+ Wet wedding weather
+ Planning a wedding as unique as you
+ Tips and tricks for your 2025 wedding
+ Venue Guide
BRAINERD DISPATCH PUBLICATION
A Grand View weddingBrunch and Bubbly
BY SHEILA HELMBERGER
Grand View Lodge has long established itself as one of the premier wedding venues in lake country. Whether you are a local planning your dream wedding or traveling to the resort because it is the perfect spot for your destination wedding, the location on the shores of beautiful Gull Lake will not disappoint.
The gorgeous property offers exquisite photography possibilities and multiple options no matter how many people make up the size of your guest list. Both intimate ceremonies and larger weddings are accommodated flawlessly at Grand View.
While a ceremony accompanied by the afternoon sun sounds lovely, events earlier in the day are gaining steam in popularity, too. A brunch wedding is a new trend for couples that is perfect for a smaller group and can mean a relaxing and rewarding way to celebrate.
The Brunch & Bubbly package is an option that more couples have begun to enjoy. Perfect for a smaller group of 25 to 75 guests, the Chapel at Grand View offers a beautiful ceremony.
Following the wedding, the options are endless for ways to keep the celebration going with your friends and family by moving to a fun and intimate dining venue. Cru offers a fine-dining atmosphere, complete with a wine cellar and fireplace. The North Hotel offers Discover, which provides a more modern vibe and beautiful private patio area. Headwaters, located in the lower level of the historic Main Lodge, provides a cozy private dining area with natural light and fireplace. Celebrate with a delightful brunch menu. Take it to the next level by adding a raw bar or chef action station. Don’t forget to toast your new life together with a mimosa or Bloody Mary bar.
A wedding earlier in the day means you have the rest of the day to enjoy the other offerings at Grand View Lodge such as the spa, a tee time on one of the award-winning golf courses, or time together on the lake or relaxing in one of the resort pools.
Host your wedding at Grand View Lodge and everything you need in your downtime is within walking distance for the entire weekend. Retail shops, coffee shops, breathtaking scenery and delicious
food are all located on the grounds and just a relaxing stroll away.
Book your wedding for later this year or lock in a date for 2025 and let the wedding staff at the resort help make your dreams come true.
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BREEZY POINT RESORT • 6
5 reasons Breezy Point weddings make more waves
CARLOS CREEK WINERY • 24
The Grand Hall at Carlos Creek Winery offers a flawless experience
CHASE ON THE LAKE • 12
The perfect wedding experience at Chase on the Lake
DAN’S CATERING COMPANY, LLC • 25
Our food is Dan good!
EL MENK JEWELERS • 39
Beauty and emotions that will last a lifetime
GRAND VIEW LODGE • 2
A Grand View wedding - Brunch and Bubbly
LAKES MUSIC & EVENTS PARK • 35
Rustic or elegant - Plan your outdoor wedding at Lakes Music and Events Park
NISSWA COMMUNITY CENTER • 17
Put your personalized touch on your wedding reception at the Nisswa Community Center
By Rebecca Flansburg
Tell us your story
Micheal and Bella Pierson tell their story about how they met, got engaged and married.
Wet wedding weather
By Sheila Helmberger
Make a wedding Budget and stick to it
By Sarah Nelson Katzenberger
Tips and tricks for your 2025 wedding
By Rebecca Flansburg
Tell us your story
A quick-look graph at facility and grounds offerings for venues advertised in this publication. By Weddings North staff 11 14 26 30 33 36 8
Allison and Kobe tell their story about how they met, got engaged and married.
2025 Venue Guide
NORTHERN PACIFIC CENTER • 22
Northern Pacific Center: A perfect start to your next chapter
NORTHLAND ARBORETUM • 28
Your dream wedding - Our perfect setting
PARTY TIME RENTAL • 18
Party Time Rental - Your one-stop party place
REEDS MARKET • 19
Serving sweet treats on the sweetest of days
THE EMERALD COTTAGE • 5
A secluded and luxurious wedding venue in central Minnesota
THE LODGE AT BRAINERD LAKES • 16
The ideal setting for your rite of marriage
WHITEFISH LODGE & SUITES AND MANHATTAN BEACH LODGE • 29
Providing a stress-free experience at Whitefish Lodge & Suites and Manhattan Beach Lodge
Gretchen and Jason Kreklow married at The Emerald Cottage on Hidden Lane.
Photo by Madisen Watson Photography.
A secluded and luxurious wedding venue in central Minnesota
BY SUE READY
If you’re searching for the perfect intimate wedding venue that’s both luxurious and affordable, look no further than The Emerald Cottage On Hidden Lane. Nestled on 4.5 acres of private property in the heart of central Minnesota, this stunning family-run venue has been catering to small weddings since 2024. With its breathtaking scenery and exclusive privacy, it’s the ideal place for couples who want a wedding that feels both elegant and intimate. The Emerald Cottage On Hidden Lane is not just a wedding venue; it can also host showers, rehearsal dinners, small workshops and life celebrations. What makes The Emerald Cottage truly special is its three unique photography and wedding settings: a pristine natural lake, a charming wooded area and the cozy, sophisticated indoor cottage space.
Whether you envision exchanging vows with the lake as your backdrop, capturing dreamy forest photos or celebrating inside the warm and inviting cottage, this venue delivers an unforgettable ambiance without the overwhelming cost of a large-scale wedding.
Affordable, stress-free wedding packages
The Emerald Cottage is committed to making your wedding day seamless and budget-friendly with exceptional packages ranging from $1,000 to $8,500. Whether you’re looking for a simple, elegant rental or an all-inclusive package, they ensure that every detail is taken care of. Their partnerships with top-tier vendors and caterers provide a variety of culinary experiences, from luxury charcuterie boards to sophisticated
plated dinners and bountiful buffets. Morning weddings even have the option of a delightful bakery experience. Owner Tracy Watson shares: “We love our catering crew that offers many unique ideas and price ranges. Menus are flexible and brides can even bring their own food.”
For those who dream of a secluded, affordable and breathtaking wedding venue, The Emerald Cottage On Hidden Lane is a hidden gem in Brainerd Minnesota. Reach out today to start planning your perfect, intimate wedding! Contact Tracy for more details on creating your special wedding memories. Visit their website, call/text 218-831-5372, or their Instagram page for a photo gallery and testimonials.
Photography credit: Madisen Watson Photography
5 reasons Breezy Point weddings make more waves
BY BREEZY POINT RESORT
If you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s equal parts elegance and adventure, Breezy Point Resort is the perfect place to tie the knot! Here are five reasons why Breezy Point brings more to the table for your wedding day.
ONE - Stunning settings
Your love story deserves a magical backdrop, and Breezy Point has no shortage of stunning ceremony locations. Say “I do” with the shimmering lake as your witness, exchange vows in the scenic Antlers Pavilion, or opt for a water feature and lovely perennials. Whether you’re going for classic romance or rustic charm, this resort has the perfect place to make your moment unforgettable.
TWO - Versatile venues
Big or small, glamorous or cozy— whatever your wedding vision, Breezy Point has a reception space to match! The elegant Lakeside Ballroom boasts wallto-wall windows with panoramic water views, while the grand Conference Center can host up to 400 guests for the ultimate party. Looking for something more intimate? No problem—there are plenty of charming spots to fit your dream day.
THREE - Vows, aboard!
