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Dr. Shewanda Riley has had an impressive career, and now she is adding an exciting dimension to her portfolio as she launches her podcast, “The Chocolate Auntie”. Actually for “Auntie Wanda,” the podcast takes her back to her days as a radio personality in the 1990s, before she became a columnist for The Dallas Weekly, a college professor, and received her Ph.D. On the show, Auntie Wanda says, “listen for ‘Auntastic’ discussions about pop culture, news, faith and literature!” Recently, I appeared on her show, and it was great experiencing the continued evolution of Auntie Wanda. Which brings me to my truth. For decades, I have lectured folks about declaring themselves as “grown.” It seems when adults talked to their children about being “grown,” the conversations possibly didn’t go as deep as they should have. Children are told when they become 18 they are adults, and they can, among other things: • Stay out as long as they want • Drink alcohol • Date who they want • Go to bed whenever • Choose their own friends • Do what they want, when they want, how they want July 29, 2022

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and with whom they want You get the picture! Unfortunately, however; too many times the conversation doesn’t dive deeper into what as an adult is expected, including:

need to be told that if you are an “adult,” you may not have to tell people where you are going, but you might think twice about it, because respect is a factor, or guess what? You might even need an alibi!

• Pay own bills • Get a job • Contribute to the household financially • Still do chores if you live with someone • Realize that you have to respect the rules of the homeowner — or plan an exit strategy. Equally important, they

Oh, but instead, these pseudo adults walk around like they are big and bad, saying they don’t have to answer to anybody but as soon as they face the smallest dilemma, they are coming to a “real adult” to get support. In other words, they resort back to the role of a dependent. I tried to be an adult, to act

responsibly and didn’t consider myself to be “grown” until both of my parents were deceased. Sure I was an adult, but I could never bring myself to tell Joseph or Earline that I was “grown.” I really took to heart sentences that began, “As long as you live,” or “As long as you’re Black...” Let’s face it. We are a work in progress. We are under construction. We are evolving, constantly changing, pivoting and hopefully, growing. And that is what I saw in Auntie Wanda. So I am looking forward to tuning in to her podcast and you can listen and subscribe at www.chocolateauntiepodcast.com. Auntie Wanda knows what it is to be an auntie and she knows the value of aunties to many families. That she has chosen to highlight their stories is a wonderful use of her skills and talents. According to youaremom. com, aunts are very important and that special relationship can have a positive effect on the upbringing of nieces and nephews. I salute the aunties of the world, both custodial and noncustodial. I also encourage them to continue giving those much-needed lessons to help build constructive and productive members of society by explaining what being an adult entails as well as the process of evolving. myimessenger.com

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“Build houses and settle down. Plant gardens and start your own business. Marry and have children and let them marry. Don’t allow the naysayers and haters to talk you out of the hope your mother taught you. God’s plans are to help and not hurt you. Celebrate (Live Up!) because no weapon formed against you can ever prosper!” Jeremiah 29, VHV (Vincent Hall Version) Well, my Bonus Hailee turns 18 this week. It’s a momentous occasion for several reasons. First, it has legal ramifications that allow her to vote for the first time, and she already has her voter ID. Second, she is on her way to college and a completely new vista. Finally, this birthday rockets her into a new frontier of responsibility, opportunity, and possibilities. We have been saying all her life, “You can be whatever you want to be,” but now she has to prove it. Talk is cheap and trust me, rich white folks keep it that way for a reason. However, well-meaning and well-intentioned, it would be a farce for me to offer Hailee words of wisdom when thousands in this community are at the same crossroads. Therefore, I thought I would use a very familiar passage of scripture that reminds us all to go on without regard to unforeseen circumstances and challenges in plain view. July 29, 2022

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This passage is particularly poignant given the news that our boys, young brothers, Hailee’s age, have pierced a veil we never saw them or wanted them to achieve. Nationally, for the first time in history, white men 55-65 have been dethroned from their top status. In these “Yet to be United States of America,” Black men

permanent action during a temporary crisis. Take it from some of the OGs. This, too, shall pass. That’s what the prophet Jeremiah was saying. Between the televised and untelevised graphic killings of Black men by the police and the unfathomable odds that lie ahead of them, woe is an understandable emotion. When you couple that with the lack

and men of color from 19-25 are statistically more prone to suicide than any other group. My jaw dropped too. It doesn’t make sense, but then it kinda does! Comedian Michael Che packed Black America’s social woes in a single joke. “I don’t know if you’ve been watching the newscasts over the past 400 years, but it appears that Blacks and cops aren’t getting along!” That’s an understatement, but it may be integral in citing the causes for the rise in suicide by our young men. And in many cases, these are the “middle-class kids” who take

of mental health resources and options, it becomes downright lethal. “Responding to Suicidality and Related Issues” by the North Texas Behavioral Authority almost took me out. Hailee’s godfather, Commissioner Price, and I were both dumbfounded as we read the report. They say statistics lie, and liars use statistics, so we did our own deep dive into the report. To use the vernacular of the 1960s Hee Haw sitcom, it was “gloom, despair and agony on me!” The source data was based on the 2019 and 2020 death

rates cited by the National Center for Health Statistics. Nationally, suicides went down year after year by 3 percent. (45,855 total for 2020) Females of all races saw an overall decline. Suicide for non-Hispanic whites and Asian males declined. Suicide rates increased for Black males, Hispanic males, American Indian males, and non-Hispanic Alaska Native males. For Black males, there was a 6% increase in 2020 and an 8% increase for Hispanic males. Dallas County statistics ran toward congruence with the national averages. So let me say this to all of the 18-year-olds in high school or going to college. Especially to my young brothers and hombres. Don’t let the hate you see keep you from the love you can’t see. You can overcome the odds just like everyone in your family did. “Old Skool” had bomb drills that worried and scarred us as much as the active shooter drills that you live with today. Unfortunately, America has always suffered more potential harm from within than without. Inflation has been here before. Political and social upheaval is nothing new to us. You are here today because your parents and grandparents stood on this wisdom whether they heard Jeremiah via the church or the street. I know the plans God has for you, and you can prosper. Live it up! P.S. (If you are feeling some kinda way, tell somebody!) Vincent L. Hall is an author, activist, and award-winning columnist.

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Heat Continues to Plague Incarcerated Texans Many units still don’t have air conditioning in key areas

State Rep. Carl O. Sherman Sr. talks with TDJC officials during visit to Hutchins facility.

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Record-breaking temperatures this week are dominating headlines as everything from wildfires to heat-related deaths plague citizens. With the nation’s capital realizing its hottest weekend of the year last week, Texas is having its issues myimessenger.com

and Texas State Rep. Carl O. Sherman, Sr. wants to ensure that no person is overlooked, even the incarcerated. Sherman serves on the Corrections Committee and his office has received several complaints about the lack of air conditioning in Texas prisons. During a recent visit with

the incarcerated TDCJ residents and employees of Hutchins Unit with Bryan Collier, Executive Director of Texas Department of Criminal Justice, Sherman toured the facility and questioned protocols. With temperatures at such high levels, Rep. Sherman expressed concerns about conditions in the facility.

