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Fa L o c a a n dm i ly O wl , n since O p e r at eedd

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by Anna Boswell

his edition of A Montana Wedding brings

home.

It’s here to help re-

mind Montana brides that they have chosen a wedding locale unparallelled by the rest, and that all the remaining details

will naturally unfold with time. After coming and going twice, I returned to Montana the third time with the sure knowledge that it would welcome me back. I’ve always been touched by its simplicity and the uncomplicated lifestyle I live here. And after reflecting on these qualities, I realize that it is exactly how I envision Montana weddings. Simple and uncomplicated. If I could offer any advice, it’s to look around for inspiration. It’s in the mountains, it’s in the rivers, and in our local towns and communities. It’s all around, and with open eyes and minds you’ll find your wedding will be just how you dreamed it would be. I hope you find Montana in every part of your big day, and cherish it no matter where you call home.

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P r e f a c e & C o n t e n t s

A Word from the Bride

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L i q u o r L i s t C h a p t e r T h r ee

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Bridesmaids Reinvented

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A Word From The Bride by Susie Howells

he proposal: you’re surprised, elated, beaming smile ear to ear. Yes, it kicks off the road to the altar. You may be running to

the courthouse today or having the big day

years from now. There’s no wrong way to get married, and at the end of your wedding day, as long as you’re with the one you love, you did it right.

Currently, my fiancé and I are a month away from our wedding; we’ve been planning for almost a year now. There are a few details remaining, but the majority of preparation is in place. Numerous family and friends have offered their time and help, and for that I’m grateful. This year of engagement bliss has revealed oh how quickly plans can change. Beautiful advice given to me early in my engagement was this, “Trends that are done in weddings today are just that, trends. Take them as they are, you don’t have to do all of them.” Keep up with the new or go traditional; it’s what you make of it. The

Montana

setting

we’re

surrounded

couldn’t be more perfect for our wedding—a backdrop

massive

trees

and

mountains

encompassed by an almost endless summer sky. Ahh, Montana. Paint, draw, photograph it: we’ll have lived, had our wedding, and made our memories here. For all of you having a Montana wedding, I wish you the very best and congratulate you on choosing the perfect place.

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Chapter

ongratulations! You’re

getting

married. You’ve found

soul-

mate, you’ve committed to

taking the leap, and now

you’re a bride-to-be. You may have been dreaming of this moment your entire life, or find yourself in a bit of shock about what’s to come. Take some time to enjoy this moment, rushing yourselves will only cause chaos. Our best piece of advice is to get organized. In this digital age, we’re flooded with images and ideas, trends and tricks, and it can get overwhelming. In this chapter we encourage you to take notes, schedule dates, and plan ahead. Get prepared right away with these helpful tools and your wedding will be simply delightful.

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Tip - Create a website! Websites are a great resource for you and your guests to stay up to date on all the events. You can post photos, timelines, and include registry and travel details. Some even have RSVP tools for easy tracking (and uses less paper!)

A longstanding tradition among brides is to have some-

Something Old: The first phrase of the rhyme tells

thing old, something new, something borrowed, and some-

brides to collect something old; but do we really know

thing blue on the day of their wedding, which in turn will

what that means? When an old item is included on the

bring them good luck. When planning such an event, we

wedding day it represents the relationship between the

could all use a little luck in one way or another. The origi-

bride's family and the past. Did your grandmother pass

nal saying first appeared in England around 1880, and in-

down a family heirloom? Was your mother also wearing a

cluded the final line, â&#x20AC;&#x153;a silver sixpence in her shoe.â&#x20AC;? For

silver bracelet? Consider these pieces when preparing for

this year's edition of A Montana Wedding we're marrying

your wedding, and carry on the tradition. Something old

old traditions with some contemporary twists!

can also be a great way to remember someone that has passed and could not be present at your wedding.

Don't be afraid to get silly â&#x20AC;&#x201C; showing off your mothers' 1980s hair scrunchy or polka dotted pumps might get a good laugh from the crowd.

Tips for Choosing Your Wedding Photographer by Josh & Kathy Lockie

inding a great photographer is one of the most important decisions you can make when planning your wedding. Your photographer will be with you more than anyone else on the day of your wedding. Their style of photography will set the tone for how you remember your wedding for years to come.

Their personality and approach will either set you at ease and add to your good memories, or it will take away from them. As with any long term decision, it is often difficult to know exactly what should go into your decision, so here are a few basic tips of what to look for. Visit our main website for more detailed information, or to shoot us an email with any questions you may have! 1. Style of Photography: Each photographer’s

3. Expertise: Get a good feel for how much experi-

personality, artistic sense, skills, and taste will com-

ence your photographer has with shooting weddings.

bine to create a unique and distinctive look in their

Unlike many photography avenues, photographing

photos. As you compare different photographers’

weddings is fast paced, ever-changing, and can be

portfolios and samples, make sure that their work

quite stressful. You want someone who will tackle the

resonates with you. At the end of the day, you want

challenge with excitement and confidence, based upon

to have pictures that you truly enjoy seeing again

the fact that they have skills and experience to adapt to

and again.

any situation that may arise.

2. Personality: As mentioned above, your photog-

4. Approach: Some photographers are very hands

rapher will be with you more than anyone else on

on and directive, and others prefer to be almost exclu-

your wedding day. Make sure their personality is a

sively in the background. Think through what will work

good fit for you and your fiancé, and that you’re both

best for your wedding dynamic, and what will make

comfortable around them. Will they engage in your

you the most comfortable with having your picture

wedding and connect with your guests well? Will they

taken. Remember, your top priority should be to walk

be enjoyable to work with?

home with good memories of your wedding day, and amazing photos to back them up!

Tip: when you’ve narrowed down your choices to a top 2 or 3 photographers, ask to take a look at a few full weddings. This will give you a good idea of how consistent they are, and if they are able to photograph in all situations.

Josh.

Kathy.

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General Timeline 9 -12 months out:

6-9 months out:

Announce your engagement.

Send out save-the-date cards.

Take engagement photos.

Choose your flower girl and ring bearer, if any.

