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Texas Southern victorious over Southern in Arlington Showdown

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Watched a TV Hallmark Channel movie the other night that left an impression. Can’t remember the name of the squeaky-clean comedy-drama, but this was the plot: A 30-something woman fell and hit her head. When she awoke, she was age 15 again and had the opportunity to rewrite the outcome of her future.

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THE LAST WORD Not a day goes by that I don’t get a text or three from the Democratic National Committee asking for contriubtions. Sometimes they come from Vice President Haarris. Sometimes, from President Biden himself. Occasionally, from House Speaker Nancy Pelosi or DNC Chair Jaime HarrisonNot to mention.

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fans deserved to take a victory home back to Louisiana, because they really showed love by showing up and supporting their school, regardless of the outcome — Southern fans are present and accounted for! I am sure that TSU had alums and supporters to come from across the country just like Southern did, but I tell you, Southern folks came strong — they deserved a win. Some might say that the last call was debatable; however, that game is Black History. I have a few tips for alums who are not supporting their schools. And yes there are more ways to support than attending a football game; however, support is support. HBCU alums (and especially those within a 300 mile radius of the State Fair and Arlington Showdown Classics):

thing over, donate it, or put toward your alumni dues • Even if you only attended one semester, join the alumni association • If you feel compelled to ask for donated tickets, make an outright donation to the school • If you can, buy tickets for some high school students • Get your company/ corporation to sign on as a corporate sponsor • When you purchase tickets from Williams Chicken, at least get a two piece and a pepper or some corn fritters • Support the vendors who purchase booths and travel annually to these classics • Attend the games even if your teams are not playing! • Support Black-owned businesses • Support those businesses that support HBCUs • Call out the hotels and businesses that practice price gouging • Start saving two dollars And a week — then you can Go out, have a good buy tickets for two to time, be safe and start the least one game (any- process all over again!

People get ready! Talk about having a funky good time! Last week I attended the inaugural Arlington Showdown, where the Southern Jaguars and the Texas Southern Tigers took to the Gridiron. I just love it when I see folks out supporting HBCUs because I love all HBCUs. It was great talking with the new president of TSU, Dr. Lesia Crumpton-Young, along with alumni and friends from TSU and the Thurgood October 15, 2021

Marshall Law School. Then about around the third quarter of the game, I went over to see what Southern University fans were up to. Everyone knows that Southern University has one of the strongest fan bases of HBCUs and they didn’t disappoint us. Which brings me to my truth. While I really didn’t have a cat in that fight (pun intended); I did have a preference. I felt the Southern University

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Juanita Craft Humanitarian awardees announced

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The State Fair of Texas and the Juanita J. Craft Civil Rights House & Museum Steering Committee has announced the recipients of the Juaita Craft Humanitarian Awards, in honor of the tireless activist for civil rights who played a crucial role in integrating many places across the city of Dallas, including the State Fair of Texas. In honor of her efforts, achievements, and legacy, the State Fair and Juanita J. Craft Civil Rights House & Museum Steering Committee are recognizing individuals who are following in her footsteps and continue to be advocates for positive change in our community. These individuals will be recognized at 3:00 p.m. on Sunday, October 17 in a virtual ceremony. The Juanita J. Craft Civil Rights House & Museum Steering Committee established and executed the selection process as part of their civil rights education and awareness initiative. Nominations were evaluated based on impact and active involvement in the community, commitment to social justice through notable efforts, and evidence myimessenger.com

of time and resources used to address issues in the community. In partnership with the Steering Committee, the State Fair of Texas brings the community together to honor and celebrate the Humanitarian Award recipients. In addition to the Juanita Craft Humanitarian Awards, the State Fair of Texas recently renamed one of the Big Tex Scholarships to honor Ms. Craft and her legacy. Formerly known as the Pete Schenkel Scholarship, the opportunity open to six South Dallas/Fair Park Dallas ISD schools will now be called the Juanita Craft Scholarship.

and later transferred to the Northern District of Texas, in Dallas. In 1995, President Clinton nominated her for a federal judgeship. The author of several books, she has also served on a variety of civic and professional boards and committees. Professor Wattley is also the recipient of numerous awards, including the Dallas Bar Association’s Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Award, and the Dallas Chapter of the NAACP’s President’s Award. Professor Wattley continues to work on the vindication and liberation of persons wrongfully convicted and imprisoned. Professor Wattley represented Richard Miles in his release from the Texas Department of Criminal Justice and ultimate exoneration. She continues to work with Mr. Miles as a board member for his non-profit organization, Miles of Freedom.

Legacy Award A lifetime achievement award for individuals, families, or organizations that have made important and sustained contributions to the understanding and promotion of civil rights.

Legacy Award Honoable Mention – Karen Brooks-Crosby Karen Brooks-Crosby recently retired as president of Dallas City Homes after 20 years as president. Under her leadership, Dallas City Homes has developed and preserved the affordability of more than 2,400 apartments, and participated in the construction, renovation or development of more than 350 homes for sale. In its history, DCH has developed projects such as Hillburn Hills, 711 N. Beckley, Flats at Five Mile Creek, and the construction of more than 400 single-family homes—many of which took place under Brooks-Crosby’s leadership. Her legacy in the communi-

Legacy Award Recipient – Cheryl Wattley Professor Cheryl Brown Wattley joined the inaugural faculty of the UNT Dallas College of Law from the University of Oklahoma College of Law. She serves as the Director of Experiential Education overseeing the law school’s externship program and the law school’s Community Engagement Program. Professor Wattley graduated from Smith College, cum laude, and received her Juris Doctorate degree from Boston University College of Law. Before entering private practice, Professor Wattley worked as an Assistant United States Attorney in the District of Connecticut

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ty-development space is one of growth and sustainability for one of the strongest nonprofit development organizations in Dallas. Her impact has been significant over the decades, from leading and sustaining community-owned real estate assets to preserving affordable housing options in the ever-changing Bishop Arts neighborhood. Brooks-Crosby helped foster Dallas City Homes’ success and furthered its mission of community stewardship. Visionary Award Designed to recognize individuals whose contributions are currently creating a positive effect on civil rights and community transformation in Dallas. This individual has committed their personal time, resources, and passion to take on a challenge that addresses equity and fairness presently. Visionary Award Recipient – Lynn McBee For more than 27 years, Lynn McBee has worked more than 45,000 hours of service for more than 30 different non-profit groups where she focuses on education, serving homeless, protecting children, and fighting domestic violence. For more than seven years, McBee has served as see JUANITA CRAFT on page 19

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How would you rewrite your story? I WAS JUST THINKING... NORMA ADAMSWADE Watched a TV Hallmark Channel movie the other night that left an impression. Can’t remember the name of the squeaky-clean comedy-drama, but this was the plot: A 30-something woman fell and hit her head. When she awoke, she was age 15 again and had the opportunity to rewrite the outcome of her future. Of course, because it was Hallmark it had a happy ending. Great! But I was just thinking… What if we all could go back to a certain age and rewrite the outcome of our future? How would you rewrite your story? One line in the Hallmark movie was, “This is do-over.” What would be your do-over? You will not believe me when I say it is hard for me to think of a do-over in my life. It is true. But you will not believe me. It sounds too impossible. I do have one that I am not prepared to share. But beyond that one, I can think of no other. I have always looked at my life as a pure blessing, which it has been. My sister and I had both parents, Had grandparents. Had neighbors who looked out for all the neighborhood kids. Had a foundation of family, community church and school. I have never felt alone. I enjoy solitude. Music and reading were my meditation. Our parents and grandparOctober 15, 2021

