Jefferson City Magazine - May/June 2013

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Man Caves

We guarantee you’ll envy

The Real

Iron Man Meet local metal artist Don Asbee

Dream Car Tour 5 local guys choose their ultimate wheels

Summer Style Guide

10 easy items to look your absolute best

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publisher's note

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Albert Einstein said, “A table, a chair, a bowl of fruit and a violin: What else does a man need to be happy?” Really? Are you kidding me? Time has definitely changed since the simplistic brilliance of ol’ Einstein. Men today — at least the men in the very first Man Issue of City Magazine — seem to need a whole lot more to fulfill happiness. And who can blame them? In today’s world, technology provides the avenue to be able to watch every NFL game at the same time, from the same recliner, every NFL Sunday. Does it get any better than that? Just ask George Pardolis, or check out his man cave on page 30.

Hobbies are also a huge chunk of a man’s happiness. You hunting and fishing enthusiasts will want to get the gear packed after seeing Aaron Juckette’s hunting lodge-themed man cave. You can also look into Missouri’s top five fly-fishing destinations on page 52.

But what would a guy be without his wheels? From the time a young boy gets his first car, he starts dreaming about the perfect car. We paired some local businessmen with their dream cars, and this is what one of our models said about his dream truck: “The truck represents people who can do anything. They are gritty representations of utility, hard work, toughness, perseverance and success. Nostalgically, the truck reminds me of the old hard asses that stood around their trucks telling stories of conquest and greatness.” He sounds like a pretty happy man to me. We hope you enjoy the fashion spread on pages 86 to 92 of these happy guys. I think you will recognize a few of them.

Rebecca and I have had an exciting time producing the Man Issue. As you know, City Magazine originated as a women’s publication. Along the way, we have worked to expand the interest to not only our male readers but also all of Jefferson City. We have great men and women who make Jefferson City a wonderful place to live, and it is always our privilege to share those stories with you.

Cheers!

Editorial Tami Turner Publisher Rebecca Rademan associate Publisher Katrina Tauchen Copy Editor

Art Kristin Branscom art Director

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on the cover

CAVES 4MAN WE GUARANTEE YOU’LL ENVY

THE REAL

IRON MAN Meet local metal artist Don Asbee

Dream Car Tour 5 local guys choose their ultimate wheels

Summer Style Guide 10 easy items to look your absolute best

FRESH

NEW DESIGN

THE MAN ISSUE May/June 2013 Display until June 30

www.jeffersoncitymag.com

HADES HONEY

This summer’s go-to barbecue sauce

Local metal artist Don Asbee works in his studio near Hartsburg, Mo., where he forges beautiful functional and non-functional works of art for public and private clients throughout mid-Missouri and the country.

A former blacksmith, Asbee has a clear passion and talent for what he does, from the creative process all the way to the finished products. His handcrafted works of art are not only timeless but also truly original. Photo by Chris Hollaway.

Contact Cindy Pudney at: 573-635-9395

Jefferson City Magazine is published by The Business Times Co., 114 B E. High St., Ste 201, Jefferson City MO, 65101, 573-635-9395. Copyright The Business Times Co., 2012. All rights reserved. Reproduction or use of any editorial or graphic content without express written permission of the publisher is prohibited.

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contributors in the news

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Hometown Kindness Honoring acts of kindness, peace and joy

This is a heartwarming response to a recent event. Our hostess on Easter found a beautiful ladies diamond ring, and she gave it to Donita to hold onto because she knew someone would be missing it. Today the lady called, described the ring and came to pick it up with this note:

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4 ①. Chris Hollaway – Contributing photographer This was a fun issue to be involved with. I got to photograph an awesome spread with kick-ass cars; meet Mike Jones, the new LU football coach; eat some tasty Zesto barbecue; and spend an afternoon with Don Asbee, the amazing blacksmith who is featured on the cover. For me, it was amazing to watch him mold a rod of steel into a beautiful and functional work of art. I look forward to visiting Don’s shop again for some lessons in metal working.

②. Heather Sheilds – Contributing writer I enjoyed learning more about the motivations behind creating a man cave and the technology and design elements used in the spaces. Each space encompassed comfort and quality without compromising masculinity, and despite the more man-centric decor, all of the spaces were created to enjoy time with family and friends.

To: Person Who Found My Wedding Ring Dear kind and honest person. We can’t tell you enough how much your act of kindness means to us. I’ve lost two cellphones in Walmart, and they were never turned in.

You have renewed my faith in humanity.

Thank you. God bless! Nancy While she was here and we visited, we found out that she was fretting about turning it in on homeowner’s insurance, not to mention the sentimental value. No worries now!

I hope this is able to put a smile on your face as it did mine.

This story originally appeared on the Donita’s Cakes and Catering Facebook page (facebook.com/DonitasCatering).

③. Anthony Jinson – Contributing photographer I always say it; I have the coolest job. The best part about doing what I do is the diversity of the people and places I get access to. The assignments for this issue took us from Fischer's cuttingedge auto body facility to the streets of downtown Jefferson City, back to the studio and on to the Boys and Girls Club. Enjoy!

④. Jim Muench – Contributing writer History and the games people play have always interested me. It was fun to discuss the growth over time of a local auto body business with its owner, and as I delved into the story about how Jefferson City attracts franchises, the fascinating game behind the art of the deal came into focus with each succeeding interview. It’s the sort of intrigue that drove me to write a novel, which will be published soon.

Did you know?

Performing random acts of kindness or hugging someone in a sincere way is proven to reduce stress and increase overall happiness. Check page 43 for more useful stress-management tips.

Has someone inspired you?

Submit acts of kindness to Rebecca@ jeffersoncitymag.com or on our Facebook page at facebook.com/Jeffersoncitymag.

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contents

✩ publisher's note p. 13 ✩ Contributors p. 15 ✩ At Home 25 Man Caves 34 The Domestic Dad: Jay Van Dyne

At work 43 Men and Stress: Secrets to healthy living 47 Business Feature: In with the new 55 Person You Should Know: Lee Wilbers 58 Filling the Void: Boys and Girls Club of the Capital City 62 Business Profile: Fischer Body Shop 65 City Character: Christopher Sutton

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At ease 68 Gourmet: Hades Honey 73 The Dish: Zesto’s championship barbecue 75 Beauty: 3 trendy hairstyles 77 Health: Skin care 79 Book Review: Neil Gailman’s Neverwhere 80 Artist Profile: Don Asbee 86 Dream Car Tour 97 Sports: Government service vs. private enterprise

in every issue 19 Agenda 20 Datebook 39 Business Briefs 52 Hit List 107 Snapshots 104 Ask Eric 105 Fashion Forecast 114 The Last Word

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May/June

Spring is upon us, and we are excited to share noteworthy events taking place in Jefferson City.

2nd Annual Spiegelau Beer Tasting what: Forever change the way you think about serving and enjoying craft beer. The Spiegelau Beer Connoisseur tasting workshop shows you how to pour the perfect pint and teaches why using exceptional glassware is the key to elevating all facets of this delicious subject. Enjoy craft beer and Lutz’s BBQ, and go home with a beautiful Spiegelau Beer Connoisseur set. when: 6:30 p.m. Tuesday, June 4 where: Memorial Park Pavilion info: Advanced reservations and payment are required; call 573-634-3737

Out of this World Fashion Show with Anime what: This mid-Missouri anime, sci-fi and gaming cosplay convention invites people far and wide to come together in a fun and friendly environment. The convention is open to the community and is meant to create a unique and exciting year-to-year experience like no other. when: Friday, June 27 to Sunday, June 30 where: Capitol Plaza Hotel and Convention Center info: Tickets are $40 for the weekend, $20 for Friday, $25 for Saturday and $15 for Sunday; cosplacon.squarespace.com

Barge into History what: Barge into history at the Discover Jefferson City Foundation’s third annual fundraiser to encourage and promote tourism in the Jefferson City community. This is a truly unique experience in which you can relax and enjoy spectacular views up and down the Missouri River while you learn the history of Jefferson City and enjoy great food, beverages and live music. where: Noren River Access when: 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Thursday, May 9 and Friday, May 10 info: Tickets are $100 and include food and drinks. For more info, visit DiscoverJeffersonCity.com or call 573-632-2820

Cedar Creek Bike Race what: The Cedar Cross is an endurance cycling event covering approximately 113 miles of central Missouri’s finest back roads, cattle fields and various parts of the Cedar Creek Trail.

Most of the riding is on gravel, but there are a few areas where even the most skilled riders will be forced to carry their bikes.

Riders will pedal, push and carry bikes across a series of natural obstacles. Prepare to feel pain, joy and a deep, deep burning in your legs. where: North Jefferson City Commuter Lot when: 8 a.m. Saturday, May 4 info: Tickets are $20; register at cedarcross.wordpress.com

Visit Jefferson City Magazine’s online calendar at jeffersoncitymag.com.

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5-8 p.m., Wing Ding, Jefferson City Jaycee Fairgrounds

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7 a.m.-noon, Central Missouri Master Gardener Plant Sale, Jaycee Fairgrounds 8 a.m., JC Board of Realtors 7th Annual Cinco de Mayo Race 5K, Memorial Park 8 a.m., Cedar Creek Bike Race, North Commuter Jefferson City Lot 7 p.m., Jefferson City Cantorum “Lift Up Your Voice in Song,” Miller Performing Arts Center

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10 a.m.-5 p.m., Missouri River Guild Quilt Show, Lewis and Clark Middle School

7:30 p.m., matinee performances June 16 and 23 at 1:30 p.m., Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, Capital City Players

2/Sunday 10 a.m.-4 p.m., Missouri River Guild Quilt Show, Lewis and Clark Middle School

4/Tuesday 7 p.m., River City Florist’s 2nd Annual Spiegelau Beer Tasting, Memorial Park Pavilion

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6-22/Thur, Fri, Sat 7:30 p.m., Saturday matinees at 2 p.m., Pollyanna, Stained Glass Theatre

8/Saturday 9 a.m., JCMG Women and Children’s Center Grand Opening (with facility tours and kid-friendly activities)

9/Sunday 9 a.m., The Green Giant Obstacle Race, North Jefferson City Recreation Area Pavilion

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From an entertainment hub to an outdoor oasis, these Local mid-Missouri spaces boast some of the most envied man caves in town

Man-tastic Man caves

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With advancements in home electronics and the cocooning trend (socializing less outside of the home) on the rise since the ’90s, creating a space to call one’s own has far surpassed a workshop, a den in which to watch the game or a charcoal grill and a couple of lopsided woven chairs in the backyard.

These days, homebuilders and companies market to the man cave consumer with special sales on home theater systems, gaming systems, electronic gadgets and other odds and ends that make com-

ing home and spending time in an entertainment hub or outdoor living space the refuge and relaxation it was meant to be.

These mid-Missouri men have each created an oasis of their choosing where they can escape from the demands of life and be the king of the castle.

But one thing is universal: They all enjoy sharing their spaces with family and friends.

So sit back, and pop a cold one while we tour some of the most envied man caves in town.

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Pat Schaefer’s / Outdoor Pavilion Must haves:

✔ flat-screen TV ✔ top-notch grill ✔ fire pit or fireplace

“It has a barreled ceiling with starry sky effects and lighting.” — Dave Burks

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Sometimes the perfect space happens to be outdoors, and in Pat Schaefer’s case, he created a space in which he could do one thing he thoroughly enjoys: entertain family and friends. Pat’s Party Pavilion, as it is affectionately called, covers 1,000 square feet under the roof and 1,000 square feet of outdoor patio area and can accommodate up to 50 people.

Being an outside space, the pavilion sees approximately three

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seasons of use. With the gas fire pit and a woodburning fireplace, Schaefer and his guests can enjoy the flagstone patios, beautiful paver floors and natural block bar well into the chilly autumn evenings.

“I’d been planning the space for years,” Schaefer says, “but finally got the space cleared of an old barn a couple years ago, and the pavilion was done in 2011.”

An interesting feature of the project is that no

mortar was used in the installation. Along with the block bar, there is a builtin natural cooler, stone walls and steps, inlaid floor lighting and plenty of furniture for friends and family to relax in while watching the 42-inch television with surround sound. The design elements create a space in which everyone feels comfortable. Nothing’s too manly or feminine; it’s all quality, comfort and sophistication.

Resource list: Midwest Block and Brick All Seasons Landscape Lueckenhoff Construction

Aaron Juckette’s / Hunting Lodge Must haves:

✔ hunting mounts ✔ bearskin rugs ✔ top-shelf whisky

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The metal sign on the wall identifies Aaron Juckette’s 2,600-square-foot space as the “Man Cave,” but as soon as one enters the room, it’s clear no sign is needed.

