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orn in Palermo, Sicily, and raised in New York, Chef Franco knows quality food. “Eating for us was always a way of life,” says the chef, whose career started as a youngster helping his father, a chef himself. Chef Franco has expanded his artistry from New York to South Florida. Now regarded as one of South Florida’s highest-rated chefs, his eye for detail and impeccable culinary skills have paid off. From their award-winning fine-dining restaurant, Sette Bello in Fort Lauderdale, Chef Franco and his wife, Rita, bring a whole new way of dining to Coconut Creek — Sette Mezzo, a restaurant that celebrates Italian food and family. Their new concept is all about food, fun and family — Italian food the way it’s supposed to be. The dining room is filled with arches and columns reminiscent of Italian architecture. With a wood-burning oven and a marble-laced bar, the feeling created is of elegant dining in Italy. In the kitchen tradition of Sette Bello, Chef Franco cooks like he is cooking for his own family. Rita heads the dining room to ensure all guests receive the service and dining experience bestowed upon family.
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THE MONSTER UNDER THE BED Parents love seeing little ghosts, ghouls and goblins on the doorstep at Halloween. But when monsters and other imaginary figures keep kids awake at night, it’s another story.
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halloween happenings From ghost tours to spooky craft creations, there’s a frightening amount of local fun in store this month for Broward families.
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FINDS THE BEST IN U Robotics Team RANKED #1 IN FLORIDA Best Build, Best Program, and Best Design and Amaze Awards at the World Competition
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Taking Flight If you could be any insect, what would you be? A lot of kids might choose ... a butterfly! Well, now that’s possible — at least for a little while — at a new exhibit that interactively simulates the butterfly’s experience as it morphs from a creepy-crawly caterpillar into one of the world’s most beautiful creatures. The Amazing Butterflies MAZE Exhibit, which takes flight with a special Butterfly Magic weekend October 7-8 at the Museum of Discovery and Science, is an interactive maze of larger-than-life leaves, grass and trees that immerses kids and adults alike in the challenges of metamorphosis, the ways caterpillars move, what they eat and how other creatures help them out. Making their way through the hands- and legs-on exhibit, kids crawl in a set of caterpillar legs, feed a caterpillar its lunch through various team games and contests and flap their giant butterfly wings while avoiding spider webs. Their progress is marked by stamping a souvenir garden card before zooming out of the maze as a beautiful butterfly on “The Monarch Monorail.” The “Nectar Food Path Puzzle” and “Squeeze and Sniff” stations show how butterflies find food by sight and smell. Children and adults will find a butterfly mate by creating a wacky dance and then learn how butterflies select a specific plant on which to lay their eggs.
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Morph into a butterfly at the New MODS exhibit WHAT: The Amazing Butterflies MAZE Exhibit WHERE: The Museum of Discovery and Science, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale WHEN: Saturday, October 7 through Sunday, January 7
WHY: A maze of hands-on butterfly experiences and activities ADMISSION: $16/adults, $13/children ages 2-12, Free/under 2 FOR INFORMATION: 954-467-6637, mods.org
Produced by Minotaur Mazes, a Seattle-based company that specializes in interactive experiences within a tactile maze setting, the exhibition is based on one created for the Natural History Museum in London, featuring its scientific input and interpretation. Butterfly Magic Weekend, noon to 4 p.m., will let visitors join in releasing butterflies back into the wild in the Butterfly Release, 1:30 p.m. and 3:30 p.m. both days. Gardening tips will be offered from Butterfly World experts at 2:30 p.m. both days. Additional activities include learning about raising butterflies in Butterfly Chats with Jose Muniz from Amazing Butterflies and creating butterfly art with an easy take-home butterfly stained glass project.
TURNING TOTS INTO ‘TECHIES’ If you’re of the persuasion that a child is never too young to be tech-savvy, Broward County libraries have a program for you. Tot Tech!, a new series of free interactive programs for teachers and families, aims to strengthen the school readiness and digital ability of children ages 5 and under. Continuing through December, the program is offered at 21 libraries that have AWE Early Literacy Stations, which are touchscreen computers designed specifically for early learners, beginning with preschoolers.
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Each computer is preloaded with more than 60 games that span multiple curriculum areas — from reading to graphic arts to STEM subjects to music. Tot Tech! demonstrates how to use AWE stations for maximum effect with one-on-one tutorials, group story-time programs with large-screen projections, hands-on parent workshops and educator trainings. For more information, please call 954-357-7470 or check out the online calendar at browardlibrary.org.
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A Ride in the Park HAYRIDE & CAMPFIRE NIGHTS COME BACK FOR S’MORES
Ah, autumn in South Florida. Trees adorned in coats of crimson and amber, crisp evening air scented with the sweet aroma of wood smoke and the exhilaration of a jaunty hayride with family and friends. OK, maybe that’s not everyone’s idea of fall in our subtropical neck of the woods, but actually — except for the part about the trees — it has become something of a fun family tradition at Broward County Parks. The Friday Night Family Hayride and Campfire Series kicks off this month at three of the participating parks — Easterlin in Oakland Park, Quiet Waters in Deerfield Beach and T.Y. in Hollywood — and picks up in January at Reverend Samuel Delevoe Memorial Park in Fort Lauderdale and Tradewinds Park and Stables in Coconut Creek. The events go back at least 20 years, says Michael Mills, Broward Parks program/project coordinator. And the tradition is growing. “Just this year,” he says, “Delevoe, a smaller neighborhood park, joined the lineup.” A hayride and a bag of fixings for s’mores — including a stick for roasting marshmallows in the campfire — costs $3.50 per person (age 3 and older). The
events are Fridays from 7-9:30 p.m. and require preregistration and prepayment by phone or in person — except at T.Y. Park, where events go from 6-9 p.m., with no preregistration necessary and cash only accepted on event nights. Each park manages its own event, so there are some other variations, Mills says. But to give you a general idea, hayrides at both Quiet Waters and T.Y. take 20 to 25 people for about a 20-minute park excursion in a vehicle-drawn wagon.
“We run continuous through the two-and-a-half-hour time block to give everyone a chance to ride,” says Tim Waln, Tradewinds senior park manager. “And there is no additional charge for extra rides the same night.” T.Y. Park runs two wagons continuously throughout their three-hour event. “Approximately 700 people participate each season,” says T.Y. park manager Deborah Battista. Campfires are made of old wood from within the park.
FAMILY HAYRIDE & CAMPFIRE SERIES Easterlin Park October 13, December 8, February 2 1000 NW 38 St., Oakland Park 954-357-5190 Quiet Waters Park October 27, November 17, December 15, January 19 401 S. Powerline Rd., Deerfield Beach 954-357-5100 Reverend Samuel Delevoe Memorial Park January 5, March 16 2520 NW Sixth St., Fort Lauderdale 954-357-8801
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T.Y. (Topeekeegee Yugnee) Park October 20, November 17, December 15, January 19, February 16 3300 N. Park Rd. , Hollywood 954-357-8811 Tradewinds Park & Stables January 12, January 26, February 9, February 23, March 9 3600 W. Sample Rd., Coconut Creek 954-357-8870
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WALKING theWALK MAKING STRIDES AGAINST BREAST CANCER
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aking Strides of Broward may not be a race, but there will be winners — the breast cancer victims whose lives will be saved thanks to the $1 million the walk hopes to raise. Considering that last year the American Cancer Society event raised over $920,000, this year’s fundraising goal for the Breast Cancer Awareness Month event is well within reach. “Absolutely,” says Tali Amihud, the society’s regional community development manager. “Our goal is to have 675 teams present with each one of them fundraising from now until Oct. 28. That combined with our sponsorship — it’s absolutely attainable.” Making Strides takes place on October 28 and is expected to draw approximately 30,000 participants — 5,000 more than last year, Amihud says. The downtown Fort Lauderdale event is held at Huizenga Plaza, 1 E. Las Olas Blvd. From there, the walk route follows east along Las Olas for 3.1 miles. The walk will conclude when the final walker crosses the finish line. Participants are encouraged to stop whenever they want or need to, and they do not need to complete the entire walk if unable. Entertainment will close the event, and there will be a special area for survivors and the caregivers attending with them. For more information about Making Strides of Broward call 954-200-7516 or visit makingstrideswalk.org
By the Numbers Though the incidence of breast cancer began decreasing in the United States in 2000 and death rates have fallen since 1989, the battle is far from won. This year alone, the disease is expected to claim the lives of about 40,610 women in this country — at a rate higher than any cancer other than lung cancer. Other statistics for U.S. women include: • About 1 in 8 women (about 12%) will develop invasive breast cancer over the course of her lifetime. • In 2017, an estimated 252,710 new cases of invasive breast cancer are expected to be diagnosed in women, along with 63,410 new cases of non-invasive (in situ) breast cancer. • Women under 50 have experienced larger decreases in death rates, thought to be the result of treatment advances, earlier detection through screening and increased awareness. • Besides skin cancer, breast cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer among American women. In 2017, it’s estimated that about 30% of newly diagnosed cancers in women
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will be breast cancers. • As of March 2017, there are more than
A Sampling of Area Events ROUNDUP IN PINK 3 Saturday, Oct. 7
THE STRUT Saturday, Oct. 14
This pink-ribbon party kicks up some fun to benefit Florida Breast Cancer Foundation. 6-10pm, Round Up Nightclub, 9020 W. State Rd. 84, Davie, 954-423-1990 roundupnightclub.com
Dress your sassiest and strut your stuff at Glam-A-THON’s signature event, which raises funds for Broward Health Foundation to benefit local under-insured women undergoing breast cancer treatment and therapy. Four teams will be crowned Queen/King of Glam-A-THON™ 2017 based on fundraising success and team size. $55/person. 11am-3pm, Esplanade Park, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale glam-a-thon.com
RACE FOR THE CURE Saturday, Oct. 14 The 22nd-annual Susan G. Komen Miami/ Ft. Lauderdale event includes a 5K run, 5K walk/ run, one-mile fun run, tot run and survivor procession and ceremony. $25-$45/person. 7:45am, Bayfront Park, 301 Biscayne Blvd., Miami, 954-909-0454 komenmiaftl.org/race
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cancer in this country. This includes women currently being treated and women who have finished treatment. • A woman’s risk of breast cancer nearly doubles if she has a first-degree relative (mother, sister, daughter) who has been diagnosed with breast cancer. • Breast cancer is not restricted to women. About 2,470 new cases of the invasive disease are expected to be diagnosed in men in 2017. A man’s lifetime risk of breast cancer is about 1 in 1,000. Source: breastcancer.org
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Tour the Museum and Create Artworks Inspired by Exhibitions on View FREE admission every First Thursday Also join us November 2 and December 7! 954-525-5500 | nsuartmuseum.org One East Las Olas Boulevard Fort Lauderdale Educational programming and initiatives at NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale are supported by major funding from the David and Francie Horvitz Family Foundation, The Joseph & Winifred Amaturo Education Foundation, Inc., Lillian S. Wells Foundation Inc., Jerry Taylor & Nancy Bryant Foundation, Hudson Family Foundation, The Related Group, Beaux Arts, Community Foundation of Broward, Wells Fargo, the Wege Foundation, Charles F. and Esther M. Frye Foundation, PNC Foundation, MAI Foundation, BBX and Friends of NSU Art Museum Exhibitions and programs at NSU Art Museum Fort Lauderdale are made possible in part by a challenge grant from the David and Francie Horvitz Family Foundation. Funding is also provided by The John S. and James L. Knight Foundation, Nova Southeastern University, Hudson Family Foundation, Broward County Board of County Commissioners as recommended by the Broward Cultural Council and Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau, the State of Florida, Department of State, Division of Cultural Affairs and the Florida Council on Arts and Culture. NSU Art Museum is accredited by the American Alliance of Museums.
