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BROWARD’S UNIQUE HOT SPOTS TO COOL OFF
Dr. Gary Birken, Surgeon-in-Chief
Marina, who had lymphoma
When It Matters Most
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Children need the right doctor and the right hospital. Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital has every medical specialty a parent could want and the expertise every child needs. That’s why when it mattered most, Marina’s parents trusted Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital to surgically remove her tumors and begin her comprehensive cancer treatment. When it matters most for your child, trust the team of experts in pediatric surgery at Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital.
Visit JDCH.com/Marina to watch her story and learn more.
A New Level of Healthcare for You
OPENING SUMMER 2018!
Broward Health Coral Springs is expanding its “family” to better care for you and your family! Some expansions to our full service hospital include: • A new surgical center with 28 private rooms dedicated to prostate, orthopaedic, colo-rectal, gynecological and general surgical patients. • An expanded Women’s Hospital with a private entrance, 28 private patient rooms dedicated to labor/delivery and post-partum care, as well as a newborn nursery. • Salah Foundation Children's Hospital expansion to all-private Level II NICU rooms.
To schedule a tour contact our Community Education Center at 954.344.3344. BrowardHealth.org
3000 Coral Hills Drive, Coral Springs
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summer safety tips FIREWORKS SAFETY
BUG SAFETY
Avoid areas where insects nest or congregate, such as stagnant
pools of water, uncovered foods and gardens where flowers are in bloom.
Families should attend community fireworks displays run by professionals rather than using fireworks at home.
PLAYGROUND SAFETY
Source: American Academy of Pediatrics, June 2014
DON’T USE scented soaps,
perfumes or hair sprays on your child.
Make sure children CANNOT REACH any moving parts that might pinch or trap any body part.
PARENTS SHOULD SUPERVISE children on play equipment to make sure they are safe.
BICYCLE SAFETY A helmet protects your child from serious injury, and should ALWAYS BE WORN. When purchasing a helmet, look for a label or sticker that says the helmet meets the CPSC safety standard.
SKATEBOARD, SCOOTER, IN-LINE SKATING AND HEELYS SAFETY Children should NEVER RIDE skateboards or scooters in or near moving traffic.
ALL-TERRAIN VEHICLES
Children who are TOO YOUNG to have a driver's license should not be allowed to operate or ride off-road vehicles.
30%
Children are involved in about of all ATV-related deaths and emergency room-treated injuries.
Helmets are particularly important for
PREVENTING AND MINIMIZING HEAD INJURIES.
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Children under the age of should be closely supervised at all times.
LAWN MOWER SAFETY DO NOT ALLOW children to ride as passengers on ride-on mowers. Keep children out of the yard while mowing.
To speak to a registered nurse or for a physician referral, call Consult-A-Nurse® at 954.724.6349. For more information, visit HCAEastFlorida.com.
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FABULOUS FOURTH FESTIVITIES Have a blast at these community celebrations of all things red, white and blue.
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WET & WILD Three adrenaline-pumping ways to make a summer splash.
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SPECIAL NEEDS RESOURCE GUIDE Our guide helps families with special needs navigate the wide range of county services — and provides a local listing of activities for fitness, fun and more.
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BITTERSWEET BIRTHDAYS The coming-of-age heartbreaks of an Asperger’s child.
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BROWARD & BEYOND
CALENDAR OF EVENTS
WORDS OF WISDOM
Friday night Teen Socials and Splashtaculars, and a cinematic backyard adventure.
Entertaining and noteworthy things to see and do in every corner of Broward County.
It’s poetic justice for penny-pinching parents.
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Movie Magic with a Message
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inding a seat in an air-chilled movie theater with a box of hot popcorn is one of summer’s go-to family pastimes. And if you can sift through the barrage of peak-season blockbusters and find just the right film, it can add up to a lot more than just keeping the kids entertained for a couple of hours. One such film is Backyard Wilderness, which recently opened at AutoNation IMAX 3D Theater in Fort Lauderdale. The documentary reveals the unexpected delights of nature hidden in our own neighborhoods by following a young girl’s backyard journey of discovery. Living in a suburban home next to the woods, Katie and her modern family are preoccupied with their electronic devices and blind to the real-life wonders just outside the door. Katie gradually discovers that Wi-Fi is not the only connection that matters. Spanning the seasons of a year, the film displays Katie’s secret “neighbors” in rare and stunning intimacy captured by cameras mounted inside dens and nests and along the forest floor and pond bottom. Created by Emmy Award-winning and Oscar-nominated filmmakers Andrew Young and Susan Todd, Backyard Wilderness will be shown with the new technology of IMAX with Laser. Tickets are available at the box office at 401 SW Second St. or by phone at 954-713-0930.
A SPLASHING SUCCESS AT CASTAWAY ISLAND T.Y. Park’s water park turns into a “theme park” this summer during Castaway Island’s Splashtacular Family Fridays. The Hollywood park’s evening events will feature themes of “Under the Sea” (July 13), “Winter Wonderland in July” (July 27) and “Fall Out of Summer” (Aug. 10). In the tradition of the Family Fun Fridays held at the park for several years, Splashtaculars will include games and splash times but also add thematic decorations and dress-up. “There will be new team games,” says Paula Finlayson, park coordinator of the events. “So there will be lots of cheering.” Splashtaculars are held from 6-8pm. Admission is $7 plus sales tax per person, with children under 13 months free. For more information, call the park at 954-357-8811.
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Friday Night’s Alright for “Fighting”… … And jumping, jousting and slam-dunking at the Teen Socials hosted by a new family-fun and adventure center in Weston. The 40,000-square-foot Gecko ParX invites teenagers 13–18 to engage their inner ninja and other high-energy skills Fridays from 8:30-11pm. Attractions include a ninja warrior course, trampolines, dodgeball, two basketball slam dunk courts, a parkour course, and a multi-attraction pit that features jousting and a slackline — all accompanied by DJ music. Food, beverages and arcade games are also available but not included in the $19.99 admission price. Teens must show a valid student ID, and parents are welcome to supervise from the mezzanine deck. For more info or to purchase a ticket, please visit www.geckoparx.com. Gecko ParX is located at 3305 Corporate Ave.
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Join Promenade at Coconut Creek for a day of fun, food and games for the entire family. Family Fun Day will feature community favorites including The Florida Panthers and Hip Hop Kidz, interactive activities and games, food stations, live performances from local bands, dance companies and music groups, and much more. Visit promenadeatcoconutcreek.com for additional event details and more information.
