BYF Magazine 2021 Men's Issue by Beyond Your Frame Magazine

Life’s Style & Fashion Magazine BYF Magazine August, 2021 Issue

FEATURING Derek “Buck “ Williams Master & Celebrity Barber New Day Associates: International Male Model of the year Luther Parker

Evolved with Greatness

Derek “Buck” Williams

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“Your Mental Health and Exercise”

Model | Alexa Chuy

Our Coverl | Derek Williams Master Barber & Celebrity Barber

Photographer | Kareem Johnson of KJ Photography

Photographer | Simone Forgione of Simone Forgione Photography

The Barber Experience Malcolm Staples

Model | Shahndor Barnes Photos by HPegeron Photography

Cover | Derek Williams Photographer Simone Forgione

Model | Tammy Belizean Queen Photos by HPegeron Photography

Model | Rafal Pustelny Photography by Kareem Johnson

Model | Angel Rouge Photography by HPegeron Photography

Model | Chyrod Williams Photography by HPegeron Photography

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Model | Ashlei Watson Miss Uganda Gobal 2021 Photos by CT Photography

Model | Alexa Chuy, Future Gymnist Photos by Charlotte Jones

Model | Luther Parker - New Day Associates; Int’l Model of the Year Photography by Alexander Belisle

The Mental Health Benefits of Exercise

Photography by Alexander Belisle

Our Young Men in Today’s Society - Submitted by Christopher Hailey of LJC

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Model - Luther Parker

Photographer | Hank Pegeron of Marckitimagery

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Our Back Cover

John Blassingame of New Day Associates Male Model of the Year 2021

BYF POWER TEAM El Anderson Designer | Malcolm Staples Mone Moore Simone Forgione Alexander Belisle Kareem Johnson Hank Pegeron Charlotte Jones

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Creating a fashion magazine has been my lifelong goal. I hope providing you a forum to express yourself, introduce yourself or share your story is as exciting for you as it is for me. In Beyond Your Frame Magazine, I hope you find a story that touches your heart or sparks an idea you want to share. Future editions will feature tips on Makeup, Fitness, Health and What’s New & Hot in Fashion. Our photographers are equipped and ready to deliver the very best pictorial representation. Give someone an unexpected hug today. It could make a big diﬀerence in their lives.

with more Love than you know, Msel Anderson of

Beyond Your Frame Magazine

El Anderson, Editor in Chief

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The Barber Experience Insights from Award Winning Designer, Malcolm Staples Maybe because he was a relatively barber in the corner, equipped and ready to do his work. skinny brother, so perhaps that was the reason. Now you must know, not only was I surprised, I was curious if I had He was a young man known in made the biggest mistake rolling the neighborhood as an aspiring barber. But the word on the street up to a barbershop like this. was, he was a badd sumthin’ with It’s funny now, but when I look those clippers. back after all these years, how far we’ve come. He was the barber Fast forward to my introduction. spoken about by all who I spoke to. After getting the address to the A non-traditional start that leads to shop, I found myself driving lifelong success. Buck and I competed in many through a pretty decent middle competitions, won money and class community and it was not a Since this month’s magazine has it’s commercial area where traditional prestige, yet still found ourselves focus on men, I want to share a real barber shops are located. I connecting through careers in the live experience that I hope soothes stopped at the house that obtained fashion and beauty profession. the spirit. the address. Buck greeted me and sat me in When I moved to Virginia Beach, the chair and what I know now I thought for a minute that I VA back in 1989, one of the first was the beginning of a friendship was definitely in the wrong things on my to do list was to find a starting with this initial greeting and neighborhood. An elderly man reputable barber. This is not unusual answers the door and asks if I was welcome to “The Barber Shop”. for the average dude wanting to find looking for Buck? I replied “yes” someone who could provide the and he directed me to the back of I’m sharing this story as an weekly hookup on a hair cut. the house. Now, I’m thinking what illustration and real time depiction of how far we’ve come or travel to in the world. So, I trekked around We also know that finding the right our success destinations. the house and arrive at this red barbershop with the right aesthetic, brick like garage or barn. vibe and environment is essential How our humble beginnings to the barber experience. To most developed the foundation by which Nothing special, but definately men, the barbershop is more than a nothing to suggest that this was we learn to survive and thrive as place to get a trim… it becomes that the barbershop. I go in and to my God Blessed us with opportunities sanctuary where men bond about surprise it was a make shift barber beyond our comprehension. every topic under the sun in a safe spot complete with two barber environment. Nothing is off limits and chairs, an area for no more than Bucks story about perseverance no one is immune to sarcasm, jokes, two clients and a few trimmings and never giving up on your dream the dozens or anything else common complete with mirrors, extension is a great testimony for us all. to the black male experience. But, I cords, and fans. digress. My friend and lifelong barber has conquered much in his life through The gentleman who greeted me A couple of my new colleagues at the door enters and I later learn tremendous obstacles, sacrifice, suggested I go to a dude referred losses and gains. He is one of the this was Mr. Willie, Bucks father to as “Buck”. Curious minds wanted and owner of this make shift best barbers on this planet but know why did they call him Buck. more importantly, one of the best barbershop. Buck was the junior human beings I know. 6 BYF Magazine | August 2021 Issue