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FuLL Moon druM circLe 7 - 9pm
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Mai Tai, The Paradise in The ciTy! 3 - 9pm
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Bring a drum or percussion instrument to this guided drum circle. All skill levels welcome. Meet at Palm Court (West Side). Info: 954-926-0204
Mai Tai brings a global cast of DJs, energetic live performances and an incredible ambiance. Drinks inclusive. Admission $90. Tickets and info: caesarsarmy.com
GLobaL MediTaTion For WorLd Peace 6 - 7:30pm By directing our thoughts in specific, positive ways, we have the potential to guide the world towards becoming a more loving place. 954-962-7447
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Food Trucks aT arTsPark 5:30 – 9:30pm Bring your chairs, blankets and appetite. Over 20 different food trucks For more info: burgerbeast.com/arts-park
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Free family fun featuring, face painter and bounce houses.
Movie niGhT 8pm See a free family-friendly flick each week at the Amphitheater. Bring a blanket or a lawn chair. 10/6 The Secret Life of Bees (PG), 10/13 Goosebumps (PG), 10/20 Hotel Transylvania (PG), 10/27 Gremlins (PG)
a diver’s dreaM WorLd
PainT-For-Fun 7:30 - 9:30pm
Hollywood photographer Keat Ooi captures images of marine life from Hollywood Beach and South Florida to worldwide oceans. As a passionate diver, he loves to share his experience through his underwater images. His exhibit invites guests to leave the terrestrial world, submerge, and explore the marine environment.
This FREE event just keeps growing and getting better thanks to your participation. Bring the family and kids. Meet new friends. We supply the canvas, paint, and brushes. larryjoemiller.com
save The daTe: nov. 4 hoPe For hoLLyWood 6:30 - 10pm
Gallery is open to the public Mon – Thurs 11am – 6:30pm exhibit runs through nov. 17 admission Free.
Music, bounce houses for the kids and testimonies from people that have gone from being hopeless to hope filled. Bring your blanket or chair. Admission FREE.
FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL 954.921.3500 or www.hollywoodfl.org
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Night Terrors and Nightmares: Myths & Facts
NIXING NIGHTTIME FEARS Parents love seeing little ghosts, ghouls and goblins on the doorstep at Halloween. But when monsters and other imaginary figures keep kids awake at night, it’s another story.
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ighttime fears are highly common — and not just for little kids, either. “Studies show this is affecting up to threequarters of kids from preschool through adolescence at one time or another,” says clinical psychologist Jayne Schachter Walco, PhD. “Parents think of fears as something only small children deal with, but that’s untrue.” Children ages 3 to 6 are more likely to complain of “fantastical” fears like monsters and ghosts, while older children fear things that could actually happen, like a fire, storm or a home intruder, Walco says. That’s because small children have trouble distinguishing fantasy from reality, while school-agers are becoming more aware of the sometimes-scary real world. Though fears vary for different children, parents can address them more or less the same way. Read on for how to slay the scariest of scary monsters at your house this fall.
FEAR FAKER? Young children are champions at stalling bedtime; how can parents tell if monster fears are actually ploys? “When a child learns that complaining about a fear is a successful tactic to postpone bedtime, he might continue to do this even without any real fear,” says Shelby Harris, PsyD, director of the Behavioral Sleep Medicine Program at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City. But parents can sleuth out a genuine phobia, she says. A real fear will be quite intense and will be present during the day, not just at night. So if your little arachnophobe only fears spiders after 7 p.m., the fear may be bedtime-related, while a fear that’s present at other times is likely authentic. FEAR FIX: Treat your child’s fears (even ones you suspect are less than genuine) with empathy and understanding, Harris says. Never laugh at your child or humiliate her. Instead say, “I understand how this might be scary for you, but you’re always safe here.” continued on page 24
If your household is filled with screams at night — even when it’s not Halloween — you’re likely tired, worried, and befuddled. Welcome to the murky world of childhood night terrors. Childhood night terrors are a common, though not universal, experience, affecting only up to a quarter of children at some point. Parents often confuse nightmares and night terrors, and they are indeed confusing. Both happen in the middle of the night, and both can be upsetting and disruptive to sleep. When your child starts screaming in the wee hours, when you’re groggy and your thinking is fuzzy, it can be difficult to know exactly what to do. Here’s help. MYTH: A night terror is just an intensely upsetting nightmare. FACT: Night terrors differ substantially from nightmares. First, a nightmare will often cause a child to wake up in the middle of the night. During a night terror, the child is not awake. Though she may get up and sleepwalk, she won’t come and find you. And in the morning, she won’t remember a thing — because she was never awake. MYTH: A night terror is a horrible experience for a child. FACT: While children may have some upsetting memory of a nightmare, they won’t remember a night terror. The experience is probably more upsetting for the parents trying to comfort their screaming child than it is for the child. MYTH: It’s best to wake a child who is having a night terror. FACT: “Don’t try and wake them up,” says Matt Woolley, PhD, a clinical psychologist who often works with children experiencing nightmares and night terrors. “Be calm and comforting, offer a gentle back rubbing. Once the child calms down, you can redirect him or her back to bed and maybe offer a glass of water. But do not force a drink of water or going to the bathroom.” Remember, the child is not awake. MYTH: Children with night terrors have psychological problems. FACT: Though night terrors can be an intense and upsetting experience, they don’t indicate underlying problems. “A child can be very happy and well-adjusted and still have a night terror,” notes Woolley.
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ROUTINE SCENE Children with irregular sleep schedules are more prone to nighttime fears and nightmares, Walco says. Why? Overtired children have more difficulty reaching and maintaining deep sleep and spend more time in lighter, “dreaming” sleep, so vivid nightmares may come calling more often. These tired tots may wake more often during the night, resulting in more time spent pondering whether that shadow in the corner is really a monster in waiting. FEAR FIX: Maintain a predictable, age-appropriate bedtime routine every night to boost relaxation before bed and help ensure that children get enough rest. Preschoolers need 10 to12 hours of sleep each night; school-agers and teens need 9 to 11.
BEDROOM BUDDY Nighttime fears can seem more frightening when children sleep alone, Harris says, which is why children often ask to sleep with parents when they’re afraid. Whenever possible, though, parents should avoid the “quick fix” of letting kids hop into bed with them — this can reinforce fear by communicating that a child’s bedroom isn’t a safe place to sleep. FEAR FIX: The parents’ goal should be helping a child feel safe and comfortable in his or her own bedroom. “Whenever possible, soothe a child in the child’s bedroom, instead of in the parents’ room,” Harris says. Once he’s calmed down, tell your child you’ll return to check on him in 10 minutes, and make sure to return as promised. Sleeping close to a sibling or pet can also help calm fears.
CREATIVE CALM A variety of creative tricks is often employed by parents to help fearful kids — from imbuing a stuffed animal with magical powers to dousing a room with make-believe “monster spray” to giving children a pretend sword for “protection.” These tactics can be effective for the preschool set, says licensed therapist Robert Turner of the Rose Sleep Disorders Center in Denver. But beware: Parents’ willingness to play along with fears in this way might convince a child that the fear is real. (“If mom thinks monsters are real, they must be real!”)
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FEAR FIX: For young children ages 3 to 5, explore whether a transitional object like a special stuffed animal might help boost confidence and help a child fall asleep at bedtime, Turner says. But avoid reinforcing fear by hamming it up or acting afraid yourself.
