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FALL FASHION PREVIEW
By Anita Taylor
At this fall’s fashion shows in New York, Florence, Milan, and Paris there were a number of pervasive trends. We’ve rounded up the top ten, making it easy to update your wardrobe with a pop of one of the hot colors or by adding a trending accessory.
Statement Scarves
As big as blankets or twisted up and knotted tight, bold neckwear choices adorned almost every runway look this season. Wear a thick scarf, or a light-weight but voluminous wrap, around your neck with your suit or sport coat and you’ll be right on trend.
in velvet, wool and even cotton sweatpants. These looks were paired with everything from dress shoes to colorful high-top sneakers and hiking boots.
Backpacks
Bye-bye messenger bag, the backpack has returned in shades ranging from casual khaki to sharp leather in an array of vibrant colors.
G-Star’s Raw Tailor long sleeve, check shirt with flap pockets, rounded hem and layered shoulder construction offers tone on tone plaid and a pop of color in light cotton available at Cram.
Herschel Little America is one of Cram’s best selling backpacks. Inspired by classic mountaineering style, this backpack’s large volume is paired with modern functionality. Fully padded/fleece lined, with a sleeve pocket that easily stores a 15” laptop. Magnetic strap closures and a main compartment cinch top closure, a front pocket with hidden zipper and key clip and internal media pocket, combined with ventilated air mesh back padding and contoured shoulder straps make toting your laptop a breeze.
Cuffed Pants
Rolled Necks
Plaid
Choose over-sized and tone on tone pattern, adding a bit of “printerest” to your look via hats, scarves, socks, ties, bags, coats and jackets.
Denim and tweed slacks cuffed high and showing a bit of ankle, were the predominate trend. However, high-rise cuffs could also be spotted
From the classic turtleneck to oversized shawl collars, layering shirts and sweaters is another look seen on many runways. boiMAG
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Jackets
Pop of Color
Monochromatic
Add a pop of color to your wardrobe with Tokyo Five’s reversible shirt in Spice, from Bucky Gear.
Another trend that crossed all the runways was the return of both the bomber jacket and basketball jacket. Both featured more fitted versions of the classics in a mixture of fabrics and textures, as well as the rich colors popular this season. This season saw an across the board use of neutral on neutral tones. Charcoal suits were paired with contrasting hues and patterns at Viktor & Rolf as well as Bottega Veneta. Neil Barrett’s show featured a slate baseball jacket paired with gunmetal trousers. Muted camo also made extensive use of tone on tone, in everything from jackets and coats to accessories. Hex X Fool’s Gold Solo Wallet for the I-Phone 5 is a limited edition available only at Cram. The custom molded case with two integrated card slots is genuine leather. Use the slots for ID, credit cards or extra cash. Everything you need for your digital life in one slim solution.
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Burgundy, bordeaux, merlot; all the wine tones were the hot colors, often used in subtle ways with shoes and accessories, as well as in statementmaking pieces, including coats. Other hot colors included; emerald green, Mykonos blue, deep purple acai and various shades of autumnal orange.
Black Leather
Always a popular fashion choice, but this year’s shows featured minimalist leather outerwear that was formfitting, with strong structural lines.
Not So Formal Wear
Many designers showed formal wear that went beyond the basic black tuxedo, with dinner jackets in rich jewel-toned velvets, many sporting bold patterns and florals.
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eye see you By Anita Taylor
Choosing the right pair of glasses is as much about looking good as it is about seeing well. You could try on every pair in the store until you find the pair that is right for you. Narrowing the selections is much easier when you take the shape of your face into account. Most people’s faces fall into one of four categories; oval, round, heart or square –shaped. If you’re not certain of the shape of your face, read the descriptions below. If you’re still not certain, try this trick; look in the mirror and, using a dry erase marker, trace the outline of your face. Then use the guidelines below to help you select your frames. Eyewear should repeat your personal best feature (such as a blue frame to match blue eyes). The frame shape should contrast with your face shape. The frame size should be in scale with your face size. ROUND faces are a soft, circular shape with the width and length almost equal. Look for angular and geometric frames that sharpen facial features. Rectangular/horizontal styles make your face appear longer and thinner. Avoid small frames that are out of proportion and short frames that accentuate the length of your face.