4443 Lyons Road, Coconut Creek, FL 33073 • 954.376.6976 • promenadeatcoconutcreek.com
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fourth FESTIVITIES fabulous
Have a blast at these star-spangled community celebrations
Aventura
Enjoy the annual fireworks display with great views from Country Club Drive and other areas. 9pm, along Don Soffer Exercise Trail, 305-466-8930 www.cityofaventura.com
Boca Raton
Put on your red, white and blue and head out for family activities and live music followed by a fireworks display. Free. 6:30-9:30pm, Spanish River Sports Complex, Countess De Hoernle Park, 1000 NW Spanish River Blvd., 561-393-7807 www.myboca.us
Coral Springs
Join the city’s annual Fourth of July celebration with entertainment, family activities, food and a grand fireworks display at 9pm. $3/parking. 6-10pm, Mullins Park, 10150 Ben Geiger Dr., 954-345-2200 www.coralsprings.org
Davie
Celebrate Independence Day with a bit of Old Florida. Step back in time with a 1930-1940s costume contest, music and old-fashioned games. 9:30am-4pm, Flamingo Gardens, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., 954-473-2955 www.flamingogardens.org Join in the community celebration with a day of family fun featuring swimming and pool games from 10am-3pm at Pine Island Pool, 3800 SW 92 Ave., followed by arts and crafts for kids, live music, games and more from 4-9pm at Pine Island Park, 3801 Pine Island Rd. Fireworks at 9pm. 954-797-1181 www.davie-fl.gov Experience one of the best spots from which to view numerous firework displays across Broward County. From Vista View Park’s hill, the highest man-made elevation in the county, you can see the fireworks from Davie, Pembroke Pines, Miramar, Sunrise and possibly Fort Lauderdale and Hollywood when the weather is clear. $1.50/person before 7:30pm, $2/person after 7:30pm. 7:30-10pm, Vista View Park, 4001 SW 142 Ave., 954-357-8898 www.broward.org/parks
Deerfield Beach
Relax on the beach with family activities and refreshments. The fun continues into the evening with entertainment followed by fireworks at 9pm. Noon-9pm, Main Beach Parking Lot, 149 SE 21 St., 954-480-4429 www.deerfield-beach.com
Fort Lauderdale
Plantation
Hallandale Beach
Pompano Beach
Hollywood
Sunrise
Gather on the beach for a day of family activities including music, beach games, contests, a kids zone, live entertainment, and a fireworks presentation off of A1A and Las Olas Boulevard. Fireworks begin at 9pm. Free. 12-9:30pm, Fort Lauderdale Beach, A1A and Las Olas Blvd., 954-828-5363 www.fortlauderdale.gov
Enjoy a free party with children’s activities, face painting, a fire-breathing dragon, DJ music, entertainment and more. Fireworks show at 9pm. 6-10pm, Gulfstream Park, 901 S. Federal Highway, 954-454-7000 www.gulfstreampark.com
A hometown star-spangled celebration with music and fun for the whole family at beachside locations, followed by fireworks offshore at 9pm. Free. 2-10pm, Hollywood Beach Broadwalk, along the beach, 954-921-3404 www.hollywoodfl.org
Lauderdale-By-The-Sea A day of old-fashioned fun with a parade along El Mar Drive starting at 10am, followed by family-friendly activities until 3pm. Fireworks display at 9pm. El Prado Park, 4500 El Mar Dr., www.lauderdalebythesea-fl.gov
Margate
Kick off the day with a parade starting at 9am down Margate Boulevard. Evening celebration continues with live music at 6pm and fireworks at 9pm. Margate Boulevard and U.S. 441, 954-972-6458 www.margatefl.com
Miramar
Community fun to mark Independence Day. 7-9pm, Miramar Regional Park, 16801 Miramar Parkway, 954-602-3171 www.miramarfl.gov
Begin celebrating at 9am with a patriotic parade from the intersection of Broward Boulevard and NW 46 Avenue, traveling west to City Hall. Celebrate with evening activities at the ball fields, featuring live music and fireworks. Free. 7-9pm, Central Park, 9151 NW Second St., 954-452-2510 www.plantation.org
Gather at the beach to listen to a live band and DJ tunes followed by fireworks at 9pm. 5-9pm, Pompano Beach Fishing Pier, 222 N. Pompano Beach Blvd., www.pompanobeachfl.gov
Floats will wind their way west along Sunset Strip from NW 12 Street to City Park, where the fun continues with free refreshments and kids’ entertainment. 9am-noon, 954-747-4600 www.sunrisefl.gov In the evening, join your neighbors for children’s activities, live music and a fireworks display. Free. 4:30-9:30pm, BB&T Center, One Panther Parkway, www.sunrisefl.gov
Tamarac
Grab blankets and lawn chairs for the city of Tamarac’s All-American Celebration featuring entertainment, a fun zone, live music, food trucks, games and more. Fireworks at 9pm. 6-9:30pm, Tamarac Sports Complex, 9901 NW 77 St., 954-597-3620 www.tamarac.org
Weston
A hometown parade featuring local businesses, civic groups, schools, bands and organizations, with the theme United by Freedom. 10:30am, Weston Town Center, Main Street, 954-389-4321 www.westonfl.org
Pembroke Pines
Gather family and friends to enjoy music, food and fireworks. Bring your own blankets and lawn chairs. Free. 6-9pm, Pines Recreation Center Festival Grounds, Pines Boulevard just east of University Drive, 954-392-2116 www.ppines.com
Every effort has been made to provide up-to-date information, however changes and cancellations do occur, especially due to weather. Please double check details before setting out for your celebration.
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on in… By Greg Carannante
...the water’s a blast! It’s another one of those steamy summer days that’ll melt the makeup right off your face. It’s just too hot to be outside — unless you’re in the water. But finding the right place to take the plunge can be a sticky predicament in South Florida, where the phrase “water, water everywhere” applies almost literally.
FlowRider, Margaritaville
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n Broward County, there are a gazillion options for swimming, snorkeling or any other water activity. From its 23 miles of beaches to its five water parks and all the municipal,
community and private pools in between, the county is a water-lover’s paradise. It’s not for nothing that it’s home to the International Swimming Hall of Fame. But if the obvious choices of beach and pool leave you with that “been there, done that” feeling, there are ways to make a splash that are a little out of the ordinary … and possibly a lot more exciting. One is the FlowRider® Double at Margaritaville Beach Resort. Situated on Hollywood Beach’s Broadwalk, it lets surfers and surfer wannabes ride the waves with an ocean
Ski Rixen USA, Quiet Waters Park
view but without having to actually set foot in the sea. You don’t need to be a resort guest to enjoy the adrenalinepumping surfing-simulator experience — you just need to be at least 42 inches tall for bodyboarding and 52 inches for stand-up surfing. FlowRider is open Monday-Thursday 11am-6pm and Friday-Sunday 9am-6pm. Prices for 30 minutes are $30 weekdays and $45 weekends. One of many promotions is the Thursday Locals Special, which gives residents an extra 30 minutes free with the purchase of a 30-minute session from 3-6pm. There’s also the Florida Residents Special, which offers a day pass for $95, 11am-6pm Monday-Thursday. You can find more info and video clips at www.margaritaritavillehollywoodbeachresort.com. continued on page 21 Aqua Challenge, Broward College Tigertail Lake Recreational Center
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ow that their days of sitting in classrooms are over for the summer, kids love to jump into the pool. But before they hit the water, think about what you can do to protect them from the germs that may be lurking there. Recreational water illnesses are caused by germs in swimming pools, hot tubs, water parks, water play areas or fountains, and spread when people swallow or come in contact with the contaminated water. They can cause a number of health issues, such as gastrointestinal, skin, ear, eye and wound infections. The most common of these illnesses is diarrhea, which can be caused by germs like cryptosporidium (crypto), giardia, shigella, norovirus, and E. coli. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recently released new information warning parents about crypto, as outbreaks linked to swimming have doubled since 2014. This parasite is the most common cause of diarrheal illness linked to swimming pools, and can put a swift halt to summertime fun with symptoms of watery diarrhea, stomach cramps, nausea and vomiting. Crypto spreads when people swallow something that has come in contact with the feces of an infected person — commonly, pool water contaminated with diarrhea. Unfortunately, crypto’s symptoms can last for up to three weeks and can lead to dehydration if not addressed properly.
