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Gavin and Grayson Newman
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A modern mom’s
ABCs: 26 things every new parent needs to know.
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Beautiful bumps:
Chicago area moms show off their baby bumps.
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Cravings:
Moms indulge Chicago style.
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The Baby Guy: The gear
you really need, the things you don’t.
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Nursery must-
haves: Necessary
products for modern moms.
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You will survive:
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The fab five:
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Best for baby—
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Fashion pieces every new mom needs from delivery and beyond.
and you: Where to eat and play with baby in tow.
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Real mom secrets:
What docs might not always tell you.
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On the Cover: Natalie Forest, Grayson Newman, Liam Schwartz, Gavin Newman and Hannah Brokmeier Photographer: Thomas Kubik Design: Claire Innes Credit: Made in Chicago onesies provided by Psychobaby
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Olivier Parisien, 6½ months, on a visit to The Ledge at Willis Tower.
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Get ready for your life to change!
Mission: To connect moms and moms-to-be
Here we are, face-toface, middle-aged dad with older kids and, over across the page, young mom with two little ones. But as Lindsay and I compared notes when Bump Club and Beyond and Chicago Parent partnered up to create Hey Baby, we would most certainly agree that nothing is so life changing as becomDAN HALEY ing a parent. That was the advice offered to me about 30 years ago as my wife Mary and I prepared to adopt Ben. I nodded politely. But until he was in my arms, until every habit I had was changed by becoming a father, I didn’t know the truth. And it was the same lifeaffirming truth 19 years ago when Mariah joined our family. It is love and it is sometimes pain and it is forever. At Chicago Parent, we’re enthusiastic about joining forces with Bump Club and Beyond to offer you this essential guide to being a new parent in Chicagoland.
In 2010 I was lucky enough to give birth to two babies: my first daughter AND Bump Club and Beyond. As I embraced pregnancy and motherhood, I was lucky to have the BCB community supporting me along the way. Bump Club began out of my own desire to meet other moms-to-be LINDSAY during my pregnancy. PINCHUK Five years later, Bump Club has grown far beyond what I could have imagined! We continue to evolve and deliver on our mission of connecting moms and moms-to-be with the best pregnancy and parenting resources—and most importantly, each other. I am incredibly excited to introduce you to Hey Baby, the newest member of the BCB and Chicago Parent families. This publication is a guide to everything that comes with being an expectant and new parent in Chicago. Our recommendations, tips and information are to ensure that your journey into parenthood is as seamless as possible! The evolution of Bump Club would never have happened without the support of so many moms and moms-to-be in Chicago. Thank you for your devotion to our community. We hope that you enjoy reading Hey Baby as much as we enjoyed creating it for you!
Dan Haley Publisher Chicago Parent
Lindsay Pinchuk CEO and FOUNDER Bump Club and Beyond
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A MODERN MOM’S ABCS
26 things you need to know your first year
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Your baby’s spit-up might look like modern art when it ends up on your favorite blouse. Check out the real thing the first Wednesday of every month with 11:30 a.m. Stroller Tours at the Museum of Contemporary Art.
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Bubbles Academy is a Chicago mom’s institution. The giant open play space is perfect to entertain babies on a rainy or snowy Chicago day—and every day in between.
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Cha-ching. Raising a baby takes serious cash. A family earning more than $106,540 can expect to spend $407,820, the USDA reports.
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Change baby’s diaper in style at The Field Museum’s awardwinning facilities. Changing stalls provide privacy and tot areas are outfitted with teeny toilets.
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There’s no easier way to get around our great city
and adjoining ‘burbs than Chicago’s El. Pro tip: Invest in an easy-tofold stroller to keep it stress-free.
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Olivier Parisien, 6½ months
Visit the Farm in the Lincoln Park Zoo on Wednesdays and Fridays for Mr. Singer’s all-ages free concert. Pro tip: Go on a Wednesday in the summer and hit up the Green City Market for a picnic. When the weather turns, the market moves to the Peggy Notebaert Nature Museum!
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Go green! Cloth diapering isn’t as intimidating as it sounds. Several local diaper services, including Green Diaper Babies, make the process easier for p busyy parents.
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Never ever ever say no when someone offers you a helping hand, whether it is a meal or time to take that much needed long hot shower.
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Not all jammies are created equal. Let your baby’s developing personality show with sleep sacks and PJs from Psychobaby, 1657 W. Division, Chicago. (Nab one of the Chicago onesies you see on our cover while there.)
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Once the epidural has worn off, personalized keepsakes will become treasured possessions, like the Keepsake Name Loveys and Keepsake Birth Story Blankets at The Red Balloon (3 locations in Chicago).
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You’re never going to stay the word “boob” as much as you will now.
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Unsure of the priority when it comes to organics? Here’s a a tip: Insist on organic versions of produce that retains the most pesticide residue such as apples. Skip for produce such as bananas and pineapples, if you wish. For prepared food, we like Happy Family.
It’s way more fun when you share this rite of passage with others at The Lactation Station at Sweet Pea’s Studio, 3717 N. Ravenswood, Chicago, or at The Lactation Partners’ drop-in clinic at Sprout San Francisco in Chicago’s Wicker Park.
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Malls and maternity leave are the perfect match! North Bridge has two New Mom/Expectant Mom parking spots and a great nursing lounge in Nordstrom. 900 North
Michigan Shops has some new mom staples: Galt Toys + Galt Baby, Preggers Maternity and lululemon! We also like the Fashion Outlets of Chicago and Oakbrook Center. All are great places to go for a walk on a windy day!
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The next best thing to having your trusted
pediatrician on speed dial 24/7 might be The Big Book of Symptoms A-Z Guide to Your Child’s Health by Pediatrician Dr. Shelley Flais (mom of 4).
