Home for the Holidays, November 1, 2012 Edition by The Chautauqua Star

November 1, 2012

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HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS: STORIES TO REMEMBER BY l Inda S. tHOMpSOn QualityHealth.com

Many of us congregate around the dining room table during the holidays, whether it’s Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or New Years. These are the times when families come together in the spirit of reunion and caring. We listen to Grandpa’s stories about the good old days, and we watch Grandma put together that memorable recipe as no one else can. Do we ever take the time to consider what we will be missing when they are no longer with us? A time when we no longer hear, “When I was growing

up...” or “a pinch of salt is all it needs,” or “I remember when you were just a baby...” The history of who we are and where we came from resides with our elders, and it will be lost forever, unless it’s captured on paper or recorded. What will the dining table conversation of the future consist of when the folklore of days past is no longer shared? Yes, we will begin to create those warm fuzzy memories for our children and grandchildren to be passed along to the next generation. But in doing so, will those people and tales of the past be forgotten?

During this holiday season, consider asking the elders around your table to jot down their memories. Or, if they are hesitant to start writing, place a small recording device in the middle of the table and capture their words in their own voices. Put a digital recorder on the kitchen counter while Grandma or Mom creates that heavenly pie—the pie whose recipe resides only in her head. Ask these very special people what they think of today’s economic uncertainties. I’m sure you’ll get a history lesson beyond any you’ve learned in school. Talk about the politics of today and ask how things have dramatically

changed over the years. Once again, you’ll hear stories you never imagined possible. Fran’s Story Of the four books I’ve published, the one that means the most to me is Fran’s Story, The 90 Year Journey of a Kansas Farm Girl. I did not write most of this book--my mother did. This is the story of her life. She wrote it at my request about eight years before she left this world. You may never produce a book, but then again, you just might. It may be a piece that will pass from generation to generation within your family. But it is important to do it now. Once they are gone, you can never

go back. Once they are gone, those stories go with them--never again to be told around the holiday table. Even with my mother’s story in print, there are times I find myself saying, “I wish I could ask Mama about. . .” She is no longer with me to answer the questions I often posed about what life was like for her when she was growing up on a Kansas farm. She’s no longer here to tell me that my stuffing needs just a touch more salt or to tease me about the lumps in my gravy. It’s something that hits all of us at some point in our lives and can be the source of much regret. Don’t put it off until it’s too late. Start

preserving your family history this holiday season--you won’t regret it. It could be the greatest gift you’ll ever leave those who follow. Linda Thompson is the author of Every Generation Needs a New Revolution, How Six Generations Across Nine Decades can Find Harmony and Peaceful Coexistence, Planning for Tomorrow, Your Passport to a Confident Future, a common sense approach to life planning; and A Caregiver’s Journey, You Are Not Alone, a survival guide for working caregivers. To find out more about Linda’s presentations, workshops, and publications, visit lifepathsolutions.biz.

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THE POLAR EXPRESS COMES TO MEDINA, NY Coming to the Medina Railroad Museum

Departing Medina Depot, 530 West Ave., Medina, NY 14103

Nov. 24 & 25, Dec. 1, 2, 8, 9, 15, 16, 22 & 23 Trains Boarding at 3:30*, 4:40 & 5:55 pm First Class fare $45.00**, Standard Class fare $28.00

*3:30 is an early bird special at $23.00 with no 1st Class ** 1st class is Classic Cocoa Mug & Cocoa w/ Whipped Cream Topping.

Buy Tickets On Line at www.railroadmuseum.net Or Call 585-798-6106

Create wonderful holiday memories with your children while you live out a classic holiday tale The Medina Railroad Museum will bring The Polar Express train ride to Medina this holiday season! The Polar Express train rides are based on the holiday feature film from Warner Bros. Pictures and the beloved children’s book by Chris Van Allsburg about a doubting young boy who takes an extraordinary train ride to the North Pole on Christmas Eve. Set to the sounds of the motion picture soundtrack, pajama clad passengers will relive the magic of the story as this nighttime train whisks families away for an unforgettable ride to the North Pole. During the journey, the conductor will punch tickets and chefs serve hot chocolate, followed by a reading of Van Allsburg’s classic. At

