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New nuncio arrives Archbishop Marek Zalewski, the new Apostolic Nuncio to the Republic of Singapore, arrived on July 12. He was welcomed by Archbishop William Goh and a reception was held for him at the Catholic Centre, where the nunciature is based. Vicar General Msgr Philip Heng and Chancellor Fr John-Paul Tan were among the 30 or so guests present at the reception. (Photo: VITA Images)

Human development through the lens of faith Jared Ng Understanding the needs and circumstances of youth at-risk, assisting the poor in their holistic development and learning about the Church’s teaching on integral human development. These were some of the issues discussed at the recent Social Mission Conference organised by Caritas Singapore. The biennial event, which began in 2008, aimed to look at the Church’s social teaching of integral human development – where the whole person is developed and all persons are included in the development of society. Cardinal Peter Turkson, Prefect of the Dicastery for Promoting Integral Human Development, was the keynote speaker at the July 21 conference held at Catholic Junior College. Archbishop William Goh, in his opening address, spoke about integral human development which includes the physical, material, psychological, spiritual and social aspects. To hinder the growth of any of these, especially the spiritual, would be to hinder true happiness, he said. Two speakers addressed the issues faced by the poor and needy in Singapore. Dr Ng Kok Hoe, Assistant Professor at the Lee Kuan Yew School of Public Policy at NUS, spoke about the challenges faced by those using social housing in Singapore. These included poor housing quality, noisy neighbours, cramped conditions and a lack of privacy. Mr Jeremy Khoo, Chairman of the Caritas Advocacy and Research Committee, shared the needs of youth at-risk. Most youth at-risk, such as those involved in substance abuse

INSIDE Offering sacrifices won’t earn you God’s blessings Archbishop Goh explains why and what you should be doing n Pages 8-9

Humanae Vitae 50 years on Conference spotlights issues raised in document n Page 4

Mr Tan Cheng Han (far left), the conference moderator, with panellists at the Social Mission Conference: (from left) Ms Teo Jin Lee, Mr Han Fook Kwang, Dominican Friar David Garcia and Mr John Lim.

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or school disengagement, often “need the presence of a supportive adult or role model,” he said. Cardinal Turkson invited participants to reflect on their unique contribution to human development. “Development is the vocation of every human being, it seeks to promote all dimensions of the human person,” he said. “Development must be shared, not limited to a few people or nations.” Participants were given a choice of three breakout sessions to attend. In the session on the elderly, two

Church-run programmes – GoodLife! Makan and Share a Pot – were shared with participants to highlight the types of services offered to seniors. These two programmes centre around food and also offer the elderly an avenue to socialise, exercise, participate and contribute to society. Participants also learned about issues affecting the elderly such as negative stereotypes, social isolation and dementia. The other two sessions discussed issues facing migrants and the family. Four speakers then shared how to move from developing persons

to developing society. Mr Han Fook Kwang, Editor at Large at The Straits Times, said success should not be measured by wealth but by acts of charity. He gave the example of the 2016 Singaporean of the Year award winner who helped an elderly stranger. Mr John Lim, Senior Director of Social Policy and Services Group at the Ministry of Social and Family Development, spoke about strengthening social services and shared what individuals can do to support the development of Singapore. Ms Teo Jin Lee, Chairperson of Agape Village, spoke about the services of the various member organisations in the social service hub. Dominican Friar David Garcia, a moral theologian, said that the laity are called to serve the Church not just in their ministries but also in their everyday life. n jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

n Exclusive interview with Cardinal Turkson on Page 5

Serving persons with developmental disabilities A look at Mamre Oaks’ outreach to the community n Page 6

A good Christian shares the Gospel All baptised called to be missionaries, says Pope n Page 17

Becoming aware of one’s own addictions Msgr Heng offers some suggestions n Page 18

Newly ordained deacon shares his thoughts Looks forward to entering priestly brotherhood, journeying with people n Page 24

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Marriage: The views from various religions Jared Ng Three religious representatives recently spoke on the topic of marriage in their respective religions of Judaism, Islam and Catholicism. Rabbi Mordechai Abergel, Ustaz Zulhilmi Mohamed and Ms Michelle Voo, a member of the Archdiocesan Catholic Council for Interreligious Dialogue (ACCIRD), shared insights on various aspects of marriage such as its purpose, customs and traditions. The July 17 interreligious panel and discussion on marriage, held at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, was organised by ACCIRD. According to Mr Gerald

Kong, executive secretary of ACCIRD, the event “provided participants with the opportunity to be acquainted with the beliefs and teachings of other religions on a given topic” which helps to address misconceptions while at the same time clarifying the Catholic Church’s stand on these issues. “This builds up interreligious understanding of the similarities and also differences across different religions and strengthens the foundations for interreligious respect and harmony,” he added. During his presentation, Rabbi Abergel said marriage in Judaism is where one half of a soul meets another. “They unite, become one flesh, one spirit,” he said.

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Also, marriage is a response to loneliness. Nothing replaces wholeness like marriage, said the rabbi. Ustaz Zulhilmi said that marriage in Islam is one way to achieve piety as well as maintain chastity. He also spoke about the Hantaran, a customary wedding gift usually in the form of money. It is given by the groom to the

bride’s family and the sum must be agreed upon by both family parties. Ms Voo shared certain values that are to be practised by a married Catholic couple such as fidelity, unity, freedom and totality – the act of giving oneself wholeheartedly to the other. During the panel discussion, some questions posed to the three speakers included: How does each religion deal with the issue of same-sex marriage? What are your views on the increase in inter-faith marriages? What is each religion’s take on divorce? The Catholic Church does not accept same-sex marriage, said Ms Voo. She said procreation was a factor in marriage and that samesex couples would not be able to produce children. Rabbi Abergel said that in Judaism, same-sex marriage is a “distortion of how life is supposed to be lived”. Ustaz Zulhilmi also shared that in Islam, same-sex marriage is not condoned. On the increase in inter-faith

marriages, Ms Voo said that Catholics have no issues with this. However, “it is a core issue” in Judaism, said Rabbi Abergel. One reason is its impact on children. It becomes hard to educate a child if he or she has multiple religious identities, he said. Ustaz Zulhilmi acknowledged that interreligious marriages “is a reality in today’s society” but is not encouraged in Islam. On the topic of divorce, Rabbi Abergel likened divorce to the “soul being torn apart” because of what it does to the couple as well as other family members. Both Ustaz Zulhilmi and Ms Voo said the act of divorce should only take place as a last resort in their respective religious traditions. This event was the second in a series this year. The first, on the topic of birth, was held in April. n If you are interested to know more about ACCIRD’s events, email gerald.accird@catholic. org.sg. jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

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equipping the laity to answer his call The GIFT (Giving in Faith and Thankfulness) campaign seeks to rally the Catholic community and raise the resources to support the archdiocese’s plan for a vibrant, missionary and evangelistic Church in Singapore. Equipping the laity with the necessary formation is therefore an important aspect of this movement. In this feature, Leonard, 39, and Cassilda, 38, share about the special journey they took together to serve God’s Church. Leonard Koh and Cassilda Koh, are a husband and wife team who have been very involved in various youth ministries for many years. “Even before marriage, ministries have always been a very big part of who we are. We are from the Church of Our Lady of Perpetual Succour, where we served in the Living Waters Youth Ministry and later in the Youth Praise Ministry (YPM). Subsequently, we served in Amplify when it was formed after Catholic Spirituality Centre (CSC) adopted YPM,” Cassilda said. Believing that marriage is “not a time for settling down”, but rather, a chance to continue God’s work with an even greater impact together, Leonard and Cassilda did not let married life keep them from leading the youth to a life of discipleship.

GOING FULL-TIME After some time in CSC under the spiritual direction of the then Rector, now His Grace, Archbishop William Goh, Leonard and Cassilda left their respective professions to devote themselves to serve the youth full-time. Leonard elaborated, “The number of Catholics in CSC kept growing. We eventually decided that we needed to fully devote ourselves in order to meet the growing needs of the youth ministry. That was when the Archbishop asked if we could see ourselves working in the Church for the long term. He suggested that we should be further trained

if we were serious about serving God and His Church.” Cassilda added, “We were always involved in formation work and not just in organising and coordinating things. So he felt that in the long run, in order for us to continue doing this type of work, we needed to build on what we knew and grow in knowledge and understanding.”

FORMATION STUDIES A year or so later, in 2016, after prayers and discernment, the couple decided to trust in the path that the Lord had laid out. This meant applying for a scholarship from the Catholic Foundation (CF) and dropping everything to go abroad. Upon receiving a partial CF scholarship grant, Leonard and Cassilda went for a two-year course to pursue the Master of Theological Studies from the Yarra Theological Union of the University of Divinity in Melbourne, Australia. “I think we were looking for a place that was both academically vigorous as well as had a strong pastoral application. We found this in the University of Divinity. At the end of each class, I realised that I was grappling with what I learned and would try to ﬁgure out how it could be applied to the pastoral, work, ministry, and the family context in Singapore. “Class was an open environment for ample lecture-student interaction, where we felt free to ask

Cassilda and Leonard Koh, recipients of a scholarship grant from the Catholic Foundation. Photo: Leonard Koh tough questions, and could listen to the different views from students of different Christian faith backgrounds. I found this really helpful. It wasn’t just theology, but lifeon-life theology that can’t be found in just any textbook,” she added. Together, they graduated and received the ViceChancellor Scholarship Award for excellence in one or more of the university’s graduate attributes, including academic excellence, contribution to the college community, and service to the wider society.

BACK TO SERVE Now better equipped with the tools to serve Him and the Catholic Community, Leonard and Cassilda have returned to their lives in Singapore, and to their ministry in CSC. Cassilda has assumed the Executive Director post, while Leonard is now the Senior Manager (Programme & Pastoral). The formal theological training has enabled them to work with the Spiritual Director

to provide formation across the discipleship spectrum, and formulate pastoral responses to the challenges of a complex societal and pastoral landscape. Cassilda explained, “The Theological education that I received has challenged my thinking and has given me a more nuanced understanding and approach to my faith. I now bring this into every decision I make, be it work, ministry or family. We are therefore very grateful for the support from CF, CSC, family members and friends, who have made this journey possible.” For Leonard, the training has taught him to keep his eye on the end point - the reason behind every action. “This is especially useful when problems arise and we know that we will make it through as long as what we are doing is something that He will get behind and send his Holy Spirit to give us the grace to accomplish what we need to,” he said.

Our archdiocese envisions a more vibrant, missionary and evangelistic Church. As the fundraising arm of the Archdiocese of Singapore, the Catholic Foundation has launched the Giving in Faith & Thankfulness (GIFT) campaign to urge every Catholic to participate in making the vision of the archdiocese a reality.

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The Catholic Foundation Scholarship Following initial interests and grants to Catholic organisations for scholarships for their staff, the Catholic Foundation decided to establish a Catholic Foundation Scholarship with an initial sum of $1 million. The scholarship programme seeks to augment efforts for the capacity building of the Catholic Church in Singapore. This includes activities that strengthen the knowledge, abilities, skills and behaviour of Church staff and that improve the infrastructure and processes to enable Church organisations to effectively meet their missions in a sustainable manner. The Fund and scholarship awards are overseen by an independent CF Scholarship Board established in November 2017. The CF Scholarship Board comprises clergy and lay professionals appointed by the Archbishop.

Scholars are expected to be Catholics undertaking pastoral and theological studies with institutes accredited by the Archdiocese and the Holy See. Upon graduation, they will be bonded to work in the Archdiocese or its afﬁliates for a number of years depending upon the duration of study. A scholarship would cover the following: • Full tuition and course fees. • Books, supplies and other (studying) ancillary expenses. • For overseas scholars: travel, accommodation and monthly living expenses. • For Church workers on full time study: a monthly allowance up to 50% of last drawn salary.

Those interested in the Catholic Foundation Scholarship can contact cfs@catholic.org.sg .

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Fake emails warning The Archbishop’s Communications Office (ArchComms) and the Chancery are warning Catholics to beware of fake email accounts and to be vigilant. The Chancery has released a notice (see below) on fraudulent emails impersonating clergy including the Archbishop and Chancellor. ArchComms, in its online CatholicSG Connect Bulletin, warned that it was possible that a PC was compromised, resulting in the theft of its contact list. The public is advised to be vigilant and wary of suspicious emails

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especially those with attachments. Most Church offices are now using catholic.org.sg email accounts and this validates the sender as an authentic user, said ArchComms. Those not yet on board are urged to email admin@catholic.org.sg. Official parish and church organisations’ email accounts should be on catholic.org.sg or their own domain accounts, and not free web email accounts. To stay informed, visit http:// www.telegram.catholic.sg. To counter fake news, visit http:// www.fakenews.catholic.sg n

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A number of clergy in the Archdiocese of Singapore have reported that they have been impersonated in fraudulent emails sent from unknown sources. These emails are addressed generically and seek considerable sums of money as a “personal request”. These impersonations have included the Archbishop of Singapore (cath.sg01@gmail.com) and the Chancellor (chancellor.johnpaul@ yahoo.com). The authorities are looking into the matter. In the meantime, the faithful in Singapore are advised not to reply to suspicious emails such as these and remain vigilant about improbable requests. Clergy who find themselves impersonated in such emails should notify the Chancery. They may also wish to send a message to their church ministries and contacts to alert them of the fraud. n

Fr John-Paul Tan, OFM, JCL, Chancellor Chancery of the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Singapore #07-01 Catholic Centre, 55 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187954 Email: chancery@catholic.org.sg

Speakers at the Humanae Vitae conference (from left): Mr Daryl Gomes, Mr Andrew Kong, Fr David Garcia, Mr Nick Chui and Dr John Hui.

Christopher Khoo For married couple Eugene and Trillion Ng, practising Natural Family Planning (NFP) has made their relationship so much stronger. Using the Church-approved method of family planning, in which they avoid sex during Trillion’s fertile period, has helped

BUILDING A VIBRANT, EVANGELISING, AND MISSIONARY CHURCH EVENTS BY THE FOLLOWING ARCHDIOCESAN ORGANISATIONS IN 2018

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Archdiocesan Commission for Apostolate of Mandarin Speaking

• Marriage Preparation Course (5, 12 Aug) • Spirituality Seminar (11, 12 Aug) • ACAMS’ Night (12 Aug) • Concert by St Cecilia Choral Group (18 Aug) • NE Seminar (19 Aug) • Chinese Migrants Retreat (22 Aug)

• Examination Mass for Students • Chinese Migrants Outreach (30 Sep)

Archdiocesan Commission for the Pastoral Care of Migrants and Itinerant People

• Happiness Workshop • Befrienders’ Formation II (2 Aug)

• Migrant Sunday (23 Sept) • Marriage Preparation Course (30 Sep)

Archdiocesan Commission for Tamil Speaking Catholic Business Network

• My Journey, An Evening with Prof Tan Cheng Han SC (2 Aug) • Career Counselling (16, 30 Aug)

• Career Counselling (6, 20 Sep)

Catholic Spirituality Centre

• CER #61 (1-5 Aug) • Revival Friday (10, 17, 24, 31 Aug) • 4th Sat Healing Mass (25 Aug)

• Revival Friday (14, 21, 28 Sep) • 4th Sat Healing Mass (22 Sep) CHARIS Donation Appeal (23 Sep)

Caritas Humanitarian Aid & Relief Initiatives, Singapore Caritas Singapore

• 10th Caritas Singapore Golf for Charity 2018 (1 Aug)

• Personal Moral Compass – Module 5: Stewards of Life (6 Sep-11 Oct) • Public Talks @ AV: Understanding Our Youths – Love and Addictions (15 Sep)

Office for Catechesis

• Archdiocese Catechetical Training Study Day (3) (7 Aug) • CEC – Answering Questions of Faith (11 Aug-8 Sep) • BCC 2 – Learning to Listen and Facilitate (14 Aug-11 Sep) • Bridging Programme: Parent Formation 4 (18 Aug) • RCIA: Bishop’s Catechesis for Catechumens (Discipleship) (25 Aug)

• Basic Catechist Course Level 1: Intro to Catechetical Pedagogy & Catechetical Methods (6 Sep-25 Oct) • CEC – Liturgical Principles (6 Sep-27 Sep) • Catechetical Awareness Weekend (8, 9 Sep) • Basic Catechist Course Level 2: Catholic Social Teaching (12 Sep-17 Oct) • Bridging Term 4: (15 Sep-1 Dec) • Basic Catechist Course Level 1: Evangelisation & Mission (Follow Up Workshop) (15 Sep) • Archdiocese Catechetical Training Study Day (4) (25 Sep)

Office for the New Evangelisation

• Lectors’ Study Day (4 Aug) • Watchmen Retreat (9-12 Aug) • Faith in the City (25 Aug)

• Choir Study Day (8 Sep) • New Wine Conference (15 Sep) • SCC Study Day (22 Sep)

Office for Young People

• Nox Gaudii (17 Aug) • Uni Commissioning Mass (23 Aug)

• Treasure #10 (20-23 Sep) • Empower: Leadership Retreat (26-29 Sep)