Looking for a unique twist on tradition? Hop aboard the Breezy Belle, a charming paddle-wheel boat, and say your vows as you cruise across Pelican Lake. Whether you want a romantic ceremony on the water, a lively reception with a view, or a memorable rehearsal dinner, this one-ofa-kind venue will have your guests talking for years to come.
FOUR - Non-stop fun
From championship golf courses to boating, fishing, and even a relaxing spa, Breezy Point Resort turns your wedding weekend into a mini-vacation for everyone. Whether your guests want to hit the greens, paddle on the lake, or spoil themselves at Serenity Spa, there’s something for everyone to enjoy.
FIVE - Super cozy stays
No need to worry about guests scrambling for hotels—Breezy Point has a variety of lodging options, from lakeside condos to charming cabins and suites. Whether your loved ones want a luxurious stay or a cozy retreat, everyone will have a comfy place to rest after celebrating your big day.
READY TO SAY YES TO BREEZY POINT?
We can’t wait to be a part of your love story. Our team is ready when you are! Connect with one of our wedding experts. 218.562.7171
Groups@breezypointresort.com
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2025 wedding trends and resources in the Brainerd lakes area
BY REBECCA FLANSBURG
When planning their special day, brides and grooms know the “must-haves” list is lengthy and overwhelming. As the seasons change, so do the trends in the world of wedding preparations. Luckily, the Brainerd lakes area is filled with excellent options and skilled business owners who are poised and ready to help make everyone’s dream wedding a reality. Here are some trends for 2025 to keep in mind when planning your upcoming wedding.
Emily Kaye Bridal Boutique of Nisswa knows how to help brides from all walks of life make a statement with their gowns. The wedding dress world is constantly evolving and embracing timeless elegance and fresh, innovative designs are what today’s brides seek.
“As a stylist, I know it is all about embracing timeless elegance and fresh, innovative designs,” boutique owner Emily Kaye Beutz shared. “One of the standout trends making a grand return is the drop-waist silhouette. This style elongates the torso and flares at the hips, creating a sophisticated, flattering, regal and contemporary shape. Perfect for brides looking to make a bold yet graceful statement, drop-waist gowns are often paired with intricate lacework, structured bodices and dramatic trains to enhance their allure.”
Emily shared the most desired gowns infuse this classic style with modern twists, such as illusion necklines, detachable skirts and off-shoulder sleeves. These elements add versatility and personality, allowing brides to customize their look for the ceremony and reception.
“One of the most exciting trends in wedding fashion is removable sleeves, offering brides the ultimate blend of versatility and style,” Emily added.
Emily Kaye Beutz, Emily Kaye Bridal
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“This feature allows brides to transform their look throughout the day, seamlessly transitioning from a romantic, formal ceremony to a modern, effortless reception vibe.”
With a wide variety of wedding dresses in sizes 0-30, Emily Kaye’s is ready to help shoppers choose the dress of their dreams. “We are excited to work with 2025 brides to help them find a dress as radiant as their love story.”
Regarding using wedding decorations that combine grandeur, class and timeless appeal, Kelli Mankowski, CBA from Be Bold Balloons, shared balloon artistry at a wedding venue can have a considerable impact.
“Balloons are gorgeous, elegant, whimsical, and dreamy — all of which are perfect for a wedding setting,” Mankowski shared. “Sometimes it can be hard to get past the perceptions that balloons are best for birthdays or anniversaries, but balloon art can add a level of contrast and ‘wow’ that is hard to beat.”
Mankowski added balloon industry trends follow the same color patterns, colors and styles as other décor. “The Pantone color of the year for 2025 is Mocha Mousse, so we’re seeing a lot of warm colors with a Bohemian-style feel, she noted.”
She also shared that since balloons come in so many sizes, they are a great way to fill a large area at a very economical cost. Balloons can add “high impact” visual presence as arches, photography backdrops and even centerpieces.
“Professionally designed and arranged balloons create a bold and unique décor choice for a moderate amount of money,” Mankowski concluded.
No wedding would be complete without the rings. Barb Merritt, the former owner of Pequot Lakes’ Merritt Jewelers, is a longtime expert in fine jewelry. She shared that in the age of an “add to cart” mentality, couples truly need to see what they are buying in person to get the perfect rings for their style and budget. “We encourage all brides and grooms to stop into a brick-and-mortar jewelry store to see which cut, style and gold tones look best on their hands. Regarding trends, lab-grown diamonds are very popular now because of the cost savings. Kevin O’Hern is our expert goldsmith and the new owner of Merritt Jewelers, and he is ready to help couples create memories in 2025.”
Another essential component of a wedding celebration is the cake.
Professional baker Chris Skarp from Brainerd Lakes Cakes notes that a trend that has trickled over from 2024 to 2025 is the option for couples to have a small cutting cake and a dessert table for guests.
“Brainerd Lakes Cakes has a long list of delicious desserts to offer wedding goers, and a few of the more popular requests include cupcakes, cookies, mini bundt cakes and single servings of apple crisps. We also get requests for dairy-free and vegan options, which we are happy to do.”
When asked what advice she would give couples looking for a baker for their special day, Chris said she highly recommends scheduling a tasting six to eight months in advance. “Scheduling a tasting with us is fun; it’s a great way for brides and groomsto-be to sample what they do or don’t like. We love it when couples bring in pictures of the cakes they like so we can get a feel for their style, whether it’s Bohemian, up north, simplistic or even minimalistic. We’ve also noticed that Vintage Heart Cakes are making a comeback. These are heart-shaped cakes adorned with ruffles, frills, and piping, which were all the rage back in the 1980s.These cakes are fun for us to make, resulting in a show-stopping cake with vintage appeal.”
Jaci Ohotto of Bloom Designs, a wedding and event florist and planner in Brainerd, said, “We’re seeing so much more color, which is so refreshing. My team and I love the elevated ‘garden party’ vibes that will be very popular in 2025. Décor trends include the use of lots of candlelight and the use of smaller interesting pieces, such as mini lamps. More and more clients are
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doing online RSVPs, but the majority still send hard copies of invitations. I also love seeing QR codes on websites printed on the invitations.”
Jaci said an absolute “must have” for brides and grooms in 2025 is a wedding planned. “We believe hiring a wedding planner is the best line item on a budget. If you don’t hire someone you love, you will do all your small tasks and ensure everything comes together. If it’s not in the budget to hire a planner and have essential time with the people you love, I would avoid DIY tasks and personalization that aren’t from a hired vendor.”
No wedding celebration would be complete without the perfect venue. Another top trend of 2025 is micro-weddings. A microwedding is a smaller version of a traditional wedding, typically with a guest list of no more than 50 people.
Located on Clark Lake in Nisswa, Catalyst at Nature Link’s intentional architecture highlights the lake’s beauty with every view.
Built by multi-venue owners, this venue space is beautiful and functional for couples, guests and vendors.
“We can host large weddings with up to 225 guests, small gatherings and elopements,” Marketing Manager Danielle Maetche shared. “We are noticing a shift to more intimate gatherings for 2025 and are also seeing bold colors like bright reds and light blues. Couples are not shying away from color.
We’ve also seen an uptick in film photography, old-fashioned style cakes and drapery for backdrops and decor. Catalyst is the perfect wedding venue and destination with its lakeview and access, indoor and outdoor ceremony options, large windows with natural light and on-site lodging. When booking at Catalyst, we want our couples to envision their day with a focus on a stress-free experience, building design, capacity and location with amenities.”