Hunting mounts — deer, elk, turkey, pheasant, bass and northern pike — are displayed in memory of hunting trips with his dad and brother. The rest of the décor, including a bar with a granite countertop, tin

ceiling and an old pumpstyle faucet, continue the hunting/fishing lodge theme, as does the color scheme of neutral hues found in nature.

The space is used for entertaining family and friends and has heated stained concrete and tile floor throughout. Guests can play pool, watch the 32-inch television at the bar or the 80-inch television in the plush seating area.

Surround sound brings to life the program of choice, and dark brown couches with reclining sections make the space a relaxing spot for the family. The space also boasts a stereo and intercom system (as part of the wholehouse system) and electronic lighting.

“What I enjoy most is having all of my mounts displayed in one space,” Juckette says.

Resource list: Electric: Green Electric Appliances: Coleman, Bar & Bath Drywall: Toby’s Plumbing: Castrop Granite, carved-in stone: Dave Veith Paint: Carol Hughes and Tillman Painting Tile floor: Lowe’s installed by Marty Anderson

“What I enjoy most is having all of my mounts displayed in one space.” — Aaron Juckette Jefferson City Magazine | 27

Dave Burks’ / Modern Theater Must haves:

✔ projector screen ✔ old-fashioned popcorn machine ✔ surround sound ✔ reclining seats

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One experience many people like to replicate is the theater experience, with the darkened room, the surround sound, the movie butter popcorn, and now more than ever it’s easier to create that atmosphere in the comfort of your own home. For Dave Burks, entertaining and sharing evenings watching movies or sports with family and friends are what he enjoys best about his 360-squarefoot home theater.

The space seats eight to 10 guests and boasts theater ambiance lighting, a projection system with a 120-inch screen, Dolby

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“It has a barreled ceiling with starry sky effects and lighting.” — Dave Burks Digital surround sound with seven speakers and sub woofers, a gaming system video input, DirecTV satellite, a Blu-ray player, karaoke machine, touch-screen remote and four two-person theater recliners for optimum viewing comfort.

Another unique feature of the room is the ceiling.

“It has a barreled ceiling with starry sky effects and lighting,” Burks says. The modern yet welcoming room is topped off with a fun geometric carpet.

When putting in a home theater, Todd Corwin with The Entertainer offers

this advice: Keep in mind the size of the room when considering what type of screen to install. “Flat-panel televisions can go up to 70 or 80 inches, but if you’re looking for anything over 90 inches, you may want to consider the more costeffective projection system for that size of a screen.”

Corwin also explains that home theaters no longer have to be the dark dungeons of years past.

Many people use these spaces to socialize, and with the advances in projection systems, the space doesn’t have to be pitch black for a quality picture.

Resource list: Theater system: The Entertainer Carpet: Angela Burks Randolph, Major Interiors Special painting effects: Bond’s Painting Special effects lighting: Jeff Lute Electric

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George Pardolis’ / Entertainment Hub Must haves:

✔ flat-screens ✔ shrine of sports memorabilia ✔ reclining chair

“It has a barreled ceiling with starry sky effects and lighting.” — Dave Burks

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It’s called Dad’s Room, and it boasts a wall of eight televisions, a Lazy Boy couch, a massage chair and an iPad remote control.

“I’m a huge NFL fan,” George Pardolis says. “On football Sundays I can watch every game, with the Chiefs on the main screen.”

Before creating his ideal space, Pardolis watched sports in his basement family room, but that’s also where the kids’ playroom was. He wanted something more private and fitting to the experience he envisioned.

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In 2012, the 15-by-20-foot room attached to the master suite became his man cave.

Two of the TVs are 32 inches, and the remaining six have 50-inch screens. The screens are angled in a “U” shape for optimal viewing. Add in surround sound, custom wood shelves, a dart board, his autographed NFL helmet collection, CDs, trophy wall, PlayStation and a poker table Pardolis made, and you’ve got an area that fits his needs.

On a regular day, Pardolis, his wife and two

children can all watch TV in the room as they can each use headphones to listen to the individual television being watched. “It enables us to hang out in the same space,” Pardolis says.

In addition to the room being a cool space for friends to watch sporting events, Pardolis likes that it’s an area where he and his wife kick back every night when the kids go to bed. “She watches what she wants, and I watch what I want, but we’re together,” he says. JC

Resource list: The Entertainer

“I’m a huge NFL fan. On football Sundays I can watch every game, with the Chiefs on the main screen.”

— George Pardolis

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B y L a u r e n S a b l e F r e i m a n | P h oto s b y c h r i s h o l l away Jay Van Dyne (right) with daughters Sophie and Gracie bird watching at Runge Nature Center, a favorite afternoon hangout.

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As Jay Van Dyne prepared for the birth of his oldest daughter, Sophie, nine years ago, he and his wife, Melissa, had the same discussion every expectant parent has: Who will watch the baby while Mom and Dad are at work? After exploring day care centers and gaining an understanding of the costs associated with child care, the right answer for the Van Dynes emerged. Jay would stay home, and Melissa would return to her job with the Missouri Department for Health and Senior Services.

“The cost of day care was just astronomical, so it made sense for one of us to stay home and raise our children rather than send them to someone else and spend all that money,” Van Dyne says. “My wife didn’t want to stay home, so I said I’d do it.”

L i k e a g r o w i n g number of American men, Van Dyne left his job as a salesman, hung up his suit and traded his briefcase for a diaper bag. When Melissa returned to work six weeks after Sophie’s birth, Van Dyne dived right in, assuming primary child care duties and taking on

household chores and daily tasks such as cooking, cleaning and laundry.

“With the first one, you’re thrown in, and you don't know anything,” Van Dyne says of being a first-time parent.

“You’re feeding and changing diapers and changing a lot of clothes and trying to do everything else at the same time. At first I was nervous, but with time I got used to it.”

Although he found that some moms weren’t receptive to having a man join their playgroup, he was fortunate to find a small group of men who were doing the same thing he was, staying home to raise the children. Van Dyne says the group dissolved after about two years, but the support it provided was invaluable.

“We spent a lot of time together, and it was nice because they understood what I was going through, and I understood what they were going through,” Van Dyne says. “It was nice to get away and visit while the kids played and good to be around guys that were doing the same thing I was doing and understood the stigma associated with it.”

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Although many were understanding of his decision to stay home to parent, there were plenty of people who expressed their belief that a man’s place is working outside of the home.

“The idea that the man’s place is at work and the woman’s place is at home is such a 1950s thought,” Van Dyne says. “There were and are people, including women, that didn’t really understand, especially the older generations.”

A lt h o u g h h i s f r i e n d s teased him about lying on the couch and eating bon bons all day, Van Dyne quickly learned what all stay-at-home parents learn — there is nothing easy or typical about a day at home with kids. He also learned that the laundry and the cleaning never end.

“A lot of guys that don’t stay home don’t realize that it is hard work,” Van Dyne says.

“Doing laundry, trying to keep the kids occupied, cooking breakfast, lunch and dinner and cleaning: It’s like a whirlwind.”

Each day is a nonstop parade of tasks, but Van Dyne says his time as a stay-at-home dad has given him plenty to smile about.

On one of his first outings with baby Sophie, Van Dyne recalls meeting a group of people for breakfast at a restaurant. He prepared for the outing carefully and packed a diaper bag complete with baby wipes and a change of clothes. When Sophie needed a diaper change, Van Dyne realized he forgot one necessity — diapers.

“I had another Onesie, so I improvised and turned it into a diaper,” Van Dyne says.

“The whole ride home I was nervous, hoping she wouldn’t go in the car.”

By the time daughter Gracie arrived a few years later, Van Dyne felt more comfortable with his daily duties. Although his group of stay-at-home dads had gone off in their own directions, his time as a stay-at-home parent helped ease the feeling of isolation he had experienced the first time around. And, once the girls started school, Van Dyne says it became easier to meet other stay-at-home parents.

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which was fine. It doesn't bother me. Slowly they’ve accepted me.”

Sophie and Gracie attend St. Joe’s, which is fortunate for Van Dyne. That’s where he attended school, too, and some of his daughters’ classmates are the children of his former classmates.

“We’re catching back up,” Van Dyne says.

“We'll go to the park or take the kids for ice cream. It has gotten a lot easier in terms of fitting in.”

A lt h o u g h s tay - at - h o me dads still make up a tiny percentage of American families, their number has doubled in the past decade. Thirty-two years ago, when Don Asbee and his ex-wife, Joan, decided that he would stay home with their oldest daughter, Megan, he didn’t know any other stay-at-home dads.

But the situation was ideal for their family.

Asbee, a metal artist, had his blacksmith shop across the driveway from the family’s home, and Joan worked as a nurse.

“My home-based business made it seem like a perfectly natural way to pursue my career as a metal artist and stay-at-home dad,” Asbee says. “My daughters, Megan and Christy, were curious enough about my work to explore learning to weld, hammer metal and gain an understanding of how things are made. Megan has gone on to become a costume designer in New York City.

Christy took metalwork further and was working at a journeyman blacksmith level.

However, she ultimately chose to become an attorney.”

As his own father traveled a lot for his job, Asbee jumped at the opportunity to spend more time with his kids. He says he didn’t grow his business in the same way while juggling stay-at-home parenting, but he was able to forge a strong relationship with his daughters while still pursuing his artistic passion.

Although it’s still far from the norm in the United States, both Asbee and Van Dyne are adamant that their roles as stay-at-home parents have been worth every tradeoff.

“I get to see the little things and see them grow,” Van Dyne says. “It is something different every day. It is harder than the job I had, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.” JC Jefferson City Magazine | 37

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business briefs

Business Briefs Promoted, Hired, Recognized

Central Bank named Charlie J. Frank a financial adviser. In the new position, Frank will maintain office hours in both the Jefferson City Bank West location and the downtown facility in California, Mo. Frank, who joined Central Bank in 2012, is a Helias High School graduate who went on to graduate with honors from Truman State University in 2003. He is a member of the Jefferson City Area Chamber of Commerce and participates in Hype, the young professional adjunct of the Chamber; the West Side Business Association; the Jefferson City Runners Club; St. Peter’s Parish; and the Knights of Columbus.

Missouri Sports Hall of Fame President and Executive Director Jerald Andrews announced the addition of Jefferson City’s Dennis “Denny” Higgins as a member of the hall’s newest induction class. Higgins, 73, was born and raised in Jefferson City.

He spent seven years in the minor leagues before breaking into the majors with the Chicago White Sox in 1966. The righthander spent time with the Washington Senators, Cleveland Indians and St. Louis Cardinals. For his career, he compiled a 22–23 record in 241 appearances, mostly as a relief pitcher. He retired in 1972 with a 3.42 earned run average, 339 strikeouts and 46 saves.

The new class includes Tony Galbreath, Joe Crede, Phil Bradley, Bob Burchard, Dennis Licklider, Roberta Licklider, Ray Hentges, Dr. Chris Leslie, Keith Weber (posthumously), the Helias Catholic High School wrestling program and the Lincoln University track and field program. This year the Missouri Sports Hall of Fame also named high school football coach Pete Adkins as the hall’s 25th Missouri Sports Legend.

Ginger Meyer, M.S., R.D., L.D., joined the team at Lifesong for Growth and Wellness. A registered dietitian for 24 years, including 19 years in the Jefferson City area, Meyer received a B.S. in medical dietetics from the University of Missouri and an M.S. in nutrition education, also from MU. She was awarded a certification in child and adolescent weight management from the American Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics in 2004.

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Capital Region Medical Center appointed Christy Carel as manager of volunteer and senior services. Carel most recently served as the central Missouri division director for the March of Dimes, where she was involved in the recruiting, orienting, training and developing of volunteers, in addition to many community service and educational programs. A Helias High School graduate, Carel holds a Bachelor of Science in business administration from Lincoln University and an MBA from William Woods University.

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Officials at the Jefferson City Public Schools announced Mark Caballero is the next athletics/activities director for the district.

Caballero, who most recently served as athletic/activities director for the Ozark School District, earned his degree from the University of Northern Iowa, began his educational career at Garden City (Kansas) Community College and has worked at Idaho State University, Western Illinois University and Missouri State University.

He’s been with the Ozark School District for the past 12 years, during which time he coached football, wrestling and taught physical education. Caballero is replacing Mike McGurk, who is leaving the district after five years of service.