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If your baby isn’t sleeping, neither are you. Make an appointment with Dr. Marc Weissbluth, author of Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child, at the Northwestern Children’s Practice or Janeen Hayward of
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The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends your baby’s first dentist appointment by their first birthday. Also, be sure to invest in chilled rings for when those cute baby teeth emerge.
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Babies grow really fast and that means that you’ll go from size 3-6 months to 12-18 months before you know it. Frequent local businesses that help recyle by selling or consigning gently worn baby clothes, including Moxie Jean,
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Advocate Children’s Hospital in Oak Lawn and the University of Chicago Comer Children’s Hospital as the best in Illinois.
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Be gentle on yourself. Bodies need time to recover from pregnancy and childbirth. But that doesn’t mean you can’t look and feel great. Invest in a supportive undergarment such as the Belly Bandit or Spanx to help tame your post-baby belly.
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aren Alpert, who pens the popular blog Baby Sideburns, is the author of the charmingly profane parenting guide, I Heart My Little A-Holes. Figuring that makes her an expert, we pulled no punches with some tricky parenting questions. car. And not like a little. I mean like I turn into Cujo and foam at the mouth and stuff. I know we’re supposed to be all cool and collected and talk to them like they’re grownups and be rational with them, but I kind of think if we do that we’re gonna end up raising a bunch of wussies.
What’s your least favorite children’s book? What? Just one?! Fine, I’m too lazy to list them all anyway. I’m gonna say Love You Forever. Creeeeeepy. I mean what kind of mother sneaks into her grown son’s house and rocks him? I’ll tell you what kind. The kind that lives in the Bates Motel.
Quick! Name the color of first item you see on the floor, the last food you’ve eaten and the career you’d least like your kids to have. Black, Hershey’s syrup and not a drug dealer or prostitute.
Do you have a parenting super power? I can look pregnant anytime I want. All I do is stop sucking in and my belly goes from unpreggers to five months preggers immediately. And if I eat Chipotle, I look like I’m in my third trimester.
What’s the most surprising thing one of your kids has ever given you?
Nothing surprises me anymore. NOTHING. I mean they give me boogers on a daily basis, and they often There are so many hand me annoying crap like flowery weeds and hard ‘n’ fast rules of Reflect on how you were raised. pinecones. The trick is raising kids. Name pretending like you What do you want to be similar? one rule you’ve unlove their gifts and figabashedly broken. Different? Parenting patterns often uring out how to get repeat generationally, so it helps to be rid of them without I do all sorts of crap that’s “wrong.” I give them noticing. Oh, purposeful regarding changes you my kids the iPad when and my son gave me want within your new family. I want to have a nice a Play-Doh sculpture in Sara Sladoje, MS, CCLS meal in a restaurant. I the shape of a penis the bribe them with dessert Child development specialist other day. I mean he said alllll the time. And I yell at it was a snake, but what kind GRASP Group them almost every morning of snake is circumcised? when it’s time to get in the Keely Flynn
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Mandy Kalins WINFIELD 10 WEEKS
What I’m feeling this month: Barfy
Dawn Hentze CHICAGO SIX WEEKS
What I’m feeling this month: Elated
Touch my belly if you must
70%
BEAUTIFUL Alicia Sawyer CHICAGO 37 WEEKS
31% are more in love with husband than ever
What I’m feeling this month: Stuffed! (Ready for a Thanksgiving baby!)
Allison Chase LINDENHURST 33 WEEKS
What I’m feeling this month: Empowered
THE GOAL:
An amazing, adorable baby. Meet one such baby, Quinn Elsener, of River Forest, moments after his birth
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5.8% Cloth
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Eileen Weber LAKE FOREST 14 WEEKS
What I’m feeling this month: Giddy
Jackie McGoey OAK PARK 16 WEEKS
What I’m feeling this month: Forgetful
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What I’m feeling this month: Very pregnant.
Kirsten Barker MCHENRY 30 WEEKS
What I’m feeling this month: Like a waddling duck
Support your biggest supporter
Who do you want in the 90% birthing room with you? Baby’s Daddy
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My mom
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It is hard to connect to your significant other when you haven’t had time to reconnect with yourself after baby; support and encourage your partner to have self care, and they will have more energy to re-connect with you. Mallory Rose LMFT, staff therapist The Family Institute at Northwestern University
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CRAVINGS Chicago style
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et’s face it: Pregnancy is one of the few times in life when “gotta have it” actually turns into having it—with food, at least. Those crafty cravings can drive you half-insane, especially when they strike in the middle of the night. Our advice: Stock up with these fun Chicago twists on some of the most common cravings. More than a few babies have M dr driven their mothers to the sour ssatisfaction of a jar of pickles. For a true Chicago spin, check out Puckered Pickle Co., which produces three varieties of pickles right on the city’s west side, and Chipico’s kosher pickles, made in Chicago since the 1920s. All that puckering up will pay off with that made-tobe-kissed new baby.
Iff you’re going tto crave hot dogs, Chicago’s the place to do it. Hot dog stands can be found in most every town, or keep some Vienna Beef Franks on hand for when the need strikes. And depending on your toppings, you can topple multiple cravings at once (but remember: no ketchup).
No matter your due date, ice cream leads the pack in cravings. Our pick is Oberweis Dairy, with more than two dozen locations throughout Chicagoland. Bonus: Oberweis doesn’t use milk that contains artificial growth hormones to make its creamy treat.
The oil and salt of the picnicfriendly potato chip also makes it popular among munchie momsto-be. Get your chip fix with hometown faves Jays Potato Chips (now owned by Snyder’s of Hanover), which gives you 14 flavor options, or Vitner’s Potato Chips, which still produces its snacks in Freeport.