Crypto can be problematic because it is not easily killed by chlorine and can survive up to 10 days even in properly treated water. Swallowing just a little water that contains these germs can make anyone sick. CDC recommends closing pools and treating the water with high levels of chlorine, called hyperchlorination, when responding to a pool-contamination issue or a crypto outbreak. Not nearly as troublesome as crypto but still unpleasant are the itchy irritations that can cap off a long day in the pool. Referred to as swimmer’s itch, these itchy red bumps with tiny blisters can show up on areas that were not covered by a swimsuit. If little red bumps appear around hair follicles under the child’s swimsuit, most likely on the butt or thighs, the problem may be something called “hot tub folliculitis” from a poorly chlorinated pool. Sitting in a wet bathing suit for extended periods can cause such problems as jock itch or a yeast infection in girls. If your child’s wet bathing suit comes in contact with dermatophytes, a type of mold-like fungi, it can spread to their genitals, inner thighs and butt. This irritation will be a red, itchy rash that may grow in the shape of a ring. These issues may be difficult to avoid without making your kids change out of their wet suit into dry clothes (and back again if they want to swim later on). Thoroughly washing their bathing suit after each time they wear it can help to prevent rashes from forming. It’s necessary to wash bathing suits even if they do not go in the water because sweat and sunscreen seep in. Experts recommend not washing bathing suits in the washing machine. Instead, hand-wash them with a capful of mild detergent or white vinegar. Let the swimsuit soak in the solution for up to 30 minutes and rinse with cool water. To dry, gently roll the suit in a clean dry towel, lightly pressing to remove the excess water. Lay the suit flat to dry. Finally, kids can get athlete’s foot from walking around barefoot on warm, damp surfaces like the pool deck, or from using a damp towel carrying the fungus. Signs of athlete’s foot include itching; burning; bumps on the feet; cracked, blistered or peeling areas often between the toes; redness and scaling on the soles of the feet; skin between the toes that appears “cheesy” and has an unpleasant odor; or a rash that spreads to the inside part of the foot. Make sure your kids dry their feet properly after swimming. Most of these rashes should clear up on their own but you can help out with over-the-counter antihistamines and soothing or anti-itch products, such as hydrocortisone, colloidal oatmeal products, and menthol/camphor creams. And don’t hesitate to call your pediatrician or dermatologist for a complete evaluation.
Crypto Prevention Tips • Starting from a young age, teach your kids not to swallow pool water. This can be challenging when they are really young, and accidents do happen, but add it to your list of pool safety tips.
• Rinse off your children in the shower before and after they are in the water to help remove any germs on their body.
• Check out the pool to make sure it is clean, safe and well-maintained. Only swim where there are trained staff and lifeguards consistently checking the pool water.
• Be sure to give your kids bathroom breaks throughout the day and make
sure they are wiped thoroughly. For those still in diapers, check the diapers in a changing area and not next to the pool to keep the pool area germ-free. Also, be aware that swim diapers are not foolproof and can still leak in the pool.
• Finally, if your kids are sick with a stomach issue, keep them out of the
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If having something to hang on to is more your style when skimming the water, then an outing to Ski Rixen USA at Quiet Waters Park in Deerfield Beach may be your wet and wild ride of choice. At South Florida’s only cable water-skiing and wakeboard park, fun-seekers 12 and older don’t need a boat to be pulled silently over smooth water. And they can also slalom, trick-ski, kneeboard or even surf without a wave. Strategically designed to provide the best water conditions possible, the huge cable park is open daily except Mondays. Depending on whether you’re skiing or wakeboarding, basic passes range from $25 for an hour to $65 for a day. Advanced passes range from $45-$85. Group rates and military discounts are available. For more info, call 954-429-0215 for hours and visit www.skirixenusa.com or www.broward.org/parks/quietwaterspark to watch a YouTube video of the attraction in action. If your idea of a smashing good time falls — keyword: falls — somewhere between TV’s American Ninja Warrior and Wipeout, the new Tigertail Aqua Challenge at Broward College Tigertail Lake Recreational Center will put you in the action. The 8,000-square-foot inflatable water obstacle course and playground in Dania Beach will test your balance, strength and concentration with a trampoline, balance beam, jungle gym, a 25-foot bouncing dome and a 12-foot-tall freefall climbing wall with a breathtaking slide. The first Aqua Challenge in South Florida, the course’s other special features include the 12-foot-wide octagon-shaped Universal Thunderdome and The Ultimate Catapult, a 16-foot swing that launches participants into the water. And then there’s the 20-foot-wide Cyclone, an obstacle that fits up to four people and allows the rotating wheel to act as a super soaker. It also provides an ultimate spinning workout. When it’s time to chill, the multi-level enclosed splash zone is just right for playing or relaxing. Participants must be at least 7 years old and be able to swim. Sessions are one hour and include a 15-minute safety briefing. The Aqua Challenge can be a stand alone attraction or included in a full-day package at Tigertail Lake Recreational Center, which also features watersport rentals, SCUBA, sailing, lifeguarding courses and regular outdoor adventure trips. For more information please visit www.tigertaillake.com or call 954-201-4500.
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The City of Margate & The Margate Community Redevelopment Agency present
4th of July
Learn the job duties and responsibilities of professional lifeguards while having fun!
EXTRAVAGANZA
Independence Day Parade 9am- 11:30am
Margate Blvd. Eastbound from 76th Avenue to City Hall Award Categories: Private Business, Non-Profit & Margate Family Refreshments & family-friendly activities
Pool Party
1pm-5pm
Calypso Cove Aquatic Facility 6200 Royal Palm Blvd. Steel drum band, face paint, more
H FoodTrucks, H Concert and H Fireworks Display H Corner5pm-9pm of Margate Blvd & SR7 H Concert begins at 6PM Fireworks at 9PM
ROAD CLOSURES: • Margate Blvd. eastbound closed during the parade 9am-11am • Margate Blvd. from clock tower to SR7 closed from 9am-11pm • SR7 from Atlantic Blvd. to Coconut Creek Parkway closed from 7:30pm-10:30pm THIS CELEBRATION IS FREE AND OPEN TO THE PUBLIC CONNECT WITH US: @CityofMargateFL Margate Parks & Recreation (954) 972-6458 • margatefl.com
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Special Needs
RESOURCE GUIDE From expert assessments to respite care, Broward County has many resources to help your child reach his or her best potential
2-1-1 Broward
Ann Storck Center
A free, confidential referral and crisis helpline. The hotline and website connect parents to comprehensive resources, including assistance for children with developmental and physical disabilities. Call 2-1-1 or 954-537-0211, or see www.211-broward.org
Developmental preschool serving children ages 3 months to 5 years with special needs. Full-time nurse, occupational therapy, physical therapy, speech/language pathology, family support, and more.1790 SW 43 Way, Fort Lauderdale, 954-584-8000 www.annstorckcenter.org
ADHD Assessment, Consultation & Treatment Program
ARC Broward
Provides assessment, testing and treatment for children and adolescents 2-22 years who are demonstrating behavioral issues consistent with ADHD. Nova Southeastern University Center for Psychological Studies, Maltz Building, 3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-5730 www.nova.edu/healthcare/psychology/adhd.html
Agency for Health Care Administration Helps Medicaid consumers navigate the Medicaid system. Provides a list of doctors and specialists but does not determine eligibility. 1400 W. Commercial Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 888-419-3456 www.ahca.myflorida.com
Agency for Persons with Disabilities Supports people with developmental disabilities in living, learning and working in their communities. Provides Medicaid waiver services. 201 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-467-4218 www.apd.myflorida.com
Support for those with developmental challenges and their families. Includes parent-training programs, full-day preschool, therapy and developmental training, summer camps, after-school programs, respite care and more. 10250 NW 53 St., Sunrise, 954-746-9400 www.arcbroward.com
Autism Society of America, Broward Chapter Support, local resources and advocacy for parents of children with autism spectrum disorder. 954-465-4700 www.asabroward.org
Baudhuin Preschool at NSU’s Mailman Segal Center Located on the main campus of Nova Southeastern University, the preschool is an internationally recognized model for children with autism spectrum disorder. Offered in partnership with Broward County Public Schools at the Jim & Jan Moran Family Center Village, 3301 College Ave.,
Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-6900 www.nova.edu/humandevelopment/earlylearning/ baudhuin/index.html
Best Buddies Pairs people with intellectual disabilities in one-to-one friendships with middle and high school students. Also offers a program for adults. 3450 Lakeside Dr., Miramar, 954-449-6522 www.bestbuddies.org/florida
Best Day Foundation Provides children and young adults with special needs the opportunity to build confidence and self-esteem through adventure activities including surfing, body boarding, kayaking and more. 1-800-309-2815 www.bestdayfoundation.org
