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Senator speaks on Mother’s Day and issues impacting women In recent times, more and more grandparents, primarily grandmothers, are taking on the responsibility of being the primary caretaker of their grandchildren. In many instances limited and fixed incomes can be stretched to the breaking point.

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The celebration of Mother’s Day can be a very emotional one. For some, this will be their first celebration as a mother, while for others it will be their first or one of many commemorations since the passing of their mother, grandmother, godmother, special aunt, or that female nurturer. I am blessed to be able to pick up the phone and hear my mother’s voice or drive over to visit. It’s special for me because she is the light of my life. She brings joy and shares words of wisdom. As the matriarch of four generations, Gloria Ashford continues to be a source of inspiration and voice of reason, navigating our family as we evolve and her contributions to society will be her legacy. In celebration of Mother’s Day, I salute my mother, my super intelligent, beautiful, and compassionate wife, Carol and all mothers, whether by birth, surrogate or adoption. Ho-

wever, as a legislator, it’s not enough for me to say Happy Mother’s Day if I am not ensuring that everything possible is done to bring those wishes to fruition or taking care of mothers and women. Many of our mothers are elderly residents in nursing homes. My legislation expanded the list of criminal

“Mama was my greatest teacher, a teacher of compassion, love and fearlessness. If love is sweet as a flower, then my mother is that sweet flower of love.” — Stevie Wonder

offenses that bar employment at nursing facilities. It also required owners and employees of nursing homes to report all observed instances of abuse and neglect to health officials and law enforcement. And grandmothers have always been an integral part of the familial structure. Grandmothers were who everyone looked to in our villages, communi-

ties and neighborhoods to cure, discipline, educate and love, when no one else could or would. In recent times, more and more grandparents — primarily grandmothers — are taking on the responsibility of being the primary caretaker of their grandchildren. In many instances limited and fixed incomes can be stretched to the breaking point. That’s why I passed legislation giving a one-time financial grant of $1,000 to any person over 50 caring for their grandchildren. I know that in today’s economic environment, $1,000 is not a windfall, but it is a start as we continue to call attention to issues and seek respite. That’s why I subsequently created the Permanency Care Assistance program at DFPS, in which a caregiver who assumes legal responsibility for the child can receive between $400-$545 per month. Further, I applauded U.S. Congresswomen Alma Adams (D-NC) and Lauren Underwood (D-IL) for co-launching the Black Maternal Health Caucus see Mother’s Day on page 5

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Carolyn Davis Mr. Moore, who was under the influence of Ambien on July 15, 2019, when he drove into oncoming traffic and hit the car carrying 57-year-old Davis and 27-yearold Melissa Lashan Davis-Nunn, pleaded guilty to two counts of murder and was sentenced on both charges. The sentences will run concurrently.

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Mothers! Mothers! Mothers! Editor’s note: This is a reprint from Mother’s Day 2019.

I talked to one of my mother’s best friends over the weekend. I always check on her and a few others because they now get the Mother’s Day calls that I can’t make to my mother. Virginia is really sweet. While there are other friends who she has known since she was a teenager, Virginia

is someone she met and they would hang out together for decades until my mother’s passing in 2014. Earline and Virginia went to church at the historic New Hope Baptist Church in Newark, New Jersey. They attended events with other senior citizens, were active in the National Council of Negro Wom-

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en and the NAACP branches, and they had their regular therapy sessions at the casinos in Atlantic City. Virginia even traveled with my mother to Dallas for the Don’t Believe the Hype Celebrity Bowl-a-thon around 2000. Then after Mother relocated to Dallas in 2012, Virginia returned to Dallas to spend quality time with her. They were friends til the end. I thank Virginia for being a friend to my mother and I will cherish and respect her forever. You see, I’m so glad that I have friends of my mother who I respect and can talk to. Her friends help me, especially during those times when all I can do is breathe heavily and say a prayer.

Which brings me to my truth. About 29 years ago, Dallas County Commissioner John Wiley Price introduced me to Vera English. A very stylish woman, Vera was an entrepreneur. The owner of Pink Palace, a beauty salon in Oak Cliff, Vera has won numerous hair competitions and when I need my hair/scalp taken care of, I go see her. But then again, I go see her for more than hair treatment. Vera, much like my mother’s friend, Virginia, is a source of inspiration, support, guidance and love. She speaks truth to power, and more importantly, truth to my heart. I don’t worry about whethmyimessenger.com

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My Truth er or not she is telling the truth or whether she has a hidden agenda, or an ulterior motive. I know that Vera is the real deal. Like my mother and Virginia, Vera loves to dress! She loves to be color-coordinated and yes, she can top off the most stylish outfit with a hat. That hat or headpiece notwithstanding, Vera always made sure that should it blow off your head, the hairstyle underneath was just as glamorous and appealing. Going to the Pink Palace was an escape for me, a place to go to get away from the hustle and bustle of the world. Sure we would have discussions about the troubles of the world, but it was also a place that gave new meaning to the phrase, “let your hair down.” The Pink Palace was the “no judgement” zone, where women and some men could share thoughts and offer advice, without condemnation or vicious attacks. Sure there were the discussions about politics, education, and world peace. And we talked about raising children, caring for parents, relationships and more. But for some reason, the people who came to Pink Palace and engaged in conversations came with a positive spirit and myimessenger.com

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from page 2 a respectful tongue. Maybe it was because of the leadership of Vera. Although small in stature, probably standing 4 feet 4 inches in those stiletto heels she loved to strut around in, Vera seemed almost larger than life. Okay I may be exaggerating. But she is short! With a big heart. And her heart and infinite wisdom has kept my head level many a time. You see, Vera is quiet and unassuming. And while she does not appear to carry a big punch, her actions and demeanor command and receive respect and reverence. She doesn’t have to raise her voice to get your attention. A word to the wise should be sufficient and if you don’t take heed with Vera; it’s all on you because you are definitely operating at a deficit and could end up in a very bad situation. I thank Vera for being my friend, my confidante, my light at the end of a sometimes dark tunnel. I’m talking about unconditional love. A mother’s love. Find someone to share love with, especially during these times!

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because I am also concerned about the disparity as it relates to maternal health and African American women. Subsequent legislation, introduced by Rep. Adams and then Sen. Kamala Harris (D-CA), and supported by Rep. Eddie Bernice Johnson (D-TX), recognizes “Black Maternal Health Week” to bring national attention to the maternal health care crisis in the Black community and the importance of reducing the rate of maternal mortality and morbidity among Black women is also significant and necessary as we express our love for mothers. There are so many issues, like gender wage gap, protection of female migrant workers, human trafficking, birth control, health insurance and child care, that must be addressed. If we don’t care about and address those issues, saying, “Happy Mother’s Day,” is just an empty expression. May 7, 2021

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Election News 2021 Key races could impact midterm elections next year By Texas Metro News Team For so many, there were obstacles that stood in the way of voting in the Texas Municipal elections, including COVID-19, inclement weather with threats of storms and on the flip side, beautiful weather that many saw as a sign to break out from the captivity of the past 14 months. Even with a pivotal race that could have serious implications in the 2022 midterm elections; many opted to stay away from the polls. In some key races, the votes paid off, sending some incumbents home in landslide victories while others braced for the runoff election on June 5. A race clearly on the minds across the state, was that of the Fort Worth Mayoral race, where long-serving Mayor Betsy Price, announced at the beginning of the year that she would not be seeking another term. After the results started pouring in Texas Democratic Party Chair Gilberto Hinojosa issued the following statement congratulating Deborah Peoples on winning the most votes and advancing to the runoff election. The former business executive and current chair of the Tarrant County Democratic Party garnered 33 of the vote and will face outgoing Mayor Price’s former Chief of Staff, Mattie Parker, who secured 31%. “I send my warmest congratulations to Deborah Peoples on her first-place victory in Fort Worth’s mayoral election today,” said Chairman Hinojosa. “Fort Worth could not choose a better leader to represent this great city, and I look forward to supporting Debmyimessenger.com

orah every step of the way as we look toward her runoff election. Deborah leads with vision, compassion, and integrity, and I look forward to seeing the progress she will create on behalf of Fort Worth residents when elected. “As a business leader and longtime Chair of the Tarrant County Democratic Party, Deborah has worked every day to build a better Texas for all of us. She is a gifted leader who brings people together at every opportunity, and I know that as mayor, she will help build a stronger, more united Fort Worth. Deborah is focused on tackling the most important issues Texans are facing -- from fixing our broken criminal justice system to caring for our seniors. Noting that Ms. Peoples’ success was a testament to the groundswell of Democratic power rising up across Texas, Mr. Hinojosa added, that “her leadership flipped Tarrant County blue in the 2020 presidential election for the first time in recent memory, and that same organizing and dedication has propelled her to today’s victory.” Ms. Peoples welcomed the support. “I am grateful to have the support of Chair Hinojosa. Fort Worth’s success is success for our state as a whole, and I am ready to use my 30 years of executive experience and lifetime of service to the community to lead us out of crisis.” With so many contested races across the state, a couple of others garnered attention, like in Terrell where City of Dallas senior staffer Tonya Derrick was elected to the Terrell. ISD School Board - District 3, with a little help from her long-

