2013 Catalog

CENTERING CORPORATION

2013 Catalog of Grief Resources

Adult Grief Resources Death of a Child books and DVDs Infant Loss Resources Children and Grief Resources

The Nation’s Oldest and Largest Bereavement Resource Center 2013 Catalog of Grief Resources

www.centering.org 1-866-218-0101 We give you hope. We give you information. We give you support.

Content Section One: Adult Grief Resources

Your Centering Family

Healing Music Page 4

Adult Grief Resources Pages 4-15

Men and Grief Page 7 Funerals Page 7

Women and Grief Page 7

Suicide Survivors Page 8

Guilt and Anger Page 9

Holidays and Special Days Page 9

Death of a Parent Page 10 Pet Loss Page 10

Death of a Spouse or Life Partner Page 11

Professional and Support Groups Page 12

Helping Others Page 13

Illness, Death and Dying Page 14

Developmental Disabilities Page 15

Sibling Grief Page 15

Overdose/Unexpected Loss Page 15

Young Adult Page 15

Section Two: Death

of a

Child

Suicide and Drug Overdose Death of a Child Sympathy Cards Afterlife Communication

Page 16 Page 16-20 Page 20 Page 20

Section Three: Infant Loss Resources

Miscarriage and Newborn Death Page 21-22

Memory Books Page 23

Healing A Father’s Grief Page 23

Small Handouts Page 23 T-Shirt Page 23

Burial Gown Page 23

Comfee Doll Page 23

Grieving Grandparents Page 24

Sibling Grief Page 24 Caregivers Page 25

Funeral Planning Page 25

Difficult Decisions Page 25

NICU Infants Page 26

Section Four: Children’s Grief Resources

Creative & Healing Tools Page 27

Workbooks and Memory Books Page 28

Sibling Grief Page 28

Memory Bands Page 29 Pet Loss Page 29

Explaining Death and Grief Page 29-30 Illness Page 31-32

For Educators Page 32-33

Death of a Grandparent Page 34

Death of a Parent Page 35

Teen/Adolescent Grief Page 36

Suicide and Suicide Prevention Page 37

Fear, Trauma and Homicide Page 37

Separation and Divorce Page 37

Please note: If you don’t see it in our catalog, just ask!

Some titles can be special ordered or may even be in our resource center.

The Centering Corporation was founded in 1977 by Joy and Dr. Marvin Johnson, National Presenters. We started out with nine little coloring books for hospitalized children and a couple of workshops for nurses. Today we have thousands of grief resources for children and adults, My Friends Emotion Dolls, a Memory Bag for children and are the official bookstore for several national organizations.

We are here for grieving people and those who care for and love them. We will provide the best grief literature possible. We will develop needed books and provide caring workshops. Shown above are Nick, Kelsey, Janet and Ben.

Our Mission Statement

We will help support groups find the resources they need to make a difference.

We support other publishers who are also reaching people. All of us are unique.

We are sensitive to the needs of others and to our own needs. Each call into our office will find a caring voice on the other end, with time to listen and readiness to help.

We will all participate in continuing education events every year to increase our own expertise and to help us develop spiritually and emotionally. Our clients and our members are considered part of a caring, extended family, and we will develop personal relationships with them and they with us. We will consult and listen to advice and new ideas.

We look at the challenges before us as positive, rewarding experiences. We will not set limits beneath our potential. We will treat ourselves and others with respect. We will encourage creativity and new ideas. We will enjoy the changes that come.

Centering Heals Grief

• Breathe deep • Reach out • Take comfort • Breathe deep • Find courage • Tell your story • Feel real • Breathe deep • Go inside • Keep patience • Breathe deep

Thank you! Centering Corporation is a non-profit, bereavement resource center.

We would like to thank all of our authors, contributors, supporters and consultants.

Resource List 10 Steps for Parenting P. 33 TSPO 25 Things to Do P. 27 TTDO 35 Ways to Help a...Child P. 33 TWHO A Widow’s Awakening P. 11 AWAO Aarvy Aardvark Finds... P. 30 AAFO ABCs of Healthy Grieving P. 6 ABCO African American Spiritual P. 14 AASO After A Murder P. 37 AAMO After A Death P. 30 ADAO After A Parent’s Suicide P. 8 APSO After A Suicide P. 37 ASWO After Suicide Loss P. 8 ASLO After the Darkest Hour P. 18 ADHO After the Loss of Your... P. 26 ALBC After the Murder of my... P. 15 AMSO Always My Brother P. 30 AMBO Always Too Soon P. 10 ATSO Am I Going Crazy?

P. 19 AIGO Am I Still A Sister?

P. 24 AISO An Empty Cradle, A Full P. 22 ECFO And Still They Bloom P. 35 ASTO Angel Babies P. 21 ABOO Angel Catcher P. 10,19, 36 ACOO Angel T-shirt P. 23 ANSO Another Baby? Maybe P. 21 ANBO Art of Being a Healing P. 13 ABHO Art of Helping Others P. 13 AHOO Ask Me P. 8, 16 ASMC Baby Talk & Special P. 26 BATC Bandages For Your Heart P. 12 BFYO Baseball Forever!

P. 30 BBFG Beautiful Dragons WorkBk P. 34 BDFC Being With Parents P. 23 BWPC Believe P. 11 BLVO Bereaved Parent, The P. 18 BEPO Beyond Prenatal Choice P. 25 BPCC Beyond Tears P. 18 BYTO Beyond the Rainbow P. 31 BTRO Birdhouse Project, The P. 19 BHAO Bittersweet…HellogoodbyeP. 25 BSHO Boob Girls, The P. 7 BG1O Boob Girls, The II P. 7 BG2O Boob Girls, The III P. 7 BG3O Boob Girls, The IV P. 7 BG4O Building Memories P. 7, 25 BMMO Bunch of Balloons, A P. 28 BUBC Burial Gown–Large P. 23 BGLO Burial Gown–Medium P. 23 BGMO Burial Gown–Small P. 23 BGSO Burial Gown–X-Small P. 23 BGTO But I Didn’t Say Goodbye P. 8, 37 BIDO Butterflies, Angels & RosesP. 17 BARO Butterfly Song CD, The P. 4 BFSO Catching the Light P. 17 CALO Caregiver’s Handbook, A P. 25 CHPO Caregiving P. 14 CHOO Caregiving Wife’s Hbook P. 14 CWEO Celebration of Life, A P. 14 CELC Chicken Soup Grieving P. 6 CSSO Child Remembers, A P. 30 CHRC Children Also Grieve P. 29 CDGO Children Die, Too P. 19 CDTC Children Die, Too Spanish P. 19 CDSC Children Grieve, Too P. 33 CGTC Children’s Grief P. 35 CHGO Child’s View of Grief, A P. 33 ACGO Come, Walk With Me P. 13 CWWO Comfee Doll Pillow P. 23 COMO Comfort Us Lord P. 21 CULC Comfort P. 20 COFO Common Threads of Teen P. 36 CTTO Companion Through...

P.11 CTDO Companioning At A Time P. 25 CTPO Complete Book About... P. 29, 34 CAKC Coping With Traumatic P. 15 CWTO Couple Communication P. 21 CCBO Creating a New Normal P. 19 CNNO Crying Handbook, The P. 5 CRHO Daddy’s Gone P. 35 DGOO Death and the American P. 4 DAIO Dear Mallory P. 16 DMYO Dear Parents P. 18 DEPC Death of a Child, The P. 18 DECO Death of an Infant Twin P. 23 DITC Decembered Grief P. 9 DGRO Difficult Decisions P. 25 DIDC Doggone Grief Game P. 27 DGGO Don’t Take My Grief Away P. 5 DTMO Dream Clouds P. 35 DCOO Dreaming Kevin P. 20 DRKO Dying Is. . .

P. 14 DYIO Dying to be Free P. 8 DTBO Ectopic Pregnancy P. 22 ECPO Ectopic Pregnancy, Sp. P. 22 EMEO Embracing Laura P. 25 EMLC Empty Arms P. 21 EMAO Empty Arms, Spanish P. 21 EMSO Empty Cradle: Broken... P. 21 ECBO Empty Place, The P. 30 EMPO Facing Change P. 36 FACO Fall of Freddie the Leaf P. 28 FFLO

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FatherLoss P.10 Fathers Grieve, Too P. 23 Fathers Grieve, Too, Sp. P. 23 Feeling Hearts Stones P. 27 Final Gifts P. 14 Finding Grandpa Every... P. 34 Finding Peace Without... P. 8 Finding Your Way/Parent P. 10 Finding Your Way/Spouse P.11 Fire In My Heart, Ice In My P. 36 First You Die P. 17 Five Ways We Grieve P.5 Flowers on a Child’s ...

P. 19 Footprints DVD P. 23 Footsteps Through Grief P. 18 For Bereaved Grand...

P. 20, 24 For Better Or Worse P. 20 Forgotten Mourners P. 15 Garden Angel, The P. 34 Getting Past Christmas P. 9 Gifts of Life P. 31 Gifts of Life for Teens P. 32 Given in Love P 26 Giving Care, Taking Care P. 25 Going Home P.10 Goodbye Gram P. 34 Good Grief P. 4 Good Grief Daily Med... P. 5 Good Grief Pet Loss P. 10 Good Words Series P. 7 Goodbye My Child P. 18 Goodbye My Friend P. 10, 29 Grandpa’s Soup P. 34 Grandparent’s Sorrow, A P. 24 Grave Reflections P. 7 Great Answers to Difficult.. P. 33 Grief Behind Bars P. 15 Grief Bubble, The P. 29 Grief Bubble Spanish P. 29 Grief Comes to Class P. 32 Grief Guide and Healing P. 6 Grief Is Like a Snowflake P. 28 Grief: Is the Normal?

P. 19 Grief of Grandparents,The P. 24 Grief of Parents, The P. 16 Grief Quest P. 20 Grief Recovery Handbook P. 5 Grief Works: Sudden... P. 15 Grief, Spanish Version P. 5 Grief, Sympathy Card P. 5 Grief: A Natural Reaction P. 15 Grief: What It Is P. 5 Griefjourney P. 15 GriefWork P. 12 Grievers Ask P. 6 Grieving Child, The P. 33 Grieving Dads P. 17 Grieving Death of a Friend P. 15 Grieving Death of a MotherP. 10 Grieving Grandparents P. 24 Grieving Student, The P. 32 Grunt P. 29 Guide For The Bereaved P. 5 Guide Understanding Guilt P. 9 Handling the HolidaysDVD P. 9 Happy Again P. 4 Healing Child’s Gr Heart P. 33 Healing A Father’s Grief P. 17 Healing A Friend’s Gr. ... P. 13 Healing A Parent’s Gr ... P. 19 Healing Activities Children P. 27 Healing After Loss P. 4 Healing After Suicide Loss P. 8 Healing Grief P. 6 Healing Grief, Spanish P. 6 Healing Grief, Finding ... P. 4 Healing Moments P. 11 Healing the Hurt Spirit P. 8 Healing Your Holiday Grief P. 9 Healing Together P. 21 Healing Your Grieving ... P. 6 Healing Grieving Heart ... P. 28 Healing Grieving Heart T... P. 36 Heartpeace P. 4 Hello From Heaven P. 20 Help for the Hard Times P. 36 Help Me Say Goodbye P. 27 Help Your Marriage P. 20 Helping Children Cope P. 33 Helping Children Grieve... P. 33 Helping People Develop... P.15 Helping Teens Cope P. 36 Helping Teens Cope DVD P. 36 Helping the Bereaved. . . P. 9 Helping the Grieving ... P. 32 Hitch P. 5 Holiday Blues P. 9 Holiday Hope P.9 Honey Bear Died P. 29 Hospital Friends P. 31 How Can I Help?

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How A Fortune Cook Can P. 5 How Do We Tell the P. 33 How I Feel P. 28 How To Design Grief...

P. 12 How To Go On Living. . . P. 5 How to Help Children P. 31 How To Start and Lead P. 12 How Will I Get Through P. 9 Hurting Yourself P. 37 I Have No Intention P. 19 I Heard Your Daddy Died P. 35 I Heard your Mommy Died P. 35 I Know I Made It Happen P. 28 I Remember, I Remember P. 4, 11 I Walked A Mile W/Sorrow P. 18 I Wasn’t Ready to Good... P. 15 I Will Never Forget You P. 36 I Wonder What. . .Heaven P. 31 If I Could Just See Hope P. 6 If Nathan Were Here P. 32 If Only P. 35 In Abba’s Arms P. 22 In Midst of Caregiving P. 13 In My Mother’s Kitchen P. 10 In My World P. 31 In Mourning Band P. 6, 15, 26 Inside a Broken Heart P. 11 Into the Cave P. 7 Into the Valley and Out P. 17 Invisible String P. 27 Journaling Mommys Grief P. 22 Journey Through Grief P. 33 Journey Through Widow P. 11 Journey’s End P. 14 Just A Touch Away P. 4 Just One Day P. 32 Katie’s Premature Brother P. 26 Keys to Helping Children P. 33 Kids Can Cope P. 32 Lazarus, Come Out! P. 12 Lean On Me Gently P. 33 Letters to my Son P. 18 Life After the Death of Son P. 20 Life Isn’t Always A Day P. 31 Life of Bud, The P. 32 Life Touches Life P. 22 Life With Grief P. 15 Lifetimes P. 28 Light A Candle & Songs P. 4 Light A Candle Book P. 4 Lighting the Path P. 14 Lilacs for Grandma P. 34 Little Footprints P. 23 Little Footprints, Spanish P. 23 Living Well With My Illness P. 31 Living When A Loved One P. 6 Loon Summer P. 37 Losing A Parent P. 10 Loss P. 33 Lost and Found P. 30 Lost No More P. 16 Love and Remembrance P. 20 Love Never Dies P. 17 Love Never Ends Card P. 20 Love Never Stops P. 30 Loving and Letting Go P. 26 Making Loving Memories P. 25 Man You Know Is Grieving P. 7 Memories P. 34 Memories Live Forever P. 30 Memories Live Forever,Sp.P. 30 Memories of Our Baby P. 23 Memory Box, The P. 34 Memory Garden Game P. 27 Men and Grief DVD P. 7 Mimi P. 35 Miscarriage P. 21 Miscarriage, Spanish P. 21 Miscarriage: A Man’s Book P. 23 Miscarriage: A Shattered P. 21 Molly’s Mom Died P. 35 Moon Balloon, The P. 32 Motherless Daughters P. 10 Mother’s Journey, A P. 10 Mother’s Tears P. 20 More Than Surviving P. 6, 25 MotherCare P. 22 Mourning Discoveries Holi P. 9 Mourning Discoveries PK P. 7 Mourning Pin, The P. 5 Mural for Mamita, A P. 34 My Always Memories P. 31 My Always Sister P. 24 My Friends Dolls P. 27 My Grief Rights Wallet P. 26 My Grieving Journey Book P. 30 My Memory Bag P. 27 My NICU Baby Book P. 26 My Personal Pet Journal P. 10 My Son, My Son P. 16 New Baby P. 26

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Next Place, The P. 28 No Bigger Than My Teddy P. 26 No New Baby P. 24 No New Baby, Spanish P. 24 No Time For Goodbyes P. 15 No Time To Say/Suicide P. 8 Nobody’s Child Anymore P. 10 Not Just Another Day P. 9 On Grief and Grieving P. 12 One You Love is Dying P. 14 One Who Soars Band P. 6, 26 Oodles of Doodles P. 31 Open to Hope P. 17 Open to Hope: Holiday P. 17 Other Rituals DVD P. 18 Other Side of Grief, The P. 20 Our New Baby Needs... P. 26 Out of the Shadows P. 37 Partnered Grief P. 11 Passages In Caregiving P. 14 Peace & Remembrance P. 26 Planning a Meaningful P. 7 Planning a Precious...

P. 25 Pocket Stones P. 5 Poor Widow Me P. 11 Power of Presence, The P. 13 Precious Lives, Painful P. 25 Preparing the Children P. 31 Ragtail Remembers P. 29 Ray of Hope, A P. 9 Reactions to Trauma P. 34, 37 Real Men Do Cry P. 17 Reason, The P. 8 Remember Rafferty P. 29 Remembering Our Baby P. 24 Remembering With Love P. 18 Remembering You P. 6 Rocky Roads P. 16 Sam’s Dad Died P. 35 Save The Teens P. 37 Saying Goodbye P. 29 Saying Goodbye, Spanish P. 29 Saying Goodbye to Lulu P. 29 Saying Goodbye to ...

P. 13 Scar, The P. 35 Setting Up And Facilitating P. 12 Share the Care P. 14 Shelter in the Storm P. 13 Sibling Grief/Ilse P. 24 Sibling Grief: For Parents P. 28 Sibling Grief/P. White P. 15 SIDS and Infant Survival P. 21 Signs of Life P. 11 Silent Grief/Infant Loss P. 22 Since My Brother Died P. 30 Single Parent Grief P. 22 Sister’s Diary, A P. 30 Six Simple Weeks P. 12 Smiling Through Your ... P. 14 Snowman, The P. 35 Someone Came Before... P. 24 Someone I Love is Sick P. 32 Someone I Loved Died P. 37 Something Happened P. 24 Something Scary Happen P. 37 Space Between Breaths P. 19 Special Babies P. 23 Special Babies, Spanish P. 23 Spiritual Woman, The P. 6 Standing Beside You P. 18 Stars in the Deepest Night P. 17 Stately Queens and ...

P. 34 Stepping Through the Awk P. 13 Still My Grandma P. 31 Still To Be Born P. 22 Stillbirth P. 21 Straight Talk About Death P. 36 Strength for the Journey P. 12 Strong and Tender P. 23 Sugar Cookies/Nightmare P. 19 Suicide of a Child P. 16 Suicide Survivor’s Handbk P. 8 Sunflower Promise P. 28 Sunflowers and Rainbows P. 35 Support Cards P. 12 Supporting Gr.Child DVD P. 33 Surviving Suicide P. 8 Surviving/Death/Sibling P. 15 Swallowed by a Snake P. 7 Swan in Heaven P. 20 Sweet Memories P. 27 Talking About Death P. 28 Talking About Divorce P. 37 Talking With Children P. 24 Teacher’s Guide Student, P. 32 Tear Soup P. 4, 28 Tear Soup DVD P. 4, 28 Tear Soup, Spanish P. 4, 28 Teenager’s Book Suicide P. 37 Teen Grief Relief P. 36 Teen’s View of Grief, A P. 36

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P. 9 Understanding/Journal P. 4 Understanding/Support... P. 12 Understanding Your Grief P. 4 Understanding/Suicide P. 8 Unspeakable Losses P. 25 Unsupported Losses P. 22 Until We Meet Again P. 34 Walking Through DVD P. 6 Waterbugs and Dragon... P. 27 Weird is Normal P. 36 We Were Gonna/Baby P. 24 We Will Miss You DVD P. 10 What About the Kids?

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P. 6 Young People Death P. 32 Your Light Will Always P. 4 Your Next Baby P. 23 Your Personal Journey P. 12 Zayde Comes to Live P. 34

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Spanish Resources for Adults Aborto Espontáneo English Version: Miscarriage

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Ese Momentito English Version: This Little While

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Cuando Hola Significa Adios English Version: When Hello Means... Code: CHSO $5.95 Aflicción English Version: Grief:

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Los Niños Murien Tambien English Version: Children Die, Too

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Adult Grief Resources Healing Music The Butterfly Song Butterflies are messengers of joy and life. This song is perfect to enhance BUTTERFLY RELEASE CEREMONIES with an elegantly designed 80 page book featuring the lyrics, inspirational verses and award winning photos. The single CD by ASCAP award winner is haunting and calls us all to find hope in a beautiful memorial ceremony. By Paul Alexander.

Code: BFSO Price: $20.00 Just A Touch Away CD

By Tony Falzano. A musical passage to inspire, heal, and rejuvenate. Original music that will calm, comfort and nurture you. Beautifully orchestrated, melodic instrumentally to life your heart and soul.

A unique listening experience that will be an inspirational companion as you reach for relaxation and hope.

Code: JTAO Price: $14.95 Light a Candle Gift Book Beautifully designed hard cover gift book features the timeless lyrics of this treasured song, along with inspirational photos and reflections that offer a treasure of love, hope and remembrance. It also includes the CD.

Code: LCBO Price: $16.95 Light a Candle Songs of Remembrance CD For Healing Rituals, includes all four ritual songs: Light a Candle, Tree of Memory, Walk to Remember, and The Balloon Song, plus instrumental versions.

Code: LCCO Price: $15.00 Your Light Will Always Shine CD by Paul Alexander. To honor the light and spirit of our loved ones. Includes vocal and instrumental versions of the title song, as well as Candle on the Water.

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Adult Grief Resources Healing After Loss Daily meditations for working through grief by Martha Hickman. A dated meditation for each day of the year.

Strength and comfort can be found in these inspirational words.

Code: HALO Price: $11.99 Healing Grief, Finding Peace-101 Ways to Cope with the Death of Your Loved One. By Dr. Louise E. Lagrand. Whether the death of a loved one is sudden or follows a long battle with illness, there is no way to prepare for the loss of someone close. Grieving is painful, but you have a choice in how you cope with grief and – most importantly – how you adapt to the intense loss you’ve experienced.

Code: HGFO Price: $14.99 HeartPeace by Richard Gilbert. A Guide for Grieving Folks. The death of a loved one, of a relationship, of a marriage, of a dream, are experiences of an ending, or many endings, and we are shattered and scattered as we hopelessly try to fit the pieces of our lives back together again. This book will help guide you.

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Adult Grief Resources

A Treasury of Thoughts Moments, Moods and Memories Journal.