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Derek Williams Celebrity & Master Barber/Stylist Interviewed and written by Mone Moore

University, where he would cut fellow students’ hair.

Derek “Buck” Williams began his journey to become the master barber he is today in Chesapeake, Virginia, inside a red barn behind his childhood home where his father would cut hair after work. Derek remembers that he used to sneak into the barn and play with his father’s clippers. His father’s unofficial clients began asking Derek to give them touch ups, and to their surprise, he was a natural! With Derek’s help, he and his father’s makeshift barbershop became so busy that the city shut them down. Later, Derek attended Norfolk State

Derek won various hair shows between 1995 and 1997. In 1995, he opened his first salon in Virginia Beach called Future Styles by Buck. Then in 2002, Derek moved to LA. “I went there on faith,” He said, “I was highly successful on the East coast, and I had a lot of celebrity clients. I wanted to see how I could do on the West coast.” He began working at The Barbershop Club in LA, where he added even more celebrities to his impressive roster, including Wayne Brady, Reno Wilson, and Ruben Studdard.

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In 2009, Derek relocated to Maryland where he worked at Robert Andrew’s Salon and Spa for six years. Later in 2015, he set up a new salon in Crofton, Maryland called Groom My Style. Years later, he moved Groom My Style to West Annapolis, where it is now the first African American owned men’s salon in the area. Derek believes that relationships are the foundation of his continued success. He enjoys collaborating with his clients to give them the look they desire. “At the root of ‘relationships’ is ‘relate.’” Derek says. “No matter where you come from, the color of your skin, or your

age, we can relate to each other on some level.” That connection is what keeps his clients coming back. His clients consistently rave about his talent and personality. Testimonials: “I’ve been going to Derek for a long time.” One client said. “He is the BEST I’ve ever been to and a person I would consider a friend. He creates a great atmosphere for his clients and gives 5-star service every time. I would give him 10 stars if that were possible. Amazing guy with amazing talent.” Another client sites his friendliness and attention to detail: “This is hands down the best place in the area to handle all your grooming needs. Friendly and relaxing environment adds to the experience and sets the bar for what a gentlemen’s salon should be. Rest assured their standards and attention to detail are second to none. This is my new happy place!” And still another client added, “Derek not only listens to what you are looking for, but he executes it flawlessly. If you aren’t going to Derek, you’re at the wrong place. I’ve lived in 4 different states, and no one has come close to the talent he brings.” Would you like to see Derek’s amazing talent and personality firsthand? Book an appointment on www.groommystyle.com. Come experience the artistry and first-rate customer service Derek provides.