HEART shaped faces have a broader forehead and narrower jaw line and chin. Look for bottom-heavy frames that add width to lower face, styles with low-set temples to draw attention downward and narrow, round frames that soften the forehead. Avoid topheavy styles that draw attention upward and decorative temples that accentuate the broad upper face. SQUARE faces are notable for strong, well-defined angles in the forehead, cheeks, and jaw line look best in oval and round frames, with temples that are center set or that connect at the top of the frame. This is the one face shape that can pull off butterfly shaped glasses. Avoid geometric and square shaped frames that accentuate angles of the face, low-set temples or color accents on the bottom of the frames that draw emphasis to the chin. OVAL faces have balanced features and a chin slightly narrower than the forehead. Most frame shapes work with oval faces; look for square, rectangular and geometric shapes which add angles to soft curves. Avoid frames that are too large for your features.
Anita Taylor is a celebrity stylist, fashion writer, personal shopper and hash house waitress. She attended Parsons New School, Radcliff and Mr. Lance’s boiMAG 13
THE JOYS OF THRIFTING By Anita Taylor When I was in high school, one of the most fashionable girls I knew asked me if I wanted to go shopping with her one day. Imagine my surprise when our first stop was a Salvation Army Thrift Store! This was the best dressed girl in the school! I then found out that her family was struggling to get by and that this was the only way she could shop. I was in even more awe of her than I had been before. In a recent survey, 70% of adults said that buying used clothing is now more socially acceptable than it was a decade ago. The good news is that people are also being more economically and environmentally conscious. The bad news is that means there’s more competition to find the good stuff out there.
Take a friend It’s always good to have a second opinion. Also, many stores don’t have mirrors, your friend can use their phone to take a picture of you in an outfit so you can see right away what it looks like. I actually prefer to use this technique when shopping anywhere. For some reason I can better evaluate how something looks on me when looking at a picture rather than in an mirror. Try things on Sizes vary widely, not only between manufacturers, but also by era. You still need to know your general size and measurements, but be willing to try something if it looks like it will fit, no matter the size on the label. Examine everything Look for stains, holes or torn seams, examine zippers and check washing instructions especially if you’re not the type to take clothes to the cleaners. Don’t be a label whore Use the labels only as a guide to quality, don’t limit yourself, sometimes a brand you’ve never heard of can yield a favorite piece of clothing.
As with any activity, it’s more fun if you learn a few of the basics first. Learn the feel of good fabric You’ll be able to run your hand down a rack of clothes and actually feel the good stuff. Discard your prejudices Some think of thrift stores and used clothing shops as dirty places. Some are, but most aren’t. Dress for success Many places don’t have dressing rooms, so wear a thin layer of clothes over which you can easily try things on. A leotard and tights or tight-fitting T-shirt and shorts makes it easy to drop your drawers without embarrassment (or getting arrested).
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Accessorize Here’s where you can make a real killing. An leather belt can easily run $75 in a clothing store, but you can find a better belt for just $2. Shoes, hats and ties are also great finds. Examine the ties closely usually they’re given away because they have a food stain or are snagged. Watch for tags Sometimes unsold department store inventory finds its way to used clothing stores and thrift shops. You’ll generally pay more for these items, but not much. Time and Patience At retail clothing shops, everything is neatly organized. That’s’ not the case at most thrift stores (some of the lower-end ones just sort clothes by color). Be patient, browse the racks methodically. Thrifting can be a Zen experience. Enjoy yourself This is the most important tip. If you don’t enjoy the thrill of the hunt, don’t do it. No matter how much you save, it won’t be worth it if you don’t have a good time.