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ents lived long and full lives. Both sets stayed together. No divorce. No bankruptcy. No domestic violence. We worshiped together. We ate Sunday and Thanksgiving dinners together. Our mother gave time to the local PTA. Our dad was highly regarded as a

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community baseball umpire, coach, and mentor for boys in the community and family. My sister and I both did well in school, finished college, and found comfortable careers. I have often repeated an old Black culture phrase to

describe my life’s journey: “I was kept in the bosom of The Almighty.” So, as I said, I was just thinking.… Here are some key life questions for you. How would you answer these? see REWRITE STORY on page 9

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1. If you could get hypnotized to help you recall a lost memory you wish you could regain, what would it be? Mine would be standing in front of a storefront window on a street in Austin, Texas talking to a girlfriend about our plans for our yet unborn children. I wish I could recall who the girlfriend was. 2. If you had the power to pick a part of the world where you could improve their quality of life, where would it be? Mine would be Haiti and Ethiopia. 3. If you could improve the nation’s school system, how would you implement improvements? My answer: I would bring back manual labor training – auto mechanics, carpentry, and such.

Training that would help students who are not going to college to have an employable skill. 4. If you could improve the legal system, how would you improve it? My answer: I would remove racial discrimination in sentencing. 5. If you could improve foreign governments, how would you improve them? When Americans send donations to impoverished countries, I would have a system in place that ensures that the donations get to the people and not go in the pockets or households of the rich and powerful in government. Those are just a few of mine. What would be your list? Norma Adams-Wade is a veteran, award-winning journalist, Graduate of UT- Austin and Dallas native. One of the founders of the National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ), she was inducted into the NABJ Hall of Fame

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BIG MAMA SAID:

“GOD GOTCHA AND YOU WILL PREVAIL” Black men

THE BLACK CARD BY TERRY ALLEN

She never faltered or waned in her belief system. My grandmother, Lucille “Big Mama” Allen will say to us, “God gotcha” in those simple words she would have taught us a lesson. Placing her hands on the Bible, she would grip with a fierce embrace and shout those words to many of the Black men came by to tell their current circumstance or current barrier to survival. She knew all too well that Black Men were not allowed to be Black men in her times and even now systemic destruction of the Black male daily bread 0 way of life – is under such an attack. But Big Mama knew Black men had to prevail. She knew that

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men of color were in the Bible who overcame hardships and thrived under God’s promise and deliverance during the Biblical times. In the path of shocking police brutality, the world is correctly looking at itself when it comes to disparities when it comes to race. Big Mama based her life on the Bible’s teaching. She knew that blonde-hair, blue-eyed Jesus did not reflect the Men of the Bible. It is like she knew of these men mentioned in the bible. She led me to Caleb Mathis, a white male, writings. He said, “I’m a white American, descended from Europeans, and there’s no one in the Bible that looks like me. Instead, the Bible is chock full of the perspective of, people of color. He talked about Ebed-Melech, a Cushite servant of the King of Judah( Matthew 27:32, Mark 15:21, or Luke 23:26.), Simon of Cyrene of North Africa, Zip-

porah, (Exodus 4:21-26 ) the wife of Moses, the prince of Egypt and Solomon’s wife who inspired the Song of Solomon. BIG Mama knew! Like Big Mama’s uplifting message said, Black males have proven to be resilient, successfully identifying, and deploying protective factors such as peers, mentors, and STRONG spiritual prayers in the pandemic while addressing stress due to psycho-social factors such as finances and racism! Did you know that in many cities when the Cosby Show aired Thursday night, violence went down in Black Communities? Big Mama knew! I am grateful that I write for an outlet that has a focus on the lives of countless Black Americans. Texas Metro News/Garland Journal/I Messenger is on a journey to strive for growth and tell our stories in a positive light and yes, we will prevail. My column has reached 24

more news outlet’s globally. Unfortunately, I am always under attack not by mainstream Americans but those that have my pigment but not my mindset and they refuse to accept the value of our differences. Big Mama knew! I have witnessed my voices amplified to be the storyteller of all the news that should be printed, so readers we need you as well. Recently I received over 7,000 likes of my poss on LinkedIn and the same response in my e-blast this week so keep up the good work. In the words of Big Mama and Mrs. Coretta Scott King, “Continue!” Email what your Big Mama knew at terryallenpr@gmail. com. If we are to build, invest and grow, we need you. Thank you and thanks to our publisher, Cheryl Smith. Terry Allen is a multi-media journalist and former board member of the National Association of Black Journalists.

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Successful Black American Business Owners Unfairly Targeted OUR VOICES Dr. Benjamin F. Chavis Jr.

There is an old African proverb that captures one of the challenges that too many financially successful Black-owned business leaders face today in America. That proverb is “Your earned riches may engender envy and jealous criticism but be not dismayed by the foolishness of the envious.” Across the nation, as business owners are attempting to recover from the COVID-19 global pandemic, African American business leaders who are defying the odds with their financial success are often targeted by “mainstream media” and others who summarily and unfairly castigate Black business leaders’ economic achievements. Is this syndrome racially motivated? The simple answer is “Yes.” Former Congressman and past leader of the Congressional Black Caucus (CBC), The Honorable Parren Mitchell (D-MD), myimessenger.com

1922-2007, once said in defense of Black business leaders, “There is a national systematic campaign to unfairly subjugate and to prevent the financial success of Black American businesses.” It appears that business leaders from communities of color in the United States are being held to a different standard of business practice, ethics, and regulation. Such is the case, I believe, with respect to Jack Brown III who was recently targeted for business practice criticisms by the New York Times because of what they state are personal financial profits that Mr. Brown has earned as result of his businesses providing shelters to New York City’s homeless. The Times emphasized, “Since 2017, as homeless has risen to record levels, the city has awarded more than $352 million to a nonprofit run by Mr. Brown to operate shelters. The money is meant to help homeless people regain their footing in life, but it has benefited Mr. Brown, too.” Is the Times implying

that there is something wrong or unethical for earning a financial profit from ones work and business? Brown’s CORE Services’ companies, non-profits and for-profits, have worked effectively in New York for over a decade. Both nonprofits and for-profits have to be run as successful businesses in order to be sustainable. Jack Brown has been a national leader in multiple Black-owned businesses not only in NYC, but also in other cities he has been effective in providing much need services to the homeless and to people “returning” back to society after prison incarceration. Investigative journalism has its rightful and respected space in our democracy. But it should always be balanced and non-racially prejudicial. The Times piece on Jack Brown was full of unsubstantiated innuendo and one-sided reporting. Those of us in America’s Black press are fully aware to the double standards and the racial stereotyping that cast unfair dispersi-

ons on Black entrepreneurs who dare to strive to own legitimate multi-million dollar businesses. After the Times feature on Brown was published, Rudy Giuliani who is well known for his unprincipled attacks on African American leaders joined in the chorus against Jack Brown. I conclude with the following tweet that I posted: It is questionable to see Rudy Giuliani and The NY Times aligned. But today the Times published an innuendo-filled story targeting successful Blackowned business leader, Jack Brown, who Rudy Giuliani then calls Brown a “poverty pimp.” Sadly, Former President Trump, Giuliani, some in the NY Times, and many others take the position that there are limits and ceilings both politically and economically across the nation that are categorically prescribed by race. We do not agree. We will not submit. Dr. Benjamin Chavis is president and CEO of the National Newspaper Publishers Association (NNPA) and can be reached at dr.bchavis@nnpa. org.