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“Out of 100 active units, only 30 Texas Department of Criminal Justice prisons are fully air-conditioned,” he said. “We have a responsibility to provide humane conditions for incarcerated TDCJ citizens to live and TDCJ employees to work.” During an Appropriations Committee hearing July 29, 2022

earlier this month Sherman focused on equipping TDCJ facilities with air conditioning units. According to TDCJ officials, the temperatures inside some of the buildings are taken with a handheld device at 3:00p.m. daily and that count is reported. Staff receive specific training and they monitor temperatures as well. The representative was concerned about that protocol for checking the temperature of facilities, especially when you consider those with special needs and the change in temperatures throughout the day. In quoting from Proverbs 12:10, Rep. Sherman talked about treatment by “righteous” people. Saying he was not calling inmates animals, but in reference to the inmates he pointed out that inmates need to be treated humanely regardless of why they are incarcerated. This issue continues to be a topic of discussion every few years, despite efforts by state legislators who in dealing with prison reform also called for the installation of air conditioning units in all facilities, with HB357. Dial back to the 1990s and similar discussions were held and citizens even took to the airwaves as popular radio morning show host Willis Johnson on KKDA-AM fielded calls from listeners who were not so kind as some expressed their disdain for the incarcerated and were July 29, 2022

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less than graceful in their offers of solutions to those weathering the sweltering heat. At that time, Joyce Ann Brown, who had spent almost 10 years in prison weighed in and admonished callers as she talked about the treatment of the incarcerated. “I spent nine years, five months and 24 days in prison for a crime I did not commit,” she said, adding that there are others like her but even still, whether they are guilty or not, no one should be treated worse than you’d treat an animal. “I didn’t deserve to be incarcerated and I definitely didn’t deserve to be treated less than you’d treat your dog. The incarcerated are people too and one day many of them will be free.” She then asked if they want those who are freed to act like they were treated when they were incarcerated. Rep. Sherman’s comments this past week echo Brown’s from more than

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three decades ago. He also noted that there were some glitches in the system. “Some are guilty and some are not. We don’t always get it right.” For Sherman it was especially alarming to identify the disparity in the distribution of AC units. “Many of the units that I’ve gone to have no AC in the housing unit but we do have AC in the warden’s office,” he said. “We have AC in the chapel, we have AC in the commissary; but we don’t have AC in the house. “Even for the pets we’re told never to have your temperature set if you have an indoor pet, above I believe it’s 76 degrees or 78 degrees,” said Sherman. “If you go to 85 degrees it’s a danger zone.” Texas has dealt with lawsuits and despite legislation, lack of adequate air conditioning in prisons continues to be an unresolved issue. With the recent announcement from TDJC, however, there is hope, maybe.

In a recent editorial in The Dallas Morning News, reference to millions spent on lawsuits instead of addressing an age-old problem has citizens concerned especially as Dallas temperatures are expected to hit 109, and possibly higher, according to projections this week. The editorial said: The Texas Department of Criminal Justice claims it will take over $1 billion to install air conditioning in all its units. This number has been contested as overblown, and TDCJ has before inflated the cost of installing air conditioners. It said it would take $20 million for one prison. In reality, the amount was $4 million, a figure that became clear after the state spent $7 million fighting the lawsuit. For Sherman, there are a lot of things that could be done better and he said he needs to see projections on what the fiscal impact would be, but he’s also calling for change and accountability. myimessenger.com

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Five ways Black parents can pass generational wealth to their kids and grandkids MONEY TALK BY RODNEY A. BROOKS Any discussion of Black Americans and the lack of generational wealth must begin with the history of how we have repeatedly built wealth over the centuries only to have it stripped away or stolen – both legally and illegally. It will take government action to fix those historical structural problems. But there are things Black parents can and should do now to ensure that we pass generational wealth to our children and grandchildren. Here’s how: Draw up a will. AARP says more than half of Americans don’t have a will. An estimated 70 percent of Black Americans don’t have a will. Dying without a will, or intestate, is a good way to lose generational wealth. White families are twice as likely to receive a family inheritance that a Black family. But dying without a will also means decisions on who will get what in the estate will be made by a probate court. You will not decide who gets what from your estate – a judge will. And it means that court fees, executor fees, attorney’s fees and possibly other fees will be paid before your estate is distributed to your heirs. See an estate attorney and get a will or trust drawn up. It won’t cost as much as you think. They can cost $300 to $1,000, depending on the complexity and where you live. And if you have no money to do it, there are websites like LegalZoom, freewill.com and rocketlawyer.com that let you do it on your own for cheap. Home ownership. Black homeownership stands at 44 percent, more than 30 percentage points lower than White home ownership. White GIs returning from World War II were able to reap the benefits of the July 29, 2022

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There are two different types of 529 plans. The traditional 529 operates much like a traditional 401(k) or a Roth 401(k) allowing you to invest after tax contributions. The second option is the prepaid tuition plan, which pays all or part of the tuition of an in-state college. GI Bill, while Black GIs were robbed of their benefits by racist legislators and administrators. Using VA loans and other benefits that were not made accessible to Black GIs, White returning soldiers were able to buy homes in communities like Levittown, Pennsylvania while Black GIs were not only forbidden from buying cheap homes, but racist covenants were written into the deeds to keep Black veterans out. That explains a huge part of the homeownership gap. Homeowners are wealthier than renters at all income levels. For the lowest income Americans, the average household wealth was $102,000; for renters, it’s $1,500, according to First American. The median homeowner has 40 times the wealth of a renter. Life Insurance. Nick Abrams, a Black Certified Financial Planner™ based in Baltimore, Maryland, says Black people need to stop buying just enough life insurance to bury themselves. He’s right! Term life insurance is an effective, taxfree way to pass on wealth to your children or grandchildren. The average cost of a funeral with burial is $7,000 to $12,000, or $6,000 to $7,000 for cremation. Imagine if instead of that $5,000 or $10,000 life insurance policy, Mrs. Brown had a $100,000 term life insurance policy. That would leave $93,000 for distribution to her children

or grandchildren, vs. nothing for a $5,000 or $10,000 policy. That money could mean the difference between an heir buying a home or renting for the rest of their lives, or college tuition vs. thousands of dollars in student debt. 529 Educational Plans. Here’s a way to ensure that your children don’t graduate college with thousands of dollars in student debt. Open a 529 plan in their names. There are tax benefits, much like a 401(k), but you can use the money to pay college tuition or even private school tuition. And the account will have minimal impact on financial aid. And if you open an account for your child, his or her grandparents, uncles, aunts and friends can also donate to the account. You alone will control the account and how the money is dispersed. There are two different types of 529 plans. The traditional 529 operates much like a traditional 401(k) or a Roth 401(k) allowing you to invest after tax contributions. The second option is the prepaid tuition plan, which pays all or part of the tuition of an in-state college. Rodney A. Brooks is a Senior Fellow at Prosperity Now and the author of Fixing the Racial Wealth Gap: Racism and discrimination put us here, but this is how we can save future generations. A former Deputy Managing Editor/Money at USA TODAY, he has written for USA TODAY, The Washington Post and National Geographic.