RIGHT LIGHT Night frights are often sparked by fear of the dark, according to Robert S. Rosenberg, DO, medical director of the Sleep Disorders Centers of Prescott Valley, Arizona, and author of Sleep Soundly Every Night; Feel Fantastic Every Day. While babies under 2 lack the cognitive capacity to be truly afraid the dark — this comes later, when the “imagination” part of the brain takes off during the preschool years — darkness may intensify fears in older children, whether the child is scared of something imaginary, like a goblin, or something potentially real, like a burglar. FEAR FIX: Flooding a fearful child’s bedroom with nighttime light can backfire; too much light at night can disturb circadian rhythms, intensifying insomnia or overtiredness. Place a dim nightlight in a corner of the room, away from a child’s face. Better yet, choose a night light with a red bulb, and avoid blue lights — research shows they disrupt sleep patterns, Rosenberg says.
RAPID REFRAME Ultimately, the best approach is one that helps your child learn to manage fears long-term, says Walco. Help your child learn to take control of fearful, racing thoughts by reframing a scary mental image: A monster chasing your child with a knife (scary!) instead could become a friendly fairy chasing your child to offer an ice cream cone (sweet!). Arm your child with factual information, like the real causes of nighttime noises: Spooky, creaky footsteps are really caused by your old floorboards, not an intruder. And practice self-calming strategies, like taking two deep breaths when afraid, or picturing a safe, enjoyable scene. When a child masters the skills needed to selfregulate and actively dial down fears, he’ll be more confident, self-assured and emotionally resilient — for life.
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Thursday, October 19 Paint and decorate and maybe even do some carving on your jack-o-lantern. A pumpkin and all supplies are included. Ages 5-13. $15/residents; $20/non-residents, 4-5:45pm, Recreation Complex, 4455 Sol Press Blvd., 954-956-1580 coconutcreek.net
Saturday, October 28 In a safe alternative to trick-or-treating, little ghouls and goblins can gather goodies from shop to shop and compete in a community-wide costume contest split into 12 age brackets, from infants through middle school. 10am-noon, Cooper City Plaza. 9900 Griffin Road, 954-434-4300 #233 coopercityfl.org
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Fall Arts and Crafts Thursdays, October 26-November 16 Get creative making cool fall arts and crafts projects that show case children’s individual talents. Ages 5-8. $40/residents; $50/non-residents, 4:30-6pm, Recreation Complex, 4455 Sol Press Blvd., 954-956-1580 coconutcreek.net
Monster Mash Friday, October 27 Don’t fret the weather with indoor trick-or-treating at this second annual Halloween event, also featuring a costume contest, movie, arts & crafts and photo opportunities. Registration required. 6:30-9pm, Community Center, 1100 Lyons Road, 954-545-6670 coconutcreek.net
Ghosts & Goblins Family Fun Night Saturday, October 28 Games, storytime, costume parade and, for a nominal fee, photo opportunities and arts and crafts. Ages 2-11. 6-8pm, Fern Forest Nature Center, 201 Lyons Rd. S., 954-357-5198 broward.org/parks
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Saturday, October 14 Get in the spirit by making Halloween-themed crafts in this fun family art workshop for ages 3-5 (parent or guardian required). $5/person; $4/advance online tickets suggested. 2:45pm, Coral Springs Museum of Art, 2855 Coral Springs Dr., Suite A, 954-340-5000 coralspringsmuseum.org
Haunted House Friday-Saturday, October 27-28 Come in costume for a haunted house, slides and bounce houses. Elementary ages. $5/child, $2/adult. Friday, 5-8pm; Saturday, 2-7pm Coral Springs Gymnasium, 2501 Coral Springs Dr., 954-345-2200 coralsprings.org
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A Creature’s Trick-or-Treat Sunday, October 29 Trick-or-treating for ages 2 and up. Pre-registration required. $5/person. 5-7pm, Secret Woods Nature Center, 2701 W. State Rd. 84, 954-357-8884 broward.org/parks
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Fall Harvest Festival & Pumpkin Patch Through November 5 Free activities featuring a huge pumpkin patch, children’s craft and activity area, harvest market, hayrides, pumpkin painting, live music, Southern barbecue and more. Flamingo Road Nursery, 1655 Flamingo Rd., 954-476-7878 FlamingoRoadNursery.com
Harvest Festival Saturday-Sunday, October 7-8, 14-15, 21-22, 28-29 Celebrate the season with free hayrides, live entertainment, character meet & greets, scarecrow display, pumpkin patch, decorating station, and more. Each weekend has a different theme and themed-costume contest, including scarecrows, superheroes, pirates and princesses. A haunted house and trick-or-treating are also featured on October 28-29. $19.95/person, $9.95/ages 3-11. 9:30am-4pm, Flamingo Gardens, 3750 S. Flamingo Rd., 954-473-2955 flamingogardens.org
Celebrate Dia De Los Muertos! Thursday, October 26 Learn about the Day of the Dead holiday, its origin and how it is celebrated in many Latin American countries, and make Day of the Dead craft projects. Ages 13-18. Free. 4-6pm, NSU Alvin Sherman Library, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., 954-262-5477 sherman.library.nova.edu
YAA Halloween Party Friday, October 27 Put on your favorite costume for a night of artful, frightful fun for the entire family. This museum-wide party features Halloween-themed Art Activities, Monster Mash Music Time, Colorful Costume Parade, Family Costume Contest and more. Free with admission of $12/Broward resident. 3-8pm, Young At Art Museum, 751 SE 121 Ave., 954-424-0085 youngatartmuseum.org
Is It Haunted? Friday, October 27 Wander through historic Old Davie School, Viele House and Pioneer Home by the light of your flashlight and tell spooky stories over a campfire. $10. 7-9pm; last entry at 8:15pm, Old Davie School Historical Museum, 6650 Griffin Rd., 954-797-1044 olddavieschool.org
Trick-or-Treat through the Trees Friday-Saturday, October 27-28 Halloween games, activities, crafts and a trick-ortreat adventure through the forest. Ages 3-10. $5. 6-9pm, Long Key Nature Center, 3501 SW 130 Ave., 954-357-8797 broward.org/parks
Halloween Happenings Saturday, October 28 Spooky games, costume contest, family-friendly haunted house, pumpkin patch, kids activities, and petting farm. 1-5pm, Robbins Lodge, 4005 Hiatus Rd., 954-797-1181 davie-fl.gov
Halloween Creature ArtStation Saturday-Sunday, October 28-29 Get ready for Halloween as you create your very own fun and spooky Halloween creatures using paper bags and colorful objects. Free with admission of $12/Broward resident. 10am-2pm,
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Happy Halloween Stories Tuesday, October 31 Enjoy stories with the Shermanettes and a trick-ortreat parade at this special show for children of all ages. Costumes are encouraged. 10:30-11:15am, NSU Alvin Sherman Library, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., 954-262-4600 public.library.nova.edu
DEERFIELD BEACH Barktoberfest
Saturday-Sunday, October 7-8 A great annual event with a doggie splash time, doggie marketplace and fun for the whole family with bounce houses, face painting, costume contests and more. Displays and adoptions by rescue and nonprofit groups. $5 plus park admission of $1.50/person. 8am-4:50pm, small-dog (under 25 lbs.) 8-8:50am, Quiet Waters Park, 401 S. Powerline Rd., 954-357-5100 broward.org/parks
Fall Festival Saturday, October 21 An old-fashioned gathering with activities including a hay maze, pumpkin patch, live entertainment, treats and more. 3-7pm, Pioneer Park, 501 NE Eller St., 954-480-4429 deerfield-beach.com
Fall Festival for Kids Saturday, October 28 Family activities.10:30am-noon, Century Plaza/ Leon Slatin Library, 1856 A W. Hillsboro Blvd., 954-357-7740
FORT LAUDERDALE The River Ghost Tour
Sundays, October 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 Journey into the past with a water taxi tour on the New River. Peek into the shadows and hear fascinating tales of spooky spirits. Runs all year. $25, reservations required. 7:30pm, Stranahan House, 335 SE Sixth Ave., 954-524-4736 stranahanhouse.org
Watch the Hand Saturday, October 21 Grow your own Frankenstein hand that you can use for Halloween fun. Science Eye presents funfilled activities designed to bring science concepts to life every month. Free, while supplies last. 9-11am, Everglades Holiday Park, 21940 Griffin Rd., scienceeye.com
Riverland Halloween Party Wednesday, October 25 Enjoy a spooky night of fun with the entire family, including games, arts and crafts, cooking, decorating, refreshments and more. 6-8pm, Riverland Park, 950 SW 27 Ave., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov/halloween
Spooky Halloween Dance Party Thursday, October 26 Get in the Halloween spirit with spooky games, crafts, food and music. Free. 6:30-8:30pm, Bass Park, 2750 NW 19 St., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov/halloween
Spooky Dance Party Friday, October 27 Children are welcome to enjoy a spooky night of games, food, great music and dancing. 6:30-8:30pm, Lauderdale Manors Park, 1340 Chateau Park Dr., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov/halloween
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Spirits of Stranahan House Friday-Monday, October 27-30 See if the spirits are near while touring the historic Victorian home guided by mourners who will share tales of spirits and legends. $25/person. 7pm, Stranahan House, 335 SE Sixth Ave., 954-524-4736 stranahanhouse.org