Central Bank named Keith A. Bax an investment officer. Bax, who joined the Central Bank team in 2012, earned his bachelor’s degree in business administration from Lincoln University. He’s also a graduate of the Missouri School of Lending and the Missouri School of Banking and served on the Missouri Banking Association Education Board for three years. Active in his community, Bax is a member of the Westphalia, Mo., Lions Club; Bonnots Mill Knights of Columbus; Loose Creek Community Club; Loose Creek Immaculate Conception Catholic Church Finance Committee; and Immaculate Conception School Foundation.

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Dr. Kathleen Robbins has joined the St. Mary’s Lake Clinic as a primary-care physician for patients of all ages. Before joining St. Mary’s, Robbins practiced for many years as a family physician at another clinic in the area. A graduate of the University of Kansas School of Medicine, she is boardcertified in internal medicine. For more information about Robbins or St. Mary’s Lake Clinic, call 573-964-5599 or visit LetHealingBegin.com.

KOMU 8 News announced the hiring of Brittany Pieper as evening co-anchor, who joins Angie Bailey for KOMU 8 News at Five and Jim Riek for KOMU 8 News at Six and 10 as well as KOMU 8 News at Nine on MidMissouri’s CW. Pieper comes to KOMU 8 News from KSLA in Shreveport, La., where she was an anchor and reporter covering education. She is a graduate of MU, where she earned degrees in journalism and political science, and got her start in broadcast news at KOMU 8 as a student reporter and anchor.

Dan Diedriech is the new vice president for advancement at William Woods University. With this role, he is responsible for the departments of development, alumni relations, marketing and university relations.

Most recently, Diedriech was senior director of development for colleges and units at the University of Missouri-St. Louis. Before that he served three years as assistant vice president for college relations and 10 years as vice president for institutional advancement at Westminster College. Diedriech also spent eight years as executive director of university relations at Lincoln University after nine years as news director, anchor and reporter at KRCG-TV. Nationally certified by the Public Relations Society of America, he also holds Bachelor of Journalism and Master of Arts degrees, both from MU. Jennifer Gerling received the 2013 Donald R. Mueller Memorial Service Award from the Home Builders Association. Every year the Home Show Committee chooses an individual who has displayed unselfishness, honesty and dedication in his or her efforts while serving on the Home Show Committee. JC 40 | May/June 2013

New and Emerging Businesses 1. Three Story Coffee

3. Canterbury Hill Winery and Restaurant

For coffee to be great, it should be great for everyone: That’s the motto behind Three Story Coffee, a new coffee-roasting company on Dunklin Street. The business works directly with the farmers who provide its coffee and answers questions, educates customers on what brings the coffee from farm to cup and teaches the stories behind the farmers who grow it. Standard 12-ounce bags of coffee from Brazil are $9.50; Honduras, $10; Costa Rica Decaf and Breakfast Blend, $10.25; Ethiopia, Burundi, Sumatra and Guatemala, $10.50. Two-ounce sample bags and five-pound bags are also available.

Proprietors: Tony and Sarah Anderson Address: 122 E. Dunklin St., Jefferson City

"The Hill," as it’s being referred to, opened its doors under new ownership in March. The newly renovated space boasts a stunning view of the Missouri State Capitol and features a full-service, American-style restaurant, expanded bar, authentic dining in the barrel room and an 18th-century wine cellar. The winery will be open Tuesday through Saturday and available to rent for business meetings, parties and weddings.

Proprietor: DJ Drury Contact: 573-893-9966 Address: 1707 S. Summit Drive, Holts Summit

4. Sawadee Thai Cuisine With the opening of its second location in Jefferson City on Missouri Boulevard, Sawadee is making a name for itself as Jefferson City’s premier brand of Thai cuisine. The prices are reasonable, with most of the meals less than $10, and the wait staff is attentive and quick.

Proprietor: Chim Duncan Contact: 573-659-8425

2. The Twisted Canvas This art and social studio is located in the heart of downtown Jefferson City, where customers can learn to paint while enjoying wine and appetizers. The studio caters to a night out with friends, date night, a group experience with coworkers or even just a chance to meet new people. Classes are every Saturday at 6:30 p.m.; Thursday and Friday classes are announced at the beginning of the month on the business’s Facebook page and website, thetwistedartcanvas.com or Facebook. com.artwithatwist.

Proprietors: Mike and Mary Johnson Contact: 573-644-9989 Address: 219 E. High St., Jefferson City

5. High Handsome Men’s Exchange Jefferson City’s new men’s exchange and consignment shop specializes in men’s classic, clothing, shoes and accessories.

The store features selective, gently worn designer clothing — casual and professional — including labels such as Joseph A. Bank, Brooks Brothers, Burberry, Gucci, Ralph Lauren and more.

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Secrets to healthy living According to a recent study by the National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health, stress-related ailments cost companies an estimated $200 billion yearly in increased absenteeism and tardiness. Between 70 and 90 percent of all employee medical visits are linked to stress, causing productivity loss and job tension.

When someone has elevated levels of stress for an extended period of time, it causes wear and tear on the body. If the body gets stressed in any fashion, the brain goes into the fight or flight response and releases the chemical cortisol, which immediately elevates blood pressure, constricts muscles, makes you tense and propels vital organs into overdrive. Over time, the body stops producing the components necessary to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Side effects are significant, including high blood pressure, thyroid problems, weight gain and low levels of testosterone in men.

Within the past five years, researchers have had enormous breakthroughs on how the brain impacts the body. The newest concept found to reduce stress is learning how to lower your cortisol levels without always relying on diet and physical exercise. Always is the operative word because diet and exercise are proven to be vital parts of a healthy lifestyle, and you should never reduce or eliminate these activities.

What we are learning is that by having a true “connection” with people, the brain releases chemicals that automatically reduce cortisol levels. Research shows the fastest way to master this is by giving someone a non-sexual hug. By hugging someone, the brain immediately feels a connection and releases chemicals that will lower cortisol levels. Another way to release these chemicals is by

B y m a t t c o we l l helping someone in a sincere way or by performing random acts of kindness. By providing a sincere thankyou or doing something for someone without being asked, the brain releases chemicals, making you feel better. We find this is actually harder for men because it is not typically an acceptable norm and doesn’t feel “manly.”

Although stress is unavoidable, how your body responds can be improved through traditional methods such as diet, exercise and cultivating a positive mindful state. So, men, to reduce stress levels, you need to focus on these five areas, in addition to diet and exercise: 1. Sleep eight to nine hours per night.

2. Drink five to seven liters of water a day; our brains and bodies are severely dehydrated.

3. Eat four to five small meals a day.

4. Do random acts of kindness or hug someone (though most HR people will not allow this).

5. Take a break every 45 to 60 minutes, get up, move around, change your mental focus; taking your mind off work for a brief period of time will reduce stress.

In my executive leadership classes, we have developed a weekly planning tool that requires each individual to list three things he or she will actually do to help others within that week.

How impactful do you think this is on a personal level? Now transfer that to a corporate level. If everyone in your company would do three things weekly to help others, well, my friend, it’s a game changer. JC Matt Cowell is the president of Ascend Business Strategies in Jefferson City.

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One of Jefferson City's most high traffic locations, the intersection of Missouri Blvd. and Stoneridge Pkwy., houses the latest hub of big box stores.

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In With the New Attracting franchise business in the capital city proves crucial but challenging “It’s easier to get into the CIA than to get into

ber in the Jefferson City News-Tribune and on

Chick-fil-A,” jokes Miriam Brewer, senior di-

two local TV stations, but the company does

rector of education and diversity for the In-

not list the new location on its website and re-

ternational Franchise Association, a trade in-

fuses to confirm that the restaurant is coming

dustry lobbying organization based in Wash-

to town, though a spokesman did confirm the

ington, D.C., that provides opportunities for

company is expanding and that central Mis-

those wanting to learn about the franchising

souri is a growth market for the brand.

industry and best practices for franchisees and franchisors.

Local developer Rob Kingsbury, vice president of real estate for Farmer Holding Co.,

Attracting franchises is a complicated

wouldn’t disclose any companies he is target-

game for tight-lipped people who can keep

ing or techniques he uses to attract retailers

secrets. Because loose lips sink ships, those

and franchises to Capital Mall. “It’s much like

on the front lines don’t reveal anything that

fishing,” he says. “You go out and try to get

might scuttle the next big deal.

that line in the water as many times as pos-

Just ask Larry Kolb, owner and broker of

sible in a given day. If you catch more than

Kolb Properties. “We have a lot of confiden-

10 fish in a given day, it’s a pretty good day of

tiality agreements with these people when we

fishing, but you have to throw your line in the

start working with them,” he says. “They don’t

water 100 times to catch those 10.”

want us just coming out and saying who we’re working with.”

T h e f r a n c h i s e g a me interacts with

Reports of Chick-fil-A’s plans to build a res-

politics as well. When City Manager Nathan

taurant in Jefferson City near Lowe’s on Mis-

Nickolaus joked about Chick-fil-A’s decision

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ropolitan area than Columbia during a City Council meeting in March, it made local news. He says he doesn’t know why Chickfil-A picked Jefferson City over Columbia, but attracting franchises ultimately boils down to providing something companies and customers want.

Nickolaus suggests that Jefferson City might be willing to do more to attract a franchise such as Chick-fil-A than Columbia because the capital needs the business more. “Certainly on Chick-fil-A, I told my staff specifically to do everything you can to make this project happen,” he says. “If there’s an obstacle, you let me know, and we’re going to try and find a way around it because people in Jeff City want a Chick-filA, and we’re going to try to get it for them.”

Despite many laypeople believing that economic development means attracting retail stores and that it’s something the city should be doing, Nickolaus says the city doesn’t have any organized program to attract franchises.

“Economic developers have always shied away from retail,” he says. “The theory behind it is that it doesn’t do any good to attract a Subway, for instance, because all you are doing is taking away business from the local McDonald’s.”

However, pull factor, or the ability of a city to entice people to spend their money elsewhere, is an important economic reality for Jefferson City, he says. Many Jefferson City residents travel to Columbia to eat in restaurants and shop in stores.

“Jefferson City has a negative pull factor,” Nickolaus says. “Columbia has a positive pull factor.”

A lt h o u g h m o s t p e o p l e t h i n k o f restaurants when they hear the word franchise, franchising today means far more.

The top 50 of Entrepreneur.com’s list of fastest-growing franchises for 2013 includes janitorial supply companies, fitness and exercise studios, tax preparation offices, power tools, learning and study centers and haircutting establishments. Nickolaus says one franchise he keeps getting requests for is Bonkers, a family fun chain.

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Brewer says franchises checking out a comFor instance, Home Depot will only locate munity look at several factors: census numon the corner of two highways, and Jefferson bers, income level of the population, other City has not been able to provide a site that businesses in the market, potential for ecofills that requirement, so the city attracted a nomic development in the community and Menard’s instead, Nickolaus says. However, the capabilities of individuals approaching some chains show some flexibility with their them. Even regional loyalties may play a role. rules. Cracker Barrel typically locates on the She knows people who live in either St. Peintersection of two major roads, but the lotersburg or Tampa, Fla., who won’t patronize cal site the company looked at a few years businesses in the neighboring city. Likewise, ago didn’t fit that criterion. The restaurant she says she knows peoultimately decided not ple in Washington, D.C., to come to Jefferson City who won’t spend money because of the economic in nearby Baltimore. downturn, he says.

Each company has difAnother factor might ferent desired criteria for be whether a community choosing a site. Although is perceived as business Jefferson City, with about friendly or receptive to 43,000 residents, is smallthe needs of businesses, er than nearby Columbia, says Matt Biskup, mar— Matt Biskup, marketing keting director for the with about 110,000 residirector, Franchise Opportuni- Franchise Opportunidents, Brewer says some ties Network in Atlanta ties Network in Atlanta, companies might choose Jefferson City over a colwhich facilitates matchlege town such as Columbia because the capiups between franchisors and franchisees. It’s tal city’s population is less transient. also important, he says, to understand that “They want to look for people who have there are only a few national franchises, such deep roots in the community and are not goas Chick-fil-A, out of the 3,000 or so compaing to be packing up three, five or seven years nies that are actively franchising and instantfrom now to go someplace else,” she says. ly recognizable across the country.

According to Brewer, the majority of “For the smaller ones, one of the most inChick-fil-A restaurants are franchisee owned, teresting things about franchises is that these and only a few are corporate owned, so the are local and regional concepts for the most usual route to getting one means contracting part,” Biskup says. “The great majority of acwith a local franchisee. Still, it probably won’t tual units is owned by smaller concepts in be long before Chick-fil-A moves into Cosmaller markets with smaller, local or relumbia and other nearby towns because the gional impact, and they grow from there. chain tends to follow a regional approach to You may think they’re national in their footgrowth, says Donna Maxwell, a broker with print, but they’re really regional.”

