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Make sure your comments are intended to help the recipient. Speak directly and with feeling. Describe what the person is doing and the effect the person is having. Don’t be threatening or judgmental. Be specific, not general (use clear and recent examples). Give feedback when the recipient is open to accepting it. Check to ensure the validity of your statements. Include only things the receiver can do something about. Don’t overwhelm the person with more than can be handled.

EXHIBIT 10.2 Guidelines for Giving Effective Feedback.4

or not working and then change those actions to become more effective.5 Effective feedback alone can increase performance and positive personal development.6 There are a number of reasons why. First, feedback can induce a person who previously had no goals to set some, and goals act as motivators to higher performance. Second, where goals exist, feedback tells people how well they’re progressing toward those goals. Third, favorable feedback is a positive reinforcement. Fourth, if feedback indicates inadequate performance, this knowledge may result in increased effort or suggest ways to improve performance. Fifth, feedback often induces people to raise their goal sights after attaining a previous goal. Finally, providing feedback conveys that you care how they’re doing.7 The application of feedback in the coaching, counseling, and mentoring processes involves four actions in the following sequence:8 Describing observed behaviors and the results. Assessing the impact of the observed behaviors in terms of organizational vision and goals. Predicting the personal consequences for the person involved if no changes take place. Recommending changes for improving behavior. The characteristics of effective feedback are summarized in Exhibit 10.2. Coaching to Improve Performance Coaching is the ongoing process of helping people improve their performance. A coach analyzes performance, provides insight into how to improve, and offers the leadership, motivation, and supportive climate to help achieve that improvement. As a coach, your job is to provide instruction, guidance, advice, and encouragement. There are three general skills that you can apply to help others generate breakthroughs in performance.9 1. Seek ways to improve performance. A coach continuously looks for opportunities to expand peoples’ performance capabilities. How? By ongoing observations of the other person’s behavior, by asking questions (“Why do you do a task this way?”), by listening to understand the other person’s perspective, and by respecting the other person’s individuality and crafting unique improvement strategies. 2. Create a supportive climate. Effective coaches reduce barriers to development and facilitate climates that encourage performance improvement. How? Through active listening to promote free and open exchange of ideas. By empowering others to implement appropriate ideas that they suggest. By being available for assistance, guidance, or advice if asked. By being positive and upbeat to provide encouragement. By never using threats of punishment for poor performance. Threats only create fear and inhibition. By focusing on mistakes as learning opportunities. By validating peoples’ efforts with rewards when they succeed.


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Index

15min
pages 402-411

Appendix: Exercise Guidelines and Materials

14min
pages 396-401

Principles for Ethical Decision Making

2min
page 318

Action Plan Implementation

2min
page 335

Ethical Screening

2min
page 317

When Might Resistance to Change Be Helpful?

27min
pages 267-281

Applying Ethical Guideposts to Decisions

2min
page 316

Strategies to Overcome the Resistance to Change

2min
page 266

Stages of Team Development

15min
pages 289-299

Skills for Promoting Change

4min
pages 263-264

Applying Persuasive Skills in Formal Presentations

14min
pages 235-244

Improving Your Persuasive Skills

5min
pages 233-234

Persuasion Tactics

2min
page 232

Persuasion Strategies

2min
page 231

Considering the Cost–Benefit Equation

33min
pages 214-228

General Guidelines for Political Action

5min
pages 211-212

Specific Political Strategies

3min
page 213

Political Diagnostic Analysis

9min
pages 208-210

Delegation Skills

20min
pages 195-205

Coaching to Improve Performance

2min
page 179

Obtaining Goal Commitment

20min
pages 165-175

How to Set Goals

3min
page 164

Image Communication

15min
pages 121-130

What We Know about Providing Feedback

22min
pages 133-144

What We Know About Effective Listening

6min
pages 116-117

What Skills Are Required to Send Messages Effectively?

25min
pages 102-113

What Can You Do To Apply EI?

27min
pages 87-99

What Research Tells Us about EI

2min
page 86

Self-Awareness Questionnaires (SAQ

42min
pages 42-62

How to Increase Your Self-Awareness

11min
pages 38-41

Planning for Implementation

14min
pages 75-82

Guidelines for Participating in Chapter Exercises

2min
page 33

Summarizing Your Self-Awareness Profile

13min
pages 63-70

Chapter 1 Skills: An Introduction

1min
page 26

Defining the Key Interpersonal Skills

2min
page 29

How Do You Teach Skills?

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