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How Are You Today? here is no more privacy available in our world. I think my telephone is the most invasive thing of all. It is set to ring four times before it quits. I try to reach it before the fourth ring. I always make it in time to answer, but for some time now, on the other end of the line, there will be a pause, then the caller (I’ll call her Cloris) introduces herself and says “How are you today?” I used to be ready with nice respectful answers. For several years I would find myself in the middle of a moot conversation before realizing it was a call that merely took my time away from more important things. I used to answer, even if it was 8:30 in the morning… or in the evening. I have tripped on the edge of a throw rug and fallen… trying desperately to get to the phone to answer before the fourth ring and it would be Cloris. I have been in the shower and ran full wet down the hall, thinking a friend was calling, but it was only Cloris. I have locked the house, started to the car and heard the ring inside the house and quickly unlocked the door in order not to miss hearing from Sue, Jacques, Dr. Val, or other friends or family. No, it was only Cloris. I have had visitors in my home when the phone rang. They would have just gotten comfortable and enjoyed being with us when, because of the interruption of the telephone, they suddenly said, “We must go now so answer your phone. It could be

You Name It …by Kitty Maiden important.” It was only important to Cloris... certainly not to me! I still run desperately to answer the phone in case it is an important call but more recently, I wait for the pause and then hang up. I believe my friends have had the same experience for when I call them, I get their phone message. They do call me back but sometimes it is important to speak to them, mainly because, on top of everything else, I forget why I called by time they return the call. The most painful thing is that we are becoming neutralized in our quest for showing proper love and respect to friends and family… because strangers are infiltrating our homes and making us shy of conversation with them. Sadly, the Cloris’s of the world of telemarketing may be neutralized of love and respect after the first few hang-ups of the telephone. Our government is always making new laws… and an area attorney speaks as though there are laws to stop the excessive calls. If you have the answers, please call me and don’t pause before answering.

Kitty Maiden is a staff writer for Seniors Today.

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Telemarket Fraud hopping over the telephone is a modern convenience that many of us take advantage of from time to time without a problem. That’s because there are many legitimate companies that do business through telemarketing. Unfortunately, in the hands of an unscrupulous scam artist, the telephone is a powerful weapon used to rob consumers —many of them seniors. Telemarketing fraud robs U.S. citizens of billions of dollars annually. Surveys indicate that more than half of those victims are age 50 or older. Fraudulent telemarketers are good at what they do. Their slick come-ons and high-pressure tactics can be very compelling. They’re so good at it that they can persuade people to mortgage their homes or turn over their life savings to claim sweepstakes winnings or make phony investment deals. Seniors can protect themselves by learning to recognize fraudulent sales pitches and reporting telemarketing fraud to law enforcement and consumer protection agencies. Once you know the warning signs, simply hang up on any solicitation that seems suspicious. Good salespeople are convincing, but so are crooks. Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference. That’s why the nonprofit National Fraud Information Center has put together a list of tips to help seniors fight telemarketing fraud. According to the Center, it’s probably a scam if: • You get a call or postcard from someone telling you that you’ve won a prize and asking for payment to buy something, for processing or administrative fees, for customs, for taxes or any other reason. Legitimate sweepstakes or prize offers don’t ask for payment. • The person says you have to take the offer immediately or you’ll miss out on the opportunity. Legitimate companies don’t pressure people to act without time to look into the deal. • The caller refuses to send you written information before you commit. Legitimate companies are always glad to send information about what they’re offering. • The caller claims that you can make huge profits in an investment with no

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…Volusia County Sheriff Ben Johnson risk. All investments have an element of risk and legitimate companies will tell you about the possible risks up-front. • The caller is asking for a donation, but won’t tell you exactly how the money will be used and how you can verify the charity. Legitimate charities are willing to say what percentage of contributions is used for services and how much goes to overhead and fundraising. They’re also are willing to tell consumers who they can check with to confirm that they’re legitimate. • The caller insists that you send your payment by a private courier or wire the money. Legitimate companies don’t try to evade postal authorities by demanding immediate payment by courier or wire. • The company asks for cash. Legitimate companies don’t ask for cash, but con artists do because it makes it hard to trace. • The caller asks for your credit card number, bank account number, or other financial information when you aren’t buying anything or paying with those accounts. Legitimate companies only ask for financial information to bill you or debit your account for purchases you’ve made. • The company calls you relentlessly or after you’ve asked not to be called anymore. Legitimate companies will take “no” for an answer and will take you off their calling list if you ask. Con artists will keep on calling to try to wear you down and get money, or in some cases more money, from you. • The company offers to get back money that you’ve lost to another fraudulent scheme if you pay an up-front fee. Remember: giving money to a fraudulent telemarketer usually means losing it forever. Don’t let a criminal use your telephone line to rob your wallet or break into your bank account!