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Personalized Gifts While You Wait! You can find popsicles at your local Jewel, but the truly gourmet flavors can be relished only in the warmest months. At the Dec Rooftop Bar + Lounge, enjoy seasonal fruit pops with a heck of a view—the bar is atop The Ritz-Carlton Chicago.
Most women crave chocolate even when they’re eating for just one, so baby’s arrival provides a welcome excuse for a little sweet indulgence. Fortunately, the largest chocolate manufacturer in North America is right in our backyard, thanks to Blommer Chocolate Company. Or try the distinctly hometown-flavored Frango Mints of Marshall Field’s fame, now available at Macy’s.
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Moms-to-be like it hot. When jalapeño poppers just won’t scratch that spicy food itch, head to Jake Melnick’s Corner Tap in Chicago’s River North, whose XXX Chicken Wings have been dubbed the world’s hottest.
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Marie-Edmonde Parisien apparently takes “bun in the oven” literally.
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Is baby ready for sleep training?
We recommend baby be 4 months old for a singleton and 5 months old for twins. They need to weigh more than 12 pounds and be eating at least 24 ounces from 7 a.m.-7 p.m.
Courtney Goodman, above, announces baby #2. Big brother couldn’t be happier.
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National expert picks the must-have gear for Chicago parents
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alk about choices! When you become a parent, you trade your complicated Starbucks order for the smorgasbord of baby gear options. But how do you decide which high chair is best or which car seat can be installed easily? We sat down with Jamie Grayson, aka “The Baby Guy” and Bump Club and Beyond’s gear expert, to talk strollers, carriers and all the essentials.
Basics Oh the places you’ll go! When it comes to strollers, Grayson recommends the UPPAbaby VISTA ($729.99), which features a bassinet and a reversible toddler seat, “enormous” sun canopies to keep baby shaded, a compact fold and a large basket for your diaper bag. Plus, for tall parents, the handlebar is adjustable up to 42.5 inches. Baby wearing is all the rage, and you can take baby on all kinds of adventures with the Beco Gemini ($130). The back cross straps lend additional comfort and support, which is helpful with a 40-pound weight limit. And
at six or seven months, turn your little one around so they can take in the world. For city parents, a cab-friendly infant car seat is essential. That’s where the CYBEX Aton 2 ($299.95) comes in. Its European routing path for the seatbelt means you can move it from car-to-car with ease and still know it’s secure. It’s also lightweight (nine pounds), and is compatible with most major strollers. Once your little one weighs more than 35 pounds or is longer than 30 inches, it’s time to switch to a convertible car seat. Grayson likes the Peg Perego Primo Viaggio Convertible ($329.99) because it’s rear-facing up to 45 pounds, which is a safety perk. The shape gives parents a little additional leg room, and it’s easy to install. If you’re going to splurge on one item, this is it.
Overrated Chances are your biggest diaper blow-outs won’t happen in the safety of the nursery. So forget the changing table (unless you’re suffering with excess space), and pop a changing pad on a dresser. Don’t bother with a wipe warmer, no matter how sweet and soft your baby’s little bottom. As Grayson says: “Wipe warmers are a joke.”
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Necessities The Stokke Tripp Trapp ($249) doesn’t look like your typical high chair, but it’s Grayson’s favorite. The chair is designed to fit a standard 30inch dining table for maximum parent-child interaction. Plus the adjustable foot support prevents feet from dangling and throwing little spines out of alignment. For changing time, Grayson recommends the Skip Hop Pronto ($30), a portable changing station that stows your diapers, wipes and ointment. And the stylish patterns mean you can keep it in your living room, the car or as a faux clutch.
Sure, it sounds a little gross, but the NoseFrida ($15) will be a lifesaver the first time your baby comes down with a cold. Just put the tube in the baby’s nostril and the mouthpiece in your mouth and literally suck the snot out. Don’t worry: the filters keep the nasty stuff from going anywhere.
The skinny on pumps “You want to make sure your (breast) pump can use different sized flanges, because it is not like a one-sizefits-all situa-
Many a parent has deemed the beloved bouncy seat “a lifesaver” for the magical way it lulls baby to sleep. For an adjustable option, try the BabyBjorn Bouncer Balance Soft ($199.99) with three positions and a flat fold for storage or a trip to Grandma’s. For something that’s bigger than your typical play yard, Grayson likes the Joovy Room2 ($149.99). It’s 50 percent larger than the standard, so it lasts well into the toddler years. And the easy assembly is a gift to sleep-deprived parents everywhere. To swing or not to swing? Grayson’s take: “Try a friend’s swing, see if your baby likes it, and then go swing shopping. But swings are enormous. (They) have a massive footprint, so they’re just not that practical in a lot of apartments.” Lila Pinchuk (above) tries out the Primo Viaggio Convertible, while Sam Levine (left) enjoys the view from the Tripp Trapp.
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Bump Club Chicago 3 a.m. Feeding Club What do you wish you knew going into labor & delivery that you didn’t? I was incredibly afraid of labor, but it really wasn’t so bad. I wish someone had told me to stop worrying so much about it and spend more time learning about how to care for the baby after it is born.
Beata That the pain can cause vomiting!
To eat before the epidural! It was a long 10 hours after I got the epidural; I was starving!
Aimee That the birth plan is great, but it usually doesn’t go as you plan. And that is OK. Stop overthinking. Caring for a tiny baby after it’s born is a MUCH bigger challenge than giving birth.
Katie
That having your traditional-minded mother in the room is not a good idea! I was more exhausted battling her on my decisions than the 36 hours of labor itself.
