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COMPLIMENTARY

DECEMBER 2017

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HAPPENINGS

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HOW TO ENSURE HAPPY HOLIDAYS FOR ALL

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Estefano’s Story When it came time to blow out his candles on his 14th birthday, Estefano had only one wish: a new heart. Just 40 minutes later, the Pediatric Heart Transplant team at Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital surprised his family with a phone call that made his wish come true. Born with a single ventricle heart defect, Estefano underwent five open heart surgeries since the age of 2. The surgeries allowed his heart to function better and sustain him, but his heart began to fail and the team assessed the need to put him on the transplant list. The Weston teen is the hospital’s 30th heart transplant recipient and living legacy of a donor family who gave him the gift of a new life. Event Information: 954-905-5633 • Info@Tourdebroward.com Event Benefits: Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital

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DECEMBER 2017

16 ANGELS ON EARTH

Introducing the finalists in our annual Cover Angels contest.

22 KEEPING THE PEACE

Holidays are meant to bring families together, but thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not always easy when the dynamics have changed.

28 holiday HAPPENINGS

You donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to travel to far off places for winter-themed fun this season. Here are piles of frosty festivities to enjoy close to home.

DEPARTMENTS

12 Broward and Beyond News about the people, places and events in our community. This month: a look at Jim Gaffigan, the father of comedy; taking the season’s spirit of giving to heart; and free help for SAT/ACT jitters.

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ON DISPLAY OCTOBER 14, 2017 TO APRIL 22, 2018

40 Home Tech Family-friendly ways your cellphone can ring in the holidays.

42 Family Man Sometimes new lessons come in old packages.

44 Calendar of Events

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The Father of Comedy

The Gaffigans and their “most important project,” in slightly younger days.

im Gaffigan is the family man’s comedian. Coming to the BB&T Center Dec. 29, he’s the rare 21st century stand-up whose act doesn’t involve profanity and whose shtick has been largely based on being the father of five young children living in a two-bedroom Manhattan apartment. Most dads take videos of their kids. Gaffigan puts his on his YouTube channel, interviewing his youngsters about his comedy specials and other topics. Completing the family circle, his wife, Jeannie, has been his writing partner for his stand-up material as well as for The Jim Gaffigan Show, which aired on TV Land for two seasons. The couple cited parental priorities as reason for stepping away from the semi-autobiographical show in 2016. “The time commitment to make the quality of show we wanted was taking us away from our most important project, our five children,” Gaffigan said in an online post. Their kids are ages 13, 11, 8, 6 and 5. Perhaps it was for the best. Earlier this year, Jeannie underwent surgery to remove a pear-sized tumor from her brain stem. Fatefully, its discovery only began when she related her symptoms during one of her kids’ pediatrician visits. Gaffigan

considered quitting stand-up. “I was certainly not interested in outsourcing the parenting responsibility,” he recently told the Raleigh News & Observer. “If I was doing it solo, I couldn’t really disappear for even three days on a weekend twice a month. I have a newfound appreciation for the opportunity to do stand-up the way I’m doing it.” The way he’s doing it is by turning tours into family vacations when he can. “The tour bus thing across America on spring break (and) during the summer — yeah, it’s great, but it’s different when they’re all under the age of 10 and they find sleeping on a bus and swimming at a Holiday Inn Express exciting. As they get older, I have to kind of factor in all those things.” When he’s not on tour he strikes a happy

GIVING HOPE FOR THE HOLIDAYS One community celebration is adding hope to this season of joy and peace — as well as a new twist or two on holiday family fun. The inaugural Hope for the Holidays is being held Dec. 5-17 at The Center, formerly the Coral Springs Center for the Arts. All proceeds will benefit the Children’s Oncology Group, a leader in pediatric cancer research. At the event’s Holiday on the Square, families can stroll through the courtyard’s “winter wonderland” of decorated scenes and photo opportunities, as well as enjoy craft activities and snacks. In the evenings, the Square transforms into a multimedia holiday light show. “We will have movies, videos, clips, etc., projected onto the entire wall of our building,” says marketing director Meera Paul. “It’s really awesome.” The event will close with a family fun day featuring

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medium between daddy time and comedy time, fine-tuning his routines at comedy clubs in the city. “I can just walk in and do a set,” he said recently in the Charlotte Observer. “I’ll put some of my kids to bed, go and do a show, then come back and put my other kids to bed — or, with the teenager, try to beg her to go to sleep.” Though Gaffigan’s current Noble Ape Tour doesn’t revolve around the family circus as much as others have, one Chicago Tribune reviewer still gives it a PG rating: “He hasn’t gotten the title ‘King of Clean’ for nothing. It’s a title his audience reflects; I realized only after I saw the third or fourth kid walk by that although I have attended dozens of comedy shows, I have never seen children at one. For the most part, they’d be fine at this one.”

activities, food, family vendors and pictures and cookies with Santa for children. Also part of the event is the evening light show, as well as the Festival of Trees, a community-driven event in which yuletide trees can be decorated by sponsors in the theme of their choosing — for example, that of their business, family or community group. The trees will be displayed in the lobby, where visitors will be able to vote for their favorites and have a chance to win one in an auction. The trees will be delivered for free to the winning bidders or, if they prefer, to local families in need. Tree sponsorships are available for $150. The winning bidders will be announced at the Hope for the Holidays Gala on Dec. 16. Tickets to Holiday on the Square and the Festival of Trees are $2 per person, and admission to these two events is included in the ticket price of The Center’s holiday-themed shows: Linda Eder’s Holiday Concert on Dec. 1, the Nutcracker Ballet on Dec. 12 and Rockapella Christmas on Dec. 22. For tickets and more information, call 954-344-5990 or visit TheCenterCS.com

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SAT/ACT Jitters? Got high-schoolers planning to go to college? Broward County libraries might help them get there. SAT and ACT Workshops at various library locations prep college-bound students for the pre-admission tests and can help them attain higher scores. The free intensive program, touted as comparable to expensive test-prep courses, includes test-taking strategies and practice tests. Sessions focus on four components per subject: fundamentals, technique, recognition/reaction and timing manipulation. Homework will be assigned. Parents are encouraged to attend the first 15 minutes of the first session and the entire last session. To pre-register, please call your preferred library location. Online registration is not available and seating is limited. 2018 SAT and ACT Workshops: • Southwest Regional Library, 16835 Sheridan St., Pembroke Pines. Prepares students for Feb.10 ACT. Sessions are 5:30-7:30pm on five consecutive Tuesdays beginning Jan. 9. Pre-registration begins Jan. 2. Call 954-357-6733 to register. • West Regional Library, 8601 W. Broward Blvd., Plantation. Prepares students for Feb.10 ACT. Sessions are 5:30-7:30pm on five consecutive Wednesdays beginning Jan. 10. Pre-registration begins Dec. 22. Call 954-765-1585 to register. • South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., Pembroke Pines. Prepares students for March 10 SAT. Sessions are 5-7:30pm on four consecutive Wednesdays beginning Feb.14. Pre-registration begins Feb. 5. Call 954-201-8821 to register. • Northwest Regional Library, 3151 University Dr., Coral Springs. Prepares students for April 14 ACT. Sessions are 5:30-7:30pm on five consecutive Wednesdays beginning March 14. Pre-registration begins Feb. 28. Call 954-357-7990, ext. 4, to register. • North Regional/Broward College Library, 1100 Coconut Creek Blvd., Coconut Creek. Prepares students for May 5 SAT. Sessions are 5-7:30pm on four consecutive Mondays beginning April 9. Pre-registration begins March 5. Call 954-201-2626 to register. • Main Library,100 S. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale. Prepares students for the June SAT and ACT. Sessions are 5-7pm on five consecutive Wednesdays beginning May 9. Pre-registration begins April 11. Call 954-357-7504 to register.

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CONGRATULATIONS TO THE FINALISTS Each of the youngsters pictured here is a finalist in our annual Cover Angels contest, vying for a spot on our cover in 2018. By participating in this contest, all of these children and their parents are helping build a better community because their entry fees will be donated to a local charity that works with families. Giving back to the community has been a key component of Cover Angels since its inception 12 years ago. We are in awe of all the wonderful organizations working to improve Maverick Baptiste, 4 yrs. the lives of kids in Broward County. And we continue to be tickled by how cute the kids are. If you’re anxious to know which angel received the most votes from family and friends, be sure to check our website this month. All of the contest results — including our Charity of the Year — will be revealed in our January issue. Chase Reid Blackburn, 11 yrs. Xavier Blakely, 7 yrs.

Harlan Burk, 3 yrs. B R O W A R D F A M I LY L I F E

Scarlett Burk, 7 mos.

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Christina Butcher, 5 yrs.

Victoria Baptiste, 2 yrs.

Joseph Barbuscia, 4 yrs.

Mavrick Boge, 2 yrs.

Brianna Brewster, 6 yrs.

Nicolle Claros-Triana, 13 yrs. Zahira Clemetson, 7 yrs.

Joshua Creary, 22 mos.

Megan Creary, 7 yrs.

Anthony Dara, 10 yrs.

Tatiana Davis, 8 yrs.

Isabella Depestre, 8 yrs.

Tristan Eadie, 6 yrs.

Milana Fonte, 10 yrs.

Gianna Marie Gabriel, 10 mos. Xavier Garcia, 7 yrs.

Samantha Gonzalez, 2 yrs. Kensington Grogan, 4 mos. Jillian Heinish, 15 yrs.

Emma Denizard, 8 yrs.

Jacob Denizard, 5 yrs.

Briana Gonzales, 10 yrs.

Julia Hernandez, 5 yrs.

Sara Hernandez, 4 yrs.

