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From The Editor...

What’s the first thing you think of when you hear the word family?

When co-workers in the NEPA Family Times office were asked this question, images evoked were happiness!

Laughter! Food! Mom! NEPA residents are sentimental about their roots and the people they regard with love and admiration.

Today’s families may come in varied forms, but the truest among us aim to strengthen our bonds with family time and memory making.

We at Family Times strive to honor our relationships through informative articles that build on the abilities, qualities and achievements of people that we call family.

Articles like“Faith Matters: First Communion” and “Prom: The Dress and the Stress” highlight important rites of passage in many families.

“All About Curfews” and “What Teens Want from their Adults” explores the paths of young people on their way to adults.

Also, we have compiled a list of fun family events to help parents and grandparents build happy memories.

We hope you love perusing this first issue of Family Times as much as we enjoyed putting it together for you.

Christine

rite of passage.

The Prom in Perspective ........4

Childhood vision ....................... 7 Can your child see the blackboard?

The dress and the stress: Remember it’s

Today’s grandparent ................. 8

just a dance

Grandfather’s Treasure Chest

Keepers with Christina ...........5

By David DeCosmo

Tips for First Communion planning,

st. Patrick’s day & Kids ............. 9

decorations, food for a crowd and a recipe!

Dress them up and head out to the parade.

Tips from Jenna .....................6 For the love of books .............. 10

Prom and First Communion on a budget.

As special as it is, it’s one day — don’t overspend!

Has your child found the “right” book?

Profile: Amber sheridan ........ 12 A heart-to-heart with the founder of Daydreamers Child Care.

What do Teenagers want from their Adults?.................... 14 They really do want you to be interested in them.

Curfew and Teens .................... 16 Parents guide teens in their search for independence.

Features ....................... 17, 18, 21 Calendar ................................... 23 oN THE CovEr: Amy and Lucas Kwiatkowski PHoTo CrEdiT: Two Sticks Studios

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Preparing for First Holy Communion

celebratory party following this important milestone. here are a few preparations that One of the biggest things to do for the must be accomplished before day of your child’s First Communion receiving the Roman Catholic is to make sure they are well prepared Church’s sacrament of First Holy spiritually and understand exactly why Communion. this sacrament is so special.

The process begins in the first grade “In addition to their CCD classes, with your child’s spiritual preparation (classes in Christian doctrine), be sure and carries through right to the day of to talk about the Sacrament at home, the big event. Many families schedule a asking them questions, and getting

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them excited about it,” explained Pam Green, director of religious education at the Scranton diocese’s Ascension Parish in Forest City.

“It’s a time when young children learn and understand about Jesus and how they can receive him. The first year of the two-year program teaches the kids about Jesus and in the second year it is about the sacrament,” she added.

The typical class size at Forest City is 15 to 20 children who are in second grade and are around the age of seven.

“They are very susceptible at this age to believing and accepting Jesus in their lives,” said Green.

The dress code for First Holy Communion has remained unchanged in the 10 years that Green has been director. “The girls wear white dresses the length of their choosing, white shoes, tights or knee highs and a veil. We don’t have them wear gloves because they can’t receive communion in gloves,” she explained.

Boys are dressed in navy or black suits with white shirts and white ties. “It is a very formal occasion and we hope to keep it that way for the kids,” said Green.

The parish presents the students with

a rosary, prayer book and scapular as well as pins that can be worn at the First Holy Communion ceremony.

While it is often customary to have a family gathering following the big event, families are going “all out.”

“It used to be a small gathering with just family, but more often then not families are throwing a big celebration after the children receive their sacrament,” said Green.

Halls are rented, restaurants are reserved and caterers come to their homes.

While gifts were often commonplace in past years, children likely receive monetary gifts from family and friends as their gifts these days. “Plaques, pictures, statues, and crosses were typical gifts but not so much anymore,” said Green.

She encourages parents to continue to bring their children to church, including to the Sacrament of Reconciliation (penance) and Holy Communion after they have receive these sacraments.

“They need a strong basis and if they stray from the Church in their lives, they will always return if they have a strong basis in faith. This is very important,” Green said.

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FEATURE

The Prom in Perspective

By Jennifer Butler

bigger than life, not just for the participants, but for their parents as well. he prom has become a rite of pasFor teenagers developing into adults sage for teens in many high schools and finding their way in society, their throughout the United States. self-centeredness is normal. They feel Over the decades, in many girls’ fami- this is their world and it is all they know for now and everything related to lies, prom has taken on such serious it is very important to them. proportions that it can almost seem like Mom is making preparations for The prom is the event that they can her daughter’s wedding. relate to and look forward to — a big party where everyone gets to dress up Stressful? For sure. The girl is waitand have fun. ing for that special someone to ask her.

She’s got to find the most unique dress.

Going to the prom was huge for the Makeup! Hair and nail appointments! daughter of Jessup resident Christine Renting a limo! So much of prom seems Farrell.

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Farrell saw prom as part of growing up. “I think it’s important to teens because it is exciting for them to be asked and being noticed is important to them, not to mention getting to dress up in their finest,” she said.

While she and her daughter, Kailee, went straight to area boutiques for her dress, there are now other options available that give everyone an opportunity to go to the prom.

For families wanting to save money on a dress she’ll probably only wear once, there’s Cinderella’s Closet of NEPA. This event offers donated, gently used prom dresses and accessories then sells them for $10 and under.

It is a truly unique boutique held yearly for teens. This year’s date for Cinderella’s Closet is Thursday, April 14, from 4 to 8 p.m., at Genetti Manor in Dickson City.

Other options for the dress include area consignment and thrift shops where teens can go to buy slightly used, reasonably-priced dresses.

Affordability is key in many families and modesty in dress might be one of the top values in the find.

Farrell says she allowed her daughter to choose her own dress — to a point.

“Anything too risque is not acceptable in high school,” she said.

“We also did not allow her to stay out all night. She had a curfew and she had to be home by curfew.”

Farrell said Kailee has always taken a date to prom, but she noted that the lines delineating dating protocol has changed. “Now you can take a friend instead of a date or you can go alone,” she said, “It really is not fair to have to go with a date if you don’t have one.”

