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News & Herald Volume

Serving Catholics in Western North Carolina in the Diocese of Charlotte

Community Benefits From

5

Number 33 • May

17,

1996

Soothing Waters Of Lourdes Provide Nourishment For The Soul

Parishioner's

By JO ANN

KEANE

Associate Editor

Can-Do Attitude By ELIZABETH MAYBACH Staff Writer

MURPHY

Since he was born, people have told Kay Callesen that he could not do things, and ever since then, Kay has been fighting to prove those

people Kay, pronounced is 50 years old and has been a parishioner at St. William Church since 1971. Few things have come easily to this man. Shortly before he was born, Kay s mother slipped and fell on a curb, "chi,"

'

baby.

When

he

was born, Kay was partially paralyzed. The doctors said he would have problems learning to speak, walk and ac"normal" activities. They all agreed that nothing could be tively participate in

done.

Kay's parents disagreed with the

They helped Kay with therapy to learn how to do things for himself. With their help, Kay's motto became, "How do you know you can't do something if you don't try?" Kay still lives by that motto. Dedoctors.

and pushed him

— Carol Kahn immersed

herself in

Kahn' s action may not seem miraculous, but in the heart and mind of the 48-year-old Clemmons resident, it was a moment of grace. She hasn't been able to kneel in years. The Holy Family parishioners' ailments are many. A skin disorder called reflex sympathetic dystrophy has drawn

her nerve endings to the outer layer of skin. hurts her skin.

slowly

A simple breeze

A degenerative joint disease and osteoarthritis

gnaw away at her bones. Her pain is extreme; it takes

massive doses of pain medication for her to make

it

through

the day.

For

wrong.

severeiy injuring

LOURDES, France

the brisk waters of Lourdes and dropped to her knees.

at least

one week

in

May, Kahn

felt

physical

relief,

while attaining a spiritual cleansing that transcends the waters of Lourdes. At first, a skeptical Kahn worried the water would hurt her aching body. "I don't

warm

let

water touch

breeze would

my skin like that,"

make

her wince, water could hit her skin like a bolt of lightning. Yet she calls the waters of Lourdes "soft as cotton." "They said the water would be cold, but you don't feel it. It was so magnificent." Kahn waded into the baths of Lourdes, settling into chin-deep water. "A calmness came over my entire body," says Kahn. Kahn experienced a healing; her restless spirit soothed by the waters of Lourdes. "I didn't have peace before," says Kahn. "There is nothing that could ever give me the peace I have now." She credits the Sovereign Military Order of Malta (Knights of Malta) with her awakening. Kahn was one of 27 malades [French for ailing or invalid] and their companions, escorted by members of the Federal Association headquartered in Washington, D.C. on their annual international pilgrimage to Lourdes. Each year, Knights of Malta fulfill dreams for dozens of

she says. If a

afflicted individuals

who would

otherwise only yearn for

spite his problems with speech and walk-

he

is active in both his church and community. He is an altar server and helps with yardwork and set-up for

ing,

See Lourdes, page 3

Photo by

JOANN KEANE

Healing Prayers. Bishop William G. Curlin shares words of hope and prayer with Courtney Fredrikson of North Potomac, Maryland at the Grotto in Lourdes as Knight of Malta Mike Falcone looks on.

civic

special events at St. William. In the

Murphy community, he helps with Special Olympics and the Red Cross Bloodmobile and is a member of the Civitans.

He

has an avid interest in learning

Charlotte's Native

Son Returning Home

With His Message Of

New

Life In Christ

an interest that brought him into

contact with Notre Dame Sister Therese

"Terry" Martin in 1991. Sister Terry, who teaches adult basic education at

Tri-County Community College, learned that Kay wanted to improve his

archbishops

As a result of Billy Graham Crusades in other cities, many Catholics have returned to their churches with renewed faith. A new outreach program is in place to help parishes prepare for them when the crusade comes to Charlotte in September.

With

reading skills and she offered to help.

"I'm not easy on him," she

said. "I'll

make him repeat things if I don't understand what he's saying, but he's made real progress. To see him so excited about learning

rewarding aspect. It's energizing for both of us." Sister Terry said Kay was an enthusiastic student. "He's wonderful. He's extremely positive and eager to learn. When he gets something he' s very grateis

really a

By

MIKE KROKOS

Faith,

page 13

The crusade

also presents an opportunity for inactive Christians. In crusades in other U.S.

More

than 300,000 people

are expected to attend The

Carolinas Billy

Graham

cities,

alienated Catholics are

who have "A brother

those

Crusade Sept. 26-29 in Charlotte, and Catholics will be among the 30 denominations at the event to show their

reported

unity.

Bishop Williajj of Charlotte Graham has

The major ecumenical

See

together for several years.

Editor

result of

effort

is

the

churches in the area working

more

together to eel as a result of

among

stepped forward. lii

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T

Till"

and

have

bishops

cooperated and been pleased in the response and follow-through." that in

mind, the

Diocese of Charlotte is preparing for inactive Catholics who will return to the Church. "Landings" is an outreach program being offered to each parish to help them have somethingjnj>]^g^^velcoming and s, It

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