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UP HOW TO HANDLE TWINS

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THE PORTLAND HOSPITAL TALKS

BUGGY REVIEW

BIRTH PLANS

Silver Cross Pioneer

LOOK WHO’S TALKING

Vogue Williams

Expert advice on speech development

MY PREGNANCY JOURNEY

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Blake Lively discu sses the joys, fears and tears that come wi th motherhood (p.

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Ayla wears knitted top, £29, Selana at Luna & Curious. Bloomers, £43, Tocotó Vintage. Bonnet, £33, Tocotó Vintage. Booties, £12, Gooseberry Fool.

Wooden rattle, £23, Liewood at Smallable. Blanket, £45, Tocotó Vintage. Basket, £17.50, Olli Ella.

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FEATURES

60 LOOKING LIVELY Hollywood actress and mother of two Blake Lively talks films and family 67 PARTY TIME: FIRST BIRTHDAY Carole Middleton shares her favourite gift ideas for baby’s first birthday 68 FEET FIRST How to find the right footwear for baby 70 BEHIND THE BRAND: JEM + BEA Natalie Keeler meets the co-founders of the luxury changing bag label 76 PLAN OF ACTION Shazia Malik from the Portland Hospital talks through drafting your birth plan 78 SEEING DOUBLE Everything you need to know about parenting twins 84 THE WAITING GAME What to do if baby is overdue

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92 LOOK WHO’S TALKING Georgina Blaskey investigates how to encourage your little one’s speech 94 TAKE TWO? If you’re thinking about having a second child, here’s how to get your body ready 96 CAN YOU HEAR ME? Becky Dickinson tunes into baby hearing 98 BABY BOOSTERS Get your child’s immune system ready for winter with these top health tips 106 THE OBJECT OF THEIR AFFECTION Uncovering the myths of transitional toys

STYLE

38 SWEETNESS AND WHITE Keep baby warm this winter with dreamy creams and cosy textures 55 UNDER WRAPS Key wardrobe staples to see you through those chilly November days Be inspired by our pick of new-season numbers on p.23

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BABY LOVES Why Avery Row’s new Stay & Play mat should be top of your shopping list 23 SHOP THE THEMES New season fashion for baby’s wardrobe 104 BEAUTY SLEEP Create an original and stylish nursery with these aww-inspiring finds

FOOD & TRAVEL

109 FOOD NEWS The latest and greatest treats for babies, children and parents 110 SEASONAL SNACKING Get baby’s weaning off to a healthy start with these delicious and seasonal recipes 115 TRAVEL NEWS The newest escapes for young families 116 TAKE A BREAK Jo Caird travels the globe to find the very best crèches for under-twos

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Editorial Director Maxine Briggs Acting Editor Rebecca Moore Online Editor Jennifer Read-Dominguez Sub Editors Natalie Keeler, Laura Sutherland Editorial Assistant Annie Quinton Creative Director Chloë Collyer Senior Designer Natalie Dourado Freelance Designer Maggie Bonner Contributing Editors Clare Byam-Cook, Emma Cannon, Georgina Cohen, Marina Fogle, Chiara Hunt, Carole Middleton, Jade Parfitt, Natalie Pinkham, Kate Silverton, Zita West

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Publishing Director Paul Rayner Director of Media James Dobson Head of Market Lyndal Beeton Senior Sales Executive Carly Bell Sales Executives Caroline Kimber, Katie Amps Digital and Creative Solutions Manager Ben Leek

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BABY NEWS Keeping you in the know with all things great and small DATES FOR YOUR DIARY What’s going on in the UK this November WIN! AN UPPABABY MINU This stylish stroller and matching carrycot could be yours MY ESSENTIALS Irish TV presenter Vogue Williams talks jewellery design, maternity fashion and keeping fit while pregnant FIRST READS Emma O’Donovan rounds up the best books for baby’s development INSTAGRAM INSPIRATION Mum blogger and influencer Cassie Chung talks online life and days at the beach with her kids LEO’S LITTLE LUXURIES Leonora Bamford shares her favourite things this month MATERNITY FASHION NEWS Fabulous fashion finds to style your bump throughout winter

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Managing Director Paul Dobson Deputy Managing Director Steve Ross Chief Financial Officer Vicki Gavin

Vogue William s reveals her fa vourite maternity fash ion n s p

59 DIARY OF A MUM In her latest column, Joanna McGarry celebrates the motherhood community 64 TOT GEAR NEWS What’s new in baby kit, plus we review the special-edition Silver Cross Pioneer 75 HEALTH & BEAUTY NEWS What’s new in the world of wellbeing 83 Q&A WITH ZITA WEST The fertility expert shares how to make the most of your maternity leave before baby arrives 86 TIME TO TALK Marina Fogle and Dr Chiara Hunt discuss the remedies you can and can’t use during pregnancy 88 MEET THE EXPERTS Our healthcare professionals answer your questions about pregnancy and beyond 91 THE BREASTFEEDING CAFÉ Sioned Hilton uncovers the effects of caffeine on your breast milk 100 THE REVIEW Laura Mason puts the very best travel cots to the test 104 INTERIOR NEWS Stylish and inspiring finds to make your house a home 122 INSPIRE We chat to Wrightson & Platt’s business owner, Gunnar Sachs to find out why he’s so passionate about capturing memories

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If your mind’s wandering to your family’s next step, check out Louise Pyne’s tip on page 94 to make sure your body’s in tip-top shape for a second pregnancy. And speaking of the number two, it seems that double acts are on the rise. If you happen to blessed with carrying twins, then check out Georgina Blaskey’s Seeing double piece on page 78 –standing you in good stead for your duo.

I must say, one of my favourite things about autumn is being able to wrap up again, and the desire to be cosy is no truer than when pregnant. Your bump may bring its own personal radiator but that yearning to be snug, while carrying precious cargo, is totally understandable. Camilla Ridley-Day outlines layered maternity chic on page 55.

Don’t let the drop in temperature put the brakes on autumn stomps. Baby can travel in style with our giveaway on page 19 – win your very own UPPAbaby stroller worth £600.

That’s all from me, happy reading!

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Your whole life is made up by milestones, first day of school, first paid job, first time you go in your overdraft because you’ve splurged your wages in three days. But milestones come thick and fast in the baby world; years surrounded by ‘firsts’ – smile, laughter, rolling over, putting one foot in front of the other and resembling a drunk man on a Saturday night. They’re all pretty special, and this issue is all about celebrating those landmarks.

Although, we’re reaching milestones through pregnancy too – and none more so than when that due date arrives. Becky Dickinson offers up some sound advice for coping with being overdue with The waiting game on page 84.

The key is to embrace this time – after all this is your last free moments. If you’re worried about stressing out as your D (for delivery) -day looms, see Zita West’s tips on making the most of your maternity leave on page 83.

One thing that can put stress levels to the test is planning a birthday party. And while they might not remember it, throwing a for a first birthday celebration is a big chapter for parents. Fear not, for our party columnist Carole Middleton has more ideas than you can shake a piñata stick at – turn to page 67!

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Where were you born?

Queen Charlotte’s, London.

Where do you live now?

Clapham, South London.

Most memorable parenting milestone?

After being like a human octopus with three children attached to me in the pool, it’s wonderful watching them swim on their own Describe motherhood in three words.

Fulfilling, challenging, surprising.

Find Camilla’s seasonal style tips on p.55

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Where were you born?

Croydon, but I grew up in East Grinstead.

Where do you live now?

Balham, South London. ow will you spen bon re night We love going to Brockham Bonfire in Surrey – there’s a real family atmosphere and the firework display is always amazing.

Favourite thing about colder days?

Wrapping up in cosy jumpers, hot chocolate and eating unapologetically stodgy food.

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Most memorable parenting milestone?

My daughter learning to speak is a constant source of amusement, fascination and surprise.

Describe motherhood in three words.

Discovery, fun, fatigue.

Jo shares her pick of the best family-friendly destinations on p.116

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Cosy autumn days just got snugger… say hello to new brand BINIBAMBA and their supersoft merino sheepskin liners – which make buggies look so inviting you’ll want to jump in there yourself. Handmade in England, there’s a spectrum of colours available to complement all pushchairs, from natural hues of milk, moon grey and rose, to the rich dark shades of navy or half moon and blue rose striped liners.

From £89, binibamba.com

POPULAR WITH FAMILIES ACROSS THE WORLD FOR YEARS, THE SLEEPYHEAD PODS ARE NOW BEING USED BY THE NHS TO CARE FOR SICK BABIES AND CHILDREN. HOSPITALS IN BOTH LONDON AND BRISTOL HAVE FOUND THAT THE PODS CALM AND SETTLE LITTLE ONES, PROVING PARTICULARLY USEFUL DURING PROCEDURES AND SCANS. SLEEPYHEADWEBSHOP.COM

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NEWS

LITTLE LUXURIES Vild House of Little is adding to its core line with a timeless range of tailored basics.

Arriving just in time for autumn, the warm earthy tones mirror the season, featuring longsleeve and short-sleeve bodysuits and T-shirts, each with a sweet Peter Pan collar, as well as leggings and bloomers too. And as with all Vild House of Little pieces, they’re made from the softest organic cotton. vildhouseoflittle.com

LION’S SHARE

A FRESH COAT OF PAINT

Ex-fashion buyer Joanna Welch couldn’t find the clothes she wanted to dress her son in, so she decided to design them herself. Through Small Stories, she’s created a range of artistically-inspired clothes for boys and girls from newborn up to age six, with painterly brush-stroke prints and cool colour contrasts. smallstories.co.uk

The latest Wheelybug creation is sure to be a roaring success this season. Available from 1 October until Christmas Day, every sale of the lion ride-on toy prompts a Hippychick donation to the Born Free Foundation, a charity committed to protecting wildlife. The lion cover can be removed, washed and even transformed into a different animal with the purchase of a separate cover. £69.95, hippychick.com

MARK EVERY FIRST IN YOUR BABE’S DEVELOPMENT WITH THE NEW MILESTONES RANGE FROM MY 1ST YEARS. CHOOSE FROM THREE DIFFERENT SWADDLE DESIGNS, ALL OF WHICH CAN BE PERSONALISED WITH A NAME. A PACK OF MILESTONE CARDS COME WITH IT, TOO, JUST WAITING FOR YOU TO RECORD THOSE BIG MOMENTS WITH A PHOTO. MY1STYEARS.COM

WIN A STYLISH MELOBABY TOTE BAG WITH METANIUM When you’re out with your little one, you want a bag you can fit all of your nappy changing essentials in, so you can just pick it up and go.

Metanium is giving away two MELOBABY Vesancy Noir leather-look changing bags (RRP £89) plus a Metanium Everyday Easy Spray Barrier Lotion (ideal to keep in your changing bag).

Metanium Everyday Barrier Ointment has a unique double action formula to provide daily protection from nappy rash. It’s also available in a handy Spray - Metanium Everyday Easy Spray Barrier Lotion protects and moisturises the skin to help prevent nappy rash.

If nappy rash does strike, Metanium Nappy Rash Ointment is licensed specifically to treat nappy rash. Metanium Nappy Rash Ointment is a medicine, always read the label. metanium.co.uk. Enter online at baby-magazine.co.uk/competitions

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NEWS Just a Little Build’s Sarah-Jane enjoys a day by the sea with her daughter, Scarlett

BEST OF THE BLOGS

STYLE HUNTER Cool new label alert! Hunter + Boo combines quirky prints and rich colour to create children’s clothing that bursts with personality, whilst still remaining true to a strong ethical code. All cotton is 100 per cent organic, coloured only with eco dyes and made with love in a Sri Lankan factory where the workers are paid a proper wage. Each piece is designed to leave as light a footprint as possible on our planet. Sizes go from newborn to five years old. hunterandboo.com

The internet is awash with information but these brilliant bloggers cut to the chase with honest and practical advice

WITHIN THESE WALLS Cara started her blog way back in 2014 as a creative outlet to counteract the challenges of motherhood. Her content has evolved from purely parenting to include interiors, lifestyle and fashion too. She lives with husband Simon and their two boys – Sonny, six, and Harbor, four – near Cheltenham where they’re renovating their little cottage. Amongst her beautifully photographed lifestyle posts sit more thought-provoking pieces. withinthesewallsblog.com

JUST A LITTLE BUILD If you’re after some renovation inspiration, then Sarah-Jane’s the lady to know. She lives in a village just outside of London with husband Matt and their three young children, James, Riley and Scarlett, as well as a menagerie of animals, from dogs and cats to Shetland ponies and chickens.

The family have just completed their latest interiors project. Follow her blog as they slowly furnish each room and dig through the archives to see how it all came together. justalittlebuild.com

BLOSSOMING BIRDS

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After something special for a new arrival? Pio Pio London’s beautiful pieces have been crafted from soft-as-silk cashmere and certified organic cotton to be gentle on delicate baby skin. From blankets and booties in gender neutral tones to bibs and hats in a sweet oak-tree print, this brand’s one to watch. You can buy pieces alone, or as a ready-made gift set, with some personalised accessories available too. lovepiopio.com

Anna lives in Northern Ireland with her two little girls, Bella and Annie, and her other half Colin. By day she’s a retail manager in a large store, and by night, everything else – mother, wife, and blogger.

Her posts range from fashion favourites to family outings, and include some heartfelt pieces about motherhood, including touching ‘letters’ written to her darling daughters. Follow her over on Instagram to keep up with her daily adventures. blossomingbirds.com

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Festive celebrations are afoot in Edinburgh

Happy birthday!

Mickey Mouse’s 90th birthday is on 18 November, and to celebrate, Aden + Anais has launched a special collection of muslin essentials featuring some of Disney’s most iconic artwork. Shop bandana bibs, swaddling blankets and muslin squares, all available online for a limited time only.

From £8, childrensalon.com

NOVEMBER 5 SPARKS FLY

Get ready for the most illuminating night of the year! Celebrate Guy Fawkes by wrapping up warm and heading out to one of the many spectacular fireworks displays taking place across the UK this evening, including those at Battersea Park and Heaton Park in Manchester.

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BOOKS

Have your education questions answered at the Independent Schools Show, which takes place this weekend. Held at Battersea Evolution, London, there’ll also be several talks from experts in the sector. Pre-register for free tickets. schoolsshow.com

DIARY

Pens at the ready – we have a few suggestions to keep you and baby busy this month

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Forgotten what a good night’s kip feels like? Head to Ushvani Spa in Chelsea from 8pm today for their wellbeing workshops, where you’ll learn about the science of sleep and how to improve your sleeping pattern. £35 per person, ushvani.com

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Show time Returning to Birmingham’s NEC today and tomorrow only, this year’s Baby to Toddler Show plays host to a huge selection of big-name retailers and not-on-the-high-street boutiques, showcasing the latest buggies, toys, books, and more. Look out for exclusive offers throughout the weekend, too.

Open from 10am, babytotoddlerevents.co.uk

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17 BABY OF MINE 19 TAKE A To raise awareness for World Prematurity Day, Boots has unveiled a new collection of premature baby clothing.

Available in 34 UK stores from today, each piece has been designed with soft Velcro fastenings and gentle cotton fabric. boots.com

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Six weeks of seasonal events will kick off in the Scottish capital today as part of Edinburgh’s Christmas. Look out for interactive musical show You Choose, based on the bestselling children’s book Nick Sharratt. From £15.50, edinburghchristmas.com

BRAKE

Thousands of nurseries and schools will be raising awareness for Road Safety Week from today. Organised by road safety charity Brake, the campaign aims to teach people to be more careful on Britain’s busy roads. Register online for a free action pack. roadsafetyweek.org.uk

TWINKLE TWINKLE

Cotton sleepsuit (pack of three) £14, boots.com

Is it ever too early to start thinking about the yuletide season? Christmas at Kew will finally open its doors from today until 5 January 2019, inviting visitors to embark on an enchanting after-dark trail through the gardens. kew.org

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The swish MINU pushchair can be used from newborn up to four years of age

utumn doesn’t need to mean less gallivanting – especially when we have a stylish stroller and matching carrycot to giveaway! For parents looking for a compact and lightweight pushchair, which is suitable for a newborn passenger, UPPAbaby’s latest release is a strong contender. Now available to the UK market, the From Birth Kit accessory (carrycot) allows the MINU to easily convert into a pushchair for a newborn. With a 76cm internal length, it’s packed with features to keep baby cruising comfortably and securely, plus it conveniently folds with the stroller so far less faff for parents.