Farrell said her biggest fear was one of the pitfalls of prom. One of the facts of prom is that many kids drink before and after. “They think it’s a party, so they should drink. Peer pressure is probably the most intense during these events for many students,” she said.

There are steps parents can take to help keep their kids safe on prom night.

Find out all about details of prom from the school; Be aware of your teen’s plans throughout the evening; and talk about the risks of drinking and driving.

The prom is special, said Farrell.

This is a time when teens feel especially close with their entire class.

“A type of camaraderie is formed.

They form committees and prepare for it as one, which they may not have felt until this time in their high school lives.

“It is good that they have fun and attend a formal event that may introduce them to a taste of the adult world, but they have to be mature enough to follow the rules as well,” said Farrell.

Have a stress-free First Communion party

KEEPERS WITH CHRISTINA

Receiving First Holy Communion is an important rite of passage in a Catholic child’s life. Celebrating the occasion with family and friends is one way that families honor the event and make lifelong memories. Like any special event, there are many things that need to get done before the big day. With a little planning and some simple recipes, celebrating this beautiful event doesn’t have to be stressful.

Planning Tips 1. Start planning early. Give yourself at least a few weeks to get everything in order.

2. Set a budget for your celebration.

Consider the number of guests, location, food and catering, decorations, photography and favors.

3. Get help. Ask a close friend or neighbor to arrive at your house and help set up while you are still at the church.

4. Have a back up plan. If you’re planning an outdoor party, make sure you plan for inclement weather.

5. Plan activities. If you’re planning to have children at your party, plan some activities ahead of time to keep them entertained.

6. Download a copy of my free Party Planning Checklist (available at itisakeeper.com/NepaFamilyTimes).

You can print it out and use it to stay organized.

Decoration Tips 1. Skip the pricey themed décor and go with neutral colors. Try using white tableware and decorations and accent with pink for girls or light blue for boys.

2. Use edible decorations. Fill jars with candies and treats for double-duty décor.

They look pretty, your guests can eat them and it will help stretch your budget.

3. Shop at restaurant supply stores. You can score some great deals on colored tableware, bulk food and serving pieces.

You can even find chafing dishes and warmers.

4. Get balloons on a budget. Check your local dollar store for communion-themed mylar balloons and white latex balloons.

5. Opt for simple serving pieces. Set a simple but elegant buffet by using all glass and silver-tone serving platters. This will ensure that your food takes center stage.

Food for a Crowd 1. Outsource some of the cooking. If a fully-catered event is not an option, consider having only the main dish catered.

You can supplement with homemade side dishes and desserts.

2. Keep your menu simple. Don’t try to make too many dishes.

3. Make sure you have enough. Not sure how much food to make for your crowd? Download my free How Much Food to Serve at a Party Cheat Sheet (available at itisakeeper.com/NepaFamilyTimes).

4. Prep ahead. Plan for recipes that can be made ahead of time, like Strawberry

STrawberry SalaD wITh Creamy PoPPySeeD DreSSINg Ingredients 3 hearts of romaine lettuce ½ of a small red onion, thinly sliced 10-15 strawberries, thinly sliced ½ cup mayonnaise ¼ cup sugar ¼ cup milk 2 tablespoons white wine vinegar 2 tablespoons poppy seeds Instructions Tear lettuce into bite size pieces and place in a large bowl.

Toss with sliced onion and strawberries.

Salad with Creamy Poppyseed Dressing (recipe below). If you need more inspiration, I have 50 Best Recipes for a Party (available at itisakeeper.com/NepaFamilyTimes).

Most, if not all, can be made ahead of time.

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In a small bowl, combine remaining ingredients for dressing; whisk until smooth.

I prefer to serve the salad dressing on the side and add it to each serving of salad individually.

Notes To make this salad ahead of time, prepare the lettuce, strawberries and onions as directed above and store them in separate containers until ready to serve.

The dressing can be made ahead of time and refrigerated until needed.

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so when it comes to choosing a First Holy Communion outfit or a prom dress or suit, skip the brand names.

Shop thrift stores and discount stores like TJ Maxx or online at Zulily.com.

Consignment shops are very popular right now and most only accept items that are in good shape. Make sure to follow them on social media or call some local shops and have them contact you when new outfits arrive. If you must buy new, contact boutiques to see if they are offering a discount on previous years stock. Be clear about the exchange policy before purchasing and make sure you are clear about the refund policy as well, most exchange only within a limited time.

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First Holy Communion and Prom on a Budget

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irst Holy Communion and prom season are right around the corner and that means celebrating with family and friends, but there are many parents who fear the stress and financial burden that these celebrations have on a family budget.

Although there is an age gap with these two milestones, there are similar ways to save without having to rob Peter to pay Paul.

If you are planning to celebrate either of these milestones in the future, try coming up with a savings program and put money aside each month for special celebrations like First Holy Communion or the prom.

Putting aside money each month will help you create a more reasonable budget

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and avoid debt. If you haven’t been putting money aside for these events, then you may be scrambling to find the best ways to stretch your money while still making the most of the celebrations.

To start Take a look at your finances and set a reasonable budget and include your kids in the conversation.

Make a list of everything that you need for the special day.

Take a look at the savings tips below and see how you can incorporate them into your planning.

The Special Outfit It’s not fashion week and there is no runway, well besides the church aisle,

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Borrow or Buy? Another idea is to borrow from a relative or friend. Most Communion and prom outfits and accessories will only be worn once and look as good as the day they were purchased.

If you put it on social media that you are looking to borrow or purchase an outfit for First Holy Communion or a prom dress, make sure that you state the size that you are looking for and don’t be afraid to ask for pictures.

There are people that would love to sell an item that was purchased for just one day. If you are borrowing an outfit, be sure to ask if alterations can be made and if they would like the outfit dry cleaned when returned.

The best time to buy communion shoes is March. Availability may be limited the closer you get to the date, so if you see a pair you like, grab them!

When looking for shoes for Communion or prom, you can often find stylish shoes in inexpensive shops like Payless and Marshall’s, so there’s no need to go overboard buying expensive shoes that will only be worn once. Know someone who is the same size? Even better — borrow the shoes.