Kolb Properties.

To illustrate his point, Biskup says he worked in California in 1999 and 2000.

While traveling with some co-workers in N i c k o l a u s s ay s h e h a s n o t i ce d North Carolina, the Californians didn’t recsome trends: franchises never locate outside ognize half the restaurant brands, such as city limits; a high-traffic location is usually the Applebee’s and Waffle House. most important factor; they never want to be pioneers and prefer to locate alongside simiI n a 2 0 0 7 IFA study of franchises across lar businesses; they want a site near a fourthe United States, Jefferson City had about lane road; high-speed Internet access is cru1,800 total franchise establishments, 500 cial; and they always have odd rules about othfewer than Columbia, Brewer says. Interester businesses in town. ingly, the number of franchisor-owned es“The rules seem kind of Byzantine to me,” tablishments was nearly the same in both Nickolaus says.

“A franchise is going to be more invested. They don’t want a failure.”

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cities — 286 in Jefferson City and 288 in Columbia — and Columbia had 1,995 franchisee-owned establishments versus 1,400 in Jefferson City. Franchisor-owned stores usually have a corporate owner, while franchisee-owned stores usually have a local owner.

Maxwell says the franchise market is extremely complex, and it is important to differentiate between larger and smaller companies. Big-box and junior-box retailers typically are company stores and not franchises, she says, and some restaurant chains such as Darden or Brinker set up corporaterun eateries, while others are looking to grow through franchise development.

Kolb and Maxwell both say they attend trade shows and talk to individual companies to find out how they want to grow and if they are interested in Jefferson City. “We may call on a company, and they say, ‘Well, if we can find a franchisee, then we might take a look at Jefferson City, but until we have a franchisee interested in locating in Jefferson City, then no, we are not going to build a corporate store here,’” Kolb says.

About 10 percent of the available independent franchise concepts are listed on his company’s website, franchiseopportunities.com, and similar sites, Biskup says, and those listed are franchises that are currently seeking additional units.

“Not all franchise companies are always in growth mode,” he says. “They will typically add units, then digest the growth by adding the requisite support staff and systems and then go back to growth mode. When they’re not in growth mode, you’ll find they don’t promote their concept as aggressively and thus are more difficult for a prospective franchisee to encounter.”

The timing on both ends of a franchise purchase has to be just right, Biskup says.

For a deal to happen, the franchise must be in growth mode in the area where a potential franchisee wants to open a business.

E a c h f r a n c h i s e h a s different needs, and many are in niche industries. One interesting niche franchisor, Biskup says, is Dental Fix, which repairs dental machinery on site at dentists’ offices. Another rising field is senior care, with franchises that target an aging population with services such as in-home medical care, nursing home advice, personal shopping and transportation.

Many franchises are also seasonal, with sales mainly at the beginning of the year, such as Physicians Weight Loss and Diet Center Worldwide. Another seasonal shop is Liberty Tax, a tax preparation firm that opens up kiosks at malls during tax season.

“Every one has its own little recipe, but it’s absolutely about market size and opportunity based on demographics, growth trends and real estate pric— Matt Biskup es,” Biskup says.

Likewise, when communities show growth, retail and franchises follow. People tend to focus on retail growth when they should be looking at jobs, Maxwell says, pointing to the growth in Texas right now because of the oil industry.

Unfortunately Jefferson City’s growth pattern is not good right now, Kolb says. “The world has changed since 2006. When the people at Wildwood Crossings came here, those stores were looking for growth in a community. They said, ‘Well, we have 10 stores in Kansas City and St. Louis; let’s put a smaller store in Jefferson City.’ That all has stopped.”

Kolb says many of the best franchises today get calls with offers from all over the country, and many of the companies are struggling themselves and expect a community to give incentives. “They say, ‘Sure, we’ll

“Every one has its own little recipe, but it’s absolutely about market size and opportunity based on demographics, growth trends and real estate prices.”

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take a look at Jefferson City — for free rent,’” he says.

Some chains today, such as Subway, are overly saturated in particular markets and may prefer to focus on areas where they haven’t maxed out their growth opportunities, Biskup says. In fact, he says the focus for many mature franchises today is overseas, such as China or India. Those franchisors that, in the past, would have placed a large store in a community might expand in smaller markets with smaller versions of themselves, sometimes even as small as a mall kiosk, or they might share a store with another brand.

W h y c h o o s e a f r a n c h i s e ? A franchise has done it before, knows the business and its industry and supports the new franchisee, Biskup says. Suddenly the independent operator has a deep team of people behind him or her who can adjust, tweak, lean on lending sources and deal with the political arena locally and nationally through the International Franchise Association.

“You strap on this backpack of a really high-quality team with a really smart real estate guy, a really smart finance guy and really smart, product service and marketing people,” Biskup says. “A franchise is going to be more invested. They don’t want a failure.”

When choosing a franchise, do your homework, and hire a franchise attorney, Brewer says. Talk to current franchisees, and learn about the competition.

“It’s just like a marriage,” she says. “So pick that franchise concept wisely.”

Nickolaus says Jefferson City is rethinking the conventional wisdom about cities not working to attract franchises and might put some economic development money toward doing so.

“It is what people want,” he says. “Part of government is simply making people happy.

If that’s what people want, then that’s what we need to do.”

Above all, communities are realizing that franchisors are the tip of the spear when it comes to small-business growth, Biskup says. “I love entrepreneurship, and this is the most refined form of entrepreneurship that there is.” JC

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Missouri Fly-Fishing Destinations

1) Bennett Spring: A beautiful and popular spring branch steeped in history and tradition, Bennett is just a short 15-minute drive from Lebanon. There’s plenty of back-casting room and three fishing zones: one for fly anglers, one for artificial lure anglers and one for bait anglers.

2) Montauk State Park: Located on the headwaters of the scenic Current River, this is an Ozark gem. There’s a fly-fishing-only section and special catch-and-release areas with monster trout. They are well educated, but if you are lucky enough to fool one with a fly, you will have a fight on your hands you won’t soon forget.

3) Roaring River State Park: Roaring River offers an amazing small-stream trout-fishing experience in southwest Missouri.

Wading is prohibited on most of the stream in the park. A special catch-and-release section allows for wading.

4) Meramec Spring Trout Park: Owned by the James Foundation, Meramec provides a great opportunity for trout fishing just an hour and a half down the road from St. Louis. Enjoy the fishing, and visit the old iron works and museum while you’re there.

5) Lake Taneycomo: Taneycomo offers an excellent opportunity to fish a tailwater fishery. Cold water is released below the dam from deep in the lake and provides the perfect temperature for trout. Many record rainbow and brown trout have been caught on this popular stream. JC For more information about Missouri trout fishing or fishing prospects for 2013, visit mdc.mo.gov.

Jefferson City has a Capital City Fly-Fishing Club that promotes fly-fishing and conservation in the central Missouri area. To find out more, visit capitalcityflyfishers.org.

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is a stream coordination biologist for the Missouri Department of Conservation, a nationally recognized master fly tier and fisherman and host of the show The Tying Bench. Visit his website thetyingbench.com, or catch his show Sundays at 6 p.m. on KMOS Channel 6.

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Family: Wife, Sherri Education: College for Financial Planning, CFP; The American College, CLU/RHU Community involvement: American Heart Association, YMCA, Chamber of Commerce, Boy Scouts Association, Knights of Columbus, The Food Bank Score Against Hunger, West Side Business Association, Wardsville Lions Club, QDMA Why I’m passionate about my job: I enjoy helping people; I enjoy helping people and employees grow our business.

Biggest career obstacle I’ve overcome and how: Starting Wallstreet from scratch took a lot of hard work and long hours. We started in 1987 in a spare bedroom of my house. Back in the early days, if you didn’t get there at 4:30 a.m., you were the last person there at night. It required long hours and dedication.

Favorite Jefferson City charitable or community organization and why: Jefferson City has so many great charitable organizations. If I have to choose one, it would be the Score Against Hunger through the Food Bank.

This program helps feed the children, and no child should go hungry in our community.

Accomplishment I’m most proud of: The growth of Wallstreet Group and the longevity and dedication of our employees.

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Favorite place to spend Saturday afternoon: At the Lake with my wife. We have a place there and enjoy boating and being out on the water.

Last book read: Race for Relevance by Harrison Coerver Favorite TV show: The Big Bang Theory Favorite comfort food: Ice cream — any flavor!

Favorite app: WTSO, WineTilSoldOut. com: The company features and sells all different kinds of wine at 30 percent to 70 percent off and delivers them straight to your door.

Dream vacation: Dive trip to Truk Lagoon and Palau.

What is something that has changed your life? On May 27, 1999, I lost four of my dear friends/work peers in a plane crash in which my partner and two employers died.

Secret aspiration: I always wanted to be a singer. Unfortunately, I cannot carry a tune at all. My favorite is Jimmy Buffet. When I was in grade school at St. Stanislaus, I sang in the choir, but the nuns actually preferred that I lip sync.

Source of inspiration: Don Buffington, my high school basketball coach. He always encouraged me to be the best I could be, even when we were running lines.

Favorite hobbies: I love to hunt and fish: Montana elk hunting, Canada bear hunting, Missouri turkey and deer hunting and crappie fishing at the lake. JC

It’s possible It’s possib to turn a plain old bathroom into the peaceful retreat you’ve always wanted.

Just ask Mindy & John Murray of Wardsville. With the guidance of Mid City Lumber’s Interior Designer, Gayla Schanbacher, the Murray’s upgraded their bathroom’s ordinary 3’ foot shower into a much larger luxurious walk-in shower with multiple shower heads, glass and travertine marble tiles, and oil rubbed bronze fixtures complete with very easy to clean custom glass doors.

You can make it happen in your home, too.

Call Mid City Lumber and ask for Gayla, or Casey Anderson, about how It’s Possible.

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Filling the Void The Boys and Girls Club of the Capital City continues to raise the bar in its effort to support area youth

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The Boys and Girls Club of the Capital City achieved an amazing goal last year, but the organization isn’t content to rest on its laurels. This year, BGCJC is looking to improve on its successes.

“Last year we raised enough money to eliminate the membership fee for our members,” says Stephanie Johnson, executive director.

“Our enrollment tripled in a year, and we went from 20 scholarships to over 200.”

Johnson is thrilled with reaching the goal. “We weren’t serving the population we needed to be serving,” she says, “but being able to offer additional scholarships allows us to help more children, and there are always more ways we can serve the kids.” Previously, scholarships were provided to children from low-income families who receive free or reduced lunches.

T h e r a n g e o f n ee d s v a r i e s ; sometimes the need is due to having a working parent(s) or absentee parent. Sometimes the need is for help with a child struggling in school. Whatever it might be, the Boys and Girls Club is there to help.

That’s something BGCJC staff member Donell Burns is thankful for. Burns grew up in Chicago and attended the Boys and Girls Club there. He lived in a not-so-great neighborhood with limited afterschool programs. “The club saved my life, so to speak,” he says.

Now, Burns feels he’s come full circle. “I’m able to give back to the kids. I can tap into my childhood experiences and help because I was like these kids are. It’s rewarding.”

In addition to doing away with the membership fee, the BGCJC started offering hot dinners at the club because hunger is a major concern for some of the children in the program. The club served more than 10,000 hot meals last year.

The organization has a three-prong approach for the program and the kids it serves: academic success, good character and citizenship and health and fitness. To continue offering these services to mid-Missouri boys and girls, the organization has three fundraising events scheduled for 2013.

Fork and Cork is an evening of culinary decadence when area chefs offer samples of their specialties, and local wineries and breweries offer tastes of their products. The event not only benefits the BGCJC, but it also introduces citizens to local talent and businesses.

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Scheduled for later in the summer is the everpopular, tongue-in-cheek Men of the Club pageant.

Also planned is the annual giving campaign: for 2013 it is It Just Takes One. Also new this year is the Youth Opportunity Tax Credit. Any donation more than $250 receives a 50 percent state tax credit.

“One hundred percent of the profit from the events and the United Way campaign underwrites these programs,” Johnson says. “Without these, we’d have to go back to charging a membership fee.”

Last year, Fork and Cork raised $50,000; this year’s goal is $60,000. The Men of the Club event

Last year we raised enough money to eliminate the membership fee for our members. Our enrollment tripled in a year, and we went from 20 scholarships to over 200.” — Stephanie Johnson, executive director, BGCJC raised $35,000 in 2012, and the goal is to maintain that amount or, of course, increase it. The giving campaign raised $30,000 last year, and the 2013 goal is $35,000.