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A c-section can happen to you. I skipped those chapters in all the books thinking I wouldn’t have one, but I ended up having one and had no idea what to expect!
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HEY BABY 1 I wish I knew to eat before going to the hospital since they don’t let you once you are there.
coming and coming until the baby comes out.
2 That you do not get the epidural right away.
That it doesn’t go exactly like you’re told in birthing classes. My contractions never got longer or closer together with my first. Also the blood during labor. I didn’t expect so much and was scared!
3 The epidural makes you itchy and cold. 4 Your water doesn’t always break on its own. 5 And after labor, when breastfeeding, you feel contractions for about a week or two.
Libertad That when your water breaks, it doesn’t just happen the first time and that’s it. It keeps
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Keys to pumping success
A hands-free pumping bra, quiet safe space, pump 10 minutes, stop to massage breasts, then pump another 5-10 minutes. Distract yourself while pumping with baby videos, reading, online shopping. Lactation Partners of Chicago
Joscelyn How many papers you have to sign before they give you an epidural. Lol.
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Nursery NECESSITIES Must-haves for modern moms Connected momma
Sweet dreams
Love to Dream is the brand new smart swaddle. From day one mom and baby get a better night’s sleep since this swaddle is designed to allow baby to sleep in their natural position, with their arms up. As they grow, the arms zip off, allowing baby to transition from a swaddle to a wearable blanket. $29.95, lovetodream. com.
The Mimo Baby Monitor is the smartest baby monitor on the market! Get real-time info about your baby from anywhere in the world. Through the sensor worn on the kimono, mom and dad can listen in, check if baby is awake or sleeping, track breathing, know baby’s position, check the room temperature and more. $199, Galt Baby, galtbaby.com.
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Room to grow
The Stokke Sleepi Crib grows with your baby, from a bassinet
to child-size bed. The bonus? It has wheels, making it a cinch to move. $799, Buy Buy Baby, stokke.com.
Bliss for tired parents
The super soft and comfy Monte Como Pure Latex Glider is perfect for those 3 a.m. feedings. Starts at $1,795, Sprout San Francisco, 1943 W. Division, Chicago, (773) 489-0009, sprout sanfrancisco.com.
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Nothing makes a nursery more peaceful than beautiful music. Add these Chicago-born recordings to your playlist: ✻ Chicago violinist and mom Rachel Barton Pine’s Violin Lullabies is a can’tmiss. Amazon, iTunes, cedillerecords.org, $7.99-$18.99. ✻ Baby needs music as unique as she is, making Chicago Harp Quartet’s debut, Soirées d’été, a perfect pick. Downloads through CDBaby and iTunes for $9.99.
Expert pick
When it comes to the crib mattress, The Baby Guy Jamie Grayson suggests going as organic as possible since your baby (hopefully) sleeps a lot, and you don’t want the flame retardants and toxins found in regular matJAMIE GRAYSON tresses close to their face. His pick: Naturepedic, which is waterproof, uses organic cotton and offers a 2-in-1 option that flips from a firm infant side to a more cushy toddler option. “Your mattress is an investment and you’re going to be using it a long, long time,” Grayson says. “People spend $1,000 on a crib, $600 on a stupid stylish diaper bag, but you want a $100 car seat and a $40 mattress. The priorities are backward.”
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o you’re about to tackle the nursery, but everything you’re seeing seems a little bit … done. Rachel Glasson, owner of Twinkle Twinkle Little One, an upscale baby and child boutique, offers up some fresh ideas for readying the most important room in your house.
COLOR:
For your little lady’s nursery, try mixing plum and navy or mint with coral. The newest guy in your life can give the combo of mint and navy a spin. Towing the gender-nonspecific line? “Metallics have become the new neutral,” says Glasson. “Using gold and silver to replace the beige and gray tones is a great way to give your nursery a little pop.”
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STORAGE:
“Get away from the typical and get creative,” advises Glasson. The life span of most kid-friendly storage pieces usually lasts as long as the age or stage. Think about the furniture you’ll want around as your child grows.
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ax Explores Chicago, a board book created with Chicago Children’s Museum, takes baby on a journey through Chicago led by a cute puppy. $9.95
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timulate baby’s brain with an artful, modernist collection of toys, bibs and swaddles from rouxroo. Find them at an unlikely place, the Museum of Contemporary Art.
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very modern mom will love the super soft, super sweet clothes from Monica + Andy. We like that you can shop right from home through its online store.
Developmental Milestones? Tummy Time? Do you have questions? Let us help! From developmental screenings to pediatric therapies, brighter futures begin at Easter Seals. A great first step is to take our online screening test at AskEasterSeals.com.
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A better way to look at bed rest
our doctor has uttered those dreaded words— “Bed rest.” But before you resign yourself to a sentence of boredom and frustration, take heart! Here are some tried ‘n’ true ways to make the most out of an unplanned staycation:
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Remember those friends, the ones you wish you could catch up with during hectic daily routines? Call, email, text and splurge on some fantastic stationery to write a stack of letters that would make your great-aunt Ethel proud.
know you have a queue 2 You of shows just primed for viewing. Start a series. Finish a series. Do it again—but in a completely different genre. Consume so many documentaries that you begin to speak in narration.
every last thing you’ve 3 Read wanted to get your hands
on since senior year of high school. Ever wanted to devour the classics, from Aesop to Zola? Now’s your chance—possibly the last one for roughly 18 years. This would also be an
exceptional (and judgment-free) time to load up a Kindle’s worth of beach-worthy novels. from home! 4 Work Employers are increas-
ingly accommodating with folks working remotely and, best yet, if you can prove yourself a diligent and committed employee during this uncomfortable time, you’re pretty much golden for future requests and flexibility. Nap. Sweet heavens, 5 nap. Take the advice of every parent that has ever come before you and indulge in the number one fantasy of mothers everywhere: sleep the uninterrupted sleep of the childfree and enjoy the
heck out of the miracle that is midday slumber. importantly, treat 6 Most yourself kindly. Remind
yourself that this imposed bed rest will ultimately keep you and your bambino healthy, so turn those lemons into lemonade— and don’t forget the umbrella and bendy straw.
