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Mike Macharello Rick Karlin

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CONTENTS

E-COMMERCE TIMELINE

GAY APPS

BOI’S BEST RESTAURANTS

MATCH MAKING WEBSITES

WINTER PARTY, WHITE PARTY

DINNER AND THE THEATER

INTERVIEW: PHILIP DAWKINS

in the know, on the go!

CHICAGO bars & clubs directory

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CIRCUIT’S CLOSURE UPDATE Patrick Harms and Mike Macharello, managing partners of Circuit Night Club have announced that after 17 years in business that they have decided to close the club and go their separate ways for the time being. Macharello and Harms met 34 years ago at Forest Park’s Hideaway bar and became good friends. They worked together at Roscoe’s for a number of years before Harms left to open Qwest, a club with predominantly Puerto Rican clientele on Chicago’s Northwest side. At that same time, Macharello opened The Halsted Street Café, in the space where Circuit eventually opened. Harms lost his lease at Qwest after three years of operation. At about that same time Macharello was granted a liquor license for his space. The friends decided that it was time to join forces, Harms had a following from Qwest and Macharello had a new bar on Halsted Street with a successful Thursday Latin night, but needed a weekend lineup. They decided it was, in the words of Harms, “A match made in heaven.” boi

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According to Harms, “I was good at the administrative aspect of the food and drink business, Mike’s forte was advertising, marketing and promotions. It was a good fit. We had a good 17 year run together and a this point, we have simply have decided to go in different directions.” Macharello adds, “We’ll continue to share a close friendship, we parted amicably. This business has been difficult on the both of us and we got through the worst of times together. I always wish Patrick the best.” “However, this is not the first time we have went in different directions, the last time was when we left Roscoe’s almost 20 years ago.” Harms states, “I enjoy working in the bar and nightclub business and being involved in the community. I am president of the NortHalsted Business Alliance and on the board of The Center on Halsted and would like to remain there in some capacity. I am also open to the possibility of a new club venture in the Circuit location.” BOI is under a separate corporation & Macharello plans to continue publishing BOI Magazine. “We have been in the process of heading in a new and exciting direction with the magazine for 2013 and we will announce those changes shortly,” Macharello said. “I am also working with a few other club owners to keep the party going.” “This may be the end of this particular episode for Patrick & myself, but I don’t believe it’s the end of the story!”

E-Commerce Timeline Ordering on line is now so common, that we barely think about it. However, it wasn’t that long ago that the idea was unheard of. It wasn’t a fantasy seen in films and television, like teleportation or traveling between planets. It didn’t even enter our consciousness. Then, in 1992, J.H. Snider and Terra Ziporyn write the life-changing book, “Future Shop: How New Technologies Will Change the Way We Shop and What We Buy”. Suddenly the idea seemed so basic that people wondered how they hadn’t thought of it. Now we can do our entire holiday shopping without leaving our chair, or even putting on clothes. Here’s how we got to that point. 1979 Videotex, a two way message service, developed basically for information sending in the U.K. Concurrently in the U.S. around that time, services such as The Source and CompuServe were established.. 1982 Minitel launched in France as an on line service making it possible to make purchases, check the stock market, search telephone directories and chat via the Internet. This is one of the most successful services using telephone lines. 1987 Swreg (an offshoot of CompuServe) provides software developers and shareware authors an on line market where they could sell their product using “merchant accounts”. 1990 Tim Berners-Lee, a British computer scientist, creates the first World Wide Web server and browser. He implemented the first successful communication between a Hypertext Transfer Protocol (HTTP) client and server via the Internet, starting an historic change in communication.

1994 Netscape released Navigator browser, later introduced Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) encryption for secure transaction. Pizza Hut started on line ordering on its webpage. German company Intershop introduced its first online shopping system. Porn started selling on the internet. 1995 Jeff Bezos founds Amazon.com the first exclusively on line retailer. Dell and Cisco started using internet in all transactions. Online auction eBay is founded. 1998 U.S. starts selling electronic postal stamps online. 1999 Napster, a peer-to-peer file sharing software launches. 2001 PayPal is established, offering safe payment options for those choosing not to use credit cards on line. 2002 PayPal is purchased by eBay. 2003 Online shopping matures, Amazon.com posts first yearly profit. 2008 E-commerce sales figures reach $204 billion, a 17% rise from the previous year. 2010 E-commerce numbers match in-store purchases for the first time during the holiday season. 2011 Banks begin using software allowing customers to pay by phone, cash checks and transfer funds. PayPal debuts The Square, an attachment for the IPhone allowing individuals to swipe credit cards for payments to their accounts. boi

Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places By Ace Magyar There is no guarantee that you’re going to find the love of your life on the Internet. Of course, there’s no guarantee that you’ll meet him anywhere. But, if you find you’re not meeting anyone, you may be looking for love in all the wrong places. There’s a vast difference between the kind of relationship you’re going to develop with someone you meet on a hook up site such as Grindr, Man4Man, etc. Now there’s nothing wrong with finding someone on those sites for a hook up, but it’s kind of like shopping for a banana in an auto parts store. What you’re looking for usually isn’t there. If you are more interested in dating and finding a long-term relationship one of the following sites is a better bet. The web site top10gaydatingsites.com bases its rankings on user reviews. Here’s a list of their top ten, a short review and customer ranking (out of 100 points).