Mahdi Hteit, 7 yrs.

Peyton Hyman, 5 yrs.

Jena Iten, 16 yrs.

Andre Johnson, 3 yrs.

Lucy Livengood, 8 yrs.

Avery Loughery, 8 mos.

Declan Paulding, 2 yrs.

Emma Pelar, 4 yrs.

Milania Hteit, 5 yrs.

William Hutchinson, 4 yrs. Parker Hyman, 9 yrs.

Gabriel Klein, 6 yrs.

Brianna Kriger, 7 yrs.

Julian Levy, 3 yrs.

Lorenzo Levy, 5 yrs.

Olivia Loughery, 4 yrs.

Amanda Nunez, 4 yrs.

Emerson Optekar, 7 yrs.

CJ Paredes, 9 yrs.

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Valeria Ramos, 21 mos.

Daniella Perez, 6 yrs.

Gabriella Perez, 8 yrs.

Margarita Pilipenko-Kolina, 9 yrs. Chloe Quartararo, 4 yrs.

Cameron Quinn, 3 yrs.

Anaya Rivera, 3 yrs.

Lilyana Roque, 5 yrs.

Ciera Rosado, 9 yrs.

Julianna Rosado, 4 yrs.

Connor Rothenberger, 4 yrs. Jackson Rothenberger, 5 mos.

Kaiden Sargeant, 3 yrs.

Kylie Sargeant, 7 yrs.

Dean Serdenes, 3 yrs.

Devin Shattuck, 12 yrs.

Jacob Shiba-Gabay, 8 yrs. Bryson Sinclair, 3 yrs.

Kailyn Sinclair, 6 yrs.

Alex Sodhi, 4 yrs.

Jake Sodhi, 2 yrs.

Andersen Sosa, 8 yrs.

Siyara Spencer, 2 yrs.

Chloe St. Ange, 2 yrs.

Greyson Taylor, 3 yrs.

Sofia Uitts, 2 yrs.

Isabella Velez, 11 yrs.

Ernestina Walas, 8 yrs.

Joaquina Walas, 7 yrs.

Valentin Walas, 11 yrs.

Leonard Wilson, 3 yrs.

Michael Zapata, 5 yrs.

Mila Zapata, 5 yrs.

Mason Walters, 13 mos. Marley Westbrooks, 4 yrs. Emily Wigg, 10 yrs. XX B R O W A R D F A M I LY L I F E | browardfamilylife.com

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FREE MUSEUM ADMISSION THURSDAY, DECEMBER 7, 4 – 8 PM 2-for-1 specials in the Museum Café, and hands-on art projects for all ages.

Tour the Museum and Create Artworks Inspired by Exhibitions on View FREE admission every First Thursday Also join us January 4 and February 1! 954-525-5500 | nsuartmuseum.org One East Las Olas Boulevard Fort Lauderdale Educational programming and initiatives at NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale are supported by major funding from the David and Francie Horvitz Family Foundation, The Joseph & Winifred Amaturo Education Foundation, Inc., Lillian S. Wells Foundation Inc., Jerry Taylor & Nancy Bryant Foundation, Hudson Family Foundation, The Related Group, Beaux Arts, Community Foundation of Broward, Wells Fargo, the Wege Foundation, Charles F. and Esther M. Frye Foundation, PNC Foundation, MAI Foundation, BBX and Friends of NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale.

60th Anniversary presented by

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Exhibitions and programs at NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale are made possible in part by a challenge grant from the David and Francie Horvitz Family Foundation. Funding is also provided by The John S. and James L. Knight Foundation, Nova Southeastern University, Hudson Family Foundation, Broward County Board of County Commissioners as recommended by the Broward Cultural Council and Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau, the State of Florida, Department of State, Division of Cultural Affairs and the Florida Council on Arts and Culture. NSU Art Museum is accredited by the American Alliance of Museums.

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Bring a drum or percussion instrument to this guided drum circle. All skill levels welcome. Meet at Palm Court (West Side). Info: 954-926-0204

Free photo with St. Nick at his beach house. Bands, Ballet, Drama, Vendors, Classic Car Show. PRE-EVENT - 2pm - Hometown Caroling Admission FREE. Lawn seating. Bring a beach chair or blanket. More info: christmasnearthebeach.com

GLobaL MediTaTion For WorLd Peace 6 - 7:30pm By directing our thoughts in specific, positive ways, we have the potential to guide the world towards becoming a more loving place. 954-962-7447

Watch our talented team of artisans turn molten glass into modern art! FREE live demonstrations. Closed Tuesday, Sunday, 12/25/17, 1/1/18. hollywoodhotglass.com or 954-732-7231

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Food Trucks aT arTsPark 5:30 – 9:30pm Bring your chairs, blankets and appetite. Over 20 different food trucks. 12/4, 12/11, 12/18. For more info: burgerbeast.com/arts-park

FunTasTic Friday 5 - 8pm WPLG Local 10 Top Places to Take the kids

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Free family fun featuring, face painter and bounce houses. 12/1, 12/8, 12/15.

Movie niGhT 8pm See a free family-friendly flick each week at the Amphitheater. Lawn seating. Bring a beach chair or blanket. 12/1 The Santa Clause (PG) 12/8 How the Grinch Stole Christmas - 2000 (PG), 12/15 Jingle All the Way (PG)

The ouTer PicTure BY CARLOS ANTONIO NOGUEIRA Acrylic and mixed media paintings depicting strangeness of multiple realities, space peoples and multidimensional entities. Gallery is open to the public admission Free Mon – Thurs 11am – 6:30pm exhibit runs nov. 21, 2017 - Jan. 11, 2018

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Keeping the

It’s a season when comforting traditions bring families together. But sometimes bringing them together may not necessarily bring them closer. Still, when families change or tensions mount, there are ways to keep the holidays happy. BY DENISE YEARIAN

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hen there’s a death, divorce or remarriage in the family, the holidays can become a season of transition. Deeply imbedded traditions that once defined celebrations may, for some family members, be too painful to pursue or too ill-fitting to entertain. The key to changing traditions in reconfigured families is to formulate ideas, get everyone’s input and then ease into the transition. “When there’s been a change in the family unit and the holidays are rolling around, one of the first things that pops into kids’ minds is, ‘How is this year going to be different?’” says Priscilla Singleton, director of the Center for Families in Transition at the Council for Relationships. “There’s comfort in old traditions, so to adopt new ones may elicit anxiety. Before making any changes, parents should consider which traditions are appropriate to keep, think about ones they can create and then talk with their children to get their input.” Tasha Olfus thought she had done this. From the time her son Jordan could remember, his grandfather played a significant role in the boy’s life while his own dad, Jeff, a military man, was stationed away from home. So when this 8-year-old’s grandfather passed away that fall, his mother anticipated a heartbreaking holiday. “Up to this point, my dad had been a central figure in Jordan’s holiday celebrations since Jeff was gone for most of them,” says Olfus of her son, now 11. “On Thanksgiving, they would sit in their recliners and watch TV. Around Christmas, Jordan helped my dad decorate his house. And on Christmas Day, they would sit on the floor and play for literally hours on end.” Contemplating her son’s sorrow, Olfus instituted some new traditions that included cutting down their own tree, letting Jordan make decorating decisions and having their first family portrait made. But even with these, the boy felt painfully shortchanged. “Mom was still grieving and didn’t want to celebrate, so we told Jordan we wouldn’t be decorating their house that year,” says Olfus. “I assumed he connected the dots and knew we weren’t going there Christmas Day. But that morning after opening presents, he said, ‘When are we going to Granny’s house?’ I said, ‘We’re not.’ At that point he started to cry. Looking back, I realize I should have spelled out how the day was going to unfold so there were no surprises.” “By the time kids reach 7 or 8, parents should make sure they understand what traditions are going to stay the same and what’s going to change,” says Dr. David Mandelbaum, a psychologist specializing in family issues. “If there’s resistance to new ones, ease into it. Say, ‘Let’s try it this year and see how it goes.’ This gives you the option to continue or make alterations in the future.” Lisa Morgan Shields, mother of two, didn’t get any resistance to holiday traditions after her first husband died three years ago. In fact, it was daughters Lexi and Katie who initiated the rituals that year. “Thanksgiving night the girls insisted on putting up the Christmas tree — which we never did that early — but wanted to decorate it just like they had in years past,” says Shields of her then 9and 11-year-olds. “They also took the lead in shopping, something their dad had always done. But the biggest change that year was we visited my brother in Michigan. Everyone loved the idea and thought it would be a fun adventure. But Christmas morning we felt displaced and hurting and needed to grieve.”

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“Don’t expect things to run smoothly at the onset of new traditions, particularly if they are radically different,” says Singleton. “Older children especially may be slower to accept change and need time to grieve the loss of the once-intact family.” That goes for blended ones too. “One of the problems with newly blended families is that parents are excited about pulling everyone together and may forget that the kids don’t match their level of enthusiasm,” says Mandelbaum. “If you’re coming from a divorced or newly married situation, continue traditions that don’t infringe on others and create new ones to bond the family together. The stepparent and stepchild may even want to do something one-on-one, but take the child’s lead in that.” “Last year, my fiancé Jerry and I decided we’d get a jumpstart on blending our families, my girls with his two boys,” says Shields, who remarried this past spring. “We talked about it and everyone was open to change. Since Jerry was selling his house, the boys put up their decorations at our house. Then we combined traditions and from Christmas Eve on, things went as planned.” But there was one thing Shields’ girls didn’t plan on. “For Christmas Jerry’s boys gave Lexi and Katie a beautiful package, which they opened with great anticipation,” she says. “Inside was a gag gift — an old, mangled doll that was shockingly scary, to say the least. At first the girls screamed, then we all started laughing. This year Lexi and Katie have decided to return the favor and make this a new gift-giving tradition.”