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John CHICAGO SPOTLIGHT KAMYS by Gregg Shapiro John Kamys (Jinx Titanic) is an awardwinning composer, songwriter, vocalist, performing artist and de facto activist. He has written and produced more than 100 songs, one musical, composed numerous works for small ensemble - often as incidental music for dramatic theater, directed for video and the stage, and served a three-year appointment as composer and music director for the Goodman Theatre’s annual production of A Christmas Carol. He has performed in films and video and on television; he has also toured internationally as a solo artist and with the pop/punk/pro-GLBT bands Super 8 Cum Shot, and Jinx Titanic. He is currently touring with the newlyformed, Jinx Titanic and the Ladykillers in support of its first release “Mister Casanova.” He received a Joseph Jefferson Award nomination for Best Original Music for the play Cloud Tectonics (1996). He subsequently won the award for Best Original Music for the play El Paso Blue (1998). His recordings have received three OMA (Out Music Award) nominations and the OMA for Outstanding Production for “Super 8 Cum Shot Volume II.” Several songs from these recordings can be heard on feature film soundtracks, as well as in television programs. He has also contributed music to numerous episodes of MTV’s The Real World, as well as HBO’s Cathouse, and True Blood. He is a member of The American Society of Composers, Authors and Publishers (ASCAP). His recorded works are administered through Big Dixie Publishing (ASCAP)
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When did you come out and what was the experience like for you?
It’s difficult for me to really pinpoint a specific coming-out. I can remember being attracted to men as early as second grade. I had a huge crush on Gunther Gebel-Williams, the animal trainer for Ringling Brothers and Barnum and Bailey Circus. I was crazy about him, and I remember talking about it with friends at the time. There’s a part of me that has always figured my sexuality was understood, especially among my immediate family, who are very expressive and open about things. I did have a bit of a heart-to-heart about it with my mom when I was in high school. It was so strange. I had just come home after my first significant sexual experience with a guy. I was a bit shaken. It was the first time I ever really acted on my feelings and my mom noticed something was bothering me. Always candid, I told her what had happened. Not all the juicy details, but the gist of things. And her response was quite brilliant. She listened, paused for a few moments, and said, “If you didn’t like it, don’t do it again, if you did, then you did, and it’s no big deal.” And that was pretty much the whole of it.
Please name five of your GLBT heroes and say a few words about why you chose them.
Nikolai Alekseev - Russian GLBT rights activist, lawyer and journalist. I admire this man’s unyielding fight for equality under a regime of oppression. He has been kidnapped, beaten, threatened, arrested - yet he persists - and in doing so is making real change-for-the-better happens. Robert Mapplethorpe - because his homoerotic, and sadomasochisticthemed photography sparked not only controversy, but also a national debate about funding in the arts and censorship. Larry Kramer - for Act Up ... and everything else the man does. Judy Shepard - her commitment to activism following her son’s death is not only remarkable, it is in-part responsible for transforming United States law. That’s power.
What are your future goals and aspirations?
My goals are constant - to continue to work and to produce good work - when I am engaged in work, everything else falls into place - opportunities and challenges present themselves and I embrace what comes. In the short-term, it’s full-speed-ahead with my new band The Ladykillers. I’m also working on a new recording, which is very different from anything I have previously released - it’s rather spare, and dark, and brittle. I hope to have it completed by the end of summer for a September or October release.
Words of wisdom to the next GLBT generation. Do your homework. Learn your history. Take nothing for granted. Give credit when and where credit is due. And, enroll in self-defense classes - because there’s still a long way to go.
Quentin Crisp - when I was very young, I remember seeing “The Naked Civil Servant” on public television. Mr. Crisp was the first non-closeted homosexual I had ever seen on television. I admire the fact that he was a troublemaker in the best sense of the word. What do you consider to be your most significant contribution to the GLBT community in Chicago and at large?
There are many things I am proud to have accomplished, and yet to single something out as a significant contribution to the GLBT community seems more appropriately answered by someone else, further down the road, in a life’s retrospective or something of that nature, if I am ever so fortunate. I think that when you are a part of a community, and interested in the common good and advancement of that community, one’s work as an artist, and actions as an individual, overall, will reflect that commitment.
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Rick Karlin s Big Bite D.O.C. Wine Bar Chicago presents a five-course Piedmontese-inspired menu with wine pairings selected by winemaker Elisa Scavino on Tuesday, Sept. for $70 per person, call 773.883.5101 for reservations and more information.
Howard Brown Health Center’s tastiest gala, “Garden of Eve”, in support of women’s health services at Howard Brown Health Center, on Friday, Sept. 13, takes place at the gorgeous River East Art Center overlooking the Chicago River. The evening features cocktails, and hors d’oeuvres by George Jewell Catering, live entertainment, dancing, and a silent auction. Tickets are $250 for the VIP reception and main event, $150 for just the main event. Call 773.388.8992 or go to www. howardbrown.org to purchase tickets and for more information. Paramount Room inaugurates its 7th year with a “$12 Wagyu Burger & A Pint” special offered daily Monday-Friday from 11 a.m. until 3 p.m. through Sept., along with a full menu including small plates, entrees, soup of the day, bar snacks, house-made desserts and artisan cheeses. Call 312.829.6300 or go to www.paramountroom.com.