A blank journal is nice to give to anyone who is grieving. It can be given with a card or book. A healing tool that a griever can use to write down any significant events or feelings.

Code: TOTC Price: $4.95

Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart by Dr. Alan Wolfelt. This new book is his most comprehensive, covering the most important lessons that mourners have taught him in his two decades of working with the bereaved. Explains the important difference between grief and mourning and explores the mourner’s need to acknowledge the death and embrace the pain of the loss.

Code: UNGO Price: $14.95 The Understanding Your Grief Journal Writing can be a very effective form of mourning, or expressing your grief outside yourself. And it is through mourning that you heal in grief.

Code: UNJO Price: $14.95 Tear Soup A Recipe for Healing After Loss. After Grandy suffers a loss she cooks up her own batch of tear soup.

Gives you a glimpse into Grandy’s life as she blends different ingredients into her own grief process.

Valuable for family members to share. Hardcover.

All ages.

Code: TERO Price: $19.95 Spanish Version: Sopa de Lagrimas Code: TESO Price: 14.95 Tear Soup DVD This video was created by filming the Tear Soup book illustrations and then narrated by a national talent. Running time 30 minutes.

Code: TVDO Price: $29.95 Good Grief–50 year Anniversary Edition A basic grief book by Granger Westberg. Tremendously simple, direct and caring. Small enough to carry in your pocket or purse to read when needed or in one sitting.

A unique section, We Resist Returning, looks at why we hesitate to adopt a new normal.

Code: GGRO Price: $5.99 I Remember, I Remember A Keepsake Journal by Enid Traisman. There is space for photos, letters, stories, personal history and goodbyes. There is space for writing about difficult decisions, first venturing out, and hope. This journal can be used as a keepsake for the family to enjoy for generations. It may also be used as a personal journey through grief.

Code: IRIC Price: $14.95 Death and the American Indian

By Gerry Cox. A sociological analysis of the culture, dying and death practices of Native Americans. It is written from a sociological perspective based upon a lifetime of experience and study of the American Indian, oral histories gathered from visiting over forty reservations, the work of many scholars, the contributions of many.

Code: DAIO Price: $24.95

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Adult Grief Resources Grief What it is and what you can do by Joy and Marv Johnson. Covers feelings, issues, other people, rituals and caring for yourself. It may seem as if you’ll never be happy again. You may go to a bereavement support group and hear people laugh.You may wonder how anyone can laugh when you’re hurting so badly, but somewhere, way back in your head, there’s a little voice calling your name.

It’s saying, ‘You’ll laugh again sometime, too.’

Code: GRIC Price: $3.50 Spanish Version: Aflicción - qué es y qué puedes hacer Code: GRSC Price: $3.50 Spanish Sympathy Card: (This is a special time for caring) Code: 4SSC Price: $1.50 A Guide For The Bereaved Survivor A List of Reactions, Suggestions and Steps for Coping with Grief by Robert Baugher and Marc Calija. A helpful book to help you begin the sometimes long and painful road of working through your grief. Practical information on coping, emotional and physical reactions, how others react, dreams, beliefs and longterm features of grief.

Code: GBSO Price: $5.00 Don’t take my grief away from me.

By Doug Manning. In his warm, conversational style he takes the reader through all the emotions and experiences that accompany the death of a loved one.

The first section deals with those first days after the death and the second picks up at the grief journey.

Code: DTMO Price: $10.95 How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies by Therese A. Rando, Ph.D. Mourning the death of a loved one is a process all of us will go through at one time or another. But wherever the death is sudden or anticipated, few of us are prepared for it or for the grief it brings. There is no right or wrong way to grieve; each person’s response to loss will be different.

Now, in this compassionate, comprehensive guide, the author leads you gently through the painful but necessary process of grieving and helps you find the best way for yourself.

Code: HLWO Price: $17.00 The Grief Recovery Handbook Incomplete recovery from grief can have a lifelong negative effect on the capacity for happiness. Drawing from their own histories as well as from others’, the authors illustrate how it is possible to recover from grief and regain energy and spontaneity. Based on a proven program, The Grief Recovery Handbook offers grievers the specific actions needed to move beyond loss.

Code: GRHO Price: $16.99 The Mourning Pin. Please join us in wearing the black mourning pin as an outward symbol of grief, sympathy and support for all of us who grieve the loss of a loved one, today, yesterday, and forever more.

Code: MPIO $2.00 Hitch By Nan Zastrow A collection of creative writing and journal entries about finding hope on the journey of grief. In this book, Nan demonstrates the power of words. She creates vivid pictures that allow the reader to be present to the moments she describes. She writes about rebuilding identity after loss, transformed relationships, and the small victories leading to hope.

Code: HITO Price: $10.95

Pocket Stones™ Set of 10 stones in small bag. Semi-precious polished stones, deeply engraved with comforting and inspirational words.

Code: POSO Price: $30.00 Writing to Recover The Journey from Loss and Grief to a New Life by Harriet Hodgson, BS, MA. This concise grief resource begins with a Foreword by Helen Fitzgerald, Emeritus Training Director of the American Hospice Foundation. Contents include Using This Book, Your Writing Place, Writing Tips for You, Writing and Personal Growth, Readings (30 writing samples), Proactive Steps in this Book, Words of Hope and Grief Support.

Code: WRBC Price: $9.95 Writing to Recover Journal A companion to Writing to Recover, the Writing to Recover Journal has one purpose – to get you to keep writing about loss and grief. Its 100 writing affirmations foster writing and brighten your days.

Code: WRJC Price: $7.95 The Crying Handbook For those who always cry, for those who never do, and for those who cry somewhere in between by Bob Baugher, Ph.D. and Darcie Sims, Ph.D. Provides research on what we know and are still learning about crying. Crying can be defined as a way to express grief, pain, anger and other emotions.

Code: CRHO Price: $10.00 How a Fortune Cookie Can Heal Grief How to find twelve gifts of hope by Nan Zastrow: Nan challenged individuals to participate in a project using the fortune cookie as the tool. The project offered Twelve Gifts of Hope that the bereaved can either receive from others or give to themselves. This book documents the proven results. Each Gifts of Hope is outlined in detail with suggestions that will appeal to everyone as they discover the power to heal their own grief.

Code: FCHO Price: $11.95 Good Grief: Daily Meditations by Susan Schoenbeck. The segment at the top of the page is a statement to help the reader think more expansively about death. The boxed section is an affirmation the reader may contemplate each day. The third section contains a quote that validates the mourners feelings by letting them know they are not the only ones who feel the way they do. Progression through the three parts will lead readers to sort out truths and gain an awareness of the eternal spirit with whom they may commune.

Code: GGDO Price: $11.95 The Five Ways We Grieve Finding Your Personal Path to Healing After the Loss of a Loved One. In this new approach to understanding the impact of grief, Susan A. Berger goes beyond the commonly held theories of stages of grief with a new typology for self-awareness and personal growth. She offers practical advice for healing from a major loss in this presentation of five basic ways, or types, of grieving. These five types describe how different people respond to a major loss.

Code: FWGO Price: $17.95

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Adult Grief Resources

Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul Stories about Life, Death and Overcoming the Loss of a Loved One. This collection of inspirational stories will undoubtedly provide comfort to readers who have lost someone close to them. Written by authors who have lost loved ones.

Code: CSSO Price: $14.95

ABCs of Healthy Grieving

By Harold Ivan Smith. Losing a loved one is wrenching, and, in times of grief, wordy reading on healing offers little solace. Each suggestion starts with a letter of the alphabet and ends with an “I can” statement that offers both realistic hope and a goal toward which to strive.

Code: ABCO Price: $12.95

More Than Surviving Caring for yourself while you grieve by Kelly Osmont. This very helpful resource includes information about the grief process, how stress from grief affects us, motivators to caring for yourself, support=nourishment, touch and its healing effect, foods, supplements, quiet time, dreams, exercise, and a new beginning.

Code: MTSC Price: $5.95

Healing Grief A Medic resource by Amy Hillyard Jensen. Very basic and packed with helpful information. Talks about feelings and reactions and what to expect when you’re grieving. A perfect handout with little cost.

Code: HEGO Price: $3.50 Spanish Edition: Curando El Pesar

Code: HESO Price: $3.50

Healing Your Grieving Heart 100 Practical Ideas by Alan Wolfelt. When someone we love dies, we must express our grief if we are to heal.

This book offers practical, here-and-now suggestions for helping yourself mourn. Turn to any page and take a small step toward healing. Sometimes your friends want to support you but don’t know how.

Code: HYGO Price: $11.95 If I Could Just See Hope

By Darcie Sims. Includes normal isn’t normal anymore, memories: what used to be, so you think you’re going crazy?, winter’s gloom, the other side of grief and if I could just see hope, plus more. Her books are lovingly done and perfect for everyone!

See page 18 for Darcie’s newest books, Footsteps Through Grief and The Other Side of Grief.

Code: IIBO Price: $13.95 A Grief Guide and Healing Workbook

by Paul Alexander. This beautiful grief guide and healing workbook is designed to help us not only explore our lives facing loss, but also help us align to our own inner power for guidance and strength. The accompanying CD can aid to the book or be used on its own.

Code: GGHC Price: $15.95

One Who Soars Band

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In Mourning Bands

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Grievers Ask Answers to Questions about Death and Loss by Harold Ivan Smith. Compiles over 150 common questions, explores the emotions behind them, and provides clear and forthright responses.

Code: GRAO Price: $14.99

The Spiritual Woman Quotes to Refresh and Sustain Your Soul.

More than a quote book, contains a discussion of spirituality, information on meditation types, and meditation tips. “I compiled this collection of quotes to inspire women,”Hodgson said. “When I read the finished book, Irealized it could also empower them.” Men willalso find empowerment within its pages.

Code: TSWO Price: $10.95 Living When A Loved One Has Died

By Earl Grollman. If someone you know is grieving, Living When a Loved One Has Died can help. Explains what emotions to expect when mourning, what pitfalls to avoid, and how to work through feelings of loss. Suitable for pocket or bedside, this gentle book guides the lonely and suffering as they move through the many facets of grief, begin to heal, and slowly build new lives.

Code: LWLO Price: $14.00

Remembering You A wonderful collection of reminiscent vignettes that beautifully captures the meaning of love, friendship, life and loss.

Author Mick Blackistone and photographers Charles and Travis Bethmann have created a work that is sure to nourish hearts and souls

of survivors struggling with grief.

Code: RMYC Price: $11.95

Walking Though Grief: A Guide To The Grief Journey DVD: Hosts Darcie Sims and Alan Pedersen along with a group of contributors share their journey toward hope. Alan is a nationally known singer, songwriter and speaker on grief and loss. Darcie, one of the foremost authorities in the field of grief and loss shares her wit and wisdom as well as her compassion and understanding ,which come from her personal experiences and formal education. This video will inform, inspire and offer the tools to help you as you navigate your grief journey.

Code: WTGO Price: $79.95 You Can’t Heal: Until You Feel–Complications in Grief and Loss. This book looks at various forms of loss and through vignettes, mixed with theology and a lot of humor, shows that not everything is as it seems.

Rudy Lerner draws on his more than three decades of experience as a funeral director as well as a licensed clinical professional counselor to peel away the layers of behavior that we develop and use to protect ourselves from feeling the pain of loss.

Code: YCHO Price: $11.95 Thin Threads–Grief and Renewal–Real stories of life chaning moments. Co-Edited by Ellen Gerst - Stories in this edition will offer solace enduring one of life’s most trying events—the loss of a loved one. These stories demonstrate how a person can start anew, and range from humorous to endearing, but are life affirming in every way.

Code: TNTO Price: $7.95

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Adult Grief Resources Men and Grief

Funerals

Swallowed by a Snake The gift of the masculine side of healing by Thomas Golden. Discover new and powerful ways to heal, how the genders differ in their healing, greater understanding between partners, examples of successful and unique healing strategies, new ways to understand your grief, and ways the individual’s loss can impact the entire family.

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Good Words: Memorializing Through A Eulogy teaches how a eulogy can help us in difficult times of grief. It’s about who our loved ones were—the human qualities, virtues, and noble deeds that made them people of value in the world. This book walks readers through the writing process to help them develop powerful and personal eulogies. It also helps readers learn how to deliver the eulogy effectively.

Code: GOWO Price: $19.95

A Man You Know Is Grieving When A Man Faces Grief.

A double book with 12 ideas for helping him heal from loss, and 12 practical ideas to help you heal from loss. By James Miller and Thomas Golden. Brings to light ways to help men who are grieving while offering support to a man.

Code: MYKO Price: $6.95

More Good Words: Practical Activities for Mourning by Beth L. Hewett, Ph.D. Viewing grief as a journey rather than an obstacle, this book uses five realms of experience (emotional, spiritual, physical, cognitive, and social) to provide concrete mourning activities to address grief. These activities are ones that readers can do as written or adapt to fit their own unique circumstances and grief.

Code: MGOO Price: $19.95

Into the Cave When Men Grieve by Dr. Ron Petrie. Looks at the differences between men and women as they go through the grieving process. It is based on experience and observation by someone who has gone, and is still going, down the path of recovery.

Gives insight, understanding and direction.

Code: ITCO Price: $14.00

Men and Grief DVD This DVD with eight touching views of grief from men who have walked its path. They talk about how they have painfully lost wives, children, siblings, parent and friends. Through their sharing we get a better understanding of what to expect as our own grief process unfolds.

Code: MAVO Price: $25.00

Women and Grief The Boob Girls #1 Best Seller. The Burned Out Old Broads at Table 12

by Joy Johnson. Four diverse widows take off in secret for parts unknown, leaving no forwarding address. The Girls burned out old broads who dine together at Meadow f Lakes table 12 find adventure, romance, mystery and prove there is life after grief. Grab your latest AARP advertisement for a bookmark and read this laugh-outloud fun read and a look into relationships every mature woman wants and deserves.

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The Burned Out Old Broads at Table 12 A Novel by Joy Johnson

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The Boob Girls 3

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The Boob Girls 4

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Also available from author Beth Hewett are six booklets adapted from Good Words: Memorializing Through A Eulogy.

Eulogies and Religious Settings (GWRG), Eulogies for Children (GECG), Eulogy Writing & Deliverying (GWDG), Nontraditional Eulogies (GNTG), Eulogies with Children’s Voices (GCVG) and Eulogies and Difficult Situatioins (GDSG).

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Mourning Discoveries© Family Care Series™

By Linda B. Findlay. Four books to help families navigate through grief towards healing…Includes four 30-36 page books. Each book is written to address issues that are commonly experienced during the first year following the loss of a loved one to death.

• 1st month. Book 1-Speaks to the needs of the newly bereaved.

• 3rd month. Book 2-Speaks to challenges and needs.

• 6th month. Book 3-Speaks to the bereaved.

• 11th month. Book 4-Speaks the first anniversary of the death.

Code: FCSO Price: $21.95 Building Memories Planning A Meaningful Funeral by Doug Manning.

There are many decisions to be made when we face the loss of a loved one. Use as a guide to help you take care of all the details. Addresses many questions, such as involving the children. There is a section in the back to write down notes and questions.

Code: BMMO Price: $4.00 Planning A Meaningful Cremation Funeral

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GRAVE reflections is an overview of the choices you or your family will make when a death has occurred.

Gloria and Louis Salazar are the proud owners of a funeral home in Albuquerque, New Mexico.Though it is a traditional funeral home that offers burial and cremation options, they offer unique ways to celebrate a person’s life.

Code: GERO Price: $18.95

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Adult Grief Resources Suicide Survivors, see page 18 also.

Ask Me. . . 30 Things I Want You To Know How to be a Friend to a Survivor of Suicide by Nan Zastrow, founder of Wings, a non-profit resource center. A gentle guide for those who have a friend or family member that has experienced the death of a loved one to suicide. The information in this book speaks not only to survivors of suicide, but to anyone who grieves, about the elements of grief and the depth of sadness. If you allow a griever to teach you about the uniqueness of his or her grief, you may learn so much more about the sanctity of life.

Code: ASMC Price: $5.95 When Someone You Love Completes Suicide This is survivable. Sondra Sexton-Jones found her husband after he completed suicide. With gentle repetition, Sondra tells you what to expect, what you may feel, and that this is survivable. There will be times when you will reel with emotions so powerful that you may question your ability to survive. New Edition

Code: WSLC Price: $4.99 Suicide Survivors’ Handbook A Guide for the Bereaved and Those Who Wish to Help Them. By Trudy Carlson. Deals with the question WHY, the shame and guilt, and the anger associated with losing a loved one. Not only should every suicide survivor have this book, but friends and professionals as well.

Code: SSHO Price: $15.95 After Suicide Loss: Coping with your grief by Bob Baugher, Ph.D. and Jack Jordan, Ph.D. A complete resource that covers the first few days, the first few weeks, the first few months, the first year and beyond, and includes stories of survivors.

Code: ASLO Price: $10.00 Healing the Hurt Spirit Daily Affirmations for People Who Have Lost a Loved One to Suicide by Catherine Greenleaf. Speaks to survivors about the crucial stages of recovery from suicide loss, offering hope and peace of mind. A page for every day of a full year. An excellent resource and a thoughtful gift.

Code: HTHO Price: $15.95 After A Parent’s Suicide Helping Children Heal by Margo Requarth, M.A., M.F.T. A guide to help surviving parent is faced with the monumental task of tending to the emotional lives of the children left behind. Focuses on the specific needs encountered by children and teens coping with the suicide of a parent.

Code: APSO Price: $14.95 Dying to be Free Honest, gentle advice for those who have survived an unspeakable loss, the suicide of a loved one.

Transforming suffering into strength, misconceptions into understanding, and shame into dignity, Beverly Cobain and Jean Larch break through the dangerous silence and stigma surrounding suicide to bring readers this much-needed book. Includes personal stories from others who experienced this profound loss.

Code: DTBO Price: $12.95

Understanding Your Suicide Grief Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. This compassionate guide will help you understand the normal and necessary journey through suicide grief. Ten touchstones guide you through physical, emotional, cognitive, social, and spiritual actions needed to help with the healing process.

Code: UDSO Price: $14.95 Healing After the Suicide of a Loved One

By Ann Smolin, C.S.W., and John Guinan, Ph.D. While each individual becomes a suicide survivor in his or her own way, there are predictable phases of pain that most survivors experience sooner or later, from the grief and depression of mourning to guilt, rage, and despair over what you have lost. Filled with case studies, excellent information, valuable advice, this valuable book will give you the strength and hope to go on.

Code: HASO Price: $14.00 But I Didn’t Say Goodbye For parents and professionals helping child suicide survivors

by Barbara Rubel. A needed book for caregivers, this book has personal stories, questions and answers, and intervention strategies, plus up-to-date resources. Includes a worksheet with helpful discussion questions.

Code: BIDO Price: $14.95 THE REASON is a gripping, true-to-life account of a Midwestern mother who, after the suicide of her 19 year old son, managed to find her way out of the black hole of grief and formulate a plan for recovery. It offers a hand to hold for those who must walk out of the funeral home, and guides them - intimately - along the sequential journey from heartache to healing.

Code: TRSO Price: $18.99 No Time to Say Goodbye, Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One brings suicide survival from the darkness into light, speaking frankly about the overwhelming feelings of confusion, guilt, shame, anger, and loneliness that are shared by all survivors. Carla Fine draws on her own experience and on conversations with many other survivors--as well as on the knowledge of counselors and mental health professionals. And, perhaps most important, for the first time in any book, she allows survivors to see that they are not alone in their feelings of grief and despair.

Code: NTSO Price: $14.95 Surviving Suicide: Help to Heal Your Heart by Heather Hays. The stories are heartbreaking, but Surviving Suicide offers hope. Inspiration from those who have been where you are. In this book, Heather shares life-changing stories from people around the world who have also been left behind. Through them, you will learn lessons on love and loss to help guide you on your journey.

Code: SSEO Price: $21.95 Finding Peace Without All The Pieces. LaRita Archibald helps the reader place the puzzling pieces of their own loss into a mosaic that brings hope and healing just by reading it. She extends the promise that the overwhelming anguish of today will eventually subside into manageable sorrow, that the suicide of one dearly loved is survivable and there is healing and peace awaiting in the future. You are not alone. I’ve made this bitter journey. I’ll show you the way.”

Code: FPWO Price: $18.00

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Adult Grief Resources Holidays and Special Days

Not Just Another Day Families, grief and special days by Missy Lowery.

Covers the more common holidays and gives good ideas for including children in celebrating birthdays and Christmas. Includes a list of things to do to take care of yourself for a month!

Code: NJAC Price: $4.00 How Will I Get Through the Holidays?

12 Ideas for Those Whose Loved One Has Died

by James Miller. Includes express emotions, take charge, plan ahead, remember to remember, do something for someone else, and harbor hope.

Code: HWIO Price: $6.95 Helping the Bereaved Celebrate the Holidays A Sourcebook for Planning Instructional and Remembrance Events by James Miller. A step-by-step guide to designing what you’ll do, the time of gathering, poems, leader and people responses, and many other general guidelines.

Code: HBCO Price: $7.95 Getting Past Christmas: Holiday Help. (Vignette) Carlene Enroth’s ideas for coping during the Christmas season. Offers ten important ideas for taking care of yourself during this holiday.

Code: GPCC Price: 75¢ A Ray of Hope DVD

by Paul Alexander 45 min. Facing the Holidays Following a Loss. You will learn ways to support yourself during a holiday season. Other bereaved people give wisdom and creative ideas. The ideas, options and suggestions will empower you.

