Memphis Parent - Winter December 2024 - February 2025
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ARE TEENS THINKING ABOUT RETIREMENT?
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FUN Lights, dunks , space, and more!
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Students are equipped with the tools needed to succeed in the classroom, the workplace, and in life.
Students are equipped with the tools needed to succeed in the classroom, the workplace, and in life.
Students are equipped with the tools needed to succeed in the classroom, the workplace, and in life.
Students are equipped with the tools
Students are equipped with the tools needed to succeed in the classroom, the workplace, and in life.
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•Highly Qualified & Dedicated Teachers
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•Variety of Athletic Programs
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To everything, there is a season.
I don’t think we need a lot of reminding that the winter season brings a roller coaster of events that knock at our doors each year — merriment, financial woes, life adjustments, and even a little love and romance. There’s just something about the winter months that oftentimes presents an opportunity to be our better selves, whether as an individual or family. This year seems to be trending as the Winter Arc, an intentional time to check in and get back to the basics. It’s true: seasons change, and people change. But that’s the job of winter; to help bring the very best (or worst) of who we are to the forefront. Plus, we get to work on ourselves! Right?
Set Healthy Boundaries
I must admit, fall and spring certainly bring an artful bloom, and with winter sandwiched in-between, there’s also a unique beauty we can’t deny. For instance, winter gives you permission to figure it out or start from scratch, if you have to. There are no apologies that winter needs to hear from you about not meeting goals because, well, it’s too freaking cold to commit to anything! Furthermore, most of us are busy celebrating life, love, and making memories in some form or fashion this time of year. And if you’re blessed to get even an inch of snow, that’s definitely extra icing on the cake.
Knowing your limits does not equal being weak. In fact, it gives you strength and authority over the healthy boundaries you create. It builds accountability to help keep you mindful of your priorities and goals. Don’t be afraid to say no, especially if you’re already at your capacity or if the request is unreasonable, whether home, work, or volunteer service. Most importantly, have a hard stop to your day. It will be there to welcome you with coffee the next morning.
According to Forbes magazine, “typically, a Winter Arc involves setting old-fashioned habits like ample sleep, regular exercise, healthy nutrition, and mindfulness at the beginning of October, so you’ve already made progress before January 1st.” This somehow has been tapped to kickstart your New Year’s resolutions towards the path of accomplishment and success. (So basically, we just pile on an additional amount of stress before the New Year? Got it.)
Create a ‘Being Present’ List
In fact, Forbes went a little further to include several tips to get your checklist started in the fall, just in time to meet your year-end goals. There were a few takeaways that actually stuck with me. Some may find these pretty basic and easily attainable, while others find themselves in a boxing match hoping not to be defeated.
Try “being” instead of “doing.” While it may feel awkward, a moment of chill and relaxation can be just sitting there. Doing nothing. I’ve even been able to hear things better and organize my next steps clearer. When you slow down, your body can communicate its needs with you. This could include listening to soft music, reading, or watching a beautiful sunrise.
Make Mental Wellness Your Top Priority
As a wife and mom, I carry, give, serve, and support a whole lot — for and to others. I sometimes find it self-serving to attend to my needs only. But there is one thing I know for sure, and that is, it’s no one’s fault except my own — not my husband, children, or colleagues — if I don’t invite “me” to better engage with “me” moving forward.
Now, I invite you to focus on your needs during these months of Winter Arc and resolutions. Start by checking out the wonderful features we’ve curated just for you in this issue. We hope you will find these stories to bring joy and delight for your holiday and the winter months ahead.
You are the keeper of your own wellness. Take care of it. Show up for your wellness, no matter what’s at stake. As a practice to become more mindful with your wellness and in tune with yourself, schedule in some “me time.” I don’t mean make it allowable to cancel out due to a conflict, but demand it in your day. It’s the little things we tend to neglect that quickly shift our focus.
So a cheerful toast to this season, and many more to come!
Later, my friends! Editor
NEW YEARS @ NOON
Ring in the New Year at CMOM. This familyfavorite event will be the perfect countdown to fun. Dress as your favorite superhero and show off your superpower. Expect balloon drops, candy, face painters, themed activities, and more fun.
Children’s Museum of Memphis, December 31, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.