the North Pole, Santa will board the train and greet the children! And Santa has a gift for those who truly believe - a silver sleigh bell. Medina Railroad Museum joins over thirty other officially licensed Polar Express Train Ride events nationwide this holiday season. The Polar Express holiday schedule consists of 24 train departures in November and December leading up to Christmas from the Medina Railroad Museum at 530 West Ave., Medina NY on November 24 and 25, and December 1, 2, 8, 9, 15, 16, 22 and 23 at 3:30 p.m., 4:40 p.m., and 5:55 p.m. Tickets are on sale now and start at $23 for everyone over 2 years old for the 3:30 p.m. daylight special, $28

for standard class at 4:40 p.m. and 5:55 p.m. First class tickets are also available on a limited basis and are $45 for everyone over 2 years old. Along with upgraded seating, all first class passengers will receive their own Polar Express ceramic souvenir cocoa mug! No first class seating at 3:30 p.m. on the daylight special. For tickets and event information, call Medina Railroad Museum at 585-798-6106 or visit www.railroadmuseum. net or www. polarexpressride.com. Be sure to make your reservations early as these trains are expected to sell out quickly. “All aboard!” - for those who truly believe!

Join us in Allegany County yere’s more to this county than natural beauty. Drive our scenic byways, visit our towns, and enjoy the many events that are part of the life and spirit of this special place.

Here is a sampling:

November/ December

Nov. 3 & 4: 4th Annual Holly Trail- 7 Locations & Craaers Nov. 10: Angelica NY- Holiday Bazaar &Pre-Christmas Sale & Primative Country Craa Show Nov. 17: Wellsville- Comfort House - Volunteer Training Nov. 29: Wellsville NY- Christmas Tree Lighting Dec. 2: Almond, NY- Almond Historical Society-Hagadorn House Christmas Open House Dec. 7 & Dec. 8: Belmont, NY- Several Artists Show & Sale Dec. 8: Wellsville, NY- David A. Howe Library Children's Christmas Party Dec. 16: Angelica NY- Luminaries, Living Nativity, Caroling, and Candle Lighting Ceremony Dec. 26: Swain, NY- Family Christmas Week At Swain Resort For more activities and events, please visit our events calendar

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OIL CREEK & TITUSVILLE RAILROAD SANTA EXPRESS 2012

Over the river and through the woods…. what a great way to spend the day on the Oil Creek and Titusville Railroad as we celebrate our annual Santa Express Train Excursions on Saturday, December 1 and December 8. The OC&T Railroad Santa Express travels down through Oil Creek State Park for a 27mile, 3-hour trip on a vintage train that takes you back in time. During your wintertime ride through the valley you will be able to see remnants of the oil industry; see replicas of

the old derricks along Benninghoff Run; or simply watch for wildlife that inhabits the Oil Heritage Region. Santa and all of his helpers will be onboard the train for your journey back in time. Christmas carols will be sung; led by area school choir members. This year a professional photographer will be at Perry Street Station to take photos with Santa and Mrs. Claus. In addition you will have many opportunities to take photos of your children and grandchildren on-board the train.

Bring your holiday cards along for mailing from the Railway Post Office car on the OC&T. We have the only operating car in the United States. The OC&T has a special commemorative stamp that you can purchase, and then have our special cancellation stamp indicating that it is mailed from the Oil Heritage Region. Refreshments will be available at the concession stand at Perry Street Station and onboard the train for your enjoyment. At the conclusion of the 2012 Santa Excursion, Friends of the Railroad

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will be providing complimentary cookies and hot chocolate before everyone returns to their cars for their trip home.

Reservations are not necessary, but would be greatly appreciated so we can make sure that we have enough cookies for everyone.

For further information or reservations, call 814-676-1733 or check out the web site at www.octrr.org.

Enjoy a beautiful ride through Oil Creek State Park with Santa and his friends. Bring your holiday cards and have them post marked from the only operating railway post office in the America today.

Complimentary homemade cookies and hot chocolate provided at the station at the end of the trip. Christmas caroling by area students; holiday photos available from a professional photographer and good family fun!