The MINU has been cleverly designed for daily adventures, whether that’s nipping to shops, embracing baby’s first airport visit or exploring your local park. We love the fussfree one-handed, one step fold while the large shopping basket is every mother’s dream.

The lucky winner can choose one of three colours; the Jake (black), Jordan (grey) and Ryan (teal) which all feature UPPAbaby’s 100 per cent full-grain leather handlebar which makes for a rich and stylish appearance. Simply enter online for a chance to win…

WORTH £600 To enter, visit baby-magazine.co.uk/competitions COMPETITION CLOSES 11.59PM ON 9 OCTOBER 2018. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT UPPABABY.COM

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The padded Stay & Play mat will offer kids a comfortable spot for rainy-day play

SOFT PL AY

With those indoor rainy days on the cards, Avery Row’s new Stay & Play mat is sure to soften the blow. Made from 100 per cent cotton, the cushioned and quilted mat transforms any space into a play paradise. Easy on the eyes, we love the contrast of the rich teal trees on the soft grey background, as well as the brand’s signature colour-pop border in mustard yellow! £45, avery-row.com

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happy tums. happy mums.

Care Co-lactase Infant drops Feed milk immediately after adding Co-lactase

Sufficient for 60 feeds

Reduces the lactose content in milk

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Does not contain Sugar, preservative or flavours

Colic – Treatment, NHS Choices: “Lactase is an enzyme that helps break down a sugar called lactose, which is found in milk. Your baby may have a temporary problem digesting lactose, which could contribute to their colicky symptoms.” (2015)¹

www.allthecareyouneed.co.uk You should see an improvement after 1 week. If symptoms persist after this time please speak to your Healthcare Professional.

Reference: 1. http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Colic/Pages/Treatment.aspx Thornton & Ross Ltd, Linthwaite, Huddersfield, West Yorkshire, HD7 5QH. Telephone 01484 842217.

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SHOPPING Sebra baby nest £79, cuckooland.com Merino playsuit £54, lacoquetakids.com

Knit bonnet £16, boden.co.uk Liewood rattle £27, kidly.co.uk

Merino-cashmere mix leggings £52, belleenfant-boutique.com

From a selection at thetipi.co.uk Cotton sweater £50, peacheyboo.com

Jacquard bathrobe £25.99, zarahome.com

COMING UP ROSES From millennial to dusky, kit your little one out in a broad spectrum of pinks Sproet & Sprout bodysuit £21, alexandalexa.com

Hooded parka £39.99, zara.com

Leather booties £49, tocotovintage.com Pop pushchair £185, silvercrossbaby.com

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SHOPPING Cotton T-shirt £14, kidly.co.uk

Corduroy romper £89, mariechantal.co.uk

Cotton playsuit £33.45, thebonniemob.com From a selection at caramel-shop.co.uk Amy & Ivor shoes £42, hedleyfield.com

ALL THE TEALS

Wool skirt with braces From £135, cashmirino.com

Tap into the shade of the season with peacock-blue colour blocking and accents

Muslin swaddle £11.90, adenandanais.co.uk Cotton jogging trousers £36, noe-zoe.com Baby Jogger City Mini stroller £284.99, mothercare.com

Cotton cardigan ¤34.95, molo.com

Buho T-shirt £35, smallable.com

Crochet cushion £19.99, zarahome.com 24 | baby-magazine.co.uk

Lice Free Complete anti-lice treatment with natural ingredients

The FREZYDERM Lice Free Set is your complete anti-lice treatment.

It inhibits the development of lice, and dissolves the chitin glue that nits use to hold onto the hair.

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The gift that grows with your little one Tree and woodland dedications are the perfect way to celebrate new life.

Dedicate a tree or woodland to your precious little one and you’ll also be giving a gift back to the thousands of species of wildlife that live in our woods.

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SHOPPING Konges Slojd mobile £19.95, scandiborn.co.uk

Merino playsuit £54, lacoquetakids.com

Petit Bateau dress £39, smallable.com

Mainio jumpsuit £32, alexandalexa.com

Joie Everystage car seat £180, mamasandpapas.com

Mini A Ture at alexandalexa.com

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She now lives in London’s Chelsea with Spencer

MY ESSENTIALS You announced you were expecting back in March. How have you found pregnancy?

It’s not easy! Although I think I’ve been super lucky with mine – it’s been a lot easier for me than some other women. We were hoping to get pregnant by this summer, but luckily it worked out well for me as soon as I came off the pill! I did have morning sickness up to 15 weeks which I’ve forgotten about now; it was all day, all night, just a non-stop nauseous feeling. I also cried a lot for the first few months, but since that 15-week point it’s been plain sailing. I’ve taken a relaxed approach to pregnancy – I took tablets for both morning sickness and heartburn and they made my life so much better. Women can be so hard of themselves, I think it’s okay to get a little bit of help.

Have you allowed yourself any pregnancy indulgences?

I just love having pregnancy massages. My hips are very

VOGUE WILLIAMS

The Irish TV presenter and DJ talks jewellery design, maternity fashion and eeping fit with a bump on board painful, so to have someone rub your feet is the best thing in the world. It’s something I’m not going to be able to do in a couple of weeks! I’ve been using a lot of oils on my stomach too – it’s really helped with stretch marks and itching. I’m actually developing an oil as part of a tanning line, so I’ve tried pretty much every single oil Spencer proposed to Vogue during a performance of The Lion King in London’s West End

on the market. I also love facials, although I can’t have the ones I used to.

And how have you found dressing your bump?

I’ve worn a lot of dresses and have just been going up in sizes really; I can just get

clothing taken in once I’m finished with pregnancy. I’ve mostly been buying from non-maternity brands and my friend Pippa at Poco by Pippa has introduced me to their maternity jeans, which are the best out there, in my opinion.

Ones that go over your bump are uncomfortable and too warm; I prefer the ones with a normal waistband. One thing I can’t stand is when your top rides up and you’ve got half your stomach on show – even when I’m in the gym I’ll wear crop tops.

Mama Mio The Tummy Rub Oil £27, johnlewis.com

Speaking of fashion, you’ve teamed up with jeweller Katie Mullally for a special collaboration. How did this come about?

I first got a piece [of jewellery] from Katie Mullally about five years ago and I couldn’t believe how lucky I was! I’ve always loved her stuff; whenever I wore something

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INTERVIEW Zeynap Arçay bustier £312, modaoperandi.com

by her it tended to sell out, so she approached me with the collaboration concept. It was a no-brainer for us to work together!

Ireland was clearly a big inspiration for you – what was your design process?

Katie let me go away and decide what I wanted, and then she came in and gave me her opinion – she obviously knows what works best. I originally wanted to do a lot of earrings in this collection but that wasn’t really possible, so we stuck to charms and things like that.

There’s definitely an Irish vibe, but you don’t have to be Irish to love the collection. Even all my English friends love the Irish coin charm – it’s an Irish 20-pence coin with a cut-out of the island of Ireland.

And do you have a favourite piece from the collection?

My favourite look at the moment is wearing the horn and celtic cross together. To be honest I’m not a catholic anymore but

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Vogue x Katie Mullally necklace £244, katiemullally.co.uk

I’ve got a lot of catholic references in there; the Irish are still very spiritual.

I’ve given my husband Spencer a few of the pieces too.

Do you get to go back to Ireland often?

So often that people don’t really know I live in London half the time! I’m back a lot because I do a lot of work there – in the summer I was back and forth sometimes three times a week!

Although being literally grounded at the end of pregnancy when you’re not allowed to fly any

more is quite nice. It’s good to be in one spot for a little while.

You’ve also filmed a new threepart documentary series.

Yes – I’ve been filming documentaries for years. These new ones cover current affairs topics including bloggers, social media and monogamy.

I filmed one last year called Going it Alone, which is possibly why I’m pregnant! It was all about women who decide to have children on their own. It’s something that’s changed a lot of people lives even in my own close circle – I’ve got friends who are deciding whether to have children on their own or adopt.

Vogue returns to Ireland often for work

Judging by your Instagram account, you’re very much into your sports. How have you been keeping fit throughout the past nine months?

I’ve done everything – boxing, cycling, spinning, tennis. I’m certainly not performing the way I used to because I physically can’t, but you adapt everything. I just like getting out and being able to move. I couldn’t do it for the first 15 weeks but I’ve been lucky.

If you just can’t do it, you have to let your body rest.

How are you spending your last few days before baby arrives?

I’m still working, still training, and definitely taking more naps! I’ve got everything sorted now; the nesting is complete, and I have a couple of bump classes that I have to catch up on until baby arrives. Besides that, I’m just trying to carry on as normal.

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Containing 30 stunning illustrated cards marking the big events of your little one’s life, this set is perfect for sharing with the family. £9.99, Fredrick Warne

BOOKS

The wheels on this bus do indeed go round and round as you head into town to explore!

MY BUSY DAY Babies will love this chunky board book exploring the park, the nursery, bath and bedtime. It includes lots of familiar, everyday objects and happy baby faces. £5.99, Little Tiger Press

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Remember your first pet? Charlie and Lola are desperate for a dog but they’re absolutely not allowed one. This is magination and storytelling at it’s very best. £6.99, Orchard Books

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Capture baby’s first year and treasure the special moments

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Count to five in French, Japanese, Mandarin, English and Spanish with this fun press-and-listen book. A clever way to develop language and listening skills. £8.99, Quarto

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Will your baby grow up to be a doctor? Start the learning journey with this humorous guide to

anatomy, which features a fun surprise flap-lift ending. £5.99, Caterpillar Books

become a firm bedtime favourite. £12.99, Walker Books

ABC MINDFUL ME

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By Christiane Engel

A fun read, introducing physical and mental wellness, breathing, compassion and gratitude, while also helping with concentration, listening skills and anxiety. £10.99, Quarto

GUESS HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU BOOK AND BABY CARDS

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Capture cherished moments with baby and beloved Nut Brown Hare, from first steps to monthly milestones. This story’s sure to

BABY ART GALLERY As soon as they’re born, babies learn to focus on high-contrast images. These flash cards based on famous artworks will provide a fun first step into the world of art. £9.99, Laurence King

BABY’S VERY FIRST BUS BOOK

By Fiona Watt & Stella Baggott

Little readers will delight in exploring town for the first time with this jolly, colourful book, complete with moving wheels and a cast of happy animal friends. £7.99, Usborne

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PROFILE

GET THE LOOK

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um b ogger and in uencer, assie hung ta s on ine i e, shopping, and days at the beach with her three chi dren What do you love about Instagram?

I’ve been on Instagram for several years now. I love the close-knit community and I’ve made a lot of real-life friends. My family has had some incredible experiences because of this little app.

What are your favourite Instagram accounts?

I could spend all day listing them! @brittanybathgate for fashion, @arzouni.m has the most beautiful girls.

Another is @playfulmodernkids for photography. Then I have my girlfriends, @cissywears, @ohyoungfierceone and @freddiesfortune who are a pretty fab bunch.

Where do you shop for the kids?

There’s a lovely mix of clothes and homeware to choose from at @cissywears. Zara Kids is pretty good for basics, and my favourite brands are Bobo Choses

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and Repose Ams. We love wooden toys for Mio: Brio and @pinchtoys are always a hit.

And for yourself?

Zara, & Other Stories and Mango for clothes, and @aweatheredpenny for jewellery. If I’m in Paris, I’ll nip into @thefrankieshop. For interiors, I look to H&M and @futureandfound.

What’s your ideal family day out?

We live in Aberystwyth in Wales, so a perfect day for us is spent at the beach, complete with toasted marshmallows as the sun sets. We’re so lucky to have the seaside on our doorstep!

Lastly, what’s the best thing about motherhood?

Watching my kids grow into brilliant human beings.

We share everything and go everywhere together.

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THIS PAGE: Saxon wears organic rib babygrow, £16.95, Gap. Rocker, £169.95, Charlie Crane at Scandiborn.

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THIS PAGE: Millie wears linen romper, £39, Rocky Racoon at Little Style Stories. Fine-knit tights, £5.99 (pack of two), H&M. Embroidered bonnet, £30, Apolina. Shoes, £45, Tocotó Vintage.

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BABY TALK Wax parka coat, £375, troylondon.com I’m always on the hunt for a lightweight waterproof coat and I’ve gone potty for these ones from Troy London. It’s super casual, but I love the colour detail and drawstring hood – perfect for playing outside with the kids.

They offer a free monogramming service too, which is really cool.

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WHERE TO GO

I love long walks at this time of year. For new mamas who want to get out for a day trip, why not take a leisurely walk around your local park or head to Kew to see the changing of all the leaves.

With all its lights, The Garden at The Science Museum is also a seasonal treat that’s in keeping with bonfire night.

Their sensory area for babies is wonderful, and a nice way to bring babies and children of different ages together in play. sciencemuseum.org.uk

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ovember has to be my favourite month of the year because it’s my birthday! I was born on bonfire night, so this has always been an exciting time for me and my family. It’s funny because I’ve been reliving my childhood again since having my own children, especially at this time of year and dare I say it, we’re already in the full Christmas swing of things.

I adore all the seasonal vegetables too, we’ve been busy making loads of chunky soups that are great not only for weaning, but for feeding the whole family with a chunk of crusty bread and butter. Delicious!

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Little grow, £65, annaliv.co.uk This is a great time of year to buy a pram suit for your baby, and my absolute favourite has to be this organic, natural little grow from Anna Liv, which has an organic cotton and shearling lining for extra warmth and snugness.

Blake Maternity Tee, £49, isabellaoliver.com Isabella Oliver support the brilliant Every Mother Counts charity, which provides access to basic and life-saving maternity care to those in need, protecting hundreds of women every year. It’s just launched this lovely T-shirt which I’ve been living in recently.

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CLOSE COMFORT The new Petal Soft collection from Bravado Designs offers stylish support.

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ello, I’m Bernadette.

Do you mind if I…?”

“No, no, go ahead.”

Stood in front of me, Bernadette brusquely hoists my left breast up and forwards, clamping Noah on to my nipple.

It’s day seven, and while Noah’s feeding successfully – her little gulps are confirmation of this – she wriggles off a lot, and I’m endlessly in search of the best breastfeeding position. Rugbyhold? Crossbody? Semi-upright and splayed out like a dachshund?

Bernadette is a local breastfeeding support worker – from a scheme in our London borough – and within minutes she’s transformed the way I breastfeed – elbow cradle for left, rugby-hold for right – given us her life story and flown out of the door. I’m tearful with gratitude.

I’ve seen every shade of the female spirit this week. The boundless care of my midwife Anna, who’s been delivering babies since 1987, and takes calls from frantic expectant mothers several hours after her shift is due to end. The lady across the road that we’d never met before, who saw us arriving home with Noah and came out to say that if we needed anything, ANYTHING, to

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Pricey, but lasts for aeons. Dr Barbara Sturm Baby & Kids Hair & Body Shampoo, £35, spacenk.com

I’m expressing like a trooper, anxious that every drop of milk should find its way to Noah.

This malleable, nipple-like teat is the only one she’ll abide.

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Have you ever seen anything as cute as this? Me neither. Just the ticket for draping over the sofa or bed for impromptu naps. Sleeping nest, £75, minirodini.com

IN H ER L ATE ST COLUM N Joanna McGarry CELEBR ATE S TH E KIN DN E SS OF TH E MOTH ER HOOD COMMU NIT Y give her a knock. Of course, not all women have this mothering chip.

The less said about the nurse who refused to help when I was wailing like a caged animal, begging for an epidural, the better.

That biologically-innate female support has been sent to me

in tiny, but no less meaningful, ways too. “You probably don’t remember me, but I just wanted to say congratulations, Noah is beautiful, you’ve done an amazing job,” said one social media message from a girl I’d met in a nightclub loo 12 years ago.