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The Trendsetter is the new Texas Metro News youth section, focused solely on the ideals, interests, occurrences and opinions of our youth. Here you will find the latest, hottest, jaw-dropping stories, appealing to those ranging from 13-25. Prepare to be informed and entertained!

BE THE CHANGE KICKIN’ IT WITH KENDALL GAYLE BY KENDALL GAYLE WASHINGTON EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

What do you want to be when you grow up? This very simple, yet challenging question is hung over children’s heads starting in Pre-K. When I was younger, I wanted to be a performer, and trust me I still do. Entertaining people and putting a smile on others’ faces is what makes me happy. At the same time, when I was in elementary school, I would pretend I was a teacher and give assignments to my parents. I think that’s why I enjoyed school. I wanted to have the same effect on people my teachers had on me. Every year, when it was time for my physical exam, my pediatrician would ask me what I wanted to be when I grew up. For several years running, I said I wanted to be a lawyer. I personally do not remember saying that, but it was written down in my charts. My parents always said I would be a great lawyer because I never stop fighting for what I believe in, which remains true till this day. In between wanting to be a lawyer and a teacher, I wanted to be the President of the United States. July 29, 2022

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Not only did I see it within myself, but also did many of my classmates. Never say never, but I am not so sure about being president now. In middle school, I was passionate about being a cardiothoracic surgeon. I used to watch live surgeries in class to prepare for my residency, then after watching “Grey’s Anatomy,” I changed my mind. The point I am making is my whole life, even though my passions changed, I always knew that I wanted to be successful.

I knew then, and I know now I want to make a difference in others’ lives. In just a year, I will be able to vote, but I can always use my voice. Gen-Z tends to forget one day we will be the adults, and it is up to us to lead our country. We as people often like to complain about what is going on, instead of creating a solution. To see the change, we must be the change. I honestly cannot tell you where I will be in five years. All I know is I will be empowering others to create change. myimessenger.com

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The Trendsetter Staff Speaks on Gun Violence, Sexual Assault ASIA NICOLE ALCORN

Gun Violence In 2020, over 45,000 people in the U.S. died because of a gunrelated injury, according to the CDC. And over 19,000 of those deaths were murders. I would hate to see this year’s numbers. We have to take in consideration all the communities that have or could be affected. People are still hurting from the Sandy Hook shooting, and now, the Uvalde shooting. When is it going to end? How many lives is it going to take for our government to start taking this seriously? There are ways for people to have guns and not be involved in gun violence. I mean, look at other countries like Canada or the UK. They are prime examples of how we should consider reforming our gun laws in order to protect our people. Sexual Assault According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center, one in five women and one in four men experience sexual assault. myimessenger.com

I personally have zero tolerance for it. It’s sickening, heartbreaking and no one should have to go through it. It has sadly become a common thing overtime, and the fact that some people have the audacity to say someone is lying about being assaulted absolutely enrages me. This isn’t something you lie about, trust me. As a college student you quickly learn about “rape culture” and hazing amongst sororities and fraternities. And it’s not a lie, it’s really something people experience. Make sure you go to functions with a group, and never leave anyone behind. And never leave a drink unattended. I encourage all survivors to stand strong and speak up no matter what. There are plenty of people who deserve to be in jail for their actions. And you never know, your story might inspire someone else to share theirs. ANGELINA LIU

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with gun control in the United States is concerning, and honestly frightening as a young adult. With mass shootings becoming an increasingly regular occurrence, lawmakers are still hesitant to pass critical gun reform laws that could save hundreds of lives. In light of the most recent school-related mass shooting in Uvalde, Texas, we are once again reminded of how tragically simple, yet seemingly unattainable, preventing mass shootings is. While the right to bear arms is listed as a constitutional right, it should be noted that the Bill of Rights was drafted in 1789, which saw a starkly different America than where we are now. With modern advancements in technology, medicine and general society, it is strange we are still adhering to laws that were created almost 300 years ago. There is no justifiable reason why a private citizen would require the use of assault weapons in resemblance to those used in the military. While I disagree with the necessity of banning guns entirely, I argue purchasing a gun should be an extensive process that includes background and mental health

checks, making it harder for people to access weapons possibly leading to shootings. Sexual Assault In recent years, sexual assault has become a topic that is no longer taboo, and this has allowed many victims of this heinous crime to come forward and share their stories with the world. With increasing media coverage on the topic, women and men have been able to recognize instances of sexual assault within their own relationships, not just with strangers. This is beneficial because in the past, sexual assault was a broad term people frowned upon speaking openly about. I am glad recent social media movements such as the #MeToo movement have allowed many people to share their experiences and stories with the world, as a way to spread awareness on the topic. and destigmatize the ideas surrounding survivors. While majority of sexual assault victims are women, it is important to realize men can be victims as well. Believing and affirming men’s stories are equally important. See GUN VOILENCE, VOILENCE page 22

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Gun Violence, Sexual Assault cont. from page 21 KENDALL GAYLE WASHINGTON

Gun Violence As a student, I am concerned with gun control laws due to the amount of school shootings that have taken place over the last couple years. Now in America, guns have more protection than women. As of July 2022, there have been 314 mass shootings, and we are only half-way through the year. It is disappointing The United States Government is divided on a topic that puts lives in danger. The feeling of being safe has been stripped away from students when attending school, and that is unfair. Kids can no longer just be kids, and that is disheartening. Sexual Assault In this new age, people have become more accepting of sexual assault victims, and their pain is taken seriously. While people have been speaking out recently, sexual assault has been common for a long time. At a young age, my mom taught me how to July 29, 2022

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never let my drink leave my hand, and if it does, to get a new one. I did not understand what she meant then, but I do now. I am excited to embark on my new journey of being a college student next year, yet a small part of me is afraid. About 1 in 5 college women are sexually assaulted, per Forbes Magazine. I know it’s never the victim’s fault, but the statistics are heartbreaking. Many future college students like myself share the same fear. So, it’s up to us, Gen-Z, to break the cycle.

Of course not. Should teachers? Schools are supposed to be a safe place for children to learn, not a place where they might fear for their lives. I don’t want to be afraid when I’m learning at school. I don’t want my teacher to be afraid when their only concern should be whether me and my peers are understanding the lesson we are supposed to learn. I want to feel safe, and someone carrying a gun around me, friend or foe, does not make me feel safe.

INIYA NATHAN

Gun Violence Guns are not the answer to gun violence. The question should not be, “If someone has a gun and starts to open fire on everyone around them, how do I protect myself?” It instead should be, “How do we make sure that no one has the opportunity to unnecessarily hurt someone with a firearm?” Children are being shot in classrooms. Should children be carrying guns to protect themselves?

Sexual Assault The way sexual assault cases are handled put too much pressure on the victim. Most questions like “What were you wearing,” “Did you know the person who assaulted you,” “Were you drinking” and “Are you sure that really happened” are all aimed at the victim like sharp knives, as if what they were wearing mattered, or if the fact that they knew the person would change the outcome. Perpetrators of sexual assault are already hard to catch, so the process should not be made worse by quizzing the victims as if this were a class final, not a violation of their rights.