About the author Mone Moore is a freelance writer, editor, proofreader, and dog mom located on the East coast. When she isn’t delivering stellar content to clients, you can find her curled up on the couch crocheting or in her office crafting (always with a lot of glitter). Interested in reading more of her work or learning more about her freelance services? Check out her website: https://www.melanatedink.com/ Imagery provided by Simone Forgione Professional, Events, Headshots, Portraits Photographer, Photo Booth, located in the Washington DC area. www.proheadshotsnow.com www.laughtimebooth.com BYF Magazine | August 2021 Issue

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Model | Rafal Pustelny - @rafaloffhelog, Photographer | Kareem Johnson @kareemphotograhy123

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Chyrod Williams Model | Chyrod Williams, Photographer | Hank Pegeron hpegeron59@gmail.com | 718-564-9916 #hankpegeron #marckitimagery www.marckitimagery.com

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“Shahndor Barnes” IG @themodel_actor_sandor

Uptown & Smooth

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Photographer | Hank Pegeron hpegeron59@gmail.com | 718-564-9916 #hankpegeron #marckitimagery www.marckitimagery.com Shahndor McLean - Multi Published Model, Non Union Actor, R&B Singer/songwriter and so much more. Look for his music on YouTube and all major music platforms. Sandor - “ALL FOR YOU”. You can also find most of the films I’ve starred in on TUBI Tv - Pocket Full of Game - Foster Sin and more. My modeling career isn’t too far behind. I’ve taken a short break on the runway but I’ve been directing my own Power Shoots under Artistic Eye Entertainment. My shoots are flashy, exciting, out of the box and filled with so much energy. I’ve been going 2 years strong with my Motorcycle Photoshoots. This year

will be the 3rd Annual around the end of August. I would say my greatest attribute is cross promoting. I love working with people who have big dreams and great aspirations to accomplish what they believe is impossible. That’s my thing. And right now, I’m in Stunt School - Fight for Film. I’m learning how to make the action come alive on the movie set. Look for IN VEIN, FLESH OF MY FLESH and DRAGON SQUAD this Halloween. All by the end of the year. I’ll be shooting my next music video “SOME TYPE OF WAY” this August as well. Life is beautiful, but GOD is always 1st. BYF Magazine | August 2021 Issue 23

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Models: Sandor McLean, Tammy Belizean Queen Chyrod Williams Photographer: Hank Pegeron @hpegeron Location: Harlem, New York hpegeron59@gmail.com | 718-564-9916 #hankpegeron #marckitimagery www.marckitimagery.com

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Malcolm’s Custom-Made-To-Fit You’ll look sharp enough to cut

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John Blassingame of New Day Associates International Male Model of the Year 2021

“Luther Parker” My name is Luther Parker and my model journey began as a child in the inner cities of Cleveland Ohio. I owe my vision of becoming a professional model to my childhood best friend Maurice Luther Moore. I would go to his home before school and look at Gentlemen’s Quarterly (GQ) magazines in the early 80’s. That’s when my mind started to dream of one day when I too could become a model even though there were very few images of people who 32 BYF Magazine | August 2021 Issue

look like me in the magazines at the time. I started modeling in local fashion shows in Cleveland Ohio in the early 90’s and hooked up with a local designer which led me to a show in Newark New Jersey. This show put on several different productions and all male show, designers competition and a International Model of the Year which I entered in 1998 and did not even place so I came back to Ohio and continued to model throughout the 2000’s, honing my

skills and wardrobe which I started to acquire through local thrift stores this led me into becoming a stylist designer. Then a producer in Cleveland Ohio asked me to enter a model competition and show a feature collection too. I did both and won the competition in 2019. This peaked my interest to go back to New Jersey and take care of some unfinished business the International model of the year competition. I decided to enter and went at it with full tunnel vision

with my only focus being coming in 1st place. Covid 19 canceled the show twice in one year and it finally got underway in 2021 and guess who held the 1st place plaque up high - your’s truly, Luther Parker!

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Alexander Belisle I got into photography after I retired from teaching in NYC for 36 years. Working as a freelance photojournalist with the NYPost led to making helpful contacts. Having an official NYC Press Pass and being a member of the NYC Press Corps opened doors for me working as sports photographer for NIKE Basketball. Then, since I was always interested in fashion, I made friends with some designers and

models which led to some NYFW work. Six years ago I moved to Ohio and started working with members of the Horst Couture Design group. Soon after I met Luther Parker who was participating in and winning in local Cleveland fashion shows. Presently I am the official photographer for the Cleveland Police Athletic League (PAL).