Match.com Score 99

A big and diverse gay dating community, incredible member database and easy to understand search criteria.

Zoosk.com Score 98

Large user base, search by age, location, height, ethnicity, and more with custom search; daily matches.

Chemistry.com Score 98

Gay dating with the biggest user base. All match-making is based on personality tests. This is best bet to find a meaningful relationship.

CompatiblePartners.com Score 97 Large user base, matching based on personality evaluation tests, for those looking for lasting relationships 10 boi

SeniorPeopleMeet.com Score 96

Biggest mature gay dating user base. Dating gay singles by local search, occupation and common interests. The best gay dating site for mature singles.

GayDating.com Score 95

Mainly gay men, some lesbian singles. Match-making tools available; search by detailed criteria. For gay men looking for long term commitments

AdultFriendFinder Score 95

Large user base. Search by gender, age, location, fantasy, video, photo, keyword and online now.

BeNaughty.com Score 94

For singles looking for fun, no-stringsattached dating. Search by age & location; keyword search; online now, recommended, reverse and custom searches. Fresh, fun and flirtatious casual dating.

SingleParentMeet.com Score 90 A growing gay dating site for single parents. Find partners at by age range, and occupation search. The best dating site for gay parents.

ManPlay.com Score 96

Sexy, interesting men looking for good times. Search by sexual preferences, location, interests and appearance. Of course, all the standard warnings about Internet dating apply. Watch out for phonies and frauds, don’t give out any personal information, meet in a public space the first time, etc.

Gay Apps A friend of mine says that there are so many gay hook up apps for the IPhone it should be called GuyPhone. Although it may seem that way at times, not all apps are for the sole purpose of hooking up. Here are some apps that will stimulate that other large organ; your brain. Edge Gay News Reader The iPhone version of the hugely successful EDGE.com which is “largest network of local Gay, Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) news and entertainment portals in the world” serves 500,000 dedicated readers from a variety of metropolitan areas in the U.S. and abroad. Edge publishes news, entertainment, business, technology, style, health, fitness, travel and nightlife information to readers around the world. For the GLBT community, staying connected on the go has never been so easy. Other components of this app allow you to access Edge’s columnists, flip through photos taken in cities around the nation and a business directory of community-maintained, GLBT-friendly businesses in its target markets. Find out where to eat, drink, stay and party in Boston, New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Chicago, Dallas, Miami, Ft. Lauderdale, Las Vegas, Philadelphia, Providence, Orlando, Provincetown and Fire Island. Gay Internet Radio Live (G.I.R.L) GayInternetRadioLive.com is a blend of party, dance, club, and circuit sounds that will keep you dancing. You’ll hear remixes of popular mainstream hits by internationally known dance mix DJ’s and producers. It’s a free app that is pretty straight forward with no directories to search, 12 boi

providing immediate access. Artist and song title information is displayed for each track and two stream choices (128k and 64k). For best sound quality use a WiFi connection. Gay Cities Another free app that comes in very useful when traveling. Gay Cities provides instant access to gayfriendly restaurants, gay bars, hotels and beaches in more that 95 cities worldwide. It’s just one click for reviews by like minded travelers, phone number, web site and directions. My Gay Agenda We’re always hearing about “the Gay Agenda” from the Ridiculous Right, now here it is! My Gay Agenda is a powerful personal calendar app with event features for all-day events and events that span multiple days. MGA also has a stylish notes feature and a daily historical synopsis of key ‘gay historical events’. My Gay Agenda comes in both a free version, which only allows you to schedule events within the month you are in. There is also a $2.99 paid version, which opens up the full scheduling capabilities. The creators of the app, the folks at Cerebral Itch, offer this explanation for the creation of their app; “We’ve always suspected what your plans were: destroy marriage, recruit children and do lots of cardio. Well, here’s the proof: My Gay Agenda is a first-class personal calendar application and hilarious take on what the well-organized “Velvet Mafia” operative would carry. You also may occasionally come across handwritten notes unveiling nefarious plans to take over the world (or make it a bit more fabulous).”

HEADLINE

WINTER WHITE The White Party November 19-26

Winter Party March 6-11

In 1985, Health Crisis Network, a fledgling not-forprofit HIV/AIDS service organization asked a local successful gay businessman, Frank Wager for help staging a fund raiser. The goal was to generate desperately needed funds to help combat a disease that was running rampant through the gay community. With this goal in mind, Frank and his committee of ten volunteers began working on “The White Party” concept.

The Winter Party Festival in Miami Beach, is one of the most anticipated events of the year, was the hottest winter in the world. WPF’12 featured six action-packed days and nights, nine spectacular dance parties and over 10,000 guests from around the world.