DECEMBER
7 • Saturday
A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage The whole family can enjoy this adaptation of Charles M. Schulz’s timeless story. Orpheum Theatre, December 7, 2 p.m., 5 p.m., 7:30 p.m.
14 • Saturday
¡Christmas Fiesta!
Presented by Cazateatro Bilingual Theater Group, Opera Memphis, and Dixon Gallery and Gardens, this Christmas Fiesta brings together Christmas traditions of Latin America and the Caribbean. Guests will learn about parrandas, posadas, piñatas, and more, and enjoy traditional Christmas music in Spanish, Latin food, crafts, and activities. Dixon Gallery and Gardens, December 14, 11 a.m.-3 p.m.
JANUARY
26 • Sunday
Harlem Globetrotters
Don’t miss your chance to see the dunks, alleyoops, long shots, magic, history, and laughs that the Harlem Globetrotters bring to the court. Landers Center, January 26, 3 p.m.
FEBRUARY
1 • Saturday
Outer Space Adventures
Professor Wow returns with a brand-new adventure that’s sure to be a blast. Learn all about space in this show packed with audience participation.
Bartlett Performing Arts & Conference Center, February 1, 2 p.m.
ONGOING
Enchanted Forest
Stroll through the magical Festival of Trees that fills the Pink Palace Mezzanine with beautifully decorated trees.
Museum of Science & History, through December 29
Starry Nights
Glow up your holidays at Shelby Farms Park’s largest event. Starry Nights brings the spirit of the season to life with dazzling displays featuring millions of lights.
Shelby Farms Park, through December 29
Interactive Gallery: “Natural Histories: 400 Years of Scientific Illustration”
Visitors will explore interactive components that highlight the history of scientific illustration and learn about the subject matter within the images from the Rare Book collection of the American Museum of Natural History’s Library. Dixon Gallery & Gardens, on display through January 26
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Considering only a small number of people who make resolutions actually accomplish them, it makes one wonder if this is something children should do. Resolutions typically imply there is something we need to do to improve ourselves because we are not quite so good enough as we are right now. This definitely might not be the message we want to give if we encourage our children to make resolutions.
Rather than making one or more resolutions, instead, encourage your children to focus on a goal or two for the coming year. Working to achieve a goal can give children a feeling of accomplishment. Goals should be reasonable and not too broad. While the ultimate goal for a child
might be to become a better baseball player, it is far better to have the smaller goal of playing catch every Saturday morning to improve one’s baseball skill. Another trick to accomplishing a goal is to write down on a calendar every time a goal is worked on. This gives a child a visual picture of progress. The selection of a goal or goals does not necessarily have to be something to improve oneself. Your child could make a bucket list of things that he or she would like to try in the coming year. This could be things like taking a special hike, doing something specific to improve the environment, or taking dance lessons. The bucket list can be posted in a conspicuous spot so things can be crossed off when they are accomplished.
THE RIGHT BOOKS FOR BEGINNING READERS
Parents: With the holidays rapidly approaching, you may be contemplating giving books to your beginning readers. However, you may want to think twice about giving them books with a lot of engaging and colorful illustrations, even though they may be very attractive.
A project supported by the National Science Foundation and the U.S. Department of Education discovered that by limiting extraneous illustrations and only having relevant illustrations, children can have an easier time focusing on the story as well as better reading comprehension. When there are entertaining illustrations not relevant to a story, children’s gaze tends to shift away from the text.
A Look at Reading Problems
Nothing is more important to success in school than for children to be good readers.
Parents usually have a good idea if their children are having problems learning to read. One indicator that a child could have problems is if a parent had difficulties learning to read.
Don’t sit back and wait for a child to pick up the necessary reading skills for his or her age. While this could happen, it’s far better to be proactive and find out if your child really needs some extra help. It is not too early to seek help for a preschooler who is having trouble naming letters, can’t retell stories, and has a limited vocabulary. Preschoolers can be evaluated for free through the “Child Find” program if a problem is suspected. Your school district will have information on how to get your child evaluated.
When children start elementary school and parents get an inkling from the child’s work, teacher comments, or grades that the child might have a reading problem, it is time
A Timely Reminder
Half the school year will be over shortly. It is time to take stock and review how things have gone so far, and to think about any changes that may need to be made to help your children succeed in school. Consider the following:
• Is a chat with the teacher needed?