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time friend, awarding winning actor and entertainer Jamie Foxx. By a three-to-one margin, Ms. Derrick defeated long-time educator Pat Martin, in both ladies’ inaugural run for political office. City of Dallas, in addition to dealing with controversy; had polling site issues and some overcrowded races with a total of 57 for 14 seats. Not as overwhelming for some as was choosing between 23 candidates seeking to fill the U.S. Congressional seat that became vacant when Congressman Ron Wright died after contracting COVID-19. His widow, Susan Wright, was among the 23 and she garnered a spot in the runoff, against Looking back West, eyes were on Mansfield as business owner Christie K. Moore attempted to unseat Place 5 incumbent, Julie Short, for a seat on the City Council of the city of 70,000. While she was not successful, business owner, wife and mother, Moore said campaigning has been a rewarding experience and she is looking forward to working with

citizens to make the Mansfield community better. “They (citizens) want a more diverse leadership and the City Council should have people on the Council who understand business.” As citizens went to the polls, she said she wanted voters to take into consideration her almost 30 years of service, education, community involvement, leadership skills and business acumen, adding that with her in a position of leadership, everyone and “all neighborhoods would have a voice.” But the election hasn’t been without some hiccups, she admits. In March, she found herself addressing the regular city council meeting regarding claims about who she received campaign funds from and that she was not legally eligible to be on the ballot. “This has been a race within a race as we have raced back and forth in the courts,” the certified mortician said. “Now we’re racing to the ballot.” Calling the race “somewhat contentious,” Ms. Moore said she has persevered and did not become discouraged over attempts to have her removed from the ballot. “One would not believe how my opponent has tried to subvert the vote and undermine the campaign,” she said. “Diversity is a strength and not a threat. “You can’t just look to ethnicity as an indicator of diversity, you also have diversity. You have to consider other elements; like age, sex, orientation and geography, if you want to be inclusive and supportive.” For more coverage, visit www. texasmetronews.com and www. dallasnews.com May 7, 2021

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who lived to be arrested WHAT’S ON MILES’ MIND

MILES JAYE I expect this essay will be short. It shouldn’t take long for you to get the point and appreciate the irony. Milwaukee born, cannibal and necrophiliac, Jeffrey Dahmer, is known to have killed 15 Black, Latino and Asian boys. He was sentenced to 15 life sentences in 1992; but was killed by another inmate in 1994. Serial killer David Berkowitz, Son of Sam, the .44 Caliber Killer, was born in Brooklyn, New York. The subject of Spike Lee’s “Summer of Sam” film, he was convicted of six killings and was sentenced to a term of 365 years in prison or 15 life sentences. He claimed his neighbor’s dog, Harvey, told him to commit the murders. New York State Laws were passed in his name-- the Son of Sam laws. Theodore Cowell, aka, Ted Bundy, was a rapist and serial killer born in Burlington, Vermont. He confessed to 28

creating celebrities and folk heroes out of the worst monsters among us. It’s a sick but undeniable part of us. We idolize murderers and criminals like Al Capone, Machine Gun Kelly and Bonnie and Clyde to name a few. The movies play and audiences cheer for the bad guy. Or more recently, they vote for the bad guy. Former President Donald Trump may not be directly responsible for the deaths of well over five hundred thousand U.S. citizens; however, he is arguably responsible for many of the needless deaths caused by his cover-up of the corona virus pandemic in the early days of 2020. The irony of it all is that these monsters, these wicked creatures, lived to be arrested, brought before a jury of their peers, tried and convicted of their crimes and incarcerated according to their sentences. None of the above-named abominations were murdered by law enforcement-- police officers, sheriff’s deputies, etc., in the performance of their duly sworn duties. They were subjects of exhaustive investigations and eventually apprehended. None of these

murders. Estimates credit him with more than 100. He was sentenced to death in 1979 and lived another 10 years until his execution in 1989. Rapist, John Wayne Gacy, the Clown Killer, is credited with 33 murders. His victims were men and young boys. Gacy was sentenced to death for his crimes, at the time the most murders committed by a single individual, in 1980, yet he lived another 14 years until his execution in 1994. Timothy McVeigh killed 168 people in his 1995 Oklahoma City bombing attack of the FBI building—then, the deadliest act of home-grown terrorism. McVeigh was given the death penalty and was executed June11, 2001. McVeigh accomplice, Terry Lynn Nichols, was given 162 consecutive life sentences. Celebrated Svengali, Charles Manson, was born on my birthday, November 12, in Cincinnati, Ohio. He is the only name on this list convicted of murder by proxy. Among his victims was film star, Sharon Tate. Murderers like Manson, and Berkowitz are the best proof that America has a penchant for

monsters, Dahmer, Berkowitz, Bundy, Gacy, McVeigh, Nichols, or Manson, were shot dead in the streets. They survived the cops. Is the sad irony making you physically ill? I hope so! Police officers treated Dylann Roof to Burger King after his apprehension for fatally shooting nine members of a Bible Study at Emanuel AME church in Charleston, South Carolina. Sick yet? America is shamelessly unapologetic for its long history of genocide. Ironically, the newly formed Biden administration is tasked with demanding Turkish President Erdogan (pronounced: Er-dowan) admit to the genocide of the Armenian people during World War I under the Ottoman regime. This… when no American administration has ever openly acknowledged the colonists’ genocide of the North American natives, or this young nation’s murderous treatment of Africans imported to these shores as livestock. That’s what’s on my mind! Website: www.milesjaye.net Podcast: https://bit.ly/2zkhSRv Email: milesjaye360@gmail.com

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Diane Ragsdale: A Life of Service -- Part II I WAS JUST THINKING... NORMA ADAMS-WADE

This is Part II of Diane Ragsdale’s story – detailing visions of police reform and enhanced community services in her future. Ragsdale is founder of the original nonprofit South Dallas/Fair Park Innercity Community Development Corporation. (ICDC). Part I explored her professional achievements and creation of ICDC from which she retired as managing director in early April after 35 years at the helm. The South Dallas native and graduate of Madison High School and Dallas Baptist University here, with studies at Texas Woman’s University, also is a noted community activist and former Dallas City Council member who was Dallas Deputy Mayor pro Tem. In several lengthy conversations with Ragsdale over a few days, we discussed many highlights of her life: her youth; parents and family; entering public service as an activist and community organizer; proud moments and frustrations involved; why she is retiring now and that her “what’s next” involves volunteering as an May 7, 2021

Diane Ragsdale, has retired as ICDC managing director.

Venus Cobb, new ICDC executive director.

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ICDC adviser while volunteering as organizer of policy and advocacy operations – a new trend emerging across the country in urban areas. We also discussed her passionate take on a wide swath of current events, particularly those that impact African-American life and communities – police/ community relations, and benefits that contribute to quality of life: jobs, home ownership, transportation, access to food, education, public safety, retail complexes, community services, and so on. Venus Cobb will succeed Ragsdale at ICDC using the title executive director whereas Ragsdale preferred managing director. Cobb is no stranger to ICDC, the South Dallas com-

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munity, and managing huge amounts of federal funding. She is a 30-year veteran in community affairs and has worked with the City of Dallas Office of Economic Development for more than a decade. She has collaborated with community partnerships – including with ICDC -- and was a Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce board member. She grew up in Chicago and Gary, Indiana, graduated from Purdue University in Indiana and the University of Colorado at Denver, and has lived in Dallas about 11 years. Cobb said she seeks to take Ragsdale’s exemplary achievements with ICDC even higher. “First, I seek to enhance existing programs, and then development comprehensive new ones,” said Cobb,

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who spent her youth in the midst of the economic decline of northeastern urban cities including Gary, Indiana where she grew up. “Most importantly, we would assist residents … to accomplish economic mobility” – the ability to improve their income and quality of life. Filling Ragsdale’s shoes is a challenge she assumes with respect, she said. “I feel accountable and responsible to continue her legacy, which is to address economic disparity in our community,” Cobb said. “I am a passionate leader and look forward to intentionally engaging community residents and partners in our (ICDC) efforts.” Ragsdale said her own new role, through a volunteer policy and advocacy myimessenger.com

FROM DIANE RAGSDALE “You cannot reform a system that has a foundation based on white supremacy…You can talk all day about addressing community violence, but … (the budget goes elsewhere). So, to address the question ‘who do you call when you need the police at your house?’ Address the causes with funding and you may not have the problem.” “Our goal is not to just put different complexions at the table, but to change the policies of that institution.” “In the past we had affirmative action. Now we have the push for equity and diversity. Affirmative action did provide some help…but that model did not serve the masses…When you say health care should be affordable to everyone, that’s policy.” “If we continue to attempt reforms, 40 years from now we will have the same issues. We cannot reform. We have to dismantle existing systems and create new ones.” Diane Ragsdale with mentor Al Lipscomb.