Code: RDVO Price: $44.95

Holiday Blues A Self-Help Manual on Grief through the Holidays by Dr. Clarence Tucker. Discusses how you can manage your grief during the holidays and other special days. Includes information on holiday feelings, pattern changes and pre-planning advice. Includes a candlelighting ceremony and memorial ritual. Revised!

Code: HOBC Price: $4.00 Holiday Hope Remembering Loved Ones During Special Times of the Year. Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Memorial Day, Thanksgiving, anniversaries, and birthdays can be difficult for those whose loved one dies. Advice, activities, essays, stories, poems and music to help us cope during these special times.

Code: HHOO Price: $10.95

Handling the Holidays DVD Featuring Darcie Sims. 55 minutes. If someone is missing from your family this holiday season and you aren’t quite sure what to do with the empty chair, this video is for you. Includes information about grief and many coping skills.

Code: HHVO Price: $30.00

Thoughts for the Holidays Finding Permission to Grieve by Doug Manning.

Begins with thoughts for the holidays, the waves of grief, the holiday dilemma, permission to do what you can do, permission to change traditions, and permission to find safe people.

Code: THOO Price: $3.25

A guide to help families navigate through grief towards healing. . .During the Holidays by David J. Robers and Linda B. Findlay. Bereaved parents David and Linda wrote this book to provide comfort and hope to the bereaved during the holiday season and during significant events. Practical information, personal stories and inspirational quotes will help you navigate your way through the holidays.

Code: MDHO Price: $5.00 Healing Your Holiday Grief

By Alan Wolfelt. Grieving the death of someone loved is always hard, but during the holiday season it can seem overwhelming. This practical book answers these questions and more in Dr. Wolfelt’s popular 100 ideas format.Topics covered include honoring your thoughts and feelings, giving yourself permission to mourn, deciding what is important and what isn’t, creating new traditions, finding ways to de-stress.

Code: HYHO Price: $11.95 When the Holidays Hurt: Practical Ideas and inspiration for healing grief by Nan Zastrow. The death of someone loved may be the reason associated with the lonesomeness and pain. Life and Holidays, as you once knew them, have changed. In this collections of articles and essays, Nan writes about managing the traditions, transforming the holiday and alllowing family to move forward.

Code: WHHO Price: $7.95 A Decembered Grief is designed to guide you on a journey beyond grief. Harold Ivan Smith will teach you how to alter traditions instead of abandoning them, appreciate the grief styles of others, and befriend your grief instead of dread it. Learn to survive the darkness that robs joy from the holiday season for many grievers.

Code: DGRO Price: $13.99

Guilt and Anger Understanding Guilt During Bereavement by Robert Baugher. Includes guilt statements, self-punishment, dimensions of guilt, types of guilt, if-only, moral, grief, recovery or getting better, and suggestions for coping. It is important to understand that guilt has a function and is therefore a common part of the bereavement process.

Code: GUGO Price: $10.00 Understanding Anger During Bereavement

By Bob Baugher. It is not unusual to experience anger following the death of someone you love. It is okay to be angry, and you can use your anger to communicate important information. Begins with talking about what anger is, what causes anger, the positives, the negatives, and suggestions for coping with anger.

Code: GUAO Price: $8.00 If you don’t see it in our catalog, please ask. . .

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Adult Grief Resources Death

of a Parent

Finding Your Way after Your Parent Dies Hope for Grieving Adults by Rev. Richard Gilbert. Even adults feel a deep sense of sadness after the death of a mother or father. This compassionate guide is for those struggling with the loss of a parent. Offers practical suggestions for navigating these difficulties.

Code: FYWO Price: $14.00 Losing A Parent Fiona Marshall calls this A personal guide to coping with that special grief that comes with losing a parent. Full of easy examples, stories, quotes and very timely advice. Includes a chapter on abandoned-child grief, and your surviving parent.

A comforting guide for adult children.

Code: LAPO Price: $15.95 Nobody’s Child Anymore Grieving, Caring, and Comforting When Parents Die by Barbara Bartocci. Stories from the author’s own experience of mourning the loss of two parents, as well as dozens of other stories. She leads us through four stages that most adults experience at some time: caring for a dying parent, mourning the loss, caring for the parent left behind, and finding new meaning beyond grief.

Code: NCAO Price: $12.95 FatherLoss How Sons of All Ages Come to Terms with the Death of their Dads. By Neil Chethik. Based on a national survey of more than 300 men and in-depth interviews with others, this book talks about the male grieving process and gives practical advice to help guide sons through the loss of their fathers.

Code: FALO Price: $14.95 In My Mother’s Kitchen–An Introduction to the Healing Power of Reminiscence by Robin A. Edgar. Focuses on the steps to recalling, recording and celebrating significant memories that help the reader recognize and value the individuals and incidents that shape our lives. Contains reminiscence recipes to recapture the sights, sounds and even smells that bring back the laughter from the past.

Code: IMMO Price: $11.95 Grieving the Death Of A Mother

By Harold Ivan Smith. A mother’s death can make a shamble of schedules, priorities, agendas, commitments, and, sometimes, even our most important relationships. Drawing on his own experience of loss, as well as those of others, Harold Ivan Smith guides readers through their grief, from the process of dying through the acts of remembering and honoring a mother after her death.

Code: GDMO Price: $14 .99 Always Too Soon

By Allison Gilbert. Losing one’s parents is a universal experience. Whether it happens suddenly or over a long period of time, no other life passage is more profound and presents such a seismic shift in one’s perspective on life, career, and family. You’ll find words of comfort and inspiration from Rosanne Cash, Hope Edelman, Barbara Ehrenreich, Yogi Berra, Mariel Hemingway, Ice-T, Dennis Franz, Geraldine Ferraro, Rosanna Arquette, Dana Buchman, among many others.

Code: ATSO Price: $14.95 Angel Catcher: A journal of loss and remembrance by Kathy Eldon and Amy Eldon Turteltaub. See page19. Hardcover.

Code: AGCO Price: $18.95

Hope Edelman’s Motherless Daughters explores the myriad ways that losing a mother can affect almost every aspect and passage of a woman’s life. Building on interviews with hundreds of mother- loss survivors, reflects the author’s personal experience with the continued legacy of mother loss; now married and a mother of young children herself, Edelman better understands how the effects of mother loss change over time and in light of new relationships.

Code: MODO Price: $15.95

Pet Loss for Adults

When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering and Healing by Alan Wolfelt. When your pet dies, you may struggle with your grief. You may feel surprised at the depth of your sadness. This book affirms the pet owner’s grief and helps you understand why your feelings are so strong. It also offers practical suggestions for mourning—expressing your grief outside of yourself—so that you can heal.

Code: WYDO Price: $9.95 My Personal Pet Remembrance Journal

By Enid Traisman. A place for you to share the feelings you have after the death of a pet. Helps you express the feelings and thoughts that are an essential part of working through and integrating grief.

Code: PPRO Price: $9.95

Good-bye My Friend Grieving the Loss of a Pet by Mary and Herb Montgomery.

Offers consolation at the time of death and comforts the pet owner throughout the grieving process. Feelings common to loss are explored. Beautiful illustrations throughout. Contents include: I Still Remember, The Pain of Loss, Grieving Your Own Way, The Stages of Grief, Helping Children Deal with Loss and Should I get Another Pet?

Code: GMFO Price: $6.95 Good Grief: Finding Peace After Pet Loss shows you how to: Emotionally prepare for a pet’s euthanasia — understand when it’s time. View death not as an ending, but (as animals see it) a natural transformation.Take care of yourself around insensitive people. Memorialize and celebrate your pet’s life.

Move on after your loss and love again. Over 300 pages of information.

Code: GGPO Price: $21.95 Going Home: Finding Peace When Pets Die. In this invaluable guide and touchstone, author Jon Katz addresses the difficult but necessary topic of saying goodbye to a beloved pet. Drawing on personal experiences, stories from fellow pet owners, and philosophical reflections, Katz provides support for those in mourning. By allowing ourselves to grieve honestly and openly, he posits, we can in time celebrate the dogs, cats, and other creatures.

Code: GHMO Price: $15.00 We Will Miss You DVD. We learn love, faithfulness, and trust by living closing with our beloved animal companions.

We invest a deep part of ourselves in the relationships we have with them. They are our family. When our beloved pets die, we become vividly aware of the loss. companion, family member, and friend. 31 minutes long.

Code: WWMO Price: $39.95

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Adult Grief Resources Death of a Spouse or Life Partner A Journey Through Widowhood

By Romaine Presnell. Reading this book is like having a friend give you a hug. Romaine’s journal after the death of her husband addresses the many emotions and situations that are a part of grieving the death of a spouse. The reader moves through the intense pain to begin the healing process.

Code: JTWC Price: $5.95 Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies

By Marta Felber. Offers a caring voice after experiencing the death of her own spouse. Support and encouragement on each page follows with a scripture and passages for reflection, along with small prayer.

Code: FYSO Price: $13.95 Companion Through the Darkness Inner Dialogues on Grief by Stephanie Ericson.

Stephanie wrote this book after her own experience with loss. It is especially good for young widows. Its purpose is to help women through the grieving process and avoid the cliches and taboos.

Code: CTDO Price: $14.00 Widow to Widow Thoughtful, practical ideas for rebuilding your life: challenges, changes, decision-making & relationships by Genevieve Davis Ginsburg, M.S. Explores every challenge: shock, grief, guilt and anger, special days, emptying his closet, repairs, decisions, dating, a survival checklist, journaling and money.

Code: WRYO Price: $15.95 Partnered Grief When Gay and Lesbian Partners Grieve by Harold Ivan Smith, D.Min., FT with Joy Johnson. Quote from book: In a culture that expects grievers to get over it and move on, how do you intentionally and deliberately express your grief for a partner? This book provides the much needed comfort and support.

Code: PNGC Price: $3.50 I Remember, I Remember A Keepsake Journal by Enid Traisman. There is space for photos, letters, stories, personal history and goodbyes. There is space for writing about difficult decisions, first venturing out, and hope. This journal can be used as a keepsake for the family to enjoy for generations. It may also be used as a personal journey through grief.

Code: IRIC Price: $14.95 Healing Moments A Collection of Inspiring Reflections After the Death of a Spouse by Mary J. Nowyj. Excerpt: My late husband and I used to pick up loose change we had found on our daily walks. It became a game for us as we tallied up the amount we collected and threw the coins in a small jar. Once, at the end of the year, we had collected over twenty-five dollars. After he died, I picked up change constantly to continue the game, but mostly out of the old notion that somehow he was more with me, close by again. I felt comforted by that old belief, but I was never able to collect anywhere near what we had collected together.

Code: HEMC Price: $8.95

The Widower’s Toolbox: Repairing Your Life After Losing Your Spouse by Gerald J. Schaefer with Tom Bekkers, MSW, ACSW. While the grieving process is individualized regardless of gender, there are distinct differences in the manner in which males and females grieve. There is no right way to grieve; however this book focuses on the characteristics that make the healing process unique to bereaved men, and serves as a repair manual to make healing more complete and ultimately effective.

Code: WTBO Price: $14.95 Two Chai Day One Widow’s Story about Living beyond Grief by Irene McGoldrick, MSW. Irene and Bob were living an ordinary life a few months later when a cancer diagnosis shook their world to its core. Eventually forced into widowhood at age thirty-six, Irene shares how she reluctantly embraced single parenthood and began her march through mourning.

Code: TCDO Price: $19.99 Believe: A Young Widow’s Journey Through Brokenness and Back. After Jennifer’s husband, a police officer, died in a line of duty accident, grief upended her life. Believe follows the story of her long road out of darkness and her struggle to believe in anything after she’d lost everything. In Jennifer Silvera’s story, readers can find reason to believe.

Code: BLVO Price: $13.99 Widows Wear Stilettos Deals sensitively with the many problems and questions facing the young widow: depression and grief, helping children cope, facing in-laws, and returning to work. Carol Brody Fleet and Syd Harriet also address practical concerns including financial considerations and personal issues such as health, self-awareness, diet, and exercise.

Code: WWSO Price: $14.95 Signs of Life At the age of twenty four, she had a fulfilling job as a high school English teacher, a wonderful husband, a new house and a baby on the way. Then, while visiting her sister, she gets the news that Josh has died in a freak accident. Four months before the birth of her son, Natalie Taylor is leveled by loss. What follows is an incredibly powerful emotional journey.

Code: SLEO Price: $15.00 Poor Widow Me “My life stopped on April 13, 2006. At 6:19 that evening Jimmy, my high school sweetheart and husband of 33 years, died of Burkitt’ s Lymphoma. But after some time, and a lot of bereavement therapy, I miraculously found myself eagerly anticipating my future more often than I lived in our past. Along the way, I wrote down the small moments that had a big impact on me. Some of them brought me solace, or, as I like to call it, grief relief.”

Code: PWMO Price: $12.95 A Widow’s Awakening Readers are given a glimpse into an everyday marriage on the brink of a tragic event. Written as creative nonfiction, the story follows the character of Adri, Sam s wife, as she learns to come to terms with the death of her husband.

Code: AWAO Price: $24.95

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Adult Grief Resources Professional/Support Group Resources

GriefWork Healing from Loss is for therapists, counselors, group facilitators, and other professionals working to help grieving people heal from their losses.

The handouts guide clients through stages of shock, disorganization, reorganization, and a New Normal, a term to convey that everyone’s grief has a unique expression and is that particular person’s ‘normal’.

Code: GWSO Price: $49.95

How To Start and Lead A Bereavement Support Group by Alan Wolfelt. Begins with the role of the support group, getting started, leadership roles, planning your meetings, evaluating your group’s progress, and a directory of self-help organizations.

Code: BSGO Price: $10.00

Lazarus, Come Out! This powerful workbook guides the participant on a ten-week spiritual quest for healing and hope following the death of a child or other catastrophic loss. It is structured in such a way as to invite reflection and personal growth. The authors share deeply from their own personal experience and faith journey after the death of their son.

Code: LCOO Price: $15.95

Six Simple Weeks

By Eloise Cole and Joy Johnson. Ever wanted to start a really good support group and didn’t quite know how? Here’s the book you want. We define leadership and group members with special needs, and give you six simple sessions as a model. Our goal: to make starting and leading a grief support group both enriching and fun for leaders and participants.

Code: SSWC Price: $8.95 Support Cards by GriefWatch.

These support cards can be useful in a number of ways.

For a support group, pass the stack of cards around and have each person randomly pick a card. They can in turn discuss how that particular question affects their individual life.

Or, as the facilitator, pick out a card yourself to help you direct the conversation.

Code: SUCO Price: $7.50 The Understanding Your Grief Support Group Guide-Starting and Leading a Bereavement Support Group by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. For bereavement caregivers who want to start and run an effective grief support group for adults, this new Support Group Guide discusses the role of support groups for mourners and describes the steps involved (such as deciding on group format, publicizing the group and writing meeting plans) in getting a group started. Responding to problems in the group is also addressed.

Code: USGO Price: $19.95 Bandages For Your Heart: DVD OVER 2 HOURS OF HEALTHFUL HEALING A revolutionary program designed to help you experience immediate relief from the emotional pain that grief can bring. Filled with specific techniques to harness your own inner healing power, this program gives you the strategies to stop hurting – day or night and weeks or years after your loss.

Participate in the interactive segment and experience for yourself the healing benefits of: Drumming, Laughter, Healing Music, Ecstatic Dance, Relaxation Meditation, Yogic Breathing & Postures.

Code: BFYO Price: $19.95 Your Personal Journey Through Grief A Guided Road Map Toward Learning and Healing by Helen Fitzgerald. This lovely guidebook is designed as a supportive, personal diary of the grief journey. It also can supplement the work of support groups or individual counseling. Included are helpful exercises for managing common grief reactions and creative tools to help regain emotional balance.

Code: YPJO Price: $11.00

e Journe

Help for the Whole Family

in the Shadow of Grief and Mourning

How to Design and Facilitate Grief Support Groups - Compiled from many years of practical experience, this manual is inspired and guided by two key concepts: 1. Grief is part of the human condition and natural life cycle. It is not a personal weakness, a mental illness or a punishment. 2. Grievers will eventually reach a place of emotional, physical and spiritual equilibrium. 99 pages. 3-ring binder.

Code: HDFO Price: $24.95 Strength for the Journey-Help for the Whole Family in the Shadow of Grief and Mourning: A Supportive Resource for Facilitators, Educators, Counselors and Families by Karen Lindwall-Bourg and Geraldine Haggard. Provides tools that will pull your family together and pool your resources on this journey of hope and reconciliation.

Code: SFJO Price: $19.95

Setting Up and Facilitating Bereavement Support Groups: A Practical Guide by Dodi Graves. It guides the reader through all the stages of setting up a group, and examines different types of facilitation and the skills needed. Case studies illustrate different types of group, such as closed, time-limited groups and open groups, and the potential of online groups is discussed.

Code: SUFO Price: $29.99 More Good Words-Grief In The Workplace by Dr. Beth L. Hewett and Dr. Richard Ottenstein. When grief hits, we hurt. More Good Words: Grief in the Workplace explains that grief and mourning are not the same thing: grief is passive (it happens to us) and mourning is active (we do something with it). Other Beth Hewett books include More Good Words: A Practical Guide for Remembering Our Loved Ones, Good Words: Memorializing Through a Eulogy, and the Good Words series of booklets. See page 7.

Code: MGOO Price: 9.95 In the Midst of Caregiving-Whether you come to Caregiving by Choice, Chance, or Circumtance

by Darcie Sims and Bob Baugher. Are you a caregiver in the midst of caring for someone with an illness, injury, disability or a limited time to live? Or do you know someone who is? Written in an easy-to-read conversational style, it is a guidebook for those caring for a loved one.

Code: IMCO Price: $12.00

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Adult Grief Resources Helping Others What Can I Say and Do? How to support someone who is grieving a loss. By Kelly Osmont. This booklet is an aid to those who care about someone but are not sure how to help. You will learn that it takes very little effort to be a big support to someone who is grieving. Gives confidence and understanding to those who want to help.

Code: WCIC Price: $4.99 Blessed Are They That Mourn. . .

An observation about what hurts and what heals. Nan Zastrow wrote this book after her own journey through grief. Talks about comforting, the funeral, after the funeral, and the time of transition. If you are a griever, you will find your experiences may be similar to others who are grieving.

Code: BTMO Price: $8.95 What Will Help Me? How Can I Help?

by Jim Miller. A double book that includes 12 things for the griever to do and 12 insights for family and friends. Make sure your nonverbal language says what you want it to, including your facial expression, the way you hold your body, the way you maintain your gaze.

Code: WWHO Price: $6.95 Stepping Through the Awkwardness How to Help Someone Who is Grieving the Death of a Loved One by Marilyn Gryte. REVISED. Contains clear guidelines for how to be supportive to those who grieve.

Chapters include: Four Guiding Steps of Grief Support, Keeping Step Through Their Journey, Keeping Yourself Refilled and Summing it Up. Sections include questions to ponder and discuss.

Code: STAC Price: $4.99 Healing A Friend’s Grieving Heart 100 Practical Ideas for Helping Someone You Love Through Loss by Alan Wolfelt. Offers 100 fresh ideas for supporting a grieving friend or family member.

Turn to any page and seize the day by helping your friend today.

Code: HYCO Price: $11.95 The Art of Being a Healing Presence A Guide for Those in Caring Relationships by James Miller. Make a difference in the lives of others by being present in a way that is healing, nurturing, and potentially even transforming. For professionals, volunteers, and friends.

Code: ABHO Price: $7.95 The Art of Helping Others The authors argue for ways of approaching helping and counselling that are rooted in empathy and commitment, drawing upon the experiences and practice wisdom of youth workers, housing support and hostel workers, the clergy and those working in a religious setting, educators and settlement and community workers.

They explore the key characteristics of those who counsel and teach and examine aspects of the helping process, focusing on living life well, knowing and being oneself, relating to others and working to make change possible.This book will be essential reading for students on professional training programss in youth work, community education, ministry, social care and counselling.

Code: AHOO Price: $29.95

The Power of Presence Helping People Help People by Doug Manning.

Doug brings his unique discussions about the power of listening, how to be available to people on various life journeys, and how to “get into people’s buckets” to create this book and training guide. Each chapter has opportunities for learning by writing responses to the scenarios presented.

Code: POPO Price: $10.95 Come, Walk With Me A Book for Chaplains and Others Caring for the Dying

by Virginia Swaggard. The stories are from people of a Christian back-ground. It is written from that perspective with actual situations. Only the names of those in the stories are changed to protect their privacy with the exception of Pope John Paul II.”

Code: CWWO Price: $10.00 In the Midst of Caregiving-Whether you come to Caregiving by Choice, Chance, or Circumtance

by Darcie Sims and Bob Baugher. Are you a caregiver in the midst of caring for someone with an illness, injury, disability or a limited time to live? Or do you know someone who is? Written in an easy-to-read conversational style, it is a guidebook for those caring for a loved one.

Code: IMCO Price: $12.00

Shelter in the Storm Helping others through Grief by Beverley C. Hardesty.

Gives helpful ideas on how you can help someone in the beginning of their grief and down the road. A survey gives us the input of people that had experienced grief due to the death of a loved one.

Code: SHSO Price: $7.95

This Time of Caregiving Words of Encouragement & Hope by James E. Miller with Christen Pettit Miller. It’s not uncommon for this to be ranked as one of the most challenging episodes in a person’s life. At the same time, the caregiving experience can be quite rewarding – full of closeness and rich with meaning. Each page is filled with comfort and hope.

Code: TOCO Price: $3.95 To Touch A Grieving Heart DVD 40 min. Healing ways to help ourselves and others walk the journey of grief. Kathleen Braza, grief counselor, hosts this comprehensive video on helping people during grief.