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CHRISTMAS IN THE COUNTRY: THE GALLERY AT ARTIST ACRES BY patrICIa p IHl Managing Editor

Winter Morning and Evening on the Farm are two works by Jody Westlund Shaw.

A barn with a fireplace and cozy haymow in Perrysburg provides a perfect backdrop for the artwork of Jody Westlund Shaw. A relative newcomer to art, Shaw, a grandmother of four has been painting for only seventeen years, turning her hobby into a successful business. Shaw built the barn which houses her gallery in 2001 and along with displaying her work also teaches art classes in her home. “I love to paint and have always admired the little cottage industry shops you find scattered throughout our area.” A native and Perrysburg town historian, Shaw says her family has lived in the same neighborhood since 1816, buying the acreage on which she lives and works from her parents. Shaw says she paints with acrylics, doing ﬂorals and landscapes and winter scenes and

also does commissioned work as time allows. For 16 years she has also taught painting, holding classes in her home where individuals or small groups gather around the kitchen and paint “while watching the birds and wildlife in her backyard.” As the art classes grew, it became obvious that her many students, ranging in age from 4 to 92, would benefit if she stocked supplies such as paints, brushes frames and surfaces. Being located in a rural area with no source for supplies, Shaw now stocks everything needed for successful artwork and offers these supplies for sale. The Gallery at Artist Acres also showcases the work of local artisans and quilters, jewelry makers, photographers, knitters and watercolorists. Wreaths and swags from the nearby Christmas Tree Farm also ﬂank the gallery for the holiday season.

I The Gallery at Artist Acres is open weekends after Thanksgiving through Christmas. Hours are Saturday from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. and Sunday noon until 5 p.m., or by appointment.

It is located at 12591 Wardtown Road in Perrysburg. For directions or other information, interested persons may call 716-532-1558 or 716-485-8234.

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Originally published as Pumpkin Trifle in Light & Tasty October/November 2002, p33

Ingredients 1 package (14-1/2 ounces) gingerbread cake mix 1-1/4 cups water 1 egg 4 cups cold fat-free milk 4 packages (1 ounce each) sugar-free instant butterscotch pudding mix 1 can (15 ounces) solid-pack pumpkin 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1/4 teaspoon each ground ginger,

nutmeg and allspice 1 carton (12 ounces) frozen reducedfat whipped topping, thawed

Directions In a large bowl, combine the cake mix, water and egg, beat on low speed for 30 seconds. Beat on medium for 2 minutes. Pour into an ungreased 8-in. square baking pan. Bake at 350° for 3540 minutes or until a toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean. Cool for 10 minutes before removing from pan to a wire rack. When completely cooled, crumble the

cake. Set aside 1/4 cup crumbs for garnish. In a large bowl, whisk milk and pudding mixes for 2 minutes or until slightly thickened. Let stand for 2 minutes or until soft-set. Stir in pumpkin and spices until well blended. In a triﬂe bowl or 3-1/2-qt. glass serving bowl, layer a fourth of the cake crumbs, half of the pumpkin mixture, a fourth of the cake crumbs and half of the whipped topping. Repeat layers. Garnish with reserved cake crumbs. Serve immediately or refrigerate until serving.

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Preheat the oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit. Roll out pre-made pie dough and place into 9" pie dish. Crimp edges as desired. Place in fridge to chill. Chop up pecans Lightly whisk the eggs and egg whites. Combine ALL ingredients in a bowl and whisk together, mixing thoroughly. Add to the pie shell. Bake at 350 for 38-45 minutes OR until the center has some mild “jiggle” left to it. Watch the crust... if it begins to overbrown, wrap in foil. Remove from oven and allow to cool and set. David Culver is the CoOwner and Head Chef of the Buster Brown Bean Company Café & Bistro in Fredonia. He is also a

