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A GIFT GUIDE FOR HER Hint, Hint
Holiday Recipes with Chef Lynn Michelle & Cassandra’s Kitchen
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The end of the year generally makes one retrospective, as we ponder all that has happened in the past 365 days. Did we hit those January weightloss goals? Are we a little bit further along financially than we were when the year started? Have we made new connections and given back to our neighbors?
I attended two Celebrations of Life in mid-November, which has me feeling “some kind of way” (as Gen Z would say). After watching the Lowcountry say their goodbyes to Gary Pratt and Monty Jett, I have a newfound appreciation for how life can change in an instant. We tend to get into routines with the people in our lives and, until someone is taken away, we just think things will be the same forever.
Now logically we know this isn’t true –no one gets out alive – but every now and again we get slapped in the face with that harsh reality sooner than we would expect. This year, as you hustle and bustle your way through the holidays, take a minute to be still and appreciate the people around you.
This issue is packed full of holiday sparkle: a gift guide for her, recipes for the perfect Christmas dinner from Chef Lynn Michelle and a festive fashion spread that was shot in Savannah. When Lynne Hummell, our brilliant copyeditor, finished sifting through all of the calendar items we sent her way, she remarked that no one
better say there is nothing to do here in December!
Saturday the 7th is a big day in the Lowcountry, with both Bluffton’s Christmas Parade and Hilton Head Island’s official tree-lighting and concert at Lowcountry Celebration Park. You also still have time to ride your sleigh over to the Hilton in Palmetto Dunes where Hilton Head Prep’s Festival of Trees is happening – through December 7.
We also have a few articles from new voices: Selina Bridwell encourages us to give back and remember the reason for the season (page 41) and Lowcountry native Laney Sewell reminds us that Hilton Head Island is still fun during the holidays (page 81). But if you listen to Heather Rath and Caitlin Lee’s podcast, you probably already knew that. ;-)
However you choose to celebrate the season, remember to hug those close to you and tell them how much you love them. Until next year, warmest wishes from the CH2 & CB2 crew!
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Celebrate the Season with an Amazing Dinner
It’s not as difficult as one might think to prepare a holiday meal that is not only delicious and satisfying for everyone at the table, but also Insta-worthy.
Whether you are an accomplished chef or a home cook with basic knowledge, you can prepare a scrumptious celebratory dinner your family and friends will enjoy and appreciate, using these recipes from Chef Lynn Michelle and Cassandra Shultz, owner of Cassandra’s Kitchen.
Enjoy!
NUTTY ACORN SQUASH
By Chef Lynn Michelle
1 acorn squash
¼ cup butter, softened
2 tablespoons olive oil
Salt and black pepper to taste
¼ cup small peppadews
½ cup fresh cranberries
3 tablespoons honey
1/3 cup pine nuts, toasted
Preheat oven to 375°.
Wash and cut the acorn squash in half and clean out the center seeds with a spoon.
Place the squash halves, skin down, onto a baking sheet. Using gloved hands, completely cover the inside and top rim of squash with softened butter, then cover lightly with olive oil, season with salt, black pepper. Add small sweet peppadews, fresh cranberries, and honey into the squash cavity.
Place in the hot oven and bake until the flesh is soft –about 45 minutes to an hour. Check with a fork; it should be easy to insert.
Add toasted pine nuts and serve immediately.
To toast pine nuts: In a small sauté pan on low heat, carefully toast the pine nuts to release the nutty flavor. Serves 2-3.
GREEN BEAN ALMONDINE
By Chef Lynn Michelle
24 oz. green beans, clean and ends removed; keep whole ¼ cup butter
Salt and black pepper to taste 1 cup almond slivers, toasted
Cook green beans in a pot of lightly salted boiling water for 15 minutes, or until fork tender.
Strain through a colander, and place directly in an ice water bath. This will cool them immediately and keep their bright green color.
Drain again when cold. Set aside.
Melt butter in a large skillet over medium-high heat.
Stir in the green beans; add salt and pepper and toss in most of the toasted slivered almonds.
How to toast almonds: In a small sauté pan on low heat, carefully toast the almonds to release the nutty flavor.
Serve immediately. Garnish with additional toasted almonds.
HOLIDAY BRUSSEL SPROUTS
By Chef Lynn Michelle
1 or 2 bags brussels sprouts, clean and outside leaves removed,
1 cup butter
Salt and black pepper to taste ½ cup dried cranberries
1 cup fresh cranberries
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
Cook brussels sprouts in a pot of lightly salted boiling water for 15 minutes, or until fork tender.
Strain through a colander, and place directly in an ice water bath. This will cool them immediately and keep their bright green color.
Drain again when cold. Set aside.
Melt butter in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the brussels sprouts and cranberries and stir until the butter is lightly browned. The brown butter gives it a nutty flavor.
Add lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Serve immediately.
SPAGHETTI SQUASH
By Chef Lynn Michelle
1 spaghetti squash
¼ cup olive oil
¼ cup butter, softened salt and black pepper to taste 1 cup mushrooms, sliced ½ cup sweet onion, diced 1/3 cup red pepper, chopped ½ cup pecans, toasted
Preheat oven to 375°.
Wash and cut the spaghetti squash in half lengthwise and clean out the center seeds with a spoon. Using gloved hands, completely cover the inside and top rim of squash with softened butter, then cover the squash cavity lightly with olive oil, salt and black pepper.
Place the squash halves, skin side up, onto a baking sheet. Place in hot oven and bake until the flesh is soft – about 45 minutes to an hour. Check with a fork; it should be easy to insert. In medium sauté pan, melt butter, then sauté mushrooms, peppers, onions; set aside. Reheat just before you mix into the spaghetti squash.
When the squash is done, flip the halves over. With a fork, simply and carefully “lift up” or “rake” the squash fibers, revealing the spaghetti-like strands. Do not overplay this or it will become mush. Lightly toss and add in sauteed mushrooms, peppers, and onions; top with toasted pecans and drizzle with olive oil and balsamic glaze. Garnish with additional toasted pecans or almonds.
Serve warm and immediately. Serves 4.
BELGIAN MUSHROOM & PEPPERCORN COGNAC SAUCE
By Chef Lynn Michelle
1 lb. portobello mushrooms, sliced 1 tablespoon shallot, minced ½ cup onion, minced ½ cup all purpose or gluten free flour ½ cup butter (1 stick)
2 teaspoons mixed colored peppercorns, whole ½ cup cognac
1¾ cups whole milk
1 cup half-and-half salt and black pepper
In a large sauté pan, melt butter, add mushrooms, onions, shallots, sauté until translucent.
Add flour to make the roux, and keep stirring the mixture on low heat until it is blended and the roux has cooked for a few minutes.
Add cognac. Using a small whisk, keep stirring and blending all the mixture as well as “cleaning up the pan” from all of the sauté bits, with the liquid added. Slowly add some whole milk and then some half-and-half to loosen up the mixture a bit.
Add peppercorns and more milk and half-and-half until the sauce is your desired thickness. Season with salt and very little black pepper. The peppercorns will be pungent.
Serve warm with grilled beef tenderloin, chicken, pork, tofu, or fresh pasta.
WHOLE GRILLED TENDERLOIN
By Chef Lynn Michelle
1 whole beef tenderloin – trim it yourself or have your butcher do this Chicago or Montreal Grill Time Seasoning
Use a sharp knife or scissors to remove silver skin and trim excess fat from tenderloin. Fold the thinner end under to approximate the thickness of the rest of the beef tenderloin.
Season the entire tenderloin; rub over tenderloin to coat. Let sit while you preheat the grill. Preheat a gas grill to high for 10 minutes and lightly oil the grate.
Place tenderloin on the hot grill and close the lid. Grill until well-seared, about 5 minutes. Flip and repeat on all sides on medium to high flame. Do not leave the grill during this time; the flames could flare up.
Turn off the burner directly underneath the tenderloin and turn the remaining one or two burners (depending on grill style) to medium.
Cook until rosy pink and a meat thermometer inserted in the thickest section registers 130°F, about 45 to 60 minutes. Cook time will depend on tenderloin size and the grill type.
Let tenderloin rest 15 minutes before carving.
CASSANDRA’S ROSEMARY CRANBERRY MARGARITAS
Rosemary simple syrup:
½ cup granulated sugar
½ cup water
3 rosemary sprigs
Cocktail:
1½ ounces blanco tequila
¾ ounce unsweetened cranberry juice
½ ounce orange liqueur (such as Cointreau)
½ ounce lime juice, plus lime wedge
½ ounce rosemary simple syrup
For garnish: 2 teaspoons granulated sugar
For garnish: 1 teaspoon kosher salt
For garnish: rosemary sprig
For garnish: fresh cranberries
Make the rosemary simple syrup: Stir together sugar, water, and rosemary in a small saucepan. Bring to a gentle simmer over medium-low; cook, stirring occasionally, until mixture is syrupy and rosemary has wilted, 8 to 10 minutes.
Remove from heat, and let cool completely, about 20 minutes.
If making ahead of time, remove rosemary sprigs, and store syrup in an airtight container in the refrigerator.
Prepare your glass: Combine granulated sugar and kosher salt on a small plate. Using your fingers, rub rosemary leaves into sugar mixture until fragrant and oils release, about 30 seconds.
Rub rim of rocks glass with lime wedge; dip into sugar mixture.
Fill glass with ice and set aside.
Make the cocktail: Combine tequila, cranberry juice, orange liqueur, lime juice, and rosemary simple syrup in a cocktail shaker filled with ice. Shake until well chilled, about 20 seconds.
Strain cocktail into prepared rocks glass. Garnish with rosemary sprig and fresh cranberries, if using.
CASSANDRA’S CANDY CANE CRUNCH CAKE
For the cake:
1¾ cups all-purpose flour
2 cups sugar
¾ cups good cocoa powder, such as Valrhona
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1 cup buttermilk, shaken
½ cup vegetable oil
2 extra-large eggs, at room temperature
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 cup freshly brewed hot coffee
Preheat the oven to 350°.
Butter two 8-inch round cake pans.
Line with parchment paper, then butter and flour the pans.
Sift the flour, sugar, cocoa, baking soda, baking powder, and salt into the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment and mix on low speed until combined. In another bowl, combine the buttermilk, oil, eggs, and vanilla. With the mixer on low speed, slowly add the wet ingredients to the dry ones. With mixer still on low, add the coffee and stir just to combine, scraping the bottom of the bowl with a rubber spatula.
Pour the batter evenly into the prepared pans and bake for 35 to 40 minutes, until a cake tester comes out clean. Cool in the pans for 30 minutes, then turn them out onto a cooling rack and cool completely.
WHITE CHOCOLATE BUTTERCREAM FROSTING
For base frosting:
1 pound (4 sticks) unsalted butter, each stick cut into quarters and softened
¼ cup heavy cream
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
¼ teaspoon salt
4 cups (16 ounces) confectioners sugar
Using stand mixer fitted with paddle, beat butter, cream, vanilla, and salt on medium-high speed until smooth. Continue to beat until frosting is light and fluffy, about 5 minutes. (Frosting can be refrigerated for up to 3 days; let soften at room temperature, about 2 hours, then rewhip on medium speed until smooth, 2 to 5 minutes.)
To make white chocolate frosting:
5 cups of base frosting
8 ounces white chocolate
1¾ cups finely ground peppermint candies, plus 6 whole candies for garnish
Microwave white chocolate in bowl at 50% power, stirring occasionally, until melted and smooth, 1-3 minutes; let cool. Divide frosting evenly between 2 bowls. Stir white chocolate into 1 portion of frosting. Stir ¾ cup ground peppermints into remaining frosting.
Line edges of cake platter with four strips of parchment paper to keep platter clean. Place one cake layer, flat side up, on platter. Spread half of peppermint frosting evenly over top, right to edge of cake. Place the second layer on top, flat side up, and spread the white chocolate frosting evenly first on the sides and then on the top of the cake. Gently press remaining 1 cup ground peppermints onto cake sides and sprinkle evenly over top. Carefully remove parchment strips.
Cassandra Shultz, owner of Cassandra’s Kitchen, and Chef Lynn Michelle.
ARTICLE BY SELENA BRIDWELL
Preparing for the Holidays
ADD SOME MEANING TO THE MERRIMENT
December is inherently a month swirling with emotion, and sometimes the to-do list is downright overwhelming. While you are preparing for the holidays, take some time to think about how you want them to be this year. What needs to be different? What traditions do you want to keep? What things are going to create the happy memories you want to look back on?
Most of us plan to do the usual things for the holidays and busy ourselves for the sake of the season. Maybe you
can use a few ideas that will give meaning to the busyness.
• Clean and declutter your home from top to bottom. It always feels better when you start with a clean home. Do a quick decluttering; then take your extras to local thrift stores. This is not the time to do the overhaul. Save that for the New Year.
• Buy or make Christmas/holiday cards. With so many ways to send notes to people these days, a handwritten, well-thought-out note can brighten someone’s day. Think of someone to add to your list who might not expect a card
from you. When you mail your cards, feel good about yourself, knowing that people will be blessed by your thoughtfulness.
