. “This is my fourth year their kids to HCC.” I absolutely love it! Everyone should send

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Robert J. Day’s

GRIPPING

STORY

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orn to an unwed, teenaged mother in Appalachia, Robert Day captivates readers through his gripping account of childhood poverty, neglect, and abuse. We see vividly a broken society in desperate need for change.

Ultimately, Worst of Mothers … Best of Moms, delivers a profound message of inspiration and purpose.

“For years I was asked to write my story, but the time never seemed just right,” commented Day. “Last spring that changed, it became clear that my story could serve a healing purpose for others rather than staying buried deep within me, especially healing for adults like me whose childhood was maimed with neglect and abuse.

Having written my story, I can say it has been a healing and rewarding adventure.”

"Each chapter not only records the challenges I faced, but presents the concerns and troubles experienced by millions of helpless children every day,” writes Day in the book’s Preface. “These various child-welfare matters now absorb billions of our tax dollars and waste countless precious lives, yet we don’t seem any closer to solving them. My story brings perspective and possible solutions to these larger vexing issues."

As Chief Executive of Patrick Henry Family Services, Day is successfully leading the organization to the forefront in the child welfare industry. Today, through God’s grace, and with two Master's degrees in hand, Day’s life work is dedicated to keeping children safe and families strong.

In addition to being a much sought-after public speaker

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Robert with "Mom and Dad Ball"

for conferences, churches, civic audiences and beyond, through his popular radio program, “Straight Talk with Robert Day,” he uses his unique insight to address some of the most challenging issues facing families today.

Worst of Mothers … Best of Moms has earned enthusiastic endorsements from Tim Clinton, President, American Association of Christian Counselors; Jenny Cote, awardwinning author; R.B. Mitchell, author (Castaway Kid); Jonathan Falwell, Pastor Thomas Road Baptist Church, Donna Tyson, author/motivational speaker, and others.

All proceeds from the $14.95 book benefit the ministry of PHFS. It’s available at Givens Books in Lynchburg, and at Farmville Printing. If you prefer, you may use the envelope in this issue to order by mail, or call us at (434) 239-6891 x 206 during our normal office hours to order by phone.

For online purchases, please go to www.Smile.Amazon.com.

(When you sign up for Amazon Smile, a portion of all your Amazon purchases go to support PHFS!) “Robert Day is a compelling storyteller, and his story gives readers hope in the midst of life tragedies…” –Jenny L. Cote, author and speaker “It will move you to tears…but will also [bring] you to your feet as you celebrate the wonder of God’s endless grace.” –Tim Clinton, President, AACC “Read it, ponder its message, and allow it to motivate you to serve God through serving others.”

–Jonathan Falwell, Pastor, Thomas Road Baptist Church

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Robert (center) with his four half-brothers

Worst of Mothers … Best of Moms

Launches with Tremendous Support

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n Friday, September 16, Worst of Mothers … Best of Moms by Robert J. Day was launched to a captivating audience of media, staff, family, supporters and friends. Two individuals closest to Day shared the following thoughts: From David Marshall, former President of the PHFS Board of Trustees and current Executive Committee Member: "Some people believe coincidences in life are all random. I believe some of them are God’s way of winking at us to see if we are paying attention. Fiftyfive years ago, in 1961, I believe one of the latter type was set in motion. In Brookneal, a young boy moved into a home full of hope and surrounded by love, the first resident of what was then Patrick Henry Boys Plantation. That very same year, a baby boy was born to a 16 year-old girl in rural Appalachia who was unprepared to love and care for him. Forty Nine years later, that boy, Robert Day, moved into a home in Brookneal, only 100 yards away from that very first home at Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Plantation. Following the path God had laid out for him, he came as CEO of that home for children. He has led well these past six years.

I know Robert to be honest, tireless, focused, unselfish, humble and a great leader. Until I read the manuscript a few months ago, I knew very little of the life he describes in this book. He is not the type to draw attention to himself as one who has overcome such tragedy.

What most people do not know is that Mr. Day will not add one dime to his retirement nest egg from this book as he has signed over the rights to all proceeds to the organization he serves and loves, Patrick Henry Family Services. On behalf of the Board of Trustees, I want to publicly thank him for his generosity."

From Alec Day, son of Robert and Karen Day: "Today, I could not be more proud of my father.

I was one of the many people who encouraged him to write this book, not because his story is entertaining, or necessarily enjoyable, although it is thought-provoking and thoroughly engaging. It is not a unique story, nor does it have groundbreaking ideas, but rather it is a story all too common and heartbreaking. It is uncomfortable. It pulls at the heartstrings, and it is a story full of shocking poverty, depravity and disbelief.

But in this story you will also find more than a kernel of hope, grace, and faithfulness. You will find instruction and motivation to DO something, and that is why I am glad to see my father’s story between bindings,written down to help others.

To my father and mother’s credit, my father’s story is not my story. In fact, my story is frankly boring in comparison and for that I will always be thankful. I am also thankful for his story, as he is motivated by it, impassioned by it, informed by it, but not ruled by it."

Thanks to

Cape Hatteras Lighthouse National Park PHBG H has Four Junior Park Rangers!

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eing at the beach is not just about the sun, sand and surf. It also is about learning adventures. Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Home youth often spend time exploring such sites as the Wright Brothers National Memorial at Kitty Hawk, Bodie Island Lighthouse, Jockey’s Ridge State Park, North Carolina Aquarium, the Lost Colony at Roanoke Island, etc. This year’s trip brought a new adventure and responsibility for four of the boys who earned their Junior Park Ranger certificates while visiting Cape Hatteras Lighthouse National Park.