Friends I’ve not seen since we sat our GCSEs extended their best wishes. A work colleague I hadn’t spoken to for over a year seemed to peer into my befuddled brain when she texted a small essay of support, re-affirming that c-section babies were just as healthy as naturally born babies and I wasn’t to blame for things not going the way I’d hoped.

Every little message, card, and social-media comment has chipped away at the protective armour I’d left hospital with.

The next week, an elderly woman hands me a pound, “for your wee baby,” an old ritual, my mum tells me, to bring good luck.

The kinship of women has been the most wonderfully unexpected part of motherhood. I’d been apprehensive about joining the ‘mum tribe’, a network of women who only talk about their kids.

“That’ll never be me,” I’d think.

But the reality is, our babies are the most important thing in our lives: they have every right to dominate conversation. Being

welcomed into the fold feels like when the older kids at the youth club teach you how to play pool.

Before I’ve even taken the cards down, I’m offering advice to a friend who had her baby a few weeks after me. Texts are exchanged during night feeds.

“Is it normal to feel like crap still?” “Absolutely. Take it a day at a time, and keep the TV on in the background,” I reply, hoping to conjure up words that would have helped me at the start.

That’s the extraordinary cycle of motherhood – you pay it forward.

Imagine if we had that woman-towoman support in the workplace?

We’d be unstoppable.

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Blake says she knew husband Ryan would be her best friend for life soon after meeting him

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t’s often been said that there’s a flawless, pictureperfect, smoothness to the marriage of Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds. The couple, who tied the knot in 2012, don’t court attention; they’re not slaves to the tabloids; nor, most importantly, do they parade their young family around in pursuit of column inches or merchandising deals. And why should they? In a sense, both parents have fulfilled every conceivable on-screen ambition, and are now entering a period in their lives when calm is the buzzword for family life.

“You definitely do slow down,” begins Blake, referencing the career-family balance that has been brought to the fore following the arrival of two daughters: James in 2014, and Inez two years later. “Almost overnight, things that seemed important become trivial, and where work’s concerned, any job is taken with an image of your children staring back at you, and that’s a real decision shaker,” she laughs.

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Blake, 31, is certainly approaching parenting with the same relaxed persona that we’ve seen in several of her lead characters over the years, from the self-obsessed yet effortlessly optimistic Serena in Gossip Girl to the romantic fantasy freedom of the lead character in The Age of Adaline.

And that should come as little surprise – after all, the actress spent most of her younger years hanging out on Californian beaches, where surfing and sunbathing were two of her passions. Although she had the occasional mishap – “I once cracked my nose” – the actress admits the idea of enjoying the outdoors, of being energetic, healthy and full of positivity, are all pivotal to how she wants her children to grow up.

“I don’t necessarily want a quiet life, for myself or my children, but I certainly want one with less chaos and more stability – that has to be what every parent craves. Yet, at the same time, anything I’m taking on now must be really

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Blake and Ryan are raising their daughters with an awareness of the importance of gender equality

challenging – I’m done with the simple stuff. It must really inspire me because my time at home with Ryan and the children is so precious.

“There’s a part of me that doesn’t want to disrupt that part of my life at all, even though I still love my work so much. But I do want to keep working, and I want to be good enough to combine that with being a mum and having a happy family, because raising children has always been my biggest dream.”

Of course, a successful career doesn’t come about without taking a risk or two, hence why Lively has chosen a perhaps unexpected time to embrace an altogether more complex persona in new film A Simple Favor. In the script, Emily, the friend of a small-town blogger (Anna Kendrick), goes missing, with the movie opening up into a story of betrayals and reversals, a dead body and the revolving question of who is duping whom.

“I know this is a darker side,” she begins. “I think it’s just something in someone that you haven’t seen before, but it doesn’t mean that it’s not always been there. The characters are just a bit over the top, they’re best and worst friends, I guess. They’re two women who come together and the storyline embeds them in so many twists and turns that, at points, we have to rewind and start again.”

Is this new choice of role a somewhat punchy reaction to the perceived perfection of parenthood?!

“I don’t think so,” she replies, with a smile, “but when you have younger children there’s always the temptation to remove yourself from what is a ‘safety first’ existence. When you’re settled in to who you are as a parent, and you can see your children developing into beautiful little people, perhaps it’s only right to allow yourself the licence to experiment again and go after slightly different things.

“I think all parents feel like that, to an extent, and I’m lucky enough to be able to express that emotion in the work I do.”

Married to Canadian heartthrob, Ryan Reynolds – who recently scored the biggest hit of his career with the billion-dollar blockbuster Deadpool – the couple live in the quiet town of Bedford in upstate New York, in

IT MUST REALLY INSPIRE ME BECAUSE MY TIME AT HOME WITH RYAN AND THE CHILDREN IS SO PRECIOUS what appears to be an idyllic setting in which to raise a family.

“There has always been something special about Ryan, and I knew that very soon after we met,” she says. “I guess I knew he would always be my best friend for life – that was the biggest thing to me. I’d never known anything like the friendship that I had with him. I could like him as much as I loved him, and when the idea came that we could extend this love to children, it was just the most beautiful thing.”

That blossoming love has seen the duo become established as one of the industry’s modern power couples, though in both there’s a reassuring humility, no doubt brought on by a lifestyle that focuses on and has a legacy of family values.

“Ryan and I both come from big families, so we’re looking forward to having more children.

Having a baby is such a wonderful experience and it’s so beautiful to watch them grow up.

“Home life is good – we’re both very conscious of how we act and the language

we use, and I think that’s very important,” says Blake, referencing in part the movement towards sexual equality that continues to envelop the movie industry. While the couple stop short of gender neutrality at home, they do practise language that promotes fairness.

“I think it comes down to there being a lot of male and female stereotypes, and as time goes on, they become a bit tired and lazy. I think we have to raise our children to be free of those and able to express themselves, whoever they are; and I do see that in them already.

“What amazes me as well is how much they change and how there’s always something new every day,” she adds. “Children are always full of surprises, whether it’s getting crapped on or getting this beaming big smile that you can’t stop looking at. You just want that moment to last forever.”

The actress pauses momentarily, before adding: “Okay, wind back, maybe you don’t want the crapping thing to last forever, but definitely the rest of it!”

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GO WITH THE GLOW

Don’t let the shorter daylight hours put the brakes on your baby’s outings. The Bugaboo Fox Stellar has been designed to make parents and their little ones visible during evening strolls. Providing 360-degree night-time visibility from up to 150 metres away, it has a special reflective material on the wheel caps and front and rear of the chassis, so that when illuminated by a light source, the pushchair stands out in the dark. £1,219 and is exclusively available at John Lewis until November 2018.

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NE S COOL AN D CLEVER BABY KIT FOR N EW FAMILY LIFE

Two iconic British brands join forces again, as the Silver ross efle ston artin ition rolls e lusively into arro s asy on the eyes an offering a supremely omfortable ri e this stroller embo ies lu ury raftsmanship ith utting e ge te hnology throughout en oy its arbon bre hassis ston artin D inspire wheels an hrome metal etails £2,000 available at Harrods

COVER NEW GROUND Known for its changing bags and baby rockers, Bababing’s covering new ground with the launch of its first travel system. The Raffi boasts a carrycot with built-in cosy liner and airflow system, as well as a one-hand quick fold. It even includes car seat adaptors and a two-in-one raincover! £599.95, bababing.com

THE STEEL DEAL This autumn, say hello to Nuna’s swish new car seat, the NORR. Suitable from birth to four years, it’s been created using steel-strength technology. Combining a seriously strong frame with ultra-resilient plastics for premium protection – while the airy mesh seat cover keeps baby comfy. £350, nuna.eu

THE POPULAR JOOLZ DAY IS NOW IN ITS THIRD EDITION. WITH MANY UPDATES. THE DAY3 IS SMARTER, EASIER AND BETTER WITH STYLE, COMFORT AND IMPROVED ERGONOMICS COMBINED IN ONE DESIGN. THE DAY3 WILL BE AVAILABLE IN FIVE NEW LOOKS AND COMES WITH A LIFETIME WARRANTY. £849, MY-JOOLZ.CO.UK

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REVIEW

THE REVIEW

MUM OF T WO Stacey Trim GE TS TO GRIPS WITH TH E SPECIAL-EDITION SILVER CROSS PION EER

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’d set my heart on the Wayfarer for baby number two, but when Silver Cross introduced the new Timeless colourway to its Pioneer collection this year, I was won over. The brand is known for exceptional craftsmanship and luxury fabrics across all its products, but I’d fallen for the soft marl hood lining and fawn-coloured faux leather trims on this travel system. It was suitable from birth up to 25kg (check), had a carrycot suitable for overnight sleeping (check) and a tough fourway suspension that promised a smooth ride ‘no matter the terrain’ (perfect for our beach walks – check). The decision was made…

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GOOD LOOKING? Aesthetically speaking, a 10 out of 10. It’s a lovely, bright buggy and has the quintessential British charm synonymous with the Silver Cross label in abundance. The clear panel on the hood and extra panel that pops out to to shade Harrison from the sun make this feel like an upgrade from my last pushchair, although an extra panel wouldn’t go amiss. Sometimes it isn’t quite enough and I have to improvise with a muslin. The tan faux-leather bumper bar, lightly textured weave fabric and modern aluminium chassis all add to the luxe feel, and I love the matching changing bag.

PRACTICALITY AND DRIVABILITY There’s nothing worse than struggling to manoeuvre a pushchair with one hand, while pulling your toddler along with the other, but thankfully the Pioneer is a pleasure to steer.

I can navigate my way through doors and

Stacey loves the luxe look of the new Silver Cross Timeless edition

supermarkets – and its compact form means I’ve never not been able to fit through a gap.

The suspension is brilliantly responsive on grass, though I’ll pick him up when we go over gravel. Of course, he’s much more secure in the car seat. The lockable, puncture-proof wheels make it easy to push one-handed, too.

The pushchair also comes apart really easily – which means I have no problems getting it in and out of the car. The most taxing element is unclipping the car seat from the chassis, but it’s so easy to put up and down, even my three-year-old daughter can apply the brake.

When she hasn’t crammed herself into the shopping basket underneath, that is. This pushchair has the option of a buggy board attachment, so I’m hoping that’ll lure her out.

COMFORT If Harrison’s contentedness is anything to go by, the Pioneer is as comfortable as it gets.

The mattress inside the carrycot is so soft,

The four-way suspension ensured that Harrison had a smooth ride over most terrains

it doesn’t take long for him to fall asleep and I use it as an overnight bed when we’re travelling. It’s spacious, so I’ll cocoon him with a few blankets to ensure he’s not rattling around over uneven ground. It’s only a matter of time before I start seating him upright – he’s already nosy.

THE VERDICT Robust yet compact, stylish yet practical, the Pioneer delivers on all fronts and certainly feels like a luxury product. So far, it’s proven to be the right choice for my family, and I look forward to more adventures with it.

Pioneer Timeless £945, silvercrossbaby.com

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SET THE SCENE Decorative details for your baby’s big day

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our little one’s first birthday is a milestone that, as parents, we all want to make memorable.

Whether it’s a small gathering with close family or a celebration filled with friends and neighbours, add personal touches and fun twists for an event they’ll never forget.

Birthday cake £28, waitrose.com

Balloon banner £7.99, partypieces.co.uk

6 Cotton-mix fabric £16, lauraashley.com

1. Plan Toys rocking pegasus £120, cissywears.com 2. Silver-plated photo frame £25, johnlewis.com 3. William Morris ABC book £6.99, vam.ac.uk 4. Custom name print From £35, nurserynames.co.uk 5. Personalised bath towel £34.95, babymori.com 6. Egmont baby walker £34.95, cottage-toys.co.uk

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Personalised mini cakes From £37.60, bettys.co.uk

Choose a theme to inspire all the decorative details.

Does your baby love animals? How about a teddy bear’s picnic theme with animal cake pops, cushions and rugs, and cosy teepees filled with cuddly toys? Inspired by the circus? I love the idea of having a makeshift tent decorated with bright and colourful bunting, and a treat table covered with traditional funfair favourites, such as candyfloss and popcorn.

If your party’s going to be filled with young children and toddlers, ensure you have plenty of ways to keep them entertained. Something as simple as a box filled with sensory treasures like bouncy balls, rice shakers, shells and feathers will keep the youngest babies occupied (especially if it’s a box they can climb into!), while bubble-blowing in the garden will keep little ones amused for hours.

A simple buffet option is usually best when it comes to dining, so little hands can help themselves. Serve snacks and fruit in paper cones that are easy to hold, and use cake-cutters to make finger sandwiches in creative shapes.

Table decorations £4.49 each, partypieces.co.uk

Paper plates (pack of 12) £4.99, partypieces.co.uk

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MG those are the sweetest!” I pick up the tiny T-bar pumps and hold them in both palms like I might cradle a baby rabbit.

Children’s footwear gives me cute rage – that sensation of finding something being so unbearably charming that you have the urge to squeeze it.

And I’m not alone. Anything that encases the soft, pudgy trotters of a baby or toddler is likely to be adorable – which is why there are so many tiny incarnations of adult footwear, from teeny Converse sneakers to titchy cowboy boots. But – and this is a big but – kids’ shoes need substance as well as style.

This is because children’s feet are soft and malleable, unlike adult feet, which are fully formed once we reach 18, after cartilage has hardened into no fewer than 26 bones in each foot.

“The main difference and characteristic of a child’s foot compared with that of an adult is that it grows,” explains Matthew Fitzpatrick, a consultant podiatrist from The College of Podiatry. “This means that the child can be at risk from certain foot and lower limb problems at different ages as the feet and lower-limbs develop. One of the main concerns is the development of their bone architecture and that by wearing constricted footwear, the natural growth can be impeded and lead to abnormalities in their alignment later on. This could mean they become more predisposed to developing toe and mid-foot joint problems, which manifest as bunions or hammer toes.”

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children learn to walk, there’s no need for them to wear shoes – other than for decorative purposes. But anything that restricts, constrains or puts pressure on a baby’s foot is ill-advised.

“Before a baby is walking, the key is to make sure anything you put on their feet is soft, breathable and flexible,” says Fitzpatrick. “Do make sure that socks and babygrows aren’t too tight and are made from natural materials like cotton or wool. Once your baby’s starting to cruise, allow her lots of opportunities to walk barefoot, as it enables her to feel the ground and develop her balance. In general, it’s good to let babies and toddlers have plenty of opportunities to be barefoot. Feet are mobile

As children get older, the need for decent footwear doesn’t decrease. It’s essential that your little one’s feet are measured every eight weeks to ensure that they’re growing and functioning normally.

So, what should parents be looking for when buying footwear for their infants?

Firstly, shape. Children’s shoes shouldn’t just be miniature versions of adult shoes.

“A young child’s foot is a different shape from that of an adult or teenager, whose foot tends to have a rectangular shape when looking at the sole, as the shape of a young child’s foot is triangular with a narrow heel and broad front with the inner side of the foot angled inwards,” says Fitzpatrick “Reputable manufacturers are aware of this and design their shoes accordingly – ignoring this feature may lead to deformity of the big toe.”

Secondly, accurate sizing.

You should take your little one to somewhere like Clarks or Start-Rite, where they’ll be measured by experts – both in foot length and width.

Parents should be extra vigilant about checking that children are comfortable and not outgrowing shoes. Many parents will relate to those surprise growth spurts, where new shoes are suddenly too small within the space of six weeks. Often children won’t mention feelings of tightness, so the onus is on parents to be aware.

Having decent footwear from a pioneering company – think Clarks, Start-Rite or Bobux – is more expensive than high street chains, because you’re paying for your child’s feet to be as protected as they possibly can be. And there’s nothing sweeter than that.

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structures and it’s good for the balance and development to spend time uncovered.”

When should parents start looking for a first shoe? Jenni Foster, Start-Rite’s technical development manager believes this will come around nine months old, “when their explorations take them outdoors or they are getting faster on their feet”.

