Flagler Parent Magazine

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National D.A.R.E. Day

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Teaching Your Kids About Finances A Palette of Possible Plants: 10 Types to Grow Eager Gardners

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Earth Day! Recommended Reading Going Somewhere?

2016 Summer Camp Guide Raising Global Citizens Parent’s Survival Guide to Summer Camp Anxiety

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National Park Week Take Our Daughters to Work Day

Flagler County School Calendar

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Fort Mountain Fun

The Amazing Toddler Brain!

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April Calendar of Events Reel Life with Jane Movie Reviews Flagler County Library Programs

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National D.A.R.E. Day is April 21st

D.A.R.E. is Substance Abuse Prevention Education and Much More!

This year millions of school children around the world will benefit from D.A.R.E. (Drug Abuse Resistance Education), the highly acclaimed program that gives kids the skills they need to avoid involvement in drugs, gangs, and violence.

What can you do to help your children? Keep the lines of communication open and you could help shape your children in making the right choices.

Tell your children that you love them and you want them to be happy and healthy. Let them know that you do not find alcohol and other illegal drug use acceptable. Many parents fail to state this simple fact. Explain that drug use hurts people. It can cause AIDS, impaired coordination, slowed growth, and emotional harm such as feelings of isolation or paranoia. It is also important to discuss the legal issues associated with drug and alcohol use because a conviction for a drug offense can lead to prison, loss of a job or college loan. Talk about positive, drug-free alternatives and explore them together. Some possibilities may include sports, reading, movies, bike rides, hikes, camping and games.

Approach your children calmly and openly and do not exaggerate. Talk face to face. Try to understand each other’s point of view. Be an active listener and let your child talk about fears and concerns while not interrupting or preaching.

Establish an ongoing conversation and open dialogue rather than giving a onetime speech. It is also important that you set an example and avoid contradictions between your words and actions. To 10 • April 2016

suited for, but it’s worth the effort-feeling competent makes kids much less likely to use drugs.

3. Help your kids develop tools they can use to get out of alcohol or drug related situations.

help your child deal with peer pressure, act out various situations in which one tries to convince the other to take drugs and come up with at least two ways to handle each situation.

As parents, be alert to changes in your child’s mood. Drug use may cause your child to become more irritable, secretive, withdrawn, overly sensitive, or inappropriately angry. In addition, your child may become less responsible by not going to school or coming home late. Watch for changes in friends or lifestyles. Physically, drugs may cause your child to concentrate less, lose coordination, weight and create an unhealthy appearance.

Help your children by; 1. Be your kids’ greatest fan.

Compliment them on all of their efforts, the strength of their character and their individuality.

2. Get your kids involved in adultsupervised after-school activities. Ask them what types of activities they’re interested in and contact the school principal or guidance counselor to find out what activities are available.

Sometimes it takes a bit of experimenting to find out what your kids are best

4. Get to know your children’s friends and their parents. Call them and check to make sure they share in your views on alcohol, tobacco and other drugs.

5. Call kids’ parents if their home is to be used for a party. Make sure that the party will be alcohol-free and supervised by adults.

6. Set curfews and enforce them.

Let kids know the consequences of breaking curfew.

7. Encourage open dialogue with your children about their experiences. Make sure your children understand that they can ask you anything and that you will give them an honest answer.

8. Set a no-use rule for alcohol, tobacco and other drugs.

9. Sit down for dinner with your children at least once a week. Use the time to talk-don’t eat in front of the TV. 10. Get-and stay-involved in your children’s lives.

For more information, visit http://www.dare.org/parents-caregivers/ for tips and tools to help you keep your children safe.

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Teaching Your Kids About Finances

by Judy M. Miller

I knew I needed to have the first of many family finance talks when my oldest, then four years old, said, "Just stick your card in the machine, Mommy."

I had just shared that I did not have any more money to spend for something he wanted. My son's response informed me that he believed the flow of money was endless, that a person obtained more money because he asked for it or, in this case, used a debit card. It was time to teach him the basics of our family finances.

Discussing family finances does not mean you need to share the specifics of what you earn, save, and spend. Rather, it means utilizing your money management system as a framework to teach your kids how to make financial decisions with the money they are given or have earned.

Begin discussions early.

Planting the seeds of financial awareness early pays off. Kids are more likely to adhere to their budget and respect yours. They can begin to appreciate money as a medium for purchasing as well as understanding that the value for goods and services varies.

Use allowances as teaching tools.

My kids have been taught to put aside one-third for something they want (discretionary spending), onethird aside for savings, and one-third towards charity and gifting. When the discretionary runs low, they buckle down and save. This is the foundation for when they begin to earn money from a part-time job like babysitting or watching neighbors' pets.

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of four, after they understood that money does not go into their mouths. I gave my sons simple inexpensive wallets to use and my daughters basic change purses in which to hold their coins and dollars. These held their discretionary money.

Each of my kiddos had a piggy bank in their room. These banks held their savings money. This money was added to their bank savings accounts when their piggy banks became heavy or full.

Teach kids the money basics.

Rainy days and cold weather are perfect for wrapping coins and learning more about money. Have your kids help wrap change in the paper coin rolls. During the process you can teach them that the U.S. monetary system is based on the dollar unit, which is equivalent to 100 pennies, 20 nickels, ten dimes, or four quarters. Coins are

multiples and fractions of dollars, and smaller bills are fractions and multiples of the larger bills. Kids quickly learn that four quarters have the same purchasing power as one dollar.

Discussing money in this manner fun for kids and they get to brush up on their math skills, too. We discovered that teaching our kids about money at an early age compelled each of them to be conservative with their money.

Use age-appropriate and fun teaching tools.

I favored a puzzle "pie." It came as a birthday gift from one set of grandparents. Eventually the pieces became lost because it was so popular.

You can create your own puzzle pie.

Draw a large circle on paper. Create a second one and cut it into wedges.

Color (or use construction paper) and label (use clip art or stickers for

teachable moments for your child. Ask her to help you.There are two ways to count back change; counting forward from the amount spent to the amount tendered and subtracting the cost of the purchase from the amount tendered. My husband and I had some pushback from our kids about this since current cash registers tell the cashiers what the change is owed.

However, we insisted this skill be learned. It has come in handy for two of our kids who work summers at a local farmers market where purchases are cash-only.

Set up savings and checking accounts, with "training wheels."

younger kids) the wedges to represent categories like savings, bills, discretionary or fun, taxes, and charity.

Explain to your child how the full circle represents the money you have to work from monthly; it is the total.

Add the wedges in so your child has a visual of where the money goes and she understands that the wedges can not be more than the whole pie; otherwise you willbe in debt. Explain that being in debt means that you owe money, have to make that up from somewhere. Ask your child what she would like to give up.

Pick round numbers if your child pushes for an amount. We used $100, because we planned to teach them about the monetary system.

You can still use a pie for older kids.

Graphs work well, too. We had our oldest son graph his spending when he was a teen so that he understood where it was all going. As you can imagine, most of his spending went towards food and entertainment.

Explain your family's goals and priorities.

What are your family goals and pri-

orities? Share them with your kids.

Share how you fund these goals and priorities ahead of time. For example we put money aside each pay period to pay ourselves first, to contribute to our retirement accounts and to the 529 plans for our kids' college expenses., and for family vacations.

Talk about the differences between cash, savings, and investment.

Keep it simple for now, but do introduce your child to the concept of interest and how it can impact cash, savings, and bills. Ahead of getting their first credit card, an older child should understand the difference between simple interest and compound interest.

Teach money management.

Do you count your change when it is returned to you? Do you go over your receipts at the checkout or in a restaurant? These are great examples of accountability and responsibility, and teachable moments for your child. Ask her to help you.

These are great examples of accountability and responsibility, and

Take your child to your local bank and set up her savings and/or checking account. Be sure to add yourself onto the account so that you can oversee her account(s) make adjustments if necessary.

Having a checking account is important because many employers now pay employees through direct deposit.

Teach your child how to keep a ledger and reconcile accounts. When she is older and responsible enough add a debit card with limits. Many tweens and teens today have credit cards today. My older kids have started with debit cards so that they could become accustomed to being responsible for tracking their transactions.

Make sure you are on the account if your child will have a debit or credit card. Consider setting a spending limit on the card or preloading it to discourage carelessness. The bank officer will go over the responsibilities and liabilities with your child, such as not using a debit card for online transaction.

Discuss the dangers of credit.

Help your child understand that the decisions she makes in the short-run about money management can impact what happens over her lifetime.

Encourage her to reconcile her account monthly and regularly check on it to make sure there are no surprise transactions. Identify theft is rampant.

Have ongoing discussions as your child grows up. Finances are important. Money impacts a person throughout his or her lifetime. Your child will become savvier about finances and money management if she has a good understanding of how it all works.

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A Palette of Possible Plants:

10 Types to Grow Eager Gardeners

by Christina Katz

When I was kid, my parents grew the same things year after year in our yard and gardens. If the plan ever varied, it did not change much. Gardening struck me as serious business, a lot of work, and weeding and raking added to my list of chores. Given how little I appreciated what it took to create the lovely landscape that wrapped around our suburban home, it's a wonder I grew up to love gardening as much as I do now that I am a parent.

Thankfully, there are some terrific books on gardening with kids that take an inspired approach. I particularly appreciate those written and illustrated by Sharon Lovejoy, which capture the art and magic of gardening no matter what your age. I also enjoy the author's emphasis on taking a creative approach. Lovejoy knows how to celebrate the possibilities that exist for any garden and gardener, and encourages readers to play in the garden, not simply plan, plant, and prune.

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Parents can use the power of variety to entice children outdoors to experiment in the dirt. A garden offers a myriad of lessons in sowing, tending, reaping, and resting, all critical processes to creativity. For kids, the goal should never be a perfectly manicured result, but a colorful canvas exploding with organic self-expression.

Let your child experience the joy of gardening first-hand by giving him a garden plot in which to experiment. Introduce him to all of the possibilities and then let him choose how to plant it. You may think he will fail, or fret that he's doing it wrong or think you know better and should show him the way. You may know better, but let him figure it out. Then celebrate his successes together and see what there is to learn from the failures for next time. In life we learn from doing, and the lessons that stick with kids will come from personal experience, as well.

Life is full of triumphant moments and

disappointing moments. A garden of your child's own is a great metaphor for so many of life's experiences. Here is a list of possible things your child can grow in a window box, a four-foot by four-foot plot of soil, or a bed along the side of the house. Let her relish in the possibilities as she learns how to make choices most pleasing to her.

1. Plant Annual Flowers.

By far the easiest to grow with the most immediate results are annual flowers. Start with annuals if your little gardener has never dug in the soil before.

Hardy annuals for first-time planters include flower seeds that germinate quickly like sunflowers (various varieties and heights), cosmos, sweet alyssum, zinnia, pansies, snapdragons, gomphrena, strawflowers, tithonia, impatiens, petunia, and calendula. For even more immediate gratification, pick out a color-

and oregano and basil in a fresh salad.

Including herbs in your diet is easy. Try planting mint (many varieties but also invasive, so use containers), lemon balm, chives, catnip, oregano, basil, dill, parsley, rosemary, and thyme to get started.