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MANY HOLIDAY-RELATED OPPORTUNITIES AT AUDUBON If you want to be environmentally conscious during the holiday season or would just like to enjoy some different experiences – on your own or with your family – the Audubon Center and Sanctuary offers many opportunities. With five and a half miles of beautifully maintained trails on a 600-acre wetland preserve. Audubon is just a few miles south of the Jamestown city limits at 1600 Riverside Road, one-quarter mile east of Route 62. Audubon’s special holiday events begin on Saturday, November 17, with Thanksgiving with the Birds, a luncheon potluck featuring soup cooked on an outdoor fire, with guest speaker Jeanne Wiebenga talking about “Namibia, Africa’s Last Wild Place.” Stop in between 11 a.m. and 3 p.m. on the day after Thanksgiving for “Don’t Buy It: Make It!” and learn how to turn old things into new things to keep or to give away. During “Homemade Holidays” on Saturday, December 1, you can learn to make holiday decorations from sustainably

harvested local greens. Reservations are appreciated by Monday, November 26: call (716) 5692345, email info@ jamestownaudubon. org, or use the online form by clicking through the Program Listing at http:// jamestownaudubon.org. You can visit jamestownaudubon.org to learn how you can be part of the national Christmas Bird Count. If the week between Christmas and the New Year starts to get long, Audubon offers several good reasons to get out of the house! On Wednesday, December 26, you can take a behind-the scenes tour to learn how Audubon cares for Liberty, its nonreleasable bald eagle. And you’re sure to learn a thing or two when you join an Audubon teacher/naturalists for a hike on Thursday, December 27, or Saturday, December 29. These events are all from 10-11:30 a.m. From 10 a.m. to noon on Friday, December 28, you can get up close and personal with Audubon’s education animals at “Christmas with the Critters.” Reservations

are not required for any of these opportunities. Audubon’s regular events for November and December include presentations at the First Friday Lunch Bunch gatherings, Little Explorers for 3-8 year olds and their favorite adults on the second Saturday mornings of the month, and Nature Photography Club on the second Thursday evenings. Special non-holiday specific activities include afternoon and evening events on “Owl Day,” Saturday, November 10; a workshop on wills on Wednesday, November 14; and “Crochet Activism” on Saturday, December 8. Audubon’s three-story building contains a nature store and a collection of live fish, reptiles, and amphibians. Interactive displays focus visitors’ attention on ways to celebrate nature hands-on. One of the most visited exhibits is Liberty, a nonreleasable bald eagle. Normal winter hours are 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Monday and Saturday, and 1-4:30 p.m. Sunday. During the holidays, the Center will also be open the Friday after

Thanksgiving and the week between Christmas and New Years. Building admission is free to children and member adults. Nonmember adults pay only $5. Sundays are free admission days. All are welcome to visit Liberty, Audubon’s resident bald eagle, or to walk or cross-country Learning how to make beautiful wreaths to decorate ski the trails your home is just one of the special opportunities offrom dawn until dusk daily at no fered by the Audubon Center and Sanctuary this holiday charge (though season. donations are greatly For more information, and events, call (716) appreciated). Sorry, including pricing, 569-2345 or visit www. pets are not allowed on these and other jamestownaudubon.org. on the trails. Audubon programs

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Artist Acres

Featuring the work of Jody Shaw and other local artists

Season Opening November 24 & 25 Saturdays & Holidays 10am – 5pm Sundays 12pm – 5pm Until Christmas

About Jody Shaw

Jody Shaw came to the art world about 16 years ago and has blossomed into the world of local fame. She teaches classes in her home and enjoys all the folks she meets. Her work has been displayed in various arenas: restaurants, physician's offices, at Water's Edge on the Dunkirk Pier as well as select craft shows. The Gallery is in her barn where a fireplace in the haymow makes a cozy gathering place for the months of November and December is a dream come true.

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COMING HOME TO HOSPICE A PERSONAL VIEW

BY SCOtt WISe Senior Copy Writer

“You never lose the ones you love, when you love the ones you lose” There are a plethora of famous quotes that paint a picture of life and death. The holidays are often a time when, more than any other time, we think about those who aren’t celebrating with us.