committee, will be to put such issues as poverty and police abuse under a more intense microscope to find solutions. She gave a detailed synopsis of the historical creation of police – largely to track down and return enslaved Africans who had escaped the plantation – and how and why police and people of color clash so drastically today. She recounted a childhood of watching family and community role models as they reacted to racial injustices all around them. Media profiles of Ragsdale have well documented local civil rights warriors who influenced her and her late sister Charlotte Ragsdale who also was a community activist. One of her less talked about positive influences was her mother, Lula Simpmyimessenger.com

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son Ragsdale, one of the few pioneer Black licensed vocational nurses, (LVNs) at the early Parkland Hospital in the 1950s. Her mother’s career inspired Ragsdale to become a Registered Nurse (RN) and to continue that career even as she served on the Council. Born in unincorporated Gause, Milam County, near Cameron Texas, Ragsdale’s mother regularly talked to her daughters about Jim Crow disadvantages that restricted her own youth. Ragsdale’s father, Cottrell Ragsdale, was born in Jacksonville, Texas and became a longtime gas company general maintenance worker. Ragsdale spoke intensely about her years of dealing with police-community conflicts as both a street protestor and an elected

official. She listed nearly a dozen hard-fought police reforms that have failed, including new police chiefs, de-escalation training, and civilian review boards. Then she shared her world vision “to dismantle the existing system and create a new system of public safety;” to redirect police funding to community and social services that address underlying causes and potentially blot out crime. Decades of previous attempted reforms were not funded. She insists that such a new system is possible and that it would eliminate failures of the current system that has produced the litany of unjust killings, broken-hearted families, and schism between police departments and communities. “What is so clear is that the strategies we have used throughout the years have

not worked,” she stressed. “The Diane Ragsdale of the world, throughout the country, need to acknowledge that. What we have done has not worked. That’s step #1: Y’all, that ain’t working!! When we look at all the recent killings of unarmed Black men and women, you’ve got to conclude that what exists now is not fixable!” Dallas surely will hear more such planning details from Ragsdale as she moves forward with her policy and advocacy visions for the future – just as we heard and saw when she envisioned the now real and relevant ICDC. Ever forward. Norma Adams-Wade is a veteran, award-winning journalist, Graduate of UT- Austin and Dallas native. One of the founders of the National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ), she was inducted into the NABJ Hall of Fame

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Dr. Andrea Hilburn Dr. Andrea Hilburn was an educator for over 30 years and although she is retired she is still educating and enlightening. A Dallas native, she graduated from Hamilton Park and earned a Bachelor’s degree from the University of North Texas (formerly North Texas State University), where she was initiated into the Amazing Zeta Eta Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., of which she now has more than 50 years of service in. She received a Master’s degree from Texas A & M Commerce (formerly) East Texas State University), where she developed a prototype for a Special Education Work Activity Center for the Dallas Independent School District which was later utilized by Mary Kay Cosmetics. She prepared a Grandparent Study on Parental Involvement while studying for her Doctorate of Philosophy in Public Affairs at The University of Texas at Dallas. She has also worked as an adjunct professor. Dr. Hilburn currently serves as the president of the Dallas Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority and she shows up and shows out every time. With almost 500 members in the chapter, at the onset of COVID-19 she reached out to every member, and most recently when members suffered in the weather storm, she reached out again. She cares, she loves she gives, she supports. She is superb. Deborah Peoples Deborah Peoples is the current chairwoman of the Tarrant County Democratic Party and she is serious in her efforts to turn Tarrant County into a Blue (Democratic) City. This member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. received a Bachelor of Science and Master of Business Administration from Texas Woman’s University. A recipient of numerous honors, her impressive portfolio includes almost 35 years at AT&T and she retired as a vice president; which speaks to her leadership, organizational and management skills! Deborah is an activist and philanthropist whose benevolence extends internationally. She is committed to her family and her community. She’s also an entertainer, in numerous ways. She can cook, host a gathering for hundreds or thousands, and she has even “starred” in a movie. If you like surrounding yourself around people who are honest, sincere, smart fearless, loving and supportive; Deborah Peoples is ideal. And she plays a mean hand of cards! Misha Sturns Misha Sturns is an award-winning, high performing Specialty Account Manager at Kroger Specialty Infusion. She’s a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., The Links Incorporated AND she is about to be a bride! Misha is a socialite! She studied Mass Media Arts/Public Relations at Clark Atlanta University and she has a servant heart! She’s one of the founding members of Friscovania, a philanthropic organization under the Model Behaviors umbrella and focused on raising funds to benefit underserved youth in Collin County. Internationally known, Misha is a former professional high fashion model with the esteemed Kim Dawson Agency, where she traveled extensively while working for major fashion conglomerates such as Neiman Marcus, Nordstroms, Dillard’s, JC Penney, Saks Fifth Avenue and more. And that’s no surprise, because anytime you see her, she is impeccably dressed and her hair and makeup are on point. In two words: Misha slays! Jill Louis Admittedly there was concern for Jill Louis in the past year. After all she is a powerhouse and the Dallas area has benefitted significantly from her involvement; so there was a concern that her line sister, Vice President Kamala Harris, was going to swoop her up and take her to Washington, DC. While she had a successful practice, currently she is the Dallas Office Managing Partner at Perkins Coie. We’re talking about someone who has served as general counsel for companies with billion dollar portfolios! A graduate of Howard University and the Harvard Law School, Ms. Louis is a member of the board of trustees of Howard University, 2006 Class of Leadership Dallas and Junior League of Dallas; and a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc., and The myimessenger.com

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Links Incorporated. She also serves on the executive committees of the AT&T Performing Arts Center and North Texas Public Broadcasting, Inc. (KERA/KXT). Ms. Louis served on the Girls Incorporated of Metropolitan Dallas, Board of Trustees, 2005 2010, Executive Committee, 2007 - 2009, Advisory Board Member, 2018 - present and she was a founding member of Village Giving Circle of the Texas Women’s Foundation. And we must say something about At Last, the school in Oak Cliff that will be a beacon of light for so many of our children. Yes, that Jill Louis! This sister is BAD. Dr. Lasonya Moore Lasonya Moore is the President and Founder of Plan Empower Grow (PEG), a non-profit organization dedicated to helping small business owners. Dr. Moore is a Sr. IT Portfolio Manager, supporting U.S., LATAM and Canada for Marsh and McLennan Companies. She has served as: President of Women in Leadership of the Dallas Tower Club, STEM Mentor, African American Black Film Festival (ABFF) volunteer, Congressional Black Caucus Conference volunteer, Democratic Women in Leadership member, Black Enterprise Women of Power volunteer, Grant Reviewer for the City of Austin, awarding over $100k in technology grants to non-profits, North Texas Alliance to Reduce Unintended Pregnancy in Teens (Ntarupt) Community Advisory Board member, City of Dallas One Billion Dollar Capital Bond Task Force member and currently serves as an active member of the City of Dallas Office of Business Diversity Task Force team. With a BS in Computer Information Systems from Grambling State University, an MBA in Finance from LeTourneau University, a Master’s in Computer Information Technology from St. Edward’s University and a Doctor of Philosophy in Family and Consumer sciences/Human Sciences; this member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority is an IT expert. Dr. Deardra Hayes-Whigham Deardra Hayes-Whigham is Executive Director, School Leadership at Dallas ISD and she’s also a long-time principal. She graduated from Coppin State University where she was Miss Coppin State. She later studied Education and received a Masters Degree from UNT and a Doctor of Philosophy/Public Affairs at UTD. A life member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.; she is a past president of the Omicron Mu Omega Chapter. She’s also a member of the Dallas School Administrators Association and The Links, Incorporated. Her leadership skills have served her well in the education arena and also as a public servant. Dr. Hayes-Whigham led low-performing campuses to highperforming campuses. On the collegiate level she taught graduate and doctoral classes at Concordia University and Abilene Christian University. This wife and mother, who has lived a life of service, recently founded a muchneeded non-profit, Women’s Advocacy Center of Dallas; working with women experiencing depression. Talk about a legacy! Dr. Hayes-Whigham continues to excel! Much respect here! Jill Darden Noted and award winning journalist Jill Darden is a publisher and producer. She is a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. and she is the publisher of the Fort Worth Black News, following the footprints of her mother who also published a newspaper! She received a Bachelor of Arts focused in Broadcast Journalism from The University of Texas at Arlington. Brains, talent and beauty, while attending UTA, she was elected Miss UTA, making history as the first African American to hold that title. She received the prestigious Quest for Success Award, presented by the Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce in 2011; was recognized as Outstanding Woman of the Year 2013, by the Tarrant County Minority Leaders & Citizens Council for her work in Publishing; and she is the recipient of the Eagle Award for Outstanding Media, presented the Fort Worth Metropolitan Black Chamber of Commerce. In 2017, Ms. Darden was recognized by Commissioner Roy Charles Brooks for 20 years of service to the community and the Bigger and Better Business Award from Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity in 2019. This woman of service has been a true servant leader and has an extensive portfolio in broadcasting and print, marketing and public speaking and relations. All hail, the Queen! Now support her newspaper! LaDonna Castro LaDonna Castro began pursuing her career in journalism at Duncanville High School and as a participant in the Urban Journalism Workshop sponsored by the D/FW Association of Black Communicators (now Journalists). After graduating in 1999, she lived in France as a Rotary Exchange student. She then returned to the States and enrolled in the “Global College Program” of Long Island University in Brooklyn, New York. Fluent in five languages, she has studied in Kyoto, Japan; San Jose, Costa Rica; Bahia, Brazil; and completed her senior year in London, England. She studied in Cairo, Egypt and Dakar, Senegal where she completed her senior thesis, a video documentary, “Aswan Temples and the Nubians of Upper Egypt.” A lover of the arts, she graduated with a Bachelor of Liberal Arts Degree from Long Island University. The secretary/treasurer of DFW-ABJ, this mother of two is the creator of LaDoMedia International and she’s the person you want when looking for the best video producer. She is a modern day Griot who also loves to dance. She is the total package because she’s a pro. She’s a pleasure and joy to be around! May 7, 2021