6. Eat Edible Flowers.

Want to add a whimsical touch to ice cubes, cupcakes, and salads? Then experiment with edible flowers. Try planting colorful nasturtiums (annual), culinary lavender (perennial), pansies (annual), violas (annuals), roses (perennial), calendula (annual), and geraniums (annual and perennial). Try taste-testing petals alone, in combination with each other, and mixed into foods like shortbread (lavender) or used for decoration when serving food.

7. Make Way For Giants.

Pumpkins and melons can become quite large and over-crowd a small garden plot.

For this reason, stake out a spot for them where they will have room to sprawl over a sunny, mulched area. Corn is another plant that likely requires it's own space and can be grown in blocks of rows that get even sun all day long. Growing large plants is dramatic fun for young gardeners that is sure to make a lasting impression.

8. Fancy Flowering Bushes.

rful variety of annuals at the store, plant them, and enjoy the results within an hour.

2. Invest In Perennial Flowers.

Once young gardeners understand the concept of annual bloomers, it's time to introduce them to flowers that come back year after year. Be sure to convey the savings in time and money, since perennials are planted only once and enjoyed many times. Check perennials each year to see if they need to be split and spread out. You might also want to relocate a few of your re-seeding perennials so you can enjoy them in other parts of your yard. Good choices for first-time planters include: gloriosa daisy, ageratum, coneflower, coreopsis, sedum, peony, bearded iris, daylily, lily, lamb's ear, hollyhocks, verbena, gazania, California poppy, and hosta. Pay attention to whether perennials enjoy shade or sun or both, and they will pay you back in beauty year after year.

3. Vote For Veggies.

Few things are as satisfying as watching food grow from seed to table. Or purchase

veggie starters at your local garden shops.

In cool weather try: carrots, lettuce, radishes, peas, spinach, kale, swiss chard, and broccoli. In Warm weather try: beans, cucumbers, spring onions, cherry, or grape tomatoes, round zucchini, and patty pan squaush. All of these foods are super-easy to grow.

4. Favor Fruit Plants.

Children of all ages adore eating fruit fresh warmed by the sun. Whether you have a few plants scattered around the yard or a whole fruit garden, every berry swallowed is sure to fetch a smile. Try planting strawberries, thornless Blackberry, thornless raspberry, golden raspberry, and blueberries for years of enjoyment. Blackberries grow vigorously but can become invasive.

5. Let's Hear It For The Herbs.

Herb gardens are great for tweens and teens, testing culinary skills in the kitchen, but herbs can also provide pleasure at any age. My daughter has been popping mint leaves into her mouth since she could walk.

We enjoy a little mint or lemon balm in iced tea, thyme and chives in scrambled eggs,

Create beds of sweet-smelling, flowering bushes if you want to attract lots of hummingbirds and butterflies to your yard.

Butterflies like large, flat rocks in the sun and a sandy puddle for drinking safely.

Choose a sunny, non-windy area. Try planting butterfly bush (non-invasive variety), bee balm, salvia, lilac, mock orange, glossy abelia, buttonbush, ninebark, spicebush, milkweed, and clethra.

9. Vie For Vines.

Nothing makes me happier than seeing sweet-smelling honeysuckle twining up the iron grate that holds our mailbox. Look around your yard for things that can be climbed or invest in inexpensive trellises.

Then plant coral honeysuckle, cardinal climber, cypress vine, climbing hempweed, morning glory, scarlet runner bean, sweet pea, everlasting pea, and trumpet vine.

Beans will also climb and can run along a garden-stake wall or climb a tee-pee.

10. Consider Fun Inedibles.

Some of my favorite things to grow are just for decoration, not to eat. Inedibles also make great fall gifts. Try gourds combinations for a nice basket display, Indian corn for wreathes, and bottle gourds to turn into birdhouses. Chinese lantern stems make bright orange fall dĂŠcor and wreathes, just remember the plants can be invasive.

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Earth Day!

Recommended Reading The Curious Garden

It’s Earth Day!

By Peter Brown One boy's quest for a greener world... one garden at a time. While out exploring one day, a little boy named Liam discovers a struggling garden and decides to take care of it. As time passes, the garden spreads throughout the dark, gray city, transforming it into a lush, green world. This is an enchanting tale with environmental themes and breathtaking illustrations that become more vibrant as the garden blooms. Redheaded Liam can also be spotted on every page, adding a clever seek-and-find element to this captivating picture book.

Mercer Mayer Little Critter is on a mission! After watching a film about climate changes at school, Little Critter decides to do his part to slow down global warming. With the help of his family and friends, Little Critter begins to reduce, reuse, and recycle. Together they learn about the importance of not wasting water or energy. Join Little Critter as he plants a tree, makes a climate control machine, and helps the polar bears.

The Earth Book Todd Par "I take care of the earth because I know I can do little things every day to make a BIG difference..."

With his signature blend of playfulness and sensitivity, Todd Parr explores the important, timely subject of environmental protection and conservation in this eco-friendly picture book. Featuring a circular die-cut Earth on the cover, and printed entirely with recycled materials and nontoxic soy inks, this book includes lots of easy, smart ideas on how we can all work together to make the Earth feel good - from planting a tree and using both sides of the paper, to saving energy and reusing old things in new ways.

Best of all, the book includes an interior gatefold with a poster with tips/reminders on how kids can "go green" everyday.

Equally whimsical and heartfelt, this sweet homage to our beautiful planet is sure to inspire readers of all ages to do their part in keeping the Earth happy and healthy.

Recycle!; A Handbook for Kids Gail Gibbons This lively and informative handbook explains the process of recycling from start to finish. The book focuses on 5 different types of rubbish - paper, glass, aluminum cans, plastic and polystyrene. Explains the process of recycling from start to finish and discusses what happens to paper, glass, aluminum cans, and plastic when they are recycled into new products.

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Don’t’ Throw that Away!

Lara Bergen, Betsy Snyder (Illustrator) Follow an eco-conscious super hero as he teaches kids how to recycle and reuse common household items! The six large flaps throughout show that ordinary trash is really a treasure. From turning old clothes into fun costumes or an old box into a brand new car, kids will learn that saving the environment is super cool!

26th Annual Earth Day Celebration Apr 25, 2015 10:00AM – 4:00PM Join Washington Oaks Gardens State Park and Friends of Washington Oaks in celebrating Earth Day! Activities and interests for all ages!

Live Entertainment...Living History...

Reenactors...Environmental Groups...Arts & Crafts! A display of "Love Letters" in celebration of Mother Earth. Chance drawings for great prizes. Bake Sale!

Plant Sale!

Special Park Admission fee for Earth Day of $5 per car up to eight people.

Includes entry into Door Prize drawing or a "Friends Membership Basket" provided by Friends of Washington Oaks.

For additional information, please contact Park Services Specialist at 386-446-6783.

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The Amazing Toddler Brain!

by Maureen Lendzion, Outreach Consultant, Early Learning Coalition of Flagler & Volusia Counties

• Most of the brain's cells are formed before birth, but most of the connections among cells are made during infancy and early childhood. Fact • The brain's development depends entirely on the genes with which you are born. Myth • Early experience and interaction with the environment are most critical in a child's brain development. Fact • A toddler's brain is less active than the brain of a college student. Myth • A 3-year-old toddler's brain is twice as active as an adult's brain. Fact young brain to process the information

The amazing toddler years span from 12 months to 36 months. During this time, your toddler’s every move and accomplishment is linked to brain development. Here’s what happens in the brain during the toddler years: • By age 3 the brain reaches its greatest density of brain cells connectors (synapses).

That is why 3 year old brain is considered twice as active as an adult brain!

• The critical myelination process continues. Myelin is a dense fatty substance that insulates the nerve cells (neurons) in the brain.

This insulation continues to form and allows for information between nerve cells to be transmitted faster.

To assist myelination, ensure milk is an integral part of your child’s diet. It is a good source of the fat necessary to myelination. The American Academy of Pediatric recommends breast milk into the toddler years; however whole cow’s milk can be introduced after the first birthday. After your child turns two, transition to lower fat cow’s milk (2%).

Have you ever wondered: • Why it takes some time for your toddler to respond to and act on a request such as “Give Mommy your shoe”? It’s because myelination is not complete and it takes longer for the 18 • April 2016

• Why your two year old, who is very verbal and seems to understand the concept of using the bathroom, is not yet potty trained?

According to research, the nerve cells that control the sphincter muscles that make bladder control possible are among the last nerves in the body to become covered with myelin.

• How your toddler develops new skills? The toddler stage by definition refers to the physical milestone of walking or “toddling”.

Myelination is the source of an older toddler having increasingly more coordinated.

The toddler phase is also marked by intense emotions. If a toddler’s brain could talk it might say: “Be patient with me - I am under intense development and trying to figure out the world.

Feed me a healthy diet with adequate fat content, provide love, a routine including rest and sleep between 10 to 13 hours day, and fun stimulating activities allowing for movement and involving as many of the five senses as possible and finally - talk to me all the time.”

Consider the following myths/facts regarding your child’s brain development: • At birth the brain is fully developed, just like one's heart or stomach. Myth

• Talking to a baby is not important because he or she can't understand what you are saying. Myth • Talking to young children establishes foundations for learning language during early critical periods when learning is easiest for a child. Fact • Children need special help and specific educational toys to develop their brainpower. Myth • What children need most is loving care and new experiences, not special attention or costly toys. Fact For fun interactive brain development information visit these Zero to Three links: http://www.zerotothree.org/baby-brainmap.html http://main.zerotothree.org/site/PageServer?pa gename=ter_key_brain_quiz

The Early Learning Coalition of Flagler & Volusia (ELCFV) administers subsidized School Readiness early learning child care programs for children birth to age five and the Voluntary Pre-Kindergarten program for four-year olds.

For information about ELCFV programs and services, call 386 323-2400 or toll free 877 352-0065 or visit www.elcfv.org.

Follow the ELCFV on Facebook: search ELCFV.

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Going Somewhere?

10 Tips for Great Family Travel

by Judy M. Miller

Do you remember family vacations from when you were a child? Was packing done in a frenzy, and at the last minute? Or did you just calmly walk out the door with your family because all of the planning and packing was done by your parents?

Growing up, my brothers and I did little to get ready, other than to straggle into the car during the wee hours of the morning.

Here are some tips to prepare for a fun vacation that involves the entire family from planning though returning home. As a mom of four, there are tips I’ve been using and fine-tuning for close to two decades. These tips will help alleviate your stress in planning and preparation.

Invite Kid Input What do members of your family enjoy?

Start polling your kids on what they might like to do. What do they want to see?

What are they curious about?

We keep a “dream” list in our family.

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Involve your children in the planning of activities and optional sight seeing; this gets them excited about the trip, and they might come up with some wonderful ideas you hadn’t thought of. One of our recent vacations included a biologist-led estuary kayak trip—an idea and request from our passionate-about-science daughter.

Everyone enjoyed it and we’re going to do it again this summer.

Encourage Research Take into account your kids' ages and stages, likes and dislikes. Visit destinations that offer a variety of activities and food options for you and your family.

Some trips, like skiing, may have to wait until everyone can participate. Consider what each child's interests and activity levels are. Kathy Besse, a former flight attendant and mother of two, encourages her kids to research destinations on the Internet, "My son is a history buff, so we

try to include places of historical significance." Water sports are a must-do with my kids, so we make sure to include a destination that includes water, even if that water ends up being a hotel pool in the dead of the Midwest winter.