Broward Children’s Center This non-profit center offers a wide range of programs, including licensed home health care, medical daycare, developmental preschools for special needs and typical children, in-home and facility-based respite care, and more. Also offers social services referrals and counseling, education for medically complex children, medical transportation, and physical, occupational and speech therapy. 200 SE 19 Ave., Pompano Beach, 954-649-7362 www.bcckids.org
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Center for Hearing & Communication Multidisciplinary services for deaf and hard of hearing clients, including audiology services, assistive listening devices, specialized phone equipment, psychological assessments, counseling, support groups and educational and summer camp programs. Emergency interpreter services available 24 hours. 2900 W. Cypress Creek Rd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-601-1930; TTY: 954-601-1938 www.chchearing.org
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Agency serves children, adolescents, and adults with developmental, emotional, cognitive, physical, and behavioral needs using active, creative, and enriching treatment interventions. 450 N. Park Rd., Hollywood, 954-925-3191
of all abilities WHY WE •Children are welcome to play ROCK •Host parties or events
Grief support group for children, teens, young adults and families seeking support after the loss of a loved one. Free groups take place across Broward and Miami-Dade counties. 305-668-4902 www.childbereavement.org
Provides interdisciplinary developmental/behavioral assessments, integrated therapy programs and training for parents of children with developmental delays, including autism. Also available: clinical psychology, occupational therapy, speech-language pathology and applied behavioral analysis. 440 Sawgrass Corporate Parkway, Sunrise, 954-745-1112 www.childpsych.org
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Peer support, programs and referrals to assist individuals with disabilities gain self-sufficiency. Ages 14-22 years may participate in workshops, internships, training conferences, field trips, and leadership development. They also offer a Wheelchair Repair Clinic on the first Friday of each month. 4800 N. State Road 7, Fort Lauderdale, 954-722-6400 TYY: 954-735-0963 www.cilbroward.org
Child Find In coordination with the public schools, this program works to identify children who may be eligible for services under the Individuals with Disabilities Act. Provides early intervention and serves as an entry to exceptional student education services before children reach school age. 754-321-7200 www.browardschools.com
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Non-profit center provides medical care, therapeutic services, multidisciplinary evaluations, support groups, recreational events, and more to children with disabilities or chronic illnesses. Nurses, doctors, therapists, social workers, psychologists, nutritionists and specialists provide services funded primarily through federal, state, county and private grants. 1401 S. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, 954-728-8080 www.childrensdiagnostic.org
Children’s Medical Services Part of the Florida Department of Health, this agency provides early intervention as well as primary, therapeutic, specialty and long-term care to children under 21 with special healthcare needs. Deals with brain and spinal cord injury, craniofacial/cleft palate, orthopedic, genetic, neurosurgical, cardiac, renal, eye, sickle cell anemia and diabetes. 954-713-3100 www.cms-kids.com
Children’s Services Council Government agency created by voters to provide leadership, coordination and funding for children’s services. Check their website for a list of funded programs. 954-377-1000 www.cscbroward.org
David Posnack Jewish Community Center Social and recreational programs serve mentally, physically, emotionally challenged and/or developmentally delayed children ages 3-22. Includes field trips, activities, and summer day camp program. 5850 S. Pine Island Rd., Davie, 954-434-0499 www.dpjcc.org
Deliver the Dream A respite and retreat program for families experiencing serious illness or crisis, allowing them to mend spirits, gain strength and reconnect. 3223 NW 10 Terr., Fort Lauderdale, 954-564-3512 www.deliverthedream.org
Disability Rights Florida Assists people with disabilities in applying for and receiving services from rehabilitative programs. 800-342-0823; TDD: 800-346-4127 www.disabilityrightsflorida.org
Easter Seals South Florida Evaluations and treatment for physical, occupational and speech disabilities. Rehabilitation to improve function lost to developmental delays, brain injuries, neurological or orthopedic conditions, and more. 1475 NW 14 Ave., Miami, 305-325-0470 www.southflorida.easterseals.com
Equine-Assisted Therapies of South Florida Therapeutic horseback riding and other equine-assisted activities for children and adults with physical, cognitive, and emotional difficulties. 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek, 954-974-2007 www.equineatsf.org
Family Network on Disabilities Part of a statewide network serving families with special needs. Provides tutorials, workshops and assistance for parents of children with developmental disabilities. Some eligibility requirements may apply. 754-444-6550 www.fndbroward.com
Florida Division of Blind Services State-sponsored programs for those up to age 21 who are visually impaired or have a disease that will lead to blindness. 7771 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, 954-746-1770 www.dbs.myflorida
Florida Diagnostic & Learning Resources System State-supported program provides support services and resources for those that have concern for and serve children with exceptionalities. www.fdlrs.org
Florida Mentor Network Part of a national network of health and human services providers, this network offers communitybased support for adults and children with intellectual and developmental disabilities as well as medically complex needs. www.fl-mentor.com
Florida’s Voice on Developmental Disabilities A statewide volunteer advocacy organization comprised of family and friends of persons with developmental disabilities. www.floridasvoice.org
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Friendship Initiative Fitness, art and music programs pair children with special needs with typical children to form friendships and learn from one another. www.thefriendshipinitiative.org
God’s Little Acres Provides safe and controlled recreational opportunities on a five-acre ranch for seriously ill and developmentally disabled children between the ages of 2-11 with their families. No fee. 4551 NW 39 Ave., Coconut Creek, 954-984-0787 www.godslittleacres.org
Healing Arts Institute of South Florida The Institute’s Awesome Kids program assists children with social, emotional, behavioral and anger management issues. Takes place from 6-7:30pm Tuesdays and Thursdays for school-aged kids. 4699 N. State Road 7, Tamarac 954-644-9567 www.healingartsinstitutesfl.org
Henderson Behavioral Health Case management for children who are experiencing mental health problems. www.hendersonbh.org
Broward Children’s Center pairs therapeutic and ABA services to provide special needs
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Certified Eating Disorders Specialist specializing in the treatment of eating disorders, disordered eating and body image dissatisfaction. Providing children, adolescents and adults in the Broward community with: • Individual Nutrition Therapy • Family Nutrition Therapy • Mindful Meal Support • Grocery Shopping Trips • Food Exposure and Response Prevention • Support Groups
JAFCO Committed to serving all children, from birth to age 22, who have been diagnosed with a developmental disability including autism, intellectual disabilities, cerebral palsy, spina bifida or Prader Willi, the center provides individualized treatment interventions, enrichment activities and family support services. Also offers child enrichment services including social
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skills groups, a life skills program, various clubs and indoor and outdoor activities. 954-749-7230 www.jafco.org
Joshua’s Path Free service provides educational seminars, resources and consultations for Broward County parents and caretakers of special needs adults or adolescents nearing adulthood. Topics include financial or legal arrangements, residential options, vocational assistance and social and recreation needs. Goodman Jewish Family Services of Broward, 5890 S. Pine Island Rd., Davie, 954-370-2140 www.jfsbroward.org
Lighthouse of Broward Programs for blind and visually impaired adults and children. Includes in-home services for infants and preschoolers, camp and year-round activities for ages 6-12, teen program, and parent support group. 650 N. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-463-4217 www.lhob.org
Little People of America National organization provides support and information to people of short stature and their families. Membership is for those who are usually no taller than 4’10,” their relatives and interested professionals. Local chapter is the South Florida Mini Gators. 888-572-2001 www.lpaonline.org
Living Inclusively for Everyone LIFE offers recreational outings for young adults with developmental disabilities, with focused efforts in the areas of housing, recreation and job opportunities. www.life-florida.org
Mental Health Association of Southeast Florida Prevention programs, community education, advocacy and opportunities for empowerment of persons with mental illness. Programs include services, support, mentoring, art and music therapy, and more. 7145 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Lauderhill, 954-746-2055 www.mhasefl.org
Muscular Dystrophy Association Assistance for those with neuromuscular disease, including wheelchairs, leg braces, flu shots, support groups, camp programs, and more. 550 Fairway Dr., Deerfield Beach, 561-742-3748 www.mdausa.org