“Getting our certificates was a lot of work,” said Chase, “but it was worth it! We watched a video, toured the museum, lighthouse, and grounds as well as filled out a booklet which took about half a day. The cool thing was that as we filled out the booklet we learned A LOT! I bet you did not know that Cape Hatteras Lighthouse is the tallest lighthouse in the United States and it has 268 steps. How would you like to have been the light keeper who had to climb that stairway each day with five gallon buckets of oil to keep the lights flashing?”

Malcolm added, “The Cape Hatteras Light House is

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really important. Not too far out into the ocean from the lighthouse are these shifting sandbars known as The Diamond Shoals. It is estimated that up to 600 shipwrecks have happened because of the super-dangerous Diamond Shoals.”

“Because of all those shipwrecks, they call Hatteras Island the ‘Graveyard of the Atlantic.’ No fun!” chimed in Mikey.

“The lighthouse helped because the light could shine out as far as 24 nautical miles, which is further than normal miles. The light warned ships to stay away!”

“Now that we are Junior Rangers we get to tell people real stuff about the lighthouse and the seashore,” concluded TyQuan. “We also get to look out after the park whenever we are back down there. Best off all we get to wear our Ranger badges!”

Yes, as these boys found out, everyone can do his or her part to protect today’s historic structures and national parks. Thank you Cape Hatteras National Seashore Park for providing such a memorable learning experience for our boys!

Beach baby, beach baby, give me your hand, Give me something that I can remember …

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o go the lyrics of the popular 1974 hit written by John Carter and his wife, Gillian Shakespeare. For the boys and girls of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes (PHBGH) these words are special because each year they leave the beach with some things to remember - sand, surf, sun, amazing meals, laughter, adventures, etc., all rolled together for extraordinary FUN! Whether it is a one-time trip for a youth or an every year adventure, their memories are filled with excitement and appreciation.

“I love it at the beach, even when I get buried in the sand or toppled by some big wave,” said Nichole. “This year we flew kites and that was great fun!”

The annual beach trip has been a part of summers for the youth of PHBGH since 1976. Just as it was funded then, it continues to be funded through the generosity of faithful donors. “I will always donate for a child to go to the beach,” said a Mrs. Smith. “Some of my fondest memories are of times when I was a child at the beach so it warms my heart that these boys and girls get the same sort of experience.”

“THANK YOU to all supporters who help make beach memories something we will always remember!” concluded Nichole.

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n a world where fault-finding and critical judgement leave scars of doubt and bruised confidence, Patrick Henry Family Services embraces the miracles they see daily in their Unbridled Grace ministry. Through the amazing and often powerful bonds developed between horses and riders, positive things happen.

Unmerited Love + Uninhibited Patrick Patrick Henry Henry Forgiveness Family Family Services Services + Unstoppable Mercy + Unexpected Favor AA MMI INNI ISSTTRRYY OOFF

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Horses may seem intimidating as they are usually large and strong, while riders may seem disgruntled and short tempered as the result of personal difficulty, but when the two come together, that is when Unbridled Grace takes over. In appreciation of shelter, grooming, shoes, food, and the lovable carrots, horses have a giving spirit and are forgiving. For Patrick Henry boys and girls, as well as for after-school youth, horse camp attendees and horseshow participants, a wealth of skills and confidence is gained from horsemanship.

“The vision for Unbridled Grace is to be an equestrian center where any person can feel welcome to experience the joy of horses in a safe environment,” said Unbridled Grace Equine Coordinator Lauren Patrick. “We want our riders to benefit from all that God has provided us through these amazing animals. Currently, we have a variety of programs happening at the barn–

ranging from standard lessons and a volunteer program, to an afterschool care program, and we are open for facility rentals. Ultimately, we hope to have more therapeutic opportunities for the community.”

“The 2016 summer will go down in the books as a tremendous success. We operated three day camps for area children and one sleep-away camp. In addition, we had a Sunday horse show, as well as three Summer Nights – Under the Lights horse shows. We are busy and I only see us getting busier!”

“Fortunately, we are able to accomplish a great deal due to the involvement of our own girls. Each of the girls in the Howe Cottage has the opportunity to adopt a horse or two that becomes like their own. They do the daily care for that horse, teach it lessons and tricks, bath it, and interact with the horse as if it was their own. I have seen the girls blossom. They have gone from wanting to sit in front of the TV to truly desiring and wanting to be outdoors. Girls who we were told "hated horses" are out holding their horse to graze and hugging its neck. The girls have been able to see the love and devotion of this animal and have been more caring toward each other at the same time.”

“I started riding horses when I was

six, and I truly feel as though my character and my passion and my responsibility was shaped on the back of a horse.

I always knew that I wanted to work with kids, in fact, my mom tells the story that when I was eight or nine I told her that when she was old she could live on my farm with me and my hundred horses and my million kids. Who knew! I didn't know where life would lead me until just over a year ago when God clearly spoke to my husband and me and told us where to go. I always assumed horses would be a hobby and kids would be a job. I am so grateful every

ALEX

single day that God led me to Unbridled Grace!�

Lauren and her husband, Shane, also serve as houseparents for the Howe Cottage. Lauren grew up in Arlington, Texas, and graduated from Sweet Briar College and attended graduate school at the University of Denver.

Shane is from Cincinnati, but moved to Virginia while in grade school and attended Liberty University before going on to pursue a degree at the Trinity School of Natural Health.