From the beginning, the committee wanted the party to symbolize community solidarity in a way that was non-political and non-combative. The color white was chosen as the theme for its purity and elegance. As the planning continued it became obvious that there were few venues in Dade County suitable for such an elegant event. Fellow committee member Jorge Suarez recommended Villa Vizcaya as a possibility since he was a member of The Vizcayans, a not-forprofit organization that helps raise funds for the continued restoration of the Estate and its Collections. For more than 24 years, the Villa Vizcaya Museum and Gardens have served as the backdrop of the annual fund raiser. The White Party, the crown jewel of a week-long series of fund raising events that make up the annual “White Party Week”, continues to generate hundreds of thousands of dollars to benefit Care Resource, South Florida’s oldest and largest HIV/AIDS service organization, which offers clients access to promising new drug therapies in addition to the vast array of programs and services. With the ever-changing landscape of this pandemic, “The White Party” finds itself in the midst of change to fit today’s growing needs while catering to a much more diverse crowd. The White Party starts on November 19th and on November 20th there is a big Madonna MDNA party in downtown Miami. “White Martini” on Wednesday, Nov. 21 at Mova Martini bar, through a variety of tea dance, late night and pool and beach parties stretching over six days. There are many events to choose from such as the White Dreams party at Space, The White Party at Soho Studios (featuring Crystal Waters) and the Muscle Beach Party. There’s the final party, held at the legendary multi-room culminating in Swan Song indoor and outdoor entertainment complex. Those wishing the party weekend will never end can Twist, on Monday, Nov. 26. The list of associated events is extensive and who knows, more might even be added, so we recommend you go to their website at whiteparty.com and get the full rundown. 14 boi

Launched in 1994 as a one-time charity dance event on the sands of beautiful South Beach, Winter Party Festival has evolved into a week-long series of events benefiting the GLBT community nationally and locally. A portion of the net proceeds of WPF support the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force’s efforts to take action, build power and create change for GLBT people. The majority of the proceeds are donated to local service organizations through a grant-making process administered by The Miami Foundation. We produce one of the world’s biggest and bestloved celebrations for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) community in one of the world’s hottest destinations, Miami Beach, Florida. Over 10,000 guests from around the world attend our annual sixday extravaganza featuring the most spectacular venues, the most unforgettable parties and receptions and the best international DJ talent. For 18 years Winter Party Festival has been making a difference in people’s lives and providing vital funding to organizations serving the South Florida GLBT community. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force donates the majority of the net proceeds of Winter Party Festival and the Miami Recognition Dinner to local nonprofit organizations. Since assuming responsibility for these events in 2005, the Task Force has donated nearly $1.2 million dollars to the GLBT Community Projects Fund of The Miami Foundation.

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BOI’S BEST RESTAURANTS AMERICAN___________ Ann Sather 929 W. Belmont 773.348.2378. 5207 N Clark 773.271.6627 & 3411 N Broadway 773.305.0024. These bustling hot spots, serving traditional Swedish pancake house fare, are best known for hearty fare and delish cinnamon rolls.

IHOP 3760 N. Halsted 773.296.0048. More than a

The Bagel 3107 N. Broadway 773.477.0300

the poplular sports at this friendly neighborhood sports bar. Known for their killer burgers. They offer a late night menu along with daily specials and even brunch on Sundays.

The quintessential Jewish style deli is the perfect spot for a corned beef or pastrami sandwich, some chicken soup, lox and bagels or a full dinner that tastes as if someone’s Jewish momma made it.

Chicago Diner 3411 N. Halsted 773.935.6696

This world famous vegetarian restaurant offers vegan and organic offerings. Organic beers, wine, and spirits are also available.

Clark Street Dog 3040 N. Clark 773.281-6690. Open until four in the morning and serving up all the deliciousness you can imagine after you leave the bar.

Crew 4804 N. Broadway 773.784.2739. More than just a sports bar, the menu includes a variety of hamburgers, sandwiches, salads & comfort food.

Golden Nugget Family Restaurants

2406 W. Diversey 773.252.8903. 1765 W. Lawrence 773.769.6700. A great option for after bar dining as they are all open 24-7, and have free parking. The large menu is sure to please, especially the classic breakfast and hearty dinners. Everything is housemade, known for fluffy buttermilk pancakes.

The Gardens at Cocktail 3359 N. Halsted

-773.472.1420 The Gardens serves delicious homemade pizzas, at a great price, with drink specials to match!

Halsted’s Bar & Grill 3441 N. Halsted

773.348.9696 This Boystown eatery serves up a wide array of tasty appetizers, burgers, sandwiches, and popular comfort food items at very reasonable prices in a fun and inviting atmosphere. Beers on tap are aplenty and the weekend brunch draws an attractive crowd.