Tuxedo or Suit?

Just because it’s prom doesn’t mean that a tux is required. Many promgoers opt for suits or khaki pants and sports jackets. If you are going to rent, try renting all the tuxedos needed for your prom together with your friends to see if you can get a discount for multiple rentals. Also, ask the vendor if there are coupons available.

Hair and Makeup Skip the salon and visit a local beauty school, like Empire. This will save about 30 to 40 percent on hair or makeup. You can get great deals by getting hair and makeup done by someone who is not quite yet a professional, but is close enough to look professional.

If you plan on going to the salon, again ask for a group discount for your group. This can work for both Communion and prom preparations.

Food Most proms in our area include dinner, but if you had to make separate arrangements than think about using resturant.com to purchase discount vouchers to save money on your bill.

When it comes to First Holy Communion parties, avoid a big celebration and stick to family and close friends.

Hosting the celebration at your home and having family help with homemade meals, will be cost-effective. Try making the cake instead of buying one or serve cupcakes and place them in the shape of a cross.

Photography Professional pictures are nice, but not necessary. Some of the best pictures are action shots right from your phone. Set up an area for pictures to be taken, kind of like a selfie booth.

Create a unique hashtag and ask guests to hashtag pictures so they can easily be found on social media channels. You may want to display these directions for guests to follow.

In the end, remember that First Holy Communion is just one day that should be about celebrating with friends and family. Try to avoid overspending and stick to your budget. The prom is a big deal for teenagers, but it shouldn’t cost a fortune. The planning process can be a great way to teach your children financial responsibility. Don’t hesitate in asking them to contribute to this special night and include them in the planning process.

Jenna Urban Jenna Urban is a mother, blogger, teacher, writer and bargain hunter.

Twitter: @JennaRUrban

GRADE SCHOOL

Warning signs of childhood vision troubles

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dults know when they are beginning to experience trouble with their vision. In such instances, men and women will book appointments with their eye doctors to determine what’s causing their problems.

But whether it’s a fear of having to wear eyeglasses or simply feeling their symptoms are normal, kids might be hesitant to tell their parents about any issues with their eyes.

As a result, parents must learn to recognize certain warning signs that indicate their children are experiencing vision problems.

Many of the lessons kids learn in school begin on a chalkboard, so it is imperative to follow up if they suggest that they’re not seeing clearly.

The following are some potential indicators that kids might be dealing with vision problems that require medical attention.

Reading habits: Problems may be most noticeable when kids are reading. As youngsters learn to read, they might use their fingers to keep their place while they figure out the pronunciation of certain words. But kids eventually grow out of that habit. Kids who are still doing so long after they have learned to read may be having trouble seeing words on the page. In addition, kids who pull their reading materials very close to their eyes may be struggling to see the words.

Viewing habits: Peculiar viewing habits may also be indicative of poor vision. Kids who sit too close to the television may be struggling to see what’s on, as opposed to just being overexcited to see their favorite shows. Kids who prefer to watch programs on tablets they can hold, instead of the TV, may also make that

choice because it’s easier for them to see on their tablets. In such instances, ask why they prefer tablets to television. When kids watch TV, ask them to move further away from the television.

If they complain moving back makes it hard to see, book an appointment with an eye doctor.

Eye rubbing: Many kids, and even adults, rub their eyes when they are feeling fatigued.

But kids who seem to rub their eyes frequently and at times of the day when they should not be tired may be experiencing vision troubles and feeling frustrated that they cannot see very well.

Eye activity: Some kids begin to close one eye when reading, watching television or attempting to read signs. That may be indicative of a refractive vision

disorder, in which the eye struggles to focus, or refract, light correctly on the retina. Such problems can often be corrected with eyeglasses or contact lenses, but some refractive disorders may require surgery.

Squinting: Kids who squint a lot may be finding it difficult to focus on words on a chalkboard or even television programs.

Squinting may also be brought on by a corneal abrasion. Parents who notice their youngsters are squinting should consult the child’s eye doctor to determine the cause of the problem.

Parents who learn to recognize the various warning signs of vision troubles can nip problems in the bud before they have too great an impact on youngsters’ education, playtime and their lives. — staff

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similar cards and messages custom designed for Christmas, my birthday, here’s a drawer for everything in and even some of our newer “holidays” my bedroom. Most, as you’d exsuch as Grandparent’s Day. pect, are filled with clothes. One Every so often, usually on a quiet day, has my daily medicines and another I’ll open the drawer and review a few has chargers for various devices, many of these treasured memories. Each is of which have long since vanished. But like a time machine, taking me back to there is another drawer that is seldom a time when each of the writers could opened though it is filled with treacomfortably sit on my knee. sures. I expect some other grandparThere are too many to keep on the ents have similar drawers or chests or refrigerator so they’ll remain safely secret places where similar treasures stored away in the drawer where I are kept safely tucked away. But you’ll may well be the only person that ever find no money or jewels there. sees them.

It comes to mind because of ValThose homemade greetings are likely entine’s Day. Each year I purchase to disappear as the grandkids age. If Valentine’s cards for each of the grand- I’m lucky, they’ll be replaced by comchildren and usually get a small box of mercial cards or, better yet, a personal candy for them as well. call from where ever life takes them.

I never expect anything in return.

Hallmark’s writers and designers But over the years, especially when the could never hope to match the love disgrandkids were in elementary school, played in those cards crafted by small I’d be handed a homemade card usually fingers able to reach right through and adorned with a heart carefully drawn touch your heart. I wonder if those in crayon and a printed caption reading “kids” will realize how hard it will be something like “I love you Grandpa,” to duplicate those crayon drawings or “To the World’s Best Grandpa.” and words stored in Grandpa’s TreaThese offerings are not limited to sure Chest?

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St. Patrick’s Day fun for youngsters

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St. Patrick’s Day revelr y might be most associated with adults who enjoy hoisting a few pints and listening to music at Irish pubs, but that doesn’t mean kids can’t also enjoy this beloved holid a y. T h e f o l l o w i n g a re a handful of ways to infuse kids with the spirit of St. Patrick’s Day.