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National Alliance on Mental Illness Support, advocacy and education for persons with mental illnesses, their families and friends. 954-316-9907 www.nami.org
Nicklaus Children’s Hospital Dan Marino Outpatient Center In partnership with Nicklaus Children’s Hospital, this not-for-profit center provides world-class neurological and developmental services and screenings for children. Also provides support groups, seminars and a resource center for parents. Serves children with autism, Asperger’s syndrome, developmental disorders, dual sensory impairments and more. Camp DMC, a summer program for children with special needs, is run by trained professionals including certified teachers, behavior
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specialists and education aides. The program offers fun, educational and therapeutic activities to enhance academic, communication, social and motor skills. 2900 S. Commerce Parkway, Weston, 954-385-6200 www.nicklauschildrens.org
NSU Audiology Clinic Comprehensive assessment and treatment for hearing and balance disorders, including comprehensive audiologic assessment from newborn through school-age, and auditory processing evaluations for children with learning disorders and attention difficulties. 3200 S. University Dr., Davie, 954-678-2273 www.nova.edu/healthcare/hearingbalance
NSU Child, Adolescent & Family Services A full range of psychological services to assist families with emotional, cognitive, and/or behavioral difficulties — including ADHD, school and behavioral problems, childhood bedwetting and more. Nova Southeastern University, Maltz Psychology Building, 3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-5730 www.nova.edu/healthcare/psychology/cafs.html
NSU Clinic for Speech, Language & Communication Evaluation and treatment for speech, language and communication delays and disorders such as apraxia, articulation, dysarthria, swallowing difficulties, phonology, pragmatic/semantic language, receptive/ expressive language, stuttering, fluency and voice disturbances. 6100 Griffin Rd., Davie, 954-678-2273 www.nova.edu/healthcare/slc
Parkland Buddy Sports Non-profit organization offers supervised and structured sports programs for special needs children and young adults. www.parklandbuddysports.com
Pembroke Pines Special Population Programs City of Pembroke Pines provides recreational and educational programs to those with special needs. Programs include wheelchair sports, Special Olympic training, specialty camps, events and educational field trips. 954-392-9429 www.ppines.com
Renfrew Center Residential and outpatient treatment for eating disorders, including anorexia. For ages 14 and up. 7700 Renfrew Lane, Coconut Creek, 800-736-3739 www.renfrewcenter.com
SEDNET (Severe Emotional Disorders) Multi-agency effort dedicated to improving services to children and adolescents with serious emotional disturbances. 754-321-3400 www.sednetfl.info
Schott Communities Education, socialization, counseling and case management for deaf or disabled individuals and their families or caregivers. 6591 Flamingo Rd., Cooper City, 954-434-3306 www.schottcommunities.org
Special Olympics This global organization oversees year-round sports training and competition for developmentally disabled individuals ages 8 and up. Provides training through schools and individual programs in 22 different sports. 3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-2150 www.specialolympicsflorida.org/broward
Starting Right An early intervention, parent-child class for children 18-36 months exhibiting delays in language and social skills. Program is designed to increase communication, social and school readiness skills. NSU Mailman Segal Center for Early Childhood Studies, 3301 College Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-7117 www.nova.edu/humandevelopment/ earlylearning/startingright/index.html
Stuttering Foundation of America Provides free online resources, information, services and support to those who stutter and their families. 1-800-992-9392 www.stutteringhelp.org
Sunrise Community Education and early intervention services, adult and pediatric therapy programs and childcare services are some of the programs offered to those with intellectual and developmental disabilities. 5450 Stirling Rd., Davie, 954-744-1124 www.sunrisegroup.org
The Kidz Korner Respite program for medically fragile children in a home-like atmosphere with attentive nurses, therapists and respiratory practitioners. Therapy programs include physical, dysphagia, occupational and speech-language. Location also offers a ventilator weaning program and transition programs. For preemies to age 21. 4250 NW Fifth St., Plantation, 954-587-3296 www.plantationkidzkorner.com
Therapies 4 Kids Pediatric intensive fitness programs for children and adults with neurological disorders such as cerebral palsy, autism and stroke. Five south Florida locations. 954-828-0425 www.therapies4kids.com
Tomorrow’s Rainbow Program uses miniature horses and other animals to provide free grief support groups to children ages 3 and up, teens and their families who have experienced the death of a loved one. 4341 NW 39 Ave., Coconut Creek, 954-978-2390 www.tomorrowsrainbow.org
Unicorn Children’s Foundation Clinics Housed at NSU, clinics provide a comprehensive spectrum of services for children and caregivers including developmental assessment of autism and related disorders, feeding disorders and challenging behaviors. 7600 SW 36 St., Davie, 954-262-2273 www.nova.edu/humandevelopment/autism
United Community Options Formerly United Cerebral Palsy, this organization helps children with a range of needs and abilities maximize their intellectual, physical, social and emotional development through preschool and after-school programs and summer and transitional programs for children with special needs. In addition, UCO offers in-home respite care workers to give family members time for themselves. www.unitedcommunityoptionssfl.org
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Fun, Fitness & More From acting and art to swimming and fitness, these activities are designed to make kids feel at ease while focusing on their abilities rather than their disabilities. Artists with Autism Created by the mother of a teen with autism, this group provides aspiring artists with networking opportunities, guidance, and resources. www.artistswithautismunite.webs.com
Boca Raton Children’s Museum Kids of all ages can explore and investigate new textures and techniques through the museum’s Sensory Art classes. 498 Crawford Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-368-6875 www.cmboca.org
Broward County Parks A variety of ongoing recreation programming and special events are scheduled year-long throughout the county for children, teens and adults through the County’s Special Populations Section. Programs include bowling, dancing, fitness and more. 954-357-8170 or TTY 954-537-2844 www.broward.org/parks
Dancing on the Spectrum Founded in partnership with We Rock the Spectrum Kids Gym, Dancing on the Spectrum invites all children to enjoy the benefits of music, movement and dance. 19635 N. State Rd. 7 Boca Raton, 954-655-2712 www.dancingonthespectrum.com
Exceptional Theater Company Motivates and energizes children, teens and adults with special needs through the power of theater. Fully inclusive classes offered at various locations throughout Broward County, 954-699-4096 www.exceptionaltheatercompany.org
HAPPI Farm Located in Southwest Ranches, HAPPI Farm offers animal activities and interaction for children and adults with special needs, therapeutic horseback
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riding, pony rides, a petting farm tour, horticulture, music, art therapy and more. 954-629-8133 www.happifarm.org
JAFCO Children’s Ability Center Individualized programs focus on children’s strengths and abilities to enhance their performance and independence at home, in school and in the community. Programs include Social Skills, Music Therapy, Teen Talk, Iron Chefs, STEM, Science Club, Life Skills, Picasso at Heart, Fun with Fitness, Broadway and more. 5100 N. Nob Hill Rd., Sunrise, 954-315-7033 www.jafco.org
Miami Children’s Museum Stop by the second Saturday of every month for Sensory Friendly Saturdays to explore the museum in a sensory modified supportive setting designed for children with autism spectrum disorder sensory processing disorders and global developmental delays. 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org
Paragon Theater Lights are up, the sound is down and kids are free to move around during the monthly sensory friendly screenings at Paragon Theater. Check individual location for show times. www.paragontheaters.com
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Sensory Kids A family-friendly, multi-sensory and early stimulation studio that provides parents and children with the tools to enhance cognitive, physical and social development. 911 NW 209 Ave., Pembroke Pines, 305-204-3840 www.sensorykidsstudio.com
Splash Pals Adapted aquatics lessons for children with physical and developmental disabilities. Includes swimming, exercise, social interaction and play. Chapters located in Davie, Boca Raton and Miami. 561-419-6709 www.splashpals.com
The Friendship Initiative Uniting individuals of all abilities, this program fosters relationships between those with special needs and neuro-typical populations through programs that include singing and dancing, fitness and art. www.thefriendshipinitiative.org
We Rock the Spectrum Kid’s gym provides social skills groups and activities for children across the spectrum while fostering learning, exploration and safe sensory experiences.5159 S. University Dr., Davie, 754-216-2153 www.werockthespectrumdavie.com
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By directing our thoughts in specific, positive ways, we have the potential to guide the world towards becoming a more loving place. 954-962-7447
Campers ages 5 – 14 showcase their dancing, singing, and acting skills. Admission FREE. Lawn seating. Bring a blanket or beach chair.