Send your engagement announcement information and photo to the Bozeman Daily Chronicle! (pg.80) Pick a date for your wedding. Decide on the type of wedding you want. Large or small. Decide on a budget and how expenses will be shared. Set up a folder to keep receipts and a ledger to help you stay on budget. Make a spreadsheet list of

Reserve your wedding night suite. Choose your bridesmaids’ attire -- dresses, shoes and accessories. Go for tastings and book your caterer. Book your florist. Book your band or deejay. Book your videographer. Start planning your honeymoon.

everyone you, your groom and your families would like to invite. Break the list into must invites, should invites, and wouldbe-nice-to invites. Tactfully

Start shopping for each other’s wedding gifts.

remove the would-not-be-nice-

Reserve rental items.

to invites. Reserve your ceremony site. Book your officiant. Reserve your reception site. Book your photographer. Choose your color scheme. Hunt for your wedding gown and veil. Choose your maid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, groomsmen and ushers, if any.

Finalize your list of guests to invite. Order wedding stationery -- invitations, thank-you cards, wedding programs, seating cards, RSVP cards. Address your invitation envelopes. Register for gifts. Reserve a time and place for your rehearsal dinner.

if you’ll need them for the

Arrange accommodations for your out-of-town guests.

honeymoon.

Buy shoes and accessories.

Apply for a passport and visa

4- 6 months out:

2-4 months out: Order your wedding cake. Order/make party favors. Order room decorations. Shop for honeymoon attire. Book transportation for the wedding day. Check marriage license requirements. Order your wedding rings. Plan pre- and post-wedding activities for your out-of-town guests. Buy gifts for your bridal party.

6-8 weeks out: Mail your invitations. Record the RSVPs on your wedding guest spreadsheet. Start sending thank-you cards to early gifters. Decide on your hair style and makeup. Schedule hair, makeup and nails for your wedding day. Buy toasting glasses, a cake knife, a ring pillow, a guest book, etc. Change your name and address on drivers license, social security card, insurance policies, subscriptions, bank accounts, etc. Reserve wedding attire for the groom, groomsmen, ushers, father of the bride and ring bearer. Mail rehearsal dinner invitations. Get your marriage license. (pg.83) Find the proverbial “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” Finalize your menu and beverage order.

2- 6 weeks out:

The final week:

Finalize ceremony details with your officiant. Go in for the final fitting of your wedding gown and veil.

Rehearsal day:

Pick up your wedding attire and make sure everything fits. Tell your caterer the final guest count.

Arrange the final fitting for your bridesmaids’ dresses.

Review the detailed timeline with your vendors, and modify if needed.

Finalize your rehearsal dinner plans and arrange seating.

Confirm your honeymoon reservations and accommodations.

Start packing for your honeymoon. Contact guests who haven’t responded.

Finish packing for your honeymoon.

Write out a detailed wedding day timeline for your bridal party and vendors.

Rehearse the bridal party entrance order, exit order, standing arrangement and musical cues. Give the best man the officiant’s fee and any other checks to be delivered the day of the wedding. Provide your bridal party with the finalized detailed timeline. Review ceremony seating with

Give the timeline to your vendors.

the ushers.

Pick up your wedding bands and check for fit.

The BIG day:

Meet with your photographer and outline the special photos you want.

Give the groom’s ring to the maid of honor.

Meet with your videographer and outline the special events or people you want videotaped. Meet with your band/DJ and outline the music you want played during special events like the first dance, father daughter dance, etc.

Give the bride’s ring to the best man. Follow your detailed timeline. Get to the altar. Relax and enjoy your wedding.

Remind bridesmaids and groomsmen when and where they can pick up their attire. Decide on ceremony seating for your special guests, and give the list to your ushers. Plan your reception room layout and seating arrangement.

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A proposal can be whimsical, romantic, perfectly prepared or a total disaster. No matter the performance, it is a shining moment in your relationship. Embrace it! We asked local couples to share their love stories with brides-to-be in hopes that their tales may strike a chord or bring a smile to your face. So ladies, dig in your heels, because it will all be worth it in the end, and maybe you’ll have a few funny stories to share along the way.

officially met David in early 2010. We both worked for the same children’s mental health center. He was completing his Master’s in Social Work and I was working as the supervisor

for one of the children’s programs. David called to in-

terview me about my position in the company as part of one of his graduate school projects. When he walked into the office for our interview, my stomach jumped into my throat and I was immediately overwhelmed

with anxiety. He was the dark haired mystery man that I had swooned over for months!

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It took me another 3 months to muster up the courage to call David to ask him out, and it may have been the clumsiest proposition in the history of womankind. But it was not enough to scare him off. We had our first date in June, followed by seven additional platonic get-togethers. From there, our lives truly melted into one and we became inseparable. On February 5th, 2012, after accidentally spoiling a sweet surprise, we got engaged. It was so perfectly imperfect, as every step we have taken together has been. From the beginning, we were committed to having a relatively simple wedding. The venue held so much character on its own that there was no need for elaborate decorations. We focused on lighting, flowers, and the few vintagestyle accents that would reflect our personalities to our guests on our special day. With the help of our amazing friends and family, all of the pieces came into place and we were overwhelmed by the beauty that unfolded on our wedding day. Other than my bustle breaking early in the evening and us completely forgetting to cut our cake, there really was nothing that went wrong. Absolutely nothing. And we couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have asked for a more perfectly imperfect wedding.