Singapore Archdiocesan Catholic Charismatic Renewal

• School of Intercession Module 1 (25, 26 Aug)

• Pilgrimage to Spain, Portugal, Lourdes (23 Sep-8 Oct)

Note: For more information, please refer to the respective Organisation’s website. This information is correct at the time of printing. Compiled by Office for the New Evangelisation (ONE), www.one.org.sg

them to focus on other activities is wrong, because of the “insepathat they do together as a couple. rable connection, established by This has strengthened their bond. God … between the unitive sigSex also became more mean- nificance and the procreative sigingful for them, said the couple nificance which are both inherent during the HV50 conference held to the marriage act”. at St Joseph’s Institution on July 14. Contraception is the voluntary The conference was to mark rejection of one’s own possible the 50th anniversary of Humanae child, said the moral theologian. Vitae (Of Human Life), an encycThe crowd of 400 also broke lical written by Blessed Pope Paul into groups to discuss various topVI. The document reaffirmed the ics. In the group that discussed teaching of the Catholic Church condoms and HIV prevention, led regarding married love, responsi- by Mr Nick Chui from the Cathoble parenthood, NFP and the re- lic Theological Network and Dr jection of contraception. Hui, they learnt that condoms give Dr John Hui, Vice-chairman of a false sense of security in the area the Archdiocesan Commission for of casual sex. the Family, told Catholic News “One’s risk of infection inthat the conference creases with inwas aimed at procreasing numbers Humanae Vitae moting “a greater of condom-proreaffirmed the understanding, aptected sexual expreciation of, and posures,” said Dr teaching of the pastoral applicaHui, quoting from Catholic Church tion of Humanae a study published regarding married in the medical Vitae today”. Apart from sevlove, responsible journal, Sexually eral couples sharTransmitted Disparenthood and ing their experieases, in 2002. the rejection of ences of putting the Mr Daryl contraception. teachings of HuGomes, a Lay Domanae Vitae into minican, shared practice, other speakers addressed in another group that Pope Paul issues related to the document. VI had warned that artificial conFr James Yeo, rector of the traception would contribute to Catholic Theological Institute of marital infidelity, a loss of man’s Singapore, said he hardly heard respect for woman, and coercive Catholics confessing the sin of imposition of contraception on using contraceptives, and felt that individuals by governments. This this could be because they felt has been the case over the years, they could follow their conscience he noted. on this issue. The third group discussed St One’s conscience is not al- John Paul II’s Theology of the ways right, he said. “A Catholic Body led by Mr Andrew Kong from … has the obligation to form his the Apostolate for Catholic Truth. conscience according to the teach- This compilation of the late pope’s ings of the Church,” he stressed. speeches, often seen as an extended Dominican Fr David Garcia, catechesis on marriage and sexual noted that contraception and NFP, love, was an extensive commentary on the surface, “look the same on the doctrine taught in Humanae because they aim at avoiding a Vitae, Mr Kong explained. n pregnancy”. However, according to Humanae Vitae, contraception christopher.khoo@catholic.org.sg

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Promoting human dignity in all aspects

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Cardinal Peter Turkson shares this thoughts on integral human development The human being is endowed with the dignity that comes from God. And promoting this dignity and helping it develop in various aspects is the task of the Vatican’s Dicastery for Promoting Integral Human Development, said Cardinal Peter Turkson. The Ghanaian cardinal was speaking in an interview with Mr Andre Ahchak, Director of the Archbishop’s Communications Office, on July 22. Cardinal Turkson, who heads the dicastery, was the keynote speaker at Caritas’ Social Mission Conference the previous day. “The dignity of the human person is not given by a court of law,” said Cardinal Turkson. “It’s not given by the United Nations. It’s given by the fact that you were created in the image and likeness of God. That is the source of your dignity.” Promoting dignity therefore means that “we discover who we are and we promote every aspect of this … materially, economically, politically, socially, religiously, transcendentally”, he said. “That’s the business of our office – promoting integral human development.” In response to a question on how Singapore Catholics can help promote this, he replied: “I just want to invite them to be human, to be true to their human nature, and being true to your human nature is to recognise what you are

as a human being. A true sense of a human person is the ultimate guide to everything you do.” Cardinal Turkson also shared his experiences growing up in a family of 10 siblings. “You learn to share. That’s the way you live.” His family was not as well-to-do as others and he learnt to make his own toys using the tools that his father, a carpenter, used. “I’ve always believed that in life, you don’t leave anything the same way you found it… you always have to be able to change something for the better,” he said. He also shared how he became a priest. The town he lived in did not have a residential priest but only visiting ones. Seeing them sparked his interest in the priesthood. When he was about 12, he went to the main parish about 6 km away and saw an advertisement on the priesthood. He wrote to the priest in charge who visited him and told him he was welcome to the seminary. “In the service of God, something makes you start and then you grow,” said the cardinal. “We all in life need something small and insignificant to get us interested in something, and then we grow that interest into something that matures.” Prior to the interview, Cardinal Turkson celebrated Sunday Mass at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd. n

“I’ve always believed that in life, you don’t leave anything the same way you found it… you always have to be able to change something for the better.” – Cardinal Turkson

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Centre to help people with intellectual disabilities A look at Mamre Oaks in this series on Catholic social service organisations

A member working on a Hama Beads design, part of therapy at the centre.

A volunteer with a Mamre Oaks member. Mamre Oaks runs a day activities centre for those aged 18 and above who have intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD).

Jared Ng Five days a week, Ms Ong Pek Hoon, 49, visits Mamre Oaks where she joins her friends and takes part in numerous activities. Mamre Oaks, a Church social service organisation under Caritas Singapore, runs a day activities centre for adults (aged 18 and above) with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) in Agape Village, Toa Payoh Lorong 8. It is here that Ms Ong, who has IDD, has learned to open up through her participation in the various programmes and daily social interactions with staff, volunteers and others like her. She shared with Catholic News that she enjoys all the activities at the centre such as art and

craft, and music sessions. However, “cooking is my favourite,” she said. Another member, Mr Fong Kee Yung, 53, said he loves coming to Mamre Oaks because of the many friends he has here and also because he gets to enjoy his favourite art and craft activities. According to Mr Joseph Lim, 57, Mamre Oaks Centre Manager, the programmes for members are designed to “empower them to lead lives of meaning, dignity and fulfilment” as well as create an environment where they are “welcomed and valued” regardless of their abilities, race and religion. Mr Lim said that some members, after spending time with Mamre Oaks, were referred to job placement agencies and found work.

Mamre Oaks currently serves 12 members. The centre can serve up to 30 people. It operates from 8.30 am to 6 pm from Monday to Friday. The organisation was founded in 2015 by a group of friends from Faith and Light Community, another Caritas Singapore member organisation that serves intellectually disabled people and their families. Since then, Mamre Oaks has reached out to churches to raise awareness about its services with the hope of assisting families and caregivers who have or know of adults with IDD. The Churches of St Ignatius and Risen Christ have helped in reaching out to parishioners and fundraising projects for Mamre Oaks. Other parishes are soon to follow, according to Mr Lim, who is one of six staff at the centre. He credits a strong volunteer force for assisting with the running of

The programmes for members are designed to “empower them to lead lives of meaning, dignity and fulfilment,” said Mr Joseph Lim, Mamre Oaks Centre Manager. A volunteer showing members how a volcano works.

programmes. Everyday, up to six volunteers are at the centre engaging the members in various activities. During lunch, they accompany the members out to the neighbouring hawker centre. “It is important for these members to be out in the public and with the community,” said Mr Lim. Once a month, volunteers also bring the members out to popular attractions such as the Singapore Zoo, River Safari and Gardens by the Bay. The biggest reward “is to see the happiness on all their faces, to see them laugh and grow together,” said Mr Alex Chia, 62,

who has been volunteering since January. Another volunteer, Ms Jean Zee, 65, said she volunteers because she enjoys being with the members. “We are all God’s children. He loves us all in different ways,” she said. According to Mamre Oaks, the organisation’s name came from the Book of Genesis where Abraham welcomed three strangers and provided them with food by the oak of Mamre. Similarly, the organisation hopes to bring hospitality, nourishment, good news and hope. n jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

EVENTS IN SEPTEMBER There are three events by Mamre Oaks scheduled in September with the aim of raising awareness, assisting parents and caregivers of adults with IDD, and providing persons with IDD an opportunity to interact and have fun. n Sept 15: Summer in the Forest. Screening of a film about four people with intellectual disabilities coming together and revealing what it really means to be fully human. In conjunction with the CANA Film Festival, the film will be screened at Golden Village Vivo City from 3 pm-5 pm. n Sept 22: A conference for parents and caregivers of adults with IDD.

Prominent professionals speak on legal, mental health and behavioural issues; selfcare concerns; and how to fully integrate into communities for persons with IDD. This conference aims to reach out to parents and caregivers of adults with IDD and interested people. The conference will be held from 10 am-4 pm at Agape Village. n Sept 23: A tea dance event will be held for persons with IDD at Agape Village from 2 pm-5 pm. There will be games, dances and other activities for persons with IDD to enjoy. There will also be a lucky draw. The event is free and open to the public. For more information, visit http://mamreoaks.sg/. n

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Offering sacrifices to God (Note: The full version of this reflection was released on 16 July, 2018. Scripture references, unless noted, are from Scripture readings (Is 1:10-17; Mt 10:34-11:1)

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any of us have the wrong notion of offering sacrifices to God. This pagan understanding still prevails in our relationship with God. We think that God can be appeased with lambs and animals, etc. This false notion also creeps into our understanding of mortification and penance. We do penance to earn God’s blessings when they are meant to dispose us to receiving His blessings. The mortifications we do are not the cause of God’s blessings and do not please God, but it is for our sake, so that we can be receptive to the blessings He wants to bestow upon us.

The prophet makes it clear that He is not pleased with such external sacrifices. In fact, He is disgusted with them because they were offered by people whose hearts were far from Him. “What are your endless sacrifices to me? says the Lord. “Bring me your worthless offerings no more, the smoke of them fills me with disgust.”

The less we focus on ourselves in terms of needs, the more we will find life when we dissipate our energy in serving others.

What God desires is intimacy and union with us. He desires love, not sacrifices. What God desires is intimacy and union with us. He desires love, not sacrifices. When we do wrong things and hurt our fellowmen, He is wounded because of His love for them. And He feels sad for us because we are destroying ourselves. Hence the prophet warns us, “When you stretch out your hands I turn my eyes away. You may multiply your prayers, I shall not listen. Your hands are covered with blood, wash, make yourselves clean.” Again, the call to justice is paramount to the Lord, more

so than all our sacrifices. “Take your wrong-doing out of my sight. Cease to do evil. Learn to do good, search for justice, help the oppressed, be just to the orphan, plead for the widow.” So, what is the real sacrifice? We are called to offer ourselves, our very lives, in union with Jesus for the salvation of humanity. In giving ourselves, we find ourselves. This is the key to life. The less we focus on ourselves in terms of needs, the more we will find life when we dissipate our

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His blessings! We are called to perform works of charity, seeing Jesus in the poor and in the suffering and hungry. energy in serving others. That is why Jesus said, “Anyone who finds his life will lose it; anyone who loses his life for my sake will find it.” What does this sacrifice of oneself involve? Firstly, it means putting Him as the central focus in our lives. “Anyone who prefers father or mother to me is not worthy of me. Anyone who prefers son or daughter to me is not worthy of me.” Moses told the people that they must love the Lord their God with all their heart, soul and strength. This is the fundamental commandment and the key to life. (Dt 6:4-7). Once God is the focus of our lives, we will see everything in perspective. Secondly, it means to be separated from those people and things and activities that lead us away from His love. This is what holiness is all about. Very often, it is our friends and loved ones, especially our children, that lead us away from God! When we make them our gods and give them more focus, time and attention as if they are the centre of our lives, the more we become enslaved to them. Unless we

learn to let go and put God as the priority in our lives, we cannot truly love our loved ones rightly and wisely. Ironically, it is our inlaws and our enemies that bring us closer to God!

he is a holy man will have a holy man’s reward.”

do what we can and the Lord will help us.

Fifthly, if possible we must speak about Him and proclaim His love to others. We read that “when Jesus had finished instructing His twelve disciples He moved on from there to teach and preach in their towns.” We too must move on in life. We must find opportunities to spread His love and His name. We just

In this way, we are identified with Jesus in every way so much so that people see the Christ in us. Indeed, they will see us as Jesus. The greatest compliment is when someone says to us, “Here comes Jesus!” Let us be Jesus to each other so that we truly become identified with Him in thought, deeds and life.

Thirdly, it means carrying our cross patiently. Jesus said, “Anyone who does not take his cross and follow in my footsteps is not worthy of me.” Every day, we must carry the cross of inconvenience, fatigue and suffering that comes from work and relationships patiently. By carrying the cross patiently and lovingly, we will be purified and grow in love and charity towards ourselves and others. Fourthly, it calls for the work of compassion. It is not enough to be focused on God. We must also allow the worship of God to lead us to the service of humanity. We are called to perform works of charity, seeing Jesus in the poor and in the suffering and hungry. “Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me; and those who welcome me welcome the one who sent me. Anyone who welcomes a prophet because he is a prophet will have a prophet’s reward; and anyone who welcomes a holy man because

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Archbishop’s prayer intentions for July: Priests That priests be shepherds after the Lord’s heart, and nurture a devotion to Our Lady to guide them in times of struggle and challenge in their ministry.

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Everyone in our lives has such amazing value. If we would only take the time to really look and see the beauty in all of God’s creations, we would see this clearly. God is the only one who can take dust and give life to it, and He creates amazing gifts – people of infinite value. We are but co-creators, presented with this immense privilege and honour to be co-creators with God and stewards of life. We are entrusted with the care of our children who are God’s children to begin with. Children with special needs, especially, can bring forth such immense joy and beauty to the parents and siblings who care for them, and can shape us as Christians.

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Everything we receive from God is a blessing. The Lim and Wang families receive this daily through their special needs children. Let us rejoice too in their blessings.

One child’s love, many children’s breakthroughs

WE plan our lives as much as we can, but sometimes we find that God simply has another path for us. And while we may question the reason when that curve ball is thrown, deep down our faith holds strong and the beauty of His plan is eventually revealed in a way we would never have expected. This happened to Mark and Monica Lim 12 years ago when Marie, their seventh gift from God, arrived a month early. With the faith to cope “The paediatrician that attended to Marie at birth led me out of the delivery ward to tell me first that Marie had Down syndrome. She wasn’t sure how I would want to let Monica know that.” recalls

Mark. But Mark knew his wife’s faith was strong and she’d take the news in her stride. “Actually, I cried each time I was left alone in the ward during the three days,” confides Monica, “not for myself, but because I was worried about what the challenges would be for Marie, and who would look after her when we are no longer around.” Marie’s condition came with a host of health issues, including a profound hearing impairment, hyperthyroidism, alopecia and sensitive skin. It was a lot to cope with, but the couple had a strong support system in their family and friends, including those from Church. One friend, a doctor, told the couple that Marie and children like her were angels from God. In those early days, Mark and Monica couldn’t quite recognise the extent to which that statement was true. But they had faith in God and that gave them strength, trusting that “God

They had faith in God and that gave them strength, trusting that “God never gives us more than we can handle”

never gives us more than we can handle”. Keeping the baby was not in question “I was in my 40s when I was expecting Marie and was asked if we wanted to do an amniocentesis test, but we refused,” said Monica. The couple would never have given Marie up even if they knew in the early stages of pregnancy that she had Down syndrome. “Also, I had been through nine miscarriages and didn’t want to risk another. But I must admit I had an inkling at Mass one day that maybe this baby would have special needs. My initial reaction was – I don’t want this – but immediately I apologised to the Lord. We would accept whatever God gave us.” The lucky ones While they accepted Marie as a gift almost immediately, Mark continued to worry about Marie’s

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future until one evening at dinner with a Spanish priest, when Marie was about four or five years old. “What he said that night changed my whole outlook on the situation and gave me profound peace,” says Mark. “He told me that children with special needs are the lucky ones. They go to heaven first – pure and simple. That turned it all around for me. We should be envious of her.” Counting their blessings Looking back on life with Marie over the last 12 years, the couple can count so many blessings. For one thing, Marie’s six older siblings, now aged between 16 and 29 years, have observed that if not for Marie, they would have turned out more self-centred. One of the biggest challenges for the couple was finding the right place for Marie to be educated and included. “Now I understand the Seven Sorrows of Our Lady,” Monica says. “The

sword shall pierce your soul. Until Marie started growing up I never really understood that. But as I watched her try to integrate with other children and being excluded from activities because she was different, I felt such pain.” She found that the schools for children with special needs were neither suitable nor what she desired for her daughter. The couple searched in vain for a suitable solution. Monica had a career in Early Learning and had researched education for children with special needs. So she knew there was a better way. She tried to introduce the teaching to schools, but no one was willing to take it up fully. In 2014, when Marie was 8, Monica knew that she had to take it on herself. She looked at Marie’s current needs, and they were not being addressed by anything in the school system. So the couple took Marie out of the system, and that’s how Rosebrook came about in late 2014.

