Broward Family Life October 2018 by Broward Family Life

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POLITICS HOW ELECTION SEASON CAN TEACH KIDS VALUABLE LESSONS

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OCTOBER 2018

PINK POWER Test your breast health IQ; plus the story behind pink ribbons and a guide to the month’s breast cancer events.

HALLOWEEN HAPPENINGS From ghost tours to spooky craft creations, there’s a boo-tiful bounty of local fun in store this month for Broward families.

THE SERIOUS SIDE OF SPOOKY A sensory-sensitive Halloween; and are scary stories safe for kids?

PLAYING NICE IN POLITICS How election season can teach kids important life lessons.

ON THE COVER: Connor Rothenberger, 5 A Cover Angels winner Photographer: Lisa Nalven

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PACO MORENO & FRIENDS: HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH CONCERT FOR KIDS (Ages 6 +) Musician/Educator Paco Moreno and his young students perform authentic music and dances from Spanish-speaking countries throughout the world. Free and open to the public. Alvin Sherman Library Cards are available to anyone living, working or going to school in Broward County. Apply for your free card today @ lib.nova.edu/card Sign up for our monthly E-newsletter at: lib.nova.edu/enews 10

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S’more Fun for Fall

rom a tradition that began centuries ago as a cushioned ride-share to work for farm hands, hayrides have become popular play-rides across the country and an annual forerunner of autumn at Broward County parks — with a campfire and s’mores to boot! This year the Family Hayride and Campfire Series expands to Sunrise’s Markham Park and Target Range, which is in turn polishing up its nature profile with a new slate of activities and programs. (Please see box below.) Except for Saturdays at Markham Park, the hayrides are Fridays from 6:30-9pm. A fee of $3.50 plus sales tax per person ages 3 and up will get you one hayride and a bag of fixings for s’mores. Don’t forget the regular weekend gate fee of $1.50/person (children 5 and under free), which will also be in effect at Markham. Pre-registration and pre-payment are required by calling or visiting the park of your choice.

Easterlin Park

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Tradewinds Park & Stables

Oct. 12, Dec. 7, Feb. 1 1000 NW 38 St., Oakland Park 954-357-5190

Oct. 26, Nov. 16, Dec. 14, Jan. 18 401 S. Powerline Rd., Deerfield Beach 954-357-5100

Jan. 25, Feb. 8, Feb. 22, March 8 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek 954-357-8870

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Oct. 27, Nov. 24, Dec. 29 16001 W. State Rd. 84, Sunrise 954-357-8868

Nov. 9 2520 NW Sixth St., Fort Lauderdale 954-357-8801

Oct. 19, Nov. 16, Dec. 21, Jan. 11, Feb. 15 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood 954-357-8811

A Natural Progression Despite its perch on the edge of the Everglades, Markham Park & Target Range is perhaps better-known for its attractions than its attributes. But a new slate of Saturday programs may boost the park’s nature quotient. Beyond popular features like the target range, disc golf course, dog park, boat ramps, personal-watercraft lake and the Fox Observatory, the new offerings put the spotlight on the park’s butterfly garden and nature trail. From 10-11am, the programs include a monthly Butterfly Garden Expedition on Oct. 6, Nov. 3 and Dec. 8; Hike Through the Pine Forest on Oct. 20.;

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and Grass-to-Gravel Nature Trail program on Nov. 17. New-Moon Hikes will be held from 8-9pm on Nov. 10 and Dec. 8. Suitable for all ages, the programs start from the park office and are led by a county park naturalist. Participants are urged to wear closed-toe shoes and bring drinking water, insect repellent and, for daytime programs, sunscreen. The fee is $5 per person, plus the park’s regular weekend gate fee of $1.50/person (children 5 and under free). For additional information, call 954-357-8868. Markham Park is at 16001 W. State Rd. 84, Sunrise.

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Canine Capers BROWARD’S SPLASH PARKS ARE GOING TO THE DOGS

hey’ve languished through the dog days of a sweltering South Florida summer — taking refuge in the AC, slogging through the heat and humidity of their daily walks and, perhaps, eyeing enviously as your family frolics in the pool. Well, chill out, Spot. Get ready, Rover. Belly flop, Fido. It’s doggie’s turn to make a splash as a couple of county parks turn their water attractions into weekend pooch-fests. Quiet Waters Park in Deerfield Beach will host Barktoberfest Oct. 6-7, and Castaway Island at T.Y. Park in Hollywood will host dogs-only water festivals Oct. 13-14 and Oct. 20-21. Barktoberfest features doggie splash time from 8am-3:50pm but also includes plenty of water-free activities for the two-legged: presentations by rescue and nonprofit groups, adoptions, Doggie Market Place, kiddie bounce houses, face painting and costume contest. Admission is free, although there is a $5 per-dog fee for 50-minute sessions in the water, and some activities may entail nominal fees. The park’s regular weekend gate fee of $1.50/person (children 5 and under free) will be in effect.

Only dogs weighing 25 pounds or less will be permitted for the first splash session, starting at 8 a.m. Quiet Waters Park is at 401 S. Powerline Rd. Call 954-357-5100 for more information. At Castaway Island, all dogs must be sociable, well-behaved and off-leash when inside the water park. Other than lifeguards, no humans will be allowed inside the water playgrounds. Splash sessions are 50 minutes each and begin on the hour from 9am-5pm. Dogs are limited to two sessions per day, and there will be a designated area for dogs weighing 25 pounds or less for all sessions. Dogs must be at least 4 months old to participate, and proof of current rabies vaccination and county license tag are required. Admission is $5 per dog per session (plus applicable Florida sales tax), plus the park’s regular weekend gate fee of $1.50/person (children 5 and under free). Donations of dog and cat food, treats, blankets and toys will be accepted on behalf of the homeless animals at Broward County shelters. T.Y. Park is at 3300 N. Park Rd. For more information, call 954-357-8811.

A Caribbean Kaleidoscope In a live version of a TV musical competition — call it “Caribbean Idol” — the sweet, tropical sounds of steel bands will fill the balmy South Florida air on Friday night, Oct. 5. Panorama, a signature event of the Miami Broward One Carnival, will host world-renowned bands competing for the crown of Panorama Champion 2018. The family-friendly festivities are 4-11pm at Lauderhill’s Central Broward Regional Park. Advance tickets are $15. In its 34th year, the Carnival is a Caribbean kaleidoscope, a colorful reflection of the region’s cultural diversity attracting over

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50,000 revelers of all ages each year. The bi-county main event, Oct. 7 from noon-11pm at the Miami-Dade County Fair and Expo, celebrates the pageantry, traditions and art heritages of the islands, including Caribbean food, drinks and crafts. Leading up to the festivities, the Parade of the Bands features over 20 masquerade bands parading on a six-mile route through the city. Dressed in dazzling costumes, each band depicts characters from traditional Caribbean folklore. For more info, please visit www.miamibrowardcarnival.com