Popular Irish baby names

Parades In NEPA, many people look forward to the annual St. Patrick’s Day parades in Scranton and Wilkes-Barre.

These parades bring families together and are great fun for youngsters, who can dress up in green and enjoy all the pomp and circumstance of high school bands, bagpipers, Irish dance groups, and additional participants.

name O Riain and meaning “descendant of the little king.”

Logan: Often mistranslated from O’Loughan to mean “duck.”

Connor (Conor): A modern form of Conchobhar, meaning “dog lover.”

Aidan: A name said to mean “little fire.”

Sean: An Irish form of John, which means “gift from God.” Kevin: Anglicization of the Irish name Caoimh’n to mean “beautiful birth.”

Brandon: Possible derivative of Breanainn; this name may mean “sword.”

Colin: This name may be an Irish short form of Nicholas.

Patrick: A popular name based on Ireland’s patron saint.

It has been said that everyone becomes Irish on St. Patrick’s Day, when scores of people celebrate St. Patrick in parades and pubs while decked out in Music their best ensembles of Kelly green.

St. Patrick’s Day and Irish But Irish culture and pride extends culture in particular is synbeyond St. Patrick. Whether peoing this a fun way for families to Girls onymous with music, and ple actually can trace their enjoy some quality time together.

Brianna: A modern and there may be no better way to lineage back to the EmerLook around for classes offering lesfeminine form of Brian, stoke kids’ enthusiasm for St. Patald Isle or not, Irish sons on Irish dances, Irish set dancing meaning “noble.” rick’s Day than to introduce them to names are popular Caitlin: An Irish verIrish music. The Irish Cultural Society or Irish step dancing. when naming newsion of Catherine. on Beech Street in Scranton offers step borns. According to Crafts Riley: An Anglicizadancing classes.

BabyCenter.com, the Many families decorate their homes tion of the Irish surShows geared toward youngsters that Irish male names Liam, name O’Reilly. encourage them to participate by sing- for St. Patrick’s Day. While such decora- Logan, Aidan, and Ryan tions are rarely as extensive as ChristMolly: A derivative of ing along or dancing as the musicians all made the list of the mas decorations, parents can encourMary or Mallaidh, which play can be another option. Kids who top 25 baby names of 2015. age their kids’ creative sides by orgameans “star of the sea.” seem especially inspired can even be Irish girl names were not as nizing crafts projects for youngsters Alana: A feminine form of encouraged to learn an instrument popular. and their friends. Design projects Alan, which means “handsome.” associated with Irish music, such as Expectant parents who are inspired where kids can create some of the sym- by the whimsy and magic of Irish Cara (Kara): The Irish word for the banjo, tin whistle or violin. bols of St. Patrick’s Day that appear in namesakes can consider these ever-pop- “friend.” popular culture, such as four-leaf cloFiona: An Irish name actually proDance ular Irish boy and girl names as they vers or leprechauns. nounced as Feena, which means “vine.”

Another way to get kids excited await their new arrivals, courtesy of While many St. Patrick’s Day celebra- Irish Central.

Tara: Anglicization of the old Irish about St. Patrick’s Day is to arrange for tions are geared toward adults, parents name Teamhair, which means “emithem to learn any of the traditional can still take steps to involve their chilnence” or “distinction.”

Irish dance forms. Parents can even Boys enroll alongside their youngsters, mak- dren in this year’s festivities.

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“There is no such thing as a child who hates to read; there are only children who have not yet found the right book.”

— Frank Serafini

FAmILy READS

books are HILARIOUS!” — Lillie Pon, 4th-grader This series follows a new resident and student, George Brown. He tries his best to they come across a crayon missing its stay out of trouble, but it can’t paper wrapping. My younger students are be helped. Children love readconstantly asking me to read the crayon ing about George’s amusing book again. The second book, The Day the school adventures. This series Crayons Came Home, revisits some of the includes outrageous stories crayons that quit, but also introduces new that will keep your child crayons and stories that will, no doubt, laughing (and reading). have them laughing. Lesson plans and Website with activities: activities are available at crayonspicturepenguin.com. books.com.

For the Love of Books The most rewarding part of my job as a school librarian is finding the perfect book for a student who claims they do not like reading. After my usual response of “Think of a book as a really long text message,” I conduct a mini interview of his or her interests and start my search. My book recommendations are not just books that I enjoy … they are books that my students love.

The Crayon Books The Day the Crayons Quit and The Day the Crayons Came Home.

Interest Level: Grades K through 2.

Author: Drew Daywalt These books are an instant hit. In The Day the Crayons Quit, each crayon writes a letter to its owner, Duncan, describing their experiences as his crayons (most are unhappy). Children love the crayons’ stories and cannot help to think of how they are using (or not using) their own crayons. All of a sudden, they will be coloring orange-yellow suns, pink dinosaurs and will laugh every time

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Young Adults Looking for Alaska, Fault in our Stars, Paper Towns and An Abundance of Katherines.

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If they f day problems and things that the reader (Shadow Children series) get g hooked on a secould relate to. The characters are likable Student Review: “I like reading about ries r or author, their Amy and Dan solving mysteries and gath- because you could see yourself as the charTBR (to be read) list ering clues about their family’s past. I like acter.” — Kaylie Oustrich, 9th-grader T will develop natuw John Green’s books are extremely that the books are written by different rrally. Here are some authors. It keeps me interested.” — Jared popular among young adults — primarily popular book series/ Singleman, 7th-grader p because they are relatable. His realistic authors recoma fiction stories involve characters and situThis series follows the adventures of a mended by myself m brother and sister who unlock clues about ations that connect with young adults. and my students. a their family’s lineage. There are four books within the 39 Clue series: “The Clue Maria Voytko Book Series: Hunt,” “Cahills vs. Vespers,” “Unstoppable,” and “Doublecross.”

George Brown Class Clown Maria Voytko is the My middle schoolers love reading Interest Level: Third and fourth grade K-12 District Librarian mystery books and this series is by far for Riverside School Author: Nancy Krulik their favorite. They especially enjoy the District in Taylor.