For eight years, Hospice has annually given residents an opportunity to honor and remember those that have gone before us. For eight years, residents of Chautauqua County have taken part in ‘Light a Life,’ a program to bring awareness to and raise funds for such an important part of our county. The Light a Life Memorial Tree Lighting Ceremony provides a great, consistent opportunity for folks to come home to. As a writer and editor for the Chautauqua Star, I’ve had the pleasure of getting to work with Hospice recently, as we’ve begun a joint endeavor to promote involvement in Light a Life. To recap, Hospice will

be lighting several trees in several communities throughout the holiday season. These trees will be decorated to the hilt with red bowsat a cost of only $5 each. The bows give you an opportunity to remember and to honor those who can’t be here to celebrate. I must admit that, before my involvement in this project, I was far from what would be considered a knowledgeable source when it came to Hospice. However, since educating myself, I’ve learned that they are one of the most respected and effective organizations this great area has to offer. In speaking with numerous individuals who’s lives have been personally and profoundly affected by

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Hospice gave them. This holiday season, I encourage you to take part in the Light a Life event. We’ve written about it often for the past few weeks, and we’ll continue to do so as part of an ongoing effort to promote involvement. Go to www.

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10 TIPS FOR HOLIDAY TRAVEL

I ndependent traveler Planning to visit Grandma’s for Thanksgiving or spend Christmas in Paris? Traveling over the holidays can be notoriously busy, expensive and stressful, but the news isn’t all bad. There are still deals to be found, provided you shop carefully and plan ahead. Check out these ten tips for safe Holiday travel. Avoid peak travel dates. At Thanksgiving, Wednesday is the critical outbound “avoid” day as a rule. Traveling on Thanksgiving day proper is often a breeze and more affordable; there are often cutrate airfare deals on Thanksgiving day. On the return, Friday morning isn’t bad at all, with each successive day getting a little busier, more difficult and more expensive through Sunday evening. The bottom line: If you are looking for a deal, you won’t find

one on the peak travel days. Travel off-peak whenever possible. Christmas and New Year’s Day fall on Sundays this year, which means that the Friday before and the Monday after will be extremely busy Book early. Haven’t booked your holiday travel yet? It’s time to stop waiting and start booking. Fares are only rising as Thanksgiving approaches, so those who hold out in hopes of a late-breaking sale are likely to get left out in the cold or pay a very steep price for their procrastination. The same goes for the Christmas holiday; book sooner rather than later, particularly if you require very specific travel dates or times. With the current state of the airline industry, it is never too early to book your holiday travel ﬂights. Shop around. Whether you’re using booking sites like Travelocity, bid or auction sites such

as Priceline, aggregator sites, or our very own travel deals, comparison shopping has never been easier than it is right now. During peak travel season, casting the net as wide as possible will help you understand all of your options. For many travelers, price isn’t the only or even the most important factor, especially during the holidays. Thoughtful, deliberate use of the “search adjacent days or airports” features found on many Web sites may also surrender greatly improved fares and travel times. Know your airports. Checking alternate airports is a pretty standard tactic, but at this time of year it can really make a difference. At no time can the alternate airport gambit pay off better than during the holiday crush. You can score on almost every front -- parking, rental cars, traffic to and from, nearby hotels -- and save both time and money. For example, a recent flight to Hanscom airport outside Boston dropped me right into Thoreau and Minuteman country near the peak foliage season, offering a very different experience than flying into Logan. Upon my return, the car rental agent informed me that my flight might be running late and let me hold onto the car keys until we were sure that the flight would take off, with no additional fee. Only at a small airport can you get that kind of treatment. Also, keep in mind that smaller airports see fewer flights and, typically, fewer

delays -- not a minor consideration during the busy holiday travel season. Plot connections carefully. When booking flights, check your search results carefully for sufficient time during layovers, and build in some time for flight delays and weather woes. Particularly during the winter months, peak travel times often bring peak travel delays, and your connection is more likely to be jeopardized. Avoiding really tight connections may save you a sprint through the terminal or a missed flight. Also, it is best if you can muscle your flight path into position so that connections are in places less likely to experience delays -- specifically, airports in warmer climates. Leave early. During peak travel times, much of the trouble you’ll face lies on this side of the security check-in, from traffic jams and full parking lots to absent shuttles and long lines. Rather than striving to “arrive at the airport early,” you may want to try to “leave for the airport early” to anticipate all the peripheral delays you may encounter. Pack wisely. In the past, you may have been able to fit everything into your