For Arts Sake October is National Arts & Humanities Month, and if that calendar occasion happens to be flying below your personal radar, it’s definitely not slipping by Broward County libraries. A coast-to-coast collective recognition of the importance of culture in America, the special month is given its due countywide with this slate of library events for children and teens: Oct. 1, 8, 15, 22, 29 — Musical Babies. Learn how to bond with your baby through music, stories and dance in this interactive program with Ms. Sabrina, ages up to 4 years, 10:30-11:15am, Miramar Branch Library and Education Center, 2050 Civic Center Place, Miramar, 954-357-8090. Oct. 2, 16, 30 — NamasTots Yoga. Ages 2-5, bring a yoga mat or towel and wear comfortable clothing. 10:30-11:30am, Hollywood Library, 2600 Hollywood Blvd., 954-357-7760. Oct. 3, 17, 24, 31 — Wednesday Crafternoons. Ages 6-12, 4:30-5:30pm, Carver Ranches Library, 4735 SW 18 St., West Park, 954-357-6245. Oct. 3, 10, 17, 24, 31 — Art From Our Heart. Visual arts classes, ages 6-12, 4-5:15pm, Lauderhill Central Park Library, 3810 NW 11 Place, 954-357-7833. Oct. 6 — A Sense of Pride: Creativity Exploration! Teens learn the benefits of mindfulness, creative expression and positive flow state-of-mind and develop a sense of pride and confidence, empathy and awareness, Noon-2pm, Southwest Regional Library, 16835 Sheridan St., Pembroke Pines, 954-357-6580. Oct. 6 — Arts and Crafts: Mexican Folk Art Sun Faces. Ages 8 and up, 2-3pm, Miramar Branch Library and Education Center, 2050 Civic Center Place, 954-357-8090. Oct. 6 — Jackson Pollock-Style Drip Painting. Children, 2-3pm, Deerfield Beach Percy White Library, 837 E Hillsboro Blvd., 954-357-7680. Oct. 6 — Wags & Tales. 2-3pm, African-American Research Library and Cultural Center, 2650 Sistrunk Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-357-6282. Oct. 6 — Kids Watercoloring Art Class. Ages 8-14, limited seating, pre-register by calling 954-357-6409, 2-3:30pm, Lauderhill Towne Centre Library, 6399 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-357-6406. Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27 — A Knight With the Queen. Children’s program, 2-4pm, African-American Research Library and Cultural Center, 2650 Sistrunk Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-357-6282. Oct. 24 — Emma’s Poem The Statue of Liberty Story. 5:15-6:30pm, African-American Research Library and Cultural Center, 2650 Sistrunk Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-357-6282. Oct. 25 — Read for the Record Special Storytime: Maybe Something Beautiful. 11am-noon, Lauderhill Towne Centre Library, 6399 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-357-6406.

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LIPSTICK, GLAM AND SUPPORT OF WOMEN Sunday, October 7 Indulge in a professional makeup application, headshots and a Sunday brunch to support The Florida Breast Cancer Foundation. $75, online at www.davie-coopercity.org. 11am-1pm, Academy of Glam, 8696 Griffin Rd., Davie MORE THAN PINK WALK Saturday, Oct. 13 Now in its 23rd year, this Susan G. Komen event is a tribute to metastatic breast cancer patients and survivors. Registration 6:30am, Hope Ceremony 8:15am, walk begins at 8:45am. An After Walk Celebration and Kids Zone Dash follows at 10am. Bayfront Park, 301 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 954-909-0454, www.komenmiaftl.org/event/walk THINK PINK RUN RED Saturday, October 13 Join the ladies of North Broward County Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority for this 4th annual 5K run/walk and Kids’ Dash to stomp out breast cancer. Race is followed by food, music, Zumba and vendors. 7am, Tradewinds Park, 3600 W. Sample Road, Coconut Creek, www.active.com BREAST CANCER AWARENESS EARLY DETECTION SAVES LIVES Monday, October 22 Learn about the causes, prevention and diagnosis of breast cancer from an adjunct professor of nursing. 6-7:30pm, Riverland Library, 2710 W. Davie Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, 954-357-7455 www.broward.org/library LADIES NIGHT OUT Wednesday, October 24 University Hospital offers extended hours for screening mammogram appointments and a free reception with hors d’oeuvres and refreshments. Scheduling required by calling 877-331-7030. 5:30-8:30pm, University Hospital and Medical Center, 7201 N. University Dr., Tamarac, www.uhmchealth.com/calendar CARE FOR YOUR PAIR Thursday, October 25 Join Broward Health for an interactive discussion with an expert panel including Dr. Nicholas Tranakas (oncology), Dr. Tracy Stokes (plastic surgery), and survivors. Includes a question and answer session related to diagnosis, treatment, reconstruction, coping and surviving. Free.5:30-7:30pm, Broward Health Imperial Point, 6401 N. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, 954-759-7400 www.browardhealth.org MAKING STRIDES OF BROWARD Saturday, Oct. 27 This walk draws hundreds of teams and tens of thousands of participants to downtown Fort Lauderdale. Registration 7am, Walk, 8:30am, Huizenga Plaza, One E. Las Olas Blvd., 800-227-2345, www.makingstrideswalk.org/browardfl NOT MY DAUGHTER...FIND A CURE NOW Monday, Oct. 29 Ninth-annual Shopping Boutique and Luncheon benefits Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center. Boutique 10am, luncheon noon, Heron Bay Marriott, 11775 Heron Bay Blvd., Coral Springs, www.notmydaughter.org/events THE TASTE OF PROMENADE October 1-31 Eat at select restaurants the month of October at Promenade at Coconut Creek, and you’ll be dining for a cause. A percentage of proceeds will benefit the Lisa Boccard Breast Cancer Fund and Broward Health Coral Springs. Visit the website for participating restaurants. Promenade at Coconut Creek, 4443 Lyons Rd., Coconut Creek, 954-376-6976 www.promenadeatcoconutcreek.com

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Pink Ribbons Have a Peachy Past D

id you know that the ribbon that pops up on people, places and products every October was not always in the pink? Not only was the pervasive symbol of breast cancer awareness originally not pink, but for the California grandmother who came up with the concept, it was a grass-roots call to action for cancer prevention and never intended to become a commercial icon. Charlotte Haley had good reason to enter the battle against breast cancer. Her sister, daughter and granddaughter had the disease. In 1991, the 68-year-old began hand-making ribbons in her dining room. To each packet of five ribbons she attached a postcard that read: “The National Cancer Institute’s annual budget is $1.8 billion, only 5 percent goes for cancer prevention. Help us wake up legislators and America by wearing this ribbon.” The color of the ribbons? Peach. Haley distributed thousands of these packets at her local supermarket, and as her message began to spread by word of mouth, she also wrote former First Ladies, Dear Abby and other prominent women. The following year, the peach-colored ribbon caught the eye of Alexandra Penney, editor-in-chief of Self magazine, who wanted to incorporate a ribbon into the magazine’s National Breast Cancer Awareness Month issue. To help promote the symbol in a marketing campaign, she enlisted Evelyn Lauder of the Estée Lauder Companies, who had guest-edited the previous year’s issue. After learning of Haley’s efforts, the women offered to work with her, publicizing her campaign and its peach-colored ribbons on a national scale. But Haley refused — the plans were too corporate and commercial for her. Penney and Lauder soon learned Haley’s permission wasn’t legally necessary if the color was changed, and the now-iconic bubble-gum pink ribbon was born. It was soon adopted by the Susan G. Komen Foundation and Lauder’s Breast Cancer Research Foundation and eventually by countless other organizations and companies. Today, in additional to raising funds and awareness, the pink ribbon has become an international symbol of solidarity with breast cancer victims. As for Haley’s often-overlooked story, it became part of a 2011 documentary, Pink Ribbons, Inc. Haley, who was interviewed in the film, died three years later at the age of 91.