Trends for the upcoming wedding season favor experiences and options that create welcoming environments by creating spaces for genuine connection. More intimate settings with carefully selected guest lists and whimsical yet unique touches replace previous years’ big, flashy weddings. These new trends and ideas perfectly reflect the sentiment of why couples are coming together in holy matrimony in the first place. What memories will your wedding create in 2025?
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Tell us your story:
MICHAEL AND BELLA
Michael and Bella met at the country music festival, WeFest, during the summer of 2016. The theme that year was “Almost Paradise.”
Michael was attending the event with friends. Bella was attending with her father and longtime family friend, Gary Breesman, his daughter Jenna (bridesmaid) and Rachel.
As luck would have it, Michael’s friends included her second cousin, Max, which led to the introduction to Michael by her father. They learned they would be attending the University of WisconsinStout together in the fall. (Michael starting his junior year and Bella starting as a freshman) Derek told Michael, “It’s your job to look out for her at college.” Little did they know, the time at WeFest would serve as the starting point of lifelong friendship and more.
During the early college years together, they were both playing sports (football and soccer). Even though they were in the same season, they found time to support the other’s team when they could with Bella witnessing one of the most memorable wins when Stout beat St. Thomas. Michael fulfilled Derek’s request to look out for Bella. He made sure she got home safely, helped her to find various items she left behind and whenever her parents were on campus for an event, he made an effort to connect.
After interning in New York the summer before graduation, Bella accepted a job and started to prepare for the big move in the spring of 2020. While Bella was planning her “next move,” her family bought a lake home on Ossawinnamakee in Breezy Point, which is about five miles from Michael’s family lake homes on Rush and Cross Lake. Plans changed as Covid peaked and instead of moving to New York, Bella was working remotely from Minnesota. As fate would have it, the two spent a lot of time together at “the lake.” Many watched the two interact and it was obvious to everyone (but them) that there was “more” than friendship brewing. Both were feeling trepidation about taking the next step. Thanks to prodding (A LOT) from the brothers (Alex,
Bryan and Jake), and friends — new and old — Michael FINALLY asked Bella on a date. From that point forward the two were inseparable.
Over the last three years together, they have embraced being together including sharing their passion for travel, spending time with family and weekends up at “the lake.” They built their first home in Centerville/Lino Lakes and added their Pomsky Stout to the family. Michael proposed to Bella Dec. 17, 2022, up at
her parents’ cabin where this adventure took off.
When it came time to select a wedding venue, there was no question the event would take place in the area they will forever remember as the place that represents the things they cherish most — family, friends and the beauty and adventure the great lakes of Minnesota have to offer.
Michael and Bella were married on Feb. 10, 2023, at Grand View Lodge.
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The perfect wedding experience at Chase on the Lake
BY SHEILA HELMBERGER
A dream wedding combines a fantastic location, delicious food, and a venue that strives to take the stress out of your hands while they manage the details. Chase on the Lake Resort and Spa in beautiful downtown Walker offers all of that and more.
Located in the heart of northern Minnesota, you can exchange your vows with a breathtaking backdrop right on the shores of Walker Bay on Leech Lake providing the perfect place for your photographer to capture the excitement of your day.
Chase on the Lake offers an all-inclusive wedding celebration with accommodation for your friends and family to stay on-site as well as plenty of things to do during their free time.
Nestled in the middle of town, you will be just a stone’s throw from some of the best entertainment in northern Minnesota. Exquisite dining, a multitude of activities and an abundance of northwoods shopping are all within walking distance. Enjoy all the history and culture this little gem of a city offers on the third largest lake in Minnesota.
With the feeling of a first-class resort without the big price tag, Chase offers unique venues for you to choose from, and sites that can accommodate any guest list from 40 to 200.
Tour the resort today and let them show you everything they have to offer and feel comfortable knowing the on-site catering service will help you finalize the menu you are happy with and take care of all the details of serving it on your wedding day.
Wedding planners on staff can help ease some of the stress of the planning and will help ensure everything is taken care of from the table settings and seating to the linens and layout.
Whether you want to include an outing on the water fishing or watch a member of your party snag a dream deal in the quaint shops along main street, a wedding weekend at Chase on the Lake creates the time you have always dreamed of and you can enjoy the perfect weekend to mark the beginning of your life together.
Why celebrate just one day when you can enjoy an entire weekend with those you love best exploring one of the most fun and unique little towns in northern Minnesota.
Call Chase on the Lake to begin planning the wedding you have always dreamed of today at 218-547-8512.
Photo supplied by Chase on the Lake
BY SHEILA HELMBERGER
Wet Wedding WEATHER
You‘ve spent months planning every detail of your wedding.
You have the perfect menu, a guest list that includes your closest friends and family, and a beautiful spot against a lush green backdrop or along the clear blue waters of the beach selected to exchange your vows.
The only thing that could go wrong now is the weather.
You’re in control of most of the items that go into your wedding day, but the weather is not one. So, what happens if the forecast delivers a surprise when the big day arrives? It may sound like a downer to the festivities to have rain on your wedding day, but it doesn’t have to be.
“Using clear umbrellas for a fun photo will allow you to still see the faces of your wedding party.”
Local venues say they discuss the options for alternative plans for a couple in case the weather changes during the earliest steps of planning. If possible, the time for a ceremony can be adjusted slightly on the day of the ceremony to let a shower pass or moved up to squeeze it in before one begins. Sometimes a wet morning will give way to sunshine for an afternoon wedding.
Considering lake country is one of the most popular spots to exchange wedding vows, local event planners say real rainouts have not happened that often in recent years. The weather ‘bubble’ that residents and visitors joke about seems to favor couples who have their hearts set on incorporating the beauty of the area into their special day. Some couples enjoy the security of renting tents or securing gazebos or covered arches for the day.
“It honestly doesn’t happen that often where we have to move a ceremony,” says Kelly Flahave, events manager at Madden’s Resort. Raina Pederson, group sales manager at Breezy Point, confirms the welcoming, but surprising, news. “We had maybe one wedding in the last three years that we have had to move.”
“Our team is really great about paying it by ear and keeping an eye on the forecast,” says Flahave. She says couples can stick to their plan for an outside ceremony, but know the resort has other options if a move is necessary.
“That’s definitely the No. 1 concern for our brides and grooms,” says Pederson. She says couples should not let that be on their mind the whole time. “We usually will have an open ballroom available, and we can move it in there if it works.” It is also possible to move the ceremony to the reception space where dinner will be served.
Nicole Stettler, wedding and events manager at Cragun’s Resort says, “If a change is needed, they will make the decision about three hours out so there is time to make the move. “Really, my first piece of advice for couples is do not look at the weather until you get here because it changes so much.” A lot of times it means making a move to the reception space. Already decorated for dinner, just a few changes may be needed. Chairs can be set up near the front for the family and the ceremony will go off as planned.
“It can be stressful,” says Northland Arboretum Event Coordinator Kelly Hughes. Some couples who get married at the Arboretum rent the upper and downstairs both and can choose to have the ceremony in the one that suits them the most when the time comes.
It is possible to embrace the change of plans and make it just as memorable for you, your friends, and your family.