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JOEL CHASE

BRAVO!

To These Four Patrick Henry Stars!

ALEX received a perfect SOL (Standard of Learning

testing) score in World History. She is in Advanced Placement Classes and earned her Varsity letter from the William Campbell High School band for playing the saxophone.

JOEL is an A/B student, runs Cross Country and played the Trombone.

CHASE received a perfect SOL in science and was just 6 points away from a perfect score in math. He also is an A student.

YASEMEEN delivered the fifth grade graduation address at Brookneal Elementary school last spring. She was selected by the school’s administration from among her peers following a writing competition. Currently, she is in advanced classes.

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ACTUALLY, A LOT OF HELP!

Mr. and Mrs. Ernst and Mrs. Rittenhouse Mrs. Fremont and Mrs. Nail

George Nail, Mr. Edwards, Robert Day, and Mrs. Edwards

Robert Day with Mrs. Adkins

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he ministry of Patrick Henry Family Services belongs to our faithful supporters,” said Director of Philanthropy Adam Spencer. “Without them, we would be unable to serve the many children and families that come to us daily. It is always an honor to have the opportunity to say thank you in person to each friend of our ministry.

Their compassion and generosity changes lives and provides hope to more families than ever before.”

Throughout the year, Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) has been celebrating 55 years of ministry, with many of the friends who have made this ministry possible. We were able to thank friends of PHFS with luncheons in Richmond, South Boston, and Harrisonburg in recognition of many faithful donors. During each luncheon, CEO Robert Day shared a glimpse into the history of child welfare in America starting with the orphanage era, moving on to the Orphan Train, and then talking about Father Flanagan’s Boys Town, which led to group homes such as Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes.

Robert Day, Mrs. Outland, and Adam Spencer

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Robert Day also shared the vision of PHFS to expand its services to serve more children and families throughout Virginia. Should you be interested in learning more about our vision or about upcoming appreciation luncheons near you, please contact Adam Spencer at 434-239-1139 or aspencer@patrickhenry.org.

Robert Day, Mrs. Adams, and George Nail

Robert Day with Mr. and Mrs. Hite

Mr. Garmon, Robert Day, and Mrs. Garmon

Robert Day, Mrs. Spiers, George Nail, and Mr. Spiers

Ms. Smith with Robert Day

Robert Day with Mrs. Reams

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ne of the cornerstones of support for Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) is long-standing relationships and donor involvement. Wanda Seagroves is one of those PHFS champions of involvement and support.

“It all began in the early 1970s when my late husband, Don, and I served as houseparents for three years at Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes,” commented Seagroves. “Don had spent his teen years in the Methodist Home for Children in Raleigh and felt that it had made a tremendous difference in his life. We wanted to give back, so we decided to become houseparents.

Doing so began a lifelong calling for us both in providing care and services to children in need.”

Today, Seagroves serves as a clinical supervisor and consultant for the Attachment Center in Charlottesville where she works daily with youth and families. In addition, she remarried an amazing man, Charles Rock, who also loves working with youth. They are in charge of the youth group ministry at New Friendship Baptist Church in Burgess.

“Last year our youth went to the Howe Cottage in Rustburg for their mission trip. They painted fences and got to know the girls there a bit. This year they wanted to do something fun for the girls so they organized a weekend adventure for them at our river house on the Potomac. Our neighbor then donated their house for the overflow. It was great fun and fellowship!”

While youth group members were concerned because activity opportunities are limited in such a rural setting, Seagrove suggested, “The weekend should be about relationship and extending Christ through yourselves to the wonderful PH girls in need of love and support.

It was so rewarding to see their planned weekend of fun including meals, games, jewelry making, fishing, swimming, a beach bonfire, and more. Their hearts were HUGE and the girls of PH were very appreciative!”

Of special note: Since 2009 Wanda Seagroves has donated a scholarship at our Awards Ceremony in memory of her late husband (see page 6).

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The Honor and Memorial Register

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he following donors made honor or memorial gif ts to Patrick Henr y Family Ser vices in recognition of those who have made a difference in their lives. These gifts not only help our ministry, but they also live on as a lasting legacy to those who are honored. In fact, many people have been introduced to Patrick Henry Family Services through honor and memorial gifts.

When honor and memorial gifts are received, our office promptly notifies the honoree or the family of the deceased and provides the name and address of the donor of each gift.

IN HONOR OF: A Ann Abernathy Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Jr.

B Morris and Alice Bailey Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Elliott III Coach Rod Baughman Mr. Adam Spencer Nancy W. Bennett Mrs. Lee Ann Waller Lacey Bowen Mrs. Margaret H. Milam Thomas J. Bradwell Mr. Adam Spencer

C Samuel Caldwell Mrs. Barbara H. Caldwell Dorothy Austin Carr Mrs. Joey Anne Hudson

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PHFS CEO Robert Day’s moving and inspiring testimony, together with his unique and timely perspective, has made him a sought after speaker for conferences, churches, civic audiences and beyond. Day is photographed above delivering a Sunday message at Faith Bible Fellowship in Farmville, VA. To schedule Robert Day to speak at your event, please contact: Mercy Clements at (434) 239-6891, ext. 206.

Worth Hudson Anonymous

Lynn L. Dodge Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr.

F Fathers of Midway Baptist Church Midway Baptist Church Claudia Fletcher Mrs. Margaret H. Milam

G Grandparents of Trinity United Methodist Church Trinity United Methodist Church Margaret E. Grunwell Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr.