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Test Your Breast Health IQ Halloween is no doubt the first occasion that comes to mind when the calendar hits October every year. Second place, however, may belong to Breast Cancer Awareness Month — when the entire country appears to think pink via a variety of pink-ribbon fundraising events, the pink illumination of the Empire State Building and other landmarks, and even the pinking up of NFL team uniforms. The annual campaign intends to increase awareness of the disease, to raise funds to fight it and to promote early testing with regular mammograms and exams — and for good cause. In women, breast cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer and the second-leading cause of cancer deaths, of which there are more than 40,500 each year. Such staggering statistics underscore the importance of being informed. To that end, here’s a little quiz to help spark a deeper understanding. 1. Which of the below is not a significant risk factor for breast cancer? a) Being 40 or older b) A prior diagnosis of breast cancer or ovarian cancer c) Your grandmother, aunt and/or cousin has had breast cancer d) Your mother, sister and/or daughter has had breast cancer 2. To help reduce the risk for certain cancers, it is recommended to eat at least how many servings of fruits and vegetables each day? a) 5 b) 8 c) 3 d) none of the above

5. It is recommended that women visit their family physician or gynecologist for a WellWoman Exam. When should this occur?

9. Based on how aggressive cancerous cells are, breast cancer tumors are often graded on a scale of:

a) Every other year b) Each year c) Every three years d) Only if there are symptoms

a) 1 to 4 b) 1 to 3 c) 1 to 5 d) none of the above

6. The National Breast Cancer Foundation recommends that women begin getting a yearly mammogram at what age?

10. Malignant tumors are “staged” by the health-care team to help determine how far the disease has progressed and the best treatment options. How many stages of breast cancer are there?

a) 40 b) 45 c) 50 d) 55

a) 3 b) 2 c) 5 d) 4

3. It’s also recommended to limit alcohol intake to how many drinks per day?

7. How many women in the United States will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime?

a) no more than 3 b) no more than 2 c) no more than 1 d) none of the above

a) 1 in 4 b) 1 in 3 c) 1 in 8 d) 1 in 10

4. If you feel or observe the symptoms below, it is important to discuss which with your health-care provider?

8. Breast cancer in men is:

a) A lump or thickening in or near the breast or in the underarm area b) A change in the size or shape of the breast c) Dimpling or puckering in the skin of the breast d) All of the above

11. The stage of a tumor is based on which of the following factors? a) The size of the tumor within the breast b) The number of lymph nodes affected c) Whether or not the breast cancer has invaded other organs d) All of the above

a) non-existent b) common c) an impending epidemic d) rare

12. Stage 2 breast cancer indicates: a) The cancer cells are confined to a very limited area. b) There is evidence of the cancer invading surrounding tissues near the breast c) There is evidence that the cancer has begun to grow or spread d) The cancer has spread beyond the breast to other areas of the body

Sources: National Breast Cancer Foundation, American Cancer Society

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ANSWERS: 1 = c; 2 = a; 3 = c; 4 = d; 5 = b; 6 = a; 7 = c; 8 = d; 9 = b; 10 = d; 11 = d; 12 = c

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SPACE IS LIMITED RSVP REQUIRED Mammogram & Event: 1-877-331-7030 Event Only RSVP to: 954.724.6349 or UHMChealth.com/calendar Can't join us? Northwest Medical Center, University Hospital & Medical Center and Westside Regional Medical Center proudly offer mammograms scheduled at your convenience. For more information, a FREE physician referral, or to speak to a registered nurse 24/7 please call Consult-A-Nurse® at 954-724-6349. Visit HCAEastFlorida.com for average ER wait times.

WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 24TH 5:30 - 8:30 PM Please join us for a festive night out in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. We will have extended hours for screening mammograms and reception featuring music, complimentary appetizers, beverages and more! UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL & MEDICAL CENTER OUTPATIENT LOBBY 7201 NORTH UNIVERSITY DR TAMARAC, FL 33321

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Wednesday, October 31 Bring the kids for trick-or-treating, entertainment, and more as participating restaurants and retailers offer sweet treats to the little ones. 4-6pm, Promenade at Coconut Creek, 4443 Lyons Rd., www.promenadeatcoconutcreek.com

Friday, October 5 Take a nighttime stroll through the lush landscape. 7:30-8:30pm, Fern Forest Nature Center, 201 Lyons Rd. S., 954-357-5198 www.broward.org/parks

Monster Mash Friday, October 26 Celebrate Halloween a little early at this annual indoor event featuring trick-or-treating, a costume contest, arts & crafts and other activities followed by a movie in the park. Registration required. $2/resident, $5/non-resident. 6:30-8:30pm, Community Center, 1100 Lyons Rd., 954-545-6601 www.coconutcreek.net

Ghosts & Goblins Family Fun Night Friday, October 26 Games, storytime, costume parade and, for a nominal fee, photo opportunities and arts and crafts. Ages 2-11. 6-8pm, Fern Forest Nature Center, 201 Lyons Rd. S., 954-357-5198 www.broward.org/parks

COOPER CITY Trick-or-Treat Shop-to-Shop Saturday, October 27 In a safe alternative to trick-or-treating, little ghouls and goblins can gather goodies from shop to shop and compete in a community-wide costume contest split into age brackets, from infants through middle school. 10am-noon, Cooper City Commons Shopping Center, 9359 Sheridan St., 954-434-4300 www.coopercityfl.org

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Saturday, October 27 • 4 to 9 p.m. Fire Station 80 • 2825 Coral Springs Drive Have dinner at the Fire Station for $5 per plate! Benefits Fire Benevolent and Cancer Awareness charities

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Friday-Saturday, October 26-27 Come in costume for a haunted house, slides, candy and bounce houses. Elementary ages. $5/child, $2/adult. Friday, 5-7:30pm; Saturday, 2-7pm. Coral Springs Gymnasium, 2501 Coral Springs Dr., 954-345-2200 www.coralsprings.org

DANIA BEACH A Creature’s Trick-or-Treat Sunday, October 28 Trick-or-treating for ages 2 and up. Pre-registration required. $5/person. 5:30-7:30pm, Secret Woods Nature Center, 2701 W. State Rd. 84, 954-357-8884 www.broward.org/parks

DAVIE Fall Harvest Festival & Pumpkin Patch Through November 4 Daily activities feature a huge pumpkin patch, children’s craft and activity area, pumpkin painting, harvest market, and more. Hayrides available Friday-Sunday. Flamingo Road Nursery, 1655 Flamingo Rd., 954-476-7878 www.FlamingoRoadNursery.com

Fall & Halloween Crafts Saturday-Sunday, October 6-7 Kids can stop by the nature center to create a festive fall craft. 10am-1pm. Long Key Nature Center, 3501 SW 130 Ave., 954-357-8797 www.broward.org/parks

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Saturdays-Sundays, October 6-7, 13-14, 20-21, 27-28 Celebrate the season with free hayrides, live entertainment, character meet & greets, scarecrow competition, pumpkin patch, decorating station, and more. Each weekend has a different theme including scarecrows, superheroes and pirates and princesses. Stop by the weekend of October 27-28 for additional trick-or-treating fun. $19.95/person, $12.95/child. 9:30am-4pm, Flamingo Gardens, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., 954-473-2955 www.flamingogardens.org

Monster Paper Bags Friday-Saturday, October 19-20 Make a not-so-scary puppet using a paper bag and colorful shapes to make your creature come alive. Free with paid admission of $12/Broward resident. 10am-2pm, Young At Art Museum, 751 SE 121 Ave., 954-424-0085 www.youngatartmuseum.org