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Adalynn, Amber, Jaxyn and Colin Sheridan.

PROFILE

The experiences children have in the first years of their lives form the foundation for future learning and success. No one knows this more than Amber Tenio Sheridan, 35, a Waverly resident who with her husband, Colin, have two children less than one year apart in age.

Amber also runs Daydreamers Child Care, with centers in Newton Township and Fleetville.

NEPA Family Times spoke to Amber about her family, her children and what it’s like to run a business with two tiny tots in tow.

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Tell us about your children.

Adalynn Grace Sheridan was born on Nov. 14, 2014 and her brother, Jaxyn Patrick Sheridan was born on Oct. 29, 2015.

Adalynn is just getting used to having her brother around. She didn’t really understand his existence until the past few weeks, but now she wants to feed him, burp him, kiss him and, on occasion, hit him too! I’m glad they are so close since they will now grow up to be best friends, but I have a feeling Jaxyn will soon outgrow her and get his revenge.

What is it like to have two babies so close in age and run your daycares?

Luckily, I have the help of my mom, Kim Tenio, who is co-owner of Daydreamers Child Care. She helps me keep both centers running, especially while I had some time off with the babies. She’s been my rock from day one — when Daydreamers was just a crazy dream in my head to now, eight years later. My staff is also absolutely amazing. We are a tight family and they are always such a great help and truly are the reason we have been so successful. They are not only great at what they do — teaching and nurturing for the little minds in their classrooms — but they built relationships with parents and each other that I wouldn’t have been able to do on my own.

Tell us about Colin.

Colin and I met at a small, local bar in Dalton called McGrath’s. After a couple of months of asking friends about me, Colin finally got the courage to follow me out of the bar one night and ask me out.

I gave him a terrible time and asked him a million questions when he finally said

all the regulations memorized, but they are always adding or updating.

Sheridan with her mom and partner, Kim Tenio.

What are the state mandated requirements regarding how many kids, ratio of workers/children and age of children?

The Department of Human Services had different teacher to student ratios depending on the age of the children. In our infant classrooms, we maintain the state ratio of 1:4. Our wobbler or one year old classrooms maintain a 1:5 ratio. Our toddler or twos classroom is a 1:6 ratio.

Preschool and pre-kindergarten are a state ratio of 1:10, however due to the sizes of our classrooms, we cannot enroll more than 16 children. For this reason our preschool and pre-kindergarten classrooms all have two teachers, but a maximum of 16 children which drops our operating ratio to 1:8. This is great as this age is working hard on preparing for kindergarten, so this allows more individualization.

someday I could own my own center.

After becoming an assistant director and then center director, I learned many skills to help me on my path to having What are the challenges in my own center. In 2008, with the hard work of many of my family members, es- your businesses?

To be completely honest, our biggest pecially my parents Kim and Rich Tenio, challenge would be finding and mainmy dream became a reality. taining highly qualified teachers for our programs. For many, we are just a stepping You have two centers ... How did stone in their careers. They ultimately that happen? want teaching positions in school districts.

We cared for many families at our NewWe offer benefits such as health and dental ton center who actually lived in Dalton.

These families would have to leave us once insurance, paid holidays, personal and sick What are the names of your days, child care discounts and incremental their children got to kindergarten and daycares? raises to all of our full time staff. It’s hard they were stuck finding a quality center My business name is Daydreamers because child care is already so expensive for before and after school in the LackaChild Care LLC. Our first was opened on wanna Trail School District. We felt there and a hardship on many families and we March 3, 2008 inside the Newton Recreknow that, but when 80 percent of their ation Center in Newton Township and our was a need in the district and an opportuition is going back out in staff salaries tunity to rent space in the Benton Comsecond location was opened April 10, 2013 inside of the Benton Community Center in munity Center came up and we decided to and the rest to insurances, rent, utilities, Fleetvile. We have some children still with jump on it. After a month of painting and consumables like food, art supplies, and new equipment then it’s hard to really us since our very first day. It has been such renovating three classrooms, our second pay our teachers the higher wage that we center was up and running. an honor to watch these kiddos grow up. know they want and deserve like a school district can.

How many employees?

What made you want to open Not including myself and my mom, we a daycare?

What are the benefits? have 27 employees. Some of them have I went to Slippery Rock University I love my job, and I wouldn’t want to be also been with us since the start. and received my bachelor of science anywhere else. I am mainly responsible degree in elementary education. After for the daily running of our centers.

How did you wade through the mograduation I was hired to teach private Maintaining staff and children’s files/ rass of state requirements? kindergarten for a large corporate child paperwork, keeping up with DHS regulaThere are many state regulations for care center. They closed their kindergartions and Keystone Stars standards, child care that you must maintain to keep ten program one year later, so I started filling out grant paperwork, just to name substitute teaching in various school dis- your license with the department of hutricts and working part-time at the child man services. Since I worked in the field, I a few things, but mostly keeping up relationships and communication with care center. I loved teaching the younger was lucky enough to learn many of them staff and the parents in our daydreamwhen I was teaching in a classroom or as children and gravitated towards the ers family. We try our best to keep our a director somewhere else. This made it pre-kindergarten age group and started working full time as their pre-kindergar- easier when we were getting ready to open families informed. We have implemented a great tool called, Tadpoles, which allows our own centers. I now pretty much have ten teacher. At this point, I hoped that to me, “Come on, what do you have to lose?” I gave in and agreed. We have been inseparable ever since and I am so lucky to have him by my side. We were married Nov. 23, 2013, at the Radisson Lackawanna Station Hotel in Scranton after a ceremony at our church, Countryside Community Church in Newton. It’s been quite a crazy ride so far having two babies right away and only 11 and a half months apart, but we are so blessed and excited to have such a beautiful family.

PROFILE our teachers to use technology to track children’s attendance and daily care and give it to parents on a daily basis through an emailed report. We take pictures and videos of the children in the classrooms while they learn and play so the parents can have a glimpse of their child’s day.