• Invest time in others. Whether visiting a residential care community or a neighbor, squeeze in some time to spend with others. If time truly is an issue, at least call someone and encourage them.
• Give the kids in the family the ability to experience the joy of giving. In the December 2019-January 2020 issue of Focus on the Family magazine, Erica Renaud shared a brilliant suggestion: “Instead of us buying all the gifts,
Invest time in others. Whether visiting a residential care community or a neighbor, squeeze in some time to spend with others. If time truly is an issue, at least call someone and encourage them.
we took the money we would’ve spent on the children and divided it up between them to spend on each other,” she wrote. “With a little help and guidance, they picked out and purchased gifts for each of their siblings. My husband and I added some small items that we used to fill their stockings. Instead of December being spent thinking about what they wanted to receive, they were excitedly thinking about what they wanted to give. Christmas morning was so beautiful, as they each took turns presenting the gifts they had handpicked for their siblings.”
• Make care packages to keep in your car in case you see someone in need. These can include gift cards, food that won’t spoil (bars, jerky, prepackaged food, drinks), blankets or sleeping bags, backpacks, socks, self-care products (toothbrush, toothpaste, cup, comb, brush, shampoo, conditioner, soap, deodorant, washcloth, towel, sweatshirt, sweatpants). Add a personal note of prayer and encouragement to the recipient.
• Decorate. What brings you joy in your decorations? Lights? Tree? A special nativity scene? Fresh greenery? Think about ways you can keep it simple while still living in the beauty of the season.
• Host a holiday cookie share. Everyone invited brings two dozen already baked homemade cookies, along with written recipes for them. You provide the drinks and the festive atmosphere. Everyone goes home with a sampling of everyone else’s homemade cookies, new recipes, and happy memories.
• Keep a homemade pound cake or other treat on hand. It seems someone is always stopping by for a quick visit, and it’s extra welcoming to have something homemade to serve. Haven’t you dropped by a friend or family member’s home and had that special something that made the visit just right? If not, make it your signature. You can be the one known for your hospitality.
• Shop local small businesses whenever possible. Our area is blessed with many fun places to shop for unique items and gifts. Coligny Plaza, Shelter Cove Towne Centre, Shelter Cove Harbour
Preparing for the Holidays
and Marina, Harbour Town, The Village at Wexford, Tanger Outlets, and Old Town Bluffton, among other places in the area, have stores specializing in great gifts from tea, honey, and hot sauce to kitchen décor, original artworks, unique accessories, albums, comic books, and area-specific souvenirs. Be sure to get a snack from a local bakery, ice cream, or sandwich shop.
• Have a front porch basket full of snacks and drinks for delivery people. Fill a container – this could be a basket, washtub, cooler, you get the picture! –with individually packaged snacks and drinks. Add a note that is large enough for them to notice, genuinely thanking these helpful people.
• Think about (and pray for) those who have had a hard year. Whether it’s people who have lost everything to hurricanes, or war, or someone who is taking care of a sick loved one, give some thought to how you might be able to help, even if it seems small. If everyone helped in their own small way, the world would be a better place. And if nothing else, lift them up in prayer. That’s the most powerful thing you can do.
• Remember what it’s all about. Forty years ago, everyone knew the “real Christmas story.” It’s not about Santa Claus, although he has his roots in the church. Read the true account of the Christmas story in the book of Luke in the Bible. Take time to slow down and worship the One it’s all about. Traditional songs such as “O Holy Night” or “O Come, O Come Emmanuel” are a good place to start. If you prefer today’s worship music over traditional songs, check out Charleston native Brandon Lake. His fan favorites “Praise” or “Gratitude” can get you going.
• Pray. If you don’t know how, just talk to God like he’s your good father. He wants to be. Then listen for his responses. Find a church service to attend.
Now you’re ready. Take time to be with family or friends. Listen to too much Christmas music. Remember past Christmases and loved ones. Watch Christmas movies. Work a puzzle. Make special recipes. Have that “me” time you need to rest and recover from the routine of regular life. And have yourself a merry little Christmas!
The cast of Christmas My Way: A
AChristmas My Way: A Sinatra Holiday Bash!
SEA GLASS STAGE BRINGS RING-A-DING RAT PACK GROOVE TO TOWN
For anyone who enjoys seasonal music, Christmas My Way: A Sinatra Holiday Bash! is a “don’t miss” event on the community’s holiday calendar. The lively music and witty dialogue, reminiscent of Sinatra and his Rat Pack pals, are sure to spark fond memories of happy times while putting listeners in a festive state of mind.
This swinging spin on holiday classics is presented by Sea Glass Stage Company at Coligny Theatre December 12-22 with performances at 7:30 p.m. Thursday to Saturday, and 2 p.m. Sunday. Tickets are available at sgstage.org/tickets.
Directed by Alex Clark, with Robert Adams as musical director, the cast features four very talented performers who rehearsed their tight harmonies for weeks. Amy Barlett, Sarah
ARTICLE BY LYNNE COPE HUMMELL . PHOTOGRAPHY BY M.KAT
Sinatra Holiday Bash, onstage December 12-22 at Sea Glass Stage at Coligny Theatre, includes, from left, Mark Erickson, Amy Barlett, John Gass, and Sarah Clemmons.
Clemmons, Mark Erickson, and John Gass intersperse their vocals with classic puns, bad jokes, and friendly put-downs.
Audiences will enjoy unforgettable hits like “The Christmas Song,” “Silver Bells,” “I’ll Be Home for Christmas,” along with dozens of other Sinatra favorites, including the iconic “My Way.”
This production was selected for the first Sea Glass holiday offering because of the appeal of the music – and of Sinatra.
“When Sea Glass Stage Company first formed in 2023
Christmas My Way: A Sinatra Holiday Bash!
The script and score were created in the early 2000s by David Grapes and Todd Olson, two college theatre professors who are writers and fans of the Rat Pack and of Christmas.
and we began to brainstorm our first season, Christmas My Way was at the top of our list,” said Clark, who is a co-founder of the nonprofit theatre group. “The music is fantastic and we thought it would be really appealing to our audience. Who doesn’t love Frank Sinatra?”
Clark said this show is unique “because it’s not your typical musical – it’s more like a concert!”
The script and score were created in the early 2000s by David Grapes and Todd Olson, two college theatre professors who are writers and fans of the Rat Pack and of Christmas.
The question that started their creatives juices flowing was simply: “What would have happened had the Rat Pack ever done a Christmas show?”
The authors intend for the performers not to try to mimic or “become” any of the Rat Pack personalities, but rather maintain their own persona.
“The actors are essentially playing themselves as they sing melodies,” Clark said. “There are a few stories told through monologues, with some facts about the Rat Pack, and a ton of jokes. It’s super lighthearted and perfect for the season.”
Though there are only four performers in the show, when they sing together, Clark said, it sounds like several more voices. This is partly because the harmonies they have practiced are a bit more complicated than a typical fourpart chorus.
“They are powerful singers that are doing a fantastic job with all the jazz harmonies that the show features,” Clark said. “All of them have been super easy to work with and bring a lot of joy and laughter to the show.”
As a director, in the first few rehearsals Clark often starts out getting actors to play “get to know me” games. One such activity required the actors to pair up and learn as much as they could about one another in five minutes.
“After the five minutes, they had to introduce their partner to the rest of the cast and me,” Clark said. “The challenge is to try to remember everything that was shared.”
Apart from the games, intentional interaction and relationships among performers are critical to the success of a production, especially with a small cast.
“My favorite part about directing this show is getting to work with actors who are so passionate about music. Seeing them come together and communicate with each other through song is really beautiful,” Clark said. “This show requires great chemistry and camaraderie, so part of my job is to facilitate that.”
Whether you’re a lifelong Sinatra fan or simply looking for a joyous night out, Christmas My Way is guaranteed to put a smile on your face and pep in your step. Don’t miss your chance to have a blast while celebrating the season Sinatra-style.
For more information, visit sgstage. org or find Sea Glass Stage on Facebook.
It’s the most wonderful time of the year and nowhere is that sentiment more apparent than at Palmetto Bluff, the vibrant residential and recreational community bordered by the May, Cooper, and New rivers in Bluffton.
Sited on 20,000 extraordinary acres filled with dense maritime forest, a trail system that winds through the property for miles, with wildlife corridors and swaths of managed forest protected in perpetuity, Palmetto Bluff was conceived to create an authentic relationship between its residents and the natural world.
Though known for dynamic year-round programming produced by the Arts Initiative at Palmetto Bluff, the Palmetto Bluff Club, and the Palmetto Bluff Conservancy, this December the Bluff will be abuzz with some very special events celebrating the community’s renowned artistic, culinary, and conservation heritage.
The arts are central to Palmetto Bluff, which has long been a magnet for creatives drawn to its welcoming people and unspoiled natural beauty. The Arts Initiative at Palmetto Bluff was launched in 2022 to inspire and enrich lives through art in all its forms. Showcasing a diverse curation of artists, craftsmen, musicians, and makers, this vibrant collaboration fosters creativity while striving to forge a broader Lowcountry community united by extraordinary artistry and the exchange of ideas.
Each year, notable Southern masters of their craft are invited to address varied themes that tie to the values of the community as they immerse themselves in the local culture and lead workshops. The Arts Initiative is built upon three foundational pillars: inspiration (embodied by the Artist in Residence program); invitation (manifested in FLOW Gallery + Workshop, the charming exhibition space in Wilson Village, Palmetto Bluff’s social hub); and installation (building a permanent collection and rotating exhibitions set amidst the Palmetto Bluff landscape).
The month of holiday fun will kick off with the Arts Initiative’s December Artist of the Month, painter Karin Olah, who will be on the property December 4-8, hosting workshops and facilitating joy.
Through hands-on educational experiences for residents and guests of Palmetto Bluff, the innovative schedule engages and challenges audiences through shared dialogues and the beauty of the Bluff itself.
Originally from Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, Olah is a Charleston-based artist who combines hand-dyed fabric and paint to create her signature multi-layered paintings inspired by the colors and light of coastal landscapes. Olah’s subject matter ranges from seascape to abstract expressionism to a dreamy place in between. Her work has been published widely including in Southern Living, Better Homes & Gardens, and American Contemporary Art Magazine. Her art is in public collections at the Medical University of South Carolina, Baptist MD Anderson Cancer Center, Mayo Clinic Florida, The Ritz-Carlton, JW Marriott, and Ilya Corporation in Japan.
Olah’s residency will start with a reception December 4 at FLOW Gallery + Workshop
Captions listed top to bottom, left to right: Palmetto Bluff’s Wilson Village is at its most charming during the holiday season; Linzer cookies from the Palmetto Bluff Club’s pastry team at the Palmetto Bluff Farmers Market; Participants after The Palmetto Bluff Conservancy’s Buffalo Run; Edisto Gold Honey is one of the favorite local vendors at the Palmetto Bluff Farmers Market; Exquisite produce in the Palmetto Bluff Club’s pavilion from the community’s own; Farm Charm by Karin Olah, Palmetto Bluff’s December Artist in Residence, is an example of how the artist combines hand-dyed fabric and paint; The May River Chapel in Wilson Village adorned with holiday wreaths
in Wilson Village, to welcome the artist. She will demonstrate her unique process, which combines her passion for textiles and quilts, a background in fashion design in New York City, a BFA in fiber art, and an ever-growing fabric collection, to create her signature multi-layered paintings.
The first workshop, “Links & Landscapes” on December 5, will encourage participants to put down their putters and pick up a paintbrush to join Olah
for a morning of creativity inspired by Palmetto Bluff’s May River Golf Course, a Jack Nicklaus signature 18-hole design. Guests will experience her fabric collage/ painting process in a fun and nonintimidating setting – appropriate for all skill levels – as they complete a small painting of the 18th green.
On Friday, December 6, “Palmetto Bluff Dreamscapes” will follow Olah as she searches for that magical nook in nature where she can envelop herself as if wrapped in a beloved quilt made from the colorful patterns of land and sea to a patchwork of marsh grasses to meandering threads of rivers.
For the artist, fabric elicits deep sensory and emotional reactions, which drives her to integrate textures into her artwork. In this workshop, she will guide participants through textile collage with acrylic painting to envision their Palmetto Bluff dreamscapes. Each person is encouraged to bring favorite fabric scraps to personalize their work. A glass of wine and light refreshments will begin the process to let intuition lead the creative path, where all skill levels can embrace the process.
Olah’s final workshop, “Palmetto Bluff Awakening,” is a family-friendly affair on December 7, where she will demonstrate her textile collage process and then guide the group through creating abstract landscapes inspired by Palmetto Bluff. Children are encouraged to attend this fun and inclusive workshop meant to inspire guests to create textile collages out of their favorite fabrics even after the workshop has concluded.
Tickets for all events can be purchased at palmettobluff.ticketbud. com/karin-olah-december-artist-inresidence.