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Ashlei

Images provided by CT Photography

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Ashlei Watson, 27. Born and raised in Long Island NY. Growing up in private school and the suburbs, she always urged for a more extravagant lifestyle. Living 45 mins away from New York City, Ashlei auditioned after being scouted for an acting agency. Little Angels was an acting agency based out of New York City. She soon came to find out after having a two year contract, that show biz was harder and more political then she could have ever imagined. Not having much success

Ashlei moved on with her life, but her dreams stayed with her. In 2018, Ashlei was crowned Miss New Jersey Earth. Pagentry provided Ashlei with the opportunity to model and to help her community. Becoming a published model being featured in several news articles and magazines, She still aimed for more. Currently Ashlei holds the title of Miss Uganda Global 2021 and this title will take her all the way to Bali Indonesia for the National Competition. In addition, this title has given her the opportunity to have her own

foundation. The Ashlei Watson Foundation strives to give back to people in need, support and empower the youth and to teach women to love themselves unconditionally. Through Ashlei Watson’s own personal life struggles, she uses her art and modeling to tell her story to break barriers and to change the narrative of what a black women should be. Ashlei strives to make a mark not just in fashion, but in the world!

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Model: Alexa Chuy, Age: 16 Photographer: Charlotte Jones of Ms CJ Photography IG: Ms_CJ_Photography MUA: Colleen-Jones Channer | Hair Stylist: Colleen Jones-Channer

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Alexa Chuy Alexa Chuy, who will start her Junior year of high school this fall, is an accomplished gymnast from New Jersey.

Alexa is currently exploring her college options with hopes of competing for a Division 1 level university.

She began her gymnastics training at the age of 5 and is currently a level 10 gymnast on her gym’s national competition team.

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The Mental Health Benefits of Exercise You already know that exercise is good for your body. But did you know it can also boost your mood, improve your sleep, and help you deal with depression, anxiety, stress, and more? What are the Mental Health Benefits of Exercise? Exercise is not just about aerobic capacity and muscle size. Sure, exercise can improve your physical health and your physique, trim your waistline, improve your sex life, and even add years to your life. But that’s not what motivates most people to stay active. People who exercise regularly tend to do so because it gives them an enormous sense of well-being. They feel more energetic throughout the day, sleep better at night, have sharper memories, and feel more relaxed and positive about themselves and their lives. And it’s also a powerful medicine for many common mental health challenges. Regular exercise can have a profoundly positive impact on depression, anxiety, and ADHD. It also relieves stress, improves memory, helps you sleep better, and boosts your overall mood. And you don’t have to be a fitness fanatic to reap the benefits. Research indicates that modest amounts of exercise can make a real difference. No matter your age or fitness level, you can learn to use exercise as a powerful tool to deal with mental health problems, improve your energy and outlook, and get more out of life. Exercise and depression Studies show that exercise can treat mild to moderate depression as effectively as antidepressant medication—but without the side42 BYF Magazine | August 2021 Issue

effects, of course. As one example, a recent study done by the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health found that running for 15 minutes a day or walking for an hour reduces the risk of major depression by 26%. In addition to relieving depression symptoms, research also shows that maintaining an exercise schedule can prevent you from relapsing. Exercise is a powerful depression fighter for several reasons. Most importantly, it promotes all kinds of changes in the brain, including neural growth, reduced inflammation, and new activity patterns that promote feelings of calm and well-being. It also releases endorphins, powerful chemicals in your brain that energize your spirits and make you feel good. Finally, exercise can also serve as a distraction, allowing you to find some quiet time to break out of the cycle of negative thoughts that feed depression. Exercise and Anxiety Exercise is a natural and effective anti-anxiety treatment. It relieves tension and stress, boosts physical and mental energy, and enhances well-being through the release of endorphins. Anything that gets you moving can help, but you’ll get a bigger benefit if you pay attention instead of zoning out. Try to notice the sensation of your feet hitting the ground, for example, or the rhythm of your breathing, or the feeling of the wind on your skin. By adding this mindfulness element—really focusing on your body and how it feels as you exercise—you’ll not only improve your physical condition faster, but you may also be able to interrupt the flow of constant worries running through your head.

