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FROM THE EDITOR

Editor-in-Chief: MAGGIE WASHO Art Director: KELLY STROUD Art & Production: JASON BURT

>> Kelly and I were very “glad” that we didn’t melt in the rain when it started pouring on the Hilton Head Oyster Festival attendees in Shelter Cove Park last month.

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ost of my fondest memories are when something didn’t quite go as planned and a funny story resulted.

Perhaps it wasn’t funny at the time, but days, weeks and years later, the fact that something went awry is what makes the moment so special and so hilarious to recount.

It is the wet dog that ran up on the beach and shook sand all over the couple getting married. It’s that time you got stuck in an elevator and missed a job interview. The five hours you were stranded on a boat that wouldn’t start—in the middle of the night. The chicken pox that dotted your face in your school photo.

I think these moments serve a dual purpose. First, they make you appreciate when everything does go as planned.

And secondly, they give you perspective on what is really a big deal and what just seems like it is at the time.

Perhaps my thoughts are turning to this because we are definitely not going through easy times right now. People you know are being affected by the recent strain on our economy and the long war in Iraq. And while neither of these events is in the least bit amusing—nor will they be in future days, months and years, perhaps they can make us realize how lucky we still are, compared to others.

To quote one of my favorite movies, Pollyanna, “When you look for the bad in mankind, expecting to find it, you surely will.” To go along with that, if you have a doomsday attitude about everything, your worst fears will most likely become a selffulfilling prophecy.

Why not find something to be “glad” about today, even if everything is going wrong? You can start by being glad there are 10 nice-looking men to admire, starting on page 26.

See you next year!

M.Washo Editor-in-Chief

The History of

Mistletoe how kissing went out on a limb article by: craig hysell

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good smooch depends on a fascinating number of things. Did you know twothirds of people tilt their heads to the right when they kiss? Scientists believe this stems from the way we hold our heads in the womb—but the top three, generally speaking, are probably in the realm of 1. Do I like the person kissing me? 2. Do they smell good? 3. Do they know how to give a proper kiss?

At Christmas time (or Hanukkah time, or Boxing Day time, or Kwanzaa time or whatever December time you happen to be celebrating this year), another factor sneaks up on the kiss: Is there some

mistletoe around? The long history of the mistletoe is steeped in science, mystery, legend and folklore, the compilation of which is either borderline disgusting or laugh-out-loud ironic and quite interesting any way you slice it. But we’ll get to that in a second; first to the sexy stuff…

The basic kiss (let’s keep the makeout session PG) relies on the obicularis oris, which is the muscle that runs around t h e o u t s i d e o f yo u r mouth. The obicularis oris changes the shape of your mouth while you talk and helps you pucker those lips. About nine other facial muscles help—13 if you use your tongue (and g e t o n S a n t a ’s naughty list). Your facial nerve sends electrical impulses from your face to your brain to relay what’s going on. Your brain produces oxytocin, which develops feelings of attachment, devotion and affection; dopamine which helps the brain process emotions, pleasure and pain; serotonin which affects mood and feelings; and adrenaline which increases heart rate.

Locking lips flushes these hormones and neurotransmitters through your body and, coupled with natural endorphins, produces euphoria. Your blood vessels also dilate as your heart rate increases, so your body receives more oxygen than when you were just standing around not kissing. Researchers have also proven that women prefer men with different immune system proteins than their own. They believe women may be able to smell these proteins when kissing, and this may affect whether she finds her partner attractive or not.

(One can only hope this theory can gain some legs and end The Axe Body Spray Invasion of the early 21st century…)

So, what ’s

this got to do with the holiday tradition of kissing under the mistletoe? Well, now that you understand the physiology of the situation—the couple is simply having a face workout a n d s h e l i ke s the smell of his immune s y s t e m proteins— you can also point out to yo u r f r i e n d s the irony that they are kissing

romantically under a parasitic, poisonous plant named after bird poop.

In Norse mythology, mistletoe was held in awe, particularly because it stayed green in the winter while the trees it grew on did not. That’s because mistletoe is mostly hemiparasitical and sends a special kind of root system called haustoria down into its host trees in order to extract their nutrients. When Scandinavian warriors met under the mistletoe, they laid down their arms and kept a truce until the following day. The Norse goddess, Frigga, also declared the plant sacred.

People celebrating her son, Baldur’s, resurrection would kiss under it to recognize the plant as a symbol of love.

Celtic Druids didn’t give a Frigga care about Norse mythology, thinking such things were balderdash.

They considered mistletoe a sacred plant with supernatural p owe r s . L a t e r, Wa s h i n g t o n Irving described kissing under the mistletoe in Christmas Eve. Irving wrote that young men had the privilege of kissing girls under the hanging mistletoe, but had to pluck a berry each time they did so. Once all the berries were gone—which are poisonous to humans—no more magic could happen under the mistletoe. In 1921, Switzerland researchers created Iscador out of mistletoe, an alternative drug treatment for malignant cancer later made popular by Suzanne Somers. In the right dosage mistletoe is thought to relax the body, aid the immune system and strengthen heartbeat. (Maybe the Druids were on to something…) In the wrong dosages, mistletoe is quite toxic.