• Anticipate anxiety. New family traditions can elicit thoughts that something old is being left behind. If families are too anxious to move ahead with new rituals, children may be anxious or upset. Be sure to place enough emphasis on both old and new traditions. • Engage and enlist help. Have a few ideas formulated before discussing tradition changes with your children. Ask which ones they want to continue and which ones they would like to create. If you engage your kids in options and give them choices, they are more likely to accept and adjust to the change. • Accommodate everyone. Some old traditions may not be accepted or applicable in the new family configuration. Accommodate everyone’s needs when considering which existing traditions to maintain. • Do a trial run. Suggest trying something new for one year and see how it goes. This alleviates having to make a long-term commitment and allows you to alter your decision in the future. Approach it from a positive stance and focus on the newness of what is to come. Consider pulling traditions from another country or culture. • Spell out schedules. If holiday schedules that involve traditions are going to be radically different, tell your child what to expect so there are no surprises. • Be patient with the pace. If your child is resistant to change, don’t push. Give him time and move at his pace. Older children, in particular, have more memories and may take longer to accept changes. If your child is grieving the loss of his once-intact family, empathize and wait for wounds to heal. • Don’t step in someone’s shoes. Be cautious about letting another person take over a tradition your child strongly associates with a now-absent parent. For example, if a deceased mother always took her daughter to get manicured nails and buy a new dress before Christmas, the new stepmother should not try to fill those shoes. • Blending and bonding. With a newly blended family, consider establishing stepparent/stepchild traditions. This may help bond relationships, particularly with the younger set. If the step relationship hasn’t gelled, the biological parent may want to go along for the first year or two. If the child shows resistance, wait until another year and try again.

Taming Tensions at the Table BY HEIDI SMITH LUEDTKE, PHD

ome of the happiest times in our lives — like weddings and babies’ birthdays — are shared with extended family members. But during the holiday season, even the closest families can find themselves lacking in good cheer. If you’re stressed out because your mother-in-law won’t quit complaining about this year’s contentious election, or dreading a lifestyle debate with Uncle Bob, take heart. You don’t have to take a vacation to avoid unpleasant interactions. With some advanced planning and a handful of ready, tactful responses, your holiday celebration can be more enjoyable for everyone. STEP 1: Identify the Issues Let’s be honest. The topics that can turn a joyous family dinner into a war of words are not a big secret to anyone. You already know which people and issues are likely to lead to trouble. Discussions of money, religion and politics often lead to arguments. Health and relationship issues — such as addictions, affairs or divorces — can also cause conflict. Make a list of possible triggers so you can decide how to handle them. “It’s perfectly fine to announce to everyone that certain topics are off limits for this occasion,” says Tina B. Tessina, a psychotherapist and author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage. If you know your sister wants

to share her anti-vaccination advice with you, invite her to do so before the big day, over coffee. When she’s finished, remind her that you want to keep family celebrations festive and ask her to avoid sticky subjects for the good of the group. STEP 2: Invite Everyone When it comes to the guest list, experts say it’s best to be inclusive. Leaving someone out can hurt the feelings of that individual and other relatives. “Be generous in sharing family time with the in-laws” as well, says Deborah Merrill, an associate professor of sociology and author of Mothers-in-Law and Daughters-in-Law: Understanding the Relationship and What Makes Them Friends or Foe. Your parents and your in-laws will want to spend special time with their kids and grandkids. Do your best to give everyone equal face-time. If a single get-together won’t work, hold separate events on different days or alternate holidays each year. Bad feelings fester if one side of the family always gets second-class status. After making the invites, arrange for activities to keep people busy and focused. Have craft supplies on hand to give kids (and grown-ups) a constructive way to express themselves. Family members might make their own place cards, write holiday haiku or paint gift boxes or ornaments. Outdoor activities, like a walk in a nearby park or a game of flag football, also channel social energy in healthy directions. Another bonus: Planned activities give distant relatives a fun way to get acquainted. continued on page 26

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The holidays can create added stress for a family fractured by divorce, particularly with possibly touchy subjects like child visitation, gift-giving and attending children’s programs. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

f parents can let go of their differences and focus on communication, cooperation and compromise, the season can be a little less stressful for everyone, especially the children. Here are 10 tips to help: 1. Pursue the big picture. Although you and your ex may have past disappointments and present disagreements, set aside negative thoughts and feelings for the benefit of your child. Look, instead, at the bigger picture. Consider how your behavior will affect him in the long run. Don’t think, “What do I need?” Think, “What does my child need to have a good holiday?” Pursue that. 2. Communicate and cooperate. Establish a good working relationship with your ex on behalf of your child. You don’t have to be buddies, but you do need to be team players. Talk early in the season about how you are going to handle special days and events. Create a schedule for visitations and be respectful of your ex’s time with your child. When transitioning from home to home, arrive on time and keep goodbyes short to avoid extra stress. If, in the planning stages, the conversation gets heated, stop and arrange another time to talk. Equally important, do your own communicating; avoid making your child the messenger. 3. Call for a compromise. Avoid competing for your child’s affections when buying gifts. Discuss with your ex the gifts your child has asked for, and look for ways to compromise so you can both participate in giving them. Focus your efforts on quality time rather than quantity of gifts. 4. Be gracious with gift exchanges. Helping your child make or choose a gift for his other biological parent exemplifies the thoughtful, generous behavior you ultimately want to see displayed in him. In high-conflict situations, however, participating in these gift-giving endeavors may be too difficult. If so, don’t deny your child this privilege; find a neutral adult who will step in and help. 5. Extend courtesies to relatives. Recognize the importance of your child’s relationship with extended relatives on both sides by keeping grandparents and other family members central in his life during the holiday season. 6. Partner for programs. Holiday concerts, plays and other programs are a time to celebrate your child’s accomplishments, so it’s important for both parents to be in attendance. You don’t have to sit together, but you should be cordial and courteous to one another. Come with other family members or attend alone; this is not the time to introduce casual dates. Each parent should also be given time alone to interact with your child. For example, coordinate schedules so one parent takes him to the event and the other brings him home. continued on page 26

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STEP 3: Take a Team Approach On the day of the event, use place cards to keep would-be opponents where you want them — at opposite ends of the table. Enlist help from family peacekeepers if you’re still concerned things could get out of hand. “If Uncle Marty tends to be offensive, seat him next to someone who knows how to put a lid on him,” Tessina suggests. You will feel more relaxed knowing others are ready to step in. Too much alcohol can also cause problems. Consider pouring wine only with dinner and ask responsible drinkers to watch out for guests with a history of alcohol problems. For instance, “if your cousin Suzy tends to get drunk and obnoxious, ask her siblings or parents to keep her in check,” Tessina suggests. If her behavior gets out of line, a designated driver should take her home. This ensures loved ones stay safe. STEP 4: Seek Peace Even smart planning can’t prevent every problem. Laugh off out-of-hand comments if possible. When your dad takes a jab at your brother’s job, say, “We knew we could count on you to say that, Dad!” and move on to other topics. Address tough issues another time. During holiday celebrations, shift the conversation onto lighter subjects. Say: “Now’s not the time to tackle that issue. Who is ready for pie?” Direct fire on you or another family member can be hard to dismiss. You can’t just make a joke of it when your skinny sister

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asks your overweight aunt, “Do you really think you should eat all that?!” Tessina says to buffer the comment by telling your aunt: “Mary, don’t listen to her. You’re lovely just the way you are.” Then refocus the conversation by asking Aunt Mary about her favorite hobby or a recent movie. Another way to keep the conflict from escalating is to “reply with a question that puts the focus on the person who made the comment,” says psychotherapist Tina Gilbertson, author of Constructive Wallowing: How to Beat Bad Feelings by Letting Yourself Have Them. If your mother-in-law says, “I see you’ve been too busy to keep up with housework,” ask, “What do you mean?” or “Why do you say that?” This forces her to say what she really means or back out of the attack. If her criticism escalates, respond with silence. “This leaves the person’s words ringing in their own ears, and everyone else’s,” Gilbertson says. You may feel especially vulnerable during the holidays and it is OK to “put some boundaries around yourself,” says Gilbertson. Be polite but stick to impersonal topics. This sends a subtle standdown signal to others and keeps you from getting dragged into family drama. Take a walk outside when togetherness gets overwhelming. You’ll be better able to appreciate all the members of your crazy clan when you’ve had a breath of fresh air.

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7. Set clear expectations. When parents of young children who have recently separated are willing to come together peacefully during the holidays, it gives their children the opportunity to experience the celebration as an intact family. If you decide to go this route, set clear expectations and communicate them to your child so he doesn’t misunderstand and think you are permanently reuniting. This can be confusing for a child, who may already be dealing with reconciliation fantasy. Keep the time together fun, easy and stress-free. 0Focus on your child, not on the relationship with your ex. 8. Be a sounding board. Give your child the opportunity to discuss past holidays, if he desires. Most kids grieve the loss of an intact family with every holiday and at each stage in life. Be sensitive to this and keep an open line of communication so he can freely share his thoughts and feelings. 9. Be reasonable. The first few years after a separation and divorce can be the hardest time to enjoy the holidays. Don’t expect things to be perfect. Create a few new traditions, and bear in mind it takes time to heal wounds and adjust to a new family unit. 10. Set the stage for the future. Remember you are in this parenting partnership for the long haul. There will be graduations, weddings, grandkids — even great-grandkids. So set the stage now for a good relationship with your ex in the future. And remember, the best gifts you can give your child is your unconditional love and acceptance, and the freedom to express love to his other parent.