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What’s Happening Around Town… Senior Citizen Day Seniors Today is proud to sponsor the special Senior Citizen Day at the Volusia County Fair, I-4 exit 118 A SR 44, DeLand on Tuesday, Nov. 10! The day will feature concerts by The Coasters and The Crystals with shows at 4 and 7 P.M., two fabulous shows you won’t want to miss! Shows are free with fair gate admission which is only $8 for seniors 55 or better until 7 P.M.

Medicare Seminars Florida Hospital Care Advantage is offering numerous seminars throughout Volusia and Flagler counties. Learn how you can have $0 PCP copay, no referrals, no deductibles, $0 premium plans, and access more than 3,000 providers! Attend a seminar and earn a $10 gift card too. For dates, times, locations, see our ad on page A-7. To RSVP call 1.877.425.8816.

Natural Smile Seminar Do you have missing teeth or ill-fitting dentures? Find out if dental implants are right for you at a free patient information day. The seminar is scheduled at 4 P.M. on Tuesday, Nov. 17 in Daytona Beach. Seating is limited and light refreshments served. Make your reservation by calling 386.239.3600.

Medicare Workshops Come find out how medicare works on Tues., Dec. 1 at 6 P.M.; or Wed., Dec. 2 at 10 A.M. at Great American Senior Benefits, 1930 West Granada Blvd., Ormond Beach. Seating fills fast! RSVP to 386.671.9150 or greatameri canpr@yahoo.com and leave name and date you wish to attend.

Plant Care Myrna Moore will offer a free presentation on poinsettias and other popular Christmas plants at 1 P.M. Thurs., Nov. 19, at the Ormond Beach Regional Library, 30 S. Beach St. Moore is a master gardener with the University of Florida/Volusia County Extension. RSVP is not required. For details, call the library at 386.676.4191, option 4.

Computer Classes The New Smyrna Beach Regional Library, 1001 S. Dixie Freeway has free classes each Wednesday in Nov. from 10 to 11:30 A.M. Microsoft Word 2007 on Nov. 11.; Internet Basics on Nov. 18; and Getting Started With Computers on Nov. 25. You may bring your own laptops. Eight library laptops are available on a first-come, first-served basis. Registration is required, seating limited to 12. Call 386.424.2910, option 4.

PP Veteran’s Day PP Celebration Note: New Time & New Location! Come honor and celebrate our Veteran’s with The Cloisters and Seniors Today on Wed., Nov. 11, 12 NOON at The Cloisters, 400 East Howry Ave., DeLand. Lunch provided plus a patriotic program, music, and Veteran’s Pinning ceremony. For more information, call 386.677.7060.

Lunch & Learn One of the greatest gifts you can give your family is to plan ahead. Learn how to make funeral planning simple and easy with Baldwin Brothers complimentary lunch and learns. All seminars begin at 11 A.M. Chose from those at the Outback, 135 E. Granada Blvd., Ormond Beach on Tues., Nov. 10 or Nov. 24; TGIF, 24 Ocean Shore Blvd., Ormond Beach on Mon. Nov. 9 or Thurs., Nov. 19; or Hulls Seafood, 111 W Granada Blvd. Ormond Beach on Fri., Nov. 20. RSVP to Robin at 386.523.8268.

Our Lady Of Lourdes Join Our Lady Of Lourdes, 1014 N. Halifax Ave., Daytona Beach for a variety of events in November. All are welcome! 60-ish lunch at Riptides, 869 S. Atlantic Ave., Ormond Beach at 1 P.M. and on Wed., Nov. 12 at 7 P.M. join them every Thursday for Ballroom dance lessons in the chapel for only $5 per session with a professional instructor. For more information on any event, call 286.255.0433.