Goes into detail on what grief is, what to expect, talking, sharing, remembering and ideas for healing.

Code: TDVO Price: $29.95 Saying Goodbye To Someone You Love

By Norine Dresser and Fredda Wasserman. Consists of moving narratives about end of life and grief.

These personal histories are complemented by practical guidelines for those caring for their loved ones through the last stages of life. For those who are grieving, the true-to-life-stories demonstrate how others have navigated through the tidal wave of emotions and reactions that characterize the grief process. For health care professionals and those who are offering support to grievers, this book provides a new perspective on the challenges of caring for the dying and living with grief.

Code: SGLO Price: $16.95

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Adult Grief Resources Illness and Death & Dying When You’re Ill or Incapacitated When You’re the Caregiver

By Jim Miller. A double book that includes 12 things to do if someone you care for is ill or incompacitated, and 12 things to remember in times of sickness, injury, or disability.

Code: WYIO Price: $6.95

Final Gifts Understanding the Special Awareness, Needs, and Communications of the Dying. By Callanan and Kelley.

An intimate look at the experiences of the terminally ill at the edge of life. Through these stories you will understand the needs, feelings and insights into the dying patient. Discover the wisdom and love the dying leave for us.

Code: FIGO Price: $17.00

When You Know You’re Dying 12 Thoughts to Guide You Through the Days Ahead. Jim Miller has created twelve basic and helpful guidelines to assist people who know their time on earth is limited.

Understands the importance of body, mind, heart and soul.

Code: WYKO Price: $6.95 One You Love Is Dying 12 Thoughts to Guide You On the Journey.

Ideas to help you make the most of this time of caring for another person while caring for yourself.

Code: OYLO Price: $6.95 Journey’s End A guide to understanding the dying process by Deborah Sigrist. Step-by-step she takes us to observe and understand a journey that every one must make some day. Explains physical, emotional and spiritual changes that occur when someone you love is dying.

Code: JOEO Price: $4.00 A Celebration of Life A journal for the living by Paula Cellar. This journal will hold stories in writing to be passed on to the next generation. Has sections for childhood, teen challenges, favorite and least favorite work, hopes and dreams, what life has meant, and closing thoughts.

Code: CELC Price: $8.95 Caregiving: Hospice Proven Techniques for Healing Body and Soul by Doug Smith. Easy to follow techniques and practical tools for improving care: assessment techniques, dialogues, meditations, life reviews, breathing exercises, body revitalization methods, ways patients can evaluate and improve their own care, and many others.

Code: CHOO Price: $14.95 Lighting the Path-Through the Final Days of Life by Deborah Sigrist, BSN, RN, CHPN, author of Journey’s End. Debbie shares her knowledge and wisdom about this time of transition acquired over a period of 19 years as a hospice nurse. Here you will find guidance explaining signs and symptoms individuals face along the way in the dying process.

Code: LTPO Price: $5.00

Smiling Through Your Tears: Anticipating Grief by Harriet Hodgson and Lois Krahn.

This is a self-help book for anyone who is going through anticipatory grief - early grief before a death or dreaded event has occured. It is packed with coping tips and, best of all, 114 Healing Steps, which lead the reader to his or her healing path.

Code: STYO Price: $13.99 The African American Spiritual and Ethical Guide to End of Life Care - What Y’all Gon’ Do With Me? is an excellent resource to help your organization or group get the word out to African-American communities about end-of-life care and planning! The Guide is userfriendly and culturally sensitive.

Code: AASO Price: $4.95 Dying is…

A short book about the dying process, designed to be educational – to offer useful information and suggestions as well as a place to record thoughts, questions, and responses as you and your loved one journey through the time of preparing for death and includes 3 sections (emotional & spiritual issues; physical changes; and caregiver & grief information) Code: DYIO Price: $4.00 Passages in Caregiving by Gail Sheehy. With empathy and intelligence, backed by formidable research, and interspersed with poignant stories of her experience and that of other successful caregivers, examines the arc of caregiving from the very first signs of trouble—providing invaluable advice and guidance to help turn a stressful, life-altering situation into a journey that can be safely navigated and from which everyone can benefit.

Code: PICO Price: $16.99 Share the Care-How to Organize a Group to Care for Someone Who Is Seriously Ill by Cappy Capossela and sheila Warnock. Revised and Updated. Chances are you’ll take on the role of caregiver when a family member or friend is affected by a serious illness or injury, the range of tasks and responsibilities involved are overwhelming.

Offers a sensible and loving solution: a unique group approach that can turn a circle of ordinary people into a powerful caregiving team.

Code: STCO Price: $16.00 The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook aims to help women get through their husbands’ illness and death with issues affecting this unique caregiving relationship. while statistics and resources abound for caregivers in general, very little exists for women in their unique role as caregivers to their dying husbands. Diana Denholm recognized the need for a step-by-step process to help women communicate with their husbands to avoid irreparable damage and regret.

Code: CWEO Price: $14.95

Grieving the Death of a Friend Grieving the Death of a Friend

by Harold Ivan Smith. The death of a friend is one of the most significant but unrecognized experiences of grief in American culture. Smith guides the reader to move with rather than against the natural grief process as he explores its many aspects.

Code: GDFO Price: $14.99

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Adult Grief Resources Sudden Unexpected Loss/Homicide After the Murder of my Son

By Mary Rondeau Westra. In the summer of 2001, Peter Westra was 24 years old. He had flown home to Minnesota for his grandmother’s 90th birthday party, then hopped on a plane to Atlantic City to meet up with his Middlebury College buddies for a friend’s bachelor party. Just 15 hours later, he was dead.

Kicked to death on a sidewalk by bouncers outside a nightclub. This is his mother’s story of the day her life was shattered and the intimate retelling of how she put the shards back together again, to save herself and her family.

Code: AMSO Price: $14.95 I Wasn’t Ready To Say Goodbye Surviving, coping & healing after the sudden death of a loved one by Brook Noel & Pamela D. Blair, Ph.D. Provides a valuable anchor for the griever who faces the challenges of a sudden loss and needs to rebuild their life. Includes grief recovery exercises.

Code: IWRO Price: $15.99 Coping With Traumatic Death: Homicide A book to help out in your time of need by Bob Baugher, Ph. D. and Lew Cox. This book is designed to help you understand what you are going through and guide you through the homicide investigation. This complete book begins with the first few days and ends with the first year.

Code: CWTO Price: $7.00 Grief Works–Sudden Death When death comes suddenly, unexpected, uninvited and often violently by Donna Reutzel Underwood. From Donna’s own personal experience and the stories of others who have lost a loved on suddenly, this book helps guide the reader through the many emotions that come with this type of grief of homicide, suicide, accident and more.

Code: GRWO Price: $15.00 No Time For Goodbyes Coping with Sorrow, Anger and Injustice After a Tragic Death by Janice Harris Lord. Survivors grieving the tragic death of a loved one will find here deep understanding and insight as well as detailed practical information on dealing with legal and financial issues.

Code: NTGO Price: $12.95

Adult

Sibling Loss

Life With Grief

by Scott Mastley. Includes personal experiences with sibling grief, survey results from bereaved parents and bereaved siblings, how to bridge the communication gap between parents and children, and dealing with unanswered questions.

Code: LWGO Price: $14.97

Surviving the Death of a Sibling Living Through Grief When an Adult Brother or Sister Dies by T.J. Wray. Discusses searching for and finding meaning in your sibling’s passing, using a grief journal to record your emotions, choosing a grief partner to help you though tough times, and dealing with insensitive remarks made by others.

Code: SDSO Price: $15.00

Sibling Grief Healing after the death of a sister or brother by P. Gill White, Ph.D. Validates the emotional significance of sibling loss. She draws on clinical experience, research, and wisdom from hundreds of bereaved siblings to explain the five healing tasks specific to sibling grief. A mix of information, personal reflection, and poetry.

Code: SLGO Price: $12.95 The Forgotten Mourners Sibling Surviviors of Suicide by John’s sister. This book discusses some of the challenges sibling survivors of suicide will face, both individually and as a family unit, including: -- What can I expect during the grieving process as a sibling survivor of suicide? -- How can I set boundaries to take care of myself?

Code: FMOO Price: $13.95

Mourning Bands are a wonderful expression of grief for the newly bereaved. Many families purchase these to give out at funeral services to family and friends, while others wear theirs privately as a way to tell others of their sorrow.

Code: INMO Price: $2.00

Young Adult Grief

Developmental Disabilities

Helping People with Developmental Disabilities Mourn–Practical Rituals for Caregivers by Marc Markell, Ph.D. Foreword by Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. This book explains the how-to’s of creating rituals for people with developmental disabilities, including the use of pictures, memory objects, drawing, and music.

Code: HPDO Price: 13.95

Grief Behind Bars Grief Behind Bars-A Look At Grieving for Families, Imnamtes, Professionals and Those On Death Row

by Dan Newman. Going well beyond the general case of grief, examines the unique loss experienced by the incarcerated, their families, and the countless professionals involved with prisoners.

From the viewing room, Newman witnesses the lethal injection and the final breath: an intimate portrait of death, and grief behind bars.

Code: GBBO Price: $14.95

Grief: A Natural Reaction to Loss

by Marge Eaton Heegaard. This book was written to help you understand the dynamics of the grief process and your personal reaction to loss. It encourages mourning, which requires you to recognize and express confusing and painful feelings. It teaches coping skills to help you move forward as a whole person capable of feeling and experiencing life.

Code: GRFO Price: $9.95 Griefjourney Notes on Grief for Teens, Young Adults and Anyone Who Is Grieving by Mark Scrivani. Talks about the “Firsts” of grief, changes and feeling helpless, then goes into the pain of grief, coping, holidays, hope, saying goodbye, and how our love lives on. Reader friendly and packed with information.

Code: GRJO Price: $6.00

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Death of a Child Section Two: Death

of a

Child

Ask Me. . . 30 Things I Want You To Know How to be a Friend to a Suicide Survivor by Nan Zastrow, founder of Wings, a non-profit resource center. A gentle guide for those who have a friend or family member that has experienced the death of a loved one to suicide. #2 – Acknowledge my loved one’s death. . . show me that you truly care.

Code: ASMC Price: $5.95

When Someone You Love Completes Suicide This is survivable. Sondra Sexton-Jones found her husband after he completed suicide. With gentle repetition, Sondra tells you what to expect, what you may feel, and that this is survivable. There will be times when you will reel with emotions so powerful that you may question your ability to survive.

Code: WSLC Price: $4.99

We are pleased to announce that Centering Corporation is the TCF recommended source for books.

The Compassionate Friends is a national nonprofit, self-help support organization that offers friendship and understanding to bereaved parents, grandparents and siblings.

The mission of The Compassionate Friends is to assist families toward the positive resolution of grief following the death of a child of any age and to provide information to help others be supportive. Please let us know if you are a TCF member.

THE REASON is a gripping, true-to-life account of a Midwestern mother who, after the suicide of her 19 year old son, managed to find her way out of the black hole of grief and formulate a plan for recovery. It offers a hand to hold for those who must walk out of the funeral home, and guides them - intimately - along the sequential journey from heartache to healing.

Code: TRSO Price: $18.99

www.compassionatefriends.org

For additional resources look in Suicide Survivors, Homicidal Bereavement, Men and Grief, Journaling, Illness, Holidays, Special Days, and General Grief Resources.

The Grief of Parents When A Child Dies

by TCF. Many facets of parental and sibling grief are discussed in a clear, sensitive manner. Includes the grief response, coping with loss is difficult, recovery is possible, communicating with the spouse, communicating with the children, and fears about going crazy.

Code: GOPO Price: $3.00

My Son. . . My Son. . .

A Guide to Healing After Death, Loss or Suicide. Iris Bolton tells the personal story of her son’s suicide.

It is the story of a devastating tragedy and triumph.

Parents will find comfort and understanding in this compassionate book.

Code: MSMO Price: $15.00

Suicide of a Child For parents whose child died by suicide by Adina Wrobleski. Goes into detail about victimization, social stigma, guilt, anger, history and recovery. The main thing for you to remember is: You are not to blame for the death of your child. The decision for death has to belong to your child, not you.

Code: SUCC Price: $3.99

Suicide and Drug Overdose When a Child Dies From Drugs Practical Help for Parents by Patricia Wittberger and Russ Wittberger. When experiencing the ultimate tragedy of a child’s death from drugs and alcohol, parents find themselves isolated in a fathomless, dark void, wondering whether they will ever resurface into the real world again.

This book is written by parents who have been there.

Code: WCDO Price: $14.00 Lost No More by Marilyn Burns, M.S.,L.P.CC is dedicated to the lost souls who struggle daily to find a way to a life free of drugs and alcohol. It is a story about how a spiritual belief system can strengthen a parents ability to survive the death of a child. To embrace the belief that life is full of challenges because it is balanced will offer hope to the reader whose life has been impacted by addiction.

Code: LNMO Price: $14.95

Rocky Roads: The Journeys of Families through Suicide Grief by Michelle Linn-Gust, Ph.D.. The grief journey following a suicide loss is not a quick and easy path. Because people are unique, as are the life experiences of individuals, the road can open up in several ways for each person. guides the family unit with a road map to navigate suicide grief as individuals and also as part of the family unit with the ultimate goal of strengthening the family even after a devastating suicide loss.

Code: RKRO Price: $17.95

A Winding Road: A Handbook for Those Supporting the Suicide Bereaved. For the people who want to support the bereaved, or are asked to support the bereaved (professional or volunteer), it can be difficult to understand the grief from suicide. Michelle Linn-Gust, Ph.D., and John Peters, M.Suicidology, address issues around the topic from why suicide happens to helping children cope and how culture and religion take a role in how suicide and suicide grief are viewed.

Code: AWRO Price: $15.00 Dear Mallory: Letters to a Teenage Girl Who Killed Herself Compiled by Lisa Richards, LCSW. “This book can help teens and adults who suffer, because it encourages people to look beyond their immediate pain to future possibilities, including the potential that exists in current loving relationships which too often can be overlooked. It can help the parents of troubled teens, and those who’ve lost loved ones to suicide, because it offers valuable insights and wisdom in a personal, straightforward manner...” Paul J. Lane, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist.

Code: DMYO Price: $15.00

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Death of a Child Into the Valley and Out Again The Story of a father’s Journey by Richard Edler. After the unexpected death of his son, Rich’s life seemed to stop. The next few years were spent climbing out of the bottom of a valley he had not known existed before. It is a story about what is important in life, sorrow, faith, acceptance and rebirth.

Code: ITVO Price: $11.95 Healing A Father’s Grief Covers Role Problems including: Macho Man, Competitor, Protector, Provider, Problem Solver, Controller, and then Overcoming Role Problems.

Code: HFGO Price: $3.50 Will Our Tears Forever Flow A father’s story of grief and hope by Ted Wampler. Ted’s daughter was killed when she lost control of her car.

This book takes us on a journey of grief, shock, depression, denial, honesty, and the healing process. Powerful because of the honesty, emotion, and healing process laid bare in straight, well-written plain talk.

Code: WOTO Price: $3.50 When Courage Lies in Letting Go Formerly titled Fly Away Home. Turning Toward End-of Life Palliative Care for Your Child by Deborah Davis, Ph.D. Offers support from other parents who have made the decision to end aggressive intervention.

Question and answer format makes it easier for parents to find the right words to say to others.

Code: WCLC Price: $6.95 Butterflies, Angels & Roses Messages of hope and healing from a bereaved mother’s heart by Frances Wohlenhaus-Munday. This book is a testament to a grieving mother who chose to pick the flowers on her journey, and share them with us.

Fran’s symbols of butterflies, angels, and roses offers comfort to those who mourn.

Code: BARO Price: $12.95 Stars in the Deepest Night After the Death of a Child by Genesse Bourdeau Gentry. A collection of poetry in which a bereaved parent describes the nightmare, isolation and transformation of grief after the death of a child.

Code: SDNO Price: $10.95 Catching the Light -Coming Back to Life after the Death of a Child is a collection of poetry and prose from the author of Stars in the Deepest Night. Now she takes us further along in her journey after the death of a child, sharing the renewed hope, joy and new life she has found in grief’s garden. Most importantly, perhaps, the author shows us that no matter how many years have passed since their death, our loved ones can still be found in all the pages of our lives.

Code: CALO Price: $15.99 Love Never Dies A Mother’s Journey from Loss to Love by Sandy Goodman. Sandra shares her story in a way that will help you find your own path through your most private pain. You, too, can emerge from the deepest hurt and darkness into the awareness that the love you lost still remains with you in so many ways. Hardcover.

Code: LNDO Price: $12.95

Real Men Do Cry Eric Hipple bares his soul in this incredible story of hope and triumph. After his 15-year-old son’s suicide, Eric fell into a debilitating downward spiral. This page turner chronicles Eric’s transformation as he seeks treatment for his own depression and learns to overcome the guilt of missing the warning signs of suicide. Includes practical checklists and resources for families living with depression and is a must-have resource for mental health counselors nationwide.

Code: RMDO Price: $12.95 Open to Hope: Inspirational Stories of Healing After Loss. Losing a loved one can be an intensely isolating experience. At times you may feel as if you are the only person who has ever known such anguish.

Compiled in this book are entries written by more than one hundred contributors. Whenever you run out of hope and can’t find the light to guide you, we invite you to lean on our hope until you find your own.

Code: OTHO Price: $14.95 Open to Hope: Inspirational Stories of Handling the Holidays After Loss. Getting through the hectic holiday season can be especially tough when you’re grieving the loss of someone you love. You may even be missing more than one cherished person--a parent, spouse, child, sibling or friend--at your Thanksgiving table this year. You’ll find practical advice and encouragement from these heartfelt stories and articles contributed writers at the Open to Hope Foundation.

Code: OHHO Price: $12.95 Grieving Dads: To the Brink and Back is a collection of candid stories from grieving dads that were interviewed over a two year period. The book offers insight from fellow members of, in the haunting words of one dad, “this terrible, terrible club,” which consists of men who have experienced the death of a child. This book is a collection of survival stories by men who have survived the worst possible loss and lived to tell the tale. They are real stories that pull no punches and are told with brutal honesty. Men that have shared their deepest and darkest moments.

Code: GRDO Price: $19.95 The Tincture of Time: Restoration After the Death of a Child After almost two decades of grieving the loss of her son Peter, Marie again shares how life continues to change after losing a child. In essays and stories she tells how time has impacted her journey and invites several of her fellow travelers to share their own stories. This book is a perfect companion to “First You Die”, and describes perfectly how life and attitudes change after the death of a child.

Code: TOTO Price: $12.99 First You Die Learn to Live After the Death of Your Child by Marie Levine. After several years of writing a regular column about the despair, anger and confusion she felt after the death of her only child, Marie weaves the story of her own bereavement into a collection of essays, poems and writings that chronicle her own surviving mother’s journey.

Code: FYDO Price: $12.99

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Death of a Child Beyond Tears Living after Losing a Child. Nine mothers who lost a child and met in a support group give comfort and direction to bereaved parents. They candidly share with other grieving parents what to expect in the first year and long beyond.

Code: BYTO Price: $13.95 Other Ritual-Parents’ Stories of Meaning and Making. A film by Todd Hochberg. Stirring stories of love and loss told by bereaved parents, who reveal the rituals they innovated in honor of their children.

Running time: 45:35.

Code: ORDO

Price: $39.99

After The Darkest Hour, The Sun Will Shine Again - A Parent’s Guide to Coping with the Loss Of A Child by Elizabeth Mehren. Written from her own experiences, Elizabeth answers the question every bereaved parent asks, Will I ever get over it? Both a guide and a meditation, this book is valuable to friends and relatives.

Code: ADHO Price: $13.99 The Bereaved Parent

By Harriet Schiff. Many parents feel that no one can help because no one can understand the complex ramifications of their tragedy. Harriet wrote this book to help other bereaved parents. Offers guidance and step-by-step suggestions on how to cope with the stages of grief, from the funeral to rebuilding your marriage.

Code: BEPO Price: $14.00 Standing Beside You A Book for Bereaved Parents by Linda Mauer. The purpose of this book is to give you hope and encouragement for the days, weeks, months, and years ahead of you.

Chapters include surviving the first years, difficult situations, your child’s possessions, the death of an only child, and helping others.

Code: SBYO Price: $15.95

Letters To My Son

By Mitch Carmody. Authored by a grieiving father whose 9-year-old son died following a two-year battle with a recurring malignant brain tumor. A compelling story of love, loss and recovery that will grab your heart, nourish your soul and open your eyes.

Beautiful poems and illustrations by the author are woven throughout the text.

Code: LTMO Price: 28.00 Remembering With Love Messages of Hope for the First Year of Grieving and Beyond by Elizabeth Levang, Ph.D. and Sherokee Ilse.

Offers compassion, comfort, support and guidance during the lonely and painful times of grief. Over 300 entries, including quotes from people who have coped with their own losses, remind you that you are not alone and that you can and will survive.

Code: RWLO Price: $11.95 I Walked A Mile With Sorrow For Bereaved Parents, Families, and Friends by Mary Cleckley. “The articles in this book came as a result of many years of attending and leading bereaved parents support groups. In the conversations at those meetings, you heard the many problems discussed that are associated with the loss of a child. It was and is my hope that it will help not only the parents and their families better understand the normalcy of the feelings they are experiencing, but also those caring people who need that knowledge as well, so they can better provide the proper support.”

Code: IWMC Price: $11.95 When Bad Things Happen to Good People

By Rabbi Harold S. Kushner. When Harold’s threeyear-old son was diagnosed with a degenerative disease, he was faced with one of life’s most difficult questions: Why, God? Kushner shares his wisdom as a rabbi, a parent, and a human being.