Get the maps out. Show them where you are considering traveling. Have each family member do research from the perspective of what they enjoy most. Even the youngest can be included in this. Perhaps they travel with their special stuffed animal or doll, or in a beloved princess or warrior outfit. My children, when very young, did both. We also made sure we had some of their favorite music and DVDs with us.

Pack Early, Pack Smart Give your kids the job of packing themselves. All family members should have a backpack or similar bag for their books, snacks, games, electronics, etc.

They should also have a change of clothes and, possibly, pajamas and a swimsuit within. Bags get lost. This is also a great idea if your family is going to make an overnight stop on a long trip. Why unpack the entire car for a few things?

My kids are so accustomed to packing their backpacks that they keep them par-

tially packed at all times with a change of underwear, socks, travel-sized toiletries, and a plastic bag for dirty clothes. At least once every summer, when boredom eventually sets in, I rise early and knock on my kids’ bedroom doors, “Let’s go; 30 minutes to pack!”

They’re up in no time packed and ready for a quick overnight to a destination we decide on as we drive.

Be Ready Early. Begin packing your bags packed several days before you leave. Have a staging area in your home where you can do this. We use our hallway. The kids fill their suitcases as I do laundry. If traveling by car, pack it the night before. Despite appearances, vans and SUV's only have so much room to hold luggage and the extras. A cramped long ride in the car is miserable.

Personalized Checklists. Create a general packing list for your trip and have the kids follow it. Leave a few lines for them to fill in with their favorites. Separate which items go into the suitcase versus the backpack for the plane or car, such as books or a Nintendo DS. Don't forget to add batteries and chargers to the list.

Leaving things behind is no fun, so keep the lists on your home computer to be reused and updated as needed. Pack the lists in the bags and refer to them when repacking for the return trip home.

Pack Smart and Save Big. How “lean” can you pack? Unless you have a have a special membership, you will likely be charged for checking baggage. Inquire when you make your reservations. The costs add up: $20 and up per bag, with hefty increases on overweight or oversized bags (AirlineBagFees.com has a helpful chart of fees of domestic and international charges). With my family of six, these charges can be an extra $120 each way, $240 for the round-trip, or more. I much prefer to use that money on our vacation.

You can get along with far less than you think. A good rule of thumb is to not pack more than each family member can carry and pull at the same time. My kids quickly learned to pack light.

I layer my kids for flights; the planes are cold and many airlines charge for blankets and pillows, if they even offer them. If you have to pack on the heavy side (an extended trip or cold weather requiring heavier and bulkier clothing), under-pack a suitcase or two, to allow for last minute redistribution among the luggage at the airport.

Use clipart or stickers as lists for children who can’t read yet, for example a picture of a swimsuit. For multiple items, repeat the clip art or stickers in a line, or if kids know their numbers by sight, put it in front of the clip art, for example, “4” and a picture of shorts.

Kids love to pack themselves. When mine have packed, they put their open suitcases and backpacks, with their lists lying on top, in our hallway. This makes it easy for me to double-check. I do the final zip-up.

Details That Matter. Here are a few small considerations that will make everyone's trip happier and prevent annoying mini-disasters: Visit destinations that offer a variety of activities and food options for you and your family, and take turns being the vacation leader.

Decide ahead of time which parent is handling documents and tickets. The other parent should have copies of the documents. Leave another set of copies at home, along with copies of your credit cards and phone numbers in case cards or documents get lost or stolen—it happens.

Carry baby wipes for everyone.

These come in handy in many different situations - the wiping of hands and feet, cleaning up spills, sanitizing airplane tray tables, just to name a few. Give everyone their own pack with extras packed away for the return. Don't forget the tissues.

For car trips, include some clean old towels and a few 20-gallon-sized trash bags. Sometimes, those disasters can be a bit messier than we imagined. When you stop, put the nasty towels inside the trash bag and dispose of.

Carry a first-aid kit. Make sure everything is replenished and in-date.

Pack a roll of duct tape; it has a multitude of uses. Have you ever had your luggage tear, a hem come loose, or a hole appear in that nice flotation device you packed?

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Bring gallon-sized zip lock bags along. My foresight was rewarded three years ago when we drove twelve hours home with two vomiting kids.

Trial Security Check Run and Security Overview You will be going through airport security if flying to your destination. Inform your children of what to expect before hand, and go over it several times. I encourage you to role-play as well.

We’ve spent so much time teaching our kids about strangers and “good touch, bad touch.” So it is important that we help our kids understand, in age-appropriate language, why total strangers will be touching them inappropriately. Assure your children that you will be present, right next to them as security personnel running their hands over them.

Go over the removal of shoes and screening of themselves and their personal belongings. Lia Stallworth, a school counselor and mother of two, has her children wear slip-on shoes.

Explain to the kids that they should be quiet, listen, stay with you, they can have something to drink after they complete the security check (our kids bring empty bottles, since there is no charge for the drinking fountain water), and that this is not a good time to have discussions about the state of the Middle East or weaponry and explosives. Ask your sons to forgo the sagging to alleviate any pants or shorts crumbling to the floor when belts are removed in the security area (this happened to my oldest years ago).

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Help Yourself to Some Peace of Mind Even though you practice and preach about it daily, you need to have another indepth talk regarding safety. Older kids like to explore, so establish the rules and boundaries for the trip. Go over the buddy system and family emergency code, if you use them. Stallworth snaps a picture of her kids before every trip, "I take a picture of my kids with my cell phone before we board the plane. It's the most recent picture of them in case one of them should get lost." If the family splits into smaller groups to do different activities, each group should have a cell phone.

If traveling outside the U.S., go over drinking water and what food can be eaten and in what form. Also discuss “do not touch” of animals children raised in the U. S. commonly consider safe—dogs and cats. There is no way of knowing of the animals are safe. If you have a critterlover like I do, explain that touching any critter is not safe.

Making Memories Kids love to have mementos of their trips. Encourage yours to get something unique that will remind them of their trip.

“My son collects currency, coins, and rocks," says Kathy Besse. She gives her kids disposable cameras, "The kids have a photo album that they add to. My daughter has a scrapbook. She keeps her pictures and postcards in it and writes about her trips as well."

Vacations are special family time. The more prepared you are and the more involved your entire family is, the more you will enjoy your trip. Safe travels!

Other Tips for Family Travel: • Put the kids in the car in their pajamas, along with a blanket and pillow.

All of my kids sleep on long trips.

• Pack plenty of movies, snacks and car games for the long drive.

• Julie Moyer, a working mother of two, and her husband leave late in the afternoon and drive through the night. The kids sleep during most of the trip. You might consider this if you have no trouble staying up all night.

• Discuss the cultural differences that you may encounter when traveling internationally and how to address them.

• Remember the electrical converters.

• Cell phones with international access are a good idea if traveling outside the U.S. • Consider travel insurance if traveling outside the U.S.

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ACADEMIC CAMPS

ACADEMIC CAMPS

ART CAMPS

Advanced Robotics Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Students Ages 7-13 When: July 18-July 22, 2016 Tuition: $400 (Advanced Registration discount of $25 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016)

Computer Science & Animation Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Female Students Ages 12-14 When: June 6-June10, 2016 Tuition: $325 (An Advanced Registration discount of $25 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016)

Atlantic Center for the Arts Summer Art Camp 123 Douglas Street at the Yurick Studios, ACA Downtown 386-423-1753 rmorrison@atlanticcenterforthearts.org atlanticcenterforthearts.org/community/summer-art-camp weekly art camps for ages 6-12 June 14 - August 12, 2016 Tuesday - Friday, 9 AM - 2 PM $105 for ACA members; $130 nonmembers Scholarships are available for each session Pre-registration is required

Aerospace Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Students Ages 15-18 When: June 19- July 9, 2016 Tuition: $3,900 (An Advanced Registration discount of $100 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7 2016)

Flight Exploration Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Tuition for Flight Exploration includes supervised housing, on-campus meals, flight fees, flight instruction, ground lab instruction, flight materials and books.

Who: Students Ages 12-18 When: Alpha: June 19-June 25, 2016 Bravo: June 26- July 2, 2016 Charlie: July 17 – 23, 2016 Tuition: $2,050 (An Advanced Registration discount of $100 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016)

Aerospace Career Exploration Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Students Ages 12-18 Alpha: June 26-July 2, 2016 Bravo: July 10-July 16, 2016 Charlie: July 17-July 23, 2016 Delta: July 31 - August 6, 2016 Tuition: $950 (An Advanced Registration discount of $50 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016) Aviation Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Students Ages 7-12 When: June 13 - 17, 2016 Tuition: $325 (An Advanced Registration discount of $25 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016) Aviation Voyage Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Students Ages 12-18 When: July 24 -July 30, 2016 Tuition: $2,250 (An Advanced Registration discount of $100 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016) Computer Engineering Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Students Ages 15-18 When: July 31-August 6, 2016 Tuition: $950 (An Advanced Registration discount of $50 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016)

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GEMS Camp 386-226-7945; summer@erau.edu daytonabeach.erau.edu/summer Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University 600 South Clyde Morris Blvd., Daytona Beach Who: Female Students Ages 7-12 When: June 6-June 10, 2016 Tuition: $325 (An Advanced Registration discount of $25 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016) Space Camp Young space enthusiasts, ages 7-12, learn about how the human body adapts to space flight and extra-terrestrial environments. The goal of this camp is to introduce students to the fundamentals of aerospace physiology.

Who: Students Ages 7-12 When: July 25 - July 29, 2016 Where: Daytona Beach, FL Tuition: $325 (Advanced Registration discount of $25 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016) Physics and Astronomy During this week long camp, students ages 7 – 12 will engage in the discovery of how things work, and begin the week by learning basic physics and astronomy concepts. Students will work with faculty and university students to conduct hands-on experiments using our state-of-the-art laboratories. Objects in motion, magnetism and planetary science are some of the topics that will be explored during this program.

Who: Students Ages 7-12 When: June 20 - June 24, 2016 Where: Daytona Beach, FL Tuition: $325 (Advanced Registration discount of $25 is applied to all completed application packets received by April 7, 2016) Central Florida Zoo Summer Camp 407-323-4450 ext. 123; education@centralfloridazoo.org; centralfloridazoo.org Build a Zoo Workshop Campers must register in their appropriate age group: 6-8 or 9-12 years.

Camp Create 386-734-4371; museumoffloridaart.org Museum Of Florida Art 600 North Woodland Blvd., Deland Ages 6-12; Monday-Friday, 9:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. $160 per Week for Members $185 for Non-Members Children’s Musical Theater Summer Camps infoCMTW@yahoo.com; cmtworkshop.org Ormond Beach Performing Arts Center 399 N. US1Ormond Beach Dance Camp : check back soon Theatre Camp July 11th – July 28th Summer Art Camp 386-676-3250; ormondbeach.org Department of Leisure Services 399 North US1, Ormond Beach Four weeks of educational fun is available, choose the camps you want and enjoy creating your special art this summer at The Casements. Call for updated summer program schedule.