Croissant Park Annual Halloween Party Saturday, October 28 Free family-fun activities, games, contests, prizes and food will bring mask-popping smiles to everyone’s faces. 4-6pm, Croissant Park, 245 W Park Dr., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov/halloween
Fall Fest Saturday, October 28 Celebrate the season with a family festival full of wagon rides, carnival games, arts and crafts and a haunted house. 3-6pm, Mills Pond Park, 2201 NW Ninth Ave., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov/halloween
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Trick-or-Treat on Second Street Saturday, October 28 A free spooktacular event for the whole family with bounce houses, carnival games, face painting, Halloween treats, a kid and pet costume parade and more. 1-5pm, Esplanade Park, 400 SW Second St., 954-828-7275 fortlauderdale.gov/halloween
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Wednesday, November 2 A Mexican tradition, this celebration includes family activities, workshops, a craft crypt, music, Mexican and Latin American dance performances, food and an outdoor skeleton processional that includes a mariachi band, giant puppets, costumes and miniature floats. 4-10pm, various locations in Downtown Fort Lauderdale; processional begins at 6:30pm at Huizenga Plaza, 32 E. Las Olas Blvd., dayofthedeadflorida.com
HALLANDALE BEACH Family Fun Fridays
Fridays, October 6-27 This regular family event with a DJ, games and dancing in the Champions Plaza takes on a Halloween theme with visits from Olaf the Snowman from “Frozen” on Oct. 6 and Spiderman on Oct. 13. Fridays get a little spookier with a Hotel Transylvania Show on Oct. 20 and a Nightmare Before Christmas Show on Oct. 27. 7-9pm, The Village at Gulfstream Park, 901 S. Federal Hwy, 954-454-7000 gulfstreampark.com
Halloween Costume Party Saturday, October 28 Dress up for a party filled with thrills, chills, fun and activities. 1-3pm, Hallandale Beach Library, 300 S. Federal Hwy, 954-357-6380
Not So Spooky Halloween Tuesday, October 31 Don your best costume for a family event featuring trick-or-treating at participating shops and restaurants, DJ music, face painting, a magic show, photo booth and more. 5-8pm, The Village at Gulfstream Park, 901 S. Federal Hwy, 954-454-7000 gulfstreampark.com
HOLLYWOOD Hallo-Green
Saturday, October 21 Celebrate Halloween with a green theme, featuring environmentally friendly activities, games, arts & crafts and more. $2. 11am-3pm, Anne Kolb Nature Center, 751 Sheridan St., 954-357-5161 broward.org/parks
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Hollyweird Halloween Block Party Saturday, October 28 In its third year, this downtown event features family friendly entertainment, trick-or-treating, music, candy stations, playground, magic show, balloon twisters, face painting and a children’s costume contest with prizes. Family activities 6-9pm. After the kids go home, the party continues with live bands, outdoor bars and adult costume contests with prizes. Along Hollywood Boulevard, west of ArtsPark. VisitHollywood.org
Spooktacular Road Race Sunday, October 29 A great way to work off all that candy, this annual event sponsored by the Greater Fort Lauderdale Road Runners Club for all ages includes a 5K run and walk. $5-$40. Preregistration required by 6am on race day. 7am-noon, T.Y. Park, 3300 N. Park Rd., 954-357-8811 gflrrc.org
K9 Oktoberfest Sunday, October 29 This 24th annual event for all breeds features games and costume contest for dogs, Rottweiler Rescue parade, $1,000 raffle, BBQ and more. Park admission of $1.50/person. 10am-4pm, T.Y. Park, 3300 N. Park Rd., 954-357-8811 ggarr.org
Halloween Open House Tuesday, October 31 Come in costume for safe trick-or-treating, crafts, a pumpkin patch, ghoulish food, bounce house, characters and more. 3-5pm, Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital, 1005 Joe DiMaggio Dr., 954-265-5324 jdch.com
LAUDERDALE-BY-THE-SEA BOO By The Sea
Saturday, October 28 For kids 2 to 11 accompanied by a parent, businesses will have activities and games during the afternoon of old-fashioned door-to-door trick-or-treating. 3-6:30pm, at Sea Fan, Green Turtle, Eagle Ray and Parrot Fish Plazas on E. Commercial Blvd. west of N. Ocean Dr., 954-640-4205 lbtsevents.com
LAUDERHILL
Zumbini Halloween Costume Party Friday, October 27 Music and dancing for children ages 1-5. Kids are encouraged to wear costumes and will receive goodie bags. Pre-registration required. Free. 10:30am-11:15pm Lauderhill Central Park Library, 3810 NW 11th Place 954-357-7833 broward.org/library
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Fall Festival Saturday, October 28 There’s something for everyone at this seasonal celebration: hayrides, pony rides, line dancing, petting zoo, haunted house and a concert — plus contests for scarecrow building, pumpkin carving and costumes for all ages. 6-11pm, Margate Sports Complex, 1695 Banks Road, 954-972-6458 margatefl.com/fallfestival
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Not So Scary Halloween Rhythm Learning Time Friday, October 27 Kids and parents can come in costume for this Halloween-themed music storytime followed by a craft session and a parade. Ages 5 and under. 11am-noon, Miramar Library, 2050 Civic Center Place, 954-357-8090 broward.org/library
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NORTH LAUDERDALE Haunted Hamptons
Friday-Saturday, October 13-14, 20-21, 27-28 Ghosts, monsters and other creatures of the dark haunt the woods of this spooky trail. Visitors are chaperoned by ghost hosts, who make sure no one gets lost during the chilling experience. $5/person, $10/fast pass, 7-9pm, Hampton Pines Park, 7800 Hamptons Blvd., 954-724-7061 nlauderdale.org
Halloween Hoopla Saturday, October 28 Halloween fun with arts and crafts, games and a trick-or-treating trail. Donations accepted. $5/person, 10am-noon. Hampton Pines Park, 7800 Hamptons Blvd., 954-724-7061 nlauderdale.org
OAKLAND PARK Halloween Bash
Friday, October 27 Fall fun at Music on Main with a costume contest, trunk-or-treating, music, entertainment and more. Free. 6-10pm, Oakland Park City Hall, 3650 NE 12 Ave., 954-630-4507 oaklandparkfl.org
PARKLAND
Tiny Tots Social Time: Special Halloween Edition Thursday, October 19 Spooky fun for the little ones with free playtime including age-appropriate toys, puzzles and books. Parkland Library card required. Pre-register online. Ages 9 months- 4 years. 10am, Parkland Library, 6620 University Dr., 954-757-4207 cityofparkland.org/library
Ghostly Gathering Tuesday, October 24 Get the goosebumps while listening to scary stories, playing games and making spooky decorations to take home. Parkland Library card required. Pre-register online. Ages 8 and up. 6pm, Parkland Library, 6620 University Dr., 954-757-4207 cityofparkland.org/library
Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 26 Come in costume and celebrate the season with spooky stories, music and treats. Parkland Library card required to register. Ages 3-7. 4pm, Parkland Library, 6620 University Dr., 954-757-4207 cityofparkland.org/library
Halloween Trunk or Treat Friday, October 27 Spooktacular festival featuring music, dancing, trick-or-treating, pumpkin patch, food trucks and more. 5-8pm, Parkland Equestrian Center, 8350 Ranch Rd., 954-757-4105 cityofparkland.org
PEMBROKE PINES Bow Wow Ween
Saturday, October 7 Halloween fun that includes pooches, with a family costume contest, exhibitors and more. Free. 9am-1pm, Pembroke Pines Dog Park, 9751 Johnson St., 954-392-2116 ppines.com/special events
Upcycled Craft Projects for Halloween Tuesday, October 10 Create a pumpkin out of a book. All materials provided. Ages 12 and older. 5-6:30pm, South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., Pembroke Pines, 954-201-8825
The City of Fort Lauderdale will transform into a world of folklore as princesses, superheroes, pirates, ghosts, goblins, and more fill the streets celebrating Halloween at one of many events suitable for the entire family! For more information, call 954-828-7275 (PARK) or visit www.fortlauderdale.gov/halloween.
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Movie Day Saturday, October 14 Stop by to see a film featuring good witches, Kiki’s Delivery Service. 2pm, South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., 954-201-8821 broward.org/library
Boo-ville Saturday, October 28 Costume contests, a pumpkin patch with prizes, spooky activities, trick-or-treat stations, food trucks and more. $2. 6-9pm, Pines Recreation Center, 7400 Pines Blvd., 954-392-2116 ppines.com
Halloween Carnival Monday, October 30 Have fun with games and candy. Ages 3-9. 6-7:30pm, South Regional/Broward College Library, 7300 Pines Blvd., Pembroke Pines, 954-201-8825
PLANTATION Spooky Movie
Saturday, October 21 Bring your friends to enjoy popcorn, drinks and a fun Halloween-themed movie. Ages 6-11. Free. 2pm, West Regional Library, 8601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1560 broward.org/library
Halloween & Safety Festival Saturday, October 21 A children’s carnival, inflatable rides, police and fire exhibits, games, activities for the whole family and free Halloween bags and candy for the kids. $5. 10am-2pm, Volunteer Park, 12050 W. Sunrise Blvd., 954-452-2510 plantation.org
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Halloween Boo Bash!
