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NEWS
February 19, 1999
Volume
8
Number 24
Serving Catholics
Inside
Western North Carolina
in
in
the Diocese of Charlotte
Speaker calls chastity example of true freedom By
Pope urges
jimmy ROSTAR
Associate Editor
CHARLOTTE — Molly Kelly be-
return to
lieves in teen-agers,
sacrament of
HERALD
&
wisdom with more than 100,000 of them each year. Her message isn't simply one of praise. Rather, it''S a humor-laden plea calling teens, their parents and all of society to talk about and live chaste enthusiastic
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and she shares her
lives.
"My
Parishes
talk
is
one big hug," Kelly
said Feb. 9 to a general-public audi-
ence at Holy Trinity Catholic Middle
witness to
School.
surrounding
communities
"I
want
condom
to talk
common
sense over
want to power. I want
sense," she said. "I
talk willpower over pill
to talk self-control over birth control,
and saved sex over ...Page
7
safe sex."
In addition to her general-public
Kelly spoke to students in grades 6-12 at Holy Trinity and Charlotte Catholic High schools Feb. 9 and 10. Most in attendance at the public presentation were talk,
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and spiritual consequences of pre-
teens and parents.
A
homemaker, lecturer and author, Kelly is the mother of eight children. Her speeches on chastity are part of a pro-life mission she's been on since the 1975 death of her husband, James, a physician
who
also spoke in defense
Talk to Teens About Chastity."
concerned with how the idea of freedom is interpreted by today's society. Rather than doing whatever anyone wishes, "real freedom Kelly
means
is
down
Abuse
self-discipline," she said.
of freedom, she
said, leads to a
in responsibility,
cipline involves a
break-
while self-disto one-
commitment
self and others.
Calling abortion "the most urgent
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transmitted disease are but two consequences that can result in a sexual relationship lacking love, and commitment, she said. During her public presentation,
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Kelly also focused on the emotional
Molly Kelly chats with a teen-aged member of her Feb. 9 audience at Holy Trinity Catholic Middle School. Kelly visited Charlotte
promote chastity as can more people
to
a
way fully
appreciate God's gifts.
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4-5
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didn't get preg-
They
a birth control pill
do
can't protect a broken
Kelly added that sex, a gift from is holy and healthy in the realm of married life. But its misuse can make sex a burden rather than a blessing.
God,
She said "safe sex" is an industry promoted by society, especially the media, to the point of desensitizing its audience. Safe sex is much more marketable than chastity, she added, even though it removes the need for selfcontrol "and reduces our sexuality right down to the animal level." "Chastity is the only solution that's 100 percent effective," Kelly said. "It costs nothing. It has no harmful side effects, and nobody has ever gotten sick from it." She said chastity, abstinence and celibacy are all positive lifestyles. She promotes all three, and she serves on the federal government's Grant Re-
is
trust
actions against Palestinians
Editorials
of the ob-
mired in a "treatment" philosophy that focuses on handling problems rather than uprooting them, Kelly added. Unwanted pregnancy and sexually Society
Lenten Reflection
Leaders criticize
many
bombarding the culture of
life.
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What does
heart."
stacles
for troubled marriages
that?
She addresses mostly teen-aged audiences in the United States and Canada, and has spoken in Australia, England, Wales and Italy. She has appeared on national news programs and the Eternal Word Television Network, and is the author of the book "Let's
"Maybe they
Maybe they didn't get a disease. "What about the emotional consequences? What does a condom do for nant.
for that?
can triumph over
A lifeline
she said.
of life.
issue of our day," Kelly said chastity
Retrouvaille:
marital sex. "(People have) been hurt,"
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Photo by Jimmy Rostar
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