Looking at Lights and More

By Melissa Henderson

Christmas brings many precious memories to our family. From years of visiting the local tree farm to choose the best “real” tree, to deciding on which special gift to give loved ones and friends, to sending Christmas cards, we are blessed with special memories.

As a young girl, I was excited when I was old enough to stay up late on Christmas Eve. Mama and Daddy and I often visited my oldest sister and her husband and their children on Christmas day. They lived about two hours away from our home. Sometimes, Mama and Daddy and I arrived on Christmas Eve and spent the night. All the children were told that we had to go to sleep early so Santa could come to the house. I often complained and looked forward to the night when I could stay awake with the adults.

Yet, when the time came that I was older and was told I did not have to go to sleep early, a bit of disappointment settled in my mind. I realized that the days of wonder might be leaving. I decided to go to sleep at the same time as the younger children.

That memory has stuck with me. Sometimes, we think we want to be grown up, only to realize being a kid can be a grand thing.

My husband, Alan, knows that I am a child at heart. So, he started a new tradition a few years ago. During the month of December, when Christmas lights begin glowing in the neighborhood and surrounding areas, Alan will wait until I have my pajamas on, and then, he will say, “Let’s get in the car. Let’s go look at the lights.”

I bundle up with my coat and slippers, and sometimes gloves and hat. Alan drives the car up and down many streets, slowing so we can enjoy the beautiful glowing lights. We see the manger scenes reminding us of the true meaning of Christmas. We see families outside taking walks together. We see people arriving home from work and other places.

Life has been different in 2020. Yet, Christ remains a constant in our lives. God loves each one of us. He is with us and covering us with His protection.

Will you take the time to look at the lights this year? Will you share the love of God with others at Christmas time and in every moment? You are loved. Let others know they are loved, too.

Blessings, Melissa Henderson

Melissa Henderson is a writer of inspirational messages. Her first book for children, “Licky the Lizard”, was released in 2018. She also has a story in the compilations “Heaven Sightings” and “Remembering Christmas.” Her passions are helping in community and church. Melissa is an Elder, Deacon, and Stephen Minister. She and her husband, Alan, moved from Virginia to South Carolina to be near her son, daughter-in-law and first grandchild. The family motto is “It’s Always A Story With The Hendersons” Follow Melissa on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest and at http://www.melissaghenderson.com