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Maxine Pride A proud graduate of Alcorn State University, where she obtained a B.S. Degree in Business Administration. After 22 years with American Airlines, the Lambert, MS native, retired, but she didn’t slow down! She served as president of the Dallas Metroplex Council of Black Alumni Associations for almost a decade! Yes she loves Alcorn State, but she realizes the importance of HBCUs and she has worked tirelessly being a champion, spreading the message of the HBCU and how critical they are to society. Ms. Pride is a strong leader and even stronger supporter. She is valued because she honors commitments and is 100 percent dedicated to anything she undertakes. This was evident in the tireless hours that she devoted not only to her alma mater, but others. Currently an independent associate with Legal Shield, Ms. Pride has a demonstrated history of working in the legal services industry. And as always, she focuses on bringing others along with her. That’s why people like her so much. She is a selfless leader and servant. Sophia Johnson Sophia Johnson is Founder and President of ABI. The Dallas-based advertising and marketing agency has offices in Atlanta and Fort Worth. She is a Digital and Traditional Marketing Strategist, Speaker, Community Leader and supporter of women in business. This wife and mother is Chair of FRIENDS of Barack Obama Male Leadership Academy, Chair of the Education and Outreach Committee and Executive Committee member for AT&T Performing Arts Center. Ms. Johnson attended UCLA, UC Berkeley, Tuck School of Business at Dartmouth and The Wharton School. Her board service also includes the City of Dallas’ Trinity River Local Government Corporation, former Chair of The Concilio and former board member of Cafe Momentum, Girls Inc. of Metropolitan Dallas and New Friends New Life Advisory Board. Ms. Johnson is also involved in several civic organizations including Boy Scouts of America, Girls Inc, Dallas Assembly, and local minority business advocacy organizations. She is an active member of Concord Church. She’s going to always greet you with a smile, because she knows what is in her arsenal. Ms Johnson is well-prepared, intelligent, beautiful, fearless and focused. And, she’s happy. Living her best life! Valerie Baston Valerie Baston is a proud graduate of Paul Laurence Dunbar Senior High School in Fort Worth. She went on to UT and received her last degree from the Thurgood Marshall School of Law. In addition to being a member of The Cochran Firm, she had her own thriving law practice, Baston Law, P.C., in Fort Worth and DeSoto. The former Tarrant County ADA and Fort Worth Assistant City Attorney is also a college professor at the UNT Dallas College of Law. She has served as 2nd Vice President of the Fort Worth Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. and is a member of The Links, Incorporated. Someone you definitely want on your side in the courtroom, Atty. Baston is smart, generous and kind. She has served as a scholarship chair with the Black Women Lawyers Association of Tarrant County from 2008 to 2020 and she has been affiliated with L. Clifford Davis Legal Association, J.L. Turner Legal Association, Texas Trial Lawyers Association, State Bar Association of Texas, Texas Criminal Defense Lawyers Association, Texas Democratic Women, Tarrant County Democratic Women, Thurgood Marshall School of Law Advisory Board and Jubilee Theatre Board of Trustees. Yolanda Harper Yolanda Harper is president of Alpha Discovery Group, LLC, and program manager- worksites for Texas Health Resources - Community Impact. 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Sorority, Inc. and an active member of the Dallas Alumnae Chapter. She previously served as National Second Vice President of the sorority and President of two chapters (University of Memphis and Westchester Alumnae). She is currently a member of the Dallas Alumnae Chapter and participates in a number of other community activities, including membership in The Links, Inc., NAACP, and NCNW. She attends St. Luke “Community” United Methodist Church. She is a member of the WiNGS, Inc. Board of Directors and the Werthing Foundation Board of Directors. Yes, she is Madam Secretary, but more importantly, she is and displays the true meaning of being a “sister.” Henry Etta O’Neal Henry Etta O’Neal loves her alma mater and fortunately gets to sport colors in the same family for her college and sorority: Southern University and Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. Dedicated, supportive and a team player, Henry Etta has a reputation for taking care of business and her efforts have seen the Jonesville, Louisiana native, who graduated from Block High School, go on to represent organizations on a national and international level. For Sigma Gamma Rho, Henry Etta has served as Southwestern Regional Syntaktes (Director) (2012-2016), Southwestern Regional Undergraduate Chapter Coordinator and International Board Member (elected 2002), Southwestern Regional Undergraduate Chapter Coordinator (2008-2012). A wife and mother, Henry Etta received a degree in business management with an emphasis on marketing and she is an office administrator. Henry Etta is definitely the type of person you want representing your school and your organization. She works tirelessly and she honors her commitments! Trina Terrell-Andrews Trina Terrell-Andrews displayed an impeccable work ethic as a teen and years later, actually decades, she is not only exhibiting the same traits; she’s actually providing an example for others to model. As a high schooler, she interned at the Dallas Weekly and held her own amongst a competitive pool of college students and professional journalists. A graduate of David W. Carter High School, she went on to intern at The Dallas Morning News, having written her first story for the paper long before she stepped foot on the campus of Grambling State University, and also served as the student rep on the board of the National Association of Black Journalists. She interned with Sen. Royce West’s Dr. Emmitt J. Conrad Leadership Program and is now a dedicated and well-respected mentor and trainer. She’s had an impressive career in media and public relations and currently she’s the CEO of Mark Cuban Heroes Basketball Center, where this wife and mother not only oversees major community outreach, support, growth and development; but also trains young men and women in preparation for successful futures. Always a fashion statement, she is a real DIVA! Judge Valencia Nash The Honorable Judge Valencia Nash is a homegirl who makes her community proud! The “V” in her name could represent “VOLUNTEER” because she has that giving spirit. She was elected to serve as Justice of the Peace in 2007 but long before that historic election she has been serving. A native of Dallas, Texas and graduate of WilmerHutchins High School, she attended the University of Houston and received a Bachelor of Science Degree. Judge Nash received her Juris Doctorate Degree from Thurgood Marshall School of Law at Texas Southern University in Houston, Texas. She is licensed and has practiced law in Florida, Georgia, and Texas and has practiced in the areas of environmental law and justice, family law, juvenile law, construction law and litigation. A wife and mother, Judge Nash is a very active member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. and Jack and Jill Inc.; she is committed to serving the community, enjoys mentoring students and strives to provide excellent customer service. As a Justice of the Peace, she is well prepared, compassionate but very knowledgeable of the law. And guess what? If you have found that special person and want to get married, she can perform the ceremony! Jamie Jazze Radio-Chica Maxie You’ve heard her for years and seen her in the community representing Urban One, Jamie attended UTA where she majored Broadcast Management with a Minor in Business. At Urban Radio, the home to 94.5 and 97.9, Jamie has multiple responsibilities as community affairs director and on-air personality. Radio has changed a lot with the pandemic, but Jamie knows how to pivot. Just like she was out in the community seeking opportunities for Urban One to be engaged, she’s taking the digital game to a new level by staying connected and reaching audiences virtually. She’s on the radio but could easily slide over to television or any other platform to display her talent, intellect and skills. When she has a job to do, Jamie is always well prepared and a joy to work with and be around. Then she’s drop dead gorgeous too! Wow! It’s important to note her level of professionalism because she wears a smile, but she’s thinking several moves ahead because she wants anything she does or is involved in, to be a success. She’s not about making excuses, she’s about taking care of business! And she’s about making opportunities for students as she coordinates opportunities working with the D/FW Association of Black Journalists. She can teach a lot because she is doing IT! May 7, 2021