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Bring a drum or percussion instrument to this guided drum circle. Info: 954-926-0204
FunTasTic Friday 5 - 8pm Free family fun featuring, face painter and bounce houses.
Movie niGhT 8pm See a free family-friendly flick each week at the Amphitheater. Lawn seating.Bring a beach chair or blanket. 7/6 The Rookie (PG), 7/13 A League of Their Own (PG), 7/20 NO MOVIE PRCA Talent Show, 7/27 Angels in the Outfield (PG))
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Free live demonstrations, 2pm-10pm Closed Tuesday & Sunday hollywoodhotglass.com or 954-732-7231
Artist, Neil Dern, worked on Wall Street for over 40 years, and turned to photography to offset his feeling for the terrorist attack of 9/11. His photography is more interested in the poetic rather than the descriptive aspects in the world of photography. The pictures you are viewing represent a day on the Beach. The pictures were taken in direct sunlight, so that they were overexposed to show the beauty of the colors on the Beach on that particular day. Gallery is open to the public Mon – Thurs 11am–8pm exhibit runs through July 26. admission Free.
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Tour the museum and create artworks inspired by exhibitions on view Also join us August 2. Micro and Mini Muse Supported by Fab! 954-525-5500 | nsuartmuseum.org One East Las Olas Boulevard Fort Lauderdale
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Educational programming and initiatives at NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale are supported by major funding from the David and Francie Horvitz Family Foundation, The Joseph & Winifred Amaturo Education Foundation, Inc., Lillian S. Wells Foundation Inc., Jerry Taylor & Nancy Bryant Foundation, Hudson Family Foundation, The Related Group, Beaux Arts, Community Foundation of Broward, Wells Fargo, the Wege Foundation, Charles F. and Esther M. Frye Foundation, PNC Foundation, MAI Foundation, BBX Capital Foundation and Friends of NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale. Exhibitions and programs at NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale are made possible in part by a challenge grant from the David and Francie Horvitz Family Foundation. Funding is also provided by Nova Southeastern University, Hudson Family Foundation, Wege Foundation, Community Foundation of Broward, Broward County Board of County Commissioners as recommended by the Broward Cultural Council and Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau, the State of Florida, Department of State, Division of Cultural Affairs and the Florida Council on Arts and Culture. NSU Art Museum is accredited by the American Alliance of Museums.
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Bittersweet The coming-of-age M heartbreaks of an Asperger’s child By Lisa A. Beach
y heart both rejoices and breaks every year when we celebrate my firstborn’s birthday. I rejoice as I think back to my son’s earlier birthdays when he was about 4 or 5 years old. Each year he’d pick a new theme for his party reflecting his favorite passions. One year he loved Blue’s Clues. Another year, trains. The next, magic. I’d plan fun activities, crafts, games and goodie bags to go with the year’s chosen theme. Yes, I was that mom. I loved collecting ideas of how to make every DIY birthday feel special for my son and his friends. No matter the theme, each birthday party shared one thing in common: a group of friends from preschool or elementary school at our home helping my son celebrate his big day. They played silly games in our living room, ate cake on our back porch and chased one another in our back yard. Laughter filled the air against the noisy backdrop of the slightly uncontrolled chaos. To see my son’s face light up, to know he felt valued and accepted by his friends, to hear the shared laughter — that was a birthday gift in itself. My heart swells with happiness when I look at photos of preschool party-goers standing next to the life-size, wooden Bob the Builder cutout my husband created for a party photo opp. And I can’t help but smile when I watch the video of birthday attendees wearing their handcrafted cardboard-box race cars as they zoomed around our back yard crashing into each other. Those truly were the happiest of birthdays. Flash forward to middle school. Around sixth grade, we began to notice my son’s friends drifting away, one by one, like balloons just floating up into the sky. They stopped inviting my son to their birthday parties, to go to the movies or to just hang out. By high school, social invitations ceased, except from the neighborhood teen whose family we’ve known since our boys were toddlers. Not only did my son’s old friendships fade away, but new friendships weren’t taking their place. A gaping social hole existed in his life. What happened? Around ninth grade, we discovered that my son — always a shy, socially awkward kid — has Asperger’s Syndrome. He’s a talented artist and a smart kid, even qualifying for the gifted program in elementary school. Although quirky, he was such a high-functioning kid that we didn’t connect the Asperger’s dots until high school. With social and communication difficulties at the crux of Asperger’s, this autism-spectrum disorder often spells a death-sentence to a child’s social life and delivers a devastating blow to self-confidence. Being socially awkward and missing out on the hidden nuances of body language, facial expressions and social cues, people with Asperger’s struggle to connect with others, making it difficult to make and keep friends. And this brings me to the bittersweet tinge of celebrating my son’s birthday. Every year since fifth or sixth grade,
Birthdays birthday parties have gotten noticeably smaller. In preschool, a dozen or more kids filled our back porch. By middle school, we could fit the entire birthday party (including our family of four) in our Honda Odyssey. The very last birthday party was an awkward gathering with two of my son’s friends who knew (but did not like) each other. Painful to watch, it was like a page right out of Agatha Christie’s novel And Then There Was None, as one by one, the attendees vanished from our once-burgeoning RSVP list. The heartbreak of it all actually mirrored a scene in Little Man Tate. In that 1991 movie, 7-year-old Fred Tate, whose intellectual and artistic giftedness made him not fit in with his peers, threw a birthday party and no one showed up. You could just see the anguish on the face of his mom, Dede, played by Jodie Foster. Fred could be my son, and I could be Dede Tate.
I am mourning the birthdays of yesteryear filled with squeals of laughter in my back yard. I am yearning for those days when my son felt accepted and included by his peers. I am missing the days when birthdays felt 100% like the celebrations they should be. As my son’s birthday approaches each year, I still cry a little inside for what should be for him the happiest day of the year. Parties once populated by friends have been replaced by family-only celebrations. But I also celebrate my son, now 19 and in college, as he prepares for the next phase of his life. I am his biggest cheerleader and in awe of the man he is turning into, as I watch his self-confidence slowly rebuild. And I silently thrill at the flicker of college friendships I see beginning to take shape. Birthdays serve as bittersweet reminders, now and forever, to be my son’s best friend, regardless of whether or not anyone else steps up to fill that role.