Using clear umbrellas for a fun photo will allow you to still see the faces of your wedding party or pick bright colored umbrellas that will offer a whimsical and vibrant picture to capture the memory. Accessorize your group with colorful rain boots to add another fun touch for cute photos that will also be functional.
We all know surprises in the weather can happen no matter what time of year it is. But if clouds roll in, there is not much you can do about it but seize the opportunity to still be festive and creative and put your personal touch on the day. Whether you have a pop-up shower or a day-long downpour, the most important thing is you will still be married at the end of the day. And whether they are wet or dry, you will have memories of one of the best days of your life, ones that will last forever.
The ideal setting for your rite of marriage
BY SUSAN SMITH-GRIER
Getting married is an important rite of passage in your life and it deserves to be celebrated in a way most perfect for the occasion. That is where The Lodge in Brainerd comes in. One of Minnesota’s most beautiful wedding destinations, The Lodge offers an inviting experience for the happy couple, their family and friends. Even the children will enjoy the time spent here.
Attention to details
At The Lodge, we provide the perfect setting for your wedding, giving you the freedom to create an experience that reflects your vision. Our elegant spaces serve as a beautiful backdrop, while our team is here to assist in the planning—whether it’s table arrangement, menu selections, or ensuring a seamless flow for your day.
Couples are invited to a personalized tasting session to sample our menu, tailoring it to their tastes.
Beyond the ceremony and reception, The Lodge offers amenities designed to enhance your celebration, ensuring a comfortable and enjoyable experience for you and your guests—including the little ones.
Let The Lodge be the canvas for your perfect wedding day—crafted by you, supported by us.
Wedding day features
You and your special someone will love the setting for your nuptials. The Lodge offers:
• Choose a ceremony setting either indoors or outdoors with indoor reception seating in the ballroom for up to 250 guests.
• cozy common areas
• acce ss to an outdoor fire pit
• a hardwood dance floor
• on-site catering
• get rooms ready for the wedding party
• banquet bars
• and more
Sands Ballroom - able to accommodate up to 250 guests » Complimentary King whirlpool suite for the bride & groom the night of the reception
Have a special night at The Lodge after your reception when you take advantage of our complimentary king whirlpool suite for the happy couple.
All the extras
The Lodge provides your entourage with a variety of fun and entertainment options. There is a playground for children. Adults and kids will love the Paul Bunyan water park. Gather everyone together for lawn games or an exciting game of volleyball. Don’t forget to visit our fitness center.
Start your day off right with a complimentary hot breakfast at Baxter’s Bar & Grill or enjoy coffee or tea in the Trapper’s Lounge.
Make your dream wedding a reality by contacting us at 218-822-5634 or use the simple form on our website: https://lodgeatbrainerdlakes.com /contact-us.
Put your personalized touch on your wedding reception at the Nisswa Community Center
BY SHEILA HELMBERGER
If you have your heart set on getting married in a beautiful area, surrounded by a delightful community with plenty of recreation and a space to decorate with your own personal touch, the Nisswa Community Center can make it all possible. Plan your ceremony inside the center or outdoors in the city park located right outside the center with pavilions and a nearby playground.
Located right in the heart of everything lake country has to offer, you know you’ll have the perfect celebration with your friends and family. Make the space your own by transforming it, using your own decorations, tulle and lights into your personal wonderland. Go rustic, romantic, vintage or whimsical.
State-of-the-art audio visual equipment allows you to enhance the celebration with speeches, entertainment and the delightful toasting of the happy couple. When the ceremony and reception are over, it’s time to take a few spins on the dance floor.
Up North Elegance For Any Budget
Nisswa Community Center can host your guest list up to 270. Bar service is available if desired and there is a fully equipped kitchen onsite. You will need to provide your own linens, but tables and chairs are included in your rental of the center.
The center is located near the downtown of Nisswa. The popular and quaint city lends itself to a hub of breweries, restaurants and eclectic shopping.
The Nisswa Community Center is the perfect place to let your wedding dreams become a reality. Call Maggi Wentler today at 218-963-4444 or email maggi@ cityofnisswa.gov to tour the center and talk about your plans.
Your wedding ceremony will be beautiful and the happy celebration that follows will be some of your favorite memories.
Party Time Rental – Your one-stop party place
BY SHEILA HELMBERGER
Meet Party Time Rental of the Brainerd Lakes area — your one-stop party shop that comes to you for a personalized stress-free event. Party Time serves the Brainerd lakes area and surrounding communities — no job is too big or too small.
Your wedding reception is the perfect place to personalize your day and create a party atmosphere for your friends and family to celebrate your new life together.
Whether you bring together an intimate group for a 20-guest micro wedding or a large 500-plus gathering with all the family and friends to celebrate your day, you can incorporate the outdoor scenery at your personal residence, Grandma and Grandpa’s lake home or a venue that meets your needs. Party Time Rental can help you create the perfect atmosphere with a beautiful and stylish canopy to cover the event.
Choose from our elegant translucent Sail Cloth canopy (pictured) or any of our white canopies to cover your event. Each comes in a variety of sizes to meet your event needs. Party Time Rental will even take care of the
work of delivering and setting up your canopy in time for your special day, as well as taking it down when the party is over.
Canopies cover your guests in rain and shine. The selection of lighting, tables, chairs, linens, audio, staging and even the dance floor will help you meet the vision you have for your casual or formal event, working within your budget.
With the rental of an arbor and sound system for your ceremony, specialty tables for the social hour and tableware for serving your guests, Party Time Rental can make sure all the details of your day are perfect, from the I dos to the final song.
Wherever your wedding is going to be, Party Time Rental will help you add a personal touch and create the wonderful space you have been envisioning.
Don’t forget the groom’s dinner. Include a fun backyard celebration with a social area and games to create a relaxed, carefree gathering before the big day.
The company has long offered the necessary items for the most successful of weddings, graduations and birthday parties
as well as reunions and community events. Preset Party Packs including canopy, tables and chairs, for smaller events are easy to make it a do-it-yourself event if you choose.
“We have grown significantly,” says Lori Kohorst, who owns Party Time Rental with her husband, Brad. “We are just going into our 10th full season this year and have geared up for a great year of outdoor events. We have added lots of new tables, chairs and canopies to meet the needs of the community and guests coming to the Brainerd lakes area to celebrate family occasions.
“We love working with members of the community,” says Kohorst. “Planning so many wonderful events, from weddings to graduations and most importantly, having our clients make memories to last a lifetime.”
Check out Party Time Rental on Facebook, visit partytimerentalmn.com, or call 218-8296300 for more information. Shop the location six miles north of Brainerd on Highway 371 and let the staff help you complete your wedding day with everything you need to make sure your day is perfect.
Serving sweet treats on the sweetest of days
BY SHEILA HELMBERGER
Today’s wedding dessert tables are as much of a decoration as they are a delicious way to add to your day.
Desserts for your guests can mean anything from bars and cookies to doughnuts and other dreamy delicacies.
Sometimes couples choose to use the dessert table to offer some of their own personal favorites to share with their guests. Whether it is a flavored filling one of you loved when you were a child or a dessert you just cannot say no to as an adult.
Salena Snow, the bakery manager at Reed’s Market, says today’s wedding couples have moved beyond the traditional offering of serving wedding cake and instead choose to create an eye-catching display with almost any sweet treat desired at your reception. “We have made bars and cookies as wedding dessert,” she says, “And we can make doughnuts, which are popular too.”