H Megan T. Horsley Mr. and Mrs. Greg S. McGann

Sallie Martin Mr. and Mrs. Larry E. Jordan Douglas B. Matze, Jr.

I Michelle and Wayne Ickes Ms. Marilyn Blake

K Dr. and Mrs. Christopher L. King Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr. Nancy Kish Mr. Adam Spencer

Ms. Holly Jane Pellum

P R.B. and Louise Parris Mr. and Mrs. R. Baxter Parris III Elizabeth H. Payne Mrs. Sue F. Abercrombie Mrs. Dana M. Glass Mrs. Elizabeth Leggett

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Ms. Carol Majors

Fathers of Liberty Church for Father’s Day

Mrs. Elizabeth H. Payne

Liberty Church Woman’s Missionary Society Mr. and Mrs. John Love Mr. J. Herbert Joyner

M Leslie N. Martin, Jr. Mr. Randall W. Martin

Ms. Jane Bray White Hattie B. Puckett Ms. Vickie P. Hite

R Dr. Jim Reese Mr. Adam Spencer Mr and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger Ms. Marjorie Winkelmann

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S Teresa L. Sanderson Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Layne Blair and Lisa Smith Mr. James A. Smith Mrs. Nelwyn O. Smith Adam Spencer Mr. Thomas J. Bradwell Rev. E. Spencer Mr. Adam Spencer

V Connie M. Viar Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr.

W Mr. and Mrs. Dan Ward Mrs. Lucy W. Solomon Mr. and Mrs. Hunter R. Watson Mr. and Mrs. Sumner R. Pugh Dr. and Mrs. William E. Schall

Dr. Kristin Gay Windon Mrs. Jean F. Gay Marjorie Winkelmann Mr. and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger Marge B. Wise and Family Mr. Edwin M. Pairet

Mr. Carl E. Adkins, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III William Hunter and Evelyn Allen Mr. and Mrs. Roy Cash James “Jimmie” Carlton Andrews

Owen M. Bass Mrs. Barbara B. Collie Shellie Bellairs Ms. Anne Smith Doris Bass Booth Mrs. Barbara B. Collie Louise Boswell

Mrs. Merle Carpenter Pairet

Pete and Betsy Hamlett

Mr. and Mrs. Erving W. Foote

IN MEMORY OF:

Walter Reid Armstrong

Christina Thompson Bowen

A William C. Abbitt Ms. Nancy C. Abbitt Mrs. Patricia O. Abbitt Mrs. Patricia O. Abbitt C. W. Abbitt, Jr. Sons, Inc. Charles McDonald Abernathy Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Jr. Eugene Harman Abernathy Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Jr.

Ms. Betty D. Leap

B Martha T. Babcock Mr. and Mrs. Wilton J. Klement Logan Bagby Ms. Ellen Pittenger Marjorie Rhodes Baker Mr. and Mrs. J. W. Markham Helen Morris Barnes Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III

Mr. and Mrs. Hunter C. Ford Sidney Seay Bridgforth III Mr. and Mrs. Harris Cox Glenn T. Bridgman and G.T. Bridgman, Jr. Mrs. Glenn T. Bridgman Gary Frederick Brooks Mr. and Mrs. Wilton B. Burgess and Family Ms. Dixie B. Keaton Rosamond C. Brown Mrs. Barbara B. Collie

Congratulations to Kisean, Matthew, and Caleb for making Liberty’s football team. GO MINUTEMEN!!!

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hile it may be a bit early for Christmas shopping, we have a suggestion to help you with gifts for those you want to remember at Christmas and they “already have everything they need/want.” Why not consider making a gift to Patrick Henry in their honor? In this way you will let your friends and loved ones know you are thinking of them and help the children at Patrick Henry at the same time.

HERE’S HOW IT WORKS: PLEASE SEND YOUR GIFT TO THE CHILDREN’S FUND BY DECEMBER 1. A pre-addressed

MAKE A GIFT of any amount to Patrick Henry

Children’s Fund and send us the names and addresses of those you want to honor.

envelope is included in this Orator for your convenience. If you have questions or need further information, please contact Donna Guthrie at: 434-376-2006, ext. 104 or email dguthrie@patrickhenry.org.

WE WILL SEND them a beautiful Christmas card letting them know that you have made a gift (amount of the gift not mentioned) in support of our Patrick Henry children in their honor!

James D. Brunson Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby Lee Buchan, Sr. Mrs. Charles R. Underwood Helen W. Buchanan Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III Peter Buchanan Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Eddie Burch Mr. and Mrs. Larry E. Jordan Dallas Burks Mrs. Josephine F. Burks Charles F. Burnette Homer and Donna Smith and Kristen Emmerson Harry L. Butler Mrs. Beverly Butler

Mary Penny Butts Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

C Terry Callahan Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Dorothy “Dot” Lee Campbell Mrs. Ann E. Campbell Mr. and Mrs. David E. Franklin Elmo and “Partner” Torrence Marie Metcalf Carson Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton The Russell Harris, Sr. Family Virginia Carwile Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Mathilda Christy Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Rachel Clark‑Poindexter Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby Betty Clements American Legion Auxiliary Unit 16 Margaret C. Conner Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III Virginia Conte Mr. and Mrs. Ralph V. Puckett Clara Cothran Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington Michael Harris Cox Mr. and Mrs. Harris Cox Nancy Bridgforth Cox Mr. and Mrs. Harris Cox Carter Craft Mr. and Mrs. Ralph V. Puckett