Tuesday, October 24 Crafts, treats, stories, dancing, trick or treating and prizes. Wear your costume. All ages. Free. 6:30-7:30pm, West Regional Library, 8601 W. Broward Blvd., 954-765-1560 broward.org/library
Tuesday, October 31 Calling all little witches, ghosts, princesses and superheroes for Halloween-themed craft activities, giveaways and candy. Children ages 10 and under are invited to come in costume and enjoy a Wizard Show at 6pm. Adult supervision required and masks only allowed on children under 10 during event hours. Free. 5-7pm, Pompano Citi Centre, 1955 N. Federal Hwy, 954-943-4683 pompanociticentre.com
POMPANO BEACH Spooky Cinema
Friday, October 6 Bring lawn chairs, blankets and picnics for a family movie under the stars. Tonight’s feature: Hocus Pocus. Free. Movie begins at 7pm, The Great Lawn, corner of Atlantic and Pompano Beach boulevards, 954-786-4111 pompanobeachfl.gov
Boo Bash Friday, October 27 Have a howling good time with carnival games, un-boo-lievable stage performances, DJ music, a haunted bus, inflatables, ghostly games, costume contest and more. 5-9pm, Community Park, 820 NE 18 Ave., 954-786-4111 pompanobeachfl.gov
Halloween Storytime Friday, October 27 Come hear a spooky story. Ages 2-5. Free. 10:30am, Pompano Beach Library, 1213 E. Atlantic Blvd., 954-357-7595 broward.org/library
Halloween Dance/Costume Party Monday, October 30 Show off your Monster Mash moves at this dance party for all ages. Snacks provided. 6:30pm, Pompano Beach Library, 1213 E. Atlantic Blvd., 954-357-7595 broward.org/library
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Harvest Festival Party Saturday, November 4 Meet in the story area for some great community fun for all ages. Free. 3:30-5:30pm, Northwest Branch Library, 1580 NW Third Ave., 954-357-6599 broward.org/library
SUNRISE
Fall Harvest Festival Sunday, October 15 An afternoon of hayrides, face painting, games, rides, food vendors and more. Pick out a pumpkin from the old-fashioned pumpkin patch for an additional fee. $5. 12:30-4pm, Sunrise Athletic Complex, 11501 NW 44 St., 954-747-4600 sunrisefl.gov
Trick or Trot 5K Saturday, October 28 Get in shape for Halloween with this USATFsanctioned route race. There’s also a Kids Dash for ages 10 and under. Family-appropriate costumes are encouraged and best costumes will receive
EVENT IS FOR KIDS 10 AND UNDER. MASKS ONLY ALLOWED ON SMALL CHILDREN.
FAMILY FUN FRIDAYS EVERY FRIDAY* | 7-9PM CHAMPIONS PLAZA
Interactive DJ, Dancing, Games, & Characters!
OCT 6: Olaf OCT 13: Spiderman OCT 20: Hotel Transylvania OCT 27: Nightmare Before Christmas *Entertainment held weather permitting
TRICK OR TREAT
[not so] SPOOKY HALLOWEEN OCTOBER 31 * | 5-8PM CHAMPIONS PLAZA Free Family Fun
Trick or Treating
Live DJ
Face Painting
Magic Show
Interactive Games
*Entertainment held weather permitting
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special recognition at end of race. Participants receive a T-shirt and commemorative medal. Proceeds benefit the Florida chapter of Paralyzed Veterans of America and the city social services program. 7:30am, packet pickup begins at 5:45am. Registration $30, early registration $15 until September 30. $10/Kids Dash. Markham Park, 16001 W. State Rd. 84, Sunrise, 954-747-4600 sunrisefl.gov/5k
Fire Station Trick-or-Treating Tuesday, October 31 Kids preschool-age through 5th grade are invited to visit the city’s five fire stations for free, safe Halloween fun and treats. Free shuttle between stations. 5-8pm, Fire Station #72, 10490 W. Oakland Park Blvd., 954-747-4600 sunrisefl.gov
TAMARAC
Halloween Hoopla Friday, October 20 Freaky festivities with music, arts & crafts, bounce houses, Broward Sheriff’s Office exhibits and demonstrations, face painting, carnival games, prizes, candy, and much more. Free. 6-8pm, Tamarac Park, 7501 N. University Dr., 954-597-3624 tamarac.org
WESTON
Halloween Spooktacular Tuesday, October 31 Kids’ costume parade, music, interactive games and dances, bounce house, entertainment and trick-or-treating. Free. 5-9pm, Weston Town Center, 1675 Market St., 954-349-5900
PALM BEACH COUNTY Shriek Week
Friday-Saturday, October 20-21 & Thursday-Saturday, October 26-28 Spooky events galore with games, a trick-or-treat trail, kids’ film festival, and more. Haunted house for ages 7 and up. October 26 is Lite Nite, a less intense haunted house. Sugar Sand Park Community Center, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3900 sugarsandpark.org
Spooky Snooze Family Overnight Saturday-Sunday, October 14-15 Discover Palm Beach Zoo after hours and explore the nighttime world of its creepiest creatures with animal encounters, a nocturnal tour, pizza snack, continental breakfast and wild activities. Reservations required. Ages 6 and older. $50/non-member, $40/member. 6:30pm-8:30am, Palm Beach Zoo, 1310 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-533-0887 palmbeachzoo.org
Boo at the Zoo Friday-Sunday, October 20-22, 27-29 This not-so-scary Halloween tradition features trickor-treating all around the Zoo, little kids costume contests, strolling famous costume characters, DJ, and more. Most activities included in admission price. Friday-Sunday, 10am-4pm, Friday-Saturday, 5-9pm, Palm Beach Zoo, 1310 Summit Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-533-0887 palmbeachzoo.org
Spooky Science Night at the Museum Friday, October 27 Guests of all ages can enjoy extended hours of exploration at the Science Center with interactive science crafts, activities, entertainment, exhibits, planetarium shows, and a chance to view the night
FALL Festival SATURDAY, OCTOBER 28 6PM-11PM
Margate Sports Complex 1695 Banks Rd CONTESTS: Costume (all ages) Pumpkin Carving Scarecrow Building Chili Cook-Off FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES: Line Dancing Hay Rides Petting Zoo Pony Rides Haunted House
Live Concert • Craft & Food Vendors Margate Parks and Recreation margatefl.com/fallfestival
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sky in Palm Beach County’s only public observatory. Food and beverages available. $12/adults, $6/ members, $10/ seniors, $8/ages 3-12, under 3 and child members free. 6-9pm, South Florida Science Center and Aquarium, 4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-8321988 sfsciencecenter.org
Trick ’Em Treat ’Em Costume Party Friday, October 27 Calling all Mummies, Daddies, creepers, crawlers and little tricksters to a costume party with munchies, mayhem, games and more. Ages 2-5. $5. 10am-noon, Patch Reef Park, 2000 NW 51 St., Boca Raton, 561-367-7035 patchreefpark.org
Boca Boo Days: Brent Gregory Magical Halloween Show Friday, October 27 Elementary school-age kids and families will be mesmerized by the magic of Brent Gregory. Join the costume parade and trick-or-treating after the show. No enrollment or library card necessary. Free tickets available a half-hour prior to showtime. Space is limited. Children 8 & younger must be accompanied by an adult. 3:30-4:30pm, Boca Raton Public Library Downtown, 400 NW Second Ave., 561-393-7852 myboca.us
Monster Mash! Saturday, October 28 Come in costume, bring a swimsuit, or both for activities in and out of the water, such as trick-or-treating, bounce house, giant water totter, face painting, treats and more. Ages 6 and older. Free, no registration required. 11am-1pm, The Swim Center, 21616 St. Andrews Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8540 theracquetcenter.org/swim-center
Halloween in the Garden Sunday, October 29 Little ones can wear costumes and have some fun with fall crafts, games, face painting and more. Ages 2-6. Space is limited. $10/advance, $14/walk-ins. 10am-noon, Gumbo Limbo Nature Center, 1801 N. Ocean Blvd., Boca Raton, 561-544-8605 gumbolimbo.org
MIAMI-DADE COUNTY
Monster Splash - A Halloween Celebration Saturday-Sunday October 14-15, 20-21, 28-29 Kick-off the harvest season with a picture-perfect Pumpkin Patch, Scarecrow Zone and Flipper’s Dance Party plus face-painting, inflatables, rides, and much more. $45.99/adult, $35.99/child. 10am-6pm, Miami Seaquarium, 4400 Rickenbacker Causeway, Key Biscayne, 305-361-5705 miamiseaquarium.com
Not So Scary Family Halloween Bash Sunday, October 15 Trick-or-treat your way around the galleries, brave the haunted house, create crazed crafts and more at this fundraising event for MCM’s educational programs. $35-$50. 1-5 pm, Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 miamichildrensmuseum.org
MiChiMu’s Halloween Monday, October 16-Tuesday, October 31 Tour a haunted house and during MiChiMu’s Halloween Week, October 23-29, do spooky science experiments, create creepy crafts, play ghostly games and more — and come in costume. October 23-29, 11am–5pm. October 30-31, 10am-6pm. Miami Children’s Museum, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 miamichildrensmuseum.org
Spooky Adventures Saturday, October 28 Come by for haunted trains, trick-or-treat stations, monster movies, a Link ride and more! Contact museum for details. Gold Coast Railroad Museum, 12450 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-253-0063 gcrm.org
Zoo Boo Saturday-Sunday, October 28-29 A wild adventure with trick-or-treating for kids under 12, costume contests, music, games and prizes, special performances and more. See the animals get their own special treats. Free with zoo admission, 11am-4pm, Zoo Miami, 12400 SW 152 St., Miami, 305-251-0400 zoomiami.org
Monster Mash Bash Tuesday, October 31 A safe Halloween event without tricks — just treats. Activities include haunted ghost tours, music, edible arts & crafts, bounce houses, rides, vendors, costume contests, prizes, and candy. Free. 6-10pm, Patricia A. Mishcon Athletic Field, 16601 NE 15 Ave., North Miami Beach, 305-948-2957 citynmb.com
Every effort has been made to provide accurate information. Changes and cancellations do occur. Please double check the details before setting out on your adventure.
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Bittersweet Halloween
A DAD’S TRICK-OR-TREATING NIGHTMARE BY GREGORY KEER
A
dozen years ago, when my sons were younger, I had
in voices as sweet as the treats they received, it was perfectly
a lesson to learn about All Hallow’s Eve. Until then I
enchanting — for all of 15 minutes.
really thought I could construct the perfect trick-or-treat
A car blaring bass-driven music slowed in front of us. A
night. On that October 31st, I stepped into the night ready to lead
teenager in a Scream mask yelled out, “Happy Halloween!” Then
my brood through one of childhood’s greatest experiences — an
he chucked an egg that smacked my pant leg.
evening of stockpiling candy and pretending to be a favorite
My children thought it was hysterical.
character. For me, it was a chance to have as much fun as they did.