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Don’t ignore the blues
New motherhood is one of the most physically and emotionally challenging times of your life, often leaving women feeling isolated, anxious and overwhelmed. Give yourself permission to accept help.
Dr. Sarah Allen, director Postpartum Depression Alliance of Illinois Helpline: (847) 205-4455
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veryone and her doula knows that healthy babies come from healthy mamas. But where to begin? Here are some of Chicagoland’s favorite places to exercise during pregnancy. (Note: Check with your health care provider before starting anything new!)
Yoga:
“Making time for mom can be one of the biggest challenges,” says certified prenatal yoga instructor Jessie YoungNovak. Prenatal yoga is a good place to start. It conditions the pelvic structure and encourages posture—excellent for ever-changing bodies and babies! Practicing breathing and mindfulness allows you to let go of expectations and go with the flow—an excellent tool once the baby arrives, too.
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The places to go before and after baby
The ‘it’ places
✻ Bloom Yoga Studio, 4663 N. Rockwell St., Chicago, bloomyogastudio.com ✻ Goldfish Swim School Chicago, 2630 W. Bradley Place, Chicago, goldfishswimschool. com ✻ Active Moms’ Club, 2727 N. Lincoln Ave., Chicago, activemomsclub.com ✻ The Dailey Method, 12 locations in city and suburbs, thedaileymethod.com ✻ Pilates Center of Chicago, pilatescenter ofchicago.com, 4011 N. Ravenswood Ave., Chicago
Swimming:
Whether splashing with your baby or channeling your inner mermaid, water exposure is great for you both. Debating a Mom ‘n’ Me class? “One of the overlooked benefits is the skin-to-skin contact, which aids in bonding between parents and children … and takes advantage of babies’ natural love for the water,” says Alison Jung of Goldfish Swim School Chicago.
Pilates:
For a highly customizable practice during each stage of pregnancy, devotees rave about Pilates. “Women who have done Pilates before their pregnancies have the strength and muscle memory to ‘bounce back’ postpartum (and) have a positive experience during delivery,” says Alicia Zabrocki, studio owner and certified Pilates instructor at Pilates Center of Chicago.
Keely Flynn
Try this Pilates stretch at home
Sit tall with legs straightened just wider than your hips. Round your spine forward as though you’re going over a beach ball (or your growing belly!) and roll back up as straight as possible.
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See stars K atie Mills creates vintage-inspired pired jewelry out of her Chicago studio o using sterling silver, bronze and brass. This necklace was inspired by a starfish sh found on the coast of Maine. Starts rts at $64, ladyfayejewelry.com
Ready, set… Drink up (finally) Pack these in her hospital suitcase. While they may not be a push present on their own (add them to another gift and you’ll have the perfect duo), they’ll be welcomed with open arms after nine months sans alcohol. These were crafted by Chicago native Charles Joly, a worldrenowned mixologist. $20, crafthousecocktails.com
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Unique presents to mark Chicago’s newest additions very mom loves to brag to her friends about her fabulous push present. If your baby was conceived, born and soon-to-be bred in Chicago, it would be even more fabulous if your push present were just as uniquely Chicago as your baby is.
Brass memories A fter studying, observing and training in New York, Italy and finally in Chicago, Laura Lombardi creates jewelry in her Fulton Market studio. This necklace features an antique round brass locket and vintage brass chain. The locket can hold two tiny photographs (perfect for mother and baby). $40, lauratlombardi. com
Urban throw down A fter baby comes, mom will likely spend d the majority of her day ay trying to get baby to eat or to sleep. Make suree she’s comfortable with th this Chicago-themed throw pillow and remind mind her that the Windy City ity will be waiting as soon on as she’s ready. $30, nestahome.com
You did it where? e? Stack ‘em up This set off three Thi h b bronze b ballll stacking ki rings are the perfect representation of your new family. Or, if you have a child already, just buy two of them to represent each child—and keep stacking as your family grows. They’re created by Chicago native and Columbia College grad Meghan Lorenz. $105, citiesindustjewelry.com
Chicago jewelry designer signer andWinifred Grace will handstamp the coordinatess of your 0mm favorite city on this 30mm dant. map coordinates pendant. This is also a cute, subtle btle way of remembering where you conceived your baby. $137, winifredgrace.com
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Fashion items every new mom needs from deliveryy and beyond
The edible accessory
Not quite edible per se, but safe enough for your little one to chew. These non-toxic accessories are perfect for moms looking to be fashionable while keeping their child’s best interest in mind. chewbeads.com
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The oversized sunglasses
The fatigue you endured during your first, second and third trimesters will pale in comparison after welcoming your bundle of joy! For those days when you’ve had less than four hours of sleep and need to run out, consider the hide-all sunnies. A great alternative to concealer. katespade.com
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Every mom should have a bright lipstick in her makeup drawer. Whether it’s plum, red, hot pink or berry, a bold lip color distracts from everything else and makes you look pulled together even when you’re feeling drab.