Clifton Cranford Gravel Hill Baptist Church Effie Marie Taylor Crutchlow “Grandma Ann” Randy and Virginia Wells Bruce Thomas Cyrus Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby Ms. Patricia L. Rhodes

D Melvin P. Dalton Mr. and Mrs. Paul D. Poole Rev. Albert Moody Davis Mrs. Anabel and Belle Carter Bessie F. Henry Davis and Jacob M. Davis Ms. Barbara J. McCormick Billy Edward Davis Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Howard and Sarah Davis Ms. Carolyn D. Markham

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John Foster Mrs. Marjorie F. Morris Mr. Ren Morris Mr. and Mrs. Sumner R. Pugh Robert Foster Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Walton and Nellie Fowlkes Mrs. Jean F. Gay Freddie Francisco Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton Eloise Franklin Thompson Insulation Co. Ronnia H. Furches Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Clayton T. Garmon

Our Hat Creek Camp staff have as much fun as the campers!

Robert Earl Davis, Sr. Mr. and Mrs. Charles H. Bass Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin Duncan Gravel Hill Baptist Church Chandler, Sherry, Joseph, and Eli Walker Mr. and Mrs. James E. Wilkerson Guy Tracy DeSantis Mr. and Mrs. Edward Gregory Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Larry Deweese Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III Polly Neal Dickerson Mrs. Elizabeth Thaxton Ms. Debbie Covington William W. “Bill” Dickerson Mr. G. H. Jamerson, Jr. Nicholas Dillon Mr. and Mrs. C. Jack Leatherwood Mary Tolley and Joyce Tolley

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Teddy Dixon Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Christien Y. Doucette American Legion Auxiliary Unit 79 Archer B. and Wallace B. Duffey Mrs. Elnora W. Duffey Mary White Edmonds Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

E Thomas Granville “Billy” Elder Ms. Deborah R. Barksdale Robert and Evelyn Elliott Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Elliott III Thomas W. Eppes, Sr. Mrs. Dorothy M. Eppes Douglas Ezell Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

G F Macel Falwell Alice Kyle District‑VFWC Earnest L. Farris Ms. Sandra H. Farris Network for Good Robert E. Ferguson Monelison Middle School Stephen Howard Ferguson, Jr. Ms. Florence F. Cummins Skeeter and Beth Fore Dr. and Mrs. Charles Green Mr. and Mrs. C. Jack Leatherwood Marvin “Bossie” Ferrell Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Ronnie Ferrell Mr. and Mrs. Buddy Ferrell Sarah Blanchard Foote Mr. and Mrs. Erving W. Foote

Eunice Garber Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Charles Edgar (Chuck) Gates Mrs. Martha Tate Bell SamiDail Brown Gilley Seventh Heaven Landscaping Inc. Jewell Glover Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Hilda Goodman Mr. and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger Paul M. Gravitt Mrs. Jane S. Baynes Barbara Greene Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett Dr. Joseph Greene Mrs. Charlynn Flippin Robert Gregory Judge and Mrs. Charles L. McCormick III

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H Thomas B. Hall, Jr Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III Anonymous Russell Harris Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton Mr. and Mrs. William H. Carson James Stimson “Stimp” Hawkins Mr. and Mrs. Bucky James John Hawkins Mr. and Mrs. Bobby L. Blanks

Katherine “Kitty” Hawkins Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr. Andy Hayes Mr. and Mrs. George H. Gale Charles Hedderly Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett Grady Hester Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Mrs. Dorothy Pearl Hughes Hite Gravel Hill Baptist Church Billie Hodges Mr. and Mrs. Wayne Meadows Helen Glasscock Holder Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III James D. “Jimmy” Holt Homer and Donna Smith and Kristen Emmerson Alice Holzheuer

Jace Hosick Mr. and Mrs. R. David Jones

Frances Anne Ramsey Hunter Homer and Donna Smith and Kristen Emmerson

Ann and Robert Howard Mrs. Sue H. Lancaster

Mr. John M. Barksdale

Franklin D. Howell

Mrs. Mary B. Barksdale

Mr. and Mrs. Edward Gregory

Mrs. Madeline C. Boliek

Charles W. Hudson

Mrs. Ellie Hubbard

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Clarence Hudson Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Edward Dean Hudson Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett Wayne Huff Mr. and Mrs. Edward Gregory Larry Carlton Hunley Mrs. Joey Anne Hudson Dennis Hunt Mrs. Nancy W. Hunt

Mrs. Lucille B. Purcell

I Nancy Irby Mr. and Mrs. Thomas E. West Clifford Isaacs Mrs. Erna Isaacs

J Jimmy Jackson and Family Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III Kenneth Jason Jackson Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Larry E. Jordan

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Mr. Ronnie M. Guthrie Mr. William P. Guthrie Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr. Mr. and Mrs. Hampton Hazelwood Mrs. Barbara B. Johnston Mr. and Mrs. Harry L. Mapp, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. David McCollum Judge and Mrs. Charles L. McCormick III

Nelson and Allie Johnson Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Johnson, Jr. Cledis Tuck Jones Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Kitty D. Jones Mrs. Michael I. Anderson Mrs. Judith S. Anderson‑Clark Rex Joy Mrs. Josephine F. Burks

K Geneva Wells Kelly Gravel Hill Baptist Church J.B. Kerns III Glass’s Auto Service, Inc.

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Mr. Adam Spencer Thomas L. and Faye B. Keys Mr. and Mrs. Robert A. Keys Annie May King Mr. and Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr.