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Sherel Riley Sherel Riley is the Workforce Development Program Manager at Parkland Health and Hospital System, but, she is so much more! A graduate of UNT with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Speech Communication and Drama, she later received her MS Degree in Human Resources and Training from Amberton University (then Amber University). While at UNT, she pledged Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and she is still an active member today, despite a very grueling and intense schedule. After all, she is a performer, an entertainer, an artist! She has juggled her corporate career, with her community service commitments, and her entertainment focus, and family. She loves to sing jazz and you will love hearing her! If you are a member of or ever attended Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship, you probably heard her, even as a young four-year-old, singing her heart out, Her works provide an excellent argument for organizations to stop running all across America trying to find a headliner for your program. You have it all right here with the likes of Sherel Riley. Ms. Riley is very involved in community service and arts projects. She gives of her talents, experiences and resources in so many arenas; despite challenges that life throws her way. Ms. Riley just celebrated another birthday on April 11 and if you go back and look at our newsletter, you’ll see we didn’t forget her. She is unforgettable! Jade Tinner Jade Tinner is the Vice President of Community Investment at Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce and Founder/CEO of JTBE INK. A publicist, strategist, and consultant; she previously worked as a Major Gift Officer for Catholic Charities Fort Worth. Jade holds a degree in Marketing from the Bloch School of Management at the University of Missouri-Kansas City, where she was a four-year Division I basketball player. She also serves on the Executive Board of BRIDGE Fort Worth and is an active member of the DFW Urban League Young Professionals, and the Minority Advisory Council (MAC). Jade is the founder of The One Unified Resource Foundation, a progressive nonprofit with the belief that we are all responsible for the overall well-being of OUR communities. Jade cares! Akwete Tyehimba Businesswoman, philanthropist, and activist Akwete Tyehimba hails from She graduated from Richfield High School in Waco, Texas in 1981 and attended McLennan Community College in Waco. She then attended the University of North Texas and North Lake College. Akwete was active in the Dallas County Democratic Party, and worked on Eddie Bernice Johnson’s campaign for Texas State Senate in 1986, and served as Johnson’s office manager for a year after she was elected. In 1989, she and her husband, Bandele Tyehimba, co-founded the Pan-African Connection Bookstore, Art Gallery, and Resource Center in Dallas, Texas. A longtime employee of Delta Airlines, in 2012, when her husband passed away unexpectedly, Akwete continued to manage and operate the bookstore, which also sells fabrics, art, and jewelry and serves as a venue for community events. This mother of three is an outstanding writer. She became well known for her column, The Monroe Doctrine. Very astute, community oriented and socially conscious, Akwete has a servant heart and a beautiful spirit. Oftentimes quiet and assuming, Akwete is the epitome of grace and wisdom. Cathy Conwright Cathy Conwright is a portfolio manager at IBM, where she has worked for almost 40 years! A proud 1981 graduate of Grambling State University, where “everybody is somebody,” she majored in computer science. In addition to serving in numerous positions, she also was president of the Dallas Alumni Chapter of the Grambling University National Alumni Association (GUNAA). Hailing from Marion, Louisiana, the graduate of Marion High School is a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Her family became even more noteworthy for The Wayne family, from Marion, Louisiana, recognized at the Grambling State University Kicks Ball during the 2019 Bayou Classic weekend. The family is in the Guinness Book of World Records for holding the position of “having the most family members to graduate from the same university, than any other family in the world.” While she loves GSU, she also has love for all HBCUs and while she is an AKA, she loves all women. People know and love Cathy because she is full of love, spirit and support. She loves to dance and have a good time, but she is also about taking care of business. Loyal, committed and conscientious, Cathy is superb! Cynthia Nevels Cynthia Nevels is President of Integrality, LLC and known as “The Go-To-Lady,” and for good reason. 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Dallas County Community College District, Denton County Transportation Authority, LiftFund, RealPage, Wells Fargo, City of Austin, City of Dallas, Tarrant County College and Stella McCartney Enterprises. And if she didn’t have enough on her plate, she owns and operates a vegan and vegetarian food truck, “Soulgood.” A sought after and accomplished speaker, she also established the Cynthia E. Nevels Foundation; a nonprofit organization, to “create a mechanism to do more in the communities we serve and to fill the poverty gap.” The Foundation offers grants, scholarships and social impact investing opportunities. Cynthia uses the education and experience that she received to help women-owned and minority-owned businesses. In a male dominated industry, Cynthia dominates! Dalphna Curtis Dalphna, or “Dee” Curtis owns and operates an accredited trade school, PC Center; offering programs in medical and computer technologies in Cyber Security, Health Information Technology, Medical Assisting, Computer Technology, and Microsoft Office. She also founded and operates the JFS Women’s Center, assisting women in all phases of their lives. She has served on the boards of the United Negro College Fund, DeSoto Economic Development Corporation, Texas Women and Children’s Foundation and DeSoto Chapter of Southern Christian Leadership Conference. A graduate of the University of North Texas, the member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. received a Masters in Organizational Behavior Studies from UTD and she is currently competing her doctorate in Public Administration and Law. Dalphna is superb because she spends her waking hours trying to make lives better for women. And we know, when women are doing well, the world is doing better! Beletra D. Thomas Beletra D. Thomas is a woman with a history of great service professionally and in the communities where she has lived and worked. A member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., she graduated from the University of Texas at Arlington with a BA Degree in Broadcast Journalism. She later received a Masters of Professional Studies in Strategic Public Relations. In addition to working for UTA as an information writer, she also honed her skills at Texas Woman’s University, Ware & Associates, Moroch and Associates, McDonald’s, Dallas-Fort Worth International Airport and now as the Sr. Manager of internal Communications - US for Galderma. She’s a highly respected Senior Communications Leader, C-Suite Advisor, Brand Storyteller and Dot Connector. A graduate of the Dallas-Fort Worth Association of Black Journalists’ Urban Journalism Workshop, she’s a community servant and an entrepreneur. Her business, BE FLY DESIGNS uses the highest quality materials and the designs are definitely “FLY.” Beletra lifts as she climbs and this young, gifted and Black sister is someone to keep your eyes on because she is an excellent example of preparation + commitment + faith + hard work + love looks like!. VirLinda Stanton Now how many people have a street named after them? Well, VirLinda Stanton does — right in Tyler, TX. And she also has an extensive portfolio that makes her a hometown favorite for the East Texas community she grew up in. The multi-talented singer, actress, motivational speaker, philanthropist and activist is also an author. In the recently released Souled Out, she is a contributor and gives her testimony, sharing a secret she has kept close, only revealing to a select few. When the time was right, for her, she opened up about her HIV status and because she has lived with HIV for several years and no one knew, she has done much to help people understand that you can live with HIV. You never see VirLinda out looking as though she is in pain or having a bad day. That doesn’t mean that she isn’t in pain or that she’s not having a bad day; she’s just been managing and remaining faithful and spreading love and joy wherever she goes. She’s been on stages nationally, appearing in The Color Purple National Broadway Tour, and locally at The Black Academy of Arts and Letters. A member of the Potter’s House in Dallas, VirLinda stays engaged and supportive of her community and programs that benefit her community. Here again is a talent, right in our backyards and she definitely is not a lightweight. She’s our songbird! Lynne Haze This native New Yorker, Lynne Haze, is the “Daytime Diva w/ the Voice,” TV & Radio Personality on Smooth R & B 105.7, Corporate/Motivational Speaker and VO Talent. She came to Dallas to Soul 73 KKDA, where she gained a loyal, huge fan base. She’s a highly-sought after emcee, voice-over talent and speaker. Women love her because of her sincerity and commitment to uplifting women. And men love her because she is smart, carries herself in a very dignified manner and always looks gorgeous. Then there’s her conversation that is motivating and fun-loving, in addition to being a bright spot in the lives of those she interacts with. At the peak of her career, Lynne decided it was time for a challenge and transitioned to a career in the record industry, where for 10 years she thrived considerably at RCA Records, Warner Brother Records and Mercury Records. A former president for the National Black Programmers’ May 7, 2021