Dance Camps European School of Performing Arts 386-677-6316; espa@espadance.com 360 Tomoka Ave., Ormond Beach Call for updated summer programs Art Rageous DANCE Camp Port Orange Dance 4649 S. Clyde Morris Blvd. #601, Port Orange, Florida portorangedance.com Monday-Friday 9am-2pm Session 1- June 20th-24th Session 2- July 11th-15th Cost: $265 per session Port Orange Dance and Art Rageous are teaming up to bring you a summer full of dance classes, mixed media, fused glass, paint your own potterty, and canvas painting.

No previous art or dance experience necessary.

(386) 295-2610 Hip Hop, Dance and Acting Summer Camp 386-676-3250; ormondbeach.org 399 North US1, Ormond Beach Call for updated summer program schedule

FAITH BASED CAMP WinShape Camps Daytona Beach WinShape Camps for Communities is an unprecedented day camp experience for grades 1st-9th grade. With 21 skills to choose from kids will have a blast at this week long camp. From wake up worship times to small group times Ages: 1st-9th grades. Monday -Thursday 7:45am till 5pm Friday 7:45 till 1pm Cost:$150 386-872-2083 • Winshapecamps.org Winshapecampdb@gmail.com

FAITH BASED CAMP Summer Camp Can-Do 386-445-2344; umscpalmcoast@gmail.com; palmcoastpreschool.com United Methodist Christian School 5200 Belle Terre Parkway, Palm Coast Summer program offered from preschool to 5th grade Monday – Friday 7:30 AM - 6:00 PM Camp Gan Israel of Volusia County 386.672.9300; cgidaytonabeach.com 1079 W. Granada Blvd. Ormond Beach Call for updated summer programs Elementary Summer Day Camp 386-767-5451; wcaeagles.org Warner Christian Academy 1730 South Ridgewood Ave., South Daytona Call for updated summer programs Trinity Lutheran School Summer Camp 386-255-7580 Trinity Lutheran School, 1205 Ridgewood Ave., Holly Hill Call for updated summer programs

GENERAL CAMPS

Stetson’s Music Camps Kirsten Shippert, Coordinator of Summer Music Camps kshipper@stetson.edu 386-822-8962

Florida Elks Youth Camp 386-446-2708; ecretary@elks2709.com For Ages 9-13 Please call for summer camp schedule

Double Reed Workshop June 12-18, 2016 The Double Reed Workshop focuses on the fundamental principles of double reed performance and includes specialized classes in reed-making techniques.

Registration deadline: June 4, 2016 Tuition (resident): $570 Tuition (commuter): $470 Note: Reed making kits must be purchased separately.

Ormond Beach Academy of Martial Arts 386-677-6811 615 S. Yonge St., Ormond Beach Please call for 2015 summer camp schedule.

City Of Daytona Beach Summer Program 386-671-8330; codb.org Midtown Cultural and Education Center 925 George Engram Blvd., Daytona Beach Ortona Playground 206 North Halifax Ave., Daytona Beach Please call for summer camp schedule

Vacation Bible School 386-255-2588; centralbc.org Central Baptist Church 142 Fairview Ave., Daytona Beach Call for updated summer programs

City of South Daytona Summer Camp 386- 322-3070; ievans@southdaytona.org; southdaytona.org Piggotte Community Center, 504 Big Tree Rd. 7:30 AM – 5:30 PM James Park, 1700 James St., South Daytona

Vacation Bible School 386-441-0300; Ormondbeachpc.org Ormond Beach Presbyterian Church 105 Amsden Road, Ormond Beach Call for updated summer programs

Flagler County Youth Center Summer Camp 386-437-7540, ext. 5101 Flagler County Youth Center 5510 East State Road 100, Palm Coast Call for updated summer program schedule

Central Baptist Camp 386-255-2588 45801 Central Camp Road, DeLand Faith Based Youth and Kids Camp by age group.

Call for updated summer program schedule.

Summer Resident Camp at Winona 386-985-4544; campwinona@vfymca.org campwinona.org 898 Camp Winona Road, Deleon Springs YMCA Camp Winona’s rates are based on a tier system.

You may register for multiple sessions. All spaces are on a first come, first serve basis. Please call or visit our website for complete camp dates, fees and schedules.

GENERAL CAMPS Kid City USA 5 to 12 Years Old 6:30 am - 6:30 pm $130 a week Join Kid City USA for an interactive, fun-filled Summer Camp Program.

A place “Where Kids Can BEE Kids”. We will spend the summer exploring, learning and growing with hands-on activities at each of our beautiful Central Florida locations.

We will travel on exciting field trips to the zoo, the movies, Orlando Science Center, Sea World, the Crayola Experience, bowling, and many more! Stop by and tour our facilities or visit us online at www.KidCityUSA.com Spaces are limited, reserve your spot today!

Port Orange : 3911 S. Nova Road (386) 763-2002 License #C07VO0111 Ormond Beach: 362 Hand Avenue ( 386) 673-2339 License #C07VO0021

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Free Voluntary Pre-Kindergarten 386-323-2400 Early Learning Coalition of Flagler/Volusia Ages 4; Program available during Summer & School year

Flagler County Schools Summer Camp 386-446-6717; fti.flaglerschools.com Call for updated summer program schedule Palm Coast Parks & Recreation Summer Camps 386-986-2323 parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Community Center 305 Palm Coast Parkway NE, Palm Coast, FL 32137 Call for updated summer program schedule Kiss-N-Go Early Drop Off 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Community Center 305 Palm Coast Parkway NE, Palm Coast, FL 32137 Monday-Friday, June 13 - July 29, 2016 7:30 a.m. - 9:00 a.m.

Grades: K - 8 $10 week Fun in the Sun Summer Camp 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Community Center Monday-Friday, June 13 - July 29, 2016 305 Palm Coast Parkway NE, Palm Coast, FL 32137 9 am - 4:30 pm Grades: K - 8 $75 week After-Hours Camp Pick Up 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Community Center 305 Palm Coast Parkway NE, Palm Coast, FL 32137 Monday-Friday, June 9 - August 8 4:30 - 6 pm Grades: K - 8 $10 week

Clarinet Clinic June 12-18, 2016 The Clarinet Clinic focuses on the fundamental principles of clarinet performance and is open to students entering grades 7-12.

Tuition (resident): $595 (includes instruction, t-shirt, room and board) Tuition (commuter): $495 (includes instruction, t-shirt, lunches and dinners) Lynn Musco, professor of music lmusco@stetson.edu Vocal Camp July 5-9, 2016 The five-day camp is open to singers who have completed 9th, 10th, 11th, or 12th grade Instruction will focus on the core fundamentals of singing and musical expression, including private voice lessons and a variety of theatrical and ensemble performance opportunities.

Registration deadline: June 17, 2016 Tuition (resident): $475 (includes t-shirt, room and board, choral music and private lesson fee) Tuition (commuter): $400 (includes t-shirt, choral music, private lesson fees, lunches and dinners) Andrew Larson alarson@stetson.edu Phone: 386-822-8971 Flute Workshop July 12-16, 2016 The 22nd annual Flute Workshop will focus on building performance and musicianship skills and is open to students entering grades 7-12.

Registration deadline: June 20, 2016 Tuition (resident): $495 (includes instruction, room and board, and t-shirt) Tuition (commuter): $405 (includes instruction, lunches and dinners, and t-shirt) Tammy Phillips, Workshop Coordinator tkphilli@stetson.edu (386) 822-8978 Saxophone Workshop June 27-July 2, 2016 The Saxophone Workshop focuses on playing techniques, jazz chamber and Florida Bandmasters Association allstate audition music.

Registration deadline: May 31, 2016 Tuition (resident): $550 (includes t-shirt, room and board) Tuition (commuter): $450 (includes t-shirt, lunches and dinners) Dan Ferri, Workshop Coordinator dferri@stetson.edu

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OUTDOOR-ADVENTURE CAMPS S.E.A. Camp I; S.E.A. Camp II; T.E.E.N. Camp S.E.A Camp I & II: Our campers in S.E.A. Camp I & II can expect to learn all about the different animals we have here at Marineland including our dolphins, sea turtles, sharks, and a variety of marine fish. All of our activities both in and out of the classroom are made to be fun and educational for our campers. Both age groups can look forward to heading down to the beach, walking on nature trails in the River to Sea preserve, and feeding large fish in our lagoon! All locations that are offsite are within walking distance of Marineland. Then to give the campers a chance to cool off from the summer heat, we have classroom activities and tours through our aquarium.

T.E.E.N. Camp: The T.E.E.N. Camp takes the next step for teens who are interested in pursuing marine science as a career. We give our campers a broad view of several different avenues they can take in the future. From research, to animal care, and animal training. The activities are based around college lab activities which gives them a head start in learning how to use some of the equipment and concepts they can expect to see if they choose to major in a related field. Our teen campers will also have a chance to meet staff members such as our animal trainers, aquarists, and our curator of marine mammals to learn more about what they do on a day to day basis and have the chance to ask questions about their career and how they got to where they are today.

Ages: S.E.A. Camp I: Ages 7-9 S.E.A. Camp II: Ages 10-12 T.E.E.N. Camp: Ages 13-17 Hours/Days: June 13th – August 12th; 1 week sessions: Monday – Friday, 8:30AM-3:00PM (Friday will be a half day) Cost: $550/camper Website: www.marineland.net Email: Education@marineland.net Phone: 904-471-1111 x. 103 Marcody Ranch Summer Horse Camp 386-424-0123; hope@marcody.com; marcody.com Marcody Ranch 3804 Pioneer Trail, New Smyrna Beach Sessions run Monday through Friday for weekly sessions from 9:00 AM-3:00 PM (extended care available). $325 per Week; 10% discount for siblings.

Marine Discovery Center Summer Adventure Camps 386-428-4828; marinediscoverycenter.org Marine Discovery Center 520 Barracuda Blvd., New Smyrna Beach Ages 4-16 (Weekly Camps by Topic & Ages) 8:30 AM-3:00 PM Loggerhead Camps; Ages 4-8, beginning week of June 13, $200 per week

OUTDOOR-ADVENTURE CAMPS

SPORTS

Gnarly Charley Surf Series 386-690-SURF; gnarlycharley@hotmail.com; gnarlycharleysurfseries.com

Golf Camp 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Parks & Recreation Learn the game of golf during these four (4) fun filled days of short game, full swing, putting, golf etiquette, sportsmanship, and friendly competition. Open to all skill levels. Lunch, snacks, & drinks included. Family discounts available.

Pre-registration required.

Call for updated summer program schedule

Summer Overnight Surf Camps New Smyrna Beach June 13th-17th / July 11th-15th Cost: $850 Summer Day Surf Camps New Smyrna Beach – July 18th – 22nd 9am – 2pm Cost $400 Surfari Surf Camps 386-299-3606; surfarisurfschool.com Surfari Surf Schools 52 West Bovard Ave., Ormond Beach Times: 9:00 AM – 12:30 PM (daily) Kids Surf Camp: $225/person Teens Surf Camp: $225/person Volusia County Junior Lifeguard Program Ages 9-15 386-547-0246 jrlifegaurd@volusia.org Volusia County Headquarters 515 South Atlantic Ave., Daytona Beach Weekly Camps Monday-Friday; 9:00 AM-2:00 PM

SPECIALTY CAMPS CSI Camp 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Parks & Recreation Frieda Zamba Swimming Pool 339 Parkview Drive, Palm Coast Join the Crime Scene Investigation (CSI) team as we go in depth to learn the techniques used to identify and process the clues of a crime week will include a tour of the County jail and more.