• Is the child participating in so many activities that they interfere with his or her schooling?
• For older children, should they be enrolled in a more- or less-challenging class load?
to talk to the reading teacher. The parent needs to know two things: (1) is it a serious problem requiring testing and special help, or (2) can the problem be resolved with some extra help from the teacher or at home.
Serious problems require a diagnosis of a learning disability and all of the special services schools must offer. This will not be an overnight solution to improving a child’s reading. For lesser problems, you will find on our website, in the Skill Builders section, “Improving Children’s Reading Skills with Techniques that Work at Home.” These are the techniques that most reading experts consider to be effective, and they can show rapid improvement in reading skills.
Depending on the severity of a reading disability, outside help from a tutor or learning center can be helpful. Another avenue of help — usually free — is a college reading clinic.
Games, gadgets, and more to kick-start your shopping list.
SUSTAINABILITY & DIVERSITY
Theodora S.T.E.A.M. Girls
With the holiday season right around the corner, it’s time to start thinking about that gift list. Not a shopper? Worried about battling crowds? Not sure what your kids want? Don’t worry! From fun to educational, for solo play or group gatherings, we’ve found a few things to get you started.
A line of diverse luxurious plush dolls that encourage young girls to explore the world of S.T.E.A.M.
$39.99, ages 3+, theodoradolls.com
UNIQUE FINDS
First Crafts Pets Carnival Collage Sensory Craft Box
Bring creative fun to playtime with this unique set packed with beautifully illustrated crafts, colorful tactile materials to cut, paste, and collage. Everything you need for endless creative projects — perfect for animal lovers.
$34.99, ages 3-8, barnesandnoble.com
Baby GUND Sustainably Soft Dolls
Great for cuddlers. Each doll is sourced from 100% recycled materials (plastic bottles) and crafted with luxe ultra-soft recycled plush, fiber fill, and threads. Featuring six beautiful and diverse dolls, each plush is crafted with soft floral pattern onesies in an array of colors.
$20, ages birth+, gund.com
Pixie Cruiser Doodle
Embark on creative adventures with this 13-piece customizable RC car designed for expressive play. Includes erasable markers, stickers, and playful accessories.
$29.97, ages 6+, walmart.com
BaKit Box: Pollination Exploration Bundle
A unique subscription service blending education, STEM, and culinary skills to spark creativity and curiosity. With three recipes and engaging activity kits included, explore the intricate lives of over 20,000 bee species.
Made with 100% GOTS-certified organic cotton, this baby hat, bodysuit, and blanket come with a convertible bag that can be a small tote or storage cube. Available in four cute prints: runner ducks, gold sprig, little peach, and schooner.
$56, birth-10 lbs, oolie.com
Little builders can create their own rugged landscapes and construction zones. Equipped with vehicles, premium dirt compound, crane, molds, accessories, and an easy clean-up tray.
$14.99, ages 3+, cattoysoffical.com
Sesame Street Chicken Dance Elmo Dance, chat, and sing along with this funloving and interactive plushie.
$29.99, ages 18 months+, target.com
Get Ready for Phonics Spin & Learn
Send kids on an interactive word-sound journey to boost vocabulary skills. Press light-up buttons next to pictures to make connections between what is seen and heard.
$19.99, ages 18 months+, walmart.com
The Tiny Collection – Cuddle+Kind
Beautifully made to cherish and collect, each doll comes nestled in a Tiny home adorned in breathtakingly hand-painted watercolor wildflowers. Every Tiny doll provides 10 meals to children in need, is fair trade, and artisan-made with OEKO-TEX certified natural cotton.
$44, ages 3+, cuddleandkind.com
An indoor playground made of high-quality hard beechwood. Compact yet spacious play gym facilitates physical and emotional development of children while playing. The Gym can fit 3-4 kids with a bearing capacity of 440 lbs.
Dog and baby explore the delightful and puzzling ways their family prepares for Christmas. See these branches? They’re not for tugging. See this ball? It’s not for fetching.