Exercise and Stress Ever noticed how your body feels when you’re under stress? Your muscles may be tense, especially in your face, neck, and shoulders, leaving you with back or neck pain, or painful headaches. You may feel a tightness in your chest, a pounding pulse, or muscle cramps. You may also experience problems such as insomnia, heartburn, stomachache, diarrhea, or frequent urination. The worry and discomfort of all these physical symptoms can in turn lead to even more stress, creating a vicious cycle between your mind and body. Exercising is an effective way to break this cycle. As well as releasing endorphins in the brain, physical activity helps to relax the muscles and relieve tension in the body. Since the body and mind are so closely linked, when your body feels better so, too, will your mind. Exercise and ADHD Exercising regularly is one of the easiest and most effective ways to reduce the symptoms of ADHD and improve concentration, motivation, memory, and mood. Physical activity immediately boosts the brain’s dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin levels—all of which affect focus and attention. In this way, exercise works in much the same way as ADHD medications such as Ritalin and Adderall. Exercise and PTSD and trauma Evidence suggests that by really focusing on your body and how it feels as you exercise, you can actually help your nervous system become “unstuck” and begin to move out of the immobilization stress response that characterizes PTSD or trauma. Instead of allowing

your mind to wander, pay close attention to the physical sensations in your joints and muscles, even your insides as your body moves. Exercises that involve cross movement and that engage both arms and legs—such as walking (especially in sand), running, swimming, weight training, or dancing—are some of your best choices. Outdoor activities like hiking, sailing, mountain biking, rock climbing, whitewater rafting, and skiing (downhill and cross-country) have also been shown to reduce the symptoms of PTSD. Other mental health benefits of exercise Even if you’re not suffering from a mental health problem, regular physical activity can still offer a welcome boost to your mood, outlook, and mental well-being. Exercise Can Help Provide: Sharper memory and thinking. The same endorphins that make you feel better also help you concentrate and feel mentally sharp for tasks at hand. Exercise also stimulates the growth of new brain cells and helps prevent age-related decline. Higher self-esteem. Regular activity is an investment in your mind, body, and soul. When it becomes habit, it can foster your sense of selfworth and make you feel strong and powerful. You’ll feel better about your appearance and, by meeting even small exercise goals, you’ll feel a sense of achievement. Better sleep. Even short bursts of exercise in the morning or afternoon can help regulate your sleep patterns. If you prefer to exercise at night, relaxing exercises such as yoga or gentle stretching can help promote sleep. More energy. Increasing your heart rate several times a week will give you more get-up-and-go. Start off

with just a few minutes of exercise per day, and increase your workout as you feel more energized. Stronger resilience. When faced with mental or emotional challenges in life, exercise can help you build resilience and cope in a healthy way, instead of resorting to alcohol, drugs, or other negative behaviors that ultimately only make your symptoms worse. Regular exercise can also help boost your immune system and reduce the impact of stress. You don’t need to devote hours out of your busy day to train at the gym, sweat buckets, or run mile after monotonous mile to reap all the physical and mental health benefits of exercise. Just 30-minutes of moderate exercise five times a week is enough. And even that can be broken down into two 15-minute or even three 10-minute exercise sessions if that’s easier. Even a little bit of activity is better than nothing If you don’t have time for 15 or 30 minutes of exercise, or if your body tells you to take a break after 5 or 10 minutes, for example, that’s okay, too. Start with 5- or 10-minute sessions and slowly increase your time. The more you exercise, the more energy you’ll have, so eventually you’ll feel ready for a little more. The key is to commit to some moderate physical activity—however little—on most days. As exercising becomes a habit, you can slowly add extra minutes or try different types of activities. If you keep at it, the benefits of exercise will begin to pay off. You don’t have to suffer to get results

partner, but not easily sing a song. 2) That your body feels warmer as you move, but not overheated or very sweaty. Overcoming Obstacles to Exercise

Even when you know that exercise will help you feel better, taking that first step is still easier said than done. Obstacles to exercising are very real—particularly when you’re also struggling with a mental health issue. Here are some common barriers and how you can get past them. Feeling exhausted. When you’re tired, depressed, or stressed, it seems that working out will just make you feel worse. But the truth is that physical activity is a powerful energizer. Studies show that regular exercise can dramatically reduce fatigue and increase your energy levels. If you are really feeling tired, promise yourself a quick, 5-minute walk. Chances are, once you get moving you’ll have more energy and be able to walk for longer. Feeling overwhelmed. When you’re stressed or depressed, the thought of adding another obligation to your busy daily schedule can seem overwhelming. Working out just doesn’t seem practical. If you have children, finding childcare while you exercise can also be a big hurdle. However, if you begin thinking of physical activity as a priority (a necessity for your mental wellbeing), you’ll soon find ways to fit small amounts of exercise into even the busiest schedule.