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Bullies come in all sizes FAITHFUL UTTERANCES BY DR. FROSWA BOOKER-DREW

When I was in elementary school, I was bullied by a group of girls. My third-grade teacher was wonderful to me, but her attention caused some of the other students to resent me. For two years, I was repeatedly mistreated. One of the games they played during recess was to run from me so that I couldn’t play with them. It didn’t help that my mother was old school and when girls began to wear small heels, my mother thought it wasn’t time. It was so bad that for a week in 5th grade, the bullying made me so sick that I had to go to the doctor and stay home because of the stress it caused. There was really only one girl who was the ringleader. The other girls joined in because they didn’t want to be targeted. The bullying I experienced wasn’t physical, but it was both verbal and social. Bullying damages everyone involved. Bullying isn’t something that just happens. Quite often, children witness their parents or other role models bullying them or others. Children don’t have power to

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retaliate when their parents or others mistreat them (including siblings), and they go to school recreating the same scenarios they have experienced. Bullying also occurs due to a lack of attention from parents which can include neglectful parents or those dealing with issues of substance abuse. As we witness more school shootings and incidents of youth violence, at some point, adults need to take a long look in the mirror in how we express anger and frustration. Adults must take responsibility for their bullying on the road, in the church, at work, in our homes, and even on social media. You may not jump on people with your fists, but are you a person who beats others up with your words? Are you the ringleader or a follower witnessing the abuse of others and just glad it isn’t you? Although the Bible doesn’t specifically call out bullying, there are several examples of individuals that dealt with the bullying of relatives, friends, and those in power: Joseph, Daniel, Mordecai, Job, and even, Jesus. In each of their stories, others lied on them, tried to cause question about their reputation and integrity or threatened/killed them.

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God does have something to say about it. “There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil, a false witness who breathes out lies, and one who sows discord among brothers.” (Proverbs 6:16-19 ESV) Bullying ultimately is about passing judgement on others—it’s something that you don’t like or are jealous of in that person. “You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things.” (Romans 2:1) God has a way of redeeming those painful experiences. What I went through made me concerned about injustice and speaking up for those who are voiceless. I remember what it was like to feel as if I wasn’t heard or seen. It made me sensitive to the needs of others. I’m blessed because I know others that the experience of being bullied caused so many difficulties mentally, spiritually, physically, and emotionally. For those who

experience bullying, know that God has not forgotten you, God has a plan for you. God has a way of restoring and redeeming what you’ve lost. “The eyes of the LORD are on the righteous, and his ears are attentive to their cry; but the face of the LORD is against those who do evil, to blot out their name from the earth. The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:12-18) It’s important that we check ourselves and the way we show up. Our children are watching us. It’s important that we stand up for others when we see injustice like bullying. We will all be accountable for our thoughts, our words, our actions. If God were to look at your life right now, what would God say to you about your treatment (or lack of ) of others? Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the Founder and CEO of Soulstice Consultancy, specializing as a Partnership Broker and Leadership Expert for companies and organizations to thrive with measurable and meaningful impact. She also is the VP of Community Affairs and Strategic Alliances for the State Fair of Texas.

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the CEO of Young Women’s Preparatory Network, a public-private partnership that creates STEM-focused schools of choice in an all-girls setting. She is also co-chair of the Board of Directors of For Oak Cliff, a community organization rooted in South Oak Cliff and is hyper-focused on ending systemic poverty in the Superblock 75216, which is recognized as one of the most impoverished zip codes in the U.S. Their mission focuses on education, community advocacy, and expression through arts to help individuals and families break free from cycles that enable poverty. A biochemistry graduate from the University of Texas, McBee continues to serve as manager and employee owner of New England Biolabs. Visionary Award Honorable Mention – Justin Henry Justin Henry currently serves as the board president on the Dallas Independent School District (Dallas ISD) Board of Trustees and was first elected to this role in June 2018. He previously served as chairperson of the Dallas Independent School District 9 Task Force, the chair of the Dallas ISD Racial Equity Task Force, and a member of Dallas ISD Citizen Budget Review Commission. Henry received his J.D., with honors, from the University of Texas School of Law in 2010. In 2005, he received a B.S. in electrical engineering from the University of Texas at Austin and an M.A. in secondary education from Loyola Marymount University in 2007. While in law school, he spent the summer of 2011 working for the ACLU-Texas myimessenger.com

to increase awareness of and worked litigation to stop the school to prison pipeline. Prior to attending law school, Justin was a middle school math teacher at Pio Pico School in South Los Angeles. During his two years in the classroom, he worked to empower his students, most of whom began the school year below grade level, to achieve academically and positively impact the world around them. Catalyst Award For individuals under the age of 40 that are making an impact in civil and human rights in the city of Dallas by creating new initiatives and opportunities. Catalyst Award Recipient – Tiara Cooper Dallas native, Tiara Cooper, is passionate about local grassroots empowerment and justice. As a formerly incarcerated, Black woman, she is eager to share her experiences with the criminal justice system. Creating an impact on her local community, Tiara has previously coordinated with Texas Organizing Project (TOP), Oak Cliff Chamber of Commerce, and Outreach Strategists. Tiara has also assisted and organized field teams, phone banks, and trained campaign teams in Dallas County. She is known for knocking on hundreds of doors for voter registration or just to listen to community concerns, speaking at community events, and organizing training for young adults and youth, all while building a powerful base of formerly incarcerated leaders. After being selected to participate in the Obama Foundation’s Community Leadership Training Day, Tiara knew it was time to make a total commitment to the God-given mission of

leadership. As a proud servant and an upcoming faith leader dedicated to justice, Tiara is honored to transition from LIVE FREE Fellow to LIVE FREE Texas Organizer with Faith in Texas. Catalyst Award Honorable Mention – Rev. Todd Adkins Pastor of Salem Institutional Baptist Church, Rev. Todd Adkins is responsible for the creation of The South Dallas Faith Coalition, a collaboration of more than fifty organizations and churches that meet monthly. The organization helps connect historically disenfranchised communities – with government and corporate entities – to positively impact economic and social growth in South Dallas. In addition, the coalition addresses several educational issues in partnership with Dallas ISD to provide the needs of children in the local community, including using the church to provide tutoring and school events. Rev. Adkins is a chaplain with Total Hospice and Palliative Care and a previous chaplain with Methodist Hospital. He has received numerous awards including the 2013 Dallas Area Interfaith Honoree for Exemplary Community Service. Adkins is a graduate of SMU with a Master of Theological Studies, and Dallas Baptist University. He is married to Michelle and the father of two. Spark Award Mrs. Craft focused on the development of young people as leaders. This award is designed to recognize a young person between the ages of 14-21 that is making an impact in their schools, neighborhood, or local community by contributing to making our world an even better place now and in the future.