As for its name, ancient Europeans noticed that mistletoe would blossom where the “mistel” or “missel” thrush bird defecated. Sara Williams writes, “It was observed in ancient times that mistletoe would often appear on a branch or a twig where birds had left droppings. ‘Mistel’ is the Anglo-Saxon word for ‘dung’ and ‘tan’ is the word for ‘twig’. So, mistletoe means ‘dungon-a-twig’.” By the sixteenth century, botanists had realized mistletoe was indeed spread by seeds which passed through the digestive tract of birds.

So, there you have it. Take a little bit of legend, add a little bit of science, a little bit of folklore, splash with some misunderstanding and mix in any excuse to make your partner, or a stranger, get up in your business with their immune system proteins, and the mistletoe tradition is solved. The rest, as they say, is kisstory. 

GUIDE Celebrate’s must have

What Your Holiday Lights Say About You.

The Results Are Shocking…

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t’s hard not to enjoy the holidays, no matter which holiday you happen to be celebrating. The holidays are a time to express yourself: to be the person you always wanted to be; to tell people closest to you those gracious feelings you might be too busy to express most of the year; to go caroling, bake cookies, decorate the tree.

Then again, it could be time to just party, snag some presents and slam some eggnog.

However you happen to throw d ow n t h i s h o l i d ay s e a s o n , there’s one thing that will not go unnoticed: your proclivities toward exterior illumination (known as “holiday light” or “Christmas light” decoration to the layperson). Do you have them? Do you not? And what exactly do they say about you?

Celebrate offers you the musthave guide into the complex beating heart of illumination psychology—none of which is based on anything close to scientific fact. Enjoy.

No lights. No lights are usually home to the single guy who still thinks Big Macs and Ramen noodles are the pinnacles of a well-balanced meal or Scrooges who have no time for such commercialism and family shenanigans.

The tree in the living room w i n d o w. T h i s d e p e n d s o n how well-lit the tree is and its size. Small trees with bright decorations: retirees. Sparse trees with limited decorations: single dudes with a little more Christmas spirit than no light single dudes. (Look for empty beer cans stuffed somewhere in the tree.) Full trees, brightly lit (real or fake): families whose kids think the tree is awesome or couples where one person loves the holidays and the other person follows along merely to keep things on an even keel.

All white exterior lights. People who love to keep the holidays as a blank slate, full of endless possibilities, not to mention the fact that if one bulb burns out, they’ll have the right color replacement. Caution: staring too long can make you feel as if you are in a North Pole white out.

All color lights. Creative.

Assertive. Excited. People who say, “This is my version of the holidays, and I’m not afraid to show it.” Usually buyers of oversized presents who are able to pay off their holiday credit card debt by August of the following year.

The whole nine yards. These homes have lights on the house, lights on the trees, Santas on the roof and blow-up decorations in the yard. They have gas powered ge n e rators m ain t ai n i n g th e operation from dusk until well after bedtime. They spend an entire weekend setting up the illumination schema, perhaps eve n f o l l ow i n g h o m e m a d e diagrams or Internet instructions.

Their yards scream “overachiever.”

Children love them; the rest of us feel inadequate and marvel at how far the human spirit can take a person.

Lights still up in the summer. Sad. The charm has long since faded.

A remarkable commentary on the “I’ll get around to it” mentality.

Also denotes a Jeff Foxworthyesque, “You might be a redneck…” stigma or holiday spirit that the change of seasons simply cannot kill—even though it would like to. Completely unnecessary yet oddly amusing.

No matter how you choose, or choose not to, illuminate your property this year, Celebrate hopes you take your sense of humor, your patience and your goodwill long into the future.

Very few things make life more enjoyable. Except, of course, some sweet presents. 

• Article By Craig Hysell •

VAIL / BEAVER CREEK COLORADO TYPE OF VACATION

WINTER GETAWAY ELEVATION

AVERAGE 8,150 MAXIMUM 12,250 REASONS TO VISIT

OUTDOOR BEAUTY SKIING / SNOWBOARDING FIVE STAR CUISINE EXTRAVAGANT SHOPPING RELAXATION

article by martha langan

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re you ready to head for a fun ski trip? Now is the time to start planning your winter getaway. What better place to get outside and enjoy all the beauty this great land has to offer than the Vail/Beaver Creek valleys of Colorado.

Whether you are a beginner or experienced skier or somewhere in between, the slopes can’t be beat. Non-skiers will enjoy the many activities and restaurants that are available to all visitors. I have been to many ski areas, and while they all have their own unique charm, I can honestly say that Vail and Beaver Creek are my favorites. Vail is a mecca for those who appreciate the earth’s natural, breathtaking beauty and landscape.