MAYA PALAVALI

Gun Violence The way younger people are introduced to the topic is detrimental to both their mental health and understanding. Currently, the only way kids who don’t actively research learn about gun violence is through breaking news, social media and word of mouth. There is so much fear mongering and misinformation proving nothing positive is being absorbed, causing their perception to be warped. Sexual Assault The way society is structured makes sexual assault very easy to get away with, for both genders. But the amount of sexual assault on males is overlooked. It’s rare we ever hear about a case of sexual assault on males, and, when we do, it’s usually dismissed with common myths like, “He probably enjoyed it anyway,” or other variations. When the same scenarios that are taken more seriously have reversed genders, there is a completely different public reaction. myimessenger.com

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to popular albums such as Kendrick Lamar’s DAMN., Lacy is a well-known, sought-after producer in the industry. Surprisingly, most of the beats created for these artists were produced on Lacy’s iPhone or laptop, which is seemingly impossible for upbeat, complex harmonies and synths. However, Gemini Rights was completed with cowriters and producers under Lacy’s leadership, according to the Rolling Stone. Gemini Rights makes use of funky bass lines, melodic humming and wistful lyrics to capture the carefree vibes of summer, while still reminding the listener of the many nuances of young love. With the release of the lead single, Bad Habit, the success of the album was already predetermined. With over 70 thousand videos using the sound, the song was a hit on TikTok and continues to rise on the Billboard Hot 100. In the tracks Buttons, Amber and Give You the World, Lacy utilizes retro synths, drums

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and pining vocals to create a retro vibe. The lyrics, “I can’t help but see your face/That look in your eye lets me know I’m mesmerized/I wish I wish I never met you no” in Amber and, “Hey, I feel in love with you/I don’t know where I am” in Buttons convey Lacy’s ultimate resentment towards his former lover. In Cody Freestyle, the heavy bass is layered with Lacy’s airy voice, categorizing it more toward the hip-hop genre, while still retaining the retro vibe. Lacy sings Sometimes, “I feel the weight of codependency/I don’t deserve the blame/I just don’t feel the same/The feelings I attained/They trickle down the drain” delivers the message of frustration in regard to love that ties in every song on the album. Gemini Rights represents the disappointments that come with falling in and out of love. Although the lyrics may not relate to everyone, the catchy beats and diversity of music in each song is sure to grasp the listeners’ attention. July 29, 2022

When Do Kids Stop Listening to Their Parents? By Asia Nicole Alcorn and Maya Palavali BY ASIA NICOLE ALCORN MANAGING EDITOR

If you asked my mother what kind of kid I was growing up, she’d say I was obedient and wellmannered. I would agree with my mother because as a kid, I looked up to her and my dad and followed every move they made. However, once I started high school, my behavior began to change. I started to see how girls at my school dressed, spoke and acted. As the only Black girl in my grade, the thing I wanted most was to fit in and make friends. I started acting more independently and spoiled at home, and I could tell it drove my parents crazy. Let’s just say there were a lot of consequences for my acting out. Car keys taken, phone taken, you name it. Now as an adult, watching my son, Godnieces and little cousins grow up is like looking in a mirror. I see how immature I was, although at the time, I thought I knew everything. Little did I know even at 21-years-old; I would still not know everything. So, what’s up with the whole know-it-all July 29, 2022

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complex at the age of 13? Some may say puberty or mean kids at school. Looking back to my high school days, I think I wished my parents understood my perspective a little more. Once you have thorough conversations with your kids and make it a judgment-free zone, they’ll feel more comfortable sharing the truth, and you may even see a change in their behavior. I’m not saying parents don’t have the solutions, but you have to remember times are changing. There’s a number of things your child may be dealing with, which could be a reason they’re acting like a “brat.”

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independently and spoiled at home, and I could tell it drove my parents crazy. Let’s just say there were a lot of consequences for my acting out. Car keys taken, phone taken, you name it. Now as an adult, watching my son, Godnieces and little cousins grow up is like looking in a mirror. I see how immature I was, although at the time, I thought I knew everything. Little did I know even at 21-years-old; I would still not know everything. So, what’s up with the whole know-it-all complex at the age of 13? Some may say puberty or mean kids at school. Looking back to my high school days, I think I wished my parents understood my perspective a little more. Once you have thorough conversations with your kids and make it a judgment-free zone, they’ll feel more comfortable sharing the truth, and you may even see a change in their behavior. I’m not saying parents don’t have the solutions, but you have to remember times are changing. There’s a number of things your child may be dealing with, which could be a reason they’re acting like a “brat.” myimessenger.com

The Heat Isn’t the Problem FAITHFUL UTTERANCES BY DR. FROSWA BOOKER-DREW I recently came back to Texas from a visit to my mother’s home in Louisiana. My mother reminded me before the visit to be prepared for the heat and when I arrived, I thought it was actually comfortable. It’s sad that 93-degree weather would be considered comfortable when I had left an area that was experiencing 106-degree temperatures. It’s amazing how such a small difference in temperature had such a huge impact on my experience. It could have been easy to get into a sparing match to prove that it was hotter in Texas, but the reality is that both of us were experiencing discomfort. I often marvel at how we will make comparisons about others’ experiences to prove how ours is actually worse. Pain is relative and to each person, the way in which it is experienced is different, but it still has an impact. We can get so caught up in trying to prove what is worse that we lose sight of the fact that we are in pain—we will focus more on the result than take the time to pay attention to the source of the problem. This not only happens in our personal lives, but you see this on a societal level. To say that all lives matter is only true when we recognize and make changes that address the many lives that are ignored, silenced, and marginalized. myimessenger.com

When we begin to see the pain of those around and consider the source of the pain, getting into a sparring match over whose pain is worse doesn’t solve the problem and doesn’t create a remedy of the continuation of the pain. Something that we are missing as a society is empathy. “Empathy is the capacity to understand or feel what

learn some powerful lessons from nature. There are species that are vastly different from one another who understand that their survival depends upon the other. We must understand that if one of us wins, it’s an opportunity for us all to win but the same applies if one is hurting. Whether directly or indirectly, there are consequences that we will all endure.

Research in the 1990s “proposed the ‘heat hypothesis’ to explain the fact that violent crimes go up in the summer (the US murder rate, for example, rises by about 2.7 per cent), and that aggressive acts are often more common in hotter countries – the basic idea being that warmer temperatures make us more prone to losing our temper and lashing out.” another person is experiencing from within their frame of reference, that is, the capacity to place oneself in another’s position.” Instead, we spend so much time trying to justify our positions instead of listening, understanding, and offering compassion. I think because we have become so individualistic in our ways of thinking, we fail to see the symbiotic relationship that we all have to each other. I strongly believe we can

Scripture reminds us that we have a responsibility to one another. It begins in not only how we treat others, but it starts in our thinking about one another. “Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.” (1 Peter 3:8) We are “as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” (Colossians 3:12) And instead of

focusing solely on how we are affected, we should be concerned with the impact on others through both good and bad. “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. (Romans 12:15) It is amazing how the heat has a way of making us lose our compassion toward others. Research in the 1990s “proposed the ‘heat hypothesis’ to explain the fact that violent crimes go up in the summer (the US murder rate, for example, rises by about 2.7 per cent), and that aggressive acts are often more common in hotter countries – the basic idea being that warmer temperatures make us more prone to losing our temper and lashing out.” Just as it is hot and we are all impacted, some more than others, we must begin to not only focus on how we are affected but realize that our pain isn’t an opportunity to minimize the experiences of others or attack them. We have a real opportunity to demonstrate God’s love by listening, understanding, and offering compassion even when we are affected as well. At the end of the day, we are all uncomfortable and by focusing on the problem solely doesn’t provide a solution. The solution? Offer love, listen intently, extend grace and empathy. Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the Founder and CEO of Soulstice Consultancy, specializing as a Partnership Broker and Leadership Expert for companies and organizations to thrive with measurable and meaningful impact. She also is the VP of Community Affairs and Strategic Alliances for the State Fair of Texas.