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“Top Chef” fans can get a taste of what contestant Aaron Cuschieri is all about before the October 2 season premiere of the show. Slurping Turtle located at 116 W. Hubbard now offers a three-course tasting dinner by Chef Cuschieri for $40. Call 312.464.0466 for more information. SmallBar Division is hosting a $25 allyou-can-eat chef’s shrimp boil picnic featuring live music and some of the year’s great beers on Sunday, Sept. 8, beginning at 3 p.m. For more information, go to www.smallbardivision.com or 773.772.2727.
City Winery, recognized with a 2013 Award of Excellence by Wine Spectator, serves up a slate of wine events this fall, including a 100-wine consumer tasting on Sept. 11 and many dinners featuring the wines of specific vintners. For more information, go to www.citywinery.com.
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BOI’S BEST RESTAURANTS AMERICAN___________
ITALIAN_________________
The Bagel 3107 N. Broadway 773.477.0300
Anna Maria Pasteria 4400 N. Clark
The quintessential Jewish style deli is the perfect spot for a corned beef or pastrami sandwich, some chicken soup, lox and bagels or a full dinner.
Chicago Diner 3411 N. Halsted 773.935.6696
This world famous vegetarian restaurant offers vegan and organic offerings. Organic beers, wine, and spirits are also available.
Byron’s Hot Dogs 1017 W. Irving Park Rd.
773.281-7474 1701 W. Lawrence 773.271-0900. The place for classic Chicago-style hot dogs, Italian beef sandwiches and the best French fries this side of paradise
Golden Nugget Family Restaurants
2720 N. Clark 773.929.0724. 2406 W. Diversey 773.252.8903. 1765 W. Lawrence 773.769.6700. A great option for after bar dining as they are all open 24-7, and have free parking. Everything is housemade, known for fluffy buttermilk pancakes.
Halsted’s Bar & Grill 3441 N. Halsted
773.348.9696 This Boystown eatery serves up a wide array of tasty appetizers, burgers, sandwiches, and popular comfort food items at very reasonable prices in a fun and inviting atmosphere.
Hamburger Mary’s 5400 N. Clark
773.784.6969. “Eat, Drink and be... MARY” at this fun and popular Andersonville restaurant which features a array of burgers and sandwiches, along with an interesting selection of tasty appetizers.
Horizon Café 3805 N. Broadway 773.883.1565.
This long-time popular Lakeview family restaurant serves up big portions of creative homestyle dishes as well as healthy fare at affordable prices. Breakfast served all day long.
Kit Kat Lounge 3700 N. Halsted 773.525.1111. Providing the best of diva entertainment along with a full dinner menu,
Philly’s Best 907 W. Belmont 773.525.7900.
Authentic Philly cheese steak sandwich. Their meat is brought directly from Philadelphia. Also, medium crust pizza, oven baked grinders & fresh salads. ASIAN__________________
Jitlada Thai House 3715 N Halsted |
773.388.9988 This quaint family-owned eatery features Asian favorites such as Pad Thai, pineapple fried rice, crab rangoon, pot stickers, tempura and spice curry.
773.506.2662. Owned by sisters who hail from the Basilicata region of southern Italy, this neighborhood gem creates homemade modern and traditional Italian dishes that are authentic & delicious.
Mia Francesca 3311 N. Clark 773.281.3310.
Hosting the coolest and hippest Sunday brunch crowd in Lakeview. Brunch here is loud, raucous and FUN! Great for dinner, as well.
Panino’s Pizzeria 3702 N. Broadway
773.472.6200. Panino’s has established itself as a Boystown favorite with its varied menu selections, including gyros and burgers, pasta entrees.
Piehole Pizza 3477 N. Broadway 773.525.8888
and their new location at 5001 N. Clark. From their hole to yours. Traditional pizza served in untraditional ways. 773.525.8888. Their “hole” is open Sunday-Thursday from 11am-midnight and Friday & Saturday until 3am. Grab it and go or have it delivered.. Delivering until late at night. MEDITERRANEAN____
Gyro-Mena 905 W. Belmont 773.935.2600.
