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News & Herald Volume
Serving Catholics in Western North Carolina in the Diocese of Charlotte
Community Benefits From
5
Number 33 • May
17,
1996
Soothing Waters Of Lourdes Provide Nourishment For The Soul
Parishioner's
By JO ANN
KEANE
Associate Editor
Can-Do Attitude By ELIZABETH MAYBACH Staff Writer
—
MURPHY
Since he was born, people have told Kay Callesen that he could not do things, and ever since then, Kay has been fighting to prove those
people Kay, pronounced is 50 years old and has been a parishioner at St. William Church since 1971. Few things have come easily to this man. Shortly before he was born, Kay s mother slipped and fell on a curb, "chi,"
'
baby.
When
he
was born, Kay was partially paralyzed. The doctors said he would have problems learning to speak, walk and ac"normal" activities. They all agreed that nothing could be tively participate in
done.
Kay's parents disagreed with the
They helped Kay with therapy to learn how to do things for himself. With their help, Kay's motto became, "How do you know you can't do something if you don't try?" Kay still lives by that motto. Dedoctors.
and pushed him
— Carol Kahn immersed
herself in
Kahn' s action may not seem miraculous, but in the heart and mind of the 48-year-old Clemmons resident, it was a moment of grace. She hasn't been able to kneel in years. The Holy Family parishioners' ailments are many. A skin disorder called reflex sympathetic dystrophy has drawn
her nerve endings to the outer layer of skin. hurts her skin.
slowly
A simple breeze
A degenerative joint disease and osteoarthritis
gnaw away at her bones. Her pain is extreme; it takes
massive doses of pain medication for her to make
it
through
the day.
For
wrong.
severeiy injuring
LOURDES, France
the brisk waters of Lourdes and dropped to her knees.
at least
one week
in
May, Kahn
felt
physical
relief,
while attaining a spiritual cleansing that transcends the waters of Lourdes. At first, a skeptical Kahn worried the water would hurt her aching body. "I don't
warm
let
water touch
breeze would
my skin like that,"
make
her wince, water could hit her skin like a bolt of lightning. Yet she calls the waters of Lourdes "soft as cotton." "They said the water would be cold, but you don't feel it. It was so magnificent." Kahn waded into the baths of Lourdes, settling into chin-deep water. "A calmness came over my entire body," says Kahn. Kahn experienced a healing; her restless spirit soothed by the waters of Lourdes. "I didn't have peace before," says Kahn. "There is nothing that could ever give me the peace I have now." She credits the Sovereign Military Order of Malta (Knights of Malta) with her awakening. Kahn was one of 27 malades [French for ailing or invalid] and their companions, escorted by members of the Federal Association headquartered in Washington, D.C. on their annual international pilgrimage to Lourdes. Each year, Knights of Malta fulfill dreams for dozens of
she says. If a
—
—
afflicted individuals
who would
otherwise only yearn for
spite his problems with speech and walk-
he
is active in both his church and community. He is an altar server and helps with yardwork and set-up for
ing,
See Lourdes, page 3
Photo by
JOANN KEANE
Healing Prayers. Bishop William G. Curlin shares words of hope and prayer with Courtney Fredrikson of North Potomac, Maryland at the Grotto in Lourdes as Knight of Malta Mike Falcone looks on.
civic
special events at St. William. In the
Murphy community, he helps with Special Olympics and the Red Cross Bloodmobile and is a member of the Civitans.
—
He
has an avid interest in learning
Charlotte's Native
Son Returning Home
With His Message Of
New
Life In Christ
an interest that brought him into
contact with Notre Dame Sister Therese
"Terry" Martin in 1991. Sister Terry, who teaches adult basic education at
Tri-County Community College, learned that Kay wanted to improve his
archbishops
As a result of Billy Graham Crusades in other cities, many Catholics have returned to their churches with renewed faith. A new outreach program is in place to help parishes prepare for them when the crusade comes to Charlotte in September.
With
reading skills and she offered to help.
"I'm not easy on him," she
said. "I'll
make him repeat things if I don't understand what he's saying, but he's made real progress. To see him so excited about learning
rewarding aspect. It's energizing for both of us." Sister Terry said Kay was an enthusiastic student. "He's wonderful. He's extremely positive and eager to learn. When he gets something he' s very grateis
really a
By
MIKE KROKOS
Faith,
page 13
The crusade
also presents an opportunity for inactive Christians. In crusades in other U.S.
More
than 300,000 people
are expected to attend The
Carolinas Billy
Graham
cities,
alienated Catholics are
who have "A brother
those
Crusade Sept. 26-29 in Charlotte, and Catholics will be among the 30 denominations at the event to show their
reported
unity.
Bishop Williajj of Charlotte Graham has
The major ecumenical
See
together for several years.
Editor
result of
effort
is
the
churches in the area working
more
together to eel as a result of
among
stepped forward. lii
^g^Bi"
T
Till"
and
have
bishops
cooperated and been pleased in the response and follow-through." that in
mind, the
Diocese of Charlotte is preparing for inactive Catholics who will return to the Church. "Landings" is an outreach program being offered to each parish to help them have somethingjnj>]^g^^velcoming and s, It
'
I
is
being