The easiest and very likely the most economic route from Hilton Head Island involves flying into Denver, then driving two hours to Vail Village. A convenient option, albeit a bit more costly, involves flying into Vail’s Eagle Airport with a 45-minute transfer to Vail Village.

Vail’s average elevation is 8,150 feet above sea level, while Vail Mountain has a maximum elevation of 12, 250 feet and a low of 8,120 feet with a vertical drop of 3,450 feet. Vail currently has 33 lifts. The town has a total of about four and a half square miles, with Gore Creek flowing from east to west through the center.

Immerse yourself in luxurious hotels, fine restaurants, and bountiful boutiques. Then imagine yourself after a week of sound sleep, fine cuisine, skiing, snowboarding, snowmobiling, and yes….shopping!

How much could you improve your outlook after a week on Vail Mountain, where you are treated royally and have indulged all your senses to a level unsurpassed anywhere else?

While there are many hotels to choose from in the area, only a few are Virtuoso properties. The Arrabelle at Vail Square (A Rock Resort) is a luxurious landmark as one of the most fashionable addresses in Ski County, just opening this past winter. It takes its cue from old world ambiance and the European Alps, overlooking the Eagle Bahn Gondola. As a guest of the Arrabelle, you will enjoy exclusive access to Red Sky Golf Club, along with many other breathtaking courses in the Vail Valley. After a day on

the slopes or on the golf course, enjoy an aperitif at the rooftop pool, or treat yourself at any of the shops located in 33,000 square feet of high-end retail. This resort is Vail’s newest crown jewel. Guests want for nothing and leave feeling completely pampered.

Whether it be kicking back at the spa after a day on the slopes or relaxing fireside in the Great Room with your better half, you will be treated to world class amenities and service unlike anywhere else.

Another of my favorites in the area, very near Vail, in a location called Beaver Creek, is the Ritz Carlton, Bachelor Gulch. It is nestled in the exclusive mountain enclave of Bachelor Gulch on Beaver Creek Mountain. Everyone knows that the “Ritz” is a leader (if not the leader) in the hospitality industry. No detail is forgotten; it is the epitome of perfection.

The Ritz Carlton, Bachelor Gulch is no exception.

This resort exudes authentic Rocky Mountain luxury and claims unmatched ski-in and ski-out access on Beaver Creek Mountain. It has a fitness center with 19 treatment rooms and a lazy river hot tub to soothe any malady. As a bonus for all you pet lovers, they also have a “loan a lab” program which allows you to “ borrow” the resort’s resident Labrador Retriever,

“Bachelor,” for a walk in Bachelor Gulch—something the kids will love! Speaking of kids, they offer one of the best children’s experiences with their Ritz kids program.

Yet another bonus is the newly added restaurant, Spago. Originated by Wolfgang Puck, the first locations were in L.A. and then in Las Vegas. Well, move over Sin City! The newest variation has arrived

slope side to the Rocky Mountains at the Ritz Carlton, Bachelor Gulch. The glitz of Vegas has been blended with grand lodge décor to open this 5 million dollar restaurant and late night lounge. Both are expected to have the latest in trendy and innovative cuisine and entertainment. It is sure to be the place to be in 2009—and don’t be surprised if Wolfie himself graces the premises as you dine.

Another can’t-miss restaurant is Beano’s Cabin, (970) 949-9090. It is located in the Beaver Creek/ Arrowhead area. We were fortunate to experience Beano’s Cabin for dinner. This was a tantalizing treat for the palate. We took an open air sleigh ride from Beaver Creek Village up the mountain to a log cabin where we enjoyed a five-course dining experience by the fire with great musical entertainment. I highly recommend this restaurant for a very unique experience. Be sure to book early.

As for the shopping in Vail Village, there are too many exquisite boutiques to mention. My favorites are that of the “Golden Bear” and the Gorsuch. You will be glad you visited both.

Valerie Wilson Travel can provide various amenities at all Virtuoso Resort Properties, e.g. daily breakfasts and credit at the spas, applicable towards services or retail products. There has never been a better time to visit Vail and the surrounding mountains. Call today to book your vacation. Don’t miss out!

Martha Langan has been a travel consultant for 15 years. She is an associate travel consultant with Valerie Wilson Travel and a proud member of Virtuoso. 

article by amanda nowak photography by john brackett

them to take the necessary steps to make a positive change in their life doctor suggested more exercise

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veryone who joins a gym does so for a specific reason.

They have a particular goal in mind, and something (or someone) has propelled them to take the necessary steps to make a positive change in their life. It could be that their doctor suggested more exercise, or possibly they are looking for a way to reduce stress, or simply that they want to feel better about themselves and their body. Whatever the reason, Palmetto Athletic Club listens to members and provides them with the necessary tools to achieve their goals.

Originally a small fitness center that operated in conjunction with a physical therapy clinic,

Palmetto Athletic Club is now one of Hilton Head Island’s largest fitness facilities and is home to more than 350 local members.