N o t o n ly d o e s BG C J C need monetary donations, but volunteers are also welcome.

“Math tutors are our biggest need,” Johnson says. Or if someone has musical or artistic talents and is interested in interacting with the kids, he or she can contact the club. Volunteer opportunities also exist for facility maintenance and clerical work as well as assisting with the fundraising events.

The Boys and Girls Club is open during the school year Monday through Friday from 3 to 7 p.m. and weekdays through the summer from 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. The club also operates at South, East and Pioneer Trails elementary schools throughout the school year from Monday through Friday until 6 p.m. and offers an afterschool snack to members. JC

For more information on organization needs and how to donate, visit bgcjc.com.

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Business profile

Driving Business Fischer Body Shop

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By Jim Muench It all began as a high school project, restoring a Model A that Curt Fischer drove in his town’s bicentennial parade in 1976. A next-door neighbor mechanic in Lohman, Mo., helped him restore the Ford, a model first produced between 1928 and 1931, and taught him the auto body trade, Fischer says. By the time he graduated from Russellville High School in 1979, he was ready to open his own business, the first Fischer Body Shop in the small town 10 miles west of Jefferson City.

“I took off out of a two-car garage and just kept growing,” he says.

Fischer operated in Lohman, population 163, for more than 25 years. He had opened an estimating office on Missouri Boulevard in Jefferson City that sent business to his Lohman shop but decided to dive into the Jefferson City market by opening a brand new shop in November 2005 on West Main Street near Gerbes West.

Tw o e v e n t s c a me together that drove the decision to move to Jefferson City, Fischer says. A huge hail storm swept through central Missouri that month and provided too much business for Fischer to handle alone. It was also during this time that he discovered the manager of his Lohman operation had embezzled funds and had to be fired. Meanwhile, Fischer hired his oldest son, Devin, who was in business school, to run the dayto-day business. It was Devin who urged his father to move the business to a larger market.

Devin, now Fischer’s business manager, at first wanted to expand to Columbia, but Curt didn’t want to locate that far from home, he says. So they chose Jefferson City, erected a spacious new building and never looked back. Since that move, the duo has kept it a family-run business as another of Curt’s sons, Chase, has joined the business to work alongside his elder brother and father.

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more, the plastics in cars now that they want Years later, they couldn’t be more pleased with you to mend now, and there’s a lot more alutheir decision to move to Jefferson City, as the minum now, so you’ve got to be able to weld business now performs more than 1,700 jobs a a lot of aluminum and repair those panels,” year, grosses more than $6 million annually — Fischer says. quadruple the amount of Fischer’s original shop Although his first love was restoration of in Lohman — and employs 24 people — three classic cars, Fischer no longer takes on that times the number of his original shop. type of work because restoration jobs tend to “As we were building this place, every body sit while other work takes precedence. “It’s not man from every body shop was coming by fair to the customer for it to just sit and sit and wanting an application, seeing the brand new sit, so now we have a couple of different guys building going up,” Fischer says. “So, we had who restore cars that we send our customers the ability to choose from the best, and today to,” he says. we simply have the best people in the industry.”

Leon DeLong, a retired warrant officer with Fischer’s now provides such services as dentthe National Guard, has brought several veless paint repair and mechanical repairs, which hicles to Fischer, most memorably his Shelare handled in a second building north of the

by Mustang, which was new from the factory first. The 24,000-square-foot complex is combut had some dimples and hair in the paint. “I pletely state of the art and also houses Fischer took it back to the dealer and asked them to Glass, a separate automotive, commercial and fix that, and they said, ‘Well, residential glass business, they in some cases, it’s better off to added in 2011.

“I took off out of leave it because it might turn Fischer works on all makes a two-car garage out worse than it was,’” DeLong and models of cars, but his speand just kept says. “So I took it to Devin, and cialties are Honda and Hyungrowing.” — Curt Devin said, ‘Shoot.’ And I think dai work, he says, as his shop Fischer, owner, within 30 minutes, he had his has done all the work for JefferFischer Body Shop guy come out, and they buffed son City’s Honda and Hyundai them out and polished it, and shops for years. All of Fischer's you can’t tell they were there. That kind of sermechanics and estimators are I-CAR Gold cervice brings you back.” tified, a $1,500 investment per employee a year.

The majority of the Fischers’ business is toTim Sigmund, an attorney in Jefferson City, ward insurance collision work. Fischer says he has brought the Hondas he and his wife own, has 10 direct-repair contracts with insurance a Pilot and a CRV, to Fischer. “They do woncompanies and four fleet contracts with car derful work,” he says. “I’ve had a couple run-ins rental agencies. His drive-thru estimating bay with deer, and they’ve been able to fix the car like is what has been a big help to insurance combrand new. They couldn’t fix the deer, though.” panies as it gets them out of the weather and in a controlled environment so they can complete W h e n l o c a l c a r dealers were struggling, more accurate estimates.

Fischer helped by taking over the auto body opFischer’s worst job ever? Premier Bank erations for the GM dealers in California and Elhired him to air file putty on the seams of faux don. He still runs the shop in Eldon, though the columns outside of a new building in 110-deCalifornia shop has since reverted to the local gree heat. dealership there, says Fischer.

“It was terrible,” he says. “It was the worst The shop even repairs 18-wheelers and the thing I could’ve ever asked for. I wanted to bow bullet-proof assault vehicle of the Cole Counout so bad, but I finished it. It was miserable.” ty Sheriff ’s Department, but most of the auto In contrast, however, he says the move to Jefbody work is 90 percent routine, he says. ferson City was a great idea: “Jefferson City has “The big things now are the high-strength been nothing short of spectacular.” JC steels that the common welders don’t weld any-

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A Story of Success

A true example of the power of perseverance, Christopher Sutton shows young men in the Boys and Girls Club’s Passport to Manhood program that their futures are in their hands

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By Lauren Sable Freiman

Christopher Sutton is a high school graduate who attended Lincoln University on a basketball scholarship before continuing on to graduate school.

He is a husband, father of three and the coordinator of student development and civic engagement at Lincoln University. He is also the volunteer coordinator of the Passport to Manhood program at the Boys and Girls Club of the Capital City.

“I was raised in foster care and emancipated at the age of 18,” Sutton says. “Individuals who worked with programs like this helped me overcome the shortcomings in my life.”

According to Stephanie Johnson, the club’s executive director, Boys and Girls Club organizations across the country implement the Passport to Manhood program for boys ages 11 and older.

The 14-week program is taught by men who serve as guiding forces for the kids, many of whom are lacking male role models in their lives.

“When we look at so many of the kids here, sometimes they have tunnel vision and can’t see beyond the poverty they live in and the circumstances of their life,” Johnson says. “College and career are so far beyond them, and that’s why we like Chris and guys like Chris to come here and show them they can do anything.”

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He is a success story. He made his way out of a difficult childhood, got a degree, a master’s degree, and he has a career and family. He is what we want our kids to aspire to be.” — Stephanie Johnson, executive director, BGCJC

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P r o v i d i n g p o s i t i v e m a l e role models resonates strongly with Sutton, who says growing up in abusive foster homes didn’t lend itself to achieving the success he has enjoyed. He says he’s indebted to those who took interest in his potential and mentored him along his path to success.

“I really feel obligated and take great pride and passion in helping students develop into productive individuals,” Sutton says. “When I was given the opportunity to give back what was given to me, I jumped at it. Empowering and engaging youth is what I want my life’s work to be about.”

So Sutton spends two or more hours every Saturday morning with about a dozen young men and addresses a variety of topics to help them find both academic and personal success. Sutton and other volunteers talk to the boys about goalmaking, conflict resolution, wellness, substance abuse, how to respond to authority, relationships with girls, characteristics of a good father and more. Many times, the sessions run longer than they’re scheduled.

“There are some interesting questions posed, and we want to be sure we address those in depth,” Sutton says. “We try to cover the whole gamut and be creative in doing so.”

When a graduation ceremony marks the program’s official end in June, Sutton says the group will still meet. Sutton and Johnson are discussing ways to keep the boys engaged, such as camping trips, field trips and using the graduates as mentors for the next group of boys.

“This experience just reinforces that there is a strong need for positive male role models now more than ever,” Sutton says. “A lot of the boys are struggling with real life issues, and they have no one to turn to.”

T h e Pa s s p o r t t o M a n h o o d program is one of the most important programs the club runs, Johnson says, and Sutton is doing an exceptional job connecting with the boys.

“He is a success story,” she says. “He made his way out of a difficult childhood, got a degree, a master’s degree, and he has a career and family. He is what we want our kids to aspire to be. To watch these teenagers, they have a great deal of respect for Chris. They are very courteous to him and responsive to him. He is amazing.”

While the boys enjoy Sutton’s leadership and attention, their mothers have also validated the program and Sutton’s work. When they were invited to meet him and learn more about the Passport to Manhood program, they echoed sentiments of appreciation and hope, Johnson says.

“He had the moms tell him that as single mothers, they had done all they could, and they needed help,” Johnson says. “They said they’d raised boys, and now they needed to become men, and they needed a man to help them do that. The moms were so grateful to him. One was in tears. It was interesting to watch the dynamics of mothers at their wits' end, seeing Chris as their savior, like he can be the one to save their son’s life. He can reach the boys on a different level, and they look up to him.”

For Sutton, the positive feedback helps him know he is successfully reaching his goal of shaping the next generation. He says he takes great pride and responsibility in influencing the development of future leaders.

“If there weren’t people who did that for me, I wouldn't be where I am,” he says. JC

For more information about the Boys and Girls Club of the Capital City’s Passport to Manhood program, visit bgcjc.com.

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Some Like It Hot!

Brothers Tommy and Timothy Stewart turn Hades Honey into a growing business

Stewart settled on a habanero jelly he called Hades Honey for its “hot as hell” yet “sweet as honey” flavor.

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B y He a t h e r S h i e l d s

Hades Honey-Glazed Rack of Lamb This recipe requires a good amount of heat, so you might want to grill the lamb over very hot coals or oven broil or convection bake at 500 degrees F. Ingredients: • ¼ cup apple cider • 2 tablespoons Hades Honey • 4 tablespoons brown sugar • 1 rack of lamb (Make sure the meat is at room temperature before cooking.)

• olive oil • salt and pepper • juice of 1 lemon Instructions: Preheat the oven to 500 degrees F. While you wait, prepare the glaze. In a sauce pan, combine the apple cider, Hades Honey and brown sugar. Mix ingredients over low heat until sugar and jelly have dissolved.

Rub the lamb with olive oil, salt, pepper and lemon juice. Then sear the lamb, bone side up first. Once seared, leave bone side down, and baste often until well caramelized.

Cooking time is 15 to 25 minutes.

Use a meat thermometer to determine the desired amount of cooking: 125 degrees F is medium rare; 165 degrees F is well done.

Once you have cooked the lamb, be sure to let the meat rest for 15 minutes or so before cutting it to ensure the natural juices don’t run out onto the plate. This also allows the meat to finish cooking while it cools.

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Brothers Timothy and Chef Tommy Stewart

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When a customer presented Chef Tommy Stewart with a large box of habanero peppers, starting a business didn’t even cross his mind. “I wondered what I could do with all those peppers,” Stewart says. His creativeness kicked in, and after a few experimental recipes, Stewart settled on a habanero jelly he called Hades Honey for its “hot as hell” yet “sweet as honey” flavor. And, like any person who has garden-made goodies, Stewart handed out jars of Hades Honey to family and friends.

The idea for the business came when Stewart’s brother, Timothy Stewart, ran out of Hades Honey while living in Texas. “I was having a barbecue and thought I could just pick up a similar product at the store,” Timothy says. “I purchased several products, but none were close to Tommy’s jelly.”

Upon returning to mid-Missouri, Timothy noticed that people were routinely bringing Tommy empty jars to replenish.

“I thought the demand for the product was sufficient to support local sales,” Timothy says. And, Hades Honey, the business, was born.

“I told him I’d make the jelly if he, being the attorney, would handle the paperwork,” Tommy says with a laugh. “That seemed fair.”

A s d em a n d f o r t h e i r product grew, the brothers went from making and batching the jelly themselves to using a bottler to mass produce it.

“We are expanding into 88 Ace Hardware stores throughout the Midwest,” Tommy says. “They have a huge barbecue niche in each store, including sauces, marinades and such, and Hades Honey is a perfect fit.”

