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So, you just found out that your wife is pregnant. You may have even received the news that it's twins. Whether it's with one or more, and now that the initial shock has worn off, it’s time to start thinking about how you are going to help her get through this pregnancy. There are going to be some serious changes --- and I don’t just mean AFTER the babies get here. Her hormone levels are through the roof right now. Her emotions can range from feeling overjoyed and excited about having a baby, to being scared of everything to come as the delivery date approaches. That means that she’s going to be a bit more emotional and may not seem like the woman you know. Trust me, she still is. Her body is simply working overtime right now to help develop the baby inside of her. The good news is that you can help her survive the next 8.5 months. Here are 15 ways to sweep her off of her swollen feet and make a real difference!

making a difference: tips on pampering her throughout pregnancy by kevin zelenka

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Use Your Words When it comes to supporting our wives and partners, the first thing to remember is that we were given a voice for a reason, and that reason is now. This is no time to keep quiet. Tell her she’s beautiful. Flood her with compliments. Keep in mind that she is starting to feel the effects that pregnancy can have on the body. She’s going to be tired, her body may ache, and she may even have self-image issues as she begins to put on weight and her body starts to change. Even saying something as simple as 'I love you' or 'I'm here for you' goes a long way in making sure she feels wanted and needed during the pregnancy. Be Involved Did you know that something as simple as going to your wife’s doctor appointments can make a world of difference to her? You do now! Even if you can’t attend every single visit, making it a point to visit her perinatologist


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