L Odell Langford Mrs. Elnora W. Duffey Estelle F. Layne Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby Mary Leatherwood Legg Mr. and Mrs. C. Jack Leatherwood Thomas Coxe Leggett, Jr. Mrs. Anne Cassada Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr.

Sandra Jean Massie Mr. and Mrs. William L. Wellons Monroe and Evelyn Maxey Mr. and Mrs. Gary C. Brown Dr. Robert W. McCullough Mr. Glen N. Abernathy Mrs. Lydia P. Blackburn

Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nichols, Jr.

Brookneal Presbyterian Church

Mr. and Mrs. Robert L. Plaster

Mr. and Mrs. Ed Chaney, Jr.

Gordon Douglas Long

Kenbridge Christian Church

Ms. Frances O. Martin, Len and Sherry Martin

American Legion Post 8

Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III

Officer Steve Ketchum

Gwendolyn Martin

Dr. Robert W. McCullough

Dora Thompson Lewis

Marjorie Jensen

Mr. Edward L. Bates

Mrs. Lois R. McCullough

Mr. and Mrs. Michael M. Rand

Hat Creek Camp gives our young anglers great experience with a rod & reel!

Gerald Martin

Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III Frank G. Louthan, Jr Dr. and Mrs. L. A. Frederick William Lowry, Sr Mr. and Mrs. Thomas M. Proffitt

Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr. Davenport Energy, Inc. Mr. and Mrs. J. M. Davidson Mr. and Mrs. Robert Eubank Dr. and Mrs. Richard L. Fisher Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey R. Fulgham Mr. and Mrs. Clayton T. Garmon Mr. William P. Guthrie

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Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr.

Vickie Ramsey MacIntyre

Mrs. Shirla G. Hudson

Mr. and Mrs. Benny O. Marston

Mr. and Mrs. William E. Jamerson

Barrye E. Maddera Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby Mamie Majors Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Clayton J. Markham Ms. Carolyn D. Markham Earl Marstin Mrs. Dianne T. E. Marstin

Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett Mr. and Mrs. Dennis H. Mitchen Mr. and Mrs. Lewis Moorman Mr. Eddie M. Powell Dr. and Mrs. Robert L. Plapp Mr. and Mrs. Reginald M. Reid Dr. and Mrs. Lucien W. Roberts

Our girls are full of LOVE! Mrs. Brenda Guthrie Short Mrs. Lola Smith Mrs. Elizabeth Thaxton Mr. and Mrs. Jimmy Vaughan Joshua Loren McGarrahan Mrs. Judy M. Saunders William E. McRorie Judge and Mrs. J. Samuel Johnston, Jr. Clyde B. Midkiff Mrs. Joyce R. Midkiff Mr. and Mrs. Wendel Miles Mr. and Mrs. Arnold C. Ripley Mancel L. “Sonny” Miley Mrs. Joy R. Miley Ikey Mills

Richard H. Moore Mr. and Mrs. Sumner R. Pugh Ren Morris Mr. and Mrs. Ernest M. Nichols Dr. William P. Morrissette, Jr. and wife Nancy Clarke Morrissette Mr. Clarke C. Jones Michael Peden Mueller Mr. and Mrs. William L. Wellons

N Rosemary Newcomb Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. William A. Newcomb, Jr

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Frances Barnes Mitchell

Charlie Talcott Nichols, Jr.

Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Eddie Moore Mr. and Mrs. Bobby L. Blanks

Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr.

Roy L. Nipper Mrs. Anabel and Belle Carter Betty Atkins Nunn Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nichols, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

O Benjamin Thomas Osborne Mrs. Carolyn Hite Kenneth Owen Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

P Kenneth Pace Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III Hanna M. Pagano Mr. and Mrs. Eric Murdock Jane Paris Mr. and Mrs. James E. Majors

William M. “Billy” Park Ms. Katherine A. Keel and Jalene N. Adams Judith Patteson Mr. and Mrs. H. L. Hansberry, III Jean Paulette Mrs. Becky A. West Stella Vaughan Pierson Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Martin, Jr. Monty Wayne Plymale Church of Jesus Christ John Wayne Proffitt Mr. and Mrs. Arnold M. Layne Mr. and Mrs. Claude D. Slaughter Ms. Anne Smith Mr. and Mrs. Ronald G. Tatum Barry Allen Puckett Mr. and Mrs. Lester Guthrie

Mr. and Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

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Harry E. Ranson Mr. and Mrs. William H. Shorter, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. D. C. Smith Mr. and Mrs. Russel S. Walton Robert Ratledge, US ARMY, WWII Mr. and Mrs. Douglas B. Matze, Jr. Robbie Reed Dr. Cynthia K. Hall Rickey Reese

Steven Reynolds Mr. and Mrs. J. T. Eades, Jr.

Ms. Mary P. Burton Ms. Vickie P. Hite Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Brad Gray Puryear Mr. and Mrs. John B. Puryear, Jr.