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I (Candace) moved to Montana a little over a year ago from North Idaho. Andy and I had known each other for several years and were doing an on and off longdistance relationship, but decided that it was time for one of us to move so we could really give our relationship a chance. I had fallen in love with Bozeman on my numerous visits. In fact, the first weekend I ever spent here, we floated, camped, and fished on the Yellowstone River for 3 days. It was a magical weekend, and it set the stage for our future adventures together. Our favorite thing to do together quickly became loading up the boat and our puppy, Bo, and floating one of the area’s beautiful rivers. I really wanted to get married in the summer, so I was really hoping that Andy wouldn’t wait until we could go out and float a river to propose to me. Lucky for me (and our wedding planning timeline) he didn’t wait. He proposed to me at the “M,” on February 13, the day before Valentine’s Day. I had “reminded” Andy several times that all I wanted for Valentine’s Day was to be engaged. I was fully expecting that he would propose the next day, so when he asked me to go for a hike to the M, I didn’t think much about it, except that I didn’t really want to go because it was too cold and windy. When we made it to the top, I was playing with our puppy, and when I turned around, Andy was on one knee. He said a bunch of sweet things, but my favorite was “Will you marry me?” It was an amazing moment and I, of course, said yes. Later, when I reminded him that Valentine’s Day was the next day, he responded that since I wanted to be engaged for Valentine’s Day so badly, he wanted me to be engaged the entire day, not just the last part of it. That sounded like a pretty awesome reason to me!

Since he couldn’t propose on the river, we decided

that it would be fun to take our engagement photos on the river. Heading the Upper Madison for the shoot was an easy choice, the scenery there is stunning, and it is one of our favorite places to go together. We are so blessed to have access to places like the Madison River and we had so much fun documenting our love for each other while doing something that we love together. Enjoy What Matters Most 31

A Military Engagement

n July 3rd, 1968, as a 21 year old Marine First Lieutenant, leading my platoon past the reviewing stand at Marine Corps Base 29 Palms, California, I swung my sword in a sharp present arms salute and gave the command, “Eyes Right!” Sixty

pairs of eyes, including mine, snapped to the right where the new battalion commander stood returning our salute. Next to the battalion commanding officer sat a young

The next day, she invited me to her parent's home and

lady with waist length, straight, honey blonde hair in a

informed me that she accepted my proposal of marriage,

short, white mini dress looking directly at me. That look

but told me that I would have to ask her father. This was a

made me forget to give the command to look back in the

wonderful opportunity to improve on any mistaken impres-

direction we were marching until my platoon sergeant

sions made from our brief introduction just 36 hours before.

reminded me in a loud voice, “Ready Front, Lieutenant!”

On July 8th, while he and his wife waited within earshot,

just as I led us off the asphalt. After bringing us to a less

I entered her father's presence. When he looked up from

than elegant halt, I dismissed my troops and shortly

his paper, the Colonel, who clearly didn't remember me,

thereafter found myself at an officer's only reception try-

was not impressed by me nor my odd attempt at humor.

ing to work myself up to approach my new commander. Deep in thought, I was surprised when he ap-

Fortunately for me, his wife interceded on my behalf, or rather on her daughter's. After some discussion, much of

proached me. After giving me a look that shriveled my

it taking place while I waited outside, my future father-in-

self esteem to the size of a peanut, he spoke, asking me

law granted me permission to wed his daughter. The event

my name. He turned to his daughter, who I had just re-

took place in full military regalia at the Base Chapel in 118

alized was standing beside him, and told her my name.

degree heat on August 31st, 1968. The humor in all this is

She turned back to me and told me hers, then walked

that in the flush of my macho youth, I actually thought our

away. Undismayed by this less than auspicious intro-

engagement, brief as it was, was all my idea.

duction, I invited her to join me at the base swimming

That was 45 years ago. My wife's parents are still

pool the next day. To my great relief, she accepted and

alive and her father still believes it is too early to tell if

after our athletic endeavors we proceeded to a house I

our union is going to work out. I'm not so sure myself

rented, where after champagne and fireworks, I asked

sometimes, but my bride tells me I don't have anything

her to live with me.

to worry about.

Submitted by Lieutenant Colonel J.T. “Jake” Cummins, Jr. USMC (RET), loving husband of Janet Marie Kalus-Cummins 32

rissy and Kent met June of 2008 when they were both attending the University of Montana Western in Dillon. They did not connect until later when they both returned home to the Bozeman area in May of 2010. After dating for three years, family members were wondering

what their intentions were, but Christmases and birthdays passed without a ring or any talk of marriage. Unbeknownst to family, Kent took Krissy ring shopping in February of 2013. Without her realizing it, he returned to the store the very next day and purchased one of the rings she liked, but still no proposal. Later Kent asked her parents for their consent to ask Krissy, which they gave the week before the proposal, but still the family was eager for news of where this was all heading.

One of Krissy and Kent’s favorite pastimes

more round of the field where they had found the

is riding their horses in the mountains looking

two largest antlers the time before just to make

for shed antlers. Last fall Krissy found a huge

sure they weren’t missing any “prizes.” Kent

elk antler and shared a picture of her beautiful

stopped shy of where he had hidden the horn

smile holding that antler for all to see. It became

and directed Krissy to a spot saying she had

a prized possession so she was concerned when

missed something. She was curious as she knew

Kent asked for the antler to use it for a carving

if there was a horn, he would’ve claimed it before

project. She offered some smaller antlers, but

she could get to it. But when she bent down to

no, he wanted THE BIG ONE. Reluctantly, she

pick up the horn, she noticed that the horn was

agreed, wondering what was to happen with it.

engraved with the words, “Will you marry me?”

The day before the proposal, Kent had taken

And Kent was down on a knee with a beautiful

a special trip to the location where the large

ring in hand.

horn was found to place the exact horn for Krissy

to find for a second time, only this time for a dif-

riage proposal all had been eagerly anticipat-

ferent reason.

ing. Family who were gathered together were

thrilled to see the photo of a very happy daugh-

Kent kept everyone guessing as to his plan,

Much to her surprise, this was the mar-

but on June 16, he took Krissy and some friends

ter smiling from ear to ear showing off the new

horseback riding in the hills to look for antlers.

ring adorning her left ring finger, signaling the

At the end of the day, Kent took Krissy on one

news all were happy to share.

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lthough your future husband may say he wants you to take the lead, he secretly wants to play a part. He’s chosen you as his bride, and most definitely knows you inside and out. Listen to his advice, ask

him for ideas, make sure you’re on the same page, and work together to find the right style for your wedding. Yes, he may

look great in pink, but consider marrying both your styles. If you’re the go-getter in your relationship, release the reins and have him pick out some of the details.