$9.99, ages 2-5, quirkbooks.com
Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook for Kids
Whether you’re freezing in the Arctic, escaping quicksand in the jungle, or befriending tarantulas in the desert, this guide has you covered. Bust open and discover step-by-step instructions for surviving the most extreme situations Planet Earth can throw at you.
$12.99, ages 8-12, quirkbooks.com
Curio Bud Subscription Box in Spanish
TMNT Leo’s Roll Over RC
A quarterly book club for kids featuring whimsical picture books in Spanish. Thoughtful themes and storylines foster language development, help children express themselves, and simplify learning for the whole family.
$49.95, ages birth-3 years, becurio.co
Roll into the action with this classic RC vehicle, geared for adventures. Built for stunts and designed to make sharp turns, buggy roll overs, and land back on its wheels to keep the action going.
Feelings Family Isabella’s Day at School Storybook and Plush Set
Dissect-It Rattlesnake Super Lab
A heartwarming set introducing kids to core feelings. Includes complete prompts, questions, and activities to support adults using it as a teaching tool.
$39.99, ages 3+, target.com
$24.99, ages 6+, topsecrettoys.com
Some editorial courtesy of Elena Epstein, director of the National Parenting Product Awards (NAPPA). NAPPA Awards has been celebrating the best in family products for 34 years. For more product reviews and gift ideas visit nappaawards.com.
Firm gelatin-like compound provides a realistic experience of scientific dissection. Includes 35 bones and organs to dissect and a surprise skeleton inside the stomach. Each kit also comes with a learning guide, worktable, four tools and two refill mixes.
Flipslide
$14.99, ages 4+, target.com
A fast-moving matching electronic handheld game. Flip to find the color and slide to match the lights. Challenge yourself or play with friends.
Product photos courtesy of NAPPA
TWEENS & TEENS
POWERUP 4.0
This smartphone-controlled paper airplane kit can fly paper, balsa, cardboard, and foam planes.
$59.99, ages 8+, poweruptoys.com
Ezyroller Spinner
Spin, swirl, and dazzle on sidewalks or skate parks with every twist and turn.
$114, ages 4-14, ezroller.com
Chronicles of Light: Darkness Falls (Disney Edition)
Players work together to form dynamic alliances of Disney and Pixar heroines to drive back shadows of infamous Disney Villains and restore the Realm of Light.
$29.99, ages 8+, target.com
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Memphis Parent is a great resource for families. But you, our readers, also have insider secrets on what to do, where to go, and who to see for this and that in Memphis, Germantown, Collierville, Cordova, Millington, and all places in between.
After culling through scores of entries, the results are in from the 2024 Family Choice Awards, which puts the spotlight on places that you say are the best of the best around town.
Thank you for your votes, and congratulations to all of the winners of the Family Choice Awards!
Nominate a young person for the 10<20 Youth Impact Awards, presented by Memphis Parent. This award celebrates youth and young adults who strive to impact their community through school, business, leadership, or service by committing themselves to changing the lives of others for the better. Nominations will be accepted for K-12 students.
By Memphis Parent Staff
Shopping
Best Car Dealership
Wolfchase Toyota - 1st
Jim Keras Subaru - 2nd
Wolfchase Honda - 3rd
Best Jewelry Store
Mednikow Jewelers - 1st
Sissy’s Log Cabin - 2nd
James Gattas Jewelers - 3rd
Best Consignment Shop for Kids
Once Upon A Child - 1st
Blue Door Exchange - 2nd
GUWF Children’s Consignment Sale - 3rd
Best Local Store for Baby Gifts
Cotton Tails - 1st
Falling Into Place - 2nd
Itty Bitty Bella - 3rd
Best Locally Owned Children’s Store
Cotton Tails - 1st
Spoiled Sweet Boutique - 2nd
Addie Lou Blu Children’s Boutique - 3rd
Best Music Store
Amro Music - 1st
Martin Music - 2nd
Goner Records - 3rd
Tasty Eats
Best BBQ
Central BBQ - 1st
One & Only BBQ - 2nd
The Rendezvous - tie 3rd
Tops BBQ - tie 3rd
Best Date Night Restaurant
(w/o kids)
Ecco - 1st
Folk’s Folly - 2nd
Porch and Parlor - tie 3rd
Southern Social - tie 3rd
Best Menu for Kids
Huey’s - 1st
Belly Acres - 2nd
Central BBQ - 3rd
Best Local Pizzeria
Memphis Pizza Cafe - 1st
Aldo’s Pizza Pies - 2nd
Garibaldi’s Pizza - 3rd
Best Meal-To-Go
The Rendezvous - 1st
Maciel’s Tortas & Tacos - 2nd
Garibaldi’s Pizza - 3rd.