carry-on without having to check any baggage -- a strategy we still recommend. However, the TSA rules about liquids and gels make this a trickier proposition. For the record, you may bring liquids and gels in 3.4-ounce or smaller containers, packed within a single, quartsize, zip-top, clear plastic bag. You’re also allowed to bring any liquids (such as coffee or water) or gels purchased after you go through a security checkpoint onto your plane with you. If you want to bring more than the 3.4-ounce amount, you’ll have to pack the items in your checked luggage. When packing, keep in mind that most airlines are now charging travelers a fee for checking any bags on domestic ﬂights (and even some international ones). Use the Web for more than just booking The latest self-service developments in online travel can be tremendous time-savers during peak travel times. Whenever possible, print your boarding passes at home or use check-in kiosks. These services are no longer restricted to the airport, and can be found in hotels and other places in increasing numbers.

Think about doing your holiday shopping online and having your gifts shipped to your destination. This will cut down on luggage and the risk of them getting lost. Travel early or late in the day. As a rule, airports are least congested at times when normal human beings would rather be at home or even asleep. Delays are far less likely for morning flights, and airports usually unclog as the afternoon and evening peak passes. A couple of caveats: Staffing can be spotty for really early flights, so although your flight is highly likely to be ready to leave on time, check-in may take a while, along with other personneldependent steps like riding shuttle buses. Consider package deals. Peak travel periods can be the best time to buy package deals, even for folks who would never buy one, as the bundled pricing offered by packages can be very competitive, even (or especially) at times of high demand. I’m traveling on a package over Thanksgiving, and am almost stunned at the offer; you can barely afford to stay home at these prices.

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HOLIDAY CRAFT & GIFT SHOW NOV. 10 AT FAIRGROUNDS

This alternative to mall shopping offers customers some unique and one-of-a-kind items that aren’t found in stores, hand painted ornaments to custom hand engraving. A Holiday Craft & Gift Show featuring local artisans and crafters is scheduled for Saturday, Nov. 10 from 10 a.m.4 p.m. in the Ag & Expo Building of the Chautauqua County Fairgrounds, 1089 Central Ave. Dunkirk. There will be over 45 booths to choose from. This alternative to mall shopping offers customers some unique and one-of-akind items that aren’t found in stores, hand painted ornaments to custom hand engraving.

THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY TRADITIONS AND HOW TO CREATE THEM K aren BaneS Family traditions are, unfortunately, one of the great casualties of modern times. As families become more fragmented and disconnected, there is less time and opportunity to enjoy the simple traditions that were once a natural part of family life. Modern households often have a TV and/or computer in every room, so even a small ritual like all sitting down to watch a favorite program may just not happen any more. Christmas should be a time for family traditions, but it’s not necessary to restrict traditions to the holiday season. Sometimes holiday festivities are a good way to kick start traditions that can become seasonal

favorites or that can be incorporated into family life year round. Twenty first century family life looks a lot different than it did fifty, or even twenty years ago. Parents’ hectic work schedules may mean that eating as a family, taking a family walk, or going on a day trip are sometimes impossible. Family vacations require military style planning to get everyone together and Christmas, once a holiday awash with loving, meaningful, family traditions, all too often involves a painful and complicated process of trying to balance which of two estranged parents gets the biggest slice of their kids’ time and attention over the holiday season. Many of us remember and miss the little rituals

that formed the basis of our own childhood, yet don’t see a way to fit them into a life that is so different from that of our parents when we were growing up. Family traditions can be a way to reconnect and create a much needed sense of belonging, and for those no longer part of a “traditional” family set-up, setting traditions can be even more important. Traditions don’t have to be timeconsuming either, although it’s worth taking a moment right now to think about the fact that spending time together is what family traditions are all about. If you can’t set aside at least a little time to create some meaningful traditions, you probably really need to reassess your priorities.

Shoppers will also have the opportunity to shop for that very special gift of hand poured candles, bath teas, baked goods, home made fudge and Christmas décor. Also for sale is silver art, beach glass jewelry, hand painted glassware, kitchen towels, specialty dips, hard candy, hand crafted ceramics, stocking stuffers, yard and garden accessories and hand turned pens. Meet the musician, Scott Adams, as he plays his holiday CD’s. His Christmas music will

fill the air creating an atmosphere of holiday shopping delight. This event has free admission. The fundraiser booth this year offers an assortment of Chinese auction baskets, and will benefit the MS Society. Free admission will include a ticket for door prize drawings of $20 each, to be “spent” with the Crafter of your choice! Food is provided for purchase to benefit the local 4-H. The public is encouraged to come, enjoy and get a start on holiday shopping, while supporting local businesses. For more information contact Shelly Odebralski - Blessings Everywhere Studio at 965-2956.