Locally, Hades Honey can be purchased at Schnucks in Jefferson City and Columbia, Westlake Ace Hardware, Schulte’s IGA and Gerbes West in Jefferson City, Moser’s stores (except Jefferson City), Green Acres Market in Kansas City and Paul’s Markets in Osage Beach.

“It’s a unique and different flavor, a sweet heat,” Tommy says regarding the appeal of the all-natural Hades Honey. “The flavor of the habanero is fruity yet full bodied. It’s not overwhelming.” JC

Looking for more recipes? Visit hadeshoney.blogspot.com for Hades Honey Barbecue Hot Wings, Hades Honey Barbecue Sauce, Hades Honey Rutabaga, Hades Honey Chili and more.

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the dish

Zesto’s Championship Barbecue With the first day of summer comes the instant craving for mouthwatering barbecue. Satisfy your taste buds with a brisket sandwich, side of spare ribs, cheesy potato salad, smoked baked beans and a perfect strawberry shake that’s not too sweet but not too milky either.

Food for Thought:

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number of Boston butts, whole briskets or racks of spare ribs the Zesto’s barbecue pit can cook at one time.

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average number of ice-cream cones the restaurant goes through on a busy summer day

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gallons of ice cream mixed annually

1950

the year the oldest food menu item, the footlong chili dog, has been served at Zesto

Secret weapon: Zesto owner Chris Wrigley says the secrets to great barbecue are to not get in a hurry, to cook over indirect heat and to use 7-Up to take out the bitter taste from burnt barbecue sauce. It’s no wonder he’s won 200 competitive barbecue contest awards throughout the Midwest and nationally, including ninth out of 540 teams in the American Royal in Kansas City and 51st out of 1,500 teams nationally with the KC Barbecue Society. JC

Zesto's, 1730 Jefferson St., 573-659-7117, zestodriveinsouth.com

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Hairstyles That Stand Out This Season

Tips from Marshall & Co. master stylist Freddy Gonzales.

From short and neat to long and coiffed, we’ve got all the best men’s hairstyles for 2013

In 2013, we are seeing men in retro yet modern-style haircuts.

They have the satisfaction of a clean-cut and fun feeling.

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The classic wedge:

The pompadour:

the Short crop:

This medium-length cut can be worn messy or in a clean blow back.

This short, popular haircut shows a nice transition between skin-tight sides and a long top.

This is a look for men who want their hair clean and short on the sides.

It can be short to medium on the top for a casual feel when it’s styled.

Products to create this look: Blow dry with

MENSDEPT Cream I or II depending on the thickness and texture of the hair, and then finish with MENSDEPT Forming Paste using fingers or a wide-tooth comb.

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Products to create this look: Blow dry with Aveda Men PureFormance Grooming Cream in the direction you want the hair to go. Then finish with Aveda Men Pure-Formance Pomade and a wide-tooth comb.

Products to create this look: Use MENSDEPT Grooming Cream I or II, blow dry and then finish with MENSDEPT Microtech. JC

Don’t be shy about booking a manicure, pedicure and massage. They help create a clean, polished, professional look and are great de-stressors after a hard day at work or the gym.

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Put on Your Game Face

Dr. Chandra Pasad, FACS, is medical director and owner of JCMG Laser and Vein Center.

Dr. Chandra Pasad, M.D. FACS, shares trends and tips in men’s skin care

Commonly Provided Services Laser hair removal: Men frequently lose hair where they want it and acquire it where they least want it. Laser hair removal is safe, effective and cost effective. Popular areas of treatment include the back, beard and chest.

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Recommendations

BOTOX/filler: BOTOX cosmetic is the most popular cosmetic treatment to address facial wrinkles. It is safe and reproducible.

It can be done in a few minutes in the office with no downtime or significant pain. Fillers address volume loss in the face. Men generally lose volume in the aging face, and filler can restore a more youthful appearance quickly with an in-office procedure with little to no downtime.

Skin-resurfacing procedures: Microdermabrasion is a quick, painless procedure that removes the top layers of dead skin and gives it a smoother, more youthful appearance. Also, topical products will be more effective as they are in contact with the healthier layers of the skin. Chemical peels are very effective in smoothing fine lines and uneven skin tones. They also can lessen the appearance of age or brown spots on the face.

Lasers have a wide array of uses but commonly are used to treat facial blood vessels, soften wrinkles and remove age spots from the face.

Men’s skin care products: Men most commonly use cleansers and moisturizers.

Around 40 percent admit to using these products. Also, 25 percent are using some type of acne topical skin care product.

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Multiple clinical studies have proven its ability to rejuvenate the skin as well as its superiority over other growth factor-containing products.

3 Daily Physical Defense Sunscreen: This is another absolute must have. The basis for all the age-related issues is ultraviolet exposure. If you don’t protect your skin, you will not see the results you want. I recommend this to everyone. This protects your investment in your skin and slows future development of sunrelated problems.

2 Lytera: This brand new skin-brightening product is designed to remove those brown spots caused by years of ultraviolet exposure.

Safer than hydroquinones, it will soon replace those products in our office.

4 Tri-Retinol Complex: Retinols have been used reliably for years to reduce wrinkles and promote increased cell turnover. This causes more youthful-appearing skin. Our Tri-Retinol is a must for healthier, more youthful skin. It has been proven to be as or more effective than popular prescription-strength retinol formulations. JC

BOTOX and dermal fillers are the most popular procedures among men, who now account for just less than 10 percent of all cosmetic procedures. Men’s cosmetic procedures have increased more than 100 percent since 1997.

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book review

Trapped in the Underground Review of Neil Gailman’s Neverwhere

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Richard Mayhew leads a boring, negligible life, pushed around at work and by his fiancée, Jessica. Then everything changes. Although Richard and Jessica are running late for a critical dinner, he stops to help a bleeding, unconscious street urchin named Door.

Door is a resident of London Below, also known as The Underground, and Richard’s new involvement with this wounded otherworlder leaves him in a trapped dimension, which allows him to slip through the cracks and become invisible/nonexistent to London Above. The only chance of getting back his old life is to accompany Door on a dangerous mission to find her parents’ killers.

Gaiman excels at creating another world and surreal surroundings. There is a steam-punk feel to this novel, though it was originally published in 1997, well before the steam-punk craze. If you missed this one a few years ago, it’s well worth the read now. It was Gaiman’s first full-length novel, which he adapted from his BBC urban fantasy television series by the same name. JC

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Richard’s new involvement with this wounded otherworlder leaves him in a trapped dimension, which allows him to slip through the cracks and become invisible/nonexistent to London Above.

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Metal artist Don Asbee works in his studio near Hartsburg, Mo.

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With metal for his canvas and a hammer as his brush, Don Asbee creates both functional and nonfunctional works of art b y F a y e Z u mw a l t P h oto s b y c h r i s h o l l away Metal is Don Asbee’s canvas, and a hammer is his brush. With them he creates beautiful metal art that graces several homes and public places in Jefferson City as well as Columbia, St. Louis and the Smithsonian Museum in Washington, D.C. But it’s from a studio near Hartsburg, Mo., where Asbee forges his functional and non-functional creations.

A former blacksmith, Asbee has a clear passion for what he does, from the creative process all the way to the finished products.

“Well, you couldn’t do it if you didn’t,” he says. “I love the fire, and I love the hot steel. I love building something that makes the metal dance and that will last.”

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Influenced by the patrons who commission his work in terms of size and materials, Asbee’s true artistry comes into play as he creates pieces to fit his clients’ visions. All of his works are one of a kind.

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Both the size and material of Asbee’s works are often influenced by the patrons who commission them, such as The Firley Gates on West Truman Boulevard, which were commissioned by the late Art Firley and reflect his love of fountains. Asbee’s Algenesis Revisited, commissioned by the National Biodeisel Board and on display in Jefferson City, is made of wrought iron and, at the clients’ request, recycled materials including repurposed travertine stone from the former exterior to the building.

“We wanted to reuse something distinct from the building,” says Donnell Rehagen, chief operating officer for the board. “We want people to recognize you can take an old resource and turn it into a new one.”

More than just a matter of fashioning materials to suit a particular space, Asbee’s true artistry comes into play as he creates pieces to fit his clients’ visions. “Featuring images from nature, Asbee’s wall sculpture represents biodiesel’s future be-

cause many researchers believe algae will yield the next big breakthrough in biodiesel production,” Rehagen says. “Asbee did a good job of crafting a sculpture that fit naturally in a tall, narrow space.

He did an exceptional job of capturing what we wanted him to do.”

I n a d d i t i o n to l a r g e - s c a l e pieces in public spaces throughout the city and state, Asbee’s art adorns several private Jefferson City homes with stair rails, fireplace grills, light fixtures and nonfunctional sculptures.

“Don was referred to me by a friend; his work did not disappoint,” client Marsha Dubbert says.

“Because our dining room is open to our foyer and staircase, I was hoping that he would be able to incorporate into the staircase a design from a stained-glass piece backlit over our dining table.

This, perhaps, would not have been an easy feat for the average, but Don is not the average.”

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From freeform sculptures to commissioned pieces to fireplace grills and light fixtures, Asbee’s work runs the gamut from non-functional to functional art.

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Because Asbee’s work is creative and original, customers will never find their pieces duplicated elsewhere.

T h e r e ’ s a c o l l a b o r at i v e element to a number of Asbee’s pieces, and it’s not uncommon for him to work with other artists, craftsmen or designers for various projects. Nuva Awacu is Asbee’s current apprentice, whose impressive resume includes forging table legs for an entire Starbucks restaurant. Despite his experience, however, Awacu’s previous work made use of premanufactured components, and he was eager for the opportunity to learn from Asbee and take his skills to another level.

Asbee also collaborates with designers, including his close friend Martha Daniels.

“The great thing about Martha is she is really quick about picking up something,” Asbee says. Daniels sometimes accompanies Asbee to client meetings and draws quick thumbnail sketches to capture their visions.

Such sketches beforehand are not unusual. In fact, Asbee often creates a full-sized detailed drawing and a metal sample of part of the design for approval before building the final product.

De s p i t e t h e h a r d w o r k — both mental and physical — that goes into Asbee’s art, the artist intends to continue his craft into the foreseeable future. “This is how I get to continue doing forge work well into my autumn years,” he says. “I have machinery that really takes a lot of strain off of my body.” He points to a machine labeled Smack-O-Matic, which uses 250 pounds of air pressure to move a cylinder up and down at about 140 beats per minute.

“I made this myself,” he says. “It really rocks. It’s fun.”

For littler items, Asbee uses a smaller air hammer that better fits the scale. Despite the availability of these tools, however, much of the work must still be done using traditional methods. So with hammer and anvil in hand, the artist happily forges ahead. JC

Below: Asbee and apprentice Nuva Awacu (right) work on their latest piece.

Watch Asbee transform metal into art at his Hartsburg studio: youtube.com/ watch?v=A2cF-Zlr5zo.

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Dream Car / Q&A

Jacob Vogel

What is your dream car?

Black BMW. To me, a BMW represents a very business-like and classy car that’s still powerful and sporty.

sales/marketing, Jefferson City Coca-Cola Bottling Co.

What would be on the license plate? CokeIsIt What would be playing in the car? Classic and alternative rock, Red Hot Chili Peppers What was your first car?

Red Cherokee. I had an unfortunate wreck in it while driving to high school with my sister in the passenger seat.

Traffic slowed dramatically, I was hit from behind and my car turned over and slid 30 yards on its side. I’ve been wearing a seat belt ever since.

On Jacob: G. Alexander’s new midnight blue Maxwell tuxedo with a black shaw lapel and matching flat front pant with classic black cummerbund and bow tie as seen in the James Bond Skyfall movie. All clothing from Samuel's.

2013 BMW 750 Li x Drive Sedan

Color: Black Sapphire over Black Napa leather

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With a cockpit to make a private jet jealous, the BMW presents its highest benchmark: the 7 Series. BMW, one of the most admired car companies in the world, first introduced the 7 Series sedan in 1977. Since then, it has remained a pinnacle of technology, luxury, driver dynamic control and an unparalleled athletic-handling-capability vehicle. It’s a true prime contender for the emotional engagement of people who love to drive.

With a new TwinPower Turbo V-8 and eight-speed Steptronic transmission, 445 horsepower and 480 pound-foot of torque, it zips from zero to 60 mph in just less than 4.8 seconds.

With this car, drivers have the authenticity of sure footedness at all times in a sexy, elegant and saucy ride.

This model offers a sleek profile with spacious accommodations. The head-up display projects vehicle speed and driving information on the windshield directly into the driver’s line of sight on a rather bold and sporty rocker panel offered in a luxury sedan.