Augments the Athenian Gyros by satisfying the American desire to pick our own toppings! True Athenian Gyros is a choice of all natural non-ground meat (pork or chicken) stacked and cooked on a rotisserie.
Sayat Nova 157 E. Ohio 312.644.9159. Classic
Mediterranean-American fare served in comfortable surroundings Every Thursday night things get extra gay for the “Boystown in Downtown” party. MEXICAN/LATIN__________
El Mariachi 3906 N. Broadway 773.549-2932
and at 3420 N. Broadway 773.549-7020. Quickly becoming one of the very best Mexican restaurants in the city, the focus is on using fresh, high-quality ingredients for its “south of the border” cuisine. Full bar featuring over 100 brands of tequila.
Las Mananitas 3523 N. Halsted St. 773.528.2109. Traditional & regional Mexican dishes along with freshly squeezed limes for margaritas. Nice place to eat, drink and window watch people on Halsted St. Has a full bar & plenty of hardy dishes to satisfy any appetite. Serving the community for over 28 years.
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RuPAUL S DRAG RACE
By Anita Taylor
Five years ago, “RuPaul’s Drag Race” sashayed onto the reality TV scene with a realness that captivated critics and RuPaul fans from the first lip-synch. Nobody, not even Logo, could have predicted the impending crossover pop culture success of the series and world-wide reach of the queens.
With each year, “RuPaul’s Drag Race” continues to reel in new fans, but were you there from the beginning? Turns out, not many of today’s millions of fans were. That first season of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” hasn’t been available to fans for many years, until now. Fans old and new alike can rejoice that Logo’s bringing back the “lost season” in all of its dragtastic glory with brand new extras such as pop-up commentary, intros from RuPaul and the gals and exclusive online behind-the-scenes footage when “RuPaul’s Drag Race, The Lost Season Ru-Vealed” kicks off Monday, September 30 on Logo. “Back in the day, if anyone had told me that in the year 2013 people would be clamoring to watch season one, I would have insisted on better lighting!” exclaimed RuPaul. “That aside, I’m thrilled to share the trailblazing work of the ‘’ queens. It’s their charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent that started a drag revolution. If you love ‘RuPaul’s Drag Race,’ you have these queens to thank.”
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The Earlier Years
Fall in love all over again with the season that started it all and brought you the likes of Akashia, BeBe Zahara Benet, Tammie Brown, Nina Flowers, Rebecca Glasscock, Jade, Ongina and Shannel. Top it all off with unforgettable challenges such as a drag queen car wash and guest judges including Bob Mackie, Michelle Williams, Tori Spelling, Lucy Lawless and Charo, and you’ve got a season that’s definitely worth re-visiting. To help celebrate the unveiling, fans can expect new installments of the catchingup with the queens video series “Where the Frock Are they Now?” and all new online weekly “Drag Center” recaps starring “RuPaul’s Drag Race” megastar alumnus Pandora Boxx. For more information on “RuPaul’s Drag Race” and sneak preview clips, you can go to www.LogoTV.com. For up-to-date “RuPaul’s Drag Race” news and exclusives, join the “RuPaul’s Drag Race” Facebook page or follow the series on Twitter at @ RuPaulsDragRace and #DragRace.
See the Stars of “Rupaul’s Drag Race” Live Get ready, fans, the ladies of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” have put the pedal to the metal and are bringing the “Battle of the Season”s tour to the House of Blues on Wednesday, Sept. 11. The girls you love, and you love to hate, are all going to be strutting their stuff. Carmen Carrera, Detox, Ivy Winters, Jinkx Monsoon, Manila Luzon, Mimi Imfurst, Pandora Boxx, Phi Phi O’Hara, Sharon Needles, Alaska Thunderfuck and Willam will take the stage in a showgirl competition judged by the one and only, Michelle Visage. “I am honored to be the hostess (a.k.a drag mother) to these talented queens, and we are overjoyed to be working with the legendary Live Nation to bring the art of drag to yet another level, theater,” Mama V said. “RuPaul has given the art form a voice, and we cannot wait to use it at a theater near you!”