Hamburger Mary’s 5400 N. Clark

773.784.6969. “Eat, Drink and be... MARY” at this fun and popular Andersonville restaurant which features a wide array of burgers and sandwiches, along with an interesting selection of tasty appetizers. Wash it all down with one of Mary’s home-brewed ales.

Horizon Café 3805 N. Broadway 773.883.1565.

This long-time popular Lakeview family restaurant serves up big portions of creative homestyle dishes as well as healthy fare at affordable prices. Breakfast served all day long. Delivery available.

pancake house, this 24-hour Boystown institution serves up affordably priced appetizers, sandwiches, and entrees that are sure to satisfy varying after-bar wants and needs.

Jury’s 4337 N. Lincoln 773.935.2255. Watch all

Kit Kat Lounge 3700 N. Halsted 773.525.1111.

Providing the best of diva entertainment along with a full dinner menu, they offer ½-price cocktails and Buy 1 Get 1 Free Entree on Wednesdays.. On Monday nights get 50% off your entire bill.

Nookies Tree 3334 N. Halsted 773.248.9888 and Nookies Edgewater1100 W. Bryn

Mawr 773.516-4188. A regular haunt for the locals of Boystown (also Edgewater) and popular with hangover recoverees, the diner serves made-to-order omelets, pancakes, waffles and other brunch fare all day. And it’s open 24 hours on weekends.

Melrose 3233 N Broadway 773.327.2060. This

Lakeview institution has been catering to the afterbar crowds for decades, serving breakfast anytime along with typical diner fare. Open 24 hours

Philly’s Best 907 W. Belmont 773.525.7900.

Authentic Philly cheese steak sandwich. Their meat is brought directly from Philadelphia. Also, medium crust pizza, oven baked grinders & fresh salads.

Pie Hole Pizza 3477 N. Broadway 773.525.8888. Their “hole” is open Sunday-Thursday from 11amMidnight and Friday & Saturday until 3am. Grab it and go or have it delivered.. your pizza, that is!!

Rainbow Pizza 3450 N. Halsted . Serving up pizza by the slice. Open late nights Wed.-Sat. and cater to the hoards on Halsted looking for a quick bite to eat.

Stella’s Diner 3042 N. Broadway 773.472.9040.

Friendly staff serve up delicious diner fare, such as; fresh salads, a large selection of wraps, sandwiches, hearty entrees, pastas, and homemade desert

The Edge 2720 N. Clark St 773.929-7024. A bar

and grill serving breakfast, steaks, seafood, ribs, with a full bar until 2am. Free parking lot and open 24hrs.

Wilde Bar & Restaurant 3130 N. Broadway

773.244.0404. This cozy upscale Irish pub offers a laid back and warm atmosphere and a wide ranging menu that is sure to please. Expect updated versions of pub favorites such as chicken pot pie, meatloaf, fish & chips, burgers and salads.

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BOI’S BEST RESTAURANTS ASIAN__________________

MEDITERRANEAN____

Dragon Lady Lounge 3188 N. Elston

Andies 1467 W. Montrose 773.348.0654. 5253 N

773.267.1970 Serving Korean-Latin fusion dishes from delicious fresh Bi Bim Bop and Kim Chi Veggie burgers, to delicious tofu tacos and beef Kim Chi burgers. ITALIAN_________________

Anna Maria Pasteria 4400 N. Clark

773.506.2662. Owned by sisters who hail from the Basilicata region of southern Italy, this neighborhood gem creates homemade modern and traditional Italian dishes that are authentic, delicious & inexpensive.

Angelina Ristorante 3561 N. Broadway

773.935.5933. Hosting the coolest and hippest Sunday brunch crowd in Lakeview, the menu includes Eggs Benedict, fritattas, Croque Monsieur and mufaletta sandwiches, almond-crusted stuffed French toast, and the free flow of Champagne mimosas. Brunch here is loud, raucous and FUN! Great for dinner, as well.

Club Lucky 1824 W. Wabansia Ave. 773.227.2300. Popular Bucktown/Wicker Pk. restaurant & unique cocktail lounge. Generous portions of traditional Italian specialties and daily specials. Outdoor patio.

Panino’s Pizzeria 3702 N. Broadway

773.472.6200. Panino’s has established itself as a Boystown favorite with its varied menu selections, including gyros and burgers, pasta entrees, and of course pizza. Delivery available.

Piehole Pizza 3477 N. Broadway 773.525.8888. From their hole to yours. Traditional pizza served in untraditional ways. Delivering until late at night.

Mia Francesca 3311 N. Clark St. 773.281.3310.

Celebrating over 20 years in Lakeview. A zesty, earthy cuisine of Rome and the surrounding areas of Tuscany, Umbria and Lazio. Encourages the lively art of dining with a contemporary, casually sophisticated trattoria ambiance, simple, rustic cooking, friendly service and fair prices. Beautiful private outdoor patio and weekend brunch.