Spark Award Recipient – Eric Gonzalez Eric Gonzalez leads youth athletic initiatives for Puede Network, a nonprofit organization committed to teaching civic engagement and promoting higher education via a scholar’s program. Born to immigrant parents from Mexico, from whom he derives much inspiration, the South Oak Cliff native, is deeply committed to his role as a boxing and soccer coach, as well as his participation in a community food pantry delivering produce to 5,000 families. It is the food distribution efforts, in partnerships with local food banks, in Oak Cliff communities— many are officially designated as food deserts—in which Eric takes the most pride. Over the past four years, he has helped provide over 100,000 pounds of produce to families in need. Spark Award Honorable Mention – Maya Nanan In 2014, Maya Nanan established the Siblings and Friends Network at age 12 to encourage siblings of special needs individuals and their friends to come together and advocate for the creation of a more inclusive country. Inspired by her brother, who was diagnosed with Autism eight years ago, she now leads a team of 200 youth volunteers and organizes activities and events to create opportunities, a support network, and advocate for special individuals. She conceptualized and executed the first Autism Fun Day and Autism Christmas Party in Trinidad and Tobago. Her team organizes Autism Outreach Booths throughout the country, especially in rural areas, where they educate the general population on Autism and special needs. October 15, 2021

Briefs Sen. West honored by press for efforts toward transparency State Senator Royce West (D-Dallas) was named a "Champion of Transparency" in an award received from the Texas Press Association (TPA); for numerous bills filed during the 87th Regular Session of the Texas Legislature, whose goals were to improve government accountability by making more information available to the public under Texas' Open Records laws. "Senator West is a strong advocate for transparency at all levels of government, said Texas Press Association Executive Director Mike Hodges. "He understands that transparency is essential to government accountability. We greatly appreciate his willingness to fight for this important principle, and

Dallas County Volunteer Deputy Registrar Training By Marva Sneed

Members of the Dalas Alumnae Chapterof DeltaSigmaThetaSororityInc., are encouraging its members and citizens to obtain certification to register Dallas County voters by virtually attending Dallas County Volunteer Deputy Registrar Training. All of your members, friends, and neighbors are welcome to attend to renew or receive their certification as a Volunteer Deputy Register on October 14, 2021 from 6:00 – 7 pm. Register at the link by 6:00 pm 1013-21 https://www.dallascountyvotes. org/machform/view.php?id=60593. After you register, a link will be sent to you to join the team meeting. If you have any questions, contact: Valencia Nash-McShann, Social Action Chair-Dallas Alumnae (text) 214-9249999 or (email) ValenciaNash@aol. com If you are renewing your VDR Certification, note that it expires every even numbered year. Check your Card to ensure compliance. October 15, 2021

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we're proud to present him with this award." Sen. West received the award in his office at the Texas State Capitol while

in Austin for the third Special Session of the Legislature called by Texas Governor Greg Abbott since the 87th Regular Session concluded in late May this year. A number of bills filed by the senator during the Regular Session focused on improving law enforcement accountability, monitoring school discipline, financial reporting by public officials and improving public access to meetings held by state agencies and government entities. "I've always believed that an informed citizenry is a partner to our ongoing exercise in representative democracy and that people have a right to know how and why decisions are made that will impact them," said Sen. West.

"I thank the Texas Press Association's for their willingness to look beyond the headlines to explore the motivation and effort involved in helping to make Texas work better for all. Government's true role should be to help people." TPA Executive Vice President Donnis Baggett said that the "Champion of Transparency" award goes to state officials who go the extra mile to practice, promote and protect open government. "Senator West understands that open records and open meetings are not only a news media issue, but an important public policy issue," said Baggett. "He is a superb advocate for the people's right to know what their government is up to."

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Dallas Bethlehem Center’s (DBC) weekly food distribution, operated by community members, is also the largest distribution hub of the North Texas Food Bank. On Thursdays from 11:30 am2:00 pm. at 4410 Leland Ave. Dallas, TX, 75215, Dr. Fred Jones, as Interim Managing Director, oversees operations. DBC is located in Sunny South Dallas and has served the community since 1946. When COVID-19 hit the community they were prepared to help and meet the needs of the community. Along with Thursday’s food drive thru they have added a hot meal distribution program on Fridays from 3:00-4:00 pm. Dr. Jones said that the meal baskets are filled with meat, fruits, vegetables, and nuts. According to Dr. Jones, DBC will soon partner with UT Southwestern Medical Center (UTSW) to begin a diabetic study that includes focus on nutritious meals. Not only will participants learn about their diabetes but the importance of diet and nutrition. “The whole thing is centered around the community and wellness,” he said. DBC hosts community-wide events

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throughout the year while partnering with program providers to deliver high-impact offerings in key areas, including cradle to career education and community connection. The childcare program sponsored by ChildcareGroup

for 0-3 years old was welcomed back this summer. For more information about, Dallas Bethlehem Center visit: https://dallasbethlehemcenter.org/. Sign up for the food program by calling 214-428-5171. myimessenger.com

50th L-S-U-O R-I-T-N-A ? QUIT PLAYIN’ BY VINCENT L. HALL Don’t feel language deficient or outside the loop if you can’t discern this title. If you were born in my generation, you knew to go to the Soul Train Scramble Board. It always unveiled the names of places, stars, or icons. SOUL TRAIN! That was easy. This October marks the 50th anniversary of a show that made Black America proud and White America pay attention. The program’s inventor and emcee, Don Cornelius, was a genius and must be regarded as a substantial figure in African American history. If you developed a college course on the Black “Americana” post-civil rights era, you could track every cultural trend and trail by watching Soul Train re-runs. Soul Train recorded the morphing of music genres, the constellation of rising and falling stars, and the funky and anything but conservative fashion cycles. When Donald Cortez Cornelius began his odyssey in 1970, he had an Afro so big it wouldn’t fit under a motorcycle helmet. Nevertheless, Cornelius and Soul Train embodied the pride James Brown had foreseen in his 1968 hit, “Say it loud, I’m Black, and I’m Proud!” Upon his passing, Earvin “Magic” Johnson, Chairman of ‘Soul Train’ Holdings crystallized his legacy. Don Cornelius was a pioneer, an inmyimessenger.com

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novator, and a trailblazer. He was the first African-American to create, produce, host, and more importantly, OWN his own television show.” Like others of his fashion era, Don wore high-waist pants with material supplied by two famous sisters (Polly and Ester). The seamless garment flowed to flared bottoms so big that they partially hid the oversized platform shoes adorning his feet. The 70’s fashionistas sported sweaty nylon shirts and blouses that only an artist could conceive. “Nik Nik” and similarly marketed shirts came in every color, concept, design, and ornate pattern. However, Don never wanted to be the center of our attention. He was never on the microphone or caught in the camera shot for very long. Cornelius rushed to usher Black entertainers, perennial stars, and “one-hit wonders” into the spotlight. Aretha Franklin, Gladys

Knight and the Pips, Stevie Wonder, Al Green, Oakland’s megaband Tower of Power, and the list is long and legendary. Major Harris saw his star rise in 1975, singing “Love Won’t Let me Wait!” We waited for another “major” hit from him but never got it. James Brown’s revolutionary rant was a powerful affirmation. However, without the benefit of Soul Train’s reach, Brown’s message was confined to one jukebox and community at a time. Soul Train didn’t become the longest syndicated show on television on the viewership of 13% of the population alone. Millions of White folks discovered that we were Black and Proud, and had ample reason to be proud of ourselves. There are no official estimates, but a large swath of the Soul Train audience was nonBlack. Dick Clark’s American

Bandstand’s rankings were nothing to scoff at, but if your fun lacked funk, you could “bet your last money, Soul Train was the stone gas, honey!” Singer/Songwriter Kipper Jones and master stylist and Black hair consultant Kevin Pendleton remember going Saturdays to film four episodes. It was tiring but they still relish the memories of changing outfits in the bathroom and receiving a two-piece from Kentucky Fried Chicken! “It was an honor to get to the main stage” recalls Pendleton. America’s entertainment industry was devastated by Don Cornelius’s suicide in 2012, but his glow remains. It is an oddity that a man who could rise and fight the world for his dreams could privately live with a nightmare that he believed insurmountable. Don has passed on, but he passed on a gift we could never repay. His vision was to fuse slow belly-rubbing ballads with jazz, funk, pop, rock, and roll, and finally rap. Soul Train spanned 35 years and 1,117 episodes. Everybody got a shot! This weekly smorgasbord of music, dance, culture, and creativity was comfort food for people dogged by discrimination and disrespect. We could lift our heads as Don, and his bedazzled guests lifted our spirits for a full hour. If the number 50 wasn’t ever Funky before, it is now! Long live the Soul Train line, dancers, and Don. Vincent L. Hall is an author, activist, and award-winning columnist.