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Dashing through You don’t have to travel to far off places for winter-themed fun this season. There are plenty of frosty festivities to enjoy close to home, minus the freezing temps. COCONUT CREEK  Holiday Fantasy of Lights

ONGOING THROUGH JANUARY 1  Experience a holiday fantasy of color and lights in a spectacular drive-through display of illuminated trees and animated figures. $16/vehicle. 6-10pm, Tradewinds Park, 3600 W. Sample Rd., holidaylightsdrivethru.com

Santa’s Brunch

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2  A memorable morning with Santa and Mrs. Claus, entertainment and a yummy brunch. Residents only, space limited. Ages 3-8. $12/child, $10/adult. 10am-noon, Coconut Creek Community Center, 1100 Lyons Rd., 954-448-6598 womensclubcoconutcreek.com

Youth Winter Craft Workshop

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 14 Make a handcrafted holiday creation to bring home and give as a gift. Ages 5-11. $15/resident, $20/non-resident. 5:30-7pm, Coconut Creek Community Center, 1100 Lyons Rd., 954-545-6670 coconutcreek.net

COOPER CITY  Light Up Cooper City  Photo by Lisa Nalven

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1 Twinkling lights and luminaire candles, youth performances, children’s activities and a craft show. Visit with Santa at the gazebo. Free. 6-9pm, Memorial Park, between City Hall and the Community Center on 90th Ave., 954-434-4300 coopercityfl.org

Brunch with Santa

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9  Make a craft, play holiday games and receive a photo while visiting with Santa. For residents only. Pre-purchase required. $10/adult, $7/child. 10am, Cooper City High School, 9401 Stirling Rd., 954-434-4300 coopercityfl.org

CORAL SPRINGS Downtown in December

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2 Bring the family for some holiday treats, ice skating and other fun winter surprises. Free. 5-9pm, ArtWalk, 9405 NW 31 Ct., coralsprings.org

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Bethlehem Revisited

FRIDAY-TUESDAY, DECEMBER 8-12 Walk through Bethlehem of 2,000 years ago, experience the sights and sounds of the marketplace and streets crowded with families taking the census, and see the Christ child in the manger. Donations accepted. Friday, Monday & Tuesday, 7-9pm; Saturday & Sunday, 6-9pm. First United Methodist Church of Coral Springs, 8650 W. Sample Rd., 954-752-0333 bethlehem-revisited.com

The Nutcracker

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 9-10 A delightful production of the holiday classic by the International Ballet Company. 2pm, The Center, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., 954-344-5990 thecentercs.com

Light up the Night Holiday Parade

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 13  Enjoy the bright lights at the city’s annual holiday parade with floats, school bands, entertainment and more. Rain date: Thursday, December 14. 7pm, along Sample Road, from Coral Springs Drive to City Hall, 954-345-2112 coralsprings.org

DANIA BEACH  Holiday Flea Market

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2 Bring the whole family for good food and great bargains. Free. 8am-2pm, Frost Park Recreational Complex, 300 NE Second St., 954-924-3690 daniabeachfl.gov

DAVIE Lighting of the Greens

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2  Evening includes the lighting of holiday light displays, trees, kinaras and menorahs, live holiday musical performances, a living nativity and a horse parade with the arrival of Santa. Free admission, with some activity fees. 6-8pm,  Davie Town Hall, 6591 Orange Dr., 954-797-1181 davie-fl.gov

Old Davie Christmas

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3 Bring the family for a visit with Santa, petting zoo, pony rides and old-fashioned games. Noon-2pm, Old Davie School Historical Museum, 6650 Griffin Rd., 954-797-1044 olddavieschool.org

Winter Holiday Snow Play

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9  Enjoy visits with Santa, entertainment, inflatables, ice skating rink, and tons of snow to play in. Free with a nominal fee for some activities. 6-9pm, Bergeron Rodeo Grounds, 4271 Davie Rd., 954-797-1181 davie-fl.gov

Snowflake Resist

FRIDAY-SATURDAY, DECEMBER 15-16 Cut out some snowflakes and use the technique of resist to paint beautiful snowflake art. 10am-2pm, Young At Art Museum, 751 SW 121 Ave., 954-424-0085 youngatartmuseum.org

Garden of Lights

WEEKENDS, DECEMBER 15-17, 22-23 & 29-30 See the botanical gardens and the historic Wray Home decked out with thousands of lights and decorations as holiday music fills the air. Included in daytime admission of $19.95/adult, $12.95/child or $9.95/after 5pm. 5-8pm, Flamingo Gardens & Wildlife Sanctuary, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., 954-473-2955 flamingogardens.org

Santa’s Little Helpers

SATURDAYS-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 16-17 & 23 Help Mrs. Claus pass out gifts to all the good critters, visit with Santa and play in the snow from 2-5pm. Stick around after 5pm to see the Garden of Lights display. Included with daytime admission of $19.95/adult, $12.95/child. 2-8pm, Flamingo Gardens & Wildlife Sanctuary, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., 954-473-2955 flamingogardens.org

Rockin’ Noonyear’s Eve Party

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 31  A New Year’s Eve party with kid-friendly activities including a Balloon Drop at noon, entertainment, New Year’s activities and more. Free with admission of $12/Broward resident. 10am-3pm, Young At Art Museum, 751 SW 121 Ave., 954-424-0085 youngatartmuseum.org

DEERFIELD BEACH Ocean Way Holiday

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2  Join family and friends for holiday music, activities, ice skating, snow showers, photos with Santa and more. Free. 5-9pm, The Pier, 200 NE 21 Ave., 954-480-4429 deerfield-beach.com

Scuba Santa

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9  Hold your breath for an underwater picture with Santa. $5 per photo. 10am-1pm, Aquatic Center, 501 SW Sixth Ave., 954-420-2263 deerfield-beach.com

Winter Wonderland

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 An afternoon of frolicking, with two “snow hills,” family games, horse-drawn hayrides, holiday treats and a visit from Santa. Free admission, with some activity fees. 11am-2pm, Villages of Hillsboro Park, 411 NW Sixth St., deerfield-beach.com

Holiday Hayride and Campfire

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 15 Start a holiday tradition by taking a hayride around the park and enjoying an old-fashioned marshmallow roast around a campfire. $3.50. Advance tickets required. 7-9:30pm, Quiet Waters Park, 401 S. Powerline Rd., 954-357-5100

Ice Cream Social with Santa

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 20  Celebrate the season with a make-your-own ice cream sundae, Christmas carols, crafts and a chance to meet Santa. 6:30-8:30pm, Johnny Tigner Community Center, 445 SW Second St., deerfield-beach.com

FORT LAUDERDALE Fort Lauderdale Christmas Pageant

NOVEMBER 30-DECEMBER 17  An inspirational spectacle featuring a festive opening with familiar carols and contemporary songs, followed by a musical drama of the nativity and life of Christ. Ages 4 & up. Check website for days, times and cost. First Baptist Church of Fort Lauderdale, 301 E. Broward Blvd., 954-527-6800 firstbaptistftl.com

Light Up Sistrunk

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1  A one-of-a-kind holiday celebration with food, fun and entertainment including a tree lighting, health fair, kids zone, snow, photos with Santa, bounce houses, game trucks and more. 5pm, Sistrunk Boulevard, from NW Ninth to NW 11th avenues, 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov

Symphony of the Americas: Holiday Voices

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3 & TUESDAY, DECEMBER 5 The sensational voices of Florida Singing Sons and the Girl Choir of South Florida join forces for this holiday singing spectacular set to a full symphony. $20-$85. Sunday 2pm, Tuesday 7:45pm. Broward Center for the Performing Arts, 201 SW Fifth Ave., 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org

Holiday Lights Cruise

DECEMBER 4, 6, 7, 10 & 11-23  Check out the lights that line the shore while cruising the Intracoastal by way of Water Taxi. The tour includes sightseeing, holiday music and sing-alongs. $25/adult, $15/child. Fort Lauderdale Water Taxi, slip number 6 below the 17 Street Bridge, 954-467-6677 watertaxi.com

Florida Singing Sons

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9  An evening of holiday cheer performed by Florida Singing Sons Boychoir. 7pm, The Sanctuary Church, 1400 N. Federal Highway, singingsons.org

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Winterfest Boat Parade

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 Line up along Fort Lauderdale’s waterways to enjoy the dazzling annual boat parade, from downtown Fort Lauderdale to Lake Santa Barbara in Pompano Beach. Free. 6:30-midnight, reserved grandstand seating at Hugh Taylor Birch State Park, 954-767-0686 winterfestparade.com

Light Up Carter Park

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 Enjoy holiday cheer and family fun at an event featuring activities, entertainment, lighting of a holiday tree and more. Free. 3-7pm, Joseph C. Carter Park, 1450 W. Sunrise Blvd., 954-828-5411

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The Nutcracker

FRIDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 15-17  The Arts Ballet Theatre transports the audience to a land filled with snowflakes and sugar plums in this holiday classic. $16.50 and up. Parker Playhouse, 707 NE Eighth St., 954-462-0222 parkerplayhouse.com

Holiday River Tour

DECEMBER 18-23  See the Victorian holiday decorations of the Historic Stranahan House Museum and take a boat ride along the New River to view homes decorated for the season. $30, reservations required. 7pm, Stranahan House, 335 SE Sixth Ave., 954-524-4736 stranahanhouse.org

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Santa on the Beach

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WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 20 Santa and his elves spread good cheer and candy on Fort Lauderdale Beach. Santa arrives at 12:45pm. Fort Lauderdale Beach Park, 600 Seabreeze Blvd., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov