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Call issued to Support Black Businesses Buy Black! By Cheryl Smith Texas Metro News

When Dr. Frederick D. Haynes III, of Friendship-West Baptist Church, announced 100 Days Dr. Frederick D.Haynes III of Buying Black in acknowledging the 100th Commemoration of the Tulsa Race Massacre, we joined the movement. December 31, 2021 marked 100 days of featuring Black Businesses. and we decided that the struggle continues and we must also. So enjoy reading about more Black-owned businesses and please support.

BODY JAM ESSENTIALS

Body Jam Essentials is a skin, hair, and beard care handcrafted Black Women Owned veggie and herb-infused body care line. They curate thoughtfully whipped body butters infused with freshly harvest herbs. Located in the Bishop Arts District of Dallas, TX, you can order on line at www.bodyjamessentials.com

JASMINE ALYSSA

Jasmine Alyssa, a Dallasbased designer, specializes in branding and web design solutions. Jasmine has a deep interest in art and while she is also self-taught, she has a B.A. in Graphic Design and Media Arts. She can help you with logo design, digital and physical collateral, web design. Check her out at www.jasminealyssa.com myimessenger.com

THE DAHLIA CLUB

The Dahlia Club delivers a product that meets customers’ need for affordable and luxurious body and home products. The liquid castile soap delivers a gentle, delightfully scented all purpose natural option for the home and body, in the handcraft shop; specializing in whipped shea butter, liquid castile soap, and tufted rugs! Reach The Dahlia Club at http://thedahliaclub. com/ (972) 275-9680

MIJOY NATURALS

Founded by Tiffany Roberts, a natural hair Youtube creator and cosmetologist/ trichologist, MiJoy Naturals works to resolve common (and not so common) hair and scalp issues using naturallyderived, sustainable ingredients. These products, which work best for wavy, curly, coily, kinky & highly textured hair are developed by a pro who went to cosmetology school and received her license. Tiffany also has a blog that provides education and tips on natural hair care. https://www.mijoynaturals.com/

GLITZ OPTICAL

After 10 + years in the Optical Industry, Amber Jackson was fed up with frames not widely showcasing a variety of fits that catered to a range of people of different ethnicities and face shapes. Combining her love for the art and diversity represented in Dallas; she came up with a new concept to eyewear that was just as unique and inclusive-Glitz Optical. Check out https://glitzopticalonline.com

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Megan Kazadi started her loc journey October 15, 2021. Throughout her loc journey, she’s grown to understand and love each and every loc of hers. As she started to do her own retwists, Kazadi realized how great it would be to offer this service to others, carrying their own beautiful crowns. This idea inspired her to start my brand MegslocsNretwist, based in Houston, TX. She just wants to spread love and light by styling you just right! To book, contact her via Instagram @ megslocsnretwist

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My Trend is me, is a personal styling & shopping experience for career women, specializing in effortless looks for day or night. Founder and CEO, Erica Miller loves working with people and providing them with what she’s learned, along with some self-development that she incorporates into the lives of women. Over the years, she has obtained experience in Corporate America. “It’s not a secret that some of our ladies need help on how to prepare and dress for success,” Miller said. “Not just for the interview, but for the duration of their employment. My Trend is me is here to help!” Miller went on to say, “I guarantee satisfaction to you ladies who are taking a new opportunity for greatness! As your personal stylist I will provide easy tips that make it possible for you to prepare for success.” My Trend is me Personal Stylist appointment provides you with great tips you need to be ready to make a great first impression. Not just with your resume, but how you look from head to toe. Not only for day one, but every day you go to work, or step out for special moments, too. Whatever style you want to acquire – sassy, classy, simple, jazzy – Don’t forget, My Trend is me. My Trend is me connects with individuals, Boutiques and Department stores as a contracted Personal Stylist/Personal Shopper preparing for Corporate America, or an everyday look for a special event. Call and set up your consultation today! Phone: 817-722-4465 or Email: animageofbeauty3@gmail.com July 29, 2022

DFW/ABJ mixer at The Black Academy of Arts and Letters

The Black Academy of Arts and Letters hosted the Dallas-Fort Worth Association of Black Journalists for a media mixer recently.

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Tiffaney Dale Hunter Named a 2022 Women in Business Award Honoree by the Dallas Business Journal Tiffaney Dale Hunter, award-winning global marketing and communications leader, has been named a 2022 Women in Business Honoree by the Dallas Business Journal. This coveted list honors the region’s “most influential business women who go above and beyond professionally and throughout the community.” “I am truly humbled to be recognized among this amazing group of women who are leading the way in their industries and making a lasting impact in the community,” said Hunter. “It’s an honor to be celebrated and recognized by the Dallas Business Journal for my dedication of service to the community and for the purpose-driven work that I do professionally.” With over 20 years of marketing and communications experience, Hunter currently advises global executive leaders on driving transformation for teams worldwide through the development and implementation of strategic internal communications campaigns and initiatives. Her areas of focus are climate change and sustainability, fi-

nancial accounting and advisory services and forensic and integrity services. Notable professional projects and contributions also include leading marketing efforts for a “Bridging the Digital Divide” initiative that was deployed in over 80 offices throughout the nation, spearheading communications for the 50/50 Women on Boards Dallas Conversation event, which is committed to increasing gender balance and diversity on corporate boards, providing strategic and creative insight for a social equity team working to create equity and inclusiveness for employees throughout the world and implementing a communication campaign designed to inspire community transformation and shed the light on health, racism and social injustices in under-sourced minority communities. Community highlights and milestones Hunter has received several awards as a result of the impact she has made in her profession and the community. She received the 2015 University of North Texas Dis-

Promotion for Candace Wicks Candace Wicks has been appointed to the American Legion Auxiliary Department of Texas Education Committee representing Division 1. The Education Program promotes the American Legion Auxiliary’s role in providing quality education for children and adults through classroom activities, literacy programs, scholarship promotion and support of education beyond high school, especially for military children. July 29, 2022