“First of all, walking shoes must help the toddler move freely,” she says. “If a shoe is too stiff or restrictive, the child’s development can be compromised. Stiff shoes can cause a more lateral stride, more foot elevation, less stability and more heel strikes. This will send the wrong messages to the brain and can hinder their natural development.”

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MAKE SURE EVERYTHING YOU PUT ON THEIR FEET IS SOFT, BREATHABLE AND FLEXIBLE

THE PERFECT PAIR Put your little one’s best foot forward into one of these development-aiding shoes

Start Rite – First Zak for boys and Flex for girls These First Steps designs have lightweight soles with right amount of grip for natural movement.

Padded ankles add comfort and support, while soft leather uppers mould to the the foot’s shape.

Cushioned insoles absorb moisture for happy feet all day long and riptape fastenings aid easy adjustment. From £39.99, startriteshoes.com

Bobux – Xplorer We love the playful designs on the the Xplorer, which is a revolution in shoe design. The unique lightweight Flyform Eva sole allows the shoes to be as close to barefoot as possible, aiding ground connection, special awareness and balance. £29, bobux.com

Clarks – Roamer Seek The flexible rubber sole on these cute first walkers are comfortable for tiny feet and toes. The leather sock ensures both support and breathability for the ankle. Up to 60 independent, industry-leading tests are conducted on each pair of Clarks shoes before they hit the shelves, making it the most robust kids’ shoe testing programme in Britain. £26.99, clarks.co.uk

Young Soles has a selection of timeless styles that are ideal for pairing with occasionwear Young Soles – Early Walkers For those special occasions, look no further than Londonborn Young Soles. Their Early Walker range is made with the brand’s signature EVA sole and stitch down construction – perfect for toddlers busting a groove on the dancefloor. £64, youngsoles.co.uk

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PROFILE

Jem + Bea has branched out into other fashionable accessories

The brand’s lightweight totes are great for mums on the go

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PROFILE

BEHIND THE BRAND

Jem + Bea

NATALIE KEELER M EE TS JEM + BE A’S FOU N DER S Dominique Hughes AN D Rebecca Da Silva Lima TO TALK FRIEN DSHIP, FASHION AN D FIN DING A WOR K-LIFE BAL AN CE The now iconic Jemima tote

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PROFILE

hey say you should never mix business with pleasure, but for Dominique Hughes and Rebecca Da Silva Lima, founders of hugely successful luxury accessories brand Jem + Bea, it’s proved to be a winning combination.

The two women have been friends for almost 20 years, after meeting at secondary school, but even after two decades, two wildly different careers and a combined five children, it seems little in their relationship has changed.

“We spend a lot of time together,” Dominique smiles. “And the good part is that we have to travel a lot together to trade fairs and for research, and we genuinely enjoy each other’s company. I think it also helps that we have the same joie de vivre about us.”

“But we both have our own working style, as we’ve each come from different industries,” adds Rebecca. “I can see how people compare having a business together to being married, as it takes work and pragmatism to stay on the right path. I even call Dom my ‘work wife’!”

The friends launched Jem + Bea back in 2015, when – after both becoming parents – they noticed a gap in the market for changing bags that were stylish as well as practical.

“I’d had the idea for some years,” explains Dominique. “When the opportunity came my way to fund a very small start-up, I spoke to Rebecca about helping me design pieces. After a few meetings, she put in some capital and we became business partners.”

They set about creating the now revolutionary Jemima: the ultimate luxury leather changing bag that became the centrepiece of their first collection. “It was the

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first design I drew and we’re really proud of it,” says Rebecca. “We made several prototypes to ensure it was what we and other mothers would want. It now comes in three colours which are all very popular, but the black seems to be the perennial favourite.”

Since then, Jem + Bea has added denim backpacks, bowling bags, sports-chic carriers and durable lightweight totes to their now expansive repertoire, fulfilling all the needs of a customer base they clearly know inside out.

“With five children (Rebecca has two daughters, and Dominique has two daughters and a son), and having been through several parent products between us, I would say we’re well equipped to know what is required from a changing bag,” explains Dominique.

“Our products are designed for use beyond baby years, so I use my changing mat pocket for my laptop and the nappy pocket for makeup. I’ve never had such an organised bag!”

And what about the design process? Are there ever times they don’t see eye-to-eye?

“We naturally have the odd disagreement,” says Rebecca. “But we know that to make the business work it’s okay to have differing opinions: we have different tastes, too. It leads

to a healthy debate about what may or may not work. In the end, we find a balance and make sure the product ticks all the boxes.”

With previous experience at Anya Hindmarch, Burberry and All Saints, as well as Mulberry, where she worked as an accessories designer for almost four years, Rebecca certainly knows all there is to know about creating stylish bags. However, with almost total autonomy over the creative side of the business, Jem + Bea has certainly proved to be a very different challenge.

“It’s still as fun and creative as when I was working for bigger brands,” says Rebecca. “But these days I can be even more spontaneous.

Inspiration comes from all over, and we often go to Paris to get ideas for new materials and colours. It’s a lot more flexible creatively.”

Being in charge of your own working day offers its own kind of flexibility, too – as Dominique, previously a lawyer, knows only too well. “I have three children under the age of eight and I’m a single mother. So, another reason to start up a business was that I couldn’t do what I was doing before. The long hours made it hard for me to be there for my children, which are the most important thing.”

She now works on growing the business and managing relationships with its stockists, the which include the likes of John Lewis, Selfridges and Alex and Alexa.

PROFILE Dominique and Rebecca have been friends for almost 20 years

They go to Paris for material and colour inspiration

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WE MADE SEVERAL PROTOTYPES TO ENSURE IT WAS WHAT WE AND OTHER MOTHERS WOULD WANT “We have great relationships with all our stockists, which is so important for a small business,” says Dominique. “It’s important to take our time, and we find that a call rather than an email is the best way to iron out negotiations. We work closely with all of them ahead of a new season, too, and always listen to any advice they can give from their side.”

It was securing deals with such large retailers that saw the brand’s popularity skyrocket, earning them celebrity fans such as, including Chloe Delevingne, Cat Deeley, Kim Sears, and One Direction’s Louis Tomlinson, who bought his partner a Jemima after their son’s birth.

The last three years have certainly been quite a whirlwind for the pair – not to mention the fact Rebecca has also since had another child, Margot, who is now 19 months – but they’re still clearly loving every minute.

“We’ve learned so much – in fact, just about everything to do with running a business!” says Dominique. “It’s been a real learning curve, from getting to grips with wholesale and retail costings and logistics to PR and marketing.”

Do they ever have time for themselves?

“When it’s your own business, it’s difficult to stop work seeping into family life. It’s full-on, but we’ve instigated a ‘no phones in bed’ rule that stops us working all hours,” adds Rebecca.

“It’s also important to keep your social life going so life doesn’t just become a loop of school runs and work. Dom and I spend time at each other’s houses rather than getting babysitters and meeting out. And I take time out for me when I can – but as any parent knows that this isn’t as easy as it sounds!”

So what’s next? the founders seem content to keep business ticking along at a steady pace.

“We’re both still working from home – perhaps we’ll get a dedicated studio if we employ more staff, but at the moment I’m not sure we’d make enough use of it, as we work so flexibly,” says Dominique.

“In terms of products, we’re launching five new bags this autumn, including our range of backpacks, which we hope customers will love.

We’re also working on lots of exciting releases for 2019. Watch this space!”

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Mama clutch £49, jemandbea.com

Margot tote £295, jemandbea.com

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HEALTH

PILLOW TALK

Naturalmat has unveiled a new organic lambs-wool pillow designed specifically for mums-to-be. Made with natural fibres take heat and moisture away from the body, the Pregnancy and Feeding pillow is designed to regulate temperature as you sleep, while the back support helps pregnant women doze comfortably on their side. When baby’s born, simply unzip the support pocket to release a handy feeding cushion. £90, naturalmat.co.uk

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TH E L ATE ST PRODUC TS AN D IN N OVATION S IN TH E WOR LD OF WELLBEING

Leave baby’s skin feeling soft and moisturised with these new cleansing wipes from Mustela. Infused with the delicate scent of olive oil, the super-moist wipes have been formulated to minimise the risk of allergic reactions, providing a non-sticky protective barrier to prevent irritation. They’re easy to carry around, too – just remember to dispose of them correctly via your household waste.

SOFT TOUCH

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A FRIEND IN FEEDS

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Researchers at Coventry University have built a website packed with information on baby feeding. iFeed, which is backed by interviews with local parents, offers guidance on formula, expressing, bonding and skin-to-skin contact. There’s plenty of tips for dads, too. ifeedproject.co.uk

If your little one suffers from eczema or sensitive skin, Green People’s Organic Babies range offers a wonderful soothing solution that protects against soreness.

Made from natural plant actives, the chemical-free products include shampoo and body wash, baby lotion and nappy cream. Now available in Waitrose. From £7.95, greenpeople.co.uk

MORE WOMEN ARE SEEING THE BENEFITS OF PRACTISING YOGA WHILE PREGNANT, A STUDY FROM PRIVATE PREGNANCY SERVICE POMMAMA HAS REVEALED THAT 75 PER CENT OF THOSE SURVEYED AGREED THAT THEY’D EXPERIENCED THE PHYSICAL AND MENTAL ADVANTAGES OF THE EXERCISE, INCLUDING BETTER POSTURE AND REDUCED ANXIETY. POMMAMA.COM

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LABOUR

Try to keep a copy of your birth plan with you, especially towards the end of your pregnancy

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P L A N of AC T I O N Shazia Malik, CON SU LTANT OBSTE TRICIAN AN D GYNAECOLOGIST AT TH E PORTL AN D H OSPITAL, GIVE S US TH E LOWDOWN ON BIRTH PL AN S

birthing plan is simply a record of how you’d like the birth of your child to take place. They aren’t essential.

The process of drafting a birth plan can help expectant mothers get to know the process of labour and understand their options. It also allows your midwife to get to know you, what your priorities and preferences are and understand your feelings about the birth.

Creating a birthing plan is also a great way for partners to understand the process and have an active role in the birth experience.

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WHAT NEEDS TO BE CONSIDERED?

but may not be a good idea for others.

It’s a good idea to keep a copy of your birth plan with you, especially towards the end of your pregnancy.

HOW SHOULD AN EXPECTANT MOTHER CREATE A BIRTHING PLAN THAT’S RIGHT FOR HER? Your birth plan is personal and should be tailored to you, taking into account medical history and individual needs. As every mother is different and will require different types of maternity services. Things you need to

DO THEY ALWAYS GO TO PLAN? It’s really important for all expectant partners to understand that birth plans are not set in stone, there is a chance that a complication could arise that makes it difficult to stick to the original plan. The plan can often change due to circumstances that cannot be accounted for during birth and labour.

You must be prepared to be flexible and compromise, ultimately you and your baby’s health are the priority.

A COMPLICATION COULD ARISE THAT MAKES IT DIFFICULT TO STICK TO THE ORIGINAL PLAN

A birthing plan is a record of what you wish to happen during your labour, delivery and postnatal care. These plans aren’t essential, but can help you communicate to your midwife what you’d like to happen and what you’d prefer to avoid.

For example, which methods of pain relief are best suited to you. Such as, an epidural or injectable pain relief.

A birth plan should take into consideration where you want to give birth, pain relief options, the possibility of an intervention or instrumental delivery, the baby after birth.

consider include: have you had a past birth experience that could affect your labour or birth? Do you have any kind of disability? Do you have religious needs? Do you have any specific dietary requirements?

There are lots of useful resources and templates on the internet that can help you develop your birthing plan. If you’re having problems, don’t hesitate to speak to your midwife or doctor.

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women to understand what exactly will happen. This can often be very reassuring.

Your birth plan should be personal to you.

It all depends on how you see the birth taking place, your medical history, your circumstances and what’s available at your maternity service. Some birth plans may be safe and practical for one pregnant woman

HOW DO THEY HELP WITH BOTH LABOUR AND THE LEAD UP TO IT? Birth plans can help you to communicate your needs and wishes to the people who will be looking after you. They often help women with labour and birth as they encourage

JUST BEAR IN MIND…

Your birth plan will evolve over the course of your pregnancy, and it may well change, depending on how the pregnancy evolves (which can be upredictable especially, if it’s your first pregnancy), and once you’ve completed your antenatal classes. It’s therefore really important to remain flexible and to adjust it in collaboration with the midwife and doctor caring for you during your labour and birth.

It really helps to keep it as concise as possible – in my experience the more prescriptive it is, the more likely you might be to feel disappointed if events don’t go to plan.

Most importantly, while a written plan is a great starting point, do keep an ongoing face-to-face dialogue with your carers and birth companions during labour and birth, to give you the best possible outcome and happy memories of this amazing part of your journey to being a mother.

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R AISING T WIN S CAN BE E XCITING AN D TER RIF YING IN EQUAL M E ASU R E, BUT BEING PR EPAR ED WILL H ELP YOU PAR ENT WITH CON FIDENCE, SAYS Georgina Blaskey

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he number of twins is rising,” says Dr Lucy Hooper of private practice Coyne Medical in Parsons Green, south-west London. “This is due to increased cases of IVF and naturally conceiving older mothers, who are more likely to get pregnant with twins.” A pregnancy with twins may need extra monitoring and TAMBA, the UK-wide charity dedicated to improving the lives and wellbeing of families with twins, triplets or more, has just funded and developed new growth charts which will revolutionise how

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multiples are monitored. The charts mean twins can be accurately measured in the womb so health professionals can instantly recognise whether they’re growing appropriately. Until now, hospitals looking after women expecting twins plotted the growth measurements using singleton growth charts and clinicians had to use their judgement to decide how the babies were progressing. Dr Khalil, the consultant obstetrician who performed the first scan at St George’s Hospital in Tooting using TAMBA’s research, explains: “The difficulty

was identifying the difference between babies who were truly small because they weren’t developing properly versus twins who are normally small.”

During your pregnancy, preparation for what lies ahead is key. Claire Burgess of Norland Nannies, an agency where the majority of clients have multiples, says, “When you’re pregnant, take some time to think ahead. Find twin groups and visit them before the birth. Mothers there will tell you the products worth getting and give you

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Twins also mean twice the cuteness!

practical insight. While they’ll be honest about how times can be intense, they’ll also tell you how special it is. You can have a lot of fun with twins!” Dr Hooper agrees: “Joining a twins group, be it via NCT or through another means, normalises your situation. I introduce mums of newborn twins to mums of toddler twins so they can see there is an end in sight to the cycle of feeding, changing, winding and sleeping. It’s important to remember that one day these little babies will be running around and feeding themselves!” Twin babies will often be behind in their milestones, such as rolling, sleeping through and babbling, and this is completely normal. By being with other mothers of twins, you can avoid unrealistic comparisons with mothers of singletons.

Undoubtedly one of the biggest challenges is that there’s one of you and two of them.

Krista Pound, mother of twin boys and chair

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of the trustees of TAMBA, says, “When you find out you’re having twins, it’s normal to be anxious, but the most important thing to remember is that it’s going to be okay. You can do it!” Initially you need to recover from the delivery and take some time to settle in to your new life. “Expect to be tired,” says Dr Hooper. “The adrenalin and excitement keeps mums going for the first three to four months but it is stressful at times and often this can be on the back of an anxious pregnancy or even fertility worries. Don’t have everyone visit in the first week or two – just rest and get to know your babies. Space out help for further down the line when the broken nights are catching up.” Claire advises: “When financially planning your childcare, think about your budget and what will work best. A night nanny is a good investment – if people want to buy you a gift, don’t be afraid to ask for a

contribution.” In terms of initial layout, just because you have two babies, doesn’t mean you need two of everything. The babies can co-sleep in a cot and progress to their own when they’re older. You don’t need two bouncy chairs, you can swap between the play mat and the chair.

Like with any newborn, the key to enjoying this new phase is getting enough sleep. “It’s hard for any new parents in the early days but take the time to watch them as it’s so exciting to see the directions they go in, and how they grow,” says Krista. “A Contented House with Twins by Gina Ford is great, even if you just take a few things from it. I liked the timelines for the routines and I did manage to get them in to one, even though one fed quicker than the other, and one was part bottle fed.