Multi-layered painter, Karin Olah, at work in her studio in Charleston
River Weaving 1 by Karin
Olah
is emblematic of her signature multi-layered paintings
Palmetto Bluff Conservancy’s Annual Buffalo Run
Come celebrate the holiday spirit December 8 at the festive edition of the Palmetto Bluff Farmers Market on the picturesque Wilson Village Green, boasting idyllic views of the May River Chapel and the May River. This special event will showcase local artisans, feature live music, and offer delightful breakfast treats with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Pick up last-minute gifts for loved ones, indulge in seasonal creations from Palmetto Bluff’s culinary team, and don’t forget to send your final holiday wishes to Santa by submitting a letter. This event is complimentary, and more information can be found at palmettobluff.com/ experience/events/farmers-market.
The cheer will continue with the Arts Initiative at Palmetto Bluff’s Sip & Stroll on Thursday, December 12, from 3 to 6 p.m. Collaborating with FLOW Gallery + Workshop – which will feature festive music in the courtyard – the Paris Market, Simone, Palmetto Bluff Outfitters, and RT’s Market, guests are invited to visit each of Wilson Village’s unique retail stores, which will be serving signature holiday libations and treats.
The Palmetto Bluff Conservancy’s 10th Annual Buffalo Run will return to the Lowcountry community on Sunday, December 15, to benefit the Conservancy, dedicated to the conservation of the natural, historical, and cultural resources of the Bluff’s 20,000 acres that remain virtually undisturbed. Featuring an alltrail course, this 10K, 30K, and 50K race is a tree-shaded combination of single track, dirt, and gravel road trail.
The Buffalo Run 6.2-mile trail winds deep into the ancient maritime forests of Palmetto Bluff, where participants will get blissfully muddy. Relay races are also available in the 30K and 50K runs, where groups can compete with either a three-person team for the 30K or a five-person team for the 50K. The after party, sponsored by Palmetto Bluff Real Estate Company, will feature live music from Lowcountry Boil. Register for the Buffalo Run at runsignup.com/Race/ SC/Bluffton/PalmettoBluffBuffaloRun10K30K50KUltra.
The Palmetto Bluff Conservancy (a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization under the umbrella of the North American Land Trust, which holds the conservation easements on Palmetto Bluff), was founded in 2003 with a mission of protecting the many different habitat types and the flora and fauna that call these habitats home, as well as the lush maritime forests and winding tidal creeks that define the spectacular geography of this community.
Keepers of the natural and historical world of Palmetto Bluff, the Conservancy provides land management services; conducts invaluable research; provides world class biological and ecological educational programs, lectures, and tours to Palmetto Bluff residents and visitors of all ages; and is the organization responsible for educating everyone involved in the development of a new piece of property.
Maintaining, managing, and enhancing the biodiversity at Palmetto Bluff is a project that, much like Mother Nature, will never stop. Led by Director Jay Walea, who spent his youth exploring, hunting, and drawing inspiration from the verdant forests of Palmetto Bluff, the Conservancy team works tirelessly to ensure that development and natural environments can coexist in harmony through ecological research, education and outreach, and land and wildlife management.
The Palmetto Bluff Conservancy uses traditional conservation methods to enrich the flora and the fauna, for their benefit and ours. While preservation leaves Mother Nature to fend for herself, their conservation methods enrich nature’s bounty for humans and their wild neighbors, and the dedicated work of the Palmetto Bluff Conservancy ensures the ecology and diverse environments of the community will be enjoyed by many for years to come.
ARTICLE BY BARRY KAUFMAN
On Your Mark, Get Set, Jingle!
GEAR UP FOR ANOTHER HOLLY JOLLY YEAR OF THE JINGLE JINGLE BRIDGE
RUN
Every year since 1992, runners have preemptively burned off some of those holiday calories during one of the most joyous yuletide competitions on Hilton Head Island. The Jingle Jingle Bridge Run has been a consistent draw, taking racers on a 5K and 10K route that has wound and changed as the island has grown over the past 32 years.
The past few years have seen this event make its greatest leap in evolution, as it joined together the Jingle Run and the Bridge Run to create a course that stretches from Palmetto Bay Road up and over the Cross Island Parkway bridge.
“We’ll run the 5K over the bridge – now that the toll booths are completely gone, the course is a little more attractive,” said event organizer Mark Weisner. “Because they were under construction last year, we routed some of the race down Powerline Road, and now we’ll have the 10K come down that way. It’s such a nice, tranquil course.”
Decked out in festive holiday garb from matching Christmas jammies to vibrant elf costumes, competitors will join in the spirit of the season vying for top honors in men’s and women’s overall, top men’s and women’s masters, and winners in various age categories.
Runners who have competed over the years will know what to expect. Decked out in festive holiday garb from matching Christmas jammies to vibrant elf costumes, competitors will join in the spirit of the season vying for top honors in men’s and women’s overall, top men’s and women’s masters, and winners in various age categories.
What has changed this year is the date. Generally held on Christmas Eve, this year’s Jingle Jingle Bridge Run will be held December 22 starting at 8 a.m.
“We’ll do it on Christmas Eve next year, because this year Christmas Eve falls on a Tuesday,” Weisner said. “Last year it fell on a Sunday and the race was hugely successful,
All participants will receive a colorful long-sleeve Jingle Jingle Bridge Run T-shirt.
so why force it to change? Particularly when it means our volunteers can spend Christmas Eve with their families.”
That spirit of volunteerism is a big part of what drives the event, partnering with the Hilton Head Island High School Track Team to provide the team with a portion of the proceeds. They join organizations like The Rotary Club of Hilton Head and Children’s Relief Fund.
“It’s so great to have people come out and support what we do. It’s important for us to be able to put on a family-oriented community event that supports local students and gives people something to look forward to,” Weisner said.
And ultimately, those people are what drives the Jingle Jingle Bridge Run.
“We also get to see many local friends, including runners like John Duberley, who has run the race for the past seven years, typically with a group of about 10. Additionally, Lynn Sheppard has made it a yearly tradition with her son since 2012, planning their Christmas visit around the Jingle Bell race. They have participated together for 12 consecutive years, which is very cool. Plus, Santa usually stops by for a visit during the event,” Weisner said.
All participants will receive a colorful long-sleeve Jingle Jingle Bridge Run T-shirt. And this year, the post-race party and awards ceremony will also give racers a chance to carbo load after the race, with popcorn and doughnuts a new addition to the festivities.
Registration fee for the 5K race is $34 until December 1, $40 every day after, and $50 on race day. There is a special $5 discount for kids 16 and under for the 5K. Registration fee for the 10K is $44 until December 1, $50 every day after, and $60 on race day. Visit bearfootsports. com to register.
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CHRISTMAS IN THE CITY
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GIFT GUIDE FOR HER
Photography by M.Kat
1. Savannah Bee Company honey $50, available at Le Cookery; 2. Pink pajama set: P.J. Salvage $78, available at Coastal Bliss; 3. Lady’s 18kt yellow gold and sterling silver link style bracelet $1,140, available at Heritage Fine Jewelry; 4. Crossbody bag with Strap $80, available at The Greenery; 5. Pajama top and bottoms, pricing varies, available at Southern Tide; 6. Gretsch Guitar $599.99, available at John’s Music; 7. Back 70 Teddy Sneakers, available at J. Parker Ltd.; 8. Shell Christmas trees: prices vary by size, available at Mingles; 9. The Bluff’s Gift Cards in any amount, Available at The Bluffs; 10. Chocolate Bleu leather booties $235, available at Palmettoes; 11. Pom-Pom Beanie $38, available at The Haven; 12. Fur Coat Reindeer $60, available at Island Child.
1. Headbands $29 each, available at Island Child; 2. LAGOS 18k Gold & Black ceramic Caviar link necklace $3,450, available at Forsythe Jewelers; 3. Wren/chickadee decorative house $60.99, available at Wild Birds Unlimited; 4. Intense Eye: $108, Overnight Lip Mask: $49.50, buy together for a discount, available at Bluffton Aesthetics; 5. Corkcicle Stemless Flutes - $26 each, Corkcicle Cruiser $47 each, available at Palmetto Dunes Robert Trent Jones Pro Shop; 6. Green Jacket Special Edition, visit Club Car of Hilton Head for pricing; 7. Blue earthy tones l.a. Eyeworks $425, available at Eyeland Optique; 8. The Southern Entertainer’s Cookbook $30, available at Mingles; 9. Hat $35, available at Southern Tide; 10. Adjustable Webbing Strap by Oui $105, Grande Fanny in Black Perf $325, Shortie Strap in Vintage Gold $105 available at Kelly Caron Curated; 11. Skin Balm, visit Moor Spa for pricing; 12. Assorted e newton bracelets, Pricing (from left to right): $52, $48, $38 and $58, available at Gifted; 13. Ranger Station Candle $39, available at The Haven; 14. Coin purse $38, available at Coastal Bliss; 15. Olive wood honey
jar $35, Olive wood gift set with bowl and salad servers $98, available at Le Cookery
1. Red and black frame l.a. Eyeworks $425, available at Eyeland Optique; 2. Pink reindeer embellished sweater $160, Clear bag with gold chain $38, available at Maggie and Me; 3. Nutrafol Root Purifier $44, Collagen Infusion $38, Hair Growth Nutraceutical $79, Scalp Microbiome Exfoliating Mask $49, available at Shear Miracle; 4. Palmetto Dunes Gift Card: Gift golf, merchandise, restaurant dining and more, available at Palmetto Dunes Robert Trent Jones Pro Shop; 5. Bronze crossbody $68, Cashmere scarf $120, Earrings $40, available at Outside Hilton Head; 6. Osprey Hat and Tote $185, Available at Brims on the Bluff; 7. Holiday Night Earrings $58, available at SM Bradford Co.; 8. Neck Wrap - By Slow North $50, Pillow Spray - By Cast Of Stones $24, available at Pure Salt Studios; 9. Moor Spa Gift Certificate, available at Moor Spa; 10. Latisse - Regular price $179 (discounts available in the store), available at Bluffton Aesthetics; 11. An assortment of holiday goodies curated from Le Cookery. See store for pricing details; 12. LJ Sonder Earrings $38, LJ Sonder bracelet $110, available at Maggie and Me, 13. Vegan Suede Gloves $30, available at The Greenery; 14. Earmuffs $34, available at Island Child; 15. Cleobella Silk pajama set $228, available at Birdie James; 16. Ladies Peter Millar Jacket $305, available at Palmetto Dunes Robert Trent Jones Pro Shop.
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1. Rudolph slippers $32, available at Coastal Bliss; 2. National Lampoon Movie Theatre ($236) + Station Wagon with Tree ($60), available at Mingles; 3. Lumalite hummingbird feeders $39.99 each, available at Wild Birds Unlimited; 4. Neocutis Bio Gel Firm 50 ml $208, EltaMD UV Broad Spectrum Sunscreen $41, ZO Exfoliating Polish $68, Professional-C Serum 20% $142, available at The Bluffs; 5. Roland Go Keys $324.99, available at John’s Music; 6. Mittens $38, available at Island Child; 7. Logo Golf Ball Covers; Large $110, Small $106, available at Palmetto Dunes Robert Trent Jones Pro Shop; 8. Navy Rectangle Modern Charcuterie Board $140, available at Le Cookery; 9. 18 Carat Opal Necklace $11,882.50, available at Quinn’s Diamond Jewelers; 10. Leather Jacket: JKT NYC $330, available at The Haven; 11. 18K yellow gold circle earrings with diamond center links and a black ceramic oval drop link from the LAGOS Signature Caviar Collection, D = 0.2 ctw. $1,950, available at Forsythe Jewelers; 12. ZO Skin Health Anti-Aging Kit. $240, available at Savage Skin; 13. Little Fish Boateak Tartan Earrings, Large $65.99, Small $59.99, available at Gifted; 14. Palmetto Dunes GT Golf Custom Rechargeable Hand Warmer $40, available at Palmetto Dunes Robert Trent Jones Pro Shop; 15. Adams Apple Cookout Collection $40.99, available at Wild Birds Unlimited; 16. Initial necklace $88 each, available at Collage; 17. Crossbody Wristlets $48 each, available at The Greenery.
1. Corkcicle Cooler Backpack, available at J. Parker Ltd.; 2. Frank & Eileen $398, available at Collage; 3. Sundays 2 piece set $172, available at Gigi’s; 4. Hydra Collagen $192, TNS Advanced + $295, available at Hilton Head Med Spa; 5. Platinum Diamond Necklace 17” 18.87 carats, available at Quinn’s Diamond Jewelers; 6. Soap Bars - By Old Soul Soap Company $10 (Himalayan Salt Bar, Coffee Scrub, Fresh Face, Charcoal Face Bar), Travel Soap Bars, Old Soul Soap Company $3.50, (Coffee Scrub, Vanilla Bean, Charcoal), Therapeutic Himalayan Salt Heart Stone $10, available at Pure Salt Studios; 7. Magnolia Dress for Mom $128, Rose Rancher Hat $58, Vintage Plaid Shirt $58, French Garden Bubble for Baby $55, Baby Headband $14, available at Lennie + Remi Children’s Collective; 8. Earrings $21, available at Mingles; 9. Grinch Christmas Collectible $104.99, available at Mingles
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ARTICLE BY LANEY SEWELL
FINDING HOLIDAY FUN ON THE ISLAND YOU THOUGHT YOU’D LEFT BEHIND
Ah yes, the holidays. That special time of year when no matter how much or how little you have done in preparation, someone will always be unhappy.