We have a private Facebook group to also share these pictures and videos as well as keep the parents informed on what is going on in the centers. A huge benefit of my job is the relationships I have built with many of my teachers and parents of our centers. I have made lifelong friends who are not only interested in what happens in their own lives, but are truly involved and a part of my life as well.

Who do you look up to?

I have learned so much from many strong and independent women who have come into my life. My old supervisor, Tracy Willie who basically taught me everything; to be able to have the confidence to open my own center; my mom who has been such an amazing partner both on this journey of owning our own business to modeling how to be a great mom; my grandma, Sandra LaCoe, who has been a small business owner for a very long time; and all the women in my life (my staff, the moms of children in my centers, and my friends) who build me up each day. I can try my hardest everyday to meet all of their expectations as a mom, wife, supervisor, teacher, and friend because they have all helped me in one way or another to teach me life lessons and to help me reach my dreams.

What do you see in the future both personally and professionally?

I am looking forward to growing old with my wonderful and supportive husband. We are best friends, and I am so blessed to have him as a husband and father to our children. I can’t wait to see my children grow and develop into their little personalities and see what kind of amazing things they will accomplish.

As for our business, I am truly happy and feel very blessed that we continue to build relationships with the families in our community and can only hope that our success will last for many, many years to come so I can get to know so many more amazing people!

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tEEnS

What do teenagers want from their adults?

By Phil Yacuboski

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nce teenagers begin to get a little taste of freedom and a slight break from having Mom or Dad constantly hovering about their every move, figuring out the perfect balance of trust and enough personal freedom can be a tricky balance.

Teens want to make their own decisions and establish a sense of personal independence yet they want their parents to be interested in them.

“Adolescence is the time when they are finding their way and new limits,” said Denise Namowicz, vice-president of clinical services at Children’s Service Center, Wilkes-Barre.

“As teenagers are leaving childhood, their childhood expectations are moving towards adulthood. I think parents need to be vigilant of that.” Parents also need to communicate with their child to understand their expectations and set up some boundaries.

Namowicz said boundaries are really important at this age. They are important for parents to look at the changes their teen wants to help him or her find the reasonable balance in growing up,” she said.

what the consequences are if they are not met or if they are violated.

“I always have the clients repeat back to the parent, ‘Do they understand what the boundaries are in their own terms?’ so everyone is on the same page and know what is expected,” she said.

Namowicz said boundaries have to be age appropriate.

“A 13 year-old is going to have different boundaries than a 16 year-old,” she said.

“But you have to be specific. And remember, boundaries are useless unless they are enforced. You have to be consistent.”

In addition, she said they also have to be set as far as their own capacity of responsibility.

“Children develop differently,” she said. “Be mindful of their age and if you’re trying to find a balance between maintaining consistency and fairness, you’ll want to be able to change those limits as teens increase their level of responsibility and trustworthiness.”

She said trust and personal freedom of space are uniquely tied together.

“The level of both depends on the maturity of your child,” she said.

Trust can wrap itself in all sorts of When boundaries are set, parents build in a preset resolution, reduce con- teen issues from dating to more serious flict and help to build a level of trust in issues like drug and alcohol abuse. the relationship.

“It’s really all about communication,” she said. “If they are violating some“When I work with parents and teenthing, you really should want to sit agers, I tell them good boundaries are down and listen before you make any very clear and reasonable,” Namowicz said. “When you have a clear boundary, level of judgment.” it’s easily identified and articulated.”

She said responding out of anger or the desire to punish, isn’t the right action.

She said when it comes to setting boundaries, parents should be very spe“As a parent, you want to be able to cific: state what is not permitted, state take a few deep breaths and then figure what those expectations are and state out how to proceed.”

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Curfews offer structure for teens

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he movies. The school dance. A night out with friends. Time to be home? That’s where the allimportant curfew comes in.

“The curfew says to a child that you’re offering structure,” said Denise Namowicz, vice-president of clinical services, Children’s Service Center, Wilkes-Barre.

“Kids need structure. Teenagers may not want it, but they need it in that level of developmental stages. When kids have structure, it often leads to less risky behavior.”

She said one of the things to help with setting curfews and boundaries when children want to stay out late is being proactive.

“If your teenager is demonstrating that they are being trustworthy and they are reliable, then you can negotiate those boundaries within a curfew,” she said.

But if they are supposed to be home by 11 p.m. and they violate that curfew and they don’t come home until 11:30 p.m., then there needs to be a consequence.

“The next time they will have to come home earlier. They need to understand that there’s going to be a consequence and they need to understand what the consequence is.”

She said parents also have to follow-up.

“If you’re going to set a rule and you don’t follow-up, then it’s not validated,” Namowicz said. “It’s like reinforcing negative behavior. If you show the consistency of a consequence, then the kids know where they stand. It’s a clear cut expectation.”

One thing for sure is parents must be clear when they are dealing with teenagers.

As far as ages and curfews, Namowicz said much depends on the age and level of maturity, however, all ages should have a curfew.

“It all depends on how much you trust your child,” she said. “If you allow your child to go out and play, even at a young age and you tell them you’re having dinner at 4 o’clock, then that’s an expectation and that’s a curfew for 4 o’clock.”

All in all, Namowicz said show teens that you’re listening to them and let them know what the expectations are and that everyone is on the same page.

“With teenagers, you can’t wait too long,” she said. “They need to have some level of structure and rules; and consequences if the rules are not followed.”

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Summer vacation will be here before you know it. Make sure you’re prepared for camp and other recreational programs.

Determine your camp budget.

As varied as program offerings may be, camps also can vary greatly with regard to cost. Government-run camps may be less expensive than those ofExplore all options. fered by private companies. Day camps Camps come in more flavors than ever typically cost less than those that before. Certain camps may be faith-based provide room and board. Find out if a while others may focus on particular particular organization subsidizes a sports. Band camps and art camps may portion of camp costs. Scouting proappeal to creative kids. Also, there are grams often have a dedicated camp and plenty of general-interest camps that ofmay offer affordable options for scouts. fer various activities without narrowing Martial arts schools and dance centers in on any particular one. frequently offer camp schedules.

