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Click in to your community The internet makes it easy
BY REAGAN ZUBER
Through the power of the internet, we can connect to people around the world instantaneously. But that doesn’t mean it’s not a resource to meet people right here in Western New York. Use the following websites to find fun and friends in your own backyard.
This popular social media app helps you keep up with friends you already have and make new connections as well. The best way to do the latter is through Facebook groups, where likeminded people gather virtually to connect on just about anything you can imagine. One popular group, “Buffalo & WNY seniors group 55 and older,” currently has 22,000 friendly members who share on topics of interest to spark conversation and friendship.
Buy Nothing groups allows neighbors to post items they wish to give away or offer help; on the flip side, BN group members can request items or help when needed. Search Facebook by hobby to find groups like the “WNY Hooks and Yarn Crochet Group” or “WNY Fishing.” Groups are monitored by admins who enforce rules to create respectful and healthy environments. You’ll need an active Facebook account to participate.
On the left side of your profile, click on the Events tab to find festivals, concerts, theatre and comedy shows, and more. Entering your location and a date range will help you narrow them down. Clicking through to an event page provides more information on registration, location, and requirements, and even gives you the option to RSVP and share the event with friends.
MeetUp
MeetUp is also a popular site to find in-person events. Simply make an account and type in your location to find groups near you. Groups are available by age ranges, such as “WNY Women 45+ seeking new fun friendships,” as well as by interests, such as “WNY Golf for Fun,” “Western New York Walking Group,” “Buffalo Beer and Wine Tasting Club,” and “Shut up and write! Buffalo.” If you can’t find a group you like, make your own!
Nextdoor
Nextdoor is a mobile app that connects you with your neighbors. People post neighborhood events, buy and sell items, ask questions, and discuss issues in the community. You can also message directly with your neighbors. To use, make an account and verify your address.
Dating sites
Online dating is hugely popular and available to all ages. OurTime is intended for mature adults looking for a serious connection, and allows you to insert a desired age range and zip code to find other singles. SilverSingles claims a high success rate and numerous members; it uniquely provides daily profile quality checks to ensure your safety. SeniorMatch only allows members above forty, with a focus on members fifty and over; it claims more than a million members and thousands of success stories. These are just a few of the many platforms; every site and app has its own focus, so explore and see what works!
Online connections are a great way to form meaningful relationships in the real world, but always be cautious about sharing personal information that could endanger your physical or financial safety. Meet in public places and let your loved ones know where you’re going and who you’re with. Most of all, have fun! FY
Reagan Zuber is Assistant Editor of Forever Young.