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tinguished Young Alumnus Award and the 2013 Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce Quest for Success Award. She also was awarded the “40 under 40” awards from both the Collin County Business Press and the Dallas Furniture Bank and was a nominee for Sterling Bank’s Texas Most Inspiring Women. Hunter uses her proven leadership, marketing and communications skills to empower and uplift the community. She currently serves on the board of directors for the University of North Texas College of Liberal Arts and Sciences and Anthem Strong Families. She is a member of the Junior League of Dallas, The Village Giving Circle of Texas Women’s Foundation, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated – Alpha Xi Omega Chapter and the National Association of Black Journalists. She is also a graduate of Leadership Dallas ‘07, Leadership Arts ‘07 and Leadership Women ’09. Most recently, Hunter served as the events and entertainment chair for the Dallas Arboretum and Botanical

Garden Black Heritage Celebration. Previously, she served as the event chair for the Women in Need of Generous Support (WiNGS) signature Mentors and Allies Awards Luncheon; the Leukemia Texas Inaugural Concert for a Cure in Houston; the Leukemia Texas Inaugural Beat Leukemia Concert for a Cure in Dallas; the Dallas Challenge Art from the Heart Celebrity Art Auction and Benefit; and the Dallas Arts District Alliance Savor the Arts Benefit. Additionally, she served as a board member for the Dallas Bach Society, the WiNGS organization, Southern Methodist University’s Business Associate program, the Dallas Arts District Alliance, the Dallas Wind Symphony, the Dallas Symphony Orchestra League’s Élan Circle, the Fort Worth Jubilee Theatre and the Urban League of Greater Dallas and North Central Texas. Hunter received both her Master of Business Administration and Graduate Finance Certification from Southern Methodist University Cox School of Business. She holds a Bachelor of Business Administration in Marketing from the University of North Texas and an Associates of Arts from Blinn College. Women In Business Luncheon A luncheon celebrating all 25 Women in Business honorees will take place on Thursday, August 25, at the Fairmont Dallas Hotel. Tiffaney and the other honorees will be featured in the September 2 issue of the Dallas Business Journal. myimessenger.com

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The South Dallas Cultural Center Juanita J. Craft Artist Residency Program Congratulations to the 2022 Artists-In-Residence at the South Dallas Cultural Center. Jessica Bell, Linda Jones, Ebony Lewis and Camika Spencer are distinguished professionals. The purpose of the South Dallas Cultural Center (SDCC) Artist Residency Initiative is to contribute, in a significant manner, to the cultural and artistic impact of the South Dallas community. The Initiative aims to encourage artists of the African Diaspora in all disciplines to explore new working methods and to develop socially engaging, interactive art experiences immersed within the neighborhoods of the South Dallas area. Artists involved in this Initiative are expected to research, investigate and engage residents, organizations, and institutions for the purposes of developing and creating unique artwork, art series, or body of work.

Camika Spencer MA, MFA, is an Oak Cliff native of Dallas, Texas. Her revival of Black Legend Heirlooms as an art installation begins with Camika being able to discuss, teach, and curate shows in African-American neighborhoods throughout the United States and the globe, where she hopes to begin in her home of Dallas, TX.

Linda Jones is an award-winning old-school journalist who navigates new media, and she is a global citizen who celebrates diversity through advocacy. As a freelance writing consultant, and owner of Mane Lock Communications, LLC., she is known professionally as a “writing doula,” and specializes in writing that helps clients tell better stories, preserve legacy and promote emotional well-being and self-care.

Jessica Bell is a recipient of the Red Bull Artist Grant, Priscilla Art Award, along with several municipal artist grants over the course of her career. Bell has participated in an artist talk at the Dallas Museum of Art and teaching workshops at the Dallas Contemporary. Working in the public and private sector, Bell’s work is in private collections including UTSW Medical Center.

President Biden tests Positive for COVID Statement from Press Secretary Karine Jean-Pierre This morning [July 21], President Biden tested positive for COVID-19. He is fully vaccinated and twice boosted and experiencing very mild symptoms. He has begun taking Paxlovid. Consistent with CDC guidelines, he will isolate at the White House and will continue to carry out all of his duties fully during that time. He has been in contact with members of the White House staff by phone this morning, and will participate in his planned meetings at the White House this morning via phone and Zoom from the residence. Consistent with White House protocol for positive COVID cases, which goes above and beyond CDC guidance, he will continue to work in isolation until he tests negative. Once he tests negative, he will return to in-person work. Out of an abundance of transparency, the White House will provide a daily update on the President’s status as he conJuly 29, 2022

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Born in Greenville, MI, Ebony Lewis has lived most of her life in Cedar Hill, TX. Ebony has earned a project with the Mayor Star Council Bus Stop Project for public art installations. Ebony has collaborated with DART, Neiman Marcus and has created a mural installation in the Historic South Dallas neighborhood of Queen City, Historic Deep Ellum neighborhood Blues Alley and the Dallas YMCA mural project.

Training Future Journalists Texas Metro News Lifestyle and Culture Editor, Eva D. Coleman led a training session “Making Your Mark: Establishing a Brand That YOU Believe In.” Coleman went over broadcast basics, podcasting 101, content delivery and more.

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tinues to carry out the full duties of the office while in isolation. Per standard protocol for any positive case at the White House, the White House Medical Unit will inform all close contacts of the President during the day today, including any Members of Congress and any members of the press who interacted with the President during yesterday’s travel. The President’s last previous test for COVID was Tuesday, when he had a negative test result.

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The Needs of American Citizens vs. Support for Ukraine OUR VOICES DR. JOHN E. WARREN

There is no question that the United States and its allies around the world are committed to supporting the Ukraine people. We have demonstrated this by the amount of aid and relief already sent, and that which the American people collect and send daily. But while we help our friends and neighbors abroad, we must not neglect the needs here at home. To this end, let this be a reminder to the members of the U.S. Senate and the Congress who voted to send $40 billion dollars to support Ukraine in its fight against Russia. We here in America as the taxpaying citizens who provided the dollars being sent to the Ukraine, are still in need of more than $22.5 billion dollars for COVID relief funds to continue the battle against this virus. The lack of the requested $22.5 billion dollars means that testing and treatment sites have closed and are closing; it myimessenger.com

means that Personal Protective Equipment (PPE) will not be available in the amounts needed for the coming surge this fall and winter; it means that those American businesses that responded to the call to produce much needed supplies and

and the Republican resistance in the House of Representatives as the crisis in the Ukraine. The “We don’t need to fund, now” attitude of these people is reinforced by those American people who have taken off their masks

The only question is what will you do now in terms of pressuring the Senate to pass COVID Relief funding, and will you work to find additional candidates for the Senate that will allow us to end the Filibuster? It’s up to all of us. If a Senate seat is not up for election in our state, let’s find one that is, connect, and support those in such states that agree with our desire for change. equipment here at home instead of imports from China and abroad, now find themselves without government contracts and supplies needed to stay in business; it means that the much anticipated need for vaccines will be delayed because the funding is not there to continue production. All these things are as well-known to the members of the U.S. Senate

in the midst of growing numbers of infections and what appears to be a general “It's over” attitude. Once again we are being put on a crisis collision course with a disease that has already claimed more than one million American lives and is set to take more. Once again, this is a reminder that all these issues come down to

whether you Vote or don’t Vote. The Republicans and the Conservative Right who have overturned Roe and wiped out other Constitutional guarantees at the Supreme Court level and legislated voter suppression laws at the State level, are counting on the masses of the poor, people of color, and that young vote of Whites and others not coming out to vote in the Midterm elections in four months. Or, the 2024 general election, for which the Midterm is a dry run test to retake government and complete the death of Democracy as we know it. The only question is what will you do now in terms of pressuring the Senate to pass COVID Relief funding, and will you work to find additional candidates for the Senate that will allow us to end the Filibuster? It’s up to all of us. If a Senate seat is not up for election in our state, let’s find one that is, connect, and support those in such states that agree with our desire for change. Dr. John E. Warren is publisher of The San Diego Voice and Viewpoint.