I rented a hospital-grade pump and I also breastfed them both at the same time, with

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Willow and Noel will probably learn to relax and self-soothe earlier as mum can only hold one at a time

gifts on their birthdays and at Christmas. Be conscious of spending time with each baby and having one-to-one time when possible.

“It will make the situation less overwhelming and allow you to get to know your babies,” say Claire. “What works for you for one won’t necessarily work for the other and that’s okay.

Take the opportunity to understand their likes and dislikes, it’ll be worth it in the long run.” Krista agrees: “Maybe twins are harder to enjoy as you can’t give all your time to just one baby, and on some days it can feel like you are fighting fires. Once they went to nursery I had them in for three days but one day separately, so I had a day each with one of them on their own. That space and time gives you the chance to really get to know them.”

Individuality is important from the start.

The over-riding message from the experts is be kind to yourself. Self-care is key. It can be overwhelming to leave them with someone and take time for yourself, but try.

Use Ocado and Amazon, take offers of help with the ironing or cooking. Get your partner involved. “Your partner will need to be up in the night and helping!” reminds Dr Hooper.

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ONE OF THE BIGGEST CHALLENGES IS THAT THERE’S ONE OF YOU AND TWO OF THEM lots of pillows and cushions around. Once they were older, it was bouncy chairs and bottles for me!” Recognising what works for you and your family is key – one size doesn’t fit all with newborns, twins or otherwise.

Be prepared for the fact that your babies will cry more than singletons. “You have to get used to leaving one – whether it’s at bathtime, if you’re getting them in and out of the car, or changing one – and they’ll cry a little bit, and that’s okay!” assures Krista. Dr Hooper adds: “There’s a positive side to them crying – you can’t pick up both, you can’t always rush to be there, so they’ll learn to self-soothe earlier.”

Seeing the individuality of your babies is crucial. Some people advise not calling them ‘the twins’ and putting them in matching outfits. Dress them differently, ask family and friends to give them separate cards and

“You’re a team and you’re in it together.

It can strengthen a relationship, but it can also be a strain. You must keep talking and communicating, you must make time for your relationship. The most important thing parents can do for their children is have a strong relationship. Make your children feel like they are part of a loving family unit.” Then sit back and marvel at the babies you have made!

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I’ve just gone on maternity leave and with all this time to think, I’m worried I’ll stress myself out about the baby. How should I spend these next few weeks?

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stimulating your body you’ll not only reinforce s you head off on maternity leave you your emotional bond, but you may also help may be feeling many things: excited, her intellectual development too. It’s thought nervous, relieved…one thing you that by communicating with your baby in should try not to feel though is stressed – the uterus, you may boost her intelligence now’s the time to slow down and enjoy these and lessen the risk of her developing ADHD. final few weeks.

Playing music (particularly classical) to your It’s time for you to focus on your baby unborn baby is also thought to promote and build your relationship with her. She’ll be intellectual development – perhaps by here very soon and if you stroke, talk or sing stimulating more connections to be made to her now, she’ll already know your voice between the neurons. And music that babies and recognise your soothing touch when hear repeatedly when they are waiting to she’s born. Now that so much more is known be born and which are associated with their babies, both in the uterus and at birth, we mother’s periods of relaxation has been can see that the relationship you forge with shown to be familiar to them once they’ve your baby when she arrives can really be a arrived, and importantly, to soothe them if continuation of the connections that you they’re distressed. began when you were first pregnant.

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and your baby’s heart will race even faster than yours. Don’t be surprised if you feel some frantic kicking when you become angry or anxious. Your baby’s reacting to chemical messages from your stress hormones. Brief upsets will not actually harm your baby, but long-term distress may affect her own ability to cope with emotional difficulties and this could have long-term implications. Research has shown that women undergoing prolonged emotional stress during pregnancy tend to have smaller babies who are more likely to cry and more difficult to comfort.

It’s important that you make time to be ‘with’ your baby and give her your undivided attention. In these final stages, you need to gather strength and slow down. One of the best things you can do now is curtail your activities, so it’s important to start maternity leave well in advance of the birth if you can.

It’s understandable you want to spend as much time as possible with your baby after she’s born and before your maternity leave is up, but your relationship with her needs investment from you now, too. Now’s the time to nurture yourself and your baby.

Zita West is the founder of the Zita West Fertility Clinic which specialises in a holistic approach to IVF. Instagram: @the_first_1000_days

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The waiting game IT’S BEEN 40 WEEKS, BUT IT SEEMS THAT BABY DIDN ’ T GE T TH E M EMO. Becky Dickinson OFFER S ADVICE ON HOW TO COPE WH EN YOU ’R E OVER DU E

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never ending. The best thing to do to keep your sanity is to carry on as normal; be mobile, eat and drink regularly and ensure you keep well hydrated.”

In fact, only around five per cent of babies arrive on their so-called due date. So to avoid the anti-climax of your baby not arriving on schedule, forget due date, and think due fortnight instead.

Unfortunately, it can be hard to stay sane when you have a chorus of friends and family

busy. Staring at your bump all day isn’t going to make your waters break. So try and focus on other things instead by planning something every day for the next week: meet up with friends, book a haircut or pedicure, bake a cake, or stockpile meals for the freezer.

If you’re still pregnant the following week, make further plans. No one’s going to mind if you cancel because you’re in labour. Try to plan some relaxation time too; read a book, take long baths, try gentle yoga or have a nap,

CARRY ON AS NORMAL; BE MOBILE, EAT AND DRINK REGULARLY AND ENSURE YOU KEEP WELL HYDRATED repeatedly asking whether there’s ‘any news?’, so, keep your due date under wraps and never reveal it to anyone who has a tendency to ask annoying questions – this may even include your own mother. Of course, if you’ve already told people it’s probably too late to erase the date from their minds (but something to bear in mind for future pregnancies). Also consider turning your phone off, or avoiding Facebook for a while. They’ll soon forgive you once there’s a gorgeous newborn to coo over.

Once you’ve politely told people to mind their own business, concentrate on staying

because very soon you won’t have the chance.

If you have other children, then enjoy quality time with them.

Finally, you may feel like you’ve been pregnant for years, but doula and antenatal teacher Cathy Williams says to enjoy it while it lasts. “We only have a few times of feeling a baby growing inside us. Treasure these last days of connection,” she says.

And remember, if you’re tired of the whole thing you can always book a midwife appointment for a cervical sweep to speed things up, or book an induction.

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ongratulations! You have carried a baby for nine long months, something that feels like a pretty big milestone. But whether or not you have enjoyed every moment, or been plagued by sickness, backache and heartburn, there comes a point for every woman when enough is enough.

Your uterus has done a sterling job, but by 40 weeks all you want to do is to hold your baby in your arms, especially as that immortal due date has been engraved in your mind since your first antenatal appointment.

But what happens when that longedfor day arrives, but your baby doesn’t? For many women, a labour-day delay can often be accompanied by feelings of intense frustration, sadness, disappointment and sometimes even surprise.

But it’s important to remember that your due date isn’t a deadline, or an expiry date. It’s simply an estimate, a rough guide as to when your baby is likely to enter the world – give or take a week or two. In fact, though babies are considered term from 37 weeks, most don’t arrive until 41 weeks, so try to keep this in mind.

Community midwife Emma Herbert says despite the anticipation, try to treat your due date as a regular day. “Going over your due date can make your pregnancy feel like it’s

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Take advantage of being overdue to relax – you won’t have the chance for much longer

KEEPING SANE

• Remind yourself it’s normal. Very few babies come on their due date – most will arrive late.

• Keep busy. Plan something every day.

• Ignore the questions. Stay away from social media and turn off your phone if people are pestering you for news.

• Focus on yourself. Sleep deprivation is imminent, so relax while you can.

• Be grateful you’re not an elephant.

The gestation period of an elephant lasts up to 22 months. Your relatively short pregnancy is almost over and soon you’ll have your baby!

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TIME TO TALK with MARINA FOGLE & DR CHIARA HUNT

SAFE MEDICATIONS The sisters explain which remedies you can and can’t use during pregnancy

hile a lot of women are health conscious even before pregnancy, this consciousness often reaches obsessional levels when expecting. Myths predate the internet and if you look hard enough you’ll probably find someone, somewhere, saying that anything’s harmful or safe. Remember though, the internet isn’t regulated, so it’s worth getting important information like this from a trusted source.

When it comes to medication, doctors are generally reluctant to give anything to pregnant women, particularly in the first trimester and, if you read the small print on any medication or supplements, the advice is always to consult your doctor if you’re pregnant or breastfeeding. The reason for this is simple; it’s unethical to test drugs on pregnant or breastfeeding women and so while, in many cases, they probably won’t be harmful, the evidence base isn’t there, so decisions are made on a case by case basis.

Doctors therefore make the assessment according to the risk and benefit. For example, if a mother has an infection which needs to be treated with antibiotics, the doctors will ask, is the baby more at risk from the antibiotics or the mother’s infection? Very often the small risk from the medicine is less than not treating something potentially serious in the mother.

But at a time when you’re driven crazy by hormones, the minefield of which medicines are safe to take is enough to drive you mad.

As a general rule, avoid taking medicines that aren’t strictly necessary, during the whole pregnancy but particularly in the first trimester when most of baby’s development is taking place. In the meantime, here’s a list of what’s safe and what’s not:

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PAIN RELIEF Paracetamol is the safest painkiller to take in pregnancy. Ibuprofen and high-dose aspirin have both been linked to complications, especially later on in pregnancy, so the advice is to stay away from these.

NAUSEA Nausea in pregnancy is mostly mild and ridden

out without the need for drugs. Ginger is a natural antiemetic, so drinking ginger tea or eating ginger biscuits sometimes helps. Eating little and often tends to keep sickness at bay and, surprisingly, exercise has been shown to reduce the feeling of nausea – even if it’s the last thing that you feel like doing. Anecdotally, women report acupuncture and reflexology as being helpful. When women get an extreme form of nausea, called hyperemesis gravidarum, they’re so sick, they can’t keep anything down and risk getting dehydrated.

This is a typical case of risk versus benefit, where the risks of antiemetic drugs in the pregnancy are considered less than the effects of dehydration.

HAY FEVER Broadly speaking, the nasal sprays and eye drops that contain sodium cromoglicate, antihistamines and corticosteroids are considered the safest first line of treatment when pregnant. If you feel you need to take oral antihistamines, you should speak to your doctor. Generally the ones that make you drowsy have been studied in pregnancy more than others, and are considered safer. Oral or topical decongestants should be avoided.

Otherwise, applying a balm to your nostrils is a good way of preventing pollen getting into your nose and poses no risk to your baby.

HEARTBURN Heartburn can be helped by over-the-counter brands such as Rennie and Gaviscon, and these are safe. Lots of women with bad reflux say constantly sipping the liquid Gaviscon works best. Some foods will irritate heartburn – typically acidic foods, but it often varies from woman to woman, so keep a note of what you’re eating to see what exacerbates your symptoms, and try to eat little and often.

COLDS Annoyingly, taking decongestants isn’t safe.

Paracetamol does help but make sure it isn’t a flu relief remedy, which may contain other drugs as well. Raising your pillow while you’re bunged up helps, as does a room humidifier.

COUGHS Over-the-counter cough medicines aren’t advised and aren’t that helpful, in any case.

If you’re feeling unwell with a cough it is important that a doctor listens to your chest to make sure you’re not brewing an infection.

Night-time coughs can be helped by keeping the air moist with a humidifier.

ECZEMA / ITCHY RASHES Eczema often gets worse during pregnancy and using plenty of emollient cream can help to prevent it. Topical corticosteroids are considered safe if the benefit outweighs the risk – it’s likely that baby will be more affected if its mother is stressed and unable to sleep because of the itchiness than by the effects of the cream.

THRUSH Thrush is also a common problem during pregnancy and best cleared up as soon as possible. The thrush cream clotrimazole is generally considered safe to use, either in cream or pessary form. If this doesn’t work speak to your doctor about taking the one-off oral tablet fluconazole.

ANAESTHETIC Anaesthetics aren’t considered safe in pregnancy and if an operation is avoidable, it’s postponed. An epidural is the safest. This is why pregnant women are advised against any risky sports such as riding and skiing. In the first trimester it’s unlikely that a fall would affect your pregnancy, but if you get injured and doctors need to administer drugs or anaesthetic, then the risk is from those drugs.

For more, BUMPS (medicinesinpregnancy.org) is a good online source that compares all the evidence, and of course, always speak to your doctor if you’re worried.

Dr Chiara Hunt and Marina Fogle are the founders of The Bump Class, which provides antenatal classes in South West London. Their podcast The Parent Hood, is free to download on iTunes and Acast. Visit thebumpclass.com

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WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ‘NATURAL’ AND ‘ACTIVE’ DELIVERY OF THE PLACENTA?

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With the natural delivery, no drugs are given, your midwife or obstetrician will wait for the umbilical cord to stop pulsating before clamping the cord, and then will await spontaneous delivery of the placenta. This can take up to an hour, but the timing can vary. Holding and feeding your baby, as well as passing urine or sitting upright, can help.

With an active third stage of labour (the stage where the placenta is delivered), a drug called syntometrine is given into your thigh, usually as the baby’s body is delivering.

This drug helps the uterus to contract, so the placenta will separate and deliver without a delay – the benefit is a reduction in the incidence of excessive blood loss. It is particularly recommended if you have had a long labour, required drugs during the labour to make you contract, have twins or fibroids, or if you have an instrumental or caesarean delivery – all increasing the risk of bleeding.

The placenta is smaller and much softer than your baby so it rarely feels painful.

Dr Shazia Malik, consultant gynaecologist and obstetrician at The Portland Hospital

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I’VE ALWAYS BEEN INTO FITNESS AND REGULARLY WORK OUT. I CONTINUED DOING A FAIR AMOUNT OF EXERCISE IN MY SECOND MY BABY IS ALMOST A YEAR OLD, IS TRIMESTER BUT WITH EIGHT IT SAFE FOR ME TO LET HER SLEEP WEEKS TO GO UNTIL MY DUE DATE, WITH A BLANKET NOW? SHOULD I STOP WORKING OUT?

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I’M FOUR MONTHS PREGNANT AND HAVE REALLY BEEN OVERINDULGING THE LAST FEW MONTHS. WHAT FOODS SHOULD I MAKE SURE I’M GETTING IN MY DIET NOW? Eat more fat. After months of indulgence, the first thing you might be tempted to do is cut back on it, but don’t. Fat – the good kind – is crucial for your wellbeing and the development of your baby’s brain and eyes.

At the top of the list is omega 3 DHA. It makes up 20 per cent of your baby’s brain, helps to prevent postnatal depression and lowers the risk of infant allergies. Include DHA in your diet by eating oily fish such as salmon, sardines, mackerel and anchovies. It’s also important to take supplements alongside that – just be sure they are independently certified, pure and fresh. The UK government recommends eating two portions of fish per week while pregnant. Unfortunately, this doesn’t provide anywhere near the amount of DHA needed to protect the mother’s mental health and support baby’s neurological growth. That’s why supplementation is critical.

Flaxseeds, walnuts and hemp seeds are great sources of healthy fats, too. Not only do they contain some omega 3s, they’re high in fibre. This may help to ease bloating and keep bowels regular. The more fibre you can include in your diet, the more energetic you’ll feel.

Aim for at least two cups of salad or veggies with each meal and add avocados, pumpkin seeds or almonds. This is a great way to provide you with vitamin C, magnesium, calcium and iron. Nuts and seeds are also high in protein – essential for baby’s growth, too.

Melanie Lawson, founder of Bare Biology

Absolutely not: keep going! As long as you are still keeping well in pregnancy and there are no contraindications, such as a very low-lying placenta, then you can carry on exercising right up to your due date or, believe it or not, beyond your estimated due date.

With your bump getting bigger in this last trimester you may well feel the need to slow down and take your exercise more gently – be sure to heed your body’s signals to ease off. Land-based exercise will start to feel tougher so you could switch to waterbased workouts which will give you a lovely feeling of lightness and will also stop you and – importantly – your baby from overheating.