Baked pastries made by the staff at Reed’s Market will look as impressive as they will taste. Incorporate the colors or theme of your day with colored toppings, icing and sprinkles.
Choosing the dessert for your wedding reception can seem overwhelming, but with the input of Salena and the rest of her team from the bakery at Reed’s Market, you know you will have the perfect eye-catching and delicious way to offer something sweet to your guests to top off the day. You may have to keep an eye on the dessert table though. Your guests will be admiring and snitching your desserts long before their time.
For a fee Reed’s Market will deliver and set up your reception dessert at your reception site. If preferred, they will be sure they are ready in time for you to pick up, so you can have plenty of time to set up your display before it’s needed.
Call the bakery at Reed’s Market today to see what they can create to help you with your celebration.
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Northern Pacific Center: A perfect start to your next chapter
BY KATIE HAKES
Your wedding day deserves a setting as unique as your love story.
Discover the beauty and historic charm of the Northern Pacific Center, where the spirit of Brainerd’s past meets modern elegance. The Northern Pacific Center breathes new life into Brainerd’s historic railroad district. Imagine exchanging vows surrounded by beautifully restored brick, exposed beams and stunning vintage windows — remnants of the town’s industrial past. Today, they frame one of the most important days of your life, adding a new chapter to this timeless space.
Our team understands your wedding is about more than just a beautiful setting. We’re detailobsessed and passionate about connecting you with the best local vendors to help bring your vision to life.
And for an exceptional culinary experience, look no further than Clocktower Hospitality, our exclusive catering team for both on-site and off-site locations. Headed by Executive Chef Matt Annand, Clocktower Hospitality crafts menus as unique and memorable as your wedding day itself.
To further personalize your special day, explore our Foundry Furniture Rental Collection, a curated selection of vintage pieces that add character and charm to any setting. Whether you’re dreaming of something moody and dramatic or light-filled and romantic, our versatile spaces offer endless possibilities. We honor tradition with a modern twist, creating a backdrop that gives your wedding day its own distinct personality.
From those breathtaking first-look photos to the last dance of the night, we want your wedding day to be everything you’ve dreamed of and more. The Northern Pacific Center is for couples who envision a wedding that’s both timeless and uniquely their own. Its blend of historic charm and modern elegance offers a space where your love story unfolds in a setting rich with character. We would love to show you how this space could be the perfect start to your next chapter.
To learn more or to schedule a tour, visit northernpacificcenter.com/weddings.
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The Grand Hall at Carlos Creek Winery offers a flawless experience
BY MORGAN MCCRERY
A stunning winery and brewery venue in Alexandria, Minnesota. You will immediately be captivated by the charm of the location. Nestled amidst rolling hills and lush greenery, the venue offers a perfect blend of rustic elegance and natural beauty. Inclusions beyond the typical venue, fresh floral centerpieces add a vibrant touch to each table, with their colors and scents filling the space and creating an atmosphere of warmth and celebration.
Shuttle service makes getting to and from the venue seamless for all guests, ensuring no one has to worry about parking or logistics. On top of that, the venue’s day-of coordination is impeccable. Staff ensure everything runs smoothly, from the ceremony to the reception, so that the couple and their loved ones could truly relax and enjoy the day without any
A flawless experience, with every detail thoughtfully planned, allowing the couple to celebrate their love in a way that feels intimate, yet grand.
stress. A flawless experience, with every detail thoughtfully planned, allowing the couple to celebrate their love in a way that feels intimate, yet grand. The winery and brewery provide the perfect backdrop for a memorable celebration, and it’s a location your guests won’t soon forget. If you’re looking for a venue that combines beauty, convenience, and exceptional service, this is definitely the place for you.
Our food is Dan good!
BY SUE READY
Dan’s Catering Company, LLC, has been providing mobile catering services from weddings to formal affairs, family gatherings and everything in between since 2003 throughout central Minnesota and beyond the lakes area. They have experience serving groups as few as 10 up to 1,500 people. Dan and Angel Oehrlein offer individualized planning and consultation helping to create a stress free day for clients. They plan and arrive with ample time to set up their equipment and prepare everything to be ready before serving time on your special day. Dan’s Catering Company is able to provide food in any location from a field or backyard on private property, to a park, or any venue allowing outside catering to bring food into the establishment. Being a mobile catering company offers
flexibility working with clients to bring them the meal they hope for their event regardless of location.
The Oehrleins pride themselves in serving home cooked food made from scratch, served buffet style for all hosted events. They are willing to work with their clients to help them select a meal option that fits their budget, choosing from scrumptious entrees ranging from roasted or smoked meats, potato dishes including their specialty scalloped potatoes, vegetable and salad options, fresh fruits and delectable dessert trays. The per person pricing for 2025 is quite affordable with a variety of menu options at various costs depending on selections. Dan’s Catering Company offers flexibility to expand on their main menu options by offering baked potato bars, taco bars, pasta bars, soups, salads, and sandwich
lunch options or even breakfast and brunch. You name it and it’s possible in most cases using your favorite recipe if not on their menu. Included in the price are disposable heavy duty paper plates, all utensils and napkins. The friendly and professional catering staff takes care of the food serving area and cleanup at the end of your event so you can enjoy the day. Any leftover food will be packaged up after the event and left with the client.
Visit danscateringco.com to read glowing testimonials from satisfied customers along with food pricing and various menu options. Check them out on Facebook at Dan’s Catering Company, LLC to see mouthwatering food photos. Email danscateringcompany@frontier.com for more information. Call 218-851-7643 to book your event today!
MAKE A WEDDING BUDGET AND stick to it
BY SARAH NELSON KATZENBERGER
Planning a wedding is exciting, but let’s face it — it can also be a little overwhelming. With so many expenses to consider, the price tag can tally up fast. Keeping costs down on the details and determining non-negotiables from the start can make sticking to your wedding budget totally doable.
Make sure your budget is realistic. The first step to sticking to your budget is making sure you actually have one. Sit down with your partner and figure out how much you’re willing to spend. Consider your savings, any contributions from family and make sure to include a little wiggle room for those unexpected costs. Undoubtedly there will be something. Once you have your total, break it down into categories like venue, catering, photographers, dress and decorations. Having a clear breakdown will keep things in perspective as you start booking vendors (The Knot, 2024).
Get
organized.
Track every expense — big or small — and update your budget regularly. There are plenty of free apps or spreadsheets available to help you stay on top of your spending. Seeing where your money goes can help you make smarter decisions as the planning progresses. If you go over budget in one area, it’s easier to adjust elsewhere. Wedding budgeting apps like WeddingWire and The Knot allow you to track expenses easily, ensuring you stay on top of things (WeddingWire, 2024). Prioritize what matters most. Every couple has their “must-haves” for their wedding day. For some, it’s the perfect venue; for others, it’s the dream dress or unforgettable photographs. Whatever it is, make sure to allocate more of your budget to the items that matter most to you and your partner. Once you’ve established your top priorities, it’s easier to say “no” to things that aren’t as important (Brides, 2024).
Get
creative with DIY projects.
There’s something special about adding your personal touch to your wedding, and many DIY projects can save you money. Whether it’s designing your own invitations, creating centerpieces, buying
flowers in bulk or even making wedding favors — DIY doesn’t have to equate to “cheap.” Taking on the details yourself is a chance to add meaningful details while keeping costs down. (Budget Savvy Bride, 2024).
