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What Your Family Really Wants For Christmas Contributed by Maria Kresal, Director Of Marketing For Heritage Woods Of Belvidere
Peace on Earth - Goodwill toward men are the traditional wishes for Christmas. In today’s world the wishes are for the latest & greatest tech & gadgets or that new hot toy. With Black Friday, Doorbusters, one day sales, crowds, & the credit card debt, makes even the thought of shopping for the Holidays stressful. Don’t fall into the trap. How do you do that you ask? Here is my advice! Pause for a moment & think of one gift you gave someone last year for Christmas, can you even remember? Do they even remember? How important are the gifts? Kids love opening a pile of presents, & when they are done they are looking for more. When your kids are young that is the time to have a pile of presents under the tree. I’m not promoting a Grinch outlook on the whole gift giving of the season, but rather asking the question, what does your family really want for Christmas? My family tells me I’m hard to shop for, I am a practical person. As the years pass the material things are less important to me, that may be why people find it harder to shop for me. The gift I want cannot be found in stores. My annual wish list always includes suggestions for things we can do together, like plan a lunch date with me, come by & have a coffee with me, join me for a movie. Maybe instead of buying a physical gift, I want the gift of your time. The trick with this is you have to follow through. Nothing is worse than getting an empty promise. Possibly buy a gift card to a restaurant, but attach a note that says “for lunch for you & me” that time spent together will be a precious gift to cherish. My grandmother was a wonderful cook & while she hosted many big family occasions, nothing made me feel as special as when she invited me to a meal just for me. It didn’t need to be anything fancy. As she aged & had less & less to spend on the holidays she started to give us things that meant something to her during her life. Those are things I cherish. I loved them because they were hers, but the memory of the moment when she explained what they meant to her was the greatest part of the gift. These will be a legacy to pass to my children. If you feel you need to give a physical gift, think outside the box. We older folks have boxes of photos, make notes on the backs: When it was, who’s in the picture, the date. You can present those in an album or lose. Not only will it be a special time to share when you present the gift, but it will be a gift they can treasure in the future. Another way to reduce the stress of the holidays is to put other’s needs first, think outside of yourself. The season of giving is not just of presents but rather your presence. At Heritage Woods we welcome you to stop in for one of our public events all year round. You can also check with us or other area senior housing communities for volunteer opportunities, getting involved individually or as a family is one of the best rewards you can give someone else & yourself. Ultimately your family wants you, so don’t stress over the shopping, instead enjoy the time you have with your loved ones. Create memories that will last.
Keen Age Center Annual Christmas Party The Keen Age Center will hose their Annual Christmas Party on Friday, December 14th, 10 AM - 1 PM. The party is sponsored by Heritage Woods of Belvidere and includes an Ugly Christmas Sweater Contest, Door Prizes, Food, Music and a Performance by the Reader’s Theater. There will also be a craft sale in the activity room. Tickets are on sale now and are $2. You must sign up in advance as seating is limited. Call 815-544-9893 or stop in at 2141 Henry Luckow Lane, Belvidere. You must get your ticket(s) before you can get on the sign up sheet.
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