Someone’s complaining about the commercialization of the holiday, tension is high, alcohol sales are higher, and how on earth are there no more ornament hooks or rolls of Scotch tape in this house? Why is the Christmas card picture blurry? How are we out of stamps again? And, oh my word, why is it 85 degrees and dark at 5 p.m.?
Living in the Lowcountry my whole life, I take a completely different approach to the holiday season. I don’t know how to shovel snow, I’ve have never had a “White Christmas,” and have no idea how people fly with presents in their luggage. It went from watching A Charlie Brown Christmas while drinking hot cocoa on that half day of school before break, to having a very unfortunately timed high school reunion at
The holiday light display at Shelter Cove Harbour & Marina illuminates the night for the entire
of
A family from Europe rings in the New Year at the Harbour Town ball drop in Sea Pines.
Mom and daughter roast marshmallows while Christmas movies play on a large screen under the Liberty Oak in Harbour Town.
Callahan’s on “Blackout Wednesday,” wondering how those midterm papers went. (Note to Mom: “Blackout Wednesday” means the day before Thanksgiving.)
Did we all just take a collective deep breath? Those sticky floors and house vodka sours don’t lie, y’all. Neither do dressing room mirrors when you’re in a rush and somehow nothing fits but everything fits just enough to easily slide onto your body – and then you’re sweating in T.J. Maxx, trying to figure out if you will die back there in a very unfortunate sequin dress. I have been deathly close to calling the fire department for help there before. Actual nightmare.
I may be 22 years old and described as a joyful cynic, but I did the unthinkable. I grew up, graduated college, and moved right back to the little island where I spent my prime eye-rolling, door-slamming years saying I’d never come back to. But you heard it here first: Hilton Head is still fun!
It’s so easy to take this place for granted and not find joy in the mundane. However, it’s hard to not find joy when the Triangle has about a million lights on it and the elves at the Pope Avenue Starbucks somehow make your drink right every single time in that little red cup.
I plan on spending my holiday season extremely overdressed, anxious for no reason, and watching Hallmark movies wondering how they haven’t called me to portray a
city girl who came back home to participate in a snowmanbuilding competition to somehow save the entire town and stimulate its economy.
Here’s the secret to entertaining literally anyone between the ages of 2 and 25: Get out of the house. Everywhere you look will be lit up and decorated. Stroll through Shelter Cove Towne Centre’s light display, visit the South Beach
Hilton Head Island’s Tree Lighting Ceremony & Holiday Concert will also happen on Saturday, December 7 this year at Lowcountry Celebration Park.
Jevon Daly and John Cranford break out into song under the lights at Coligny Plaza.
Scenes from the Bluffton Christmas parade, which will occur on Saturday, December 7 this year.
Christmas Village, attend the Town of Bluffton Christmas Parade – just simply get out of your house before you drive each other all insane.
You know that bike path you drive past three times a day that you have absolutely no idea where it goes? Go down it! There might be some Christmas lights or fellow islanders to spread cheer with.
The Arts Center of Coastal Carolina is producing 42nd Street December 4-29, and that is another place you will see people you have not seen in years. Seeing old friends really draws in the holiday spirit and ghosts of Christmases past. That’s showbiz, baby!
The best part of this community is the community itself. Everywhere you turn is someone who – no matter the challenges they’re facing – will go the extra mile to make the holiday season that much more special for each and every one of us.
I admire and appreciate the Pinterest moms, dads, and other loved ones; however, I find it increasingly difficult for us to make our own fun, other than eating too many cookies and watching (or quoting every line of) Christmas Vacation for the 97th time. I will say though, if you get very close to my family’s Christmas tree, you will see an alarming amount of poorly made “kid ornaments.” Some of them even have pictures of my brother and me in Santa hats that literally look like mugshots. Bonus points if you bring those back. It could make for a fun-filled family afternoon! Dust off those Polaroid cameras everyone begged for circa 2014. I know there’s some film in my junk drawer.
If anyone is going caroling, please do not ask me to come, but please send me a detailed video. You know where to find me. As for decor, I really do not enjoy yard inflatables. At all. Please.
All in all, yes, Hilton Head Island can still be fun! But you know what else is fun? Being surrounded by the people who will love you no matter what’s in the (not so) perfectly wrapped boxes, whether or not the ham is dry, whether or not there’s more booze than eggnog in your cup, and whether or not you actually tested those Christmas lights before stringing them around your home for four hours on a balmy afternoon.
Here’s to the holidays, my friends – we made it. Best wishes, happy everything, and please send me any leftover dessert.
Article by Sheila Tucker
Photogrpahy by M.Kat
SAY WHAT?
Mastering the Art of Clear Communication
Clear communication – it sounds so simple, doesn’t it? A few words, a well-timed nod, maybe a smile to seal the deal. Alas, if it were that easy, there would be fewer misunderstandings, unintended hurt feelings, and snarky replies while passing the mashed potatoes at the holiday dinner.
Communication is at the heart of all human interactions. We use it to build relationships, share ideas, resolve conflicts, and connect with others. But communication isn’t just about our words; it’s about how we listen, interpret, and respond.
So, how do you turn conversations from argument starters into meaningful connections or even uneventful passing chats?
I have a few ideas that are backed by research. That’s right – science for the win. Here are my favorite four.
MIRRORING
Mirroring is a technique in which you reflect the other person’s words, emotions, or body language back to them. In doing so, you acknowledge the other person’s feelings.
Mirroring also plays a vital role in de-escalating conflicts. When tensions are high, reflecting the other person’s words back to them can help clarify misunderstandings and show that you’re listening.
For example, imagine your partner venting about a stressful day: “I’ve been running around all day. Nobody appreciates all I do.” Instead of launching into your stressful day or offering unsolicited advice, try this: “Wow, it sounds like you’re doing a lot and feel unappreciated.”
Or if your partner says, “You never listen to me when I’m upset,” instead of saying, “Of course I do!” (which is well-meaning but minimizes their feelings), try mirroring: “It sounds like when you’re upset, you don’t think I’m really listening.”
You’re not solving their problems or hijacking the conversation – you’re simply reflecting their experience. Suddenly, you’ve opened the door to a conversation instead of an argument.
Mirroring is a small but mighty move that helps to build trust and create a sense of emotional safety. It says, “Hey, I hear you, and I’m with you. Your thoughts matter, and I’m paying attention.”
As a side note, you can mirror the words verbatim or paraphrase – your choice.
Pro tip: Add the phrase “Did I get that right?” to the end of your reflection. This allows the other person to correct you if you heard incorrectly or didn’t quite pick up on their sentiment.
Mirroring is a small but mighty move that helps to build trust and create a sense of emotional safety. It says, “Hey, I hear you, and I’m with you. Your thoughts matter, and I’m paying attention.”
CURIOSITY
I don’t know about you, but I can easily fall into the trap of thinking I already know what someone close to me will say, or assume their motives based on my experiences.
Assuming creates a one-sided conversation. Your mind is made up. “They” always do this, so why bother?
What if you mixed it up? What if you approached conversations with genuine curiosity? What if you opened yourself up to understanding the other person’s perspective more fully?
Hear me out.
Curiosity requires you to ask open-ended questions that invite the other person to share more about their thoughts and feelings. Instead of responding with judgment or advice, ask questions like, “Oh, can you tell me more?”
Curiosity signals that you’re interested in the other person’s experience rather than rushing to a conclusion. It also helps avoid those dreaded “You never listen!” arguments. The beauty of curiosity lies in its ability to break down barriers, allowing the other person to feel heard and
understood. When you’re curious, you are less likely to assume negative intent and more likely to give grace and approach difficult conversations with openness.
EMPATHY
A quick side note: People often confuse empathy and sympathy. According to Brene Brown, “empathy is feeling with people.” Sympathy, on the other hand, tries to make the situation better. This is my favorite explanation by Brown and well worth three minutes of your time: youtube.com/ watch?v=KZBTYViDPlQ.
Clear communication requires you to go beyond surfacelevel exchanges (sympathy) and tap into the other person’s emotional experience (empathy).
Empathy helps you respond in ways that meet the other person where they are, rather than where you think they should be. It’s a powerful tool for building connection and reducing feelings of isolation or misunderstanding.
It means stepping into the other person’s emotional shoes and feeling what they feel – without trying to fix the problem or slap a Band-Aid on it.
Empathy sounds like, “What was that like for you?”
You’re not trying to fix feelings or downplay experiences. You’re simply acknowledging the other person’s emotional reality. In relationships, this is gold. It’s the ultimate way to show, “I’m here with you, not just physically, but emotionally.”
When you empathize, you send the message that their feelings matter and that you’re willing to be with them, even in their discomfort. This creates a deeper bond and lets them know you’re in it for the long haul, through the ups, downs, and everything in between.
VALIDATION
Validation is recognizing and affirming another person’s feelings, thoughts, or experiences. It reassures the other person that they are seen and heard. It’s like giving someone a verbal hug.
But first, let me clear up a common misconception: Validating is not the same as “agreeing with.”
Yes, you can validate someone’s feelings without agreeing with their perspective.
The key to validation is focusing on the other person’s experience rather than trying to impose your own. It requires setting aside your judgment and fully acknowledging the emotions and perspective the other person is expressing.
I know it’s a lot, and it’s all doable.
Validating means you are recognizing that the other person’s feelings could make sense given the situation. It’s about sincerely conveying, “I hear you,” without the subtext of “But you’re overreacting” or “You’re wrong.”
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
I’ll admit, in the beginning, practicing these communication skills will be slow and clunky. Or, in my official therapist-speak, “wonky.” However, the more you practice, the more natural it become. And it does take practice – a lot of it.
Clear communication creates an environment where your partner feels seen, heard, and valued. When you mirror their feelings, get curious about their thoughts, empathize with their experiences, and validate their emotions, you’re building a foundation of trust, understanding, and connection. And isn’t that what we’re all looking for?
If you want to learn more, one of my favorite communication resources is How to Talk to Anyone About Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations by Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt.
Jevon Daly’s Khaotic Kidz Show happens every Saturday afternoon in December, from 11:30 - 1 p.m., on the Coligny mainstage.
ARTICLE BY BARRY KAUFMAN
RINGING IN THE SEASON AT COLIGNY
Hilton Head Island’s downtown is the coolest spot south of the North Pole
With the notable influx of new residents that Hilton Head Island has welcomed this year, it could be that this year marks the first holiday season in the Lowcountry for many readers. As the calendar draws nearer to Christmas, you might be wondering how locals get into the spirit when there are no snow-covered rooftops, no roaring fires to stave off the winter cold, and no snowman to adorn with a corncob pipe and button nose.
The answer is simple. Here in the Lowcountry, it’s not the holiday season until the lights come on at Coligny Plaza. But once that switch has been pulled, turning this venerable island institution into a sparkling winter wonderland, you’ll understand what Christmas means on this island.
“Going back decades, we’ve really tried to provide the Lowcountry a way to get into the holiday spirit, and it has been wonderful to see how much the community has embraced what we’ve done,” said Coligny Plaza owner JR Richardson. “From the lights to the shows to the special events in between, it’s all our way of sharing the season with our neighbors.”
Every night through December, Coligny Plaza will burst into a festival of colors as the “Nightly Lights” illuminate the trees and rooflines of the plaza with holiday cheer. You’ll definitely want to explore the many courtyards and corridors around Coligny to take in all the sights while you shop, dine, and celebrate.
But the real highlight of the holiday season at Coligny
comes every Saturday during December (plus December 22 and 23) when the plaza is flooded with fun activities, performances, and special deals for those seeking the perfect gift.
The first stop of the Saturday fun will be Jevon Daly’s Kids Show, a holiday-flavored version of Daly’s famed kidcentric entertainment. This side-splitting smorgasbord of interactive stories and singalong fun runs 11:30 a.m.- 1 p.m. with Hilton Head’s clown prince of music running the show.
Daly is even offering a special contest to kids and parents who come out and enjoy the show. “Your kid should come sing a Christmas song with me,” Daly said. “If you can stump me with a song I can’t play, I’ll fly you and your family to the North Pole.” (Full disclosure, Daly is a bit of a jokester, so that offer is probably not valid. But you should try and stump him anyway.)
Following the show, kids will have the opportunity to have their picture taken with Santa from 1-2 p.m., a magical memory they’ll treasure forever.
If you miss the Saturday fun, you can send Santa a letter every day of the week from Santa’s Post Office, giving you a direct line to St. Nick himself.
Just when you think Coligny is done spreading holiday cheer, think again. On top of the month-long holiday fun, you can be entered to win $1,000 in shopping and dining at Coligny every time you shop during the month of December. Just enter at ColignyPlaza.com/Christmas to enter the big prize, to be drawn on Christmas Day.
CH2’s Jevon Daly and Maggie Washo pose for a photo with Santa at Coligny Plaza.
ARTICLE BY BARRY KAUFMAN
THE FIRST TEE WANTS YOU!