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Full of energy and dedicated to service, Tonya is passionate about education and helping young people to succeed. But her activism doesn’t stop with our youth, an involved and educated family and community is of benefit to the world. She has volunteered in the political sector for a number of years, holding a variety of roles and titles throughout her career. Committed to change in our world, Tonya has high standards and will always advocates for our students, our community and all people. People like and respect her because she carries herself with dignity and respect and she cares. Remember her name you’ll be hearing it more and more! Tonya Derrick! Sheila Taylor Clark Sheila Taylor Clark. That Smile. That Smile. This three-time breast cancer survivor is a Lifetime Member of the National Association of Black Accountants (DFW Chapter) and a former National Treasurer and CFO of the organization; serving at the national, regional and local levels. Sheila is also a graduate of Lewisville Citizen’s Academy Leadership Program and was appointed by the Lewisville City Council as a Commissioner to the Lewisville Housing and Finance Commission, to serve a 2nd two-year term. She graduated with honors from Jackson State University and will this year receive a Masters Degree. A United States Army Reservist, Sheila has served on the Board of Directors for The Bridge Breast Network, an organization that provides life-saving medical care to uninsured women diagnosed with breast cancer and this member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc, Omega Alpha Omega Chapter, is also active with Komen North Texas and Komen Dallas. Still smiling! She founded the nonprofit, Sock it To Cancer, providing comfort items to women in treatment for breast cancer and she volunteers with Little Pink Houses of Hope which provides free weeklong retreats to breast cancer patients and their families. A member of the Junior League, she is also a contributing author to the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, having been published in four of the anthology’s books: My Kind of America; Best Mom Ever; Dreams and The Unexplainable; and Empowered Woman. Lyria Howland Lyria Howland is a powerhouse in the public relations world. A graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and for 30 years she has been accredited in Public Relations by the Public Relations Society of America. Her work is legendary in a profession where you need someone you can trust to provide excellent service and represent your interests with the highest level of professionalism. Lyria’s work ethic is impeccable. She’s highly respected and has received several awards for her work across the country. There’s nothing phony about Lyria and she lets her work speak for her. She has mentored so many aspiring PR students and professionals, inspiring them to practice the highest standards, putting the client first, versus promoting themselves. Those who know Lyria know she is the consummate pro who comes armed with a notebook and that notebook is lethal because she has compiled the formula for your success. Lyria is very conscientious. She has won numerous awards for her works and community involvement. She was the Founding Chair of the FRIENDS of Barack Obama Male Leadership Academy and Past President of the Leadership Dallas Alumni Association. Her work, with Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce, Ramses the Great Exhibit, and the Alliance for Higher Education; was impeccable! She ought to be teaching because you don’t find many Lyria’s around, unless they came under her tutelage. Dionne Anglin Born and raised in Fort Worth, Dionne Anglin graduated from Trimble Tech High School and pursued a career in Radio/Television/Film at the University of North Texas, where she also interned at KDFW Fox4 and became a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.; a membership she cherishes to this day. She attends Saintsville Cathedral in Fort Worth and is celebrating a milestone year in television with stints in Tallahassee, Florida and other stops in New Orleans, Sacramento, San Francisco, and San Antonio; before landing home, where she is loved and respected! Dionne is the mother of a Class of 2021 College Graduate and she is dog owner. She does the work that makes members of the National Association of Black Journalists proud and her hometown toots her horn also! She’s involved, she’s engaged and sincere. She’s a consummate professional and loved and respected by those in the industry. 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Man sentenced to 45 years for killing former Dallas city councilwoman, her daughter in car crash The news of the sentencing of Jonathan Alger Moore, 38, to 45 years in prison for the deaths of former Dallas City Council member Carolyn Davis and her daughter, brought no feelings of comfort for those who are still mourning the death of their loved ones. Mr. Moore, who was under the influence of Ambien on July 15, 2019, when he drove into oncoming traffic and hit the car carrying 57-year-old Davis and 27-year-old Melissa Lashan Davis-Nunn, pleaded guilty to two counts of murder and was sentenced on both charges. The sentences will run concurrently. Mr. Moore has a long history of driving while intoxicated and has four prior criminal convictions for driving under the influence of alcohol and drugs, according to court records. Prosecutor Lauren Black filed a motion to hold Mr. Moore’s bond insufficient in December 2019 after he had two breath testing violations and didn’t charge his electronic leg monitor. His bail was subsequently increased and he was re-arrested.

“He wasn’t doing what he needed to do. If he was out on the streets, I was worried,” said Ms. Black, the chief of the misdemeanor division in the Dallas County District Attorney’s Office. In July 2019, Mr. Moore was speeding in the eastbound lanes of Ledbetter Drive and crossed over the raised median into the westbound lanes. He did not attempt to use his brakes before the fatal crash. His SUV hit Davis’ car head on. A witness told authorities she heard Mr. Moore say he had fallen asleep at the wheel, police records show. Moore had been released from probation for a prior driving while intoxicated case days before the fatal crash, according to court records. “He had his chances multiple times. The court system gave Jonathan Moore plenty of time to get his act together,” Ms. Black said, adding that Mr. Moore’s initial arrests were related to his alcohol consumption but, over time, he turned to other intoxicants to escape detection. His escalating behavior is the reason for his lengthy sentence, she said. She said it’s hard for the

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families of those killed by an intoxicated driver. “I know how these types of crimes affect everyone. It’s traumatic for who’s left,” Ms. Black said. “This has been a hard time for the Davis family.” Several shared their thoughts on social media and in public as they dealt with the tragedy again in the wake of the sentencing. Many praised Ms. Davis for her service and commitment to her hometown. “Carolyn Davis, was a leader that didn’t mind sticking her neck out and making lasting decisions. One example is her leading the way in changing

Grand Ave. to Al Lipscomb Blvd, bold and audacious she was,” Yafeuh Balogun of Guerrilla Mainframe. Her term on the Dallas City Council and continued efforts were lauded. “Whether it was racial, economic or environmental justice, Sis. Carolyn fought to make our community and district whole,” said Bro. Jeffery Muhammad, former minister of Muhammad Mosque No. 48. “She wasn’t afraid to invite the planning commission and community to meet at the mosque.“ Touting other efforts by Ms. Davis, Mr. Muhammad elaborated on her efforts to make the community safer and more progressive. “I’m happy to see the progress in removing Dead Man’s Curve, connecting Hwy 175 and and I45, making S. M. Wright Freeway a boulevard with economic development zones and reconnecting the community it divides. May Allah be pleased with our dear Sister,” he said. Under Texas law, Mr. Moore is required to serve half of his sentence before he is eligible for parole.

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MICKLE CAJUN KITCHEN 3203 W. Camp Wisdom Rd. micklechickenllc@gmail.com 469.399.0007 Gumbo Ln. LEGAL NOTICE Application has been made with the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission for Two Permits 1. (BG) Wine and Beer Retailer's 2. (FB) Food and Beverage Certificate by Mr. Toby Mickle / entity dba: Mickle Chicken LLC Trade Name: Mickle Cajun Kitchen Hours of Operation are: 11am - 7pm (No late hours) To be located at: 3203 W. Camp Wisdom Rd. Dallas Tx 75237 Suite # 3203 Officers of said Corporation are: Mr. Toby Mickle / (No Partners)

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Leading a nonprofit organization requires a lot of tenacity, dedication, and adaptability. Whether it is providing direction to staff, working with board members, raising funds, or delivering programs, the work can be difficult with long hours and filled with significant challenges in order to ensure the program is meeting the needs of the clients and the community. For Black women, being in this sector can bring additional stress. Overall, the nonprofit sector is heavily dominated by women but Black women in leadership are underrepresented in executive May 7, 2021

roles compared to White women (Alvarez~Cleveland, 2017) proving the need for support is critical for Black women to do this work. In the 2020 Race to Lead Survey, Black women “… are also more challenged by inadequate salaries, the need for role models, lack of social capital/networks, and the need for relationships with funding sources.” For Black women led agencies, the challenge of raising money is not only complicated but frustrating. “… less than 1% of the $67 billion that foundations contributed went to organizations that specifically target minority women and girls, according to a report from the Ms Foundation for Women and the consulting group Strength in Numbers. Less than $15 million was specified as benefiting Black women and girls.” (https://

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apnews.com/article/healthrace-and-ethnicity-businessphilanthropy-death-ofgeorge-floyd-7ce7a2d9441459 7376d8b6780a9fde19) In order to continue to offer services, Black women in nonprofit management must not only work with foundations and individual donors but identify creative opportunities to raise funds to stay afloat. Building relationships is important externally to keep the doors open but also having support personally and professionally is the key to their success as leaders and mothers. In Dallas, there are several Black women leading nonprofits as mothers. Cessilye Smith, the founder of Abide Women’s Health Services in South Dallas, is dedicated to helping Black mothers while being a mother as well. Cessilye started Abide to improve birth

outcomes in communities with the lowest quality of care by offering healthcare and complimentary services that are easily accessible, holistic, evidence based and free from judgment. “Abide was birthed when my third child was just a year old and I had a four and six year old at home as well. Not to mention we (my husband and I) were homeschooling... A few years later I found myself pregnant again and at a pivotal time for the organization. Raising small children and being pregnant while leading an organization is probably one of the most challenging experiences I have ever had, however, it has proved to be the most fruitful time in my life. It has given me the opportunity to re-envision what motherhood and entrepreneurship can look like myimessenger.com

when done in a healthy way. Patience came with the understanding that I could only do so much with the time that I had, and I had to be ok with that. I had to trust and believe that the hard work I was putting in would eventually pay off, and it has. The biggest success for me is birthing my babies at home and building a legacy for them through Abide. Seeing clearly the world around me and deciding that I can be part of the solution to the disparities I see or I can ignore them. Waking up and building Abide from the ground up wasn’t for me. It’s for my children and my children’s children. I want the future of Black maternal health to change for them and many more. ” Like many nonprofit founders, Cessilye saw a need and did something about it. Abide provides pre and postnatal care, free pregnancy testing, postpartum doula support, and material goods such as hygiene products, diapers, and formula. During COVID-19, Cessilye pivoted the work to provide on demand deliveries to mothers who needed resources including dropping off diapers at homes in the Dallas area. Dedicated to changing the dismal statistics for Black mothers, Cessilye and her team of midwifes are motivated to make a difference. In 2020, “According to the CDC, per 100,000 live births, there were 14.1 deaths among Asian women, 30.4 deaths among Indigenous women, and 42.4 deaths among black women, in comparison to 13.0 deaths among white women.” ( h t t p s : / / b p p j. b e r k e l e y . edu/2020/04/13/spring-2020journal-mitigating-blackmaternal-mortality/# ) A 2018 report from the CDC looked myimessenger.com

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at infant mortality data in Texas and found that infants born to non-Hispanic white women was 5 deaths per 1,000 live births and was 10.52 for infants born to Black women. Infants born to Black mothers die at rates twice as high as white babies in recent years. (https ://www.statesman. com/news/20200221/factchecking-bloomberg-onblack-infant-mortality# ) “To be honest, I wish Abide didn’t have to exist. If it weren’t for the rate of Black maternal death in this country, it wouldn’t. Abide is important because it provides a place of refuge. A place of safety for Black mothers. A place where they can feel free to be themselves, a place where they are heard and their lived experiences matter. A place that address biases that in the end kill Black women. Abide is necessary in every city.” Cessilye is hopeful and despite the odds that Black women face as mothers and as nonprofit leaders, she offers some sage advice: “Rest. Resist. Restore. You don’t have to do everything. It’s ok to say no. You matter and your health is more important than any deadline.