Shop smart for wedding attire. The wedding dress is a key part of your big day, but it doesn’t have to break the bank.
Consider shopping sample sales, buying secondhand, or looking at less expensive designers. The standard on bridesmaids’ dresses is a lot less uniform than it once was. Give your bridal party the color scheme and let them find styles that fit your wedding theme but can also be worn again. On the hunt for groomsmen attire? Consider renting. Or if you have an idea of what you want but can’t find it all in one location, most retailers will help you outfit your entire party with the help of additional store locations. (Lovegevity’s Wedding Planning Institute, 2024).
Negotiate with vendors.
Don’t be afraid to ask about price options. Wedding vendors are used to working with couples on different budgets and they may be willing to offer discounts or package deals. Ask about any off-peak pricing or special promotions. Be clear about your budget from the start and see if you can customize the services to fit within your limits. A little haggling could go a long way (The Knot, 2024).
Be flexible with your date and venue. If you’re open to flexibility, having your wedding on a weekday or during an offseason can help you save significantly on venue and vendor costs. While a Saturday in June might be ideal, choosing a Friday or Sunday in the fall could lead to big savings. If you’re not “married” to the idea of a specific venue, there’s a lot of money to be saved in untraditional wedding venues. Outdoors in the summer, in a friend’s backyard, even a destination wedding can cut major costs when you think creatively (WeddingWire, 2024). You can have the wedding of your dreams without losing track of your finances. Stay focused on what truly matters to you and your partner. Ultimately the day is about celebrating your love in a way that feels true to both of you.
Sources:
• The Knot, 2024. “Wedding Budget Planning Tips.” The Knot
• WeddingWire, 2024. “How to Stick to Your Wedding Budget.” WeddingWire
• Brides, 2024. “How to Prioritize Your Wedding Spending.” Brides
• Budget Savvy Bride, 2024. “DIY Wedding Ideas on a Budget.” Budget Savvy Bride
• Lovegevity’s Wedding Planning Institute, 2024. “How to Save Money on Your Wedding Attire.” Lovegevity
Your dream wedding — Our perfect setting
BY SUE READY
However you imagine it, the Northland Arboretum, nestled in Brainerd, Minnesota, can help you create a personalized wedding venue. Once named No. 1 for the Best Wedding and Party Venue by the Brainerd Dispatch’s Best of Contest, the Arboretum does not disappoint for a natural outdoor setting. Tucked in the heart of Brainerd and Baxter, the beauty of the Arboretum’s natural landscape is a unique way to connect to the outdoors for your special day.
Multiple spaces throughout the grounds can be adapted for special occasions, making it easy for couples to tailor the venue to their vision. Take advantage of the Friday night availability for the rehearsal dinner. The Northland Arboretum facilities include two indoor spaces, each with a full kitchen and additional covered outdoor seating.
The Fireside Room is a cozy and romantic room that seats up to 64. Glass doors lead to a view of the woods with access to a covered deck. The lower
level, connected to a covered patio, can accommodate up to 160 of your family and friends.
There are four outdoor areas for wedding services each with its own seasonal appeal. All locations are surrounded by seasonal wildflowers, trails, native plants and lush gardens.
The Holden Gazebo near the visitors’ entrance is perfect for smaller, more personal ceremonies for up to 25 guests.
The newly landscaped Garden Gazebo is surrounded by a wall and fencing for an intimate and truly private experience.
The Prairie Gazebo is surrounded by benched seating and has a wedding arch.
The Memorial Garden, with a waterfall, is perfect for those looking for that nature-inspired wedding experience connecting nature and wildlife. Wedding services and receptions in all locations can be customized to suit your wedding needs. All of these gardens provide a beautiful background for your wedding photos.
The Northland Arboretum focuses on education, recreation and conservation on its 412 acre property, making it a viable community event center.
The facilities are perfect for hosting outdoor or indoor weddings, showers, engagement parties, family gatherings, anniversaries, memorial services, and graduation parties.
Contact Kelly at 218-829-8770 for scheduling your event, pricing and a list of local wedding vendors. Follow Northland Arboretum on social media and visit northlandarb.org or find us on weddingwire.com and view the 360 tour.
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Providing a StressFree Experience at Whitefish Lodge & Suites and Manhattan Beach Lodge
BY REBECCA FLANSBURG
Whitefish Lodge & Suites and Manhattan Beach Lodge in Crosslake, MN, offer two stunning venues that capture the beauty and charm of the Northwoods, making them the perfect setting for a wedding. Nestled in the heart of Crosslake on the shores of Big Trout Lake, part of the Whitefish Chain of Lakes, these venues provide breathtaking lake views and endless outdoor recreation opportunities. Whitefish Lodge & Suites offers three unique ceremony locations, including the soughtafter lakeside ceremonies at Manhattan Beach Lodge.
With a blend of timeless rustic elegance and contemporary appeal, both locations create an inviting atmosphere for intimate gatherings and grand celebrations. Couples can enjoy exclusive use of the entire property for their wedding weekend, including luxurious accommodations, on-site catering, and dedicated event coordination. When a wedding is booked exclusively at either venue, the entire property is closed to the public, ensuring a truly private experience.
Whitefish Lodge & Suites has proudly received The Knot Best of Weddings and WeddingWire’s Couples’ Choice Awards multiple years in a row. “These awards are based on genuine wedding couple reviews; fewer than 10% of venues receive this recognition,” shared General Manager Kista Brunkhorst. “It’s a testament to our exceptional service and unforgettable experience.”
Manhattan Beach Lodge recently underwent exciting upgrades to enhance the wedding experience. All guest rooms have been refreshed with new flooring, upgraded beds, and enhanced amenities, ensuring a more luxurious stay. The lakeside patio has been expanded, providing more space for celebrations with a stunning waterfront backdrop. Additionally, new centerpiece options allow couples to customize their reception with elegant décor.
Beyond these enhancements, Manhattan Beach Lodge offers epic sunsets, WCCO’s Best of MN Tiki Bar, and an acclaimed on-site restaurant. The lakeside ceremony space remains a favorite for couples seeking a breathtaking setting to exchange vows. Wedding packages have also been refined to provide even more customization and flexibility for a truly unique and memorable celebration.
For more information or to start planning your dream wedding, contact Crystal Koski, Director of Sales & Marketing, at 218-251-2171 or email crystal@crosslakereservations.com.
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Tips and tricks What
FOR YOUR 2025 WEDDING
couples need to know
BY REBECCA FLANSBURG
It’s the happiest day of your life, your special day, and the day when your life as a couple will change forever. Call it whatever you’d like, but weddings are a beautifully life-changing event that creates memories that will last a lifetime.
Fash.com shared in a 2024 report the average wedding cost in the U.S. is $25,000 to $35,000 for a 100-guest wedding and that number is expected to rise to $35,000 to $45,000 in 2025. The cost for a ceremony and reception averages $250 to $350 per guest, but that total can fluctuate due to region, specialized menus and wedding party size. The venue makes up the bulk of the budget for most weddings, while the catering and bar costs are also significant expenses.
But before wedding planners get too rattled by some of these numbers, they should know that a beautiful and memorable wedding can be created to fit virtually any budget.