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iMUSIC
Growing Up In Public
by Gregg Shapiro
Hayley Williams was only 16 when she and Paramore band mates released their first album in 2005. In “Grow Up,” a song from Paramore’s first rate new recording it becomes the kind of band that could stand the test of time. Williams is still the focus, a powerhouse vocalist with a raw and raucous energy. Paramore gives us much to fall in love with here, including the funky strut of “Ain’t It Fun,” the new wave revival snap of “Still Into You,” the snarl of “Anklebiters,” the subtle twang of “Hate To See Your Heart Break” and the retro pop of “(One of Those) Crazy Girls.” (Paramore @ UIC Pavilion, 11.24) As comebacks go, emo royalty Fall Out Boy hasn’t done too badly with Save Rock and Roll. While the disc probably won’t do what the title states, it does a good job of restoring the band’s rep following Patrick Stump’s ill-fated solo project. Opener “The Phoenix” makes good use of a clever chorus, including the lines “I’m gonna change you like a remix/Then I’ll raise you like a phoenix” and “Where Did The Party Go” is enough to get party guests dancing. Joined by Foxes on “Just One Yesterday,” Fall Out Boy rolls out its funk-loving side, while “Miss Missing You” sounds a little too much like Maroon 5. That’s Courtney Love ranting on “Rat A Tat” and her royal highness Sir Elton John on the title cut.
in making music with his band Thirty Seconds To Mars. The ambitious fourth studio album Love Lust Faith + Dreams (Virgin), bypasses contemporaries such as the recently disbanded My Chemical Romance to invade Muse’s territory. A vast and focused improvement on previous discs, with a more accessible sound, something that comes through (emphasis on) loud and clear on songs such as “Up In The Air,” “The Race,” “End of All Days” and “Bright Lights.” Brandy’s debut album came out when the actress and singer was only 15. All grown up now, Brandy, who was never much of a show-off to begin with shows tasteful restraint as she reminds us of her talent as a performer via her smoky rasp. At home expressing her sexuality on “Slower” and “Let Me Go,” she also has a grasp of dealing with adult matters on “No Such Thing As Too Late,” “Without You” and “Paint This House.” While it’s bit of a disappointment that she teamed up with a performer of questionable talents such as Chris Brown on the lackluster “Put It Down,” Brandy redeems herself by performing “Scared Of Beautiful,” a gorgeous track penned by queer artist Frank Ocean.
Twenty years old when his self-titled debut disc was released, classical crossover superstar Josh Groban has managed to stay in the public eye releasing live and studio albums on which he remains faithful to his roots while adding new colors to his palette. With All Just as Angela Chase did on My SoCalled Life, many gay teens and teenage That Echoes (Reprise), Groban continues to grow as a songwriter (“Below The girls fell in love with Jordan Catalano, Line,” “Happy In My Heartache”), exhibits played by Jared Leto. Moody, broody splendid taste in cover material (Jimmy and so pretty it almost hurt to look at Webb’s “The Moon Is A Harsh Mistress,” him, Leto’s portrayal of the troubled “Falling Slowly” from Once), all the while teen was unforgettable. He went on remaining true to his fan base. (Josh to make some memorable movies, Groban @ United Center, Oct. 20) but he soon became more interested boiMAG 25
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As the leaves fall, the curtains open on a new theater season, and with that brings a whole slew of new openings. BoHo Theatre kicks off season with Ira Levin’s horror thriller “Veronica’s Room” at the Heartland Studio, running through Oct. 27. For more information, go to www.BoHoTheatre.com or call 866.811.4111. Shattered Globe Theatre kicks of its season with “Other People’s Money”, running through Oct. 19, at its new home, Theater Wit. Tickets are available at www.theaterwit.org or by calling 773.975.8150
Theatre through Oct. 20. For tickets, call 847.634.0200 or visit www. marriotttheatre.com. Mercury Theater presents “The Color Purple” through October 27. For tickets visit www.mercurytheaterchicago.com or call 773.325.1700. Drury Lane Theatre hosts the regional premiere of “Next To Normal”. For tickets call 630.530.0111 or visit www. drurylane.com. Victory Gardens Theater co-hosts the world premiere of “Appropriate” in association with Actors Theatre of Louisville, Nov. 8 through Dec. 8. The play speaks to the issues of race, history and family. For ticket information call 773.871.3000 or go to www. victorygardens.org.