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Do you like to travel? Come enjoy the Odyssey Travel club once a month to share travel news, tips, and destinations. The next meeting is Nov. 18 at 10 A.M. at Crane Lakes Roost Restaurant, 1850 Crane Lakes Blvd., Port Orange. The public is invited, but reservations are suggested as seating is limited. Princess Cruises will be there this month. Refreshments provided. RSVP to 386.672.8113 or e-mail paula@odysseytravel.com

Free Caregiver’s Day Out Need a break from caregiving? First United Methodist Church of Ormond Beach is providing two free Caregiver’s Day Out that includes food, fun, and special attention for care receivers. The days are from 9 A.M. to 2 P.M. on Sat., Nov. 14 and Thursday, Dec. 17 at First United Methodist Church of Ormond Beach. For details, call Sherry at 386. 677.3581, ext. 311. You loved ones will be cared for in a safe, loving environment while you enjoy some free time.

Veterans Benefits Seminar Veterans and spouses may be entitled to little-known benefits through a Veteran’s Benefits program. Join Florida hospital Flagler Foundation on Tues., Nov. 10 at 6 P.M. in Classrooms A/B, 60 Memorial Medical Pkwy., Palm Coast to learn how you could receive up to $25,448 per year. Light refreshments served. RSVP required! Call 386. 586.4440 to register.

Market For A Mission This fun-filled event will be held at the Offices at Oak Park, 595 North Nova Rd., Ormond Beach on Sat., Nov. 14 from 9 A.M.–2 P.M. Browse through arts & crafts, plants, jewelry, shoes & purses, and garage sale treasure. Food available for purchase. Proceeds will benefit the Jerry Doliner Food Bank. For details, call Diane at 386.672.6517.

Deltona Library Classes The Deltona Regional Library, 2150 Eustace Ave. is planning a variety of free programs that focus on fashion, hobbies, reading, cooking, writing, dancing, crafts, and much more in November. Registration is required only for the cooking class. For times, dates, and details on all the classes, call 386.789.7207, option 1, then 4.

Lunch Bunch Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 724 Big Tree Road, South Daytona host Lunch Bunch every Thurs. at 12 NOON. Just $5 gets you lunch and bingo with non-monetary prizes. Reservations are required by noon the Tuesday prior. Call the church at 386.767.6542.

Support Groups Our Lady Of Lourdes Our Lady of Lourdes, 1014 N. Halifax Ave., Daytona Beach host support groups each week. The Chronic Pain Support Group meets the 2nd Tuesday of every month in the cafe’ at 1:30 P.M. The Bereavement Support Group meets every Tuesday in the cafe’ at 7 P.M. The Depression & Anxiety Support Group meets Wed., Nov. 18 at 1:30 P.M. For more info, call 386.255.0433. Alcoholics Anonymous Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experiences, strength, and hope. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees. Please call toll free, 888. 756.2930 for more information.

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Christmas Stockings For Soldiers Special to Seniors Today end our troups a little taste of home for the holidays. Dale Woodward Funeral Homes is proud to be one of the nearly 1,000 exclusive Veterans & Family Memorial Care funeral home providers across America participating in the 8th annual VFMC Christmas Stocking for Soldiers initiative. From now thru December 1st please stop in to the funeral home and pickup a free Christmas Stocking to take home, decorate, and stuff with Christmas cheer. You will receive a list of recommended items along with the free stocking. Dale Woodward Funeral Home will ship the stockings at their expense to troops abroad in time for Christmas. “Sending our heroes some good tidings and holiday cheer is a great way for us to show our support and appreciation for the sacrifices they make to keep our country safe and secure,” said Tracy Woodward of Dale Woodward Funeral Home. In addition, Dale Woodward Funeral Home is also an official drop off center for cell phones for soldiers. Please bring in your old cell phones to help our troops call home this holiday season. The old cell phones are recycled and turned into

free calling cards for our heroes. VFMC providers nationwide have collected enough old cell phones to provide our troops overseas with over five million free calling minutes. You may stop by the funeral home from now thru December 1st—Monday thru Friday between 9:30 A.M. and 4:30 P. M .—to pick-up your free Christmas stocking or drop off an old cell phone. Please use the Dale Woodward Funeral Home located at 167 Ridgewood Ave., Holly Hill.