R Vivian J. Ramsey Ms. Betty Jones Ms. Hilda L. Ramsey William “Button” and Noma Rand Mr. and Mrs. Erving W. Foote

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Mr. and Mrs. George E. Almond Harry E. Ranson

Florence Heath Richards Mr. and Mrs. Brian E. Thomas Mildred Conner Rickman Ronnie and Frances Roller Mr. and Mrs. Carroll Ripley Mr. and Mrs. Arnold C. Ripley Don Roark Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mrs. Regina M. Caldwell and Mr. Willie M. Caldwell III

Jeanette Shroll Cobb Roark

Mr. and Mrs. Willie M. Caldwell

Helen Robertson

Mr. and Mrs. James Lakes Mr. and Mrs. Jordan Martin Mr. and Mrs. R. G. Morris Mr. Frank R. Ranson Mr. and Mrs. Randy Rimbey Mrs. Louise R. Roach and John Roach

Mrs. Anabel and Belle Carter Pat Saunders Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Dr. Thomas Archer Saunders, Sr. Mr. Dallas A. Allen Mrs. Kathy Anderson Mr. and Mrs. R. M. Berryman

BNT Service Center, LLC

Mr. J. Thomas Reynolds

Harry and Joan Ranson

Alma Lee Satterfield

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Robin Reynolds

Bethel Baptist Church

Ms. Kitty Dawson

Bickford Timber & Land Management

Mr. J. Thomas Reynolds

John Leslie Puckett

Kevin Salmon

Mr. and Mrs. Barry G. Hughes

Norvell and Mildred Reynolds

The youth, staff and families of Patrick Henry Family Services always appreciate the motorcycle rides, safety tips, and maintenance information provided by the Lake Country Wings, Gold Wing Road Riders Association, Chapter J, South Boston, Virginia. For over 19 years they have come to the Brookneal campus to provide not only informative motorcycle information, but the much loved cook-out and unlimited ice-cream!

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Mr. and Mrs. John B. Tonkins Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Courtney Robinette Ms. Vickie P. Hite Benjamin Pierce Rorer Independent Order of Odd Fellow Lynchburg Home Rebekah Lodge Jo Ann Rosser Mrs. Josephine F. Burks

Mr. G. Robert Boswell Millie and Penny Bracey Mr. and Mrs. David R. Burns, D.M.D. Mr. R.L. Clevenger Mrs. Anne Cole Mr. and Mrs. Therman R. Cole Mrs. Carolyn R. Crowder Mrs. Maxine Crowder and Family Ms. Abigail Byrd Dickinson and Mr. William Thomas Dickinson Bob and Jan Fermoyle and Family Dr. and Mrs. Fred T. Given, Jr. Mrs. Essie Bryce Gordon Mr. R. P. Gordon Ms. Leona B. Hazlewood Mrs. Jean T. Holmes Mrs. Mary Jelinek Ms. Sue P. Justis Mr. and Mrs. Charles R. Lambert, Jr. Mrs. Evelyn Lambert Ms. Joyce Lambert Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III

Mr. and Mrs. B. Saunders Midyette Mr. and Mrs. Dave Newsom Ms. Margaret M. Peery Dr. Linda Powers

W.R. Snead, Sr Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nichols, Jr. Dorothy C. Spencer Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby

Mrs. Carolyn C. Rainey

Brenda Supernaut

Dr. and Mrs. Lucien W. Roberts

Ferebee‑Johnson Company, Inc.

Mr. and Mrs. Duane W. Royal

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Carolyn Buchanan Talbert

Mrs. Katie H. Snead

Mr. E. Fred Blankenship

Mrs. Christine L. Tanner

Mr. and Mrs. Billy Reynolds

Cleve and Anne Tanner

Abner O’Neal Talley, Jr.

Mrs. Mary Tatum

Mrs. Lois R. McCullough

Mrs. Jane P. Taylor and Family

Dr. Robert W. McCullough

Mr. and Mrs. James L. Townsend Mrs. Leatha Warren Mr. and Mrs. Steve E. Watkins Wayne T. Seamster Mrs. Darlene Strickland, Jess Tomlin and Troy Strickland Guy Seate Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Doris Leona Shifflett Mr. and Mrs. Ernest M. Nichols Ryland Wilson Shortt, Sr. Mr. William E. Dodson Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nichols, Jr. Russell E. Sibley Homer and Donna Smith and Kristen Emmerson Elsie Carr Slayton Mr. and Mrs. William N. McCachren Glenda Smith Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Grace Smith Mr. and Mrs. Thomas M. Proffitt

Jones and Helen Tanner Anonymous Mrs. Sybil Tate Mrs. Martha Tate Bell Colleen Palmer Taylor Ms. Vickie P. Hite Jeanne Headspeth Taylor Mr. and Mrs. John H. Anderson, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. William J. Long, Jr. Norman “Butch” Taylor Mr. and Mrs. Erving W. Foote Thomas Neavil Teass Mrs. Emily S. Pendleton Mr. and Mrs. Horace A. Teass Curtis Tharpe Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Cecil David “Quincy” Thomas Mr. and Mrs. Clayton T. Garmon Janice Thompson Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Leonard Grayson Throckmorton, Sr. Mr. and Mrs. Kay Eugene Booze

Timothy and his mother, Brenda, share a special moment at the Forty-Sixth Annual Awards Ceremony.

Catawba Baptist Church Insurance Services, Inc. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph A. May Ms. Donna L. McKinney Mr. Glenn F. Williamson F. Carlyle Tiller Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett Michael G. Trussell Mr. and Mrs. Harold K. Neal Dr. Henry Joseph “Sunny” Tucker, Jr. Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr. Dorothy Tweedy Mrs. Hazel D. Francis Layne Tysinger Glass’s Auto Service, Inc.