Raven Theatre opens the season with “The Trip to Bountiful”, running through Saturday, Sept. 21 for ticket and information: www.raventheatre.com or 773.338.2177.
Porchlight Music Theatre presents the Chicago premiere of “Double Trouble”, book, music and lyrics by brothers Bob Walton and Jim Walton, running through Oct. 6, at Stage 773. Call 773.327.5252 or go to www.stage773. com for tickets and more information.
Sideshow Theatre Company opens its season with the Chicago premiere of “9 Circles” through Oct. 6, at The Storefront Theater. For ticket info. go to www.sideshowtheatre.org.
Nora Dunn’s one-woman show, “Mythical Proportions” plays at Theater Wit through September 22. For ticket information, call 773.975-8150 or go to www.theaterwit.org.
Northlight Theatre opens its season with the Chicago premiere of “4000 Miles” running through Oct. 20. For more information call 847.673.6300 or www.northlight.org.
Interrobang Theatre Project kicks off its season with “Terminus”, running through Oct. 6 at The Athenaeum Theatre. Tickets are available at www. athenaeumtheatre.org or by calling 773.935.6875.
The Side Project will present world premiere collaborations at its theatre, all season, visit www.thesideproject. net or call the theatre’s box office at 773.340.0140.
American Blues Theater is focusing on “Legends and Legacies” this season, kicking off with “ Hank Williams, Lost Highway”, running through Oct. 6, at the Greenhouse Theater. Tickets are on sale now at 773.404.7336 or www. americanbluestheater.com.
“9 to 5, The Musical”, based on the popular 1980 film, runs at the Marriott
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in the know ... ON THE GO
Give Haters the Finger Hell, give them five fingers! With the increased violence in Boystown, it’s time to take things into your own hands. Thousand Waves, 1220 W. Belmont, is offering “Five Fingers,” a free self-defense/ personal safety workshop on Wednesday, Sept. 11, at 7:00 p.m. The workshop will provide participants relevant tools for many types of situations from street harassment to physical assaults. Register online at www.thousandwaves.org.
documentaries about art, artists, creativity, and queer identity. For more data go to www.chicagofilmmakers.org… If you’re into vintage (and who isn’t nowadays?), check out the Vintage Garage Sale on Sunday, Sept. 15, in the parking garage at 5051 N. Broadway. For more info, check out their website at www.vintagegaragechicago.com.
Woof! The biggest party in Canada, Pitbull Events, is throwing its first event in the U.S. at Hydrate on Saturday, Sept. 7, Gay With a Purpose City Winery hosts a March on Springfield featuring renowned Toronto house DJ, Neill MacLeod, who specializes in dance benefit concert on Sunday, Sept. 8, parties for furry guys and their fans. Prefeaturing De’Borah from The Voice, Sami sale tickets will be $10 online, $15 at the Grisafe, TJ Chernick and Maria Pahl. door. For more info, go to their website Chicago comic and actor Scott Duff will www.hydratechicago.com… That should host the show, which will also feature prime you for Bear Chested Night on a raffle and details about the March on Wednesday at Touché… If you’re the kind Springfield. Tickets are $10-$25 and all of person who doesn’t think an outfit is proceeds will help pay for youth buses complete until it’s got some dog hair on to Springfield for the Oct. 22 march it, then you need to check out the “Furry and rally. For more info, check out the and Fabulous GLTB Wine & Cheese Event” website www.MarchOnSpringfield.org… on Thursday, Sept. 12 at Chicago Party Honey Pot, Progress Bar girls night on Tuesdays, are lesboliscious… Replay has Animals, 1133 W. Fulton Market. The folks at Chicago Canine Concierge and Chicago got an awesome beer and bourbon list Party Animals host this GLBT Wine and and some sweet vintage video games. I Cheese Mixer for pups and their parents. don’t drink beer, get mean on bourbon, For more info go to www.facebook.com/ but I love the video games and the back patio is my new favorite place to chill on a chicagopartyanimals. warm summer night. Hopefully we’ll still This Just In have a few of those. Pay attention all you Madonna fans, Sidetrack premieres the new MDNA Back to School, Cool! World Tour DVD video from Madonna Lavender University begins a series of on “Diva Tuesday, Madonna Edition,” educational programs at Center on September 10. Live screening starts Halsted on Saturday, Sept. 7, at 11:00 at 8pm. For all you runway show fans, a.m. The first is presented by noted Progress Bar hosts “Project Run-A-Way” GLBT historian John D’Emilio, “No Raceon September 28 at 7:30. Space is limited, Baiting, Red-Baiting, or Queer-Baiting, so plan ahead to watch contestants The Marine Cooks and Stewards Union use their creative talents to put a look from Depression to Cold War”. For more together in an extremely short time. From info contact lkarlic@centeronhalsted. the years of peeking my head back stage, org… Columbia College hosts “Chicago this I’m sure, will be no ordinary challenge. Portraits, Queerly” on Friday, Sept. 6, a program of three experimental boiMAG 29