Viaggio at the Park 401 W. Fullerton 773.747.3333, and Viaggio Ristorante & Lounge 1330 W. Madison 312.829.3333

Both locations provide a unique, memorable, dining experience by satisfying three essential must-haves, superior food-quality, a beautiful, comforting ambiance, and a service-staff that makes you feel like family. What more could you ask for?? 18 boi

Clark 773.784.8616. Specializing in Mediterranean and vegetarian cuisine, specialties of the house include steak kabobs, gyros, and poultry dishes such as Greek Chicken and Lebanese Style Chicken Kefta Kabob. And as befits the cuisine, desserts include a very tasty baklava. The Sunday buffet brunch is extravagant and reasonably priced.

Gyro-Mena 905 W. Belmont 773.935.2600.

Augments the Athenian Gyros by satisfying the American desire to pick our own toppings! True Athenian Gyros is a choice of all natural non-ground meat (pork or chicken) stacked and cooked on a rotisserie. MEXICAN/LATIN__________

Cesar’s 2924 N. Broadway 773.296.9097 and at

3166 N Clark 773.248.2835 This family-owned operation offers an enticing menu full of delicious Mexican recipes, popular house specialties, irresistible desserts, and their signature “Killer Margaritas.”

El Mariachi 3906 N. Broadway 773.549-2932

and at 3420 N. Broadway 773.549-7020. Quickly becoming one of the very best Mexican restaurants in the city, the focus is on using fresh, high-quality ingredients for its “south of the border” cuisine. Full bar featuring over 100 brands of tequila.

El Nuevo Mexicano 2914 N. Clark 773.528.2131. Cozy dining room along with authentic Mexican cuisine makes this a great place for delicious dining. Open for lunch & dinner, great patio for summer outdoor dining. Delivery available too!

Las Mananitas 3523 N. Halsted St. 773.528.2109. Traditional & regional Mexican dishes along with freshly squeezed limes for margaritas. Nice place to eat, drink and window watch people on Halsted St. Has a full bar & plenty of hardy dishes to satisfy any appetite. Serving the community for over 28 years. Fiesta Mexicana 2423 N. Lincoln Ave 773.348.4144 (2nd Location) 4806 N. Broadway 773.769.4244. Traditional favorites along with great ambiance. Nice place to bring your family, friends or bring a date to. The Lincoln location has daily specials & live music. Is your target market in our distribution area?? ADVERTISE YOUR RESTAURANT IN BOI MAGAZINE Call 773.975.0264 or email us at boiADS@aol.com More listings @ boimagazine.com, click on Dining link

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Dinner and the Theater with Rick and Gregg Rick Karlin’s Big Bite

Gregg Shapiro’s Theater Scene

La Tacorea (847 W. Belmont, 773.549.3500) unites the mouth-watering flavors of Korean BBQ combined with Mexican influences. The main menu options are burritos and tacos filled with Korean meats, veggies or tofu. Everything is priced less than $10 and served quickly, without sacrificing taste or quality. Try the Korean BBQ pork, honey soy chicken or stir-fried and spiced tofu. For more information, go to LaTacorea.com.

Openings “Adorable Disasters,” a solo sketch show by John Loos, a Gayco Productions’ ensemble member, shares the slot with Andy Eninger’s critically-acclaimed solo improv show “Sybil,” Sundays through Nov. 25 at The Annoyance. ... Next Theatre Company presents the Midwest premiere of Julie Marie Myatt’s “Welcome Home, Jenny Sutter, at Noyes Cultural Arts Center in Evanston, through Dec. 23. .. The Black Ship Co. presents the Chicago premiere of “Foreverendia” by Brian Tuttle, , in the Athenaeum Theatre’s newly remodeled Studio 2, Nov. 28 – Dec. 23. .. “My One And Only,” a musical romance featuring a dazzling Gershwin score and breathtaking dancing, through Jan. 6 at The Marriott Theatre in Lincolnshire... “Singin’ In The Rain,” based on the 1952 film features one of the largest casts ever assembled on-stage Drury Lane Oakbrook through Jan. 13.

Johnny Brown Bag (5406 N. Clark, 773.270.2522), this casual spot is from the same folks as the Via Carducci spots in Lincoln Park and Bucktown. The emphasis here is on good, home-style fare, the kind an Italian school-aged kid might have found packed in his lunch bag. Panini, pizza and pasta dominate the menu where almost everything is priced less than $10. For more info, go to Johnnybrownbag.com. Lao Sze Chuan (4832 N. Broadway, 773.293.4653) is the latest from Chef Tony Hu, among the best Chinese chefs in America. While the service is sometimes lacking, the food is phenomenal and reasonably priced, especially during lunch hours, during which three-course meals are available for between $7-$10. For more info, go to tonygourmetgroup.com. GT Fish & Oyster (531 N. Wells, 312.929.3501) will launch weekend brunch service beginning Saturday, Nov. 17; brunch will be available every Saturday and Sunday from 10 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Bel 50 (738 N. Clark, no phone yet, go to BEL50.com), a restaurant specializing in gourmet waffle sandwiches will be opening Nov. 19 in River North. The menu will feature a variety of savory and sweet sandwiches made on the restaurant’s signature waffle bread.