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Journalist, Clara McLaughlin remembered Clara Jackson McLaughlin passed away on October 3, 2021, at the age of 81. She was best known for being the first Black woman to own and be the majority shareholder of a network-affiliated TV station in the United States. Upon securing ownership of KLMG-TV in East Texas, she also became the first Black person to own a CBS affiliate station. She was born in Brunswick, Georgia, where she spent the early years of her childhood. When her family moved to Gainesville, Florida, she attended the historic, all-Black Lincoln High School. A proud graduate of Howard University, she was instrumental in establishing a journalism major at the institution. She also

served as the editor-in-chief of the school’s yearbook in 1972 when it received national recognition as the first HBCU to win the All American Award for a student publication. In addition, she was a Navy Veteran and served in San Diego, California. She lived for many years in Texas (Houston and Dallas) before returning to Florida. After having her first child, she noticed the need for childcare books on raising Black children. This observation led to her writing the first-ever Black-focused childcare book, The Black Parents’ Handbook. Proceeds of the book went to her sorority-Zeta Phi Beta. She always believed that media in any form was the best way to get information

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to the Black Community. She felt information kept people engaged and empowered no matter the format, including the newspaper. She became the owner of The Florida Star and Georgia Star newspapers in 2002, bringing her life to a full circle by returning to the Florida community with one of her first loves, journalism. She truly loved being back in North Florida as she enjoyed a great relationship with many churches, charities, law enforcement associations, sports teams, and area businesses. Her endeavors led to her becoming a trusted advocate in the community, the recipient of numerous honors including a Distinguished Alumni Award from Howard October 15, 2021

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University, and distinguished service from Dallas-Fort Worth Association of Black Communicators; and she was also the guest of several U.S. presidents. In her later years, she beat breast cancer twice and other illnesses. She spent the last month on home hospice after a hard-fought battle with illness. Clara will be missed by many as she leaves behind two children, a grandson, and many other family members and friends. The family knows so many have their own stories about her and asks friends to send those stories to the Florida Star via mail P.O. Box 40629, Jacksonville, FL 32203, or email info@thefloridastar. com. myimessenger.com

Why Won’t Democrats Fight? THE LAST WORD BY DR. JULIANNE MALVEAUX

Not a day goes by that I don’t get a text or three from the Democratic National Committee asking for contriubtions. Sometimes they come from Vice President Haarris. Sometimes, from President Biden himself. Occasionally, from House Speaker Nancy Pelosi or DNC Chair Jaime HarrisonNot to mention the texts that come from Congressional candidates all over the country, looking for $10, $17 or $27. I don’t know where they get these odd numbers from, nor do I know where they got mine. I suppose someone I donated to sold their list and I am likely to be cyber-panhandled indefinitely. I sometimes contribute to Democratic political candidates, as well as to the Democratic party. I’m not so in the mood to contribute these days because Democrats are so busy fighting each other that they won’t put up an aggressive fight for peple’s economic rights. They seem willing to streamline the Biden Build Back Better plan instead of insisting that our human infrastructure – child care and elder care, school improvement – is as important as our physical one. To be sure, politics is the art of compromise. Someone needs to send Mitch McConnell the memo. He does not want to raise the debt ceiling, putting a vote on that off until December. He does not want Biden’s $3.5 trillion inframyimessenger.com

structure repair plan. He does not want to guarantee voting rights. And few Republicans are willing to stand up to him, instead hiding behind party unity, even when they know better. But I’m not worried about Republicans. I’m angry about the dithering Democrats who can’t seem to get off their rusty duffs and do what they were elected to do. I’m angry at the amount of power that has been ceded to West Virginia’s Joe Manchin and Arizona’s Krysten Sinema, who would cut the Biden proposal by more than half. If Manchin had his ways the Biden plan whould be whittled to $1.5 trillion from the initially proposed $3.5 trillion. Manchin’s colleagues need to invite him to a small room to have an impactful conversation about his role. He also needs to be reminded that many of his constituents in one of our nation’s most impoverished states would benefit mightily from the Biden plan. While Republicans don’t seem to roll their sleeves up and get into the trenches, some Democrats behave as

if they are sipping tea and munching on scones at an afternoon garden party, a portrait in civility. Dems seem reluctant to call Some Republicans the liars, hypocrites, and scalawags the liars that they are. While name-calling can be perceived as incivil, so can lying, cheating, and stealing. Civility plus the filibuster will get the American people nothing. It is time for Democrats to play hardball. Youger Democratic members of Congress get hardball. They’ve been playing hardball with the older Democratic establishment, vowing not to vote for beneficial legislation if it does not honor their demands, especially for human infrastructure needs. They’ve dug their heels in and have threatened to withhold votes until their demands are heeded. I like their fighting spirit, but not the likely results. Are they prepared to walk away with nothing? A pared-down infrastructure bill? No legislation at all? President Biden and Vice President Harris, along with other membs of the Biden-Harris team, need to take

this to the people and to the stteets. Most people support most provisions of the Build Back Better legislation. West Virginians and Arizonans need to get in Manchin and Sienem’as faces and demand flexibility from them. And Republican senators need to also face a deluge of telephone calls, emails and more, demanding that they budge and put some infrastructure money in the economy. Democrats are imperiling their chances to keep Congress and the Senate in 2022. Their inaction lets indifferent voters know what going out on a limb for Democrats may not have the desired results when we live with politics and susual. The filibuster elevates the minority over the majority and favors predatory capitalism over fairness. To be sure, the Biden-Harris has been productive in their short nine months in office, with appointments, regulatory corrections, and more. They’ve also committed too many unforced errors and exposed themselves to public ridicule because of the errors (Afghanistan, Haiti, more). And Dems have allowed themselves to be portrayed as weak quislings who won’t fight for people’s rights. In some ways, Dems are great at fighting, especially when we are fighting each other. Memo to Dems. Fight enemies of progress, not each other. And don’t expect either votes or contributions if you are unwilling to fight for the people who voted for you. Dr. Julianne Malveaux is an author, economist, and social commentator.

