Living with dementia at home

If you are concerned about persistent forgetfulness or memory difficulties, it is important to consult a GP. They can undertake an initial examination and refer you to a memory clinic for further investigation if necessary.

The various types of support available to you and your carer are likely to involve NHS services, adult social care and voluntary agencies. Some examples of services and support to help people living with dementia include: • specialist day centres; • respite care or short breaks; • assistive technology and community alarms; • home care; • meals at home;

• community equipment; • extra care sheltered housing; and • carers’ support groups.

Family support

If you know someone who is worried about their memory, encourage them to visit their GP. The more support you can give someone, the better life with dementia can be, especially in the early years. Focus on what the person can do, not what they cannot do, help with little errands or with cooking, listen to the person with dementia and find out more about the condition.

When someone is living with dementia, they need: • support to live their life;

• reassurance that they are still valued and that their feelings matter;

• freedom from as much external stress as possible; and

• appropriate activities and stimulation to help them to remain alert and motivated for as long as possible.

Dementia Friends

People with dementia sometimes need a helping hand to go about their daily lives and feel included in their local community.

Dementia Friends is giving people an understanding of dementia and the small things they can do that can make a difference to people living with dementia – from helping someone find the right bus to spreading the word about dementia.

See www.dementiafriends.org.uk for further information.

Respite care

Spouses, partners and relatives who care for a person with dementia may require a break from their caring responsibilities. This is known as ‘respite care’ and may be a regular break of a few hours a week or a period of a few weeks. It may be planned or be required in an emergency and can involve the person with dementia attending a day centre or a care worker visiting the person’s home to enable the carer to have a break. Contact the council to see if you are eligible for support with arranging these services – see page 14 for information on assessments.