Don’t underestimate the power you have to influence people, policy and the culture around you. Don’t be afraid to create the life you want and the life you desire for your team to have. Take time to reimagine a life where the whole of your being is restored through a bold act of rest and resistance. And don’t forget to celebrate.” As COVID highlighted the existing disparities in healthcare for the Black community, some progress is being made to address this issue on a federal level. Senators Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY) and Corey Booker (DNJ) and Representatives Alma Adams (D-NC) and Lauren Underwood (D-IL) introduced The Black Maternal Health Momnibus Act of 2021. This legislation includes 12 bills to address the maternal health crisis and its disproportionate impact on Black women. As we celebrate women like Cessilye Smith for their tireless efforts and advocacy, there is still more needed to care for and protect Black women and babies. To support Abide or learn more about this S. Dallas clinic, visit https://www.

abidewomen.org/ Note: In Houston, Project Row Houses featured this subject in 2020 through a project titled, “Improving Maternal Health in Harris County, A Community Plan (2018)” funded by the Houston Endowment, a private foundation that convened a steering committee of leaders from a wide range of backgrounds-including healthcare, behavioral health, social services, businesses, government and philanthropy to identify the forces behind Harris County’s high rate of maternal morbidity. (https:// projectrowhouses.org/pressreleases/project-row-housesunveils-round-50-race-healthand-motherhood) I think this is an opportunity for Dallas to have a similar exhibition and conversation. Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the Founder and CEO of Soulstice Consultancy, specializing as a Partnership Broker and Leadership Expert for companies and organizations to thrive with measurable and meaningful impact. She also is the VP of Community Affairs and Strategic Alliances for the State Fair of Texas.

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ZimSculpt and Black Heritage Celebration exhibit at Arboretum

It was a beautiful, exciting event for all as the Dallas Arboretum presented the return of the international blockbuster exhibit ZimSculpt, a worldrenowned collection of handselected, modern Zimbabwean stone sculptures, at the first-ever Black Heritage Celebration, last weekend. It’s the signature event of Summer at the Arboretum and ZimSculpt runs through August 8, featuring the talent of several contemporary Zimbabwean artists with more than 100 handselected, exquisite sculptures on display. The Black Heritage Celebration opened with a performance by the St. Luke “Community” United Methodist Church choir. Special features of the day included the

Black-Owned Businesses Fair presented by the Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce and Dallas Mavericks. All eyes were glued to the runway, for the fashion show, the Crown Jewel Fashion Experience, which was presented by Mary Kay Cosmetics. There were 10 Black designers showcasing their women and men fashions. Produced by entrepreneur, model, and philanthropist Anita Hawkins and under the direction of Willie Johnson, of J3 Productions; the show was exquisite. The ZimSculpt is an exhibit worth seeing. Dallas Arboretum, and Botanical Garden, 8525 Garland Rd. Dallas, TX 75218. Reserve your tickets www. dallasarboretum.org.

Members of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority enjoying the ZimSculpt Sculptures

Vendors and Shoppers enjoying the Black Heritage Celebration

Dallas Arboretum presents the ZimSculpt Zimbabwean stone sculptures

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Black Heritage Committee Chairperson Linda Todd(r) and Janet Jack

Dionne Anglin Black Heritage Celebration

Zimbabwean Artist Passmore Mupindiko

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Virtual and liVe Community Calendar National Foster Care Month

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Mental Health Month

Cheryl’s World presents Debra Brown-Sturns “Family, Friends and Others Sharing Memories of Mothers” on Facebook.com/Texas Metro News and BlogTalkRadio.com. 12-2 pm. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459.

Lupus Month Now-May 16 Jubilee Theatre Presents Pooled by Moses T. Alexander Green. Tickets: Box Office if you have any questions, Tuesday-Friday 12pm5p as 817 338-4411.

May 6 Developing and Leading Multi-Ethnic Congregations: A Black Church Choice. Host: Rev. Dr. Joseph W. Daniels, Jr. Host The Centre for Prophetic Activism. 11:45am-1:15 pm.

Sounds of Freedom: The Music of Black Liberation. Event by New York Public Library. Online: eventbrite.com. 5:30 pm CDT. National Day of Prayer Service. Host DeSoto, City Hall @Facebook.com/DeSoto, Texas City Hall at 7am, 12 pm, & 7 pm. CDT. Special Salute to Mothers. Event by The Black Academy of Arts and Letters Inc. Facebook.com/The Black Academy of Arts and Letters Inc. at 7 pm CDT.

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Sunday Drum Circle. Hosted by Pan African Connection, 4466 Marsalis, Dallas. 2:30-4:30 pm. Email: Panafric@airmail.net.

Crackin Jokes Catchin Chuckles Live Band And Comedy: at The Vault Arcade, 901 S. Polk St. #370. Tickets: Cash.me/ CracknJokes. Opens at 5:30 pm. Raheem DeVaughn at Fair Park Music Hall, 909 1st Ave. 8 pm. Tickets: Ticketmaster.com. Cece Winans Livestream Concert From Hampton! 6-10 pm. CDT. @cecewinansaneveningofthanksgiving - Concert Tour. Online with Facebook Live.

Happy Birthday to Carlton McConnell The Crimson Connection B.O.S.S. Edition: Physical & Mental Health Session. Host Southwest Dallas County Alumnae Chapter of DSTS Inc. Facebook.com/Southwest Dallas County Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. 7:13 pm.

May 11 THE DOC SHEP SPEAKS SHOW! From 11 am. CST on Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews, @fnsconsulting, and You Tube @docshepspeaks.

Day Trippin Rooftop Day Party at Seven Lounge, 3017 W. Seventh St. Unit 500 Ft. Worth. 3-8 pm. Tickets: daytrippin2021.eventbrite.com. 5th Annual Expressions of Determination, Strength, & Triumph. Host Tampa Alumnae Chapter - Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. 4 pm. Reg: Eventbrite.com Feeding The Forgotten. Host PEER 2 PEER Wholewellness. The Bridge Homeless Recovery Center 1818 Corsicana St. 11 am. Dwight Holt Jr & Friends Fitness Frisco Block Party. Event by Dominique Lashae Jones at Jam Box, 7151 Preston Rd. 9-11 am Tickets: www.jamboxfitness.com

The Jirah Nicole Show with Jirah Nicole Mickle. From 11:30 am-1:30 pm. CST Tuesday’s on Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews and BlogTalkRadio.com. Join the conversation at 646200-0459. Decluttering & Downsizing Part 1, host AARP Programs. Facebook Live from 6-7 pm CDT. Event: https://bit.ly/3ugg9V3 NAMC Business Opportunity Meeting, feat: Melvin Mance and Ben Aguirre. RSVP: NAMCDFW.ORG 2:30 pm. CDT.

On Evans Flea Market, Meet & Greet, Networking/Social Hub. Evans Flea Market, 1701 Evans Ave, Ft. Worth. 9 am-5 pm. Sat. & Sun. Contact : Carolyn, 917-576-7094.

Happy Birthday to Dr. Stacia Alexander M.A.D.E. Dallas, Makers-Artisans-Designers-Eats. Host Dallas Farmers Market, 920 S. Harwood. 4-8 pm.

Legacy Celebration Bishop Vashti M. and Dr. Stan McKenzie 10th District AME. Virtual Live on Facebook and You Tube @ 10th District AME. 5-8, 11,13&14 at 7 pm. CDT.

From Marva with Love, with Marva Sneed. 11 am -1 pm. CST, Fridays on Facebook Live/@ TexasMetroNews, and BlogTalkRadio.com. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459.

Pan African Connections Feat: Book Signing and Discussion with Chief Obafemi Fayemi. Pan African Connection, 4466 S. Marsalis Ave. 10 am.

First Friday. Hosted by Pastor Rupert Bushner, Mt Pisgah SDA Church. Live online from 7-8:30 pm. CDT at https://www.facebook.com/Mt.PisgahSDA How is the Lack of Diversity in Research Hurting the Black Community? Event by Community Conversations 11 am.–1 pm. CDT. Reg: http://s.hamptonu.edu/05-07-21 Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson Salutes the 2021 DeSoto Eagles Basketball State Champions. DeSoto High School Dyer Gym, 600 Eagle Dr. DeSoto. 11:30 am.

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AARP Texas Meditation Series: Meditation for How to Meditate. Reg: https://bit.ly/3dswZtO. 2-3 pm. CDT.