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Rosebrook Developmental Centre is a safe place for children, both typically developing and those with special needs, to learn together through play, drawing on the children’s strengths and building upon their natural abilities to form neural pathways in the brain. The successes that Monica’s team brings about for the children at Rosebrook are testament to how well the Rosebrook way works. The Centre is changing lives. “God made clear, as he closed every other door, that we had to start Rosebrook,” recalls Monica. It was a calculated risk but everything fell into place really quickly and in two months everything was up and running. Rosebrook began under circumstances of great uncertainty, but three years on, God continues to make a way, despite all the challenges.” When one door shuts, another opens “Our vision is to build a community where people with special needs are naturally included,” states Monica. “And that is what we have started with Rosebrook. Through Marie’s unconditional love, we have been able to give others in the community the same love. We never planned to build Rosebrook. That’s been God’s hand in our journey for sure.” Mark and Monica advise parents expecting or parenting children with special needs to be humble and ask for help when they need it. To be aware that fear does not come from God, and that the fears are far worse than the reality that materialises. Their final advice: Surround yourself with positive people who build you up rather than tear you down. Some people are more wellmeaning than wise. Trust in God and know that He has the best path for you.

The gift of light

WHEN the Wang family heard the news that mum Alice was expecting her fourth child, everyone was excited. She was in her late thirties at that time, so her doctor advised her to have an amniocentesis test due to the higher risk of the baby having Down Syndrome. But Alice and her husband, Kok Wing, refused. “This child is a gift from God, and we didn’t see the point of risking a miscarriage with the test since we would proceed with the pregnancy regardless,” explains Kok Wing. “Moreover, I wanted to enjoy the pregnancy without having to worry,” adds Alice, “and how much can you prepare anyway?”

Kok Wing, however, had a much harder time dealing with the family’s new reality. “My heart was crushed. I had anxieties and doubts about what will happen next and how to cope. I wrestled with ‘Why me, God? How can it be? Where did I go wrong?’ Is this a punishment?” Kok Wing questions. “What made it worse was that I couldn’t share my thoughts with them without spoiling their joy.”

Spirit, which released my fears. After that release, it was upwards from there.”

name turned out to be prophetic. “His trusting and affectionate ways build bridges with people and warm their hearts. Often at Mass, Joseph will bring people to us and make us shake hands,” says Josephine. “So we’ve gotten to know the congregation better through Joseph’s light.”

Reflecting the value of the Gospel The family was introduced to the Faith and Light Community, which focuses on people with intellectual disabilities. The community recognises that such people bear gifts in their hearts

Family blessings Living with Joseph presents challenges. He is less able to perform many daily tasks such as cleaning himself. He struggles with reading and counting. He has his mood swings. Through the family’s involvement in his development over the years, they, too, have matured and grown closer together. “If not for Joseph, perhaps the family could have been different; maybe more inward looking and individualistic,” says Alice. Joseph has taught them the joy of unconditional love, to not hold grudges and to be sensitive to the needs of others. With him, the couple is also forced to review their parenting skills. Alice explains: “We were authoritative parents until Joseph came along; he changed us for the better.” “We hope Joseph’s example can give hope to anxious expecting mothers to keep their babies,” she adds. “God doesn’t make junk. Having a special child will challenge you to love as Jesus knows you are capable of. Just trust Him.”

Their innocence reflects the values of the Gospel, which are lost in today’s world

Reactions When Joseph was born, the paediatrician saw signs of Down Syndrome and ordered blood tests, which turned out to be positive. When the news was broken to the family, each member had very different reactions. The couple’s three daughters, Josephine, Marie and Michelle, were over the moon. The eldest daughter, Josephine, was 10 at the time. They were all too young to really understand the implications for Joseph. They loved the idea of having a brother who was different. Alice was calm and accepting of the situation. “I saw it as a new chapter in my life. My trust in God prepared me for this.”

A movement of the Spirit It wasn’t until much later when a priest asked Kok Wing to help put together a Christmas pageant that things turned around for him. The economy was down, people were losing their jobs and the community needed hope. He explained to Kok Wing that there was so much joy in children with special needs and the family’s participation would make a difference. “During one rehearsal, I broke down and wept for the first time,” Kok Wing recalls. “I wept to the point that the choir members started to worry for me. But I knew it was a movement of the

Catholic Family Events in August 2018

that “normal” people have lost. “Their innocence reflects the values of the Gospel, which are lost in today’s world,” explains Kok Wing. “These people are trusting, forgiving, spontaneous and affectionate.” A connector of people Having Joseph has brought our family even closer to one another, as well as to the local community. “Many around here know Joseph, and we have made many pleasant connections through him,” Alice says. It was Father John Baptist Tou who gave Joseph his name, meaning “light of the world”. The

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ing in the house but a jug of oil.” Elisha told her to gather as many jugs as she could. From the one jug of oil, Elisha filled all the others. “Go and sell the oil to pay off your creditor,” Elisha said to the woman. “With what remains, you and your children can live.” A man from Baal-shalishah brought an offering of 20 barley loaves. “Give it to the people to eat,” Elisha told him. The man looked around. “How

Cesare de Rossi was born in Italy in 1559 and changed his name to Laurence when he joined a Capuchin Franciscan monastery at the age of 16. He had studied under Conventual Franciscans before then, and he continued to study philosophy and theology at the University of Padua. He excelled in languages and had memorised many passages of the Bible. Laurence served as the definitor general of his order in Rome and later was promoted

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to minister general. Emperor Rudolf II asked him to speak to the German princes and ask their help fighting the Turks in Hungary. The Germans agreed, and the combined armies drove the Turks away. Laurence rode with the army carrying no weapon, only a crucifix. Laurence founded a Capuchin monastery in Spain and continued to teach and preach in Germany before his death in 1619. We remember him on July 21. n

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Bible Accent: The Old Testament’s first five books, called the Pentateuch, tell about the creation of the world, the lives of the earliest men and women of faith, and God’s promises and commandments. Next the historical books tell stories that took place over a period of almost 800 years, beginning with the possession of the Promised Land through the time the Israelites were exiled in captivity until they returned to their homeland. Job, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes are considered books of wisdom, while Psalms, Song of Solomon and Lamentations are books of poetry. The remaining section of the Old Testament contains books of prophecy. There are the three major prophets: Isaiah, Jeremiah and Ezekiel, who have longer books named after them, and the minor prophets, who have shorter books named after them. n

BIBLE TRIVIA: There are three pairs (1 and 2) of history books in the Old Testament. 1 and 2 Kings are one of them. What are the other two?

PUZZLE: How many names of Old Testament prophets can you find in the phrase: Jewish Old Testament history? (You may use the letter “a” more than once.)

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can I set this before a hundred men?” “Give it to the people to eat,” Elisha repeated. “For thus says the Lord, ‘They shall eat and there shall be some left over.’” And there was. n

Answer to Bible Trivia: 1 and 2 Chronicles and 1 and 2 Samuel.

Elisha was with the prophet Elijah, who also served as his teacher. They had reached the banks of the Jordan River. Elijah removed his sleeveless overcoat, which was called a mantle, rolled it up and touched the water with it. The water immediately parted, and the two men crossed the riverbed on dry land. When they reached the other side, Elijah said, “Ask for whatever I may do for you, before I am taken from you.” Elisha replied, “May I receive a double portion of your spirit?” Elijah placed his hands on his student’s shoulders and looked into his eyes. “You have asked something that is not easy. Still, if you see me taken up from you, your wish will be granted; otherwise not.” While the two men were talking, a powerful wind roared towards

them and a flaming chariot with horses pulled up alongside them. Elijah climbed into the chariot and the driver delivered him up to heaven in a whirlwind. Elisha looked down by his feet and saw Elijah’s mantle. He did as Elijah had done. He touched the water of the Jordan River and it parted again, so he was able to cross back on dry land. There were men by the water who had seen what had happened. One of them said, “The spirit of Elijah rests on Elisha.” From that moment, God used Elisha in ways he never had experienced before. A widow came before Elisha asking his help. Her husband died, leaving her with debt that the creditor wanted paid. “Tell me what you have in the house,” said Elisha. “This servant of yours has noth-

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CELEBRATING THE FEAST OF OUR LADY OF MOUNT CARMEL: Archbishop William Goh giving his homily during the Mass celebration at the Carmelite Monastery on July 16.

INVESTITURE OF THE SCAPULAR: People holding up their scapulars during the investiture of the scapular ceremony. Those invested in the scapular undertake a devotion to Mary and also receive spiritual benefits.

ARCHDIOCESAN CATECHISTS RETREAT: It was prayer and fun time for 64 catechists serving children, youth and the RCIA during their annual retreat held at the Montfort Centre from June 8-10. The retreat theme was “Jesus living in Mary, the Mould of Catechesis”.

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The following Heads of Commissions were elected for the 2019-2020 term during the July 10-13 Plenary Assembly of the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of Malaysia, Singapore and Brunei. The meeting was held at MAJODI Centre, in Plentong, Johor: Biblical Commission: Bishop Cornelius Sim Consecrated Life: Archbishop William Goh Diocesan Priests and Seminaries: Bishop Richard Ng Ecumenism and Inter-Faith Affairs: Archbishop Julian Leow Family, Laity and Life: President: Archbishop John Wong (Family & Life) Vice-President: Bishop Julius Gitom (Laity) Youth/Campus Ministry: Archbishop Simon Poh Liturgy: Bishop Sebastian Francis New Evangelisation: Archbishop Simon Poh Pontifical Mission Societies: Archbishop Simon Poh Pastoral Health Care: Bishop Cornelius Piong Pastoral Care of Migrants and Itinerants: Bishop Bernard Paul Creation Justice: Bishop Joseph Hii Social Communications: Bishop Cornelius Sim Malaysian Catechetical: Archbishop Julian Leow Malaysian Catholic Education Council: Archbishop Julian Leow Apostleship of the Sea: Archbishop William Goh Present office bearers: President: Bishop Sebastian Francis Vice-President: Bishop Cornelius Sim Treasurer: Bishop Bernard Paul Honorary Secretary: Archbishop William Goh Present representatives in the Federation of Asian Bishops’ Conferences (FABC): FABC representative: Bishop Sebastian Francis FABC-Office of Theological Concerns: Archbishop William Goh FABC-Office of Evangelisation: Archbishop Simon Poh Submitted by: CATHOLIC BISHOPS’ CONFERENCE OF MALAYSIA, SINGAPORE AND BRUNEI

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A good Christian shares the Gospel: Pontiff VATICAN CITY – All Christians

are called to be missionaries, concerned more with sharing the Gospel than with earning money or even with being successful at winning converts, Pope Francis said. “A baptised person who does not feel the need to proclaim the Gospel, to announce Christ, is not a good Christian,” the Pope said on July 15 before reciting the Angelus prayer with an estimated 15,000 people gathered in St Peter’s Square. Pope Francis was commenting on the day’s Gospel reading, which told about how Jesus sent the disciples out two-by-two to preach and to heal in His name. “It was a kind of apprenticeship for what they would be called to do with the power of the Holy Spirit after the resurrection of the Lord,” the Pope explained. Speaking only in the name of Jesus, he said, “the apostles had nothing of their own to proclaim and none of their own abilities to demonstrate, but they spoke and acted as emissaries, as messengers of Jesus.” “This Gospel episode concerns us, too, and not only priests, but all the baptised, who are called to witness to the Gospel of Christ in all the situations of life,” he said. Christians fulfil their mission, he said, when their proclamation is motivated only by love for and obedience to Christ and when the only message they share is Christ’s. In the reading from St Mark’s Gospel, Jesus tells His disciples “to take nothing for the journey but a walking stick – no food, no sack, no money in their belts.” The poverty and simplicity of

The faithful are called to witness to the Gospel of Christ in all situations of life.

lifestyle Jesus asks for were meant to make the disciples of yesterday and today “free and light.” Jesus, he said, calls His disciples to set out as “messengers of the kingdom of God, not powerful

Christians fulfil their mission when their proclamation is motivated only by love for and obedience to Christ, said Pope Francis. managers, not unmovable functionaries [and] not stars on tour.” Although all the baptised are sent out on mission by Christ, they go with no guarantee of success, the Pope said. “This, too,

Remember your roots, Pope tells young people VATICAN CITY – The future cannot be understood without reflecting on the past and on the history and traditions passed on to young people from parents and grandparents, Pope Francis said. “It’s from your roots that you will get the strength to continue. None of us – neither you nor me – were manufactured in a laboratory; we have a history, we have roots. And everything we do, the results we achieve, the beauty we create in the future, all comes from those roots,” said the Pope in a video message released by the Vatican on July 15. The Pope’s message was sent to young people of the Caribbean attending the July 10-23 youth assembly sponsored by the Antilles bishops’ conference. The conference’s theme was focused on transforming the family in the

Caribbean in accordance with “Amoris Laetitia” (The Joy of Love), the pope’s apostolic exhortation on marriage and family. In his message, the Pope warned young people of the danger of becoming “aging youths” who are “settled” and do not have the strength to move forward and build a better future. Explaining that his exhortation’s fourth chapter is “the heart” of the document’s teaching on the family, the pope urged them to study and examine it as a way “of moving the family forward and to transform the family of the Caribbean.” “Study it. Look at it and you will have the guidelines to move forward,” he said. Love is never-ending and is an important aspect of family life with “a strength all its own,” he added. n CNS

is poverty: the experience of failure.” Pope Francis prayed that Mary, “the first disciple and missionary of the word of God, would help us bear the message of the Gospel in the world with a humble and radiant exultation that goes beyond every refusal, misunderstanding or tribulation.” n CNS

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REFLECTION

How your bad habit is hurting others ... Msgr Philip Heng, SJ In this second part of the “Living a More Discerning Life” series, it is good that we reflect on the lives we have been living, as we cannot presume that we are doing this. We are each called to discover anew the blessings that God intends that we experience in our daily living. God loves each of us personally and deeply, and wants us to live a more meaningful, fulfilling and happy life. I would like to begin with a true story of “David” (not his real name) who shared with me in front of his wife: “Father, I used to drink at least one big bottle of brandy, a case of beer every night with my group of friends; and smoke two packs of cigarettes every day. My good wife told me many times to stop, as it would destroy my health. I refused to listen ... However, one day, my young son of eight asked me, ‘Daddy, do you love me?’ “I was taken aback by the question and replied, ‘Of course, I love you my son, why do you ask?’ His reply was, ‘Daddy, if you love me then you have to stop drinking and smoking. Otherwise, you will not see me graduate.’ “This shocked me. For the first time, I saw how sad my son looked. After saying this, he went to his room and cried. What my son did to me that morning, broke my heart. Clearly, God spoke to me through him! I went up to my young son and hugged him and I cried. From that day onwards, till today (some 40 years later). I have never smoked another cigarette or drank another glass of brandy!” David then turned to his wife and said, “Dear, Is this not true?” She nodded. From this story, it would be good to ask ourselves sincerely questions like: “In the way I live, do I have ‘addictions’ that hurt my loved ones and harm myself?” Our “addictions” may not nec-

Many people do not even recognise that they have “addictions”; they refer to them as habits.

essarily be excessive consumption of alcohol or smoking of cigarettes. Our “addictions” can be gambling, sexual fantasies (pornography) leading to immorality, or they can even seem “harmless” addiction to phones, computer games, social media or even work . . . (come up with your own list). These basic questions need to be asked, encountered and embraced through a deeper reflection of “How am I living my life?” We need to have a better sense of the quality of our daily living. We cannot presume that the way we live need not be challenged: we may not be aware of our attitude and impact of our behaviour, like David in the story. We also cannot presume that we are not causing our loved ones much pain and suffering by harming and destroying ourselves. We can be as “obstinate and blind” in our addictions as David was. In reality, many people do not even recognise that they have “addictions”; they refer to them as habits. Regardless of what one calls it, “addictions” enslave us,

steal our limited time and prevent us from living a more meaningful life, and experiencing deeper relationships with others and God. If we have “addictions”, then the first acts of wisdom is to recognise, repent and renew our desires to live a more wholesome life, even though the truth may be very painful. Secondly, we need to pray for God’s graces to act on our desire to change for the better, and tell ourselves, “I need to do something about this.” David in our story did so very decisively, out of his love for his son. For us to be liberated from our “addictions”, we need to draw strength from God and place Him at the centre of our lives for the “conversion” to take place. It is upon such a “conversion” of heart that we can take a step in the right direction towards living a more wholesome, fulfilling and happy life that God wills of us because He loves us dearly and personally. n Msgr Heng is Rector of the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd