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To Stop Gun Violence, Use Economic Tools THE LAST WORD BY DR. JULIANNE MALVEAUX

There have been at least 214 mass shootings in the United States so far this year, the most recent being the killings during a July 4 gathering in Highland Park, Illinois. This year, we have also been both riveted and horrified by the massacre of 21 people, 19 children, in Uvalde, Texas. A crazed racist killed 10 Black people and wounded at least three others when he shot up a Tops grocery store in Buffalo. In 2022, there have been more shootings than days; the shootings have become commonplace. The Biden Administration and concerned legislators have done what they can to restrict gun ownership, given our nation’s gun culture and our combatively divided Senate. There is a new gun safety law, and some survivors of mass shootings joined him at the White House to celebrate the legislation. Yet, even after Congress passed the law, we learned that the new law would not have prevented the Highland Park shootings, as the 18-yearold man who did the shootings purchased the assault weapon he used legally. The families of victims are tired of people offering thoughts and prayers. They want action! The Safer Communities Act, passed on a biJuly 29, 2022

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partisan basis last month, is a step in the right direction, but it doesn’t go far enough. We need to use economic tools or inject economics into the conversation about gun safety. Those of us who are disgusted by mass shootings and the violence that plagues our inner cities may have some weapons at our disposal to punish those who participate in, and encourage, our gun culture. Those of us with stock portfolios must insist that our money managers avoid stocks

(RGM) agreed to pay the families of the 2012 Sandy Hook shooting, where 20 children and six educators were killed. It took a decade between the shootings and the lawsuit settlement, so the families must be commended for their persistence. The families of victims in Uvalde, Buffalo, and Highland Park should consider pursuing similar lawsuits to punish those companies that flood deadly weapons into the public. Those who facilitate the gun

like Smith and Wesson (SWBI), which produced more than 1.5 million guns in 2020. If more people who say they hate gun violence stopped investing in gun manufacturing companies, perhaps these companies would rethink their manufacturing, marketing, and lobbying. Gun ownership has been cleverly marketed, with companies using buzzwords like safety, to encourage gun purchases. Those who are survivors of gun violence and their families should sue the gun manufacturers who produce the deadly weapons that make massacres possible. Earlier this year, Remington

possession of young shooters should also be sued. In the Highland Park case, the shooter’s father, Bobby Crimo, said that he’d done nothing wrong in signing his son’s gun permit application. From all indications, his son Bobby Crimo, Jr. was troubled. He’d once threatened to kill his family, sparking a police investigation. And yet his dad signs for a gun permit. Sue him. If those who mindlessly sign gun permits understand that there are financial consequences to their actions, they might think again. Some will say that Crimo and some of the other shooters were adults. I say if you facilitated the gun

purchase, you have to pay for it. We can also use our tax or surcharge system to restrict the distribution of ammunition. The comedian Chris Rock had it right when he said in 2009, “You don’t need no gun control, you know what you need? We need some bullet control. I think all bullets should cost five thousand dollars… five thousand dollars per bullet… You know why? Cause if a bullet cost five thousand dollars, there would be no more innocent bystanders. Every time somebody got shot, we’d say. . .He must have done something ... he’s got fifty thousand dollars worth of bullets in his behind. .. Even if you get shot by a stray bullet, you wouldn’t have to go to no doctor to get it taken out. Whoever shot you would take their bullet back, like, “I believe you got my property.” Rock might have been joking, but I’m not. We use our tax system to encourage or discourage specific behavior or to cover the costs of such behavior. We use gas taxes to maintain roads. We impose cigarette and alcohol taxes to discourage consumption. Why not tax bullets (or mandate a surcharge) to discourage their use? If we want to slow or stop gun violence, economic tools might well be the answer. Dr. Julianne Malveaux is an author, economist, and social commentator.

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Embrace the Shadow, Sometimes it is a Protective Covenant over Those Who Are Against Good THE BLACK CARD BY TERRY ALLEN

If Lucille “Big Mama" Allen was alive during this new digital season, then her playbook would be trending on Twitter. She would be a TikTok sensation. Now that is a good idea for any grandma today! Today, she would say, "My Baby Bo, sometimes when you are in the shadow, you may be under the shadow of the Almighty." She said it can mean "in the presence of God." God will surround you as he protects when you are at your highest success or climb and the enemy comes for you. Big Mama would always deliver her message in her special way. She would stand proudly with her hands on hips and speak from her space and dominion. Big Mama left legacies that became part of lifetime lessons for all of us. Big Mama wanted us to know that no matter what, The Okey-Doke is real. FYI, the term, "okeydoke," meaning some sort of trick, game, scam, attempt to fool, shortchange designed to deceive or mislead. But, she taught me how to seek knowledge, get the myimessenger.com

facts and find gratitude. Big Mama had ‘skin in the game’ so she was always a source of wisdom for many of us, especially me. Of course, her stance was biblical and based on her faith. She poured into us from, “Whoever dwells in the shelter of the most high will rest in the shadow of

thinking. The key is to continuously find peace and renew the purpose in your challenges. Today we see random events with active shooters. We see a covert group of leaders determine the legality of rights for many. We see those who co-exist with us argue, disagree and fight.

the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.'” My life management would manage many circumstances without a direct emotional reaction because I believed I stood in the shadow of the Almighty. Big Mama called it standing in the shadow, yet in modern day times it is also called level-headed

Over a few months, I openly observed several subtle moves toward myself and others to make us unnecessary and expendable. This is a move by those who think that removing you from position and title will reduce your ability to contribute and/ or minimize your power to lend your ‘gifts’ to others. I have seen others mimic many of the selfless ef-

forts I and others do. I have seen others openly take the ‘gifts’ of others and claim ownership with an in-kind intention. Big Mama would say, “SMH” if she were here today. I am hopeful that we all get a chance to rise up and persevere. It can happen. Look at Elizabeth Lynne Cheney, an American attorney and politician who has been the U.S. Representative for Wyoming's at-large congressional district since 2017 and who has been a proven constitutional conservative and an advocate for a strong America. She has been steadfast in her stance for appropriate leadership. I am also moved by the late Honorable Shirley Chisholm, who said, “If they don't give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair.” I am reminded to stay in “the cleft of the rock” until God and Good steps in. There are times when those around us will not walk with the Lord. Those who mean good must remain focused on the greater good and pray that those "allies," too, come to repentance before God will cut them down. Thanks Big Mama! Terry Allen is a multi-media journalist and former board member of the National Association of Black Journalists.