VOLUNTEERS, HERE’S YOUR CHANCE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN A CHILD’S LIFE
This time of year, everyone is looking for ways to be a better person. Just ask Ebenezer Scrooge, whose Christmas Day change of heart saw him become a beloved benefactor to his community and friend to his neighbors.
You don’t need to be visited by three spirits to begin your own holiday drive to give back. All you have to do is get involved, and First Tee – The Lowcountry has a great way to do exactly that. The organization, which teaches children invaluable life skills while also showing them the joys of golf, is looking for a few charitable folks to sign up.
“We’re really trying to expand and grow into the west end of Bluffton, north of the Broad River and into Jasper County. That’s where all the growth is happening and will continue for the foreseeable future. But we need volunteers and coaches for that,” said Executive Director Pat Zuk.
The coaches and volunteers of First Tee serve as the backbone of the organization, working one-on-one with kids at school and at courses around the Lowcountry. While providing instruction on the game of golf, from etiquette to ironing out a wobbly swing, volunteers also impart invaluable life lessons on First Tee students, helping them grow through challenges, pursue their goals, and work as part of a community.
“Our volunteers play such a tremendous role in these kids’ lives,” Zuk said. “It’s a great way to help a child who needs the guidance. We are able to offer them a safe place to learn the game of golf, have fun, and grow as people.”
Over the next few months, First Tee will be rolling out meet and greet events throughout the Lowcountry’s mainland, giving interested coaches and volunteers a chance to learn a little bit more about the program and the extraordinary work they do for area youth.
And if you’re thinking that your golf game isn’t quite up to par, don’t worry. The First Tee welcomes even the most hapless hackers.
“We have coaches who don’t golf at all, but they’re just really interested in making a positive impact on these kids,” said Program Director Aaron Immel. “We have them focused on some other things – for example, they’ll work on putting with the younger kids and they’ll work on the life skills.”
Immel said volunteers need to complete two easy online training sessions, the first a safe sport training, and the second an assistant coach training. Once they’ve done that, they’ll shadow one of First Tee’s volunteer coaches to get hands-on experience.
“And if they want, there are opportunities after that to become lead coaches,” Immel said. “But there are some coaches who prefer to just be an assistant coach, which we absolutely welcome. Whatever way someone wants to get involved, we welcome them.”
To help make a difference in children’s lives as First Tee expands throughout Beaufort and Jasper counties, visit firstteelowcountry.org.
Serial entrepreneurs, Paul and Nikki McBride, are photographed at their newest venture, The Bluffs Med Spa & Massage.
Article by Barry Kaufman
Photography by M.Kat
BeautyDisruptionBeyond
The Bluffs Med Spa & Massage puts health and beauty first
If there is one word in the lexicon of business that has rocketed past buzzword and into the realm of cliché, it’s “disruption.”
Everyone in business wants to be a disrupter, to break the old model into pieces and fit the remaining fragments into something new. Does it always work? The jury is out on that one.
Sometimes disrupters wind up in the history books, sometimes they’re barely a footnote. For every Uber, there’s a Juicero, the overengineered device that somehow failed to revolutionize the juicing industry.
As serial entrepreneurs, Paul and Nikki McBride have seen what makes a business a success and have mapped out nearly every pitfall. As former owners of Carolina Car Wash, Sea Castle Custom Homes, Palmetto Real Estate Group, K1 Speed, and a variety of other local companies, they know that disrupting the model will take you only so far. It’s what you rebuild it into – and more importantly why – that truly matters.
“Ultimately, it’s still a business. If you treat people properly, and you create that experience, it’s almost impossible to go out of business,” Paul McBride said. “Whether it’s go-karts, car washes, or home building, it’s all about the customer experience.”
To that end, the couple took a different approach to their latest venture, The Bluffs Med Spa and Massage. Combining the best of all worlds under one roof – a medical spa staffed with some of the best and brightest in the business, along with relaxing massage, a head spa and more – they’ve shown that the best way to disrupt the model is to start with the customers.
That became personal for McBride even before he and Nikki thought about opening The Bluffs. He noticed how
members of his family were having difficulty with traditional laser hair removal working with their skin tones. Current machines in the market servicing those of Latin, African American or Asian descent were found to be painful, and at times ineffective.
“The goal is to look at it from a different point of view,” McBride said. “When someone says, ‘Well this is just the way we do it,’ to me that’s an opportunity to see if there’s a different way. Can we partner with a company that could fix those issues; could we find machines that have a better efficacy rate for people of color?”
The Bluffs found the solution by partnering with Cartessa, whose tagline is “Skinclusive,” and they have overdelivered on their promise of pain-free and effective solutions.
The McBrides wanted to open the door for every demographic who wanted to look and feel their best while experiencing elite level customer service.
“I thought it was important that we offer a variety of wellness solutions,” McBride said. “Traditional medical spas focus mainly on medical grade services and day spas focus on lower aesthetics and massage. … The goal was to combine these two disciplines, and until now, it has been a challenge for businesses to do that, because they are perceived as different worlds. Since opening, we have expanded into functional medicine, as it’s a logical progression to offer overall wellness by addressing root causes.”
Caitlin Cleland, PA will provide her knowledge and expertise in dermatology and functional medicine. Tyah Haro,
DNP offers expertise in promoting longevity and reducing chronic disease.
Fortunately, they had help.
While the McBrides know business, they knew that the most important need was to identify proven practitioners in the medical and day spa industry. And that’s where the dream team came together.
FORMING THE TEAM
One of Paul McBride’s foundational philosophies of business is knowing what advice to follow and what to ignore. When a consultant told him to throttle back on the initial offerings, hiring fewer staff to start with, scaling back offerings at first, he balked. After all, how can you consider yourself open if you’re not giving customers everything you’d set out to offer them?
Instead, he leaned on another of his foundational philosophies: Develop a proper plan and surround yourself with the right people who know what they’re doing.
“We hire only team members that possess great personalities, a passion for wellness, and that cultivate an environment of loyalty and trust,” McBride said. “This is a mandate from our spa director, Lexi McBride, a recent graduate of the College of Charleston with a degree in business administration with a concentration in entrepreneurship. Lexi always had a passion for business while attaining her degree, and she has managed previous family businesses.”
Collaborating with The Bluffs Med Spa and Massage, Jarrod Little M.D., will enhance the patient’s experience by
The relaxation room at The Bluffs Med Spa is elegant and calming.
Rebekah Mullin, Laser Specialist; Morgan Curry, Lead Aesthetic Injector; and Millie Arantes, Licensed Esthetician
Jarrod Little M.D. Plastic Surgeon, Revive Palmetto Aesthetic & Surgery
Adjacent spa rooms are perfect for couples massages.
providing comprehensive care. By offering both surgical and nonsurgical aesthetic procedures, they can provide patients a complete solution to beauty and wellness needs.
In addition, McBride said, they were fortunate find Morgan Curry, a “high-level provider.” Curry moved her family to the area from Kentucky, and will help mold the vision.
Passionate about both skin health and self-esteem, Millie Arantes, a licensed esthetician, offers personalized, holistic skincare solutions that rejuvenate and empower. She holds years of experience and advance HydraFacial training. Arantes is dedicated to helping her clients feel confident and radiant in their own skin.
“And then Rebekah Mullin, who’s been here for 25 years, was our first employee,” McBride said. “She signed on before we even started here.”
It was critical to have this team develop the The Bluffs brand together, McBride said.
Rather than simply share space, the practitioners pool their deep knowledge and resources to blend the benefits of their two philosophies together. On the medical side of things, clients can receive IV therapy, weight loss treatments, body contouring, injectables, laser treatments, metabolic wellness, or hormone therapy. Then, without missing a beat, they can go down the hall for spa treatments, massage therapy, facials or peels.
Everyone gets the same care from the range of amazing professionals who have all come together with the customer experience in mind.
As lead aesthetics injector and clinical manager, Curry came to the practice after more than a decade in nursing, the past eight in the aesthetics industry. As one of just seven CANS-certified injectors in the state, she brings a wealth of experience and a medical background that perfectly suits her in her new role at The Bluffs.
“In my higher volume practice in Lexington, we were strictly medical aesthetics,” Curry said. “There wasn’t even an aesthetician. So the fact that we blend so much together here, with our day spa offerings, functional medicine, and advanced medical aesthetics at this level, just hasn’t been done anywhere around here.”
Mullin brings over 25 years of experience at her role at The Bluffs Med Spa. She has completed specialized training in laser technology and has held the position as a laser trainer, consultant, and med spa manager. As a master aesthetician and laser specialist, Mullin has followed the evolution of the aesthetics industry. “Laser technology now offers so much less downtime with optimal results than laser aesthetic treatments of the past,” Mullin said. She says she enjoys transforming someone’s skin “because it is something you wear every day.”
Bringing two disciplines into one location is about more than the convenience of one-stop-shopping for health and beauty.
“What’s been very interesting is putting these specialties together and watching everyone learn and grow from each other,” McBride said. “I believe that’s what’s going to set us apart.”
Of course, since the customer experience is the true north star, the only way to prove it is to come and see for yourself. Visit thebluffs.com to see the full suite of offerings from practitioners across two disciplines who have come together to disrupt the model just for you.
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A LINE IN THE SAND
COURTNEY’S OPINION:
Gratitude is more than a seasonal sentiment
Hilton Head Islander Chris Schembra started a movement in 2015 – the 7:47 Gratitude Experience. What began with 15 friends around a dinner table has now surpassed 700 dinners and today his vision is all aglow smack dab in the middle of Manhattan’s Times Square.
Chris’ focus is on human connection. As a prompt he asks, “If you could give credit or thanks to one person in your life that you don’t give enough credit or thanks to, who would that be?”
And that question has rolled around in my head a lot lately – especially as I sit in my office at Bluffton Self Help, and we prepare to provide Thanksgiving meals to more than 600 families, and then holiday meals and toys right on the heels of turkey day. I am very grateful. I believe at this time of year, the fortunate among us experience an influx of gratitude and hopefully generosity in turn.
But separate from the day dedicated to giving thanks and the season of giving, do we focus on our gratitude as a daily ritual? I haven’t been doing that.
In September, I lost my Dad. If he was here, he would make a joke that he wasn’t lost or missing. He’d say, “I’m dead, Cour.” I inherited his sarcasm. In going through his things, I’ve learned that we are more alike than I ever knew. He wrote. Constantly. I found poems, stories, and a screenplay. I am grateful for these discoveries.
He was sentimental. He had decades of pictures of friends and family. Newspaper clippings of me, from the early 2000s. His offer letter from Irvington Fire Department, circa 1969, in pristine condition. Nary a wrinkle.
He was spiritual, despite his jokes about the Catholic school nuns. We buried him with his rosary alongside his parents, while a bagpiper played “Amazing Grace.”
Of course, I am currently reflecting on our fatherdaughter relationship something fierce and finding ways to insert a tidbit about my father into every conversation (or column). I was in line to get coffee and bumped into a friend who asked what was new and I blurted out, “My Dad died” in attempt to create space to talk about it.
As we began to clean out his house, I combed through a lifetime of cards from me that he saved – in each one, I thanked him. I am grateful that he knew that, and that he held on to those reminders – because I had forgotten them. The more I think about it, I realize my father was by my side
“If you could give credit or thanks to one person in your life that you don’t give enough credit or thanks to, who would that be?”
I am very grateful. I believe at this time of year, the fortunate among us experience an influx of gratitude and hopefully generosity in turn. But separate from the day dedicated to giving thanks and the season of giving, do we focus on our gratitude as a daily ritual? I haven’t been doing that.
not just when celebrating, but in those moments when I was at the bottom. When I was struggling at college, he got in the car and drove – overnight – from New Jersey to West Virginia University so he could be in the lobby of my dorm when I returned from my 8 a.m. class. He sat beside me in a courtroom while I tried to get a restraining order against an abusive partner. When I made poor relationship decisions (too many to list here), he was always “Just Dad” and supportive while others questioned my choices.
Dad struggled with mental health issues for most of his adult life, and our relationship was complicated because of it. We were not close when he died, which has made the grief insurmountable at times. As I grappled with the initial shock, one of my dear friends said, “Relationships are complicated, love is not.” And she was right.
In the end, it’s just love. And for that, I am beyond grateful.
BARRY’S OPINION: I give thanks to my frothy friend named Beer!
Before I begin, my condolences to Courtney on the loss of her father. She recently told me she was still in her “Dad Loss Grief Era,” but I hope she knows that era really never ends. It does, however, get less painful by degrees over time.
My dad’s been gone for 15 years now, and I probably have at least three conversations with the man a week. More during football season, especially this year with the Steelers having Justin Fields in the quarterback room.
I’m glad she has this space to thank her father since, although I never met him, I can see from who he raised that he was an exceptional guy, and the world is a poorer place for his absence.
But that leaves me with a few hundred words to fill with my own sentiments of gratitude. Which is tough, since I’m generally kind of a prick – that previous sentence notwithstanding. So let me start by thanking my family, just to lull you, the reader, into a false sense of security that I intend to take this assignment seriously.
From here I’d like to shift gears and give my thanks to beer.