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Texas Southern victorious over Southern in Arlington Showdown Story and Photos By Valerie Fields Hill News Editor Texas Metro News

ARLINGTON – The inaugural Arlington Football Showdown between historically Black Texas Southern University (Houston) and Southern University (-Baton Rouge) in Choctaw Stadium (formerly Globe Life) Saturday ended in a shocker: The Tigers clawed their way to a rare win sending the highly-favored Jaguars prowling back to the Bayou State. TSU won the face-off 35-31 before a crowd of 15,736 fans in one of the Southwestern Athletic Conference’s newest “classic” games. Southern was expected to win: The Jags defeated the Tigers 51-23 in March. That meetup was played in the spring in Houston’s BBVA Stadium because the SWAC delayed Fall 2020 conference play due to the 2020 COVID-19 pandemic. “We feel like this is the new TSU,” Texas Southern Head Coach Clarence McKinney

said after the game during a post-game news conference. “I tip my hat to our players because I’ve asked them to do a lot of tough things,” he said, adding that his athletes were encouraged to continue playing despite a string of humiliating defeats. “I couldn’t have been more proud of this team,” McKinney tweeted after Saturday night’s win, adding that the victory was “a total team effort and great win for the program.” Meanwhile, Southern’s Head Coach Jason Rollins said simply: “We need to play better.” The game ended after a controversial referee’s call leading to Southern, who was ahead in the final quarter, failing to achieve a first down on a critical play. Initially, game officials determined the Jags had achieved the down, but after TSU challenged the call, the officials reviewed the play, then changed their decision. The decision drew heavy boos from the crowd of largely Jaguar fans, many of whom had driven to Arlington from Baton

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Rouge and were spending the entire weekend in Texas with family members and friends who live in North Texas. Rollins said he had never experienced referees’ reversal on a decision. “That was a first,” he said during the post-game media conference. When asked what he believed led to the reversal of the first down, Rollins said “They said it was a first down. Then, they went to review it again. They said that the spot wasn’t correct. So, they reviewed it for another spot. “So, it was reviewed twice,” he said. “So, once it was a first down.” On the second review, he said, “it wasn’t.” The decision left Southern’s leading players, Marquis McClain, a 6’3” 210-pound wide-receiver from Crestview, Fla., and Johnathan Bishop, a 6’2” 290-pound senior offensive lineman appearing defeated in the post-game news conference. When asked by reporters how they felt about the offici-

Southern’s Head Coach Jason Rollins is not happy after losing to Texas Southern University. Credit: Valerie Fields Hill

als’ decision, Bishop said “The game is over. So all you can do is focus on the next game.” McClain sidestepped the question, answering simply “Go, Jags.” Regarding his role in challenging the first down, TSU’s McKinney said “I feel like I owed it to our players to challenge that spot.” Next Saturday at 2p.m., the Jags, ranked fourth in the SWAC Western Division, face University of Arkansas-Pine Bluff while TSU faces Grambling State.

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Southern and Texas Southern face off in Arlington, with view of Southern fans. Credit: Valerie Fields Hill

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The TSU Tigers enthuse as a team with coaches and staff about their 35-31 victory over the Southern University Jaguars.

Mascot included, TSU football players celebrate their hard-earned victory against Southern University Jaguars as winners of this annual HBCU football game.

Southern University fans filled the UT-Arlington stadium and enthusiastically cheered on their Jaguars in a battle of the HBCUs.

Southern University Junior and Jaguar Cornerback, Robert Rhem #14, contemplates his team's next move in a close game against opponents, Texas Southern University.

Jonathan Giles #0, a wide receiver for TSU Tigers, celebrates a touchdown that helped ascend Texas Southern University towards their gameday victory.

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Biden’s trillion-dollar plan OUR VOICES BY REV. JESSE L. JACKSON,JR.

After much drama last week, President Biden made it clear that his core legislative package – the American Jobs Plan, which would begin rebuilding our decrepit infrastructure and the American Family Plan, which would address essential needs – will pass together or not at all. Now Democrats are moving to negotiate the scope of the Family Plan so they can unify behind it. The inevitable disputes, public and private, should not drown out some basic truths. First, the two bills contain reforms that are both imperative and are remarkably popular. The infrastructure bill – the American Jobs Plan – is but a small down payment on rebuilding the key sinews of our economy – roads, mass transit, water systems, the electric grid. No sensible person doubts the need. Donald Trump promised to do it, but never got around to presenting a plan. From Texas to Manhattan, the extreme weather caused by climate change has revealed that we must invest in resilience. Lead pipes like those that infamously poisoned Flint, Michigan’s water endanger the young in communities across the country. The inadequacy of our bridges, roads and train systems impede our ability to compete in a global economy. The American Family Plan puts many programs together in a reconciliation package that can pass with majority support, a tactic necessitated by RepuOctober 15, 2021

blican obstruction to popular reforms. What Republicans label as “socialist” would simply provide basic shared security to American families that is enjoyed by families in industrial nations across the world. The child tax credit gives families with children a helping hand, as does expanded investment in daycare and universal pre-K. It would reduce childhood poverty by almost half. The bill would also guarantee paid family leave so that workers can afford to care for their loved ones in distress. Making community college tuition free will make advanced education more affordable. Providing seniors with more affordable prescription drugs and expanding Medicare to include hearing, vision and dental care is just common sense. President Biden’s plan also contains the first serous investment in addressing climate change. These investments are not frivolous luxuries. They do not turn America into a socialist society. They make for a somewhat more humane and rational society. And that is why each of these measures – and the package itself – enjoys majority support, including significant support among Republican voters, if not legislators. Second, these bills are affordable. The infrastructure bill, described as a $1.5 trillion plan, in fact provides $550 billion in new money over 10 years. The Family Plan is described as a $3.5 trillion bill, but this too is over 10 years. In comparison, the military budget – at over $1 trillion a year – would be a $10 trillion-dollar program. Moreover, both plans include savings and tax hikes – on the wealthy and on corporations –

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that pay for the bulk of the new spending. And the jobs and growth that they will inevitably produce will ensure that they reduce deficits over time, not add to them. Since they are largely paid for, the bills are not inflationary. Even if they weren’t balanced by tax hikes on the rich, they still would not add to inflation. Over the next 10 years, our cumulative GDP will total over $285 trillion, representing nearly 20 percent of the world economy. Three-and-a-half trillion is barely over 1 percent of that, so suggesting that will somehow fuel out-of-control inflation is a joke. Americans are feeling the rising costs of food, of gasoline, of housing, but this increase doesn’t come from government spending. Food costs are rising largely because global climate catastrophes are laying waste to crops across the world. Gasoline is rising because of supply problems. Supply chain and production snafus due to natural difficulties in recovering from the pandemic shutdown are inevitable, but transitory. Third, for all the talk of division, what is striking is how unified the parties are. Republicans – despite all the blather of bipartisanship – are unified in obstructing the Biden agenda, believing that they will benefit if he fails. There weren’t even 10 Republican Senate votes to enable the IRS to collect the taxes that are owed. Republicans voted unanimously against the Rescue Plan in the midst of the pandemic. They will vote unanimously against the American Family Plan – and against any effort to pay for it that involves raising taxes on

the wealthy and on corporations. Democrats, in contrast, are remarkably unified in favor of both plans. As Rep. Pramila Jayapal, leader of the Congressional Progressive Caucus has said, about 96 percent of Democrats in both houses of Congress favor passing the president’s plan. There are only two conservative senators – Joe Manchin and Krysten Sinema – and only half a dozen House members dragging their feet. The problem is that with the Senate split 50-50 and Democrats having a margin of only three in the House, even a few corrupted, compromised, or conservative opponents can foul up the works. And, needless to say, Big Pharma, Big Oil, the business lobby and Wall Street have launched legions of lobbyists and millions in ad campaigns to try to stop the reforms from going forward. Against the blizzard of corporate campaigns and money, against the partisan obstruction of Republicans, it will take a broad, active citizen mobilization to force the change. These reforms are long overdue; their passage is a moral imperative, not simply a policy choice. Over the next few weeks, Americans must join the fight. Every citizen who cares about the future of this country should make certain their senators and representatives hear from them. (You can write to the Rev. Jesse Jackson in care of this newspaper or by email at jjackson@ rainbowpush.org. Follow him on Twitter @RevJJackson.) The Rev. Jesse L. Jackson, Sr. is president and CEO of the Rainbow/PUSH Coalition.