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Friday, October 26 Put on your favorite costume for a night of artful, frightful fun for the entire family. This museum-wide party features Halloween-themed Art Activities, Monster Mash Music Time, Colorful Costume Parade, Family Costume Contest and more. Free with admission of $12/Broward resident. 3-8pm, Young At Art Museum, 751 SE 121 Ave., 954-424-0085 www.youngatartmuseum.org

Is It Haunted? Friday, October 26 Wander through historic Old Davie School, Viele House and Pioneer Home by the light of your flashlight. $10. 7-9pm; last entry at 8:15pm, Old Davie School Historical Museum, 6650 Griffin Rd., 954-797-1044 www.olddavieschool.org

Trick-or-Treat through the Trees Friday-Saturday, October 26-27 Halloween games, activities, crafts and a trick-or-treat adventure through the forest. Ages 3-10. $5. 6-9pm, Long Key Nature Center, 3501 SW 130 Ave., 954-357-8797 www.broward.org/parks

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Halloween Happenings Saturday, October 27 Spooky games, costume contest, family-friendly haunted house, hayride, pumpkin patch, kids activities, and petting farm. 1-5pm, Bergeron Rodeo Grounds, 4271 Davie Rd., 954-797-1181 www.davie-fl.gov

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DEERFIELD BEACH Fall Festival for Kids Saturday, October 13 Family activities to celebrate the autumn season.10:30am, Century Plaza/Leon Slatin Library, 1856 A W. Hillsboro Blvd., 954-357-7740

Fall Festival Saturday, October 20 An old-fashioned gathering with activities including a hay maze, pumpkin patch, live entertainment, treats and more. 3-7pm, Pioneer Park, 501 NE Eller St., 954-480-4429 www.deerfield-beach.com

FORT LAUDERDALE Yello! Ween Saturday, October 13 Have a spooktacular time with family-friendly activities including treat-making stations, trick-or-treat bag decorating, face painting, pumpkin decoration and a dance performance. $10. 11:30am-1:30pm, 2495 E. Commercial Blvd., www.yellowfl.com

Riverland Halloween Party Wednesday, October 24 Enjoy a spooky night of fun with the entire family, including games, arts and crafts, cooking, decorating, refreshments and more. 6-8pm, Riverland Park, 950 SW 27 Ave., 954-828-7275 www.fortlauderdale.gov

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October 25, 26, 29 & 30 See if the spirits are near while touring the historic Victorian home guided by mourners who will share tales of spirits and legends. $25/person. 7pm, Stranahan House, 335 SE Sixth Ave., 954-524-4736 www.stranahanhouse.org

Fiesta Fall Carnival Saturday, October 27 Celebrate fall with a day of games, food, music and dancing. 11am-4pm, Lauderdale Manors Park, 1340 Chateau Park Dr., 954-828-7275 www.fortlauderdale.gov

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Saturday, October 27 Free family-fun activities, games, contests, prizes and food will bring mask-popping smiles to everyone’s faces. 4-6pm, Croissant Park, 245 W Park Dr., 954-828-7275 www.fortlauderdale.gov

Trick-or-Treat on Second Street Saturday, October 27 A free spooktacular event for the whole family with bounce houses, carnival games, face painting, Halloween treats, a kid and pet costume parade and more. 1-5pm, Esplanade Park, 400 SW Second St., 954-828-7275 www.fortlauderdale.gov

Halloween Science Wednesday, October 31 Having some fun with science is just the right potion for Halloween. 5:30-7:30pm, AfricanAmerican Research Library and Cultural Center, 2650 Sistrunk Blvd., 954-357-6282 www.broward.org/library

Day of the Dead Celebration Friday, November 2 A Mexican tradition, this celebration includes family activities, workshops, a craft crypt, music, Mexican and Latin American dance performances, food and an outdoor skeleton processional that includes a mariachi band, giant puppets, costumes and miniature floats. 4-10pm, various locations in Downtown Fort Lauderdale; processional begins at 6:30pm at Huizenga Plaza, 32 E. Las Olas Blvd., www.dayofthedeadflorida.com

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Wednesday, October 31 Bring the family for games, music, entertainment, refreshments, candy and more. Make sure to dress up for the costume contest starting at 7pm. Free admission. 6-9pm, OB Johnson Park, 1000 NW Eighth Ave., 954-457-1452 www.hallandalebeachfl.gov

HOLLYWOOD ArtsPark Movie Night Friday, October 19 Bring a blanket or beach chair to watch a screening of Poltergeist under the moonlight. Free. 8-10pm, ArtsPark at Young Circle, Hollywood Boulevard and Federal Highway, 954-321-3500

Hallo-Green Saturday, October 20 Celebrate Halloween with a green theme, featuring environmentally friendly activities, games, arts & crafts and more. $2. 11am-3pm, Anne Kolb Nature Center, 751 Sheridan St., 954-357-5161 www.broward.org/parks

Hollyweird Halloween Block Party Saturday, October 27 In its fourth year, this downtown event features family friendly entertainment, music, candy, prizes, balloon twisters, face paining, costume contest and more. 6-9pm, along Hollywood Boulevard, west of ArtsPark, www.floridashollywood.org/hollyweird

Spooktacular Road Race Sunday, October 28 A great way to work off all that candy, this annual event sponsored by the Greater Fort Lauderdale Road Runners Club for all ages includes a 5K run and walk. 8am, T.Y. Park, 3300 N. Park Rd., 954-357-8811 www.gflrrc.org

Halloween Open House Wednesday, October 31 Come in costume for safe trick-or-treating, crafts, a pumpkin patch, bounce house, characters and more. 3-5pm, Joe DiMaggio Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Hospital, 1005 Joe DiMaggio Dr., 954-265-5324 www.jdch.com

LAUDERDALE-BY-THE-SEA BOO By The Sea Saturday, October 27 For kids 3 to 11 accompanied by a parent, businesses will have activities and games during the afternoon of old-fashioned door-to-door trick-or-treating. 3-6pm, at Sea Fan, Green Turtle, Eagle Ray and Parrot Fish Plazas on E. Commercial Blvd. west of N. Ocean Dr., 954-640-4205 www.lbtsevents.com

LAUDERHILL Autumn Party Monday, October 22 Fall fun includes a paper pumpkin craft, harvest songs and of course, pumpkin pie. 4-5pm, Lauderhill Central Park Library, 3810 NW 11 Place, 954-357-7833 www.broward.org/library

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Saturday, October 13 Come in costume as your favorite character for fun and prizes. 11am-12:30, Miramar Library, 2050 Civic Center Place, 954-357-8090 www.broward.org/library

Friday, October 26 Fall fun at Music on Main with a costume contest, trunk-or-treating, music, entertainment and more. Free. 6-10pm, Oakland Park City Hall, 3650 NE 12 Ave., 954-630-4507 www.oaklandparkfl.org

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Fridays-Saturdays, October 12-13, 19-20, 26-27 Ghosts, monsters and other creatures of the dark haunt the woods of this spooky trail. Visitors are chaperoned by ghost hosts, who make sure no one gets lost during the chilling experience. $5/person, $10/fast pass, 7-9pm, Hampton Pines Park, 7800 Hamptons Blvd., 954-724-7061 www.nlauderdale.org

Tuesday, October 23 Get the goosebumps while listening to scary stories, playing games and making spooky decorations to take home. Parkland Library card required. Pre-register online. Ages 8 and up. 6-7pm, Parkland Library, 6620 University Dr., 954-757-4207 www.cityofparkland.org/library

Halloween Hoopla Saturday, October 27 Halloween fun with arts and crafts, games and a trick-or-treating trail. $5/person, 11am-1pm, Hampton Pines Park, 7800 Hamptons Blvd., 954-724-7061 www.nlauderdale.org

