This Is A Direct Excerpt From The Book How To Have Great Sex 2.40 Touch Every touch has a certain intent. It may be playful, erotic, commanding etc. Keep your awareness on how you touch and what it feels to be touched. Don't think about too much, just let your body respond. Ask your lover how the way you touch them feels as well as noticing their reaction. If you are the one being touched, touch your own erogenous zones (1.71) at the same time. Blindfold your naked lover and have him/her lay down. Touch him/her with a variety of different objects e.g. your hair, feathers, fingertips, mouth, tongue, feet, sex toys, ice cubes, fur, velvet, spanking, tickling, silk, breath etc. Touch in spots that usually don't get much attention using a variety of pressures and speeds. Contrast each sensation e.g. follow a feather with an ice cube etc. Spanking can be a playful way to introduce pleasure and pain and can by incorporated into roleplay (3.62) including S&M (3.66). Strike the male on the chest and repeat it while getting more and more 'angry', or, slap her on the bum followed by a gentle rub, then repeat it on the other bum cheek. 2.41 Tantric Touch You are the dominant person and your lover is to follow your lead. Using slow flowing strokes, touch your lover in the way you want to be touched. Your lover should match the feel of your touch on you. After a while, you will be in tune with each other so you can touch each other at the same time. 2.42 Embracing Each Other Embracing can be done anytime in everyday life as well as in the lead up to sex. Soul Embrace Press your foreheads together and look deeply into each others eyes. Feel each others breath.
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