PAC is located mid-island approximately 1/4 mile south of Palmetto Dunes. The building was originally a furniture store and remained vacant for more than six years after closing. Nate Dixon, owner of PAC and Palmetto Therapy Services, eyed the location and decided to buy the building in October of 2007. “Ever since moving to Hilton Head I wanted to purchase the building and design a great facility where I could integrate both rehabilitation and fitness,” said Dixon. “The location and the visibility from 278 made it the perfect spot for expansion.”

Since their expansion in early June of this year, Palmetto Athletic Club has attracted a diverse group of members, ranging from junior golfers to active seniors. Despite

hard economic times, PAC’s team members attribute their success to a more health conscious society as well as a few key features: superior equipment, personable staff, exceptional programs, and affordable rates.

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veryone who joins a gym does so for a specific reason. They have a particular goal in mind, and something (or someone) has propelled them to take the necessary steps to make a positive change in their life. It could be that their doctor suggested more exercise, or possibly they are looking for a way to reduce stress, or simply that they want to feel better about themselves and their body. Whatever the reason, Palmetto Athletic Club listens to members and provides them with the necessary tools to achieve their goals.

Originally a small fitness center that operated in conjunction with a physical therapy clinic, Palmetto Athletic Club is now one of Hilton Head Island’s largest fitness facilities and is home to more than 350 local members. PAC is located mid-island

State-of-the-art equipment Choosing fitness equipment can sometimes feel like shopping for a new car. While a midsize sedan may get you from point A to point B, it does not feature the same amenities as a luxury car. PAC members enjoy the perks of having that luxury car. Cardio and strength equipment lines include Technogym, Life Fitness, Precor, and Hammer Strength. Each piece was carefully researched to ensure that the equipment was both safe and effective. The cardio line includes treadmills with touch screens and iPod capabilities, elliptical trainers that incorporate side-to-side motion, and virtual bikes that allow you to race against your best time. PAC’s strength training circuit is designed to target all major muscle groups while keeping your workout quick and efficient. The club also offers plateloaded, strength machines that are ideal for improving sport performance. PAC also has a room dedicated to core and flexibility training. The unique abdominal and stretching equipment is great for those with low back pain to help strengthen and stretch the areas they need most.

While the equipment is great, it can be slightly overwhelming for first-time gym-goers. PAC ensures that all members receive adequate instruction and detailed orientation with the machines before using the equipment.

Trainers also conduct floor hours to ensure that everyone is safe while using the facility’s machines.

Personalized service PAC is a unique health club, not only because of the equipment, but the positive energy and comfortable atmosphere that resonates within its walls. Like the ’80s sitcom, Cheers, PAC truly is a place “where everyone knows your name.” Regulars attend, not only for exercise, but for fellowship among members and staff. The gym floor is full of husbands and wives, co-workers, neighbors, and teammates. The relationships that extend outside of PAC contribute to the supportive and compassionate environment. PAC’s trainers and group instructors agree that wellness extends beyond the gym and encompasses friendships and emotional health as well.

Group classes play a significant role in PAC’s operation, allowing members to explore new fitness options while providing quality instruction and contributing to the encouraging, “you-can-do-it” attitude of the gym. PAC’s diverse programming allows for people of all ages and abilities to participate in group fitness. Classes such as spinning and boot camp offer high intensity options for athletes, while gentle yoga and senior fitness are geared toward members who may have exercise limitations.

The club also offers specialty programs such as dance workshops, fitness for golf, nutritional counseling, and women on weights. As a whole, the group fitness program has sparked enthusiasm in both the traditional aerobics participant and the fitness novice.

PAC also offers private and group training for those who are looking for more individualized workouts. Personal trainers thoroughly assess their clients’ fitness levels, examine their health history, and discuss goal setting to ensure specific program development. PAC’s trainers are as diverse as their clientele but share the same fitness philosophy. The program is based on the ideal that

exercise is beneficial for the physical, emotional, and physiological self, and that fitness goals are attainable with regular, efficient training. PAC also offers small group and partner training as a more affordable option for those looking to add variety to their routines.

Consistent and valuable service is the key to success at PAC. Members are sure to receive a product that exceeds their expectations and still fits within their budget. There are different membership options for those who need to count their pennies and flexible programs for part-time residents. One of PAC’s goals is to provide a comfortable arena for EVERYONE to experience the benefits of exercise.

The future is bright for Palmetto Athletic Club with many exciting adventures to come. Club owner, Nate Dixon, has plans to expand the current facility to provide more opportunity for growth and development and to reach out into Bluffton and surrounding areas. However, the local spirit, encouraging atmosphere, and outstanding programming that have distinguished PAC as a superior facility will remain the core of the club’s mission.  Amanda Nowak is the director of Palmetto Athletic Club.

She has been with the organization for nearly a year and a half and is excited about the future of the club.

To make an appointment to tour the facility or discuss membership options, call (843)842-3225. For more information, visit palmettoathleticclub.com.