Code: WBTO Price: $12.95

The Death of a Child Reflections for Grieving Parents by Elaine Stillwell.

Bereaved parents know the excruciating pain of losing a child. Elaine, mother of two children killed in a car accident, offers this collection of life-giving lessons gathered over years of experience as a grief minister.

Includes creating a new normal, bearing the soul, seasons and more.

Code: DECO Price: $10.95 When the Bough Breaks

by Judith Bernstein, Ph.D. A poignant and sensitive book that offers bereaved parents the comfort of knowing how others have navigated this rutted road.

With great honesty and empathy, it acknowledges that no family ever recovers from this tragedy, but rather adapts to a life irretrievable altered.

Code: WBBO Price: $19.95 Dear Parents Letters to Bereaved Parents from Bereaved Parents. A support group in book form. Parents and others say what they would tell a grieving parent. Friends walk with you and let you know you are not alone.

Code: DEPC Price: $9.95

Why Are The Casseroles Always Tuna?

A Loving Look At the Lighter Side of Grief Written by a bereaved mother and national presenter, Darcie Sims. A collection of thoughts about the needs of the grieving. If you are grieving, you know how important it is to find some comfort, joy, and even humor.

Code: WACO Price: $9.95

Footsteps Through Grief

By Darcie Sims and Alicia Sims Franklin. A beginning guide book for the journey through grief. It stresses that there are no right or wrong ways to grieve…there is only YOUR WAY through grief. No one can walk for you. Each footstep is uniquely your own. You do not have to be alone as you search for the footholds through grief. The journey is yours and now it begins…

Code: FTGO

Price: $9.00

Goodbye My Child A gentle guide for parents whose child has died by Sara Wheeler and Margaret Pike. A complete guide for newly bereaved parents. Talks about funeral planning, differences in losses, the five phases of mourning, men and women grief, grandparents, your other children, family and friends and picking up the pieces.

Code: GMCC Price: $7 .95

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Death of a Child Children Die, Too

by Joy and Marv Johnson. This is one of the first grief books. We talk about feelings, dealing with guilt, facing sadness and moving on. There are sections for other children. A good first book for parents. No matter what you do to work through your grief, you’ll find that everyone has different feelings and emotions.

Code: CDTC Price: $4.00 Available in Spanish: Los Niños Murien Tambien

Code: CDSC Price: $4.00 Healing A Parent’s Grieving Heart 100 Practical ideas after your child dies by Alan Wolfelt. Offers 100 ideas that help parents understand and reconcile grief. Covers common challenges such as dealing with marital stress, helping surviving siblings, dealing with hurtful advice from others and exploring feelings of guilt.

Code: HPGO Price: $11.95 The Birdhouse Project is a project-based healing book meant to help the reader move past the loss.

The book will stir the emotions of the heart, then guide the mind through a process of connecting steps of the healing process to a specific part of the birdhouse. After completing each step by taking ownership and facing the limits in one’s life, then follow the final process to assemble the birdhouse, which symbolizes the new life you are welcoming.

Code: BHAO Price: $24.95 Flowers on a Child’s Grave

By Lisa Epperson. A collection of heartbreaking stories from 14 families that had to face the devastation of losing a child and how they continued to live. This is a perfect resource for someone going through the pain and anguish of losing a child.

Code: FLOO Price: $14.95 I Have No Intention of Saying Good-bye

by Sandy Fox. Five or more years after the death of their children, 25 families open their hearts and share stories of courage, hope and their attempts to make sense out of the most unbearable loss of all. In addition to helping themselves, learn how these parents help others and what advice they give to those still having difficulty living in a world without their child.

Code: IHNO Price: $15.95 Creating a New Normal: A guide to coping and informational skills for bereaved parents, family members, friends, therapists and grief related organizations. New book by Sandy Fox. Over 80 coping techniques and strategies to help both the newly bereaved and the seasoned griever highlight discussions in this book on how to survive the death of a child.

Code: CNNO Price: $20.95 Grief Is This Normal? By Diane M. Cimador Roscigno. In sharing all that she has learned about love, forgiveness and survival since the death of her son Mark Anthony, Diana shines a beam of light into a world that might otherwise seem to have become forever dark. Marie Levine, Author, First You Die: Learn To Live After The Death of Your Child.

Code: GTNO Price: $10.95

Am I Going Crazy? For Bereaved Parents, Family Members, Friends, Therapists and Grief-Related Organizations by Diana M. Cimador Roscigno. This book validates many of the common grief reactions bereaved families experience. Offers information and coping tools and skills for bereaved parents, family, friends and caring others.

Code: AIGO Price: $10.95 Sugar Cookies and a Nightmare How my Daughter’s Death Taught me the Meaning of Life. The death of a child is perhaps the most difficult separation we face, and reconstructing a life in the wake of this loss can feel overwhelming. The journey through grief can take many different roads, and we must each find our own way. The intensity of the experience may be different, but the pain of separation is universal. This book is about encountering and dealing with loss, and rebuilding an enriching life.

Code: SCNO Price: $14.95 Space Between Breaths DVD What Loss Can Teach Us About A Life Fully Lived by Rosemary Smith. A powerful, uplifting film, which looks at the potential in grief and how it can become motivational, transformational force in our lives.

Featuring conversations with parents who have lost a child. 115 minutes long.

Code: SBTO Price: $20.00 Happy Again-Your New and Meaningful Life After Loss. “Will I survive? Will I ever be happy again?

Questions that Harriet Hodgson asked herself after she was left to raise her twin grandchildren, while grieving for four family members, including her daughter.

Harriet reminds us that we are not alone in our grief and, though losses may define our lives, they will not destroy them. This book tugged at my heartstrings.

Harriet’s account of a journey from despair to hope is filled with practical suggestions on how to once again have a meaningful life.

Code: HAOO Price: $10.95 Angel Catcher-A Journal of loss and Remembrance by Kathy Eldon and Amy Eldon.

Over the past decade, this classic work has helped thousands find meaningful ways to overcome the despair of losing a loved one.The tasteful pages of this journal guide the userthrough the process of mourning and onward to a lasting sense of peace in the face of loss.

Code: ACCO Price: $18.95 When Your Child Dies-Tools for Mending Parents’ Broken Hearts provides grief-stricken parents with the tools to navigate the grieving process and addresses the challenges. Grieving parents will learn how to reduce anxiety and depression and promote healthy selfsoothing, identify and address issues that linger and cause emotional pain following the child’s death and incorporate their loss into their lives in healthy ways.

Code: WYCO Price: $14.95 Hitch By Nan Zastrow.A collection of creative writing and journal entries about finding hope on the journey of grief. In this book, Nan demonstrates the power of words. She creates vivid pictures that allow the reader to be present to the moments she describes. She writes about rebuilding identity after loss, transformed relationships, and the small victories leading to hope.

Code: HITO Price: $10.95

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Death of a Child Love and Remembrance A Journal for Bereaved Parents by Margot Burkle.

Margot, a bereaved parent, created this healing journal. A meaningful journal/family keepsake that includes thoughts from mom and dad, siblings, and grandparents, pages for special memories, footprints, handprints and memories and reflections. A family treasure.

Code: LARC Price: $7.95

For Better or Worse For strengthening marriages after a child dies. Looks at gender grief, building your relationship after your child dies, how to help each other heal; includes a grief chat. While it’s important to respect your spouse’s needs, it’s also wise to respect your own. You must take care of yourself both physically and emotionally. . .

Code: FBOC Price: $4.00 Help Your Marriage Survive the Death of a Child by Paul C. Rosenblatt. Contains practical information about the problems that grieving parents face. Offers suggestions at the same time talks about honoring the emotions of each other during the grieving process. Chapters also include support groups and counseling.

Code: HYMO Price: $5.95

The Other Side of Grief. By Darcie Sims and Alicia Sims Franklin. For those who have been on the path of grief for some time. Will we ever be happy again? How long does grief last and what is on the OTHER SIDE? Does healing mean forgetting and what is recovery all about? This is a healing book that helps explore the changes you experience as you grow through grief.

Code: OSGO Price: $9.00 Comfort A Journey Through Grief by Anne Hood. A moving and remarkable memoir about the sudden death of a daughter, surviving grief, and learning to love again. In 2002, Ann’s five-year-old daughter Grace died suddenly from a virulent form of strep throat.

Stunned and devastated, the family searched for comfort in a time when none seemed possible.

Code: COFO Price: $12.95 Life After the Death of my Son Dennis Apple discovered the lifeless body of his son on their family room couch. Eighteen-year-old Denny had died without warning from what was later explained as complications due to Mono. Sixteen years later, Dennis still struggles with living in a world without his son. Using excerpts from his journal—which he began the day after Denny died—Dennis explores the dark, lonely road of grieving for a child.

Code: LIDO Price: $14.95 A Mother’s Tears

By Claire Ann Stevenson. This unique and beautiful collection of poems, written from the depths of a mother’s broken heart, will touch and comfort others suffering the most devastating loss of all, the death of a child. A year and a half after the tragic loss of her son, poetry started flowing through her.

Code: MOTO Price: $14.95 For Bereaved Grandparents

By Margaret Gerner. Written by a bereaved grandparent, this gentle resource addresses the issues grandparents are faced with when experiencing this double grief. Includes information about grief, helping your grieving child, what you can do, grandfathers, holidays and deeper relationships.

Code: FBGC Price: $4.95 Grief Quest-A Workbook & Journal to Heal the Grieving Parents Heart will help you memorialize your child. The simple act of recording your memories is a tribute to your child and the love and life you shared. Lilly Julien and I. J. Weinstock created Grief Quest out of their experience with love, loss and grief. The Questions utilizes a unique 4-question L.O.V.E. process— • L—Love your memories • O—Open to your grief • V—Value the gifts • E—Embrace your life Code: GQOO Price: $15.00

After Death Communication Hello From Heaven After-Death Communication- confirms that life and love are eternal by Bill and Judy Guggenheim. Uplifting messages from those who continue to exist in a life beyond physical death. Offers 353 ADC accounts.

Code: HFHO Price: $7.99 Dreaming Kevin A true story of a bereaved mother’s journey to the dream time in search of her son. Join author Carla Blowey in her quest to interpret an ominous dream that predicted the death of her five-year-old son, Kevin, just hours before he died in a bicycle accident. It is this nightmare that heralds the many numinous dreams and synchronistic events that offer her forgiveness, healing, spiritual growth and new life.

Code: DRKO Price: $16.95 Swan in Heaven

By Terri Daniel. There are eager teachers in other realms waiting with infinite patience for us to tune in and start listening. One such teacher is Danny Mandell, who died at age 16 after struggling with a degenerative disorder. He was completely non-verbal during the last years of his life, but within an hour after his death, he began “speaking” to his mother, guiding her to publish his words in a book that would have a unique perspective.

Code: SIHO Price: $15.95 A Mother’s Journey. As she soaks in one of the last days of a perfect vacation in Costa Rica, Jennifer Scalise has no idea that she is about to face an incomprehensible tragedy that will claim the life of her 12-year-old daughter. As she begins to unravel Brooke’s messages, somewhere between conviction and proof, Jennifer finds an unshakable faith in eternal life and peace knowing Brooke remains by her side with a love unabridged by death.

Code: MYOO Price: $18.99

Sympathy Card

Outside: Our thoughts are with you at this time Inside: Your precious child will live forever in your heart

Code: 4ILC Price: $2.50

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Infant Loss Resources Infant Loss Resources

Section Three: Infant Loss Resources

Miscarriage and Newborn Death Page 21-22

Memory Books Page 23

Healing A Father’s Grief Page 23

Small Handouts Page 23 T-Shirt Page 23

Burial Gown Page 23

Comfee Doll Page 23

Grieving Grandparents Page 24

Sibling Grief Page 24 Caregivers Page 25

Funeral Planning Page 25

Difficult Decisions Page 25

NICU Infants Page 26

c Miscarriage For parents experiencing fetal loss. When you have a miscarriage you have a very real and powerful grief.

It may be one of your first encounters with death. It is certainly something you never forget. This book deals with feelings, anger, guilt, questions, withdrawal, reaching out, dads, couples, relationships, statements that hurt and memorializing the baby.

Code: MISC Price: $3.50 Spanish Version: Aborto Espontáneo Code: MALC Price: $3.50

Healing Together For Couples Whose Baby Died by Marcie Lister and Sandra Lovell. This compact book covers ideas from the memorial service to talking together, information on how men and women grieve differently, and how to strengthen your relationship after the loss of your baby.

Code: HETC Price: $4.00

When Hello Means Goodbye A Guide For Parents Whose Child Dies Before Birth, At Birth Or Shortly After Birth by Perinatal Loss/ GriefWatch. Includes Feelings, Physical Symptoms, Naming Your Baby, Autopsies, Funeral Homes, Friends, and comforting poems.

Code: WHMO Price: $5.95

Spanish Version: Cuando Hola Significa Adios Code: CHSO Price: $5.95

Too Soon A Memory A guide for parents suffering a miscarriage. A complete guide that covers grieving a miscarriage, causes, helpful things to do or remember while grieving, how fathers react, friends and families, when to try again, and the next pregnancy. Real quotes throughout.

Code: TSMO Price: $5.95 Spanish Version: Una Memoria Demasiado Temprana Code: TSSO Price: $3.50

Comfort Us, Lord – Our Baby Died A book of prayers for families who have lost a small infant to stillbirth or early infant death. By Norman Hagley, D.Min. Includes: A Mother’s Prayer, A Prayer for Hope, A Father’s Prayer, A Prayer for a Very Young Child, also Prayers for Caregivers and Inner Strength.

Code: CULC Price: $3.50

Miscarriage A Shattered Dream by Sherokee Ilse.

Those who have suffered a miscarriage will find medical and emotional support on possible causes, medical terminology, choices, decisions, common questions and concerns, grandparents, siblings, friends and family, plus coping ideas and taking care of yourself.

Code: MISO Price: $12.95 Empty Cradle, Broken Heart Surviving the Death of Your Baby by Deborah Davis, Ph.D. Offers reassurance to parents who struggle with anger, guilt, and despair after such tragedy.

Encourages grieving and makes suggestions for coping. Includes information about multiple birth, fathers, relatives, friends and other support persons.

You are not alone.

Code: ECBO Price: $19.95 Empty Arms Coping With Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death.

Sherokee Ilse covers all the feelings, fears and fantasies that arise, and adds a lot of easy to read and helpful information on physical reactions. There are practical suggestions and support for parents during this time.

Code: EMAO Price: $12.95 Spanish Edition: Brazos Vacíos

Code: EMSO Price: $12.95 Stillbirth From Bereavement Services, RTS. Includes feelings, your partner, friends and family, other children, and the funeral. Supportive information that is valuable right away. The distance between joy and sorrow can be measured by a heartbeat.

Code: STBO Price: $2.05 Another Baby? Maybe. . . Thirty Questions on Pregnancy After Loss. Written with Maribeth Doerr, Founder of Pen-Parents. Addresses frequently asked questions about subsequent pregnancies such as, How long do I need to wait to try again? What if I can’t get pregnant again? and When the baby is born will I finally be happy?

Code: ANBO Price: $5.00 Couple Communication After A Baby Dies Provides a unique approach to this difficult issue.

Sherokee Ilse and Tim Nelson teamed up to offer not only their individual perspectives as a man and woman following the deaths of their children, but also to share how they and their spouses met the challenges many couples face during that stressful time.

Code: CCBO Price: $12.95 Angel Babies: Messages from Miscarried and Other Lost Babies. For any parent, losing a child to miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant death is devastating.

For Patricia McGivern and her husband, Tim, it was no different. They endured fear and physical pain from the miscarriage of their first child. Exploring a new connection to her lost son, she was able to communicate with her deceased parents as well. It was a journey that changed Patricia’s life as she never could have imagined.

Code: ABOO Price: 15.95

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Infant Loss Resources Single Parent Grief Addresses the issue of facing the loss as a single parent, feeling lonely, guilt and shame, envy and jealousy, pressure from others, relationship issues, other issues that may be affecting you, dealing with your grief, building support, coping skills, and dating again.

Code: SPGO Price: $3.00 Unsupported Losses Ectopic Pregnancy, Molar Pregnancy, and Blighted Ovum

by Sherokee Ilse. Includes general medical considerations, treatments, future considerations, emotional reactions, creating and cherishing mementos, your other children, building support and finding meaning and peace.

Code: UNLO Price: $3.00

In Abba’s Arms This CD consists of 12 carefully crafted original instrumentals by songwriter Tony Falzano. The music features flutes, strings, vibraphone, brass and a variety of bells, all woven together to create ear friendly melodies and soul comforting harmonies. It is perfect for all forms of contemplation and healing.

Code: IAAO Price: $14.95 Journaling Away Mommy’s Grief is the only interactive, self-help book on stillbirth/infant loss that takes the reader from the first day of profound loss through ten years of living, grieving and healing. Robin Lentz Worgan uses her original journal entries written after losing her daughter, Margaret, to describe her experience of coping with loss in layman’s terms for mothers and their families.

Code: JAMO Price: $14.95

Ectopic Pregnancy From Bereavment Services. Three pages of feelings and information specific to this type of loss, including what is an ectopic pregnancy, diagnosis and treatment, and facing the future. Clear and simple to read.

Code: ECPO Price: $1.35 Spanish Edition: El Embarazo Ectópico

Code: EMEO Price: $1.35

Life Touches Life A Mother’s Story of Stillbirth and Healing by Lorraine Ash. Drawing on great thinkers, personal loves, and the wisdom in everyday events, Ash explains how she made it through this difficult emotional terrain after her daughter’s stillbirth and how her experiences led her to richer ways of loving the world.

Code: LTCO Price: $15.00

MotherCare Physical care and beyond after a baby dies by Sherokee Ilse, Inez Anderson and Mary Funk. Empowers bereaved mothers to take good care of themselves after their baby’s death. The physical, emotional and spiritual components of healing are addressed in this short guide.

Code: MOCO Price: $4.50 When A Baby Dies A Handbook for He aling and Helping.

From Bereavment Services. This complete handbook includes information about grief, grieving normally, miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, stillbirth, newborn death, loss in a multiple pregnancy, saying goodbye, reactions of others, involving children, grandparent grief, and checklists for assisting parents.

Code: WBDO Price: $14.25 Still To Be Born From Perinatal Loss/GriefWatch. A Guide for Bereaved Parents Who Are Making Decisions About Their Future.

Chapters include: After a Loss, Making Decisions About the Future, Medical Considerations, Living Through Another Pregnancy, and Beyond Birth. Things to think about: 1. Don’t assume your doctor knows how you are feeling. When asked, share how you are doing emotionally as well as physically. He or she won’t know what’s going on inside you unless you communicate.

Code: SBBO Price: $6.00 This Little While For Parents Experiencing the Death of a Stillborn Baby or very Young Infant by Joy and Marv Johnson. Full of information beginning with hearing the bad news, recognizing the reality, things to do before you leave the hospital, naming your baby, grieving the loss, healing together. Ends with sample birth/death announcements, support organizations.

Code: TLWC Price: $4.50 Available in Spanish: Ese Momentito

Code: TLSC Price: $4.50

An Empty Cradle, A Full Heart Reflections for mothers and fathers after miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant death by Christine O’Keeffe Lafser. Includes pages of comforting reflection for mothers and fathers and inspiring passages from the Bible. Christian tradition.

Code: ECFO Price: $10.95

Silent Grief Miscarriage, Child Loss, Finding Your Way Through the Darkness. Clara Hinton writes of her own grief and interviews women and men. The moving, honest responses to these interviews tells the reader that through the tears and rage and awful silence, God still loves us and knows our children.

Code: SILO Price: $10.99

When Pregnancy Follows A Loss: Preparing for the Birth of Your New Baby. Authors Joann O’Leary, PhD, and Clare Thorwick, RN. Few people understand the conflicting emotions that surface during a subsequent pregnancy nor that these feelings are normal, given your life experience. Embracing the life of a new baby can be daunting when others may not understand you are still a parent of a baby who died. This booklet is a compilation of families’ experiences.

Code: WPFO Price: $8.00

When A Baby Dies

by TCF. Written to help give parents insights into the grieving process by those who have personally experienced the death of an infant. Covers the grief response, facing the world again, family members, and another pregnancy.

Code: WBSO Price: $4.00

SIDS & Infant Death Survival Guide

By Joni Horchler and Robin Morris. There are over 290 pages in this complete book on SIDS and infant death. Includes help for planning a funeral and general grief information.

Code: SSGO Price: $16.95

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Infant Loss Resources Memory Books

Small Handouts

Little Footprints A Special Baby’s Memory Book.

By Dorothy Ferguson. For parents of stillborn infants or those who die shortly after birth.

Features a journal for feelings, memorable dates, pictures, place for momentos, last moments, and your story: the day you were born. 24 pages that includes gentle poems.

Code: LIFC Price: $6.00 Available in Spanish: Sus Pequeñas Huellas Code: LISC Price: $6.00

Vignette – a small writing and a powerful handout.

Special Babies Live in the hearts of those who love them.

Lovingly done by AMEND. Includes journal pages, funeral information, birth/death certificate, and pictures. 12 pages.

Code: SPBO Price: $6.00 Available in Spanish: Los Bebés Especials

Code: SPSO Price: $6.00 Memories Of Our Baby

By A Place To Remember. A soft cloud cover with places for you to write keepsake memories about the mother, father, pregnancy months, how the name was chosen, service information and pictures.

Code: MOBO Price: $7.50

Fathers Grieve, Too After their child or baby dies. Gives permission to feel and cry.