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Thanking Ahead by Peggy Goldtrap

rossroads. The very word strikes fear into the heart but that same fear can stimulate the mind to work faster as the heartbeat increases. What we fear can also push us to excellence. That’s all well and good, but personally, I’d like to have less fear and anxiety. I’d also like to eat chocolate candy and ice cream at least three times a day and never, ever gain weight. I’d like to have the body and energy of a twenty year old but retain the wisdom of years I’ve so carefully honed. I’d also like to turn back the clock but I don’t have time. There’s a long list of ‘I wish I had of’s..,’ ‘I could kick myself for not ….,’ and ‘Why couldn’t I see that coming?’ Looking backwards as life is pushing us forward is a peculiar gift of mankind. Every year we think ‘we’ve arrived,’ the itinerary changes. The more regrets we cram in our luggage, the more costly the ticket to ride. This particularly poignant point is appropriate as we approach the holiday season. In a few days every possible image of home, hearth, and happiness will be flashed across screens and print with the purpose of pushing consumers to buy. No problem, as long as we realize that the advertisers are exploiting our vulnerabilities not out strengths. Want to honor your elders? Buy something. Want to make your children happy? Buy. Want to get more love in your life? By all means buy that bauble, bangle, or bead. To add to the insult, gifting is elevated to a moral command. She deserves this car, vacation, cruise, etc. You want your family to be happy, don’t you? Mom and dad sacrificed for your success, so… A hair transplant will get the ladies swooning. A mani, pedi, massage eliminates the stress that causes wrinkles and premature aging. All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth, implanted of course. Financing is available. Whatever happened to Over the River And Through The Woods? Oh, right, Grandma moved to assisted living. Grandpa used to shoot the Thanksgiving turkey; now he orders pizza. Granddaughter is a vegetarian. Uncle has high cholesterol. Cousin can’t have caffeine. Nephew is allergic to nuts (except those in the family). Ambrosia is too expensive, high in calories, takes hours to prepare; so a can of jellied cranberry sauce makes a limp but colorful display instead.

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I can remember working hours on a turkey; playing Gynecologist to a cold carcass. I didn’t know the turkey personally, but we became close through the process. I’d make cornbread for the stuffing, then chop veggies, get the just right liquid consistency and then stuff the cavity. That was horribly messy and invasive, but I knew the ‘end’ justified the means. Never did I serve a crowd and have Norman Rockwell in attendance. My dinners were usually long, loud, laughfilled, messy. Food on floor, casserole on carpet. Prize to the first person to spill their plate on the new couch. Kids who can’t find the bathroom. Recipes swapped all around or coupons copied for fast food treats. After food there were games, not Hunger Games in a multi-plex theater. There were tall stories spun, tall trees climbed, and taller children marking another new year on the wall. There were football games in the side yard, not in stadiums. Those were the days. Now, on holidays we order in from out. We prop our feet up and click all over the world watching football or soccer or old movies. (GAG still thinks we’re fighting WWII.) We shop on the Net and a drone drops the order at the door (not yet, but soon). The cat, who can’t tell time and doesn’t care, sleeps on my lap. There are no dishes to clean, no jokes to tell others, no leftovers to wrap and send home, no babies to kiss goodnight. That was yesterday and yesterday is now gone. One thing about the holiday season that has remained a constant. Naptime. Naps are seasonally neutral, appropriate anytime, anywhere. During the holidays, almost every old man will unbuckle his belt, ease his pants off his belly and lay back in a recliner. Something to do with the Tryptophan in turkey, even if it’s Tofurkey, or a couple of slices from the deli, a nap is the perfect once-size-fits-all holiday gift.

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Page A-8—Seniors Today—November 6, 2015 2015 Volusia County Fair & Youth Show Special to Seniors Today he 71st edition of the Volusia County Fair & Youth Show is November 5-15. We're pleased to announce the entertainment lineup for this, the largest “family-friendly” event in Volusia County. Deggeller Attractions is back with a great line-up of over $15 million in rides and fun. John Anderson, a local favorite, with hits including Swingin, is in concert inside the Tommy Lawrence Arena on Saturday, Nov. 14 at 8 P.M with special guest Susan Rose. Join us for entertainment on Senior Day, Tuesday, Nov. 10. Experience The Fabulous Coasters (Charlie Brown, Young Blood, Yakety Yak, and Along Came Jones) and The Incredible Crystals (Da Do Ron Ron, And Then He Kissed Me, He’s a Rebel, and many more great hits) inside the Tommy Lawrence Arena for two shows; 4 P.M. and 7 P.M. Senior’s Day is sponsored by Aging Tree and Seniors Today. Saturday, Nov. 7 is Florida Dairy Farmer’s Day and 93.1 Coast Country Night. The 93.1 Coast Country Band will perform on stage in the Tommy Lawrence Arena with special guest Patrick Gibson. The fair opens at 4 P.M. weekdays, except Tuesday, Nov. 10 when it opens at 11 A.M. for Senior Day. The Fair opens at 11 A.M., Saturday and Sunday. The Fair will close at 9 P.M. on Sunday, Nov. 15, the last day of the 2015 Fair. There's so much to do at the Volusia County Fair & Youth Show. There's plenty of livestock to see and a petting zoo, too. AgVenture, located across from the Florida Dairy Farmer's Townsend Livestock Pavilion, has pedal-powered tractors and other features to keep little ones entertained on the farm. Visit Grizzly Ex-perience, an educational grizzly bear show. The bears can be seen in the AgVenture area. Goat Mountain is back, so is Kids can fish. Kids can win a rod and reel from the Halifax Sport Fishing Club there, too. Florida Dairy Farmer’s Association and Volusia County Farm Bureau sponsor AgVenture. See Allen’s Original Redwood Log House. Get in on the musical fun when Rock-It The Robot returns to the Volusia County Fair. Rock-It will be joined by America’s Got Talent performers Those Funny Little People, fair mascot Jessie the Pig, and Merry Moo, the Florida Dairy Farmer’s mascot. Monkeyman Moore will also be there to entertain you with his monkeys. You'll want to bring your cameras. Photographic opportunities will be numerous. Other entertainment includes Disconnected K9s, Scott's Comedy Magic Show, The Dennis Lee Band, and Catherine Hickland (Hypnotist). Local youngsters in Millennium Musicians, under the direction of Jeff