Something New: Let's be honest, you'll probably have

and your husband have entered a

plenty of “something news” on your

new union, one that will flourish and

wedding day. But consider the tradi-

endure 'till death do you part.

tion behind a new item. Aside from

Something new can also mean wel-

your gown or shoes, something new

coming new traditions. Ask a great

also represents you and your fiancé's

friend or family member to officiate

future together, a new phase in your

the ceremony (they'll have to get cer-

relationship and the prosperity that it

tified online!) or create a #hashtag to

will bring. A new item on the day of

follow photos and messages on your

your wedding conveys that you

social media sites.

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e all know the feeling â&#x20AC;&#x201C; spotting that perfectly assembled and addressed

envelope

waiting

in our mailbox. Whether it's

much anticipated or completely out of the blue, a wedding invitation is a gift. It's a greeting of thanks, of love, of appreciation, and it's a tradition that's sure to hang around. Though many brides are stepping away from the traditional invitation suites, the information has stayed the same. When developing your invitation package, be sure to include the routine names, date, place, and time. To r i Pi n t a r p h o t o g r a p h y

The rest is just a reflection of your style! Whether you're particular about your papers or prefer sweet and simple, there are endless options. Follow these guidelines for sending your perfect post.

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Guest List:

Save the Dates:

Before you decide on your

For local weddings, save the

paper products, finalize your

dates should be mailed about

guest list. You may end up

4-6 months in advance. If

having more invitees than you

you're having a destination

thought, and this could affect

wedding, give your guests

the overall budget. Start with

about 6-8 months notice. This

both of your must-haves, then

will give them plenty of time

make cuts where necessary.

to make accommodations.

Typically about 20% of the

And you don't always have

people you invite will not be

to match the save the date to

able to attend, depending on

your invitation. They can be

the location. If you're dying to

a little more informal; just be

have distant relatives, create

sure to include your names,

an A and B list, and manage

the date, and the location. This

your RSVPs carefully.

is also a great place to include your wedding website with all the details.

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Order of Assembly

Invitations:

Send a printed postcard,

as simple as you like. Ultimately they

just be sure to use a

should represent the style of the couple,

heavyweight, coated paper

and the style of the event. If you're hav-

so that ink doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t smudge

ing a black tie reception, a classic layout

in the process.

and color scheme will set the tone. If you're having a big backyard bash, go for something more whimsical and colorful. You should send the final invite about 8-10 weeks before the wedding (more if it's a destination). Depending on your budget, you can send RSVP cards with pre-stamped envelopes and a reply by date, or you can ask people to email Tip: Order your thank you cards when you order your invitations so they will be ready when you need them. Plan on buying the same amount as your invitations, if not a few extras, in case of any mistakes.

On a budget?

Your invitations can be as intricate or

or call with their response. Other useful cards include the details card (directions to venues, hotel accommodations, etc), the registry card, and the rehearsal dinner invitation. Wrap them with a nice

In a sticky situation?

Don't know how to word your invitations? Do some research or ask your paper provider. Going paperless?

There are several digital invitation websites available with beautiful designs. You can gather email addresses for quick delivery. Just remember that invitations make great

paper band or a strand of ribbon for a

keepsakes, so paper is

complete package.

always encouraged.

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Wedding Flowers For All Seasons by Rhonda and Michelle, Budget Bouquet and More, Inc.

hoosing the right wedding flowers can be a little daunting.

There are so

many different varieties and colors that the decision can be confusing and overwhelming.

However, there are traditional wedding flowers that work best for each season and they tend to be the favorites year after year.

Adding your own per-

sonal touch of a special focal flower or embellishment can give you the personal touch you need to have the wedding flowers of your dreams. Florists are now able to fly in most any flower from the other side of the world year round, so never be afraid to ask your florist for a particular flower that has special meaning to you.

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Winter

Summer

Winter wedding flowers are generally very

The fruits of summer wedding flowers

unique and fun. Combinations with holly,

will make you one happy bride. Shades

branches, sprigs of evergreens mixed with

of beautiful pastels are the new trend re-

red premium roses and white Casablanca

flecting softness, romance and elegance

lilies can be just stunning. Don’t pass over

in your bouquet. Keep in mind this is

the extraordinary carnation during this

the season you can be as extravagant as

time too. They come in hundreds of colors

you want or as budget conscious as you

both in a standard and the mini version.

need. The selection is endless so choose

Babies breath is back! Add a little for the

wisely.

snow effect of the season. Winter can also

The beautiful fullness of garden roses

be shades of grey, silver, white and soft

with simple foliage can be totally lush.

sea foam. Bring in the silver and sea foam

Muted creams, pink and buttery yellow

with fun textures of greens, French ribbon

with sage colored greens set the mood

and add white seasonal flowers.

for your wedding. Don’t forget the lace as it can continue your romantic theme.

Top Winter Picks: Oriental Lilies, Premium Roses, Orchids, Star of Bethlehem,

Top Summer Picks: Garden Roses,

Carnations, Hypericum Berry, Snow Berry,

Calla Lilies, Fresh Lavender, Gerbera

Wax Flower, Blue Eucalyptus

Daisies, Asiatic Lilies, Stock, Tuberose, Hydrangea, Queen Anne’s Lace, Cottage Yarrow, Babies Breath

Spring What a glorious time for a wedding! It’s

Fall

all about new growth and new begin-

The season of plenty. Your wedding

nings that include your choice of endless

flowers can show this season by adding

spring wedding flowers. The color…oh

lots of fun elements ... pods, sticks, wil-

the color...all the bright, vivid and true

low, berries, wheat! The color of your

colors of spring.

wedding flowers can be the subdued

rich colors such as mauve, brown, mer-

Bulb flowers are very popular, but you

can mix it up a bit by adding a strong,

lot and sage green to the vibrant golds,

statement foliage with texture and var-

oranges and purples.

iegated color. Size doesn’t matter when

Celebrate your wedding with family

choosing your bouquet. Sometimes less

and friends during the time of harvest

IS truly more. Carry that “WOW” bou-

and plenty. Besides that, fall is the per-

quet by choosing a single type of flower

fect weather season in Montana.