Monday-Friday, 8:30 - 11:30 am Grades: 3 – 6 Call for updated summer program schedule Stay-N-Play Camp 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Parks & Recreation Frieda Zamba Swimming Pool 339 Parkview Drive, Palm Coast Stay and play with us after your fun day at one of the City's Specialty Camps! Campers will play games, watch movies, swim, play board games and enjoy the on-site playground.

Grades: K - 8 Times: 11:30 am - 5:30 pm YMCA Summer Day Camp 6 locations to serve the Volusia / Flagler County areas over the 10-week summer break vfymca.org Kinder camp for ages 5-12; Day Camp for age’s 5 – 12 Camp Discovery for ages 12 – 15 Teen Leadership Camp for ages 12 -15

Leatherback Camps; Ages 7-10, beginning week of June 27, $215 per week

YMCA Locations Deland Family YMCA, 761 E. Int’l Speedway Blvd., Deland; 386-736-6000

Mangrove Maniac Camps; Ages 9-12, beginning week of July 25, $225 per week

Four Townes Family YMCA, 280 Wolf Pack Run, Deltona; 386-532-9622

Guy Harvey Fishing Camp; Ages 10-14, beginning week of June 13, $230 per week Aquatic Adventures Camp; Ages 10-14, beginning week of July 27, $315 per week SCUBA Camp; Ages 10-118; week of August 1 $315 per week Lagoony Camp; Ages 10-14; week of July 6 $315 per week

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Southeast Volusia Family YMCA 148 W. Turgot Ave., Edgewater; 386-409-9622 Ormond Beach Family YMCA 500 Sterthaus Drive, Ormond Beach; 386-673-9622 Port Orange Family YMCA, 4701 City Center Parkway, Port Orange; 386-760-9622 Holly Hill Family YMCA, 1046 Daytona Ave.; 386-253-5675

Tennis Camp 386-986-2323; parksandrecreation@palmcoastgov.com Palm Coast Parks & Recreation Learn the game of tennis. Campers will focus on stroke fundamentals, hand–eye coordination, balance, footwork and match play. Open to all abilities. Campers will need to provide the following: water bottle, towel, hat, lunch, snacks, & drinks. Family discount is available.

Pre-registration required.

Call for updated summer program schedule City of Ormond Sports Clinics 386-676-3250; ormondbeach.org Department of Leisure Services 399 North US1, Ormond Beach A variety of clinics are offered during summer scheduling.

Call for updated summer program schedule.

Halifax Rowing Association 386-248-0502; halifaxrowing.org Youth Summer Rowing 201 City Island Pkwy. (across from Ballpark), Daytona Beach Ages 12-18 Monday-Friday, 8:00 AM – 10:00AM Rowing instruction on and off the water- no experience needed.

Halifax Youth Sailing FUN 238-SAIL or 386-238-7245 4993 South Peninsula Drive, Ponce Inlet, FL 32127 Learn To Sail! Halifax Youth Sailing is dedicated to teaching your kids to sail. Sailing is fun but also requires proper training since it involves water, speed, and moving structures. Our Instructors are US Sailing Certified to teach sailing safely to all ages.

Gymnastics 386-944-4444; gymskyhigh.com Sky high Gym 1280 Hand Ave., Ormond Beach All Ages; June & July Programs Please call for summer camp schedule Stetson's Tennis Camp/DeLand Campus Christophe Noblet, Camp Director/Associate Head Coach 386-822-8145 or cnoblet@stetson.edu Daily instruction from Stetson University tennis coaching staff and collegiate tennis players Five to six hours of daily instruction with 24 hour supervision (for overnight campus only) and a low camper-to-staff ratio Every camper receives a Stetson University Tennis Camp tshirt. Safe, healthy, and fun environment Half-Day - Ages: 6 to 8 years old Days/Time: Monday through Friday from 9:00 am to 12:00 pm Cost: $175 (lunch not provided) Full-Day - Ages: 9 to 18 years old Days/Time: Monday through Thursday from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm, Friday from 9:00 am to 12:00 pm Cost: $295 (lunch included) Overnight - Ages: 9 to 18 years old Days/Time: Sunday at 5:00 pm to Friday at 12:00 pm Cost $550 (all meals and housing included)

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feature 7. Display a "you are here" image of our place in the galaxy 8. Subscribe to National Geographic Kids or National Geographic Little Kids magazine 9. Watch the documentary, Babies, with the whole family 10. Take a trip to the closest science museum and visit the planetarium 11. Read Horton Hears A Who and The Lorax by Dr. Seuss out loud every year on Earth Day

Books and Toys For Global Awareness:

Raising Global Citizens:

11 Ways To Remind Kids We All Share Planet Earth

by Christina Katz

Every April 22nd all over the globe, we celebrate Earth Day. But this Earth Day, before you remind your kids about the importance of conservation, planting trees, and recycling, why not remind them of a few profound truths about what it means to be a human being living on planet earth. If you can instill a healthy amount of awe in your kids about living on earth, you likely won't have to work as hard to get them to consume less, dig in the dirt more, and sort their trash.

According to worldometers.info, there are over seven billion people on the planet already and that number is expected to grow to nine billion by 2042. Think about it.

Right now and on any given day, we are part of this vast collection of humanity sharing a tiny globe that orbits the sun at a rate of about 30 kilometers per second (or eighteen and a half miles per second). As we zoom around the sun, the planet that we are standing on is constantly spinning on its axis, one full turn per day.

If this information doesn't get your kids' minds spinning about the daily scientific miracle of life on earth, I don't know what will. But how often do parents stop and consider our place in the larger scheme of things? Considering the length of our to-do lists, probably not often enough. So these reminders are not just for kids, they are for the benefit of the whole family.

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healthy appreciation for planet earth in the hustle and bustle of our busy lives: we can slow down, pay attention to the miracle that is our life on earth, and raise our family's consciousness about our humble place in the vast scheme of things.

You might think, “But I don't want my child to feel inconsequential and ove”whelmed." Don't worry. Learning about the world and our place in the universe has an inspiring affect on kids, and teaching them will likely inspire you to want to learn more too.

Ready to remind your family that we all share planet earth? It's easier than you might think. Weave a glimpse of the universe into your home décor. Bring some globally minded toys to your kid's bedroom. Let kids see for themselves that although we all matter, no one person is the center of the universe. Here's how: 1. Display a large flat map of the world prominently in your home 2. Keep a globe within reach 3. Hang a mobile of the solar system 4. Get a telescope or visit an observatory 5. Take virtual trips around the globe together using Google Earth 6. Watch A&E Television Network's, Spaceship Earth as a family

National Geographic Kids, First Big Book Of Space

by Catherine D. Hughes and David A. Aguilar

I Never Forget A Face Matching Game with children's faces from around the world by Eeboo

48-piece Solar System Floor Puzzle

by Melissa and Doug

If The World Were A Village, A Book About The World's People

by David J. Smith, Illustrated by Shelaugh Armstrong

Children Just Like Me, A Unique Celebration Of Children Around The World

by Anabel and Barnabas Kindersley

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Parents’ Survival Guide to Summer Camp Anxiety

by Laura Reagan-Porras

Summer shorts and tees purchased, washed and folded neatly in the duffle bag. Bug spray, cell phone charger and the one allowable stuffed animal all packed. Immunization card submitted.

Survival snacks tucked away. We were ready for her first week away from home on her own. My daughter was ten years old and headed to summer pre-teen church camp. We were pulling into the parking lot to meet the van when suddenly a speeding driver hit my left driver door trying to pass us, obviously missing my blinker signal when I was turning left into the church parking lot. The police were called. Reports were taken but no one was hurt even though I was stunned.

I didn’t get to give her the proper good-bye I had hoped for. I didn’t get to impart a week’s worth of wisdom about how girls could triangulate, form clicks and leave somebody out. I didn’t get to emphasize that even though there was limited cell phone contact that I would write her every day on the camp email.

We had been so busy gathering everything on her “to pack” list and evaluating the “don’t bring” list that I really hadn’t taken care of the emotional part, the potential separation anxiety, admittedly now, my separation anxiety. My daughter was a little worried about me with the accident but when I told her I was fine, she gathered her sleeping bag, pillows and duffle bag, hugged me and headed happily to the van bound for her summer adventure.

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Reflecting later, I saw the separation anxiety was all mine. She had a wonderful time, even though there was a “mean girl” incident or two. She learned to stand up for herself or let go of issues that were not that important to her (a valuable life lesson). When she saw other kids getting email and she didn’t have any the first two days, she quickly figured out the system and started corresponding with me. I had the camp’s emergency contact numbers if there were any real need to communicate quickly with her. All was truly well, whether I felt like it or not.

As school teachers, nurses at doctor’s offices or summer camp counselors will tell you, most often the parents are the source of anxiety, not the kids themselves. Separation anxiety in the first year of a baby’s life and then later as preschoolers is a normal part of childhood development. I confess, separation anxiety about a ten year old off to summer camp is all about the parent. In hopes of helping anxious mom’s everywhere and in a therapeutic desire to share what I know now and proverbially wish someone would have shared with me then, here are some helpful tips, mom to mom.

Prepare an emergency communication plan.

Be careful not to alarm your child.

Simply tell her that you have emergency numbers for the camp and you will contact her if you need to for an emergency.

Talk about communication expectations.

Review the camps policies. Most camps allow family email. Some don’t allow cell phones or only allow them at specified times. Tell her you will be happy to receive any email and you will likely email her but tell her also that you want her to have a good time and understand that she may get busy.

Trust your parenting.

Communicate confidence about your child’s ability to solve social problems. You have raised a respectful child. Trust that your parenting is being internalized. Trust that any social lessons she is learning will help prepare her for the real world. For example, working with people we don’t like and finding a way to get along is a valuable life skill at any age.

Make your own plans.

Be sure to plan and execute a plan to have some adult fun while your child is away. This is a great time to do things you don’t normally get to do when there is a heavier family schedule. It is also a great time while one child is away to focus special attention on another child or children.

Give a positive good bye message.

Short loving good byes are best. Exude confidence and tell your child to have a good time.

Finally, don’t worry mom. You can enjoy summer camp time too!

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events

April 2016 We need to hear from you.

Our magazines list local events for families.

To submit an event, send your information by the 10th of the preceding month to:

charlie@bradymediainc.com or mail to: 515 Palm Coast Pwy., SW, Ste. 5 Palm Coast, FL 32137

Flagler County Events APR 2, 9, 16,23,30 Flagler Beach Farmers Market 7:30AM – 1PM Enjoy local harvest! Visit our market and spend the day in beautiful Flagler Beach. We have many delicious restaurants, unique shops, accommodations and businesses for you to enjoy!

Rain or shine! South 2nd Street, Flagler Beach.

More info visit flaglerbeachfarmersmarket.com.

APR 5 FREE Wee-People Craft Time 10:30AM - 11:30AM Free Craft Time for kids sponsored by Wild Rabbit Cafe. Participants will be using vegetables and non-toxic paint to create their masterpiece.

Recommended for kids ages 2-6.

Adult must accompany child(ren) at all times.

Space is limited; advanced registration at the cafe or online is recommended.

386-864-2240 or visit www.WildRabbitCafe.com

APR 8, 9 Rock'n Ribfest 4PM - 10PM Rock’n Ribfest is the perfect ingredient to make this year’s Flagler County Fair an historic event.