“Daddy got hit with an egg! Can we go get some eggs, too?”
I even dressed up as Luke Skywalker, wearing a robe and carrying a toy lightsaber, though I didn’t look as adorable as my kids. Benjamin, 7, went for the medieval “dark warrior” look, and Jacob, 4, dressed as Harry Potter. Ari, 11 months, was stuffed into a puffy lion’s costume for his Halloween premiere. As I watched my older sons ring doorbells and say “thank you”
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“No,” I shouted, before realizing I was cracking up myself. “It’s only funny once.” As we moved along, my wife commented, “The real Luke would’ve dodged that egg.” I glared at her, then spied Jacob returning from a house, his mouth bulging with chocolate, ready to open a king-size Snickers.
“Only five candies while we walk,”
this one looks like Mommy without
I warned him.
and howled crankily.
her makeup.”
That’s when my little Harry Potter
“I’ll take him home,” Wendy said.
Neither my wife nor my eldest son
quick-changed from British schoolboy to
Seeing my perfect Halloween unravel,
appreciated that one.
spoiled brat: “I don’t LIKE you!” he cried,
I sulked like one of my children, “But I
“Not funny, Daddy. I’m still bored,”
dropping to the sidewalk.
want to trick-or-treat TOGETHER!”
Benjamin grumbled. “Can I go to Jeff’s
I controlled my temper, firmly telling
haunted house to help scare people?”
Jacob, “I can take you home right now.”
My wife placed her hand on my cheek and said, “You need to grow up.”
Dejected, I looked at my wife. “This
Apparently this worked because he
is supposed to be a family night.”
Later, my family reconvened at home, munching on more candies and
hugged me, saying, “I’ll share some of the
“Let him go play,” my wife said.
answering the door for other trick-or-
SweeTarts with you later, Daddy. I know
Benjamin ran off and we visited more
treaters. My childish desire to be one of
you love them.” With order restored, I pushed Ari along
houses, but I kept feeling let down
the kids slowly faded, especially seeing
without him. Then I realized Jacob had
Jacob handing out sweets to the visitors.
in the stroller, smiling as he pointed at
slipped away, too. I ran up and down the
the festive decorations of flying witches,
block before spotting him hiding behind a
you Spider-Man,” he said before a much
fluttering ghosts — and bloody body parts
bush, about to eat an unwrapped popcorn
larger person came up, clearly an adult in
strewn about someone’s lawn.
ball.
a grotesque mask. Without a beat, Jacob
Then, Benjamin whined, “I’m bored.”
“Don’t — eat — that!” I shouted as I
I tried to ignore him, thinking, what
swatted away the sticky clump like it
could be better than going house-to-house with your family, collecting treats Charlie Brown only dreamed about?
“Here’s one for you Cinderella, one for
said, “And here’s three candies for you, Scary-Face Man.”
was some kind of grenade.
Imagine, a grown-up trying to steal
Jacob wailed in shock while I explained,
some of the fun on a kids’ night.
“Didn’t we tell you not to eat anything
“This is really boring,” Benjamin repeated.
Well, there’s always next year.
that isn’t in a package?” Gregory Keer is an award-winning
I leaned down to hug away his tears just as Ari, no longer content to be a
columnist, high-school teacher and founder
cool pumpkins!” I said like a cheerleader.
live-action Simba the Lion King, pulled
of the website familymanonline.com.
“This one is mean, this one is silly, and
off his cloth mane for the seventh time
He loves SweeTarts.
“Look, guys, this house has a hundred
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JSYK (Just So You Know) M UNDERSTANDING THE SECRET LANGUAGE OF TODAY’S TEENS BY CAROLYN JABS
ost parents know that LOL
helps kids establish and reinforce a social
means Laughing Out Loud.
identity. People who understand the same
You may even know that 420
secret language are likely to be part of the
refers to marijuana. But you may not know
same tribe. Slang establishes an in-group
that 53X means sex. That worries Brian
that understands and out-group that
Bason, CEO at Bark, a new monitoring app
seems hopelessly out of touch.
and a website that includes a list of popular
adult radar, talking about things that
For $9.99 a month, Bark promises to alert
might be forbidden if the adults could
parents when kids text something risky.
translate what they were saying. Siblings
Of course, slang is nothing new.
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Second, slang allows kids to fly under
texting slang terms (tinyurl.com/gqp9tex).
often develop this kind of secret language
Parents have been scrambling to keep
— winks and whispers and even special
up with it for generations. Using freshly
words that let them communicate about
minted words that adults won’t understand
things that Mom and Dad might not
appeals to kids for two reasons. First, it
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Messaging, of course, has added a new dimension to all of this. Keyboards are tiny.
may not be acceptable. The best way to know what an acronym
Attention spans are short. Acronyms and
means is to ask the child who used it. The
emojis make it possible to crowd a lot of
security company, McAfee, also produces
information into a small space. As a result,
a list of common terms, conveniently
messages have become more and more
subdivided into categories for drugs,
cryptic and harder for parents to decipher.
sex and bullying (tinyurl.com/hpb8qu2).
Much of the new slang being used online is harmless and even creative. Some of the better acronyms enter the language.
Wiktionary also has a long list of acronyms in an appendix (tinyurl.com/mab7snn). Another way to educate yourself is to
Pretty much everyone knows about FOMO
visit databases that try to keep up with
(Fear of Missing Out), IRL (In Real Life)
slang as it’s created. Here are several of the
and BRB (Be Right Back). Other very
most complete collections:
useful acronyms include JSYK (Just So You
• Slangit.com is a family-friendly website
Know), SMH (Shaking My Head), TL;DR
(they also have free apps for iPhone and
(Too Long; Didn’t Read) and YOLO (You
Android). When you enter a slang term,
Only Live Once).
you get a clean and accurate definition.
Still, parents need to be alert. Kids can
They also have a daily quiz question that
get into trouble with texting, and the kinds
might be a conversation-starter at
of speech that would be unacceptable
the dinner table.
IRL should also be off limits in text. In
• Noslang.com has been keeping track
particular, parents will want to monitor
of net slang since 2005. They offer a text
in these areas:
slang translator and a reverse translator
SEX. Most teens seem to have gotten the
that turns English phrases into acronyms.
message that sending nude photos isn’t a
In their articles section, there’s a helpful
good idea. That doesn’t mean teens aren’t
essay called, “What Every Parent
texting about 53X. Even emojis may have
Should Know.”
a double meaning — an eggplant can stand in for male genitals; a peach may refer to someone’s backside. It’s perfectly natural, of course, for young people to take an interest in sex, but parents need to chaperone, watching for behavior that is too adult or partners who may be predatory. SUBSTANCES. Slang has always been part of drug and alcohol culture. Using coded language is a way to evade legal authorities as well as parents. Keeping up with the current terminology isn’t easy, especially since it often varies from place to place. Talk to other parents and even school counselors who often know the latest lingo. And remember that drug terms sometimes have more than one meaning. Dabbing, for example, is both a dance craze and a way to use cannabis. Lit can mean getting high or simply having a good time. HATE. Texting and social media are often used to bully and abuse other people because of their gender, race, ethnic origin or disabilities. Be clear with your child. A slur is a slur, and you won’t tolerate abusive language in any setting. BAD LANGUAGE. If you don’t want your child to say the F word, you will
• Internetslang.com also allows parents to look up acronyms. Their Trending Terms section helps parents zero in on current terminology. • Acronymsandslang.com has an enormous list of acronyms, organized into categories. With over 20,000 entries in the Internet category, they are likely to supply an explanation for almost any acronym. • The Urban Dictionary also has a very complete list of slang of all kinds. The definitions are crowd-sourced so they are generally irreverent and often obscene. The site is not suitable for children, but may be useful to parents because it’s regularly updated by its users. Of course, trying to keep up with adolescent slang is like playing Whacka-Mole. As soon as a term is widely understood by adults, it loses its value for kids and they will move on. That’s why parents have to reinforce the idea that kids shouldn’t say anything online that they wouldn’t say IRL. With that in mind, you might also want to introduce a conscience-stimulating acronym of your own — WWGmaS (What Would Grandma Say?) IRL: Carolyn Jabs, M.A., raised three
probably want to discourage the use of
computer-savvy kids and has a better-than-
acronyms like WTF or AF. Even NSS
average idea of what they’re texting about.