According to Zola.com, social media inspires 91% of couples, but nearly half (48%) struggle with the gap between picture-perfect ideals and real-life budgets. This showcases both the upsides and downsides of finding inspiration online. This online wedding planning platform
also states that, like everything else, the cost of getting married will be significantly higher in 2025.
So, how can couples plan the wedding of their dreams without breaking the bank? Knowing cost estimates upfront will help them direct their funds toward the elements of their ceremony that mean the most to them. Here is a breakdown of what couples can expect to pay for their wedding in 2025 and some tips and tricks to make their planning as affordable as possible.
The rings
Wedding site TheKnot.com reports rings account for 9% of the wedding budget. Wedding rings symbolize love and commitment, and couples are more than willing to spend a little extra money to create rings that capture their love story.
According to EstateDiamondJewlery.com, the average engagement ring budget in 2025 is $8,580, reflecting a steady preference for high-quality yet accessible rings. This figure aligns with many buyers prioritizing durability, style, and ethical considerations. Collaborating with professional jewelers in your area is a good way to keep costs in check.
The venue
Finding and booking the perfect wedding venue is a priority for wedding planning. Locking in an affordable venue gives the bride and groomto-be peace of mind and allows them to work with a business that best suits their style and budget. According to OMGhitched.com, booking a venue at least 12 to 18 months before your big day is savvy for wedding planners. The financial website Fortunly. com shared the bulk of the budget goes toward securing a wedding venue. Depending on the source, couples pay around $6,000 or $10,500 for this. The most popular places to hold wedding receptions and ceremonies in the U.S. include places of worship, farms and barns, vineyards, hotels, resorts, country estates, banquet halls and parks and gardens.
Flowers
When planning their special day, vibrant and lovely flowers are a non-negotiable part of the celebration. For those who want flowers that look their most beautiful, order varieties available locally during the season you’re getting married; buying in-season is also an excellent way to save money on wedding flowers. Depending on flower quality, amount and time of year, floral bouquets used for everything from centerpieces to bouquets to other arrangements have an average cost of around $1,500 to $2,000, according to YeahWeddings.com. This site also shared that Saturday is the most popular day of the week to have a wedding, and the demand for a weekend wedding can also push costs up.
Catering and bar
Food is an integral part of wedding celebration planning and TheKnot. com shares the price-per-plate can run anywhere from $28-$40 per guest. One way to keep costs down is to offer a buffet-style feast, which not only cuts down on labor costs for the caterer but also shrinks the price per plate to $22-$27 per guest. The good news is the range of catering options has expanded dramatically as more brides and grooms explore more budget-friendly alternatives to the traditional sit-down meal, including food trucks, brunches, afternoon tea parties and even good oldfashioned backyard barbecues.
Liquor is another expense couples must consider when planning their special day. Interest in serving the custom cocktails that have been all the rage in past years is waning. Couples now use 8% of their budget to provide guests with a more simplified drink menu. Abbey Road Farm’s director of events, Kristen Baxter, shared the price
tag of an open bar depends entirely on what is being served.
“If you’re buying a drink package through your caterer, you’ll likely be quoted a price per head. More specifically, nonalcoholic drinks, even nicer options such as LaCroix or Pellegrino sodas, will be a fraction of the cost of any alcohol. From there, it increases: Beer, wine, and liquor will incur additional costs,” Baxter noted.
Fortunly.com also shared that 47 percent of couples exceed their initial wedding budget. Though creating a magical day is foremost in the minds of many couples, smart spending is also essential when it comes to wedding days. Many couples choose a better venue, higher-end food and stunning rings and save money on other wedding options such as dresses/tuxedos, photography and entertainment. Ways to shave costs from the wedding total include hiring local pros, trimming down the guest list and choosing in-season options for food and flowers.Cheers to love!
Tell us your story: ALLISON AND KOBE
What started out as a typical summer afternoon kicking off the weekend with my boyfriend on the lake ended with a ring on my finger and the title “fiancée.” On a hot day late in June of 2023, Kobe and I walked down to the lake for a pontoon ride. We were at his parents’ house and this was an otherwise normal occurrence for us when we would have days off together. This particular afternoon however, instead of our usual dip in the lake to cool off, he suggested we opt for a pontoon cruise instead. I obliged, though I recall it was very hot that day and I was low-key thinking that I’d prefer to go swimming!
On our leisure cruise, I noticed Kobe had chosen a playlist of my favorite songs to listen to. It was then that I started to wonder if this was our “big moment”.
Although, I had thought that on a couple occasions before… My mind started spinning and I remembered how earlier in the week, his sister asked me to join her at the nail salon to get my nails done. After what felt like forever in that moment of waiting, Kobe nervously got down on one knee and popped the question, “Will you marry me?” We both got tears in our eyes and started feeling the beauty and significance of the moment. In hindsight, it was so simple, but oh SO perfect.
With a ring on my finger and our future in mind, we shifted into wedding planning mode and started checking off our boxes. Pick a date, find a location, buy a dress — the list felt endless!
One of the first things we did was to start searching for a venue. With so many beautiful locations and options of venues
to get married in Minnesota, we started dreaming and considering a couple venues in the Brainerd lakes area. Then, one night Kobe and I were talking and he randomly suggested the idea, “What if we get married on my family’s land?” Instantly we both knew this would be incredibly special to his family and knowing that meant the world to us. We talked through the idea with his parents and grandparents and then it was set. We were going to be married on family land. It felt so right and fit the dream of our rustic wedding.
Next on our list was picking a date! Our options were wide open since we weren’t getting married at a special commercial venue. We casually scanned the calendar and on a whim, Kobe’s uncle suggested 8/24/24 and brought to our attention the numbers 8 and 24 were Kobe Bryant’s
Photography by Maggie Hoerle @MiddleSisterPhotoLLC
jersey numbers. Basketball was a huge part of Kobe’s life back in high school. It felt like a sign to us that 8/24/24 was “our day” and from then on, there was no question, it was our date.
Now for the fun part, all the details! Everything about our wedding planning process was meaningful and special to us. It was a group effort from not only us but our families and friends too. To start, not many people can say their parents built a barn for their wedding–but essentially, ours did!
Kobe’s parents had been wanting to build a pole building for some time on the family land and decided our wedding was their sign to move forward with it. Along with building the barn, with help from friends and family, we cleared land for our ceremony site, built 56 benches out of pallets, an outdoor bar, and a back-drop for our head table. Our grandparents built our wedding arches and our uncle detailed large cable spools and built bar stools to use for our head table. We had so many ideas for personal touches to add to our wedding. I can’t tell you how many weekends we spent working on DIY projects with our family and friends.
When our wedding day arrived, Kobe and I had been thinking about how we could honor our parents and grandparents who
“Everything about our wedding planning process was meaningful and special to us. It was a group effort from not only us but our families and friends too.”
had shown us so many wonderful examples of love. We decided to create a photo display of “all the love stories before us” to honor our parents and grandparents and coordinated a special dance to the song “Remember When” by Alan Jackson to dedicate to our parents. Both our parents were surprised and elated.
Looking back, all the personal touches made our special day so meaningful. We put our heart and soul into it and I’ll never regret one moment. Our wedding was the perfect representation of our lives. It was simple yet elegant. I’m forever grateful to our wedding photographer who captured our special day and all for capturing all of the personal touches perfectly. She was able to highlight everything that is special to us: the people in our lives, our family land that now holds these cherished memories and all the details that made our day unique. This was truly the wedding of my dreams!