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Holiday Lighting of the Greens Saturday December 2nd Davie Town Hall 6pm-8pm

6:15-6:30pm Lighted Horse Parade &

Santa arrives by Fire Engine 6:45pm Lighting of Town Hall 7:00-8:00pm Music by the Florida Youth Orchestra and Indian Ridge Middle School

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TUESDAY, DECEMBER 26 Family celebration focuses on Kujichagulia, the principle of self-determination. 10:15am, AfricanAmerican Research Library and Cultural Center, 2650 Sistrunk Blvd., 954-357-6282

Kwanzaa Ujamaa Celebration

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 29 Bring the family to celebrate the fourth principle of Kwanzaa, cooperative economics. 2-5pm, Bass Park, 2750 NW 19 St., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov

HALLANDALE BEACH South Florida Chassidic Chanukah Festival

MONDAY, DECEMBER 18  Music, free Chanukah gelt and goodies for children. Free admission; food available for purchase. 7pm, Gulfstream Park, 901 S. Federal Hwy, 954-458-1877 chanukahfestival.com

Symphony of Lights

THROUGH DECEMBER 31  A spectacular dancing light show with thousands of animated lights and a 50-foot Christmas tree all synchronized to music. Santa and entertainment on Fridays and Saturdays. Free. Music every hour, on the hour from 6-10pm, Gulfstream Park, 901 S. Federal Highway, 954-454-7000 gulfstreampark.com

HOLLYWOOD  Holiday Movie Fest

FRIDAYS, DECEMBER 1, 8 & 15  Enjoy the lovely night air and holiday-themed family movies in the park. Dec. 1: The Santa Clause, Dec. 8: How the Grinch Stole Christmas, Dec. 15: Jingle All the Way. Free. 8pm, ArtsPark at Young

Circle, Hollywood Boulevard and Federal Highway, hollywoodfl.org

Hollywood Beach Candy Cane Parade   SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2  A magical evening under the stars featuring floats, marching units and bands with a hometown flavor. Free. 7-9pm, Hollywood Beach Broadwalk & A1A, 954-921-3404 hollywoodfl.org

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Christmas Near The Beach

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 A community tradition that includes singing, dancing, musicians and more. Free. 4-9pm, ArtsPark at Young Circle, Hollywood Boulevard and Federal Highway, christmasnearthebeach.com

LAUDERDALE-BY-THE-SEA Christmas-By-The-Sea  WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 6 An evening of old-fashioned family fun, entertainment and activities. Free. 5:30-9pm, Anglin’s Square, Commercial Boulevard and El Mar Drive, 954-640-4200 lauderdalebythesea-fl.gov

Menorah Lighting

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17 Celebrate Hanukkah with a menorah lighting by the sea. 6-9pm, Beach Pavilion, One Commercial Blvd., lauderdalebythesea-fl.gov

LAUDERHILL The Nutcracker Ballet

FRIDAY-SATURDAY, DECEMBER 8-9  Ballet Elite and guest artist Carlos Galindez present this beloved holiday classic. 7:30pm Friday, 3pm Saturday. Lauderhill Performing Arts Center, 3800 NW 11 Place, 954-777-2055 lpacfl.com

LIGHTHOUSE POINT Lighthouse A’Glow

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 6  Spend an enchanted evening with Santa complete with holiday refreshments and caroling. 6:308:30pm, Frank McDonough Park, 3500 NE 27 Ave., 954-943-6500 city.lighthousepoint.com

Christmas Celebration

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 13 A live Nativity scene brings the story of Christmas to life after the Trinity Worship Team sings Christmas carols at the sanctuary’s main entrance. Free. Call for time and details. Trinity Church, 3901 NE 22 Ave., trinitychurchlighthousepoint.com

MARGATE  Winter Festival

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 15 A family-friendly festival with lots of holiday fun and activities. 6-10pm, Margate Boulevard and US 441, margatefl.com

MIRAMAR The Nutcracker

WORLD’S LARGEST HOLIDAY THEME PARK

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SATURDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 16-17 A classical holiday ballet presented by Ballet Etudes’ for the whole family to enjoy. $35-$60. 5pm, Miramar Cultural Center, 2400 Civic Center Place, Miramar, 954-602-4500 miramarculturalcenter.org

Visit with Santa

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17 Take in the beauty of the natural setting, while snapping some photos with Santa. All ages.

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NORTH LAUDERDALE Holiday Parade and Tree Lighting

PEMBROKE PINES Snow Fest

PLANTATION  Winter Wonderland

Sundaes with Santa

Holiday Craft

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2 Bundle up to play in tons of snow and enjoy rides, games, activities, musical entertainment, a food truck round-up and more. $2. 4-8pm, Charles F. Dodge City Center, 601 City Center Way, 954-392-2116 ppines.com

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 Get your jingle on with a parade at 4pm at 64th Terrace and Kimberly Boulevard, ending at City Hall, followed by a tree lighting ceremony with holiday entertainment. 4-8:30pm, 954-724-7061 nlauderdale.org

OAKLAND PARK Holiday Village

FRIDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 8-10  Have some holiday fun with children’s activities, live music, Selfies with Santa, a Christmas tree competition, arts and crafts vendors, train rides and more. Free. Friday 6-10pm; Saturday 11am-7pm; Sunday 11am-7pm. Jaco Pastorius Park, 4000 N. Dixie Highway, oaklandparkfl.org

Festive Family Hayride

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 8 Put on a holiday hat for a hayride around the park, and a marshmallow roast around a campfire to make s’mores. Advance tickets required. $3.50/person. 7-9:30pm, Easterlin Park, 1000 NW 38 St., 954-357-5190

PARKLAND Snowfest

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 21 Lots of wintery fun is in store for the whole family. Pre-registration suggested; Parkland residents only. $5/advance, $10/day of event. 5-8pm, Terramar Park, 6575 NW 75 Dr., 954-757-4105 cityofparkland.org

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16 Join Santa and a few of his friends for make-yourown sundaes, music, activities and holiday cheer. Limited space, pre-purchase recommended. $6/resident, $8/non-resident. 2-4pm, Southwest Focal Point Senior Center, 301 NW 103 Ave., 954-392-2116 ppines.com

Holiday Movie and Craft

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16  Kids can make a handmade snowman while watching a winter-themed movie. Craft supplies limited. 2pm, Southwest Regional Library, 16835 Sheridan St., 954-357-6580 broward.org/library

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer Musical

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23 A delightful musical with all of the beloved characters from the television classic. $27-$100. 3 & 7pm, Charles F. Dodge City Center, 601 SW City Center Way, 954-392-9480 pembrokepinescitycenter.org

Kwanzaa Celebration

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 30 Event celebrates the fifth principle of Kwanzaa, Nia, which focuses on building community greatness. 2pm, South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., 954-201-8825

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16 Kids ages 6-11 can make their very own holiday keepsake. Pre-registration required. Ages 6-11. 2-3pm, West Regional Library, 2601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1585

Holiday Party

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 19  Games, stories, music and activities at the library’s Big Winter Holiday Party. Pre-registration required. Ages 8-12. 6:30-7:30pm, West Regional Library, 2601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1585

Jingle Bell Jog & Elf Romp

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23 Put a festive spin on fitness with a 5K run and fitness walk for the whole family. Includes an Elf Romp for kids 10 and under and a Youth Mile course. Registration fee depends on age. 5K begins at 8am, Sunset Park, 10600 Cleary Blvd., gflrrc.org

Santa’s Visit

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24  Santa and his elves come down Plantation’s streets preceded by either a fire truck or police car with sirens. Listen and be outside so you don’t miss them. 5-10pm, 954-452-2510 plantation.org

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THROUGH JANUARY 6 A wonderland of more than 40 holiday trees, miniature village and train, Hanukkah displays, animated figures and more. Call for hours. Free. Plantation Historical Museum, 511 N. Fig Tree Lane, 954-797-2722 plantation.org/museum

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2 Celebrate Santa’s arrival at Pompano City Centre with arts and crafts, writing letters to the North Pole and photos with Santa at the Elfie Selfie station. 11am-1pm, Pompano Citi Centre, 1955 N. Federal Highway, 954-943-4683 pompanociticentre.com

Yuletide Parade

THURSDAY, DECEMBER 7  Line up for a hometown holiday parade along Atlantic Boulevard ending at McNab Park. Free. 6:30pm, along Atlantic Boulevard, 954-786-4111 pompanobeachfl.gov

Breakfast with Santa

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9  Enjoy breakfast with Santa, entertainment and games. $7. 9am-11am, Emma Lou Olson Civic Center, 1801 NE Sixth St., 954-786-4111 pompanobeachfl.gov

Toys in the Sun Run

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10  This fundraising effort attracts more than 30,000 motorcycle riders for a parade through the county to benefit Joe DiMaggio’s Children’s Hospital and other children’s charities. Line up on the streets to watch the motorcycles. Gates open at 6:30am; ride begins at 9:30am, Festival Marketplace, 2900 W. Sample Rd., toysinthesunrun.com

Pompano Holiday Boat Parade

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10  Whether you are watching or participating, this is a great procession on the Intracoastal Waterway, starting at Lake Santa Barbara. No entry fee to

participate, and boats of all sizes are welcome. 5-9pm, for more details contact the Pompano Beach Chamber of Commerce, 954-941-2940 pompanobeachchamber.com

Cookies & Milk with Santa

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16  Kids can participate in fun holiday activities and enjoy story time with Santa. Pre-register online. 3-5pm, Pompano Citi Centre, 1955 N. Federal Highway, 954-943-4683 pompanociticentre.com

