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No one has to tell you that surgery is scary. It's a universal truth that most people would rather avoid it at all costs. Surgery being performed on your unborn child adds a whole new level of anxiety, fright, and uncertainty. Almost 15 years ago, my wife and I went through fetal surgery to save our unborn twin daughters. We know all too well how this time feels like an eternity, yet everything around you is moving at lightning-fast pace. We put a list together below of things you should know before your surgery to help you feel more at ease and know what to expect should the need for surgery arise.
1. Have faith that you have come to this decision as the best option for your baby (or babies). Since first hearing
there was a problem, you have learned as much as possible, you have asked the hard questions, and you know all there is to know about the fetal syndrome diagnosis your baby (or babies) might be facing. Personally, we took solace in knowing that something rather than nothing was going to be tried, as our prognosis outside of any intervention was extremely grim.
top things to know before your surgery by lonnie somers
2. Be sure you understand how the surgery will be performed. Your doctor
and/or patient coordinator will take you through all that will take place during your surgery. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or ask for clarification on anything you don’t understand. Here are a few questions to which you should know the answers (and this may not be inclusive): a. Will you be awake during the procedure? You may very likely be awake, but you may want to inquire about what will be done to ensure you are comfortable throughout the procedure. In the end, it will give you a little more peace of mind. b. During the surgery, if I am awake, who do I communicate with if I am not feeling well, or need something? This is important so that you feel safe and knowledgeable about each step along the way, but most importantly, who will be your safe haven should you need to communicate something. c. Who will be in the operating room? This is important to ask, because you don’t want
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