Newly redesigned iDrive is now installed at eye level on a 10.2-inch LCD screen. The car also features soft-closing automatic doors and front and rear heated massaging seats upholstered in Napa leather. The massaging rear-seat feature uses 12 air chambers to relax the back muscles through wave-like movements from top to bottom while six rotating elements work the back from the shoulders to the lumbar region.

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Dream Car / Q&A

Nick DeSimone

What is your dream car?

A pickup truck. My must haves are: four doors with 20-inch chrome wheels, completely blacked-out interior draped with black leather, along with every conceivable luxury and electronic feature available.

owner/general manager, Kwik Kar Wash and Detail

Why? Through my eyes, the truck has always represented people who can do anything. They are a gritty representation of utility, hard work, toughness, perseverance and success.

There is a deep-rooted history within the machine, and I just can’t help but appreciate what it has driven people to accomplish.

What would be on the license plate? DO WORK What would be playing in the car? The music would be a mix of Southern rock, old country and some throwback ’80s.

What was your first car?

My first car was an ’82 Pontiac Firebird.

Mike Jones, football coach, Lincoln University

On Nick: White V-neck T-shirt by Ralph Lauren, Cremieux Jeans, Jason Dark Brown Belt by Fossil, Ralph Lauren Denim Shirt with Aztec Accents, Gold Aviator Sunglasses by Ray-Ban from Burns Optical

2013 Chevrolet Silverado Crew Cab

Color: White Diamond

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The Silverado represents true strength and power at its core and packs the work ethic that doesn’t ease up even when you’re out seeking adventure. With its power, comfort and fuel efficiency, this truck is always up for the task. The top-of-the-line Silverado offers a 5.3-liter V-8 with 315 horsepower and 335 pound-foot of torque.

This vehicle is loaded with extra conveniences such as an auto-dimming inside rearview mirror, fog lamps, remote vehicle starter system, heated outside mirrors with integrated turn signal indicators, heated and cooled leather-appointed front bucket seats, 20-inch chrome wheels and rearview camera.

The Silverado also includes GM segment-exclusive automatic locking rear differential, which provides added grip when you need it; a USB port; Bluetooth for select phones; Bose seven-speaker sound system; and OnStar Vehicle Diagnostics, which automatically runs hundreds of diagnostic and maintenance checks and then sends you results via email.

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Mike Jones

What is your dream car? Blue S550 Mercedes-Benz, fully loaded

football coach, Lincoln University

Why? My rookie year in the NFL, I was an undrafted free agent with the Los Angeles Raiders. When you make a team, most players usually reward themselves with a gift. The first thing I purchased was a white 10-speed bicycle.

I purchased it to ride from my apartment, which was about a mile away from our practice facility, in El Segundo, Calif. The parking lot would be filled with all kinds of exotic cars, and I would show up on a white 10-speed bicycle. My teammates said I was pulling up in my white 550 when I arrived to work. I chose blue to represent the Blue Tigers of Lincoln University.

What would be on the license plate? 10SPEED What would be playing in the car? Anything R. Kelly has written What was your first car?

Burgundy 1972 Chevrolet Impala Mike Jones, football coach, Lincoln University

On Mike: Jet-black Kenneth Cole Suit (100 percent worsted wool with luster), White French Cuff by Pronto Uomo from Men’s Warehouse, Blue and Black Paisley Silk Tie by Pronto Uomo, Sunglasses provided by Coach Jones

2013 Mercedes-Benz S550 4Matic

Color: Magnetite Black over Cashmere/Savanna

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With pioneering performance and safety, the new Mercedes-Benz S550 sedan is not only a flagship, but it’s also a beacon for the automotive industry. Introduced in 1972, the S-class has ranked as one of the world’s best-selling special class vehicles.

As many of the company’s latest innovations and drive-train technologies advance, a seven-speed automatic transmission paired with a B.Turbo V-8 produces 429 horsepower and 516 pound-foot of torque, which allows the S550 to go from zero to 60 mph in 4.5 seconds.

The Mercedes-Benz S550, always impeccably dressed, proves an effortless and luxurious ride with the quality feeling of success and sophistication.

The S550 features Night View Assist PLUS with pedestrian detection; as you drive in darkness, this option can project infrared beams that are invisible to the human eye, read them with a special camera that provides a real-time view of the road ahead on the 8-inch dash screen and identify and point out pedestrians along a dark roadway.

Advanced Parking Guidance surveys parallel-parking spots for size as you drive by them. The seats automatically increase lateral support in cornering maneuvers and offer soothing massage and heat. The car also allows mobile application for iPhone and Android so users can send addresses directly to the navigation system and remotely lock or unlock doors. There’s even an iPad docking station and in-vehicle hot spot.

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Dream Car / Q&A

Burl Lutz

What is your dream car?

Corvette 2013 ZR1 Supersonic blue metallic

owner, Lutz’s BBQ

Why? The performance and the looks What would be on the license plate? BEST-BBQ What would be playing in the car? ZZ Top “La Grange” What was your first car?

A 1960s Volkswagen Beetle in primer gray. It ran for about three weeks before giving out. Then I had to invest in a bicycle.

Mike Jones, football coach, Lincoln University

2012 Chevrolet Camaro Convertible 2LT

On Burl: Baird McNutt Linen Camp Shirt by Murano, Cremieux Jeans, Black Aviator Ray-Ban Sunglasses from Burns Optical, Leather Jacket and Boots by Burl

Color: Victory Red

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Clean, precise, deliberate and precision engineered for speed and efficiency, the Camaro is styled to be unmistakable. With its creased lines, sculpted rear shoulders, large-diameter wheels and deep-set eyes, you won’t be compromising good looks, even with the top up. If you want fast acceleration, great handling, rip-roaring V-8 muscle-car sounds, daring design inside and out and decent highway mileage, the Camaro is for you. The RS package is automatic and boasts 3.6-liter V-6 with 323 horsepower and 278 pound-foot of torque.

Deep-bolstered seats promote comfort even on the longest road trips. Engineers also optimized the steering wheel with more pronounced thumb grips to give drivers top-level response and control with a luxurious feel.

The modern design includes OnStar and standard Bluetooth, which helps keep you connected and your eyes on the road.

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Jason Hoffman

What is your dream car?

Black and gold vintage Volkswagen convertible

CFO/COO, Jefferson City Public Schools

Why? I have two boys who are 6 and 4 years old. We play the slug bug game.

My 6-year-old is very competitive and loves rules. He created a point system for each color of bug. The more rare the color (purple or pink), the more points it is worth. Vintage bugs are worth many more, and convertibles get two bonus points. We generally have a team of boys vs. parents. It is very competitive, and the boys almost always win.

What would be on the license plate? GLF BZS (Golf Boys) or something to do with Mizzou. All of us like to play golf.

What would be playing in the car? Coldplay (It’s the best concert I’ve ever seen). I guess it’s not too cool to say sports talk radio.

What was your first car?

1986 Buick Regal

On Jason Short-sleeved Wellington Stripe Pique Shirt, Tech Solid Quarterzip Vest in Sunset, Tech Twill Flat-front Shorts in Lagoon. All clothing from Fairway & Greene Spring Line.

2013 Volkswagen Beetle 2.5 Convertible

Color: White with Titan Black interior A car for today with a pulse on its past, this vehicle comes in three different styles of models to represent the ’50s, ’60s and ’70s, with each containing characteristics from that generation’s original design.

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Additional features: 1960s Model

Volkswagen has designed three different engines for the car: a 2.5-liter five cylinder, a Turbo Sport engine and a Turbo Diesel engine, all with different performance expectations and fuel economy. The fully automatic convertible top requires no extra assistance from the driver, which makes it easy and fun to use on beautiful summer days.

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Nobody said living the American dream was easy. ‌ Where do you draw the line between the government providing a good public service and hurting private enterprise?

When it comes to government-run facilities competing with locally owned businesses, is there a line between providing good public service and hurting private enterprise?

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Let’s say you own a shoe store. You’ve invested a lot of money, sweat, time and tears into this venture. It’s your life, your livelihood — the American dream.

Work a long day, go home, kiss your wife, eat dinner, watch TV, pet the dog, go to sleep. Repeat.

But then you find yourself in competition with a government-owned shoe store. Not only does this shoe store not have to pay taxes, but it’s also supplemented by tax-payer dollars. Let’s call this Uncle Sam’s Shoes. For many, many years, Uncle Sam’s was the only shoe store in town — and it was not run very well. People grumbled about the lousy shoes and the condition of the store.

As a result of this grumbling and discontent, privately owned shoe stores, including yours, opened

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up to provide a higher-quality service. The folks at Uncle Sam’s saw what was happening. Lo and behold, they made their shoe store much better, with great shoes at great prices.

Although the prices at your shoe store are competitive, you believe Uncle Sam’s is undercutting you. It often offers lower prices and better deals.

Uncle Sam’s is able to advertise more than you, at our expense.

Nobody said living the American dream was easy. It really doesn’t matter if it’s shoes, clothes, cars, burritos or, in this case, golf courses and softball fields. Where do you draw the line between the government providing a good public service and hurting private enterprise?

You decide.

W h at t o o k s o l o n g ? ( pa r t o n e ) Oak Hills used to be called Hough Park or, as it was affectionately known, Rough Hough. Back in the day, it seemed to have as many rocks as blades of grass.

“I know a lot of people were begging for that place to be upgraded,” says Dan Baumgartner, owner of Turkey Creek Golf Center. “But they would not spend the money to make it better. They were just keeping the money.”

Enter Turkey Creek. And Railwood Golf Club. And Eagle Knoll, Redfield and Tanglewood.

“These other places opened up, and all of a sudden, they decided to upgrade Oak Hills,” Baumgartner says. “They didn't need to before because people didn’t have any other place to go unless you belonged to a country club.

“If that golf course would have been maintained like it should have been and been kept in good condition, you wouldn’t have seen these other courses open up,” he continues. “So they should have left it the way it was, or they should have made it a nice facility long before they did.”

The city dumped a lot of money into Oak Hills with Zoysia grass and newly designed holes. It is no longer rough. It’s good.

“Our improvement plans were in place long before these other courses took flight,” says Bill Lockwood, director of Jefferson City Parks and Recreation. “I think it’s a benefit to all of us to have good, healthy programs and to offer people alternatives.”

Says Railwood’s Jim Johnson: “I think the bottom line is that the Parks and Rec is directly competing with us and these other courses. We were here to meet that demand when they weren’t doing it. It’s not their role to keep up with the Joneses, so to speak.” ✩✩✩ W h at t o o k s o l o n g ? ( pa r t t w o ) Just like Oak Hills, the Binder Complex softball fields were a mess — perhaps even somewhat dangerous — for many, many years, with bumpy, harder-than-granite infields and jagged chain-link fences that were falling down.

“There were a bunch of us who asked the city to please fix these fields; we begged them,” says Brad Copeland, co-owner of the Fields of Legends, which opened in 2004 in north Jefferson City. “They refused to do it. That’s what prompted us to build Fields of Legends.”

In their first year, Copeland says his four-field facility took half the teams from Parks and Recreation leagues. Shortly after, Parks and Rec dumped a sizable amount of money into improving the fields at Binder.

“They knew they had to do something,” Copeland says.

“The city is trying to compete against everybody instead of trying to help people succeed in business. They’re not putting their dollars where they should be. It almost appears these people are jealous of others coming in. I don’t hate all

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government, but I hate it when they do what they’re not supposed to do.”

Says Lockwood: “Those (Binder) fields needed a ton of work for eons. Again, we had such a backload of capital improvements, but we had those improvements in mind for many years.”

G o v e r n me n t- o w n e d facilities not only pay no taxes, but they also receive tax dollars.

“Obviously, that’s a big advantage for them,” Baumgartner says. “Then they go to the high schools and undercut me and take the high schools away from me, for the driving range and other things. I don’t mind the competition, but if you’re going to do that, you should have to pay taxes and not receive tax money.”

Says Johnson: “They have so many competitive advantages. Besides the taxes, their equipment and machinery, they get discounts that we can’t even approach. I’m not against the golf course being there; it’s been there a long time. But just provide a basic service for the people.” “ T h e c i t y ’ s l o o k i n g to cut back in all these different areas — the Fire Department can’t get money — and the Parks and Rec is spending all this money on advertising and everything else,” Baumgartner says. “I just don’t get it.”

Oak Hills loses about 33 to 35 percent on its investment every year. “That’s about right,” Lockwood says.

As for undercutting the competition: “I don’t know what they’re charging compared to what we’re charging,” Lockwood says. “We just try to be in line with the market.” “ I ’ m n ot a g a i n s t the Parks and Rec,” Baumgartner says. “I’m against the Parks and Rec’s competing against businesses. They have plenty of mowers. Why don’t they start mowing grass? There’s great money in mowing grass.