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Lewis Wade Mrs. Elnora W. Duffey Doris Webber American Legion Auxiliary Unit 16 Florence Bayne Wells Mrs. Grace T. Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III Eugene T. Wheeler Mr. and Mrs. Harry L. Mapp, Jr. Doc and Colleen Whitaker/ Father’s and Mother’s Day Mr. and Mrs. Howard Clabough Anne White Mr. and Mrs. Clayton T. Garmon Wayne M. Whitlow Mrs. Janet W. Clover

Mr. and Mrs. Lester Guthrie

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Carolyn R. Wilkerson Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Carolyn Wilkerson Mr. and Mrs. Edward Gregory Agnes Wilkinson Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington Garner D. Willey, Jr. Mr. and Mrs. Michael L. Dellis Dr. and Mrs. Larry R. Jewell Mr. and Mrs. Chester Mahan Melva G. Williamson

Eugene Winkelmann Mr. and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger Mr. and Mrs. Otto Winkelmann Mr. and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger Earl R. Witt Mr. and Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr. Garnett Womack Bethel Baptist Church James A. Woodall, Jr.

West G. Wooding Abbvie Silicon Valley Community Foundation Ms. Jennifer Mayer Samuel Woodson Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Y Charles Yancey Mr. Clarke C. Jones Orene B. Yeatts Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett

Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth L. Harris, Sr.

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Youth Philanthropy Committee Awards Grant to "Safe Families for Children" O

n April 11, 2016, the Youth Philanthropy Committee of The Greater Lynchburg Community Trust awarded Safe Families for Children a $5,000 grant for support and emergency needs of young mothers-to-be and very-recent mothers and their babies who are in vulnerable situations.

“Receiving this award is a great honor, especially because it is from young emerging leaders who have a passion for good,” said SFFC Director Patrick Neff. “The monies will further our efforts to help these struggling mothers as they work towards successful independent lives.”

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The Youth Philanthropy program was developed by the Trust as a way to instill in our youth the awareness of our community needs and the desire to be active in our community by means of volunteering and philanthropy.

Two seniors from each of the high schools within the Community Trust’s service area serve for one year on the Youth Philanthropy Committee. The students are nominated to this program by faculty and staff of their respective school based on their demonstration of excellence in academics, leadership, and community service.

Gratitude is Powerful A Straight Talk Excerpt by Robert Day

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hink for a moment about the transformational power of gratitude. A thankful spirit can unlock

the fullness of life. It turns what little we might have into enough—even more than enough. Gratefulness turns denial into acceptance, and can turn a simple meal into a feast. Gratitude can make a stranger into a friend, and a house into a home. The ability to appreciate is the ability to be happy in the moment, secure in the future, and at peace with the past.

Learning to be thankful is the secret to knowing joy.

Cicero said, “Gratitude is not only the greatest of all virtues, but is the parent of all others.”

Perhaps that’s why the Bible says, “…in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.” Notice, it doesn’t say that we must be thankful FOR everything but to be thankful IN everything.

Gratitude is giving thanks in every situation or circumstance. That’s transformational power.

While living at Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes may not be a youth’s first choice, being there is a safe place where strong character grows. Together, youth, houseparents and staff work to build better futures. The photographs displayed on this page are an example of grateful hearts and lots of joy!

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Two Friends of PHFS Receive Heirloom Chairs Lucy Woodall Harris deserves much

recognition for her long-standing support of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes (PHBGH). She joined the Advisory Board in 1972 and has served as a Trustee since 2002.

In addition, through her support as a member and officer of the Junior Woman’s Club, President of the Alice Kyle District, and state officer in the Virginia Federation of Women’s Clubs, the PHBGH torch has traveled far.

She is best known, however, for her tireless efforts as Chair of the Scholarship Committee. Not only does she and her committee award PHBGH students scholarships for college, vocational training and career advancement opportunities, but she was most influential in developing an independent living program known today as Step Forward. The program is designed to help young adults transition from the structured environment of group homes and foster care into independent living.

“Like so many who have fallen in love with PHBGH, my involvement began through the encouragement of Mrs. William Page “Lucy” Williams, who was instrumental in getting the Alice Kyle District (Virginia Federation of Woman’s Clubs) and the American Legion Auxiliary interested in supporting this ministry,” said Mrs. Harris.

“I have always loved education and working with children, but as I have no children of my own, my involvement with PHBGH has been especially rewarding. Years ago I saw how great a need there was to assist those living in our homes as they transitioned into independent living. There are no words to describe how meaningful it has been to be a part of the scholarship committee and its efforts to financially help and encourage many young adults.”

“When you think of Lucy Harris, you smile,” said PHFS CEO Robert Day. “She is faithful, wise, and very committed to our youth, but she is also great fun! We wanted to do something to recognize her years of support and felt it most appropriate to have one who has been helped by the Scholarship Committee’s support, Josh, to work on a Patrick Henry chair for her.

“He was honored to help construct the corner chair in our American Auxiliary Craft shop and she was honored (and quite surprised) to receive the gift!”

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Jenny L. Cote, award-winning author, was

another prominent recipient of a campus-crafted Patrick Henry chair in recent months.

Jenny is the author of two book series for children (The Amazing Tales of Max and Liz®, and The Epic Order of the Seven®), and has also conducted writing workshops for thousands of students of all ages.

An upcoming project, however, actually served to make her a new friend of PHFS. Cote is now at work on a Revolutionary War trilogy for young readers featuring Patrick Henry as a central character. Her research for those books brought her to Patrick Henry’s home at Red Hill … and also onto our Brookneal campus.

During one of her visits to PHFS, she toured the wood shop, where we presented her with a chair that had been prepared in her honor—a gift she enthusiastically received!

Handmade pens are another product of our American Legion Craft Shop. For more information regarding chair or pen purchases, please telephone: Mercy Clements, (434) 239-6891, ext. 206.

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