ARE TEENS THINKING ABOUT THEIR RETIREMENT?
Six steps to help them plan financially for the future.
For teenagers, retirement may seem like a lifetime away, but it’s never too early to start saving for the future. Because financial habits can be created at a young age, the sooner kids begin to save and learn about investing, the less likely they’ll face worries about money when they eventually stop working.
Teens are already thinking about retirement, according to the Achievement Teens & Retirement Survey conducted by Wakefield Research on behalf of Junior Achievement and MissionSquare Retirement’s Foundation. Among young adults ages 13-18 surveyed, 83 percent have thought about their retirement and 78 percent believe they’ll be able to retire comfortably when the time comes. However, only 60 percent view retirement as living on investments and savings after leaving work, believing instead retirement could mean taking extended time off for travel, study, illness, or taking care of family matters.
“This research shows retirement is more top-of-mind for teens than one might think,” says Tim Greinert, president of Junior Achievement USA. “While young people have given retirement planning some thought, it’s apparent they still need information on the best way to go about it.”
Because nearly half of U.S. households (46 percent) report having nothing saved for retirement, according to the Survey of Consumer Finances, taking steps early to save and invest can help teens get a head start on achieving a successful retirement.
1. Start now.
The sooner you start, the longer you have to save and for investments to grow. Even though contributions may be small during your teens and 20s, they can make a dramatic difference in the long run.
2. Pay yourself first.
Whether through a dedicated savings account or an employer’s retirement plan, set aside a percentage of each paycheck. Then prioritize spending on what you truly need and want.
3. Invest what you save.
Unless you save a lot, you’ll need to make the most of your savings by investing them to help them increase in value. According to the survey, teens believed investing in stocks and bonds with the help of a financial advisor (45 percent) or researched online (38 percent), buying real estate or property (30 percent), and buying cryptocurrency or non-fungible tokens (15 percent) are among the best ways to save for retirement.
By Junior Achievement
4. Find the right balance between investment risk and potential return. The ideal mix is one most likely to help meet investment goals with a level of risk you can handle. The longer you have to invest, the more risk you can likely take.
5. Spread savings across different types of investments.
This helps you manage risk. As some investments go through rough stretches, others are likely to hold steady or grow.
6. Stick with your investing plan. Avoid making decisions based on emotions or in an attempt to time the ups and downs of the market. Focus instead on meeting goals over time.
“The fact that so many young adults in the early stages of their careers are aware of a variety of investment strategies is encouraging news,” says Deanna Santana, president of MissionSquare Foundation. “Over the course of our lifetimes, investment approaches, the economy, and our priorities will change, so planning for life after work is an ongoing necessity – for teens and adults alike.”
Find more advice to plan for the future and achieve economic success at ja.org. Courtesy of Family Features
There is an abundance of traditions when it comes to the holidays. In fact, there’s an immersion of rituals, symbols, activities, and fun when we bring the grandkids into the delights that happen in that stretch between the end of November and the start of the new year.
It can be quite a ride when the grandkids are involved — and they are so very involved.
But don’t ask me for answers on how to manage all the activities and celebrations. I’m pretty sure there are TikToks and YouTubes galore that will school you on the 47 Merriest Holiday Snacks, or how to nurture a belief in Santa Claus, or what to do when your school gives homework over the holiday break, or how to create the ugliest sweater. You get the idea.
For the doting grandparent, it’s mostly about how to shower the little ones with gifts, treats, light shows, and music from Praetorius to Elvis. Not the sorts of things that require careful planning (that’s for parents to do).
But we love to bring the little ones into the worlds of wonder, whether it’s explaining
Hanukkah and lighting the candles, enjoying an Advent calendar and telling the Christmas story, or exploring the community and culture represented by Kwanzaa.