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Top Spring Picks: Parrot Tulips, Free-

Protea, Kale, Leucadendron, Dahlias,

sia, Lilacs, Lisianthus, Alstromeria Lilies,

Mambo Spray Roses, Chrysanthemums,

Baronia, Genista, Blooming Branches

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COCKTAIL HOUR by Andrea DeNucci

our

reception

set

and the desserts

DRI N K S

are picked. It is now time

to focus on drinks. Having a cocktail hour before the ceremony is becoming ever more popular. This is an excellent way to kick off the celebration. What better way to greet your

guests

than

passing them a signature cocktail and some tasty hors

d'oeuvres

when

they arrive. To make it a perfect cocktail hour, pay attention to these necessities

ensure

your guests will enjoy the moment before yours.

Start off by making a list with your fiancé of your favorite beverages… do you like clear, dark or sweet liquors? Is there a drink that has significance to your relationship? You can add a personal touch to your bar menu by choosing a signature cocktail. It's a great idea for the budget-conscious bride: you can save on the drink tab by offering beer, wine, champagne and your drink du jour, rather than hosting a full bar. It also adds personality to your drink menu, and is a great way to enhance your wedding celebration, offering guests another tasty option. Once you have picked out your signature cocktail, give it

a name. It can be something clever, funny or reflective of you and your fiancé. That is the fun part! Signature cocktails help your cocktail hour tie together with your wedding style and details. Consider the season and location of your wedding. Nothing is better than a sweet, refreshing drink on a hot sunny day. Choose flavors that highlight the spirits of the season. Pick light and refreshing drinks for summer, and richer, bold flavors in the fall and winter. Location, location, location. Use the location of your wedding to your advantage by including local beers, wines and liquors. Show what your town has to offer to your guests.

Tip - Don't want to bother with preparing a bar? Hire a local bar caterer. You'll be surprised how many bars and restaurants offer these types of services, and they will customize their menus to your liking.

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SNACKS Serve delicious hors d’oeuvres at your cocktail hour. Bite size is better so guests don’t fill up before the reception, but having easy, fun, snacks ensure your guests don’t get “hangry.” Having a mixture of both service style and stationary snacks gives guests the chance to nibble without waiting in lines. If you really want to go big, consider an interactive station -for example, nachos, mini taco bar, or risotto station.

music & entertainment Music and entertainment is a must during cocktail hour. You’ll want to keep your guests entertained while they are mingling. Play lounge type music for a laid back atmosphere and if you can get a band, that’s a major plus.

personal details Display photos of the bride and groom or set up a slideshow. If you are having an outdoor wedding, consider bringing some yard games for your guests and kids to keep them entertained.

Seating Provide comfy seating and shade for grandparents and for those who may not be able to stand for extended periods of time. This also emphasizes the laid back atmosphere that you want your guests to experience. If you are getting married when it is hot outside, consider getting some umbrellas or a tent for shade. You always want to think about your guests and their comfort.

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LATE NIGHT SNACKS Before you send your guests home after dancing the night away, think about giving them a bite to eat to send them on their way. This will be much appreciated and is a fun way to keep the party going! I guarantee you, this will leave every guest smiling. Here are some fun, tasty late night snack ideas: Grilled cheese sandwiches Hot dogs Popcorn bar Taco bar Pizza Milk and cookies me r iss a l a m b e r t p h o t o g r a p h y

Unique Ideas

Dessert beyond the cake At the past couple of weddings I have attended, I did not indulge in cake for dessert. Instead, I have had quite the assortment of unique desserts:

a candy bar, cupcakes,

mini pies, brownies and an ice cream bar. Couples are moving away from the traditional wedding cake and incorporating scrumptious g r ee n e r vis u a ls

confections that are all about them as a couple.

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Couples sometimes feel that if they aren’t the wedding cake type, that they aren’t going to have a dessert at all. Don’t go there! Instead, pick a dessert that you both love and want to share with your guests. No matter what the dessert is, you can make it look fancy and delicious! Trust me, guests love desserts, so whatever you choose, it will be a hit!

Wedding Cake aside. These unique desserts will amaze your guests: S’more bar (need I say more?) Ice Cream sundae bar (provide different flavors of ice cream, bowls, cones and toppings g r ee n e r vis u a ls w eddi n g p h o t o g r a p h y

for guests to create their own masterpiece) Cupcakes (these are great for presentation and everyone loves cupcakes. To make these look like a wedding cake, you can set them on a tiered platter and allow guests to try all different flavors - go mini if you plan to get a variety of flavors) Pies (you can have some of your guests make homemade pies, then display on a table for everyone to try… this is a great idea if you want to get your guests involved in your wedding) Chocolate fountain (Set fruit, angel food cake, cookies, brownies, and skewer sticks around the chocolate fountain and have

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guests choose their favorites)

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Liquor List A bottle of wine contains five drinks; a liter of spirits contains 22 drinks. Drinks are estimated one drink per person per hour. Consider also the time of day your reception will be and what your family preferences are. (Real Simple Weddings) Number of Guests

100

150

200

250

Red Wine

10 bottles

12 bottles

18 bottles

20 bottles

24 bottles

White Wine

6 bottles

12 bottles

18 bottles

20 bottles

24 bottles

Ch a m pag n e

10 bottles

20 bottles

30 bottles

40 bottles

50 bottles

Beer

60 bottles

120 bottles

180 bottles

240 bottles

300 bottles

Vo dk a

2 bottles

4 bottles

5 bottles

8 bottles

10 bottles

Gin

1 bottle

2 bottles

3 bottles

4 bottles

5 bottles

Ru m

1 bottle

2 bottles

3 bottles

4 bottles

5 bottles

B ou r b o n

2 bottles

4 bottles

6 bottles

S cot ch

1 bottle

2 bottles

3 bottles

4 bottles

5 bottles

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your

Be self

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Chapter

ust as we all wish we could pull off that backless beaded gown or those 4” stiletto shoes, sometimes it’s just not in the cards. The most important thing you should

remember as a bride is to be yourself. Be comfortable in your own skin. If you’re pushing the

limits on your big day, remember that comfort and confidence play a major role in your mood. The goal is to have fun; if you’re concerned about showing too much skin or slipping in your high heels, you might miss out on a special moment. Pick details in your ensemble that capture your personality and your charm, and you’ll be glowing for your guests and your handsome groom.