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Friday, October 26 Come in costume for an exciting night of trunk-or-treating, music, a pumpkin patch and more. Free. 5-8pm, Pine Trails Park, 10555 Trails End, 954-757-4105 www.cityofparkland.org/halloween

PEMBROKE PINES Upcycled Craft Projects for Halloween Tuesday, October 9 Create a pumpkin out of a book. All materials provided. Ages 12 and older. 5-6:30pm, South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., 954-201-8825

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Saturday, October 13 Halloween fun that includes pooches, with a costume contest, exhibitors and more. Free. 9am-1pm, Craig Rupp K-9 Dog Park, 9751 Johnson St., 954-392-2116 www.ppines.com

Wednesday, October 24 Come in costume and celebrate the season with spooky stories, music and treats. Parkland Library card required to register. Ages 3-7. 4pm, Parkland Library, 6620 University Dr., 954-757-4207 www.cityofparkland.org/library

Tuesday, October 30 Kids can make a batch of oozing slime just in time for Halloween. 3:30-4:30pm, North Lauderdale Saraniero Library, 6901 Kimberly Blvd., North Lauderdale, 954-357-6660 www.broward.org/library

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SpookyRama Wednesday, October 24 Wear your favorite costume or jammies for Halloween stories, activities and crafts before bedtime. 7-7:30PM, Southwest Regional Library, 16835 Sheridan St., 954-357-6580 www.broward.org/library

Pet Costume Contest & Halloween Trick or Treat Saturday, October 27 Halloween fun includes games and crafts starting at noon, a Broward Family Life pet costume contest at 1pm, and trick-or-treating, character selfie photos, a pumpkin patch and more from 2-4pm. Winner of the pet costume contest will be featured in Broward Family Life magazine. Pre-registration for the contest recommended at www.SouthFloridaFamilyLife.com. Noon-4pm, The Shops at Pembroke Gardens, 571 SW 145 Terrace, www.theshopsatpembrokegardens.com

Boo-ville Tuesday, October 30 Costume contests, a pumpkin patch with prizes, spooky activities, trick-or-treat stations, food trucks and more. Free. 6-9pm, Charles F. Dodge City Center Way, 601 City Center Way, 954-392-2116 www.ppines.com

Halloween Carnival Tuesday, October 30 Have fun with games and candy. Ages 3-9. 6:30pm, South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., 954-201-8825

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Spooky Movie Saturday, October 20 Bring your friends to enjoy popcorn and a fun Halloween-themed movie. Ages 6-11. Free. 2-4pm, West Regional Library, 8601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1585 www.broward.org/library

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Saturday, October 20 A children’s carnival, inflatable rides, police and fire exhibits, games, activities for the whole family and free Halloween bags and candy for the kids. $5. 10am-2pm, Volunteer Park, 12050 W. Sunrise Blvd., 954-452-2510 www.plantation.org

Friday, October 26 Have a good time with costume contest, fortune teller, inflatables and more. 6-9pm, Sample McDougald House, 450 NE Tenth St., 954-786-4111 www.pompanobeachfl.gov

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Monday, October 29 Show off your Monster Mash moves at this dance party for all ages. Snacks provided. 6:30pm, Pompano Beach Library, 1213 E. Atlantic Blvd., 954-357-7595 www.broward.org/library

Tuesday, October 23 Wear your costume and come to the library for tons of fun including crafts, stories, dancing, trickor-treating and prizes. All ages. Free. 6:30-7:30pm, West Regional Library, 8601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1585 www.broward.org/library

Ghastly Boo Bash Saturday, October 27 Teenagers are invited to a party with activities, a movie, Halloween treats, raffles, prizes, and the Dancing Pumpkin Man. Costumes encouraged. Ages 12-18. 2-4pm, West Regional Library, 8601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1585 www.broward.org/library

POMPANO BEACH Halloween Fair & Horse Show Saturday, October 13 Tenth annual event features pony rides, carnival games, a bounce house, face painting, hayrides, arts and crafts, costume contest on horseback and more. $1 admission/10 and older. 10am-3pm, Sand and Spurs Equestrian Park, 1600 NE Fifth Ave., 954-786-4133 www.pompanobeachfl.gov

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Halloween Boo Bash! Wednesday, October 31 Calling all little witches, ghosts, princesses and superheroes for Halloween-themed craft activities, giveaways and candy. Children ages 10 and under are invited to come in costume and enjoy a Mad Scientist Magician Show at 6pm. Adult supervision required and masks only allowed on children under 10 during event hours. Free. 5-7pm, Pompano Citi Centre, 1955 N. Federal Hwy, 954-943-4683 www.pompanociticentre.com

Harvest Festival Party Wednesday, October 31 Meet at the library for some great community fun for all ages. Free. 5:30pm, Northwest Branch Library, 1580 NW Third Ave., 954-357-6599 www.broward.org/library

SUNRISE Fall Harvest Festival Sunday, October 21 An afternoon of hayrides, games, rides, food vendors and more. Pick out a pumpkin from the old-fashioned pumpkin patch for an additional fee. $5. 12:30-4pm, Sunrise Athletic Complex, 11501 NW 44 St., 954-747-4600 www.sunrisefl.gov

Trick or Trot 5K Saturday, October 27 Get in shape for Halloween with this USATF-sanctioned route race. There’s also a Kids Dash for ages 10 and under. Family-appropriate costumes are encouraged and best costumes will receive special recognition at end of race. Participants receive a T-shirt and commemorative medal. $30/adult, $10/child. 7:30am, Markham Park, 16001 W. State Rd. 84, 954-747-4600 www.sunrisefl.gov/5k

Halloween Party Sunday, October 28 You’ll be doing flips for this party that includes loads of Halloween fun, activities, a costume contest, arts and crafts and prizes. $19.99/ages 4 and up, $12.99/ages 3 and under. Noon-5pm, Flippo’s, 3868 N. University Dr., Sunrise, www.flippos.net

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Fire Station Trick-or-Treating Wednesday, October 31 Kids preschool-age through 5th grade are invited to visit the city’s five fire stations for free, safe Halloween fun and treats. Free shuttle between stations. 5-8pm, Fire Station #72, 10490 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-747-4600 www.sunrisefl.gov

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WESTON Halloween Spooktacular Wednesday, October 31 Kids’ costume parade, music, interactive games and dances, bounce house, entertainment and trick-or-treating. Free. 5-9pm, Weston Town Center, 1675 Market St., 954-349-5900

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Friday, October 19 Freaky festivities with games, bounce houses, Broward Sheriff’s Office demonstrations, candy and more. Free. 6-8pm, Tamarac Park, 7501 N. University Dr., 954-597-3674 www.tamarac.org

Friday, October 19 Elementary school-age kids and families will be mesmerized by the magic of James Changefield. Wear a costume and participate in a trick-or-treat activity after the show. Free tickets available a half-hour prior to showtime. Space is limited. 3:30-4:30pm, Spanish River Library, 1501 NW Spanish River Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-393-7852 www.myboca.us

WEST PARK Virtual Reality Halloween Wednesday, October 31 Kids ages 6-12 can have some modern day fun through this virtual reality experience. 4:30-6:30pm, Carver Ranches Library, 4735 SW 18 St., West Park, 954-357-6245 www.broward.org/library