And there’s so much to choose from. In the music sector alone, you can start with Jingle Bells (Dolly Parton’s styling), the Dreidel Song (by Julie Silver), Happy Kwanzaa (Teddy Pendergrass version), and go from there.
As for traditions, there are plenty to choose from (or you can start some, but be sure everyone will still enjoy the slide show of grandpa’s 1967 Christmas trip to Tristan Da Cunha). Probably best to consult some cultural advisers for meaningful activities that might catch on as an annual thing.
Such as? I’m glad you asked. The best one a grandparent can deploy is both good for
the children to participate in while also being self-serving. In Korea, people perform a special bow to elders, which is a brilliant idea.
In Denmark, celebrants throw dishes against the doors of friends and loved ones, and the messier it is, the better your luck will be in the coming year. If you have an overly energetic grandchild (I’m told they exist), this could be a good tradition providing you observe all the safety regulations involved in letting children smash things.
Somewhat tamer practices that easily include children come from the Caribbean. Cubans have been known to jump from a chair at midnight, an allegory for leaping into the new year. Another regional practice is to throw a bucket of water out the door to banish evil spirits. Nobody gets hurt and no dishes are shattered.
By Jon W. Sparks
In Thailand, they take the liquid expressions a little further with Songkran, where you pour water over Buddha statues and then sprinkle some over the heads of loved ones. All that chases away the misfortunes of the previous year and sets the stage for a coming year of prosperity. Thanks, Buddha!
When it comes to food, you and yours will enjoy a wonderful year if you chow down on collard greens, black-eyed peas, and cornbread. That particular menu is a very Southern thing today with origins in ancient Egypt and ingrained into American culture by enslaved Africans. And to make sure everyone gets their fruit, you can do as the Spaniards do: eat 12 grapes during the countdown to midnight on New Year’s Eve. As in 12 months of the year and 12 midnight.
If you need to challenge the youngsters, serve up some soba noodles as they do in Asian countries and tell the kids that a long noodle means a long life but they can’t let it break or get shortened, so chew with care and slurp with manners. While it’s true that global new year celebrations are at different times throughout the year, you should feel free to take an interesting ritual and make it one that belongs to your family. Choose well, and you’ll be teaching lessons in history, family, music, holidays, and maybe the youngsters will even eat their greens. Happy holidays, and let’s eat!
How to Make Snowball Cookies
When it’s cold outside and snow blankets the ground, try heating up the oven and whipping up a batch of Snowball Cookies! These cookies are crisp on the outside and soft on the inside, and with a hint of coconut added to the frosting, your senses might think you’ve been transported to a tropical beach.
For more cookie recipes, visit Culinary.net.
Courtesy of Family Features and Culinary.net.
Snowball Cookies
• 1/2 cup shortening
• 1 cup sugar
• 1 egg
• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
• 2 1/2 cups flour
• 1/4 teaspoon salt
• 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
• 1/2 cup Greek yogurt
• 3 3/4 cups powdered sugar
• 1/2 cup butter
• 3 tablespoons milk
• 2 teaspoons coconut extract
• 1 cup shredded coconut
1. Heat oven to 400 F.
2. Cream together shortening, sugar, egg, and vanilla extract.
3. Sift together flour, salt, and baking soda. Add mixture to wet ingredients, alternatively adding in Greek yogurt.
4. Flour surface and roll out cookie dough. Use top of jar or biscuit cutter to make round cookie shapes.
5. Bake for 8 minutes. Transfer to a cooling rack immediately.
6. In a medium bowl, using mixer on low, mix powdered sugar, butter, milk, and coconut extract until thoroughly combined. Beat on high until frosting is smooth and fluffy.
7. Spread frosting on cookies. Pour shredded coconut into a small bowl. Press cookies, frosting side down, into shredded coconut.
8. Store in an airtight container.
Photos courtesy Culinary.net
DATE NIGHT…WHAT’S THAT?
The importance of getting out every now and again.