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Model: Chuck Hall Navy Blue Slack by Berle Black Alligator Belt by Mezlan Purple/Navy Stripe Shirt by Tallia (Italy) Black Shoe by Donald Pliner Model: Garland Radloff Make-up and Hair by All About Me Black Pleated Sleeveless Dress with Black Patent Leather Belt by Muse Black Satin Open Toe Pumps by Beverly Feldman Sterling Silver Earrings by DB Designs

Palmettoes: Where

Shopping is a Party!

Article By Frank Dunne, Jr. Photography by Anne

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emember the days before you became a local, and you came to Hilton Head Island once or twice a year to play golf or tennis, go to the beach, fish, kayak, drink at the Tiki Hut, and make life miserable for the drivers behind you in the traffic circles? That’s what the island is here for, right?

Imagine then, the challenge that the proprietor of a local apparel store would face in persuading you to wedge shopping into that list of things to do. Dennis Jaworski and Chuck Hall of Palmettoes in Sea Pines Center have come up with a formula to do just that. As the store’s tagline—Fine Apparel & Accessories for Fun Loving Men & Women—suggests, it’s all about making shopping a fun activity rather than a distraction. Call it “destination shopping.”

“People who come to Hilton Head have a multitude of choices of things to do with their hours during the day. If they will give us some time to come shop in our store; we feel that we owe it to them to make sure that they have a fun experience, and going shopping will fall into their routine whenever they come to visit,” said Jaworski. “If they have a really great time when they’re here with us, which most of our customers do, they become family members here.”

So the concept is to put this idea in someone’s head when planning a visit: “I’m going to Hilton Head to play golf, go to the beach, and go shopping at Palmettoes. “That’s what we’re after,” said Jaworski. “We want to be the destination when they go shopping.”

Jaworski and Hall have created a distinctive shopping experience to keep their tourist clientele…strike that…to keep their “guests” coming back. “You want to keep the quality at a certain level, but at the same time have a friendly atmosphere. We tell all the girls in here: when people come in the store, you want to greet them when they walk in the door, but you don’t want to overrun them,” said Hall. “I want them to relax, and that’s why when we designed the store, we made it feel like you’re in a home with the Turkish rugs, the chandeliers and the couches. The main thing is we want you to feel comfortable.”

Palmettoes adds a layer of intrigue by maintaining an exclusive, almost idiosyncratic merchandise mix. The guys have two basic rules when buying: Never buy more than three of an item, and never repeat an item. “We like to do special collections that range from medium- to high-end, and when something is gone, it’s gone. That makes it special for the individual, because you’re not likely to see it on the street,” said Hall.

Model Barbara Byrd Brown Silk Blazer by Citrine (Toronto, Canada) Brown Silk Skirt by Citrine (Toronto, Canada) Dark Velvet Brown Suede with Gold Trim by Claudia Ciniti (Italy) Cream Italian Leather, Trimmed in Gold Handbag by Badgley Mischka Gold Necklace & Gold Earrings by talented artist Ms. Selena King (Local & New York)

“You’ll never see ‘yourself’ coming or going on the island!” added Jaworski. “The same thing holds true for our jewelry. We have five local or semi-local artists who make all of our jewelry. They’re all one-of-a-kind pieces, and all genuine stones or silver or gold. We never repeat it. We leave it up to the artists to be creative and do what they want, and they’re really good about creating pieces that represent us and our style.”

It may seem ironic that a large portion of store’s core business comes from people who do not live in the local community, but the facts back it up as Jaworski explains: “The strength of those out-of-town customers is that they become even more regular than our regulars who live here.

Prior to my coming here, there was no effort to develop the guest trade. But when I got the figures and saw how much of the business was coming from out-of-towners (we know for a fact that over 80 percent of our repeat business is out-of-towners), I thought it would make sense to go after more Island visitors and make that the crux of the business.”

Model: Garland Radloff Black Pleated Sleeveless Dress with Black Patent Leather Belt by Muse Black Satin Open Toe Pumps by Beverly Feldman Sterling Silver Earrings by DB Designs

Model: Barbara Byrd Cranberry Crinkle Blouse by Veeca Black Satin Silk Pant by Donna Degnan New York Black Satin Silk Heel Shoe by Claudia Cinti- Italy Bronze Tahitian Pearl Necklace by Artist McHugh Black Badgley Mischka Cloth Print with Black Italian Leather Trimmed in Gold by Badgley Mischka

Model – Garland Radloff Multi-colored Silk Sleeveless Blouse

by Citrine (Toronto, Canada) Black/Brown Pinstripe Slack by Christopher Blue Silver/ Brown Jacquard 3/4 length jacket with Black Trim by Winding River Shoes- Black Suede “Bootie” by Ginger Goff Sterling Silver Earrings by DB Designs

“It’s because we’ve somehow instilled in them that they can have a good time and a great shopping experience whenever they come here. That’s how our party-type atmosphere began. We put a bar in the store, which we continue with today. It’s that party atmosphere that we try to develop. and it’s worked well for us.”

