How To Save Your Marriage
When You Do Not Love Your Wife Anymore
For Men Only
Brian Mulipah
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Other Books by Brian Mulipah
How To Save Your Marriage When Your Wife Doesn’t Love You Anymore
Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Women’s Guide
Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Men’s Guide
French Versions
Réparez Votre Mariage : Restaurez Votre Mariage En 31 Jours – Classeur
Réparez Votre Mariage : Rétablissez Votre Relation En 31 jours - Le Guide De Femmes
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This book is an extract from “Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Men’s Guide”, a more comprehensive guide to saving and improving your marital relationship. For extra help in saving and or improving your marital relationship, please visit: www.UnbreakYourMarriage.Blogspot.com or email Brian on BrianMulipah@gmail.com
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Disclaimer
This publication contains the opinions and ideas of its author. It is intended to provide helpful and informative material on the subjects addressed. The strategies outlined in this book may not be suitable for every individual, and are not guaranteed or warranted to produce any particular results. This book is NOT the answer to divorce, marriage or relationship challenges. This book is sold with the understanding that neither the author nor the publisher is engaged in rendering marital, legal, financial, accounting, or other professional advice or services. The reader should consult a competent professional before adopting any of the suggestions in this book or drawing inferences from it. No warranty is made with respect to the accuracy or completeness of the information or referenced contained herein, and both the authors and the publisher specifically disclaim any responsibility for any liability, loss or risk, personal or otherwise, which is incurred as a consequence, directly or indirectly, of the use and application of any of the contents of this book.
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I Don’t Love My Wife Anymore
“My wife and I have been married for 15 years and have two wonderful kids (10 & 5). We had about 12 pretty good years before I began to finally accept the fact that I wasn't really in love with her anymore, and maybe never was. Honestly, I can’t stand her. It’s almost as if I am allergic to her. We have been going for counseling and one of the things suggested by the counselor was to find what made me attracted to her in the first place. Honestly, I cannot find anything. I have also been trying to find one thing to appreciate about her, but in all honesty I find nothing. I don’t like her face, body, character, personality and everything about her. I have not cheated on her, but I always think about it. I love my two kids and they are the reason why I am still living with my wife. However, I do not think I can keep up like this. Sooner or later I am going to have to leave unless there is a major shift in my heart or mind. I feel guilty for my actions and the way I feel towards her, but at the same time I do not want to keep living with a woman I don’t love. Can you help in getting me to love and appreciate her again? I know there is a time I did, but I just can’t connect with that now.”
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What to do Do the things you used to do when you first fell in love
Go back to your first love
Remember when you first dated? Remember how you would dress up and look in the mirror twice or three times before meeting her? Remember how your attitude was back then? Going back to your first love means going back to doing the things that you did back then. Go back to the attitude of wanting to be the best for your woman. Seek and remember what made you fall in love with her for the first time. What was it that made you want to be with her a lot of the times? What made you want to spend lots of exclusive time with her?
What things did you do when you first fell in love? Did you hold hands? Kiss often? Take walks together? Play games? Doing the things you used to do when you first fell in love does not depend on how you feel about your wife. Some call it faking it till you make it, but when you start practising those old habits, you evoke thoughts and emotions that were experienced then.
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Take The 30 Day Sex Challenge (Maybe 28 days) I have come across many couples who took the 30 day sex challenge and all of them, including some who had been processing divorce report that the challenge works wonders. This sex challenge is not just about sex. It will help you to focus on each other and prioritize your relationship and many other areas of your lives that affect you daily. You will also learn to have fun, laugh together, enjoy each other and become joyful in your marriage. I therefore encourage you that no matter how terrible you feel your marriage is or the state of your marriage, go ahead and take the challenge. You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. Besides, it will most probably take twenty eight days and not exactly thirty.
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Be Engaged The number one distinct difference between happy and unhappy couples is their ability to become fully engaged in their conversations when it matters. They are able to engage with each other, emotionally, mentally and physically at high levels even in times of stress. Instead of disconnecting with your spouse and connecting to your friends or social media, engage with her now. This is when it matters. It makes the difference.
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Other Books by Brian Mulipah
7 Things To Do When Your Wife Says She Doesn’t Love You Anymore
Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Women’s Guide
Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Men’s Guide
French Versions
Réparez Votre Mariage : Restaurez Votre Mariage En 31 Jours – Classeur
Réparez Votre Mariage : Rétablissez Votre Relation En 31 jours - Le Guide De Femmes
NOT FOR RESALE. Please pass it on to others without any modifications, for free. Copyright: Brian Mulipah www.UnbreakYourMarriage.Blogspot.com
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Brian helps individuals, couples and teams who are hurting, disappointed and abused to find healing, freedom and purpose so that they can live fulfilling, joyful, significant and productive lives.
Since the beginning of his recovery from alcohol addiction on Saturday January 12, 2002 at 5pm, it has been Brian’s ongoing mission to help people who are caught up in the web of shame, loneliness, anger, fear, guilt, grief and generational traits of self-defeating lifestyles to achieve freedom and better lives.
Brian is also the author of ‘Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Men’s Guide’, ‘Unbreak Your Marriage: Reconnect Your Relationship In 31 Days – Women’s Guide’ and an Intervention Specialist who works in areas of Relationship Intervention and Addictive Behavior Counseling.
Brian serves full time with a missions based organization called Youth With A Mission (YWAM). Yes, he is a missionary. Brian is committed to helping others discover freedom from selfdefeating lifestyles, to finding lives of meaning and endless possibilities.
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