My editor, Erika, was just telling me that she and her husband try to go out one night a week. One night a week? Seriously? Don’t get me wrong, that sounds amazing, but my wife, Annie, and I, are probably only managing one date night every three months or so. However, we are trying to do better. Recently, we finally made it down to Good Fortune on historic South Main. Let me tell you, it lived up to the hype. Opened in 2020, Good Fortune boasts scratchmade noodles and dumplings, but whatever you do, don’t sleep on the wings. Annie and I decided to go on a Thursday, which was perfect because there was no line and no wait and we were seated and greeted with nothing but smiles.
For our drinks, I had the delectable lemongrass mojito, while Annie, per a suggestion from a friend, had the purple non-alcoholic drink featuring Ube and rich milk. All of the other drinks and beer choices looked wonderful, but we each only had one.
For appetizers – this is where I shine – we kind of went nuts ordering a wide array of savory options. We started with the cukes, which were fantastic, and quickly moved on to the Good Fortune Company wings. The wings were so crisp and boasted a mix of sweet and tangy flavors. They were covered in honey, butter, and scallions, and six were not enough. I even asked our server (who was very kind and engaging) if I could order them in bulk for the Super Bowl or a party? The good news is that they do take big orders like that.
During the barrage of food delivery, we talked about upcoming trips, our kids’
school play, and the holidays. It was nice to unwind and not be interrupted.
Next up was the potato dumplings, which were so comforting and satisfying. The taste and warmth made us both happy that fall was in the air and sweater season was nearly upon us. Our entrees came afterward, and they were both delicious and very different from one another. While she had the chicken rice bowl with kimchi mayo, I tried the coco curry noodles, which was basically soup for the soul. We shared everything like we normally do, and compared and contrasted what we each ordered and who picked the best delectable.
Our marriage – 16 years strong – has
always featured sharing and comparing the food we order. She would say I always order the best stuff, but that’s only because she can be indecisive or too thoughtful instead of going with her gut. I always go with my gut and if I strike out, I’ll know better for next time. I’m a risk taker but also tend to get the same thing from somewhere if I really love it.
In the end, our date night was a success. I think it’s important to not have to swing for the fences every time we go out. Sometimes an hour or two is all we really need to reconnect, share some food, and laugh. Laughter truly is the best elixir for any relationship.
Jeff Hulett is a freelance writer, musician, and PR consultant in Memphis. He lives in the Vollintine Evergreen neighborhood with his wife Annie, two girls Ella and Beatrice, and dog Chalupa.
Jeff and Annie Hulett at the Delta Fair. Photo courtesy of Jeff Hulett
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6 • Friday
DECEMBER 6-14TH
TÍA PANCHA
DECEMBER
Land of Enchanted Sweets
Tía Pancha is Cazateatro's bilingual adaptation of the classic A Christmas Carol, but with a Latin and female twist. TheatreWorks@The Evergreen, December 6-14
7 • Saturday
A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage
The timeless tale of Clara and her cherished Nutcracker comes to life on the Buckman stage this Christmas.
Buckman Arts Center at St. Mary’s Episcopal School, December 6-8
A Christmas Carol ’24
Theatre Memphis presents this holiday classic. Theatre Memphis, December 6-23
The whole family can enjoy this adaptation of Charles M. Schulz’s timeless story. Orpheum Theatre, December 7, 2 p.m., 5 p.m., 7:30 p.m.
8 • Sunday
Caroling Sing-a-long!
Kick off your holiday festivities with an afternoon of music, merriment, and holiday treats at the Brooks and Memphis Symphony Orchestra's Caroling Sing-A-Long.
Memphis Brooks Museum of Art, December 8, 3 p.m.
13 • Friday
The Nutcracker Ballet Memphis’ production of this holiday classic returns.
Presented by Cazateatro Bilingual Theater Group, Opera Memphis, and Dixon Gallery and Gardens, this Christmas Fiesta brings together Christmas traditions of Latin America and the Caribbean. Guests will learn about parrandas, posadas, piñatas, and more, and enjoy traditional Christmas music in Spanish, Latin food, crafts, and activities. Dixon Gallery and Gardens, December 14, 11 a.m.-3 p.m.
Breakfast with Santa
Enjoy a very special Breakfast with Santa. Memphis Zoo, December 14
16 • Monday
Lindsey Stirling's Snow Waltz Tour
Stirling mixes dance and acrobatics into her unique interpretations of holiday staples such as “Sleigh Ride,” “Joy to the World,” and “Deck the Halls,” plus a few originals.