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Water Barks POOCHES SPLASH IT UP AT QUIET WATERS’ BARKTOBERFEST
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ust because summer’s officially over doesn’t mean the dog days have ended in South Florida. Barktoberfest lets the dogs in for a break from the heat October 7-8. Quiet Waters Park’s Splash Adventure water park is reserved exclusively for doggie splash time at the fourth-annual event, which also features activities for the whole family — such as a doggie marketplace, bounce houses, face painting and costume contests. The 50-minute splash sessions run from 8 a.m to 4:50 p.m, with dogs weighing 25 pounds or less permitted from 8 to 8:50 a.m. There is a $5/dog fee per session. Displays and adoptions by rescue and nonprofit groups are offered as well. “About 20 dogs were adopted at the event in 2015,” says parks manager Marvin Burroughs, adding that the 2016 event was washed out by Hurricane Matthew. “We typically have around 1,000 people and 600 dogs at this two-day event.” Admission is free with the weekend entrance fee of $1.50/person (ages 5 and under free). Quiet Waters Park, 401 S. Powerline Road, Deerfield Beach, 954-357-5100, broward.org/parks
DOGS HAVE THEIR DAYS AT T.Y.’S CASTAWAY ISLAND
P
ooches big and small are invited for two dogs-only splash-bash weekends at T.Y. Park’s K9 Water Festivals on October 14-15 and October 21-22. More than 1,300 dogs jumped in to T.Y.’s Castaway Island over the four days of last year’s events. “From what I have heard, it was probably the busiest in the years since the event started in 2008,” says parks manager Deborah Battista. The 50-minute splash sessions run on the hour from 9 a.m.-5 p.m., with a designated area for dogs weighing 25 pounds or less for all sessions. There is a $5/dog fee per session. Other than lifeguards, the water playgrounds will be reserved only for dogs, which must be at least 4 months old, off-leash and sociable. Proof of current rabies vaccination and county license tag are required. Donations of dog and cat food, treats, blankets and toys will be accepted for Broward County shelters. Admission is free with each park’s weekend entrance fee of $1.50/person (ages 5 and under free). T.Y. Park, 3300 N. Park Road, Hollywood, 954-357-8811, broward.org/parks
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or pets, Halloween can be more trick than treat. These tips from Broward County’s Animal Care and Adoption Division can help them to have a happier holiday: • Taking your dogs trick-or-treating can be a scary proposition. If you do, be sure to keep them on a short leash to prevent fighting with other animals or biting strangers. Groups of costumed trick-or-treaters can frighten pets, and they may try to break the leash and escape.
your treats, which will keep them from getting outside or biting a little ghost or goblin. • When it comes to pets, keep your candy to yourself — especially chocolate. Candy is toxic for animals and can cause vomiting, restlessness, heart disturbances and even death. And tell other family members, especially children, not to share their candy with the family pet. If you suspect your pet has eaten chocolate or other candy that causes discomfort, consult your
Mythology about black cats and witches can cause people to do strange things to them. Even children who mean no harm may yell at or chase a black cat, scaring it much more than it scares them. • Fido may look cute in a costume but wearing one could cause him stress. Don’t submit your pets to dress-up unless you’re sure they like it. And be wary of costumes that use rubber bands to hold them in place. They
• Pets, especially dogs, are easily excitable or threatened by strangers. Don’t leave your pets outside in the yard. They’ll be safest inside the home. • Confine pets in a room separate from your front door when you hand out
veterinarian immediately. • If you own a black cat, Halloween could indeed bring you bad luck. Take extra precautions by confining it to your house several days before Halloween to reduce the chance of it being abducted.
can quickly burrow into the animal’s skin if you neglect to remove them.
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OctoberEvents
TARZAN THE STAGE MUSICAL
It’s Showtime!
MUSEUMS & EXHIBITS Dino Island
THROUGH JANUARY 7
Robotic dinosaurs come to life to create a magical adventure for the entire family. Attend a Cretaceous Reunion in T-Rex’s Dinersaurus, play in a giant dinosaur nest with Mamasaurus’s babies, and ask questions from a creature who lived even before the time of the dinosaurs. MIAMI CHILDREN’S MUSEUM, 980 MacArthur Causeway, 305-373-5437 miamichildrensmuseum.org
When the Earth Shakes! OPENS SUNDAY, OCTOBER 1
Immerse yourself in this traveling exhibit’s interactive earthquake activities: build and test structures on a shake table, launch waves through a 16-footlong tsunami tank, race to complete a tectonic puzzle before the pieces fall. CHILDREN’S SCIENCE EXPLORIUM AT SUGAR SAND PARK, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3900 sugarsandpark.org
Night at the Museum FRIDAY, OCTOBER 6
Fancy Nancy, The Musical
CITY CENTER, 601 City
Children will be inspired to read as Nancy and her pals jump from page to stage and dance in their very first show in this musical based on Jane O’Connor’s beloved series. Lap tickets are available for children 12 months and under. $14-18. 11am and 1 and 3pm. AMATURO THEATER
The Shoppies make their theatrical debut in this original live show featuring urban style music, song and dance centered on the annual “Funtastic Food and Fashion Fair.” $20-$99.50. 6:30pm, CHARLES F. DODGE
Witness objects floating in mid-air and other jaw-dropping illusions in Click, Clack, Moo! this interactive magic experience SUNDAY, OCTOBER 15 that combines the illusionist’s Kids can cheer the plucky mind-blowing talents and barnyard animals in this whimsical trademark off-the-cuff personality. story presented by Theatre $23.75-$36. 8pm, PARKER Works USA, as Farmer Brown’s PLAYHOUSE, 707 NE Eighth St., cows stage a milk strike to get Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222, electric blankets. Complimentary parkerplayhouse.com pre-show art activities and post-show treats. $14-$18. The Choreographers’ 11am & 1pm, AVENTURA ARTS Ball & CULTURAL CENTER, 3385 NE SATURDAY, OCTOBER 28 188 St., Aventura, 305-466-8002 Featuring some of South Florida’s aventuracenter.org hottest choreographers, dancers and performing arts companies, Tarzan The Stage this career-launching showcase Musical for all ages is designed to break OCTOBER 19-NOVEMBER 5 new acts into the entertainment Based on Disney’s epic animated industry. $20-$50, discount musical adventure about a student tickets available. 7pm, high-flying boy raised by gorillas, AVENTURA ARTS & CULTURAL Tarzan features Academy Award- CENTER, 3385 NE 188 St., winning music by rock legend Phil Aventura, 305-466-8002 Collins. On October 28, Broward aventuracenter.org Center presents its first-ever “sensory-friendly” performance, PJ Masks Live! modified to create a welcoming Time To Be a Hero and supportive environment SUNDAY, OCTOBER 29 for children and adults on the This new live show features autism spectrum and individuals superheroes Catboy, Owlette with other sensitivity issues or and Gekko as they try to developmental disabilities. save the day. $12.50-$97.50. $47-60. BROWARD CENTER FOR 2 and 5pm, PARKER PLAYHOUSE, THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 707 NE Eighth St., Fort SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, Lauderdale, 954-462-0222, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org parkerplayhouse.com
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AT BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW
Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org
The Sound of Music OCTOBER 10-22
The hills are still alive in this new production of the beloved musical about Maria and the von Trapp Family, featuring favorites like “My Favorite Things,” “DoRe-Mi,” “Climb Ev’ry Mountain” and the title song. Starting at $30. BROWARD CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS, 201 SW Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-462-0222 browardcenter.org
Shopkins Live! Shop It Up!
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 11
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Center Way, Pembroke Pines, 954-392-2130 pembrokepinescitycenter.org
The Magic of Bill Blagg Live! FRIDAY, OCTOBER 27
Wear comfy clothes, do a fun experiment and hang out in the Explorium with special after-hours access to exhibits and staff. The movie Journey to the Center of the Earth will be shown and pizza will be served. Preregistration required. Ages 7-12. $25, $20/resident, $7 discount for additional child in the same household. 6-9:30pm, CHILDREN’S SCIENCE EXPLORIUM AT SUGAR SAND PARK, 300 S. Military Trail, Boca Raton, 561-347-3900 sugarsandpark.org
Amazing Butterflies MAZE Exhibit OPENS SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7
Shrink down into the undergrowth to experience the unusual relationship between caterpillars, butterflies and their natural surroundings in this interactive exhibit. Special opening weekend activities from noon to 4pm. MUSEUM OF DISCOVERY AND SCIENCE, 401 SW Second St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-467-6637 mods.org
Peter Pan Pirate Party SATURDAY, OCTOBER 14
Join Peter, Wendy and the Lost Boys for a magical afternoon adventure along the shore of the New River at this annual party. 11am-12:30pm, STRANAHAN HOUSE, 335 SE Sixth Ave., Fort Lauderdale, 954-524-4736 stranahanhouse.org
Design YAA
OPENING SUNDAY, OCTOBER 22
Form, function and fun featuring an eyepopping installation by Milagros. YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-424-0085 youngatartmuseum.org
Nights at the Museum FRIDAY, OCTOBER 27
Enjoy extended hours of Spooky Science with interactive crafts, activities, entertainment, exhibits, planetarium shows and a chance to view the night sky in Palm Beach County’s only public observatory. SOUTH FLORIDA SCIENCE CENTER AND AQUARIUM,
4801 Dreher Trail North, West Palm Beach, 561-832-1988 sfsciencecenter.org
FAIRS, FESTIVALS & SPECIAL EVENTS Oktoberfest Celebration FRIDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 6-8
Oktoberfest music, dance, food, children’s activities, sausage-making and more. $5/adult, Free/under 12. Friday, 6-11pm, Saturday 1-11pm, Sunday 1-7pm. JACO PASTORIUS PARK, 4000 N. Dixie Highway, Oakland Park, 954-630-4500 oaklandparkfl.org
per 50-minute splash session. 8am-4:50pm, QUIET WATERS PARK, 401 S. Powerline Road, Deerfield Beach, 954-357-5100, broward.org/parks
K9 Water Festivals
ESPLANADE PARK, 400 SW Second St.,
Fort Lauderdale, 954-468-1541 goriverwalk.com
Las Olas Art Fair
SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 21-22
WEEKENDS OCTOBER 14-15 & OCTOBER 21-22
One of the country’s top art festivals turns Fort Lauderdale’s signature boulevard into a kaleidoscope Castaway Island goes to the dogs — in a good way. of color with art works from paintings to jewelry For these four days, the water park is dogs-only. Free by local and national artists. Free. 10am-5pm, The Expo 2017 with park $1.50/person entrance fee, ages 5 and LAS OLAS BLVD., Fort Lauderdale, artfestival.com SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7 under free, $5/dog fee per 50-minute splash session. This family-friendly event provides a day of fun 9am-5pm, T.Y. PARK, 3300 N. Park Rd., Hollywood, Brazilian Fest SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 21-22 activities and learning about services, resources, 954-357-8811 broward.org/parks The sixth-annual event expands to two days of products and information for persons of any age Brazilian culture, arts, cuisine and entertainment, with any disability. Includes entertainment, seminars, Pony Jail and Bale SUNDAY, OCTOBER 15 including carnival rides and an amusement park. art exhibition, fashion show, children’s activities A special afternoon of fun for the whole family with $5/one day, $8/weekend, VIP passes/$65-$100. and more. Free. 10am-3pm, NSU ALVIN SHERMAN music, food, games, a selfie row and a lockup with Saturday 11am-10pm, Sunday 11am-8pm. LIBRARY & THE DON TAFT UNIVERSITY CENTER a pony. The event serves as a fundraiser for this COMMUNITY PARK, 820 NE 18 Ave., AT NSU, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., Davie, non-profit program that helps grieving children deal Pompano Beach, brazilianfestpompano.org theexpofl.com with loss. $5. Noon-3pm, TOMORROW’S RAINBOW Fall Festival RANCH, 4341 NW 39 Ave., Coconut Creek, Barktoberfest SATURDAY, OCTOBER 28 954-978-2390 TomorrowsRainbow.org SATURDAY-SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7-8 Get the feel of an old-fashioned fall with an autumn This fourth-annual event features activities for the October Sausage Fest festival featuring lots of family activities: hayrides whole family — especially the pet pooch — with SATURDAY, OCTOBER 21 and model steam-train rides, games, bounce houses, Splash Adventure water park reserved exclusively At this free inaugural event, think outside of rock wall, interaction with farm animals, barn tours, for doggie splash time. There’s also a doggie the bun — beyond the kid-approved hot dog to face painter and farm tours and demonstrations. marketplace, bounce houses, face painting and the connoisseur’s kielbasa and chorizo. Curated Tickets $1 each or $20 for 25. 10am-4pm, costume contests. Free with park $1.50/person vendors, music and activities for the whole family. TRADEWINDS PARK & STABLES, 3600 W. Sample Rd., entrance fee, ages 5 and under free, $5/dog fee Sausage-inspired costumes are encouraged. 2-6pm, Coconut Creek, 954-357-8870 broward.org/parks
Community Activities
Marci Poppins!