Tip - Borrow ideas and trends. Pinterest has become an endless resource for brides-to-be, so when you see an image of the perfect piece, take the idea and make it your own! Pinners to follow: Green Wedding Shoes, Ruffled, bhldn Weddings, Minted

Something borrowed:

To make this tradition special,

It has become tradition to

consider couples who have

include something borrowed

had an inspiring marriage.

on the day of your wedding.

When asking for the loan,

Historically an item was bor-

don't forget to share why you

rowed from another bride's

chose this person and what

wedding. It was believed that

their marriage means to you.

if a bride took such an item

When you are putting it on,

that she was “borrowing” the

remember the person who

happiness of someone who

loaned it to you. With senti-

has had a long and successful

ment behind you, you are

marriage.

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The Art of

D RESS by Alicia Heerdt

ne of the most difficult processes when planning your wedding is picking your wedding dress. There are endless options varying from style, material

and color; so many that it can be overwhelming. I

recommend trying every style and when you find a dress that works with your body type, stick with it! From there, there are just as many options to accessorize. Go with your gut and what makes you feel good. Remember to shop for you. Opinions can be very helpful when coming from an honest friend or family member, but in the end, stay true

to yourself because this is your day! He r e a r e s o m e s t y l es t h at a r e t imele ss and alway s a fav o rit e : T e a L e ngt h : It’s the cocktail dress for the bride. It’s a great way to be comfortable and social while wearing the perfect party dress. What’s best about this party dress is that it’s versatile, it helps elongate your legs and pairs well with any hairstyle or shoe. In my opinion it’s the go-to for any bride looking to have fun. P e p l um: Looking for formal and flattering? Peplum is the best way. It’s on trend right now, but still traditional. You’ll feel flirty and comfortable, put-together and at ease all at the same time. Peplum pairs well with an up-do and simple diamond studded earrings or with your hair down in soft waves. Boatneck: This is a modest approach to a sweetheart gown. Add cap sleeves and lace for a 1920’s style, and the best part? It’s a versatile look suitable for all age groups. Incorporate lace for a traditional approach and if you want to shy away from strapless, add some sheer coverage. Pairs well with a low chignon hairstyle or even a chic bob. C ol or : Perfect for those who like to step out of the box. Color is an excellent way to incorporate personality. It can be anything from the entire gown (in soft hues) to one stand-out piece: a sache, the soles of your shoes, a broach or head piece. If you have pale skin, go for a blue tint or if you’ve got a summer glow, try pinks and peaches.

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Bridesmaids RE I N V E N T E D by Leigh O’Donnell, Owner Plume Bridal

ver

the

past few seasons we have

seen an evolution in bridesmaid Brides

fashion.

moving

traditional

from

match-

ing frocks to mixing and matching colors and styles. This year, designers

and brides

have taken the mismatched trend to new h eig h ts. B rid esmaid s are now a bit fancier, bolder, a n d m o r e f a b u l o u s than you've ever seen them before.

PHOTOS - Lockie Photography D r e ssE S - P l u m e B r i d a l F l o r a l b o u q u e ts - L a b e l l u m Hair - Holly Remington, Theor y M akeup - Katie Minalga, Theor y Bride - Susie Howells B r i d e sm a i ds - A l y s s a B u r z y n s k i , Andre a D e Nucci, Anna B oswell, Tes s Ar veson

Texture is all the rage

Bold colors are a stand-

this year as women

out fashion and they

are opting for more

are the way to go this

unique looks. Instead

year. Lovely colorful

of the standard satin

hues such as turquoise,

or chiffon, brides are

royal blue, and auber-

incorporating lace, silk,

gine are sure to help

tulle and accessories

the bride stand out.

to add glamour and a personal touch.

Lace is now spotted on Skirts and tops are a fun fresh twist on a traditional look and it takes mismatched to new levels by offering flexibility. Brides are combining tulle skirts and tank tops, beaded corsets and chiffon skirts, skirts with patterns and solid tops.

bridesmaids as well as brides and we couldn't be more excited about it. Whether as an accent or all over lace dress, this feminine fabric is no longer a trend, it’s a mainstay! Bridesmaids can either wear this as matching or mismatching in colors or styles and it will be classic and chic.

The beauty of this new age in bridesmaid fashion is that the only rule is that they are coordinated. Mix and match your hearts out, just ensure that the looks flow together. While identical bridesmaids are still popular, playing with your imagination and individual style opens up endless possibilities. 64

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Hair Unveiled by Alyssa Burzynski

ou can quickly fix smudged makeup or tack on a new button, however there is nothing worse than the classic bad hair day. Flat,

frizzy, or unruly hair should be the last thing on

your mind, so be prepared. Taking a few small steps before your big day can ensure that your hair will continue looking as good as you do throughout your event.

Some guidel ines t h at a l l b ri d e s to-be shoul d fol l o w f o r h avi n g sp ec tac ul ar ha i r: T ry s e v e r a l

Let them work

different styles

their magic

Have your hair trial four

You hired a hairstylist for

to six weeks before your

a reason, right? They work

wedding, making sure you

with hair everyday and

have enough time to try at

know what works with

least three styles. Remem-

certain hair types and what

ber to bring any head

doesn't. You may envision

pieces or pictures so there

yourself with large, loose

are no surprises for you or

curls, but donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be too quick

your stylist on the day of

to pass up a low chignon.

your wedding.

Remember this is only a test run. You might be sur-

Speak up

prisingly pleased.

Share with your stylist some details about your

A p i c t u r e s ay s a

ceremony and reception:

thousand words

is it formal or more casual, indoors or outdoors, day or night, etc. And don't forget about your dress, bring sketches or pictures of your gown to help determine styles that accentuate your natural beauty.