Forgiveness – the greatest miracle POET Ralph Waldo Emerson calls the stars in the night sky “envoys of beauty, lighting the universe with their admonishing smile” and submits that if they appeared for a single night only every thousand years, we’d be on our knees in worship and would cherish the memory for the rest of our lives. But since they come out every night, the miracle goes mostly unnoticed. We watch television instead. But, their beauty notwithstanding, shining stars are not the most prominent miracle which goes unnoticed. The greatest miracles have to do with gratuity, with love, with unfreezing a soul, with forgiveness. Our great poverty is that these go mostly unnoticed. There are much more astonishing things than the stars for which to be down on our knees in gratitude and there are more profound things to cherish in memory than a starlit night. The Belgium spirituality writer, Benoit Standaert, suggests that the greatest miracle is “that the freely given exists, that there is love that makes whole and that embraces what has been lost, that chooses what had been rejected, that forgives what has been found guilty beyond appeal, that unites what had seemingly been torn apart forever.” The greatest miracle is that there’s redemption for all that’s wrong with us. There’s redemption from all we’ve failed to live up to because of our inadequacies. There’s redemption from our wounds, from all that’s left us physically, emotionally, and spiritually limping and cold. There’s redemption from injustice, from the unfairness we suffer ourselves and from the hurt which we inflict knowingly or unknowingly on others. There’s redemption from our mistakes, our moral failures, our infidelities, our sins. There’s redemption from relationships gone sour, from marriages, families and friendships that have been torn apart by misunderstanding, hatred, selfishness and violence. There’s redemption from suicide and murder. Nothing falls outside the scope of God’s power to forgive, to resurrect and make new, fresh, innocent and joyful again. Our lives, to a greater or lesser extent, all end up incomplete, broken, unfairly ripped away from us, and causing hurt to others because of our weaknesses, infidelities, sin and malice; and still, ultimately, it can all wash clean again. There’s redemption, new life after all the ways we’ve gone wrong in this world. And that redemption comes through forgiveness. Forgiveness is the greatest miracle, the pan-ultimate miracle, which, along with everlasting life, is the real meaning of the resurrection of Jesus. There’s nothing more godlike, or miraculous, than a moment of reconciliation, a moment of forgiveness. It’s for this reason that when the Gospels write up the resurrection of Jesus their emphasis, again and again, is on forgiveness. Indeed, Luke’s Gospel does not distinguish the announcement of the resurrection from the announcement of the forgiveness of sins. Forgiveness and resurrection are inextricably linked. Likewise, in the Gospel of John, in Jesus’ first resurrection appearance to the assembled community (with them all hiding behind locked doors in fear), He gives them the power to forgive sins. The message of the resurrection is that a dead body can be raised again from its grave. But this isn’t just true for our physical bodies, which die, but it’s also true, especially, for hearts that are frozen and dead from disappointment, bitterness, anger, separation and hatred. The miracle of the resurrection is as much about raising deadened souls to new life as it is about raising dead bodies to new life. Despite being nearly overwhelmed by new inventions today, machines and gadgets that do everything including talking to us, in truth, we see very little that’s genuinely new, that’s not the norm. Sure, we see new innovations every day coming at us so rapidly that we have trouble coping with the changes they are bringing about. But in the end, these innovations don’t genuinely surprise us, at least not at a deep level, at the level of the soul, morally. They’re simply more of what we already have, extensions of ordinary life, nothing really surprising. But when you see a woman forgive another person who has genuinely hurt her, you are seeing something that’s not normal, that’s surprising. You are seeing something that is not simply another instance of how things naturally unfold. Likewise, when you see warmth and love break through to a man who has long been captive of a bitter and angry heart, you are seeing something that’s not just another instance of normal life, of ordinary unfolding. You’re seeing newness, redemption, resurrection, forgiveness. Forgiveness is the only thing that’s new on our planet, everything else is just more of the same. And so, in the words of Benoit Standaert: “Whenever we strive to bring a little more peace through justice here on earth and, in whatever form, change sadness into happiness, heal broken hearts, or assist the sick and the weak, we arrive directly at God, the God of the resurrection.” Forgiveness is the most astonishing miracle we will ever see or experience this side of eternity. It, alone, makes for the possibility of heaven – and happiness. n

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God rested. Let’s do likewise By Laura Kelly Fanucci Writing this column almost made a liar out of me. “I’ll write about leisure,” I had decided one morning at Mass, snuggled next to a rarely calm child, soaking in the Sunday quiet. A perfect topic for July’s sultry weather and a gentle reminder of how God calls us to rest. But then my work schedule picked up. So did my husband’s. House projects became emergencies; kids got sick; schedules got thrown off. When I ﬁnally sat down to write, my ﬁngers paused. Nothing came to mind. Turns out I had zero leisure in my life – an inability to slow down, the frantic rush from one must-do to the next, the nagging guilt that stopping would be lazy. We read in Genesis that God rested on the seventh day. But too often, we dismiss this notion for our own “crazy busy” lives as quaint. But what if – like every one of God’s actions – resting on the Sabbath was a powerful and profound act of divine might and wisdom? God rested. Why do we think we don’t need to do the same?

“We tend to overwork as a means of self-escape, as a way of trying to justify our existence,” wrote the German Catholic philosopher Josef Pieper in “Leisure: The Basis of Culture”. Look around at our culture. It’s not hard to see that most of us are soul-worn. The Third Commandment tells us to keep holy the Sabbath. The Catechism of the Catholic

Church reminds us that “the Sabbath brings everyday work to a halt and provides a respite. It is a day of protest against the servitude of work and the worship of money” (No. 2172). So how can we slow down to reclaim rest? Here are three ways to make space for Sabbath – simple ideas that are helping me get back on track.

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First, let technology rest. I’ve been taking a “phone-free Sabbath”: tucking the phone in a drawer on Saturday night and resisting the temptation to scroll on Sunday. I’m embarrassed to admit that it’s harder than I expected. But the deliberate practice of being ofﬂine and available to those who matter most – my spouse and kids – is delightful and refreshing. I pray longer without distraction. I

started reading novels again. I sit and notice: children at play, birds feeding, growth in our gardens. Now on Monday mornings, I regret picking the phone back up. The more Sabbath I have, the more I crave it.  Second, let chores rest. In a bustling household, there is always something to do, fold, ﬁx, ﬁle, scrub, wash, sweep or mend. But a family isn’t called to be a well-oiled machine. We are a home full of humans who need to rest, relax and enjoy each other’s company, too. Try piling the dishes in the sink after Sunday lunch. Or quieting the washing machine from its constant churning. Leaving a chore or two to rest (even until Sunday night) can free up a little breathing room.  Third, let yourself rest. Yes, you, with 1,000 things to do and a racing mind that won’t quit. Go to bed early. Sleep in a little later. Take a guilt-free nap. Let the God of rest – the God who rested – restore you, body and soul.  CNS Fanucci is the author of several books, including “Everyday Sacrament: The Messy Grace of Parenting,” and blogs at www.motheringspirit.com.

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AUG 2 TO OCT 18 Gospel of Mark by Msgr Ambrose Vaz Every Thursday. No class on Aug 9 and Sept 6. Join us for a Bible study on the shortest Gospel to know our Lord deeper and better. Time: 8pm-10pm. Organised by the Biblical Apostolate Team, Church of Christ the King, Ang Mo Kio Ave 8. To register: SMS 9010 5552 (Dorcas); 9832 1538 (Lene); E: ctkbat@hotmail.com. AUG 4 Lectors’ Study Day Time: 1.30pm-4.30pm. Open to all lectors in the Archdiocese of Singapore. Fr Terence Pereira, Episcopal Vicar for the New Evangelisation, will be leading a study on the theme “The Word in Communion”. Come and discover how Sacred Scripture should be a part of our lives and in the life of the Church. Organised by Office for the New Evangelisation. Venue: CAEC, 2 Highland Rd. For more information, E: enquiry@one.org.sg; T: 6911 0420; W: www.one.org.sg/events. AUG 4 Mass and prayers for healing Time: 2pm-4pm. Venue: Church of Sts Peter and Paul. Praise and worship and Mass followed by prayers for healing. After Mass, prayer teams will be available to pray with you for healing. Celebrant: Fr Tom Curran. Organiser: Praise@Work. For more information, E: praiseatworksg@yahoo.com; T: 9747 2467. JULY 9 TO SEPT 3 Life in the Spirit Seminar Church of St Francis Xavier Charismatic Prayer Group 9 Monday sessions (7.45pm-9.45pm). To register: W: http://www.bit.ly/SFXLISS. For more information, T: 9066 3514 (Catherine); 9002 6616 (Jean); E: sfxlifeinthespirit@gmail.com. AUG 1 TO AUG 31 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine (CCD) 2018-2019 Registration Catechism classes for international schools. CCD is a faith formation programme for children aged six-13 years in international schools. Grade one through grade seven classes are held weekly on Tuesday or Thursday afternoons from 4pm-5pm and the confirmation classes are held on Sundays from 3.30pm-5pm, starting in September through till the end of May 2019. Online registration opens on Aug 1. All students (new and returning) have to register online.

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A journey for those seeking to know more about the Catholic faith. Baptised Catholics are also invited to journey as sponsors. JUNE 25, 2018 TO MAY 13, 2019 RCIA (Mandarin) @ Blessed Sacrament Church Every Monday from 7.30pm-9.30pm. For more information, E: rcia@bsc.org.sg; W: https://tinyurl.com/RCIA-BSC; T: 6474 0582. JUNE 26, 2018 TO APRIL 20, 2019 RCIA @ Church of the Holy Cross For English: Every Thursday at 7.45pm. It begins on June 28. For Mandarin: Every Tuesday at 7.45pm. It begins on June 26. For more information, E: holycrosschurch.rcia@gmail.com; T: 9757 7115 (Susan for English RCIA); T: 9677 2709 (Wendy for Mandarin RCIA). JUNE 27, 2018 TO MAY 22, 2019 RCIA @ Church of Christ the King Every Wednesday from 8pm-10pm at Room 105. From September, additional sessions will also be held on every Sunday morning. Registration forms are available at the parish office. For more information, T: 6459 9958; E: query.rcia@gmail.com.

AUG 10 TO AUG 12 Diocesan Vocation Retreat Sometimes, it takes all of your senses to discern God’s fragrant offering. Come and discern your priestly vocation with us. To register: E: seminariansonline@gmail.com; E: diocesanvocations@catholic.org.sg. Closing date to register is Aug 4.

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AUG 11, 18, 25 AND SEPT 1, 8 New Catechist Elective Course – Answering Questions of Faith Time: 10am-1pm. The course seeks to inspire catechists to be excited about their faith and equip them to address questions of faith that are relevant to young people such as religion versus science and how God is at work in the Church today. For more information, T: 6911 0400.

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AUG 14, 21, 28. SEPT 4, 11 Basic Catechist Course Level 2 – Learning to Listen & Facilitate Time: 7:30pm-10pm. Venue: St Joseph’s Church (Bukit Timah). Participants will learn the key to facilitating small faith-sharing groups as well as practical skills to help individuals and the community grow in faith. Participants attending Part 1 of the course in July need attend only the Sept 4 and 11 sessions. Email formation@catechesis.org.sg to inform that you are only attending the last two sessions. E: formation@catechesis.org.sg; W: www.catechesis.org.sg; T: 6911 0400

AUG 4 Introduction to Authentic Conversations Time: 9.30am-5.30pm. Explore what is at the heart of an authentic conversation – listening. Are we aware of what and how we listen? Learn how to nurture safe spaces for authentic conversations. Facilitator: Mr Lance Ng. Organised by Kingsmead Centre, 8 Victoria Park Rd. Cost: $60. To register: W: http://tinyurl.com/itac2018; T: 6467 6072.

AUG 19 TO OCT 14 Couple Empowerment Programme Venue: Church of the Holy Cross. Ten weekly sessions on Friday evenings for newly married couples (married between one-10 years). Learn how to build a Christ-centred marriage faithful to the magisterial teaching of the Church. This is a parish-based programme that presents beautiful truths about the sacramental marriage through the stories of witnesses, whilst learning life skills designed by experts. For more information, W: www.cep-sg.org or Fb/com/sg-cep.

AUG 9 Cantonese Retreat Time: 9am-6pm. Venue: Church of Sts Peter and Paul 225A Queen Street, S188551. All are welcome. FOC. Join us for a day of activities including rosary recitation, praise and worship, testimonies, a healing service and Mass. Speakers: Frs Stephen Yim, Philip Lai and Terence Wee. Organised by the Church of Sts Peter and Paul Cantonese group. For more information, T: 9671 7083 (David).

AUG 24 TO AUG 26 Magis Immersion Retreat Aug 24 (7.30pm)- Aug 26 (4pm). Discover God and self through the lens of Ignatian spirituality. Explore what it means to find God in all things and live as a contemplative in action. Facilitators: Keith Neubronner and Margaret Tang. Organised by Kingsmead Centre, 8 Victoria Park Rd. Cost: $270 (non-AC), $310 (AC). To register: W: http://tinyurl.com/magis18; T: 6467 6072.

JUNE 27, 2018 TO MAY 29, 2019 RCIA @ Cathedral of the Good Shepherd Every Wednesday from 7.30pm-9.30pm. Register at goo.gl/ xJ4AgX and at the cathedral office. For more information, E: cathedral.rcia@catholic.org.sg; T: 9630 8346 (Terese). JULY 1, 2018 TO JUNE 2, 2019 RCIA (Mandarin) @ Church of Our Lady of Perpetual Succour Every Sunday from 9am-10.30am. Organised by Church Of Our Lady of Perpetual Succour, 31 Siglap Hill, S(456085). For more information, T: 9771 2135; W: www.olps.sg. JULY 3, 2018 TO JUNE 9, 2019 RCIA @ Church of St Ignatius Every Tuesday from 8pm-10pm at St Ignatius Hall. For more information, T: 6466 0625 (Angela); T: 9628 6472 (Sandra); W: https://tinyurl.com/stignatius-rcia. JULY 6, 2018 TO JUNE 24, 2019 RCIA (Cantonese) @ Church of Sts Peter & Paul Every Friday from 7.45pm-9.30pm at parish second floor, room 8. For more information, T: 6337 2585 (parish office); T: 9712 0452. JULY 7, 2018 TO JUNE 9, 2019 RCIA @ Church of Divine Mercy New RCIA journey will begin on July 7 and thereafter every Saturday in the parish hall, Level 2. Time: 3pm. RCIA forms available at parish office. For more info, contact Raj (9626 6202) / Timothy (9618 9826) or email: rciacdm@gmail.com

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JULY, 10 2018 TO APRIL 20, 2019 RCIA @ Church of St Teresa Every Tuesday from 7.45pm-9.30pm at the chapel. To register: E: rcia@stteresa.org.sg. JULY 14, 2018 TO JUNE 9, 2019 RCIY @ Church of St Ignatius Calling all young people who are not Catholic aged 17-24. Key dates: welcome tea and information session: July 14 (4pm-6pm). Introductory Sessions: July 21 and July 28 (4pm-6pm). Subsequent RCIY sessions will commence on Aug 7 and continue every Tuesday from 8pm-10pm. For more information, T: 9724 7613 (Eliza); T: 822 83419 (Aaron); T: 9817 2118 (Debbie); E: rciy.ignatius@gmail.com; W: https://tinyurl.com/ignatiusrciy. JULY 24, 2018 TO MAY 28, 2019 RCIA @ Church of the Holy Spirit Time: 7:45pm-9:45pm. We also invite adult Catholics to enrol as sponsors. All sponsors will be required to go through an “Introduction to RCIA” training, which will be provided by the RCIA core team. To register: W: https://bit.ly/RCIA2018.

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AUG 25 Bishop’s Catechesis for Catechumens (Discipleship) Time: 10.30am-12.30pm. Venue: Church of St Bernadette. A talk to allow catechumens to hear the mind of the Church through the Archbishop. It is also to learn the meaning of being a disciple of Christ. For more information, T: 6911 0402. SEPT 2 Catholic Nurses Guild Annual Mass Time: 5.30pm-9pm. Venue: Cathedral of The Good Shepherd, Queen Street, S188533. The Catholic Nurses Guild, Singapore, invites all nurses and professional healthcare providers to this annual Mass, followed by fellowship and buffet dinner at $10/person. All are welcome. For more information, T: 9487 2244 (Susan Loh); T: 9321 0031 (Janet Chong); T: 9767 0579 (Laura Tan); T: 9236 1047 (Theresa Cheong).

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SEPT 6 TO SEPT 27 Catechist Elective Course – Liturgical Principles Time: 7:30pm-10pm. Venue: Church of the Risen Christ, 91 Toa Payoh Central, S319193. Topics such as The Theological Reflections on Liturgy, Revision of Missale Romanum – The Theory of Translation, Liturgical and Sacred Music, Towards Ars Celebrandi as well Living a Eucharistic Life. Register using the link by Sept 3: https://tinyurl.com/y7b4tntc. For more information, W: www.catechesis.org.sg; E: formation@catechesis.org.sg; T: 6911 0400. NOV 10 COMMENCING Maryvale Certificate in Catechesis (MCC) This is a 2-year, part-time, distance-learning course for those interested to develop his or her faith so as to explain it to others. It includes practical aspects of catechesis, as well as a solid foundation in key areas of theology and spirituality, so theory is reflected in practice throughout the course. Organiser: Office For Catechesis. E: actp@catechesis.org.sg (Jane) NOV 18 COMMENCING Archdiocesan Catechetical Trainers’ Programme (ACTP) The Office For Catechesis is opening application for the next intake of the Archdiocesan Catechetical Trainers Programme. It is fully sponsored and includes 3 years of training, formation, parish attachments and certifications. Open to any catechist with minimum of 2 years’ catechetical experience. Application closing date: July 31. E: actp@catechesis.org.sg or formation@catechesis.org.sg.

