Why the Most Needed Skills on a Date

Are Sometimes Not the Sexiest Ones

Some people look for other qualities on a date than just looking sexy. Others prefer seeing another aspect of a personthanjusttheirphysicalappearance.

And sometimes your date has seen it all, so they want to see something more than just that. They want to see beyond what the eyescan.Theywantsomethingdifferent.

So, let’s find out why sometimes the most beneficial skills or qualities on a date aren’t alwaysthesexiest:

1. Showing personal interest tells how interested you are. Remember you are with someone, not yourself, so avoid talking about yourself throughout. Take a personal interest in the other person,askquestions,andlistenwithinterest.

● We deem people who make everything about themselves arrogant and boring. Everyone loves to feel needed and important, so putting in the effort to show your date that they areinhighregardandvaluedmaysecureyouaseconddate.

2. Beingyourselfisbeautiful. Faking your identityis the last thing you want to do on a date. Faking to impress is a wrong move many people make. Who doesn’t love someone who is not afraid to be themselvesunapologetically?

● We admire people who aren’t afraid to own up to their strengthsandflawswiththeirheadshigh. Be yourself, show who you are, and you will find your person.

● Make the other person on the date feel comfortable to be themselvesaswell!

3. Having fun creates a relaxed environment. Going on a date is to get to know each other and have fun. Don’t unnecessarily pressure yourself to be perfect or have a perfect date. Go to enjoy the day andmakethebestoutofit.

● Avoid focusing on rushing into a relationship. A first date isn’t to decide if you want to marry this person, but hopefully go on anotherdate.

4. Sincere compliments show attentiveness, not flatter. Both gentlemen and ladies appreciate a genuine compliment, not mere flattery, to gain their attention. Givecomplimentswhenrelevantor needed, not unnecessary flattery that will make the other feel uncomfortableandcringe.

● A simple “you look great” or “beautiful” or “handsome” is fine. Still, you might want to compliment something other than their physical appearance, like or their great taste in music, intelligence,orlaughter.

5. Dressing appropriately for the occasion shows how you feel. Dressing appropriately for the occasion shows how important it is to you. Dressing inappropriately can create the impression that you do notcareaboutthedateorthepersonyouaremeeting.

● Take the time to ensure that you look your best. Wear clothes that fit well and enhance your natural, good qualities. Beclean,well-groomed,andsmile!

● Think about the setting and dress code of the location no need to overdress for a coffee date or underdress for a dinner date.Justmakesureitisappropriate.

Remember, some skills

Are

admirable but aren’t sexy. So ask yourself, “Will I give those skills or qualities a chance?” Allow yourself to see other qualities, sexy or not, and open doors to beautiful relationships you will cherish.