Underneath all of the fun and frivolity, Palmettoes is a retail business, though, and a retail business is a people-focused endeavor. If the customers are going to feel like family, it has to start with the staff. All members of the Palmettoes team; Jaworski, Hall, Maxine Newkirk, Maryrose Lucarelli, and Liz Hull, have been with the store since

If the customers are going to feel like family,

it has to start with the staff.

And they throw a lot of parties at Palmettoes.

Whether it’s a trunk show, an anniversary, holiday cocktail party, or any other occasion, there’s always good food and drink and a jazz pianist tickling the ivories on the store’s baby grand.

“I’ll never forget the story that a customer told one time,” said Jaworski. “This lady told her husband that he had to make sure he wasn’t busy one night because there’s a party at Palmettoes. He looked at her and said, ‘Party at Palmettoes? So what?’ She brought him to that party, and afterwards he came up to me and said, ‘Now I know what my wife was talking about, and I’ll never miss one again!’”

its inception as Palmettoes or longer. This includes Zack, Hall’s 14-year old standard poodle. “Some people come in just to see Zack, and we’re okay with that,” Hall said.

Is there a typical Palmettoes customer? Not really, according to Jaworski, who describes the clientele as a cross section. “We have customers who are 20 years old and we have customers who are 80 years old. It’s the 20-year-old who wants to look grown up and the 80-year-old who wants to look young and hip. I would say that the age group we buy for ranges from 30 to 60,” said Jaworski, adding that women account for about 70 percent of the store’s business. “When we go to market, both Chuck and I take five people with us in

our heads. So we’re basically buying for ten customers—actually twelve because we’re also taking ourselves, and we draw on our own tastes.”

Should it happen that a guest does not find something to meet their need, Palmettoes strives to remain a good neighbor to the island’s other establishments. “We like to work with everybody on the island,” said Hall. “We know we’re not the only store on the island, and we want to help you find what you want.

So we’ll send you to another store and say, ‘Tell ’em we sent you.’”

What’s that? Oh, of course…the name.

You’ve been wondering why Palmettoes is spelled with an “e” before the “s” instead of an apostrophe. The answer is, toes, as in the digits at the end of your foot. The original plan was for Palmettoes to be a shoe store. “Our original thought was just to do shoes and handbags,” said Jaworski, “but customers convinced us that there was too much need for a shop that does apparel as well.”

So get your toes moving and check out Palmettoes. It is located in the Shops at Sea Pines Center, 71 Lighthouse Road, Suite 414. Or call (843) 363-6800. Ask for Zack. 

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Hilton Head Prep’s holiday musical has all the dazzle of a New York Radio City Show!

Aladdin ARTICLE BY PAULA MAGRINI PHOTOGRAPHY BY: ROB KAUFMAN

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erforming arts director, Don Hite, promises that Hilton Head Prep’s production of Walt Disney’s Aladdin, this December 10th, 11th and 13th, will absolutely capture all the franticness and energy of the Agrabah market place on the HHIHS Visual Performing Arts Center stage.

Aladdin, Jasmine, Jafar, Iago, the Genie and a meticulously-assembled cast of 200 students will mesmerize the audience with theatrical prowess and pranks, in costumes of taffeta, lame and jewels. Marionette camels will trot about the set. Arabian desert sand will shimmer under the lights. And the magic carpet will fly through the clouds.

But wait, there’s more. Hite prefers to keep his audience guessing, yet he shares that his adaptation of the Disney favorite will feature a touching little-known musical number from an earlier Aladdin soundtrack. He’s also tapped the talents of a Beverly Hills choreographer to guide students through the show’s myriad dance configurations.

The costume designer for Aladdin has outfitted models for Ralph Lauren. Bought your tickets yet?

Now presenting his third musical masterpiece at the HHIHS Visual Performing Arts Center, Hite gives credit and thanks to the support of the Hilton Head Prep

community as he counts down to what may be Prep’s most ambitious musical production yet.

“Our cast includes kids from kindergarten through 12th grade, and coordinating their various roles, practice schedules, costume fittings, after-hours meals and transportation, plus numerous other school activities is a mammoth juggling act,” he pointed out. “The support from parents, families and friends through Prep’s new Arts Guild has been overwhelming and translates into genuine enthusiasm among our young cast and crew.”

Aladdin’s all-student cast features eighth-grader, Taylor Calamari, in the role of Aladdin; junior, Chloe Nigro, as Princess Jasmine; senior, Joey Ryan, as Jafar; junior, Jarrett Nixon, as Iago the Parrot; and senior, Leo Magrini, portraying the Genie. Daily practices for the lead roles and entire cast began more than two months ago and were supplemented with instruction from resident artist and renowned Los Angeles choreographer, Dante Henderson. Henderson insists his contribution to Aladdin is a privilege and a way to give back the profession he loves. Seniors Joey Ryan and Leo Magrini agree that Dante’s influence has raised the bar for overall performance. “He’s danced on the same stage as Debbie Allen and made an appearance at the Academy Awards, so he knows all the latest moves,” said Ryan. Magrini added, “Since Dante’s been involved, a lot more students want to get in on the action.”