Cannon Center for the Performing Arts, December 16, 8 p.m.
CALENDAR
20 • Friday
The Nutcracker
Tchaikovsky’s beloved ballet and holiday classic is brought to life by Singleton’s Esprit de Corps Dance Company just in time for Christmas. Bartlett Performing Arts & Conference Center, December 20-22
31 • Tuesday
New Years @ Noon
Ring in the New Year at CMOM. This familyfavorite event will be the perfect countdown to fun. Dress as your favorite superhero and show off your superpower. Expect balloon drops, candy, face painters, themed activities, and more fun.
Children’s Museum of Memphis, December 31, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.
JANUARY
11 • Saturday
Cat Kid Comic Club: The Musical
TheaterWorks USA brings the book series from Dav Pilkey (Captain Underpants, Dog Man) to life.
Bartlett Performing Arts & Conference Center, January 11, 2 p.m.
24 • Friday
Cirque Kalabanté
This show by Yamoussa Bangoura inspired by daily life in Guinea shares the beauty, youth, and artistry of African culture. Germantown Performing Arts Center, January 24, 8 p.m.
26 • Sunday
Harlem Globetrotters
Don’t miss your chance to see the dunks, alleyoops, long shots, magic, history, and laughs that the Harlem Globetrotters bring to the court. Landers Center, January 26, 3 p.m.
FEBRUARY
1 • Saturday
Outer Space Adventures
ONGOING
Mini Masters (ages 2-4)
horticulture every month while getting your hands dirty with a hands-on activity.
Professor Wow returns with a brand-new adventure that's sure to be a blast. Learn all about space in this show packed with audience participation.
Bartlett Performing Arts & Conference Center, February 1, 2 p.m.
22 • Saturday
Peanut Butter & Jam: Mömandpöp
Go on a musical adventure with kids' comedy band Mömandpöp.
Germantown Performing Arts Center, February 22, 10:30 a.m.
28 • Friday
Beauty and the Beast
Based on Disney’s popular animated film, this classic story tells of Belle and the Beast. Theatre Memphis, February 28-March 30
Introduce your little ones to the arts and nature with crafts, movement, and more.
Dixon Gallery and Gardens, Tuesdays, 10:30 a.m.-11:15 a.m.
Kaleidoscope Club (ages 5-9)
Each week, participants will enjoy an art or horticulture project that sparks creativity and critical thinking.
Dixon Gallery and Gardens, Wednesdays, 4-5 p.m.
Story Time
Enjoy stories, songs, art activities, and creative play that connect with Collierville history every Friday at the Morton Museum.
Morton Museum of Collierville History, Fridays, 10:30 a.m.
Project Grow
Learn something new about gardening and
Dixon Gallery and Gardens, second Saturday of the month, 1-3 p.m.
Super Saturday
The Brooks offers free admission and artmaking during its monthly Super Saturdays.
Memphis Brooks Museum of Art, first Saturday of the month, 10 a.m.-noon
Stax Family Day
Join the Stax for a fun-filled afternoon with free admission, games, activities, and music.
Stax Museum of American Soul Music, second Saturday of the month
Enchanted Forest
Stroll through the magical Festival of Trees that fills the Pink Palace Mezzanine with beautifully decorated trees.
This family-friendly show will take audiences on a humorous journey of growing up with Junie B. Jones.
The Circuit Playhouse, through December 22
The Wizard of Oz
Dorothy isn’t in Kansas anymore.
Playhouse on the Square, through December 22
Starry Nights
Glow up your holidays at Shelby Farms Park’s largest event. Starry Nights brings the spirit of the season to life with dazzling displays featuring millions of lights.
Shelby Farms Park, through December 29
Zoo Lights
Immerse yourself in the enchanting world of the holiday season as mesmerizing light displays and beloved classics return to Memphis Zoo.
Memphis Zoo, through January 4
Interactive Gallery: “Natural Histories: 400 Years of Scientific Illustration”
Visitors will explore interactive components that highlight the history of scientific illustration and learn about the subject matter within the images from the Rare Book collection of the American Museum of Natural History’s Library.
Dixon Gallery & Gardens, on display through January 26
