Being a Godparent Leaflet

• Then they are invited to follow the parents in tracing the Christian sign, the cross, on the child’s forehead with their thumb.

• Just before the child is baptised, the godparents with the parents are asked to renew the vows of their own baptism saying,“I do” to three questions about turning from sin and then three questions about faith in the one God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

• A further question is put to parents and godparents. “Is it your will that (Name) should be baptised in the faith of the Church which we have all professed with you”?

They answer, “It is” and the child is baptised.

What is expected of godparents?

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s godparents you will naturally want to keep in touch with your godchild and the child’s parents. Godparents will want to encourage and support the parents as they bring their child up within the community of the Church. You will pray regularly for your godchild and the family.

Who can be a godparent?

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godparent should be an active member of the Catholic Church, who has received baptism and confirmation and who goes to Mass and receives Holy Communion regularly. People often chose other family members or long-standing friends to be godparents.

It needs to be a person who is trustworthy, mature (at least 16 years old) and responsible.

Catechism of the Catholic Church, paras: 1213 and 1284.

Being a godparent is a very important spiritual responsibility and is not to be thought of as a favour handed to a friend or relative or even worse, a new acquaintance of one of the parents.

Baptism: New Life in Christ, CTS (Do712)

How many godparents does a child need?

Passing on Faith to your Children, CTS (PA6)

child can have either a godmother or godfather or both. At the request of the parents, a baptised and believing Christian not belonging to the Catholic Church may act as a Christian witness along with a Catholic godparent.

Sacraments Revisited, Liam Kelly

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Being a Godparent

For More Information

Compendium of the Catechism, paras 252-264, CTS (Do 742) Key Books to Read

Catechism of Christian Doctrine, CTS (Do003) Credo - The Catholic Faith Explained, CTS (EV4) The Faith of the Catholic Church, CTS (Do670)

What Catholics Believe, CTS (Do531)

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t the anniversary of baptism each year, you might think of sending a card or even a present. This will remind the parents and the child of the great gift their child has received in baptism and then, when the child is a little older, he will want to know why this day is special. As the time for First Holy Communion approaches, and later Confirmation, (these are two other important sacraments of ‘Christian initiation’­) the godparents will be involved in supporting the child and the family. In every way as godparent, you will strive to support, encourage and assist your godchild along the pilgrim path of faith.

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I’ve been asked to become a godparent.

What does this involve?

What is expected of me?

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Why godparents?

Why are godparents important?

How can I understand the ceremony?

he baptism of a child or an adult is much more than a joyful family celebration. It is the moment when the person becomes a member of God’s family, the moment of birth into the Church. Therefore, baptism concerns the whole people of God, the Church, not just the child’s parents, family and friends.

In a particular way, the godparents represent the wider spiritual family into which the child is received at baptism. What is said here regarding infant baptism, would apply equally to an adult who is being baptised.

t is a great privilege to be a godparent. It is also a great responsibility. As a godparent you are to be a major influence on the upbringing of the child in the Catholic Faith. Your prayers, your example, your encouragement are vitally important if the seed planted at baptism is to grow and flourish.

here are different signs and symbols used in baptism, which help you to understand fully what is happening. These are oil, water, candlelight, and a white garment. Throughout the simple ceremony, there is a dialogue between the Church, represented in her minister, and the parents, and godparents.

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What happens at baptism?

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• Candlelight: Jesus is the light of the world and the baptismal candle is a sign that the light of Jesus has entered the baby’s life.

• White garment: this can be a white shawl also, and is put on the child as a sign that the child has ‘put on’ Jesus and shares in his new life.

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he origin of the godparents’ role in baptism dates back to the earliest times. Their presence at the ceremony reminds us that faith is never a purely personal journey: it involves being part of God’s people, the Church.

arents will bring their child for baptism to ask the Church for the gift of faith for the child. They are setting their child off on the journey to receive and grow up in the Christian faith, and to become part of the Catholic Church. Baptism is one of the seven sacraments of the Catholic Church.

• Oil: is used in many ancient cultures, a sign of health and well-being. In the Bible it also denotes someone specially chosen by God: priests, prophets and kings were all anointed. The Oil of Catechumens is used to anoint the child’s breast, a mark of God’s protection.

The Oil of Chrism is specially blessed by the bishop.

It is poured onto the child’s head after baptism as a sign of the presence of the Holy Spirit who will help the child in their Christian life.

• Water: a sign of new life. When water is poured over the child, it is a sign that the child shares in the death, resurrection and new life of Jesus.

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What do godparents do at the baptism?

• At the baptism the godparents, together with the child’s parents, profess the Church’s faith in which the child is baptised.

• With the parents, they the godparents present the child for baptism and attest that they are ready to help the parents in their duty as Christian mothers and fathers.

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