Nicole Pearl Founder of TheBeautyGirl.com
Those teeny tiny nails File baby’s nails twice a week after a bath or while the baby is distracted eating or sleeping. Use a soft baby emery board or the ZoLi electric nail trimmer. Pat Porrey and Pam Jones Sweet Dreams Infant Care, Tinley Park
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With baby in tow, where to eat and play
ife with a new baby can be overwhelming, exhausting and often confusing. One of the hardest adjustments can be figuring out the best places to get out with your new bundle of joy. Whether it’s for some adult conversation, a meal or for some fun, we’ve rounded up great spots to try. Megan Murray Elsener
Places to play with baby Old Town School of Music Instead of just humming your own tunes before bedtime, experience the fun of a group music class with your baby. The Lullabies program for babies 0-6 months teaches new songs, finger plays and lullabies. For the older set,
ages 6-12 months, it offers Wiggleworms classes that get kids swaying and smiling along with their parents. My Gym Get your bundle of joy moving with the classes at your lo-
cal My Gym. The “Little Bundles” program starts at just six weeks old and introduces music and movement. It’s a great way to get out of the house while introducing baby to new experiences and exploration. Sod Room Moms can feel comfortable knowing nearly every toy inside the Chicago South Loop spot— the first truly green play space in the city—was created from recycled or sustainably made resources. An added bonus, the large windows help highlight its nature theme, making the space open and airy.
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Leah Nessel, Liam Ruthman, Rayin Ramnani, Rylie Anderson and Lilliana Jennings play at the Sod Room.
challenging baby years. The new program through the Jewish United Fund of Metropolitan Chicago brings local Jewish and interfaith families together through playgroups, classes and social gatherings. An excellent reminder that we’re all in this together. FIT4MOM With the mission of helping moms with fitness, motherhood and life, FIT4MOM is the perfect place to find a network of new moms while being playful with your little one. You can select from classes like Stroller Barre or Stroller Strides where baby comes along for the workout. It offers locations in the city and suburbs. jBaby Chicago Just like the phrase, “It takes a village to raise a child,” jBaby Chicago knows it takes more than just parents to get through the often sleepless,
Bubbles Academy When it comes to classes, Bubbles Academy has some of the best programming for babies in a delightfully playful environment. Try the new Bubble Reach class that is designed for babies that aren’t quite crawling, but ready to be on the move. Plus don’t miss the open play options and classes for new moms.
Places to eat out with baby Crosby’s Kitchen If you are looking for deli-
cious comfort food that comes with a tasty rotisserie menu, head over to Crosby’s Kitchen. When it comes to being family friendly, they have it mastered. Enjoy the trendy Southport Avenue with baby because Crosby’s comes with valet stroller parking.
Davanti Enoteca With three Chicago area locations, Davanti Enoteca is a new take on Italian with a killer wine menu. With a variety of small plates meant to be shared, it’s an easy place to take baby and order as you go, getting tastes CONTINUED ON PAGE 50
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Sophia McGreal enjoys music at Old Town School of Music while Diana Laffey, a teacher at the school, plays the guitar. of cheeses and salami to pasta and pizza. The casual Italian farmhouse atmosphere lends itself to having fun. Tufano’s Vernon Park Tap If it’s old-school charm you are seeking, head over to Little Italy for a homemade Italian meal. Tufano’s has been a family-run business serving other families for decades. So don’t worry if baby starts to cry because you definitely won’t be the first or last at this family-friendly restaurant. Roots Nothing hits the spot like good pizza and beer. West Town’s Roots Pizza is easily one of the best places for eating with baby in the city. It’s packed with families on any given night and has a lively, loud and fun crowd. Don’t miss the incredible beer list or the to-die-for homemade mozzarella sticks.
Yolk Don’t skimp The days of leisurely weekend brunches on the seat don’t need to end Don’t buy a used car seat with an unknown when baby arrives. With multiple history. If you are planning to use a friend’s locations in the gently used seat, check that it’s not expired, city, Yolk brings hasn’t been in a crash and has all the parts and a creative and labels intact. delicious spin Darren Qunell,, car seat and safetyy expert p to breakfast and lunch. Visit V Vis it safercar.gov to search by zip code for child Floriole safety seat inspecLooking to meet eet a tion/installation girlfriend for a quick uick stations. lunch with baby in tow? Floriole Café fé & Bakery is the perfect fect charming pick for or salads and sandwiches ches and delectable pastries. What d began as a stand at Chicago’s et Green City Market ul is now a beautiful café in the heart of Lincoln Park. Hannah Brokmeier
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Best bang for your baby bucks We compared and found three memberships worth the investment Lincoln Park and Brookfield Zoos Sure, Lincoln Park Zoo is free, but for a $90 household membership you get two free parking passes (up to a $70 value) and discounted parking for other visits, invitations to members-only mornings, members-only night for ZooLights with shorter lines for photos with Santa, 50 percent off
stroller rental, 10 percent off food and, best of all, free or reduced membership at more than 100 other zoos in the country. At Brookfield Zoo, a Plus membership
($125 a year) includes free admission for the family plus one guest each visit, eight free tickets to attractions, free parking at the main entrance and free admission to the Hamill Family Play Zoo. It pays for itself in just two visits.
Shedd Aquarium The colors and movement of the fish and the playfulness of the penguins and belugas fascinate even the youngest of babies.
A one-year membership at Shedd for $195 might seem steep, but daily admission for a family can add up quickly. This membership pays for itself if you go just twice (Shedd is a good go-to to save your sanity, so you likely will go more often) with free admission, free entry to all exhibits, tickets to aquatic shows, exclusive member events, discounts on food and stores and reciprocity with aquariums and zoos nationwide.
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fraid your eardrums will suffer a bland fate as soon as you become parents? Here are four artists who care about your kids’ musical aesthetic as well as the cred of your minivan speakers. Keely Flynn
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ockers Lisa Mathews and Mikel Gehl—inspired by the births of their respective children— made it their mission to “create great rock music ffor kids.” Got A Minute is genius in its idea to feature ccatchy, super-short pop songs and impressive in its success of pulling influences from all across the rock spectrum.