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Leder, will be back this year with a new entertainment surprise. On the weekend days, Blackwater Bluegrass Band will be playing their unplugged version of some great bluegrass music. We are very proud to announce that the Volusia County Fair & Youth Show has partnered with the Volusia County Cattlemen’s and Cattlewomen’s Association to open the rodeo arena. The West Volusia Saddle Club will be doing demonstrations in the rodeo arena every day of the fair. There will also be barrel racing on Saturday, Nov. 14 at 10 A.M. The traditional Antique Tractor Parade will happen each weekend day at around 3:15 P.M. and will be led by the DeLand Bulldog Marching Band. It is always a crowd pleaser. We also have Red Dragon Laser Tag (extra fee) that the kids and adults will love. If you like history, then you will love to explore the Old Plantation display featuring historic memorabilia and a working model railroad. The Old Gas Station building features antique motors, tractors, gas pumps, and more from yesteryear. The Hester and Daugharty buildings house the community arts. See how talented your neighbors are with canning, baking, quilts, photography, crafts, fine arts, and all the exhibits there. The Volusia County Fair Association Board of Directors and staff are very proud of our community and being able to present this wonderful labor of love. That’s why we say, It's your fair—a family affair. We look forward to seeing you at the 2015 Volusia County Fair & Youth Show, Nov. 5–15. Advance ride and gate tickets are on sale at Walgreens. Participating locations can be found at volusiacountyfair.com click tickets then deals at the top of the home page. You can find all of the information about the fair on our website, by texting volusiafair to 64600, or visit us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

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• Running a washing machine that isn't full not only wastes energy and water, it also wastes money because you're paying to run more washes. Always fill the machine—but remember not to overload it! This applies to your dishwasher, too.

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• To help repel the dust on baseboards between cleanings, wipe with a used dryer sheet. To make this even easier, you can put the dryer sheet over a Swiffer-type floor cleaner. This way, you don't even have to bend down to clean. —M.E. in Alabama

• Felt circles are great for putting under small appliances on the kitchen counter. They are easier to move around, and they won't scratch the countertops. You can find them at the hardware store, or make your own by cutting out what you need from a piece of felt and attaching it to the bottom of your appliance with double-stick tape—or even a drop of glue!

• You can use plain alcohol on a paper towel to wipe down your house telephone. I do this a couple of times a week during cold season. Also, purchase a pack of electronics wipes, so everyone can keep his or her cellphone screen clean. Think about it: We constantly touch the screen with our fingers, then stick it right up to our face! —W.R. in New York

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November 6, 2015—Seniors Today—Page A-11 PACE—Helping Seniors Avoid Hospitalization Special to Seniors Today n Volusia and Flagler counties we are fortunate to have some of the best, highly competent professionals staffing our hospitals. However, even with that being said, it is not typically the place any of want to go for a visit. Our next topic at our PACE meeting to be held on Thursday, November 19 from 10–11:30 A.M. at Orange City Nursing and Rehab is: How To Avoid Hospitalization! Come find out what all your options are, what choices you as the patient can make, and how to put yourself in charge of your health. If you do end up being hospitalized you may have many other questions such as: How is my insurance used? What should I take with me to the hospital? and What information should I ask at discharge? PACE is a panel consisting of a group of senior healthcare professionals and an attorney who want to inform the community on everything there is to know about the healthcare process and senior issues. PACE welcomes elder law attorney Brittany Green Gloersen to our PACE panel at our meeting on November 19. Gloersen established Gloersen Law, P.L. with a mission to infuse compassion, integrity, and strength into the Volusia County community. A graduate of Stetson University School of Law, Ms. Gloersen’s areas of concen-

