Associate Editor
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The Intersection of Value Ruchi K. Sahota, DDS, CDE
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t was a Friday night in the early 1990s. “Boy Meets World” would be on TV in about 30 minutes. My mom was not home yet. And I was fuming. How could she ruin my life like this? All I wanted was my mom. All I wanted was her to start our Friday night routine with the pizza, the ABC TV shows, the board games and all of us positioned in our respective favorite lounging spots in the living room. Where was my mom? When would she return? And why was she not home? My mom was late that Friday because she was a single mother, private-practiceowning dentist and overall superwoman trying to juggle everything. She would often be late coming home, but never late for dinner. She would often bring work home, but never started working until we slept. She would often be overwhelmed going over the profit and loss statements, but never let us think that was the reason we had to buy things on sale. Thirty years later, I understand. Thirty years later, I am aware of her constraints from that time. Thirty years later, I value her efforts to maintain the tradition of those fun Friday nights. I value the work ethic she modeled. I value how she managed all the various schedules. I value how she coped with her emotions throughout. And finally, I value how she nurtured two children into independent adults amid it all. Thus, it is safe to understand that in this crazy roller-coaster COVID-19 year, many people say the mandated call to stop, shelter and be still allowed them to ruminate on what they value both now and in their past. Many stopped to spend time with family. Many sheltered in place and sat in a solitude
The concepts of value, self-reflection, gratitude and responsibility are so finely intertwined. As the COVID-19 cloud entered the atmosphere, many began to self-reflect. that allowed them to spend time with themselves. And so many of us were still — for the first time in our lives. The concepts of value, self-reflection, gratitude and responsibility are so finely intertwined. As the COVID-19 cloud entered the atmosphere, many began to self-reflect. Many asked what they valued about the dental profession and perhaps whether they valued it all. Those who were close to retirement wondered if they were willing to invest back into offices that they had been forced to close or downsize for some time. Many gave into the urge to retreat and closed their offices. Many start-up practices or newer offices had reason for concern. How would they build momentum for continued growth in a time when patients questioned leaving their houses at all? Meanwhile, many were able to consolidate time and efforts and had an optimal year. As a new normal became commonplace in dental offices in California, patients continued to return to our dental chairs. Some visited the dentist because they had pain and that pain forced them to leave their home for the first time. Gratitude satiated these visits. Dentists were appreciated for being open and able to see patients. Dentists were appreciated for maintaining safe environments to help these patients heal. Many of these visits transformed
into life discussions because it was the first real social interaction the patient had experienced with someone who was not a loved one. Dentists turned into counselors. The dentist discussed the risks, benefits and alternatives of the full-coverage restoration. And then, the counselor side of the dentist listened to the stressors and thoughts of the patient’s life in the pandemic. And sometimes instead of gratitude satiating a dental visit, it was pain and only pain that drowned the visit. Patients presented with chief concerns that were frustrating them. Those frustrations were often a slippery slope that led to anger and fear. Amid this pandemic, not only have dentists been treating pain and infection, but they have also been providing human contact and listening ears to help quell emotions. And though the full-coverage restorations have a fee associated with them, the time dentists spend in talking with patients, allowing for grace and space and assisting the directing of feelings — is often not compensated. The phone calls offices made to follow up and ensure that postoperative complications and questions are mitigated — are not reimbursed. The efforts made to manage traffic in the patient’s mind to maintain comfort and ease in the dental chair — are not factored into the fee for the restoration. AUGUST 2 0 2 1
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