It’s the same thing with these golf courses.”

Says Lockwood: “We hope all of these entities succeed. One size doesn’t fit all.” JC With nearly 29 years of journalism experience, Tom Loeffler has become a fixture on the local sports scene. Tom is now a sports columnist for KRCG and connectmidmissouri.com.

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UNDER CONSTRUCTION COMING SOON: New digs for our newborns and moms!

115 Madison St. Jefferson City, MO 65101 573.632.5000 • www.crmc.org

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BIRTH ANNOUNCEMENTS Mason Schae Steinbeck Parents: Tyler & Molly Steinbeck Weight: 8 pounds 9 ounces length: 21 inches

Parents: Bobby & Rhiannon McKee Weight: 6 pounds 11 ounces length: 19.5 inches What do you look forward to the most as your child grows up?

We are anxious to see what kind of personality she will have and what her interests, talents, and dreams will be. She is such a blank slate at this point, the possibilities are infinite.

Marley Leighann Gemmill

PHOTO BY: AMY FAITH PHOTOGRAPHY

Layla Jean McKee

What is the best lesson you’ve learned from parenting? To enjoy every single moment, even those moments when he is crying or up all night.

One day I will look back and miss that!

parents: Kristina Hector & Benjamin Gemmill Weight: 7 pounds 10 ounces length: 19 inches

Trinity Nicole Kretzer

Parents: Steven & Stacy Kretzer Weight: 7 pounds 14 ounces length: 21 inches

What has surprised you most about being parents? I had to learn how to do things with one hand while holding a baby. And with my eyes closed when I am half-asleep in the middle of the night.

How has being a parent changed you? Having my daughter gave me a whole new outlook on life. Now it’s not all about me; it’s all about her. I spend every moment of everyday with her, until I go to back to school for a degree in Accounting. Before I had her, I didn’t care what happened, but she made me want to do something with my life.

If you have given birth at Capital Region Medical Center and would like your baby announcement on the Jefferson City Magazine website and possibly published in the print edition of the magazine log on to www.jeffersoncitymag.com to submit your announcement and picture.

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Jayden Ryan Schaffer

Parents: Keith & Tiffany Schaffer Weight: 7 pounds length: 20.5 inches How has being a parent changed you? Being a parent has changed my sleeping schedule for starters. Having a son keeps me on my toes and keeps me busy. I feel like I have the world in my arms when I hold him. What do you look forward to the most as your child grows up? The memories we will share as he gets older and the things that he will learn.

Irie Lyn Cornejo

Parents: Gerardo & Staci Cornejo Weight: 7 pounds 8 ounces length: 20 inches

Aaron Evoritt Thomas

Parents: Matt & Megan Thomas Weight: 6 pounds 2 ounces length: 19.5 inches What is your favorite moment so far? Watching my older son give Aaron kisses on his head and tell him he loves him. What is the best lesson you’ve learned from parenting? Patience, always have patience with them.

PHOTO BY: J BRUSS PHOTOGRAPHY

What has surprised you most about being parents?

How fast time goes by now. We wish we could stop time just to watch her, but she is not going to stop growing now. How has being a parent changed you? Our newest addition has been the greatest one. She definitely completes life and has an entirely different meaning to it.

Carl Jackson “Jack” McGeorge Parent: Art & Beth McGeorge Weight: 9 pounds 15 ounces length: 20 inches

What is your favorite moment so far? Favorite moment so far is watching Jack look at his big brother Sam. He’s only 4 months old but he lights up when Sam is around. I’m sure they are going to be best buds. We are looking forward to the days when they can run and play in the backyard together! It surprised me what a big adjustment we’d have going from one child to two but we’ve adjusted and have now found our new routines!

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ask eric City Magazine fashion stylist Eric Luebbert provides a forecast of this season's most flattering trends

My wife is constantly trying to get me to wear nice pants or at least a pair of khakis when we go out. I am a Levi 501 jean kind of guy. Is there a way to please my wife when we go out and still wear jeans and feel cool and comfortable?

Well Jim,

I understand where both you and your wife are coming from. I, too, love my 501s. Levi makes a lot of different styles, fits, washes and colors and is very accessible. JCP and Dillard’s have good selections in their Jefferson City stores, more variety in Columbia and also online. Distressed jeans are really hip again, but a darkwash blue jean is a must-have staple in your wardrobe.

Pair them with a dress shirt — tucked in — a cool belt, skinny tie if you like and maybe a sport coat. Casual cotton sport coats are hot this spring and can take you a lot of places. Try pushing up the sleeves. Classic ’80s shoes are back; cool wing tips, Dr. Martens, cap toe and Top-Siders will keep you in step and in style.

You’ll look dressed up, and your wife will be happy.

Ask her what your social event calendar looks like this spring and summer. If you have a lot of events, it might be a great time to invest in a light suit. Choose one that’s tailored and classic in shades of gray, blue, tan or white. It might feel good to have something new to look forward to wearing and not as hot as blue jeans.

It sounds like you might be shopping soon, so while you’re out, you might as well pick up some fresh white T-shirts, try on a pair of trendy colored light pants and see how you like those. Buy a nice pair of Bermuda shorts, and pick up something bright, maybe in the color blue. You’ll be set for a perfectly stylish summer.

Be cool bro,

Have A Style Question for Eric?

Ask Eric your style questions, arrange a closet rehab, book a special event, wardrobe reinvemtion, or discuss individualized speciality shopping by contacting him at eric@jeffesoncitymag.com or 314-660-4148

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Jefferson City native Eric Lubbert has been a wardrobe and fashion stylist in Miami, New York , Chicago and Missouri for more than two decades.

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Lax Luxe Spruce up your wardrobe with these must-have summer staples

Sperry Loafer, Authentic Original 2-Eye Shoe Navy, American Shoe, $150

Madras Plaid Pendleton Shirt

Plaid button-up sport shirts are very hip. Try them casual, or dress them up with a blazer.

Samuel’s, $58.

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J. Crew Unconstructed Ludlow Sport Coat

One of the desirable vintage Rolex watches right now is the Oysterdate Precision due to its understated, classic design, which is a strong contrast to busier-looking modern Rolex watches. Vintage Oysterdate Watch, Classic Design.

Check with your favorite jeweler or search online.

Must Haves for Men

With narrow lapels and a trim silhouette, this two-button sport coat is perfect to wear with jeans, khakis or even a pair of trouser shorts and loafers. Japanese Cotton, J.Crew, $188

Vetiver by Guerlain Roundtree and York Gold Label Non-Iron Regular or Fitted Button Down Collar White Dress Shirt

The classic white button-down dress shirt is a must have. If you’re in shape, try the trendy fitted style; if you’re not in the best shape, opt for the regular fit.

These non-iron, washable shirts will take you everywhere and look perfect right out of the dryer every time.

Dillard’s, $49.50

Levi 514 Straight Fit Jean

Never too snug or too baggy, Levi’s universal straight fit features one of its lowest rises with a straight leg that is close through the seat and thigh.

Dillard’s, $39.99

Men's Gold Cup ASV Wing Tip Oxford

Get yourself a pair of wing tips. Go classic, or funk them up with some bright laces. They’re great with shorts, jeans and slacks.

American Shoe, $160

Earthy and woodsy yet airy and bright, this classic old-school fragrance never grows old. Created in 1961 by Jean-Paul Guerlain. Be easy on the trigger; this fragrance will stay with you. It is a favorite for spring and summer. 2.5 ounces, Sephora, $77

Kiehl's Brushless Shave Cream

Sesame oil, camphor and menthol will energize and invigorate your skin for a great close shave. This is my favoirte. Kiehls.com, 5 ounces, Sephora, $19

Ray-Ban Large Metal Classic Aviator with Flash Lenses

These frames are classic yet unique in style and quality. Matte Gold Frame with Crystal Blue Mirror Lens, Burns Optical, $155

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Jc.....................................................................................................................10,11 Initially Yours................................................................................................................. 100 J Pfenny's......................................................................................................................... 41 JCMG Plastic Surgery....................................................................................................78 JCMG Laser & Vein .......................................................................................................... 6 JCMG Women & Children's Center..............................................................................56 Jefferson Bank Of Missouri........................................................................................... 51 Jefferson City YMCA......................................................................................................96 Jenny Craig..........................................................................................................................7 Joe Machens Mercedes.................................................................................................... 2 Joe Machens BMW........................................................................................................... 5 Joe Machens Volkswagen.............................................................................................. 12 Joe Machens Fiat............................................................................................................ 14 Joe Machens Mitsubishi................................................................................................32 Joe Machens Nissan.......................................................................................................33 Joe Machens Capital City...................................................................................... 44, 45 Joe Machens Hyundai................................................................................................... 60 Joe Machens Mazda....................................................................................................... 61 Jones Beltone Hearing Center.......................................................................................70 Kwik Kar Wash And Detail............................................................................................ 115 La Belle Cabinetry & Lighting........................................................................................29 Lifesong For Growth And Wellness, LLC..................................................................... 41 Longfellow's Garden Center.......................................................................................... 51 Major Interiors..................................................................................................................74 Marshall And Co.............................................................................................................. 54 Mid-City Lumber Co..................................................................................................37, 57 Midwest Block & Brick.....................................................................................................8 Missouri Credit Union....................................................................................................... 4 N.H. Scheppers Distributing Company.........................................................................24 Naught Naught Insurance Agency............................................................................... 43 On Site Oil Change..........................................................................................................76 Organize That Space...................................................................................................... 49 Paddy Malone's Pub....................................................................................................... 31 Prison Brews....................................................................................................................72 Ragtag Theater................................................................................................................74 Riley Chevrolet................................................................................................................ 38 Riley Toyota Scion ......................................................................................................... 54 Saffee's......................................................................................................................... 106 Samuel's Tuxedos...........................................................................................................76 Scruggs Lumber..............................................................................................................74 Septagon Construction.................................................................................................. 31 Signature Homes........................................................................................................... 110 Sommers Interiors.......................................................................................................... 64 Southbank Gift Co...........................................................................................................78 St Mary's Health Center................................................................................................... 3 Studio Home................................................................................................................... 64 The Blue Heron Restaurant............................................................................................23 The Ecco.......................................................................................................................... 38 The Grand Cafe.............................................................................................................. 113 The Snob Shop Exchange............................................................................................ 110 Victoria's Bridal........................................................................................................ 94,95 Whaley's Pharmacy Inc............................................................................................... 106 Wilson's Total Fitness....................................................................................................72

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The Word Is Dad The role of dad is powerful, cherished and ever changing

W B y J o h n S h ee h a n

What is in a title? What is in a name? I have carried many titles over my life: son, brother, husband and dad, among others. I cherish them all and hold dear the memories they encompass. The journey of a father, however, brings with it an extraordinary sequence of life’s events.

At the hospital, at the start, God gives you and your wife a gift — a gift of life, a gift of responsibility — and so begins the journey.

Their first steps and first words thrill, excite and bring a flood of emotions that overwhelm us and, at the same time, define us as parents, as a father.

A s o u r c h i l d r e n a g e , we begin to see their desire for independence manifest itself in many ways. We revel in it as that spirit of independence allows children to find their passion and follow their dreams. However, at the same time, we realize their dreams may take them from us. As a result, when they are small, we tend to hold them a little tighter.

As a father, the duties and responsibilities come with a deep understanding of the gift of a child we have been given. Our roles are fairly defined, and as a father, the helping hand, the consoling word and the ever-present trips to McDonald’s mark our days. Then sometimes almost imperceptibly, our roles begin to change. This is known as a role reversal, and over time our own independence bends to a dependence on the child, both emotionally and even physically. This comes with joy, a bit of wonder and maybe a little fear, too.

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The hill we climb as a dad with a young child suddenly becomes a climb we make together with our child, empowered by their love, guidance and help.

T h e h i l l we c l i m b as a dad with a young child suddenly becomes a climb we make together with our child, empowered by their love, guidance and help. We find our lives defined by their happiness and, many times, their encouragement. They assume at the outset a subtle leadership, but over time that becomes one of comfort and security to us.

Our journey as a father is ever evolving with each step steeped in wonder, each stage touched by joy and challenge but always defined by the most cherished and magical word I know — dad. JC ➝ John Sheehan has been a CPA at Williams Keepers LLC since 1989, plays an active role on the Missouri State Penitentiary Redevelopment Commission and has served as Chairman of the Jefferson City YMCA and Jefferson City Chamber of Commerce.

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