Reverse Spin

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Reverse Spin: Preseason Thoughts As I look back at my childhood, most of us were truly unaware of the consequences of the many things happening around us that occurred daily. What is the true meaning of a fire whistle? . . . Of Grandma falling and breaking her hip? . . . Of Dad losing his job? . . . And even of not making a competitive athletic team? A fire whistle isn’t just a fire: it may even signify someone’s barn and cattle have been destroyed without the owner having insurance–equating to bankruptcy. Grandma’s hip fracture medically means a 50% chance of death. Dad losing his job may mean our family having to move to another town. The inability to make an athletic team may cause one to give up on sports at a young age and thereby, pursue forensics instead of athletics. One may even come to hate a particular sport–or athletics in general–the rest of his life as a result of being “cut” from a team. In short, the ramifications of events surrounding our youth can often unfold with very little insight on our part.

Most kids are resilient and just move on, accepting the world for what it is. No one at a young age delves into the true meaning of an event at the time, primarily because none of us has developed the cognitive skills to reflect on and assess what has happened from a mature or long-term perspective. If you think an ‘F’ in fifth grade math class meant a scolding when Dad got home, you could be both right and wrong: you’d already been scolded by Mom; but if you don’t “step up,” that ‘F’

could mean difficulty in middle school and beyond. It might even lead to no college admission–statistically ending with a life long job you don’t enjoy. As children we are the product of genetics and our environment, both of which are beyond our control. As we mature though, we can make free will decisions to work harder and make more money. We can study harder and convert a ‘B’ into an ‘A .’ And we can decide to develop an athletic skill through repetitive practice. Next to the barn where I picked up my newspapers each day for delivery after school, there was what had to be the world’s worst basketball court. Usually it was frequented by the same high school player, practicing incessantly. The court had a dirt surface pockmarked with large, irregular holes and the backboard was made of old wood with cracks. The rim was bent with no net. Though only paperboys, we all had a basketball goal in our driveway many times better than this one. This court probably qualified as “third world,” but the kid playing on it didn’t seem to mind. Though he was a very good player, he was not a starter at any level at our high school–neither JV nor Varsity–yet he was happy to have a rim and backboard against the side of the barn. Given his abilities, he deserved more. Perhaps it was we who were the poorer given our disdain for his pathetic basketball court.

Over time he began to allow us paperboys to shoot with him while waiting for our papers to arrive. As I got to know him, I came to feel that he somehow had it all together. He practiced


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