Bringing a camera to your hair trial is crucial. It allows you to look back at the different styles once you have gone home. Don't forget your wedding is still a couple of weeks away. Make sure to get a few shots from every angle, this will ensure that every side is your best side.

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If you're thinking about wearing a tiara, consider a braided chignon look. Keep this style as clean and sleek as possible, accentuating your elegance with a contemporary twist. Brides who opt for a softer, fuller hairstyle and tiara run the risk of looking more like a homecoming queen or pageant contestant.

This may be a tricky style to pull off, but with the proper accessories and a little primping any bride is sure to look spectacular. Pair this textured up-do with a pin or veil to achieve timeless style, but for brides who prefer a contemporary look, balance this style with sweeping side bangs.

To offset a fuller, more classic gown,

Fresh flowers inspire a youthful,

think about going with an ultra-chic

playful vibe, prefect for a laid-

side braid. Try a reverse French braid

back wedding. Pairing a flower

or fishtail to frame your face. Adding

headpiece with loosely tousled

intricate plaits makes a subdued state-

locks adds softness and invites

ment of elegance that will compliment

romance into your ceremony

your attire.

and the night to follow. Adding a veil to this style encourages a traditional look while supporting your uninhibited beauty.

Add a touch of old Hollywood glamour to your wedding by choosing sweeping side waves. Pulling your hair to one side accentuates your neckline, or a beautiful pair of earrings that compliment your dress. This style also opens and frames your face creating a gorgeous, yet simplistic look. For a more modern style try brushed or softer curls instead of the traditional hard coils.

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The First

Dance by Tess Arveson

ith guests zeroed in and

fully

attentive

to the happy couple; the first dance is such

a highly anticipated part of any wedding and, for some brides and grooms, the most nerve racking. So how can you avoid those nerves and, more importantly, go about planning the perfect moment on the dance floor? Here are a few tips to help ease the process.

C h o o s i n g t h at p e r f e c t s o n g . Music is the driving force behind movement and can make for an amazing story telling tool. It can also let your guests in on a little slice of what makes your relationship unique. Pick something with significance to you and don’t worry about whether it’s ‘right’ for a first dance, but rather whether it’s right for you. If the two of you connect with something, so will your friends and family.

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To choreograph or not to choreograph? With so many pre-planned wedding productions going viral these days, it’s no surprise that choreography is so popular. If executed correctly, it can be a great way to entertain and surprise your guests. Be creative with your inspiration, whether it be a dance scene from a movie, the newest viral craze, or a good old fashioned flash mob. Put your own original twist on it and really get people talking! I f a b i g s h o w d o e s n ’t s u i t y o u r fa n c y, subtlety can often light up a room. Set out to find a place in town that offers beginner lessons in styles such as the foxtrot, waltz, swing, or any of the Latin ballroom styles. Many of these are based around a set of easy steps that repeat and can be easily applied to an array of musical genres.

There’s also much to be said about the beauty and excitement of throwing all

structure out the window and simply winging it. Tap into those middle school dance days. We all know how effective the back and forth sway can be! E n j o y y o u r s e l f. The first dance will set the tone for the reception, so be sure to decide on something that will allow you to be comfortable, have fun and really cherish the moment. Start out the night true to who you are as a couple because that’s what the day is all about. Then, toss off those shoes, turn up the jams and get the party started! greener visuals wedding photography

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Live in

the Moment

To r i Pi ntar ph oto gr aphy

Chapter

hen planning for a big event or party, we typically prepare for weeks and even months in advance, and when the day comes it’s gone in the blink of an eye. We remember

the stressful moments and the successful ones, and we tend to worry about the simplest things. On the eve of your wedding, try to get a good night sleep. When you wake, your big day awaits. The dress will be fitted, the cake will be baked, and the decorations will make their big debut. Feel free to double check your schedule, but remember to breathe slowly. Look around at the details. Share a smile with your old college roommate in the crowd, or take time to smell your fresh floral bouquet. If something goes awry, try to laugh and move along. This day only comes once; it’s your chance to live in the moment.

Tip - Give up charge! Give your maid of honor or mother (if you don’t have a wedding planner) control of final decisions on the day of your wedding. Take the final moments before you walk down the aisle to rest, eat some breakfast, and get ready without interruption. You'll be glad you did.

S o m e t h i n g b lu e : With most

days, anything goes. Try a new nail

brides adorning themselves in

polish or a blue phone cover.

virginal white, blue might be the

trickiest part of the superstition to

planning leave you feeling blue.

fulfill. But white has not always been

Many brides become overwhelmed

Finally, don't let the stress of

the standard, and it certainly doesn’t

in the weeks leading up to their wed-

have to be now. Historically some-

ding and lose some of their excite-

thing blue was a symbol of faith, pu-

ment; this is natural. But don't get

rity and loyalty; couples wore blue

lost in the moment. Remember the

bands on their attire to indicate their

love that you share for your partner

love, modesty and fidelity. These

and why you are both here.

The Big Day wedding schedule You won’t want to worry about leaving Grandma at the hotel or the Best Man behind at the bar. Complete this helpful timeline in advance and make copies for your bridal party and vendors. Plus, it will help your photographer prepare for certain camera settings and lighting props.

T h e

Day

B e for e

T h e

Day

6 am – 9 am

9 am – 12pm

12pm – 3pm

3pm – 6pm

6pm - 9pm

9pm – 12am

Sur v ival K it: Beauty & Wardrobe Ballet slippers or flipflops Blotting papers

Small sewing kit with safety pins

Stain remover wipes tissues

Bobby pins Breath mints

Buttons to match the ones on your dress Compact steamer Contact lenses (spares)

Deodorant

(if you need to patch tears in your dress)

Backup Caterer

NA ME:

cell phone:

Best Man

Backup Taxi / Limo Service

NA ME:

cell phone:

Backup Band or Deejay

24 Hour Drugstore

NA ME:

cell phone:

Aspirin

Backup Florist

OTHER:

Backup Ipod/Ipad/ chargers!