SSecret A Agent 23 Skid Skidoo
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ver heard of “kid-hop"? Once your fam gets ahold of Secret Agent 23 Skidoo’s hip-hop tracks on The Perfect Quirk, it’ll soon be all you’ll hear. 23 Skidoo—who once shared the stage with the likes of Run DMC and Mos Def—lays down some truly enjoyable “positive half pint party music.” (Your kids will dig it, too.)
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Mini-thespians’
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Little Theatre 2933 N. Southport Ave., Chicago (773) 529-2690 emeraldcitytheatre.com Photo by Aileen McGroddy/Emerald City Theatre
The Little Theatre lobby, designed by The Land of Nod.
The uniquely created theater is just for kids 0-5 with their parents in a ‘no rules’ space that lets them chatter, wander and experience the magic of the stage without all the shushing you’d get other places. It’s the nation’s first theater for babies. Just remember, it’s shoe-free, so toss some socks in your bag before setting off.
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THE ORANGE LINE
3 yummy ways to help your baby LOVE carrots (and you will, too)
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Carrot Mac + Cheese Muffins
Ingredients 2 cups peeled and chopped carrots (about 4 medium carrots) ½ tsp. salt 8 oz. whole-grain noodles (quinoa, brown rice, whole wheat, etc.) 2 oz. organic cream cheese 1 ½ cups organic sharp cheddar cheese ½ tsp. paprika (optional) Directions: Preheat oven to 350. Add 1-2 cups of water and carrots to a small saucepan with tight-fitting lid. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat to a simmer, cover and let cook until carrots are soft; about 10-15 minutes. Transfer cooked carrots and cooking liquid to a blender. Blend until smooth, adding additional water (if necessary)
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Carrot Cookies with Chocolate Chips
Ingredients 1 cup carrot puree (from steaming/pureeing about 4-5 medium carrots) ¼ cup pure maple syrup ¼ cup coconut oil 1 Tbsp. vanilla 1 cup oat flour 1 Tbsp. arrowroot 1 tsp. ground cinnamon ½ tsp. baking powder ¼ tsp. sea salt ½ cup mini chocolate chips
to thin. Meanwhile, cook ook pasta according to package kage directio directions. ons. Return pasta to pot. Add d½ carrot puree and tsp. salt. Cook overr or medium heat for about 5 minutess until sauce is thickened and pasta is coated. Stir in cream cheese, 1 ¼ cup p cheddar cheese, e, and paprika (if desired); stir until til melted. Season with salt and pepper.r. Grease a muffi ffin tin (with butter or oil). Spoon macaroni ni into tin and top with h remaining cheese. e. Bake for 20-30 minutes, es, or until browned on n ttop op p and pasta begins ns to et pull away from tin. LLet utes becool for 30 minutes rom tins. fore removing from Directions Preheat oven n to 350. Line two baking g sheets with parchment nt paper. Mix togetherr carrot puree, maple syrup, yrup, coconut oil and d vanilla in a large bowl.. In a small bowl, whisk together gether flour, namon, bakarrowroot, cinnamon, d salt. t ing powder and edients to wet Add dry ingredients bined. Stir in until fully combined. ps. chocolate chips. h Portion the cookie dough ablesp e oon until using a level tablespoon pres e s each po p rfinished. Gentlyy press poro n. tion with back of a spoo spoon. 20 min m utes. Let Bake for 15-20 minutes. nutes. cool for 10 minutes.
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Gin Gingered G Carrot SSoup So u with Coco Coconut Milk
Ingr Ingredients 1T Tbsp. oil (grapeseed or coconut) se 1 ccup onion, chopped ch 1 ccloves garlic, minced mi Tbsp. ginger, 1T chopped cho 1½ cup steamed or pureed pur u e carrots cup coconut milk ¼ cu 2 ts ttsp. p. lime juice cups water 2 cup 1 tsp. sea s salt Pinch of cayenne pepper (optional) (option Directio Directions Heat oil o in a medium skillet. skille et. t Ad Add onion and sauté 1-2 minu minutes. Add garlic and ginger; st stir an additional 1 minut 1-2 minutes. Turn off heat. carrots, coAdd A d cooked coo milk, lime juice, water, conut milk cayenne (if using) to salt, cayen Carefully add onion blender. Ca Blend until warm. mixture. Bl Taste, and aadjust seasonings a necessary. as necessar Recipes created by CChef Amanda Skrip, a natural healt coach and wellness expert. foods educator, health She is on oonee of Bump Club C and Beyond’s experts.
Tip Butternut squash and/or sweet potatoes work really well in place of carrots in all of the recipes. Use what you have on hand, what’s in season, or your family’s favorites.
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ASK AN EXPERT:
When can I add cereal to formula to help baby sleep?
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question many parents ask simply because they are tired! The truth is, unfortunately, adding food to the bottle WILL NOT make your baby sleep through the night.
I am concerned about this practice for a few reasons:
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Cereal is not meant to go through the bottle, ttle, le, so many times, it ends up clogging the nipple, causing g your baby to be very frustrated when en n feeding. Babies have an immature digess-tive system, and prior io or to about 6 months,, their little systems aren’t meant to tolerate erate anything other than n easily digested breastmilk astmi tmilk lk or formula. Rushing g itt isn’ iisn’t sn’tt a good practice.
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months can decrease the risk of food allergies in children, though the evidence is not 100 percent supported. Bottom line: Babies will sleep through the night when they are ready. Patience is important when it comes to feeding our kids. Pressure to eat, or offering food when they aren’t ready for it, is a recipe for disaster.