Flagler Broadcasting takes over the rodeo arena and brings in a major concert stage, lights, sound, a national headliner, powerful regional bands, fireworks, food & beer! Live Music!

Saturday, BIG Fireworks show 9:45pm!

For up to date information on this event visit www.flaglerbroadcasting.com/events/event/roc kn-rib-fest/.

APR 12 Flagler Beach Libraray Presents RENNY ROKER AND ANJALI TOMERLIN 10:30 AM- 11:30AM Two Book Signings for Local Charities. A percentage of sales will be donated to purchaser's choice of their local charity.(of particular note: Anjali Tomerlin is 9yrs old - this is her first published book. Reny Roker is an accomplished actor and philanthropist. Both are both Flagler County residents.

Flagler Beach Library, 315 7th Street S., Flagler Beach, FL 32136 For more information please call 386-255-3965 APR 15 Movie in the Park 8PM - 10PM Enjoy a family-friendly movie - Paddington Bear - free of charge, on a big screen in Central Park!

Bring blankets, bug spray, lawn chairs and plan to spend a great evening together with friends and family. Refreshments will be available.

Central Park in Town Center, 975 Central Avenue, Palm Coast.

For more information visit http://www.palmcoastgov.com/locations/central-park APR 18 Flagler Sheriff’s PAL Hot Pursuit 5K & Block Party 6:30PM European Village, 101 Palm Harbor Pkwy., Palm Coast. Part of the Palm Coast Running Series.

Register at www.redpointerrunning.com/flagler-sheriffs-pal-hot-pursuit-5k.php.

APR 6-10 Flagler County Fair & Youth Show Come join us for lots of rides, games, food, fun, shows, 4H and FFA exhibits, livestock shows and auction. Enter to win in the Home and Family Division (canning, baking, sewing, quilting) Art Division and Shoe Box Floats.

More info and to view schedule, visit http://www.flaglercountyfair.com.

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APR 23 Insane Inflatables 8AM - 1PM Jump for fun at this crazy fun event.

Central Park in Town Center, 975 Central Avenue, Palm Coast.

For more information, all 386-986-2323.

APR 16 - 24 Free Entrance Days in the National Parks The National Park Service turns 100 years old in 2016 and we want everyone to join the party!

On 16 days in '16, all National Park Service sites that charge an entrance fee will offer free admission to everyone. Visit www.nps.gov for park locations and information.

APR 25 Family Movie Night 6PM - 7:30PM When Shaun decides to take the day off and have some fun, he gets a little more action than he bargained for. A mix up with the Farmer, a caravan and a very steep hill lead them all to the Big City, and it's up to Shaun and the flock to return everyone safely to the green grass of home.

Palm Coast Library, 2500 Palm Coast Parkway NW Palm Coast APR 29, 30 Matanzas High School Pirate Theatre Presents; The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee Matanzas High School Pirate Theatre Presents The Tony Award winning musical, The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee, April 29th and 30th at 7:00pm in the Matanzas High School Pirate Theatre, 3535 Old Kings Road N, Palm Coast. $10.00 general admission. Please contact Nyal Micah Laird at LairdN@flaglerschools.com for more details.

APR 30 Flagler Sheriff's PAL Hot Pursuit 5K 6PM - 10PM The Flagler County Sheriff's Office proudly hosts this fun 5K event. European Village, 101 Palm Harbor Pkwy, Palm Coast. For more information, please visit ww.flaglersheriffspal.org.

APR 30 Annual 5K Against Domestic Violence and Bullying 7AM - 11AM Our mission and goal for our annual 5K run is to support and empower those affected by domestic violence and bullying and to engage the community in creating social change. All proceeds will benefit our survivors in our shelters for both men and women of supplying more beds and continuing our programs.

Precious Hearts Foundation is a 501c3 nonprofit faith based/ driven organization in the community, enhancing community outreach and cooperation, linking systems together to prevent domestic violence, bullying and homelessness. We believe that ALL lives are a gift from God and we endeavor to assist anyone needing help without prejudice of race, color, creed, religion, age, sexual preference or gender. Central Park in Town Center, 975 Central Avenue, Palm Coast. For more information, please visit www.preciousheartsfoundation.org.

APR 30 Healthy Kids Day at your YMCA Summer is the time for kids to get up, get out and grow. But for some kids, exposure to activities that stimulate the body and mind ends with the school year. In fact, research shows that kids are prone to gain weight and fall behind in studies. On April 30th, the Y will celebrate Healthy Kids Day®, our national initiative to improve the health and well-being of kids.

Visit www.ymca.net/healthy-kids-day for more information.

events Volusia County Events

APR 1, 2, 3 News-Journal's Spring Home Show 10AM - 4PM The News-Journal's 26th Annual Spring Home Show allows attendees to experience all the latest in home renovation, decor and remodeling with a special focus on Yard & Garden renovations with over 300 vendors!

Daytona Beach Ocean Center Visit www.news-journalevents.com APR 1, 15 Baby Chicks Support Group 9:30AM - 10AM This is a FREE 30-minute group for expecting moms and new babies and parents. Baby Chicks is a support group intended to help new moms come together, discuss relatable topics and meet other like moms in the community. Coffee and donuts are provided. Support Group hosted by GrassRoots Interactive Center and Halifax Health. www.grassrootsinteractivecenter.com APR 2, 3 DeLand Outdoor Art Festival Celebrate the arts at the 51st Annual DeLand Outdoor Arts Festival.

Earl Brown Park 750 South Alabama Avenue, DeLand APR 2 Home Depot FREE Kids Workshops 9AM - 12PM Build A Butterfly House, Join our hands-on workshop with your child and build a butterfly house to welcome some fluttering insect friends after a long winter. After the butterfly house is built, your child can decorate their project with paint.

Visit www.workshops.homedepot.com.

APR 2, 9, 16, 23 Daytona Beach Downtown Farmers’ Market 7AM - 1PM Located just across the river from the shops, restaurants, attractions and services along scenic Beach Street.

APR 2 FUTURES Foundation Caribbean Party Fundraiser This event will provide a wonderful opportunity to be one of the first to experience the Rolex 24 AT DAYTONA Lounge and enjoy gourmet island cuisine by Americrown Catering, and visit with friends interested in promoting and achieving educational excellence here in Volusia County. Your participation will support FUTURES Foundation for Volusia County Schools. This will be a truly special evening and we hope you will join us.

801 West International Speedway Boulevard Daytona Beach http://www.futuresvolusia.org/

APR 9, 10 Richard Petty Driving Experience 1801 West International Speedway Boulevard Daytona Beach. Visit http://www.daytonabeach.com/listings/richard-petty-driving-experience/924/ for more information.

APR 14 Whim Wham Art Studio: Story Art 3:30PM A Super Story Time! A New Story and Awesome Art Project Every Week! 378B W Granada Blvd Ormond Beach. www.whimwhamartstudio.com, APR 2 Halifax Humane Society's Mutt Strutt Sprint to the sand to enjoy the one-time only opportunity to bring your canine companion onto “The World’s Most Famous Beach!” This special occasion is only available to those who join Halifax Humane Society at the 6th Annual Mutt Strutt 5K. Daytona Beach Bandshell.

Call 386-274-4703 APR 3 Daytona Ice Arena Family Skate 2PM - 4PM Escape the Florida heat and stay cool at the Daytona Ice Arena! Ice skating is a fun way to stay cool, fit and have fun! We offer daily ice skating sessions. Admission and skate rental fees will apply. 2400 S. Ridgewood Ave, Suite 63D South Daytona. Call 386-256-3963.

APR 7 Daytona Tortugas at The Jack!

7:05PM Play Ball! Enjoy the new Daytona Tortugas baseball season April through September at historic Jackie Robinson Ballpark on City Island and get a stunning panoramic view of the Intracoastal Waterway, the beachside and historic downtown Daytona Beach. Plan for some high energy fun and fireworks after select shows throughout the summer! Jackie Robinson Ballpark. 105 East Orange Avenue Daytona Beach.

Visit http://www.milb.com/index.jsp?sid=t450 for schedules.

APR 7, 14, 21, 28 Ormond Beach Farmer's Market 8AM - 1PM The Market is located at 22 S. Beach St. (City Hall Plaza), Ormond Beach, FL 32174 and features Fresh Produce, Baked Goods, Honey, Flowers , Thai Cuisine, Meat, Jewelry, Art, Plants, Prepared Food and more from a select group of farmers and vendors.

APR 9 Blue Spring State Park: Junior Ranger Program 10AM - 2PM The Junior Ranger Program provides a great opportunity for children visiting the park to learn about animals, plants, and history.

Children will enjoy the adventures of a Junior Ranger and earning a Junior Ranger badge. It's fun, rewarding, and free.

2100 W. French Avenue, Orange City.

For more information call 386-755-3663.

APR 16 Camp "U"Nique 10AM - 3PM Come join U Niquely U and Bully Me Now for anti-bully, self defense, self esteem, self confidence, empathy and bystanders to bullying training. For more details or to register, please visit our website at www.campunique.org.

Remember # aSTOPtobullyingSTARTSwithU .

Calvary Christian Center.

APR 16 - 24 Free Entrance Days in the National Parks The National Park Service turns 100 years old in 2016 and we want everyone to join the party!

On 16 days in '16, all National Park Service sites that charge an entrance fee will offer free admission to everyone. Visit www.nps.gov for park locations and information.

APR 21 Marine Science Center: Turtle Tots 12PM Games, Songs, and Stories, for Ages 2-5, accompanied by an adult. Meets monthlyProgram included with general admission. Call to pre-register, Class size limited to 12 children.

Marine Science Center, 100 Lighthouse Drive, Ponce Inlet. Visit www.marinesciencecenter.com or call 386-304-5545.

APR 22 Ponce de Leon Inlet Lighthouse Climb to the Moon All Day Climb to the Moon at Florida's tallest lighthouse!

Treat yourself, significant other, family, and friends to breathtaking views of the Atlantic Ocean, World's Most Famous Beach, Ponce Inlet, and coastal wetlands under the golden glow of the setting sun.

4931 S Peninsula Dr, Ponce Inlet www.lighthouselocker.org or call 386-761-1821 APR 22 Stroller Strides- Port Orange Pavilion 9AM - 10AM Stroller Strides® is a stroller-based fitness program designed for moms with little ones. Each 60-minute, total body workout incorporates power walking, strength, toning, songs and activities. Call The Baby Shoppe for class availability and pricing. 386-256-4998 APR 30 Healthy Kids Day at your YMCA On April 30th, the Y will celebrate Healthy Kids Day®, our national initiative to improve the health and well-being of kids.

Visit www.ymca.net/healthy-kids-day for more information.

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Fort Mountain Fun:

A Family Wilderness Adventure in the Chattahoochee National Forest

by Kimberly Baker

If you’re looking for a relaxing, outdoorsy getaway with plenty of awesome sight-seeing and fun for the whole family, look no further.

The 749,268-acre Chattahoochee National Forest in northern Georgia is the place to go.

This beautiful forest spanning northern Georgia with wondrous rolling mountains and brilliant colored foliage will keep your family intrigued for days. The Cohutta Wilderness area within the forest offers recreation for the whole family and accommodations for every family's style.