NA ME:

cell phone:

Cell phone and charger

Eye-makeup remover

And if all else fails,

Cuff links (extras)

Face powder

“P o u r yo u r s e l f a d r i n k , p u t

Granola bars

Lint brush

Pepto-Bismal

Lipstick/lipgloss

o n s o m e l i p s t i ck , a n d p u l l

Straws to avoid smudging lipstick

Panty hose

Umbrellas

Perfume

H20

Personal kit

Maid of Honor

Bandages

Earring backs

Nail glue/polish

White gaffer’s tape

Misc

Curling iron Dental floss

White chalk to disguise dress stains

Phone Numbe r List

yo u r s e l f t o g e t h e r !”

- Elizabeth Taylor

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Announcements

ubmit your announcements online at milestones.bozemandailychronicle.com. Please be sure to spell all first and last names correctly, as we will print them as they appear.

If you’ d like a photo printed along with the announcement, please include a clear picture (3 0 0 dpi) of the couple, or of either fiancé, along with $35. After your announcement appears in The Bozeman Daily Chronicle, you are welcome to pick it up at the front desk at the Chronicle. If you provide us with a stamped, self-addressed envelope, we will happily mail it back to you. The Chronicle reser ves editorial discretion over all submissions and announcements are limited to 150 words.

Engagement Announcements • • • • • • •

Who is announcing this engagement? What’s your relation to the couple? Bride-to-be’s and Groom-to-be’s full names Bride’s parents and Groom’s parents (both first and last names) Addresses of Bride’s and Groom’s parents Wedding date (if known) Story (How’ d he propose? What’s unique about you as a couple?

Wedding Announcements • • • • • • •

Bride’s and Groom’s full names Bride’s and Groom’s city of residence Bride’s parents and Groom’s parents (both first and last names) Wedding date Location of Ceremony (City, Name of Church, Venue) Location of Reception Minister’s name and title

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Make it OFFICIAL 1. When you’re ready to apply for a marriage license, here’s what you need to bring to the courthouse: • Yourselves. Both the bride and the groom must appear. • ID. Each must show a valid driver’s license issued by any state. A valid passport or birth certificate can be used. • Cold hard cash. The license fee is $53, and it must be paid in cash. Once you have a license, you have to use it within 180 days within the state of Montana.

2. Solemnize your license. That’s fancy legalese for having a ceremony and getting the license signed. For that, you’ll need one of

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these to perform your wedding: • Clergy • Judge or retired judge of a court of record • Public official with power to solemnize marriages • Mayor • Justice of the Peace • Tribal Judge • Friend or family member (Look to online ministries) After the ceremony, your officiant must return the license to the clerk’s office within 30 days for completion. Once the court returns it, you can use it as proof of name change for your new Social Security card and driver’s license.

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Local Honeymoon Destinations A Montana Stay-Cation

ouples on a tight wedding budget often splurge on their perfect honeymoon vacation or register for a

dream honeymoon fund. On the other

hand, some couples splurge on the wedding and opt for a low-key, local getaway. As we hear the term “stay-cation” more frequently, we’re learning about all the fabulous destinations a couple can take for a little down time after their big day. Luckily for Montanans, the state offers a variety of activities and adventures no matter where you go.

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LOCAL HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS by Alyssa Burzynski

Southwest Montana Pan for gold or take a train ride in Virginia City for a real “old fashioned” experience. Take a walking tour of the historic downtown, and explore the charming shops that have not lost their character in over a century. If you’re seeking elevation, Lone Peak towers over the summer and winter paradise of Big Sky, Montana at 11,166 feet. Tram rides are offered to the summit year round, allowing visitors to marvel at the views from above. Head southeast toward Livingston and Pray, and take in the beauty of Paradise Valley. The Yellowstone River meanders through the whole landscape, making it a hub for outdoor activities. There are many adventures to be had, like horseback riding, hiking and kayaking, but a personal favorite and a Montana must-try, is jumping on a raft or inner tube and taking a nice, long float on a hot day.

Central Montana An easy day drive from just about anywhere in the state, Great Falls lies in the heart of Montana. Giant Springs State Park is a great day trip, home to Black Eagle Dam and Falls, Giant Springs and the Roe River. Grab your tent and sleeping bags, because Lewistown, surrounded by the Big and Little Snowy Mountains, Judith Mountains and Moccasin Mountains, is a fantastic place to have a romantic camping trip. You and your partner can get away from it all and escape into the peaceful beauty of a majestic Montana mountain range. Jump on Highway 287, and before long you’ll be exploring the stalac-

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Western Montana For unrivaled Montana beauty, couples must visit Glacier National Park. The park, spanning more than one million acres, is one of the most intact ecosystems in the country; visitors will often see bison, mountain goats, moose and eagles. Many day hikes can be accessed from Logan Pass. If hiking is not your thing take a guided bus tour of Glacier on The Going-to-the-Sun Road or a boat ride on Saint Mary Lake. Head west to Whitefish for a perfect afternoon on the lake or go south and stay a night on Flathead Lake. Be sure to enjoy some local cherries on your way down to Missoula. Half way between Yellowstone and Glacier National Park, Missoula is best known for being Montana’s cultural hot spot. Share an afternoon strolling downtown, exploring local boutiques, or catching a live show in downtown’s Caras Park.

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Special DeStination weDDing SavingS Guests traveling to your wedding at one of these destinations; Mexico, the Caribbean, Hawaii or Las Vegas can save up to $200. You, the wedding couple, will receive money back for each booking your guests purchase using this offer to attend your destination wedding, up to the total cost of your own reservation. UpgraDeD weDDing packageS If you’re looking for another destination you don’t see listed here, with Delta Vacations you can choose from more than 250 destinations worldwide.

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Gift Tr acker If you’re having a bigger wedding, or even if you create a wedding registry, you will most likely head home with a car load of gift boxes and bags. Use this gift tracker as a way to keep record of the who-gave-what’s and their home addresses. When the time comes to write all those thank you notes, you’ll be glad this is already done.

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things to remember Tip your servers Hire or arrange a clean up crew Return rental equipment and accessories Preserve your flowers Dry clean your dress & tux Send thank you cards (within 30 days) Switch all important documents (name, social security card, passport, insurance, etc.)

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