Returning Mary-Arrchie Theatre Commpany’s Jeff Award nominated production of Pulitzer Prize winner Tracy Letts’ “Superior Donuts.” directed by Matt Miller, with almost the complete original Mary-Arrchie cast, runs through Nov. 25, at The Royal George Cabaret Theatre... Profiles Theatre presents the 20th Anniversary production of “Hellcab” through Dec. 23 at The Main Stage in Uptown. Extensions Steppenwolf Theatre Company’s production of “Good People” has been extended through Nov. 17... Mary Zimmerman’s Tony Award-winning production of “Metamorphoses” at the Lookingglass Theatre Company has been extended through Dec. 16. .. Now in its fifth year in Chicago at the Apollo Theater, “Million Dollar Quartet,” continues its run through April 28. boi 21

Philip Dawkins: In the Chicago Spotlight Interviews with leaders in Chicago’s GLBT community

by Gregg Shapiro Philip Dawkins is the author of the criticallyacclaimed play “The Homosexuals”, recipient of a Joseph Jefferson Nomination for New Work following its summer 2011 world premiere with About Face Theatre. Upcoming productions of “The Homosexuals” in the 2012/13 theater season include The Ringwald Theater in Detroit and ManBites Dog Theater in North Carolina. Dawkins’ play “Failure: A Love Story”, directed by Seth Bockley, will premiere at Victory Gardens Theater, Nov. 16 through Dec. 30, followed by a summer production at the Illinois Shakespeare Festival.

When did you come out and what was the experience like for you? I came out when I was 18. It was long-distance, over the phone with both of my parents on the other end and my roommate holding my hand the whole time. My folks took it badly and all three of us spent about eight years doing and saying things that really hurt each other. It took them a long time, but they both came fully around, they found their own ways to love me. One of the greatest gifts my parents ever gave me was their willingness to admit, after fifty-some years, that they were wrong. I hope I’m as open to confrontation when I’m their age. Please name five of your GLBT heroes. Sifu Pat Carbajal and Sifu Catherine Blaisedell of Rising Phoenix Kung Fu: For teaching me how to defend myself in the art of kung fu and how to stand up as a proud, strong, homosexual with dignity and in the face of adversity.

Dan Savage: For teaching me everything I know. Alan Turing: My mother is a math professor, I have a minor in math as well as a small Snow White obsession. If you Google Alan Turing on that thing he invented, you’ll see why all this sorta makes him my patron saint. Ellen Degeneres: Because she leads with quiet compassion and hilarity. Also, when I was “going through it,” I had this nightmare that I ran into her and I told her “Thank you for everything.” Dream Ellen looked at me sadly and said “Nobody ever thanked me.” I woke up crying. I hope somebody thanks her every day for her bravery and generosity. Every day. What do you consider to be your most significant contribution to the GLBT community in Chicago and at large? Teaching. I teach Kung fu, I teach playwriting, I teach theater. I know it helped me as an adult to be able to look back on the queer teachers and mentors I had as a kid. I think sometimes just being a positive presence in the life of a kid makes an impression that could impact the community for generations to come. What are your future goals and aspirations? Keep writing. I’m so lucky to be able to write and teach writing for a living. What a rare opportunity and a joy. Future goals also include transforming this novice black sash to a full-on black sash in my kung fu journey. And, of course, to grow and strengthen my relationship with my wonderful boyfriend, Bryan.

E. M. Forster: If there was a heart within my heart, E. M. Forster would pierce THAT. And for Words of wisdom to the next GLBT reminding me, “Only connect.” generation. Be patient. And demanding. 22 boi

IN THE KNOW, ON THE GO Street Talk

The ‘hood is abuzz about the Def

Mix party celebrating Smart Bar’s 30th anniversary on Nov. 24. They’re bringing in Frankie Knuckles and David Morales!... Revolucion Mexican Steakhouse on Broadway has finally opened and it featured San Huberto wines and a ceviche bar!... Sunday is spelled F-u-n-d-a-y at Cocktail, with $9 pitchers of vodka cran, lemonade or Long Islands and go-go boys gyrating to the sounds of Freddie Bain (better than the other way around, believe me) starting at six… Mimi Imfurst may have been booted of Ru Paul’s All Star Drag Race, but that doesn’t stop her from taking on the Virgin Mary in “a Very Mary Christmas” at Hydrate on Dec 13… Bonsai Bar & Lounge is packing ‘em in every Friday night as folks stop by to enjoy the $4 cocktails and listen to the sounds of DJ Techno KIDD... Is it just me or does the guy in the Steamworks ad in this issue look like Justin Timberlake? Maybe Jessica Biel ain’t giving him all he needs. Yummy There will be jocks galore at Sidetrack on Nov 17 when it’s a Field Day party for Chicago Gay Hockey Association, Chicago Rowing Union and Chicago Dragon Rugby team from 3:30-6:30… Moda Boutique will be holding an in-store fashion show on Nov. 24 to celebrate the new arrival of fall and winter merchandise. As a way to add a twist to the Black Friday Weekend celebration, they’ll have a catwalk showcase of some of the newest and