Accommodations for every style If you like roughin’ it, you’ll love camping at Fort Mountain State Park. This modern campground resides at the top of the 2,800foot high Fort Mountain. Amenities include electricity, water, clean shower houses with flush toilets, gravel sites with scenic views, and more. The nearby Amicalola Falls State Park, with a smaller campground, offers similar amenities.

If camping isn’t your style, but you’d still like a taste of wilderness living, Fort Mountain and Amicalola Falls State Parks offer spacious cottages in a variety of scenic settings.

Cottages are available with one to three bedrooms and include baths. Cabins can also be found in nearby private parks.

Can’t give up the conveniences of modern living? Then try a room with a panoramic view in a lodge nestled in the mountains at Amicalola Falls or atop Fort Mountain. Lodges 36 • April 2016

offer casual dining and other hotel services.

Plenty of wilderness fun and adventures Every activity in the Chattahoochee Forest offers awe-inspiring views creating a new appreciation for nature. Fort Mountain offers several miles of hiking trails from short ½-mile nature trails to an 8-mile trek for more experienced hikers. Wind through the mountainous forest, across streams, along a small waterfall, up to a stone lookout tower, and even around the mountainside along steep, deep drops, where you’ll find overlooks for breathtaking views. Kids will get a kick out of listening for the commonly-heard Barred Owl, easily distinguished by its “Who cooks for you?” call.

There is also a small mountain trail leading to an 855-foot-long rock wall from which Fort Mountain derived its name. The mysterious wall is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. There are several theories why ancient Indians built it; the most prevalent that it was built for ancient ceremonies.

For the adventurous family, horse rentals are available for 1-hour trail rides or longer excursions. Bike rentals and helmets are also available for children and adults for splendoring in Fort Mountain’s 32 miles of mountain biking trails.

When your family’s ready for some relaxation, a clear mountaintop lake offers fishing, boat rentals, swimming, and a sandy beach.

Enjoy the magnificent Amicalola Falls only

a scenic hour’s drive away. Amicalola’s tiered, 729-foot falls are the tallest east of the Mississippi River and can be viewed from both above and below. While you’re there, Amicalola Falls State Park offers 12 miles of scenic hiking trails including an 8-mile trail that leads to the southern end of the Appalachian Trail.

Kids will also enjoy the park office with its live exhibits and nature displays. The park offers special events, as well as fun and educational weekend nature programs.

At a nearby resort, take your family on a horse drawn carriage or wagon ride. Dinner wagons are available as well.

Although it isn’t likely here, if your family does begin to crave civilization, cruise down Fort Mountain to Chatsworth, and visit the Chief Vann House, a state historic site. This mansion was the first brick home within the Cherokee Nation and is decorated with hand carvings.

Also not far away is the New Echota Cherokee Capital Site, which houses several original and reconstructed buildings from the historical Cherokee capital. New Echota was once the headquarters of the Cherokee Indian Nation that covered a large region including northern Georgia.

These are only some of the things you can see and do in the Chattahoochee National Forest and surrounding area. So pack your bags, grab your kids, and go!

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National Park Week

This is the Perfect Time of Year to Discover a National Park Each spring, the National Park Service and the National Park Foundation invite everyone to celebrate National Park Week.

This year, from April 16 through 24 YOU are invited to celebrate all that America’s more than 400 national parks have to offer with the theme “National Park Week: Go Wild!” From diverse wildlife and iconic landscapes to vibrant culture and rich history, our National Park System has something for everyone.

Our national parks are kicking off National Park Week with fee-free entrance days on Saturday, April 16 and Sunday, April 17!

So, whether it is your first trip, or one of many memorable park experiences, there couldn’t be a better time to get out and explore!

Whether you are visiting, volunteering or interested in sharing your experience with the world, below you will find helpful resources for making your National Park Week a memorable one.

Whether you’re a hiker, a historian, a romantic, a family with kids, a crowd-lover or someone seeking solitude, the National Park Foundation’s FREE Owner’s Guide series is jam-packed with ideas to help you plan your next national park adventure!

Visit nationalparks.org and download your free copy.

NATIONAL PRESERVE Big Cypress, Ochopee, FL The freshwaters of the Big Cypress Swamp, essential to the health of the neighboring Everglades, support the rich marine estuaries along Florida's southwest coast. Protecting over 729,000 acres of this vast swamp, Big Cypress National Preserve contains a mixture of tropical and temperate plant communities that are home to a diversity of wildlife, including the elusive Florida panther.

NATIONAL PARK Biscayne, Miami, Key Biscayne & Homestead, FL Within sight of downtown Miami, yet worlds away, Biscayne protects a rare combination of aquamarine waters, emerald islands, and fish-bejeweled coral reefs. Here too is evidence of 10,000 years of human history, from pirates and shipwrecks to pineapple farmers and presidents. Outdoors enthusiasts can boat, snorkel, camp, watch wildlife…or simply relax in a rocking chair gazing out over the bay.

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NATIONAL MONUMENT Castillo De San Marcos, St. Augustine, FL A monument not only of stone and mortar but of human determination and endurance, the Castillo de San Marcos symbolizes the clash between cultures which ultimately resulted in our uniquely unified nation. Still resonant with the struggles of an earlier time, these original walls provide tangible evidence of America’s grim but remarkable history.

NATIONAL MEMORIAL De Soto, Bradenton, FL In May 1539, Conquistador Hernando de Soto’s army of soldiers, hired mercenaries, craftsmen and clergy made landfall in Tampa Bay. They were met with fierce resistance of indigenous people protecting their homelands. De Soto’s quest for glory and gold would be a four year, four thousand mile odyssey of intrigue, warfare, disease, and discovery that would form the history of the United States.

NATIONAL MONUMENT, St. Augustine, FL Coastal Florida was a major field of conflict as European nations fought for control in the New World. As part of this struggle, Fort Matanzas guarded St. Augustine’s southern river approach. The colonial wars are over, but the monument is still protecting— not just the historic fort, but also the wild barrier island and the plants and animals who survive there amidst a sea of modern development.

NATIONAL SEASHORE, Gulf Islands, Gulf Breeze, Florida and Ocean Springs, Mississippi, FL, MS Millions of visitors are drawn to the islands in the northern Gulf of Mexico for the white sandy beaches, the aquamarine waters, a boat ride, a camping spot, a tour of an old fort, or a place to fish.

CULTURAL HERITAGE CORRIDOR, Gullah/Geechee, FL, GA, NC, SC Designated by Congress in 2006, the Gullah Geechee Cultural Heritage Corridor extends from Wilmington, North Carolina in the north to Jacksonville, Florida in the south. It is home to one of America's most unique cultures, a tradition first shaped by captive Africans brought to the southern United States from West Africa and continued in later generations by their descendents.

NATIONAL PARK Dry Tortugas, Key West, FL Almost 70 miles (113 km) west of Key West lies the remote Dry Tortugas National Park. The 100-square mile park is mostly open water with seven small islands. Accessible only by boat or seaplane, the park is known the world over as the home of magnificent Fort Jefferson, picturesque blue waters, superlative coral reefs and marine life, and the vast assortment of bird life that frequent the area.

NATIONAL PARK, Everglades, Miami, Naples, and Homestead, FL Everglades National Park protects an unparalleled landscape that provides important habitat for numerous rare and endangered species like the manatee, American crocodile, and the elusive Florida panther. An international treasure as well - a World Heritage Site, International Biosphere Reserve, a Wetland of International Importance, and a specially protected areas under the Cartagena Treaty.

NATIONAL SEASHORE Canaveral, Titusville and New Smyrna Beach, FL Since ancient times, this barrier island has provided sanctuary to both people and wildlife. Many threatened animals find refuge here, including sea turtles that nest on its shores. Like Indians and early settlers, you too can find tranquility. Swim in the ocean. Fish in the lagoon. Stroll down a wooded trail. Or reflect on the longest expanse of pristine shore in Florida - the way it used to be.

NATIONAL MEMORIAL, Fort Caroline, the Timucuan Preserve; Jacksonville, FL At the settlement of la Caroline, Join us for National Park Week inFrench settlers struggled for survival in a new world. Many sought religious person at special events and online, freedom in a new land, while others and be sure to share your memories were soldiers or tradesmen starting a with us!

Please visit nationalparks.org. new life. The climactic battles fought here between the French and Spanish marked the first time that European nations fought for control of lands.

ECOLOGICAL & HISTORIC PRESERVE, Timucuan, Jacksonville, FL Visit one of the last unspoiled coastal wetlands on the Atlantic Coast.

Discover 6,000 years of human history and experience the beauty of salt marshes, coastal dunes, and hardwood hammocks. The Timucuan Preserve includes Fort Caroline and Kingsley Plantation.

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JANE’S REEL RATING SYSTEM One Reel – Even the Force can’t save it.

Two Reels – Coulda been a contender Three Reels – Something to talk about.

Four Reels – You want the truth?

Great flick!

Five Reels – Wow! The stuff dreams are made of.

Here’s a sneak peek at what's new in theaters and home entertainment this month. Note that release dates are subject to change.

DANILE TIGER’S NEIGHBORHOOD: DANIEL GOES CAMPING

THE HUNTSMAN: WINTER’S WAR

Not Rated

Rated PG-13 for fantasy action violence and some sensuality Reel Preview:

Reel Review:

Long before the evil Queen Ravenna (Charlize Theron) was thought vanquished by Snow White’s blade, she watched silently as her sister, Freya (Emily Blunt), suffered a heartbreaking betrayal and fled their kingdom. With Freya’s ability to freeze any enemy, the young ice queen has spent decades in a remote wintry palace raising a legion of deadly huntsmen, including Eric (Chris Hemsworth) and warrior Sara (Jessica Chastain), only to find that her prized two defied her one demand: Forever harden your hearts to love. When Freya learns of her sister’s demise, she summons her remaining soldiers to bring the Magic Mirror home to the only sorceress left who can harness its power. But once she discovers Ravenna can be resurrected from its golden depths, the wicked sisters threaten the enchanted land with a dark force. This action-adventure is directed by Cedric Nicolas-Troyan and produced by Joe Roth ("Maleficent").

HIGH STRUNG Rated PG for some thematic elements and mild language Reel Preview: Ruby Adams (Keenan Kampa) is a dancer from the Midwest with a scholarship to one of New York’s toughest performing arts schools.

Johnnie Blackwell (Nicholas Galitzine) is an aspiring British musician, playing for money on subway platforms. Ruby’s world is classical and disciplined; Johnnie’s is improvisational and street smart.

When these two young artists are thrown together, they immediately clash, but neither can deny the sparks that fly, or their shared ambition of trying to make it in the most competitive city in the world. When Ruby’s scholarship is threatened and Johnnie faces deportation, they join forces and enter a contest where winning - or losing - could change their lives forever. With the help of a dynamic dance crew called The SwitchSteps, they prepare to perform in a competition that unites their disparate worlds.

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New on DVD/BLU--RAY

It’s a beautiful night in Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood! Bring your jammies and come along as Daniel Tiger camps outdoors for the first time and experiences everything that makes nighttime special. From twinkling stars and playing with flashlights, to singing "Goodnight Sun," there’s something magical and wondrous about the night!

STAR WARS: THE FORCE AWAKENS Rated PG-13 for sci-fi action violence Reel Review: Thirty years following the battle of Endor, the Resistance is still hard at work rebuilding the galaxy from the ashes of the Empire.