Research shows that moderate levels of exercise are best for most people. Moderate means:

Feeling hopeless. Even if you’ve never exercised before, you can still find ways to comfortably get active. Start slow with easy, low-impact activities a few minutes each day, such as walking or dancing.

1) That you breathe a little heavier than normal, but are not out of breath. For example, you should be able to chat with your walking

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or fitness level, there are plenty of others in the same boat. Ask a friend to exercise with you. Accomplishing even the smallest fitness goals will help you gain body confidence and improve how you think about yourself. Feeling pain. If you have a disability, severe weight problem, arthritis, or any injury or illness that limits your mobility, talk to your doctor about ways to safely exercise. You shouldn’t ignore pain, but rather do what you can, when you can. Divide your exercise into shorter, more frequent chunks of time if that helps, or try exercising in water to reduce joint or muscle discomfort. Ref: thehelpguide.org

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Models: Nette Smiley and Renita Nicole

Renita Nicole & Marcia Arnsparger Santiago (wearing wio apparel) Mua: Jalissa Vasquez Model: Eddie Drawn (wearing wio apparel)

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Our Young Men in Today’s Society Submitted by Christopher Hailey

We asked Christopher Hailey, owner/founder of Lucius James Consulting (LJC), a couple questions on what he thinks about our young men in today society. LJC which provides lobbying services on behalf of numerous companies, his thoughts, if he had an opportunity to speak to some of our young men about the importance of self esteem and insp Prior to Chris’ current role at Atrium he worked for PRG Consulting as a field investigator for Duke Energy and Piedmont Natural Gas Utilities. Before PRG, he enjoyed retirement from the NC state government. While working for the state Chris was the Director of Public Safety Training at Central Piedmont Community College, a State Trooper with the North Carolina State Highway Patrol and a Police Officer in Raleigh. Chris is a graduate of Shaw University with a BS degree in Kinesiotherapy. While at Shaw he played basketball and baseball and was recently inducted into the Shaw University Athletic Hall of Fame. Chris also has a MS degree in 50 BYF Magazine | August 2021 Issue

Organizational Management from Pfeiffer University. Chris has been very active in the community and has served on numerous boards and associations including Rotary International, CharlotteMecklenburg Crime Stoppers, NC State Community Corrections Advisory Board, NC State Council for Interstate Adult Offender Supervision Board, Lake Norman Chamber of Commerce, Samaritans House and Boy Scouts of America. Chris is a native of Wadesboro, NC and currently lives in Matthews with his wife Vivian and son Nicholas. They also have two adult sons, Austin and Chris Jr. who live in Charlotte and Raleigh. Chris’ favorite pastime is helping to coach his son’s basketball teams. 1) If you were able to speak to our younger generation of men, how would you inspire them on building their self esteem? Believe in yourself! Someday everything will make sense. So, laugh at all the confusion, smile through the tears and remember that everything happens for a reason. Try

everything you ever wanted to do. If you don’t succeed, it’s not because you failed; you learned. “The happiness of our lives depends upon the quality of our thoughts.” 2) What would be your expectancy in our younger man’s future, concerning how we get along with each other as a people? Do you think respect is dying among us? My expectancy for our young men is to first respect yourself and believe you are special, unique and different from anyone else. Be and do you! Find out your purpose in life by experiencing different things, meeting different people and going to different places. Then, you can appreciate and respect differences. Everyone is smart in what they know; and everyone is dumb in what they don’t know. There is no totally smart or dumb person. We all bring something different to the table. Respect will never die, but a fool will!

For Today’s Young Men Be Respectful Help Others Live Fully Create Happiness Speak Kindly Hug Daily Smile Often Give Hope a Chance Laugh Freely Seek Truth Inspire Change and

Love Deeply

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Luther Parker NEW DAY ASSOCIATES INTERNATIONAL MALE MODEL OF THE YEAR 2021

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