tration are elder law, guardianships, estate planning, and probate. She can assist clients in matters regarding Veterans’ Benefits, Medicaid benefits, guardianship of minors and elders, and life care planning. She has many civic ties and is very involved in the community, including volunteer work with the Rotary Club of DeLand and Big Brothers and Big Sisters. PACE was conceived several months of ago when several professionals involved in senior services met to discuss the idea of how great it would be if seniors had a place to go to have all their questions answered FREE of charge. There is nothing offered for sale at our meetings and no one will call you after the meeting to try to sell you anything! Our friendly, informal meetings are strictly to benefit our seniors. We also offer a FREE lunch to everyone after our meeting. So bring all your friends and questions and join us at our next meeting for some information and fellowship! The PACE panel meets on the 3rd Thursday every other month. Our next meeting is Thursday, Nov. 19, 10 A.M. at Orange City Nursing & Rehab, 2810 Enterprise Rd., DeBary, 32713. Please RSVP to 386.775.3561.

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Pet Care Cat's Shedding A Hairy Issue by Sam Mazzotta

Dear Paw's Corner: My cat Chester has always been a big shedder with his long hair. I've pretty much kept up with it by brushing his coat every evening. Lately I've noticed a lot more hair deposited on the furniture and carpet, and when I comb him I have to clean out the brush several times. What could be causing this increased shedding? —Cherie K. in Dubuque, Iowa Dear Cherie: To start, make an appointment with Chester's vet for a complete physical exam. Excess shedding doesn't always have a concrete explanation, but it can signal a change in his health, especially if it wasn't a problem before. Excess shedding can have a cause as benign as changes in the season— shedding in spring and fall, for example. It could be triggered by allergies to dust, pollen, and molds, which can irritate his skin and make him scratch more. Skin diseases such as ringworm can be another cause—it's something the vet will certainly check for, along with ﬂea infestation or other irritants.

Excess shedding also can signal much more serious conditions, such as diabetes or hyperthyroidism, something that a vet can diagnose. Ahead of the appointment, watch Chester's behavior: Is he drinking excessively? Does he seem agitated? Is he eating as much as he used to? Write down anything that seems unusual and shared it with the vet. If Chester has developed a health condition, the vet can prescribe the right medications and advise you on the best diet to feed him. If allergies or some unknown irritant is at work, the exam will rule out other possible causes so you can focus on ﬁnding a shedding solution. Send your questions or tips to ask @pawscorner.com

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What’s In The Stars For The Week Of November 9 ARIES (March 21 to April 19) Some flashes of Aries might erupt as you confront an unusually bewildering situation. You should be able to keep your temper under control. TAURUS (April 20 to May 20) That marriage 'twixt the arts and practicality that Taureans excel at once again highlights your enjoyment. Watch any sudden urge to splurge. GEMINI (May 21 to June 20) Even with all the plusses apparently outweighing the minuses, you still might want to defer an important decision to make sure you have all the facts you need. CANCER (June 21 to July 22) One or two problems might threaten to derail otherwise smoothly running situations at work or at home. A few well-placed words should get things back on track. LEO (July 23 to Aug. 22) This could be a good time for all you Leos and Leonas in the spotlight to open your generous Lion's hearts and share the glory with those who helped you. VIRGO (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) You might want to get advice from someone who's been there and knows these situations better than you do, before investing time or money (or both).

LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22) Be careful how you handle a workplace matter that seems out of place. Before you act, one way or another, find out who set it up and why. SCORPIO (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21) Your entertainment aspect is strong this week. Besides providing a wonderful break from everyday obligations, sharing fun times brings you closer to loved ones. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21) Having a weekend fun fest? Your friend or relative who's down in the emotional dumps could perk up if you find a way to include him in your plans. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 to Jan. 19) If you're in one of those the Goat knows best periods, you might want to ease up and try listening to what others have to say. You could learn something. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) That new challenge is getting closer, and you should be out there now showing facts and figures to potential allies to help persuade them to rally to your support. PISCES (Feb. 19 to March 20) Getting a head start on holiday plans could help free up some time later to spend on other projects. Meanwhile, a colleague has some ideas worth discussing.