Remnants of the Empire, namely the First Order, threaten to unbalance the fragile peace in the galaxy. Echoes of the past overshadow the events in the present as two young people (Daisy Ridley and John Boyega) begin a journey that will take them to the far reaches of the galaxy looking for answers to the ongoing conflict between the light and Dark Side of the Force.

Tons of bonus features!

POWER RANGERS WILD FORCE: THE COMPLETE SERIES Not Rated Reel Review: An ancient evil has awakened from a time long forgotten. The only hope for the world is the floating island in the sky known as the Animarium -- the remains of an ancient kingdom destroyed by the Orgs 3,000 years ago. Living on the Animarium, giant beasts, known as Wild Zords, recruit five young heroes from the modern world and grant them the power to become Power Rangers. To aid the Power Rangers in their battle to save the Earth from the evil Orgs, the Wild Zords descend from their habitat in the sky when the Rangers need them the most.

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April 19 Girls’ Book Club 4:30 – 5:30 Ages 8 - 11 Members read the same book and meet once a month for a lively discussion and book related snack and activity.

Limited to 12 members.

Club is currently FULL. Contact Children’s Dept. about wait list.

Flagler County Library April Children’s Activities April 2 Game Day 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM Ages 6+ Yu-Gi-Oh! and other card or board games.

Bring your own Yu-Gi-Oh! deck.

April 6 Family Story Class 10:00 – 11:00 AM Ages 6 and under Stories, songs, fingerplays and nursery rhymes – promotes early literacy skills.

Adult participation required.

Theme: Bugs

April 13 PAWS to Read 4–6 PM Ages 4–8 Beginning readers can practice their new skills by reading to a real dog. Builds confidence and makes reading fun.

First come, first served.

April 13 Family Story Class 10:00 – 11:00 AM Ages 6 and under Stories, songs, fingerplays and nursery rhymes – promotes early literacy skills.

Adult participation required.

Theme: Be Kind to Your Library

April 21 Baby Class with Ms. Brenda 10:00 AM Birth to fourteen months Books, songs, rhymes and fun for our youngest patrons.

Adult participation required.

April 23 Lego @ the Library 9:30 – 11:15 AM All ages A monthly multigenerational program providing families with an opportunity to work creatively together.

April 25 Family Movie Night 6:00 PM All Ages When Shaun decides to take the day off and have some fun, he gets a little more action than he bargained for. A mix up with the Farmer, a caravan and a very steep hill lead them all to the Big City, and it's up to Shaun and the flock to return everyone safely to the green grass of home.

April 7 Baby Class with Ms. Brenda 10:00 AM Birth to fourteen months Books, songs, rhymes and fun for our youngest patrons.

Adult participation required.

April 9 Saturday Crafts with Ms. Janelle 10:00 – 11:30 AM All ages Join us for a morning of fun with seasonal craft activities.

All supplies provided.

April 20 Family Story Class 10:00 – 11:00 AM Ages 6 and under Stories, songs, fingerplays and nursery rhymes – promotes early literacy skills.

Adult participation required.

Theme: All the World

April 14 Baby Class with Ms. Brenda 10:00 AM Birth to fourteen months Books, songs, rhymes and fun for our youngest patrons.

Adult participation required.

April 14 Ravenous Readers 4:30 – 5:30 PM Ages 6 and up.

For kids who like books and food.

A fun read aloud, accompanied by a book related tasty treat, games and a craft.

Join us to find out what is on the menu for this month.

April 26 Boys’ Book Club 4:30 – 5:30 Ages 8 - 11 Members read the same book and meet once a month for a lively discussion and book related snack and activity.

Limited to 12 members.

Club is currently FULL. Contact Children’s Dept. about wait list.

Info

Flagler County Library 2500 Palm Coast Pkwy., N.W., Palm Coast, FL 32137

(386) 446-6763

Bunnell Branch 103 E. Moody Blvd., Bunnell, FL 32110

(386) 437-7390 42 • April 2016 / www.flaglerparent.com

education

Flagler School News APRIL 2016 Character Education Word of the Month: FAIRNESS

April 2 8:30 a.m.

Rymfire Running Club 5K RES, Track April 4 5:30 p.m.

FPCHS SAC Meeting FPCHS, Media Center April 4 6 p.m MHS National Honor Society Induction MHS, Pirate Theater April 5 3:30 p.m.

Wadsworth Elementary School SAC/Title I Mtg. WES, Media Center April 5 5 p.m.

Belle Terre Elementary School PTO Meeting BTES, Media Center April 5 5 p.m.

School Board Workshop GSB, Board Chambers April 5 6 p.m.

School Board Meeting GSB, Board Chambers April 6 5:30 p.m.

Old Kings Elementary School PTO Meeting OKES, Media Center April 6 6:30 p.m.

Rymfire Elementary School PTO Meeting RES, Media Center

April 7 5:30 p.m.

BTES Terrific Kids Assembly BTES, Cafeteria

April 22 6:30 p.m.

RES PTO Father Daughter Dance RES, Cafeteria

April 7 6:30 p.m.

Bunnell Elementary School Honor Roll Ceremony BES, Café

April 26 6 p.m.

FPCHS Band Awards Ceremony Flagler Auditorium

April 8 MHS-Grad Night Universal Studios April 9 8:30 a.m.

Rymfire Elementary School Running Club 5K RES, Bus Loop April 11 6 p.m.

Bunnell Elementary School PTO Meeting BES, Media Center April 12 7 p.m.

FPCHS Spring Band Concert Flagler Auditorium April 13 6:30 p.m.

Bingo for Books BES, New Café April 14 7 p.m.

FPCHS Chorus Spring Concert Flagler Auditorium April 19 6 p.m.

School Board Meeting GSB, Board Chambers April 21 5:30 p.m.

Senior Scholarship Ceremony Flagler Auditorium

April 27 Administrative Professionals Day April 28 7 p.m.

Matanzas High School Spring Musical MHS, Pirate Theater April 29 6:30 p.m.

Wadsworth Elementary PTO Movie Night WES, Cafeteria April 29 7 p.m.

Matanzas High School Spring Musical MHS, Pirate Theater April 29 7 p.m.

FPCHS Dance Concert Flagler Auditorium April 30 7 p.m.

Matanzas High School Spring Musical MHS, Pirate Theater Mondays & Wednesdays 2:30 p.m.

Brain-Child After-School Tutoring Program Government Services Building, Third Floor

www.flaglerparent.com / April 2016 • 43

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Kids Eat FREE Directory (Flagler County) Bob Evans

Highjackers Restaurant

Tuesdays Kids eat free after 4pm Free kids meal with each purchase of an adult meal.

100 Garden Street South, Palm Coast, Florida 32137 (386) 246-5300

Tuesday Tuesday night: one FREE kid's meal per adult entree purchase!

202 Airport Road, Palm Coast, Florida 32164 (386) 586-6078

Denny's Tuesday, Saturday KIDS EAT FREE* 4PM-10PM at participating restaurants Families can enjoy great food and great savings when dining with their kids at Denny's. Kids eat free on select nights from 4pm to 10pm. Our kids' menu offers healthy options that are sure to please both kids and parents. *For kids 10 and under. Get up to two free kid's entrées from the kids' menu per adult entrée purchase of $2.50 or more. Selection and prices may vary.

7 Kings Way, Palm Coast, Florida 32164 (386) 445-9000

Golden Corral Everyday Kids 3 and under enjoy a free buffet with adult meal purchase on any day or time. Other kids specials are available all week long.

225 Cypress Edge Dr., Palm Coast, FL, 32164 (386) 445-0224 44 • April 2016 / www.flaglerparent.com

Houligans Tuesdays Anytime -$2 kids meals with any adult entrée.

50 Plaza Dr #106, Palm Coast, FL 32137 (386) 447-3580

Steak 'n Shake Sunday, Saturday Kids Eat Free all weekend - One free kid's plate for every $8 spent. Dine-In only.

1 Cypress Edge Drive, Palm Coast, Florida 32164 (386) 446-6936

Woody's Bar-B-Q Thursday All day Thursdays, kids 12 & under eat FREE with purchase of adult entree.

99 Flagler Plaza Drive, Palm Coast, Florida 32137 (386) 439-5010

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Take Our Daughters to Work Day Empowering Girls for a Bright Future

by Kimberly Baker

Despite significant strides in recent years, women today earn twenty-five percent less than men and continue to be underrepresented in the boardroom, top executive positions, and the fast growing fields of technology reveals Ms. Foundation for Women.

Studies have found that part of the reason this inequality persists is that when girls reach early adolescence their self-esteem drops significantly. During this stage, they become more focused on their appearance and how boys will perceive them, which often reduces their willingness to compete with or in front of boys. Therefore, girls fail to develop the know-how and the confidence necessary for competing later in the job market.

Another reason women are underrepresented and earn less is that in spite of changes in recent generations, girls are still subject to stereotypes concerning marriage, raising children, and certain occupations.

Such stereotypes steer girls, often unintentionally, into traditional paths and roles regardless of their interests and abilities.

For these reasons, Take Our Daughters to Work® Day was created in 1993 by the Ms. Foundation, to help girls realize the importance of their abilities and to reach their full potential. Now, girls have the opportunity to experience the work force one day each year, helping them to envision what tomorrow has to offer.

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bright and fulfilling future.

A day with our daughters On Take Our Daughters to Work Day, get your daughter off to a good start by having her dress accordingly and arriving on time.

Avoid observation alone, and have some work and tasks set aside to keep her busy throughout the day.

Also, try some of the following: Have your daughter keep a journal throughout the day, describing different aspects of the occupation that she likes and dislikes and why.

Ask her to compose questions about the occupation and interview coworkers.

Questions might include the pros and cons of the job, why coworkers chose the occupation, and what their day entails. However, if your daughter is shy or opposed to the idea, don’t force it. You want her to leave with positive feelings about the day.

Describe hypothetical problems or situations that might arise in your job, and ask your daughter for ideas and solutions.

Help her write a letter and an occupational questionnaire. Then have her prepare them for mailing to businesses and professionals in occupations of interest. Be sure to include a self addressed stamped envelope for a response and take them to the post office at the end of the day.

Give your daughter a camera, a Polaroid if possible, to take photos throughout the day.

Then have her compile a Take Our Daughters to Work Day scrapbook. She can include descriptions of each photo and what she learned or discovered.

Visit yourfreecareertest.com where your daughter can do a free online survey for school aged kids to discover what careers fit her personality and interests. Then she can go to kids.usa.gov/teens/jobs/ for career information designed just for young teens.

Help her create a career folder and design forms to track her school classes, grades, career interests and experiences, honors and awards, and other relevant information for preparing for a secondary education and/or joining the work force.

Alternatives for taking daughters to work Not all girls will have the opportunity to participate in Take Our Daughters to Work Day. Talk with family and friends and share how they can volunteer to take a girl to work that otherwise won’t have the opportunity.

If you’re unable to take your daughter to work, volunteer to assist a teacher, help with a political campaign, or other community service project in which your daughter can still have the experience.

Give your daughter alternative opportunities if she has interest in a particular occupation. If you know someone in the field ask if your daughter can go to work with them, or ask a nearby company what it is planning for the day and how your daughter can participate.