The effect of water is to dissipate heat which means that your perceived rate of exertion is lower. In other words, your workouts will feel easier – just what you want to hear! Try aquanatal, aqua jogging and swimming but if pelvic girdle pain is a problem, be sure to avoid breaststroke as is will aggravate the condition.

Alongside your cardio, I would recommend carrying on with pregnancy tailored core stability work such as prenatal Pilates. This will help protect your lower back by keeping the deepest layer of abdominal muscles toned; it will also keep your spine mobile and postnatally will speed up recovery of the abdominal area encouraging realignment of abdominal separation.

Dr Joanna Helcke, pregnancy and postnatal fitness expert

Many parents ask me at The Lullaby Trust for advice on what bedding their baby needs.

To reduce the risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), we always advise that babies up to 12 months sleep in a cot or moses basket with a firm, flat, waterproof mattress that’s in good condition, and a sheet or blanket.

Loose blankets pose a risk to young babies as they can cover the child’s face or head.

Make sure the blanket is tucked in firmly, no higher than the baby’s shoulders or sleeping bag, and that the baby is in the feet-to-foot position. Babies also lose heat from their heads, so it’s important that loose bedding doesn’t accidentally cover her head, making her too hot. You should also make sure she is in a room at a comfortable 16-20°C. If you worry your baby is getting too hot, feel her tummy and remove a layer of bedclothes if her skin is hot or sweaty. Any extra bedding such as duvets or pillows, or accessories such as cot bumpers, can increase the risk of SIDS or an accident occurring.

The research behind the safer sleep advice applies to babies under 12 months of age. After that it is up to the parents what they choose to use. SIDS is very rare over 12 months. But, after 12 months babies are far more mobile so make sure whatever you chose takes this into account. The Child Accident Prevention Trust and ROSPA have a lot of good advice based on a child’s age on what to look out for.

Jenny Ward, director of services at The Lullaby Trust

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BREASTFEEDING

The Breastfeeding Café with

PROFESSOR AMY BROWN

THIS ISSUE WE ASK:

AFTER MANY SLEEPLESS NIGHTS I’M CRAVING A LARGE COFFEE, BUT WILL CAFFEINE AFFECT MY BREAST MILK?

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here are no set rules as to how your baby will be affected by caffeine. Like adults, some babies are more affected by it than others: some won’t notice if you’re on your fifth cup, others protest after one!

Caffeine does transfer to your breast milk, but the good news is, not in huge amounts.

Although it varies slightly, only around one per cent of what you drink goes to your milk. So, if you’re having one or two small cups of coffee, it’s unlikely to affect your baby. Note that I said small cups – of about 80mg of caffeine each – not giant coffee-chain mugs.

Babies are more able to deal with caffeine as they get older. Very young babies can take over 80 hours to metabolise caffeine, so newborns might be affected. However, as they develop, they get better at it: by the time they’re six months old, they’ll metabolise caffeine in as little as two to three hours.

There may also be a relationship with drinking coffee during pregnancy. If you avoided it, your baby is more likely to react to it now, perhaps because it’s ‘new’ to them.

It’ll also enter and leave your breast milk without you having to ‘pump and dump’.

Peak levels can be found in your milk roughly

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an hour after consumption, so if you like a morning coffee, drink it after a feed.

It’s unlikely, unless you’re consuming over 750mg of caffeine a day, that your baby will be affected. This equates to around five cups of coffee, or one-and-a-half large coffee-chain cups. It’s also found in other food and drink.

This includes teas, sports drinks, chocolate and even some bottled waters and medications.

If your baby is affected by caffeine, they’ll be fussy and likely to not sleep well. Of course, this is all behaviour interpretation: it could be down to any number of things, even simply being a baby. If you’re worried, try cutting it out for a week and see what happens. With any luck, it won’t be the caffeine. If it does seem to be caffeine, depending on how much you drink, you could try reintroducing smaller amounts, or experiment with timing your lattes.

Professor Amy Brown is the author of The Positive Breastfeeding Book, (£14.99, Pinter & Martin Ltd) available September 2018

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CAN I BREASTFEED AND… • DYE MY HAIR Yup – there’s no evidence that hair dye gets into the bloodstream or milk supply.

• WEAR SELF-TAN Fine – very little would get into the bloodstream or breast milk. Avoid tanning around your nipples so your baby doesn’t get any in her mouth. Wash off before feeding so she doesn’t end up with a half-tanned face!

• APPLY FACE CREAM Again, as with anything topical, very little would get into the bloodstream or breast milk, so it’s fine.

• GET A TATTOO? Tattoo ink doesn’t enter the blood and can’t get into your breast milk. However, some artists will refuse to tattoo you if you’re breastfeeding as it may take longer to heal.

There’s also a risk of infection, and antibiotics can cause side effects in your baby.

• WHITEN MY TEETH? Again, no reason to worry!

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DEVELOPMENT

Look who’s

talking

Georgina Blaskey LOOKS INTO TH E WON DER FU L WOR LD OF BABY ’S SPEECH DEVELOPM ENT e receive the first communication from our babies when they’re tiny, before language has become a part of their world: a turn of the head, a widening of the eyes, a squeeze of a finger. Non-verbal signals tell us that they know who we are, and we use similar techniques to show them we’re here. We hold them close to our chest to hear our heartbeat, tickle their tummies, stroke their cheeks and rub their backs. Humans of any age can appreciate the power and message of touch, but verbal communication is equally relevant, even from these first days and months. Your baby can’t understand your words, but she knows your voice is a familiar sound that brings comfort. “Talking with your baby from the beginning is really important,”

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three to six months, she’ll be watching your face as you talk and may show excitement at the sound of approaching voices. She’ll have worked out that if she makes a noise she’ll get attention and she’ll make a sound back when spoken to. She may laugh when you play and babble to herself. Between six and 12 months, she’ll know different sounds (the phone, the doorbell, the clock) and where they’re coming from, and she’ll understand frequently used words such as “no” and “bye bye”. Call her by her name and she’ll stop and look, and she may understand simple instructions when supported by gestures. She’ll be using speech sounds to communicate with adults, such as “ba-ba”, “no-no” and “go-go”; she may stop babbling when she hears a familiar adult voice

YOUR BABY CAN’T UNDERSTAND WORDS, BUT SHE KNOWS YOUR VOICE IS A FAMILIAR SOUND says GP Dr Lucy Hooper of Coyne Medical (coynemedical.com). “Babies learn by being surrounded by language and they’ll respond to and recognise your voice.”

There are different stages of speech and language development and these milestones start from birth (although every child is different and progresses at their own pace).

Up to three months, you can expect your baby to turn towards a familiar sound and be startled by a loud noise, and be calmed by a familiar voice, such as yours or your partner’s. In terms of her own sounds, she may be cooing or gurgling at this stage. From

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and at around 12 months, she’ll begin using single words, such as “mummum” and “dada”.

From 12 to 15 months, she’ll enjoy singing and music and understand single words in context (cup, milk, daddy) but she’ll also understand a lot more than she can say. She’ll understand instructions, such as “kiss mummy” and “stop”.

Her vocabulary could be as many as 10 words but not all may be clear, and she’ll point to what she wants while making the sound.

“Copying your baby when they talk, even if it’s just babbling and cooing, helps them learn language,” explains Jon Gilmartin, a speech and language expert from I CAN, a charity

HOW TO ENCOURAGE SPEECH WITH YOUR BABY • Take the opportunity to engage regularly with your child.

• Make eye contact and be close to her so she can watch your face.

• Use simple, repetitive language when you talk to her.

• Copy her sounds back to her to show that you’re interested.

• Sing songs and nursery rhymes as they’re fun for her.

• Build in silences or thinking time so she can respond when ready.

DEVELOPMENT

Don’t resist baby talk! Babies love that you’re responding to and copying their chatter

speech – do the parents talk to the baby?

Is the environment stimulating emotional development, through singing and nursery rhymes? While older siblings can also provide a stimulating environment, a parent or adult needs to be providing language exposure and taking the time to say it right.” Gilmartin refers to ‘thinking time’, when an adult speaks to a little one and builds in pauses to give them time to respond. “If you ask a child questions and keep going without stopping, they can feel hassled. Give them time to think.”

Gilmartin values linking words with experiences, such as on a listening walk. “This can be done in the park or even at home. Walk through the house with your child and ask, where’s that noise coming from? It may be the washing machine, the clock, a car outside. Or try talking through an experience. You could cut up a pineapple and talk about it – where did it come from? Where did we get it? What does it feel like? What does it taste like? There are many moments you can generate to create opportunities for interaction linked to experiences.” Dr Hooper suggests building on the words they use, for example, if they say “ban” or “nana” for banana, repeat the word correctly. Story time is another effective way to build language. “Sharing the book, pointing at pages, re-reading stories – can all help develop speech.”

Talking to and with your baby is a valuable part of their development and a crucial building block of your relationship, so fill their world with language and think of all the chats you both have ahead of you.

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dedicated to helping children communicate.

“When a baby internalises a sound and tries to produce it, it doesn’t sound like it, but as they develop they pick up on the communication skills modelled to them – and that’s by being talked to.” Maintaining eye contact, getting into their space and copying their sounds is a good place to start. Dr Hooper agrees: “There are parents I meet who don’t see themselves as the type of adults to do baby talk, but really everyone should! Babies love that you’re copying them – it makes them think you’re interested in what they’re saying.”

If at 12 to 15 months there are no words,

it could be an alert to go and visit your GP and work through a checklist of potential issues. This may include a hearing test to check for glue ear, a common factor in delayed communication. “If you can’t hear well, your speech isn’t going to be great,” says Dr Hooper, “and a hearing test can soon diagnose this. Dummies can be a block to speech development if a child is taking one a lot in the daytime (keep it to nap and bedtime) and a tongue-tied child may be affected later with less fluent speech and have difficulties with certain sounds. I’d also ask parents to check what they’re doing to encourage

talkingpoint.org.uk has an online progress checker to help you track your child’s speech and language journey thecommunicationtrust.org.uk has resources, tools and information afasic.org.uk is a parent-led organisation to help children and young people with speech and language impairments and their families helpwithtalking.com is the website for The Association of Speech and Language Therapists in Independent Practice (ASLTIP)

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TAKE TWO? Louise Pyne TALKS TH ROUGH HOW TO GE T YOU R BODY R E ADY FOR A SECON D PR EGNANC Y

ou may feel like you’ve finally got the hang of the parenting game, and broodiness has kicked in again, but there’s still a lot to consider before jumping on the baby-making bandwagon again.

Growing a baby is a huge task for your body, so if you’re toying with the idea of expanding your brood, making sure that your body’s working as optimally as possible will help to ensure a smooth second pregnancy.

Timing is everything, and after your first baby it takes a minimum of 18 months for your body to get back to its pre-baby form.

“The type of labour you’ve had can affect the healing process, which means that recovery can vary, but getting into the best of health can prepare your body for another child,” insists consultant gynaecologist Mr Ian Currie from BMI Healthcare. And remember that every pregnancy is different, so if you were struck with morning sickness or battled relentless fatigue first time around, you might not this time.

Allowing enough time to recover before trying to get pregnant again will give your reproductive system a chance to heal from your first labour and allow your hormone levels to rebalance. Your nutrient reserves may have been depleted from the general toll of carrying a baby for nine months, along with lactating if you breastfed your bundle.

Planning for a second child is an exciting time. To help make sure you’re in tip-top shape, read our must-do steps before you take pregnancy plunge.

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Paying attention to your diet, however, is super-important, especially if you’re contemplating conceiving again. So avoid skipping meals and eating on the go. This robs your body of important vitamins and minerals that provide the building blocks necessary to fuel another pregnancy. “The key is balance and it’s important to eat as healthily as possible avoiding excesses, particularly alcohol and caffeine,” says Ian. Do your weekly shop online, creating a favourites list of healthy staples for ease, and keep plenty of nutritious snacks on hand, such as fruit, plain yogurt, nuts and seeds to nibble throughout the day, Finally, cook meals such as soups and stews in bulk and freeze so a hearty meal’s always available when you’re in a hurry.

pain earlier the second time round, so be prepared to do some gentle yoga stretches.

GO FOR A HEALTH CHECK Having a health MOT done is a must if you’re thinking about baby-making again. Visit your GP to make sure that you’re up to date with all the recommended immunisations like the flu jab, that your BMI’s in the recommended range, and get advice on the best exercise to do. “Make sure you’re up to date with cervical smears, take a daily folic acid supplement, and get your iron levels checked to rule out anaemia,” explains Ian. It’s also worth taking a trip to your dentist, as hormonal changes in pregnancy increase the risk of gum disease.

Taking care of oral health will help to minimise any susceptibility.

HAVING A HEALTH MOT DONE IS A MUST IF YOU’RE THINKING ABOUT BABY-MAKING AGAIN

RE-THINK YOUR DIET Running around after a little one is a 24-hour job and it’s totally normal not to focus on your own needs as you prioritise your first child.

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RETRAIN YOUR MUSCLES Your pelvic floor – the muscles, ligaments and tissues that run across your pelvic bones become stretched during pregnancy because of the physical pressure that a baby puts on this area. As a result, your bladder muscles become weakened which can cause incontinence. “MRI scans show that it takes up to three months for the pelvic floor to start approaching some sort of normality again, and exercising this area on a daily basis throughout pregnancy and after delivery is essential for maintaining good strength of the muscles. Carrying out pelvic contractions (focusing on squeezing and lifting the muscles) 40 times a day, usually in blocks of eight or 10 is recommended,” shares Ian. And if your abdominal levels have weakened as a result of a first pregnancy, you may experience back

REBALANCE HORMONES

If you started using contraception after your first baby, once you’ve decided to try for another you’ll need to stop ASAP and wait for your period to return. Delaying conception until you’ve had at least three regular cycles will ensure that oestrogen and progesterone levels are back in check. Consult your GP if you have any symptoms that suggest your hormones may be out of whack, such as excessive sweating, brain fog, mood swings, skin breakouts or difficulty losing weight.

Minimising hormone disruptors from your home and beauty care routine is another step to take. Mainstream cleaning products, toiletries and even plastic containers are packed with substances that are thought to disrupt hormone levels, so switch to more chemical-free options to be on the safe side.

Buy BPA-free tupperware, use vinegar to clean, and stock up on organic toiletries, which are readily available in supermarkets.

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DEVELOPMENT

Can you

HEAR ME? efore you’ve even uttered that first ‘hello’, your newborn knows the sound of your voice. At just moments old, your cooing tones are already his or her favourite sound.

Hearing is the second sense, after touch, to develop in the womb. Incredibly, the ears start to form when the foetus is no bigger than a pea. At just nine weeks’ gestation, indentations already exist on the side of the head where the ears will form. During the second and third trimesters, the inner ear connects with neurons in the brain responsible for processing sounds, and the tiny bones of the middle ear, which senses the vibration of sound waves, are also formed, so that by 18 weeks, your baby can detect muffled sounds.

By 24 weeks, the ears are almost fully developed and your little miracle can hear a range of noises from the thud of your heart to the gurgle of your breakfast, and the dulcet tones of your voice – which must sound like an underwater symphony.

Most of us take it for granted that our children will be able to hear, just as we hope that they’ll be able to see, taste and smell. Yet around one or to two babies in every 1,000 are born with permanent hearing loss in one or both ears, and that figure is higher for babies who are born prematurely.

For this reason, newborns are offered a hearing screening test in their first few days or weeks of life. The automated otoacoustic emission (AOAE) test is completely harmless, takes just a few minutes and can even be done

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while the baby is asleep. During the procedure, a small soft-tipped earpiece is placed in the baby’s ear and gentle clicking sounds are played to check for echoes inside the ears.

It’s not always possible to get a clear result, however if this happens don’t panic; it’s usually down to background noise, or the baby being unsettled or having fluid in their ear. In this case a follow up test will be offered.

Although most babies are given a clear bill of aural health, hearing continues to develop for the first six months. So don’t be embarrassed about using silly voices to communicate with your baby – newborns respond best to high-pitched, exaggerated sounds. Then, as their hearing matures they’re able to pick up a wider range of frequencies.