I am mourning the birthdays of yesteryear filled with squeals of laughter in my back yard.
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JulyEvents
Summer Fun
IT’S SHOWTIME! Beauty and the Beast SUNDAY, JULY 1
Bright Star Theatre presents this heartwarming tale that proves that true beauty is on the inside. Includes a carousel token, juice and cookies for kids after the show. $8/adult, $6/child. 11am & 2pm, WILLOW THEATRE AT SUGAR SAND PARK, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3948 www.willowtheatre.org
Jungle Jam Puppet Show SATURDAY, JULY 14
Move, groove and have fun during this interactive musical puppet show. 2-3pm, NSU ALVIN SHERMAN LIBRARY, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-4600
The Wizard of Oz SATURDAY, JULY 14
Watch the remastered classic on the big screen accompanied by a full symphony orchestra. 2 & 8pm, ADRIENNE ARSHT CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 1300 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, www.arshtcenter.org
Symphony of the Americas Summerfest SATURDAY, JULY 14
Starlight Musicals
Sea Turtles and Their Babies
FRIDAYS THROUGH AUGUST 10
A true summer tradition, this event is the perfect way to wrap up the week. Bring the family, a picnic and some chairs or blankets to enjoy a concert under the stars Fridays through August 10. Weather permitting. HOLIDAY PARK, 1300 E. Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-828-5363 www.fortlauderdale.gov
Patriotic Splash Swim Party WEDNESDAY, JULY 4
Celebrate the fourth with some fun in the sun with a DJ, raffle prizes, games and more. $4/adult, $3.50/child. Noon-4pm, CAPORELLA AQUATIC COMPLEX, 9300 NW 58 St., Tamarac, 954-597-3620 www.tamarac.org
Safari Nights FRIDAY, JULY 6
Enjoy extra activities and extended night hours the first Friday of the month throughout the summer. Event features entertainment, animal encounters, crafts, fountain fun and more. $19.95/adult, $13.95/child. 4:30-9pm, PALM BEACH ZOO, 1301 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-547-9453 www.palmbeachzoo.org
Splash in Space FRIDAYS, JULY 6 & 20
An “out of this world” splash bash with water park play, a movie, games and more. All ages. Pre-registration and pre-payment required. $6. 7-9:30pm, Splash Adventure, QUIET WATERS PARK, 401 S. Powerline Rd., Deerfield Beach, 954-357-5100
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WEDNESDAYS & FRIDAYS, JULY 6-SEPTEMBER 5
Learn about sea turtles with a presentation and lecture, then trek to the water for a possible chance to witness the release of turtle hatchlings. Space limited; advance reservations and pre-payment required. No walk-ins. $10. 8pm, ANNE KOLB NATURE CENTER, 751 Sheridan St., Hollywood, 954-357-5161
Sea Turtle Walks
TUESDAYS & THURSDAY, JULY 10, 12, 17
An informative hands-on session about sea turtles is followed by a trip to the beach with expert guides to watch for turtles that have come to lay eggs. Be prepared to walk up to two miles. Ages 9 and up. Pre-registration required. $21. 9pm, MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-713-0930 mods.org
Music Under the Stars FRIDAY, JULY 13
Enjoy the ocean breezes during this evening of music under the stars offered the second Friday of every month. 7-9pm, THE “GREAT LAWN,” Atlantic Boulevard & Pompano Beach Boulevard, Pompano Beach, 954-786-4111 pompanobeachfl.gov
Splashtacular Family Friday FRIDAYS, JULY 13 & 27
Beat the heat with two hours of swim time and games for all ages. $7. 6-8pm, TOPEEKEEGEE YUGNEE PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood, 954-357-8811
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The Symphony’s Summerfest Chamber Orchestra returns for its 27th season. Free, but tickets are required. 7:30-9:30pm, MIRAMAR CULTURAL CENTER, 2400 Civic Center Place, Miramar, 954-602-4357 www.miramarculturalcenter.org
Beauty and the Beast
SATURDAY-SUNDAY, JULY 14-15
An unforgettable “tale as old as time” presented by talented youth performers of Inside Out Theatre. Saturday 7pm, Sunday 2pm. $18/adult, $10/child. SUNRISE CIVIC CENTER THEATRE, 10610 W. Oakland Park Blvd., Sunrise, 954-747-4646 www.sunrisefl.gov
Crystal by Cirque du Soleil JULY 18-29
For the first time in the company’s history, Cirque explores the artistic limits of ice with breathtaking skating and acrobatic feats. Prices and showtimes vary. BB&T CENTER, One Panther Parkway, Sunrise, www.thebbtcenter.com
We Will Rock You
FRIDAY-SUNDAY, JULY 20-22
Florida Children’s Theatre presents a rock-and-roll adventure featuring more than 20 hits by the rock band Queen. $25/advance, $30/door. Friday & Saturday 7pm; Sunday 2pm. LAUDERHILL PERFORMING ARTS CENTER, 3800 NW 11 Place, Lauderhill, 954-777-2055 www.lpacfl.com
PAW Patrol Live
SATURDAY-SUNDAY, JULY 28-29
Go on a pirate adventure as the PAW Patrol pups set out over land and sea in search of hidden treasure. $19 and up. Showtimes vary. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org
MUSEUMS, EXHIBITS & SPECIAL EVENTS Family Fun Day
Teen Comic Convention
Join Broward Family Life and Coconut Creek Promenade for a day of fun, food, performances, games and interactive activities for the entire family. Free. Noon-4pm,
Local teen cartoon artists ages 13-18 will display and sell their artwork and compete for prizes from 10am-4pm. Event also includes a quick draw contest, Cosplay fashion show, cartooning demonstration, activities, vendors and more. Included with admission of $12/Broward resident. 10am-6pm, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, www.youngatartmuseum.org
SATURDAY, JULY 7
FRIDAY, JULY 20
PROMENADE AT COCONUT CREEK,
4443 Lyons Rd., Coconut Creek, www.promenadeatcoconutcreek.com
E4 Life Green Health & Wellness Expo
Super Hero Masks
SATURDAY, JULY 14
FRIDAY-SATURDAY, JULY 20-21
Fun and educational activities for the whole family featuring health food vendors, crafts, exhibits, gardening workshops, shows, demonstrations, give-a-ways, tastings and more Included with paid admission of $16.95/adult, $12.95/child. Discount for West Palm Beach residents with identification. 10am-4pm, SOUTH FLORIDA SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM,
4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.sfsciencecenter.org
Pick your favorite superhero and design a mask with fabric, cutouts, markers and ribbon to match. Included with paid admission of $12/Broward resident. 10am-2pm, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 www.youngatartmuseum.org
BugFest
TUESDAY-SUNDAY, JULY 24-29
Free Arts
SUNDAY, JULY 15
Lauderdale-by-the-Sea celebrates lobster mini-season with a week of events, seminars and contests for scuba divers. LAUDERDALE-BY-THE-SEA, 954-640-4209 www.lbtsevents.com
This monthly Family Day offers free admission to the gallery and interactive arts activities.