Paws & Claus

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17  Bring your pup to take a holiday photo with Santa. Event is for dogs only, and they must be leashed or crated at all times. 11am-3pm, Pompano Citi Centre, 1955 N. Federal Highway, 954-943-4683 pompanociticentre.com

Holiday Party

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23 Kids can ring in the holidays with activities and fun for all ages. 1:30pm, Northwest Branch Library, 1580 NW Third Ave., 954-357-6599 broward.org/library

SUNRISE Arts & Crafts and a Winter Wonderland

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2  This year’s event combines what was formerly the Woodstock Arts and Crafts Festival with a magical winter wonderland complete with snow, holiday games, a visit from Santa and more. $5 per participant. 9am-5pm, Sunrise Athletic Complex, 11501 NW 44 St., 954-747-4600 sunrisefl.gov

Toys in the Sun Run

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10 This fundraising effort attracts more than 30,000 motorcycle riders for a parade through the county to benefit Joe DiMaggio’s Children’s Hospital and other children’s charities. Line up on the streets to watch the motorcycles, or wait for their arrival in Markham Park, 16001 W. State Road 84, where there will be live music, a huge motorcycle show, vendors, food and more. $20 and one unwrapped gift, or $30. toysinthesunrun.com

The Nutcracker Ballet

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10 The Russian Ballet of Orlando presents the holiday classic about a young girl who dreams of a Nutcracker Prince. All ages. Reserved seating, $18/adult, $10/child. 1pm & 5pm, Sunrise Civic Center Theatre, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-747-4646

TAMARAC Holiday Lighting Festival

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 6 Kick off the holidays with the city’s official tree and menorah lighting, entertainment and a special appearance by Santa and friends. Free. 6pm, Tamarac Community Center, 8601 W. Commercial Blvd., tamarac.org

Rudolph’s Winter Wonderland

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 8  A holly jolly night of fun featuring reindeer games, bounce houses and activities and a special appearance by Santa. 6-8pm, Tamarac Park, 7501 N. University Dr., 954-597-3620 tamarac.org

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SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3 Join Santa to kick off the season with a tree lighting and other entertainment. 4-8pm, Weston Town Center, 1675 Market St., 954-349-5900 westontowncenter.net

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THURSDAY, DECEMBER 7 A real community celebration with a tree, menorah and kinara lighting and other holiday festivities. 6:30pm, Jaycee Park, NE 21 Court & Wilton Drive, 954-390-2130 wiltonmanors.com

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16  Dogs can be photographed with Santa and participate in contests including the best-dressed holiday hound. 9-11am, Gary B. Jones Park for People and Pups, 8101 Southgate Blvd., tamarac.org

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16 Enjoy a pancake breakfast with Santa and friends, storytime, crafts, bounce houses, pony rides and more. $7/adult, $5/ages 12 and under. 10am-noon, Hagen Park Community Center, 2020 Wilton Dr., 954-390-2130 wiltonmanors.com

MIAMI-DADE COUNTY  The Polar Express Train Ride

THROUGH DECEMBER 24  Kids can dress in their pajamas and join the fun on a 50-minute long family train ride bound for the North Pole. The magical journey includes hot cocoa, a sing-along and visit with Santa. Select evenings. Tickets start at $40. Gold Coast Railroad Museum, 12450 SW 152 Ave., Miami, 305-253-0063 gcrm.org

Santa’s Enchanted Forest

THROUGH JANUARY 7 Wonderland of lights, rides, food, games, entertainment and more. $33.64/adult, $22.30/child. 5pm-midnight, Tropical Park, corner of Bird Road and the Palmetto Expressway, Miami, 305-559-9689 santasenchantedforest.com

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FRIDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 8-10  Arts Ballet Theatre of Florida performs the story of the Nutcracker. $40. Showtimes vary, Aventura Arts & Cultural Center, 3385 NE 188 St., Aventura, aventuracenter.org

Snow Fest

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9  A winter wonderland of children’s activities, music, rides, pictures with Santa, games and more. Free admission. 6-11pm, along NE 19th Avenue between 164 and 171 streets, North Miami Beach, 305-948-2957 citynmb.com

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MONDAY, DECEMBER 11 Dress in your best holiday outfit and enjoy visits from Santa, live music, carolers, icy snowflake painting and more. Ages 5 and under with caregiver. 10am-6pm, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 miamichildrensmuseum.org

Hanukkah Celebration

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17     Celebrate Hanukkah by playing the dreidel game and creating Hanukkah themed sun catchers, then join the PJ party at 2pm for a special story time, clay menorah making, and tasty sufganiyot. 11am-5pm, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 miamichildrensmuseum.org

PALM BEACH COUNTY  Ornaments Naturally

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9 Create holiday decorations using shells, sea beans, pine cones and unusual natural materials. Materials are provided. Reservations and prepayment recommended. $7/member, $10/non-member. 10am-noon, Gumbo Limbo Nature Center, 1801 N. Ocean Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8615 gumbolimbo.org

Gingerbread Holiday Concert

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10  Family-friendly concert for all ages featuring seasonal classics and holiday cheer. $35. 2pm, Boca Raton Resort & Club, 501 E. Camino Real, Boca Raton, 561-237-9000 events.lynn.edu

Piles of Smiles

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16  Kids can play in heaps of snow and participate in other cool winter activities at this celebration. $12/advance, $15/door per child. 10am-4pm, Sugar Sand Park, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3948 sugarsandpark.org

Breakfast with Santa

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 16-17 & SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23 Ring in the holidays with a buffet breakfast, animal encounters, visit with Santa & Mrs. Claus, photo opportunities and more. Register early; space is limited. 8:30-10am, Palm Beach Zoo, 1301 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-547-9453 palmbeachzoo.org

A Charlie Brown Christmas Live

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23 See Charles Schulz’s heartwarming yuletide tale come to life. $18 and up. 1 & 4pm, Kravis Center for the Performing Arts, 701 Okeechobee Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-832-7469 kravis.org

’Tis the Season

THROUGHOUT DECEMBER Stop by the Student Science Showcase exhibit on weekends and select weekdays in December for Winter Wonder Crafts, Frigid Science Demonstrations, Make-N-Take Snow, Geometric Snowflakes and more. Call for details. South Florida Science Center and Aquarium, 4801 Dreher Trail N., West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 sfsciencecenter.org

NAPLES  Jingle Bell Bash

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1  Golisano kicks off the holiday season with a tree lighting ceremony, holiday activities, snacks and appearance by Santa and Mrs. Claus. $10-$20. 6-8:30pm, Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, 15080 Livingston Rd., 239-514-0084 cmon.org  Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.

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HOME Tech

A Tech-savvy Season FAMILY-FRIENDLY WAYS YOUR CELLPHONE CAN RING IN THE HOLIDAYS BY CAROLYN JABS

oon holiday music will fill the air — punctuated by the rings and dings of smartphones. Regardless of their traditions, lots of families will be making rules about when NOT to use cellphones — for instance, during midnight Mass, at the Kwanzaa dinner table or while lighting Hanukkah candles. Most parents can agree that it’s a good idea to set aside part of the holidays to focus entirely on the people who have gathered in the same room. But it’s also helpful to remember that technology can bring families closer, especially at this time of year. Young people, in particular, filter much of their experience through their phones, so turning off their devices for extended periods may actually

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make them feel less connected. Leaving them to their own devices doesn’t need to have a bad connotation. Integrating the capabilities of technology into the holiday has several benefits. First, it allows richer contact with distant family and friends. Second, it can simplify holiday chores, from party-planning to greeting cards. And, finally, it gives tech-savvy kids a meaningful role in making the holidays special, whether by documenting every dish at the family feast or playing DJ during a holiday party. Here are just a few ways technology can enhance this special season. Whenever possible, use the simplest apps so as many people as possible can participate. 1. PLAN PARTIES Does your neighborhood do an annual caroling party? Would you like to get friends together for a cookie exchange? Do you want family members to take charge of a dish for the family feast? Using an app like Party Planner will help you manage the

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details, from inviting guests and tracking responses to delegating tasks and keeping a grip on the budget. Entering necessary information the first year may take a little time, but it lays the groundwork for effortless traditions in years ahead. 2. SEND GREETINGS Even though fewer families have time for handwritten cards or newsletters, the tradition of sharing holiday greetings is worth preserving. Use your phone to take a photo or make a short video that captures what’s unique about your family this year. Do something goofy, sing a few lines of a song together, have each family member write or speak about something memorable. Distribute it through social media, email or even in an envelope. Do this every year and you’ll have created a very special timeline that shows your kids growing up before your eyes. 3. START A FAMILY MEDIA CHANNEL Establish a blog or a social media group, and limit access to extended family and

special friends. Invite, kids, cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents to participate, providing whatever support they need to get connected. Encourage everyone to post recipes, inside jokes, holiday memories, bits of family lore. To make people more comfortable about sharing things that are heartfelt or silly, establish a simple rule: Whatever appears on the site is not permitted to be shared anywhere else without permission. 4. TUNE UP Build a festive family playlist for the holidays and other occasions. Take requests from everyone old enough to talk. Of course, there are holiday playlists available on streaming sites like Pandora, but it’s a lot more meaningful — and fun — to juxtapose grandma’s favorites from the ’40s with something your nephew learned in preschool. 5. CHAT LONG DISTANCE Coming home for the holidays is not always feasible. Schedule a time for a video chat with distant loved ones. Group chats can sometimes be awkward so encourage family members to take turns. Do a little coaching so kids are prepared to thank

relatives for gifts and maybe even model clothes or demonstrate what they can do with a new toy. Light candles or sing together. Ask questions that prompt elders to share memories and stories.

ornament, a sleeping relative, Grandpa’s favorite cookie, or the dog wearing a holiday hat.