Shriek Week Fridays-Saturdays, October 19-20 & Thursday-Saturday, October 25-27 Spooky events galore with games, a trick-or-treat trail, kids’ film festival, and more. Haunted house for ages 7 and up. October 25 is Lite Nite, a less intense haunted house. Sugar Sand Park Community Center, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3900 www.sugarsandpark.org

Fridays-Sundays, October 19-21 & 26-28 This not-so-scary Halloween tradition features trick-or-treating all around the Zoo, little kids costume contests, strolling famous costume characters, hay stack hunt and more. Most activities included in admission price. Fridays & Saturdays, 10am-4pm & 5-9pm; Sundays, 10am-4pm. Palm Beach Zoo, 1310 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-533-0887 www.palmbeachzoo.org

Spooky Science Night at the Museum Friday, October 26 Guests of all ages can enjoy extended hours of exploration at the Science Center with interactive science crafts, activities, entertainment, exhibits, planetarium shows, and a chance to view the night sky in Palm Beach County’s only public observatory. Food and beverages available. $13.95/adult, $9.95/child. 6-9pm, South Florida Science Center and Aquarium, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 www.sfsciencecenter.org

Trick ’Em Treat ’Em Costume Party Friday, October 26 Calling all Mummies, Daddies, creepers, crawlers and little tricksters to a costume party with munchies, mayhem, games and more. Ages 2-5. $5. 10am-noon, Patch Reef Park, 2000 NW 51 St., Boca Raton, 561-367-7035 www.patchreefpark.org

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Monster Splash Halloween Bash

Saturday, October 27 Come in costume, bring a swimsuit, or both for activities in and out of the water, such as trick-or-treating, bounce house, giant water totter, face painting, treats and more. Ages 6 and older. Free, no registration required. 11am-1pm, The Swim Center, 21618 St. Andrews Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8540 www.theracquetcenter.org/swim-center

Friday-Sunday, October 26-28 Kick-off the harvest season with a host of Halloween activities in addition to the attraction’s regular exhibits and shows. $46.99/adult, $36.99/child. 11am-4pm, Miami Seaquarium, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, Key Biscayne, 305-361-5705 www.miamiseaquarium.com

Halloween in the Garden Sunday, October 28 Little ones can wear costumes and have some fun with fall crafts, games, face painting and more. Ages 2-6. Space is limited. $10/advance. 10am-noon, Gumbo Limbo Nature Center, 1801 N. Ocean Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8615 www.gumbolimbo.org

MIAMI-DADE COUNTY Not So Scary Family Halloween Bash Sunday, October 14 Trick-or-treat your way around the galleries, paint mini pumpkins, meet characters, experience the new Pirate Island exhibit and more at this fundraising event for MCM’s educational programs. $40-$50. 1-5 pm, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

music, edible arts & crafts, bounce houses, rides, vendors, costume contests, prizes, and candy. Free; $1/haunted ghost tour. 6-10pm, Patricia A. Mishcon Athletic Field, 16601 NE 15 Ave., North Miami Beach, 305-948-2957 www.citynmb.com

Zoo Boo Saturday-Sunday, October 27-28 A wild adventure with trick-or-treating for kids under 12, costume contests, music, games and prizes, special performances and more. See the animals get their own special treats. Free with zoo admission, 10am-3pm, Zoo Miami, 12400 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-251-0400 www.zoomiami.org

MiChiMu’s Halloween Week Saturday-Wednesday, October 27-31 Stop by to see the newest Pirate Island exhibit, do some trick-or-treating and at scheduled times during the week, participate in spooky science experiments, create creepy crafts, play ghostly games and more — and come in costume. Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, Miami, 305-373-5437 www.miamichildrensmuseum.org

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lass slippers, fairy godmothers, magic beans and happily ever after. Evil giants, wicked stepmothers, ugly witches and the big bad wolf. Yesterday’s fairy tales and today’s scary stories are filled with conflicting, vivid imagery of both good and evil. Many parents are surprised to discover that the nuances, scary visuals and dark symbolism that they missed as a child are now extremely obvious as an adult. It’s no wonder that many parents pause when the wolf is seconds away from making a meal of Little Red Riding Hood or when the witch orders the huntsman to destroy Snow White. Parents can’t help but wonder if the scary content is harmful or if children are perceptive enough to internalize any dark meanings.

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Many experts believe that children mostly take these stories at face value and nothing more. To them, a story is just a story. Children only relate to what they understand and block out what does not

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make sense, says family therapist Thomas Whiteman, PhD. He believes that most children only get the “broad brush” of the story — the hero wins and the villain is defeated. Younger children don’t pick up on more ominous nuances, he says, because they usually are only capable of black-and-white thinking. Childhood specialists say that appropriate stories can help children through developmental stages if presented at the right time, in the right way. A well-chosen tale reassures children that although struggles are part of life, virtuous behavior, perseverance and accepting help can aid them in overcoming obstacles. Many stories allow children to deal with their anxieties by projecting them onto the story’s villain and even reinforce the idea that virtue is rewarded while malice is punished. These stories explore crucial topics (like empathy, safety, morals and problem-solving) in the way that children learn best — “with non-directive, enjoyable text and characters, which magically make the messages simple and effortless to recall,” says child psychologist Barry Kardos, PhD. continued on page 35

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A SENSITIVE HALLOWEEN

Making It No Trick And All Treat For Kids With Sensory Disorders

BY SARAH LYONS

ostumes, Halloween parties with sugary treats, trick-or-treating and spooky decorations are fun and exciting for most kids, but for a child with Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), Halloween celebrations can be downright overwhelming. Sensory-sensitive kids have trouble processing input from any of the five senses in a normal way. What is background music to others may be loud and distracting to such kids. Costumes may feel too itchy, makeup may feel sticky and masks may have a strong scent or may be too restricting. As a mom of a child with SPD, I have learned firsthand how challenging Halloween can be. My daughter struggles daily to find clothes that are comfortable and are not too distracting. Typically, if we find a pair of pants she likes, I buy as many pairs as we can find. Loud noises or new situations can also be very stressful for her. She has the desire to be part of the fun on Halloween, but as the day approaches the pressure may be too much, the costume may be too uncomfortable and walking around in the dark knocking on strangers’ doors may be too scary. I usually end up frustrated and she ends up disappointed. But this year we are taking a different approach to the holiday by following these tips, which can help other families dealing with SPD enjoy Halloween, too.

PREPARE YOUR CHILD Prior to the big day, talk about how you will celebrate. Discuss what situations may be challenging and what will help your child feel more comfortable. If door-to-door trick-or-treating is scary, try a practice run. Ask neighbors, friends or family if your child can knock on their door before the day of Halloween so he or she will know what to expect. Have your child try on the costume and make any needed adjustments to make it feel as comfortable as possible.

COSTUMES This is usually a huge challenge for a child with SPD but luckily there are a lot of options. For instance, wearing her favorite clothes and painting her face is what makes my daughter feel comfortable. Other kids may like wearing their favorite pajamas or other soft clothing under a costume so they don’t feel the itchy fabric on their skin. If your child does not want to dress up at all, try letting the little trick-or-treater ride in a decorated wagon to still feel like part of the fun. Other simple ideas: use a prop, find a silly T-shirt or incorporate tools, such as noise-canceling headphones, into your child’s costume. And never make your child feel that they are odd if they don’t like to dress-up or go trick-or-treating.