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Breast Cancer Awareness

Katt Williams World War III Tour at Texas Trust Theatre, 1001 Performance Pl. Grand Prairie, 6-10 pm . Tickets: www.axs.com.

Domestic Violence Awareness Mental Illness Awareness

RECURRING 2021 Fall Exhibitions Line Up Sepia: Past. Pride. Power, Ruth Mae McCrane,The History of the Prairie View Interscholastic League at the African American Museum, 3536 Grand Ave. 10 am-5 pm. Info & tickets: aamdallas.org. Screams A Halloween Theme Park, Fri & Sat nights, 2511 FM 66, Waxahachie.screamspark.com.

Black in Frisco- The Connect at Jam Box Fitness & Events 7151 Preston Rd. Project Unity presents: Together We Vaccinate at Roseland Townhomes, 2021 N. Washington Ave. 10 am-1 pm. Reg: bit.ly/3v1bDem. Coffee and Conversation with Attorney Steve Pipkin. Live Chat on Facebook Live @The Pipkin Law Firm. 10 am CDT.

OCTOBER 14 Collin County Black Chamber of Commerce Presents a Business Expo at Plano Event Center, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy. 9 am-2 pm. SoulJazz Thursdays Feat: Natural Change Band. Hosted by Sandaga 813, 813 Exposition Ave. 8 pm-12 am. Visit: www.sandaga813.com. The Whole Food PlantBased Cooking Demo, Facebook live @ AARP Michigan 1 pm CDT. Reg: https://bit.ly/3kQuMMq. The Great Taste of Grapevine at the Hilton DFW Lakes Executive Conference Center, 1800 Hwy 26 E., 5:30-8:30 pm. Tickets: https://bit.ly/3l8iRtq. Black Entrepreneurs Day 2021 presented by Chase for Business 6 pm CST on Facebook Live Reg: www.blackentrepreneursday.com.

OCTOBER 15 Summer Series at Heritage Village Rooftop Cinema Club. Space Jam Friday 7:30 & 9:45 pm.1609 Park Ave. wwwrooftopcinemaclub.com The Market Mile presented by Downtown Dallas Inc. Downtown Dallas, 777 Main St. 4-10 pm.

OCTOBER 16 Black in Frisco- The Connect at Jam Box Fitness & Events 7151 Preston Rd. CHERYL’S WORLD Tune in to Cheryl’s World on BlogTalkRadio.com, FaceBook Live and Streamyard for thought-provoking, enlightening, informative and entertaining news and commentary. Call 646-200-0459 to join in.

Better Block Foundation Creates The Park at Forest-Audelia Dedication at 12:30 pm. Forest Lane and Audelia Road in Northeast Dallas (9759 Forest Lane, Dallas, Park opens 10-15 Info: www. betterblock.org. Dallas Reggae Festival 2021. Online event from 1 pm-11 pm. Info: http://www.DallasReggaeFest.com Hispanic Communicators DFW 40th, Anniversary & Hispanic Heritage Celebration. Online 6:30 pm CST. Tickets: bit.ly/2YNwXbs Pumpkin Day at Dallas Farmers Market, 920 S. Harwood. 9-5 pm. DIY Business Workshop & Brunch presented by Virtually Assign at 8813 North Tarrant Pkwy. North Richland Hills. 11:30 am-2:30 pm. Reg: https://bit.ly/3lW6sYS . Dallas Opera Presents The People’s Choice Concert. Outdoors at Annette Strauss Square 7:30 pm. FREE! FUN! FOOD! FAMOUS MUSIC & STARS! Reg: https://bit.ly/3D9sSwM

OCTOBER 17 State Fair of Texas Community Connection presents Juanita Craft Humanitarian Awards Virtually at 3 pm. CDT Reg: bit.ly/3iOwtZA.

Sundays “The World According to Drew” with Andrew Whigham, III 8-10 am CDT.

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Frank and Judy Frazier presents: Visions In Black Curbside Art Show at 1718 Ramsey Ave. 10 am-8 pm. Info: 817-3682149

Ask Dr. Amerson with Dr. Linda Amerson.12 pm. CST @DFWiRadio.com, and Live on Facebook @DrLindaAmerson.

LipSerVce Cosmetics Presents “Girl Come Get Your Zest Back” girl chat with Cheryl R. Dunbar! Music City Mall Lewisville, 2401 S. Stemmons, Lewisville. 2-4 pm. Tickets: www.Cash.Me/$Lemonspirations.

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OCTOBER 21 Wear Purple Day For Domestic Violence Awareness

Dallas’ Best Bits & Bites Tour at Dallas by Chocolate Food Tours, 4925 Greenville Ave. Tickets: https://bit.ly/3mrXmVQ 12:30-4:30 pm.

Project Unity presents: Together We Vaccinate. Co-hosted by Rep. Toni Rose and Rhetta Bowers at Prosperity Bank, 3636 Shepherd Ln. Balch Springs. 10 am-1 pm. Reg: https://bit. ly/3v1bDem. Dallas Divas II presents: “Lets Cover Our Ladies with Blankets of Love and Socks” for Genesis Women’s Shelter at Lancaster Recreation Center, 1569 Jefferson St. Lancaster 1:30-4:30 pm. Info: Shanda Brown 214-288-2079. Fall Old Skool Day Party at Sandaga813, 813 Exposition Ave.3-8 pm. Tickets: WWW.DFWSOCIAL40.COM

OCTOBER 24

Dallas Theatre Center Presents Cake Ladies and Tiny Beautiful Things at the Wyly Theatre, 2400 Flora St. Tickets & Times: 214-522-8499.

FedEx, in partnership with ZWHJCOC is hosting a hiring event at Frazier House, 4600 Spring Ave. 11 am-3 pm. Info & Reg: www.zwhjcoc.org.

OCTOBER 18

Premier Screening. The History and Legacy of The 1619 Enslaved African Landing. 6-7 pm CST. Via Zoom: https://bit.ly/3v6DV78

Family Black Light Party Holiday Nightmare at Painting with a Twist, 3201 Hardin Blvd. #204, McKinney

Breast Cancer and Below the Waist. Online, at 5 pm CST. Via Zoom Reg: https://bit.ly/3av8AS3

“ For The Culture “ Pop Up Expo at VySion Events Center, 360 E. Beltline Rd. DeSoto. 1-5 pm.

Chocolate Secrets Open Mic Monday at Chocolate Secrets, 3926 Oak Lawn Ave. 7:30-11 pm. Tickets: https://bit.ly/3mGIBN2 CHAMPS Black Women Homeschooling Kindergarten-5th Grade in DFW Now Enrolling at Devonshire, 1201 Ravenhill Rd. Forney. Info: https://bit.ly/3Az9h7C

OCTOBER 19 Oak Cliff Thrives with Oak Cliff Chamber of Commerce.6-7:30 pm. Tickets: oakcliffchamber.org/oakcliff-thrives

OCTOBER 22 Cutting Ceremony, Honey Springs Cedar Crest Trail. County Commissioner John Wiley Price, Carolyn King Arnold and Park Board Member Harrison Blair 10 am at 5510 S. Beckley Ave. Anniversary BAM: Black Artist Marketplace on Facebook Live @BlackArtistMarketplace 7 pm CST. www.BlackArtistMarketplace.com.