There are a lot of people out there whose presence in my life is a source of
inspiration. These are the folks I pal around with in the cul de sac, the folks who show up to my trivia gigs, the ones whom I might run into only at festivals and funerals, but who always leave me feeling happy to have seen them. They exist in the wide spectrum between “dear friends” and “casual acquaintances,” and I treasure them all.
But then there are the jerks. And they are legion. These are the folks who haven’t figured out how to drive on the Bluffton traffic circle, who can’t help but let everyone know who they voted for whether the conversation is political or not, who insist on turning every situation into some kind of Real Housewives-style drama fest. They don’t all realize how irritating they’re being, but they sure seem to thrive on it.
And I give thanks to beer because beer is often the only thing possible that allows me to live on the same planet with those jerks. Sure, I could always get even in some way, but the South Carolina criminal code is pretty restrictive about revenge. I could just grin and bear it, but that only lasts so long before all that aggravation comes spilling messily out, leaving me permanently barred from yet another establishment.
Is beer a perfect solution? No, of course not. For starters, the bar doesn’t open until 3 p.m. But during those dry hours, I’m grateful for my family and all the dear friends, casual acquaintances, and yes, even co-columnists who serve as a constant reminder that, as legion as they are, the jerks will always be outnumbered.
If you look for the good people, you’ll find them. You don’t need to look for the jerks; they’ll find you. And I hope they’ll wait until after 3 to find me.
Adam Pegan, Chief Strategy Officer, Christina Brzezinski, Market Chief Nursing officer and Joel Taylor, Market President, reviewing plans for new Bluffton community hospital.
New HYDROS Robotic System at Coastal Carolina that uses AI-powered Aquablation therapy with a water jet to precisely remove excess prostate tissue and reduce the size of the gland.
Rendering of planned full-service, community hospital campus in Bluffton, part of Novant Health’s major health care hub in the Lowcountry, with a goal to increase access to health care and create as many as 1,000 jobs over five years.
Ryan Lee, President at Coastal Carolina Hospital
IArticle by Barry Kaufman
The Doctor Will See You Now
Novant Health has arrived in the Lowcountry
t has been a year since the Lowcountry first learned that its two local hospitals – Hilton Head Medical Center and Coastal Carolina Hospital – had been sold. The $2.4 billion acquisition, which included East Cooper Medical Center in Charleston County, saw our hospitals change hands from Tenet Healthcare to Winston-Salem, North Carolina-based Novant Health.
Immediately questions began swirling: What would this deal mean for our local hospitals, not to mention their many associated facilities and physicians scattered across Beaufort and Jasper counties? Would this new company be able to keep up with the meteoric growth of the Lowcountry?
Speaking at the time of the initial acquisition announcement, Carl S. Armato, Novant Health’s president and CEO, said, “We’re excited about making this long-term investment for healthcare across our region. As a health system rooted in the Carolinas, we are committed to expanding the communities we serve across our regional delivery network known for safe, quality, patient-centered care in South Carolina.”
It didn’t take long for Lowcountry residents to see the real-world results of the company’s lofty promises. In February of this year, as the purchase was finalized, Ochsner Novant Health 65 Plus opened in Okatie. Three months later, Coastal Carolina opened its new operating room. In October, Novant Health donated a staggering $1 million to the Coastal Community Development Corporation for local affordable housing.
Just last month, the company announced that they had acquired statewide and local Doctor’s Care and PT Clinics, adding to an already robust referral network.
In short, Novant Health has spent the better part of their first year here in the Lowcountry setting a new standard. And they’re just getting started, with plans for a new fullservice community hospital campus in Bluffton.
“People are already seeing the difference in our new facilities,” said Market President Joel Taylor. “And with a new community hospital and freestanding ER planned for in Bluffton, we’re adding new options for patients, and reinvesting in jobs. It’s something that people are going to
start seeing and feeling more over time. It’s really exciting.”
Taylor has been a part of our community for the past eight years, and he is one of many familiar faces in local healthcare who is enthusiastic for the change that Novant Health represents.
“What I appreciate about Novant is how rapidly they’ve come to understand our community and respond to its needs,” Taylor said. “A lot of what they are investing in are areas where we’ve seen a real need, like investment in technology and recruitment of new physicians. Our community has grown, and responding to that growth is important.”
The most visible example of that rapid response was
the addition of the new OR suite at Coastal Carolina this past May, something that President Ryan D. Lee points to as a clear sign of Novant Health’s commitment to the area.
“The support that Novant Health has given our community and our hospitals was the right thing to do for our patients,” Lee said. “We were able to quickly make that capital investment and recruit new physicians. … As we’ve seen, this area continues to grow and we want to meet those needs as the community grows. It’s not just physical assets like a freestanding ER and imaging centers; it’s also the planned/ projected addition of more than 50 physicians to our area, including primary care physicians, cardiologists, OB-GYNs, and other specialists. We’re really
Paul R. Mitchell, DO (anesthesiologist) and Carlos Montenegro, MD (general surgeon)
Eric Gwynn, MD (urologist) and CCH surgical team performing HYDROS/ Aquablation therapy
K. Craig Boatright, MD (orthopedic spine surgeon)
excited about what this will mean for the Lowcountry.”
But growing to meet the needs of a rapidly expanding community is just a part of the overall strategy that Novant Health has brought to the Lowcountry. They’ve also invested heavily in new technology, bringing new cutting-edge treatment options to the Lowcountry that simply didn’t exist before. The surgical team at Coastal Carolina added a cutting edge HYRDOS robotic system, which uses a less invasive, AI-powered Aquablation therapy with a water jet to treat enlarged prostate. The investment represents a quantum leap in prostate care. Along with the addition of two new DaVinci surgical robots at Coastal Carolina, a new “aquablation” technology, called the HYDROS Robotic System, represents a quantum leap in prostate care.
“Patients with urology conditions used to have to travel out of state to have this procedure done,” said Adam Pegan, chief strategy officer. “Now we’re one of just six facilities in the country that can offer Aquablation therapy with the HYDROS System.”
As the CSO for the market, Pegan is taking the long view on what Novant Health will mean for our area. Like his colleagues, he is excited to be a part of the sea change this represents in Lowcountry healthcare.
“Our number one goal is to have programmatic development that keeps high-quality care local and grows with the community. That includes new access points, new technologies and new providers,” Pegan said. “But it also includes the level of partnerships we’ve built across the community, from events like the Concours d’Elegance and the RBC Heritage to organizations like Volunteers in Medicine (VIM), Memory Matters, and National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI).”
Looking at it from the 20,000-foot view, Novant Healthcare has already shown its outsized impact on our community in its first year. But what does it mean to the individual? New facilities and technologies are important, and our community thrives on the kind of generosity Novant has already shown, but how much does any of that really matter when you’re sick or injured?
“Healthcare is a customer service business, but it’s one of the few where our customers don’t want to be here,” said Christina Brzezinski, market chief nursing officer. “So, it’s incumbent on us to offer a really good experience.”
As a 10-year veteran in nursing locally, Brzezinski is already seeing how Novant Health is setting a new standard where it matters most – patient care.
“The big thing I’ve seen for patients is Novant’s commitment to looking outside the hospitals. Tenet was very hospital-based, but Novant has already made communitywide healthcare a priority,” Brzezinski said. “They have really put their money where their mouth is when it comes to physician recruitment. If you talk to anyone moving to the area, their first question is, ‘Where can I find a doctor?’ Giving people more options for primary care doesn’t just help the hospital, it helps the community.”
Less than a year in, Novant Health has already elevated our community’s healthcare options beyond anyone’s expectations. As they continue to grow locally, recruiting more than 50 doctors, investing in newer technology like the Watchman heart procedure which just launched at Hilton Head Medical Center, and recommitting to the community with the addition of a full-time community engagement manager, Lowcountry residents and visitors will continue to benefit as a community and as patients.
ARTICLE BY CHERYL RICER PHOTOGRAPHY BY MIKE RITTERECK
’TIS THE SEASON TO SPARKLE
FORSYTHE
JEWELERS SHINES WITH HOLIDAY JOY
When the goal is to elicit squeals of delight on Christmas morning (and why wouldn’t that be the goal?), make sure the gift is inside a beautifully gift-wrapped box from Forsythe Jewelers. After all, according to owners Andrea and Ray Bragg, Santa himself has always shopped at Forsythe – simply because it’s just so easy to get it right.
Since 1981, Forsythe Jewelers has been bringing the world’s best designer jewelry and gifts to Hilton Head Island. Carrying the most popular designer brands, this family-owned business provides an unhurried, personalized, small-town shopping experience to every customer who enters the store.
The Forsythe Jewelers Team: (from left to right) Kristine Zook, Barb Panciera, Beth Patton, Jimi Lemon, Andrea Bragg, Ray Bragg, Peggy Bell, Keith Tillman, Rebecca Lovette and Hailee Tripke.
“We call it ‘the Forsythe Way,’” said Andrea Bragg, who trains her staff to provide five-star customer service for every client by helping them find the perfect item or gift they will cherish for years to come. The Forsythe Way involves treating clients like Forsythe family by offering genuine friendly greetings any time they enter the store, providing them with a great selection of beautiful jewelry at every price point, helping them find the perfect item for every occasion, and ensuring that every purchase is beautifully wrapped in the iconic and recognizable Forsythe packaging that everyone wants to see under the tree.
With a dazzling selection of the world’s best designers, it’s easy to find something to love. Consider Lagos – an inspiring brand with a vision of bold femininity, or David Yurman, who pushes the boundaries of jewelry and luxury. There is also Marco Bicego, who offers Old World Italian tradition with contemporary design; Sethi Couture, whose jewelry is designed to elevate the everyday; the simply timeless JB Star diamond jewelry; the unique passion of Gabriel & Co.; Jude Frances, who combines classic elegance with on-trend shapes and styles; and Roberto Coin, whose pieces bring romance and imagination to life.
“We are truly Santa’s elves this time of year, and we make it as easy as possible for you to find exactly what you want under the Christmas tree,” Bragg said. “We keep wish lists on file for our regular clients, so Santa never has to wonder what to get. We offer complimentary local delivery to your home or office. We can even work with a client over the phone via FaceTime or by texting or emailing pictures to ensure that you and your beloved are happy.”
For the man on your list, Forsythe Jewelers has expanded to include a men’s line by designer David Yurman. Whether
“We call it ‘the Forsythe Way,’” said Andrea Bragg, who trains her staff to provide fivestar customer service for every client by helping them find the perfect item or gift they will cherish for years to come.
your guy likes cabled cuffs or beaded bracelets, a streamlined band ring or a cabled one, a simple chain necklace or one adorned with a cross or jewel-encrusted dog tag, you’ll find the perfect Christmas gift to ornament his masculinity.
Forsythe has Christmas covered for the kids and grandkids, too.
“We have really cute JellyCat books and stuffed animals for the holidays for the younger people on your list, along with some MacKenzie-Childs toddler dinnerware sets,” Bragg said.
Speaking of MacKenzie-Childs, everyone’s home sparkles a little brighter during the holidays with MacKenzie-Childs ornaments or Christmas decor. The designers and artisans at MacKenzie-Childs create beautiful and original tableware, serving pieces, furniture, home and garden accessories, and more that add joy and grace to any home. The collections available at Forsythe are inspiring, vast, and varied in style and function.
“People love to collect MacKenzie-Childs,” Bragg said. “A MacKenzie-Childs gift would be an ideal Christmas gift for anyone interested in starting a collection that generations will love for years to come.”
Still unsure? Rely on the expertise of the Forsythe team to guide you in your shopping experience.
“Each member of our team has a servant’s heart,” Bragg said. “They truly love what they do and enjoy working with familiar clients, meeting new people, and helping each person find exactly what they are looking for. This time of year is especially fun because people delight in shopping in the store. It’s beautifully decorated for the season, and our staff are full of suggestions to guide you to the perfect gift.”
Another reason Santa loves Forsythe Jewelers is the shopping is risk-free. If the gift recipient doesn’t love it, the staff will help you find something they will love.
Holiday hours (through December 23) are Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. and Saturday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Christmas Eve, they’re open from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. They are closed Christmas Day and will reopen December 26.
Over the past four decades, Forsythe Jewelers has established itself as an island landmark and its name is synonymous with shopping on Hilton Head.
To learn more, visit the store at The Shops at Sea Pines Center, 71 Lighthouse Road | Suite 311; call (843) 671-7070; or visit forsythehhi.com.
UNWRAP THE MAGIC OF CHRISTMAS
The Forsythe Jewelers sales team offers up a few of their favorite things:
Rebecca Lovette: My current favorite is our new Forsythe Private Label diamond tennis bracelets and diamond eternity bands that stretch. They are 14k gold with titanium, so they are flexible but strong. These are perfect for anyone who has issues with swelling or arthritis. I love them!
Hailee Tripke: My favorite piece in the store right now is the Roberto Coin tennis necklace. I mean, it’s so beautiful – who wouldn’t love to unwrap that on Christmas? It’s definitely on my wish list.