H i te h a s p l a ce d a b i g e m p h a s i s o n t h e choreography of Aladdin, because he believes the music translates the story line. “It’s the blueprint for the production and allows us to connect meaningful movement with even the slightest flourish of a flute.” In fact, the musical aspect of Aladdin is so critical to Hite that he endured a rigorous 90-day process to acquire permission to use the song, Proud of Your Boy, in his rendition of the Disney show. The musical number was eliminated from the final film release of Aladdin, but Hite remembered the song from his days as Hollywood Records public relations rep and felt it had a significant place in Prep’s production. “Not every Aladdin can pull it off,” he said, “but Taylor Calamari gets the universal message in Proud of Your Boy and delivers it convincingly.” Hite adds that though the character Aladdin is typically portrayed as a rough street kid, at heart he is an orphan who misses his mother along his journey through the labyrinth of life in Arabia. Aladdin’s adventures find him in trouble with the law and smitten with the lovely Princess Jasmine. His fortunate encounter with the Genie and clever use of three magic wishes propel him—and his comrades—to a “Whole New World.”

Because it’s best known as an animated film, Aladdin’s characters are typically recognized as cartoon characters. Finding the perfect match for them might be a challenge, if that was actually the goal. Hite explained that his criteria for casting choices was based on what each student could bring to the stage. Could they make the character real? Jarrett Nixon, starring as Iago, has a theory on rising to the role. “It’s all in our heads,” he said.

“If we really believe we are the character, whether it’s a parrot or a precocious teenager in High School Musical, then we can convince the audience that we are the personality behind the costume.”

When the curtain rises on Aladdin’s remarkable cast, an equally impressive crew working in the wings will ensure the smooth coordination of stunning scenery, intricate props and lavish costumes. The stage crew includes both student and parent volunteers and a costume designer, whose distinctive touch and eye for detail have enhanced a wide range of visual performance around the world. Caroline Noble has provided authentic vintage pieces to the British film and television industry in productions such as Evita and Merchant Ivory. Famed rock and roll stars have knocked on Noble’s door for costume direction, along with notable designers, like Lauren, in the couture fashion industry. No stranger to the demands of fantastical productions like this December’s Aladdin, Noble admits her hours are numbered as show time approaches. “The sheer number of cast members is mind-boggling,” she said. “Every grade level of actors and actresses re q u i re s d i f fe re n t t h e m e d co st u m e s a n d accessories, so my daily to-do list is, to say the least, vast!”

No doubt the applause following each performance of Aladdin will mirror the energy and efforts of director Hite, choreographer Henderson, designer Noble as well as those of the cast, crew and Prep families who have all played a role in bringing to life Disney’s magical tale of the diamond in the rough.

F o r t i c k e t information, please call: (843) 671-2278, ext. 278, or visit Prep’s website at hhprep.org.

“Our cast includes kids from kindergarten through 12th grade, and coordinating their various roles, practice schedules, costume fittings, after-hours meals and transportation, plus numerous other school activities is a mammoth juggling act.”

-Performing Arts Director , Don Hite

The Bluffton Christmas Parade ARTICLE BY ANN DEMART

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t may not have the reputation of Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade or the frenetic fans of Savannah’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade, but the Old Town Bluffton Christmas Parade has its own history. And it’s certainly grown from its beginnings 30-some years ago, when half the town’s 400 residents watched the other half stroll down the street. On Saturday, December 6, a much larger crowd will celebrate at this year’s four themed venues: Christmas on Calhoun Street, Party in the Promenade, May River Stroll and Victorian Christmas at the Heyward House.

“Viewers can enjoy food and beverages during the parade and then stay for the parties. We’ll have kid’s activities and photos with Santa,” said Mary O’Neill, co-owner of The Complete Store.

Jacob Preston, Bluffton potter and storyteller extraordinaire, gave a brief history of the parade’s

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OLD TOWN BLUFFTON ❉ Parade time: From “late morning” to “when it’s over”

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❉ Canned food collection sites at each venue

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artistic beginnings and growing pains as the town became an incorporated area with a population of more than 15,000. Sounding like a cello with a southern accent, Preston said, “The primary economic drivers in Old Town Bluffton are art, oysters and the speed trap.” In the mid-to-late 1970s, Preston and other artists were drawn to the historic area by its natural beauty, quirky charm and its garbage pickup.

In fact, the town’s garbage truck was such a source of pride that the mayor had an artist paint a mural on its side.

After parade parties:

❉ Christmas on Calhoun Street ❉ Holiday Party in the Promenade ❉ Victorian Christmas at the ❉ Heyward House ❉ May River Stroll ❉ Living Color Performance Art Show

As the town grew, not everyone embraced its eccentricities. One resident, known as Bluffton’s Meanest Person, initiated frivolous lawsuits, including one over the buzzards that frequented the Bluffton Oyster Factory.

In response, the mayor designated “The Buzzard” the official bird of Bluffton.