hottest styles on Moda’s hottest models. In addition to special event discounts, give-aways there will be free food and drinks of course… The 11th annual “World of Chocolate” benefit for the AIDS Foundation will be on Thursday, Nov. 29 at the Hilton, as usual. The event will feature gobs of chocolate and chocolate cocktails natch. Here & There The Chicago Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame inducts its 2012 members at the Chicago History Museum on Monday, Nov. 12. The event is open to the public… Throughout November and December The Ram is collecting canned goods for Vital Bridges and no, lube doesn’t count as a canned good… Uptown Lounge is already pretty pop on Wednesdays due to the halfpriced martinis special (all night long), but Thursdays are catching up quick, due to the “Twisted Trivia” hosted by Bentley. I bet the $4 call cocktails and $3 domestic beer help!… “Drag Idol” kicks off season 3 at Hydrate on Thursday, Nov. 8. A winner is chosen every week and earns a chance to compete in the “Drag Idol” semi-finals to win a prize package worth more than $10,000! MIXT Fashion is the newest men’s clothing boutique that just opened in Boystown. They’re right there on the Halsted strip to offer a wide variety of trend-setting fashions and unique brands that are affordable. Stop by and see what everyone is talking talk. MIXT Fashion is located at 3526 N. Halsted. 773/281-5121 or visit their website at mixtfashion.com. boi 25

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ASK ACE Not A Kept Boy I have found the man of my dreams. He is handsome, fairly well off and is smart and funny. He treats me well and the sex is great. He’s also 35 years old than I am. Neither he nor I have a problem with our age difference but our friends do. His friends think I am a gold-digger and have said so right to his face (but not mine). My friends call him my “sugar daddy” right in front of him. He does not support me, I have a full time job, granted I don’t make as much as he does, but I pay my share. Is there anything wrong with this? NAKB Yes, but it’s not you who are wrong but your friends and his. Even if he was supporting you, it’s nobody’s business. Many couples, regardless of the age difference have a disparity in salaries. How they decide to handle their finances varies with each couple. If your arrangement works for the two of you, ignore what your friends say. However, you should tell your friends that he isn’t your sugar daddy and you won’t allow them to refer to him that way. As for his friends, he should address their disparaging remarks in a similar manner. Curious but Cautious I am interested in getting into the leather scene. I’m single and not very muscular, so I’m a little afraid to just go into a leather bar and pick someone up. I’m afraid that if someone started to go too far, I could be over-powered easily. I want to be dominated, but say how far things go. CBC The best way is to develop friendships with people in the leather community. Get to know some people for a while and follow your gut. You’re right to be wary of going home with someone you just met in a bar. That’s always good advice, but especially so if you’re going to put yourself in a position (such as bondage) where you have to relinquish

control. Don’t feel uncomfortable about expressing exactly what you want to do. Those in leather and fetish community are usually very frank about their desires and expect others to do the same. You might also want to check out chicagoleatherclub.org or LeatherViews.com, which is written by Jack Rinella, who has written about the leather scene for many years. The leather scene is all about trust, don’t get yourself into any situation where you don’t feel you can trust the other person. Couch Potato My girlfriend and I have been a great pair because we’ve always had such similar interests. We both love to snuggle up on the couch and watch old movies, play cards, stay in bed on Sunday mornings with the paper and coffee and then have some mind-blowing sex. I should say that’s how we used to be. A year ago she had a minor heart issue and it really scared her. Now she runs an hour a day, prefers to go for long walks rather than hang out at home and is hanging out with an entirely new group of women who are all jocks. She’s lost about 60 pounds and looks at least ten years younger than she used to. I’m afraid that I’m going to lose her to someone younger and better looking. What can I do? CP That depends, are you willing or able to become more active so that you can join her in some of her new activities? If so, that would help. If not, you need to sit down and have a long talk with her about your fears. Mention to her that you miss the times you used to spend together and that you’d like to do more of that. Mind your tone; you don’t want to come off as accusatory. State the facts. Ask if there’s some way she can alter her routines or if there are activities that you can do together. She has had a life-changing event in her life and it sounds as if she’s responding to it in an appropriate manner. boi 29