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DEC 1 TO DEC 7 Family Mission Trip 2018 Want an unforgetable and meaningful family vacation? Venue: Tagaytay, Philippines (60 km south of Manila). Cost (est): Adult (12 yrs and above): $800. Child (7-11 yrs): $750. Prices include airfare, accommodation twin-share, full board, local transfers and transport. Registration is now open on a first-come-first-served basis. For more information, W: http://verbumdeisingapore.org; T: 9689 0919 (Diana Ho).

What is the RCIA? RCIA stands for the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults. Offered by parishes, it is a gradual process which welcomes all who are interested in seeking the living God by exploring the Catholic faith. The process leaves the inquirers free to respond to God’s call and does not expect inquirers to commit to becoming Catholic. This process invites one to deepen his or her encounter with God in Jesus Christ and His Body, the Catholic Church, through contact with a priest and the members of the Christian community. The duration of RCIA journeys in Singapore varies. As a general guide, the journey spans about a year (although this may differ according to the needs of each individual) and usually leads the unbaptised into full communion with the Catholic Church through the three sacraments of Christian initiation – baptism, confirmation and the Eucharist. The RCIA process may be adapted for baptised Christians or unbaptised children (aged seven and above) and young people.

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Tenth Anniversary In loving memory of

IVY YAP Departed: July 30, 2008 Remembering you is easy We do it every day Missing you is the hardest part As it never goes away To hear your voice. To see your smile To sit with you and talk for awhile Would be our greatest wish Today, tomorrow, our whole life through We shall always love and remember you. Dearly missed and forever cherished by your family.

CLASSIFIED THANKSGIVING O Holy St Jude, apostle and martyr, great in virtue and rich in miracles, near kinsman of Jesus Christ, faithful intercessor of all who invoke your special patronage in time of need. To you I have recourse from the depth of my heart and humbly beg you, to whom God

has given such great power, to come to my assistance. Help me in my present urgent petition. In return I promise to make your name known and cause you to be invoke. St Jude, pray for me and all who invoke your aid. Humbly in need of your intercession. Amen. Thank you for answering my prayers.

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Eleventh Anniversary Remembering Katho,

CECILIA CHIA SIAM LUNG Departed: Aug 2, 2009 The depths of sorrow we cannot tell, Of the loss of one, we love so well, And while she sleeps a peaceful sleep. Her memory we shall always keep. Fondly remembered by husband, daughters, sons-in-law, grandchildren and loved ones.

KATHLEEN JANE WOODFORD Departed: August 9, 2007 Your efforts as a community activist, educator, unionist, sister and aunt have not, and will not be forgotten. Your legacy lives on in the ones you’ve left behind. In the darkest of times, you’ll be our guiding light. “Nus tudu logu engkontra ku bos di tona. Nus amore ku bos”

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MAGDALENE MOLLY TAN Departed: May 3, 1988 July 31, 2008.

Self-sacrifice, humility and patience: Virtues of our dear departed parents. Called by God to their eternal bliss, We reminisce, cherish and deeply miss. Love always, Paul & Angie, Patrick & Julie, Perry, Philip & Cecilia, Percy & Sylvia, Grandchildren and all loved ones.

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JULIAN DE SOUZA Departed: Aug 3, 2009 Only the memory of bygone days, And a sigh for a face unseen; A constant feeling that God alone knows best what should have been. Dearly missed by children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. In loving memory of

JOSEPHINE DE SOUZA Departed: April 23, 2018 We, the children of Josephine de Souza (née Branson) wish to express our great appreciation to all our relatives and friends for their kind words, their time, generous food and monetary donations, and the beautiful ﬂoral arrangements we received. We realized how truly blessed we are to have such wonderful friends around us, especially during times of grief. Your expressions of sympathy will never be forgotten. Ninth Anniversary In loving memory of

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Fondly remembered by all. Mass will be celebrated at Church of the Holy Trinity on Sunday Aug 5, 2018 at 9.30am.

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JOSEPH ANG POH HOCK Departed: Aug 5, 2002 Gone from our lives One so dear, But in our hearts forever near. Dearly missed and always remembered by wife; sons and daughters-in-law; daughter and son-inlaw; grandsons and granddaughters. Twenty sixth Anniversary In loving memory of

FRANK JOSEPH ISABEL FERNANDEZ FERNANDEZ Departed: Jul 18, 2000 Departed: Aug 3, 2005.

PHILOMENA DORAIRAJ Departed: Aug 5, 1992 Gone from our lives One so dear But in our hearts Forever near. Deeply missed by children, grandchildren, Jaxon, Cierra, Jaros and loved ones. Mass will be celebrated at the Church of Our Lady of Lourdes on Sunday, Aug 5, 2018 at 9.30am.

Dearest Dad and Mum, Though we are apart, your faith, hope and love live on in our hearts and lives. Thank you for all that you have been to us. You are fondly remembered by your children and their families. Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord.

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A journey from naval officer to deacon Jared Ng When your cross of service becomes heavy, remember that you are not alone. You have Jesus, your fellow priests and me. These were words of encouragement offered by Archbishop William Goh to Gabriel Wong, who was ordained a deacon on July 25. This ceremony at the Church of Our Lady of Perpetual Succour on July 25 marks the final stage in his preparation for priestly ordination. “Serve the people with love and joy as you would the Lord. Remember that you are a disciple who came not to be served but to serve,” said Archbishop Goh. He reminded Deacon Gabriel to “serve with humility,

compassion, love ... so that Jesus can be seen through you.” “Our ministry is for the glory of God, not for our own glory,” he said. Deacon Gabriel, 36, in his address, delivered an emotional message to his mother in Mandarin in which he thanked her for raising him, the only child in his family. His father passed away when he was 13. In an email interview with Catholic News, Deacon Gabriel said he was looking forward to becoming a priest and journeying with people. The former naval officer said he aims to have a Christlike heart and to keep his eyes “fixed on Jesus”. During this period of transition towards the priesthood,

Deacon Gabriel Wong with his mother Ms Grace Chew and Archbishop.

the deacon can celebrate the Sacraments of Matrimony and Baptism but not the Mass and the Sacrament of Reconciliation, according to Fr Valerian Cheong, Archdiocesan Vocation Director. However, the deacon can assist the priest in preaching at Masses. Fr Valerian said that the transitional diaconate usually lasts for a minimum of six months but that decision is left to the archbishop. n jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

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Dioceses shares insights and issues in the new media

Group photo of participants and supporters who attended the Regional Commission for Social Communications Meeting in Sabah. Photo: ARCHDIOCESE OF KUALA LUMPUR

The dioceses in Malaysia, Singapore and Brunei will be working closer to exchange information and learn from each other’s experiences in the age of digital communications. The Archdiocese of Kuala Lumpur is looking at setting up a collaborative online platform for the dioceses to share Catholicrelated content such as testimonies, teachings, publications and periodicals. Other collaborations may also include sharing of communications-related content from seminars, workshops, webinars and livestreams. It is envisaged that this would help the dioceses to be better informed with a wider sharing of information and a saving through a cut in duplication of the use resources. For the parishioners this may well benefit them as they would have access to more information. One clear plus factor in this exercise is that more content may be available in other

languages such as Mandarin, Tamil and Malay. The collaborative drive was mooted following the four-day meeting in Sabah at the Regional Commission for Social Communications Meeting (Catholic Bishops’ Conference of Malaysia, Singapore, Brunei) on June 18 with representations from the dioceses, the Daughters of St Paul and SIGNIS, the world Catholic association for communication. Bishop Cornelius Sim of Brunei gave the keynote address on the World Communications Day Message for 2018, while participants shared their diocese’s initiatives drawn from Pope Francis’ 2015 encyclical, “Laudato Si’, on Care for Our Common Home”; and challenges faced in the digital age. Particular focus was given to the rise of fake news and how the Church can counter the scourge. The conference heard from Mr Nicholas

Bishop Cornelius Sim of Brunei watches the VERITAS seminar on fake news livestreamed from Singapore.

Lim, the Head of Digital Media, Archbishop’s Communications Office, who presented to the participants the scope of the Archdiocese of Singapore’s efforts in the field of communications in print, a mobile app, social media, websites and instant messaging. Content creation was also discussed with particular focus on video and streaming content. He also shared how Singapore adopts the initiatives and direction from the Pope and the Vatican, like Laudato Si’, and “Gaudete Et Exsultate, on the Call to Holiness in Today’s World”.

Living the Truth Separately, Singapore’s ArchComms team organised the VERITAS Seminar: Untangling Fake News on June 28 at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, where some 40 people attended. This is the second run

based on positive reviews from the first workshop held earlier in April. There were also members of the clergy, and church workers and volunteers from the Archdioceses of Kota Kinabalu, Kuala Lumpur and Kuching, and the Dioceses of Keningau, Sibu, Penang and Sandakan, and the Apostolic Vicariate of Brunei, who watched via livestream on YouTube. This collaboration was the first of its kind in the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of Malaysia, Singapore, Brunei. Many felt that it was a great collaboration and are looking forward to more of such events. “Very enriching webinar! Wise use of media, truly an instrument of unity and progress. Thanks be to God for such truthful and inspiring speakers! I would certainly recommend these formative talks to students,” said Fr Thomas Madanan from the Archdiocese of Kota Kinabalu. n

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INSIDE Offering sacrifices won’t earn you God’s blessings Archbishop Goh explains why and what you should be doing n Pages 8-9

Humanae Vitae 50 years on Conference spotlights issues raised in document n Page 4

Mr Tan Cheng Han (far left), the conference moderator, with panellists at the Social Mission Conference: (from left) Ms Teo Jin Lee, Mr Han Fook Kwang, Dominican Friar David Garcia and Mr John Lim.

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Serving persons with developmental disabilities A look at Mamre Oaks’ outreach to the community n Page 6

A good Christian shares the Gospel All baptised called to be missionaries, says Pope n Page 17

Becoming aware of one’s own addictions Msgr Heng offers some suggestions n Page 18

Newly ordained deacon shares his thoughts Looks forward to entering priestly brotherhood, journeying with people n Page 24

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Marriage: The views from various religions Jared Ng Three religious representatives recently spoke on the topic of marriage in their respective religions of Judaism, Islam and Catholicism. Rabbi Mordechai Abergel, Ustaz Z ulhilmi Mohamed and Ms Michelle Voo, a member of the Archdiocesan Catholic Council for Interreligious Dialogue ( ACCIRD) , shared insights on various aspects of marriage such as its purpose, customs and traditions. The July 17 interreligious panel and discussion on marriage, held at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd, was organised by ACCIRD. According to Mr Gerald

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Also, marriage is a response to loneliness. Nothing replaces wholeness like marriage, said the rabbi. Ustaz Z ulhilmi said that marriage in Islam is one way to achieve piety as well as maintain chastity. He also spoke about the Hantaran, a customary wedding gift usually in the form of money. It is given by the groom to the

bride’s family and the sum must be agreed upon by both family parties. Ms Voo shared certain values that are to be practised by a marrie atho ic coup e such as delity, unity, freedom and totality – the act of giving oneself wholeheartedly to the other. During the panel discussion, some questions posed to the three speakers included: How does each religion deal with the issue of same-sex marriage? What are your views on the increase in inter-faith marriages? What is each religion’s take on divorce? The Catholic Church does not accept same-sex marriage, said Ms Voo. She said procreation was a factor in marriage and that samesex couples would not be able to produce children. Rabbi Abergel said that in Judaism, same-sex marriage is a “distortion of how life is supposed to be lived”. Ustaz Z ulhilmi also shared that in Islam, same-sex marriage is not condoned. O n the increase in inter-faith

marriages, Ms Voo said that Catholics have no issues with this. However, “it is a core issue” in Judaism, said Rabbi Abergel. O ne reason is its impact on children. It becomes hard to educate a child if he or she has multiple religious identities, he said. Ustaz Z ulhilmi acknowledged that interreligious marriages “is a reality in today’s society” but is not encouraged in Islam. O n the topic of divorce, Rabbi Abergel likened divorce to the “soul being torn apart” because of what it does to the couple as well as other family members. B oth Ustaz Z ulhilmi and Ms Voo said the act of divorce should only take place as a last resort in their respective religious traditions. This event was the second in a series this ear he rst on the topic of birth, was held in April. n I f you are interested to know more about A C C I R D’ s events, email gerald.accird@ catholic. org.sg. jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

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Leonard Koh and Cassilda Koh, are a husband and wife team who have been very involved in various youth ministries for many years. “Even before marriage, ministries have always been a very big part of who we are. We are from the Church of Our Lady of Perpetual Succour, where we served in the Living Waters Youth Ministry and later in the Youth Praise Ministry (YPM). Subsequently, we served in Amplify when it was formed after Catholic Spirituality Centre (CSC) adopted YPM,” Cassilda said. Believing that marriage is “not a time for settling down”, but rather, a chance to continue God’s work with an even greater impact together, Leonard and Cassilda did not let married life keep them from leading the youth to a life of discipleship.

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Fake emails warning The Archbishop’s Communications ce rch o s an the Chancery are warning Catholics to beware of fake email accounts and to be vigilant. The Chancery has released a notice ( see below) on fraudulent emails impersonating clergy including the Archbishop and Chancellor. ArchComms, in its online CatholicSG Connect B ulletin, warned that it was possible that a PC was compromised, resulting in the theft of its contact list. The public is advised to be vigilant and wary of suspicious emails

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especially those with attachments. ost hurch o ces are no using catholic.org.sg email accounts and this validates the sender as an authentic user, said ArchComms. Those not yet on board are urged to email admin@ catholic.org.sg. cia parish an church organisations’ email accounts should be on catholic.org.sg or their own domain accounts, and not free web email accounts. T o stay informed, visit http: / / w w w .telegram.catholic.sg. T o counter fake new s, visit http: / / w w w .fakenew s.catholic.sg n

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A number of clergy in the Archdiocese of Singapore have reported that they have been impersonated in fraudulent emails sent from unknown sources. These emails are addressed generically and seek considerable sums of money as a “personal request”. These impersonations have included the Archbishop of Singapore ( cath.sg01@ gmail.com) and the Chancellor ( chancellor.johnpaul@ yahoo.com) . The authorities are looking into the matter. In the meantime, the faithful in Singapore are advised not to reply to suspicious emails such as these and remain vigilant about improbable requests. er ho n the se es i personate in such e ai s shou notify the Chancery. They may also wish to send a message to their church ministries and contacts to alert them of the fraud. n

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Speakers at the Humanae V itae conference (from left): Mr Daryl Gomes, Mr A ndrew Kong, Fr David Garcia, Mr Nick Chui and Dr John Hui.