Code: FGTC Price: 75¢ Spanish Version: Los Padres Tambien Sufren Code: FGSC

Price: 75¢

Being With Parents After Their Child Or Baby Dies. Practical, caring tips for friends, family and caregivers.

Code: BWPC Price: 75¢ Death of an Infant Twin For families after the death in a multiple birth. Gives emotional support.

Code: DITC Price: 75¢

Your Next Baby Addresses fears and anxiety for the next baby.

Code: YNBC Price: 75¢

Healing a Father’s Grief

Miscarriage: A Man’s Book

By Rick Wheat. A note from Rick: Both of you face a lot of confusion and pain. You need to prepare for it. Your wife has some tough days ahead of her that you may not understand. As her husband, you’ll share her struggles. However, sharing her pain won’t be easy. You have your own pain to bear as you grieve the loss of this baby. Rick talks to men about difficult things, anger and grief.

Code: MMBC Price: $3.50 Strong and Tender A Guide for the Father whose Baby has Died from Perinatal Loss/GriefWatch. Designed to provide men with some emotional and spiritual support for the family while giving information about men and grief.

Includes: taking care of yourself, how men grieve, going back to work, anger, and your next pregnancy.

Code: STRO Price: $3.50

Fathers Grieve, Too After their child or baby dies. Gives permission to feel and cry.

Code: FGTC Price: 75¢

DVD Footprints On Our Hearts The agony we feel after the loss of a baby is complex and intense as it mixes with misplaced guilt, hurt, helplessness, and deep sorrow. This DVD ffers ways to cope with these feelings in the days and weeks of grieving that follow, as it speaks words of understanding, encouragement, and hope for the future for anyone experiencing the grief from the loss of a baby -a stillborn, miscarriage or newborn death experience.

Code: FOHO

T-Shirt & Comfee Doll, Burial Gowns Angel T-shirt: message: “Some People Only Dream of Angels.

I Held One In My Arms.”

Size M, L, XL, XXL Specify size when ordering.

Code: ANSO Price: $15.00

Comfee Doll Pillow A warm, huggable friend to hold for comfort. Heat this flannel covered friend in the microwave for three minutes .Contains calming lavender & flax.

Code: COMO Price: $15.00 Burial Gowns are lovingly done by Raindrops of Ponca City, OK. Gown and blanket sets are individually handmade from a wrinkle-resistant poly/cotton fabric in soft pastel colors. Blankets are double-layered with a baby footprint design on one side and matching solid pastel on the other side.

Gowns are designed to open completely down the front with snap closures so delicate babies can be dressed with minimal handling.

Code: BGLO LARGE (32-34 Weeks)

MEDIUM (27-32 Weeks) SMALL (23-26 Weeks) X-SMALL (16-22 Weeks)

Code: BGMO Code: BGSO Code: BGTO

All gowns with blanket are $15.00 each

Price: $39.99

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Infant Loss Resources Sibling Grief Remembering Our Baby A workbook for children whose brother or sister dies before birth by Patti Keough. Includes pages for writing and drawing to help share thoughts and feelings. Begins with finding out about the new baby in the family, finding out about the death, questions, and things to do to remember the baby. Ages 4-9.

Code: ROBC Price: $4.95 Where’s Jess?

Written after Ray and Jody Goldstein’s daughter, Jess, died at age nine months. Simple and easy for children to understand.

For siblings who had baby at home. Sometimes when I talk about Jess, Mommy cries. I’m scared that my talking makes her cry.

Mommy smiles. She says I don’t need to be afraid of her tears. I can talk about Jess all I want to. Ages 3-6.

Code: WHJC Price: $4.95 We Were Gonna Have a Baby, But We Had an Angel Instead by Pat Schwiebert and illustrated by Taylor Bills. Expresses the excitement and anticipation children have while waiting for their new sibling to arrive, and the sudden, life-changing nature of an unexpected loss.

Narrated by a young boy who shares his and his family’s disappointment and grief over the loss of their baby.

Code: WWGO Price: $8.95

Someone Came Before You Author of We Were Gonna Have A Baby, But We Had and Angel Instead. A storybook for children that have come after the loss of a sibling.

Recommended age level is 2 years old and up.

Code: SCBO Price: $8.95 Thumpy’s Story A Story of Love and Grief Shared by Thumpy the Bunny.

Thumpy shares the hurt and questions when his sister dies. This story provides an opportunity for children and adults to express their emotions and learn about life, death, grief and love. Mother looked very sad as Father explained that Bun died because something was wrong with the way she was made. Bun was not strong enough for life in the world.

Code: THUO Price: $9.00 Available in Spanish: El Cuento De Thumpy

Code: THSO Price: $9.00 Am I Still A Sister?

This book was written when Allie Sims was 11 and reflects the child-wise discoveries she made after her baby brother died. I learned that death is all right for some, but terrible for others. Some think death is a release from life. Others aren’t ready to leave.

Code: AISO Price: $5.00 Something Happened By Cathy Blanford. This book is designed especially for children between the ages of two and six whose families have experienced a miscarriage, stillbirth, or neonatal death. The simple, clear story helps the child to understand what has happened, to deal with all of the feelings that are arising, and to continue to feel loved and secure.

Code: SOHO Price: $12.95

No New Baby

By Marilyn Gryte. Grandma took hold of my hand. She leaned over and picked something up off the ground. ‘See this little bud?’ she asked. ‘It was supposed to keep growing and turn into a flower. But it didn’t, and no one knows why. Most little buds become flowers, but some don’t. This one died. It will never be a flower now.’ I held the little bud in my hand. ‘Just like our baby,’ I said. Grandma explains you’re not to blame and we don’t always have answers.

Code: NNBC Price: $4.95 Spanish Edition: No Tenremos Un Nuevo Bebé Code: NNSC Price: $4.95 My Always Sister Coloring Book For very young children. Callie the bunny talks about finding out his new baby sister was sick, so sick that she had to stay in the hospital. One day his Daddy told him that his new sister had died. There was a funeral with music. Callie had many emotions. He drew a picture of how he felt.

Code: MASO Price: $4.95 Talking With Children About Perinatal Loss From Bereavement Services, RTS. This brochure was written to help you explain miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, stillbirth or newborn death to your living children. Includes talking about the baby, remembering baby, explaining death to children and age appropriate grief responses.

Code: TWCO Price: $2.05 Sibling Grief After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death by Sherokee Ilse, Linda Hammer Burns and Susan Erling Martinez. A practical guide, this booklet helps parents understand their surviving children’s needs while assisting the siblings to grieve and cope well after their brother’s or sister’s death.

Code: SIGO Price: $4.00

Bereaved Grandparents A Grandparent’s Sorrow From Perinatal Loss/GriefWatch. An excellent resource for bereaved grandparents including information about how to help your child, what not to say and what to say instead, gifts to give, taking care of yourself, multiple loss, friends, faith and talking with your grandchildren, and touching poetry throughout. Revised.

Code: GPSO Price: $5.95 Grieving Grandparents After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death by Sherokee Ilse and Lori Leininger. A practical exploration of the anguish, sorrow and sense of helplessness that grandparents feel when their beloved grandchild dies. Information is shared to aid grandparents as they attempt to comfort and support their children.

Code: GRGO Price: $4.00 The Grief of Grandparents Seven pages that include quotes from grandparents, the Four Phases of Grief and the Role of Grandparents. We hurt twice.

We hurt for our children because they are our children. Plus, we hurt for the grandchild we lost.

Code: GOGO Price: $2.60 For Bereaved Grandparents

By Margaret Gerner. Written by a bereaved grandparent, this gentle resource addresses the issues grandparents are faced when experiencing this double grief.

Code: FBGC Price: $4.95

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Infant Loss Resources Funeral Planning Making Loving Memories A Gentle Guide To What you Can Do When Your Baby Dies by M.L. Eddy and Linda Raydo. Includes: First things to do, deciding on a service, visitation, burial, your other children, grandparents, and other helpful resources.

Code: MLMC Price: $2.50 Planning A Precious Goodbye

By Sherokee Ilse and Susan Erling Martinez. Complete information about announcement options, samples of announcements/obituaries, release forms, laws, making decisions, choosing a funeral home, miscarried babies, service ideas and sample readings.

Code: PPGO Price: $4.50 Building Memories Planning A Meaningful Funeral by Doug Manning.

There are many decisions to be made when we face the loss of a loved one. Use as a guide to help you take care of all the details. Addresses many questions, such as involving the children. There is a section in the back to write down notes and questions.

Code: BMMO Price: $4.00 BitterSweet Hello...Goodbye: A Resource in Planning Farewell Rituals When A Baby Dies by the Naitonal Share Office. Almost 300 pages of Rituals, Prayers, Different Religeous Traditions and Beliefs, Preserving Memories, Holidays and Personal Stories.

Code: BSHO Price: $39.95

C Caregivers A Caregiver’s Handbook to Perinatal Loss by Gary Vogel.

This complete handbook covers the loss, stages of grief, female vs. male grief, support systems, grandparents, family and friends, children, leaving the hospital and future pregnancy. It also covers physicians, nurses, post partum, nurse managers, funeral directors, social workers and caregiver renewal.

Code: CHPO Price: $6.95 Giving Care – Taking Care Support for the Helpers. Sherokee Ilse lets us find out if we’re rescuers or helpers, tells us it’s okay to cry, and packs this little book with information, including a self-care evaluation. Read it page-by-page on coffee breaks to keep constantly reminded that you can only care for others if you care for yourself.

Code: GCTO Price: $10.50 How Can I Help?

Suggestions for People Who Care About Someone Whose Baby Died Before Birth by Martha Wegner-Hay. This simple booklet offers practical help for the caregiver or anyone else who would like to be helpful. Don’t worry about whether the parents are openly grieving to show support. It’s OK to say you’re sorry.

Code: HILO Price: $3.75 Companioning at a Time of Perinatal Loss by Jane Heustis & Marcia Meyer Jenkins Foreword by Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Written by seasoned support nurses, outlines a framework for bereavement care in the obstetrical arena. Describes loss from the family’s perspective, defines the caregiver’s role, offers bedside strategies and reviews the work of mourning in the weeks and months after.

Code: CTPO Price: $19.95

Unborn Baby Has Problems Difficult Decisions For families whose unborn baby has a serious problem.

These decisions take great strength. With gentle support we deal with loss, hopelessness, relating to others and community resources. This book offers support if you decide to continue your pregnancy or if you decide to terminate. Always remember – whatever decision you make is made from love.

Code: DIDC Price: $3.99 Precious Lives – Painful Choices

By Sherokee Ilse. As modern technology opens the window to the womb, more parents are in the position of having to make a decision to continue or end a pregnancy. Encourages parents to take a hard look at the medical, emotional, spiritual, and moral perspectives before they make their own painful choice about their baby’s precious life.

Code: PLPO Price: $12.95 Unspeakable Losses Healing from Miscarriage, Abortion, and Other Pregnancy Loss by Kim Kluger-Bell. Filled with stories of those who have experienced losses, has solid, practical advice. Includes mourning rituals and services.

Excellent for those who have experienced any type of pregnancy loss and those who care about them.

Code: USLO Price: $14.00 Embracing Laura The grief and healing following the death of an infant twin by Martha Wegner-Hay. After finding out Martha was pregnant with twins, she found out one of the twins would not live. The family made a painful decision of selective reduction. Martha gives you her story and how they grieved the death of one twin while celebrating the life of the other. There are many occasions for affirming Laura’s life. I wrote birth announcements for both babies.

Code: EMLC Price: $3.75 Beyond Prenatal Choice This pamphlet has been written for individuals who find out, through prenatal diagnosis, that their fetus has an abnormality, and choose to terminate the pregnancy. Provides some guidance and support for the days and weeks ahead.

Code: BPCC Price: $2.50 A Time to Decide, A Time to Heal For parents making difficult decisions about babies they love by Pineapple Press. 4th Edition.

Information on factors in the decision making process, continuing the pregnancy, interrupting the pregnancy, taking control, the hospital experience, couples healing together-healing apart, the days and weeks afterward, and the months and years that follow.

Code: ATTO Price: $9.95 More Than Surviving Caring for yourself while you grieve by Kelly Osmont.

This very helpful resource includes information about the grief process, how stress from grief affects us, motivators to caring for yourself, support=nourishment, touch and its healing effect, foods, supplements, quiet time, dreams, exercise, and a new beginning.

Code: MTSC Price: $5.95

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Newborn Intensive Care Infants teen miscarriage and adoption Baby Talk & Special Beginnings The first section describes invitation signs, time-out signals, and other ways you can help your baby grow and develop. Invaluable to NICU parents. The second section informs parents of their baby’s needs – how preemies need to feel love and warmth from mom and dad’s touch and presence. Addresses Parents’ emotional needs.

Code: BATC Price: $5.95 My NICU Baby Book This special baby book is meant to provide a valuable memory of your time spent in the Newborn Intensive Care Unit, to remember people who cared for your baby and for you, and to let you keep track of how your special care infant grows and develops. Includes growth charts, treatments, tests, feedings and good information for parents.

Code: MNIC Price: $9.95 Loving and Letting Go For parents who decided to turn away from aggressive medical intervention for their critically ill newborns by Deborah Davis, Ph.D. There are so many questions to ask: Questions about diagnoses, treatment, logistics, outcomes and prognoses. This book confirms the love, wisdom, courage and faith that lie in the heart of letting go, and offers support for finding peace.

Code: LLGC Price: $6.95 Why Mine?

For parents whose child is seriously ill. This simple and supportive booklet covers other children, your marriage, anger, hope, depression, single parents, and community people. When your child is ill you come to know a lot about fear. Fear of the unknown. What will happen? Fear of treatment. What will they do?

Code: WHMC Price: $3.25 Peace & Remembrance A guide for parents whose baby dies in a newborn intensive care unit by Maureen Shea, ACSW. A lovingly written book that begins with the decisions to be made at the hospital, contacting the funeral home, telling your other children, family and friends, grieving, the loss of more than one baby, and concerns.

Code: PARO Price: $3.80

Our New Baby Needs Special Help A coloring book for families whose new baby has problems by Gail Klayman. For small siblings whose new baby may or may not come home. Starts when child is excited about having the new baby, parents finding out there is a serious problem, and visiting the NICU. Perfect for child-life specialists! “Jane patted my shoulder. “We don’t know why some babies are born with problems. We do know it’s not because of anything we thought or felt.”

Code: ONBC Price: $3.95 New Baby A special book for big brothers and sisters. Perfect for sibling classes! This coloring book shares feelings and lots of self-worth. Shows how to hold baby, how much baby sleeps, and that the big sibling is loved.

Mommy and Daddy will help you hold your New Baby.

They will show you just how to be careful. Baby will seem so tiny. You will feel really big.

Code: NEBC Price: $2.00

Teen Pregnancy and Miscarriage

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After the Loss of Your Baby For Teen Mothers by Connie Nykiel. This booklet was written especially for teen mothers to help them learn about grief and the grief process. Includes medical definitions, information for the baby’s father, friends and family, grandparents, taking care of yourself, answers to frequently asked questions; includes a page to write a letter to the baby and a resource page.

Code: ALBC Price: $4.00 Given In Love For Mothers who are choosing an adoption plan.

By Maureen Connelly. This lovely book is one you want if you work with young mothers choosing an adoption plan. Includes Decisions, Mementos, Naming, Saying Goodbye, A Letter to Baby, and Adoptive Parents.

Includes a healing service for giving a child in love.

Code: GILC Price: $3.50

Memory Bands & Wallet Cards

For Siblings Katie’s Premature Brother El Hermano Prematuro de Katie English and Spanish Edition by Elizabeth HawkinsWalsh and illustrated by Anne Catherine Blake. A book for siblings of NICU babies. Shares fears, worries of young children. Come with Katie and visit her new brother. She couldn’t wait until that special day when he would come home. She already liked Christopher, and she just knew he was going to like her, too.

Code: KPBC Price: $6.95 No Bigger Than My Teddy Bear

By Valerie Pankow. For sisters and brothers of a healthy preemie. You’ll enjoy giving this to your children or your very young visitors. The first time I got to go into the nursery, I was scared. There were so many machines, lights, wires and tubes. I smiled because he was my new brother.

Code: NBTO Price: $6.95

One Who Soars Bands are a wonderful expression of grief. The white indicates the journey from the loss into more peaceful remembrance.

Code: OWSO Price: $2.00

In Mourning Bands Many families purchase these to give out at funeral services to family and friends, while others wear theirs privately as a way to tell others of their sorrow.

The black indicates sorrow and grief often deeply felt by the bereaved.

Code: INMO Price: $2.00 My Grief Rights Wallet Cards. The new wallet cards (packet of 50) are great for kids to carry with them and share with others.

Code: MGWO Price: $15.00

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Children’s Grief Resources Section Four: Children’s Grief Resources Creative & Healing Tools Page 27

Workbooks and Memory Books Page 28 Sibling Grief Page 28 Memory Bands Page 29 Pet Loss Page 29

Explaining Death and Grief Page 29-30 Illness Page 31-32 For Educators Page 32-33

Death of a Grandparent Page 34

Death of a Parent Page 35

Teen/Adolescent Grief Page 36 Suicide Page 37

Fear, Trauma and Homicide Page 37

Separation and Divorce Page 37

Creative & Healing Tools My Memory Bag This sturdy tote contains: 4A Teddy Bear 4A star-shaped stress ball 4A yo-yo 4Book: Tell Me, Papa The child could be encouraged to add their own special things to complete this memory bag. Ideas: clothing, pictures, photos, cards and other keepsakes.

Code: MYMC Price: $19.95 My Friends Dolls If you work with children who are grieving or in situations where strong feelings need expression, you want at least one of these to be your friend. There are four velcro-fastened expressions: Happy, Sad, Angry, Scared and Confused. Caucasian, Hispanic, AfroAmerican and Asian. Specify.

Code: MFDC Price: $95.00 Feeling Hearts Stones Pass them around a support group, or share them with a child and ask them to talk about their “feeling heart”. This soft bag contains small ceramic hearts to provide an opportunity to express emotion.

Code: FEHO Price: $20.00

25 Things To Do - Activities to Help Children Suffering Loss or Change by Laurie A. Kanyer, MA. Gives healing activities to do with your child, such as painted rock memorial, play acting, ball play, feeling faces and more.

Code: TTDO Price: $13.95

Doggone Grief Game Players pick dog tokens and roll the dice to move around the game board. When the token lands on an “emotion” space mad, sad, happy, scared or wild - the player picks a dog card.

The emotion cards show dogs in various activities that reveal their grief emotions, too. The card also includes a question or two for players to answer about themselves or their loved one who died.

Code: DGGO Price: $35.00 Memory Garden Bereavement Card Game Created by Lisa Arneson. A wonderful tool for caregivers helping grieving children express their thoughts and feelings. 65 cards in a deck, each illustrating the natural cycle of life with a beautiful flower garden. Discussion questions include: My favorite story about the person who died is. . . or The most difficult time is. . .

Code: MEGO Price: $24.95

Winning at Loss™ is a therapeutic and educational board game designed to help guide children through their grief. The game contains mostly open ended questions that encourage children to open up and share their feelings and beliefs and grief.

Code: WALO Price: $49.95

Help Me Say Goodbye By Janis Silverman Activities for Helping Kids Cope When A Special Person Dies. An art therapy book for children coping with the death of someone they love.

Sensitive exercises address the questions and fears kids may have.

Code: HMSO Price: $9.95

Explaining Death and Grief to Children

Healing Activities for Children in Grief Activities suitable for support groups with grieving children, preteens and teens by Gay McWhorter. A much needed resource for support groups. Written by a grief counselor, these activities provide the tools to allow children to express their feelings and remember their loved one. Activities include description of activity, purpose, recommended readings and supplies needed. Includes Starburst card game.

Code: HACO Price: $24.95

The Invisible String by Patricia Karst is a very simple approach to overcoming the fear of loneliness or separation with an imaginative flair that children can easily identify with and remember.

“People who love each other are always connected by a very special String, made of love. Even though you can’t see it with your eyes, you can feel it deep in your heart, and know that you are always connected to the ones you love.”

Code: ISOO Price: $16.95

Sweet Memories

By Elaine Stillwell. This collection of ideas will help children make scrapbooks and do special craft projects to memorialize a special person. While this book is written for children, the format is more appropriate for an adult to read and to help a child complete the activities.

Code: SWMC Price: $4.95

Waterbugs and Dragonflies A tender tale of death and new life, this mini-book uses the symbol of one waterbug, climbing a stalk to turn into a dragonfly, never to return. Includes a prayer for parents, Scripture and information for what parents can say.

Code: WADO Price: $5.00

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Children’s Grief Resources

The Next Place

By Warren Hanson. A classic that brings gentle verse revealing a safe and welcome destination free from earthly hurts and filled with wonder and peace. A comforting message of hope and a gift of compassion for the bereaved.

Code: NEPO Price: $16.95

How I Feel A coloring book for grieving children by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. A coloring book for very young children that explores the many feelings grieving children experience. Provides grieving children with the words to describe their new and sometimes scary feelings.

Code: HIFO Price: $2.00 The Fall of Freddie the Leaf A story of life for all ages by Leo Buscaglia, Ph.D. This is a story about how Freddie and his companion leaves change with the passing seasons, finally falling to the ground with winter’s snow.

Both children and adults will be touched by this inspiring story of the cycle of life. Hardcover.

Code: FFLO Price: $14.95 Healing Your Grieving Heart for Kids 100 Practical Ideas for Kids. Simple advice and activities for children after a death. Talking to other grieving kids can feel really good. It helps you know that you’re not the only one. You’ll make friends and get some good ideas for living with your grief.