Barb Panciera: I’m a diamond girl, so my favorite things include any one of the JB Star diamond rings. They are simply stunning in sparkle and design, and they come in a variety of diamond shapes and colors. You’ll definitely put a twinkle in your girl’s eyes with a JB Star ring. I also love the tennis necklaces. And any girl would love a bigger pair of diamond studs.
Jimi Lemon: I love the Lagos Caviar watch bands for Apple watches. We have them in different ceramic colors, stainless steel, and even diamonds. It’s a great way to dress up your Apple watch.
Andrea Bragg: I honestly just love the selection of hoop earrings we have right now. You can never go wrong with a great hoop. We have a variety of shapes, plus now you can add charms to the hoops to switch things up now and then. For instance, a lot of our clients travel. You can wear the hoop on the plane and then bring a couple of charms to mix things up during your trip. They make packing jewelry super easy.
Article by Barry Kaufman . Photography by M.Kat
Two Schools, One Mission
Merger of Hilton Head Prep and Sea Pines
Montessori built on long history
Back in 1965, while still developing the resort that would become his magnum opus, Sea Pines, Charles Fraser saw a need for high-quality education on Hilton Head Island. His vision was for a school that would teach children around the Lowcountry to a higher standard.
It wasn’t enough that this school be close to home, set just beyond the community’s ocean gate, the school also had to stand apart as a beacon of educational excellence. Thus, Sea Pines Academy was established.
The school became Hilton Head Preparatory School in 1985 through its merger with May River Academy.
Three years later, Charles’ wife, Mary, would put her own stamp on the Lowcountry’s educational landscape, founding Sea Pines Montessori Academy. Built on the celebrated pedagogy that makes Montessori schools unique – self-directed, hands-on learning and collaboration – this academy quickly became yet another jewel in Hilton Head Island’s crown.
Despite their shared heritage and their equal reputation for excellence, these two schools have operated under separate banners for decades. Until now. In a new merger, the two schools will come together to create a unified educational institution serving children from 15 months old until they embark for college.
Under the new alignment, Sea Pines Montessori Academy will operate as a division within Prep, called “Sea Pines Montessori Academy at Hilton Head Preparatory School.”
“This merger allows us to have student interaction without a fence between the schools. They’re all going to be classmates,” said Paul Horgan, Head of School.
The schools will operate as one, seamlessly integrating resources during the critical years between preschool and third grade, essentially creating a dual track for Prep students in their early years.
“That’s a really exciting, innovative dual track,” Horgan said. “We’re going to be able to have collaboration between
the Montessori division and our traditional lower school, so we can build in a great ramp for everyone to come together for fourth grade.”
It not only gives younger students a chance for a more seamless transition into the later elementary years, it speaks to Prep’s long-standing devotion to advancing opportunities.
“Any school that’s standing still and not future-focused and evolving is dying. We need to always be thinking about the future of education and how we can prepare these kids for their futures,” Horgan said. “We’ve been doing a lot of work in our strategic plan in thinking about the future of education. I’ve seen the importance of hands-on learning and experiential education at every level. To continue to evolve in that direction is important to best prepare our students for excellence in college and the workplace.”
For teachers, the merger will mean more resources for young students, plus better support and compensation. For students, it means having a chance to seamlessly transition
Paul Horgan, Head of School, Hilton Head Prepratory and Tobee Labbe, Head of School, Sea Pines Montessori
from the Montessori program and into a celebrated college prep program that already contains some of the same foundational philosophies as Montessori.
“In the upper school we’ve created the Institute for Business and Innovation, which is a very hands-on, real world program, teaching real world skills and doing internships and business competitions,” Horgan said. “The hands-on experiential education pieces match really well with what the Montessori division will be teaching kids. Being a premier college preparatory academic institution has been strengthened further.”
Bringing together two schools that have had such a profound impact on the community has already proven popular among alumni and board members.
Sam Bauer, who graduated from Hilton Head Prep in 1984 and now serves as the chairman of the school’s board of trustees, noted, “This partnership is truly historic, bringing together two institutions that have deep roots in Hilton Head Island’s legacy. We are thrilled to come full circle, uniting the Fraser family’s vision under one banner. This will be a game-changer for both current and future families in the community.”
His sentiments were echoed by his counterparts on the board at Sea Pines Montessori. Two board members, Kelley Stearns and Sydney Hitchcock, released a statement saying, “The collaboration between our schools will provide an unparalleled educational pathway, guiding children from their earliest years through high school graduation. By uniting our strengths, we can uphold our cherished Montessori tradition while providing enhanced opportunities for growth, continuity, and innovation in a nurturing environment. We look forward to joining Hilton Head Prep’s vibrant community, which will create endless opportunities for our children as they progress through this outstanding program.”
And while this merger provides new and innovative opportunities to a student body that has become accustomed to them over the past 60 years, its true beauty might lie in the way it finally marries two institutions who have built a sterling reputation on Hilton Head Island.
“It brings two great schools together in a way that’s going to make us even stronger,” Horgan said. “This provides an incredible opportunity to innovate, evolve, and embrace everybody as one school.”
Article by Barry Kaufman
HEALTHY AT HOME
MOBILE CONCIERGE CARE BRINGS SKILLED CARE AND FULL-SERVICE HOME CARE TO THE PEOPLE
Most of us have been there at one point or another –you’re sick, feeling miserable, and, to make matters worse, you have to get in the car, drive across town, and spend hours in a waiting room before you can be seen. All this as if you weren’t feeling terrible enough.
The alternative, of course, is concierge care. As this model of healthcare emerged over the past few decades, bringing back the classic image of doctors making house calls, it offered an entirely new approach to healthcare. However, it quickly became clear that the heavy subscription fees made concierge care inaccessible for most.
For many of us, those fees were simply too great a cost to bear. So, back to the waiting room we went.
But a new model of healthcare has now emerged, a banner being raised by Kamal Patel, MD and Christyn Gialanella, RN, MSN, CMC. Their practice is called Mobile Concierge Care.
of healthcare has now emerged, a banner being raised
“Our focus is offering modern, convenient, and accessible medical care with no memberships,” Gialanella said. “What we have done is made concierge care accessible for people who want that level of care but don’t want to have to pay for a membership.”
Freed from the burden of yet another subscription to pay for, patients can schedule a visit from Mobile Concierge Care to their home, office, or vacation rental for urgent care, aesthetics, and even IV therapy.
“We wanted to offer white glove concierge-level care,” Patel said. “It’s important for patients to feel cared for, but they shouldn’t have to pay a monthly fee for that convenience.”
That level of care draws from the wealth of experience both principals bring to the practice. Growing up in a small town where the local doctor still made house calls, Patel carried that ethos of personalized care through his residency and a 15-year career as a family physician at a large practice. Finding the traditional model at odds with his patient-centric approach, he founded Lotus Health and then Mobile Concierge Care with Gialanella.
A master’s-prepared registered nurse and certified case manager, Gialanella also founded the concierge care management practice Serenoa with a focus on senior health and advocacy.
Together, they are presenting an exciting new model in healthcare, one that offers the convenience of concierge care without the sticker shock of a membership fee.
“Not accepting insurance gives us the freedom to accommodate patient needs, and it gives our patients the opportunity to know up front what the visit is going to cost,” Gialanella said. “There’s no trying to get through insurance loopholes and no surprise bills.”
Beyond the financial peace of mind, patients benefit from the owners’ philosophy of offering “Proactive healthcare without cutting corners and an emphasis on health and wellness.”
“Our vision was to hire skilled practitioners so we can offer a real standard of quality and respect for the patient,” Patel said. “If there’s a need for an antibiotic, for example, we can offer that, but we like to empower our patients with education and healthier alternatives when possible.”
That applies not only to the urgent care services they offer, but also their aesthetic offerings. As an alternative to Botox, they offer Xeomin, which eschews many of the additives that Botox carries. And everything, from their chemical peels to collagen induction therapy and wellness IVs, revolves around that central pillar of health. Their mobile IV therapies have proven to be incredibly popular. “We just had a big weekend doing IVs for a wedding party,” Gialanella said. “This blend we offer, of urgent care, aesthetics, and IV therapies, has really struck a chord with the community, and we are grateful for the support.”
And to think, you can have that level of treatment without the subscription fees and without leaving your house. If this is the medicine of the future, count us in.
Visit mobileconciergecare.com to see the full range of treatments and to book a visit.
A new model
by Kamal Patel, MD and Christyn Gialanella, RN, MSN, CMC. Their practice is called Mobile Concierge Care.
Luke Strebe as Amos Calloway
Article by Dorothy Guscio Photography by Gustavo Rattia
BIG FISH
brings big heart to the HHCA stage
Hilton Head Christian Academy (HHCA) is thrilled to present Big Fish: The Musical, the first production of its 2024-2025 theatre season.
Performances will run December 5-7 at HHCA’s Performing Arts Center in Bluffton, offering audiences a chance to experience a story filled with heart, humor, and unforgettable storytelling. Based on the celebrated novel by Daniel Wallace and the acclaimed 2003 film directed by Tim Burton, Big Fish is a visually stunning and emotionally powerful tale about the stories that shape us.
The musical centers on Edward Bloom, a traveling salesman with a knack for weaving larger-than-life tales about his extraordinary adventures. While Edward’s fantastical stories enthrall everyone he meets, they frustrate his skeptical son, Will, who longs to separate fact from fiction. As Edward’s health declines and Will prepares to welcome a son of his own, he embarks on a journey to uncover the truth behind his father’s elaborate myths.
“The themes of Big Fish are universally relatable – family, love, legacy, and the power of storytelling,” said Michelle McElroy-Cox, HHCA’s assistant director of fine arts and theatre director. “These themes resonate deeply with our students and will surely strike a chord with our community.
We’re excited to bring this story to life with a production that showcases the remarkable talent of our students and the dedication of our team.”
This year’s cast includes 25 HHCA high school students, combining seasoned veterans with fresh faces.
Leading the production are Nathan West as Edward Bloom, Eli Taylor as Will Bloom, Jetts Nelson as Sandra Bloom, Mallory Krimm and Sadie Marcotte alternating
as Josephine Bloom, Audrey Atkins as The Witch, and Luke Strebe as Amos Calloway.
The ensemble includes a mix of award-winning performers and rising stars, many of whom recently competed at the South Carolina Independent School Association (SCISA) Drama Festival. At the festival, the HHCA team clinched the state championship for the third consecutive year, with West earning Best Actor and Nelson awarded Best Actress. Their success is a testament to the school’s commitment to fine arts excellence.
“When I was cast as Edward Bloom, I felt a responsibility to portray him with authenticity,” West said. “He’s a dreamer, a storyteller, and a father, and exploring those layers has been a challenge. I’m excited for the audience to experience his journey.”
Nelson, who is new to HHCA, shared her enthusiasm for being part of such a meaningful production and joining the HHCA community. “Sandra Bloom represents love, loyalty, and strength,” she said. “It’s been amazing to dive into her character and be part of a story that’s so moving and powerful.”
Behind the Scenes
Bringing Big Fish to life requires a dedicated production team, blending professional expertise with student collaboration. McElroy-Cox leads the production as director, with James Berry, HHCA’s director of fine arts, serving as musical director, and Jamal Edwards contributing choreography. The production design, from set construction to lighting, involves HHCA student technicians and theatre design classes working alongside community professionals.
“One of the hallmarks of HHCA productions is the element
Leading Roles & 2024 SCISA Best Actress & Best Actor: Jetts Nelson as Sandra Bloom with Nathan West as Edward Bloom
of surprise,” Berry said. “Audiences are often amazed at the quality of the performances, the professionalism of the production, and the creativity on display. We pride ourselves on delivering experiences that rival those of professional theatre companies.”
In addition to the onstage and backstage efforts, HHCA’s fine arts program fosters student growth through mentorship and experiential learning. Theatre students gain hands-on experience in areas like costume design, set building, and technical operation, preparing them for future opportunities in the arts.
Hilton Head Christian Academy has a long-standing tradition of nurturing artistic talent. The school’s commitment to fine arts is reflected not only in its successful theatre program but also in its robust music and visual arts offerings.
“The arts are an essential part of education at HHCA,” McElroy-Cox said. “We believe that creativity is a gift from God, and our mission is to help students discover and refine their unique gifts to glorify Him.”
This dedication to excellence has earned HHCA a reputation as one of the area’s most comprehensive fine arts programs. Over the years, HHCA productions have consistently raised the bar, drawing enthusiastic
audiences from across the Lowcountry.
Beyond the artistry, Big Fish is a community event that brings people together. “We see the arts as a bridge that connects students, families, and the broader Bluffton community,” said McElroy-Cox. “This production is not just about what happens on stage – it’s about creating an experience that uplifts and inspires.”
Parents, alumni, and local supporters play a vital role in making HHCA productions a success, contributing time, resources, and expertise. From designing costumes to assisting with marketing, the community’s involvement underscores the collective spirit that defines HHCA.
Performances of Big Fish: The Musical will take place December 5-7 at 7 p.m. with a matinee December 7 at 2 p.m. Tickets are $12 for students and seniors and $18 for adults. Seating is limited, so early purchase is encouraged. Tickets can be purchased online at hhca.org/showtickets.