Christopher Khoo For married couple Eugene and Trillion Ng, practising Natural Family Planning ( NFP) has made their relationship so much stronger. Using the Church-approved method of family planning, in which they avoid sex during Trillion’s fertile period, has helped

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A rchdiocesan Commission for A postolate of Mandarin Speaking

• Marriage Preparation Course ( 5 , 12 Aug) • Spirituality Seminar ( 11, 12 Aug) • ACAMS’ Night ( 12 Aug) • Concert by St Cecilia Choral Group ( 18 Aug) • NE Seminar ( 19 Aug) • Chinese Migrants Retreat ( 22 Aug)

• Examination Mass for Students • Chinese Migrants O utreach ( 30 S ep)

A rchdiocesan Commission for the Pastoral Care of Migrants and I tinerant People

• Happiness Workshop • B efrienders’ Formation II ( 2 Aug)

• Migrant Sunday ( 23 S ept) • Marriage Preparation Course ( 30 S ep)

A rchdiocesan Commission for Tamil Speaking Catholic B usiness Network

• My Journey, An Evening with Prof Tan Cheng Han SC ( 2 Aug) • Career Counselling ( 16, 3 0 Aug)

• Career Counselling ( 6, 20 Sep)

Catholic Spirituality C entre

• CER # 61 ( 1-5 Aug) • Revival Friday ( 10, 17 , 24 , 3 1 Aug) • 4 th Sat Healing Mass ( 25 Aug)

• Revival Friday ( 14, 21, 28 S ep) • 4t h Sat Healing Mass ( 22 Sep)

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• 10th Caritas Singapore Golf for Charity 2018 ( 1 Aug)

• Personal Moral Compass – Module 5: Stewards of Life ( 6 Sep-11 O ct) • Public Talks @ AV: Understanding O ur Youths – Love and Addictions ( 15 S ep)

Office for Catechesis

• Archdiocese Catechetical Training Study Day ( 3) ( 7 Aug) • CEC – Answering Q uestions of Faith ( 11 Aug-8 Sep) • B CC 2 – Learning to Listen and Facilitate ( 14 Aug-11 Sep) • B ridging Programme: Parent Formation 4 ( 18 Aug) • RCIA: B ishop’s Catechesis for Catechumens ( Discipleship) ( 25 Aug)

• B asic Catechist Course Level 1: Intro to Catechetical Pedagogy & Catechetical Methods ( 6 Sep-25 O ct) • CEC – Liturgical Principles ( 6 Sep-27 Sep) • Catechetical Awareness Weekend ( 8, 9 Sep) • B asic Catechist Course Level 2: Catholic Social Teaching ( 12 Sep-17 O ct) • B ridging Term 4: ( 15 S ep-1 Dec) • B asic Catechist Course Level 1: Evangelisation & Mission ( Follow Up Workshop) ( 15 S ep) • Archdiocese Catechetical Training Study Day ( 4) ( 25 S ep)

Office for the New Evangelisation

• Lectors’ Study Day ( 4 Aug) • Watchmen Retreat ( 9- 12 Aug) • Faith in the City ( 25 Aug)

• Choir Study Day ( 8 Sep) • New Wine Conference ( 15 S ep) • SCC Study Day ( 22 Sep)

Office for Young People

• Nox Gaudii ( 17 Aug) • Uni Commissioning Mass ( 23 Aug)

• Treasure #10 ( 20-23 S ep) • Empower: Leadership Retreat ( 26-29 Sep)

Singapore A rchdiocesan Catholic Charismatic R enewal

• School of Intercession Module 1 ( 25, 26 Aug)

• Pilgrimage to Spain, Portugal, Lourdes ( 23 Sep-8 O ct)

Note: For more information, please refer to the respective O rganisation’ s web site. This information is correct at the time of printing. Compiled by Office for the New Evangelisation (ONE), www.one.org.sg

them to focus on other activities is wrong, because of the “insepathat they do together as a couple. rable connection, established by This has strengthened their bond. God … between the unitive sigSex also became more mean- ni cance an the procreati e si ingful for them, said the couple ni cance hich are oth inherent during the HV5 0 conference held to the marriage act”. at St Joseph’s Institution on July 14 . Contraception is the voluntary The conference was to mark rejection of one’s own possible the 50t h anniversary of Humanae child, said the moral theologian. Vitae ( O f Human Life) , an encycThe crowd of 400 also broke lical written by B lessed Pope Paul into groups to discuss various tophe ocu ent rea r e the ics. In the group that discussed teaching of the Catholic Church condoms and HIV prevention, led regarding married love, responsi- by Mr Nick Chui from the Cathoble parenthood, NFP and the re- lic Theological Network and Dr jection of contraception. Hui, they learnt that condoms give Dr John Hui, Vice-chairman of a false sense of security in the area the Archdiocesan Commission for of casual sex. the Family, told Catholic News “O ne’s risk of infection inthat the conference creases with inwas aimed at procreasing numbers H umanae V itae moting “a greater of condom-proreaffirmed the understanding, aptected sexual expreciation of, and posures,” said Dr teaching of the pastoral applicaHui, quoting from C atholic C hurch tion of Humanae a study published regarding married in the medical Vitae today”. Apart from sevlove, responsible journal, Sexually eral couples sharTransmitted Disparenthood and ing their experieases, in 2002. the rej ection of ences of putting the Mr Daryl contraception. teachings of HuGomes, a Lay Domanae Vitae into minican, shared practice, other speakers addressed in another group that Pope Paul issues related to the document. ha arne that arti cia conFr James Yeo, rector of the traception would contribute to Catholic Theological Institute of arita in e it a oss o an s Singapore, said he hardly heard respect for woman, and coercive Catholics confessing the sin of imposition of contraception on using contraceptives, and felt that individuals by governments. This this could be because they felt has been the case over the years, they could follow their conscience he noted. on this issue. The third group discussed St O ne’s conscience is not al- John Paul II’s Theology of the ways right, he said. “A Catholic B ody led by Mr Andrew Kong from … has the obligation to form his the Apostolate for Catholic Truth. conscience according to the teach- This compilation of the late pope’s ings of the Church,” he stressed. speeches, often seen as an extended Dominican Fr David Garcia, catechesis on marriage and sexual noted that contraception and NFP, love, was an extensive commentary on the surface, “look the same on the doctrine taught in Humanae because they aim at avoiding a Vitae, Mr Kong explained. n pregnancy”. However, according to Humanae Vitae, contraception christopher.khoo@catholic.org.sg

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Promoting human dignity in all aspects

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Cardinal Peter Turkson shares this thoughts on integral human development The human being is endowed with the dignity that comes from God. And promoting this dignity and helping it develop in various aspects is the task of the Vatican’s Dicastery for Promoting Integral Human Development, said Cardinal Peter Turkson. The Ghanaian cardinal was speaking in an interview with Mr Andre Ahchak, Director of the Archbishop’s Communications ce on u ar ina ur son, who heads the dicastery, was the keynote speaker at Caritas’ Social Mission Conference the previous day. “The dignity of the human person is not given by a court of law,” said Cardinal Turkson. “It’s not given by the United Nations. It’s given by the fact that you were created in the image and likeness of God. That is the source of your dignity.” Promoting dignity therefore means that “we discover who we are and we promote every aspect of this … materially, economically, politically, socially, religiously, transcendentally”, he said. “That’s the business of our ofce pro otin inte ra hu an development.” In response to a question on how Singapore Catholics can help promote this, he replied: “I just want to invite them to be human, to be true to their human nature, and being true to your human nature is to recognise what you are

as a human being. A true sense of a human person is the ultimate guide to everything you do.” Cardinal Turkson also shared his experiences growing up in a family of 10 siblings. “You learn to share. That’s the way you live.” His family was not as well-to-do as others and he learnt to make his own toys using the tools that his father, a carpenter, used. “I’ve always believed that in life, you don’t leave anything the same way you found it… you always have to be able to change something for the better,” he said. He also shared how he became a priest. The town he lived in did not have a residential priest but only visiting ones. Seeing them sparked his interest in the priesthood. hen he as a out he went to the main parish about 6 km away and saw an advertisement on the priesthood. He wrote to the priest in charge who visited him and told him he was welcome to the seminary. “In the service of God, something makes you start and then you grow,” said the cardinal. “We all in life need something s a an insi ni cant to et us interested in something, and then we grow that interest into something that matures.” Prior to the interview, Cardinal Turkson celebrated Sunday Mass at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd. n

“ I ’ ve alw ays believed that in life, you don’ t leave anything the same w ay you found it… you alw ays have to be able to change something for the better.” – Cardinal Turkson

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Centre to help people with intellectual disabilities A look at Mamre Oaks in this series on Catholic social service organisations

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A volunteer with a Mamre O aks memb er. Mamre O aks runs a day activities centre for those aged 18 have intellectual and developmental disab ilities (I DD).

Jared Ng Five days a week, Ms O ng Pek Hoon, 49, visits Mamre O aks where she joins her friends and takes part in numerous activities. Mamre O aks, a Church social service organisation under Caritas Singapore, runs a day activities centre for adults ( aged 18 and above) with intellectual and developmental disabilities ( IDD) in Agape Village, Toa Payoh Lorong 8. It is here that Ms O ng, who has IDD, has learned to open up through her participation in the various programmes and daily social interactions with staff, volunteers and others like her. She shared with Catholic News that she enjoys all the activities at the centre such as art and

craft, and music sessions. However, “cooking is my favourite,” she said. Another member, Mr Fong Kee Yung, 53, said he loves coming to Mamre O aks because of the many friends he has here and also because he gets to enjoy his favourite art and craft activities. According to Mr Joseph Lim, 57, Mamre O aks Centre Manager, the programmes for members are designed to “empower them to lead lives of meaning, dignity and u ent as e as create an environment where they are “welcomed and valued” regardless of their abilities, race and religion. Mr Lim said that some members, after spending time with Mamre O aks, were referred to job placement agencies and found work.

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Mamre O aks currently serves 12 members. The centre can serve up to 30 people. It operates from 8.30 am to 6 pm from Monday to Friday. The organisation was founded in 2015 by a group of friends from Faith and Light Community, another Caritas Singapore member organisation that serves intellectually disabled people and their families. Since then, Mamre O aks has reached out to churches to raise awareness about its services with the hope of assisting families and caregivers who have or know of adults with IDD. The Churches of St Ignatius and Risen Christ have helped in reaching out to parishioners and fundraising projects for Mamre O aks. O ther parishes are soon to follow, according to Mr Lim, who is one of six staff at the centre. He credits a strong volunteer force for assisting with the running of

T he programmes for members are designed to “ empow er them to lead lives of meaning, d t a d f fi me t said M r J oseph L im, M amre O aks C entre M anager. A volunteer showing memb ers how a volcano works.

programmes. Everyday, up to six volunteers are at the centre engaging the members in various activities. During lunch, they accompany the members out to the neighbouring hawker centre. “It is important for these members to be out in the public and with the community,” said Mr Lim. O nce a month, volunteers also bring the members out to popular attractions such as the Singapore Z oo, River Safari and Gardens by the B ay. The biggest reward “is to see the happiness on all their faces, to see them laugh and grow together,” said Mr Alex Chia, 62,

who has been volunteering since January. Another volunteer, Ms Jean Z ee, 65 , said she volunteers because she enjoys being with the members. “We are all God’s children. He loves us all in different ways,” she said. According to Mamre O aks, the organisation’s name came from the B ook of Genesis where Abraham welcomed three strangers and provided them with food by the oak of Mamre. Similarly, the organisation hopes to bring hospitality, nourishment, good news and hope. n jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

EVENTS IN SEPTEMBER There are three events by Mamre O aks scheduled in September with the aim of raising awareness, assisting parents and caregivers of adults with IDD, and providing persons with IDD an opportunity to interact and have fun. n Sept 15: Summer in the orest creenin o a about four people with intellectual disabilities coming together and revealing what it really means to be fully human. In conjunction with the i esti a the will be screened at Golden Village Vivo City from 3 pm-5 pm. n Sept 22: A conference for parents and caregivers of adults with IDD.

Prominent professionals speak on legal, mental health and behavioural issues; selfcare concerns; and how to fully integrate into communities for persons with IDD. This conference aims to reach out to parents and caregivers of adults with IDD and interested people. The conference will be held from 10 am-4 pm at Agape Village. n Sept 23: A tea dance event will be held for persons with IDD at Agape Village from 2 pm-5 pm . There will be games, dances and other activities for persons with IDD to enjoy. There will also be a lucky draw. The event is free and open to the public. F or more information, visit http: / / mamreoaks.sg/ . n

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Offering sacrifices to God (Note: The full version of this reflection was released on 16 July, 2018. Scripture references, unless noted, are from Scripture readings (Is 1:10-17; Mt 10:34-11:1)

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Everyone in our lives has such amaz ing value. If we would only take the time to really look and see the beauty in all of God’s creations, we would see this clearly. God is the only one who can take dust and give life to it, and He creates amaz ing gifts – people of infinite value. We are but co-creators, presented with this immense privilege and honour to be co-creators with God and stewards of life. We are entrusted with the care of our children who are God’s children to begin with. Children with special needs, especially, can bring forth such immense joy and beauty to the parents and siblings who care for them, and can shape us as Christians.

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Everything we receive from God is a blessing. The Lim and Wang families receive this daily through their special needs children. Let us rejoice too in their blessings.

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WE plan our lives as much as we can, but sometimes we find that God simply has another path for us. And while we may question the reason when that curve ball is thrown, deep down our faith holds strong and the beauty of His plan is eventually revealed in a way we would never have expected. This happened to Mark and Monica Lim 12 years ago when Marie, their seventh gift from God, arrived a month early. W ith the faith to cope “The paediatrician that attended to Marie at birth led me out of the delivery ward to tell me first that Marie had Down syndrome. She wasn’t sure how I would want to let Monica know that.” recalls

Mark. B ut Mark knew his wife’s faith was strong and she’d take the news in her stride. “Actually, I cried each time I was left alone in the ward during the three days,” confides Monica, “not for myself, but because I was worried about what the challenges would be for Marie, and who would look after her when we are no longer around.” Marie’s condition came with a host of health issues, including a profound hearing impairment, hyperthyroidism, alopecia and sensitive skin. It was a lot to cope with, but the couple had a strong support system in their family and friends, including those from Church. O ne friend, a doctor, told the couple that Marie and children like her were angels from God. In those early days, Mark and Monica couldn’t quite recognise the extent to which that statement was true. B ut they had faith in God and that gave them strength, trusting that “God

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“I was in my 40s when I was expecting Marie and was asked if we wanted to do an amniocentesis test, but we refused,” said Monica. The couple would never have given Marie up even if they knew in the early stages of pregnancy that she had Down syndrome. “Also, I had been through nine miscarriages and didn’t want to risk another. B ut I must admit I had an inkling at Mass one day that maybe this baby would have special needs. My initial reaction was – I don’t want this – but immediately I apologised to the Lord. We would accept whatever God gave us.” The lucky on es While they accepted Marie as a gift almost immediately, Mark continued to worry about Marie’s

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future until one evening at dinner with a Spanish priest, when Marie was about four or five years old. “What he said that night changed my whole outlook on the situation and gave me profound peace,” says Mark. “He told me that children with special needs are the lucky ones. They go to heaven first – pure and simple. That turned it all around for me. We should be envious of her.” Counting their b lessings Looking back on life with Marie over the last 12 years, the couple can count so many blessings. For one thing, Marie’s six older siblings, now aged between 16 and 29 years, have observed that if not for Marie, they would have turned out more self-centred. O ne of the biggest challenges for the couple was finding the right place for Marie to be educated and included. “Now I understand the Seven Sorrows of O ur Lady,” Monica says. “The

sword shall pierce your soul. Until Marie started growing up I never really understood that. B ut as I watched her try to integrate with other children and being excluded from activities because she was different, I felt such pain.” She found that the schools for children with special needs were neither suitable nor what she desired for her daughter. The couple searched in vain for a suitable solution. Monica had a career in Early Learning and had researched education for children with special needs. So she knew there was a better way. She tried to introduce the teaching to schools, but no one was willing to take it up fully. In 2014, when Marie was 8, Monica knew that she had to take it on herself. She looked at Marie’s current needs, and they were not being addressed by anything in the school system. So the couple took Marie out of the system, and that’s how Rosebrook came about in late 2014.

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Rosebrook Developmental Centre is a safe place for children, both typically developing and those with special needs, to learn together through play, drawing on the children’s strengths and building upon their natural abilities to form neural pathways in the brain. The successes that Monica’s team brings about for the children at Rosebrook are testament to how well the Rosebrook way works. The Centre is changing lives. “God made clear, as he closed every other door, that we had to start Rosebrook,” recalls Monica. It was a calculated risk but everything fell into place really quickly and in two months everything was up and running. Rosebrook began under circumstances of great uncertainty, but three years on, God continues to make a way, despite all the challenges.” Wh en one door shuts, another opens “O ur vision is to build a community where people with special needs are naturally included,” states Monica. “And that is what we have started with Rosebrook. Through Marie’s unconditional love, we have been able to give others in the community the same love. We never planned to build Rosebrook. That’s been God’s hand in our journey for sure.” Mark and Monica advise parents expecting or parenting children with special needs to be humble and ask for help when they need it. To be aware that fear does not come from God, and that the fears are far worse than the reality that materialises. Their final advice: Surround yourself with positive people who build you up rather than tear you down. Some people are more wellmeaning than wise. Trust in God and know that He has the best path for you.

The gift of light

WHEN the Wang family heard the news that mum Alice was expecting her fourth child, everyone was excited. She was in her late thirties at that time, so her doctor advised her to have an amniocentesis test due to the higher risk of the baby having Down Syndrome. B ut Alice and her husband, Kok Wing, refused. “This child is a gift from God, and we didn’t see the point of risking a miscarriage with the test since we would proceed with the pregnancy regardless,” explains Kok Wing. “Moreover, I wanted to enjoy the pregnancy without having to worry,” adds Alice, “and how much can you prepare anyway? ”

Kok Wing, however, had a much harder time dealing with the family’s new reality. “My heart was crushed. I had anxieties and doubts about what will happen next and how to cope. I wrestled with ‘ Why me, God? How can it be? Where did I go wrong? ’ Is this a punishment? ” Kok Wing questions. “What made it worse was that I couldn’t share my thoughts with them without spoiling their joy.”

Spirit, which released my fears. After that release, it was upwards from there.” R eflecting the value of the Gospel The family was introduced to the Faith and Light Community, which focuses on people with intellectual disabilities. The community recognises that such people bear gifts in their hearts

T heir innocence reflects the values of the G ospel, w hich are lost in today’ s w orld

R eactions When Joseph was born, the paediatrician saw signs of Down Syndrome and ordered blood tests, which turned out to be positive. When the news was broken to the family, each member had very different reactions. The couple’s three daughters, Josephine, Marie and Michelle, were over the moon. The eldest daughter, Josephine, was 10 at the time. They were all too young to really understand the implications for Joseph. They loved the idea of having a brother who was different. Alice was calm and accepting of the situation. “I saw it as a new chapter in my life. My trust in God prepared me for this.”