Parents may need to choose between a If camp seems out of reach, look into losleep-away camp or day camp, depending place their kids in summer recreation cal summer recreation programs at parks on which camp experience they want for programs or summer camps should or schools. Such programs may not be as begin vetting such programs and camps their children. extensive as those offered by camps, but well in advance of summer. they can quell kids’ boredom and keep Inquire about camp schedules.

The following are a handful of tips for children occupied during the day.

While many camps are flexible, day moms and dads who want their kids to In addition to camp, remember to camps do not have the same level of have fun and fulfilling summers. plan for some free days so children can flexibility as after-school programs. just enjoy some downtime. Such days Arrangements will need to be made can break up the monotony of a rouAsk for recommendations. if care is required after regular camp tine and provide kids and families time Speak with fellow parents and trusted hours. to relax together. friends about where they send their Speak with camp staff to see which Summer recreation may be far off, children. Personal recommendations can types of after-hours programs, if any, but it is never too early to start making be very helpful, providing firsthand inare available. summer plans, including finding camps sight into a particular camp or program. and other activities for kids. — staff Schedule appointments to visit camps that fall within your budget. Take your son or daughter along so he or she can get a sense of what camp will be like.

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How to help kids find extracurricular activities

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Parents know that schoolwork comes first, but extracurricular activities can be important to a child’s development, serving as an avenue to meet new people and an opportunity to learn the importance of teamwork. The following are a handful of things parents should consider when trying to help their children find the right extracurricular activities.

Interests One of the easiest ways to help kids find an extracurricular activity they can be passionate about is to discuss their interests with them. Youngsters with a love of animals might enjoy volunteering at a local animal shelter or hospital, while those who love to write may find writing for the school newspaper is a great way to apply that passion in a practical setting. Even kids with a passion for video games might be interested in learning about computer graphics and what it takes to design games. When trying to find extracurricular activities for your children, resist the urge to write off any of their interests. Instead, use those interests as jumping off points to further engage their passions.

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cleaning products, knives, and other sharp objects.

ew parents face a host of challenges upon bringing their newborn sons and daughters home, not the least of which is childproofing their homes so the newest additions to their families are safe and sound.

The strategies moms and dads employ when childproofing their homes will change as youngsters grow older and more curious, but the following are a few tips to get parents started.

Use anti-scald devices.

Hot water can quickly cause significant burns to young children’s skin, so install anti-scald devices that regulate water temperature and reduce the risk of kids being burned.

The CPSC also recommends lowering water heaters to 120 degrees Fahrenheit to further reduce the risk of burns.

Install safety latches and locks on cabinets and drawers.

Curiosity might start to take over at the moment infants learn to crawl, so new parents should install safety latches and locks on all cabinets and drawers in their homes. The United States Consumer Product Safety Commission notes that such latches and locks can prevent access to a host of potentially harmful items, such as medications,

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Use safety gates at stairways and in rooms that are off limits.

Safety gates around stairways and in doorways of prohibited rooms can reduce the likelihood of potentially harmful falls and keep kids out of rooms where they might get injured. Place gates in the doorways of rooms that contain sharp objects, work tools, substances that can prove harmful if ingested, and any

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Attach bumpers to the edges of sharp furniture.

Corner and edge bumpers can reduce the risk of injury when kids bang their heads on sharp furniture such as coffee tables or other items with hard edges.

Make sure the bumpers are firmly secured before allowing youngsters into the room.

Infants, toddlers and young children are vulnerable to injury around a house where parents haven’t taken the steps to childproof their homes. More childproofing tips are available at the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission website, cpsc.gov.

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The DeMarco family on Lake Mahopac, New York, during a family get together.

Shown left to right are L.J. DeMarco; Jamie DeMarco, holding Juliet Ayende; Lenny Lily Davis, eight months, Peckville, trying out her new sunglasses and getting ready DeMarco; and Samantha DeMarco, holding Ariana Liples, left, and Lucia Dudziec on for summer with her mother, Diana Davis. vacation at Magic Kingdom.

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Scranton’s St. Patrick’s Parade circa 1978. (Scranton Times File)

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Kids Yoga, Mondays, 4:15 p.m. Children will be guided through a fun yoga class inspired by nature, art, meditation and movement. Mission Yoga Studio, Scranton.

570-909-9497 or Mission-Yoga.com. #EverhartSnaps - Community Art at the Everhart, through June 6. Personal photographs of residents at Everhart Museum through the years. Everhart Museum, Scranton. 570-346-7186 or everhart-museum.org.

Between the Covers: Altered Books in Contemporary Art, through June 6. This exclusive exhibition curated by Sarah Tanguy features books given new life as works of art by two dozen contemporary artists through techniques including folding, drilling, shredding, carving, stacking, ripping, sewing, pasting, burning, sanding, collage and assemblage.

Everhart Museum, Scranton. Museum admission ($3-$7) applies. 570-346-7186 or everhart-museum.org.

Breaking Ground Poets Open Mic, Wednesdays, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Presented in cooperation with NEPA Scene, this event, the first Wednesday of every month, is open to youth ages 14 to 20. Sign-ups begin at 6 p.m., Adezzo, Scranton. 570-955-0130.

Anime Club, Fridays, 4 to 6 p.m. Grades 7-12. Abington Community Library, Clarks Summit. 570-587-3440 or lclshome.org.

Summer Day Camp Registration, through June 10. Children from age 3 to Grade 8 are eligible to register for up to 10 weeks of camp (June 13-Aug.19). Activities include swimming, soccer, basketball, baseball, dance, arts and crafts, and summer learning programs in science, technology, engineering, mathematics, reading and Spanish. Financial assistance available. Greater Scranton YMCA, Dunmore.

570-342-8115 or greaterscrantonymca.com.

FEBRUARY Dr. Seuss’s Birthday Celebration Storytime, Feb. 27, 11 a.m. Pin the tail on Horton, decorate your own Cat in the Hat hat and more at this party in honor of Dr. Seuss who was born on March 2. Barnes & Noble Booksellers, Wilkes-Barre Twp. 570-829-4210 or bn.com.