PLAN AHEAD Try to be flexible and prepare a backup plan. My daughter was very excited about Halloween and even wore her costume to school, but when the time came to go trick-or-treating with her siblings, she was overwhelmed. It is OK if your child decides to stay home and hand out candy, needs to take a break during trick-or-treating or wants to head home early. Parents may also look for alternative fun activities, such as a nearby church’s fall party that’s not scary, costume-optional and offered during the day. It’s understandable that Halloween traditions may not always sound appealing or make sense to kids with SPD. Consider coming up with your own traditions, such as painting pumpkins, baking treats or going to dinner or a movie. With a little extra effort, planning, practice and flexibility, Halloween can be a holiday that’s fun for sensory-sensitive kids as well as the rest of your family.

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HALLOWEEN From Trick-or-Treating to Homemade Costumes, Halloween Traditions Still Make for Sweet Connections BY SHANNON DEAN

t’s no accident that retailers begin displaying Halloween items as early as August. Halloween generates approximately $9 billion dollars in annual revenue, making it second only to Christmas as the most profitable holiday. However, the traditions that we associate with Halloween weren’t initially commercial in nature. They were meant to protect and connect families. And despite the current commercialization of the holiday, that spirit is still reflected in the following traditions. TRICK-OR-TREATING: Many believe trick-or-treating originated with the ancient Gaelic festival of Samhain, which fell on Oct. 31. Villagers wore animal skins and left out food to ward off evil spirits. Later, Irish and Scottish children would perform a “trick” in exchange for treats. These traditions made their way to the United States via immigration, but the 20th century derailed trickor-treating, since during the Great Depression youths commonly vandalized property and World War II brought sugar rations.

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The tradition re-emerged when suburban baby boomers began to organize neighborhood Halloween parties. Initially more of a diversion than a celebration, the gatherings would be used by adults to bribe kids who might otherwise misbehave on the holiday, says Lisa Morton, author of Trick or Treat: A History of Halloween. Today, over 70 percent of households participate in trick-or-treating, either by visiting homes in search of candy or by handing it out. The tradition is still practical, since a face-to-face connection with our neighbors contributes to a sense of belonging and security. JACK-O’-LANTERNS: Most historians believe that the carving and lighting of vegetables started in Ireland with a trickster named “Stingy Jack.” After Jack unsuccessfully attempted to deceive the devil, he was forced to walk in darkness for eternity. To light his way, Jack placed coal into the shell of a carved turnip. This story became an Irish legend called “Jack of the Lantern” or “jack- o’-lantern.” As a result, the Irish began to light and display carved potatoes and turnips to discourage spirits. Irish immigrants brought this tradition to America, which had plenty of pumpkins for carving. Almost half of current households carve about $618 million worth of jack-o’-lanterns per year, with the added value of helping children display something tangible created with their own two hands.

BOBBING FOR APPLES: Initially thought to be a Roman tradition meant to celebrate the goddess of fruit, bobbing for apples eventually morphed into a courting ritual by the 17th century. If a young girl bit into an apple on the first try, it meant that her romance would succeed. These rituals were culturally important because they offered a fun way to bring young people together at a time when marriage and large families were necessary. Fun games with friends may not always serve the same purposes today, but they can certainly guard against social isolation and encourage meaningful connections. COSTUMES: During Samhain, people sometimes dressed in disguise while swiping food meant to discourage spirits. Welsh children often dressed as the opposite gender when they visited homes during All Saint’s Day. However, costumes didn’t become mainstream until the Industrial Revolution, when people began to crave escapism. Today’s most popular costumes are princesses, animals and superheroes. Consumers spend around $3.4 billion dollars per year on costumes, but many families opt to make their own since this fosters creativity, allows for personalization and saves money. Though pets wear 10% of all costumes, it’s mostly humans who still enjoy pretending to be someone else, if only for a night. HAYRIDES: This tradition began as a way for farm workers to catch a cushioned ride atop bales of hay on the way to work. By the 19th century, farm life became romanticized by urban families, so local farmers monetized this trend. In addition to hayrides, many also offered corn mazes and pumpkin patches. Haunted hayrides capitalized on the growing popularity of Halloween and are a $300 million industry today. However, there are over 2,500 hayrides worldwide, so it’s easy to find an inexpensive, family-friendly option. HAUNTED HOUSES: Haunted houses emerged in 19th-century England when Madame Tussaud began exhibiting French monarchs with unfortunate fates. The haunted house became a cultural icon in 1969 with Disney’s Haunted Mansion. Margee Kerr, author of SCREAM: Chilling Adventures in the Science of Fear, says that because experiencing fear releases “feel good” chemicals like dopamine, scary attractions can actually encourage a sense of well-being in some. Although most experts agree that children can differentiate between fantasy and reality by age 5, most encourage parents to delay exposure to haunted houses until a child is around 7 or has expressed his own interest. When in doubt, explore the many non-scary alternatives and re-evaluate next year. Although Halloween has become highly commercialized, the holiday still offers inexpensive opportunities for connection. Children greatly enjoy and benefit from simple, yearly traditions. Therefore, most experts agree that it’s fine to allow kids to moderately enjoy all that Halloween has to offer. Since most kids care more about the experience than about the trappings, parents can emphasize what is truly important. Health educator David Powell suggests that families focus not on one night of candy, but on the “social relationships and connections to others that make us human.” For many families, Halloween allows personal interaction with our families, neighbors and communities, all things that have been important for centuries but have become increasingly difficult in our technology-centered world.

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BEWARE STEREOTYPES

In contrast, some scholars caution that traditional fairy tales encourage negative stereotypes. Vanita Braver, M.D., a child psychiatrist and children’s author of Party Princess, says many fairy tales that reinforce harmful stereotypes imply that it pays to be physically pretty. “From early childhood, little girls are read fairy tales about beautiful princesses who achieve vast treasures and riches simply because beauty makes them special,” Braver says. This is unhealthy, she adds, because it contributes to young women feeling they are inferior if they don’t meet unrealistic standards of beauty. She encourages parents to understand what messages are implied in such stories and to initiate a frank discussion about why harmful stereotypes are often both factually inaccurate and morally wrong. “Parents are the most influential people in a child’s life,” Braver explains. “They can reinforce positive messages and counter the negative ones.”

WHAT’S APPROPRIATE?

With all of these tips in mind, how do parents determine which stories are appropriate for their children? Children should see the main character transcend the events that challenge him and persevere to become a stronger person in the end, says English professor Sylvia Baer, PhD, a professor of English and a specialist in children’s literature. She encourages parents to carefully consider not only the subject matter of a book, but also their child’s social and cognitive development. Experts caution to never force a book on an apprehensive child and to carefully read an unfamiliar story before sharing it. If there is any doubt the child is ready, wait. For younger children, books can be preferable to movies because a book’s visuals are usually less intense, and they give children a sense of control — they can simply close the book or look away if feeling scared. Remember, too, that there are many different book versions of the same story. Many editors substantially water down or even omit scary parts in collections for younger children. Parents can also use these books as a starting point to discuss important issues. Teacher and early childhood specialist Amelia McTamaney encourages parents to ask children to make up their own endings or to ask what they would do in the same situation. This process helps your child develop good decision-making skills under your guidance. McTamaney also says parents should not hesitate to point out any parts of a book with which they disagree. It not only defines your beliefs, it also assures kids they don’t have to believe everything they read. Finally, don‘t worry so much that kids blur the lines between fantasy and reality. “Children know the difference between reality and fantasy and can easily digest the enormity of a character’s problem if it is presented in a fantasy-like fashion,” says award-winning children’s author Karen Rostoker-Gruber.