The Meanest Person also sued over using city funds to paint the garbage truck. In an attempt to end the turmoil, the mayor dressed as The Buzzard and

rode the garbage truck in the Christmas parade. The next year, The Buzzard was more dignified and rode in a convertible. Even so, less amused residents voted to ban the buzzard. “That was the beginning of the buzzard insurgency,” said Preston. Allusions to the bird appeared in subsequent parades; once a buzzard wing was sighted behind a beauty queen as she waved from atop a convertible.

Today, many Bluffton residents remain loyal to its buzzards. Recently the wife of the current mayor was overheard exclaiming, “They are so beautiful in flight.” Also in the air is the rumor that the bird of contention will make an appearance in this year’s parade— just one more reason to put the Bluffton Christmas Parade Day on your calendar.

Another popular Bluffton tradition will return when favorite local artist, Amos Hummell, revives his Living Colors performance art show after the parade. “It’s an interactive show, just like the best ones during our previous season,” he said. “Bluffton is a true arts community, and everyone can be involved. We want our friends, fans, kids and actor wannabes to join us for the fun.” Hummell intends to hand out free tickets to Living Colors from a “float” (a trailer or my wife’s car) in the parade. The show will take place around 3 p.m. at his new studio in the original Carson Cottage at 38 Calhoun Street.

Speaking of vehicles in the parade, Hummel’s wife, Lynne, reminisced about a favorite parade moment when a car of New Jersey tourists accidentally followed the fire truck with Santa, and was cheered by the enthusiastic crowd.

In keeping with the “Bluffton is a State of Mind” attitude, there seems to be no official start time for the parade. Despite much research, the most precise information included “late morning” and “whenever it starts.” So just plan to make a day of it and get there early. You can always start at the annual bazaar at the original Church of the Cross. It will be open from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m.

The Bluffton holiday celebration will feature at least three Christmas tree lightings: at the Promenade, the Town Hall and the Living Colors show, and you never know what else will happen. One year there were seven Santas! 

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Andy Pitts and Jane Miskall were married in Bluffton on October 10, 2008 at Palmetto Bluff. Andy grew up in Bluffton, SC and Jane grew up in St. Louis, MO. Parents of the groom are Joseph & Jan Pitts; and parents of the Bride are William & Mary Kay Miskall. .

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Celebrate Etiquette

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ith entertaining at its peak during the holiday season, you will most likely be invited to attend several parties. These could be work functions for you or your significant other, as well as civic and family functions.

Most people tend to fall into one of two categories: They love to attend dinner parties, or they absolutely despise them. If you fall into the latter category, perhaps it is due, in part, to the stress of making sure you follow proper protocol during such a party.

You can have a stress-free experience and be seen as a gracious guest by just adhering to a few simple rules of etiquette.

1.) RSVP

which silver to use, keep an eye on your hostess and other guests. A good rule of thumb is working from the outside of the place setting in to the middle.

7.) Seasoning Taste your food first before adding salt or pepper. Since adding condiments to your entrée before tasting your food is seen as an insult in many social circles, it is best to wait until you have at least sampled with a bite or two.

8.) Greeting other guests at the table Greet arriving guests to the table by standing up, and remain standing until they are seated.

9.) No phones allowed!

Turn off your cell phone during dinner so as not to disrupt the other guests and your host.

10.) Conversation

When you receive a dinner invitation, respond promptly with a cheerful acceptance. If you cannot attend, express your sincere regrets along with the hope that you may be able to attend the next function.

Stimulate conversation with other guests, but steer away from such topics as religion, politics and parenting. These types of topics can often turn into heated discourses which are better left for after dinner. Always avoid criticism during dinner parties, and smile and compliment those around you to practice social pleasantries.

2.) A Hostess Gift

11.) A Fond Farewell

Although you will most likely be told that nothing is needed, offer to bring a bottle of wine, dessert, or an appetizer. If the host/hostess insists that nothing is needed, bring a small gift, such as a bouquet of flowers, after dinner cordial, or box of candy.

3.) The Entrance Upon arrival, greet the host/hostess first, before striking up conversations with other guests. This could be something as simple as a brief hello and a pleasant thank-you for the invitation. Then proceed to introduce yourself to other guests you don’t already know.

4.) To drink or not to drink…

A cocktail will most likely be offered upon arrival. It isn’t necessary to imbibe if you would rather not. Ask for water or a soft drink if you are the designated driver!

5.) Dinner is served Take your cue from the hostess once dinner is presented. Once she has placed her dinner napkin in her lap, it is time for the guests to do so also.

6.) Politely Wait and Watch Always wait until every guest has been served before beginning your dish. Ideally, you should wait until the hostess takes the first bite. It is possible that Grace will be said, or a toast will be offered, so wait to see. Also, you should never drink from your glass if a toast has been given to YOU. Just nod your head and offer a few words of thanks. If you are unsure about

Once the dinner party has ended, thank your hostess for a lovely time. A handshake or lightly given hug and verbal thank-you is sufficient. Express your goodbyes to the other dinner guests as well.