Introduction to Nature Photography: Capturing the Beauty of Winter, Feb. 27, 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Students will learn the basics of nature photography with instructor Timothy Butler in this two part class sponsored by Keystone College Environmental Education Institute. Practice photo composition and learn to maximize the features of their cameras, whether a point-and-shoot or a

more technically advanced model. The workshop’s content will be tailored to individual interests. Keystone College, La Plume. $40 or $20 students. 570-945-8555 or keystone.edu/kceei.

Double “R” Twirlettes Twirl-a-Thon, Feb. 27, noon to 2 p.m. Viewmont Mall, Scranton. 570-346-9182.

Tailgate for Kids with Mo’ne Davis, Feb. 27, noon to 3 p.m. PNC Field (Lackwanna County Stadium), Moosic. 570-9692255 or swbyankees.com.

Winter Snow Fun, Feb. 27, 1 p.m. Salt Springs State Park, Franklin Forks. 570945-3239 or friendsofsaltspringspark.org.

Cabaret for a Cause, Feb. 28, 1 p.m.

Young Broadway performers Gaby Bradbury (Annie), Sophia Gennusa (Matilda, Doctor Zhivago), and Sawyer Nunes (Finding Neverland, Matilda) perform numbers from the shows in which they’ve appeared and will discuss their lives as child stage professionals. Pocono Cinema and Cultural Center, East Stroudsburg.

570-421-3456 or poconocinema.org.

Marywood University Youth Wind Ensemble, Feb. 28, 3 p.m. Nazareth Student Center at Marywood University, Scranton.

Free. 570-348-6268 or marywood.edu/mtd.

Crystal Cabin Fever: The Best of 10 Years, through Feb. 28, Mondays, Thursdays-Sundays, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Carvings include a 50-foot ice slide, pirate ship, wild west villages, dinosaurs and more.

Also find ice carving demonstrations, ice carving competitions, free wine tasting and free hot cocoa. Factory tour and ice harvest museum available. Sculpted Ice Works, Lakeville. $10-$15 or free to children younger than age three. 570-226-6246 or crystalcabinfever.com.

MARch Children’s Storytime, March 1, 10 a.m., March 3, 6:30 p.m., March 8, 10 a.m., March 10, 6:30 p.m., March 15, 10 a.m., March 17, 6:30 p.m., March 22, 10 a.m., March 24, 6:30 p.m., March 29, 10 a.m., March 31, 6:30 p.m., April 5, 10 a.m., April 7, 6:30 p.m., April 12, 10 a.m., April 14, 6:30 p.m., April 19, 10 a.m., April 21, 6:30 p.m., April 26, 10 a.m., April 28, 6:30 p.m.

Barnes & Noble Booksellers, WilkesBarre Twp. 570-829-4210 or bn.com.

Annie, March 3-5, 7 p.m. Mountain View High School Drama Club Mountain View Junior-Senior High School, Kingsley. $8/$10. 570-434-2501 or mvsd.net.

Annie, March 4, 7 p.m., March 5, 1 p.m., 7 p.m. Scranton Cultural Center at The Masonic Temple, Scranton. 570-344-1111 or sccmt.org.

Midsummer Night’s Dream: the Musical, March 4 through 13, FridaysSaturdays, 7 p.m.; Sundays, 2 p.m. Phoenix Kids presents a musical adaptation of Shakespeare’s popular comedy. Phoenix Performing Arts Centre, Duryea. $10.

570-457-3589 or phoenixpac.vpweb.com.

You’re A Good Man Charlie Brown, March 4, 7 p.m.; March 5, 7 p.m. Students present the popular musical comedy based on the Peanuts comic strip by Charles Schulz. Abington Heights High School, Clarks Summit. $6-$10.

Lynnette’s Twirlerettes Twirling Benefit for the Animals, March 5, 1 to 3 p.m. Mall at Steamtown, Scranton.

Benefits Griffin Pond Animal Shelter. 570343-3400 or themallatsteamtown.com.

Keystone College Education Club Easter Egg Hunt, March 5, 10 a.m. Families with children younger than age 12 are welcome to attend. Staggered start times: ages 1-3 hunt from 10:15-10:45 a.m., ages 4-6 hunt from 10:50-11:10 a.m., ages 7-9 hunt from 11:15-11:45 a.m. Pictures with the Easter Bunny available from 10:45 a.m. until 1 p.m. Keystone College, La Plume. $2/child. 570-575-6785 or keystone.edu.

After School Players present Class Action, March 5, 11 a.m. Brad Slaight’s play about high school life is presented in culmination of two months study of the theatrical arts. The Dietrich Theater, Tunkhannock. $5. 570-996-1500 or dietrichtheater.com.

What a Wonderful World Storytime, March 5, 11. The 1967 Louis Armstrong hit song is published with colorful illustrations. Barnes & Noble Booksellers, Wilkes-Barre Twp. 570-829-4210 or bn.com.

Harlem Globetrotters, March 5, 2 p.m., 7 p.m. The legendary basketball team plays on its 90th anniversary world tour. Mohegan Sun Arena at Casey Plaza, Wilkes-Barre Twp. 570-970-7600 or mohegansunarenapa.com.

Teen Advisory Group (TAG), March 10, 5:30 p.m., April 14, 5:30 p.m. Members work together to bring their ideas for programs, books, and movies to the library for other teens and are considered volunteers of the library. Pittston Memorial Library, Pittston. 570-654-9565 or pittstonlibrary.com.

Teen Writing, Starting March 11, Fridays, 4 p.m. Practice the writing craft through exploration of creative writing topics and share your writing with others. For Grades 7-12. Carbondale Public Library, Carbondale. 570-282-4281 or lclshome.org.

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Popovich comedy Pet Theater, April 5, 7:30 p.m. The F.M. Kirby center for the Performing Arts, Wilkes-Barre. $12.50/$22.50/$27.50.

570-826-1100 or kirbycenter.org.

Scranton St. Patrick’s Parade, March 12. The 55th annual Scranton St. Patrick’s Parade boasts more than 12,000 participants. It’s the second-largest St. Patrick’s parade in the nation for cities with a population more than 50,000.

Downtown Scranton, Scranton. Free. stpatparade.com.

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