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Playing Nice in POLITICS How election season can teach kids important life lessons BY CHRISTA MELNYK HINES

rom vicious media pundits to vigorous dinner party debates to divisive Facebook exchanges, ’tis the season when there’s virtually no escape from politics — and when your kids may come home with questions about opinions they heard at school or elsewhere. From a parenting perspective, the democratic process — and political shenanigans — provide plenty of fodder for teaching kids lessons in independent thinking, respectful discourse, values and civics. NURTURE INDEPENDENT THINKERS Take advantage of the political process to help your children learn to think for themselves. Ask them open-ended questions to get their points of view. “Find out what they’re thinking,” says Dr. Fran Walfish, a child and family psychotherapist. “What you want to do is stimulate their analytic, natural human curiosity.” Watch the speeches and debates together. Ask your child who they think is telling the truth based on body language or who seems more respectful during a debate. Whether you agree or not, ask them: “Why do you feel that way? How would you solve the problem?” Share your opinions with your children by prefacing your comments with “I feel” or “I think” and ask questions like: “I wonder how they’ll make that happen? What do you think? How would you make it fair if you were in charge?” AVOID ANGER As hard as it may be, try to refrain from making judgmental comments or calling candidates with whom you disagree colorful names.

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“Shouting at the TV, or at one another, presents a very negative example of responding to conflicting opinions,” says Mary Jane McKittrick, author of Boomer and Halley: Election Day, a Mom’s Choice award-winning book. Through humor and embedded life lessons, her Boomer and Halley children’s series for ages 4 to 8 tells stories of families and communities resolving difficult challenges by working together. MODEL RESPECTFUL DIALOGUE Not all parents agree on politics, but what matters is how they discuss the issues in front of their children without raising a child’s anxiety. Make ground rules with your spouse before engaging in the discussion: No interrupting, take turns listening and no put-downs, insults or blaming. And, if you come to an impasse, agree to disagree. “I would love for parents to respect each other’s point of views,” says Walfish, author of The Self Aware Parent: Resolving Conflict and Building a Better Bond With Your Child. “I would also hope that they will respect their children’s point of view and be able to tolerate differences. ‘We still love each other, and I can tolerate you having powerfully different feelings than mine.’” If you find yourself getting drawn into a heated argument around the table with loved ones, keep your cool and suggest you pick up the conversation at another time. continued on page 40

Junior Citizens Connecting kids to their community creates happier, healthier lives BY SANDI SCHWARTZ

Sometimes we need a shake-up to wake up. This interesting time in American history is leading to a big uptick in people getting involved in politics and their local communities. This new energy is ultimately a big positive for society because research shows that people are happier when they build relationships and open up with others in the community. It also indicates major civic progress, since only a quarter of Americans could name all three branches of government before the 2016 presidential election, according to a University of Pennsylvania survey reported in The Washington Post that September. (In case you were wondering, the branches are executive, legislative and judicial.) Now that more people are becoming concerned about what is happening in Washington, D.C., and throughout the country, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s an opportune time for parents to consider helping their children to learn the importance of civic responsibility. continued on page 40

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BENEFITS OF CIVIC ENGAGEMENT FOR KIDS There is a clear sociological link between social connection and happiness. When people interact with neighbors on issues that impact their lives, they can experience a greater sense of connection to those they otherwise would not have met. That goes for children and teens as well. According to www.youth.gov, kids who volunteer are more likely to feel connected to their communities, do better in school, and are less likely to engage in risky behavior — and they’re more likely to volunteer if their entire family is involved, which has the added benefit of strengthening family bonds. Also, students who perform voluntary community service are 19 percent more likely to graduate from college than those who do not. Additionally, college students are happier if their daily activities tend to be helpful to and valued by society, says Tufts University professor Peter Levine. In his study of the relationship between civic engagement and psychosocial well-being among college students, he concluded that those who engaged in civic activities that impacted social change had significantly better happiness scores, felt more connected to others, were more motivated to learn, and managed stress more effectively.

MAKING CIVIC ENGAGEMENT FUN FOR KIDS Children spend time in school learning about American history and government, but parents can enhance their experience from a young age by: • Reading books about American politics and government based on their age and interests. A helpful list developed by the U.S. Senate can be found at http://www.senate.gov/reference/bibliography/kids/kids.shtml • Watching movies and documentaries about history and government. • Volunteering as a family to instill community service values. • Encouraging their kids to join the student government or a school debate team. • Bringing them to a political event or rally. • Checking out kid-friendly resources online, such as www.icivics.org, kids-clerk.house.gov and “A Kids Guide to Running for President,” a virtual document that explains the presidency, voting and the inauguration.

HOW CIVIC ENGAGEMENT BOOSTS HAPPINESS Experts have found that involvement in social action, community service and political groups helps build personal connections beyond those of family, work and leisure activities — and increases personal satisfaction as people engage with others on issues of mutual interest. These activities also involve participating in the decision-making process, which has been found to boost happiness as well. Another happiness connection comes from helping those less fortunate, and the sense of living a meaningful life it provides. Quality of life and happiness are highest in communities where residents are more socially connected, according to a Harvard Kennedy School of Government survey. The largest on American civic engagement, the survey of 30,000 people revealed that levels of civic engagement — such as how much residents trusted, socialized and joined with others — were better predictors of the quality of community life and residents’ happiness than education or income. The survey also showed that if other individuals in a community had higher civic engagement, the whole community was happier overall.

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PLAY NICE — IN POLITICS?! Political rhetoric may be difficult for your child to comprehend, but behavior in politics can often parallel real-life situations that your child can relate to about how we should treat each other and who we can trust. “Two political figures — they’re going to say their beliefs right out front, but wouldn’t it be nice if that was all they were doing,” Walfish says. “Instead what they’re doing is using put-downs, criticisms — willing to go forward at all costs to win.” Perhaps the vindictive nature of politics will never change, but parents can use examples of how politicians conduct themselves to teach values about what it means to win honorably, treat others with respect and be a trustworthy friend. For example, on the playground, a child might promise your child that he can have the ball next, but then passes the ball to an ally or continues to hog the ball. Even a young child understands that the other child’s actions are unfair. “A good friend is someone who treats you right all of the time. And that’s what we’re looking for in politics,” Walfish says. “And a lot of times people will say anything to get what they want, which is to win. Our job is to try to figure out who’s telling the truth, who’s going to deliver on the goods.” CIVICS 101 Talk to your kids about the democratic process. Take them to the voting booth and follow the results on election night together to help them see the election process in action and the connection between your vote and why it matters. Explain that politicians are public servants and they usually enter the political process in an attempt to make a difference in the lives of citizens. “Parents can offer examples from their lives to illustrate giving to others as a positive way to explain politics,” McKittrick says. “After all, politics exists in our families, communities, schools and workplaces — not just at the ballot box.”

TOOLS FOR TEACHING KIDS CHILDREN’S BOOKS Duck for President by Doreen Cronin This Little President: A Presidential Primer by Joan Holub That’s Not Fair!: Getting to Know Your Rights and Freedoms (CitizenKid series) by Danielle McLaughlin Doodles U.S. Government Coloring Fun by Setria James One Vote, Two Votes, I Vote, You Vote by Bonnie Worth MOVIES 1776 (ages 8+) Young Mr. Lincoln (ages 10+) Gandhi (ages 12+) Dave (ages 12+) All the President’s Men (ages 13+) Source: CommonSenseMedia.org WEBSITES www.KidPresident.com, featuring 12-year-old Robby Novak, a YouTube sensation, television star and co-author of Kid President’s Guide to Being Awesome Ben’s Guide to the U.S. Government http://bensguide.gpo.gov/CongressforKids.net

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