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GREATER BUFFALO TRAIN AND TOY SHOW This is easily the largest train and toy show in the Western New York area this year! The show will be held at the Event Center and Expo Hall on the Fairgrounds in Hamburg, NY on Saturday, November 17 and Sunday November 18. Show hours are 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturday and 10 a.m.

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to 4 p.m. on Sunday. This show is for kids of all ages. Casual model train fans, serious hobbyists and families can view the huge operating layouts, over 425 tables that vendors from across the region will have filled with thousands of model trains, collectible toys, railroad collectibles,

dolls and accessories. Admission to the show is $7 for adults and kds (age 12 and under) are admitted free to the show. Look for the $2 coupon in the “Star” for additional savings. This will be the 31st annual show that the Western New York Railway Historical

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In our lives, there are many holidays, or “special days,” such as birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, weddings and Easter to name a few. These are difficult days for some of us and it seems that the most difficult holiday of the year is Christmas. This day more than any other means “family together.” They are synonymous, and it is at this time we are so acutely aware of the void in our life. We continually hear Christmas carols; people wishing everyone “Merry Christmas” and so on. Feelings of isolation and loneliness can magnify during these times of warmth and cheer. I myself have spent one Christmas alone as well as a few Thanksgivings. Certain members in my extended family (which is a large family) felt that I had too many problems to be included. It is not uncommon for family members to avoid us when our lives aren’t going well. It doesn’t hurt any less however. I remember that same Christmas, my father actually sent out Christmas cards to all the members in the family - all my cousins, my aunt and uncle... everyone but me, his own daughter. Ouch!

I was “bad” because I could not get my life together and I believed that lie at the time. How to Handle the Pain of the Holidays Dr. Calvin Frederick, formerly of the National Institute of Mental Health, estimates that there is a 15% increase (this number may have increased) in the number of people seeking professional help during the holiday season. He suggests several things you can do to help raise your spirits. 1. First, stop putting unreasonable pressure on yourself to be happy during the holidays. When you have legitimate reasons for being happy, acknowledge them and be gentle with yourself. 2. You may find your mood improves when you’re in the company of special friends and favorite relatives especially those who accept your full range of feelings and don’t put pressure on you to be other than who you are. So seek out people who make you feel better, and avoid people who contribute to your depression. 3. Make an effort to be more physically active. Physical activity is one of the best ways to make yourself feel better. Recent research indicates that exercise stimulates the production of endorphins, moodelevating chemicals produced by the body. Take a walk, go to the gym, get out in the country, or take on a project that calls for physical activity. 4. Many people regain control and their equilibrium when they set on or two specific, manageable goals every day - even if they are as simple as cleaning out a closet or drawer or writing a letter. The

satisfaction they get from completing these tasks adds to their sense of well - being and self - respect. 5. Watch your intake of alcohol. While a few drinks may make you feel temporarily euphoric, alcohol is a depressant and often ends up making you feel worse than before. If you are having trouble sleeping, have lost your appetite, have continuing thoughts of hopelessness and despair, seeking professional help may be wise. Listed below are some ideas and suggestions that others have found helpful in coping with the holiday season. Choose the ones that help you. 1. Family get-togethers may be difficult. Be honest with each other about your feelings. Sit down with your family and decide what you want to do for the holiday season. Don’t set expectations too high for yourself or for the day. If you wish things to be the same, you are going to be disappointed. Do things a little differently. Undertake only what each family member can handle comfortably. Initiate activity yourself; do not wait for others. 2. There is no right or wrong way to handle the day. Some may wish to follow family traditions, while others may choose to change. 3. Keep in mind the feelings of your children and/or family members. Try to make the holiday season as joyous as possible for them. 4. Be careful of “shoulds” - it is better to do what is most helpful for you and your family. If a situation looks especially difficult over the holidays, don’t get involved if possible.