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that “normal” people have lost. “Their innocence reflects the values of the Gospel, which are lost in today’s world,” explains Kok Wing. “These people are trusting, forgiving, spontaneous and affectionate.” A connector of people Having Joseph has brought our family even closer to one another, as well as to the local community. “Many around here know Joseph, and we have made many pleasant connections through him,” Alice says. It was Father John B aptist Tou who gave Joseph his name, meaning “light of the world”. The

name turned out to be prophetic. “His trusting and affectionate ways build bridges with people and warm their hearts. O ften at Mass, Joseph will bring people to us and make us shake hands,” says Josephine. “So we’ve gotten to know the congregation better through Joseph’s light.” Family b

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Living with Joseph presents challenges. He is less able to perform many daily tasks such as cleaning himself. He struggles with reading and counting. He has his mood swings. Through the family’s involvement in his development over the years, they, too, have matured and grown closer together. “If not for Joseph, perhaps the family could have been different; maybe more inward looking and individualistic,” says Alice. Joseph has taught them the joy of unconditional love, to not hold grudges and to be sensitive to the needs of others. With him, the couple is also forced to review their parenting skills. Alice explains: “We were authoritative parents until Joseph came along; he changed us for the better.” “We hope Joseph’s example can give hope to anxious expecting mothers to keep their babies,” she adds. “God doesn’t make junk. Having a special child will challenge you to love as Jesus knows you are capable of. Just trust Him.”

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ing in the house but a jug of oil.” Elisha told her to gather as many jugs as she could. From the one jug of oi isha e a the others “Go and sell the oil to pay off your creditor,” Elisha said to the woman. “With what remains, you and your children can live.” A man from B aal-shalishah brought an offering of 20 barley loaves. “Give it to the people to eat,” Elisha told him. The man looked around. “How

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Elisha was with the prophet Elijah, who also served as his teacher. They had reached the banks of the Jordan River. Elijah removed his sleeveless overcoat, which was called a mantle, rolled it up and touched the water with it. The water immediately parted, and the two men crossed the riverbed on dry land. When they reached the other side, Elijah said, “Ask for whatever I may do for you, before I am taken from you.” Elisha replied, “May I receive a double portion of your spirit? ” Elijah placed his hands on his student’s shoulders and looked into his eyes. “You have asked something that is not easy. Still, if you see me taken up from you, your wish will be granted; otherwise not.” While the two men were talking, a powerful wind roared towards

the an a fla in chariot ith horses pulled up alongside them. Elijah climbed into the chariot and the driver delivered him up to heaven in a whirlwind. Elisha looked down by his feet and saw Elijah’s mantle. He did as Elijah had done. He touched the water of the Jordan River and it parted again, so he was able to cross back on dry land. There were men by the water who had seen what had happened. O ne of them said, “The spirit of Elijah rests on Elisha.” From that moment, God used Elisha in ways he never had experienced before. A widow came before Elisha asking his help. Her husband died, leaving her with debt that the creditor wanted paid. “Tell me what you have in the house,” said Elisha. “This servant of yours has noth-

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ARCHDIOCESAN CATECHISTS RETREAT: I t was praye r and fun time for 64 catechists serving children, you th and the R CI A during their annual retreat held at the Montfort Centre from June 8- 10. The retreat theme was “Je sus living in Mary , the Mould of Catechesis”.

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The following Heads of Commissions were elected for the 2019- 2020 term during the July 10-13 Plenary Assembly of the Catholic B ishops’ Conference of Malaysia, Singapore and B runei. The meeting was held at MAJO DI Centre, in Plentong, Johor: B ib lical Commission: B ishop Cornelius Sim Consecrated Life: Archbishop William Goh Diocesan Priests and Seminaries: B ishop Richard Ng Ecumenism and I nter- Faith A ffairs: Archbishop Julian Leow Family , Laity an d Life: President: Archbishop John Wong ( Family & Life) V ice- President: B ishop Julius Gitom ( Laity) Y outh/ Campus Ministry: Archbishop Simon Poh Liturgy: B ishop Sebastian Francis New Evangelisation: Archbishop Simon Poh Pontifical ission ocieties Archbishop Simon Poh Pastoral Health Care: B ishop Cornelius Piong Pastoral Care of Migrants and I tinerants: B ishop B ernard Paul Creation Justice: B ishop Joseph Hii Social Communications: B ishop Cornelius Sim Malays ian Catechetical: Archbishop Julian Leow Malay sian Catholic Education Council: Archbishop Julian Leow A postleship of the Sea: Archbishop William Goh Present office earers President: B ishop Sebastian Francis V ice- President: B ishop Cornelius Sim Treasurer: B ishop B ernard Paul Honorary S ecretary: Archbishop William Goh Present representatives in the Federation of A sian B ishops’ Conferences (FA B C): FA B C representative: B ishop Sebastian Francis C Office of heological Concerns Archbishop William Goh C Office of Evangelisation Archbishop Simon Poh Subm itted by: C A T H O L I C B I SH

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A good Christian shares the Gospel: Pontiff CI TY – All Christians are called to be missionaries, concerned more with sharing the Gospel than with earning money or even with being successful at winning converts, Pope Francis said. “A baptised person who does not feel the need to proclaim the Gospel, to announce Christ, is not a good Christian,” the Pope said on July 15 before reciting the Angelus prayer with an estimated 15,000 people gathered in St Peter’s Square. Pope Francis was commenting on the day’s Gospel reading, which told about how Jesus sent the disciples out two-by-two to preach and to heal in His name. “It was a kind of apprenticeship for what they would be called to do with the power of the Holy Spirit after the resurrection of the Lord,” the Pope explained. Speaking only in the name of Jesus, he said, “the apostles had nothing of their own to proclaim and none of their own abilities to demonstrate, but they spoke and acted as emissaries, as messengers of Jesus.” “This Gospel episode concerns us, too, and not only priests, but all the baptised, who are called to witness to the Gospel of Christ in all the situations of life,” he said. hristians u their ission he said, when their proclamation is motivated only by love for and obedience to Christ and when the only message they share is Christ’s. In the reading from St Mark’s Gospel, Jesus tells His disciples “to take nothing for the journey but a walking stick – no food, no sack, no money in their belts.” The poverty and simplicity of

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hr t a f fi the r m he the r proclamation is m t ated ef ra d ed e e t hr t ad e ra managers, not unmovable functionaries [ and] not stars on tour.” Although all the baptised are sent out on mission by Christ, they go with no guarantee of success, the Pope said. “This, too,

Remember your roots, Pope tells young people V A TI CA N CI TY – The future cannot e un erstoo ithout reflecting on the past and on the history and traditions passed on to young people from parents and grandparents, Pope Francis said. “It’s from your roots that you will get the strength to continue. None of us – neither you nor me – were manufactured in a laboratory; we have a history, we have roots. And everything we do, the results we achieve, the beauty we create in the future, all comes from those roots,” said the Pope in a video message released by the Vatican on July 15. The Pope’s message was sent to young people of the Caribbean attending the July 10-23 youth assembly sponsored by the Antilles bishops’ conference. The conference’s theme was focused on transforming the family in the

Caribbean in accordance with “Amoris Laetitia” ( The Joy of Love) , the pope’s apostolic exhortation on marriage and family. In his message, the Pope warned young people of the danger of becoming “aging youths” who are “settled” and do not have the strength to move forward and build a better future. Explaining that his exhortation’s fourth chapter is “the heart” of the document’s teaching on the family, the pope urged them to study and examine it as a way “of moving the family forward and to transform the family of the Caribbean.” “Study it. Look at it and you will have the guidelines to move forward,” he said. Love is never-ending and is an important aspect of family life with “a strength all its own,” he added. n C N S

is poverty: the experience of failure.” Pope Francis prayed that Mary, the rst iscip e an issionar of the word of God, would help us bear the message of the Gospel in the world with a humble and radiant exultation that goes beyond every refusal, misunderstanding or tribulation.” n C N S

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How your bad habit is hurting others ... Msgr Philip Heng, SJ In this second part of the “Living a More Discerning Life” series, it is oo that e reflect on the lives we have been living, as we cannot presume that we are doing this. We are each called to discover anew the blessings that God intends that we experience in our daily living. God loves each of us personally and deeply, and wants us to i e a ore eanin u u in and happy life. I would like to begin with a true stor o a i not his rea name) who shared with me in front of his wife: “Father, I used to drink at least one big bottle of brandy, a case of beer every night ith roup o rien s an smoke two packs of cigarettes every day. My good wife told me many times to stop, as it would destroy my health. I refused to listen ... However, one day, my young son of eight asked me, ‘ Daddy, do you love me? ’ “I was taken aback by the question and replied, ‘ O f course, I love you my son, why do you ask? ’ His reply was, ‘ Daddy, if you love me then you have to stop drinking and smoking. O therwise, you will not see me graduate.’ “This shocked me. For the rst ti e sa ho sa son looked. After saying this, he went to his room and cried. What my son did to me that morning, broke my heart. Clearly, God spoke to me through him! I went up to my young son and hugged him and I cried. From that day onwards, till to a so e ears ater ha e never smoked another cigarette or drank another glass of brandy!” David then turned to his wife and said, “Dear, Is this not true? ” She nodded. From this story, it would be good to ask ourselves sincerely questions like: “In the way I live, do I have ‘ addictions’ that hurt my loved ones and harm myself? ” O ur “addictions” may not nec-

Many people do not even recognise that they have “addictions”; they refer to them as habits.

essarily be excessive consumption of alcohol or smoking of cigarettes. O ur “addictions” can be a in se ua antasies pornography) leading to immorality, or they can even seem “harmless” addiction to phones, computer games, social media or even work co e up ith our o n ist These basic questions need to be asked, encountered and emrace throu h a eeper reflection of “How am I living my life? ” We need to have a better sense of the quality of our daily living. We cannot presume that the way we live need not be challenged: we may not be aware of our attitude and impact of our behaviour, like David in the story. We also cannot presume that we are not causing our loved ones much pain and suffering by harming and destroying ourselves. We can be as “obstinate and blind” in our addictions as David was. In reality, many people do not even recognise that they have a ictions the re er to the as habits. Regardless of what one calls it, “addictions” enslave us,

steal our limited time and prevent us from living a more meaningful life, and experiencing deeper relationships with others and God. If we have “addictions”, then the rst acts o is o is to recognise, repent and renew our desires to live a more wholesome life, even though the truth may be very painful. Secondly, we need to pray for God’s graces to act on our desire to change for the better, and tell ourselves, “I need to do something about this.” David in our story did so very decisively, out of his love for his son. For us to be liberated from our “addictions”, we need to draw strength from God and place Him at the centre of our lives for the “conversion” to take place. It is upon such a “conversion” of heart that we can take a step in the right direction towards livin a ore ho eso e u in and happy life that God wills of us because He loves us dearly and personally. n M sgr H eng is R ector of the C athedral of the G ood hS e pherd

Forgiveness – the greatest miracle PO ET Ralph Waldo Emerson calls the stars in the night sky “envoys of beauty, lighting the universe with their admonishing smile” and submits that if they appeared for a single night only every thousand years, we’d be on our knees in worship and would cherish the memory for the rest of our lives. B ut since they come out every night, the miracle goes mostly unnoticed. We watch television instead. B ut, their beauty notwithstanding, shining stars are not the most prominent miracle which goes unnoticed. The greatest miracles have to do with gratuity, with love, with unfreez ing a soul, with forgiveness. O ur great poverty is that these go mostly unnoticed. There are much more astonishing things than the stars for which to be down on our knees in gratitude and there are more profound things to cherish in memory than a starlit night. The B elgium spirituality writer, B enoit Standaert, suggests that the greatest miracle is “that the freely given exists, that there is love that makes whole and that embraces what has been lost, that chooses what had been rejected, that forgives what has been found guilty beyond appeal, that unites what had seemingly been torn apart forever.” The greatest miracle is that there’s redemption for all that’s wrong with us. There’s redemption from all we’ve failed to live up to because of our inadequacies. There’s redemption from our wounds, from all that’s left us physically, emotionally, and spiritually limping and cold. There’s redemption from injustice, from the unfairness we suffer ourse es an ro the hurt hich e inflict no in or un no in on others. There’s redemption from our mistakes, our moral failures, our in e ities our sins here s re e ption ro re ationships one sour, from marriages, families and friendships that have been torn apart isun erstan in hatre se shness an io ence here s re e ption from suicide and murder. Nothing falls outside the scope of God’s power to forgive, to resurrect and make new, fresh, innocent and joyful again. O ur lives, to a greater or lesser extent, all end up incomplete, broken, unfairly ripped away from us, and causing hurt to others because of our ea nesses in e ities sin an a ice an sti u ti ate it can a wash clean again. There’s redemption, new life after all the ways we’ve gone wrong in this world. And that redemption comes through forgiveness. Forgiveness is the greatest miracle, the pan-ultimate miracle, which, along with everlasting life, is the real meaning of the resurrection of Jesus. There’s nothing more godlike, or miraculous, than a moment of reconciliation, a moment of forgiveness. It’s for this reason that when the Gospels write up the resurrection of Jesus their emphasis, again and again, is on forgiveness. Indeed, Luke’s Gospel does not distinguish the announcement of the resurrection from the announcement of the forgiveness of sins. Forgiveness and resurrection are inextricably linked. Likewise, in the Gospel of John, in Jesus’ rst resurrection appearance to the asse e co unit ith the a hiding behind locked doors in fear) , He gives them the power to forgive sins. The message of the resurrection is that a dead body can be raised again from its grave. B ut this isn’t just true for our physical bodies, which die, but it’s also true, especially, for hearts that are froz en and dead from disappointment, bitterness, anger, separation and hatred. The miracle of the resurrection is as much about raising deadened souls to new life as it is about raising dead bodies to new life. Despite being nearly overwhelmed by new inventions today, machines and gadgets that do everything including talking to us, in truth, we see very little that’s genuinely new, that’s not the norm. Sure, we see new innovations every day coming at us so rapidly that we have trouble coping with the changes they are bringing about. B ut in the end, these innovations don’t genuinely surprise us, at least not at a deep level, at the level of the soul, morally. They’re simply more of what we already have, extensions of ordinary life, nothing really surprising. B ut when you see a woman forgive another person who has genuinely hurt her, you are seeing something that’s not normal, that’s surprising. You are seeing something that is not simply another instance of how things naturally unfold. Likewise, when you see warmth and love break through to a man who has long been captive of a bitter and angry heart, you are seeing something that’s not just another instance of normal life, of ordinary unfolding. You’re seeing newness, redemption, resurrection, forgiveness. Forgiveness is the only thing that’s new on our planet, everything else is just more of the same. And so, in the words of B enoit Standaert: “Whenever we strive to bring a little more peace through justice here on earth and, in whatever form, change sadness into happiness, heal broken hearts, or assist the sick and the weak, we arrive directly at God, the God of the resurrection.” Forgiveness is the most astonishing miracle we will ever see or experience this side of eternity. It, alone, makes for the possibility of heaven – and happiness. n

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God rested. Let’s do likewise B y L aura Kelly F anucci Writing this column almost made a liar out of me. “I’ll write about leisure,” I had decided one morning at Mass, snuggled next to a rarely calm child, soaking in the Sunday quiet. A perfect topic for July’s sultry weather and a gentle reminder of how God calls us to rest. B ut then my work schedule picked up. So did my husband’s. House projects became emergencies i s ot sic sche u es ot thrown off. hen na sat o n to rite n ers pause othin came to mind. Turns out I had z ero leisure in my life – an inability to slow down, the frantic rush from one must-do to the next, the nagging guilt that stopping would be laz y. We read in Genesis that God rested on the seventh day. B ut too often, we dismiss this notion for our own “craz y busy” lives as quaint. B ut what if – like every one of God’s actions – resting on the Sabbath was a powerful and profound act of divine might and wisdom? God rested. Why do we think we don’t need to do the same?

“We tend to overwork as a means of self-escape, as a way of trying to justify our existence,” wrote the German Catholic philosopher Josef Pieper in “Leisure: The B asis of Culture”. Look around at our culture. It’s not hard to see that most of us are soul-worn. The Third Commandment tells us to keep holy the Sabbath. The Catechism of the Catholic

Church reminds us that “the Sabbath brings everyday work to a halt and provides a respite. It is a day of protest against the servitude of work and the worship of one o So how can we slow down to reclaim rest? Here are three ways to make space for Sabbath – simple ideas that are helping me get back on track.