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Metro Community Calendar powered by JULY 30 The Denton County Democratic Party (DCDP) will hold its LBJObama Dinner at the Hilton Garden Inn, 785 State Highway 121, Lewisville. The keynote address will be given by former Texas State Senator Wendy Davis and the guest speaker will be Texas House Rep. Jasmine Crockett. For tickets call 972-835-7301.

The Southwest Region of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. partners with Fort Worth ISD, Pragmatic Prodigies, DIG Contracting, Community Frontline, and the City of Fort Worth to address Period Poverty at Morningside Middle School, 2751 Mississippi Ave, Fort Worth, TX 76104. 9am-2pm

Self Care Sunday Funday Pop-Up Shop - Four Corners Brewing Co. 1311 S. Ervay St -Dallas

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Scarface at the The House of Blues

Kevin Hart live @ The AAC in Dallas!

National Association of Black Journalists and National Association of Hispanic Journalists meet in Las Vegas! Register at www.nabj.org

Wiz Khalifa w/ special guest Logic at the Dos Equis Pavilion in Dallas!

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The PoliChic Engagement Fund Bravery Brunch will honor 12 women from across the state who were pivotal to advancing civic engagement and encouraged social and political activism in their respective communities. achievements.) 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. CT Junior League of Houston, 1811 Briar Oaks Lane, Houston, TX 77027 $125 per person

Doc Shep Speaks Show! A fresh perspective, but still entertaining! Welcome to The Doc Shep Speaks Show!!!. Tuesdays at 11 am. CST Live on Facebook/@TexasMetroNews, @ fnsconsulting, and YouTube Live @ docshepspeaks.

The World According to Andrew on BlogTalkRadio.com 8 am.-10 am. CST. Sundays Tune in for thought-provoking, enlightening, informative, and entertaining news and commentary. Join the call 646200-0459 on Andrew’s World.

Jubilee Theatre presents DREAMGIRLS at BASS HALL 817-212-4280

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14 The Weeknd live at The AT&TStadium in Arlington

25 Women In Business Luncheon

I Was Just Thinking with Norma Adams-Wade “History Class is in Session” Join in on Facebook/@ TexasMetroNews and BlogTalkRadio.com at 11 am -1 pm. CST. Wednesdays. Join the conversation call 646-200-0459.

See Chris Brown & Lil Baby @ The Dos Equis Pavilion in Dallas!

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Lifestyle Metro Calendar powered by Someone Like Me, is a panel with eight queer femme and non-binary artist sworking across mediums and cultures. It will be at the Latino Cultural Center, 2600 Live Oak Street, Tx 75404 through August 20, 2022. **** Wellness Series Kids Creative Movement, gives kids the opportunity to be creative expressing themselves through dance, gymnastics, yoga, and more. Children must be accompanied by a legal guardian. The classes are held at Sammons Park, 2403 Flora Street, Dallas, Tx 75201, next to the Center Café. Dress yourself and your child in comfortable clothing. The Wellness Series is Tuesdays at 10AM through-Aug 2.

NAACP Dallas presents the Fannie Lou Hamer Story, “Justice for all Brunch and Scholarship Awards at 1pm Lofty Spaces, 816 Montgomery St.

**** Sweet Tooth Hotel is presenting their newest exhibit Rewind through August 31. Located at Watters Creek at Montgomery Farm, 970 Garden Park Dr. Allen, TX 75013. Ticket prices range from $15-$35. **** The Immersive Van Gogh exhibit is now available to the public, located at Lighthouse Dallas, 507 S. Harwood St. Dallas, TX 75201. Presented by Lighthouse Immersive and Impact Museums, Immersive Van Gogh is a digital art experience that invites audiences to enter the works of Van Gogh, evoking his highly emotional and chaotic inner consciousness through art, light, music, movement and imagination. ****

The 7th Annual iLIVE Expo is North Texas largest Wellness and Lifestyle Expo of its kind!

6 Back to School Physicals, Check-up, Vaccines. LBU Pediatrics 3111 Sylvan Ave. Dallas 75212 8am-12 noon

Texas Fibroid Awareness Month Self Care Fair, free community event and feminine hygiene supply drive at Forest Hill Civic and Convention center, 6901 Wichita St. in Forest Hill, TX.

The Perot Museum of Nature and Science, located at 2201 N. Field St. Dallas, TX 75202, celebrates its 10th Anniversary with the new exhibit, “Becoming Jane: The Evolution of Dr. Jane Goodall.” Starting July 9th-September 5th, world-renowned conservationist and ethologist Dr. Jane Goodall – who has famously studied chimpanzees in the wild for more than 60 years – will be celebrated in this special exhibition, produced in partnership with the National Geographic Society and the Jane Goodall Institute. **** Grapevine Palace Theatre, located 300 S. Main St. Grapevine, TX 76051, presents family-friendly summer movies every Tuesday and Wednesday through August 3rd. The upcoming movie list includes The Little Mermaid, Frozen and more! Tickets are $4 (children 2 and under are free).

JULY TEXAS FIBROID AWARENESS MONTH 30 The 2022 ILIVE Women’s and Girls Wellness & LifeStyle Expo! University of Texas at Arlington, Texas 10a- 2:30 p 300 W. First Street Arlington, Texas, TX 76017 *** The Denton County Democratic Party (DCDP) will hold its LBJ-Obama Dinner at the Hilton Garden Inn, 785 State Highway 121, Lewisville. The keynote address will be given by former Texas State Senator Wendy Davis and the guest speaker is Texas House Rep. Jasmine Crockett. For tickets call 972-835-7301.

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8-11 Back to School Physicals, Check-up, Vaccines. LBU Pediatrics 3111 Sylvan Ave. Dallas 75212 or LBU Oak Cliff 4732 W. Illinois Ave., Dallas 75211 4-7 pm

11 The Southwest Region of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. partners with Fort Worth ISD, Pragmatic Prodigies, DIG Contracting, Community Frontline, and the City of Fort Worth to address Period Poverty at Morningside Middle School, 2751 Mississippi Ave, Fort Worth, TX 76104. 9am-2pm

The Bradley Johnson Foundation presentes YOUTH S.E.A. Science Economics Arts Virtual Summit, 3-5pm for ages 12-26. Register on line

20 Dallas Celeb Fashion Award at the Statler Hotel, 1914 Commerce St, 6p.m. Magic Johnson will receive the 2022 Black Diamond Lifetime Achievement Award

Dallas Bridal Show 10am-5pm and Dallas Market Hall

AUGUST 1-4 Back to School Physicals, Check-up, Vaccines. LBU Pediatrics 3111 Sylvan Ave. Dallas 75212 or LBU Oak Cliff 4732 W. Illinois Ave., Dallas 75211 4-7 pm

3-7 National Association of Black Journalists / National Association of Hispanic Journalists

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ARRESTED

HE IS A SERIAL RAPIST

He targeted members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. but this is more than about a sorority. We’re talking about a community.

Come on PEOPLE! Don’t you CARE? Will it matter when it is your sister, mother, aunt or grandmother or maybe YOU?

Crimestoppers 877-373-8477 July 29, 2022

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