5. Set limitations. Realize that it isn’t going to be easy. Do the things that are very special and / or important to you. Do the best you can. 6. Once you have made the decision on the role you and your family will play during the holidays, let your relatives and friends know. Time spent by yourself can also be rewarding. 7. Baking goodies and cleaning the house can get out of proportion. If these chores are enjoyable, go ahead, but not to the point that it is overtiring. Either buy baked goods, or go without this year. 8. If you used to cut down your own tree, consider buying it already cut this year. Let your children, other family members, or neighboring teens help with the decorating of the tree and house. If

you choose not to have a tree, perhaps you could make a centerpiece from the lower branches of a tree, get a ceramic tree, or a small tabletop tree. 9. Emotionally, physically and psychologically, the holidays are draining. You need every bit of strength. Try to get enough rest and exercise. Be aware of the increased accessibility of sugar, caffeine, and alcohol during the holidays and guard against overuse of these substances. 10. What you choose to do the first year, you don’t have to do the second year. 11. One possibility for the first year may be to visit friends, relatives, or even go away on a vacation. Planning, packing, etc. keeps your mind somewhat off the holiday and you share the time

in a different way. 12. Some people pretend Nov. 25th is Christmas and try to get whatever shopping, card writing, etc. done by that date. This way you can avoid to some degree the carols and the wishes from clerks and strangers of a “Merry Christmas.” 13. If shopping is too much, have your spouse, relative or close friend help you. Consider shopping through a catalog. 14. If you are accustomed to have Christmas dinner in your home, change and go to relatives; or change the time (instead of 2 p.m., make it 4 p.m.). Some find it helpful to be involved in the activity of preparing a large meal. Serving buffet style and or eating in a different room may help.

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PINTEREST PROVIDES HOLIDAY INSPIRATION SQUIdOO.COM

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they take themselves. Just like any other social network, users can follow the boards of friends, like things others post, comment on each others' pins, and re-pin things they find interesting. They can even share things they like on Facebook, on Twitter, in email, and they can even embed individual pins on their blog. Why do so many people love Pinterest? Self-Expression Pinterest, first and foremost, is a place for people to express themselves. The premise behind the website is for people to create virtual bulletin boards and "pin" what they find interesting to them. They can create as many

boards as they like for as many different aspects of their lives as they want. Pinterest allows for a form of self-expression online that other social networks don't. It is based almost entirely on images. It's perfect for our visual society. People can express themselves and fulfill that need we all have. Curiosity Pinterest allows you to follow other people on the website. That means you can see what they are pinning to their boards. This can be quite fascinating to the Pinterest user. You can learn more about people you already know or people you're just getting to know. The fact you can see what others are pinning to their boards makes Pinterest

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quite intriguing to many people. It makes it quite a fascinating place for people to hang out. Creating Digital Memories Everyone loves creating memories. Pinterest boards are like virtual scrapbooks. The user can create several boards for what's important to them at that moment in time. As with anything in life, the user will change over time so the boards capture a digital snapshot of that time period in their lives, their likes and dislikes, their hopes and desires, for that time when it was created. Community Who doesn't love to see what their friends like? Who doesn't want a peek into

someone else's dreams for a moment? Want to see what recipes your friends are collecting? Want to see crafts all your mom friends are planning for the upcoming holidays? Want to see what new cars the family down the street are considering? All of that can be seen on Pinterest. It's a way to get a peek into someone else's life. Life Planning Some people use Pinterest for planning. There are stories of people using it to plan a trip or even plan an entire wedding! Whatever you are planning, Pinterest offers a place for you to organize everything. You can split different aspects of your planning into different boards or put it all into one board.

Escape Sometimes you just need to escape for life for a few minutes. One reason people love Pinterest so much is because it offers them that. They can hop on and see what their friends are pinning. Or they can surf the web and find things they want to put on their boards. But Pinterest is all about escaping from life for just a little while. There are a number of reasons people love Pinterest. Whether it's the community they build, the curiosity they have about others, or just a way to escape and relax, this website is changing the way people interact online. It's a website that has hit the social media web with a bang and has many adoring fans.

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