Allergies/Celiac Disease. As many parents know, food allergies aare increasing and parents typ typically ic will do ANYTHING prevent to preve n it from happening. Some research indicates that SSom om o me re s Lara Field, eearly arl exposure to glutenMS, RD, CSP, LDN containing grains may co on Registered dietitian increase the prevalence in nc Owner/founder of FEED Celiac Disease. Adding off C o mixed grain cereal (inm ix i ccludes lu ud gluten-containing barley) may increase b arl tthat tha haat chance. Best Zzzzzz tip Studies Stu ud have shown sho ow exclusive Following those dreamy breast brea bre aas feeding night feedings, place your fullfor att least six
bellied, diapered and swaddled baby into the bassinet in a sleepy state and let her drift to sleep on her own. Janeen Hayward, Swellbeing
Having trouble navigating the ups and downs of Parenting? Jill Maling, LCSW 847-945-1170 57
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IS THIS NORMAL?
Oh my, what big ears!
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percent of babies have ear deformities that don’t resolve in the first few days. The top of the ear, called the helical rim, may flop over or have unusual shape. Ear molding devices such as EarWell may help in the first six weeks while cartilage is soft. Talk to your pediatrician to see if treatment by a specialist is warranted. If it is, consider a plastic surgeon at Shriners Hospitals, where care is provided regardless of a family’s ability to pay. Marisa Foss, CNP Shriners Hospitals for Children, Chicago
That cute belly button A belly button that sticks out like a knob is likely an umbilical hernia. This happens when the abdominal contents pushes against a small defect in the abdominal wall. This will close spontaneously and is not at all dangerous.
Dr. Susie Sheinkop Pediatrician PediaTrust
Acne already? Nearly half of newborns will develop Milia, tiny white bumps usually found on the nose. The bumps are nothing to be concerned about. They will gradually disappear in a few months. Similar bumps can appear on the roof of a baby’s
mouth or on the gum line. These are called Epstein’s pearls, harmless benign cysts that will go away.
Dr. Hannah Chow-Johnson,
Pediatrician Assistant professor, Department of Pediatrics, Loyola University Chicago Stritch School of Medicine
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EXERCISE & WELLNESS PREGNANCY STUDY
The University of Minnesota is seeking women who are currently pregnant or less than 6 weeks postpartum to participate in a research study examining the effect of exercise and wellness on mood following childbirth Participants receive a motivational exercise program or a health and wellness program, which begins after the birth of your baby (participants can sign up for the program during pregnancy) Program delivered to you via the mail and phone Must be 18 years of age or older Must not currently exercise regularly Must not take antidepressants Must have a history of depression You will receive $100 for your time
Call 612-625-9753, send the word ‘TEXT’ to 612-345-0325, or email mompro@umn.edu to see if you qualify for this research study. 60
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REAL MOMS,
HEY BABY Caitlin McNulty
REAL ADVICE Miles Lentz
Don’t be apologetic about the choices you make as a mother. Things aren’t always going to work out so, you must be patient and enjoy the changes. Cherish the time you have with your children; you will make memories that last a lifetime. Joan
Never be afraid to ask for help. We often think we are expected to be Supermom and do it all by ourself, but asking for help does a lot for a mom’s sanity.
Liam Jankowski
Connie
Not all babies are the same, so don’t freak out if number two isn’t doing the same things as number one did. Maggie
Lillian Ruth Johnston
Tammy
Mason and Brayden McCuiston
Keep a ‘diaper blow out’ kit in the trunk of your car. Extra diapers, package of wipes, Dr. Smith’s diaper spray or ointment, hand sanitizer, paper towels, extra outfit, swaddle blankets, tissues and water. It will come in handy!! Linda 61
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HEY BABY CONTRIBUTORS
How becoming a parent changed my life Griffin makes me appreciate life more. Seeing him figure out his world and how it works is the best feeling.
Thomas Kubik,
Photographer, TK Photography, dad of one
I now know what unconditional love is.
Charlotte Betts, writer, mom of one
Parenting has taught me the true definition of endless love because no matter how little sleep or how many tantrums occur, my love only grows for my little people.
Megan Murray Elsener, writer, mom of three
I’ve gotten terrific at existing with no sleep or bathroom breaks; like a med student, but without those pesky “marketable skills.”
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WE ARE PARENTS’ FIRST PARTNERS IN THEIR CHILD’S LEARNING. At Kohl Children’s Museum, we understand that all parents want their children to grow into the best they can be. It’s the “how to grow” part that gets a little complicated. Visit our FREE Baby & Me program every Monday from 9:30 – 11 a.m. to network with other parents of babies 12 months or younger, ask questions and get advice from an Advocate Lutheran General Hospital nurse, and discover for yourself the power of learning through play. BECAUSE CHILDHOOD DOESN’T GET A SECOND CHANCE.
2100 Patriot Blvd., Glenview | (847) 832-6600 | kcmgc.org
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A smashing
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Lila Pinchuk, 1, Chicago Photo by Thomas Kubik Smash Cake Backdrop Design by Tiana Kubik Smash Cake - Luscious Layers Bakery, Chicago Smash Cake Circle Banners - Intention and Grace, Etsy.com Birthday tank - Psychobaby, Chicago 64
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Monica & Andy ............................................................... 30 Montessori Academy of Chicago ....................Back Cover More Than Milk ................................................................34 Naperville Moms .............................................................39 Old Town School of Folk Music ................................... 4, 5 PediaTrust.......................................................................... 1 Presence Medical Group .................................................42 Psychobaby .....................................................................27 Share Our Spare ..............................................................34 Stick It 2 Me .....................................................................28
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“one test of the correctness of the educational procedure is the happiness of the child.” – Dr. Maria Montessori
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