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Antiques That's Amore Q: I have a mint 78-rpm recording of Dean Martin's That's Amore. Is it worth more than the $5 I paid for it? —Stan, Sun City, Arizona A: Probably not. Your recording was issued by Capitol Records (Capitol 2589) and hit the charts in November 1953. The song was introduced in the movie The Caddy. It is not considered rare, and generally sells for $2 or $3 in good condition. Incidentally, the record charted for 22 weeks and became a standard. *** Q: I have inherited a vase that was crafted and signed by Susie Cooper, but I have not been able to find anything about her in any of my reference books. I wonder if the piece is worth keeping. —Betty, San Diego A: Susie Cooper was a 20th-century ceramic designer who was first affiliated with A.E. Gray Pottery in Henley, England. Some of her very first pieces were made in 1922, but by 1930 she had formed a family pottery business with her brotherin-law, Jack Beeson. Within a decade she had become an important potter, and her pieces are quite collectible. For example, a vase might sell in the $200 to $450 range, and a punch bowl, $200. If you like your vase, it is worth keeping.

Q: I have a set of salt-and-pepper shakers that are marked Desert Sands. What do you know about this company? —Bill, Tulsa, Oklahoma A: Not much. During the 1850s, a small pottery company was started in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri. During the 1920s, it moved to Las Vegas, where the name Desert Sands was adopted. In 1937, the plant relocated to Boulder City, Nevada, and eventually moved once again to Barstow, California, where it closed during the 1970s. Pieces were identified with stamps and paper labels. I would assume your salt-andpepper set might be worth about $25. Write to Larry Cox in care of KFWS, 628 Virginia Drive, Orlando, FL 32803, or send e-mail to questionsforcox@aol.com Due to the large volume of mail he receives, Mr. Cox cannot personally answer all reader questions, nor does he do appraisals. Do not send any materials requiring return mail.

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Favorite Foods Baked Caramel-Apple Pecan Pie f you have the apples—we have the recipe! If you are like us, autumn is the time to savor fresh apple desserts. Here's one to get you started! 1 purchased refrigerated unbaked 9-inch pie crust 1 (4-serving) package sugar-free vanilla cook-and-serve pudding mix 1 cup water 1 teaspoon apple pie spice or ground cinnamon 4 cups cored, peeled, and sliced cooking apples 1 ⁄4 cup chopped pecans 1 ⁄4 cup fat-free caramel topping 1 ⁄2 cup reduced-calorie whipped topping

1. Heat oven to 375 F. Place pie crust in a 9-inch pie plate and flute edges. 2. In a medium saucepan, combine dry pudding mix, water, and apple pie spice. Stir in apples. Cook over medium heat until mixture thickens and apples start to soften, stirring often. Remove from heat. Add pecans and caramel topping. Mix gently to com-

bine. Spoon hot mixture into prepared pie crust. 3. Bake for 40 to 45 minutes. Place pie plate on a wire rack and allow to cool. Cut into 8 pieces. When serving, top each piece with 1 tablespoon whipped topping. * Each serving equals: 221 calories, 9g fat, 1g protein, 34g carb., 206mg sodium, 2g fiber; Diabetic Exchanges: 11⁄2 Starch, 1 Fruit, 11⁄2 Fat.

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Humane Society Update Tails From The Front by Tyler Stover oes your cat or dog seem a little itchy lately? They may have the dreaded flea infestation. Unfortunately, this is a common problem, especially in a hot climate like ours here in Central Florida. Fleas bites generally only cause a mild itch, but in the case of an infestation, the consequences can be more severe. A large number of flea bites can lead to anemia and even death in the worst cases. On many pets, especially those with lighter-colored fur, you may see the fleas crawling through the hair. A pet infested with fleas will also have many black particles in their fur. Spot treatments, oral medications, collars, sprays, shampoos, and powders are among the many medications available to treat your pet’s flea infestation. Many treatments can be used regularly to prevent a flea infestation before it starts. Only treating your pet will not always end the problem, however. After an infestation, it is important to vacuum the entire house (and throw out the bag afterwards) and wash all of your pet’s toys, bedding, blankets, and any other objects he or she comes into contact with regularly. For more severe infestations, a fog spray or an exterminator may be necessary. Use caution before using any chemical pesticides, as you may need to remove all pets and people from the home for multiple days. Keeping your yard, bushes, and trees well trimmed can also reduce the flea population. Most pets, especially dogs that go on regular walks, pick up fleas while outdoors and bring them back into their home. Pesticides can be used for lawn treatments as well. Again, use caution to avoid any harm to your pet or any other person or animal that could be exposed to the chemicals in the pesticide.