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7
A fun, interactive pageantry of music, dance and family-friendly activities celebrating Latin culture for Hispanic Heritage Month. All ages. 11am-noon, MIRAMAR BRANCH LIBRARY & EDUCATION CENTER,
2050 Civic Center Place, 954-357-8090 broward.org/library
Toddler Yoga with Nipa! THURSDAY, OCTOBER 5
Be flexible with this interactive program using songs and rhymes with movement and stretching. Ages 1-5 and caregivers. Preregistration. 10:30-11am, YOUNG AT ART MUSEUM, 751 SW 121 Ave., Davie, 954-357-8585 youngatartmuseum.org
Sensory Story Time SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7
If your child has difficulty sitting through storytimes, check out this program of stories, songs and activities designed for children with autism spectrum disorders, sensory integration issues and other developmental disabilities. 2-3pm, WESTON LIBRARY, 4205 Bonaventure Blvd., 954-357-5420 broward.org/library
Celebrate Hispanic Heritage SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7
Crafts, face painting, photo booth and more. For all ages. Learn the history of Mexico and enjoy a mariachi band at 4pm. 3-4pm, NORTH REGIONAL/
BROWARD COLLEGE LIBRARY, 1100
Coconut Creek Blvd., Coconut Creek, 954-201-2600 broward.org/library
Lego Club
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7
Get together and play Legos with other children. Ages 5 and up. Legos are provided (do not bring your own). 11-11:45am, NORTHWEST REGIONAL LIBRARY, 3151 University Dr., Coral Springs, 954-357-7990 broward.org/library
Nature Tots
THURSDAY-FRIDAY, OCTOBER 12-13
Explore nature through stories, songs, arts and crafts and more. Ages 2-4. $5. Parental participation and preregistration required. 10-11am, FERN FOREST NATURE CENTER,
201 Lyons Road S., Coconut Creek, 954-357-5198 broward.org/parks
A Hispanic Heritage Month concert for kids. 6-6:45pm, NSU ALVIN SHERMAN LIBRARY, 3100 Ray Ferrero Jr. Blvd., Davie 954-262-5477 public.library.nova.edu
Playgroup Fun!
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 12
Join this multi-sensory approach to early literacy with stories, songs and activities for babies, toddlers and their caregivers. Ages up to 24 months. 11:15am-12:15pm, HOLLYWOOD BRANCH LIBRARY,
2600 Hollywood Blvd., 954-357-7760 broward.org/library
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 14
Practice your reading by reading to a lovable dog trained by the Humane Society. Ages 5-12. Preregistration. 11am-noon, SOUTH REGIONAL/ 7300 Pines Blvd., Pembroke Pines 954-201-8825 broward.org/library
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 13
Children ages 5-12 will have a blast playing games, making new friends, creating unique arts and crafts projects, and eating pizza with city recreation SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7 professionals while parents enjoy a Shake it up with free classes for ages 8 night out. $20, $10/preregistered. and older with parents. 3-4pm, DAVIE/ 6-11pm, EMMA LOU OLSON COOPER CITY BRANCH LIBRARY, CIVIC CENTER, 1801 NE Sixth St., 4600 SW 82 Ave., Davie, 954-357-6399 Pompano Beach, 954-786-4111 broward.org/library pompanobeachfl.gov TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10
Wags and Tales
BROWARD COLLEGE LIBRARY,
Kids Night Out
Family Belly Dance Class with Shayna
Paco Moreno & Friends
Rd., Weston, 954-389-4321 westonfl.org
Music Under the Stars FRIDAY, OCTOBER 13
Enjoy the ocean breezes during this evening of music under the stars offered monthly on the second Friday of the month. 7-9pm, THE “GREAT LAWN,” Atlantic Boulevard & Pompano Beach Boulevard, Pompano Beach, 954-786-4111 pompanobeachfl.gov
Superhero Social
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 14
In honor of Teen Read Week, create your own superhero identification card, test your superhero knowledge and enjoy superhero themed snacks! Ages 13-18. 2-4pm, NSU ALVIN SHERMAN LIBRARY, 3100 Ray Ferrero, Jr. Blvd., Davie, 954-262-5477 public.library.nova.edu
WANT MORE FUN? For more local events, see our listing of Halloween activities on page 26, or check our online calendar at browardfamilylife.com
Moonlight Movie in the Park
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 14
Bring blankets and lawn chairs to watch an outdoor screening of Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2. Free. 8pm, WESTON REGIONAL PARK, 20200 Saddle Club
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Conversation Starters THE FINE ART OF FAMILY DINNER DISCUSSIONS BY JESSICA HIGGINS “How was your day?” I asked. “I didn’t fart at school AT ALL today!” my son proudly exclaimed. That response gave me more questions than answers. Like many well-meaning parents, my husband and I try to make dinner a time for family conversation, and a subject that is often a go-to is a discussion of our respective days. But as many other well-meaning parents know, as they sit at the dinner table and ask the same questions: Kids don’t give you much. Well, they may share A LOT, but not necessarily what a parent really wants, or needs, to know. My son, for instance, can give us daily diatribes about the evils that his arch nemesis Zoe purportedly imposes on him, but when pressed about what he did in math, he gives a perfunctory “I don’t remember.” My daughter, on the other hand, will tell us, at length, about some question she answered in reading, but then will casually toss in, “Zach called me a ‘pig’ today at recess.” What?! Is this a serious bully situation? Do I need to march down to the school in the morning to break this kid’s kneecaps? I can’t, however, blame my kids for our quirky dinnertime chats because my husband and I can be equally reticent. “How was work, honey?” I may ask, and I get: “Busy. As always.” Occasionally, the situation does get spicy. Recently, we were seated around the dinner table, and in a forgotten context, my husband dropped a “BLEEP” bomb into our mealtime chatter. As one does. He immediately realized his verbal slip, and he and I quickly traded the silent staredown that led to his expression, saying: “Don’t worry. They didn’t notice.” But of course they noticed: “What’s ‘BLEEP’?” Soon, all around the table, it was a chorus of “BLEEP!””BLEEP!” “BLEEP!” This time, the exchange wasn’t silent between me and my husband. Me: “You see what you started?” My daughter: “What did he start? The BLEEP talk?” Sometimes, silence is golden. A few months ago, I came across a non-profit organization called Q4KIDZ that texts parents once a week with interesting questions to guide family conversation. Some questions are
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silly, like: “If you could put any type of toppings on a pizza, but didn’t have to eat it, what would you top it with?” And some are more serious: “What can you do if you see a classmate eating lunch alone?” The answers to these, by the way, even the silly ones, have been informative and they give me daily windows into how my kids think and feel. For instance, to the pizza topping question, my son — revealing both his expansive imagination and his propensity for gross humor — said, “Ramen noodles, paper towels and poop!” My daughter, though — demonstrating her practicality — said, “Pepperoni.” Because, “that’s just what I like on pizza.” I don’t always use the questions texted to me each week; sometimes, I forget about them for weeks at a time, but often I glance at them prior to dinner and drop them into stalled moments of conversation like an ace in the hole. Recently, for example, we all had a lively discussion about what kind of “super pet” we’d buy if we shopped for pets at a store that sold animals with super powers. Hint: There were a lot of flying cats and dogs. I may not make great dinners, but with the help of technology and helpful services like this one, I’m doing okay at making great dinner conversation. Visit q4kidz.org to sign up for the free text messaging service Q4KIDZ. Data and messaging fees may apply. Jessica Higgins is a former English instructor at Broward College, the mother of two and quite the dinnertime conversationalist.
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