Vendors:
Photographer: Maggie Hoerle @MiddleSisterPhotoLLC
Venue: Private Property in Aitkin, MN
Officiant: Nathan Ernst
Florist: @petalandposy.mn
Rings: @Riddlesjewelry
Bride’s Dress: @Emily_Kaye_Bridal
Groom + Groomsmen Attire: @Nisswa_Tuxedo
Bridesmaids Attire: @BirdyGrey
DJ: @MidwestSoundDJ
Hair Stylist: @thelovdahlcollective
Makeup: @marciehairmakeup
Invitations: @Canva
Catering: @BlockNorthBrewPub
Rustic or elegant — Plan your outdoor wedding at Lakes Music and Events Park
BY SUSAN SMITH-GRIER
Located less than one mile north of Pine River, you will find the perfect outdoor venue for your big day. Lakes Music and Events Park encompasses more than 20 acres of beautiful landscape perfect for weddings large or small. Your dreams of an outdoor ceremony come true at this special place.
Make your vows under the open sky in the amphitheater or choose either the large or small pavilion for a more sheltered affair. You decide on the theme and décor of your wedding and we can supply a list of services to make your day complete. Whether you need florists, caterers, or a spa day for the bride and bridesmaids, everything you are looking for can be provided by the shops in Pine River. We also have over 200 campsites for those who embrace the idea of an all-outdoors wedding experience.
Large or small, we do it all
Our smaller pavilion is a perfect place for the mini or micro wedding that is becoming so popular these days. Many couples are choosing the more intimate micro wedding because of its simplicity. Smaller weddings are also more affordable than traditional, larger affairs. This unique event can be very romantic and cozy with the people who mean the most to you.
For couples who are looking forward to something larger and more extravagant, the Lakes Music and Events Park can accommodate up to 500 guests. The large pavilion provides generous space for the head table as well as an area for a band if you choose live music.
Speaking of live music, the amphitheater is perfect for an outdoor reception as it is home to the Lakes Bluegrass Festival. Your guests can enjoy dancing under the stars as you and your special someone create an evening to remember.
Start planning your special event at Lakes Music and Event Park by calling Jackie Wetrosky at 844-620-4727 or send an email to info@lakesbluegrassfestival.com. We look forward to serving you and your guests.
• 20+ acres to accommodate large to small gatherings
• 200+ campsites
• Local Florist & Catering Available • Less than 1mile from Pine River
2025 Venue Guide
BRAINERD AMERICAN LEGION
BREEZY POINT RESORT
CARLOS CREEK WINERY
CHASE ON THE LAKE
DENNIS DRUMMOND WINE COMPANY
GRAND VIEW LODGE
LAKES MUSIC & EVENTS PARK
LARSON’S BARN LLC
MANHATTAN BEACH LODGE
NISSWA AMERICAN LEGION POST 627
NISSWA COMMUNITY EVENT CENTER
NORTHERN PACIFIC CENTER
NORTHLAND ARBORETUM
RUTTGER’S BAY LAKE RESORT
THE EMERALD COTTAGE
THE LODGE AT BRAINERD LAKES
WHITEFISH LODGE & SUITES
S UITES &
LODGE
Off-sites
Ballroom overlooks Pelican Lake, beachside and pavillion options; Breezy Belle boat with 80 capacity.
Included fresh floral centerpieces & ceremony decor, included day-of coordination services, access to getting-ready-rooms for the full
Ballroom available with mirror, great lighting and private bathroom (grooms room also available). Wedding patio facing the sunset!
Most awarded property in the state. Iconic ceremony site and a wide variety of reception venues that are perfect for parties of 40 to 400 guests.
Camping, Dump Station, Open Pavilions, space is yours for the weekend, 20 Acres of woods & grass, people-mover available.
Big Trout Lake of the Whitefish Chain; venue is completely exclusive when booked for a
Voted MN Bride’s Best Brainerd Lakes Area Venue of 2024. Multiple venue options for various group sizes with one-of-a-kind venue backdrops and photo opportunities. Onsite decor rentals and getting ready suites.
Unlimited outdoor guest capacity; surrounded by breathtaking gardens and wildlife. Also offer chair covers, call for details.
Big or small we have something for you. Ruby’s on the Lake has a great view of Bay Lake and can host up to 120 guests, while our ballroom can seat up to 275. Outdoor space is also available for ceremonies.
In addition to catering vendors, we also allow you to bring in your own food.
Beauty and emotions that will last a lifetime
BY REBECCA FLANSBURG
Store owner Ed Menk and his experienced staff have never lost sight of their commitment to offering quality fine jewelry to Brainerd lakes area customers along with personalized service that is second to none. The staff has not only been with the company for many years, together they collectively have more than 100 years of experience in the jewelry and diamond industry. They also know that purchasing a ring for an engagement or a wedding is one of the important expenditures in a couple’s life. And it’s a decision that will be better made with the knowledge and guidance of an expert.
“We enjoy helping brides and grooms find the perfect wedding ring for their special occasion and have options for every budget,” Menk confirmed. “Our wedding bands are made of the best materials and the highest craftsmanship and we offer only stones cut to maximum brilliance. Our wide selection of diamond rings include solitaires, ideal square diamonds, engagement rings, colored diamonds, custom designed bands and many more. For couples looking to match an existing ring, our design team can custom create a single or double wedding band that matches their ring beautifully.”
sparkle of a diamond, and know that it is the right diamond for the occasion, brides and grooms find they benefit from working one-on-one with someone who is also a part of their community.
A locally-owned and operated business, E.L. Menk Jewelers’ selection includes beautiful bracelets, necklaces and rings that are as classic and unique as their customers are. They also offer couples diversity in jewelry choices and the largest collection of Canadian-mined and cut diamonds in the area. To view and appreciate the true brilliance and
If a wedding proposal is in the future, E.L. Menk can take the pressure off grooms-to-be by offering a unique service that helps them with the decision-making process. After working to select the best diamond for the future groom’s budget and vision, the selected diamond is then mounted in a simple solitaire setting. This works to preserve the magic and excitement of the proposal, yet gives the bride-to-be an option of returning the solitaire setting and then selecting a new setting that better fits her style and taste.
“The times have changed, but we haven’t,” Menk noted. “We have always been focused on providing the best service and expertise possible right within the walls of this building. In our jewelry workshop we not only create fine jewelry, we perform quality repairs and maintenance to keep your items looking like new. All of our production and repair work is done onsite by my expert staff members who specialize in repairs, custom jewelry production and appraisals. Our customers’ satisfaction is always in the forefront of our minds and we continually work to ensure that everyone leaves this store with a smile that sparkles as brightly as the diamonds we sell.”
As E.L. Menk Jewelers celebrates its 44th year in business, Menk credits his company’s longevity to consistently offering excellence in customer service, professionalism, integrity along with cultivating longterm relationships with the customers who are now considered friends. In an era where online deals tempt buyers with cheap prices on inferior products, he also points out that there is no substitute for a trusted relationship with a hometown jeweler.
“We’ve been here a long time and we will continue to be here for years to come,” Menk concluded. “We are proud to be able to use our knowledge and vast selection of stones and settings to assist brides and grooms-to-be in making a selection that not only reflects their relationship’s beauty and emotions, but also one that will last a lifetime.