Code: HYKO Price: $11.95 Lifetimes The beautiful way to explain death to children by Bryan Mellonie and Robert Ingpen. Outstanding illustrations provide a visual and safe way to begin explaining death to children. Can be used for very young children to explain the life cycles of all living things.

Code: LIFO Price: $14.00 A Bunch of Balloons A story for ages 5-9. Compares loss of a loved one with the letting go of a helium balloon. It’s especially good because it looks at not just what’s been lost, but what still is left.

Code: BUBC Price: $5.99 Sunflower Promise

By Kathleen Maresh Hemery, Illustrated by Augusto Bordelois. A new chapter book for children ages 8-12 who are experiencing the death of someone close to them. The morning sun and chirping birds fooled me into thinking it was another normal Saturday morning. But then that sick feeling came back, and I knew Davy would not go bike riding with me that day.

Code: SFPC Price: $4.99 Talking about Death is a classic guide for parents helping their children through the death of a loved one. With a helpful list of dos and don’ts, an illustrated read-along dialogue, and a guide to explaining death, Earl Grollman provides sensitive and timely advice for families coping with loss. Talks about reactions to different kinds of death, from the death of a parent to the death of a pet.

Code: TADO Price: $20.00

When Dinosaurs Die A Guide to Understanding Death by Laurie and Marc Brown. This colorful guide helps dispel the mystery associated with death and provides answers to the most often asked questions, such as: Why does someone die? What does dead mean? What comes after death?

Code: WDPO Price: $7.99 I Know I Made It Happen A Gentle Book About Feelings by Lynn Bennett Blackburn. We look at feelings when there’s a family fight, a divorce, illness, injury and death. Gives kids support and understanding during crises. It’s nice to know, though, that my wishes, and my thoughts, and my words, don’t make bad things happen.

Code: IKIC Price: $6.95 Tear Soup A Recipe for Healing After Loss. After Grandy suffers a loss she cooks up her own batch of tear soup.Gives you a glimpse into Grandy’s life as she blends different ingredients into her own grief process. Valuable for family members to share.

Hardcover.

Code: TERO Price: $19.95 Available in Spanish: Sopa de Lagrimas

Code: TESO Price: $14.99

Tear Soup DVD Code: TVDO Price: $29.95

What Does That Mean?: A Dictionary for Grieving Children by Harold Ivan Smith and Joy Johnson. Here are all the words that puzzle children and adults as well. How do you tell a six-year-old about cremation? What is a mausoleum? In this delightfully simple book, two leading bereavement authors give the meaning of the word, use an example or story, and quote a current resource to further explain.

Code: WDTC Price: $9.95 When A Child You Love Is Grieving Widely recognized grief specialist, Harold Ivan Smith, gives practical steps you can take to insure that a grieving child receives the necessary, healthy outlets needed during the loss of a loved one. If you are the parent, relative, or friend of a grieving child, you can learn to give that child support they need.

Code: WCYO Price: $14.99 Grief is Like a Snowflake

By Julia Cook (Grades K-8) With the help and support of his family and friends, Little Tree learns to cope with his father’s death by discovering what is really important in life, and that his father’s memory will carry on. Julia, and a lovable cast of trees, offers a warm approach to the difficult subject of death and dying. 32 pages.

Code: GLSO Price: 9.95 Sibling Grief How parents can help the child whose brother or sister has died. Begins with age appropriate grief responses, the parent as role model, typical responses of siblings, suggestions of what is helpful and returning to school.

Code: SGRO Price: $3.50

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Tell Me, Papa A gentle explanation for children about death and the funeral by Joy and Marv (Papa) Johnson. Tells children about what happens when you die; explains the funeral and cremation, and answers questions honestly. Useful tool for parents and caregivers searching for the right words to say. Remember though, being dead and being asleep are not alike. When we are asleep, our parts inside work away making us ready for the day. We move. We breathe in and out . . .You can tell the difference between being dead and being asleep. Revised.

Code: TMPC Price: $7.95

The Complete Book About Death for Kids

by Earl Grollman and Joy Johnson. The first part includes information about death, dying and the feelings you have when someone you love dies. The second section includes information about burial and cremation. The third section talks about the funeral and cemetery. Beautiful photos show the child what they will really see and answers the most commonly asked questions.

Code: CAKC Price: $7.95 Saying Goodbye

by Jim and Joan Boulden. Buddy the duck talks to children about death and grief. Buddy also explains funerals and things kids can do when they have different feelings.

Includes drawing pages and a goodbye letter. A funeral is when family and friends come together and remember the good things about the dead person. Sometimes the dead body is there to see or to touch if anyone wants to.

Code: SAGO Price: $3.95 Available in Spanish: Diciendo Adios Code: SYGO Price: $3.95 What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies?

Trevor Romain talks directly to kids about what death means and how to cope. He asks the kinds of questions kids have about death—Why? How? What next? Is it my fault? What’s a funeral?—in basic, straightforward terms.

He describes and discusses the overwhelming emotions involved in grieving—sadness, fear, anger, guilt—and offers practical strategies for dealing with them.

Code: WOEO Price: $8.99 The Grief Bubble Helping Kids Explore and Understand Grief…by Kerry DeBay. A special book for children ages 6 and older who have experienced the death of someone special. The interactive format invites them to find expression for their thoughts and feelings, encouraging the exploration of their grief.

Code: TGBO Price: $11.95 Spanish Edition: Code: TGSO Price: $11.95 Honey Bear Died by Jennifer Melvin. Finally a How-totell- 3-5 year olds someone has died! Adults often seek the words to tell a young person someone has died, especially those that don’t developmentally grasp the concept of finality. This book provides the necessary & developmentally appropriate basic wording; simple, inviting & interactive illustrations and an opportunity to incorporate the loved ones name. A must have for every grief center and family.

Code: HBDO Price: $11.95

Pet Loss

Remember Rafferty

by Joy Johnson. A book about the death of a pet. . .for children of all ages. This book is unique because of the scrapbook in the back for children to write down memories of their beloved pet.

Rafferty is a family dog that gets very sick. The family makes the difficult decision to end his life.

Talks about remembering your pet and grieving the loss.

Code: RERC Price: 4.95 Good-bye My Friend Grieving the Loss of a Pet by Mary and Herb Montgomery. For all ages. Offers consolation at the time of death and comforts the pet owner throughout the grieving process. Feelings common to loss are explored. Beautiful illustrations throughout.

Code: GMFO Price: $6.95 Ragtail Remembers A story that helps children understand feelings of grief

by Liz Duckworthy. Ragtail, a young mouse, has just lost his best friend, Tom the cat. As he tries to understand what has happened, Ragtail experiences many feelings. With the help of his new friend, he learns to deal with his feelings. Age 4-9.

Code: RTRC Price: $9.95 Children Also Grieve - Hardcover Talking About Death and Healing by Linda Goldman. The combination of narrative and interactive memory book in the first part of the book is designed to be read and worked through by children. The story tells of the experiences of Henry, the dog of a family whose grandfather has died. During Henry’s progress through the different stages of bereavement, he learns strategies for coping with his grief.

Code: CDGO Price: $22.95 Grunt by Suzanne Schlossberg Tamberrino.

Grunt, a beloved dog, begins to age and not feel well. The family has to make an agonizing decision about Grunt so he won’t suffer. The family has a precious memorial and burial for Grunt.

They realize that no dog can ever take his place, but they were happy to have so many wonderful memories of Grunt.

Code: GRUC Price: $6.95 Saying Goodbye to Lulu. A young girl and her lovable dog, Lulu, are the best of friends. They play games together, explore their neighborhood, and even cuddle up to read bedtime stories each night. Lulu is the best dog a girl could ever hope for, but when she grows older and gradually becomes weak, the little girl must face the sad possibility of losing her dear friend, and inevitably, cope with the death of her canine companion. Though she is deeply saddened by Lulu’s passing and misses her very much, over time the little girl discovers that the sweet memory of her beloved Lulu will live on forever... in her heart.

Code: SGOO Price: $6.99

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Children’s Grief Resources Sibling Grief, see page 24 also Since My Brother Died, Desde Que Murio Mi Hermano by Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne. Ages 5-12.

Includes both English and Spanish translations of a caregivers section, teachers section, and a story for children. In this book, the child talks about how things are different since his brother died. In the end, the child realizes his brother is still alive in his heart.

Code: SMBC Price: $6.95

The Empty Place A child’s guide through grief by Roberta Temes, Ph.D. Ages 5-10. When a sibling dies, there is an empty place in the house, at the table, and in her brother’s heart. Explores different feelings and positive ways to deal with grief. Includes information on beginning your own journal.

Code: EMPO Price: $8.95

Baseball Forever!Baseball is a universal sport, and one that Margie found to be a useful metaphor helping young boys process the thoughts/feelings associated with loss.

Using the metaphor of a baseball team, Margie’s book focuses on values and strengths which can be harnessed, allowing movement and transformation. The reader moves from grieving the loss of the physical presence of the loved one, into acceptance, resilience, and commemoration of them.

Code: BBFO Price: $9.95 Always My Brother Becky and her brother John were best buddies, telling jokes, caring for their dog Toby, and playing soccer. John was always there to cheer her up and help her out—until he died. Becky wishes everything could go back to the way it was. She gradually realizes that she can still enjoy the things that they used to.

Code: AMBO Price: $16.95 Lost and Found Remembering A Sister by Ellen Yeoman. In this beautifully written book, a girl’s sister dies of cancer. People around her say that ‘we lost Paige.’

As the family goes through the grief process, Alexandra discovers that she can always find Paige through art, memories, memorials, and Paige’s possessions.

Code: LAFC Price: $8.95 Aarvy Aardvark Finds Hope

by Donna O’Toole. Facing loss and grief isn’t easy, so most of us find it easier to do it indirectly. That is why this story uses animals. Aarvy finds strength and courage after dealing with losses in his life. He and his friends learn about life and love.

Code: AAFO Price: $12.95 A Sister’s Diary by Jodi Scheinfeld At the beginning of the summer between third and fourth grade, Jessica’s oldest brother Matt passed away in a terrible accident at camp. Desperately missing her brother, Jessica begins a diary in which she tells all of her deepest secrets, fears and hopes. Through her eyes we watch as the Allman family must come together to do what seems impossible.

They must begin to heal.

Code: SDOO Price: $14.95

Workbooks and Memory Books

When Someone Very Special DiesChildren Can Learn to Cope with Death and Grief by Marge Heegaard. Designed for children ages 6-12, to illustrate with pictures they choose to draw. Helps children learn about death and the feelings of grief and develop coping skills for life.

Code: WSVO Price: $9.95 Available in Spanish: Cuando alguien muy especial muere Code: WSSO Price: $9.95 A Child Remembers A healing keepsake journal for children ages 8-12 by Enid Traisman. There is a place for them to write or draw favorite things, finding out about the death, the funeral and memorial service, going back to school, day to day feelings and honoring their loved one’s life.

Code: CHRC Price: $6.95 Memories Live Forever A Memory Book For Grieving Children. Written and illustrated by Sharon Rugg. Words and pictures are created by young children. It is made to help children remember someone they love who died.

Code: MLFO Price: $5.00 Available in Spanish: Los Recuerdos Viven Eternamente Code: MLSO Price: $5.00 Love Never Stops A Memory Book For Children by Emilio Parga M.A. This activity book is for children who have had someone significant die in their life. Children today are faced with uncertainty and have many thoughts and feelings about their loss. This activity book will start the conversation between you and a grieving child. It is intended for children 6 to 12.

Code: LNSO Price: $7.95 Treasured Memories of a Special Person by Mary Herta Jamerino. This workbook can be used by any age child for the death of any loved one. It is full color throughout and includes pages for funniest memory, happiest memory, wishes, hopes, favorite foods shared and more. Includes a page for adults helping children grieve.

Code: TREO Price: $11.95 My Grieving Journey Book

By Donna and Eve Shavatt. A complete workbook that covers everything. Includes: I miss you, I feel sad, I don’t believe it, I don’t feel anything, It’s my fault, I don’t feel good, I’m scared, I have bad dreams, & a note to caregivers.

Code: MGJO Price: $11.95 After a Death The Dougy Center. With a mixture of creative activities and tips for dealing with changes at school, home and with friends.

We’ve included a variety of drawing and writing exercises to help children remember the person who died, and learn new ways to live with the loss.

Code: ADAO Price: $12.95

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Children’s Grief Resources Illness: For Children and Family In My World A Journal for young people facing a life-threatening illness by Linda Lazar and Bonnie Crawford of StarShine Hospice. Writing about feelings is healing.

The pages are to be filled with letters, memories, and reflections about life. Includes pages for daily thoughts and reflections, favorite things and letters to special people.

Code: IMWC Price: $6.95 Hospital Friends A coloring book to tell you about your hospital stay. We mention just about everything kids will see during their hospital visit. Checking in is called admitting. You will get a bracelet with your name on it. Here you will meet your first hospital friends. Your hospital friends will help you feel better.

Code: HOFC Price: $2.00 Life Isn’t Always A Day At The Beach A book for all children whose lives are affected by cancer. A workbook for the cancer patient or the child whose family member has cancer.

Covers all kinds of feelings and openings for creative ideas.

Code: LIAO Price: $9.95 When Someone Has A Very Serious Illness

by Marge Heegaard. The Drawing Out Series affirms that children can learn to cope with loss and change. Children are given the opportunity to work out their emotions during difficult times while learning to recognize acceptable behavior.

Code: WSHO Price: $9.95 Still My Grandma

By Veronique Van den Abeele. Camille learns that her grandma is sick, but “not the kind where you cough and blow your nose.” Grandma has Alzheimer’s disease, which is what makes her do strange things. And even though Grandma has to move out of her house and rely on nurses to care for her, Camille finds a way to continue their special traditions.

Code: SMGO Price: $16.00 Beyond the Rainbow A Workbook for Children in the Advanced Stages of a Very Serious Illness by Marge Heegaard.

This book offers an honest, gentle way to help children face the advanced stages of their serious illness. Through the creative and interactive drawing activities in this book, kids can learn to communicate openly about their illness.

Code: BTRO Price: $9.95 Living Well with My Serious Illness

By Marge Heegaard. An art therapy book for helping children cope with the early stages of a serious illness. Sensitive exercises address the questions children have during this emotional and troubling crisis. Children are encouraged to express their feelings through pictures.

Code: LWMO Price: $9.95

What About the Kids?

Understanding Their Needs in Funeral Planning & Services by The Dougy Center. This book addresses the best practices for funeral and memorial services with children and teens. Learn how to include children in these rituals and creative ways to involve them in the process. You will find suggestions from children and teens about what was helpful and unhelpful about the funeral or memorial service they attended.

Code: WAKO Price: $9.95 Preparing the Children Information and Ideas for Families Facing Terminal Illness and Death by Kathy Nussbaum. Information children need to know during the illness and during the death, what children need to heal from their loss, how children can express themselves, learn about integrating death into their lives and search for new meaning.

Code: PTCO Price: $9.95 Gifts of Life

By Jodi Puhalla-Neumann, LSW. This activity book is designed to help younger children cope with the impending death of someone they love by allowing them to draw and color the pictures that tell their own story. Activities address how to identify feelings and ways to cope with them, what grief looks like, and ways a child can show a dying loved one that they are special.

Code: GOLO Price: $6.00 My Always Memories

By Cheryl Hall-Kippen, LSW. A memory book created especially for a younger child to remember a loved one in their life who has died. The activities provide an opportunity to express feelings and identify supports when someone they love has died. Suggestions for how adults can help a grieving child are included.

Code: MAMO Price: $6.00

I Wonder What You Do on Your First Day in Heaven by Phoebe Welsh. I Wonder What You Do on Your First Day in Heaven is a thoughtfully written and illustrated book that offers consolation and hope to anyone who has experienced the loss of a loved one. It is a story about birth and celebration, death and grief, wonder and hope. Hardcover.

Code: IWWO Price: $16.95 How to Help Children Through a Parent’s Serious Illness has become the standard work on an important subject. Fully revised and updated, this new edition also explores the major issues and developments from the last decade that affect children today, including the dangers and opportunities of the Internet, a deeper understanding of how hereditary diseases affect children, the impact of the nation’s explosive growth in single-parent families, and new insights into how family trauma and a parent’s mental illness may affect children.

Code: HHCO Price: $16.00 Oodles of Doodles: A Hospital Activity Book by Art with Heart. You may be stuck in your room, but your heart and mind don’t have to be with oodles of doodles on every page.

Code: ODOO Price: $11.95

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Children’s Grief Resources Illness: For Children and Family, cont. . .

Gifts of Life for Teen When someone in your life is faced with a life limiting illness by Hospice of the Red River Valley. This book was created to give you a place to explore your feelings.

Includes journaling, reading, talking and not talking.

This book also provides tips for friends, parents and caring individuals wo want to help a teen during a difficult time.

Code: GLTO Price: $4.50 If I could be sick for you Just One Day by Kathy Cramer is a heartwarming story about the desire to give the gift we cannot give -- to take away pain and illness from those we love. This precious story takes you through a journey from rollercoaster rides to walking in the grass barefoot to smelling flowers and playing in the snow. A gift book.

Code: JODO Price: $14.95 The Life of Bud

by Laura W. Eckroat. The story follows Bud, who starts out in life as a tiny bud—he feels insignificant. But Bud grows into a beautiful, vibrant leaf on the Mighty Oak Tree and becomes a very important part of the tree. Those who have looked for a children’s book that explains gently about the topic of life and death, look no further. Explains to children and reminds adults that death is an important part of life.

Code: LOBO Price: $8.99 The Moon Balloon A Journey of Hope and Discovery for Children and Families by Joan Drescher/Foreword by Joan Borysenko, Ph.D. Open your heart, drop your fears, relax and get in touch with your feelings, this 40 page colorfully illustrated interactive journal. This wonderful resource has been used to help children of all ages express their emotions and feel better about themselves and the world.

Code: MBPO Price: $16.00 Kids Can Cope An Activity Book From Children for Children who are Living With Change and Loss by Emilio Parga, M.A. The book offers opportunities for children to describe what is happening, draw pictures, engage in other activities and learn more about themselves and the strength they do have to cope with change.

Code: KCCO Price: $9.95 A Tiny Boat at Sea How to help children who have a parent diagnosed with cancer

by Izetta Smith, M.A. Talks about telling the truth, explaining cancer, how to discuss cancer and the possibility of dying, showing feelings, school, and developmental stages for children facing the illness of a family member.

Code: TBSO Price: $7.95 Understanding and Supporting a Child or Teen Coping with a Death–A Guide for Parents and Caregivers by Jane Bradley Cameron.The author explains why it is important for children and teens to grieve, ways in which it is easy to misinterpret them, and how grief is experienced and expressed at different developmental stages.

Code: USCO Price: $10.00

For Educators

Grief Comes to Class An educator’s guide by Majel Gliko-Braden. Parent Council Review: Age Range: Parenting Teachers are often at a loss about how to help youngsters cope with grief. This is an excellent handbook explaining children’s understanding of death and helping them deal with their feelings when grief comes to the classroom. It includes a bibliography and outlines a process for a conference for a grieving student.

Code: GCCC Price: $6.95 A Teacher’s Guide to the Grieving Student Guidelines and Suggestions for School Personnel Grades K–12 by Hospice of Lancaster County. Begins with common reactions and behaviors for ages 5-18, loss of a parent, sibling, extended family, classmate, teacher, pet, suicide and sudden death. Includes 42 simple guidelines to help you.

Code: TGGO Price: $5.50 Helping the Grieving Student A Guide for Teachers from the Dougy Center, a national center for grieving children. Addresses issues that arise in the classroom after a death impacts a student, a classroom or a school. Includes practical tips and step-by-step information on what to say and do.

Code: HGSO Price: $9.95 When Death Impacts Your School A Guide for School Administrators from the Dougy Center, a national center for grieving children. Includes concrete suggestions for dealing directly with death, developing a school intervention plan after a death, deciding when outside help is needed, and addressing special issues around suicide or violence.

Code: WDIO Price: $9.95 The Grieving Student. Death and grief will affect the lives of almost all children at some point, often leading to struggles with academic performance, social relationships, and behavior. Teachers can be a critical lifeline for a grieving child-and now they have a practical guidebook to help them provide sensitive support to students of all ages. Author David Schonfeld is the national go-to expert on childhood bereavement.

Code: GSOO Price: $29.95 In If Nathan Were Here, author Mary Bahr gently explores the grief of a young boy whose best friend has died. With the help of an understanding teacher, a kind neighbor, and an empathetic parent, the boy finds ways to give expression to his questions and sorrow and to reach out to someone else who needs him.

Code: INWO Price: $9.00 Young People, Death and the Unfairness of Everything. Without opportunities to talk, young people’s anxieties about death can manifest themselves in all sorts of self-destructive and socially-destructive ways. In this book, Nick Luxmoore explores the problems that arise when death is not openly discussed with young people and offers invaluable advice about how best to allay concerns without having to pretend that there are easy answers.

Code: YPDO Price: $21.95

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Children’s Grief Resources For Caregivers, Parents and Professionals Healing A Child’s Grieving Heart 100 Practical Ideas for Families, Friends & Caregivers.

This book offers 100 practical, kid-friendly ideas for helping children grieve. An easy-to-use resource for parents, aunts, uncles, grandparent, teachers and coaches.

Code: HGYO Price: $11.95 Helping Children Cope with Death from the Dougy Center, a national center for grieving children. This guidebook contains information on a child’s understanding of death, developmental issues, how to explain death to children, and six basic principles about children and grief.

Code: HECO Price: $9.95 Children Grieve, Too

By Joy and Marv Johnson, along with Jackie Bell and Jan Roberts. Gives information to those who work with grieving children. Basic and reader friendly; talks about what you need to know and how children respond, from infants through teen to grief. Explains death and the funeral. References other resources.