AARP Texas Meditation Series: Meditation for Better Sleep. Reg: https://bit.ly/3dswZtO. 9-10 pm. CDT. The Legacy of George Floyd. Event by Cuyahoga Community College. Visit: tri-c. edu/georgefloyd to register.11am-12 pm. CDT. Eventbrite.com.

Taste of the Bishop Arts District, Host Dallas Bites and Sights Food Tours at Hunky’s Old Fashioned hamburgers, 321 N. Bishop Ave. 1-4:30 pm. www.dallasbychocolate.com.

May 12 I Was Just Thinking with Norma Adams-Wade. From 11 am -1 pm. CST On Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews and BlogTalkRadio.com. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459. Ask Dr. Amerson with Dr. Linda Amerson.12 pm. CST @DFWiRadio.com, and Live on Facebook @DrLindaAmerson Saxophonist Andre Cavor performing songs by: Whitney Houston / Aretha Franklin / Diana Ross. Live on Facebook @Saxophonist Andre Cavor. 6-7 pm. CST

Magnificent Mom’s Day Experience at The MLK, Jr. Center, 2922 MLK, Jr. Blvd. (Mural |& Stage Area) 10 am-12 noon. Contact: 214-670-8418

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Mother’s Day The World According to Drew, host Andrew Whigham, III on BlogTalkRadio.com 8-10 am. It’s thought-provoking, enlightening, informative, and entertaining news commentary. Join the call at 646-200-0459.

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AARP Texas Meditation Series: Meditation for Better Sleep. Reg: https://bit.ly/3dswZtO. 9-10 pm. CDT. The Crimson Connection B.O.S.S. Edition: Scholarships. Event by Southwest Dallas County Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Facebook Live at 10 pm CDT. Reg: https://bit.ly/3xTPjV0.

May 14 From Marva with Love, with Marva Sneed. 11 am -1 pm. CST, Fridays on Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews, and BlogTalkRadio. com. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459. M.A.D.E. Dallas, Makers-Artisans-Designers-Eats. Host Dallas Farmers Market, 920 S. Harwood. 4-8 pm.

May 15 Happy Birthday to Norma Adams-Wade Southern University Alumni Federation-Dallas Chapter Presents The 38th Annual Bayou Bash. Drive-Thru Edition. 4-8 pm. African American Museum, 3536 Grand Ave. Eventbrite.com. 3rd Annual Pizza Fest, host Dallas Pizza Fest. At Bottled Blonde Dallas, 505 N. Good Latimer Epxy. 12-8 pm. Tickets: Eventbrite.com. Watch My Shoes Rooftop Day Party @ Lava Cantina 5805 Grandscape Blvd. The Colony. 2-8 pm. Tickets: maturepartycrowd.com AKAnomics: Maximize Your Personal Wealth. Event by Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. - Kappa Sigma Omega Chapter. 9-10:30 am. Online: regionsbank.webex.com. Neo-Soul Day Party. Event by Young Black Entrepreneurs Networking. One Love Lounge Caribbean Restaurant, 2315 S. Cooper St. Arlington, at 3 pm–8 pm CDT. bit.ly/3gWWq8S. On Evans Flea Market, Meet & Greet, Networking/Social Hub. Evans Flea Market, 1701 Evans Ave, Ft. Worth. 9 am-5 pm. Sat. & Sun. Contact : Carolyn, 917-576-7094.

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AARP Texas Meditation Series: Meditation for Older Adults. Reg: https://bit.ly/3dswZtO. 6-7 pm. CDT. WE3 Virtual Feminar with Brandi Anderson Step Into Boldness. Host Irving Hispanic Chamber of Commerce. Reg: https:// bit.ly/3b2YsR4. 11:30 am-12:30 pm. CDT.

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5 Helpful Tips for Women in Workplace

We women face many challenges in the workplace. From combatting the gender pay gap to advocating for policies that support our unique needs, we must work tirelessly to address obstacles while seemingly having to be twice as good as our male counterparts to be recognized.

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(OPINION) – We women face many challenges in the workplace. From combatting the gender pay gap to advocating for policies that support our unique needs, we must work tirelessly to address obstacles while seemingly having to be twice as good as our male counterparts to be recognized. Even though some progress has been made, there’s still much work to be done. While you can’t control every aspect of your workplace, you can take personal steps to help yourself grow professionally. Here are five ways women can take action to navigate today’s work environment. 1. Be Authentic – Why do most people use filters when May 7, 2021

THE SACRAMENTO OBSERVER – As women, we all succeed by helping one another get to the top. Understanding that there’s room for us all to advance in our careers ultimately creates a more positive work environment. posting pictures to social media? One reason is to hide blemishes. If you want to improve, you must accept and embrace your rough spots. I’ve learned that when I showed up to work with a “filter” on, I didn’t shine. I may have done the job well, but it wasn’t at my level of genius work, as psychologist Gay Hendricks describes in his book “The Big Leap.” Removing my filter and being my authentic self led me to enter the field of work I really wanted to be in. That’s when I began to excel effortlessly. If you’re not being real with yourself about your career choice and whether you like your work, it’s a disservice to those around you. Being authentic in who you are and in your goals in the workplace

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will help you make a difference in the world. 2. Be Admirable – Being admirable isn’t something you set out to do, you just do it. As a child I discovered the power of empathy; it pays dividends to understand the feelings of others. Having high levels of emotional intelligence will help you advance in your career and navigate uncomfortable situations. You can’t get to the top alone, so building positive relationships with team members is necessary for your business’s success and your own. 3. Know Your Worth – It’s no secret that there’s a substantial wage gap in the workplace between men and women. Women on average make 30 cents per dollar less than men. So, what will you do about it? I learned

the hard way in my early years in corporate America when I didn’t highlight my accomplishments, successes, or negotiate my salary. Thinking back on this, I believe I was just happy to get the job. Why? As a young black woman, people told me that I wouldn’t get a job because of how I looked, dressed, or wore my hair. So when I did get a job, I didn’t question the benefits. Now in my 30s, I know my worth to a company. As women, we too have families we support, just like men. We also work hard and have qualifications on par or that exceed the men we work with. Research your earning ability in a certain field or position to understand the requirements and salary ranges. Highlight all of your experiences and accomplishments, no matter how big or small, because it all made you into the woman you are. 4. Be Confident – You need confidence to complete tasks, build, and lead teams. As women, our self-esteem often is directly related to the confidence we exude. If we’re proficient in our craft, we should own that we’re a subject matter expert in our field. Don’t pull back on assertiveness just so you won’t appear bossy. Your company needs your confidence, creativity, and direction to move forward toward success. 5. Be a Leader – Some of the best leaders have been women. I’ve had the pleasure of learning from leaders who were true to themselves and great motivators. These leaders may or may not have had “leader” in their title, but they taught me that each of us can lead by example and help others achieve goals. As women, we all succeed by helping one another get to the top. Understanding that there’s room for us all to advance in our careers ultimately creates a more positive work environment. myimessenger.com

Feelings of remorse after Without Remorse AT THE MOVIES BY HOLLYWOOD HERNANDEZ

Michael B. Jordan stars as a Navy seal who comes home after a covert operation for the US in Syria. However, he soon discovers that Russia was really behind the conspiracy. He makes that discovery after Russian agents break into his home with plans to assassinate him for his role in the mission. The Russians end up murdering his pregnant wife Pam, played by Lauren London (who was the wife in real life of slain rapper Nipsey Hustle) and he survives the attempt on his life. The Navy Seal uses all of his Navy training to locate the foreign spies and to find out who was behind the secret mission and to get revenge on everyone involved for the murder of his wife and unborn child. He enlists the help of two people who he thinks he can trust, his

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Navy commander, Commander Green, who’s played by Jodie Turner-Smith, and C.I.A. Agent Robert Ritter played by Jamie Bell. The entire story of WITHOUT REMORSE is pretty much all summed up in the movie’s trailer. There’s a lot wrong with this movie. While it seemed

like a promising premise the movie just did not deliver. First, for me there were some major issues with the film’s dialog. There was a lot of mumbling in the movie by the on screen actors. I feel like I missed a lot because I simply could not hear what the actors were saying. The movie is also very dark.

I don’t mean the tone of the movie, I mean the way the actual scenes were shot with very little light. I couldn’t see what was happening. What was plenty loud was all of the gunfire in the movie. Automatic weapons were blazing and explosives were going off non-stop.Most of the movie’s 90 minutes were just filled with a loud racket on screen. I haven’t read the novel, so I don’t know if the limited dialog was Clancy’s doing or the fault of the screenwriter, but I just wasn’t satisfied with the written words on the page, or perhaps I should say the lack of written words. Although, most likely Clancy will write another novel that will become a big action movie, they’ll have to do better making it into another film. The movie is rated R with a run time of 109 minutes and on my “Hollywood Popcorn Scale” I rate TOM CLANCY’S WITHOUT REMORSE a MEDIUM.

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ARRESTED

HE IS A SERIAL RAPIST

He targeted members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. but this is more than about a sorority. We’re talking about a community.

Come on PEOPLE! Don’t you CARE? Will it matter when it is your sister, mother, aunt or grandmother or maybe YOU?

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