CHICAGO BARS & CLUBS Boystown / Lakeview

3160 3160 N.Clark G&L, LM,DS Berlin 954 W. Belmont G&L, D, 4 Bobby Love’s 3729 N. Halsted G&L Cell Block 3702 N. Halsted G, LF Bonsai 3503 N. Halsted G&L Cell Block 3702 N. Halsted G, LF Charlie’s 3726 N. Broadway G, D, W Cocktail 3359 N. Halsted G, GB Elixir Lounge 3452 N. Halsted G, 4 Hydrate 3458 N. Halsted G, D, DS, 4 Kit Kat 3700 N. Halsted G&L, DS, R Little Jim’s 3501 N. Halsted G, V, 4 Lucky Horseshoe 3169 N. Halsted G, GB Manhandler 1948 N. Halsted G, W, 4 Minibar 3341 N. Halsted G, R North End 3733 N. Halsted G Roscoe’s 3356 N. Halsted G, D, V, DS Scarlet 3320 N. Halsted G Sidetrack 3349 N. Halsted G, V Smart Bar / Metro 3730 N. Clark MS, D, 4 Spin 800 W. Belmont G&L, V, 4 The Closet 3325 N. Broadway G&L, V, 4

773.327.5969 773.348.4975 773.525.1200 773.665.8064 773.248-0100 773.665.8064 773.871.8887 773.477.1420 773.477.1420 773.975.9244 773.525.1111 773.871.6116 773.404.3169 773.871.3339 773.871.6227 773.477.7999 773.281.3355 773.348.1053 773.477.9189 773.549.4140 773.327.7711 773.477.8533

Chicago Downtown-Near north

Baton Show Lounge 436 N. Clark DS Crimson Lounge 333 N. Dearborn MS, D, R Downtown Bar & Lounge 440 N. State G Dragon Lady Lounge 3188 N. Elston Excalibur/Vision 632 N. Dearborn MS, D, 4 House of Blues 329 N. Dearborn MS, LM, 4 Krush/Prop House 1657 N. Elston G&L, D, 4 Nikki 1543 N. Kingsbury St. MS, D, 4 Second Story Bar 157 E. Ohio G, V

Chicago Northside

The Anvil 1137 W. Granville G, V @mosphere 5355 N. Clark G&L, V, GB Big Chicks 5024 N. Sheridan G&L, D, R

312.644.5269 312.923.2473 312.464.1400 773.267.1970 312.266.1944 312.923.2000 773.486.2390 312.857.5009 312.923.9536 773.973.0006 773.784.1100 773.728.5511

G------------------------------------------------------------------Gay L---------------------------------------------------------------------Lesbian G&L---------------------------------------------------------Gay & Lesbian D-------------------------------------------------------------------Dancing V-----------------------------------------------------------------------Video GB-------------------------------------------------------------Go Go Boys DS--------------------------------------------------------------Drag Show R--------------------------------------------------------Restaurant, Food

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Crew 4804 N. Broadway G&L, V, R 773.784.2739 Davenport’s 1383 N. Milwaukee G&L, LM 773.278.1830 Fat Cat 4849 N. Broadway MS, R 773.506.3100 Green Mill 4802 N. Broadway MS, LM, 4 773.878.5552 Jackhammer 6406 N. Clark G, D, V, GB, LM, 4 773.743.5772 Joi de Vine 1744 W. Balmoral L, R 773.989.6846 Marty’s 1511 W. Balmoral G&L 773.561.6425 Mary’s Attic 5400 N. Clark G&L, D, V, R 773.784.6969 Parlour On Clark 6341 N. Clark 773.564.9274 Mary’s RecRoom 5402 N. Clark G&L, D, V, R 773.784.6969 Scot’s 1829 W. Montrose G&L 773.528.3253 Sidecar Bar 6920 N.. Glenwood 773.764.2826 T’s 5025 N. Clark G&L, R 773.784.6000 The Call 1547 W. Bryn Mawr G&L, D, DS, V, LM 773.334.2525 The Glenwood 6962 N. Glenwood G 773.764.7363 Touché 6412 N. Clark G, V, LF, 4 773.465.7400 Uptown Lounge 1136 W. Lawrence 773.878.1136

Chicago Southside Inn Exile 5758 W. 65th G&L, D, V Jeffrey Pub 7041 S. Jeffrey G&L, D, V, 4

773.582.3510 773.363.8555

Chicago Suburbs Hideaway 7301 W. Roosevelt Forest Park G, D, V, DS, GB

708.771.4459

Club Krave 13126 S. Western Blue Island G&L, D, V, DS, GB, 4 708.597.8379 Hunters 1932 E. Higgins Elk Grove Village G, D, V, GB, 4

847.439.8840

Mission 209 E. Chicago Downtown Elgin G&L, D, V

847.488.0320

Adult Entertainment

Banana Video 4923 N. Clark G, BK Bijou Theater 1349 N. Wells G, GB, BK Man’s Country 5017 N. Clark G, GB, BH Steamworks 3246 N. Halsted G, BH, FC The Ram 35111/2 N. Halsted G, BK, D

773.561.8322 312.943.5397 773.878.2069 773.929.6080 773.525.9528

4-------------------------------------------------------------Open til 4am MS--------------------------------------------------------Mostly Straight LF---------------------------------------------------------Leather / Fetish W-------------------------------------------------------------------Western LM--------------------------------------------------Live Music / Cabaret BH--------------------------------------------------------------Bath House BK----------------------------------Adult Book, Booth & Video Store FC-------------------------------------------------------------Fitness Club