Popsicle Art
ART AND CULTURE CENTER/HOLLYWOOD,
1650 Harrison St., Hollywood, 954-921-3274 artandculturecenter.org
FRIDAY-SATURDAY, JULY 27-28
Celebrate summer by making Pop Art with popsicle templates. Included with paid admission of
$12/Broward resident. 10am-2pm, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 www.youngatartmuseum.org
Ice Cream Science
SATURDAY-SUNDAY, JULY 28-29
Learn about the chemistry of making ice cream through sweet hands-on activities throughout the afternoon. Included with paid admission of $16/adult, $13/child. MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-467-6637 www.mods.org
Wizard of Oz
THROUGH AUGUST 18
Embark on a multi-sensory exploration of the iconic Land of Oz though this educational exhibit. $5. THE FRANK, 601 City Center Way, Pembroke Pines, 954-392-2120 www.thefrankgallery.org
TeamLab Future Park THROUGH SEPTEMBER 2
Art and technology collide in this fun-filled interactive exhibit where kids can create a colorful light ball orchestra, construct a digitally enhanced block structure and more. Museum admission $10/adult, $12/child. GOLISANO CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF NAPLES, 15080 Livingston Rd., Naples, 239-514-0084 www.cmon.org
Community Activities
Funtastic Fridays
Eat to the Beat
Bring the kids for some wholesome outdoor fun featuring a bounce house, face painters and more followed by an outdoor movie. 5-8pm, ARTSPARK AT YOUNG CIRCLE, Hollywood Boulevard and Federal Highway, Hollywood, 954-921-3500 hollywoodfl.org
COOPER CITY SPORTS COMPLEX,
FRIDAYS
potion and slime crafts, trivia games 2855 Coral Springs Dr., Coral Springs, and more. All ages. 2-4pm, MAIN Bring lawn chairs and your appetite for 954-340-5000 coralspringsmuseum.org LIBRARY, 100 S. Andrews Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 957-357-7504 a fun evening featuring food trucks and www.broward.org/library live music by Mr. Nice Guy. 5:30-10pm, Shutterbug Photo Hunt Stirling Road and Palm Avenue, Cooper City, 954-434-4300 www.coopercityfl.org
Libraries Rock Mini-Series
Butterfly Gardening Workshop
Sing, dance and explore American history through live music and song. 2-3pm, NSU ALVIN SHERMAN LIBRARY, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-262-4600
Learn to identify and attract local butterflies to your own backyard. Workshops are held indoors, in the Grand Plaza. Free with admission of $29.95/adult, $21.95/child. 1pm, BUTTERFLY WORLD, 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek, 954-977-4434 www.butterflyworld.com
SATURDAY, JULY 7
Little Wonders SATURDAY, JULY 7
Introduce your novice naturalist to nature all around them through hikes, crafts and stories. Ages 3-4 with adult. $8. 10-11am, GUMBO LIMBO NATURE CENTER, 1801 N. Ocean Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8615 www.gumbolimbo.org
Daddy Daughter Dance FRIDAY, JULY 13
Dads and their daughters ages 6-12 are invited to a night of fun with music, pizza, dancing and more. $20/dad-daughter couple, $8/extra daughter. 7-9:30pm, VOLUNTEER PARK COMMUNITY CENTER, 12050 W. Sunrise Blvd., www.plantation.org
CORAL SPRINGS MUSEUM OF ART,
FRIDAY, JULY 13
SATURDAY, JULY 14
Mastodons, Mammoths, Saber Tooth Cats... Oh My! SATURDAY, JULY 14
Learn about these animals and search for some fossils to take home with you. All ages. Free. 2-3pm, SOUTH REGIONAL BC LIBRARY, 7300 Pines Blvd., Pembroke Pines, 954-201-8897 broward.org/library/summer
Family FunDay SATURDAY, JULY 14
Make your own artistic butterfly creation in this fun family workshop. Space limited; reservations suggested. $5/door, $4/advance. 3pm,
SUNDAY, JULY 15
Participate as a family in a Nature Photography 101 class followed by a photo hunt. Bring home a hand-crafted nature frame to display your best shot. $10/team. Pre-register one week prior to the event. 2:30-4:30pm, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER, 201 Lyons Road S., Coconut Creek, 954-357-5198
Snap Circuits
THURSDAY, JULY 19
Make music and sounds with electronic circuits. Free. 2:30-3:30pm,
Children’s Summer Film Festival SATURDAYS
Kids can see a free family movie every Saturday throughout the summer. No ticket or reservation required. July 7, Peter Rabbit; July 14, a Wrinkle in Time; July 21, LEGO Ninjago; July 28, Captain Underpants. 10am, RIVER OF GRASS ARTSPARK, 17189 Sheridan St., Pembroke Pines, 954-986-5027 www.ppines.com
LAUDERHILL CENTRAL PARK LIBRARY,
3810 NW 11 Place, Lauderhill, 954-357-7833
WANT MORE FUN?
Parents Night Out FRIDAY, JULY 20
Kids can explore the museum, create art, play games, watch movies and participate in lots of after-hours fun. Ages 5-12. $40/non-member, $35/member. 6-11pm, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 www.youngatartmuseum.org
For more local events, see our listing of July Fourth activities on page 14, or check our online calendar at www.browardfamilylife.com
Harry Potter 20th Anniversary Party TUESDAY, JULY 31
A drop-in style party with activities including wand making, house sorting,
Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.
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Penny-pinching Parenting THE POETIC JUSTICE OF ONE FAMILY’S FRUGALITY BY KARA MARTINEZ BACHMAN
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hen I was young, I was sure my parents had to be the cheapest people to ever walk the earth. Ever. It used to disgust me. Until I had kids. The groundwork for my embracing of frugality probably began when I met my husband. I hadn’t believed anyone could be cheaper than my parents were, or that there could be anything at all good about it. I heard stories of how he grew up. Cultivating a huge garden to have free vegetables. Saving slivers of soap to melt down into new bars. Reusing plastic food containers. And what must be the worst of all, the absolute pinnacle of cheapness: recycling Christmas tree tinsel for 20 years (it was so old, it just looked like gray transparent plastic, with no shine). His parents made mine seem downright normal in comparison. I remember the day I told him my parents had made me and my three siblings share a Coca-Cola at Disney World. “What are you complaining about?” he asked. “You at least got to go to Disney World.” This story, though, always stuck with me. I’d tell it — until I had my own children old enough to complain while at Disney World. “You’ve got perfectly good water bottles,” I’d said to my own little kids when we’d made our trips to the Magic Kingdom. “Fill up those bottles at the next water fountain. You’ll be fine.” I’ll be darned if I’ll spend triple what a Coke costs in the rest of the known universe, in the kingdoms that are less magical, and where people have mortgages to pay. We’d sit on a bench right outside “Pirates of the Caribbean” and snack on trail mix and affordable odds and ends we’d brought in our backpacks to tide us over. My husband and I would always laugh at how much we had become like our own frugal parents. We’re not gonna stop going, though, are we? We need the Disney magic. I’d never suggest otherwise. Since I guess it’s in my DNA, I’m frugal with my kids. It’s OK.
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It’s for their own good. Generic-brand chips and cereals with lame rip-off names have never caused lasting PTSD. The tradeoff for us cheapskates is we teach our kids through action how to make smart money decisions. We teach ourselves something about it, too, and feel proud when we notice others struggling to pay the bills, while we — the frugal, the planners, the budgeters and the sharers of Cokes — can relax. When you’re on vacation with your children — standing in line at an amusement park, or feeling frustrated by the cost of something as simple as a movie, drink and small popcorn — remember that it’s OK to stand firm. The rides will still be thrilling, or the movie still great, without all the extras. It’s OK, parents, if you’re cheap — forgive yourselves. Your kids will grow up to be just fine. They might need therapy, but they’ll be just fine. (Only kidding. They’ll be strong, resilient people who know the value of a dollar.) So … when your little ones nag a time too many and you’ve had enough, just tell them to shush up and be grateful. It could be worse — they could at that very moment be eating generic-brand Vienna sausages from a can next to Cinderella’s Castle. Kara Martinez Bachman is author of the women’s humor essay collection on parenting and relationships, “Kissing the Crisis.” Don’t ask her for a sip of her Coke.
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