6. GROUP TEXT If video chatting makes everyone (especially teens) self-conscious, try using GroupMe, a free app that allows everyone in the family to see the same text messages. GroupMe works with SMS and every smartphone platform. Give it a try in your immediate family, and then expand the group to include cousins and other relatives. 7. PLAY GAMES Ask pre-teens for the best familyfriendly games or find apps that simulate classics like Scrabble and Checkers. Help grandparents sign up so they can play across the room or across the country. If someone in the family is lucky enough to get a video-game system, be sure at least one game is easy enough and light-hearted enough to be played by all ages. Consider creating customized games for your family. For example, try making up a scavenger hunt that involves taking photos connected with family traditions — a beloved family

8. COLLECT PHOTOS On special occasions, everyone takes photos and videos on their own phones. Even if someone says, “Send me that picture,” people forget and, consequently, fragments of the holiday disappear into albums on various devices. This year, set up a password-protected site on Flckr, Instagram or even Google. Send the link to everyone in the family. Ask them to upload their favorite photos and videos to a create a collective album. Of course, there are plenty of other ways technology can make the holidays more fun and even more meaningful. Embracing these possibilities with an open heart makes it more likely that everyone will respond well when someone says, “Let’s put away our phones now!” Carolyn Jabs, M.A., has been writing about families and technology for over 20 years. She is the author of Cooperative Wisdom: Bringing People Together When Things Fall Apart.

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FAMILY Man

A Priceless Present SOMETIMES NEW LESSONS COME IN OLD PACKAGES BY GREGORY KEER

t was not a proud moment. We were trying to budget for holiday gifts, and we came upon an unopened present for our youngest son in the garage. “He won’t remember that he never opened this,” I told my wife. “I feel guilty,” she replied. “Why?” I asked. “We spent a ton of money on his birthday, and he got so many gifts he couldn’t open them all.” A week later, when our 7-year-old opened his “new” gift, Operation, he looked puzzled. “Didn’t I get this from Jonathan for my birthday last month?” My wife and I exchanged glances. “Are you sure?” I asked. “Yes, Dad. Jonathan told me he got it for me.” Caught in one of my many awkward parenting moments, I confessed. “We wanted to give you a lot but just couldn’t buy everything new.” “That’s not fair,” he said. “You owe me a real present.” Without trying very hard, there it was — a teachable moment. “I owe you a real present?” “Yes, this one doesn’t count.” “Would it be better if we just didn’t give you this present?” my wife asked. Ari stopped to think. “You should have bought me a new one.” “We just couldn’t do it this time,” I said. “We spent a lot on your other presents.” Ari ruminated, staring at the game. “Would you play it with me?” “Yeah,” I said. “How about we make the time we spend playing the real gift?” This one stumped our kid. “I still like getting a real thing, you know.” At that moment, I opted for my best

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response. A hug and a mental note that I had work to do. The situation made me realize that my kids don’t understand what we “owe” them. And that the word “owe” drives us parents nuts. So, I sat Ari down the next day and went over the basics. “You know, when we buy you gifts, we want to give you a lot,” I said, “but we can’t give you everything.” “I know,” he said, slightly annoyed. “So what do you think we ‘owe’ you?” Ari thought carefully. “Breakfast.” “Anything else?” I inquired. “Lunch, dinner, snacks…” Seeing my expectant face, he continued. “This house, stuff for school.” “How come you didn’t mention presents?” I asked. “Because presents are just for fun.” A-ha. We were getting somewhere. “Why do you think we give you presents?” I continued. “You love us.” “Do we owe you that? “I think so,” Ari replied. “Yes, we give you gifts because we love you and like to see you enjoy them. But

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parents need something in return, too.” “Do I have to give you a present? I know you like shoes,” he said earnestly. “No. I just need you to say thank you for what you get and not complain about what you don’t get.” “That’s fair,” he said, then leaned in to snuggle. I sighed, pleased with this lesson learned. “So am I getting another present to replace the one you gave me that I already got?” he said. I had to laugh. Clearly, the lesson didn’t fully sink in. However, I’ve learned it’s better to revel in a lesson partially learned than to label the effort a failure. Often, our teachings get absorbed slowly, which is probably better for the long run. In the years since, Ari has grown more understanding of the value of gifts. He even told us recently he’d rather get one bigger gift than many because he doesn’t want us spending money on stuff he doesn’t need. For me, this is a gift itself. Gregory Keer is an award-winning syndicated columnist and teacher. He and his wife continue their quest of teachable moments with their three growing sons.

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MUSEUMS & EXHIBITS The Polar Express Train Ride  THROUGH DECEMBER 24

Kids can dress in their pajamas and join the fun on a 50-minute long family train ride bound for the North Pole. The magical journey includes hot cocoa, a sing-along and visit with Santa. Select evenings. Tickets start at $40. GOLD COAST RAILROAD MUSEUM, 12450 SW 152 Ave., Miami, 305-253-0063 gcrm.org

Eyes to the Skies FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1

Explore the night sky with a professionalgrade telescope or bring your own (weatherpermitting). Recommended for ages 8 and up. Free. 6:30pm, SUGAR SAND PARK, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, sugarsandpark.org

Free First Thursdays Starry Nights THURSDAY, DECEMBER 7

The Hunchback of Notre Dame

Showtimes vary. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS,

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FRIDAY-SATURDAY, DECEMBER 1-2

An Inside Out Theatre Company performance based on Victor Hugo’s epic story of love, acceptance and what it means to be a hero. 7pm,

The Secret Garden

SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE,

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Bring the family for a musical production of the Charles Dickens classic. $16-$20. 11am, 3pm & 7pm, BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org

Family Hip Hop Concert

Toys are not only fun, but they are engineering marvels. Learn how toys work, while making your very own. 1-3pm,

Finding Neverland

GOLISANO CHILDREN’S MUSEUM,

Broadway’s new hit musical tells the story behind one of the world’s most beloved characters, Peter Pan. $40.25 and up. ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-949-6722 arshtcenter.org

Parents Night Out

Trans-Siberian Orchestra Winter Tour FRIDAY, DECEMBER 15

The Trans-Siberian Orchestra presents rock opera, The Ghosts of Christmas Eve. 8pm, BB&T CENTER, One Panther Parkway, Sunrise, thebbtcenter.com

Dance along with Grammy-winning hip-hop artist Secret Agent 23 Skidoo who combines the excitement of hip-hop with the magical world of childhood. Free. 1-3pm, NSU ALVIN SHERMAN LIBRARY, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., Davie, 954-262-4543

Listen to the raw power of pure vocal talent in this full-band sound performance. $32 and up. 7pm, THE CENTER, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., Coral Springs, 954-344-5990 thecentercs.com

Based on the hit film, this comical new musical follows Dewey Finn, a wannabe rock star who poses as a substitute teacher and turns a straight-A class into a guitarshredding rock band. $30 and up.

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SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10

201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org

Rockapella Christmas

DECEMBER 12-24

Family Science Lab

The Tony Award-winning classic of children’s literature is reimagined in this musical production. $47-$60. Showtimes vary. BROWARD CENTER

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9

School of Rock

A cirque spectacle for the whole family featuring more than 20 mesmerizing acts. $29.50 and up. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS,

201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2

TUESDAY-SATURDAY, DECEMBER 26-30

DECEMBER 14-31

FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS,

A Christmas Carol The Musical

Cirque Dreams Holidaze

Families enjoy free museum admission the first Thursday of every month with museum exploration, art projects for all ages and more. Free. 4pm-8pm, NSU ART MUSEUM FORT LAUDERDALE, One East Las Olas Blvd., 954-262-0258 nsuartmuseum.org

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 22

TUESDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 26-31

Miami City Ballet’s The Nutcracker   DECEMBER 15-24 & 28-30

The Miami City Ballet presents George Balanchine’s dazzling choreography. Dec. 15-24, ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER,

1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 305-949-6722 arshtcenter.org;  Dec. 28-30, KRAVIS CENTER, 701 Okeechobee Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-832-7469 kravis.org

The Snow Queen

Swan Lake

Hans Christian Andersen’s tale of adventure comes to life in this musical adaptation. $8/adult, $6/child. 11am & 2pm, WILLOW

View the beauty and elegance of the State Ballet Theater of Russia dancers as they present this renown classical ballet. $26.75-$61.50. 3pm, PARKER PLAYHOUSE, 707 NE Eighth St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 parkerplayhouse.org

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23

THEATRE AT SUGAR SAND PARK,

300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3948 willowtheatre.org

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SATURDAY, DECEMBER 30

15080 Livingston Rd., Naples, 239-514-0084 cmon.org FRIDAY, DECEMBER 15

Kids can explore the museum, create art, play games, watch movies and participate in lots of after-hours fun. Ages 5-12. $40/ non-member, $35/member. 6-11pm, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 youngatartmuseum.org

Icicle Ornaments

FRIDAY-SATURDAY, DECEMBER 22-23

Create beautiful icicle creations to bring home and decorate your room. Included with paid museum admission of $12/Broward resident. 10am-2pm, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 youngatartmuseum.org

Astronaut

THROUGH APRIL 22

Learn what is takes to become an astronaut through physical challenges, launching a rocket, exploring the science lab and participating in other hands-on activities in this fun-filled exhibit. $16.95/adult, $12.95/child. SOUTH FLORIDA SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 sfsciencecenter.org

FAIRS, FESTIVALS & SPECIAL EVENTS Holiday Fantasy of Lights THROUGH JANUARY 1

A spectacular drive-through display of illuminated trees and animated figures. $16/vehicle. 6-10pm, TRADEWINDS PARK, 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek, holidaylightsdrivethru.com