First, let technology r est. I’ve been taking a “phone-free Sabbath”: tucking the phone in a drawer on Saturday night and resisting the temptation to scroll on Sunday. I’m embarrassed to admit that it’s harder than I expected. B ut the deliberate practice of ein o fline an a ai a e to those who matter most – my spouse and kids – is delightful and refreshing. I pray longer without distraction. I

started reading novels again. I sit and notice: children at play, birds feeding, growth in our gardens. Now on Monday mornings, I regret picking the phone back up. The more Sabbath I have, the more I crave it. n Second, let chores rest. In a bustling household, there is always something to do, fold, e scru ash s eep or mend. B ut a family isn’t called to be a well-oiled machine. We are a home full of humans who need to rest, relax and enjoy each other’s company, too. Try piling the dishes in the sink after Sunday lunch. O r quieting the washing machine from its constant churning. Leaving a chore or t o to rest e en unti Sunday night) can free up a little breathing room. n Third, let you rself rest. Yes, you, with 1,000 things to do and a racing mind that won’t quit. Go to bed early. Sleep in a little later. Take a guilt-free nap. Let the God of rest – the God who rested – restore you, body and soul. n C N S F anucci is the author of several books, including “ E veryday S acrament: T he M essy G race of P arenting,” and blogs at w w w .motheringspirit.com.

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A U G 2 TO O CT 18 Gospel of Mark b y M sgr A mb rose V az Every Thursday. No class on Aug 9 a nd Sept 6. Join us for a B ible study on the shortest Gospel to know our Lord deeper and better. Time: 8pm-10pm. O rganised by the B iblical Apostolate Team, Church of Christ the King, Ang Mo Kio Ave 8. To register: SMS 9010 52 ( Dorcas) ; 9832 1538 ( Lene) ; E: ctkbat@ hotmail.com. A U G4 Lectors’ Study D ay Time: 1.30pm -4.3 0pm. O pen to all lectors in the Archdiocese of Singapore. Fr Terence Pereira, Episcopal Vicar for the New Evangelisation, will be leading a study on the theme “The Word in Communion”. Come and discover how Sacred Scripture should be a part of our i es an in the i e o the hurch r anise ce for the New Evangelisation. Venue: CAEC, 2 Highland Rd. For more information, E: enquiry@ one.org.sg; T: 691 1 0420; W: www.one.org.sg/ events. A U G4 Mass and praye rs for healing Time: 2pm-4pm . Venue: Church of Sts Peter and Paul. Praise and worship and Mass followed by prayers for healing. After Mass, prayer teams will be available to pray with you for healing. Celebrant: Fr Tom Curran. O rganiser: Praise@ Work. For more information, E: praiseatworksg@ yahoo.com; T: 974 2467. JU LY 9 TO SEPT 3 Life in the Spirit Seminar Church of St Francis X avier Charismatic Prayer Group 9 M onday sessions ( 7.45pm -9.45pm ). To register: W: http: / / www.bit.ly/ SFX LISS. For more information, T: 9066 3514 ( Catherine) ; 9002 6616 ( Jean) ; E: sfxlifeinthespirit@ gmail.com. A U G 1 TO A U G 31 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine (CCD) 20182019 R egistration Catechism classes for international schools. CCD is a faith formation programme for children aged six-13 ye ars in international schools. Grade one through grade seven classes are held weekly on Tuesday or Thursday afternoons from p p an the con r ation c asses are he on un a s from 3.30p m-5pm , starting in September through till the end of May 2019. O nline registration opens on Aug 1. All students ( new and returning) have to register online.

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A journey for those seeking to know more about the Catholic faith. Baptised Catholics are also invited to journey as sponsors. JU NE 25, 2018 TO MA Y 13, 2019 R CI A (Mandarin) @ B lessed Sacrament Church Every Monday from 7.30pm -9.30pm . For more information, E: rcia@ bsc.org.sg; W: https: / / tinyurl.com/ RCIA-B SC; T: 6474 0582. JU NE 26, 2018 TO A PR I L 20, 2019 R CI A @ Church of the Holy C ross For English: Every Thursday at 7.45pm . It begins on June 28. For Mandarin: Every Tuesday at 7 .4 5 pm. It begins on June 26. For more information, E: holycrosschurch.rcia@ gmail.com; T: 975 71 15 ( Susan for English RCIA) ; T: 967 2709 ( Wendy for Mandarin RCIA) . JU NE 27, 2018 TO MA Y 2, 2019 R CI A @ Church of Christ the King Every Wednesday from 8pm-10pm at Room 105. From September, additional sessions will also be held on every Sunday morning. Registration forms are available at the parish o ce or ore in or ation E: query.rcia@ gmail.com.

A U G 10 TO A U G 12 Diocesan V ocation R etreat Sometimes, it takes all of your senses to discern God’s fragrant offering. Come and discern your priestly vocation with us. To register: E: seminariansonline@ gmail.com; E: diocesanvocations@ catholic.org.sg. Closing date to register is Aug 4.

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A U G 1 1, 18, 25 A ND SEPT 1, 8 New Catechist Elective Course – A nswering Q uestions of Faith Time: 10am-1pm. The course seeks to inspire catechists to be excited about their faith and equip them to address questions of faith that are relevant to young people such as religion versus science and how God is at work in the Church today. For more information, T: 691 1 0400.

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A U G 14, 21, 28. S EPT 4, 1 1 B asic Catechist Course Level 2 – Learning to Listen & Facilitate Time: 7 : 3 0pm-10pm. Venue: St Joseph’s Church ( B ukit Timah) . Participants will learn the key to facilitating small faith-sharing groups as well as practical skills to help individuals and the community grow in faith. Participants attending Part 1 of the course in July need attend only the Sept 4 a nd 11 sessions. Email formation@ catechesis.org.sg to inform that you are only attending the last two sessions. E: formation@ catechesis.org.sg; W: www.catechesis.org.sg; T: 691 1 0400

A U G4 I ntroduction to A uthentic Conversations Time: 9.30a m-5.30pm . Explore what is at the heart of an authentic conversation – listening. Are we aware of what and how we listen? Learn how to nurture safe spaces for authentic conversations. Facilitator: Mr Lance Ng. O rganised by Kingsmead Centre, 8 Victoria Park Rd. Cost: $60. To register: W: http: / / tinyurl.com/ itac2018; T: 6467 6072.

A U G 19 TO O CT 14 Couple Empowerment Programme Venue: Church of the Holy Cross. Ten weekly sessions on Friday evenings for newly married couples ( married between one-10 years) . Learn how to build a Christ-centred marriage faithful to the magisterial teaching of the Church. This is a parish-based programme that presents beautiful truths about the sacramental marriage through the stories of witnesses, whilst learning life skills designed by experts. For more information, W: www.cep-sg.org or Fb/ com/ sg-cep.

A U G9 Cantonese R etreat Time: 9a m-6pm. Venue: Church of Sts Peter and Paul 225A Q ueen Street, S188551. All are welcome. FO C. Join us for a day of activities including rosary recitation, praise and worship, testimonies, a healing service and Mass. Speakers: Frs Stephen Yim, Philip Lai and Terence Wee. O rganised by the Church of Sts Peter and Paul Cantonese group. For more information, T: 9671 7083 ( David) .

A U G 24 TO A U G 26 Magis I mmersion R etreat Aug 24 ( 7.30pm ) - Aug 26 ( 4pm ) . Discover God and self through the lens of Ignatian spirituality. Explore what it eans to n o in a thin s an i e as a conte p ati e in action. Facilitators: Keith Neubronner and Margaret Tang. O rganised by Kingsmead Centre, 8 Victoria Park Rd. Cost: $270 ( non-AC) , $310 ( AC) . To register: W: http: / / tinyurl.com/ magis18; T: 6467 6072.

JU NE 27, 2018 TO MA Y 29, 2019 R CI A @ Cathedral of the Good Shepherd Every Wednesday from 7.30pm -9.30pm . Register at goo.gl/ an at the cathe ra o ce or ore in or ation E: cathedral.rcia@ catholic.org.sg; T: 9630 8346 ( Terese) . JU LY 1, 2018 TO JU NE 2, 2019 R CI A (Mandarin) @ Church of O ur Lady of Perpetual Succour Every Sunday from 9a m-10.30a m. O rganised by Church O f O ur Lady of Perpetual Succour, 31 S iglap Hill, S( 456085) For more information, T: 971 2135; W: www.olps.sg. JU LY 3, 2018 TO JU NE 9, 2019 R CI A @ Church of St I gnatius Every Tuesday from 8pm-10pm at St Ignatius Hall. For more information, T: 6466 0625 ( Angela) ; T: 9628 6472 ( Sandra) ; W: https: / / tinyurl.com/ stignatius-rcia. JU LY 6, 2018 TO JU NE 24, 2019 R CI A (Cantonese) @ Church of Sts Peter & Paul er ri a ro p p at parish secon floor roo or ore in or ation parish o ce T: 9712 0452. JU LY 7, 2018 TO JU NE 9, 2019 R CI A @ Church of Divine Mercy New RCIA journey will begin on July 7 a nd thereafter every Saturday in the parish hall, Level 2. Time: 3pm . RCIA forms a ai a e at parish o ce or ore in o contact a 6202) / Timothy ( 9618 9826) or email: rciacdm@ gmail.com

JU LY , 10 2018 TO A PR I L 20, 2019 R CI A @ Church of St Teresa Every Tuesday from 7.45pm -9.30pm at the chapel. To register: E: rcia@ stteresa.org.sg.

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JU LY 14, 2018 TO JU NE 9, 2019 R CI Y @ Church of St I gnatius Calling all young people who are not Catholic aged 17- 24. Key dates: welcome tea and information session: July 14 ( 4pm -6pm) . Introductory Sessions: July 21 and July 28 ( 4pm -6pm) . Subsequent RCIY sessions will commence on Aug 7 a nd continue every Tuesday from 8pm-10pm. For more information, T: 9724 7613 ( Eliz a) ; T: 822 83 4 19 ( Aaron) ; T: 9817 21 18 ( Debbie) ; E: rciy.ignatius@ gmail.com; W: https: / / tinyurl.com/ ignatiusrciy. JU LY 24, 2018 TO MA Y 28, 2019 R CI A @ Church of the Holy S pirit Time: 7: 45pm -9: 45pm . We also invite adult Catholics to enrol as sponsors. All sponsors will be required to go through an “Introduction to RCIA” training, which will be provided by the RCIA core team. To register: W: https: / / bit.ly/ RCIA2018.

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A U G 25 B ishop’ s Catechesis for Catechumens (Discipleship) Time: 10.30a m-12.30pm . Venue: Church of St B ernadette. A talk to allow catechumens to hear the mind of the Church through the Archbishop. It is also to learn the meaning of being a disciple of Christ. For more information, T: 691 1 0402 . SEPT 2 Catholic Nurses Guild A nnual Mass Time: 5.30pm -9pm . Venue: Cathedral of The Good Shepherd, Q ueen Street, S18853. The Catholic Nurses Guild, Singapore, invites all nurses and professional healthcare providers to this annual Mass, followed by fellowship and buffet dinner at $10/ person. All are welcome. For more information, T: 9487 2244 ( Susan Loh) ; T: 9321 0031 ( Janet Chong) ; T: 9767 05 79 ( Laura Tan) ; T: 9236 1047 ( Theresa Cheong) .

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SEPT 6 TO SEPT 27 Catechist Elective Course – Liturgical Principles Time: 7: 30pm -10pm. Venue: Church of the Risen Christ, 91 Toa Payoh Central, S319193. Topics such as The Theological Reflections on Liturgy, Revision of Missale Romanum – The Theory of Translation, Liturgical and Sacred Music, Towards Ars Celebrandi as well Living a Eucharistic Life. Register using the link by Sept 3: https: / / tinyurl.com/ y7b4t ntc. For more information, W: www.catechesis.org.sg; E: formation@ catechesis.org.sg; T: 691 1 0400. NO V 10 C O MMENCI NG Maryval e Certificate in Catechesis (MCC) This is a 2-year, part-time, distance-learning course for those interested to develop his or her faith so as to explain it to others. It includes practical aspects of catechesis, as well as a solid foundation in key areas of theology and spirituality, so theory is reflected in practice throughout the course. O rganiser: O ffice For Catechesis. E: actp@ catechesis.org.sg ( Jane) NO V 18 C O MMENCI NG A rchdiocesan Catechetical Trainers’ Programme (A CTP) The O ffice For Catechesis is opening application for the next intake of the Archdiocesan Catechetical Trainers Programme. It is fully sponsored and includes 3 ye ars of training, formation, parish attachments and certifications. O pen to any catechist with minimum of 2 years’ catechetical experience. Application closing date: July 31. E: actp@ catechesis.org.sg or formation@ catechesis.org.sg.

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DEC 1 TO DEC 7 Family M ission Trip 2018 Want an unforgetable and meaningful family vacation? Venue: Tagaytay, Philippines ( 60 km south of Manila) . Cost ( est) : Adult ( 12 yrs and above) : $800. Child ( 7- 11 yrs) : $750. P rices include airfare, accommodation twin-share, full board, local transfers and transport. Registration is now open on a first-come-first-served basis. For more information, W: http: / / verbumdeisingapore.org; T: 9689 0919 ( Diana Ho) .

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Tenth A nniversary In loving memory of

IV Y Y A P Departed: July 30, 2008 Remembering you is easy We do it every day Missing you is the hardest part As it never goes away To hear your voice. To see your smile To sit with you and talk for awhile Would be our greatest wish Today, tomorrow, our whole life through We shall always love and remember you. Dearly missed and forever cherished by your family.

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CECI LI A CHI A SI A M LU NG Departed: Aug 2, 2009 The depths of sorrow we cannot tell, O f the loss of one, we love so well, And while she sleeps a peaceful sleep. Her memory we shall always keep. Fondly remembered by husband, daughters, sons-in-law, grandchildren and loved ones.

KA THLEEN JA NE WO O DFO R D Departed: August 9, 2007 Your efforts as a community activist, educator, unionist, sister and aunt have not, and will not be forgotten. Your legacy lives on in the ones you’ve left behind. In the darkest of times, you’ll be our guiding light. “ N us tudu logu engkontra ku bos di tona. N us amore ku bos”

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A journey from naval officer to deacon Jared Ng When your cross of service becomes heavy, remember that you are not alone. You have Jesus, your fellow priests and me. These were words of encouragement offered by Archbishop William Goh to Gabriel Wong, who was ordained a deacon on July 25 . This ceremony at the Church of O ur Lady of Perpetual Succour on July 25 marks the na sta e in his preparation or priestly ordination. “Serve the people with love and joy as you would the Lord. Remember that you are a disciple who came not to be served but to serve,” said Archbishop Goh. He reminded Deacon Gabriel to “serve with humility,

compassion, love ... so that Jesus can be seen through you.” “O ur ministry is for the glory of God, not for our own glory,” he said. Deacon Gabriel, 3 6, in his address, delivered an emotional message to his mother in Mandarin in which he thanked her for raising him, the only child in his family. His father passed away when he was 13 . In an email interview with Catholic News, Deacon Gabriel said he was looking forward to becoming a priest and journeying with people. he or er na a o cer said he aims to have a Christlike heart and to keep his eyes “fixed on Jesus”. During this period of transition towards the priesthood,

Deacon Gab riel W ong with his mother Ms Grace Chew and A rchb ishop.

the deacon can celebrate the Sacraments of Matrimony and B aptism but not the Mass and the Sacrament of Reconciliation, according to Fr Valerian Cheong, Archdiocesan Vocation Director. However, the deacon can assist the priest in preaching at Masses. Fr Valerian said that the transitional diaconate usually lasts for a minimum of six months but that decision is left to the archbishop. n jared.ng@catholic.org.sg

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The dioceses in Malaysia, Singapore and B runei will be working closer to exchange information and learn from each other’s experiences in the age of digital communications. The Archdiocese of Kuala Lumpur is looking at setting up a collaborative online platform for the dioceses to share Catholicrelated content such as testimonies, teachings, publications and periodicals. O ther collaborations may also include sharing of communications-related content from seminars, workshops, webinars and livestreams. It is envisaged that this would help the dioceses to be better informed with a wider sharing of information and a saving through a cut in duplication of the use resources. For the parishioners this a e ene t the as they would have access to more information. O ne clear plus factor in this exercise is that more content may be available in other P U BL I SH E D

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Lim, the Head of Digital Media, Archbishop s o unications ce ho presented to the participants the scope of the Archiocese o in apore s e orts in the e o communications in print, a mobile app, social media, websites and instant messaging. Content creation was also discussed with particular focus on video and streaming content. He also shared how Singapore adopts the initiatives and direction from the Pope and the Vatican, like Laudato Si’, and “Gaudete Et Exsultate, on the Call to Holiness in Today’s World”.

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ase on positi e re ie s ro the rst workshop held earlier in April. There were also members of the clergy, and church workers and volunteers from the Archdioceses of Kota Kinabalu, Kuala Lumpur and Kuching, and the Dioceses of Keningau, Sibu, Penang and Sandakan, and the Apostolic Vicariate of B runei, who watched via livestream on YouTube. his co a oration as the rst o its kind in the Catholic B ishops’ Conference of Malaysia, Singapore, B runei. Many felt that it was a great collaboration and are looking forward to more of such events. “Very enriching webinar! Wise use of media, truly an instrument of unity and progress. Thanks be to God for such truthful and inspiring speakers! I would certainly recommend these formative talks to students,” said Fr Thomas Madanan from the Archdiocese of Kota Kinabalu. n

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