Hilton Head Christian Academy is an independent Christian school committed to its mission: To Know Christ and Make Him Known. Founded in 1979, HHCA continues to inspire excellence and faith from its Bluffton campus. Learn more at hhca.org.
Audrey Atkins as The Witch
Big Fish: The Musical Cast, HHCA Upper School theater Students
A YEAR OF PROGRESS AND COMMUNITY: BLUFFTON’S 2024 MILESTONES
As 2024 ends, the Town of Bluffton reflects on a year marked by impactful projects, safety initiatives, and community celebrations that brought us together. Each project, policy, and event this year aimed to strengthen our town’s infrastructure, support local businesses, enhance quality of life, and honor Bluffton’s heritage.
Capital Improvements: In January, the town launched a major enhancement of Oyster Factory Park, transforming it into a welcoming space for residents and visitors. With additions like a large deck, a brick terrace, and improved lighting, the park is now well-equipped to host gatherings of all sizes.
Additionally, the New River Linear Trail enhancement project broke ground – a $2 million investment that promises our community a scenic and accessible outdoor experience. The town also broke ground on The May, a development expanding affordable housing options for 12 families. Further, the Squire Pope Carriage House was fully rehabilitated and will soon open as the town’s new Welcome Center in early 2025.
Economic Development Initiatives: This year, the town expanded its economic development programs and awarded three economic development grants aimed at establishing local services in high-growth areas, reducing traffic, and enhancing accessibility. This initiative supports the goals of the town’s Comprehensive and Strategic Plans by encouraging professional services and businesses to locate where most residents live. The Don Ryan Center for Innovation (DRCI) played an essential role, providing resources and guidance to a record number of startups and small businesses.
Safety and Community Support by the Bluffton Police Department: Bluffton was honored by Safewise, a coalition of security companies, as the No. 1 Safest City in South Carolina. The Bluffton Police Department strengthened its community engagement efforts with events like Night of Unity, which brought residents together for music, food, and fellowship; and the annual Safety Spooktacular, promoting connections between residents
LET THE REASON FOR THE SEASON
GUIDE YOUR ACTIONS
Move over pumpkin spice everything, because the holiday season is here!
Can you feel it? A crispness in the air, a drop (albeit slight) in our average daily temperature, and of course, the ratcheting up of seasonal anticipation associated with our beloved winter holidays, Christmas and Hanukkah.
All over the island, holiday events offer us the chance to enjoy this time together – through our town website and the MyHHI app. Just a couple clicks and you’ll see that there are lots of ways to build some holiday momentum.
But, if we’re not careful, we might drift away from the true meaning behind celebrating these holidays. We spend a lot of time determining who’s bringing what to family dinners, acquiring the right outfits for school, church, and synagogue events, and looking for deals on the ever-growing list of electronics at the top of kids’ wish lists.
To some, it may seem trite; however, I believe it never hurts to offer a reminder that engages us more fully with the reason for this season. It’s also important to remember that while it is a joyous, fun, and festive time for many, it can also be challenging for others.
While all the activity is wonderful, I want to encourage us all to take a step back and once again tap into the incredible
A Note from Bluffton Mayor, Larry Toomer
A Note from Hilton Head Island Mayor, Alan Perry
and first responders.
Programs and Policies for a Better Bluffton: The town’s Stay Safe, Bluffton! scholarships awarded four students for their commitment to safe driving, encouraging positive habits among our newest drivers. Additionally, the Neighborhood Assistance Program helped numerous residents with essential home repairs, promoting safety, property upkeep, and neighborhood stabilization. This program provides critical assistance to residents, helping them stay in their homes while addressing the growing national housing crisis.
Celebrating Heritage and Community: Historic preservation was a key priority, with over $74,000 awarded in grants to maintain Bluffton’s architectural heritage. Community events like the annual Historic Preservation Symposium spotlighted some of the town’s historic private residences. We also hosted a variety of events, including the inaugural Bluffton Concert Series, the third annual Independence Day Celebration, Movie in the Parks series, children’s summer events, May River Cleanups, the Christmas parade, and many other community gatherings.
Recognizing Excellence in Governance: The Town of Bluffton’s finance department earned the Distinguished Budget Presentation Award for the 12th consecutive year from the Government Finance Officers Association (GFOA) of the U.S. and Canada. The department also received the Certificate of Achievement for Excellence in Financial Reporting and the award for Outstanding Achievement in Popular Annual Financial Reporting. Additionally, Bluffton holds the highest possible bond rating – Aaa – from Moody’s, a distinction shared by only five municipalities in South Carolina.
Many thanks to the residents of Bluffton for their contributions to another successful year.
spirit of giving and warmth that makes our island special. Make that phone call or send that text you’ve been putting off. Give an extra little bit to an organization whose mission is to provide food or shelter for those less fortunate than you. Practice spontaneous and random acts of kindness, big and small. Provide comfort and presence in the face of grief and individual struggle. Find peace through forgiveness and fortitude. Welcome the new year to come with community and friendship in your heart.
As 2025 quickly approaches, Kathy and I wish you all happiness and blessings in the year ahead.
A Note from Alan Perry continued
Article by Jesse Blanco . Photography by M.Kat
CELEBRATE HOLIDAYS BY GIVING TO LOCAL CHARITY FOOD BANKS
You don’t need me to tell you how easy it is to get caught up in the rapture of the holiday season. It is, after all, the most wonderful time of the year. That does not mean for one second, however, that this sentiment is equal across the board.
For a lot of people, this is the most difficult, anxiety-riddled time of the year, and it has nothing to do with having to sit across from a politically polar-opposite relative, listening to them riff about things you fundamentally oppose.
I’m talking about the people who, no matter how hard they try, struggle to make ends meet on a regular basis. The thought of holiday cheer and trying to make their children happy is a hand-wringing nightmare for a lot of parents out there.
Full disclosure, I witnessed this myself growing up. I watched a single mom work a seasonal third job for many years to make sure my sister and I had what we wanted from Santa. Oh, the stories I could share. Suffice it to say my mom worked the layaway system at Kmart and Service Merchandise like few could.
Remember that?
All of that is largely the reason why I always try to remember the groups out there who help connect some dots for families not only this time of the year, but year-round. All of them, I’m
sure, see a rise in donations at the holidays, but we’ve seen some reports of requests for holiday assistance ticking up as well.
For that reason, I’m compelled to share a list of some local noonprofits, including food banks, that serve our neighbors in need. The hope is that maybe you will feel compelled to drop off a donation to one or more of them in this higher time of need.
Bluffton Self Help:
For nearly 40 years, Bluffton Self Help has been providing basic needs and financial support to their community. Founded in 1987 by Ida Martin, the organization’s roots are in serving the generationally impoverished; however, they say their future is in supporting families who are economically at-risk. (843) 757-8000
Church of the Cross Food Bank:
Since 2001, the Church of the Cross Food Bank has provided basic food needs to neighbors in need. Every Monday, volunteers prepare bags of donated and purchased canned goods, fresh fruit and vegetables, bread, and sometimes dessert to distribute to anyone in the drive-through line outside God’s Goods Thrift Store in Bluffton (also a ministry of Church of the Cross; see listing below.) (843) 757-2661
Deep Well Project:
A predominantly volunteer-based nonprofit, with a minimum of paid staff, The Deep Well Project has been helping neighbors in need since 1973. The organization was founded by Charlotte Heinrichs as a service to the local community that suffered illness as a result of drinking contaminated water from shallow wells. Deep Well also offers food, housing, children’s programming, and much more to the area. (843) 785-2849
God’s Goods:
God’s Goods is a Christ-centered thrift store that provides usable goods to the people of our community at a reasonable price, assists people in need with pass-through goods, and supports Christian outreach ministries. All donated merchandise is examined and tested before it is offered for sale. (843) 757-2024
Sandlewood Food Pantry:
Established in 2009, the Sandalwood Community Food Pantry serves the hungry and the needy on Hilton Head Island, helping families make ends meet by supplementing their groceries with a food market on Tuesday mornings. Volunteers provide food, love, dignity, and spiritual guidance. (843) 715-3583
Second Helpings:
Founded in 1992, Second Helpings is a food rescue and distribution organization dedicated to providing food to the hungry while eliminating food waste. They collect and distribute more than 3 million pounds of food annually –3.4 million pounds in 2023. The organization provided the equivalent of 2.8 million meals to 54 area food pantries, soup kitchens, and family and senior programs. (843) 689-3689
St. Andrew-By-The-Sea Soup Kitchen:
This soup kitchen ministry started in 2011 to provide Friday lunches to the homeless, hungry, unemployed, and working poor from their church neighborhood “with dignity, compassion and lots of love.” The Harvest Table of fresh produce became a larger food pantry, nearly doubling in size since 2018. (843) 785-4711
United Way of the Lowcountry:
Awarding grants to local nonprofit organizations through its Community Impact Fund is just one strategy United Way uses to empower individuals and promote self-sufficiency to create a brighter future for the residents of Beaufort and Jasper counties. The organization currently support 33 programs at 22 area nonprofits. (843) 982-3040
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Boutique marketing firm Libby O Marketing has expanded with a new business division, The Content Lab. Designed for small businesses in the Lowcountry, The Content Lab is laser focused on delivering high quality content at an affordable, small business price.
With the rise of so many social media platforms (TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, Meta, X, Vimeo, and others) and a plethora of outlets on which to communicate, businesses are having to work harder than ever to be seen. Content marketing helps businesses stand out.
“Content marketing is valuable, educating, and inspiring content that can take the form of an image, video, reel, post, infographic, or e-book,” said Libby O’Regan, founder of Libby O Marketing. “Good content marketing is not promotional, but when done effectively and over time, it can drive behavior like purchasing, subscribing, or attending. It’s a top of funnel marketing strategy designed to build brand credibility and increase customer loyalty.”
The Content Lab services include a content calendar meeting, with a photo and reel video shoot to be used throughout the month across several weekly social media posts. Businesses can add blog posts, email marketing, article writing, and PR services for a discounted price when added to the package. Design services like brand identity, logo, website design, and collateral design are still offered through Libby O Marketing’s primary division.
For more information, visit libbyomarketing.com or call (843) 415-9156.
Palmetto Animal League will host its Holiday Open House December 14 from noon to 3 p.m. at its Adoption Center in Okatie. Guests are invited to drop by for cookies, hot cocoa, coffee, and good cheer.
PAL is waiving adoption fees for cats, kittens, and adult dogs during the event as a part of their monthlong Season of Second Chances. PAL encourages everyone to stop by with a donation to help make the holidays a little brighter for shelter pets. The animals love cat and dog food, toys, treats, pet beds, and cozy blankets. PAL will make sure every item donated makes a forgotten cat or dog feel special this holiday season.
Lennie+Remi Children’s Collective is now open at Washington Square in Bluffton.
The retailer of elevated children’s apparel is open 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Saturday.
The Holiday Art Market at the Shops at Sea Pines Center will be held December 5 from 3 to 6 p.m. in the outdoor plaza. Shoppers can find everything needed to deck the halls for the holidays and fill stockings with care, all from local artists, artisans, crafters, and merchants. The popular Shore Notes A Capella Chorus will be strolling the plaza, performing the joyful songs of the season.
More than a dozen local makers will join the Center’s unique collection of shops and restaurants to offer this special annual holiday shopping experience. From stunning paintings and sculptures to handmade jewelry and ornaments – and everything in between – you’ll discover thoughtful, one-ofa-kind gifts that will surely bring smiles this holiday season. For more information, visit TheShopsAtSeaPinesCenter.com
On October 24, members of The Foundation for Educational Excellence Board presented the 2024 Beaufort County School District Teacher of the Year, Laura Van Horn, with the Dr. Wayne Carbiener “Above & Beyond” Award, along with a $1,000 grant for use in her classroom. Van Horn is a second grade teacher at Bluffton Elementary School. The award is presented annually to the District’s Teacher of the Year in honor of former Beaufort County Board of Education member and Foundation for Educational Excellence supporter, Dr. Wayne Carbiener. Each year, his family honors his profound commitment to our teachers by awarding the grant that reflects his support and admiration for Beaufort County’s public school teachers. Along with Foundation board members, Mrs. Wayne Carbiener and her daughter, Jody Dryer, attended the presentation.
Leli Holmes Handpainted ornaments
Little Fish Boateak Holiday Plaid Earrings
From left, Mrs. Wayne Carbiener; Laura Van Horn, District Teacher of the Year; and Linda Navorska, Foundation board chair.
BRUNCH WITH SANTA 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Westin Resort & Spa A LOWCOUNTRY CHRISTMAS December 15 - 16 Gullah, Latin, and Motown hits. Christ Lutheran Church lowcountrydiversity. org
BRIMS ON THE BLUFF will be at High Tide Beads for Old Town Bluffton Jingle Stroll
DECEMBER 2024 EVENTS
AUDUBON CHRISTMAS BIRD COUNT Register at hhicbc@ gmail.com or hiltonheadaudubon. org.
BRIMS ON THE BLUFF will host Selina King Jewelry Pop at Brims on the Bluff