Grand Prairie District 1 Town Hall Meeting with Council-member Jorja Clemson, at 6-8 p.m. at City Hall, 300 W. Main St. www.gptx.org. Hollywood Live! With Michael “Hollywood” Hernandez on Roku TV on the WPS TV channel at 8pm and Hollywood Live YouTube Channel

OCTOBER 23 Four Girls and a Guy at Cedar Hill Farmers Market, 300 Houston St. Cedar Hill. 9am-1 pm. Block Walk with Judge Mike Jones at 501 E Wintergreen Rd, Desoto. 9 am. Black College Expo at Paul Quinn College, 3837 Simpson Stuart Rd. Tickets: https://bit.ly/3D9GtUO

OCTOBER 20 Indie Sounds Open Mic Showcase at Da Crab Trap 3431 Altamesa Boulevard #166, Fort Worth. 7 pm. Tickets: https://bit.ly/30lyTsa.

21st Annual Chuck Burch Scholarship Fund Golf Tournament and Silent Auction at Country View Golf Course 240 West Belt Line Rd. Lancaster, 12-7 pm. Reg: https://bit.ly/3ixU1BE

Thursdays

Wednesdays “I was just thinking...” with Norma Adams-Wade, 11 am- 1 pm. CDT.

“The Connection” with Debra BrownSturns, 7 pm. CDT.

Happy Birthday to Nena Hayden

Dallas Soul Food Festival at Lofty Spaces, 816 Montgomery St. 12-6 pm. Tickets: www. Eventbrite.com

OCTOBER 25 Majesty Monday 100% Reggae Patio Party & Game Night, at Heroes Lounge, 3094 N. Stemmons Fwy. 4 pm. Eventbrite.com

OCTOBER 26 Oak Cliff Thrives with Oak Cliff Chamber of Commerce.6-7:30 pm. Tickets: oakcliffchamber.org/ oak-cliff-thrives Apply Today. Project Unity: Together We Dine, Virtually 5:30-7:30 via Zoom. Reg: https://bit.ly/3aLZXCZ

OCTOBER 27 Women in Business and Leadership Conference Awards Luncheon. Speaker: Nadine S. Lee at Hilton Garden Inn, 800 N. Main St. Duncanville 11 am-3 pm. CDT Reg: www.gswbcc.com.

Fridays “From Marva with Love” with Marva Sneed, 11 am-1 pm CDT.

October 15, 2021

Can you mend a broken heart? Dear Alma, After 26 years of marriage, last year my husband had an affair, divorced me and married his mistress. We have two adult daughters and two grandchildren. One of our daughters is very close to her father and insists that, despite what has happened, we must all spend special holidays together as a family. She insists the both of us – her parents – come to the family Christmas dinner at her house and remain civil to each other. I am completely devastated by my divorce, and I don’t think my daughter understands the position she’s putting me in. How do I get her to understand? Mrs. Bowman, Orlando, Fla. Hello Mrs. Bowman, If I recall correctly, life’s commandment goes something like this: Honor thy mother and father, not thy son and daughter. When and how exactly were these roles reversed? Experiencing adultery and divorce is devastating, and to compound the pain and humiliation, your husband married his mistress. I’m

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stunned that somewhere in your daughter’s Hallmark Family Holiday, she thinks that you should graciously sit across the table from this woman and break bread. Ahhh, I think not. That request is unconscionable and absolutely insane. At least this year it is. Who knows what future years may bring. Is your daughter really that spoiled to think that providing grandchildren, a turkey and trimmings on a Christmas tree trumps the embarrassment and resentment your broken heart endures? Really!? Who taught her that? If it was you, now’s your chance to make it right. Tell her, clearly, and in no uncertain terms, that you will not attend a holiday dinner with her father and her new stepmother. She doesn’t need any further explanation; she knows why. Because of her father’s choice to leave the family, here’s my suggestion: Her father and his new wife can

host a Christmas Eve brunch for his adult children and grandchildren. You will attend the Christmas Day dinner at your daughter’s house. If one year she’d like to flip the switch, that’s fine with you, but all three of you, at this time, will not celebrate together as a family. Let me remind you that you are not alone. Many celebrities, athletes, military personnel, out of-state college students and service industry professionals are unable to celebrate Christmas on Christmas Day with family. Listen to your heart and determine what your soul will bear. Right now you’re resting in the slumber of a broken heart. You’ll wake up one day. Your spirit grieves for now, but it will grow; I promise. None of us should ever live to lay claim to a love that can’t requite. Just as you wouldn’t wear a pair of shoes that hurt your feet, your heart deserves the same consideration. Rid yourself from mindmeddling. You know what that is, when you just can’t stop thinking about how it could have been. What could have been is what it’s not. Stay in the reality.

You’ll move through it much quicker. I’m sure you thought you and your husband would be married forever and live happily ever after. That didn’t happen. Life doesn’t always offer us a fair playing field. Put one foot in front of the other and make the best of the rest of your life. This isn’t about how to make things comfortable for your daughter. The focus and consideration should be on you. I’d also suggest you connect with a DivorceCare Group. Pick up a copy of “Peace From Broken Pieces: How to Get Through What You’re Going Through” by Iyanla Vanzant. Another really good read that will fill your spirit is “Just Enough Light for the Step I’m On” by Stormie Omartian. Help yourself to help yourself. Most of life’s storms require more than a raincoat and umbrella. This is one of them. Alma Gill’s newsroom experience spans more than 25 years, including various roles at USA Today, Newsday and the Washington Post. Email questions to: alwaysaskalma@gmail.com. Follow her on Facebook at “Ask Alma” and twitter @almaaskalma.

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NO TIME TO DIE AT THE MOVIES BY HOLLYWOOD HERNANDEZ After 24 previous James Bond movies starring Daniel Craig the last one with Craig in the lead has to go out with a bang; and that’s exactly what we get with NO TIME TO DIE. This movie seems to restart the series with a crueler and meaner Bond. This Bond kicks butt without any apprehension about what’s right or wrong. Again in this movie Bond was retired when he was requested by his old C.I.A. friend Felix, played by Jeffrey Wright to help with the case. He was also sent a female agent from the M16 Secret Service to convince Bond to enlist. Rami Malek plays the evil villain in the movie, who like most evil villains in Bond movies, wants world domination. There is a lot going on this movie but mainly it’s the spectacular action scenes that keep you enthralled. More so than any previous 007 movie the action is amazing. The ending comes as a surprise and you’ve got to stay to the very end for a major announcement about James Bond. It’s a different James Bond and I think you’ll like him. The movie runs a little long (2 hours and 43 minutes) and it’s rated PG-13. On my “Hollywood Popcorn Scale” I rate NO TIME TO DIE a JUMBO.

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ARRESTED

HE IS A SERIAL RAPIST

He targeted members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. but this is more than about a sorority. We’re talking about a community.

Come on PEOPLE! Don’t you CARE? Will it matter when it is your sister, mother, aunt or grandmother or maybe YOU?

Crimestoppers 877-373-8477 October 15, 2021

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