Code: CGTC Price: $4.50 The Grieving Child A Parent’s Guide by Helen Fitzgerald. Offers practical, compassionate advice for helping children cope with death. Includes visiting the seriously ill child, using age appropriate language, selecting useful books, handling difficult situations such as murder or suicide, and deciding whether a child should attend a funeral.

Code: GRCO Price: $14.00 Lean On Me Gently Helping the Grieving Child by Doug Manning. Excellent for parents who want to help their children grieve while grieving themselves. Includes all the information about children and grief, plus resources.

Code: LOGO Price: $3.25 Keys to Helping Children Deal With Death and Grief by Joy Johnson. A complete book to help parents explain the idea of death in ways that are understandable to children. One of our best sellers, it includes sections on the process of grief, concepts according to age, death education, the funeral, grief education, big questions, special relationships, a glossary and resources.

Code: KEYC Price: $8.95

A Child’s View of Grief

By Alan Wolfelt. An informative, easy-to-read book that explains how children and adolescents grieve after someone dies. Answers many questions parents and caregivers may have. Includes children teach adults about grief, the role of caring adults, guidelines for involving children in funerals, adolescent mourning, and final thoughts.

Code: ACGO Price: $7.00

Helping Children Grieve & Grow A Guide For Those Who Care by Donna O’Toole.

Answers the questions caregivers may have, such as how can I understand the losses of children, how can I understand children’s grief, what can I say and do that will help, are there special concerns, and what helps children bounce back.

Code: HGGO Price: $4.95

35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child The Dougy Center. This guidebook presents simple and practical suggestions drawn from the experiences of thousands of grieving children and teens about what helps and what doesn’t. Learn what to expect from grieving children at different ages, how to provide safe outlets for children to express their thoughts and feelings, and how to support them during the memorial service, holidays and anniversary times.

Code: TWHO Price: $9.95 How Do We Tell the Children?

A Step-by-Step Guide for Helping Children Two To Teen Cope When Someone Dies by Dan Schaffer. This updated guide has been expanded to feature new material to help adults as well as children cope with the impact of traumatic events. Responds to children’s frequently asked questions with helpful answers.

Code: HDWO Price: $14.95 Great Answers to Difficult Questions about Death

By Linda Goldman. The author covers some of the common questions that children ask about death and provides sensitive yet candid answers in a way that children will be able to understand and relate to. Each chapter is devoted to a particular issue, such as religious beliefs, coming to terms with terminal illness, and fear of forgetting someone when they are gone.

Code: GADO Price: $15.95 The Journey Through Grief and Loss Helping Yourself and Your Child When Grief is Shared. This is the first book to address this very common dual grieving challenge. As a practicing psychotherapist for twenty-nine years, Robert Zucker can offer parents and other concerned readers important insights into managing their own grief while supporting their grieving children. Reassures you that you can be an effective parent while grieving yourself.

Code: TJTO Price: $14.99 10 Steps for Parenting Your Grieving Children

by Anne Hatcher Berenberg, Ph.D., Vicki Scalzitti, and Jack Cain. A reader-friendly handbook to guide parents and professionals through the days, weeks, and years after a child has lost a loved one to death. Clear, practical, and empathic help in understanding what to expect, what to say, and what to do. Special sections on death of a sibling, death by suicide, multiple deaths, when someone has been killed by another person, and trauma.

Code: TSPO Price: $10.00 Supporting the Grieving Child DVD is a must-have resource for parents, therapists, counselors, teachers and school administrators, members of the clergy, and anyone wishing to understand and support children grieving a death. The 23-minute DVD and companion guide provide a deeper look into the emotions and experiences of grieving children, and offer ways to help.

Code: SGSO Price: $49.95 Loss How Children and Teenagers Can Cope With Death and Other Kinds of Loss. Begins with basic ideas, explaining terminal illness and death, anticipating death, sudden and unexpected death, the funeral, and grieving process.

Code: LOSO Price: $3.00

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Children’s Grief Resources

Death of a Grandparent

Until We Meet Again. Treasured memories come from ordinary moments. Between one winsome grandfather and one lucky little boy are keepsakes of the heart... memories made by the two of them for all time. But their time together is coming to an end. With insight and tenderness, author Susan Jones tells the story of what comes next for a little boy who discovers memory-making is a language of love that can be whispered across the years. Refers to Heaven.

Code: UWMO Price: $24.95

Finding Grandpa Everywhere

By John Hodge. A wonderful resource for helping children understand death, grief, and remembrance, this is the story of a young boy who has been told that he has “lost” his grandfather. The boy remembers when he himself was lost in the mall and wants to help his grandmother find his grandfather. When he learns that his grandfather is not lost but dead, the boy remembers the old man’s kindness and love.

Code: FGEC Price: $7.95

Zayde Comes to Live by Sheri Sinykin. Rachel’s grandfather, her Zayde, has come to live with her family. This is because he is dying, she realizes. Rachel can’t help wondering where he will go when he dies. She asks her friends. She asks her rabbi. No one has the perfect answer, but eventually Rachel finds a way to make peace with the fact of her grandfather’s passing.

Code: ZCLO Price: $16.95

The Garden Angel

By Jan Czech. A young girl, grieving over the loss of her grandfather, decides to plant a garden in his memory. She is determined to do it herself, just as her grandfather has taught her. As the final touch, she makes a scarecrow from her grandfather’s clothes and angel wings from his quilt. As the garden is completed, the child allows herself to cry and begins the process of adjusting to her loss.

Code: GAAC Price: $7.95

The Complete Book About Death for Kids by Earl Grollman and Joy Johnson. The first part includes information about death, dying and the feelings you have when someone you love dies. The second section includes information about burial and cremation. The third section talks about the funeral and cemetery. Beautiful photos show the child what they will really see and answers the most commonly asked questions.

Code: CAKC Price: $7.95

The Memory Box

By Kirsten McLaughlin. Ages 4-9. A young child shares his feelings after Grandpa dies. He talks about all the things he will miss doing with Grandpa. The child decides to make a memory box out of Grandpa’s tackle box. He fills it with special items and all the memories of his Grandpa.

Code: MEBC Price: $4.95 Lilacs for Grandma

By Margene Hucek. Megan hid under the lilac bush under Grandmother’s bedroom window.

Grandma knew she was there. She heard the grown-ups talking about Grandma being ill. After grandma dies, Megan watches the doves build a new nest and gathers lilacs to bring to the funeral.

Code: LFGC Price: $7.95 A Mural For Mamita - Un Mural Para Mamita

by Alesia K. Alexander. English and Spanish versions of a story about a young girl whose Mamita gets cancer and later dies. Lux, the granddaughter, remembers all the special things about her grandmother and gets everyone together to create a fantastic mural.

Code: MFMC Price: $8.95 Goodbye Gram Helping children with the loss of a loved one is never easy. This heartfelt remembrance of a greatly loved grandmother helps children cope with the loss of someone special by helping them realize that although their special loved one is gone they will always live on in their hearts and the hearts of others.

Code: GBGO Price: $9.95 Memories Memories. . .remembering the very important person in your life who has died can be confusing and painful.

This memory book could be a support in accepting the loss and provide you with ways to express your thoughts and feelings about it. By Cheryl Hall-Kippen, BS, BSW, LSC

Code: MMIO Price: $4.50

Grandpa’s Soup

By Eiko Kadono. When Grandma dies, Grandpa is too sad to do anything. All day long, day after day, he sits by himself in his house. Then, one day, Grandpa wakes up and decides to try to make the soup his wife used to make for him. Unexpected visitors, hungry for soup, keep arriving at his door. Soon, Grandpa discovers that sharing with his new friends is the best cure for his loneliness.

Code: GDSO Price: $9.00

FEAR

Beautiful Dragons and Other Fears Workbook

by Joy Johnson. This extremely helpful book contains information about fears and activities for children of all ages. Workbook pages include drawing their fears, ways to overcome bad dreams, courage badges, deep beathing exercises and more.

Code: BDFC Price: $6.95 Stately Queens & Shining Knights A book for parents and caregivers helping children experiencing fear by Joy Johnson. A remarkable book for parents and caregivers alike. Includes history of fear, activities, what to expect; actions of children, kinds of fears and a dragon breathing technique.

Code: SQSC Price: $3.95 Reactions

By Alison Salloum. This excellent workbook can help children cope with grief and loss. This book provides places for individual responses, and also has suggestions for coping. It is written in simple but uncondescending terms, so children from six through fourteen will find comfort in it.

Code: RTTC Price: $8.95

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Children’s Grief Resources Death of a Parent

The Tomorrows Children Face When a Parent Dies -DVD. Whether due to a long-term illness or a sudden death, a parent’s dying is perhaps the most devastating loss a child, teen, or young adult will experience during their formative years. Many questions are answered by children, teens and young adults, in thier own poignant words. Featured are The Dougy Center for Grieving Children, a nationally recognized center for grieving children. 47 minutes.

Code: TCFO Price: $29.95

These two picture books by Margaret Holmes have gentle illustrations and reassuring text to help young children understand the grief process. The author uses descriptive language that would appeal to a grieving child. The books validate both the negative and positive feelings and the behaviors that are typical for children who have lost a parent. There is a caregiver section at the back of the book that could help adults answer questions and deal with particular concerns.

Molly’s Mom Died Sam’s Dad Died

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I Heard Your Mommy Died

By Mark Scrivani. You can use this book as a vehicle for talking about feelings and ways to cope with the death of a parent. Talks about the many changes that come and reassures the child that she is loved and will be taken care of.

Ages 3-7.

Code: IHYC Price: $5.95 I Heard Your Daddy Died

By Mark Scrivani. Memories, keepsake and wearing Daddy’s shirts for sleepshirts are all encouraged.

Whatever it is, your daddy is there in your heart. He loved you and you loved him. You still have a very big love, even though he died.

Ages 3-7.

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The Snowman

by Robin Helene Vogel. The Snowman was the first Tommy and Buddy built since Dad died. They had Dad’s old pipe. They found his favorite scarf.

His hat was ready and so were the big buttons for his eyes. And the two brothers were ready too, ready to talk about how Dad died and what his death meant to them.

Code: SNOC Price: $8.95

Sunflowers and Rainbows for Tia

By Alesia Alexander Greene. This story is about a child whose father dies at home. It follows the family from the night of the father’s death through the days following the funeral. The feelings of the child and the events surrounding her father’s death are realistically portrayed and caringly addressed. The illustrations are bright and colorful and the text is rich and descriptive.

Code: SFRC Price: $6.95 Children’s Grief How to help the child whose parent has died. Begins with basic ideas, explaining the death, the funeral and memorial service, the grieving process, special situations, adjustment and support.

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Dream Clouds by Alesia K. Alexander Lane and Illustrated by Nate Harris. A beautiful story about Adam, a young boy who loves baseball, bugs, and living in the city. He loves spending time with his family, and making wishes on clouds. When his mother dies suddenly, his wole world changes. Will the clouds be enough to hold his wishes now?

Code: DCOO Price: $9.95 The Scar by Charlotte Moundlic and illustrated by Oliver Tallec. When the boy in this story wakes to find that his mother has died, he is overwhelmed with sadness, anger, and fear that he will forget her.

He doesn’t know how to speak to his dad anymoreWith tenderness, touches of humor, and unflinching emotional truth, Charlotte captures the loneliness of grief through the eyes of a child. Hardcover.

Code: TSOO Price: $14.99 Mimi by John Newman. Age Level: 8 and up|Grade Level: 3 and up.Mimi’s life is off the rails since the sudden loss of her mother. What will it take to pull her and her family together? A spot-on, witty, and genuinely moving novel.But Mimi isn’t one to give up. In his solo novel debut, John Newman has crafted a story both touching and comic-- a portrait of loss, compassion, and the power that comes from sticking together. Hardcover.

Code: MMOO Price: $15.99 Daddy’s Gone by Millie Richmond. For ages 5-10.

Steps into the shoes of a young boy whose Dad has died recently. It validates his feelings of loss and offers a slice of hope, rather than a platter of platitudes. Brief and to the point, reaches out to children who experience such a loss and lets them know their feelings are normal. It also reaches out to adults, offering a perspective they may overlook.

Code: DGOO Price: $9.99 And Still they Bloom-A Family’s Journey of Loss and Healing by Amy Rovere and illustrated

by Joel Spector. Ten-year-old Emily and seven-yearold Ben must deal with the loss of their mother to cancer. Guided by conversations with their father, they embark on a journey of grief and healing, each searching for a path to acceptance. Hardcover.

Code: ASTO Price: $14.99 If Only by Carol Geithner. Age Level: 10 and up A stunning debut about one girl’s journey through loss and grief.Corinna’s world is crushed after her mother dies of cancer. How does she get through the funeral, trays of ziti, a father who can’t communicate, the first day of school, Mother’s Day, people who don’t know what to say, and the entire eighth-grade year? Despite her alienation from many of her peers, including her best friend, she succeeds in finding support. Hardcover.

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Children’s Grief Resources Teen/Adolescent Grief

I Will Never Forget You A Teen Journal of Love and Remembrance by Emilio Parga, M.A. founder of The Solace Tree in Reno, NV. 56 pages for teens to write about Memories, Grief, the Funeral, On Coping, On Love and Life, Keepsakes and Healing.

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Fire In My Heart, Ice In My Veins A Journal for Teenagers by Enid Traisman. Teens can write letters, copy down meaningful lyrics, write songs and poems, tell the person who died what they want them to know, finish business and use their creativity to work through the grieving process. Teens can share their journal entries, thoughts or illustrations with other grieving teens.

Code: FIMC Price: $9.95 When Death Walks In For teenagers facing death

by Mark Scrivani. Helpful and supportive information for facing grief during the teen years. Gives important information about grief and what we can do about anger, sadness and all the emotions that come when death walks in. More information was added including taking care of yourself, dreams, memorializing your loved one, and going back to school. Revised 2005.

Code: WDWC Price: $3.99 Straight Talk About Death For Teenagers How to Cope with Losing Someone You Love. By Earl Grollman. Explains what to expect when you lose someone you love. Discusses normal reactions, how grief can affect your relationships with family and friends, how participating in a funeral can help and how you can work through your grief and begin to live again.

Code: STTO Price: $16.00 Help for the Hard Times Getting Through Loss by Earl Hipp. Talks openly about what grief is, getting through grief, growing through the hard times, healing, the gift of loss, and what you can learn. Easy and fun to read with helpful information. Real quotes from real people.

Code: HHTO Price: $14.95 Healing Your Grieving Heart for Teens 100 practical ideas - simple tips for understanding and experiencing your grief by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. Offers 100 practical, realistic ideas and teen-friendly suggestions. It’s simple, easy-to-use format makes it an ideal resource for teenagers coping with grief.

Code: HATO Price: $11.95 Helping Teens Cope with Death From the Dougy Center, a center for grieving children.

Learn how a death of a loved one can impact a teen and how to help. Explains common grief reactions of teenagers, specific challenges grieving teens face, when to seek professional help, and advice from other parents.

Code: HTDO Price: $9.95 Teen Grief Relief Parenting with Understanding, Support and Guidance

by Dr. Heidi Horsley and Dr. Gloria Horsley. Teenage grief is hard, lonely, and painful. Parents want to know: How can I help? Teen Grief Relief provides both parents and teens with the help they need. Shared here are teen stories, feelings, techniques, references and resources for use in not only surviving but thriving after the painful loss of a family member or close personal friend.

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Facing Change Falling Apart and Coming Together Again in the Teen Years by Donna O’Toole. Talks about change and loss, what grief is, creating a support system, finding help; includes 75 positive things you can do when facing the death of a loved one, abuse, divorce, and more.

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Weird is Normal: When Teenagers Grieve by Jenny Lee Wheeler. Teens grieve differently from adults and often get lost in the shuffle after the death of a loved one. Jenny lost her father to cancer when she was fourteen and validates for her peers that they have the right to grieve in their own way and according to their own timetable, that their grief attacks might be different from those of adults around them, and that they aren’t going crazy if they see signs from their loved one.

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The Common Threads of Teenage Grief

By Teens who know and Janet Tyson. Written by a middle school counselor and nine teens, it is for teens, families and friends. Discusses struggles with grief, how they overcame it, and common questions teenagers ask.

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When a Friend Dies

By Marilyn E. Gootman, Ed.D. The death of a friend is a wrenching event for anyone at any age. Teenagers especially need help coping with this painful loss. This sensitive book answers questions grieving teens often have, like “How should I be acting?” “Is it wrong to go to parties and have fun?” and “What if I can’t handle my grief on my own?”

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A Teen’s View of Grief DVD by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. A 40 minute DVD on teen grief that contains in-depth information and compassionate advice. Throughout, Dr. Wolfelt’s teachings are interspersed with comments from actual bereaved teens.

Code: TVGO Price: $29.95 Helping Teens Cope with Death (21 minutes) is a window into the lives of six grieving teens who attended peer support groups at The Dougy Center. The DVD and guide are a resource for training purposes, or for general viewing by teens, parents, therapists, counselors, and others.

Code: HTVO Price: $49.95 Angel Catcher-A Journal of loss and Remembrance by Kathy Eldon and Amy Eldon.

Featuring brand new illustrations and a fresh updated look, the tasteful pages of this journal guide the userthrough the process of mourning and onward to a lasting sense of peace in the face of loss.

Code: ACOO Price: $18.95

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Children’s Grief Resources Suicide Prevention and Suicide A Teenager’s Book About Suicide Helping break the silence and preventing death by Earl Grollman and Joy Johnson. A workbook that includes information about the difficult teenage years, facts and myths about suicide, danger signals, emotional and behavioral changes, what you can do to help and breaking the silence.

Code: TBSC Price: $4.95 Hurting Yourself For young people who have intentionally injured themselves by Jeanne Harper. This book is for young people who have tried to kill themselves, hurt themselves or overdosed on accident or purpose. If you feel no one will listen to you, prove yourself wrong.

Code: HUYC Price: $3.50 Save the Teens: preventing suicide, depression, and addiction

by Carolyn C. Zahnow. The conception for the book came after her son’s one year anniversary of his death. She determined she had enough information on the topics that came between her and her son, that she wanted to share it other parents in hopes of preventing more suicides.

There is information on the mental disorders of major depression and bipolar disorder - the two most diagnosed among teens today. What is depression exactly and how do I know if my teen is depressed? And what causes depression? These are answered within the book.

Code: STNO Price: $16.95 But I Didn’t Say Goodbye For parents and professionals helping child suicide survivors by Barbara Rubel. A needed book for caregivers, this book has personal stories, questions and answers, and intervention strategies, plus up-to-date resources. Includes a worksheet with helpful discussion questions.

Code: BIDO Price: $14.95 Someone I Love Died By Suicide A story for child survivors and those who care for them by Doreen Cammarata. Designed for adult caregivers to read to surviving youngsters following a suicidal death.

Wondering if you could have done something to prevent this suicide is normal. Nothing you said or did would have changed what happened.

Code: SIDO Price: $15.99 After a Suicide A workbook for grieving kids by the Dougy Center.

Works through issues of finding out about the suicide, feelings, dreams and nightmares, questions kids have about suicide, talking with friends, going back to school, ways to honor and remember the person who died.

Code: ASWO Price: $12.95 Out of the Shadows

By Emilio Parga. A journal for pre-teens and teens who have had someone they love complete suicide. 40 pages for teens written from teens to document their feelings, write a letter, write a poem and write about memories on their own or in a group. Includes organizations, websites, facts about suicide.

Code: OOSO Price: $9.95

Homicide, Fear and Trauma Reactions

By Alison Salloum. This excellent workbook can help children cope with grief and loss. This book provides places for individual responses, and also has suggestions for coping. It is written in simple but uncondescending terms, so children from six through fourteen will find comfort in it.

Code: RTTC Price: $8.95 After A Murder A workbook for grieving kids

By The Dougy Center. Works through issues of finding out about the homicide, feelings, dreams and nightmares, questions kids have, talking with friends, and going back to school.

Code: AAMO Price: $12.95 Something Scary Happend to Me Helping kids who have experienced, or witnessed a violent or traumatic episode, including physical abuse, school or gang violence, accidents, homicide, suicide, and natural disasters such as floods or fire, can be a challenging prospect for counselors, parents and concerned adults.

English: Code: SCWO Price: $5.95 Spanish: Code: SCSO Price: $5.95 When Something Terrible Happens Affirms that children can learn to cope with loss and change. Children are given the opportunity to work out their emotions during difficult times.

Self-esteem increases as the child develops coping skills for loss and change.

Code: WSTO Price: $9.95

Divorce Talking About Divorce and Separation

By Earl Grollman, Illustrated by Susanna Pitzer You are now walking down the lonely road of separation and divorce. How will you tell your child that you will no longer live together as a family? Includes a storybook section for children and adults to read together.

Following is a section for parents to use to open up communication between the parent and child by giving discussion questions and helpful advice.

Code: TADC Price: $4.99 When Mom and Dad Separate Children Can Learn to Cope With Grief From Divorce by Marge Heegard. Designed to help your child understand and express the feelings they have about your separation or divorce. Activities in the book help develop coping skills.

Code:WMOO Price: $9.95 Loon Summer by Barbara Santucci.

Throughout the summer Rainie watches a pair of loons on the lake—watches as they lay eggs, hatch babies, and are together as a loon family.

“My teacher says loons stay together for life.

Why can’t you and Mom?” she asks her dad.

Loon Summer is an authentic, hopeful story of a child adjusting to the difficult reality of changes in her own family.

Code: LSOO Price: $9.00

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