Santa’s Enchanted Forest THROUGH JANUARY 7

Wonderland of lights, rides, food, games, entertainment and more. $33.64/adult, $22.30/child. 5pm-midnight, TROPICAL PARK, corner of Bird Road and the Palmetto Expressway, Miami, 305-559-9689 santasenchantedforest.com

Dragon Boat Racing SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2

See races of colorful boats that resemble stylized Chinese dragons. 8:30am-7:30pm, T.Y. PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood, 954-232-7434

Sunrise Arts & Crafts Festival SATURDAY, DECEMBER 2

A community tradition of arts and crafts, plants, strolling entertainment, international foods, children’s activities and more. This year the event is combined with Winter Wonderland, with additional family activities and snow play for kids. Festival is free; Winter Wonderland $5. 9am-5pm, SUNRISE ATHLETIC COMPLEX, 11501 NW 44 St., Sunrise, 954-747-4600 sunrisefl.gov

Orchid, Garden & Gourmet Food Festival

Family Hayride and Campfire FRIDAY, DECEMBER 15

Enjoy a hayride around the park, followed by a campfire where you can roast marshmallows to make s’mores. $3.50. 6-9pm, T.Y. PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood, 954-357-8811

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 2-3

Two-day event features local vendors who will sell and display orchids and plants, food trucks, lectures, live music and a farmer’s market. $12/member, $15/non-member. 9am-4pm, BONNET HOUSE, 900 N. Birch Rd., Fort Lauderdale, bonnethouse.org

Science Eye Nature Program SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16

Sunday Jazz Brunch

Science Eye presents fun-filled activities designed to bring science concepts to life every month. This month: reuse trash to make your own holiday light. 9-11am,

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3

Community gathering along Riverwalk with musical entertainment on three different stages, food, and a great family ambiance. Pets welcome. Held regularly on the first Sunday of each month. Free. 11am-2pm, ESPLANADE PARK, 400 SW Second Street, Fort Lauderdale, fortlauderdale.gov

EVERGLADES HOLIDAY PARK,

21940 Griffin Rd., Fort Lauderdale, scienceeye.com

All Aboard!

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 16-17

Solar/Lunar Viewing

Hop on the model steam train rides on a half-mile track around a lake. Riders under 10 years old must be accompanied by an adult. $1.50/ride. 10am-4pm, TRADEWINDS PARK, 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek, 954-357-8870

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 5

Join the South Florida Amateur Astronomers Association as they bring the universe closer with their high powered telescopes. All Ages. 6-8pm, MIRAMAR LIBRARY, 2050 Civic Center Place, Miramar, 954-357-8090

Chinese Lantern Festival

Annual Rotary Run for Tomorrow & Fun Fest

WEDNESDAYS-SUNDAYS, THROUGH JANUARY 15

Let the wonders of illuminated animals guide you through this festival of folk artists, artisans and more than 800 handcrafted lanterns. $25/adult, $15/child. 5:30-10pm, CENTRAL BROWARD REGIONAL PARK, 3700 NW 11 Place, Lauderhill, chineselanternfestival.com

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10

Start the day with an invigorating run/walk and finish up with family entertainment at the end of the race. Pre-registration required. Run starts at 6:20am; Fun Fest from 9am-1pm. CYPRESS BAY HIGH SCHOOL, 18600 Vista Park Blvd., Weston, westonfl.org

Nature Explorations Insectigations

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3

Investigate and observe insects that creep, hop, swim and crawl. All ages. Free. 2-4pm, SECRET WOODS NATURE CENTER, 2701 W. State Rd. 84, Dania Beach, 954-357-8884

Nature Lecture: Invasive Exotic Plants & Animals SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3

Learn about Florida plants as an expert talks about invasive exotic species in South Florida. Live specimens will be on site. All ages. $5 donation. Noon-1pm, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER,

201 Lyons Rd. South, Coconut Creek, 954-357-5198

Supermoon Hike SUNDAY, DECEMBER 3

Join a naturalist to explore the nature trails of Long Key by the light of the supermoon, a moon that appears larger than regular full moons. Pre-registration is required. $5. 7-8pm, LONG KEY NATURE CENTER, 3501 SW 130th Ave., Davie, 954-357-8797

Nature Tots

TUESDAYS, DECEMBER 5 & 19 AND THURSDAY, DECEMBER 28

Explore nature through stories, songs, arts and crafts and more. Ages 2-4. $5. Parental participation and preregistration required. Dec. 5, 10am-noon, MIRAMAR PINELAND, 3600 S. University Dr., Miramar, 954-357-8776; Dec. 19, 10-11am, WEST LAKE PARK, 1200 Sheridan St., Hollywood, 954-357-5161; Dec. 28, 10-11am, SECRET WOODS NATURE CENTER, 2701 W. State Rd. 84, Dania Beach, 954-357-8884

Butterfly Gardening Workshop SATURDAY, DECEMBER 9

Learn to identify and attract local butterflies to your own backyard. Workshops are held indoors, in the Grand Plaza. Free with admission of $29.95/adult, $21.95/child. 1pm, BUTTERFLY WORLD, 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek, 954-977-4434 butterflyworld.com

Nature Crafts

SATURDAY-SUNDAY, DECEMBER 9-10

Children ages 3-10 are invited to drop by the Discovery Room and get

creative with recycled and natural materials. This month’s theme: Nature’s Gifts. $5. 10am-1pm, LONG KEY NATURE CENTER, 3501 SW 130 Ave., Davie, 954-357-8797

Knee-High Naturalist THURSDAY, DECEMBER 14

Preschool children can learn about nature through hands-on activities such as games, nature walks and outside adventures. Pre-registration required. Ages 3-5. $5. 10-11am, LONG KEY NATURE CENTER, 3501 SW 130 Ave., Davie, 954-357-8797

Trail Stroll

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 16

Put on your walking shoes and take a guided boardwalk stroll through the mangrove swamp. All ages. Free. 10-10:45am, ANNE KOLB NATURE CENTER, 751 Sheridan St., Hollywood, 954-357-5161

one week prior to the event. 2:304:30pm, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER, 201 Lyons Road S., Coconut Creek, 954-357-5198

Investigate It!

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 19

Each month features new investigations and experiments led by a park naturalist. 11am-noon, SECRET WOODS NATURE CENTER,

2701 W. State Rd. 84, Dania Beach, 954-357-8884

WANT MORE FUN? See our extensive list of holiday happenings on page 28 and check our online calendar at browardfamilylife.com

Shutterbug Photo Hunt SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17

Participate as a family in a Nature Photography 101 class followed by a photo hunt. Bring home a handcrafted nature frame to display your best shot. $10/team. Pre-register

Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.

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Dad’s Christmas List WHAT HE REALLY WANTS WON’T COME IN A PACKAGE BY RICK EPSTEIN

hen I was a kid, I’d send Santa my Christmas wish lists, and every year I’d ask in vain for a pony, a six-shooter and a pair of spurs. Although I never stopped wanting to be a cowboy, I did eventually learn to guide my wishes toward actual possibilities. And this year’s list represents my best job ever. From my 12-year-old daughter Wendy: I want a smile. You see, I bring photos of my family to the office so I can look upon their sweet faces whenever the job gets me down. But amid the angelic smiles, there are the many faces of my youngest child: Wendy scowling, leering or sneering; Wendy agog, agape or aghast; Wendy hunching her shoulders, squashing her nose or crossing her eyes. These pictures show spirit, imagination and an admirable rubber-faced mobility of expression. They add a certain liveliness and variety to my family shrine. But when I’m pulling wearily at my oar and the other slaves are yanking on my chains or the boss’ cat-o-nine-tails is whistling around my ears, Wendy’s satanic grimaces do not whisk me away to a happier place. So I’d like Wendy to look forthrightly into my camera when I ask her to — and smile like a normal person. From my 15-year-old daughter Sally: I’m tempted to ask for the surrender of a certain too-sexy orange dress. But the holiday season’s the wrong time to get between a girl and her bright apparel. Besides, there’s something I’d much rather have: Sally’s permission to tag along to marchingband camp next summer as a chaperone. Every August, the band retreats to the mountains for five days to indoctrinate freshmen and learn new music. Although they drill all day, they romp all night. Last year, I watched Sally pack for the trip. Her luggage contained a SuperSoaker, balloons for water fights, Icy Hot for application to toilet seats and 40 live crickets with which to infest the boys’ bedding.

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“Sally, you can’t take this stuff; they’ll kick you out of the band,” I said. “Dad,” she said, “The chaperones don’t mind pranks; they only care about booze, drugs and sex.” Parents who have been to camp support Sally’s claim. The chaperones stay up all night sneaking around the cabins to make sure no one is getting drunk or pregnant. Band camp is not quality time with your kid, but it sounds like fun. Though I’m eager to sign up each year, Sally always says, “No way!” But maybe this year, if she knows how much I want to go, the spirit of Christmas will melt her little snowball of a heart. From my 19-year-old daughter Marie: My gift has already been promised. When she left home for college, I was very sad. The first week I wrote her five letters. I kept buying foods she likes, and I still go into her empty room and visit her old teddy bear — who, like me, is an obsolete relic of Marie’s childhood. Then I received her letter: “We’ve taken lots of family road trips, but we haven’t done the Southwest. Why don’t we go there in January when I have some time off from school? Just you and me. Mom could stay home and take care of my annoying sisters and you’d even get to wear a cowboy hat and no one would laugh at you ... maybe.” From my lovely wife: Two weeks’ furlough. And from Santa? How about that pony? But I’ll need two, amigo. Please have ’em saddled and waiting for us in El Paso. Rick Epstein is the father of three girls and author of Rookie Dad and The Right Number of Kids.

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