Even if your baby can hear well from birth, it’s important to remain alert to any potential issues and make sure they seem alert and engaged with you and their surroundings. If you’re concerned about possible hearing difficulties, then Dr Amy Bibby from Qured healthcare says there are a few signs to look out for including: “the lack of an appropriate response to sudden or soothing sounds, which can be monitored by observing the child’s change in expression.”

Dr Bibby also notes that it helps to know how your baby should be progressing during their first year of life. “By 4 months, babies should be moving their heads in the general direction of sound, therefore a lack of this movement could be a warning sign. If your baby’s not producing vowel sounds or

babbling by three months and then trying their first word by 12 months, then this could also indicate a problem.’

During your baby’s first year, hearing plays a key role in development. Being able to hear helps children to understand and interpret the world around them, setting the foundations for communication. And you can help too, just by making some noise! Talking, singing and reading aloud are all music to your baby’s ears. So forget your inhibitions and sing Baa Baa Black Sheep until (Old MacDonald’s) cows come home. Besides eliciting some adorable gummy smiles, you’ll also be boosting your child’s future speech and language

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DEVELOPMENT

DURING YOUR BABY‘S FIRST YEAR, HEARING PLAYS A KEY ROLE IN DEVELOPMENT

EASY LISTENING

development, as it’s through listening and watching you speak that your baby will first learn how to put sounds together.

For the minority of babies who do have hearing loss, early intervention is key. “Finding these problems early is important, not only so the child can develop good communication skills, but also to help them form strong bonds with their family members,” says Dr Bibby.

Meanwhile, regardless of how well your child can hear, it’s important to remember to protect little ears from big sounds.

‘A baby’s hearing continues to develop throughout the first few years, so avoiding loud events such as concerts or using hearing protection for your child is strongly advised,’ she urges.

So if you’re heading to a festival or a firework display, it could be worth investing in some protection to keep young ears safe from bangs and screams. There are now lots of options available which are both practical and adorable. Dutch brand, Alpine Hearing Protection, has been working with ENT specialist Jan van der Borden, who has expressed that there’s an increasing number of very young children with hearing damage in his waiting rooms. So take a safety first attitude – after all, their ears need to last a lifetime.

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Baby boosters A SNIFFLE PR EVENTION PL AN WILL H ELP TO BUILD YOU R CHILD’S IMMU N E SYSTEM THIS WINTER , SAYS Louise Pyne

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s the temperature starts to dip, it seems almost impossible to avoid sneezes and coughs coming your little one’s way. Fortunately, there are plenty of steps you can take to build up your child’s immunity through winter.

Do you know your antibodies from your antigens? When it comes to immune health, knowledge is key, and our prevention plan can help offset flu season and enhance your bub’s immunity IQ to fend off illness-causing bugs throughout the cold months.

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GO FOR A STROLL Winter immunity can suffer when vitamin D levels start to drop, and one of the best ways to up levels of this vitamin is to bundle your baby up so she’s nice and warm, and push her in the pram, especially on a crisp sunny day.

“Taking your baby out for a walk every day helps build a strong immune system. This is because sunshine is the main source of vitamin D. In addition, the diverse microbes in fresh air help to boost up the gut microbiome which forms a healthy immune system,” says Lucinda

intestinal tract,” shares Lucinda. Stir pureed strawberries into a couple of tablespoons of unflavoured live yoghurt for an immuneboosting snack for weaning babies.

MAKE A SLEEP ROUTINE

Keep the cold at bay this winter by stocking up on some feel-good supplies

Consistency is everything when it comes to a baby’s daily routine, and babies who sleep well tend to have a stronger immune system then those who don’t follow a set bedtime and napping pattern. This is because as your baby snoozes, his body is creating illness fighting cells to keep her healthy. “Early morning light exposure helps a baby’s natural circadian sleep-wake cycle, which in theory means they’ll be more awake during the day and sleep better at night,” adds Lucinda. And to encourage a good sleep routine, make sure she’s well fed to avoid nighttime waking and include a few drops of chamomile oil in his bath followed by a gentle soothing massage.

HAVE A GIGGLE A happy baby is a healthy baby, and prioritising playtime with your baby is one

LAUGHTER INCREASES ENDORPHINS LEVELS, RELAXES HER BODY, TRIGGERING IMMUNITY-BOOSTERS

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Miller, naturopath and author of children’s healthy recipe book The Good Stuff, (£20, shortbooks.co.uk).

Breastfeeding mums can also eat plenty of vitamin D-rich eggs, fish, and organic milk as some of the nutrient will pass through breast milk. “Baby milk formula contains added vitamin D, so your baby could drink more than 500ml per day of formula, and there’s the option of baby vitamin D drops during winter,” continues Lucinda.

of the best ways to increase her winter immunity.“‘Happiness and giggling are well known for increasing immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies,” believes Lucinda. Sing to her, make funny faces or give her a tickle. Laughter helps to increase endorphins levels, relaxes her body, triggering the production of immunity-boosters like B-cells and T-cells which attack foreign invaders that cause illness. #win.

FEED HER YOGHURT

COLOUR-CODED DIET

Probiotics are the word when it comes to a healthy immune system. These healthboosters are essentially beneficial organisms that protect against potentially harmful microorganisms collectively known as antigens. These include viruses, bacteria and allergens. They do this by populating the digestive system with healthy gut bugs which protect us from infection. “A diverse diet made up of plenty of healthy foods and live natural yoghurt or kefir is the cornerstone to creating healthy balance in the gastro

When it comes to the perfect weaning winter diet, colour is key. Making sure your child eats a rainbow of foods will help to keep immunity in tip-top condition, so include lots of brightly coloured puréed fruits and vegetables into her diet.

“Orange foods contain vitamin A, which is important for winter immunity. You can find this nutrient in yellow and orange coloured foods such as carrots, butternut squash, sweet potato and yellow butter from grass fed cows,” says Lucinda.

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For the ultimate pack-andgo cot, this lightweight option folds down small enough to be carried as a small rucksack. Perfect for the great outdoors, the cot is similar to a small tent, with colour-coded poles that fix together, topped with a breathable anti-insect mesh layering to house a comfortable foam mattress. £109.99, littlelife.com

The SpaceCot opens and closes in just three seconds, immediately taking the stresses and strains out of traditionally fiddly travel cots. It’s a great all-round product, with lightweight, compact, durable and robust design, and the integrated mattress is also suspended slightly to protect baby from draughts. £149.99, hippychick.com

The Nuna’s advanced air design provides 360-degree aeration via its four mesh walls, offering maximum natural airflow that supports best possible sleep. The ventilated mattress helps to moderate temperature levels, with easy-to-clean zip-up removable panels.

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BUNDLE OF JOY Designed to help newborns adapt to life outside the womb, Cocoonababy has added three new designs to its baby nest range. Taking inspiration from colour trends, the pastel pattern also complement the brand’s signature shades of white, grey and pink. The nest soothes baby, while keeping her secure. £130, cocoonababy.com.au

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There’s so much fun to be had when kitting out baby’s nursery, but the breadth of choice can often leave you feeling more than a little overwhelmed. Opt for calming pastel shades to provide a relaxing ambience, and try to consider how the space will accommodate your little one as she grows. Clockwise from top left: enjoy cosy morning cuddles and night-time feeds in the Celeste Nursing Chair (£799, teddyone.uk); pack away toys, books and blankets inside this handy belly basket (£29, olliella.com); the elegant swan illustrations on this Hibou Home wallpaper are the stuff of little girls’ dreams (from £59.95, hibouhome.com); we love the gorgeous harlequin pattern on this transitional cot bed (¤1,035, camcamcopenhagen. com); this super-soft decorative star cushion is perfect for snuggling at bedtime, too (£24, camcamcopenhagen.com).

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DEVELOPMENT

THE OBJECT OF THEIR AFFECTION MOST LIT TLE ON E S DEVELOP A DEEP AT TACHM ENT TO A BL AN KEY OR BELOVED TOY. WHY IS IT SO IM PORTANT – AN D WH EN SHOU LD TH EY SAY GOODBYE? Rosy Edwards FIN DS OUT few years ago, heart-wrenching posters appeared in my street pleading for the return of a beloved lost dog. The pooch’s name was Snuggle Dog and he was blue with purple stripes.

Yes, Snuggle Dog was a toy – but not just any toy. He was a distraught little girl’s ‘transitional object’. Your child probably has one too.

Paediatrician and psychoanalyst D. W. Winnicott coined this term in the 1950s, noting that from roughly eight months, infants are drawn to soft, tactile objects from which they become inseparable. At this age children are becoming more independent and separate from their mother; the object represents her and provides comfort during this anxiety-provoking transition.

If your child maintains a vice-like grip on blankey, or can’t sleep without Bunny, rest assured: transitional objects are common and, far from being babyish, they indicate healthy, normative development.

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otherness – warmth, texture, perhaps movement – that confirms its existence in the real world.

The paradox is that children experience their object subjectively – objects are “not part of the infant’s body, yet are not fully recognised as belonging to external reality” according to Winnicott. Your child believes, on some level, that she and her object are one,

letting the blankey ‘read’ the book.

This extends to not washing it, however dirty it gets (and however tempting). Only your child can change his or her transitional object, and consistency is crucial for helping them build an inner sense of security.

Some parents buy their child’s object in duplicate, subtly alternating with the original to ensure both ‘smell right’. Children of this age have little concept of size, so blankets can be cut in two and one half stashed away for safety until the original makes a bid for freedom.

AS PARENTS, WE INSTINCTIVELY COLLUDE WITH OUR CHILDREN’S OBJECT, NEVER QUESTIONING

FACT AND FANTASY A newborn cannot distinguish between himself and his mother, but this omnipotent belief dissipates over the coming months as he begins to establish reality from fantasy.

Transitional objects are as unique as the child choosing them but all have a comforting

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so you can imagine their devastation should it go missing – and empathise with parents who enlist a neighbourhood for its safely return.

A SOURCE OF COMFORT It can be astonishing to watch your child pull, squash or even mutilate their beloved blankey, but this too is normal. Children exercise complete control over their object, testing their impulses and power in a safe way and revelling in their object’s resilience – if blankey can survive the child’s vigour, it can be trusted as a reliable source of comfort.

As parents, we instinctively collude with our children’s object, never questioning its existence or importance. If your child brings their object to life, you may find yourself deep in conversation with Bunny about bedtime or

SAYING GOODBYE Starting school can be a flash point; parents can be embarrassed about waving their child off with teddy in tow, but they needn’t.

Transitional objects bridge the gap between home and school and signals that your child feels secure during periods of separation.

Your child’s attachment to their object will fade over time. They’ll discard it naturally as they develop new interests and build up their own defences against anxiety.

As adults, we may not cuddle up to a bear but photographs and keepsakes serve a similar purpose, transporting us back to places of happiness and safety. And while your little one may have long outgrown blankey, you probably never will.

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HOME COMFORTS

Sitting down to a family dinner can sometimes feel like a luxury. However, with the new Signature Dishes range from Daylesford, you can enjoy the taste of a homecooked meal without the effort of preparing it yourself. Made with organic ingredients, the latest selection includes fisherman’s pie with chopped egg and capers and lasagne with red wine and herbs. £9.99 per dish, daylesford.com

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As the nights drawn in, fill your toddler’s tum with warming meals from Little Dish. Introduce new flavours with the tasty chicken pie, with bite-sized chunks of chicken, butternut squash and petit pois, or guaranteed crowd pleaser, cottage pie with veg mash topping. Bon appetit!

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If your little ones love getting hands-on in the kitchen, these interactive courses from London-based Kids en Cuisine will have them cooking up a storm in no time.

Perfect for children as young as three, your mini chefs will learn how to prepare healthy, flavoursome meals from scratch, using various equipment to develop their skills in the kitchen. kidsencuisine.com

IN THE HOT SEAT Furniture brands Mokee and Froc have teamed up to create an innovative new high chair. The froKee has no food tray, which allows baby to eat with the family, before neatly tucking away after meals. As your child grows, remove the cushions to turn it into a chair that’s suitable for kids up to the age of 10. mokee.eu

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FOOD

C H E E S E S T R AW S H O O T I N G S TA R S Preparation: 15 minutes Cooking: 12 minutes Makes 12 shooting stars Suitable from 6 months INGREDIENTS

• 250g block or ready rolled puff pastry • 75g grated parmesan • 1 tsp mustard powder • 1 tsp paprika • handful flour, to roll pastry on • 1 egg yolk, whisked METHOD

Pre-heat oven to 200°C/fan 180°C/gas 6. Flour a clean surface and either roll out the block pastry or unroll the pre-rolled pastry.

Scatter half of the grated parmesan, the mustard powder and paprika over the pastry, fold in half and roll out to the thickness of a £1 coin. Cut the pastry in half. Cut one half into 1cm strips, and out of the other half, cut small star shapes with a cookie cutter. Score the tip of one end of the strips with a knife, dab on a little egg yolk, press the star on top, twist the rest of the strip and place on the baking sheet.

Scatter the remaining cheese on top and bake for 12 mins, or until golden.

Leave to cool, then store in an airtight container for up to two days. They’re delicate, so wrap them in kitchen paper before packing.

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These tasty straws have hints of paprika and mustard, a great introduction to seasoning

Seasonal snacking IN SPIR ED BY BON FIR E NIGHT, TH E SE R ECIPE S WILL GIVE YOU AN D YOU R LIT TLE ON E S A TASTE TO R EM EM BER , R EM EM BER

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FOOD

SPICED PUMPKIN & COCON UT DIP Preparation & cooking: 25 minutes Serves 4 Suitable from 10 months INGREDIENTS

• 500g frozen pumpkin or butternut squash pieces, or fresh, peeled and chopped • 1 tbsp vegetable or rapeseed oil • 3 pieces of jarred roasted red pepper, roughly chopped • 1 clove garlic, crushed • ½ tsp ground cumin • ½ tsp paprika • ½ tsp cayenne pepper • 1 tsp chopped thyme • 1 x 400g tin of cannelloni beans • ½ 400ml can coconut milk TO SERVE:

Either serve in a bowl with a drizzle of olive oil and a pinch of paprika with tortilla chips, with chopped fresh vegetables or with toasted wholemeal wraps, brushed with olive oil and sprinkled with herbs and ground pepper.

METHOD

Steam or boil the pumpkin or butternut squash pieces in a pan for around 8 minutes until soft. Once cooked, drain and place into a bowl or food processor.

Add the red peppers, garlic, herbs and spices, beans and half the coconut milk and blend together in the processor or with a hand blender. Keep adding coconut milk until you reach the desired consistency.

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FOOD

This hearty dip is perfect as a mid-afternoon snack or as a complement to a healthy dinner

P U M P K I N PAT C H S C O N E S Preparation: 20 minutes Cooking: approx. 20 minutes Makes: 10 scones Suitable from 12 months INGREDIENTS

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260g self-raising flour 50g soft brown sugar 1 tsp baking powder ½ tsp bicarbonate of soda 40g butter 200g pumpkin flesh cut into small pieces or tinned pumpkin • 2-3 tbsp buttermilk or milk with 1 tsp of lemon juice & stir FLAVOUR OPTIONS:

Savoury: 1 tsp paprika, 1 tsp dried mixed herbs and 50g grated parmesan Sweet: 1 tsp cinnamon and a pinch of ground nutmeg

METHOD

Preheat the oven to 200°C/fan 180°C/gas 6.

Grease a baking sheet by rubbing with a little butter, or lining with baking parchment.

If using raw pumpkin, put the pieces into a saucepan and just cover with water. Bring to the boil and simmer for 10 minutes until just tender. Drain and mash. Leave to cool.

In a large bowl, combine the flour, brown sugar, baking powder and dried herbs and spices you are using. Cut in the butter, and mix with the tips of your fingers until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Combine the pumpkin with buttermilk, then stir it into crumb mixture until moistened.

Turn onto a lightly floured surface; knead 8-10 times. Roll out to 1in. thickness and cut with a floured 2 ½in. biscuit cutter. Place 1in. apart on a greased baking sheet.

Bake the scones for 18-22 minutes or until golden brown. Serve warm.