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Moments In Time The History Channel

• On Nov. 5, 1775, Gen. George Washington condemns his troops' planned celebration of the British anti-Catholic holiday, Guy Fawkes Night. Guy Fawkes had been charged with placing gunpowder under the Houses of Parliament to trigger a deadly explosion that would have killed King James I. • On Nov. 6, 1854, “the March king,” John Philip Sousa, is born. The instantly recognizable sound of Sousa's timeless pieces—such as Stars And Stripes Forever (1896)—are wellknown to many Americans, even if they don't know the names of the pieces. • On Nov. 7, 1943, singer-songwriter Joni Mitchell is born in Canada. A bout with polio as a child had left Mitchell unable to form guitar chords with her left hand, so she experimented with non-standard tunings that would become part of her signature sound. • On Nov. 8, 1994, for the first time in 40 years, the Republican Party wins control of both the U.S. House of Representatives and the Senate. The empowered GOP united under the Contract With America, a 10point legislative plan to reduce federal taxes, balance the budget, and dismantle social welfare programs.

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Chicken Soup For The Soul Finding Happiness At Home hen unresolved issues keep you from moving forward in other areas of your life, it's important to take time to address the past and reclaim your joy. In her story The Color Of Happiness, Heather McGowan tells us about how practicing acceptance helped her to finally tackle a long-delayed project in her home: After nine years of indecisiveness, I finally decided to paint our home's entryway and hallway. At least, indecisiveness was the explanation I gave. Looking around the other painted and decorated rooms of our home, I finally realized there were many other reasons it took me so long to decide on a color for these supposedly welcoming areas of our home. Moving away from my hometown with my new husband, I had entered our home —a blank slate at the time as we were its first owners—feeling overwhelmed by the fact that I knew no one in this new town and had no idea how I would decorate the three bedrooms, two bathrooms, kitchen, breakfast nook, and living room. I so badly wanted our house to feel like a home, but at that time, it all felt so foreign—marriage, living on my own for the first time, a puppy. I was so terribly homesick, that for a little while, I was convinced that we would move back to my hometown and away from this overwhelming house. Yet, over the next couple of years, our bedroom was painted, as was the bathroom (twice), the breakfast nook and kitchen (also twice), and ultimately our firstborn's room. Our son's room was beautiful, with a lightgreen chair rail, light-brown walls, and jungle-themed bedding. His room was the most welcoming in the house. I always kept the entryway and hallway on my to-do list, but our second baby (and beautiful room), two jobs later and lack of time always seemed to be the excuse not to finish this project. Over those years, my once-close relationship with my parents cooled for a variety of reasons—their health began to decline, and their visits to my home became less frequent. The rejection stung, so to avoid

feeling the pain of this loss, I busied myself with my children, housework, and other activities, and put the entryway and hallway project on the back burner. It just seemed easier to do that than make a decision on paint—or to deal with my feelings. After a couple of years, I realized I could no longer bury my feelings of rejection, hurt, and loss, and sought the help of a counselor, who guided me through a process where I ultimately found happiness—and began to focus more inwardly on my own family, and less outwardly toward the family I once had. Then one day, upon returning home from picking up my son from school, we walked into the house, and I realized how unwelcoming it looked to us—the white walls, the lack of pictures, and the lack of warm window coverings. It was as though— through the pain, rejection, depression, and more—my feelings didn't allow me to take the final steps to making our house a home. It was as though I was waiting for my parents to tell me that they were planning to visit, and walk into that entryway again— which was the perfect excuse I was seeking to finally finish this project. My journey toward acceptance—accepting that my parents may never visit my home again, that I may never be fully accepted by them again, that my husband and children were the most important members of my family —finally revealed what I needed to do: Paint away the past and look forward to a beautiful future with my family. It seemed that my husband was just as excited about this final transition. He happily helped me paint over those white walls, removed the white blinds from the windows in preparation for warm colored curtains, and reveled in the transformation that our home underwent, with a simple coat of paint: Harvest Brown. It was then that I realized that it didn't take me nine years to decide on a color, it took me nine years to finally look inside my home for happiness, and not outside of it. Visit the Chicken Soup For The Soul website: www.chickensoup.com

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