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By Ace Magyar One Is The Loneliest Number
One of my good friends, who I’ve known since high school, has been canceling our plans to get together lately. This has been going on for almost six months. The few times we do manage to get together he has little to say, I’m the one that keeps the conversation going. He got a new job about a year ago, and ever since then he’s been distant. I thought at first he was just busy with his new job, but I’d run into him out with a group of people at a club. He’d chat with me for a few minutes, but then say something like, “Well, I have to get back to my friends now.” And leave me standing there. We used to do everything together. I don’t know what I did to make him upset.
Dear OITLN,
You might not have done anything. Sometimes people just drift apart. Obviously, his friendship is important to you. The next time you do get together with your friend, tell him that you value his friendship and mention that you feel you have been drifting apart. Ask him if you did anything to offend him or whether this is just a relationship that has run its course. It is important to avoid making him feel guilty or that you are blaming him, if you want to get an honest answer. If you have offended him in some way, apologize and try to make amends. If, as I surmise, the relationship has run its course, accept that and move on. When you do run into each other, be cordial and then walk away, don’t hang around or he’ll begin avoiding you. In the years to come, the friendship may be rekindled, if not, you will always have the memory of your good times together.
Puppy Love
My neighbor adopted a puppy from a shelter. I’ve been going over to his apartment during the day (I work from home) and walking the dog, feeding it and, in short have fallen in love with him. My friend cares for the dog, but he works long hours and the poor puppy is in his kennel 10-12 hours a day (except when I come
over). I want to keep the puppy with me during the day. Would it be wrong to ask my friend to let me do that?
Dear PL,
Not at all! A puppy needs stimulation and training and should not be left in a kennel that many hours. It would be perfectly appropriate to ask if you could keep him with you while your friend is at work. I’m certain that your friend meant well when he adopted the pooch, but he clearly wasn’t ready for the responsibility. Ask your friend if you could be the puppy’s day care center. I wouldn’t be surprised if your friend agrees, most people pay big bucks for doggie day care. If he doesn’t, there’s really not much more you can do.
Helpless on Halsted
My brother was in a car accident in which he was hurt pretty badly. After a number of surgeries and almost 6 years of rehab he’s been back at work for a few months. He used to be very active and had a huge social circle. All he does now when he comes home from work is lie on the couch and watch television. I’ve talked with him about this. He says that he’s still in a lot of pain and that when he gets home from work he is too tired to do anything else but sit. He’s losing weight and seems to have no interest in anything. I’ve suggested that he see a therapist, but he says he doesn’t want anyone at work to find out, that he’s afraid of losing his job and his health insurance.
Dear HOH,
While some of the exhaustion is to be expected when first returning to work after a long period, your brother is clearly suffering from depression, which is not unusual after an extended illness or disability. Continue to encourage him to see a therapist. The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPPA) protects the privacy of individually identifiable health information, so even if he sees a therapist provided by his workrelated health insurance, they will never know what he is being treated for. If he is still reluctant to see someone through his health insurance, encourage him to see a therapist through a community health organization where therapy is available at no or low cost and his treatment can’t be traced back to his employer. Be insistent, depression can spiral downward and become worse if left untreated.
Ace Magyar has a BA in communications, a MA in sex therapy and a PHD in zoology. He is a registered couple’s counselor specializing in the GLBT community. Send your questions to ASK ACE at boieditorial@aol.com
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