Alice Fotheringham is infant nutrition specialist at Piccolo. Piccolo is an organic baby food brand with roots in the Mediterranean approach to feeding children. The brand also supports the NCT and gives 10 per cent of its profit to food education. For more information, visit mylittlepiccolo.com

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Set right on the golden sands of Belle Mare, Long Beach Mauritius caters for every member of the family. Its complimentary Sun Kids Club hosts a number of activities every day in ageappropriate groups, from pizza making to crabbing. If you want to enjoy some family time, excursions range from boat trips to bicycle tours. Seven nights from £5,499 per family, kuoni.co.uk

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WH ER EVER YOU R DE STINATION , TR AVEL IN ST YLE WITH BABY IN TOW REASONS TO RELAX

BEACHY KEEN

The newly launched Reasons To programme at the Four Seasons Koh Samui resort is dedicated to wellbeing and the practise of self-care. Guests can indulge in a variety of experiences, spa therapies, exercise and dining, with four unique packages; from deep nourishment and restful sleep to luxurious pampering and active play. And if you’re expecting, there’s a number of prenatal spa treatments available too. fourseasons.com/kohsamui

Ikos Aria on the Greek island of Cos is the latest five-star hotel to join Sovereign Luxury Travel’s portfolio. Opening in May 2019, it will offer kids’ clubs and beachside childcare, meaning tired parents can catch some undisturbed rays. From £3,799 for a family of three, sovereign.com

SEAWORTHY SWIMMERS The new swimwear line from Love & Honor both looks and does good. The Good Swimmers swim knickers, rash vests and swimsuits are made from recycled yarns that were once fishing nets abandoned in the ocean. The pieces offer UPF50 protection and features surf prints in pink and mint. For ages three months to six years. From £20, loveandhonor.co

EMIRATES HAS TEAMED UP WITH GIOVANNA FLETCHER TO CREATE A LIMITED-EDITION SERIES OF HOLIDAY MILESTONE CARDS. THEYS DEPICT 10 HOLIDAY SCENARIOS, FROM BABY’S FIRST FLIGHT TO THAT FIRST SPLASH IN THE SEA. A LIMITED NUMBER OF SETS WILL BE GIFTED TO FAMILIES FLYING WITH THE AIRLINE FROM ANY ONE OF ITS SEVEN UK AIRPORTS. EMIRATES.COM

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TRAVEL

Take a break WANT TO FIN D A FAMILY H OLIDAY WITH A BAL AN CE? Jo Caird TR AVEL S TH E GLOBE TO FIN D TH E VERY BE ST CR ÈCH E S FOR U N DER-T WOS

NIYAMA PRIVATE ISLANDS, MALDIVES

This dreamy escape is the only one of its kind on the island with a crèche, but fortunately for you, it was also voted as one of the best resorts in the world in 2017 (Condé Nast Traveler Readers Choice Awards). Open from 9-6pm each day, The Explorers Kids’ Club offers an extensive programme activities for children aged one to 12 years, including baby yoga, parachute play, insect hunts, balloon sessions and story time. Book your little one into a morning or afternoon session or for the whole day (with lunch included), paying $20 per hour or up to $100 per day. niyama.com

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TRAVEL

hey say that a change is as good as a rest, but when it comes to going on holiday with your baby, sometimes a change just isn’t going to cut it. When you really feel like kicking back and enjoying a few hours of baby-free time on your well-earned break, a crèche can be an excellent solution.

Kids’ clubs used to be limited to older children only, and while in many destinations that’s still the case, these days more hotels and resorts are now providing childcare for the under-twos, too. Travel in low-season and childcare might even be included in the cost of your stay.

Some areas of the world are better represented with early years childcare than others – it can still be tricky to find in South East Asia and the Middle East, for example, while in Europe and the Caribbean, crèches for under-twos are fairly common.

It’s worth bearing in mind that, as with crèches at home, you’ll most likely need to stay on site at the hotel or resort. Booking ahead is a good idea, too – just make sure you check the individual hotel’s policy when making your reservation.

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Activities include indoor play, story time, snow painting, forest walks and more

POWDER BYRNE, AUSTRIA AND SWITZERLAND

You may have thought that having a baby meant putting your annual ski holiday on ice, at least until your little one is old enough. But Powder Byrne offers an excellent crèche service at its ski resorts in Zurs in Austria, and Flims, Arosa and Lenzerheide in Switzerland, allowing you to hit the slopes while your little one has fun. Travel outside of the school holidays and the crèche service is free, or in peak periods, you pay up to £565 for six days.

To save on packing, Powder Byrne will also buy nappies, wipes and formula, then simply charge it your bill later. powderbyrne.com

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TRAVEL BEDRUTHAN, CORNWALL

Perched on the clifftop overlooking beautiful Mawgan Porth Beach, Bedruthan is a hotel created with families in mind. You’ll be given two hours of free childcare in ‘The Bee Hive’ for each day of your stay, starting at either 9.30am or 11.30am; the later session includes lunch for no extra charge, and extra sessions on top are charged at £20 for two hours for children under-three. One complimentary night’s babysitting is included and all staff are DBS-checked, too, with a maximum ratio of three babies to one host. bedruthan.com

The Bee Hive is a fun and safe space where little ones can draw, paint and play

ICKWORTH HOTEL, SUFFOLK

Who said country house hotels are just for grown-ups? The Four Bears Den at Ickworth Hotel in Suffolk is open seven days a week from 10am to 5pm (4pm on Sundays), for children aged three months to eight years. Take advantage of two hours of free childcare for each night of your stay, while your little ones take part in craft activities, games and unstructured play. The Sunday Breakfast Club is an added perk, where children aged three and over can be collected from your room at 8.15am, so you can treat yourself to a much-needed lie in. Bliss! luxuryfamilyhotels.co.uk

SAN LUCIANU BEACH RESORT, CORSICA Babies between four and 11 months old are greeted with open arms at the Baby Club in this ruggedly beautiful resort. Opt for six morning sessions (9am to 12.30pm; £220), afternoon sessions (2.30pm to 5.30pm; £180) or both (£400). For children aged one to two years, activities at The Toddler Club include collage making, playing with bikes and trikes, and fun in the ball pool. There’s also free evening childcare for babies from 7.30pm to 10.30pm, so you can enjoy a relaxing meal at the hotel’s restaurant. markwarner.co.uk

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TRAVEL FRANKLYN D. RESORT, JAMAICA

This four-star resort goes one better than a crèche, instead providing a dedicated nanny to each family, which is included in the price of your stay. She’ll with you daily from 8.30am to 4.40pm, looking after your little one with you on the beach, in your suite or at poolside, or whisking them off to take part in activities at the Kids Club. Your nanny is also trained in housekeeping, so it’s her job to keep your suite looking neat and tidy and your fridge stocked up. Nanny services are charged at $12 per hour (minimum of two hours). fdrholidays.com

MARTINHAL QUINTA, PORTUGAL Book a low-season stay at the Martinhal resort in Quinta, and you’ll pay nothing at all when you make use of the resort’s crèche (two sessions each per day: 10am to 1pm, and 2pm to 4pm).

During high season, the crèche is open from 9.30am to 5.30pm, and charged at ¤25 for a minimum two-hour booking, with each additional hour charged at ¤10. Activities for babies aged six to 23 months include story time, baby gymnastics, music and sensory sessions, puppet shows and arts and crafts, and while some snacks are included, lunch is charged separately. martinhal.com

SKI FAMILLE, FRANCE

Make the most of France’s huge Les Trois Vallees ski area – the biggest in the world – with a stay at one of Ski Famille’s familyfriendly chalets in Reberty. The Mini Marmots childcare services take place in the ski chalet you’re staying in rather than as part of a large crèche, leaving you with lots of free time to hit the slopes. Sessions take place between 9am to 5pm six days a week, for children aged four months to four years, at a cost of £399 per child per week including lunch and activities. skifamille.co.uk

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Boutiques CARAMEL, LONDON

Founder and director Eva Karayiannis launched Caramel back in 1999, after spotting a gap in the market while shopping for her daughters. With an emphasis on clothing that’s both beautiful and durable, only the finest materials are used to craft each piece, from cashmere and lambswool, to linen and leather. Sizes for baby start from six months, with the children's line extending up to age 12 for both boys and girls.

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OUR KID, MANCHESTER

Run by a trio of mums, Our Kid is a cool space for all things family. The stylish shop emits a laid-back atmosphere that both children and parents will love – browse through a selection of independent brands, then grab a coffee and a slice of cake at the in-store café afterwards. There’s also an astroturf lawn and toy corner, plus plenty of events to amuse little ones. The team will even host a fabulous birthday party or baby shower at your request, too.

9A OSWALD ROAD, CHORLTON, MANCHESTER M21 9LP our-kid.co.uk

TOYVILLE, BRISTOL

New to the Bristol shopping scene, Toyville officially opened its doors in October 2016. The independent toy shop in Bedminster is a family business, run by Lindsay and Joel, and sometimes their son, Xander. They only stock toys that they would buy themselves as parents, offering a brand identity and collection of products that appeals to both the child and the buying adult. Choose from both traditional toys and new arrivals that are set to be future classics.

20 NORTH STREET, BRISTOL BS3 1HW toyvilleshop.co.uk

LA COQUETA, LONDON

Inspired by the childhood of founder and mother-of-five Celia Munoz, La Coqueta’s collection faultlessly channels a sweeter, more old-fashioned part of the Spanish aesthetic. Timeless smock designs, ruffled collars, vintage-style frocks and delicate pointelle knits are given a contemporary twist with fresh cuts, rich colours and modern prints – and everything, from the fabrics to the methods of production, has been created to support Spanish design and craftsmanship.

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SISTERS GUILD, SOMERSET

As the name suggests, Sisters Guild is run by siblings Carla and Bekka in the picturesque town of Frome. Set on a pretty, cobbled hill, the shop truly is a treat for the eyes, with a plethora of beautiful design-led products available to purchase, from kids’ clothing to bits for mum, décor and nursery furniture. Brands include well-known names such as Meri Meri and Oeuf NYC, as well as newer labels like Sleepy Doe. 32 CATHERINE HILL, FROME BA11 1BY sistersguild.co.uk

TREEHOUSE, SCOTLAND

Run by sisters Kim and Sophie, Treehouse is your one-stop shop for kids, set on the banks of the Water of Leith in Edinburgh. As well as a selection of clothes and gifts, there’s a particular focus on children’s shoes, with knowledgeable staff available to help you find the perfect pair for your little one. They offer a hairdressing service, too; from first haircuts to regular trims, the team will transform the experience into a fun activity with car chairs and DVDs. 10-12 HAMILTON PLACE, EDINBURGH EH3 5AU treehousechildrenswear.co.uk

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Boutiques MILKSHAKE BOUTIQUE, CHESHIRE

Independent children’s shop Milkshake Boutique offers a range of brands for little ones from newborn up to 14 years of age. First opened just two years ago by Tors Nichols and Jacquie Swede – both experienced in the retail industry and parents to three young children between them – the store stocks designer labels such as Kenzo and Ralph Lauren, alongside cool contemporary outfitters like Molo and Billybandit.

59 ALDERLEY ROAD, WILMSLOW SK9 1NZ milkshakeboutique.com

BIRDKIDS, CORNWALL

Nestled in the seaside village of Fowey in Cornwall, Birdkids is, as the name suggests, inspired by the wonders of nature. Founded by Jane Bird over a decade ago, here you can shop from an everevolving selection of clothes, toys and gifts for children. Browse its eclectic mix of products and you’ll find animals, butterflies, bugs, birds and flowers just about everywhere. We especially love the sweet animal towels from Liewood and the aquatic soft toys from Wild Republic.

3 CUSTOM HOUSE HILL, FOWEY PL23 1AB birdkids.co.uk

MARSHES & FLINT, NORFOLK

Based at Creake Abbey in north Norfolk, Marshes & Flint is a lifestyle store showcasing some of the best independent children’s brands around. From local names to global labels, shop clothing and accessories, toys and homewares for all ages, with a mix of traditional and modern designs for every taste. The store, which opened earlier this year, has proved wildly popular and little ones love the mud kitchen situated outside.

CREAKE ABBEY, NORTH CREAKE, NORFOLK NR21 9LF marshesandflint.co.uk

TOBY TIGER, EAST SUSSEX

When it comes to colourful, ethical and organic childrenswear, Toby Tiger has been leading the way since 1998. Instantly recognisable for its bright rainbow-coloured palette and friendly appliqués, its clothing range is suitable from newborn to age six. Everything is designed with a child’s view in mind, resulting in fun clothes bursting with personality. There are over 500 stockists around the world but only one boutique, which you can find in the vibrant North Laine area of Brighton.

11 GARDNER STREET, BRIGHTON BN1 1UP tobytiger.co.uk

WILD & GORGEOUS, LONDON

Designing for both girls and boys from newborn to age 15, Wild & Gorgeous has proven a hit with families worldwide. Luckily for London parents, the brand’s flagship store is located in the heart of bustling Notting Hill, and there’s a second boutique nestled in Primrose Hill, too. Ponder through the beautiful clothes and accessories to your heart’s content, admiring the unique, playful and imaginative designs. And as a supporter of several children’s charities, every penny is well spent.

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LUNA & CURIOUS, LONDON

Luna & Curious, the trendy boutique based in East London's Shoreditch, is a treasure trove of goodies, with pieces for baby, mum and the home. Established in 2006, the founding trio have a passion for high-quality, traditional craftsmanship, constantly sourcing new talent from near and far. The store stocks some of our favourite children's brands, including Mabli, Amy & Ivor and What Mother Made.

24-26 CALVERT AVENUE, LONDON E2 7JP lunaandcurious.com

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Wrightson & Platt’s little silver feet were what first captured Gunnar’s attention

INSPIRE When did you first become aware of Wrightson & Platt?

I came across them at their showcase at the Portland Hospital in 2008, when my son Felix was born. I instantly fell in love with the idea of capturing this life-changing moment in a really tangible way other than just another photograph.

To me, the silver feet they created for that showcase were like little time capsules that epitomised the size and tenderness of a newborn baby – when as a parent, you’re so in awe of how tiny and gentle they are.

Now, when I pick up Felix’s silver feet – nine years on – it transports me back to the amazing time in my life when he was so young and fragile. I still love the product as much as I did when I first laid eyes on it.

How did you go from being a supporter of the brand to becoming involved personally?

I was a customer at first, then I became an ambassador for the brand. After that, I was so in love with Wrightson & Platt that I wanted to fulfil its potential, so I decided to buy it!

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GUNNAR SACHS We chat to Wrightson & Platt’s business owner, to find out why he’s so passionate about capturing precious memories What’s your favourite thing about the brand now?

The people and the product behind Wrightson & Platt are by far the best things about it.

By people, I mean everyone from the elves in our workshop, to the customers whose memories we help to eternalise.

They are what I’m most proud of, and I think their passion and love for the product is what sets us

apart from our competitors and makes us so unique.

Describe a typical day for you.

Each day is different for me, but I always try to wake up with a positive attitude, make the most of what comes my way and spend as much time with my kids as circumstances allow.

I also love coming up with ideas for products and new designs, so while I’m not based in the UK with the team, I’m still in regular contact and always thinking about what’s next for the brand.

When he’s not creating new business ideas, Gunnar loves spending time with his two sons

What has been your proudest moment?

Working with possibly the most

famous family in the world has definitely been a highlight! (Pippa Middleton asked the company to make silver casts of Prince George’s feet as a christening gift back in 2013).

We were incredibly honoured to be given their stamp of approval, and we felt it proved that we really were the best in the business! I think it’s safe to say they are on every brand’s wish list of customers.

What’s lined up for Wrightson & Platt in 2019?

We already have a reputation as the world’s leading life-casting company, so now we want to become the world’s leading memory-capturing company!

Our plan is to continue to evolve and launch wonderfully unique ways to eternalise those special moments in families’ lives; whether it be weddings, new babies, new pets, anniversaries, landmark birthdays and important rites of passage.

We have a variety of exciting ideas coming soon, so for now, just watch this space! wrightsonandplatt.com

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